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npHE  general  board  extends  love  and  felicity  at  the  new  year  and  reminds 
Relief  Society  members  that  ''men  are,  that  they  might  have  joy." 
Glad  hearts,  cheerful  countenances,  love,  hope,  and  charity  in  the  souls  of 
Relief  Society  sisters  will  reflect  themselves  in  the  lives  of  others  and  show 
forth  to  our  Heavenly  Father  our  gratitude  that  we  are  privileged  to  enter 
into  the  marvelous  days  of  1957,  illuminated  by  the  light  of  the  gospel  and 
the  blessing  of  Relief  Society. 

While  the  Lord  enjoins  us  to  ''be  sober,"  he  also  promises  us,  "And 
inasmuch  as  ye  do  these  things  with  thanksgiving,  with  cheerful  hearts  and 
countenances,  not  with  much  laughter,  for  this  is  sin,  but  with  a  glad 
heart  and  a  cheerful  countenance  .  .  .  the  fulness  of  the  earth  is  yours" 
(D.&C.  59:15,  16). 

As  the  new  year  is  born,  the  general  board  wishes  for  every  Relief 
Society  member,  deep,  abiding  joy  throughout  1957. 

Affectionately, 


The  Cover:  The  Floating  Gardens,  Xochimilco,  Mexico 

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I  am  so  happy  to  start  my  subscription 
to  The  Relief  Society  Magazine.  We  have 
ah\ays  had  this  Magazine  in  our  home, 
and  since  a  young  girl  I  have  read  the 
wonderful  stories  and  marveled  at  the  in- 
formation contained  therein.  My  hus- 
band and  I  are  in  Germany  in  the  ser\'ice 
and  so  enjoy  our  Church  activity  here.  It 
is  a  joy  to  be  a  member  of  Relief  Society 
and  to  be  able  to  have  the  Magazine  for 
my  own  now. 

— Shirk  Debenham 


Weisbaden,  Germany 

The  story  "One  Bright  Star"  by  Myrtle 
M.  Dean,  in  the  November  1956  Maga- 
zine, is  so  sweet,  and  makes  the  reader  feel 
glorified  with  its  humbleness.  Many  homes 
throughout  the  world  will  be  blessed  by 
this  story  of  the  real  Christmas  spirit. 
— Ruth  M.  Penrose 

Salt  Lake  City,  Utah 

May  I  thank  all  concerned  who  have  so 
kindly  sent  me  The  ReUef  Society  Maga- 
zine all  this  year.  I  have  really  enjoyed 
reading  all  the  lovely  things,  for  in  them 
I  find  I  can  learn  quite  a  lot.  I  have 
looked  forward  to  receiving  the  Magazine 
each  month  from  so  far  away.  I  do  not 
belong  to  your  Church,  but  I  have  some 
very  dear  friends  who  do. 

— Mrs.  L.  Carrington 

Leeds,  England 

I  can't  begin  to  tell  you  how  much  I 
appreciate  our  wonderful  Magazine.  I  only 
wish  it  were  bigger  or  came  more  often. 
I  especially  enjoy  the  wonderful  recipes. 
They  are  so  easy  to  follow  and  call  for 
items  that  are  readily  available.  The  stories 
are  always  very  enjoyable  and  of  great  ben- 
efit. Our  Relief  Society  has  only  four 
members,  but  we  do  receive  much  inspira- 
tion from  the  Magazine. 

— Alice  M.  Mann 
Iwakuni,  Japan 

T   should  hate  to  miss  a  copy  of   The 
Rehef  Society  Magazine.  I  find  every  copy 
a  wonderful  incentive  to  better  living. 
— Mrs.  Maude  E.  Grable 


Southgate,  California 


As  I  was  looking  through  some  of  the 
Magazines,  I  noticed  the  lo\'ely  poems, 
especially  the  ones  that  come  as  frontis- 
pieces at  the  beginning  of  the  Magazines. 
I  also  enjoy  the  lovely  stories,  particularly 
the  continued  ones.  I  have  found  the 
editorials  most  interesting.  I  am  sure 
that  everyone  who  subscribes  to  the  Maga- 
zine gains  something  worthwhile. 
— Mrs.  Viola  Wasden 
Rexburg,  Idaho 

With  the  November  issue  of  our  in- 
spiring Magazine,  I  say  "Best  yet."  May 
I  spotlight  my  special  eulogies  on  story- 
writer  and  poet  Margery  S.  Stewart.  To 
me,  there  is  always  such  warmth  and  such 
a  fine  message  in  her  story  themes.  And 
in  the  poem  "November  Afternoon,"  I 
recall  rich  color  pictures  her  words  and 
phrases  gave  to  me. 

— Helen  L.  Backman 

Ogden,  Utah 

We  have  received  the  extra  copies  of 
the  Magazine  which  you  have  so  gener- 
ously assigned  to  this  mission.  The  copies 
that  are  sent  for  use  in  the  servicemen's 
groups  are  put  to  good  service.  .  .  .  The 
other  subscriptions  we  have  used  to  send 
to  the  district  Relief  Society  presidents,  of 
whom  we  haxe  eleven.  These  sisters  take 
advantage  of  .  .  .  members  in  their  dis- 
tricts who  speak  English,  and  have  these 
sisters  read  the  articles  and  stories  and 
present  them  to  some  of  their  groups  in 
German.  In  that  way  more  of  our  Ger- 
man sisters  have  the  advantage  of  the 
messages  and  inspiration  from  the  Maga- 
zine. Let  me  tell  you  how  much  the 
Magazine  means  to  me  personally.  I  read 
it  from  cover  to  co\'er  each  month,  and 
the  messages  I  find  in  the  stories  and 
articles  gi\'e  me  a  spiritual  boost  for 
which  I  am  very  grateful.  Then  I  lo\e 
to  read  about  the  activities  of  the  other 
missions  and  stakes,  because  it  gives  us  a 
feeling  of  belonging,  even  though  we  are 
a  long  way  from  home. 

— Bernice  O.  Dyer 

President 

West  German  Mission 

Relief  Society 


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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly    Publication    of   the    Relief   Society   of   The    Church   of    Jesus    Christ    of   Latter-day    Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 
Belle   S.  Spafford         ---------         President 

Marianne   C.    Sharp         --.__- 


Velma  N.  Simonsen 
Margaret  C.   Pickering 


Anna  B.  Hart 
Edith  S.  Elliott 
Florence    J.     Madsen 
Leone  G.  Layton 
Blanche  B.  Stoddard 


Editor     -  -  - 

Associate  Editor 
Assistant  to  the   Editor 
General  Manager 


Evon  W.  Peterson 
Louise  W.  Madsen 
Aleine  M.  Young 
Josie  B.  Bay 
Christine  H.  Robinson 


First   Counselor 

Second  Counselor 

Secretary-Treasurer 

Alberta  H.  Christensen      Edith  P.  Backman 


Mildred  B.  Eyring 
Helen  W.  Anderson 
Gladys  S.  Boyer 
Charlotte  A.  Larsen 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 


Winniefred  S. 
Manwaring 
Elna  P.  Haymond 
Annie    M.    Ellsworth 
Mary  R.    Young 

Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Vesta  P.  Crawford 

June    Nielsen 

Belle  S.  Spafford 


Vol.  44 


JANUARY  1957 


No.  1 


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on  tents 


SPECIAL  FEATURES 

New  Year's  Greetings   1 

Homemaking,   the   Ideal   Career  for   Women   Annie   M.    Ellsworth  4 

Award   Winners   —   Eliza    R.    Snow    Poem    Contest    8 

Remembering  the  Handcarts  —  First  Prize   Poem  Christie   Lund   Coles  9 

Christmascope   —   Second   Prize    Poem    Frances    Carter    Yost  10 

Benediction   to    Summer   —   Third  Prize   Poem    Joanne   B.    Rose  12 

Award  Winners  —  Annual   Relief   Society  Short  Story   Contest   13 

Strength  for  the  Way  —  First  Prize   Story  Sylvia  Probst  Young  14 

The  Mexican  Mission   Preston  R.    Nibley  20 

Jungle   Pilgrimage   Into    the    Past    Nell    Murbarger  26 

Great    Men    Pray    30 

Polio  and  the  March  of  Dimes  Basil  O'Connor  35 

Biographical  Sketches  of  Award  Winners  in  the  Eliza  R.   Snow  Poem  Contest 

and  First  Prize  Winner  in  the  Annual  Relief  Society  Short  Story  Contest  45 

FICTION 

Bitter  Medicine  —  Part  I  Olive  W.    Burt  22 

A  Doll  Buggy  for  Christmas   Florence   S.   Glines  40 

GENERAL   FEATURES 

From  Near  and  Far  2 

Sixty    Years    Ago    32 

Woman's  Sphere  Ramona  W.   Cannon  33 

Editorial:   "Let  Your  Light  So  Shine"  Vesta  P.  Crawford  34 

Notes  to  the  Field:  Relief  Society  Assigned  Evening  Meeting  of  Fast  Sunday  in  March  36 

Award    Subscriptions    Presented    in    April    36 

Bound  Volumes  of   1956  Relief  Society  Magazines   36 

Notes  From  the  Field:   Relief  Society  Activities  Margaret  C.   Pickering  48 

Birthday    Congratulations    72 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Sina   Bishop  Reid  Makes  Her  Own   Crochet   Designs   37 

Recipes  From  Mexico  Jennie  R.  Bowman  38 

Recipes  for  Beverages  Rhea  H.  Gardner  46 

LESSONS  FOR  APRIL 

Theology:  A  Review  of  Outstanding  Characters  of  The  Book  of  Mormon 

Leland     H.     Monson  54 

Visiting   Teacher  Messages:    "Ye   Shall   Have   Hope   Through   the 

Atonement  of  Christ"    Leone   O.   Jacobs  59 

Work    Meeting:    Beverages    Rhea    H.    Gardner  60 

Literature:    "A   Midsummer   Night's   Dream"    Briant   S.    Jacobs  61 

Social  Science:    "Search  Your  Hearts"   John   Farr   Larson  67 

POETRY 

The  Monuments,  Hazel  Loomis,  19;  Phantoms,  Bessie  I.  Peterson,  29;  Birthday,  Genevieve  Groen, 
31;  An  Afterthought,  Gene  Romolo,  37;  Enduring  Beauty,  Maude  O.  Cook,  44;  Gifts,  Catherine  E. 
Berry,  53;  Mountain  Snowstorm,  Eva  Willes  Wangsgaard,  58;  Prayer  for  a  New  Year,  Vesta  N. 
Lukei,  72;   Today,   Elsie   Chamberlain   Carroll,   72. 

PUBLISHED  MONTHLY  BY  THE  GENERAL  BOARD  OF  RELIEF  SOCIETY 

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Homemaking,  the  Ideal 
Career  for  Women 

Annie  M.  FAlswoith 
Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 


HOMEMAKING,  in  its  truest 
sense,  is  woman's  greatest 
career.  No  other  profession 
occupies  the  attention  and  efforts  of 
more  women  than  that  of  home- 
making.  There  is  no  vocation  so 
important  and  so  challenging  as 
successful  wifehood,  motherhood, 
and  homemaking.  It  is  the  sphere 
in  which  women  can  find  the  most 
happiness  and  render  the  greatest 
service.  The  making  of  a  home  is 
the  highest  and  best  in  woman's 
realm. 

Today,  homemaking  is  a  much 
more  complex  task  than  it  was  in 
the  days  of  our  grandmothers. 
While  women  have  been  released 
from  much  of  the  physical  drudgery 
in  the  home  because  of  human  inge- 
nuity and  inventions,  many  more 
complex  problems  and  responsibili- 
ties have  been  added.  In  the  eyes 
of  trained  home  economists,  if 
homemaking  is  to  maintain  its  cen- 
tral position  in  human  life,  and  to 
be  permanently  satisfying  in  a 
world  of  economic  freedom  and 
beckoning  outside  careers,  it  must 
take  on  professional  standards  and 
secure  professional  recognition. 

Regardless  of  the  circumstances 
in  which  a  woman  lives,  whether 
alone  in  an  apartment,  with  or  with- 
out children,  she  can  still  make  a 
true  home  to  which  she  can  invite 
her  relatives  and  friends,  and  in 
which  she  can  be  a  gracious  home- 
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maker  and  extend  warmth  and  hos- 
pitality. Her  home  can  also  be  a 
place  where  her  varied  talents,  pur- 
poseful accomplishments,  and  many- 
sided  personality  find  satisfactory 
expression. 

A  marked  difference  exists  be- 
tween homemaking  and  housekeep- 
ing. Homemaking,  in  its  highest 
form,  is  a  creative  calling.  House- 
keeping is  more  or  less  a  static  occu- 
pation, the  ministering  of  the 
physical  comforts  of  life  to  the  fam- 
ily, and  has  less  to  do  with  the  pro- 
duction of  values.  Where  the  ideal 
is  to  make  life  better  for  the  family 
and  for  friends  and  neighbors  who 
may  enter,  the  homebuilder  has  a 
dynamic  responsibility  in  home- 
making.  A  person  can  keep  house 
and  yet  not  make  a  home.  Real 
homemaking  requires  a  resourceful 
mind,  ingenuity,  and  thoughtful 
consideration. 

There  are  various  types  of  home- 
makers.  Included  are  those  who 
have  a  sincere  desire  each  day  to 
excel  in  their  sphere  of  homemak- 
ing and  those  who  consider  each 
day  just  another  day  of  drudgery.  It 
rests  in  the  point  of  view.  One  per- 
son may  view  a  gorgeous  sunrise 
with  ecstasy  and  gratitude  for  the 
glory  and  beauty  of  God's  creation 
and  for  the  challenge  of  a  new  day. 
Another  may  view  it  as  just  another 
daily  appearance  of  the  sun.  A  per- 
son may  go  into  one  home  and  leave 


HOMEMAKING,  THE  IDEAL  CAREER  FOR  WOMEN 


with  a  desire  and  determination  to 
be  a  better  person  because  of  the 
hospitahty  and  uphfting  influence 
radiating  within  that  home.  A  visit 
to  another  home  may  have  an  en- 
tirely different  effect  on  the  same 
person  because  of  a  lack  of  warmth 
and  friendliness.  This  latter  home 
is  soon  forgotten. 

To  the  true  Latter-day  Saint 
woman,  the  gospel  can  have  a  refin- 
ing influence  in  her  life  which  will 
be  reflected  in  the  home,  in  the  lives 
of  the  members  of  her  family,  and 
may  even  be  carried  into  the  lives 
of  her  neighbors  and  friends  who 
may  enter  her  home. 

pj^OR  successful  homemaking  one 
of  the  important  qualifications 
is  a  sense  of  its  challenge  and  a 
sense  of  true  values.  As  homemak- 
ers,  are  we  interested  in  ease  and 
pleasure,  or  in  work,  real  joy,  service 
and  hospitality?  Which  are  the 
greater  possessions?  It  is  the  true 
homemaker  who  excels  in  the  chal- 
lenge and  makes  people  want  to  re- 
turn to  her  home,  whom  we  now 
wish  to  consider. 

The  following  worthwhile  values 
in  this  ideal  career  —  homemaking 
—  may  be  worthy  of  consideration: 
the  spiritual,  the  cultural,  the  aes- 
thetic, the  physical,  and  personality 
development.  Each  is  a  component 
part  of  the  integrated  whole,  and 
each  should  find  lodgment  in  suc- 
cessful homemaking. 

The  ideal  homemaker  reflects  a 
deep  sense  of  spiritual  values  in  her 
home  —  humility,  compassion,  an 
understanding  and  forgiving  heart, 
reverence,  courtesy,  kindness,  and 
the  worth  of  character.  Her  home 
will  take  on  this  refining,  spiritual 
influence    which    will    be    felt    by 


those  who  enter  it.  The  atmosphere 
or  spirit  of  the  home  is  greatly  im- 
proved where  religion  plays  a  domi- 
nant role.  Someone  has  rightly 
said:  'There  is  something  about  re- 
ligion and  spirituality  in  the  home 
that  clears  the  atmosphere  and 
makes  the  home  a  delightful  place 
in  which  to  live." 

The  cultural  atmosphere  is  en- 
hanced with  good  books,  selective 
magazines,  and  discriminating  mu- 
sic. People  notice  it.  Hospitality 
is  increased  and  a  person's  heart  is 
warmed  by  these  friendly  contacts. 
One  develops  a  high  regard  for  the 
homemaker  and  leaves  inspired, 
lifted,  even  with  a  feeling  of  kinship. 

In  the  career  of  homemaking  one 
must  not  lose  sight  of  the  aesthetic 
values  which  enrich  and  glorify  the 
atmosphere  of  a  home  —  the  lovely 
needlepoint  on  the  dining-room 
chairs  or  on  a  footstool,  the  fine 
choice  of  pictures  on  the  walls,  the 
handmade  rug,  the  heirloom,  the 
attractive  house  frock  the  hostess  is 
wearing,  and,  by  all  means,  the  color- 
ful flower  garden  in  the  backyard. 
Nothing  creates  more  warmth  and 
beauty  in  the  home  than  an  attrac- 
tive arrangement  of  flowers  from 
one's  own  garden.  The  following 
verse  typifies  the  feelings  of  a  lover 
of  flowers: 

If  thou  of  fortune  be  bereft 
And  in  thy  store  there  be  but  left 
Two  loaves,  sell  one  and  with  the  dole 
Buy  hyacinths  to  feed  thy  soul. 

— From  ''Not  By  Bread  Alone," 
by  James  Terry  White 

Art  creation  and  appreciation  in 
the  home  enrich  the  lives  of  each 
member,  and  carry  the  influence  be- 
yond the  home  into  the  community. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JANUARY  1957 


A  humble  pride  in  her  accomplish- 
ments brings  contentment  and  satis- 
faction to  any  homebuilder. 

The  physical  satisfactions  are 
many  and  varied.  The  aroma  of 
freshly  baked  bread,  spicy  apples, 
pumpkin  pie,  fruit  cake,  or  the  smell 
of  savory  soup  reflect  upon  the  at- 
mosphere of  the  home.  Today, 
when  so  many  of  these  delectable 
foods  are  purchased  over  the  count- 
er by  housewives,  it  makes  one  won- 
der if  fine  cookery  is  becoming  a 
''lost  art"  to  the  home.  Do  we  as 
homemakers  invite  our  friends  in 
for  home-cooked  meals,  or  do  we 
take  them  out  to  dinner?  Nothing 
glorifies  homemaking  more  than  for 
a  happy  group  to  gather  around  the 
dining-room  table,  spread  with  de- 
licious home-cooked  food,  and  en- 
joy a  meal  together,  enhanced  with 
delightful  conversation.  Or,  is  the 
dining-room  table  and  its  many 
happy,  festive  occasions  also  passing 
into  oblivion?  A  dinner  in  the  din- 
ing-room, served  with  leisure  and  in 
a  tidy  surrounding,  would  be  a  con- 
tinuous and  potent  means  of 
bringing  the  family  closer  together, 
likewise,  friendships. 

/^LD-fashioned  homemade  merry- 
making in  the  home  is  not  so 
frequent  as  it  used  to  be,  due,  per- 
haps, to  the  present  struggle  of 
making  a  living.  A  committee  on 
homemaking,  called  by  President 
Hoover  during  his  administration, 
said:  ''If  the  home  is  to  function 
as  it  should  in  encouraging  friend- 
ships, in  broadening  the  social 
horizon  of  the  family,  and  in  mak- 
ing its  members  feel  themselves  a 
part  of  the  community,  there  must 
be  an  effort  to  bring  back  some  of 
its  old-fashioned  hospitality."  The 


challenge  is  great.  I  knew  of  one 
homemaker  and  her  husband  who 
held  open  house  on  Saturday  nights 
for  all  of  the  Latter-day  Saint  service- 
men from  two  aviation  fields,  serv- 
ing them  with  fresh  homemade 
bread  and  jam.  Was  that  a  phase 
of  real  hospitality,  bringing  sweet 
memories  of  mother  and  home  to 
those  boys? 

Personality  development  is  ever 
a  challenge  to  the  homemaker. 
Through  effort,  observation,  love, 
service,  and  sharing,  she  uncon- 
sciously develops  strength  in  person- 
ality which  has  its  reward— a  better 
homemaking  career.  Every  home- 
maker  owes  it  to  her  family  to  look 
her  best,  as  it  will  reflect  upon  the 
home  atmosphere.  Good  grooming, 
proper  care  of  her  person,  correct 
posture,  cleanliness  and  neatness  in 
dress,  observance  of  health  rules,  all 
add  up  to  a  delightful  personality 
and  create  poise  and  charm.  A 
sense  of  humor  is  another  valuable 
asset.  Elizabeth  MacDonald,  in  her 
book  on  homemaking,  said:  "The 
woman  who  has  a  gallant  attitude  is 
seldom  long-faced."  The  value  of  a 
smile  cannot  be  over-estimated.  The 
memory  of  it  may  last  a  lifetime. 
Dr.  Royal  L.  Garff  (University  of 
Utah),  in  addressing  a  large  group 
of  women,  said:  "There  is  nothing 
like  the  magic  of  a  smile  to  turn  on 
the  brakes  of  personality." 

Success  in  home  finances  must 
have  a  place  in  good  homemaking. 
The  ability  to  use  money  wisely  is 
quite  as  important  as  the  power  to 
earn  it.  Through  budgeting  and 
record  keeping,  the  homebuilder 
can  acquire  frugality  in  spending 
the  family  income. 

Budgeting   of   one's   time  is  an- 


HOMEMAKING,  THE  IDEAL  CAREER  FOR  WOMEN 


other  important  aspect  in  an  order- 
ly home.  The  final  result  should 
be  an  increase  of  leisure  time.  An 
occasional  change  in  the  regular 
routine  of  duties,  constructive 
imagination,  and  executive  ability 
should  invent  new  and  better  ways 
of  doing  things  which  should  result 
in  more  time  for  other  accomplish- 
ments. This  time  should  give  the 
homemaker  moments  for  selective 
reading,  personal  hobbies,  social 
functions,  community  and  Church 
activities,  which  help  to  cultivate 
an  appreciation  for  interests  beyond 
her  own  household  and  have  a  stim- 
ulating effect  in  the  home  as  well. 

Truly,  the  challenge  of  good 
homemaking  is  great  and  the  dig- 
nity of  successful  home  manage- 
ment is  unexcelled.  In  a  talk  on 
homemaking,  Mrs.  Sterling  Ercan- 
brack*  said:  ''A  home,  like  a  person, 
has  a  body  and  a  soul.  House  furn- 
ishings, heat,  light,  food,  clothing, 
etc.  make  up  the  body.  The 
thoughts,  feehngs,  attitudes  and 
purposes  which  pervade  the  home 
constitute  the  soul.''  Regardless  of 
Jiow  elaborate  or  how  humble  a 
house  may  be,  a  spirit  of  hospitality, 
friendliness  and  charm  can  radiate 
within  its  walls  and  characterize 
home  entertainment.  If  the  home- 
maker  would  perform  well  in  this 
career    of   homemaking,    she    must 


assume   these   responsibilities   with 
integrity  and  courage. 

''Abundant  living  evolves  primar- 
ily from  the  happy  family.  Such  ob- 
jectives have  their  roots  deep  within 
the  culture  of  the  Latter-day  Saint 
people.  Family  life  is  the  matrix 
of  spiritual  development,  the  foun- 
dation of  society,  and  the  basic  unit 
of  the  Kingdom  of  God"  (Dr.  Mar- 
ion C.  Pfund,  Dean  of  College  of 
Family  Living,  Brigham  Young  Uni- 
versity). 

And  now,  just  one  more  visit 
with  the  ''ideal"  homemaker  who 
has  chosen  homemaking  as  the 
"ideal"  career.  Today,  as  always, 
you  are  greeted  with  a  ready  smile 
and  a  warm  friendliness.  Regard- 
less of  how  busy  this  homemaker 
may  be,  there  is  a  feeling  of  calm- 
ness, serenity,  and  charm.  You 
sense  a  feeling  that  you  are  the 
only  one  that  matters.  The  same 
reflection  is  felt  throughout  the 
home  of  a  charming,  hospitable, 
gracious  personality.  This  is  one 
of  the  greatest  attainments  of  a 
homemaker  in  homemaking.  You 
go  away  relaxed,  lifted  in  spirit,  de- 
termined again  to  be  a  better  per- 
son and  a  better  homemaker.  Yes, 
the  homey,  friendly,  hospitable,  and 
spiritual  atmosphere  is  what  charac- 
terizes the  ideal  home. 


^Member  of  the  Board  of  Trustees,  Utah  State  Agricultural  College,  Logan,  Utah 


fyiward    vi/i 


inners 


ibiiza  U\.  Q>no\K>  [Poem   Looniest 


'T^HE  Relief  Society  general  board 
is  pleased  to  announce  the 
names  of  the  three  winners  in  the 
1956  Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Contest. 
This  contest  was  announced  in  the 
May  1956  issue  of  the  Magazine, 
and  closed  August  15,  1956. 

The  first  prize  of  twenty-five  dol- 
lars is  awarded  to  Christie  Lund 
Coles,  Provo,  Utah,  for  her  poem 
''Remembering  the  Handcarts."  The 
second  prize  of  twenty  dollars  is 
awarded  to  Frances  Carter  Yost, 
Bancroft,  Idaho,  for  her  poem 
''Christmascope."  The  third  prize 
of  fifteen  dollars  is  awarded  to 
Joanne  B.  Rose,  West  Jordan,  Utah, 
for  her  poem  ''Benediction  to  Sum- 
mer.'' 

This  poem  contest  has  been  con- 
ducted annually  by  the  Relief  So- 
ciety general  board  since  1924  in 
honor  of  Eliza  R.  Snow,  second  gen- 
eral president  of  Relief  Society,  a 
gifted  poet  and  beloved  leader. 

The  contest  is  open  to  all  Latter- 
day  Saint  women,  and  is  designed 
to  encourage  poetry  writing,  and  to 
increase  appreciation  for  creative 
writing  and  the  beauty  and  value  of 
poetry. 

Prize-winning  poems  are  the  prop- 
erty of  the  Relief  Society  general 
board,  and  may  not  be  used  for  pub- 
lication by  others  except  upon  writ- 
ten permission  of  the  general  board. 
The  general  board  also  reserves  the 
right  to  publish  any  of  the  poems 

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submitted,  paying  for  them  at  the 
time  of  publication  at  the  regular 
Magazine  rate.  A  writer  who  has 
received  the  first  prize  for  two  con- 
secutive years  must  wait  two  years 
before  she  is  again  eligible  to  enter 
the  contest. 

Mrs.  Coles  appears  for  the  third 
time  as  an  award  winner  in  the 
Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Contest.  Mrs. 
Yost  and  Mrs.  Rose  are  first-time 
winners. 

There  were  143  poems  submitted 
in  this  year's  contest.  Entries  were 
received  from  twenty-three  states, 
with  the  largest  numbers  coming  in 
order,  from  Utah,  California,  Idaho, 
and  Arizona.  Six  entries  were  re- 
ceived from  Canada,  three  from 
England,  and  one  each  from  Nova 
Scotia,  Panama  Canal  Zone,  Yugo- 
slavia, Australia,  and  South  Africa. 

The  general  board  congratulates 
the  prize  winners  and  expresses  ap- 
preciation to  all  entrants  for  their 
interest  in  the  contest.  The  general 
board  wishes,  also,  to  thank  the 
judges  for  their  care  and  diligence 
in  selecting  the  prize  -  winning 
poems.  The  services  of  the  poetry 
committee  of  the  general  board  are 
very  much  appreciated. 

The  prize-winning  poems,  to- 
gether with  photographs  and  bio- 
graphical sketches  of  the  prize- 
winning  contestants,  are  published 
in  this  issue. 


Lrnze  -  vyinnifig  [Poems 

Eliza  Roxey  Snow  Memorial  Poem  Contest 


CHRISTIE  LUND  COLES 


First  Prize  Poem 


iKemembenng  the  ulandcarts 

Christie  Lund  Coles 

It  was  not  worth  the  cost,  the  cynics  said, 
Reading  again  the  names  of  those  who  died, 
Remembering  the  graves  of  lonely  dead, 
Covered  by  rocks  against  the  rushing  tide 
Of  elements  .  .  .  the  snarl  of  wind,  the  snow; 
The  sharp,  relentless  beat  of  sleet  and  rain; 
The  fang  and  claw  of  wolves  whose  hungers  know 
No  pity  .  .  .  not  worth  price  of  blood  and  pain. 

Yet,  we  who  stand  within  the  valley's  arch, 

Green  as  the  Eden  of  another  day. 

Watching  each  temple  spire  rise  like  a  torch 

Of  truth,  of  verity,  to  guide  man's  way. 

We,  travelers  upon  the  path  they  laid. 

Thank  God  they  found  it  worth  the  price  they  paid. 


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FRANCES  C. YOST 
Second  Prize  Poem 

(^hnstmascope 

Fiances  Carter  Yost 

PART  I:     Walk  With  the  Shepherds 

Though  paper  angels  dangle  on  each  tree, 
And  frosted  cherubs  string  each  neon  light, 
The  world,  in  tawdry  tinsel,  does  not  see, 
Or  even  sense,  a  Gabriel,  in  white. 
Come!    Walk  along  the  paths  of  Galilee. 
Where  Virgin  Mary,  favored  of  the  Lord, 
And  humble  Joseph,  her  own  covenantee, 
Counseled  by  angels,  walked  with  one  accord. 
They  stroll  the  shepherd's  starry  hill  and  dell, 
Don  robes  of  meekness,  take  the  staff  of  faith. 
Hear  the  archangels  sing  with  Gabriel, 
The  sacred  carolers,  a  holy  wraith. 
While  jeweled  starlight  guards  each  woolly  fleece 
Walk  with  the  shepherds  to  the  shrine  of  peace. 


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PART  II :     Come  Be  a  Wise  Man 

Though  ghstening  stars  festoon  each  Christmas  tree, 

And  asteroids  bedeck  each  store  and  street, 

The  world,  bent  on  quick-witted  repartee 

And  selfish  merriment,  almost  delete 

The  pointed  meaning  of  the  yuletide  star. 

Come!  Be  a  wise  man,  take  the  road  to  him. 

(Be  not  a  Herod  who  sees  not  afar.) 

As  they,  let  not  the  light  of  love  grow  dim. 

As  they,  take  gifts;  the  gold  of  gratitude; 

The  myrrh  of  mercy  and  of  charity; 

The  frankincense  of  faith  and  hope  renewed. 

A  gift  too  worldly,  is  as  filigree. 

We  can  be  wise  men,  too,  and  go  with  them. 

Follow  the  star  that  leads  to  Bethlehem! 

PART  III:     Bend  Low  to  Him 

Ebony  leather,  and  the  rhinestone  heel 
Now  point  and  pivot  in  each  wayside  inn. 
Proud  men  and  haughty  ladies  sip  with  zeal 
Strong  nectar,  while  the  world  is  clothed  in  sin. 
Have  we  forgotten  whose  birthday  is  this? 
Have  we  forgotten  star  and  angel  song? 
We,  too,  have  filled  our  inn  with  avarice, 
As  lusty  Romans  drank  their  cup  of  wrong. 
Bend  low  to  him,  though  time  is  now  far  spent; 
Kneel  as  the  shepherds,  worship  at  his  feet. 
Only  through  him  can  we  find  real  content. 
Only  through  him  life's  lyric  can  repeat. 
Although  the  world  seems  bent  on  trumpery, 
Accept  his  gift  of  immortality. 

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JOANNE  B.  ROSE 

Third  Prize  Poem 

ujeneaiction  to  Sunifner 

Joanne  B.  Rose 

What  captive  power  is  fettered  to  the  wing 
That  hires  the  feeding  gull  from  sea-sucked  shore; 
What  sad,  relentless  song  does  autumn  sing 
Compelling  the  restless  birds  to  wheel  and  soar? 
Flocking  in  gray-white  clouds  behind  the  plough 
They  gorge  themselves  where  rich  black  soil's  unfurled; 
Skimming  the  earth  they  scream  a  parting  vow 
To  leave  this  plain  till  trees  are  blossom  pearled. 
Theirs  is  the  cry  that  ushers  winter's  breath  .  .  . 
The  cry  of  motion  spent— of  purpose  lost; 
Theirs  is  the  cry  of  gulls  at  summer's  death 
As  mourning  earth  is  draped  in  a  veil  of  frost. 

Note:  For  biographical  sketches  of  the  award  winners  in  the  Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem 
Contest,  see  page  45. 

page  12 


,yLsK>ard    vi/i 


ifiners 


Annual  Uxelief  Societif  Short  Storg   (contest 


T^HE  Relief  Society  general  board 
is  pleased  to  announce  the 
award  winners  in  the  Annual  Relief 
Society  Short  Story  Contest,  which 
was  announced  in  the  May  1956 
issue  of  the  Magazine,  and  which 
closed  August  15,  1956. 

The  first  prize  of  fifty  dollars  is 
awarded  to  Sylvia  Probst  Young, 
Midvale,  Utah,  for  her  story 
''Strength  for  the  Way/'  The  sec- 
ond prize  of  forty  dollars  is  awarded 
to  Edith  Larson,  Manton,  Michi- 
gan, for  her  story  ''Mother's  Shoes." 
The  third  prize  of  thirty  dollars  is 
awarded  to  Vera  H.  Mayhew,  Berk- 
eley, California,  for  her  story  "The 
Slow  Hurry." 

Mrs.  Young  is  a  first-time  winner 
in  the  Relief  Society  Short  Story 
Contest,  although  she  has  received 
two  awards  in  the  Eliza  R.  Snow 
Poem  Contest.  Mrs.  Larson  was 
awarded  third  prize  in  last  year's 
story  contest.  Mrs.  Mayhew  is  a 
winner  in  the  story  contest  for  the 
second  time. 

The  Annual  Relief  Society  Short 
Story  Contest  was  first  conducted 
by  the  Relief  Society  general  board 
in  1941,  as  a  feature  of  the  Relief 
Society  centennial  observance,  and 
was  made  an  annual  contest  in  1942. 
The  contest  is  open  only  to  Latter- 
day  Saint  women  who  have  had  at 
least  one  literary  composition  pub- 
lished or  accepted  for  publication 
by  a  periodical  of  recognized  merit. 

The  three  prize-winning  stories 
will  be  published  consecutively  in 


the  first  three  issues  of  The  Relief 
Society  Magazine  for  1957.  Twenty- 
five  stories  were  entered  in  the  con- 
test for  1956. 

The  contest  was  initiated  to  en- 
courage Latter-day  Saint  women  to 
express  themselves  in  the  field  of 
fiction.  The  general  board  feels  that 
the  response  to  this  opportunity 
continues  to  increase  the  literary 
quality  of  The  Rehef  Society  Mag- 
azine, and  will  aid  the  women  of 
the  Church  in  the  development  of 
their  gifts  in  creative  writing. 

Prize-winning  stories  are  the 
property  of  the  Relief  Society  gen- 
eral board,  and  may  not  be  used 
for  publication  by  others  except  on 
written  permission  from  the  general 
board.  The  general  board  also  re- 
serves the  right  to  publish  any  of 
the  stories  submitted,  paying  for 
them  at  the  time  of  publication  at 
the  regular  Magazine  rate. 

A  writer  who  has  received  the  first 
prize  for  two  consecutive  years  must 
wait  for  two  years  before  she  is 
again  eligible  to  enter  the  contest. 

The  general  board  congratulates 
the  prize-winning  contestants,  and 
expresses  appreciation  to  all  those 
who  submitted  stories.  Sincere  grati- 
tude is  extended  to  the  judges  for 
their  discernment  and  skill  in  se- 
lecting the  prize-winning  stories. 
The  general  board  also  acknowl- 
edges, with  appreciation,  the  work 
of  the  short  story  committee  in 
supervising  the  contest. 

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C/irst  Lrrtze-  vi/infiifig  Story 

J^nnual  LKelief  (boaety  (bnort  Q>tory[   Looniest 

Strength  for  the  Way 

Sylvia  Piohst  Young 


SOFTLY,  so  as  not  to  awaken 
Jim,  Anne  Hadfield  slipped 
out  of  bed  and  stole  from  the 
tent  into  the  night  stillness.  Over 
the  bluffs  moonlight  lay  like  a 
mantle,  but  not  a  breeze  was  stirring 
and  the  air  was  heavy  and  almost 
as  hot  as  at  midday. 

With  a  weary  little  sigh,  she  sat 
down  on  a  nearby  log.  Council 
Bluffs— wagons  and  tents;  the  low- 
ing of  cattle;  the  smoke  of  campfires 
—a  camp  of  Israel.  How  long  it 
had  been  since  she  had  known  the 
comfort  of  her  Nauvoo  home.  It 
was  February  when  they  had  left 
Nauvoo  with  the  first  company  of 
saints— February  and  this  was  July- 
only  five  months.  But  living  out- 
of-doors,  knowing  cold  and  hunger, 
being  deprived  of  all  of  the  easy  liv- 
ing she  had  known  in  Nauvoo  had 
made  her  young  heart  yearn  so  much 
to  be  back  there  again.  Still,  with 
Jim  beside  her,  with  his  strong, 
young  love  to  warm  and  comfort 
her,  she  hadn't  minded  so  much 
the  hardships  or  privations  on  the 
way.  Jim's  courage  and  fine  sense 
of  humor  had  been  like  a  staff  in 
her  hand.  But  now  —  now,  Jim 
would  not  be  here.  A  tear  stole 
down  her  cheek  and  she  brushed  it 
away.  Before  her  stretched  wagons 
and  tents  of  men— recruits  for  the 
United  States  Army— fathers,  hus- 
bands,  and   sons   from  Mt.   Pisgah 

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SYLVIA  PROBST  YOUNG 

and  Garden  Grove,  who  had  come 
to  join  with  the  men  from  Council 
Bluffs.  Tomorrow  they  would  leave 
for  Fort  Leavenworth. 

Less  than  a  month  ago  Captain 
James  Allen  had  come  to  Council 
Bluffs  to  see  President  Young.  He 
had  asked  for  five  hundred  men  to 
help  defend  the  United  States  in  a 
war  against  Mexico.  It  seemed 
almost  ironical  that  he  should  point 
out  the  governmental  protection  of- 
fered them  when  they  had  been 
driven  from  state  to  state,  and  had 
suffered  untold  persecutions.  But 
President  Young,  with  loyal  patriot- 
ism, had  begged  the  saints  to  dis- 


STRENGTH  FOR  THE  WAY 


15 


tinguish  between  the  conduct  of  the 
states  separately  and  the  conduct  of 
the  states  collectively.  The  nation, 
he  said,  was  not  responsible  for  their 
present  outcast  condition.  So  pa- 
triotism had  won  because  of  Presi- 
dent Young,  and  Captain  Allen  was 
getting  his  men.  But  in  Anne's 
heart,  there  was  a  bitter  resentment 
toward  the  President,  and  she  won- 
dered how  he  could  have  seemed  so 
willing  to  let  the  men  go. 

Jim  had  enlisted,  of  course— and 
tomorrow  he  would  be  gone.  She 
would  be  quite  alone  then,  with  not 
even  a  relative  near.  Here  in  this 
wilderness  she  would  bear  Jim's 
child,  and  he  would  be  far  away  in 
the  barren  country  beyond.  .  .  .  She 
covered  her  face  with  her  hands  and 
let  the  warm  tears  flow. 

^^  A  NNE  -  Anne,  darhng." 

It  was  Jim's  voice.  She  turned 
to  look  at  her  husband.  Jim 
Hadfield,  tall  and  brawny  and 
straight  as  a  pine,  was  as  fine  an 
example  of  clean,  Mormon  man- 
hood as  the  battalion  could  have. 
He  came  to  sit  beside  her,  his  pro- 
tective arm  around  her  waist. 

''Honey,  what  are  you  doing  out 
here?"  His  words  were  full  of  tender 
solicitude. 

"I  thought  you  were  asleep,  Jim, 
so  I  came  out  here." 

''I  was  asleep  until  I  discovered 
you  weren't  beside  me.  Anne,  you 
have  to  get  your  rest,  dear." 

''I  couldn't  sleep  —  tomorrow 
you'll  be  gone." 

He  put  a  hand  under  her  chin 
and  looked  down  into  her  eyes. 

''But   I'm  here   tonight   —  right 
here  beside  you,"  he  made  an  effort 
at  speaking  lightly. 
Jim. 


"Yes?" 

"Did  you  know  that  Jennie  Peters 
is  going  with  the  battalion?  She 
enlisted  as  a  cook.  Jim,  if  I  weren't 
having  the  baby  I  could  be  going, 
too." 

He  looked  at  her  gravely  then. 
"Anne,  are  you  sorry  about  the 
baby?" 

"You  know  Fm  not."  Her  tone 
was  fringed  with  impatience.  "I've 
been  as  glad  about  it  as  you  have, 
but  your  going  makes  everything  so 
different."  She  wanted  to  add— "I 
don't  see  the  reason  for  it,  either," 
but  she  didn't.  She  had  argued  on 
that  before  and  it  only  upset  Jim. 
He  was  convinced  that  President 
Young  had  no  alternative. 

"It's  being  alone  that  will  be  so 
hard."  She  tried  to  keep  her  voice 
steady. 

"Anne."  He  put  his  other  arm 
around  her  and  held  her  close,  his 
voice  was  husky.  "Leaving  you  will 
be  the  hardest  thing  I've  ever  done. 
I've  thought  about  it  constantly. 
One  thing  gives  me  comfort.  I  say 
to  myself:  'Anne's  the  kind  of  girl 
that  can  take  it  with  her  chin  up; 
she's  as  good  a  soldier  as  I'll  ever 
be.'  You'\'e  already  proved  that, 
dear." 

For  a  long  moment  he  looked 
searchingly  into  her  upturned  face. 
"I  want  you  to  remember  some- 
thing always  —  I'll  be  with  you  all 
the  way.  Across  the  miles  that  sep- 
arate us  I'll  be  asking  God  to  bless 
and  comfort  you,"  he  spoke  earnest- 
ly, "and  my  every  thought  will  be 
with  you  back  here." 

Anne  looked  into  the  dark,  serious 
eyes  so  close  to  her  own,  eyes  full 
of  love  and  tenderness  for  her.  She 
answered    with    lips    brushing    his 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JANUARY  1957 


brow.  Then  gently  Jim  gathered 
her  in  his  arms  and  carried  her  back 
into  the  tent  and  to  bed. 

In  the  still  darkness  he  led  her  to 
talk  about  the  future  when  he 
would  be  back  and  meet  her  and 
their  baby  in  the  promised  valley  of 
the  mountains;  of  the  home  they 
would  have  and  of  the  wonderful 
years  before  them. 

His  gentleness  lifted  the  load  from 
her  heart,  and,  peacefully  as  a  child, 
Anne  closed  her  eyes  and  went  to 
sleep,  not  knowing  how  great  the 
weight  on  her  husband's  heart. 

npHE  following  day,  July  twentieth, 
was  a  busy  one  for  the  saints  at 
Council  Bluffs.  Jim  Hadfield,  as  a 
corporal  in  the  newly  formed  bat- 
talion, met  with  all  the  other 
officers  in  a  private  council  with 
President  Young.  The  President 
gave  them  a  farewell  blessing,  he 
counseled  them  to  remember  to  be 
clean,  virtuous,  and  prayerful.  Pro- 
phetically he  promised  them  that 
they  should  not  be  required  to  shed 
human  blood. 

In  the  afternoon  there  was  a  fare- 
well ball  in  honor  of  the  departing 
men.  It  was  a  gay  party;  to  the 
canto  of  fiddles  and  the  jingle  of 
bells,  young  and  old  danced  the 
Virginia  reel  and  the  Copenhagen 
jig  beneath  the  shelter  of  a  bowery 
prepared  especially  for  the  occasion. 
Hand  in  hand,  Anne  and  Jim  Had- 
field watched  the  dancers,  smiling 
and  gay  as  the  others.  No  one 
would  have  guessed  that  it  was  a 
time  of  parting  for  all  of  these  mer- 
rymakers. 

When  the  sun  dipped  behind  the 
sharp  skyline  of  the  Omaha  hills, 
the  dancing  ceased,  and  a  farewell 


quartette     sang     a     parting     song. 
Goodbyes  were  said  then. 

Anne   and  Jim  clung   to  each 
other  for  that  brief  moment. 

'Til  be  praying  for  you  always," 
he  whispered,  ''take  care  of  your- 
self —  and  the  baby."  Then  he 
kissed  her  gently  and  smiled  into 
her  shining  eyes.  She  returned  as 
brave  a  smile  as  his. 

"That's  my  girl,  no  tears,  darling." 

No  tears  —  she  had  shed  them  all 
the  night  before,  and  she  had  re- 
solved that  he  would  not  see  her 
cry  today. 

They  took  up  their  line  of  march 
then,  tramping  to  the  strains  of  the 
band  with  the  Stars  and  Stripes 
waving  above  them.  Five  hundred 
men  marching  toward  Fort  Leaven- 
worth, Kansas,  where  they  would 
receive  their  uniforms  and  supplies. 

Standing  with  those  who  were 
left  behind,  Anne  watched  until  her 
eyes  could  no  longer  distinguish 
anything  but  a  cloud  of  dust.  Then 
she  turned  toward  her  own  wagon, 
the  heart  within  her  heavy  as  stone. 

"Everyone  will  be  good  to  you," 
Jim  had  said.  They  were.  Sister 
Hansen,  who  was  camped  next  to 
them,  brought  her  a  dish  of  beans 
and  a  slice  of  corn  bread  for  her 
supper. 

"I  told  Jim  I'd  keep  care  of  you," 
she  exclaimed,  "and  I  mean  to  do 
so.  Peggy  could  come  and  sleep 
here  with  you,  if  you  like." 

Anne  smiled  at  this  big,  motherly 
neighbor.  "I'll  be  just  fine,"  she  said, 
"just  knowing  you're  close  by." 

But  long  after  the  camp  had 
settled  down  for  the  night  she  lay 
staring  into  the  darkness.  Last 
night  Jim  had  been  here  with  her— 
tonight  she  was  alone.    It  was  the 


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most  heart-tearing  experience  she 
had  ever  had,  being  without  Jim. 
It  had  only  been  hours  since  he 
had  gone;  it  seemed  an  eternity. 

The  western  movement  would 
have  to  stop  now,  without  the  men 
they  could  not  go  on.  Here  they 
would  build  quarters  for  the  winter, 
and  here  their  child  would  be  born 
—hers  and  Jim's— with  no  kin  to 
give  her  comfort.  How  much  must 
they  all  bear  for  this  new  belief? 

Her  thoughts  turned  to  Nauvoo 
then;  ever  since  Jim  had  enlisted 
Nauvoo  had  been  in  her  semicon- 
scious mind.  Back  in  Nauvoo  there 
were  those  who  still  worshiped 
God— those  who  had  stayed  with 
Emma  Smith— her  own  father  and 
Aunt  Carrie.  If  she  could  be  in 
Nauvoo  when  the  baby  came.  A 
sudden  idea  made  her  sit  upright 
in  her  bed  —  Nauvoo  —  if  she  could 
go  back  to  Nauvoo.  Surely  between 
now  and  November  there  would  be 
wagons  returning  to  help  the  sick 
and  needy  to  evacuate.  She  had 
heard  some  talk  of  it.  They  could 
have  her  team  and  wagon  for  the 
privilege  of  a  ride  back.  She  was 
strong  and  healthy  and  young;  she 
could  easily  make  that  trip.  In 
Nauvoo,  her  baby  could  be  born  in 
a  house  with  a  doctor  and  Aunt 
Carrie  by  her  side.  In  Nauvoo,  she 
would  not  be  alone  or  afraid.  When 
Jim  was  discharged  from  the  army 
he  could  come  back  for  her.  He 
would  understand  and  he  would  not 
disapprove— he  loved  her  too  much 
for  that. 

The  idea  grew  and  took  posses- 
sion of  her.  She  would  go  to  the 
President  himself.  She  would  tell 
him  why  she  wanted  to  go  back. 
How  could   he  refuse  her   wishes, 


wasn't  he  directly  responsible  for 
Jim's  absence? 

With  a  little  smile,  Anne  closed 
her  eyes  and  dreamed  of  Nauvoo 
and  the  happiness  she  had  known 
there. 

She  awoke  before  dawn  the  next 
morning,  the  idea  still  paramount 
in  her  thoughts.  All  morning  she 
toyed  with  it.  The  one  disturbing 
thing  was  Jim;  she  was  not  at  all 
sure  that  he  would  be  pleased.  But 
Jim  was  gone,  she  argued  with  her- 
self, and  she  had  to  make  her  own 
decisions. 

OESOLUTELY  she  dressed  in  her 
best  brown  calico  dress  and  her 
pink  sunbonnet,  and  wearing  high 
courage,  in  the  early  afternoon,  she 
went  to  see  President  Young.  But 
her  heart  was  beating  rapidly,  she 
had  never  talked  to  the  President 
before.  On  the  various  occasions 
when  she  had  heard  him  speak  he 
seemed  quite  stern,  and  his  manner 
brisk.  Would  he  be  displeased  to 
have  her  take  up  some  of  his  time? 

But  the  voice  that  greeted  her 
was  gentle  and  friendly.  Anne 
looked  with  surprise  into  the  rugged 
face  of  the  man  who  was  leader  of 
the  entire  company.  He  didn't 
seem  surprised  to  see  her;  it  was 
almost  as  if  he  had  been  expecting 
her  visit. 

Inside  of  his  tent  he  found  a 
chair  for  her.  "I  don't  believe  I've 
had  the  pleasure  of  meeting  you  be- 
fore," he  said,  holding  out  his  hand. 

'Tm  Anne  Hadfield,"  she  an- 
swered. ''My  husband  is  Corporal 
James  Hadfield  of  your  battalion." 

A  look  of  gentle  compassion  soft- 
ened the  stern  lines  of  his  face. 
''Those    men,"    he    said,    "are    the 


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cream  of  Israel.  There  are  no  braver 
men  on  earth,  but  not  one  of  them 
is  any  more  courageous  or  vahant 
than  the  woman  he  has  left  behind. 

"Sister  Hadfield/'  the  President's 
face  grew  grave,  ''it  was  not  easy  for 
me  to  send  your  corporal  away  from 
you,  I  had  no  other  course.  We 
have  known  great  trials,  perhaps 
none  greater  than  this.  But,  my 
dear  sister,  remember  —  we  are 
never  alone.  The  God  of  heaven 
is  guiding  us  as  he  has  always  done. 
He  is  forever  mindful  of  you  and 
of  me  —  of  all  of  us.  He  is  at  the 
helm.  With  trust  in  him  you  can 
endure  whatever  trials  may  come 
your  way.  God  will  provide  for  you 
here  the  same  as  he  did  in  Nauvoo. 

''Back  in  Nauvoo  there  are  men 
and  women  who  have  chosen  not  to 
follow  —  the  way  is  too  hard,  the 
sacrifices  too  great.  But  it  is  God's 
chosen  course  for  us,  and,  if  we  re- 
main true  to  that  conviction,  we 
shall  reap  blessings  that  they  who 
stav  behind  shall  never  know.'' 

As  he  spoke  his  face  reflected  wis- 
dom and  calm  assurance,  and  the 
truth  of  his  every  word  sank  deep 
into  Anne  Hadfield's  heart.  It 
seemed  he  could  read  her  very 
thoughts,  and  she  felt  strangely  un- 
comfortable in  his  presence. 

ORIGHAM  Young,  a  prophet  of 
God— there  was  something  ma- 
jestic about  him.  And  suddenly  she 
remembered  the  conference  in  Nau- 
voo. It  was  as  if  she  were  seeing 
him  now  as  she  had  seen  him  then, 
when  the  mantle  of  Joseph  had  fal- 
len upon  him;  when  he  had  spoken 
in  the  voice  of  the  martyred  one. 


She  could  never  forget  the  spirit  of 
that  conference  —  how  Jim's  hand 
had  gripped  her  own.  She  could 
feel  that  same  spirit  now,  in  the 
presence  of  this  man.  In  that  mo- 
ment she  was  ashamed  —  ashamed 
of  the  weakness  that  had  brought 
her  here.  Jim  had  spoken  of  her 
courage,  what  would  he  think  of 
her  now?  A  tear  stole  down  her 
cheek  —  a  tear  of  remorse,  but  a 
tear  of  relief,  too.  She  raised  her 
head,  courage  had  returned;  faith 
had  been  rekindled;  doubt  had  gone, 
more  quickly  than  it  had  come.  It 
was  almost  as  if  the  President  had 
pronounced  a  special  blessing  upon 
her  head. 

She  knew,  as  she  had  known  at 
the  conference  in  Nauvoo,  that  the 
way  was  here  with  this  chosen 
prophet  of  God;  there  could  be  no 
turning  back.  But  now  she  didn't 
want  to  turn  back,  for  her  strength 
had  returned,  and  a  warm,  comfort- 
ing peace  filled  her  soul. 

The  President's  face  relaxed  then, 
and  he  smiled  down  at  her. 

"Sister  Hadfield,  I  didn't  mean  to 
give  you  a  sermon.  Now  tell  me 
how  can  I  help  you?" 

Anne  looked  at  him  with  shining 
eyes.  "I  needed  a  little  strength 
for  the  way,"  she  answered,  "and 
you  have  given  me  that.  Thank 
you.  President  Young." 

She  held  out  her  hand  and  he 
took  it  in  his  big,  roughened  one. 

"God  bless  you,"  he  said. 

With  her  head  held  high,  Anne 
went  out  of  the  tent,  her  eyes  look- 
ing across  the  prairie  to  the  future 
that  lay  beyond. 


Note:  See  page  45  for  a  biographical  sketch  of  Sylvia  Probst  Young. 


Willard  Luce 

MONUMENT  VALLEY,  ON  THE  UTAH-ARIZONA  BORDER 

In  the  heart  of  the  Navajo  Indian  Reservation 

cJhe    1 1  Lonuments 

Hazel  Loomis 

I  saw  you  spread  your  velvet  robe. 

I  saw  the  curtain  drawn 

As  night  came  down. 

I  closed  my  eyes, 

And  even  dreaming  knew,  when  come  the  dawn, 

Like  loyal  friends. 

You  would  be  there 

Unchanged, 

Unmoved. 

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exican 


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ission 


Pieston  R.  Nihhy 


AT  the  October  conference  of  the 
Church,  held  in  Salt  Lake  City 
in  1875,  Elders  Daniel  W.  Jones, 
Anthony  W.  Ivins,  Amnion  M. 
Tenney,  James  Z.  Stewart,  Helaman 
Pratt,  Robert  H.  Smith,  and  Wiley 
C.  Jones  were  called  to  open  a  mis- 
sion for  the  Church  in  the  Re- 
public of  Mexico.  As  they  were 
requested  by  President  Brigham 
Young  to  explore  Arizona  and  look 
for  possible  places  for  settlement  by 
the  Mormon  people  on  their  way 
to  their  field  of  labor,  they  traveled 
on    horseback,    taking    their    food, 


bedding,  and  camp  equipment  on 
pack  animals. 

After  enduring  many  hardships 
while  making  their  way  across  Ari- 
zona and  New  Mexico,  they  arrived 
in  El  Paso,  Texas,  during  the  first 
week  of  January  1876,  and  crossed 
the  Rio  Grande  River,  where  they 
began  their  labors.  They  worked 
their  way  southward  as  far  as  the 
city  of  Chihuahua,  held  meetings 
and  distributed  their  literature.  In 
the  fall  of  the  year  they  returned  to 
their  homes  in  Utah. 

At  the  October  conference  of  the 


Harold  M.   Lambert  Studios 

PLAZA  OF  MOUNTAIN  VILLAGE,  EL  CHICO,  MEXICO 

Page  20 


THE  MEXICAN  MISSION 


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Photograph  by  Otto  Done 

EL  TAJIN  PYRAMID  IN  THE  STATE  OF  VERA  CRUZ,  MEXICO 


Church  held  in  Salt  Lake  City  in 
1879,  Elder  Moses  Thatcher,  a 
member  of  the  Council  of  the 
Twelve,  was  appointed  president  of 
the  Mexican  Mission.  Shortly  after- 
wards he  established  headquarters 
in  Mexico  City,  and  with  Elders 
James  Z.  Stewart  and  Meliton  G. 
Trejo,  began  a  vigorous  campaign 
to  make  known  the  gospel  message. 
The  first  baptisms  took  place  in  No- 
vember and  soon  a  small  branch  of 
the  Church  was  established  in  Mex- 
ico City. 

Except  for  a  brief  period  (1889 
to  1901 )  missionary  work  in  Mexico 
has  continued  since  that  time.  In 
June  1956,  under  the  direction  of 


Elders  Harold  B.  Lee  and  Spencer 
W.  Kimball  of  the  Council  of  the 
Twelve,  the  Mexican  Mission  was 
divided,  and  the  Northern  Mexican 
Mission  was  formed.  Claudius 
Bowman  presides  over  the  Mexican 
Mission  and  Joseph  T.  Bentley  over 
the  Northern  Mexican  Mission. 
Before  the  division  there  were  ap- 
proximately 9,300  members  of  the 
Church  in  the  Republic  of  Mexico, 
located  in  sixty-one  branches.  In 
December  1955,  before  the  mission 
was  divided,  fifty-six  Relief  So- 
ciety organizations  were  reported, 
with  1,183  niembers.  Jennie  R. 
Bowman  presides  over  the  Mexican 
Mission  Relief  Society. 


Note:  The  cover  for  this  Magazine  is  a  view  of  the  Floating  Gardens,  Xochimilco, 
Mexico.    See  also  "Recipes  From  Mexico/'  page  38. 


Bitter  Medicine 


Part  I 
OJive  W.  Burt 


HELEN  Lund  was  just  a  bit 
breathless  as  she  hurried  up 
the  school-building  stairs  and 
into  the  auditorium  where  the 
P.T.A.  meeting  was  to  be  held.  As 
she  opened  the  door,  however,  the 
buzz  of  conversation  and  the  con- 
fusion of  moving  people  told  her 
that  she  was  in  plenty  of  time.  She 
glanced  quickly  about  to  see  where 
Lettie  Young,  her  particular  friend, 
was  sitting. 

Lettie  was  off  to  one  side,  stand- 
ing by  a  group  of  talking  women. 
She  was  looking  down  at  them,  but 
not  joining  in  the  conversation. 
Helen  strolled  over  to  her  friend's 
side. 

''Hi,  Lettie.  I  see  Fm  early  for 
once.  It's  such  a  chore  to  get  Jill 
cared  for  for  the  evening.  I  don't 
know  how  you  manage  with  three!" 

Lettie  smiled.  'Tou'll  find  it  gets 
easier  with  each  one,"  she  said. 
''Come  on,  let's  find  a  seat  before 
they're  all  taken.  It  looks  like  a 
real  crowd  tonight." 

As  they  started  toward  the  rear 
of  the  room.  May  Turner,  who  was 
the  center  of  a  chattering  knot  of 
women,  looked  up. 

"Hello,  Helen!"  she  called  eager- 
ly. "I'm  so  glad  you've  come.  We 
were  just  talking  about  Tess  Carl- 
son's new  car.  You  know  they've 
just  bought  a  new  Cadillac,  and  I 
can't  see  how  they  can  afford  it. 
They  live  right  by  you,  Helen— 
what  do  you  think?     Give  us  the 

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low    down.     We're   just   dying   to 
know.  .  .  ." 

Lettie  gave  a  slight  tug  on  Hel- 
en's arm  and  started  to  whisper 
something.  But  Helen  looked  down 
at  May's  upturned,  eager  face  with 
eyes  glinting  in  anticipation  of  what 
she  thought  she  was  about  to  hear. 
And  Helen  spoke  pleasantly  enough, 
"I  don't  know  a  thing.  May." 

May's  voice  showed  no  disap- 
pointment; in  fact,  it  was  even  more 
urgent.  "Don't  pretend  with  me, 
Helen.  You  and  Tess  are  good 
friends— and  close  neighbors.  You 
must  know  what  goes  on  over  at 
their  house.  Where  did  Jim  get 
the  money  for  a  seven-thousand- 
dollar  car?" 

Helen's  voice  was  cool  now.  "I'm 
going  to  find  a  seat  before  they're 
all  taken  and  I  have  to  stand  during 
the  meeting.  I'm  too  tired  to  do 
that.  May,"  she  said,  and  moved 
toward  the  rear  of  the  big  room. 

"She's  been  talking  about  that 
car  ever  since  she  came  into  the 
room,"  Lettie  said  softly,  "trying  to 
make  something  of  it.  She's  a  born 
gossip." 

Helen  smiled  with  amusement. 
"Come  now,  Lettie!"  she  teased. 
"What  do  you  call  that  remark  of 
yours?" 

Lettie  flushed  slightly.  "It's  catty, 
I  know,  and  I  shouldn't  have  said 
it.  But  if  you'd  been  here  the  past 
ten  minutes.  .  .  ."  She  stopped 
abruptly,  shrugged,  and  ended  firm- 


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23 


ly,   ''Skip  it.     Here're  a  couple  of 
seats  together." 

They  settled  themselves,  nodding 
and  smiling  at  acquaintances  around 
them.  Then  Principal  Gleason 
stood  up  and  called  the  meeting  to 
order. 

TT    was    an     interesting    meeting 

because  the  Parent-Teacher  As- 
sociation wanted  to  promote  a  proj- 
ect for  raising  funds  to  provide  eye, 
ear,  and  dental  care  for  the  children 
who  could  not  afford  the  proper 
treatment.  Nearly  every  parent 
present  had  some  scheme  to  suggest, 
and  the  discussion  was  animated 
and  enthusiastic. 

Helen  listened  attentively,  be- 
cause she  knew  she  would  have  a 
large  part  in  whatever  project  was 
decided  upon.  But,  though  she  was 
listening,  one  half  of  her  mind  was 
still  occupied  with  May  Turner. 
May  was  becoming  a  real  problem, 
and  Helen  was  deeply  concerned 
about  it. 

For  it  wasn't  as  if  May  were  just 
a  gossip  and  nothing  else.  She  had 
many  fine  qualities  —  was  cheerful 
and  generous  and  a  willing  worker. 
She  could  be  counted  upon  to  do 
her  share  in  any  school  or  neighbor- 
hood project,  and  to  do  more  than 
her  share,  if  someone  was  in  trouble 
or  had  sickness  in  the  house. 

And  yet  she  did  gossip  —  had 
gossiped  ever  since  she  moved  into 
the  neighborhood  five  years  ago. 
At  first,  the  other  women  had  just 
smiled  at  her  eager  questioning,  her 
quick  interest  in  all  their  affairs. 
She's  just  trying  to  get  acquainted— 
to  be  one  of  us  —  they  had  said 
charitably.  She's  new,  and  has  to 
sort  of  catch  up  on  the  neighbor- 
hood background. 


But  as  her  prying  became  more 
and  more  determined,  and  the 
stories  she  retailed  grew  more  and 
more  fantastic,  they  had  gradually 
come  to  leave  her  alone  as  much  as 
possible.  She  wasn't  too  close  to 
them,  anyway,  as  most  of  the  wom- 
en in  the  neighborhood  were 
Church  members  and  had  their  Re- 
lief Society  and  other  Church 
activities  to  draw  them  close  to- 
gether. May  Turner  did  not  belong 
to  any  of  these  groups  excepting 
the  P.T.A.  But  she  was  a  neighbor; 
they  met  her  at  the  market,  on  the 
corner  waiting  for  a  bus,  in  various 
neighborhood  acti\ities.  And  it  had 
always  been  such  a  pleasant,  friend- 
ly little  community  that  none  of 
them  wanted  really  to  ''cut"  the 
newcomer.  They  had  just  hoped 
that  their  example  would  cure  her 
of  her  shortcoming. 

But  it  seemed  that  the  very 
opposite  had  happened.  The  more 
they  avoided  May,  the  more  careful 
they  were  what  they  said  in  front 
of  her,  the  more  persistent  and 
malicious  grew  her  stories,  until  now 
she  was  truly  unwelcome  in  their 
little  friendly  gatherings  on  porches 
of  a  summer  evening,  or  at  the 
back-yard  barbecues,  or  the  small 
neighborly  get-togethers  around  a 
living-room  fireplace  on  a  winter 
night. 

OELEN  was  abruptly  awakened 
from  her  reverie  by  the  buzz  of 
conversation  as  the  women  around 
her  stood  up  and  began  the  inevi- 
table chatter  that  followed  every 
meeting.  Lettie  laughed  down  at 
her. 

"Did  you  drop  off  to  sleep, 
Helen?"  she  asked^  amused. 


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Helen,  too,  stood  up.  ''No,  I 
was  just  thinking.  .  .  ." 

They  started  toward  the  front  of 
the  room,  stopping  to  speak  to  a 
friend  here  and  there.  As  they 
reached  May  Turner's  seat,  they 
found  her  standing  in  the  aisle, 
blocking  their  path. 

"I  just  couldn't  let  you  go,  Hel- 
en!" she  gushed,  "until  I  wrung  out 
of  you  the  story  behind  the  Carl- 
son's car.  I  know  Jim's  just  a  young 
lawyer  —  and  young  lawyers  don't 
make  much  money  in  this  town  — 
not  unless  they're  in  some  sort  of 
racket.  What's  Jim's,  Helen?  Only 
thing  I  can  think  of  is  some  crooked 
uranium  deal!" 

Helen  tried  to  sidle  past  the 
woman,  but  May  stood  her  ground 
firmly. 

'Took,  May,"  Helen  said  reason- 
ably, "I  don't  know  a  thing  about 
Jim  Carlson's  business,  and  I 
wouldn't  even  try  to  guess.  It  isn't 
any  of  my  affair,  you  know.  Now, 
if  you'll  just  let  me  get  by,  I'll  skip 
along  home.  Jill  had  a  little  cold, 
and  I'm  a  bit  worried.  .  .  ." 

"Oh,  no,  you  don't!"  May 
laughed,  still  good-natured,  though 
Helen  thought  there  was  an  under- 
tone of  stern  determination.  "I 
can't  understand  you,  Helen.  This 
is  all  between  friends,  you  know.  I 
wouldn't  breathe  a  word.  .  .  ." 

"No?"  Lettie  said  sarcastically. 
"Then  why  .  .  .  ?" 

May's  look  was  suddenly  angry. 
''I  don't  understand  either  of  you! 
Why  should  you  be  so  close- 
mouthed?  Everyone  can  see  that 
big  car— it's  no  secret,  is  it?  And 
if  Jim  got  it  honestly,  he  shouldn't 
care  if  the  whole  world  knows  about 
it.    I'm   sure   that   wc   don't   have 


anything  to  be  so  cagey  about.  My 
life's  an  open  book— and  so  is  Ted 
Senior's.  Anyone  can  ask  us  where 
we  got  anything  —  we  live  within 
our  means!  The  only  reason  I  can 
see  for  anyone's  being  so  scared  of 
telling  about  his  affairs  is  if  there's 
something  shady  —  either  in  his 
present  activities  or  in  his  past." 

Helen  smiled  wryly.  "There's 
such  a  thing  as  privacy,  you 
know.  .  .  ." 

And  Lettie  added  maliciously, 
"And  the  invasion  of  privacy!" 

May  ignored  Lettie  and  looked 
at  Helen.  "What  have  you  got  to 
be  afraid  of,  Helen  Lund?  Is  Tony 
mixed  up  with  Jim  Carlson's  deal? 
Or  is  there  a  skeleton  hiding  in 
your  own  closet  that  you  are  afraid 
someone  will  stumble  across?" 

Helen  managed  a  short  laugh.  "I 
guess  that's  it.  May.  Come  on. 
We'll  have  to  get  out  or  we'll  be 
locked  in  here  for  the  night." 

She  and  Lettie  pushed  by  May, 
and  as  they  went  on  toward  the 
door,  they  heard  her  mutter  to  the 
few  stragglers  who  had  stood  by, 
listening  to  the  exchange  of  words, 
"These  pious  people  make  me  sick. 
If  you  could  only  see  what's  behind 
their  pretense  of  righteousness, 
you'd  be  surprised!" 

\  S  they  walked  down  the  pleasant 
street  with  its  well-kept  lawns 
and  gardens,  its  neat  houses  and 
friendly  atmosphere,  Lettie  said 
crossly,  "Something  ought  to  be 
done  about  her,  Helen.    Really!" 

Helen  shrugged.  "I  don't  know 
what  we  can  do,  except  ignore  her. 
I  don't  think  she  really  means  any 
harm." 

"I  wouldn't  be  too  sure  of  that, 
Helen.    The  way  she  looked  at  vou 


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25 


—and  those  remarks  about  skeletons 
in  closets."  Lettie  laughed  a  little. 
''If  you  do  have  anything  to  hide, 
Helen,  better  hide  it  well  or  she'll 
dig  it  out." 

'Tm  not  worried!"  Helen  an- 
swered quietly. 

I'hey  parted  on  the  corner 
and  Helen  walked  on  to  her  own 
house,  her  brow  wrinkled  in 
thought.  Maybe  she  should  be 
worried  about  May's  gossip,  for  the 
woman  could  certainly  concoct  a 
fantastic  yarn  out  of  nothing.  Un- 
easily, Helen  reviewed  Lettie's  last 
comment.  Lettie  —  her  best  friend 
—  had  there  been  a  slight  hint  of  a 
doubt  in  her  voice?  Had  May's 
poison  already  tinged  Lettie's 
thoughts? 

Tony  was  in  the  living  room  read- 
ing the  paper.  He  laid  it  aside  as 
Helen  came  in,  got  up  and  came 
toward  her. 

"How  was  the  meeting,  honey?" 
he  asked,  and  then,  seeing  her  face, 
''something  go  wrong?" 

"No,  nothing,"  Helen  answered. 
"We  really  got  a  lot  done  —  the 
whole  plan  for  a  three-day  bazaar 
laid  out.  I'm  on  the  sewing  com- 
mittee." 

"As  usual!"  Tony  teased.  "But 
why  the  frown?" 

"Oh,  Tony^  was  I  frowning?  It's 
nothing.  .  .  ."  She  stood  silent  a 
moment  and  then  looked  up  into 
her  husband's  eyes.  "Tony,  I  was 
just  trying  to  think  —  trying  to  re- 
member if  there's  anything  —  if  I've 
ever  done  anything  that  could  cause 
talk  among  the  neighbors.  .  .  ." 

Tony's  concerned  look  gave  way 
to  an  amused  smile,  as  he  ran  an 
exploring  finger  along  the  smooth 
arch  of  her  brow. 

"You,  honey?    Well,  if  you  had, 


you  wouldn't  have  to  cudgel  vour 
brain  to  remember  it.  It  would  be 
such  a  weight  on  your  conscience 
that  you'd  be  thinking  about  it  all 
the  time.  Why  the  probing,  any- 
way? 

He  sat  down  on  the  settee,  gently 
pulling  his  wife  down  beside  him. 
"Come  on,  sweetheart.  Tell  me 
what  this  is  all  about." 

Helen  tried  to  laugh.  "I  know 
it's  silly,  but  May  Turner  was  at 
the  meeting.  She's  upset  about  Jim 
Carlson's  new  Cadillac  —  began 
tossing  hints  around  that  he'd  been 
in  some  shady  uranium  deal.  Said 
he  couldn't  afford  a  car  like  that  on 
honest  earnings.  Well,  when  I 
would  not  talk  about  it,  she  began 
on  me  —  said  I  must  have  some- 
thing to  hide,  and  then  Lettie  said 
that  if  I  did,  I'd  better  hide  it  well 
—  and,  well,  I  just  began  to  won- 
der. .  .  ." 

Tony's  laugh  was  hearty  and  gen- 
uine. "You  women!"  and  then 
more  gently,  "you  little  goose, 
Helen!"  He  kissed  the  top  of  her 
head.  "That's  just  May  Turner  — 
don't  think  about  it.  And  if  she 
finds  anything  in  your  past  that 
should  be  kept  a  deep,  dark  secret, 
I'll  treat  the  neighborhood  to  a 
barbecue  supper.  And  speaking  of 
supper— I'm  hungry!" 

Llelen  jumped  to  her  feet.  "Oh, 
darling,  I'm  sorry.  I  completely 
forgot  about  dinner.  But  it's  all 
ready  —  won't  take  a  jiffy  to  get  it 
on  the  table.    You  get  Jill." 

She  dashed  into  the  kitchen.  Tony 
was  right— forget  May  Turner  and 
her  gossiping.  Feeding  her  hungry 
family  would  certainly  help.  She 
tied  an  apron  over  her  good  dress 
and  set  briskly  to  work. 

{To  be  continued) 


y^ungle  Lrilgnniage  SJ^nto  the  [Past 


Nell  Murbarger 


IN  our  traveling  to  the  west  coast 
of  Mexico,  bound  for  San  Bias, 
on  the  Pacific  Ocean,  we 
dropped  nearly  4,000  feet  in  eleva- 
tion, and  the  cool  air  of  the  moun- 
tains was  succeeded  by  the  warm 
moistness  of  the  coastal  jungle. 
Groves  of  waving  bananas  and 
papayas  now  occupied  every  pocket- 
sized  clearing  on  the  steep  hillsides, 
and  small  plots  of  sugar  cane  lay 
like  green  scatter  rugs  on  the  floor 
of  the  valley. 

Along  either  side  of  our  road  rose 
giant  coquita  palms,  their  trunks  so 
closely  spaced  that  we  seemed  to 
be  traveling  through  a  narrow  and 
endless  corridor  of  smooth,  gray 
columns. 

Beyond  the  jungle  we  entered 
upon  a  wide  salt  marsh  cut  by  calm 
estuaries  that  wound  back  from  the 
sea  through  dense  thickets  of  man- 
groves. On  the  down-dropping 
branches  of  the  mangroves  lived 
matted  clusters  of  white  oysters, 
and  busy  multitudes  of  small  glossy 
crabs,  spotted  and  striped  like 
agates.  White  egrets,  rose-tinted 
flamingos,  and  tall  herons  stalked 
silently  through  the  shallows,  like 
judges  on  parade;  and  twice  we  saw 
the  dark  surface  of  the  water  part, 
momentarily,  to  reveal  the  long, 
gray-green  snouts  of  cruising  alli- 
gators. 

After  leaving  the  jungle  and  the 
salt  marsh  and  crossing  a  wide, 
clear  river,  where  men  fished  with 
hand-knotted  nets  and  women  knelt 
on  the  banks  and  washed  their  gar- 
ments as  in  the  times  of  Ruth  and 

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Rachel,  our  road  dropped  down  to 
the  Pacific  Ocean  and  meandered 
to  its  end  in  the  old  town  of  San 
Bias  —  the  Mecca  of  our  jungle 
pilgrimage  into  the  past. 

Drawing  to  a  halt  in  the  shade 
of  the  plaza,  we  ranged  inquir- 
ing eyes  over  this  place  where,  in 
centuries  gone,  had  been  drafted  so 
many  of  the  blueprints  of  Western 
American  history.  But  if  we  had 
supposed  that  San  Bias  would  be 
different  in  appearance  from  any 
other  of  the  many  Mexican  villages 
we  had  visited,  we  were  destined 
to  disillusionment. 

San  Bias  was  no  different. 

Here  was  the  same  old  stone 
church;  the  same  tiny,  square  shops 
looking  out  on  the  plaza;  the  same 
complement  of  tired,  thin-bodied 
old  men;  the  same  tinkle  of  lonely 
music.  In  the  cobble-paved  streets 
and  the  well-swept  yards,  played  the 
usual  bevies  of  fat,  brown  babies; 
the  usual  gray  burros  and  dogs  and 
long-legged  roosters  drowsed  in  the 
shade  of  adobe  huts  and  walls;  and 
the  same  patient.  Madonna-faced 
women  were  performing  their  house- 
wifely duties  in  the  same  gentle 
fashion. 

AS  we  ranged  our  eyes  over  the 
quiet,  commonplace  scenes  of 
this  commonplace  village,  we  found 
it  impossible  to  imagine  that  here 
had  been  the  first  shipping  port  on 
the  western  shores  of  both  North 
and  South  America.  Equally  difficult 
to  accept  was  the  fact  that  this  small 
town  had  once  bustled  with  more 


JUNGLE  PILGRIMAGE  INTO  THE  PAST 


27 


than  30,000  inhabitants,  and  had 
ranked  as  one  of  the  most  important 
cities  of  the  New  World! 

If  San  Bias  chooses  to  drowse 
in  the  sun,  that  should  be  her  privi- 
lege, for  San  Bias  is  a  very  old  lady! 
Founded  in  1537— less  than  twenty- 
five  years  after  Balboa's  discovery  of 
the  Pacific  Ocean— these  same  cob- 
bled streets  were  echoing  to  the 
wheels    and    hooves    of    commerce 


when  naked  savages  still  roamed  the 
site  where  New  York  would  one 
day  rise,  and  the  fathers  of  the  Pil- 
grims were  yet  unborn. 

In  the  middle  of  the  sixteenth 
century,  with  Sir  Francis  Drake  and 
other  British  privateers  preying  on 
ships  of  the  Spanish  Main,  San  Bias 
had  become  a  haven  for  great  treas- 
ure galleons  outward-bound  from 
the  Orient  with  cargoes  of  gold  and 


Charles  K.  Crawford 

ABANDONED  CUSTOMS  HOUSE,  SAN  BLAS,  NAYARIT 
This  flat-topped  building,  with  interlocking  arches,  was  a  busy  place  in  the  days 
when  San  Bias  was  one  of  the  main  ports  on  Mexico's  west  coast. 


28 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JANUARY  1957 


Nell  Murbarger 

PALM-THATCHED  HUTS  AT  THE  JUNGLE'S  EDGE,  NAYARIT,  MEXICO 

(Outskirts  of  San  Bias) 


silver,  and  silks  and  carved  jade 
worth  a  king's  ransom.  With  the 
Panama  Canal  still  more  than  300 
years  in  the  future,  it  was  neces- 
sary that  the  long  sea  voyage  from 
Manila  to  Spain  be  made  by  way 
of  Cape  Horn.  Not  only  was  this 
a  time-consuming  course,  but  with 
pirates  and  privateers  menacing  the 
shipping  lanes  of  the  world,  the 
long  route  added  greatly  to  the  po- 
tential hazard  of  every  voyage.  To 
combat  these  factors  —  particularly 
the  danger  of  piracy  —  the  Oriental 
treasure  galleons  were  unloaded  at 
San  Bias  and  their  rich  cargoes  re- 
packed on  burro  back  to  be  freight- 
ed overland,  under  heavy  military 
guard,    to    Vera    Cruz.      Here    the 


booty  was  placed  on  other  waiting 
ships  for  the  remainder  of  its  1 3,000- 
mile  journey  to  Spain. 

In  connection  with  this  monu- 
mental portage,  San  Bias  had  be- 
come the  western  terminus  of  one 
of  the  most  incredible  treasure  roads 
in  the  history  of  the  world. 

"DUILT  nearly  400  years  ago,  this 
great  portageway  had  extended 
from  the  Pacific  coast  to  Nayarit, 
all  the  way  across  Mexico,  to  Vera 
Cruz,  on  the  Atlantic  —  a  distance 
of  more  than  600  miles,  over  high 
mountain  ranges  and  through  deep 
valleys  and  wide  jungles.  Nor  was 
this  continent-spanning  road  a  mere 
trail  packed  down  by  the  sandaled 


JUNGLE  PILGRIMAGE  INTO  THE  PAST  29 

feet  of  men  and  the  hooves  of  ani-  Cahfornia  where  he  would   subse- 

mals.    It  was  a  true  highway.  Every  quently  estabhsh  his  famous  chain 

foot    of    its    600    mile   length    was  of    missions  —  now    the    Golden 

paved  with  cobblestones,  fitted  to-  State's  oldest  and  most  famous  an- 

gether  in  a  tight  mosaic;  and  every  tiquities  built  by  white  men.     Dur- 

foot  of  that  cobble-paved  way  was  ing  this  same  period,  San  Bias  had 

flanked    on    either    side    by    stout  been  site  of  an  important  foundry 

stone  fences!  for  the  manufacture  of  church  bells, 

San  Bias  later  became  headquar-  and  many  of  the  original  bells  used 

ters  of  the  Spanish  explorer  Gasper  in  the  California  missions  had  been 

de  Portola;  and  on  March  16,  1768  cast  here. 

-after  the  town  had  been  already  g^^^  j-^^^  ^^3  ^^^     ^^^  ^^  ^an 

prospermg   mightily  for   some    230  g^^^     The  day  of  the  pirate  ended, 

years  —  the  rranciscan  priest,  rray  ^      ^                    j             i       i       j 

V     .           c           T,  J        1  J        1.     £  the  treasure   road  was   abandoned: 

lumpero   Serra,   had   sailed   out   ot  .                                       ' 

San  Bias  harbor  aboard  a   300-ton  ^^^^^^  ^^^^PP^^g  P^^^s  became  more 

vessel  built  in  one  of  the  several  favored,  the  harbor  silted  full.  And, 

shipyards  then  doing  business  m  the  Anally,  this  place  where  thousands 

town.  of   n"ien   had   lived   and   prospered, 

The  vessel  was  La  Purisima,  and  declined  in  vigor  until  only  a  few 

Father  Serra's  destination  was  Alta  hundred  souls  remain. 


Lrhantoms 

Bessie  I.  Peterson 

The  warmth  of  firehght  is  not  warm  alone — 
It  casts  a  spell  in  soft  and  friendly  tone. 
Cheerfully  the  clean  wood  crackles  its  delight 
Glad  to  be  the  fuel  of  fire.  .  .  . 
And  builds  a  phantom  cit}^,  turrets  blazing  bright, 
Ever  changing,  ever  moving,  quivering  with  light. 
But  suddenly  the  hungry  flames,  eager  for  their  prey, 
Consume  the  golden  spires  and  towers 
And  crumble  them  away.  .  .  . 

And  so  it  is  with  dreams — 

Fair  is  the  hope  that  builds  our  castles  high, 

But,  left  untended,  they  flicker  out  and  die. 


L/reat  //ten  LPrau  / 


rayi 


QREAT  and  wise  men  and  women  of  all  the  ages  have  sought  and  re- 
ceived help  through  prayer  and  have  found  an  unfailing  source  of 
strength. 

Washington  at  Valley  Forge  —  Lincoln  before  Gettysburg  —  Eisen- 
hower on  D  Day  —  Joseph  Smith  in  the  Sacred  Grove  —  Jesus  at  Geth- 
semane  and  at  Golgotha  —  all  these  have  prayed! 
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GREAT  MEN  PRAY  31 

''Grant  us  liberty'';  "Preserve  the  nation";  ''Give  us  wisdom";  "De- 
liver us  from  evil";  "I'hy  will  be  done." 

And  these,  too,  are  proper  petitions  to  an  understanding  Father  in 
heaven : 

The  trust  of  a  child  at  a  mother's  knee. 

The  prayer  of  a  father  for  the  return  of  a  wayward  son. 

The  student's  honest  seeking  for  answers  to  an  examination. 

A  young  man's  reverent  request  for  strength  to  do  his  best  in  a  ball 
game  or  business  venture. 

The  young  woman's  plea  for  guidance  in  choosing  a  husband. 
The  earnest  soul's  sincere  desire. 

That  he  answers  these  petitions  (though  in  his  own  time  and  way) 
is  a  truth  to  which  millions  can  daily  testify. 

What  about  you?  Do  you  ever  need  help  from  a  Higher  Source? 
Then  follow  the  example  of  the  great  and  good  and  wise  men  of  all  the 
ages.  Ask  and  receive.  "In  all  thy  ways  acknowledge  him,  and  he  shall 
direct  thy  paths." 

Pray. 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


[Birthday 


Genevieve  Groen 

I  hear  them  sing  the  celebration 
Of  his  birth,  the  children  carohng 
The  ancient  Yuletide  themes. 

I  seem  to  leave  my  log-fire,  flaming 

In  its  place,  and  find  the  frosted  window 

Where  their  voice-candle  beams. 

The  lighted  tones  of  their  lyric  pageant 
Are  sounds  to  me  of  blue  veiled  innocence 
That  chord  the  blessed  scene. 

In  the  cold  night  air  their  warm  breath 
Fables  hills  of  lamb-fold  where  staves 
Of  shepherds  are  the  notes  unseen. 

My  fire's  haloed  burning  reflects  an  Infant 
Purity  born  and  song-cradled  in  the  hour 
Of  hymnal  light. 

Until  the  embers  flash  white-robed  against 
The  blackened  grate,  a  vision  of  choirs 
Echoing  in  the  night. 


Sixty    LJears  Kyigo 


Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  January  i,  and  January  15,   1897 

"For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 

Women  of  All  Nations" 


CHARLOTTE  BRONTE:  A  fragment  of  a  letter  written  in  Charlotte  Bronte's 
own  hand,  shows  her  character  as  well  as  anything  she  ever  wrote.  It  is  the  ending 
of  a  letter  to  Miss  Nussey,  and  these  are  the  lines:  "Submission,  courage  —  exertion 
when  practicable  —  these  seem  to  be  the  weapons  with  which  we  must  fight  life's  long 
battle." 

— Exchange 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  IN  CHICAGO:  A  notable  event  of  the  new  year  is  the 
organization  of  a  Relief  Society  in  the  great  city  of  Chicago  —  so  near  to  the  place 
and  in  the  same  state  where  the  first  Relief  Society  was  organized  by  the  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith.  The  following  notice  appeared  in  the  Deseret  Evening  News  of  Jan.  9, 
1897:  "A  Relief  Society  has  been  organized  here  lately  with  Sisters  Bengta  Benedict 
president,  Sister  Charlotte  Esterbloom  and  Christena  Soderland  as  first  and  second 
counselors,  and  Sisters  Erekson  and  Brumley  secretary  and  treasurer  .  .  .  ." 

— News  Note 

It  is  always  pleasant  and  gratifying  to  have  young  people  marry  happily  .... 
In  our  belief  we  have  not  only  a  desire  for  union  here,  but  for  the  eternal  marriage  in 
which  we  most  firmly  believe,  and  undoubtedly  hope  that  all  the  young  people  in 
whose  marriages  we  are  so  deeply  interested  may  be  so  happy  that  they  may  continue 
throughout  the  eternal  ages  to  come. 

— Editorial 

THE  YEAR  OF  JUBILEE    . 

Ring  the  bells  for  ninety-seven — 
Let's  have  a  great  rejoicing; 
Forgiveness,  love  and  peace  abound 
The  ancient  custom  voicing  .... 

— R.  M.  F. 

THE  WOMAN'S  CONGRESS  IN  BERLIN:  I  cannot  help  saying  it  was  a 
success  ...  I  am  compelled  to  proclaim  it.  .  .  .  During  the  seven  days'  Congress  nearly 
all  subjects  connected  with  the  woman  question  were  touched,  and  not  a  single  one 
lacked  interest.  The  foreign  delegates  were  agreeably  surprised  at  the  coolness  and 
cleverness  with  which  the  German  women  delivered  their  speeches  from  the  platform  .  .  . 
but  there  is  no  denying  the  fact  .  .  .  ours  was  the  good  fortune  to  be  enchanted  by  the 
magnificent  and  splendid  speeches  delivered  by  the  foreign,  especially  by  the  English 
and  American  delegates  .  .  .  Mrs.  Ormiston  Chant,  who  gave  us  in  her  musical  voice, 
a  most  interesting  account  of  the  temperance  question  .  .  .  Mrs.  Belva  Lockwood  who 
spoke  in  a  most  interesting  manner  on  the  political  rights  of  women  in  the  United 
States.  .  .  . 

— Eliza  Ichenhauser 

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Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


M 


[ARIA  MENEGHINI  CALLAS, 

one  of  the  greatest  hving  sing- 
ers, appeared  in  BelHni's  opera 
''Norma/'  at  the  opening  of  the 
MetropoHtan  Opera  season  in  New 
York  City  in  November.  Born  in 
New  York  City,  Maria  Callas  re- 
ceived her  musical  education  in 
Italy  and  has  sung  many  difficult 
and  triAimphant  roles  at  the  La 
Scala  Opera  House.  Her  voice  has 
extraordinary  range  and  versatility, 
and  for  a  singer  still  in  her  early 
thirties,  her  musicianship  has  been 
extolled  as  unrivalled  among  her 
contemporaries. 

jyiRS.  LORRAINE  WASHING- 
TON, of  Memphis,  Tennes- 
see, is  founder  and  president  of  a 
very  successful  collection  agency, 
dedicated  to  the  interest  of  the 
debtor  as  well  as  the  creditor.  She 
learns  why  people  are  not  paying 
their  bills,  then  helps  the  debtors, 
sometimes  even  finding  employ- 
ment for  them  when  they  are  out 
of  work.  The  firm,  with  its  friendly 
methods,  is  expanding  into  many 
states. 

JTAREN  HANTZE,  of  San  Diego, 
California,  although  only  thir- 
teen, has  more  than  fifty  trophies 
for  her  tennis  matches  and  has  won 
some  of  them  in  competition  with 
adult  women  tennis  stars. 


lyrAUDE  ADAMS,  one  of  Ameri- 
ca's greatest  actresses,  is  pre- 
sented with  charm  and  authenticity 
in  a  new  biography  Maude  Adams: 
An  Intimate  Portrait,  by  Phyllis 
Robbins.  Miss  Adams,  a  grand- 
daughter of  Barnabas  Lothrop  Ad- 
ams, a  member  of  Brigham  Young's 
first  pioneer  company,  received  her 
start  as  an  actress  in  Salt  Lake  City. 
At  a  high  point  in  her  career 
(1902),  she  wrote  from  Switzer- 
land: 'The  Alps  are  inspiring,  but 
not  friendly  like  the  mountains  that 
protect  the  lovely  valley  of  Salt 
Lake.  My  childhood  was  guarded 
by  the  kindly  Wasatch  Range,  and 
the  Rockies  were  friends  from  my 
beginning."  Miss  Adams  died  in 
1954. 

rjOROTHY  CLAPP  ROBINSON 

of  Boise,  Idaho,  a  contributor  to 
The  Rehef  Society  Magazine,  is  the 
author  of  The  Mystery  oi  Contrary 
House,  an  adventure  story  for  the 
early  teen  ages.  Vantage  Press, 
New  York  City,  is  publisher  of  the 
book. 

nPRUDI  BUXTON,  eight  years 
old,  played  Beethoven's  Con- 
certo No.  1  (for  piano)  with  the 
St.  Louis  Symphony  Orchestra  at  a 
student  concert.  She  is  the  young- 
est soloist  ever  to  appear  with  this 
noted  organization. 

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EDITOIIIAL 


VOL  44 


JANUARY  1957 


NO.  1 


JLet    LJour  JLight  o^o  Shine 

Let  your  light  so  shine  before  men,  that  they  may  see  your  good  works,  and  glorif}' 
your  Father  which  is  in  heaven  (From  Christ's  Sermon  on  the  Mount,  Matthew  5:16). 


T^HE  New  Year  is  the  early  morn- 
ing of  the  seasons,  and  it  comes 
to  us  radiant  with  opportunities  for 
increasing  our  joy  and  usefulness. 
Self-appraisal  and  resolutions  need 
not  be  empty  words  nor  fleeting 
thoughts;  rather,  they  may  become 
the  open  doors  of  a  bright  begin- 
ning and  the  windows  of  direction 
for  all  the  days  of  the  unfolding 
year. 

It  is  a  responsibility  and  a  bless- 
ing for  us  to  realize  that  we  are 
the  reflectors  and  the  transmitters 
of  light.  Our  beliefs,  our  faith,  our 
ideals,  can  be  revealed  and  ''shine 
before  men"  only  through  our  atti- 
tudes, our  words,  and  our  actions. 
We  know  that  we  ha\'e  been  given 
a  great  light,  ''for  the  command- 
ment is  a  lamp;  and  the  law  is 
hght."  If  that  light  fails  to  shine 
through  us,  we  may  be  shadowed 
and  limited  by  doubt  or  negligence, 
disappointment  or  sorrow.  The  light 
may  be  dimmed  by  too  much  con- 
cern with  our  own  problems  which 
confuses  the  directions  of  the  beams 
and  restricts  the  areas  of  illumina- 
tion. 

Relief  Society  women  have  been 
given  a  guiding  light  which  can 
direct  their  own  lives  and  shine  into 
all  the  far  places  where  their  influ- 
ence and  their  service  may  reach.  In 
the  beginning  of  the  organization. 

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charity  and  sisterhood  were  the 
qualities  most  beautifully  expressed. 
The  sisters  shared  the  blessings  of 
the  gospel;  they  shared  food  and 
shelter,  poverty  and  bereavement, 
accomplishment  and  rejoicing, 
standing  together  in  strength  and 
bowing  together  in  humility  and 
prayer.  They  were  particularly  con- 
cerned with  children  —  the  begin- 
ning of  life  —  and  the  care  of  the 
aged  —  those  near  the  journey's  end. 
Thev  learned  that  a  woman  who 
stands  alone  is  limited  in  her  in- 
dividual development  and  in  her 
field  of  service,  but  in  united  effort, 
each  one  is  strong  in  the  strength 
and  courage  of  the  group  —  in  the 
circle  of  the  sisterhood. 

Once  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 
took  his  wife  and  family  to  visit 
Emma's  sister  who  lived  in  a  lonelv 
place  on  the  prairie.  That  night 
Elizabeth  set  a  large  candle  in  the 
window,  saying  that  it  might  serve 
as  a  light  for  someone  lost  on  the 
prairie,  and  the  Prophet  remarked 
that  the  window  was  an  example  of 
a  light  shining  in  darkness. 

Among  our  pioneer  women  there 
was  a  saying:  "We  all  have  some- 
thing to  give;  we  must  reach  a  little 
deeper  into  the  bin."  In  those  days 
of  uncertain  harvests,  the  frugal 
women  tried  to  keep  a  supply  of 
flour   in   their  homemade  wooden 


EDITORIAL 


35 


flour  bins,  and  the  svmbol  of  reach- 
ing deeper  into  the  bm  was  real  to 
them.  They  clothed  the  saying  with 
a  spiritual  meaning,  and,  if  there 
was  no  flour  in  the  bin  and  no  oth- 
er food  to  share,  they  gave  of  them- 
selves in  compassionate  service,  in 
davs  of  home  nursing,  in  hours  of 
companionship  with  the  aged,  in 
comforting  and  caring  for  children. 
Thev  learned  that  encouragement, 
compassion,  and  faith  mav  be  given 
to  others,  as  they  become  a  part  of 
a  shining  light  undimmed  and  un- 
limited. 


It  is  our  heritage  to  be  the  bearers 
of  light,  to  reflect  the  wisdom  and 
the  beautv,  the  tenderness  and  the 
courage,  the  humility-  and  the 
strength  which  are  our  possibilities 
and  which  may  be  fulfilled  in  us. 
Mav  we  seek  for  that  uplifting 
serenitv,  so  well  expressed  by  the 
poet: 

My  bark  is  wafted  to  the  strand 

By  breath  divine; 
And  on  the  helm  there  rests  a  hand 

Other  than  mine. 
— Heniy  Alford 

-V.  p.  c. 


Lrolio  and  the   1 1  Larch  of  Jjimes 

Basil  O'Connor 
President.  The  National  Foundation  for  Infantile  Paralysis 

'T^HE  March  of  Dimes  wants  to  finish  the  fight  against  polio.    To  do  this, 

we  must  have  your  help  —  just  as  we  had  it  in  reaching  the  present 
hopeful  position. 

It's  hopeful  because  final  victory-  is  now  in  sight.  Thanks  to  the  SaUc 
vaccine,  which  was  financed  with  March  of  Dimes  funds,  tomorrow's  chil- 
dren will  be  spared  the  tragedv  of  polio.  Thousands  of  today's  children, 
however,  still  suffer  from  this  crippling  disease.  There  are  many  thou- 
sands for  whom  the  victor\"  is  not  so  quick,  and  not  so  easv.  These  people 
still  suffer  from  polio,  and  they  need  much  more  than  an  inoculation. 
They  need  mechanical  substitutes  for  arms  and  legs  and  lungs.  Thev  need 
help  in  rebuilding  shattered  lives.  Most  of  all,  thev  need  tlie  hope  which 
comes  from  knowing  that  thev  do  not  fight  alone,  ^^"e  can't  quit — wc 
know  vou  would  not  want  us  to  quit  —  until  these  voun^sters  have  had  a 
chance  to  run  and  plav  again;  a  chance  to  grow  up  as  strong  and  useful 
citizens  for  the  years  ahead. 

The  money  in  your  pocket  will  help  children  to  walk  without  braces. 
And,  what  is  more,  your  dimes  and  dollars  will  help  train  the  minds  and 
hands  of  the  professional  experts  so  desperatelv  needed  in  the  treatment 
of  crippled  patients.  Tens  of  thousands  bom  too  soon  for  the  vaccine 
still  need  your  help,  and  your  help  is  needed  to  help  finance  research  to 
perfect  the  vaccine. 

That's  the  unfinished  business  behind  this  vear's  March  of  Dimes. 
You  can  help,  as  you  have  helped  so  generouslv  before,  the  195"  March 
of  Dimes,  January-  2  to  31. 


TbJtcJL 

TO  THE  FIELD 


iKelief  Society  J/issigned  ibvening    I lieeting  of 
QJast  Sunday  in    ii  Larch 

HTHE  Sunday  night  meeting  to  be  held  on  Fast  Day,  March  3,  1957,  has 
again  been  assigned  by  the  First  Presidency  for  use  by  the  Rehef 

Society. 

Suggestive  plans  for  this  evening  meeting  have  been  prepared  by  the 

general  board  and  sent  to  the  stakes  in  pamphlet  form. 

It  is  suggested  that  ward  Relief  Society  presidents  confer  with  their 

bishops  immediately  to  arrange  for  this  meeting.     Music  for  the  Singing 

Mothers  should  be  ordered  at  once. 

J/twara  Subscriptions  Lrresentea  in  ^/ipril 

'THHE  award  subscriptions  presented  to  Magazine  representatives  for  hav- 
ing obtained  75  per  cent  or  more  subscriptions  to  the  Magazine  in  re- 
lation to  their  enrolled  Relief  Society  members,  are  not  awarded  until 
after  the  stake  Magazine  representatives'  annual  reports  have  been  audited. 
Award  cards  for  these  subscriptions  for  the  year  1956  will  be  mailed  to 
ward  and  stake  Magazine  representatives  about  April  1,  1957. 

[Jjouna    Volumes  of  1Q56  uielief  Society    1 1  lagaztnes 

OELIEF  Society  officers  and  members  who  wish  to  have  their  1956 
issues  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine  bound  may  do  so  through  The 
Deseret  News  Press,  31  Richards  Street,  Salt  Lake  City  1,  Utah.  The 
cost  for  binding  the  twelve  issues  in  a  permanent  cloth  binding  is  $2.50, 
including  the  index.  If  a  leather  binding  is  preferred,  the  cost  is  $3.50. 
See  schedules  of  postage  rates  in  the  Deseret  News  Press  advertisement 
in  this  issue  of  the  Magazine.  If  bound  volumes  are  desired,  and  the 
Magazine  cannot  be  supplied  by  the  person  making  the  request,  the 
Magazine  will  be  supplied  for  $1.50  by  the  Magazine  Department,  Gen- 
eral Board  of  Relief  Society,  76  North  Main  Street,  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah. 
Only  a  limited  number  of  Magazines  are  available  for  binding. 

It  is  recommended  that  wards  and  stakes  have  one  volume  of  the  1956 
Magazines  bound  for  preservation  in  ward  and  stake  Relief  Society  li- 
braries. 

Page  36 


Sina  Ujishop  uieid  1 1  Lakes  uier  (!:ywn  (^rocket  UJesigns 

SINA  Bishop  Reid,  ninety-one,  of  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah,  has  made  many  exquisite 
pieces  of  crochet  work  using  her  own  designs.  She  won  first  place  in  a  national 
contest  for  one  of  her  original  patterns,  and  her  work  beautifies  the  homes  of  many 
of  her  friends  and  relatives.  Her  specialties  are  doilies,  chair  sets,  pillow  cases,  jackets, 
and  bootees.  Recently  she  completed  her  fourteenth  tablecloth,  which  required  four 
hundred  hours  of  work. 

During  the  time  she  works  with  her  crochet  hook,  Sister  Reid  recalls  the  events  of 
her  long,  useful  life.  She  was  only  six  years  of  age  when  she  accompanied  her  mother 
in  the  fields  where  they  gleaned  wheat  for  storage  in  the  Relief  Society  granary  in  Cache 
Valley,  where  she  was  born.  She  recalls  the  years  when  she  worked  hard  to  support 
herself  and  two  children,  as  well  as  to  help  her  husband  with  his  missionary  expenses; 
and  she  recalls  the  sending  of  three  sons  into  the  mission  field. 

Sister  Reid  is  a  talented  musician  and  has  sung  many  solos  in  Relief  Society  meet- 
ings and  for  other  occasions.  She  has  been  a  class  leader  in  social  science,  theology,  and 
literature.  Her  work  as  a  teacher  has  been  so  outstanding  that  many  younger  class 
leaders  seek  her  advice  in  the  preparation  and  presentation  of  Relief  Society  lessons. 


c/l/1  Afterthought 

Gene  Romolo 

His  natal  day  has  come  again  and  gone. 

But  its  reflected  glory  lingers  on 

To  light  our  way  and  pave  another  year 

With  faith  and  hope  and  love  that  casts  out  fear. 


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LKeapes  ofrom   il iexico 

Submitted  hy  Jennie  R.  Bowman 

Tortillas 
2  lbs.  corn  (in  grain)  3  qts.  water 

2  oz.  lime 

Wash  the  corn,  add  the  lime  and  water,  and  place  mixture  on  the  fire.  When 
boiling  has  progressed  to  the  point  where  the  skin  can  be  peeled  off  the  kernels  of 
corn,  remove  the  mixture  from  the  fire  and  let  it  cool.  Then  squeeze  kernels  of  corn 
in  the  hand  for  removing  the  skins.  When  all  the  skins  have  been  removed,  wash  the 
corn  thoroughly  in  cold  water.  At  this  stage  the  corn  is  called  nixtamal.  Then  grind 
the  corn  to  fine  consistency  to  make  tortilla  dough.  This  dough  can  also  be  used  for 
quesadilias  (special  cheese  tortillas),  goiditas  (tortillas  which  are  three  or  four  times 
thicker),  etc. 

Making  Tortillas  the  Mexican  Way: 

Divide  the  dough  into  small  balls,  and,  one  at  a  time,  with  the  hands  slightly  wet, 
press  the  ball  between  the  palms  and  fingers  of  both  hands  until  the  ball  becomes  flat 
and  round,  the  thinner  the  better.  Cook  over  a  flat  clay  or  iron  broiler,  called  in  Mexico 
a  coma].  When  cooked,  turn  on  the  other  side.  Fold  tortillas  in  a  large  napkin  to 
keep  them  warm  and  stack  in  a  round  basket,  folding  part  of  the  napkin  over  the  top 
of  the  stack  of  tortillas. 

Tortillas  may  be  baked  on  a  griddle  or  in  an  ordinary  oven. 

For  variation,  ground  cooked  meat  may  be  rolled  inside  the  tortillas.  Sprinkle 
grated  cheese  over  the  top. 

Red  Chile  Enchilada  Sauce 
(for  serving  with  tortillas) 

1  tbsp.  powdered  chile  %  tsp.  salt 

1  tbsp.  flour  1  tsp.  sugar 

1  c.  tomato  puree  1  tbsp.  lard  or  other  shortening 

Ys  tsp.  onion  juice  Vz  lb.  grated  cheese 

Heat  the  required  number  of  tortillas,  one  at  a  time,  for  two  or  three  seconds. 
Then  dip  into  the  sauce.  Remove  from  sauce  and  sprinkle  with  grated  cheese  and 
chopped  onion  if  desired.  These  may  be  rolled  or  stacked  on  individual  plates.  Fried 
eggs  are  often  served  on  top  of  a  stack  of  three  or  four  tortillas. 

Dry  red  chiles  may  be  used  in  the  sauce  in  place  of  chile  powder  for  better  flavor. 
To  make,  use  six  large  dry  chiles.  Remove  seeds  and  veins.  Wash  and  drop  into  hot 
water;  let  come  to  a  boil  and  drain.  Again  place  over  flame  with  one  cup  hot  water 
and  boil  gently  for  fi^•e  minutes.  Put  through  a  colander  and  add  as  much  as  desired 
to  the  tomato  puree. 

Make  sauce  by  first  heating  the  shortening  and  flour  then  adding  the  liquid  (to- 
mato puree  and  onion  juice). 

Chile  Gravy  Puebla  Style 
(Mole  Poblano) 

1  turkey  or  chicken  2  oz.  chocolate 

Vz  lb.  chiles  (mulato)  3  chiles  (chipotles) 

7  oz.  chiles  (anchos)  4  tomatoes  (roasted) 

4  oz.  chiles  (pasilla)  3  onions 

3  oz.  sesame  6  cloves  of  garlic 

4  oz.  almonds  1  tortilla 

3  oz.  raisins  1  tsp.  anise  seed 

3  oz.  peanuts  8  black  peppers 

1  oz.  bread  5  cloves 

7  oz.  lard  1  stick  cinnamon 

3  qts.  meat  stock  2  oz.  sesame  to  sprinkle 

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RECIPES  FROM  MEXICO  39 

Cut  the  turkey  or  chicken  in  pieces,  fry  it  in  lard,  in  a  large  earthenware  dish. 
When  fried,  add  the  chiles  "chipotles,"  veinless  and  cooked,  and  ground  with  the  roast- 
ed tomatoes;  when  dry,  add  one  quart  of  meat  stock  and  season  with  salt.  Take  the 
veins  off  the  other  chiles  and  fry  them  in  the  lard  to  brown  slightly.  The  anise  and 
sesame  are  toasted  on  a  comal  (a  round  piece  of  tin  can  be  used).  The  almonds,  pea- 
nuts, raisins,  bread,  tortilla  and  spices  are  fried  in  lard,  then  ground  with  the  chiles, 
sesame,  anise  seeds,  onions,  and  garlic.  Dissolve  all  this  in  the  remaining  two  quarts 
of  meat  stock,  add  the  chocolate,  and  add  to  the  turkey  when  it  is  well  cooked.  Leave 
on  the  fire  till  thick.     Put  on  a  platter  and  sprinkle  with  the  toasted  sesame. 

Note:  Mulato,  anchos,  pasilla,  and  chipotles  are  varieties  of  chile.  A  canned  mole 
powder  is  commercially  sold  that  makes  a  very  good  substitute  for  the  original  mole 
recipe,  if  used  to  season  thickened  meat  stock  or  chicken  broth  to  be  served  with  the 
chicken  or  turkey. 

Mexican  Rice 

Vi  lb.  rice  Vi  tsp.  onion  juice 

4  oz.  lard  2  c.  meat  stock 

4  oz.  peas  /4  tsp.  salt 

6  tbsp.  tomato  puree                                         1  c.  cold  water 

Soak  the  rice  in  hot  water  for  fifteen  minutes.  Wash  well  in  cold  water  till  it 
comes  out  clear.  Drain  and  fry  in  the  lard.  When  it  has  taken  on  a  golden  color,  drain 
off  the  lard  and  add  the  tomato  and  onion  juice.  Stir,  then  add  cold  water,  the  salt, 
and  the  peas  and  continue  to  cook. 

When  dry,  add  the  hot  meat  stock,  cover,  and  let  simmer.  Do  not  stir.  If  more 
water  is  needed  sprinkle  it  over  the  top.  When  done,  the  rice  kernels  will  be  soft, 
fluffy,  and  separate.  When  served,  the  platter  may  be  garnished  with  fried  sausage, 
hard  boiled  eggs,  or  avocado  strips. 

Cherry  Cookies 
(Galletas) 

Vi   c.  shortening  1  c.  flour 

14    c.  sugar  V?,   tsp.  salt 

1  egg  yolk  (whipped  until  1  egg  white,  beaten  stiff 

lemon-colored)  Vi   c.  chopped  nuts 

1  tbsp.  grated  orange  rind  10  maraschino  cherries 

1  tsp.  lemon  juice 

Cream  the  sugar  and  shortening.  Add  the  beaten  egg  yolk  and  the  grated  rind 
of  orange  and  lemon,  then  the  lemon  juice.  Beat  well.  Sift  in  the  flour  and  salt 
Mix  well,  then  place  in  the  refrigerator  to  cool.  When  cold  enough  to  be  firm,  form 
into  small  balls  and  dip  in  the  beaten  egg  white,  roll  in  chopped  nuts,  and  place  on 
cookie  sheet.  Dent  the  center  of  each  ball  and  put  in  each  a  half  cherry.  Bake 
twenty  minutes  in  a  moderate  oven  350°  F. 

Milk  Atole 
(Beverage) 

4  c.  milk  3  oz.  cornstarch 

2  c.  water  1  stick  cinnamon 
54   lb.  sugar 

Dissolve  the  cornstarch  in  water,  add  cinnamon,  and  put  on  the  fire.  When  it 
starts  to  thicken  add  milk  and  sugar,  let  it  simmer,  and  stir  constantly  with  a  wooden 
spoon,  until  it  thickens  like  cream.    Serve  very  hot. 

This  atole  may  be  seasoned  with  chocolate,  crushed,  strained  strawberries,  or  any 
fruit  flavor. 


A  Doll  Buggy  for  Christmas 


Florence  S.  Glines 


4  6  4  RENT  you  glad  they 
/-V  brought  the  doll  buggy?" 
Three-year-old  Bobby  anx- 
iously searched  his  mother's  averted 
face,  as  he  leaned  on  her  knee. 
Five-year-old  Ann  cast  an  apprais- 
ing eye  over  the  old-fashioned  bug- 
gy, brown  and  frayed,  standing  in 
the  middle  of  the  small  sitting  room. 
But  Ruth  stooped  over,  swooped  up 
the  yellow  cat,  and  tried  to  make 
him  sit  in  the  buggy. 

Barbara  Lind  forced  herself  to 
smile  into  the  eager  e3^es  of  her 
three  children  so  intently  regarding 
her.  "Yes,  Bobby,"  she  said,  "of 
course,  Fm  glad.  It  was  thought- 
ful of  them  to  remember  us  and 
bring  sister  a  buggy." 

"He  said  Santa  Claus  sent  it," 
observed  realistic  little  Ann.  "Why 
did  he  send  an  old  one,  Mother?" 

"Because  we're  poor,"  said  ten- 
year-old  Ruth,  adding  defensively 
to  her  mother,  "well,  Mabel  says 
we're  poor  now— she  says  we're 
widows  and  orphans.'  " 

Barbara  searched  her  mind  for 
some  words  she  could  say.  These 
three  eager,  precious,  little  souls 
were  so  defenseless  and  dependent 
on  her  for  their  attitude  toward  the 
world!    The  thought  was  appalling. 

"Oh,  Bruce,"  her  heart  cried  out, 
"that's  why  I  simply  can't  go  on 
without  you!"  Her  own  loneliness 
and  longing  she  felt  she  could  en- 
dure. She  had  those  perfect  years 
to  remember,  and  she  was  already 
grown.  But  the  children,  what  of 
them?  What  if  she  could  not  guide 
them   right   alone?     Yet  that  was 

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what  she  had  to  do,  and  all  three 
were  now  waiting  to  hear  what  she 
would  say  to  Ruth's  outburst. 

"Mabel  doesn't  know  what  she 
is  talking  about.  We  couldn't  be 
poor,  while  we  have  so  much.  We 
have  Father  in  heaven  to  pray  to; 
we  have  each  other;  we  have  Daddy 
in  heaven;  we  have  uncles  and  aunts 
and  cousins  who  always  remember 
us;  we  have  this  nice  house  .  .  .  ." 

"Not  so  very  nice,"  said  ten- 
year-old  Ruth  under  her  breath. 

"We  have  this  nice  house  to 
live  in,"  repeated  Barbara  firmly. 
"We  have  good  food  to  eat;  we 
have  pretty  clothes  to  wear;  and 
you  all  have  so  many  toys  now  that 
I  don't  see  how  we  can  take  care 
of  any  more." 

"But  didn't  Santa  Claus  know 
that  I  wanted  a  white  doll  buggy 
that  was  new?"  asked  Ann.  "And 
doesn't  he  know  that  Christmas  is 
not  till  day  after  tomorrow?" 

"Of  course  Santa  knows,"  said 
Barbara,  "but  nobody,  even  Santa 
Claus,  can  always  do  exactly  what 
everybody  wants.  Then,  too,  there 
are  some  very  kind  people  who  like 
being  Santa's  helpers,  especially  for 
children.  They  don't  want  to  get 
paid  or  fussed  over,  so  they  try  to 
find  some  child  who  wants  some- 
thing they  have  and  they  send  it. 
I  suppose  someone  said  Ann  wanted 
a  doll  buggy,  and  a  lady  had  one 
she  wanted  to  give  away,  so  she 
sent  it  to  Ann  and  was  a  helper." 
Barbara  searched  their  serious  faces 
and  felt  that  what  she  had  said  was 
not  enough. 


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41 


''Man  bring  the  buggy/'  said  Bob- 
by. 

''The  lady  got  the  man  to  bring 
it/'  explained  Barbara.  She  waited, 
a  prayer  in  her  heart  that  she  had 
not  said  too  much,  that  she  had  said 
enough.  She  did  not  want  to  spoil 
anything  lovely  the  children  might 
have,  and  she  did  want  them  to 
understand  things  realistically,  so 
that  life 'might  not  be  too  hard. 

^^r^AN  we  be  Santa  Claus  help- 
ers?" asked  Ruth,  slowly, 
weighing  her  words. 

Ann  and  Bobby  nodded  vigorous- 
ly.   ''Can  we?"  they  echoed. 

Barbara's  thoughts  flew  swiftly. 
Whatever  did  she  have  they  could 
give?  "Why,  yes,"  she  said,  "if  you 
know  someone  to  whom  we  can 
take  something." 

"I  know,"  said  Ann  quickly,  "Mrs. 
Savage!  She's  got  no  one.  Nobody 
brings  her  Santa  Claus  helpers." 

Barbara  was  about  to  protest. 
Old  Mrs.  Savage,  who  lived  in  the 
big  house  on  the  corner,  whatever 
could  they  give  her?  She  had 
everything.  Well  —  not  friends, 
which  she  didn't  want.  Barbara  had 
heard  that  Mrs.  Savage  had  come 
West  and  bought  that  house  years 
ago  to  get  away  from  people. 

"And  Vie  and  Bert  in  the  back 
lot,"  said  Ruth. 

"Mr.  and  Mrs.  Hobson,"  Barbara 
corrected  automatically. 

"They  want  me  to  call  them  Vie 
and  Bert,  Vie  told  me  to,"  said 
Ruth,  "and  I  call  the  baby  Sam- 
my. 

There  were  plenty  of  things  they 
could  give  the  Hobsons.  Barbara 
had  a  feeling  of  shame  that  she  had 
not  tried  to  do  something  for  those 
struggling  young  folks  before. 


"Jimmy  wants  Santa  Claus  help- 
ers," said  Bobby. 

Dear  me!  thought  Barbara.  Jim- 
my Armstrong  would  have  much 
more  Santa  Claus  than  he  could 
use.  But  if  Jimmy  was  Bobby's 
choice,  she  would  have  to  find  a 
way. 

The  three  little  faces  were  turned 
to  her  now,  enthusiastic  and  inter- 
ested. The  shabby  little  brown  doll 
buggy  and  the  upset  it  had  started 
seemed  forgotten. 

"We  don't  want  to  take  our 
Santa  Claus  helpers  two  days  be- 
fore Christmas,"  said  Ruth.  "I'd 
hate  to  be  that  kind  of  helper." 

"What  can  we  take,  what  can  we 
take?"  Five-year-old  Ann  was  always 
one  for  immediate  action. 

What  could  they  give?  Barbara 
thought  of  all  the  boxes  and  drawers 
she  had  filled  with  things  she  was 
keeping  for  someday.  Soon  she  had 
the  children  helping  her  pull  them 
out  and  sort  over  to  see  what  could 
be  given.  They  found  some  of 
Bobby's  baby  clothes  and  a  doll  that 
rattled  for  baby  Sammy. 

"Here's  this  too-little  blouse 
Aunt  Rae  sent  you.  It'll  just  fit 
Vie,"  said  Ruth.  "Now,  if  we  can 
only  find  something  for  Bert." 

OARBARA  thought  of  Bruce's 
warm  wool  sweater,  packed 
away  in  the  cedar  chest.  Oh,  no, 
not  that!  She  was  saving  it  for 
Bobby  when  he  grew  up.  Then  she 
seemed  to  see  Bruce's  grin  and  his 
easy  voice  saying,  "Two  years  are 
long  enough  to  hoard  anything, 
honey,"  and  she  had  to  admit  that 
keeping  it  for  Bobby  was  only  an 
excuse.  Bobby  wouldn't  be  big 
enough  for  maybe  twenty  years! 
She  pushed  aside  her  reluctance  and 


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brought  out  the  sweater  with  seem- 
ing gaiety. 

*'Oh,  Mother/'  said  Ruth,  over- 
joyed, ''you  can't  imagine  how 
pleased  Bert'll  be!  But  should  we? 
Daddy's  .  .  .  /' 

''Daddy  would  want  Bert  to 
have  it,  Fm  sure."  Then  Barbara 
added  quickly,  "I've  thought  what 
we  can  give  to  Mrs.  Savage." 

She  showed  them  how  to  make  a 
dainty  pincushion  with  scraps  of 
satin,  lace,  and  a  powder  box  lid 
stuffed  with  sawdust. 

"Ruth  got  lots  of  things  for  the 
Hobson's,"  said  Ann.  "I  only  have 
one  for  Mrs.  Savage." 

"Jinimy's  got  nothing,"  mourned 
Bobby. 

"What  does  Jimmy  want?"  said 
Barbara,  perplexed. 

"Everything  he  sees,  if  it  belongs 
to  somebody  else,"  said  Ruth,  "and 
that  goes  for  my  stilts  Cousin  Dale 
made  me  last  summer." 

"Make  Jimmy  stilts!"  exulted 
Bobby,  "saw,  saw,  hammer,  ham- 
mer! 

"Make  stilts!"  exclaimed  Bar- 
bara, "why,  I  can't  hammer  a  nail 
in  straight,  and  as  for  sawing— Jim- 
my would  walk  with  one  foot  up 
and  the  other  foot  down  like  in  the 
Mother  Goose  rhyme!" 

Bobby  looked  stricken,  and  Ruth 
volunteered  doubtfully,  "Maybe  I 
could." 

Barbara  forced  herself  to  meet 
the  challenge.  "I  have  an  idea," 
she  said.  "We'll  ask  the  scout- 
master if  he  can  help  us,"  and  she 
hurried  to  the  phone.  It  took  cour- 
age for  Barbara  Lind  to  ask  for  help. 

"I'll  say  we've  got  a  boy  who'd 
like  to  help!"  said  the  man,  "and 
thank  you  for  calling.    Toby  Judd 


just  came  in.  He's  tops  with  a 
hammer  and  saw.  Toby's  shy  and 
backward  but  .  .  .  ." 

"Wonderful,  send  him  along. 
Thanks  a  lot,"  said  Barbara,  hiding 
her  qualms  about  Toby  Judd.  Lots 
of  folks  thought  Toby  was  not  quite 
bright,  but  maybe  if  she  helped, 
Toby  could  manage.  Bruce  had 
always  told  her  that  even  if  she  did 
think  her  mechanical  ability  was 
nil,  she  was  a  big  inspiration  to  talk 
to  when  a  fellow  was  figuring  out 
something. 

She  brightly  urged  the  children 
to  help  clear  away  the  boxes  and 
drawers  they  had  pulled  out  and 
make  room  for  making  the  stilts  in 
the  kitchen. 

TT  seemed  that  almost  at  once, 
Toby  was  knocking  at  the  door. 
His  face  was  bright  with  expecta- 
tion, though  his  smile  was  doubt- 
ful, as  if  he  feared  he  might  not  be 
wanted  after  all. 

"Here's  the  hammer  and  the 
saw,"  said  Ruth,  holding  them  out 
to  Toby,  "and  Bobby  has  the  nails, 
and  the  old  shoe  that  Ann  has'  is 
for  the  straps." 

"There's  a  pile  of  wood  scraps 
in  the  garage,"  directed  Barbara, 
helping  Bobby  into  his  coat.  "May- 
be among  you  all,  you  can  pick  out 
some  good  pieces.  Bring  them  back 
here  and  we'll  see  what  we  can  do." 

"Oh,  Ma'am,"  Toby  breathed,  his 
face  flushing,  as  the  children  crowd- 
ed enthusiastically  around  him,  "I 
love  to  make  things.  Come  on 
kids,  this  is  going  to  be  fun!" 

Ruth  was  back  in  a  few  minutes. 
"Mother,"  she  said,  "Toby  says 
why  can't  we  make  the  stilts  out 
there.     The  cement  floor  and  the 


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43 


light  and  everything  are  just  right, 
and  we  won't  need  to  mess  up  the 
kitchen.  And,  Mother,  Toby  knows 
lots  of  things  we  can  make!  Have 
we  got  some  glue  and  some  sand- 
paper and  some  paint?" 

Barbara  gathered  up  the  articles, 
and  with  paper,  rags,  and  paint 
thinner,  she  took  them  out.  Toby 
must  be  a  veritable  genius,  the  way 
he  had  them  all  working  and  having 
such  a  wonderful  time! 

Grateful  for  the  free  time  to 
finish  up  her  own  Christmas  prep- 
arations, Barbara  got  busy  in  the 
house,  but  she  could  not  get  Toby 
out  of  her  mind.  Big  hands,  no 
gloves;  long  arms,  sleeves  three 
inches  above  the  bony  wrists;  he 
looked  half-fed  and  neglected.  No 
two  ways  about  it,  if  Bruce's  fur- 
lined  gloves  would  stay  on  him, 
and  if  the  plaid  lumber  jacket 
could  be  taken  in,  Toby  should 
have  them  for  Christmas. 

It  was  supper  time  when  Bobby 
stumbled  in,  trying  to  walk  the 
finished  stilts.  Ann  hugged  a  door- 
stop and  a  book  marker  for  Mrs. 
Savage.  Ruth  tried  to  hide  a  very 
secret  spool-holder  for  Barbara  be- 
hind her  with  one  hand,  while  she 
carefully  carried  some  small  bits  of 
polished  wood  in  the  other. 

"Look,  Mother,''  she  exclaimed, 
''you  glue  letters  from  alphabet 
macaroni  on  these  pieces  of  wood 
to  make  your  name.  Then  you  get 
a  tube  of  liquid  cement  and  stick 
a  little  safety  pin  on  the  back  in 
this  little  place  Toby  marked,  and 
there  you  are!  A  wooden  pin  with 
your  name  on  it!  If  you  want  it  to 
shine,  you  varnish  it." 

''Marvelous!"  agreed  Barbara. 
'Tut  them  on  the  dresser  while  we 


eat,  and  Toby,  will  your  grand- 
mother worry  if  you  stay  and  eat 
with  us?" 

''His  grandmother  and  sister  have 
gone  to  visit  his  auntie,"  said 
Bobby. 

So  Toby  stayed  to  eat,  to  glue 
names  on  the  macaroni  pins,  to 
help  string  lights  on  the  Christmas 
tree,  and  afterwards  to  sing  carols 
with  Barbara  and  the  children. 

"It's  past  bedtime,"  Barbara  final- 
ly said.  "We'll  all  have  to  hurry. 
And  Toby,  you  must  come  on 
Christmas  and  help  us  eat  that 
enormous  turkey  my  Uncle  Heber 
sent  us  from  his  farm." 

"Yes,  yes,  yes,"  chorused  the 
children. 

Toby  had  forgotten  to  be  shy  as 
he  had  worked  and  sung  with  the 
children  crowded  around  him,  but 
now,  only  the  quick  flush  to  his 
face  showed  how  thrilled  he  was 
at  the  invitation,  as  he  mumbled 
his  thanks  and  abruptly  said  good- 
night. 

<'^'T^HE  Hobsons  never  have  tur- 
key," said  Ruth. 

"Mrs.  Savage  has  no  big  turkey, 
just  for  one  people,"  observed  Ann. 

"Jimmy  likes  turkey,"  chimed  in 
Bobby. 

Finally  Barbara  agreed  that  first 
thing  in  the  morning,  thev  would 
all  go  invite  the  Hobsons,  Mrs.  Sav- 
age, and  Jimmy  Armstrong  to  eat 
Christmas  dinner  with  them,  and 
Toby  Judd. 

"Oh,  how  wonderful  of  you  to 
ask  us!"  said  Vie  Hobson.  "We'd 
love  to  accept,  if  you  will  let  me 
help  with  the  cooking." 

"I'll  surely  accept  that  offer," 
said  Barbara,  "and  I'm  doing  most 


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of  it  this  afternoon  to  leave  tomor- 
row free." 

CINCE  she  had  agreed,  Barbara 
walked  resolutely  up  to  Mrs. 
Savage's  big  house  and  held  Ann  up 
to  reach  the  knocker. 

A  maid  led  them  into  a  pleasant 
morning  room  where  Mrs.  Savage 
patted  Ann's  cheek  and  then  seat- 
ed them  all  comfortably.  She  re- 
ceived the  invitation  with  a  stiff 
excuse  until  Ann  impulsively  ran 
to  her  and  said,  ''We  could  have 
ice-cream  roll;  you  know,  like  you 
gave  me  once,  if  you  would  come 
and  bring  it."  It  made  everybody 
laugh,  and  the  lonesome  old  lady 
accepted  before  she  quite  realized 
it. 

At  the  Armstrongs,  Jimmy's  moth- 
er hesitated.  ''I  really  don't  know 
what  to  say,  Mrs.  Lind.  Of  course, 
Jimmy's  father  and  I  were  going  out 
to  a  dinner  party,  but  I've  made 
arrangements  for  the  cook  and  a 
maid  to  stay  and  feed  Jimmy." 

''Jimmy  can  come,"  and  "I  can 
go,"  chanted  both  little  boys,  hold- 
ing hands  and  whirling  around. 

"But  cook  has  made  your  special 
kind  of  plum  pudding,"  his  mother 
reminded  Jimmy. 

"He  could  bring  his  pudding,  we 
wouldn't  mind,"  observed  Ann. 

Barbara  looked  apologetically  at 
Mrs.  Armstrong,  who  smiled  under- 
standingly     while     Jimmy      cried. 


"Hurrah!  I  can  bring  the  pudding 
for  the  Christmas  dinner!" 

Barbara  hurried  her  family  home 
to  get  busy  and  see  that  every  cor- 
ner of  the  house  was  clean  and 
shining  for  the  big  cooking  event  of 
the  afternoon,  and  that  all  packages 
were  wrapped  and  piled  at  the  foot 
of  the  tree. 

When  Vie  Hobson  came  over, 
the  children  all  went  for  a  walk. 
Bobby  carried  the  yellow  cat  over 
his  shoulder.  Ruth  and  Ann 
pushed  baby  Sammy  for  a  ride  in 
the  brown  doll  buggy  which  had 
caused  such  upset  feelings  and  led 
to  the  whole  plan  for  a  neighbor- 
hood Christmas  dinner  and  cele- 
bration. 

"The  shabby  little  buggy  and 
what  it  stood  for  that  I  hated,  has 
really  turned  out  to  be  a  blessing," 
Barbara  marveled,  as  she  watched 
the  happy  children. 

She  turned  from  the  window  to 
young  Vie  Hobson  at  the  sink, 
smiling  and  gladly  scrubbing  vege- 
tables, and  it  almost  seemed  she 
could  hear  Bruce  say,  "It  isn't  what 
you  have  that's  good  or  bad,  honey. 
It's  what  you  do  with  it."  She 
gave  Vie  a  smile  and,  thinking  of 
Toby  and  old  Mrs.  Savage  and  lone- 
some Jimmy  Armstrong,  said,  "Isn't 
it  wonderful  about  tomorrow?  All 
of  us  here  together  like  a  family 
and  nobody  around  lonesome!  A 
real  Christmas." 


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Maude  O.  Cook 

The  sunset  fades,  rose  petals  fall, 
The  rainbow  hues  depart: 
The  only  beauty  which  is  ours 
Is  stored  within  the  heart. 


UJiographical  (^ketches  of  J^ward    Vl/inners  in  the 
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Christie  Lund  CoJes,  Provo,  Utah,  daughter  of  the  late  C.  N.  Lund,  poet  and 
newspaper  pubHsher,  and  Ceha  A.  Lund,  is  the  wife  of  E.  Elroy  Coles  and  the  mother 
of  Carolyn  (Mrs.  John  E.)  Lewis.  She  has  a  small  granddaughter  Lynn  Anne.  She 
has  contributed  stories,  articles,  and  poems  to  The  ReUef  Society  Magazine,  and  this 
is  her  third  appearance  as  a  winner  in  the  Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Contest.  Her  poems 
have  been  published  in  many  magazines  of  national  circulation,  and  she  has  been 
awarded  prizes  in  local  and  national  contests.  At  present  Mrs.  Coles  is  working  on 
a  novel  and  studying  playwrighting  at  Brigham  Young  University.  She  is  a  member 
of  the  Utah  Sonneteers,  Poets  of  the  Pacific,  the  League  of  Utah  Writers,  the  National 
League  of  American  Pen  Women,  Utah  State  Poetry  Society,  and  other  professional 
organizations. 

Frances  C.  Yost,  Bancroft,  Idaho,  is  a  frequent  contributor  to  The  ReUef  Society 
Magazine.  Her  poem  "Christmascope"  marks  her  first  appearance  as  a  winner  in  the 
Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Contest.  Mrs.  Yost  is  the  wife  of  Glenn  F.  Yost,  a  rancher,  and 
is  the  mother  of  four  children.  "My  family  and  my  Church  come  first,"  says  Mrs. 
Yost,  but  she  finds  time  for  various  writing  activities.  She  is  hometown  correspondent 
for  three  daily  papers,  she  assisted  in  the  compilation  of  a  ward  Book  of  Remembrance, 
and  is  the  author  of  two  books  of  poetry:  Brim  With  Joy  and  While  Orchids  Bloom. 
In  1954  Mrs.  Yost  received  the  award  "Most  Successful  Homemaker"  in  the  State  of 
Idaho. 

Joanne  B.  Rose,  West  Jordan,  Utah,  introduces  herself  to  readers  of  the  Magazine: 
"I  am  twenty-seven  years  old,  have  a  high  school  education,  and  have  studied  the 
technicalities  of  writing  through  library  books.  I  have  written  numerous  personal 
sketches  for  our  ward  paper  and  am  correspondent  for  a  local  newspaper.  In  1955,  one 
of  my  poems  received  honorable  mention  in  the  Utah  State  Poetry  Society  contest  in 
the  amateur  division.  My  husband,  Gene,  and  I  have  three  wonderful  children — 
eight,  six,  and  four,  two  boys  and  a  girl.  Someday  I  hope  to  continue  my  schooling  and 
learn  more  of  putting  into  words  the  wonders  of  everyday  living  with  which  the  Lord 
has  surrounded  us.     I  love  literature  in  all  forms." 


Svh'ia  Probst  Young,  Midvale  Utah,  was  awarded  the  second  prize  in  the  Eliza  R. 
Snow  Poem  Contest  in  1953.  Her  story  "Strength  for  the  \\'ay"  marks  her  first  ap- 
pearance as  an  award  winner  in  the  Relief  Society  Short  Story  Contest.  Her  husband, 
Reid  W.  Young,  is  a  great-grandson  of  William  Wesley  Willis,  a  lieutenant  in  the 
Mormon  Battalion,  and  this  relationship,  says  Mrs,  Young,  has  given  her  a  particular 
interest  in  the  battalion.  "Being  a  bishop's  wife,  a  mother,  and  a  schoolteacher,  leaves 
me  little  time  for  anvthing  else,"  writes  Mrs.  Young,  "but  whenever  possible  I  write 
because  I  \o\e  to.  I  ha\e  written  for  all  the  Church  magazines  and  for  some  other 
publications,  and  my  poems  ha\'e  appeared  in  several  anthologies.  I  love  the  Church, 
and  especially  the  Relief  Society,  where  I  am  class  leader  for  social  science  and  litera- 
ture.   I  am  the  mother  of  four  sons." 

Page  45 


LKecipes  for  ioeverages 

Rhea  H.  Gardner 

What  is  enjoyed  more  than  an  ice-cold  fruit  drink  on  a  hot  afternoon,  or  a  flavor- 
ful hot  beverage  on  a  cold  winter  night? 

Since  lemon  juice  is  part  of  most  fruit  drinks,  let's  start  out  with  good  old-fashioned, 
and  most  refreshing  lemonade. 

Lemonade  Drink 

5  c.  water  i  c.  sugar 

rinds  of  2  lemons  cut  in  pieces  1   c.  lemon  juice 

Mix  sugar,  1  c.  water,  and  lemon  shells.  Stir  until  sugar  is  dissolved.  Boil  very 
gently  about  7  minutes.  Remove  lemon  shells  and  cool.  Add  lemon  juice  and  4  c. 
of  water. 

Limeade:     Substitute  lime  for  lemon  juice.     Add  14  c.  lemon  juice. 

Orangeade:  Substitute  2  c.  orange  juice  for  lemon  juice  in  lemonade  recipe  and 
add   !4   c.  lemon  juice. 

Grapeade:  Make  sirup  of  Yi  c.  sugar  and  2  c.  water.  Let  cool,  then  add: 
1   c.  grape  juice  1  e.  orange  juice 

Vi    c.  lemon  juice 

Just  before  serving,  add  some  ginger  ale  if  desired. 

Pineapple  Mint  Julep 

6  sprigs  fresh  mint  %    c.  sugar 

%    c.  lemon  juice  3  c.  pineapple  juice 

3  c.  ginger  ale 

Wash  mint  leaves.  Bruise  with  spoon.  Gover  with  sugar.  Add  lemon  juice  and 
let  stand  15  minutes.  Add  pineapple  juice.  Pour  over  ice  in  pitcher  or  tall  glasses. 
Add  ginger  ale.     Garnish  with  sprigs  of  mint. 

Spiced  Pineapple  Punch 

Gombine  1  c.  sugar,  lYi  c.  water,  2  sticks  cinnamon,  and  8  whole  cloves  in  sauce- 
pan.    Boil  gently  for  3  to  5  minutes.     Strain  and  cool. 

Add: 

4  c.  unsweetened  pineapple  juice  Yi   c.  lemon  juice 

1  c.  orange  juice 

Pour  over  ice  and  serve. 

Spiced  Rhubarb  Gooler 

2  lbs.  rhubarb,  cut  in  small  pieces  3  c.  water 

4  whole  cloves  1  inch  stick  cinnamon 

1   c.  sugar  sirup  {Vs  c.  sugar  to  Ys  tsp.  mace 

to  %  c.  water)  2  tbsp.  lemon  juice 

Y2    c.  orange  juice  1  pint  ginger  ale 

Put  rhubarb,  water,  and  spices  in  saucepan.  Simmer  until  rhubarb  is  tender. 
Strain.  Add  cooled  sugar  sirup  and  fruit  juices.  Ghill.  Pour  over  the  ice.  Add 
ginger  ale. 

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RECIPES  FOR  BEVERAGES  47 

Old  English  Hot  Spiced  Cider 

Vz    tsp.  whole  allspice  i   qt.  cider 

1  2-inch  stick  of  cinnamon  %   c.  brown  sugar 
6  whole  cloves  grated  nutmeg 

Tie  spices  in  cheesecloth  bag.  Heat  eider  and  brown  sugar  together.  Add  spice 
bag  and  let  simmer  about  lo  minutes.     Remove  bag.     Serve  with  dash  of  nutmeg. 

Spiced  Grapefruit  Juice 

6  e.  canned  grapefruit  juice  6  tbsp.  sugar 

4  tbsp.  honey  12  whole  cloves 

6  sticks  cinnamon 

Simmer  3  minutes.     Strain  and  serve  hot  or  cold  with  a  dash  of  nutmeg. 

Cranberry  Fruit  Punch 

2  qts.  fresh  cranberries  1   tbsp.  grated  lemon  peel 
1   dozen  whole  cloves                                          2  c.  sugar 

1   tbsp.  grated  orange  peel  !4    c.  lemon  juice 

8  c.  apple  juice  or  apple  eider  2  trays  ice 

4  c.  water 

Cook  together  cranberries  and  water.  When  berries  are  tender,  remove  from  heat 
and  force  berries  through  sieve.  While  juice  is  hot,  add  cloves,  sugar,  orange  and 
lemon  peel.  Cool  and  add  lemon  juice,  apple  juice,  and  ice.  This  is  delicious  served 
with  holiday  fruit  cake. 

Punch  —  Plus 

1  qt,  vanilla  ice  cream  1  qt,  ginger  ale 

1  qt,  pineapple  juice  1  qt.  sherbet,  pineapple,  orange,  or  lime 

Mix  with  beater  and  serve. 

Milk  and  eggs,  two  of  nature's  most  nearly  perfect  foods,  combine  into  delicious, 
nutritious,  and  appetizing  beverages.  Many  chocolate  drinks  may  be  made  from  home- 
made chocolate  and  cocoa  sirups.  These  sirups  are  easy  to  make  and  keep  well  in  the 
refrigerator. 

Chocolate  or  Cocoa  Sirup 

1  c,  cocoa  or  K   tsp.  salt 

4  squares  unsweetened  chocolate  2  c.  cold  water 

cut  in  pieces  3  tbsp.  vanilla 

2  c.  sugar 

Mix  all  except  vanilla.  Cook  over  low  heat  until  thickened  and  smooth,  about  five 
minutes.  Cool  slightly.  Add  vanilla.  Pour  in  jar.  Keep  in  refrigerator.  Add  2  tbsp. 
chocolate  sirup  for  each  cup  of  scalded  milk  to  make  a  chocolate  drink.  Stir  until  sirup 
is  dissolved, 

Eggnog 

Beat  whites  of  2  eggs  until  stiff.     Beat  yolks,   1   tbsp.  sugar,    Vi    tsp.  vanilla,  and 

2  c.  milk  until  well  blended.     Fold  in  egg  whites.     Pour  into  glasses.     Sprinkle  nutmeg 
on  top. 

Chocolate  Eggnog:  To  the  above  add  2  tbsp.  chocolate  sirup.    Omit  sugar. 
Fruit  Eggnog:  To  the  above  add  3  tbsp,  orange,  strawberry,  raspberry,  cherry,  or 
grape  juice  or  1  mashed  banana  just  before  adding  egg  whites. 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


Margaret  C.  Pickeiing,  General  Secretary-Treasurer  , 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handboolc  oi  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


»<    ^*     W      .''I 


Photograph   submitted  by   Lu   Seba  W.    Petersen 

REXBURG  STAKE    (IDAHO)    VISITING  TEACHERS  ACHIEVE 
OUTSTANDING  RECORD 


Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Stake  officers:  Jessie  Atkinson,  Secretary;  Myrtle 
Sellers,  Second  Counselor;  Lu  Seba  W.  Petersen,  President;  LaVerne  Hacking,  First 
Counselor;  and  Constance  Brown,  President,  Rexburg  Third  Ward  Relief  Society. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Marie  Barber,  Counselor  in  Fifth  Ward  Rehef 
Society;  Claudia  Hendricks,  President,  Lyman  Ward  Relief  Society;  Norma  Larsen, 
President,  Rexburg  Seventh  Ward  Relief  Society;  Velma  Drennen,  President,  Rexburg 
Fourth  Ward  Relief  Society;  Opal  Clements,  President,  Archer  Ward  Relief  Society; 
Xenia  Nelson,  President,  Rexburg  Second  Ward  Relief  Society;  Genevieve  Klingler, 
President,  Rexburg  Sixth  Ward  Relief  Society. 

President  Petersen  reports  the  outstanding  achie\'ements  in  \'isiting  teaching  of  the 
wards  in  her  stake:  "We  are  very  proud  of  our  visiting  teaching  in  Rexburg  Stake. 
The  following  wards  have  had  100  per  cent  for  the  years  indicated:  Archer  Ward, 
eleven  years;  Rexburg  Third  Ward,  six  years;  Rexburg  Sexenth  Ward,  six  years;  Lyman 
Ward,  five  years;  Rexburg  Fifth  Ward,  four  years,  ever  since  its  organization.  The 
Rexburg  Sixth  Ward  was  organized  in  June  1952,  and  has  missed  only  one  district 
for  one  month.  The  Rexburg  Fourth  Ward  has  had  one  hundred  per  cent  for  five 
years,  except  for  one  district  each  of  two  months.  The  Rexburg  Second  Ward  has  had 
one  hundred  per  cent  for  nine  years,  except  for  one  district  each  of  two  months." 

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NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Hazel  B.  Tingey 

HIGHLAND  STAKE    (UTAH)    SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC   FOR 

STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

Seated  at  the  organ:  Idell  Larson;  at  sister  Larson's  left,  chorister  Ina  G.  Cannon. 

Standing,  front  row,  fourth  from  the  right:  Vivian  Coombs,  First  Counselor;  fifth 
from  the  right:  Hazel  B.  Tingey,  President,  Highland  Stake  Relief  Soeiety;  sixth  from 
the  right:  Gladys  Bateman,  Second  Counselor. 

Sister  Tingey  reports  that  all  of  the  wards  were  represented  on  this  occasion  by 
members  of  the  ward  presidencies.  Nine  of  the  ten  ward  Relief  Society  presidents  at- 
tended, as  follows:  Parley's  Ward,  Marjorie  Eldredge;  Parley's  Second  Ward,  Louise 
Elsey;  Parley's  Third  Ward,  Mildred  Porter;  Parley's  Fourth  Ward,  Ethel  Hutchins; 
Crystal  Heights  Ward,  Ermone  Sanders;  Crystal  Heights  Second  Ward,  Echo  Ellis; 
Highland  Park  Ward,  Lenore  Lewis;  South  Highland  Park  Ward,  Maida  Webb;  Strat- 
ford Ward,  Eva  Bullen;  East  Stratford  Ward,  Theresa  Wakefield. 

These  Singing  Mothers  presented  the  music  for  all  the  general  sessions  of  the 
quarterly  conference,  with  one  hundred  twenty  Singing  Mothers  participating. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Alta  S.  Wiltshire 

PANGUITCH  STAKE  (UTAH),  CIRCLEVILLE  WARD,  FORMER 
PRESIDENTS  HOLD  SOCIAL 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Ellen  Samuelsen;  Mary  Norton;  Lorena  Davis; 
Daphne  Smith, 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Evelyn  Mortenson,  present  President;  Indra  John- 
son; Alice  Allen;  Eva  Dalton;  Eventa  Fullmer;  Lois  Haycock. 


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PhotoRraph  submitted  by  Edna  S.  Millar 

BOISE  STAKE  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  FOR  BOTH  SESSIONS 
OF  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

August  19,  1956 

Gladys  Broadbent,  the  chorister,  stands  at  the  left  in  the  second  row;  Sheila 
Broadbent,  the  organist,  stands  twelfth  from  the  left  in  the  second  row;  Edna  S.  Millar, 
President,  Boise  Stake  Relief  Society,  at  the  right  in  the  second  row;  Nola  Muhlstein, 
Second  Counselor,  eighth  from  the  left  in  the  third  row. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Hortense  B.  Robinson 

FINNISH  MISSION  RELIEF  SOCIETY  ANNUAL  CONFERENCE  HELD  IN 

HELSINKI,  August  25  and  26,  1956 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Edith  Ruuhinen,  Pori  Branch  Relief  Society;  Anni 
Backholm,  Vaasa  Branch;  Lea  Minni,  First  Counselor,  Finnish  Mission  Relief  Society; 
Hortense  B.  Robinson,  President,  T'innish  Mission  Relief  Society;  Elsa  Arojaa,  Oulu 
Branch  Relief  Society;  Hulda  Fellman,  Jakobstad  Branch  Relief  Society. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


51 


Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Esteri  Miilumaki,  Jyvaskyla  Branch  Rehef  Society; 
Toini  Kerttula,  Lahti  Branch  Rehef  Society;  Lilja  Jarxenkari,  Kokkola  Branch  Rehef 
Society;  Lydia  Miete,  Hameenhnna  Branch  Rehef  Society;  Lempi  Ojala,  Lappeenranta 
Rehef  Society;  Ahi  Immonen,  Kuopio  Rehef  Society;  Senja  Aalto,  Lahti  Rehef  Society; 
Helka  Karumo,  Fori  Branch;  Anne  Halonen,  Kuopio  Branch;  Toini  Halonen,  Turku 
Branch;  Hilja  Fhnckman,  Kotka  Branch;  Aune  Uskah,  Tampere  Branch;  Bertta  Heinonen, 
Kotka  Branch;  Jenny  Stromberg,  Larsmo  Branch;  Maila  Valkama,  Helsinki. 

President  Hortense  B.  Robinson  reports:  "The  annual  Relief  Society  Conference 
of  the  Finnish  Mission  was  held  in  Helsinki,  August  25  and  26,  1956.  Rehef  Society 
presidents  from  fifteen  of  the  sixteen  branches  were  in  attendance.  In  some  branches, 
where  presidents  had  just  been  released,  both  the  released  and  the  new  presidents  at- 
tended. All  lady  missionaries  also  attended  the  conference.  The  Saturday  evening 
program  included  a  luncheon  for  all  presidents,  a  play  introducing  all  general  Relief 
Societ}'  presidents,  and  a  national  folk  dance  performed  by  Relief  Society  sisters.  Sun- 
day meetings  included  a  testimony  meeting  and  a  leadership  meeting,  as  well  as  two 
general  sessions.  Of  special  interest  was  the  fireside  on  Sunday  evening.  Minister 
Yrjo  Kallinen,  a  noted  speaker,  related  his  visit  to  his  Mormon  relatives  in  Arizona  and 
hearing  'Come,  Come  Ye  Saints,'  sung  by  his  'cowboy  cousins  in  the  twilight  setting 
of  the  Arizona  desert.'  All  meetings  were  well  attended.  Over  two  hundred  attended 
the  Sunday  evening  sessions.  The  sisters  were  thrilled  with  the  conference,  and  it 
aroused  much  interest  and  enthusiasm.  Last  year  there  were  221  Rehef  Society  mem- 
bers in  the  Finnish  Mission." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Matilda  B.  Gilbert 

FRANKLIN  STAKE  (IDAHO)   VISITING  TEACHERS  HONORED  AT 
CONVENTION  AND  OPENING  SOCIAL 


Front  row,  left  to  right:  Mary  A.  Moser,  Annie  N.  Merrill,  Delettie  Burbank,  each 
with  fifty  years  of  service  as  visiting  teachers;  Ahce  Greaves,  sixty  years;  Mildred  Ander- 
son, with  a  twehe-year  perfect  record;  Nellie  G.  Smith,  fifty  years. 

Matilda  B.  Gilbert,  President,  Franklin  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  this  happy 
occasion:  "All  xisiting  teachers  \xere  honored  at  a  recent  visiting  teachers  convention 
and  opening  social.  A  lovely  program  under  the  direction  of  Nettie  Nielsen,  stake 
visiting  teacher  message  leader,  \\as  presented.  Each  sister  with  twenty-five  years  or 
more  of  service  was  presented  with  a  corsage.  Those  with  fifty  or  more  years  of  service 
were  especially  honored." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Mary  W.  Kotter 

NEBO  STAKE  (UTAH)  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  FOR 
STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

Roene  Di  Fiore,  director  of  the  chorus,  tells  of  the  faithful  efforts  of  these  sisters: 
"There  were  one  hundred  six  singers  in  all,  and  they  gave  of  their  time  so  freely  and 
joyfully  that  not  one  telephone  call,  or  other  means  of  communication,  was  employed 
to  keep  them  coming  out  to  rehearsals  regularly.  Counselor  Lila  Carlisle  was  the  ac- 
companist." 

Mary  W.  Kotter,  President,  Nebo  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  these  Singing 
Mothers  prepared  a  Christmas  cantata. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Fern   Brockbank 

PALMYRA  STAKE   (UTAH),  SPANISH  FORK  THIRD  WARD  BAZAAR 

Standing,  left  to  right:  Marion  Hales,  First  Counselor;  Erma  Cope,  Second  Coun- 
selor; Iva  Maland,  Secretary-Treasurer;  Grace  Pincgar,  President. 

Fern  Brockbank,  President,  Palmyra  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  'Hliis  bazaar 
was  a  very  fine  affair,  with  a  variety  of  quilts  and  handwork  on  display.  Homemade 
candy  and  cooked  foods  were  also  sold." 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


53 


Photograph  submitted  by  Florence  S.  Jacobsen 

EASTERN  STATES  MISSION,  PALMYRA,  NEW  YORK,  BRANCH  RELIEF 
SOCIETY  MEETS  IN  THE  HOME  OF  LUCY  MACK  SMITH 

Seated  in  front,  left  to  right:  Dora  Fergnson;  Grace  Bump;  Alice  Mecham;  Mona 
Plane;  Mary  DeNosky  and  grandchild;  Ruby  Wanscott. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Leona  C.  Olsen;  Elsa  Walker;  LaVern  Darley, 
who  presented  the  social  science  lesson;  Mary  Atkin. 

Florence  S.  Jacobsen,  President,  Eastern  States  Mission  Relief  Society,  reports: 
"I  had  a  thrill  this  week  end  while  attending  district  conference  in  Palmyra,  to  learn 
that  the  wonderful  Relief  Society  sisters  residing  there  had  held  their  first  social  science 
lesson  of  the  year  in  the  living  room  of  the  home  of  Lucy  Mack  Smith  (mother  of  the 
Prophet  Joseph  Smith ) .  They  said  there  was  a  wonderful,  sweet  spirit  present  as  Sister 
LaVern  Darley  presented  the  lesson  from  the  history  written  by  Lucy  Mack  Smith. 
They  felt  the  environment  for  this  lesson  unique  enough  to  warrant  taking  a  picture 
of  the  occasion.  I  thought  perhaps  you  would  be  interested  to  know  that  after  the 
passage  of  126  years  since  the  house  was  occupied  by  the  Smith  family,  that  the  home 
has  been  used  as  a  meeting  place  to  study  the  life  and  ideals  of  this  great  family  as 
recorded  by  Mother  Smith.  A  picture  of  Lucy  Mack  Smith  may  be  seen  hanging  on 
the  wall  in  the  background.  The  table  in  the  foreground  was  made  by  Brigham 
Young.  This  is  just  a  note  of  interest  concerning  the  little  Relief  Society  of  Palmyra 
where  the  Smiths  lived  and  so  much  of  Church  history  has  taken  place." 


Catherine  E.  Berry 


The  good  we  do  at  Christmastime 
Can  li\'e  throughout  the  year, 

If  we  \\'ill  give  our  hearts,  our  love, 

Wrapped  up  with  Christmas  cheer. 


LESSON   DEPARTMENT 


cJheology^ — Characters  and  Teachings 
of  The  Book  of  Mormon 

Lesson  A7—A  Review  of  Outstanding  Characters  of  The  Book  of  Mormon 

Elder  LeJand  H.  Monson 

For  Tuesday,  April  2,  1957 

Objective:     To  show  through  a  study  of  the  lives  of  the  characters  of  The  Book 
of  Mormon  that  true  greatness  is  found  in  a  love  of  God  and  service  to  one's  fellow  men. 


\  man  standing  on  the  shoulders 
of  a  giant,  ought  to  be  able  to 
see  farther.  We  have  had  that 
privilege  as  we  have  walked,  talked, 
prayed,  and  thought  with  those 
giant  characters  in  spirituality  who 
led  their  people  in  The  Book  of 
Mormon  history.  In  retrospect,  we 
may  see  Jared,  his  brother  Mahonri 
Moriancumer,  and  Ether  from  the 
Jaredite  civilization;  and  at  least 
Lehi,  Nephi,  Jacob,  Benjamin,  Mo- 
siah.  Alma,  Nephi,  Mormon,  and 
Moroni  from  the  Nephite  civiliza- 
tion. A  quick  review  of  the  con- 
tributions of  these  men  to  their 
peoples  will  give  us  a  sort  of  kaleido- 
scopic scene  of  the  changing  nature 
of  life  among  The  Book  of  Mormon 
peoples. 

Book  of  Ether 

Jared  and  his  brother,  Moriancu- 
mer, came  from  that  stretch  of  ter- 
ritory between  the  Tigris  and  Eu- 

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phrates  rivers,  a  part  of  the  land 
which  is  known  as  'The  Fertile 
Crescent,"  within  which  territory 
is  the  ancient  city  of  Babylon.  Un- 
der divine  guidance,  the  Jaredites 
left  this  land  of  Shinar  at  the  time 
the  Lord  confounded  the  tongues 
of  the  people  building  the  Tower  of 
Babel. 

Moriancumer,  at  the  solicitation 
of  Jared,  prayed  that  the  Lord  would 
have  compassion  upon  them,  their 
families,  and  their  friends.  This 
prayer  was  answered,  and  a  colony 
of  people  known  as  the  Jaredites 
came  to  the  Western  Continent. 
They  crossed  the  ocean  in  eight 
boats,  built  after  the  manner  of 
''barges"  which  they  had  previously 
built.  (See  Ether  2:16,  17.)  These 
boats  were  lighted  by  sixteen  stones, 
".  .  .  white  and  clear,  even  as  trans- 
parent glass  .  .  ."  (Ether  3:1)  which 
were  made  luminous  by  the  finger 
of  the  Lord.    At  the  time  the  Lord 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


55 


touched  these  stones  and  gave  them 
luminosity,  ".  .  .  the  veil  was  taken 
from  off  the  eyes  of  the  brother  of 
Jared,  and  he  saw  the  finger  of  the 
Lord;  and  it  was  as  the  finger  of  a 
man,  like  unto  flesh  and  blood  .... 
And  .  .  .  behold,  the  Lord  showed 
himself  unto  him,  and  said  .  .  .  . 
Behold,  I  am  he  who  was  prepared 
from  the  foundation  of  the  world 
to  redeem  my  people.  Behold,  I 
am  Jesus  Christ  ....  In  me  shall 
all  mankind  have  light,  and  that 
eternally  ....  And  never  have  I 
showed  myself  unto  man  whom  I 
have  created,  for  never  has  man  be- 
lieved in  me  as  thou  hast.  Seest 
thou  that  ye  are  created  after  mine 
own  image?  Yea,  even  all  men 
were  created  in  the  beginning  after 
mine  own  image"   (Ether  3:6  ff.). 

The  civilization  built  by  these 
men  flourished  in  North  America 
from  about  the  time  of  the  Tower 
of  Babel  to  about  600  B.C.  when  it 
suffered  extinction  because  of  un- 
righteousness. 

The  abridged  record  of  the 
Jaredites  in  The  Book  of  Mormon 
is  called  the  Book  of  Ether  after 
Ether  the  last  prophet  of  the  Jared- 
ites. Moroni  made  the  abridgment 
from  the  twenty-four  gold  plates 
which  had  been  found  by  the  peo- 
ple of  Limhi  in  the  days  of  King 
Mosiah.  Ether  prophesied  the  de- 
struction of  the  Jaredite  civilization, 
for  he  knew  that  the  people  were 
living  unrighteously  and  that  Ameri- 
ca was  a  choice  land  only  to  those 
who  worshipped  the'  God  of  the 
land,  who  is  Jesus  Christ. 

Coming  oi  Lehi 

to  the  Piomised  Land 

The  civilization  of  the  Nephites 
and  Lamanites,  which  followed  the 


Jaredite  nation,  was  founded  by  Le- 
hi, who  left  Jerusalem  about  600 
B.C.  and  came  to  the  promised  land 
with  his  family,  Sariah  his  wife,  La- 
man,  Lemuel,  Sam,  Nephi,  Jacob, 
Joseph,  and  some  daughters;  and 
Ishmael  and  his  sons  and  daughters; 
and  Zoram.  Lehi  was  the  great 
patriarch  of  his  day.  He  blessed  his 
sons  and  daughters  and  encouraged 
them    to  live  righteously. 

Nephf 

Nephi,  after  the  death  of  his  fa- 
ther, took  charge  of  the  righteous 
branch  of  the  people  and  built  a 
great  civilization,  while  his  older 
brothers,  disobedient,  shiftless,  and 
lazy,  lived  in  tents  and  dwindled  in 
unbelief.  Those  who  followed  Ne- 
phi were  called  Nephites;  those  who 
followed  Laman  and  Lemuel  were 
called  Lamanites.  The  remainder 
of  The  Book  of  Mormon  history 
concerns  these  two  groups  of  peo- 
ple, for  the  Mulekites,  a  third  group 
to  come  to  America  about  590  b.c, 
merged  their  civilization  with  that 
of  the  Nephites. 

Nephi,  faithful,  intelligent,  for- 
giving, industrious,  and  resourceful 
founded  a  city  in  the  land  of  Nephi. 
He  gave  to  his  culture  a  spiritual 
foundation  at  the  same  time  that 
he  taught  the  people  to  be  indus- 
trious and  to  care  for  their  material 
welfare.  He  knew  that  the  real  pur- 
pose of  wealth  was  to  provide  for 
the  improvement  of  his  people. 

Jacob 

Jacob,  brother  of  Nephi,  followed 
Nephi  as  a  teacher  of  the  people 
and  a  keeper  of  the  records.  He 
sought  to  persuade  the  people 
''.  .  .  to  come  unto  Christ  .  .  /' 
(Jacob  1:7). 


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Wherefore,  we  would  to  God  that  we 
could  persuade  all  men  not  to  rebel  against 
God,  to  provoke  him  to  anger,  but  that 
all  men  would  believe  in  Christ,  and  view 
his  death,  and  suffer  his  cross  and  bear 
the  shame  of  the  world;  wherefore,  I, 
Jacob,  take  it  upon  me  to  fulfil  the  com- 
mandment of  my  brother  Nephi  (Jacob 
1:8). 

Jacob  was  a  great  preacher  of 
righteousness  all  his  days.  He  de- 
nounced unchastity,  encouraged  his 
people  to  seek  first  the  kingdom  of 
God,  promised  them  that  if  they 
did  so  they  would  obtain  riches,  ma- 
terial wealth,  which  he  encouraged 
them  to  use  for  righteous  purposes— 
".  .  .  to  clothe  the  naked,  and  to 
feed  the  hungry,  and  to  liberate  the 
captive,  and  administer  relief  to  the 
sick  and  the  affhcted"  (Jacob  2:19). 
He  condemned  pride  and  noted  that 
riches  are  not  necessarily  a  sign  of 
excellence.  Jacob  was  also  a  doc- 
trinal preacher,  and  explained  fun- 
damental principles  of  the  gospel. 

From  Jacob  the  plates  were  hand- 
ed on  to  Enos,  Jarom,  Omni,  Ama- 
ron,  Chemish,  Abinadom,  Amaleki, 
and  Mosiah  to  Benjamin,  the  next 
prophet  leader  we  shall  discuss. 

Benjamin 

King  Benjamin,  about  130  B.C., 
was  a  ruler  who  assiduously  worked 
for  the  welfare  of  his  people.  Near 
the  close  of  his  life,  he  built  a  large 
tower  from  which  he  instructed  the 
people  concerning  doctrines  of  the 
gospel  and  concerning  their  self- 
improvement,  and  announced  that 
his  son  Mosiah  would  succeed  him. 
He  will  be  long  remembered  for  his 
comment  that  ".  .  .  when  ye  are  in 
the  service  of  your  fellow  beings  ye 
are  only  in  the  service  of  your  God" 
(Mosiah  2:17).  We  also  remem- 
ber him  for  his  instructions  concern- 


ing the  atonement  of  Christ.  He 
also  taught  the  people  that  man  is 
not  naturally  good,  but  that: 

.  .  .  the  natural  man  is  an  enemy  to 
God,  and  has  been  from  the  fall  of  Adam, 
and  will  be  .  .  .  unless  he  yields  to  the 
enticings  of  the  Holy  Spirit,  and  putteth 
off  the  natural  man  and  becometh  a  saint 
through  the  atonement  of  Christ  the 
Lord,  and  becometh  as  a  child,  submis- 
sive, meek,  humble,  patient,  full  of  love, 
willing  to  submit  to  all  things  which  the 
Lord  seeth  fit  to  inflict  upon  him,  even 
as  a  child  doth  submit  to  his  father  (Mo- 
siah   3:19). 

He  also  stressed  the  fact  that  Jesus 
Christ  would  come  in  the  future 
and  visit  the  people.  The  people 
made  a  covenant  with  God  to  keep 
his  commandments  and  took  upon 
them  the  name  of  Christ. 

King  Mosiah 

King  Mosiah,  son  of  Benjamin, 
founded  democracy  among  the  Ne- 
phites  when  his  four  sons  refused 
to  be  king,  making,  so  far  as  we 
know,  the  Nephite  civilization  the 
cradle  of  democracy  in  America. 
He  gave  laws  to  the  people  and  in- 
structed them  concerning  the  man- 
ner of  electing  their  judges,  concern- 
ing their  money,  and  concerning 
their  duties  to  one  another.  He 
began  to  reign  when  he  was  thirty 
(Mosiah    7:4),   in   about    124   b.c. 

In  setting  up  the  reign  of  the 
Judges  over  the  Nephite  people, 
Mosiah  advised  them: 

Now  it  is  not  common  that  the  voice 
of  the  people  dcsircth  anything  contrary 
to  that  which  is  right;  but  it  is  connnon 
for  the  lesser  part  of  the  people  to  de- 
sire that  which  is  not  right;  therefore  this 
shall  ye  observe  and  make  it  your  law — 
to  do  your  business  by  the  voice  of  the 
people. 

And  if  the  time  comes  that  the  voice 
of  the  people  doth   choose  iniquity,  then 


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is  the  time  that  the  judgments  of  God 
will  come  upon  you;  yea,  then  is  the  time 
he  will  visit  you  with  great  destruction 
even  as  he  has  hitherto  visited  this  land. 

And  now  I  desire  that  this  inequality 
should  be  no  more  in  this  land,  especially 
among  this  my  people;  but  I  desire  that 
this  land  be  a  land  of  liberty,  and  every 
man  may  enjoy  his  rights  and  privileges 
alike,  so  long  as  the  Lord  sees  fit  that 
we  may  live  and  inherit  the  land,  yea, 
even  as  long  as  any  of  our  posterity  re- 
mains upon  the  face  of  the  land  (Mosiah 
29:26-27,  32). 

It  was  during  Mosiah's  reign  that 
his  four  sons  went  to  preach  to  the 
Lamanites. 

Alma  the  Younger 

After  the  death  of  King  Mosiah, 
Ahiia,  the  younger,  was  appointed 
to  be  the  first  chief  judge  of  the 
Nephites.  At  the  same  time  he  was 
the  high  priest  having  had  the  of- 
fice conferred  upon  him  by  his  fa- 
ther Alma,  and  thus  he  was  in 
charge  of  the  religious  welfare  of 
the  people.  (See  Mosiah  29:42.) 

Alma,  who  in  his  youth  had  been 
wicked  and,  with  the  sons  of  Mo- 
siah, had  sought  to  destroy  the 
Church,  developed  into  one  of  the 
greatest  characters  in  Book  of  Mor- 
mon history.  He  was,  after  his  con- 
version, a  great  preacher  of  right- 
eousness and  a  doctrinal  teacher 
and  one  of  the  greatest  missionaries 
in  Book  of  Mormon  history.  He 
built  up  churches  in  and  around 
Zarahemla,  teaching  the  people  of 
Jesus  Christ  and  that  he  would  be 
born  of  Mary,  the  Son  of  God  in 
the  flesh.  (See  Alma  7:10.)  He  en- 
couraged the  people  to  have  faith, 
and  hope,  and  charity— the  three 
cardinal  virtues  of  Christianity. 
With  Amulek  he  performed  a  great 
missionary  work.     Later,  with  two 


of  his  sons,  he  performed  an  illustri- 
ous missionary  service  among  the 
Zoramites. 

Grieving  over  the  wickedness  of 
his  people,  he  called  his  three  sons 
and  gave  '\  .  .  unto  them  every  one 
his  charge,  separately,  concerning 
the  things  pertaining  unto  righteous- 
ness .  .  ."  (Alma  35:16).  His  in- 
structions contain  great  doctrinal 
dissertations.  His  commandments 
to  his  sons  concern  taking  care  of 
sacred  things,  to  look  to  God  and 
live,  to  declare  the  word  among  the 
people,  the  sin  of  adultery,  on  the 
resurrection,  and  the  state  of  the 
soul  between  death  and  the  resur- 
rection, a  literal  restoration,  on  just- 
ice and  mercy,  mortality  a  period 
of  probation,  spiritual  and  temporal 
death,  and  the  necessity  of  repent- 
ance, the  atonement,  and  law,  and 
punishment.  (See  Alma  chapters 
36-42.)  He  urged  his  son  Corian- 
ton: 

...  let  the  justice  of  God,  and  his 
mercy,  and  his  long-suffering  ha\e  full 
sway  in  your  heart;  and  let  it  bring  you 
down    to    the    dust    in    humihty    (Alma 

42:30). 

Nepiii  the  Disciple 

Nephi,  son  of  Nephi,  son  of  Hela- 
man,  son  of  Helaman,  son  of  Alma, 
had  the  privilege  of  seeing  the 
prophecies  of  Samuel  the  Lamanite 
concerning  the  signs  of  the  Savior's 
birth  and  death  literally  fulfilled. 
Subsequently,  he  was  called  from 
the  multitude  by  Jesus  and  given 
power  to  baptize  the  people  after 
the  departure  of  Jesus  (3  Nephi 
11:21).  He  was  in  the  group  that 
heard  the  Father  introduce  his  Son, 
Jesus,  to  the  Nephites,  and  knew  of 
a  surety  concerning  the  divinity  of 
Christ.    He  became  a  member  of  a 


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group  of  twelve  called  by  the  Savior 
to  supervise  the  work  of  the  Church 
in  the  meridian  dispensation  among 
the  Nephites. 

Mormon 

Mormon,  the  next  great  character 
whom  we  shall  consider,  gave  his 
name  to  The  Book  of  Mormon.  He 
took  the  plates  from  the  Hill  Shim 
as  he  had  been  instructed  to  do  by 
Ammaron,  who  had  placed  them 
there  about  320  a.d.  Mormon,  as 
we  studied  in  a  previous  lesson  was 
a  great  spiritual  leader  and  a  com- 
mander in  chief  of  Nephite  forces, 
who  witnessed  the  almost  complete 
destruction  of  the  Nephites.  He 
was  also  a  great  scholar,  an  histor- 
ian, who  made  the  set  of  records  on 
which  he  wrote  the  abridgment  of 
the  large  plates  of  Nephi  and  to 
which  he  attached  the  small  plates 
of  Nephi. 

Moroni 

Moroni,  the  son  of  Mormon,  fin- 
ished his  father's  book  in  the  rec- 
ord, abridged  the  twenty-four  gold 
plates  giving  the  history  of  the 
Jaredite    civilization,    and    wrote    a 


book  of  his  own  on  his  father's 
plates,  called  the  Book  of  Moroni. 
Moroni  lived  to  see  the  complete 
destruction  of  the  Nephites  because 
of  wickedness,  and  remained  a  lone 
survivor  of  a  once  righteous,  power- 
ful, and  blessed  people. 

Living  with  these  men  who  mark 
milestones  of  progress  in  the  history 
of  the  two  great  civilizations  that 
flourished  in  America  from  about 
the  time  of  the  Tower  of  Babel  to 
about  421  A.D.,  we  have  come  to 
understand  what  true  greatness  is, 
that  it  is  to  be  found  in  the  love  of 
God  and  service  to  one's  fellow 
men. 

Questions  on  the  Lesson 

1.  Explain  how  a  study  of  a  great  man 
gives  us  an  understanding  of  the  history 
of  a  period. 

2.  What  ^^'ere  the  chief  characteristics 
of  Nephi? 

3.  Show  how  powerful  the  doctrine  of 
repentance  is  by  an  explanation  of  the 
early  life  and  repentance  of  Alma. 

4.  What  kind  of  testimony  concerning 
Jesus  Christ  did  Alma  and  Nephi  have? 

5.  What  was  Mormon's  great  contribu- 
tion to  The  Book  of  Mormon,  besides 
his  own  historical  account? 

6.  What  was  Moroni's  great  contribu- 
tion? 


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Eva  WiUes  Wangsgaard 

"These  flakes  resembling  velvet  stars,"  she  said, 
"Are  clever  camouflage  to  hide  our  jail." 
I  sat  in  silence,  for  my  thoughts  had  fled. 
Riding  a  snowflake  down  a  time-hid  trail. 
Where  children,  pulled  by  cords  of  school  or  home 
Climbed  drifts  as  high  as  hillocks.  Twinkly  bright 
Were  eyes  that  loved  the  bout  with  brittle  foam 
Which  topped  the  waves  of  frozen  crested  white. 
Now  hills  were  growing  whiter  steadily 
Where  sumac  lately  brewed  a  rich  maroon, 
But  being  snowbound  waked  no  dread  in  me. 
The  years  ran  back  to  meet  my  life's  high-noon. 
The  storm  would  hold  us  prisoners  on  the  hill. 
But  joy  is  always  free  to  roam  at  will. 


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Lesson  A7-"kr\6  What  Is  It  That  Ye  Shall  Hope  For?     Behold  I  Say  Unto 

You  That  Ye  Shall  Have  Hope  Through  the  Atonement  of  Christ  and 

the  Power  of  His  Resurrection,  to  Be  Raised   Unto  Life  Eternal, 

and  This  Because  of  Your  Faith  in  Him  According  to  the 

Promise"  (Moroni  7:41). 

Leone  O.  Jacobs 

For  Tuesday,  April  2,  1957 
Objective:  To  show  that  faith  in  Jesus  Christ  is  the  key  to  eternal  life. 


ALL  of  our  lives  we  should  be 
working  toward  one  goal— that 
of  achieving  eternal  life.  The  hope 
we  have  of  achieving  that  goal  helps 
us  to  meet  the  problems  and  ad- 
versities that  beset  us  in  mortality. 
That  hope  gives  comfort  in  our  sor- 
rows and  courage  to  continue  on- 
ward without  ever  losing  sight  of 
the  destination. 

As  has  been  said,  ''faith  is  the 
moving  cause  of  all  action"  (Lec- 
tures on  Faithy  page  8),  and  faith 
in  Christ  is  the  power  by  which  we 
may  reach  this  goal  of  eternal  life. 
Mormon  says,  'Tor  no  man  can  be 
saved,  according  to  the  words  of 
Christ,  save  they  shall  have  faith 
in  his  name  .  .  ."  (Moroni  7:38). 

Faith  is  a  mighty  force,  and  its 
possibilities  are  unlimited.  Faith 
requires  a  positive  attitude  of  mind. 
Doubt  and  fear  flee  from  its  pres- 
ence. When  wc  comply  with  the 
necessary  requirements,  we  can  gain 
perfect  faith  in  the  atonement  of 
Christ  and  in  his  resurrection. 


Many  passages  of  scripture  point 
out  the  great  power  of  faith. 
"...  If  ye  have  faith  as  a  grain  of 
mustard  seed  .  .  .  nothing  shall  be 
impossible  unto  you."  (Mt.  17:20). 
"...  According  to  your  faith  be 
it  unto  you"  (Mt.  9-29). 
"...  Daughter,  thy  faith  hath  made 
thee  whole  .  .  ."  (Mark  5:34),  said 
Christ  to  the  woman  who  touched 
the  hem  of  his  garment.  "I  can 
do  all  things  through  Christ  which 
strengthen  me"  (Phillipians  4:13). 
"And  Christ  hath  said:  If  ye  will 
have  faith  in  me  ye  shall  have 
power  to  do  whatsoever  thing  is  ex- 
pedient in  me"  (Moroni  7:33). 

It  is  by  faith  that  one  accepts  the 
words  of  Christ.  It  is  through  faith 
in  Christ  ".  .  .  that  the  Holy  Ghost 
may  have  place  .  .  ."  (Moroni  7:32) 
in  our  hearts.  Thus,  if  faith  in 
Jesus  Christ  is  the  principle  that 
can  bring  us  eternal  life,  let  us  read 
and  study  and  work  to  attain  it. 


.  .  .  From  a  child  thou  hast  known  the  holy  scriptures,  which  are  able  to  make 
thee  wise  unto  salvation  through  faith  which  is  in  Christ  Jesus,  All  scripture  is  given 
by  inspiration  of  God,  and  is  profitable  for  doctrine,  for  reproof,  for  correction,  for  in- 
struction in  righteousness:  That  the  man  of  God  may  be  perfect  .  .  .  unto  all  good 
works   (II  Timothy  3:15-16). 

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V(/orR    1 1  ieetifig — Food  Preparation  and  S 


ervice 


(A  Course  Recommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 

Lesson  7— Beverages 
Rhea  H.  Gardner 

For  Tuesday,  April  9,  1957 


CINCE  some  kind  of  beverage  is 
a  part  of  every  meal,  it  is  im- 
portant that  it  be  chosen  with  the 
same  care  as  all  other  parts  of  the 
menu. 

For  many,  good  cold  water  or  milk 
is  sufficient  as  a  meal  beverage. 
Since  milk  is  high  in  food  value,  it 
is  more  than  a  thirst  quencher. 
Milk  drinks  are  a  nourishing  food 
for  people  of  all  ages;  in  fact,  milk 
is  about  the  first  and  last  food  and 
beverage  man  enjoys. 

There  is  a  wide  variety  of  milk 
drinks.  Eggnogs  are  especially  good. 
They  are  more  appealing  to  the  eye 
and  to  the  taste  when  the  egg  whites 
and  yolks  are  beaten  separately. 

Chocolate  and  cocoa  are  both 
made  from  the  cocoa  bean.  Their 
difference  is  in  the  fat  content. 
Chocolate  is  about  fifty  per  cent  fat, 
while  cocoa  contains  only  about 
twenty-two  per  cent  fat.  Conse- 
quently, chocolate  is  much  richer. 
Cocoa  is  considered  better  adapted 
for  children  or  people  with  diges- 
tions that  are  easily  upset. 

When  cocoa  or  chocolate  is  used 
frequently  for  beverages,  it  is  con- 
venient and  time-saving  to  make  a 
quantity  of  cocoa  paste  or  sirup 
which  can  be  mixed  quickly  with 
the  milk  as  needed. 

Lemonade  and  orangeade  are 
favorites  in  the  increasingly  long  list 
of  fruit  beverages  we  may  choose 

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from  today.  Use  only  enough  sugar 
to  accent  the  natural  fruit  flavor. 

Sugar  can  be  added  directly  to  the 
juice  and  water  or  it  may  be  made 
into  a  sirup,  cooled,  then  added. 
The  latter  method  is  recommended. 
The  precooked  sirup  seems  to  im- 
prove the  drinking  quality  of  the 
beverage  to  which  it  is  added;  it 
also  saves  time  and  saves  sugar,  since 
it  is  not  uncommon  to  find  undis- 
solved sugar  in  the  bottom  of  pitch- 
ers when  sugar  is  added  directly  to 
the  drink. 

Most  fruit  punch  requires  the  use 
of  some  citrus  juices,  especially  lem- 
on juice.  The  practice  of  taking 
lemons  out  of  the  refrigerator,  cut- 
ting them  in  half,  squeezing  them, 
and  throwing  the  rest  away  is  waste- 
ful. If  you  will  let  the  lemons  stand 
in  warm  water  before  squeezing 
them,  you  will  be  able  to  extract 
much  more  juice.  Then,  if  you  will 
boil  the  rind  with  the  sugar  sirup, 
the  rind  of  two  lemons  for  each  cup 
of  sugar,  you  will  have  a  drink  that 
is  much  richer  in  flavor. 

Fruit  punch  need  not  be  expen- 
sive, if  you  plan  ahead  for  it. 
Rhubarb  juice  makes  a  delicious 
base  for  a  fruit  drink.  Prepare  it  in 
much  the  same  way  as  you  do 
tomatoes  for  juicing.  Pour  the  hot, 
strained,  slightly  sweetened  juice  in- 
to fruit  jars  and  process  in  a  hot 
water  bath.  (See  instruction  books 
for  processing  time  in  your  area.) 


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In  areas  where  apricots  are  in 
abundance,  one  is  often  able  to  get 
small  ones  for  a  nominal  cost.  Apri- 
cot puree  makes  a  delicious  base  for 
fruit  drinks.  Juice  from  currants, 
pie  cherries,  certain  kinds  of  wild 
berries,  grapes,  some  plums,  and 
cranberry  juice  are  also  delicious. 

Watch  the  market  for  specials  on 
canned  fruit  juices  so  you  will 
always  have  a  variety  on  hand. 

For  very  clear  ice  cubes  for  your 
fruit  drinks,  use  boiled  water.  Here 
are  a  few  suggestions  for  fancy  ice 
cubes:  (i)  Add  a  little  green  color- 
ing to  the  water  before  freezing  it 
into  cubes  for  an  especially  cool 
looking  efifect.  Avoid  overuse  of 
the  coloring.  (2)  Freeze  curls  of 
lemon  or  orange  peel,  maraschino 
cherries  with  stems  intact,  or  sprigs 


of  mint  in  the  ice  cubes.  (3)  Freeze 
leftover  drinks  in  the  ice  cube  trays 
to  serve  in  fruit  beverages. 

The  appearance  of  a  fruit  drink 
on  a  hot  day  cannot  be  overesti- 
mated. Cool  drinks  will  look 
especially  refreshing  if  you  frost  the 
rims  of  the  glasses.  Put  some  lemon 
juice  into  a  saucer  about  one-fourth 
inch  deep.  Sift  some  powdered 
sugar  into  a  plate  about  one-fourth 
inch  deep.  Stand  each  glass,  in- 
verted, in  the  lemon  juice  about  a 
minute.  Lift  it  out  of  the  juice 
then  let  it  stand,  inverted,  in  the 
powdered  sugar  for  a  minute.  Now 
lift  carefully  out  of  the  sugar  so  as 
not  to  jar  the  sugar  coating  which 
has  formed  on  the  rim.  Stand  right 
side  up  in  the  refrigerator  until  set. 
Then  carefully  fill  with  your  drink. 


Note:  "Recipes  for  Beverages,"  by  Rhea  H.  Gardner,  page  46,  in  this  issue  of 
the  Magazine. 

JLiterature — Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Lesson  7—"fK  Midsummer  Night's  Dream" 

YAdti  Briant  S.  Jacobs 

(Textbook:  Shakespeare  Major  Phvs  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948) 

For  Tuesday,  April  16,  1957 

Objective:  To  show  that  in  A  Midsummer  Night's  Dream,  Shakespeare  touches 
our  lives  through  fantasy  and  poetry — through  qualities  we  all  approve,  such  as  love, 
delight,  joy,  and  humor. 

The  poet's  eye,  in  a  fine  frenzy  rolling. 

Doth  glance  from  heaven  to  earth,  from  earth  to  heaven, 

And  as  imagination  bodies  forth 

The  forms  of  things  unknown,  the  poet's  pen 

Turns  them  to  shapes,  and  gi\es  to  airy  nothing 

A  local  habitation  and  a  name. 

A  Midsummer  Night's  Dream,  V.  1.  12-17 

TF  ever  a  literature  lesson  deserves      moon,   it  is  this  one.     For  literal- 

to    be   presented    in    the   warm,      minded  persons  this  play  may  seem 

bright  silence  of  an  April  midnight     a  filmy  triviality  without  substance, 


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direction,  or  indeed  without  any 
justification  for  existing.  The  prac- 
tical persons  who  prize  as  real  only 
that  which  can  be  pinched  or  priced 
or  preserved,  will  find  this  play  to 
be  ''airy  nothingness''  incarnate.  But 
for  the  rest  of  us,  this  plunge  into 
the  unplumbed  vistas  of  the  imagi- 
native world  yields  an  ecstasy  and  a 
delight  rivaled  in  Shakespeare  only 
by  passages  from  Romeo  and  Juliet 
and  The  Tempest. 

The  more  thoroughly  we  saturate 
ourselves  in  this  play-poem  on  love, 
the  more  we  realize  that  only  young 
Shakespeare  could  have  produced  it. 
Actually,  it  was  written  during  1594 
or  1595  in  the  poet's  thirtieth  year. 
Obviously  written  to  commemorate 
some  wedding  or  marriage-feast,  it  is 
filled  with  its  own  theme  of  the 
goodness  and  gaiety  of  mortal  love. 

Surely  one  of  Shakespeare's  ap- 
peals is  that  he  knows  love  to  be 
without  limitation  or  station:  every- 
one from  the  highest  to  the  lowest 
loves,  yet  each  in  his  own  way. 
Therefore,  he  depicts  love  in  many 
forms,  including  the  stately,  digni- 
fied relationship  between  Duke 
Theseus  and  Queen  Hippolyta;  the 
foolish  jealousies,  quick-tempered 
exchanges,  and  ethereal  ecstasies  of 
the  fairies  Oberon  and  Titania,  a 
love  so  touchy  and  unreasoning  as 
to  be  entirely  mortal;  the  impulsive, 
confusing  young  loves  of  Lysander 
and  Hermia,  Demetrius  and  Helena; 
the  uncultivated,  serious  Bottom 
who,  in  his  constant  yet  unspectac- 
ular sanity,  refuses  to  be  swept  off 
his  feet  by  the  most  skilled  love- 
techniques  of  Queen  Titania's  magic 
words.  Thus  love  in  its  various 
aspects  and  extremes  provides  the 
sole  subject  of  the  play. 


PJot 

Theseus,  Duke  of  Athens,  and 
Hippolyta,  Queen  of  the  Amazons, 
are  soon  to  be  married.  On  their 
wedding  day  the  fate  of  young, 
headstrong  Hermia  is  to  be  decided. 
She  loves  Lysander,  but  her  father 
wants  her  to  marry  another  suitor  of 
his  choice  named  Demetrius.  It  is 
decreed  that  if  she  refuses  Demet- 
rius, she  must  either  die  or  forswear 
all  contact  with  men  and  become  a 
nun.  Hermia  and  Lysander,  decid- 
ing to  flee  Athens,  agree  to  meet  in 
a  wood  just  outside  the  town.  They 
are  waylaid  by  Demetrius  who  hopes 
to  prevent  his  beloved  Hermia's 
escape,  and  Helena,  who  loves  him. 

In  the  same  wood  we  are  intro- 
duced to  the  fairies.  Queen  Titania 
and  King  Oberon  have  quarreled 
over  a  beautiful,  dark-skinned  boy 
who  has  been  stolen  by  the  fairies 
from  an  East  Indian  King.  (This 
was  a  common  practice  among 
fairies  who  would  leave  a  less  at- 
tractive child  in  place  of  the  one 
stolen.)  Jealous  Oberon  wants  the 
child  as  his  attendant,  but  Titania 
will  not  yield  him,  since  she  claims 
him  as  her  own.  Resolving  to  tor- 
ment her  for  this  injury,  Oberon 
sends  Puck  halfway  around  the  world 
to  pluck  a  little  western  flower  which 
Cupid  once  shot  with  his  fiery  shaft. 
The  juice  from  this  flower,  laid  on 
sleeping  eyelids,  will  make  the  per- 
son dote  upon  the  next  living  crea- 
ture he  sees.  Oberon  intends  to 
watch  Titania  when  she  is  asleep 
and  drop  the  potion  in  her  eyes  so: 

The   next    thing    then    she   waking   looks 

upon, 
Be  it  on  lion,  bear,  or  wolf,  or  bull, 
On  meddling  monkey,  or  on  busy  ape, 
She  shall  pursue  it  with  the  soul  of  love. 

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Oberon  also  intends  to  help 
Helena  in  her  love  pursuit  of  De- 
metrius, but  Puck,  by  mistake,  puts 
the  potion  into  Lysander's  eyes  rath- 
er than  in  Demetrius'  with  resulting 
confusion  and  mix-up  among  the 
four  young  lovers.  The  third  plot 
within  the  play  also  reaches  its  cli- 
max in  these  same  woods.  Rustic 
bully  Bottom  and  his  fellow  con- 
struction workers  come  to  the  woods 
to  practice  a  play  with  which  to 
entertain  the  royal  wedding  party 
for  Theseus  and  the  Amazon  Queen 
Hippolyta.  Puck  places  an  ass's 
head  on  Bottom,  which  frightens 
off  his  superstitious  comrades.  Still 
influenced  by  the  love  potion,  Ti- 
tania  awakens  to  see  Bottom,  and  is 
immediately  enamored  of  him. 
Thus,  at  the  beginning  of  Act  IV, 
Scene  i,  Titania  is  making  love  to 
Bottom.  While  she  suffers  from 
her  romantic  over-obsession,  his 
is  a  true  common-sense  response. 
She  offers  him  new  nuts;  but 
he  asks  only  for  good  dry  oats 
and  a  bundle  of  hay.  Titania  wants 
to  caress  his  cheeks  and  place  flow- 
ers in  his  hair;  instead,  practical 
Bottom  asks  for  a  fairy  to  scratch 
his  head.  Titania  offers  him  fairy 
music,  and  he  asks  for  tongs  (an 
instrument  resembling  a  triangle  for 
making  rustic  music)  and  bones  (to 
be  held  between  the  fingers  and 
used  as  clappers).  Finally  the  two 
fall  asleep  and  Oberon  enters,  ready 
to  forgive  and  ''undo  this  hateful 
imperfection  of  her  [Titania's]  eyes." 
Meanwhile,  the  four  sleeping  lovers 
awaken  soon  after  Puck  anointed 
them  once  more  with  his  magic  po- 
tion. Now  Demetrius  recognizes 
Helena  as  his  true  love,  and  Ly- 
sander   and   Hermia  are   re-united. 


Bottom  awakes  to  wonder  what  has 
become  of  his  comrades.  He  is 
sorely  perplexed  by  his  startling 
dream,  one  which  "the  eye  of  man 
hath  not  heard,  the  ear  of  man  hath 
not  seen,  man's  hand  is  not  able  to 
taste,  his  tongue  to  conceive,  nor 
his  heart  to  report,  what  my  dream 
was.  I  will  get  Peter  Quince  to 
write  a  ballad  of  this  dream.  It  shall 
be  called  Bottom's  Dream,  because 
it  hath  no  bottom."  IV,  i.  216. 

In  Act  V  all  join  in  the  nuptial 
celebration  of  Theseus,  Hippolyta, 
and  the  four  lovers.  Bottom  and  his 
friends  perform  their  play  as  part 
of  the  entertainment  and  the  fairies 
pronounce  blessings  and  good  for- 
tune on  all  of  the  newlv  wedded 
couples.    And  in  the  words  of  Puck: 

Jack  shall  have  Jill, 
Nought  shall  go  ill, 

The  man  shall  ha\'e  his  mare  again,  and 
all  shall  be  well. 

III. 2.  461-463 

Delight  and  Satire 
As  long  as  people  have  been  human 
they  have  liked  to  be  fooled  by  that 
which  fools  them  most  completely. 
This  is  beautifully  accomplished  in 
A  Midsummer  Night's  Dream.  After 
reading  the  play  one  feels  that 
Shakespeare  created  it  to  embody 
the  sheer  joy  which  radiates  to  all 
sympathetic  souls  who  choose  to 
remain  within  the  charmed  circle 
of  love  and  marriage.  Without  this 
play  to  give  these  emotions  a  body 
and  make  them  more  nearly  tangi- 
ble, such  emotions  could  only  have 
hovered  about  like  some  ethereal 
ghosts.  As  it  is,  the  play  relays  their 
charms  to  all  who  care  to  attend. 
And  as  the  play  progresses,  we  feel 
from    Shakespeare's    merry    words, 


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puns,  scenic  fantasies,  and  rich,  po- 
etic passages,  his  own  winkings  of 
deUght  at  having  given  his  audience 
such  provocation  for  rehving  once 
more  the  joys  and  beauty  of  mortal- 
ity's greatest  universal  experience: 
true,  pure  love. 

Even  though,  in  one  sense,  this 
play  is  a  sweet  hymn  to  beautiful 
love,  Shakespeare  is  nonetheless  wise 
enough  to  remember  that  ''The 
course  of  true  love  never  did  run 
smooth"  (I,i)  and,  as  Puck  sees 
the  senseless  antics  of  people  in  love, 
he  speaks  perhaps  his  most  famous 
line,  "what  fools  these  mortals  be!" 
(111,2).  Shakespeare  also  knew  well 
the  pompous  dangers  which  come 
to  those  who  take  themselves  too 
seriously.  After  detailing  perfect, 
lyrical  love  in  Romeo  and  Juliet, 
Shakespeare  satirizes  it  quite  point- 
edly in  this  play,  particularly  in  the 
delightfully  grotesque  play  presented 
in  deep  seriousness  and  dedication 
by  Bottom  and  his  rough  friends. 

Shakespeare  also  satirizes  the 
rustic  drama  itself.  In  his  own  day 
groups  of  artisans  were  forming  dra- 
matic clubs,  and  instead  of  follow- 
ing the  religious  form  of  the  true 
rustic  drama,  these  amateurs  began 
to  perform  romantic  plays,  while 
still  using  the  rigid  techniques  of 
the  old  dramas.  In  A  Midsummer 
Night's  Dream,  Shakespeare  laughs 
at  the  carpenters,  tinkers,  and  bel- 
lows-menders who  have  turned  ac- 
tors and  who,  in  presenting  their 
play  The  Most  Lamentable  Com- 
edy, and  Most  Cruel  Death  of 
Pyramus  and  Thishy,  make  even  the 
scenery  and  stage  setting  into  actors' 
parts  as  actors  become  WaJJ  and 
Moonshine.  (If  time  permits  read 
aloud  Act  III,  Sc.i.  59-72.) 


The  fairies,  particularly  Puck, 
play  an  important  part  in  the  plot. 
It  could  be  real  fun  to  characterize 
Puck  to  your  group.  Shakespeare 
casts  him  in  the  role  of  fool  or 
clown  to  Oberon,  King  of  the 
Fairies,  but  he  is  really  Robin-Good- 
fellow,  a  household  spirit  of  ancient 
folklore.  It  is  he  who  frightens 
maidens  of  the  village,  who  skims 
the  milk  off  its  cream  so  that  the 
butter  won't  churn,  takes  the  yeast 
out  of  the  beer,  misleads  the  night- 
wanderers;  assumes  the  likeness  of 
a  crab  apple  in  the  drink  that  ma- 
trons enjoy  while  gossiping  about 
the  bubbling  kettle,  and  bobs  sharp- 
ly against  their  lips  so  the  shock 
causes  them  to  spill  their  ale  down 
their  own  necks;  assumes  the  like- 
ness of  a  stool  so  that  when  an  old 
woman  goes  to  sit  on  him,  he  disap- 
pears and  she  topples  down.  (Act 
II.  Sc.  1.) 

The  standard  stock  in  trade  of 
our  present-day  tin-pan  alley  which 
produces  its  constant  stream  of  pop- 
ular songs  is  to  be  found  in  the  well- 
worn  rhyming  words  ''moon,  June, 
tune,  croon,  swoon,  spoon."  Shake- 
speare's materials  are  the  same,  yet 
he  avoids  the  ruts  which  make  our 
average  romantic  love  songs  so 
trivial.  The  setting  of  the  play 
stresses  the  role  of  the  moon,  some- 
times full  and  warm,  sometimes 
lofty  and  cold  (when  the  lovers  are 
quarreling  beneath  it).  We  do  not 
wonder  at  Shakespeare's  creating  a 
phantasy,  but  that  such  a  phantasy 
could  ever  attain  any  sense  of  reality 
at  all.  We  are  forced  to  agree  with 
Addison,  that  if  there  could  be 
places  and  people  like  these,  cer- 
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act  exactly  as  they  do.     Or  as  Dry- 
den  says: 

But  Shakespeare's  magic  could  not  copied 

be; 
Within  that  circle  none  durst  walk  but  he. 
The  Tempest,  Prologue 

A  small  part  of  Shakespeare's  de- 
light appears  in  Bottom's  and  Peter 
Quince's  misuse  of  words  which 
sound  similar,  but  which  have  vast- 
ly different  meanings:  ''Thou  art 
translated/'  for  'Thou  are  trans- 
formed"; "I  will  condole  in  some 
measure,"  for  "I  will  lament";  "You 
were  best  to  call  them  generally," 
for  "You  were  best  to  call  them  sev- 
erally"; and  "Ninny's  Tomb"  for 
"Ninus'  Tomb,"  etc. 

Shakespeare  appeals  to  us  again 
by  exploiting  our  normal  delight  to 
be  found  in  that  which  is  small  and 
miniature,  and,  also,  in  the  nearness 
of  nature.  These  are  best  given  us 
by  Titania  and  her  fairies: 

Come,  no\\'  a  roundel  and  a  fairy  song. 
Then,    for    the    third    part    of    a    minute, 

hence — 
Some  to  kill  cankers  in  the  musk-rose  buds, 
Some  war  with  rere-mice   [bats]   for  their 

leathern  \\ings, 
To  make  my  small  elves  coats,  and  some 

keep  back 
The  clamorous  owl  that  nightly  hoots  and 

wonders 
At   our   quaint   spirits    [sports].      Sing   we 

now  asleep. 
Then  to  your  offices,  and  let  me  rest. 

Song 

You  spotted  snakes  with  double  tongue, 

Thorny  hedgehogs,  be  not  seen. 
Nev^'ts  and  blindworms,  do  no  wrong, 

Come  not  near  our  fairy  Queen. 
Philomel,  with  melody 
Sing  in  our  sweet  lullaby; 

Lulla,   lulla,   lullaby,   lulla,  lulla,  lullaby. 
Never  harm,  nor  spell,  nor  charm, 
Come  our  lovely  lady  nigh; 

So,  good  night,  with   lullaby. 

II. 2.  1-19 


To  the  fairies,  nature  is  an  inti- 
mate part  of  them,  and  the  rough 
elements  in  the  first  of  their  song 
accent  the  beauty  and  softness  of 
the  chorus  lullaby. 

Best  in  A  Midsummer  Night's 
Dream  is  the  sheer  poetry  which 
releases  Shakespeare's  serene  joy  and 
sense  of  beauty.  Such  a  passage  as 
the  following  is  filled  with  the  sing- 
ing beauty  of  true  poetry. 

King    Oberon:    My    gentle    Puck,    come 
hither.     Thou  rememberest 
Since  once  I  sat  upon  a  promontory 
And  heard  a  mermaid,   on  a  dolphin's 

back. 
Uttering    such    dulcet   and    harmonious 

breath 
That  the  rude  sea  grew  ci\il  at  her  song. 
And  certain  stars  shot  madly  from  their 

spheres 
To  hear  the  seamaid's  music. 

II. 1.  148-154 

To  be  at  their  best  such  passages 
must  be  read  aloud;  only  then  does 
their  beauty  penetrate  to  be  heard 
by  the  inner  ear  and  eye. 

The  intent  in  discussing  this,  as 
in  succeeding  plays,  will  be  not  to 
present  all  the  details  of  the  plot, 
but  to  develop  intensively  one  or 
two  central  scenes.  However,  indi- 
\idual  passages  throughout  the  play 
that  are  particularly  beautiful  and 
Ivrical  could  well  be  read.  For  ex- 
ample: 

I  know  a  bank  whereon  the  wild  thyme 
blows, 

WHiere  oxlips  and  the  nodding  \iolet  grows; 

Quite  overcanopied  with  luscious  wood- 
bine, 

\\'ith  sweet  musk  rose,  and  with  eglantine. 

There  sleeps  Titania  sometime  of  the 
night, 

Lulled  in  these  flowers  with  dances  and 
delight. 


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And  there  the  snake  throws  her  enameled 

skin, 
Weed  wide  enough  to  wrap  a  fairy  in. 

Act  II,  1.  249-256 

Re-read  this  passage  to  class  mem- 
bers until  they  get  the  picture  of 
Titania,  Queen  of  the  fairies,  lying 
on  the  bank  of  a  stream.  I'here 
the  snake  sloughs  off  her  enamel- 
like skin  which  is  wide  enough  to 
serve  as  a  garment  to  wrap  Titania 
in,  as  she  lies  there  surrounded  with 
primroses  and  sweetbriar,  canopied 
over  with  honevsucklc,  lulled  to 
sleep  by  her  fairies'  delightful  music 
and  dances. 

You  might  briefly  lay  the  setting 
for  Act  IV,  Scene  I,  and  then  read 
this  scene  slowly  and  carefully  to 
your  group.  I'his  scene  has  been 
chosen  because  all  of  the  major 
characters  appear,  and  because  all 
the  three  plots  are  unraveled  in  it. 
Notice  that  Shakespeare  has  his  dif- 
ferent characters  speak  in  three  dif- 
ferent styles,  all  of  which  appear  in 
this  scene.  Bottom,  as  one  of  the 
rustics,  speaks  in  prose,  which  would 
be  natural  for  a  tradesman.  I'hc 
fairies  speak  in  lyrical  rhyme,  and 
the  dignity  of  Theseus  is  evident  in 
his  lines  spoken  in  blank  verse. 

Scene  1,  Act.  IV,  is  surcharged 
with  great  poetry,  in  addition  to  re- 
solving the  three  plots  within  the 
play.  While  not  a  functioning  part 
of  the  story,  such  passages  as  the  fol- 
lowing speeches  by  Ilippolyta  and 
Theseus  are  rarely  surpassed  in 
Shakespeare's  later  works  for  their 
rich  imagery  and  the  music  of  their 
singing: 

Hip.   I   was  with    Hercules   and   Cadmus 
once 
Wficn  in  a  wood  of  Crete  they  bayed 
the  bc.ir 


With  hounds  of  Sparta.  Never  did  I 
hear 

Such  gallant  chiding;  for,  besides  the 
groves, 

The  skies,  the  fountains,  every  region 
near 

Seemed  all  one  mutual  cry.  I  never 
heard 

So  musical  a  discord,  such  sweet  thun- 
der. 

Thes.    My   hounds   are  bred   out   of  the 

Spartan  kind, 
So   flcwed,  so  sanded;  and   their  heads 

are  hung 
With  ears  that  sweep  away  the  morning 

dew; 
Crook-kneed,  and  dewlapped  like  Thes- 

salian  bulls; 
Slow  in  pursuit,  but  matched  in  mouth 

like  bells, 
Kach  under  each.     A  cry  more  tunable 
Was    never    holloed    to,    nor    cheered 

with  horn. 
In  Crete,  in  Sparta,  nor  in  Thessaly. 
Judge  when  you  hear. 

IV.  1,  116-131 

The  strength  of  A  Midsummer 
Night's  Dream,  therefore,  is  in  hu- 
mor, whimsy,  satire,  wordplay,  but, 
most  of  all,  in  delight,  cheerfulness, 
joy,  and  an  expansive  outpouring  of 
such  lines  rich  in  cadenced  imagery, 
lines  which,  thus  far,  only  Shake- 
speare could  have  written. 

Thoughts  ioi  Discussion 

1.  Which  universal  qualities  of  human 
love  appear  in  the  play? 

2.  Of  which  qualities  or  characters  does 
Shakespeare  appear  to  approve?  Of 
which  does  he  sccui  to  disapprove? 

3.  Why  docs  Titania's  attachment  for 
Bottom  seem  humorous?  Has  it  any  basis 
in  actual  life  as  you  have  seen  or  known 
it? 

4.  Discuss  Shakespeare's  use  of  fantasy 
and  poetry  as  tools  in  this  play  to  achieve 
his  desired  effect. 


Social  Science — Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 

Lesson  6— "Search  Your  Hearts'' 
Eider  John  Fan  Larson 
For  Tuesday,  April  2 ■5,  1957 

Objective:     To  illustrate  the  process  of  perfection  and  the  necessity  of  eliminating 
those  traits  of  character  which  retard  our  quest  for  perfection. 


<'<"DE  ve  therefore  perfect,  even  as 
vour  Father  which  is  in  heav- 
en is  perfect"  (Mt.  5:48).  This 
admonition  of  Jesus,  from  the 
Sermon  on  the  Mount,  was  em- 
braced bv  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 
as  an  attainable  goal  for  all.  z\l- 
though  the  Prophet's  teachings  to 
the  women  co\"ered  a  wide  range 
of  subjects,  the  common  thread 
throughout  was  that  perfection 
might  be  a  reality.  This  and  the 
following  lesson  are  directed  to  each 
member  of  the  Relief  Society  who 
seeks  perfection.  \\'hile  a  listing 
of  the  qualities  of  perfection  would, 
no  doubt,  be  helpful  in  setting  one's 
sights,  the  more  important  factor 
in  progression  is  the  process  bv 
which  we  improve.  It  is  hoped  that 
by  a  discussion  of  some  tmits  con- 
sidered bv  the  Prophet  to  be  either 
desirable  or  undesirable,  we  may 
stimulate  and  promote  personal  im- 
pro\ement  hv  the  process  of  self- 
appraisal  and  prudent  decisions.  A 
careful  review  of  the  Prophet's 
teachings,  followed  by  their  appro- 
priate application  to  life,  will  greatlv 
assist  all  who  seek  the  attributes  of 
godliness. 

\\'ithin  each  of  us  he  potentiali- 
ties for  great  accomplishment. 
Those  traits  of  character  which  de- 
termine whether  we  do  good  or 
evil,  succeed  or  fail,  become  perfect 
or  mediocre,  remain  inacti\e  until 
stimulated  bv  circumstances  or  con- 


ditions. Most  of  them  develop 
quite  unnoticed,  and  without  con- 
scious effort,  within  the  en\'iron- 
ment  supplied  bv  parents,  friends, 
and  life  situations.  A  helpful  prin- 
ciple then,  if  we  are  to  attain  per- 
fection for  ourselves  and  loved  ones, 
is  to  strive  for  and  to  provide 
wholesome,  uplifting  experiences. 
Through  personal  effort  we  can  ap- 
proach perfection,  if  we  cultivate 
the  desirable  and  weed  out  the 
harmful  traits  of  character.  This 
is  the  challenge  of  the  gospel. 

On  April  28,  1842,  little  more 
than  two  vears  before  his  death,  the 
Prophet  told  the  Relief  Society  he 
was  taking  the  opportunity: 

...  to  instruct  the  ladies  of  this  So- 
ciety, and  point  out  the  way  for  them  to 
conduct  themselves,  that  they  might  act 
according  to  the  will  of  God;  that  he  did 
not  know  that  he  ''should  have  many  op- 
portunities of  teaching  them,  as  they  were 
going  to  be  left  to  themselves;  they  would 
not  long  ha\e  him  to  instruct  them;  that 
the  Church  would  not  ha\e  his  instruc- 
tions long;  and  the  world  would  not  be 
troubled  with  him  a  great  while  (D.  H.  C. 
1\',  page  604). 

These  comments  suggest  the  im- 
portance and  urgency  the  Prophet 
himself  attached  to  his  teachings. 

Individucil  Responsibility 

Perfection,  the  Prophet  stressed, 
is  an  indi\idual  matter.  He  suggest- 
ed that  while  the  efforts  of  others 
might  stimulate  us  to  good  works, 

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they  would  not  save  us,  and  although 
we  would  be  blessed  for  our  service 
to  others,  this,  alone,  was  not 
enough.  "The  people  should  each 
one  stand  for  himself,  and  depend 
on  no  man  or  men  ..."  he  said, 
since  "righteous  persons  could  only 
deliver  their  own  souls"  (Ibid.,  V, 
page  19).  The  responsibility  for 
salvation  and  perfection  he  placed 
squarely  upon  each  individual. 

The  Prophet  Joseph  had  said  at 
an  earlier  meeting: 

After  this  instruction,  you  will  be  re- 
sponsible for  your  own  sins;  it  is  a  desir- 
able honor  that  you  should  so  walk  be- 
fore our  heavenly  Father  as  to  save  your- 
selves; we  are  all  responsible  to  God  for 
the  manner  we  improve  the  light  and 
wisdom  given  by  our  Lord  to  enable  us 
to  save  ourselves    [Ihid.,   IV,   page   606). 

As  was  the  case  in  the  Council  in 
Heaven,  there  were  some  early 
members  of  the  Church  who 
thought  the  Prophet  should  compel 
the  souls  of  men.  Often  the  people 
would  tell  the  Prophet  what  he 
should  do,  saying,  "O,  if  I  were 
Brother  Joseph,  I  would  do  this  and 
that,  but,"  said  the  Prophet,  ".  .  .if 
they  were  in  Brother  Joseph's  shoes 
they  would  find  that  men  or  women 
could  not  be  compeJJed  into  the 
kingdom  of  God,  but  must  be  dealt 
with  in  long-suffering,  and  at  last 
we  shall  save  them"  [Ibid.,  V,  page 
24),     (Jtahcs  added.) 

To  serve  the  Lord  is  not  always 
easy,  but  the  Prophet  made  it  clear 
that  we  must  be  resolute  in  seeking 
our  goal.     Said  he: 

All  difficulties  which  might  and  would 
cross  our  way  must  be  surmounted. 
Though  the  soul  be  tried,  the  heart  faint, 
and  the  hands  hang  down,  we  must  not 
retrace  our  steps;  there  must  be  decision 


of  character,  aside  from  sympathy   {Ihid., 
IV,  page  570). 

The  Prophet's  teachings  all  sug- 
gest that  salvation  is  a  continual 
process.  It  is  neither  attained  by 
one  good  deed  nor  is  it  at  any  time 
a  certainty.  Having  received  the 
gospel,  we  must  continue  to  serve 
the  Lord  to  the  best  of  our  ability 
—and,  if  we  forsake  the  truth,  we 
are  in  danger  of  losing  that  which 
we  have  gained.  The  Prophet 
warned  on  one  occasion: 

Though  a  man  should  become  mighty, 
do  great  things,  overturn  mountains,  per- 
form mighty  works,  and  should  then  turn 
from  his  high  station  to  do  evil,  to  eat 
and  drink  with  the  drunken,  all  his  former 
deeds  would  not  save  him,  but  he  would 
go  to  destruction!  {Ihid.,  IV,  page  606). 

In  his  characteristic  way  of  being 
practical  and  specific,  the  Prophet 
pointed  the  way  to  Relief  Society 
members  who  desire  to  become  as 
God  would  have  them.  Just  as  a 
parent  teaches  his  child  black  and 
white,  the  Prophet  taught  the  wom- 
en there  were  good  as  well  as  harm- 
ful qualities;  that  perfection  came 
from  accepting  the  good  and  reject- 
ing the  bad.  He  strongly  urged 
them  to  cultivate  the  commend- 
able, to  keep  the  commandments, 
and  to  search  for  further  light  and 
knowledge.  Inherent  in  the  pur- 
suance of  perfection  is  the  recogni- 
tion of  those  attributes  which  hind- 
er our  progress.  For  this  reason  we 
shall  now  reflect  upon  some 
characteristics  the  Prophet  singled 
out  to  be  shunned.  Those  discussed 
serve  to  illustrate  the  collective  and 
individual  possibility  of  their  exist- 
ence. Women  who  seek  perfection 
will  do  well  to  heed  the  Prophet's 
cautions  as  well  as  his  commenda- 
tions. 


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Self-Righ  teousness 

Time  and  again,  the  Prophet 
warned  against  self-righteousness. 
The  assumption  of  responsibihty 
for  one's  self,  he  suggested,  is  en- 
nobling, while  self -admiration  blinds 
the  view  to  our  own  shortcomings, 
illuminates  the  faults  of  others,  and 
creates  illusions  of  personal  worth. 
The  Prophet  forthrightly  reminded 
that  ''it  is  the  doctrine  of  the  devil 
to  retard  the  human  mind,  and 
hinder  our  progress,  by  filling  us 
with  self-righteousness  ....  The 
devil  flatters  us  that  we  are  very 
righteous,  when  we  are  feeding  on 
the  faults  of  others/'  he  observed 
(Ihid.,  V,  page  24).  He  pointed  up 
the  pitfall  of  self -righteousness 
when  he  said: 

Christ  was  condemned  by  the  self- 
righteous  Jews  because  He  took  sinners 
into  His  society;  He  took  them  upon  the 
principle  that  they  repented  of  their  sins 
{Ibid.,  V,  page  23). 

Aspirations 

The  Prophet  cautioned  the  wom- 
en to  aspire  to  magnify  only  their 
own  offices  and  callings.  He  read  to 
them  from  the  12th  Chapter  of  1st 
Corinthians  and  explained  the  func- 
tion of  the  various  offices  within  the 
Church  and: 

.  .  .  the  necessity  of  every  individual 
acting  in  the  sphere  allotted  him  or  her, 
and  filling  the  several  offices  to  which 
they  are  appointed.  He  spoke  of  the  dis- 
position of  many  men  to  consider  the 
lower  offices  in  the  Church  dishonorable, 
and  to  look  with  jealous  eyes  upon  the 
standing  of  others  who  are  called  to  pre- 
side o\er  them;  that  it  was  the  folly  and 
nonsense  of  the  human  heart  for  a  person 
to  be  aspiring  to  other  stations  than  those 
to  which  they  are  appointed  of  God  for 
them  to  occupy   [Ihid.,  IV,  page  603). 

The  Authorities  of  the  Church 
have  repeatedly  counseled  that  our 


individual  progress  is  closely  related 
to  the  effort  we  expend  and  the 
manner  in  which  we  perform  our 
Church  assignments. 

The  Prophet  urged  the  women 
".  .  .  to  magnify  their  respective 
callings,  and  wait  patiently  till  God 
shall  say  to  them,  'Come  up  high- 
er'"  (Ibid.,  IV,  page  603).  The 
disposition  to  aspire  would  be  with- 
in the  Relief  Society,  he  cautioned, 
and  the  women  should  therefore 
guard  against  it.  "Every  person 
should  stand,  and  act  in  the  place 
appointed,  and  thus  sanctify  the  So- 
ciety and  get  it  pure"  (Ihid.,  IV, 
page  604).  To  magnify  one's  office 
and  calling  is  a  most  desirable  ob- 
jective. This  is  very  different  from 
the  covetous  feelings  for  position 
and  power.  The  Prophet  strongly 
recommended  humility.  The  posses- 
sor of  this  Christ-like  virtue  will  have 
power  and  undreamed  of  blessings. 
Ilumility  will  add  a  wholesome  lus- 
ter to  the  soul  of  every  one  who 
cultivates  it. 

Guard  the  Tongue 

Had  it  not  been  for  the  unholy 
lies  of  evil  men  and  women,  the 
history  of  the  Church,  and,  par- 
ticularly, the  story  of  the  Prophet's 
untimely  death,  might  have  been 
materially  different  from  the  facts. 
The  Prophet,  who  never  feared  the 
truth,  was  continually  the  victim 
of  untruths.  Whether  published  or 
passed  by  word  of  mouth,  they 
fanned  and  fed  the  flames  of  per- 
secution. 

In  the  midst  of  a  widespread 
campaign  to  do  him  harm,  the 
Prophet  spoke  out  strongly  against 
the  evils  of  gossip.  On  May  6,  1842, 
an  attempt  was  made  on  the  life 
of  Lilburn  W.  Boggs,  who  was  Gov- 


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ernor  of  Missouri  when  the  saints 
were  so  cruelly  treated  and  driven 
from  that  State.  Immediately  there 
arose  rumors  that  the  "Mormons" 
were  at  the  bottom  of  the  attempt 
and,  based  upon  these  suspicions, 
the  Prophet  was  later  charged,  but 
exonerated,  as  being  an  accessory 
to  this  crime.  Within  a  week  fol- 
lowing these  insinuations  the  Proph- 
et said  to  the  Relief  Society: 

I  have  one  request  to  make  of  the 
President  and  members  of  the  society, 
that  you  search  yourselves  —  the  tongue 
is  an  unruly  member  —  hold  your  tongues 
about  things  of  no  moment  ■ —  a  little 
tale  will  set  the  world  on  fire  {Ihid.,  W, 
page   20). 

He  advised  the  women: 

.  .  .  beware,  be  still,  be  prudent,  re- 
pent, reform,  but  do  it  in  a  way  not  to 
destroy  all  around  you.  I  do  not  want  to 
cloak  iniquity  —  all  things  contrary  to 
the  will  of  God,  should  be  cast  from  us, 
but  don't  do  more  hurt  than  good,  with 
your  tongues  —  be  pure  in  heart  {Ihid., 
V,  page  20) . 

This  evil  is  a  many-sided  sword. 
Untruths  do  the  most  harm,  but 
injudicious  language,  though  it  con- 
tains truth,  can  also  do  tremendous 
harm.  The  following  from  Vol- 
ume 1,  page  103,  Woman's  Expon- 
ent, illustrates  another  aspect: 

The  evil  done  by  the  first  utterer  of  a 
slander  is  small  compared  with  that  which 
is  spread  through  a  community  from  the 
repetition  of  the  false  tale  by  idle  bab- 
blers ....  Counterfeited  coins  and  bank- 
notes, however  ingeniously  executed,  do 
no  harm  if  they  remain  in  the  hands  of 
the  original  forger.  It  is  by  their  circula- 
tion that  the  people  suffer.  Somebody 
once  said  to  a  sage:  "A  man  slandered  you 
in  my  presence."  "If,"  replied  the  wise 
man,  "you  had  not  listened  with  pleasure, 
he  would  not  have  defamed  me." 


During  the  late  summer  of  1842 
the  Prophet  was  forced  into  hiding 
to  protect  himself  against  the  vi- 
cious attempts  of  his  enemies  to  take 
him  into  custody.  Much  of  the 
impetus  to  do  these  acts  came  from 
the  false  stories  that  were  spread 
concerning  the  Prophet.  He  re- 
turned to  his  home  the  latter  part 
of  August  1842,  and  August  31,  he 
met  with  the  Relief  Society  and 
made  this  statement: 

When  I  do  the  best  I  can  —  when  I 
am  accomplishing  the  greatest  good,  then 
the  most  evils  and  wicked  surmisings  are 
got  up  against  me.  I  would  to  God  that 
you  would  be  wise.  I  now  counsel  you, 
that  if  you  know  anything  calculated  to 
disturb  the  peace  or  injure  the  feelings  of 
your  brother  or  sister,  hold  your  tongues, 
and  the  least  harm  will  be  done  (D.  H.  C. 
V,  page  140). 

He  suggested  there  were  affirma- 
tive blessings  from  carefully  watch- 
ing what  we  say.  ''No  organized 
body  can  exist,"  he  said,  unless  the 
members  thereof  "  .  .  .  put  a  double 
watch  over  the  tongue  .  .  .  /'  (Em- 
phasis added.) 

All  organized  bodies  have  their  peculiar 
evils,  weaknesses  and  difficulties,  the  ob- 
ject is  to  make  those  not  so  good  reform 
and  return  to  the  path  of  virtue  that  they 
may  be  numbered  with  the  good,  and 
even  hold  the  keys  of  power,  which  'will 
influence  to  virtue  and  goodness  — 
should  chasten  and  reprove,  and  keep  it 
all  in  silence,  not  even  mention  them 
again;  then  you  will  be  established  in 
power,  virtue,  and  holiness,  and  the  wrath 
of  God  will  be  turned  away  (Jbfd.,  V, 
page  20). 

Overzealoiisness 

It  is  well  to  underlay  our  enthus- 
iasm in  the  gospel  with  cautious  re- 
straint. At  one  meeting  the  Proph- 
et commended  the  women  '\  .  .  for 


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71 


their  zeal,  but  said  sometimes  their 
zeal  was  not  according  to  knowl- 
edge" {Ihid.,  IV,  page  570). 

On  another  occasion,  the  Prophet 
warned: 

There  is  another  error  which  opens  a 
door  for  the  adversary  to  enter.  As  females 
possess  refined  feehngs  and  sensitiveness, 
they  are  also  subjeet  to  overmueh  zeal, 
which  must  ever  prove  dangerous,  and 
cause  them  to  be  rigid  in  a  religious  ca- 
pacity —  [they]  should  be  armed  with 
mercy,  notwithstanding  the  iniquity  among 
us  ...  .  Notwithstanding  the  unworthy 
are  among  us,  the  virtuous  should  not, 
from  self  importance,  grieve  and  oppress 
needlessly,  those  unfortunate  ones  {Ihid., 
V,  page  19,  20). 

The  overzealous  can  discourage 
others,  become  fanatical,  act  un- 
seemly, and  go  beyond  their  proper 
bounds. 

Peiiection  Lies  Within 

If  we  are  to  become  perfect,  we 
must  look  at  ourselves  without  de- 
lay, with  a  keen  eye  to  our  limita- 
tions and  shortcomings.  Once  recog- 
nized, our  weaknesses  become  out 
of  place  in  our  lives.  When  we  have 
completed  the  task  of  divesting  our- 
selves of  these  personality  ''sore 
spots,"  we  are  then  in  a  position  to 
acquire  the  more  ennobling  traits. 
The  ability  to  recognize  and  dispel 
unbecoming  attributes  and  to  seek 
the  godlike  virtues  is  the  thought 
pattern  for  perfection. 

In  the  last  analysis,  if  we  are  to 
reach  for  perfection,  we  must  do  as 
the  Prophet  suggested  in  a  talk  giv- 
en in  the  Grove  to  the  Church: 

Search  your  hearts,  and  see  if  you  are 
like  God.  I  have  searched  mine  and  feel 
to  repent  of  all  my  sins  (Ibid.,  IV,  page 
588,  Remarks  of  Prophet  Joseph  in  the 
Grove,  From  the  Journal  of  Elder  Wil- 
ford  Woodruff,  page  8). 


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Supplementary  Refeiences  (7)'  ./  J        f^  ±    I   ,- 

^^  ^  UJirtnaay   ^congratulations 


1.  "Relief  Society  Responsibilities"  — 
President  Joseph  Fielding  Smith,  Relief 
Society  Magazine,  March  1954,  page  150; 
and  October   1954,  page  644. 

2.  "But  One  Thing  Is  Needful"  — 
Marianne  C.  Sharp,  Relief  Society  Maga- 
zine, November   1954,  page  721. 

3.  The  Wa}'  to  Perfection,  Joseph  Field- 
ing Smith,  chapter  27,  pp.  179-185. 

Questions  ioi  Discussion 

1.  What  are  the  necessary  steps  in  the 
perfection  process?  Why  is  self-analysis 
so  chfficult? 

2.  Why  did  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 
meet  with  the  Relief  Society  and  instruct 
them  often? 

3.  WHiy  is  it  important  for  individual 
Church  members  to  be  constant  in  their 
search  for  perfection? 

4.  Point  out  and  discuss  the  undesir- 
able traits  against  which  the  Prophet 
warned. 

5.  Why  was  the  Prophet  sensitive  to 
the  evils  of  gossip?  What  are  his  cautions 
regarding  the  habit? 


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Not  in  torrents,  not  in  flood, 
But  let  it  be,  this  New  Year's  day. 
Refreshing,  fragrant,  mild,  and  good. 

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Rain  sprays  with  jewels  leaf  and  bough. 
And  reaches  deep  for  seed,  for  bulb. 
For  needy  root,  exploring  now. 

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Old  bitterness,  and  purify 
Both  heart  and  soul,  release  the  mind 
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Bet\\een  two  shadowy  nights, 
Where  obli\'ion  and  darkness 
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No  griefs  of  yesterday 
Cast  their  clouds  upon  the  hours 
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Catherine  E.  Berry 

I  who  have  sung  of  spring  and  Aprils  gone, 

Have  woven  words  for  magic  found  in  May, 
Put  shining  notes  to  beat  of  silver  rain, 

And  lyric  rhymes  to  praise  the  waking  day. 
Can  find  no  words  to  limn  this  muted  hour 

Of  hushed  expectancy  the  earth  now  holds. 
Though  February's  blue  and  quiet  dusk 

Is  wrapped  around  with  winter's  frozen  folds, 
The  first  faint  stirring  of  the  coming  spring 

Was  foretold  in  a  wind  that  whispered  by 
A  moment  gone,  and  left  the  world  as  still 

As  if  a  miracle  had  touched  the  sky. 

I  who  have  sung  of  spring  can  find  no  word 
To  use  for  beauty  felt  —  unseen,  unheard. 


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Submitted  by  Ada  S.  Van  Dam 

Frontispiece:  Ponderosa  Pines  in  the  Aftermath  of  Storm 
Photograph  by  Josef  Muench 

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The  Relief  Society  Magazine  truly  is  an 
enjoyment  and  a  blessing  to  recei\c.  It 
brings  joy  and  happiness  to  me,  and,  al- 
though it  is  a  little  Magazine,  it  contains 
worlds  of  enjoyment  and  knowledge.  This 
N'crse  expresses  my  thoughts: 

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gifts  to  make  friends; 
It   in\olves    the    power    of   going    out    of 

oneself 
And   appreciating  whate\er   is   noble   and 

loving  in  others. 

This  is  just  what  The  ReUef  Society 
Magazine  does  for  me. 

— Ruth  A.  Lyons 

West  Covina,  California 


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ciety Magazine.  In  fact,  it  makes  a  well- 
rounded  education,  all  found  within  its 
pages,  for  me.  When  \\c  are  older,  we 
need  the  Magazine  to  keep  us  posted  and 
uplifted,  just  as  we  do  when  we  are 
younger. 

— Crysta  B.  Woodland 
Brigham  City,  Utah 

While  reading  the  September  issue  of 
The  Relief  Society  Magazine,  this  senti- 
ment came  to  me: 

Not  merely  just  a  Magazine, 
This  publication  \\omen  built 
For  others'  help  and  happiness; 
Though  small,  it's  like  a  flawless  gem 
Expertly  cut. 

— Gene  Romolo 

Provo,  Utah 


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Relief  Society  this  fall.  There  is  such 
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while experiences  to  be  shared. 


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Sacramento,   California 

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Arimo.  Idaho 


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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of   the   Relief   Society  of   The   Church  of   Jesus   Christ   of  Latter-day   Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 

Belle  S.  Spafford        -- President 

Marianne   C.   Sharp -         -         First  Counselor 

Helen    W.    Anderson  ------         Second    Counselor 

Hulda    Parker         -------         Secretary-Treasurer 

Anna  B.  Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S.  Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie    M.    Ellsworth 

Florence    J.    Madsen  Aleine  M.  Young  Charlotte  A.  Larsen  Mary  R.    Young 

Leone  G.  Layton  Josie  B.  Bay  Edith  P.  Backman  Mary  V.   Cameron 

Blanche  B.  Stoddard  Christine  H.  Robinson     Winniefred  S.  Afton  W.   Hunt 

Alberta  H.  Christensen      Manwaring 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 
Editor    -----------        Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Associate  Editor  -_--.-_--        Vesta  P.  Crawford 

Assistant  to  the  Editor  ---------     June    Nielsen 

General  Manager __---        Belle  S.  Spafford 

Vol.  44  FEBRUARY  1957  No.  2 


(contents 

SPECIAL  FEATURES 

Sustaining  the  Authorities  of  the  Church  ElRay  L.  Christiansen  76 

The   Netherlands   Mission   Preston   R.    Nibley  88 

Values  Derived  From  Reading  Worthwhile  Literature  Thomas  C.  Romney  90 

What  Makes  a  Happy  Home  Wilma  Boyle  Bunker  93 

Great   Men   Pray   99 

A  Flag  for  Utah   Statehood   Margaret   G.   Derrick  106 

I   Explore   the   Upstairs   Zipporah   Layton   Stewart  114 

FICTION 

Mother's   Shoes  —  Second   Prize   Story  Edith  Larson  80 

Hearts  United   Frances   C.    Yost  94 

Bitter  Medicine  —  Part  2  Olive  W.   Burt  109 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

From   Near   and   Far   74 

Sixty  Years  Ago  100 

Woman's   Sphere   Ramona    W.    Cannon  101 

Editorial:   A   Step  Aside   June    Nielsen  102 

Birthday  Congratulations  to   Amy  Brown   Lyman,   Former  Relief  Society 

General    President    103 

New  Serial  "The  Bright  Star"  to  Begin  in  March  107 

Notes    From    the   Field:     Relief    Society    Activities    116 

Birthday    Congratulations     144 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes  From  the  Netherlands  Mission   Ada  S.  Van  Dam  104 

Mary  E.  Jones  Dalton  Finds  Happiness  in  Her  Hobbies  108 

Candy  for  Valentine's  Day  Mary   J.   Wilson  113 

LESSONS  FOR  MAY 

Theology:   "A  New  Witness  for  Christ"   Leland   H.   Monson  123 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages:    ".    .    .    Ye   Would   Ask  God,   the   Eternal   Father,    in 

the  Name  of  Christ,  If  These  Things  Are  Not  True"   Leone  O.   Jacobs  128 

Work  Meeting:  Summary  Rhea   H.   Gardner  130 

Literature:    Julius   Caesar   Briant    S.    Jacobs  132 

Social  Science:   "Be  Ye  Therefore  Perfect"   John  Farr  Larson  138 

POETRY 

Muted  Hour  —  Frontispiece  Catherine   E.    Berry  73 

Mother, Dora    Toone    Brough  79 

Future   Resolve    Hazel   M.    Thomson  86 

Heritage   Leslie   Savage    Clark  87 

Giant    Saguaros    Ethel    Jacobson  93 

Dawn  Castle  Eva  Willes  Wangsgaard  103 

When   Portals  Close   Mabel   Law   Atkinson  108 

The  Voice  of  Peace  Isabelle   Jensen  112 

Attic  Treasure  Maude   Rubin  113 

Jt  Is  Love   Gene   Romolo  122 

Reunion   Eunice   J.    Miles  129 

Star  Dust  Vesta   N.   Lukei  131 

Winter    Notwithstanding    Lael    W.    Hill  143 

°°y   Elsie    McKinnon    Strachan  144 

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Sustaining  the  Authorities 
of  the  Church 

Elder  EJRay  L.  Christiansen 
Assistant  to  the  Council  of  the  Twelve 


i  4  nriHOSE  in  favor  will  show  it 

I     by  raising  their  right  hands 

—those    opposed,    if    any, 

may  manifest  it  by  the  same  sign." 

This  expression  is  familiar  to  every 

member  of  the  Church. 

The  First  Presidency,  consisting 
of  three  presiding  high  priests,  a 
president  who  holds  all  the  keys  of 
the  Priesthood,  and  two  counselors, 
preside  over  all  affairs  and  activities 
of  the  Church.  They  are  assisted 
by  Twelve  Apostles,  who,  in  turn, 
are  aided  by  an  unspecified  number 
of  high  priests  called  Assistants  to 
the  Twelve,  as  well  as  by  the  First 
Council  of  Seventy.  Also,  laboring 
under  the  direction  of  the  First 
Presidency  are  the  Patriarch  to  the 
Church,  the  Presiding  Bishopric, 
and  the  other  general  officers. 

The  General  Authorities  have 
Church-wide  supervisory  powers. 
In  addition  to  the  general  officers, 
stake  and  mission  authorities  are  ap- 
pointed, sustained,  and  set  apart, 
with  jurisdiction  limited  to  stake 
and  mission  affairs.  In  the  same 
manner,  branch  officers  are  appoint- 
ed to  preside  in  Church  affairs  with- 
in the  confines  of  their  respective 
wards  and  branches. 

The  various  offices  in  the  Church 
exist  ''.  .  .  for  helps  and  for  govern- 
ments, for  the  work  of  the  ministry 
and  the  perfecting  of  my  saints" 
(D.  &  C.  124:143). 

It  should  be  remembered  that  the 

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ultimate  power  on  earth  to  direct 
the  affairs  of  the  kingdom  of  God 
rests  in  only  one  person  at  a  time. 
That  person  is  the  Prophet  and 
President  of  the  Church.  He  may 
delegate  portions  of  this  power  to 
others  and  authorize  them  to  act  in 
a  particular  labor  or  office.  There- 
fore, the  president  of  a  stake,  the 
bishop  of  a  ward,  the  president  of  a 
quorum,  the  president  of  a  mission, 
and  the  president  of  a  temple  each 
receives  from  the  President  of  the 
Church,  directly  or  by  delegation, 
the  keys  of  that  particular  office  and 
labor. 

The  extent  of  the  official  author- 
ity of  any  officer  in  the  Church  is 
limited  to  the  unit  or  division  or 
institution  in  which  he  has  been 
called  to  serve.  Each  is  subject  to 
the  direction  of  those  holding  high- 
er authority.  However,  temple  pres- 
idents and  mission  presidents  are 
appointed  by,  and  are  responsible 
directly  to  the  First  Presidency. 

The  auxiliary  organizations  repre- 
sent in  their  labor  the  President  of 
the  Church,  and,  as  their  name 
implies,  are  helps  primarily  to  the 
President  and,  incidentally,  to  the 
Priesthood  in  the  training  and  de- 
velopment of  the  members  of  the 
Church.  When  the  names  of  the 
officers  of  the  auxiliaries  are  pre- 
sented to  the  membership  assembled 
—  whether  it  is  general,  stake,  or 
ward  —  they  are  duly  sustained  by 


SUSTAINING  THE  AUTHORITIES  OF  THE  CHURCH  77 

the  members  of  the  organizations  tions.   The  scriptures  bear  out  the 

which  they  are  called  to  direct.  fact  that,  with  the  passing  of  the 

No  person  can  rightfully  serve  in  apostles  of  old,  the  authority  of  the 

any  administrative  position  in  the  holy   Priesthood   was   to   be   taken 

Church  unless  he  has  been  so  sus-  from  the  earth,  and  that  of  neces- 

tained  by  the  people  over  whom  he  sity  it  would  have  to  be  restored 

is  to  preside.    The  Lord  has  given  from    heaven    before    the    Church 

us  the  way  in  which  this  is  to  be  could  be  re-established.  The  Proph- 

done.  et  Joseph  Smith  and  Oliver  Cowdery 

He  has  revealed  to  us  that  it  is  the  were  ordained  to  the  Melchizedek 

duty  of  presiding  authorities  to  appoint  Priesthood  in  1829  under  the  hands 

and  call;  and  then  those  whom  they  choose  of  Peter,  Tames,  and  John: 
for   any    official   position    in    the    Church 

shall  be  presented  to  the  body.     If  the  ...  who   received  the   keys   of  Presi- 

body  reject  them,  they  are  responsible  for  dency   on   the   Mount,   and   who,   as   the 

that   rejection.     They   have   the   right   to  Presiding     Council     over     the     Primitive 

reject,   if   they   will,   or   to    receive   them  Church,  last  held  the  keys  of  the  Higher 

and    sustain    them     by    their    faith    and  Priesthood.    Every     right,    authority    and 

prayers.      That    is    strictly    in    accordance  key     was     conferred     upon     the     modern 

with  the  rule  laid  down  of  the  Lord  (Pres.  prophets,     and     they     in     turn     ordained 

Joseph   F.   Smith,  Gospel  Doctrine,  page  others  for  the  benefit  of  the  Church   of 

188,  1920  edition).  Christ.      (Widtsoe,    "Studies     in    Priest- 
hood," page  21). 
XXZHEN,    in    assemblies    of    the 

saints,  we  are  asked  to  sustain  Nowhere,    other    than    in    The 

proposed  officers  in  the  Church,  it  Church  of  Jesus  Christ  of  Latter- 

is  our  right  to  express  our  true  feel-  day  Saints,  can  men,  in  a  few  steps, 

ings.     But,  we  should  not  question  trace  to  its  origin,  their  authority 

the  wisdom  and  inspiration  of  those  to   act  in   the   name   of  the   Lord 

making  the  nominations,  unless  we  Jesus  Christ.     Of  this  we  do  not 

know  of  facts  that  plainly  indicate  boast,  but  we  render  unto  the  Lord 

unworthiness   on    the   part   of   the  our  gratitude  for  the  fact.     Hence, 

person  nominated.    It  is  not  proper  when  we  have  the  privilege  of  rais- 

nor  in   order   for   any   member   to  ing  our  hands  and  voices  to  sustain 

raise  his  hand  to  register  opposition  those  properly  appointed,  it  should 

to  a  man  who  is  called  by  proper  be  done  with  thanksgiving  in  our 

authority  simply  because  he  has  a  hearts. 

personal  dislike  for  him;  because  he  Not  only  is  the  right  to  sustain  a 
has  had  some  personal  grievance,  fundamental  and  sacred  right,  but 
or  for  other  inconsequential  reasons,  it  is  an  important  duty  resting  upon 
The  Latter-day  Saints  should  feel  the  members  of  the  Church  to  up- 
grateful  for  the  knowledge  that,  hold  the  authorities  presiding  over 
after  its  absence  for  many  years,  the  them.  Merely  raising  the  right  hand 
authority  to  act  in  the  name  of  God  does  not  fulfil  this  duty.  It  simply 
has  been  restored  to  man.  This  expresses  a  promise  that  the  persons 
power  was  conferred  upon  the  first  named  will  be  sustained  in  deed 
officers  of  the  Church  by  ordination  and,  in  fact  —  that  they  will  be  de- 
under  the  hands  of  those  who  held  fended  against  those  who  would  de- 
the  same  power  in  earlier  dispensa-  fame  them. 


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It  is  a  very  serious  thing  for  any 
member  of  the  Church  to  engage 
in  criticism  and  raise  his  voice 
against  the  duly  appointed  leaders. 
To  do  so  will  lead  to  no  good,  but 
will  make  it  easier  for  such  a  mem- 
ber to  be  persuaded  by  the  ungodly. 
It  points  the  way  to  unhappiness. 

.  .  .  There  never  should  be  a  day  pass 
but  all  the  people  composing  the  Church 
should  lift  up  their  voices  in  prayer  to 
the  Lord  to  sustain  his  servants  who  are 
placed  to  preside  over  them.  .  .  .  These 
men  should  have  the  faith  of  the  people 
to  sustain  them  in  the  discharge  of  their 
duties,  in  order  that  they  may  be  strong 
in  the  Lord.  .  .  . 

We  should  not  permit  ourselves  to  go 
about  from  day  to  day  with  a  spirit  of 
murmuring  and  fault-finding  in  our  hearts 
against  those  who  are  presented  before 
us  to  be  sustained  in  responsible  positions. 
If  we  have  anything  in  our  hearts  against 
any  of  these  brethren,  it  is  our  duty,  as 
conscientious  members  of  the  Church, 
first  as  the  Spirit  may  direct,  to  go  to 
them  alone  and  make  known  to  them  our 
feeling  toward  them  and  show  them  the 
cause  of  such  feeling;  not  with  a  desire 
in  our  hearts  to  widen  or  increase  the 
difficulty,  but  we  should  go  to  them  in 
the  spirit  of  reconciliation  and  brotherly 
love,  in  a  true  Christian  spirit,  so  that 
if  any  feeling  of  bitterness  exists  within 
us  it  may  be  absolutely  removed;  and  if 
we  have  cause  against  our  brother,  that 
we  may  be  in  a  position  to  remedy  the 
evil.  We  should  seek  to  love  one  an- 
other and  to  sustain  one  another  as  chil- 
dren of  God  and  as  brothers  and  sisters 
in  the  cause  (President  Joseph  F.  Smith, 
Gospel  Doctrine,  page  280). 

npHIS  great,  stalwart  leader  taught 
further  that  it  is  not  our  right 
or  prerogative  to  point  out  the  sup- 
posed defects  of  the  leaders  in  the 
Church:  "Let  the  Lord  God 
Almighty  judge  them  and  speak  for 
or  against  them  as  it  may  seem  to 
him  good  —  but  not  me;  it  is  not 
for  me,  my  brethren,  to  do  this  .  .  ." 
{Ibid.,  page  223). 


Another  great  and  important 
duty  resting  upon  the  parents  in 
the  Church  in  regard  to  sustaining 
our  Church  leaders  is  to  teach  their 
children  by  example  as  well  as  by 
precept  to  respect  those  in  authority 
over  them.  If  children  hear  their 
parents  criticize  or  speak  disparag- 
ingly of  the  bishop  of  the  ward,  the 
president  of  the  stake,  or  other 
leaders  in  the  Church,  the  damage 
is  highly  detrimental  and  may  never 
be  erased.  We  should  teach  our 
children  to  love  the  Lord  and  to 
understand  his  great  love  for  them; 
to  love  their  fellow  men,  and  espe- 
cially to  love  their  fellow  members 
of  the  Church.  We  should  teach 
them  to  honor  the  Priesthood  as 
the  authority  that  God  has  bestowed 
upon  the  Church  for  the  proper 
government  of  the  same.  We 
should  teach  them  the  importance 
and  the  desirability  of  preparing 
themselves  to  become  worthy  of 
receiving  the  Priesthood.  Children 
should  be  made  to  realize  that  to 
be  permitted  to  sustain  those  who 
lead  them  is  not  only  a  rare  privi- 
lege, but  also  that  it  obligates  them 
to  pray  for  their  leaders,  to  uphold 
them,  and  to  accept  opportunities 
to  serve  when  called  by  them  into 
service. 

Now,  a  word  to  those  who  are 
sustained  by  the  faith  and  prayers 
of  the  members:  those  who  are 
called  to  office  should  realize  that 
one  of  the  greatest  assets  for  leader- 
ship is  the  sustaining  influence  of 
those  over  whom  they  preside.  This 
influence  is  vital  and  indispensable 
to  effective  leadership.  In  the  words 
of  the  Lord,  ''Except  the  Lord  build 
the  house,  they  labor  in  vain  that 
build  it  .  .  ."  (Psalms  127:1),  and 


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''.  .  .  if  ye  are  not  one  ye  are  not 
mine"  (D.  &  C.  38:27).  And  so, 
we  have  to  be  one;  we  have  to  sus- 
tain and  be  sustained  if  our  leader- 
ship is  to  be  effective. 

Those  who  are  called  to  office 
and  are  sustained  by  the  members 
should  enter  upon  their  duties  with 
a  full  determination  to  do  all  in 
their  power  to  magnify  that  calling. 
They  should  be  prompt  and  zeal- 
ous. They  should  strive  to  become 
efficient  in  carrying  out  the  whole 
program. 

They  must  plan,  prepare,  inspire. 
They  must  be  examples  in  living 
the  gospel  wherever  they  may  be 
—  not  only  in  meetings  but  also  in 
private  parties,  while  fishing  and 
hunting,  and  while  traveling.  Priest- 


hood and  auxiliary  leaders  and  mem- 
bers alike  have  the  responsibility  to 
be  true  to  ''.  .  .  every  word  that 
proceedeth  forth  from  the  mouth 
of  God"  (D.  &  C.  84:44).  Leaders 
are  thus  instructed  by  the  L-ord: 

Wherefore,  now  let  every  man  learn 
his  duty,  and  to  act  in  the  office  in  which 
he  is  appointed,  in  all  dihgence.  He  that 
is  slothful  shall  not  be  counted  worthy 
to  stand,  and  he  that  learns  not  his  duty 
and  shows  himself  not  approved  shall  not 
be  counted  worthy  to  stand  .  .  .  (D.  &  C. 
107:99-100). 

It  is  a  great  blessing  to  be  per- 
mitted to  sustain  those  who  are 
called  to  preside  over  us.  It  is  a 
blessing  beyond  measure  to  be  sus- 
tained by  the  members  whom  we 
are  called  to  serve. 


TRotk 


other 


Dora  Toone  Brough 

A  hundred  times,  or  more,  your  deeds  of  gold 
Have  been  expounded  by  the  lips  of  friends; 
In  humble  language  they  have  been  retold 
To  sleepy  children,  as  the  long  day  ends; 
And  yet,  the  simple  things  I  held  most  dear — 
Your  busy  hands,  your  gentle  ways,  your  smile, 
The  lullabies  you  sang  to  quell  my  fear, 
Your  white  lace  collar,  and  your  smooth  hair  style. 


In  silent  loveliness  your  soul  met  mine; 

I  knew  you  always  wanted  me  to  keep 

A  path  to  God,  a  love  for  the  Divine; 

And  when  you  closed  your  eyes  in  long,  last  sleep, 

Your  gracious,  noble  life  made  me  content 

To  fashion  mine  to  be  your  monument. 


(becond  LPrtze  Story 

fytnnual  uielief  Societii  Snort  Story   (contest 

Mother's  Shoes 

Edith  Larson 


WHAT  a  picture  Mother  and 
Dad  made,  framed  by  the 
new  window,  their  faces 
ahght  with  expectation!  The  ready 
laughter  wrinkles  were  deeper  than 
ever  on  Dad's  face  and  the  little 
lines  of  worry  were  gone  from 
Mother's. 

She  has  accepted  my  ultima- 
tum, Dorothy  thought  happily,  as 
she  drove  on  past  the  window.  I 
knew  that  if  I  left  them  alone,  Dad 
would  persuade  Mother  that  I  am 
right.  It's  ridiculous  for  her  to 
think  she  needs  to  help  me  put  on 
their  golden  wedding  anniversary. 

Dorothy  stopped  the  car  and 
turned  to  the  first  early  wedding 
guests  she  had  picked  up  at  the 
train.  But  Mother  and  Dad  were 
there  already,  eagerly  pulling  the 
doors  open  to  welcome  Aunt  Mable 
and  Uncle  Arthur  with  their  daugh- 
ter Gertie. 

Dorothy  waited  only  for  the  first 
greetings,  then  slipped  away  to  the 
kitchen.  The  roast  would  be  ready 
for  the  potatoes,  onions,  and  carrots 
she  had  left  standing  in  cold  water. 
She  hummed  as  her  hands  flew  at 
their  tasks. 

''The  kitchen  looks  different,"  a 
pleasant  voice  spoke  from  the  door- 
way. 

Dorothy  looked  up  at  her  cousin 
Gertie— a  stranger,  really,  since 
Dad's  oldest  sister  had  never  been 

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back  after  moving  to  New  York 
twenty  years  ago. 

''Mother  had  the  whole  house 
done  over  in  honor  of  the  golden 
wedding.  You  can't  imagine  what 
this  anniversary  means  to  her.  She 
hasn't  thought  of  much  else  for  the 
past  five  years." 

Gertie  smiled.  "I'm  sure  I'll  feel 
the  same  way  when  I  reach  the 
fifty-year  mark.  But  I  wasn't  refer- 
ring to  the  house,  although  it  does 
look  very  nice.  I  was  just  thinking 
of  the  kitchen  the  way  I  remem- 
bered it,  with  Aunt  Sarah  bustling 
around,  shooing  us  children  out 
from  under  her  feet." 


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"She'd  still  be  doing  it  if  Fd  let 
her.  Fve  had  quite  a  time  persuad- 
ing her  to  sit  in  the  living  room  and 
be  a  lady  of  leisure." 

'That  role  does  seem  a  little  out 
of  character  for  Aunt  Sarah." 

''So  she  says.  But,  Gertie,  think 
of  all  the  years  she  has  worked  so 
hard.  Not  just  her  own  work,  but 
Relief  Society  and  Sunday  School 
and  every  other  job  that  anyone 
wanted  done.  Mother  deserves  a 
big  celebration  without  any  respon- 
sibility at  all." 

''Someone  has  to  take  the  respon- 
sibility." 

"I  am.  I've  been  here  three 
weeks  already.  Of  course,  the  plans 
are  all  Mother's  —  except  for  some 
little  surprises  along  the  way.  I 
want  everything  to  be  exactly  as  she 
has  dreamed  it." 

"What  does  Harvey  say  to  all 
this?" 

"He  doesn't  like  my  being  gone 
so  long,  of  course,  but  he  under- 
stands. Having  the  family  so  scat- 
tered means  lots  of  house  guests, 
besides  the  celebration  itself.  And 
the  boys'  wives  all  have  small  chil- 
dren —  those  who  live  here  in  town. 
Harvey  can  see  where  Mother  needs 
me.  He'll  be  up  with  our  boys  day 
after  tomorrow  to  stay  till  it's  over." 

"If  there  is  anything  I  can  do  to 
help " 

"There'll  be  lots  of  things.  I 
thought  we  younger  women  could 
get  the  meals  and  keep  the  work 
done  up  and  let  the  brothers  and 
sisters  have  a  real  visit.  You'll  find 
the  makings  of  a  green  salad  in 
the  frig,  if  you  want  to  put  them 
together  now." 

"And  here  I  had  my  mouth  all 
watered  for  some  of  Aunt  Sarah's 


cooking.  I've  never  forgotten  it." 
But  Gertie  was  smiling  as  she 
opened  the  frig. 

"I've  sworn  to  keep  Mother  out 
of  the  kitchen,  but  I  don't 
know.  .  .  ."  Dorothy  broke  off  with 
a  shrug. 

A  flick  of  Gertie's  head  made  her 
turn.  Sarah  stood  in  the  door- 
way, an  anxious  frown  on  her  face. 

"Dorothy,"  she  asked,  "did  you 
remember  to  order  the  cake?" 

"Of  course,  Mother,"  Dorothy 
said,  irritation  overriding  her  normal 
tact.  "I  ordered  the  cake,  checked 
on  the  photographer,  and  borrowed 
the  punch  bowl,  and  I  know  that 
was  all  you  put  on  my  list  this 
morning." 

Sarah  bit  her  lips.  "I'm  sorry. 
You  didn't  tell  me,"  she  said  and 
turned  away. 

Dorothy  shook  her  head  wryly  as 
she  watched  her  mother's  retreating 
figure. 

"How  do  you  cure  'em?"  she 
asked  Gertie.  "You'd  think  I  was 
an  irresponsible  teenager." 

"You  don't.    You  just  try." 

The  cousins  worked  amicably  and 
rapidly,  the  ready-made  subject  of 
how  to  deal  with  parents  bridging 
the  gap  of  long  separation.  In  a 
very  short  time,  Dorothy  returned 
to  the  living  room  to  announce  din- 
ner. 

Mother  looked  up  at  her  with  a 
warm  smile.  "I  can't  get  over  it," 
she  said.  "Me  sitting  here  with  my 
hands  folded  and  meals  going  on 
just  the  same.  I  was  just  telling 
Mable  that  you  won't  let  me  do  a 
thing  —  not  a  single  thing.  You'd 
think  I  was  the  queen  or  someone 
important." 

Dad   rose   gallantly,   offering  his 


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arm.  'Tou  are,  my  dear  —  my 
queen." 

Dorothy's  heart  did  a  httle  flip 
as  she  followed  the  older  couple  to 
the  dining  room.  The  old  dears, 
she  thought,  so  absolutely  corny 
and  so  very,  very  dear. 

Dinner  was  a  leisurely  meal  with 
much  reminiscing  and  lavish  comp- 
liments for  Dorothy.  She  was  glad 
when  her  brother  Jim  showed  up 
with  an  offer  to  drive  the  old  folks 
and  Gertie  around  town.  Dad  had 
given  up  driving  himself  because  of 
poor  eyesight. 

Once  the  others  were  gone  and 
the  kitchen  work  done,  Dorothy 
settled  down  to  her  lists  of  jobs  still 
pending.  She  wanted  to  make  one 
last  check  without  Mother  at  her 
elbow.  But  she  couldn't  concen- 
trate. 

Why  couldn't  Mother  just  relax 
and  let  her  daughter  run  things? 
Why  couldn't  she  realize  that  Doro- 
thy was  just  as  efficient  a  manager 
as  her  mother  before  her?  Why, 
she  was  having  the  time  of  her  life 
putting  on  this  affair! 

Two  hundred  and  fifty  was  a 
conservative  estimate  of  the  expect- 
ed guests  at  the  open  house  Sunday 
afternoon.  And  there  would  be 
between  ninety  and  a  hundred  at 
the  family  dinner  Monday  night. 
Close  to  twenty  of  these  would  be 
house  guests  for  the  week  end  or 
longer,  for  some  came  from  great 
distances  —  from  both  coasts,  in 
fact. 

Mother  had  used  these  distances 
as  an  excuse  for  having  a  family  din- 
ner. The  boys  all  thought  an  open 
house  was  celebration  enough.  But 
Dorothy  sympathized  with  her 
mother's  desire  to  have  the  family 


by  themselves  one  night.  And  the 
Relief  Society  sisters  would  serve 
the  dinner  in  the  recreation  hall. 

Sarah  was  proud  of  the  society 
she  had  presided  over  for  fifteen 
years.  And  she  wanted  something 
extra  special  because  her  own  sisters 
were  coming.  They  had  never  been 
West  before.  After  their  father 
had  died,  still  unrelenting  toward 
the  daughter  who  married  a  Mor- 
mon, the  sisters  had  written  Sarah 
and  urged  her  to  come  East  for  a 
visit.  She  had  gone  once  or  twice, 
and  Dorothy  had  gone  with  her  for 
one  brief  visit. 

There  were  four  of  the  sisters 
altogether.  The  youngest  two. 
Aunt  Dora  and  Aunt  Mattie,  aged 
seventy-nine  and  seventy-six,  were 
the  adventurous  ones  coming  to  the 
golden  wedding.  They  were  both 
widows. 

npHE  sightseers  returned  long  be- 
fore Dorothy  was  ready  for 
them.  Then  Jim's  family  dropped 
in,  closely  followed  by  the  other 
boys  and  some  of  their  families. 
Everyone  wanted  to  see  Aunt  Mable 
after  so  many  years. 

So  it  was  late  before  the  house 
settled  down  for  the  night.  At  the 
last  minute,  Sarah  came  to  Doro- 
thy's room.  "I  think  I'd  better  go 
with  you  to  the  station  to  meet  the 
aunts,"  she  said. 

**Oh,  Mother,  there's  no  need  for 
you  to  get  up  at  five  a.m.!  That 
train's  always  late  and  the  station's 
a  drafty,  cold  place  to  wait.  You 
sleep  in  and  I'll  meet  them  just  as 
we  planned." 

'*As  you  planned,"  Sarah  corrected 
with  a  smile  that  took  the  sting 
from  the  correction.    '1  really  think 


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83 


they'll  expect  me  to  meet  them. 
Their  very  first  trip,  you  know." 

"Nonsense.  You'll  make  a  much 
better  first  impression  if  they  see 
you  here  in  your  own  home." 

'Then  I'll  ha\'e  breakfast  waiting 
for  you  when  you  get  back." 

"If  you  insist." 

I  wasn't  very  gracious,  Dorothy 
thought,  as  she  paced  the  station 
platform  in  the  cold  dawn.  The 
eastern  mountains  were  pink-tipped 
but  there  was  no  sun  to  cut  through 
the  chill.  Fm  not  sorry,  though, 
that  I  insisted.     And  she  shivered. 

She  could  hear  the  train  rumbling 
in  the  distance.  It  w^ouldn't  be  too 
late  after  all.  And  then  it  was  roar- 
ing into  the  station  and  she  had 
underestimated  its  length.  Those 
two  whitehaired  ladies  ten  coaches 
down  had  to  be  Aunt  Mattie  and 
Aunt  Dora.  Dorothy  broke  into  a 
run. 

Then  she  was  enfolded  in  Aunt 
Dora's  ample  arms  and  listening  to 
Aunt  Mattie's  booming  voice  say- 
ing, "I'm  glad  you  had  sense  enough 
to  keep  Sarah  at  home.  What  a 
heathenish  hour  for  a  train  to  ar- 
rive." 

"We're  not  such  a  big  place," 
Dorothy  answered  defensively.  "The 
train  schedule  is  set  up  to  give  the 
city  the  most  convenient  hours." 

Why  should  she  feel  that  she  had 
to  defend  the  railroad?  As  the  day 
passed,  she  found  she  was  always 
defending  something.  Aunt  Mattie 
had  the  ability  to  put  Dorothy's 
back  up  over  the  least  little  thing. 
Or  were  they  Jittle  things? 

Breakfast  over.  Aunt  Mattie  had 
moved  purposively  in  on  the  sink. 
''Now,  Dorothy,  you  can  put  the 
food  away.     You're  the   one  who 


knows  where  it  goes.  I'll  wash  and 
your  cousin  can  wipe." 

"But,  Aunt  Mattie,  everything  is 
all  planned.  The  brothers  and  sis- 
ters are  to  be  guests  and  we  younger 
ones  will  do  the  work." 

"Fiddlesticks!  I  was  washing 
dishes  when  you  were  in  diapers!" 

"That's  just  the  point.  It's  your 
turn  for  a  holiday." 

"If  I  want  to  spend  my  holiday 
at  the  kitchen  sink,  that's  my  busi- 
ness, young  lady.  You  put  the  food 
away.  Where  did  you  say  I'd  find 
an  apron?  There's  half  a  dozen  in 
my  suitcase,  but  I'll  borrow  one  for 
now." 

Helplessly,  Dorothy  obeyed,  pain- 
fully aware  of  Gertie's  amusement. 

A  UNT  Mattie  didn't  stop  with 
taking  command  of  the  dish- 
washing. She  planned  the  meals 
and  saw  that  they  were  duly  cooked 
according  to  her  orders.  As  more 
and  more  guests  arrived,  she  super- 
vised the  sleeping  arrangements. 
With  dismay,  Dorothy  watched  the 
reins  of  management  slip  from  her 
hands.  But  there  was  no  arguing 
with  Aunt  Mattie.  But  for  Sarah's 
intervention,  she  would  have  taken 
over  the  open  house,  too. 

"Now,  Mattie,"  Sarah  said  with 
deceptive  gentleness,  "Dorothy  and 
I  have  the  arrangements  all  planned. 
The  boys'  wives  are  going  to  serve 
the  punch,  taking  turns,  an  hour 
each." 

"I'll  pour  the  coffee,  then/'  Aunt 
Mattie  insisted. 

"There'll  be  no  coffee.  You  know 
that,  Mattie." 

"Then  I'll  run  the  kitchen.  Some- 
one has  to  see  to  it  that  the  punch 
bowls  are  kept  filled  and  the  cookie 


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plates  ready.  Fll  start  baking  cook- 
ies this  morning/' 

''The  neighbors  are  bringing  the 
cookies  in/' 

''What  if  they  don't  bring 
enough?  It  won't  hurt  to  have  a 
few  dozen  of  my  icebox  cookies  on 
hand/' 

Sarah  sighed,  such  a  famihar  sigh, 
Dorothy  thought.  "No,  I  don't 
suppose  it  will  hurt." 

Dorothy  was  seething.  She  had 
purposely  planned  the  meals  so  that 
there  would  be  no  baking  these  last 
two  days  in  order  to  keep  the  house 
cool  for  Sunday.  A  hot  retort  was 
on  the  tip  of  her  tongue,  but  she 
was  saved  from  making  it  by  a 
glimpse  of  Harvey  driving  in  with 
the  children.  She  ran  to  meet 
them,  but  even  their  hugs  didn't 
keep  her  from  boiling  over  in  re- 
sponse to  Harvey's  "How  are  things 
going?" 

"Now  wait!"  Harvey  raised  a 
hand  in  mock  self-defense  against 
the  torrent  of  words  she  poured  out. 
"Let  me  get  my  bearings.  And 
greet  the  folks,"  he  added  as  he  saw 
his  father-in-law  coming  across  the 
lawn. 

The  two  men  clasped  hands 
warmly.  "We've  certainly  appre- 
ciated the  loan  of  your  wife,"  Fred 
said.  "She's  taken  hold  like  her 
mother  would." 

Dorothy  flushed  with  pleasure, 
her  anger  beginning  to  dissolve. 
Harvey  looked  down  at  her  affec- 
tionately. "You  have  just  passed 
out  the  greatest  compliment  of  all. 
Dad,"  he  said. 

"I  used  to  think  no  one  could 
ever  grow  into  Sarah's  shoes. 
They're  made  special,  you  know,  on 
an  individual  last.    And  now  here's 


Dorothy,  coming  closer  and  clos- 
er. .  .  ."  The  old  man  shook  his 
head,  but  his  eyes  were  smiling. 

Dorothy  thought,  coming  closer.' 
But  of  course.  Dad's  prejudiced.  He 
won't  ever  admit  anyone  could  grow 
into  Mother's  shoes. 

Dorothy  honestly  tried  to  deal 
with  the  problem  of  Aunt  Mattie 
the  way  Mother  would.  All  day 
Saturday,  Mattie  baked  cookies. 
Red-faced  and  tired  but  triumphant, 
she  came  to  the  table  that  night  to 
a  meal  she  had  planned  and  pre- 
pared herself  for  eighteen  people. 

"I've  baked  five  hundred  cookies," 
she  announced.  "You  can't  run 
short  now." 

"But  it  was  completely  unneces- 
sary," Dorothy  broke  out  before  she 
remembered.  She  didn't  need  the 
warning  pressure  of  Harvey's  hand 
to  stop  her. 

"Thank  you,  Mattie,"  Sarah  said 
quietly.  "I  don't  know  what  we'd 
do  without  you." 

Dorothy  thought  she'd  explode, 
the  way  Aunt  Mattie  preened  her- 
self at  the  compliment.  Without 
Aunt  Mattie,  everything  would  have 
gone  smoothly  according  to  Doro- 
thy's direction.  At  least,  she  con- 
soled herself,  Aunt  Mattie  couldn't 
interfere  with  the  programs  planned 
for  the  open  house  and  the  family 
dinner. 

]V/f  OTHER  was  in  on  the  program 
planned  for  the  open  house 
because  it  was  a  surprise  on  Dad. 
But  the  entertainment  at  the  family 
dinner  was  Dorothy's  own  doing, 
and  a  secret  from  both  her  parents. 
She  had  prepared  a  complete  pro- 
gram around  the  grandchildren  and 
their  talents,  including  a  three-act 
skit    portraying    the    courtship    of 


MOTHER'S  SHOES 


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Fred  and  Sarah.  Mother  and  Dad 
would  love  i'i. 

But  as  late  as  Saturday  night, 
Mother  asked  Dorothy  again,  ''Don't 
you  think  we  ought  to  have  some 
sort  of  program  at  the  family  din- 
ner besides  a  few  remarks  from  the 
bishop?" 

Dorothy  patted  her  hand  and  said 
soothingly,  ''Don't  worry,  Mother. 
Everyone  will  be  too  busy  visiting. 
Besides,  the  bishop  will  talk  as  long 
as  you  want  him  to." 

"I  know,  but—" 

"No  'buts'  about  it.  Mother.  I 
have  everything  planned.  Now  just 
enjoy  your  company  and  leave  the 
rest  to  me." 

Sarah  turned  away,  but  Dorothy, 
looking  after  her  drooping  figure, 
frowned.  Mother,  she  thought, 
should  be  happier.  Here  I  am,  do- 
ing everything  in  the  world  to  make 
her  dreams  come  true,  and  she  frets 
over  details. 

OUT  the  next  day,  as  Sarah  and 
Fred  greeted  the  neighbors  and 
friends  who  flocked  to  the  house, 
Dorothy  had  never  seen  her  mother 
look  happier.  She  looked  rested  and 
proud  as  she  stood  near  the  door, 
one  hand  on  her  husband's  arm. 

Dorothy  had  more  time  to  watch 
and  mingle  with  the  guests  than 
she  had  expected.  In  spite  of  her 
protests,  Aunt  Mattie  had  taken 
over  the  kitchen. 

"Go  on  in  there  and  talk  to  your 
friends,"  the  old  lady  insisted.  "I 
don't  know  anyone  and  I  don't  like 
to  talk  to  strangers.  I'll  be  perfectly 
happy  right  here." 

So  Dorothy  had  joined  her  hus- 
band, and  together  they  greeted  old 
friends.  It  wasn't  the  way  she  had 
planned  it,  but  —  well  —  she  rather 


liked  it  this  way,  knowing  the 
kitchen  was  well  commanded. 

Sarah  was  talking  to  a  distin- 
guished-looking man  Dorothy  final- 
ly recognized  as  a  former  bishop 
who  had  moved  away.  Pulling  at 
Harvey's  arm,  she  steered  him  over 
that  way. 

"Your  open  house  is  going  off 
very  well.  Sister  Talbot,"  the  bishop 
was  saying.  "Knowing  your  effi- 
ciency, I'm  not  surprised." 

Sarah  laughed  ruefully.  "I  didn't 
have  much  to  do  with  it.  I've  been 
chained  to  this  armchair  by  the  next 
in  line."  Looking  up,  she  saw 
Dorothy  and  Harvey  and  smiled 
warmly.  "Here  is  the  one  who 
deserves  your  compliments,  Bishop. 
I  don't  know  what  I'd  have  done 
without  her." 

Dorothy  stammered  through  greet- 
ings, her  mind  in  a  whirl.  "I  don't 
know  what  I'd  have  done  without 
her."  Why  did  that  statement  have 
such  a  familiar  ring? 

As  the  company  eddied  around 
them,  leaving  her  momentarily  in  a 
little  private  island  with  Harvey,  she 
turned  to  him.  "What  would 
Mother  have  done  without  me?" 
she  asked  abruptly. 

Harvey  smiled  down  at  her.  "So 
you  recognized  the  line,  too.  I 
thought  you  would." 

"It's  what  Mother  said  to  Aunt 
Mattie  after  she  butted  in  and  up- 
set all  my  plans.  Do  you  really 
think  that  I  butted  in  and  upset 
Mother's  plans  in  the  same  way?" 

Harvey's  smile  disappeared  and 
he  stared  seriously  down  at  his 
wife's  anxious  face.  "I  don't  know, 
Dorothy." 

"But  I  only  carried  out  her  plans, 
the    ones    she's    been    making    for 


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years.  Of  course,  I  added  a  few 
touches  here  and  there,  but  .  .  .  /' 

"Mother  Talbot  is  far  too  diplo- 
matic ever  to  tell  you,  if  to  her  you 
are  another  Aunt  Mattie." 

''I  know."  Dorothy's  misery 
threatened  to  engulf  her.  "All  I 
wanted  was  for  Mother  to  ha\'e  one 
perfectly  happy  time,  free  from 
care.  But  —  I  guess  a  woman  like 
Mother  is  never  really  free  from 
care.  Here  Fve  been  getting  the 
biggest  bang  out  of  running  this 
show  —  and  that's  just  what  Mother 
would  have  got  out  of  running  it 
herself.  Not  a  lot  of  worry,  but 
fun— just  plain  fun.  Why  didn't  I 
see  that  before?" 

"Don't  blame  yourself  too  much, 
Dorothy.  It  looked  as  if  you  were 
doing  your  mother  a  big  favor.  I 
think  she's  proud  that  you  wanted 
to  do  it." 

"Perhaps.  But,  right  now  it's 
time  for  the  self-appointed  regent 


to  abdicate  and  let  the  queen  take 
o\'er.  Quick,  Harvey,  tip  the  chil- 
dren off  not  to  let  on  they've  been 
practicing  for  a  program  tomorrow 
night." 

"But  you've  planned  such  a  good 
program!" 

"I?  Mother's  the  program  plan- 
ner in  our  family." 

The  quick  squeeze  Harvey  gave 
her  hand  showed  Dorothy  he  under- 
stood. With  tears  in  her  eyes,  she 
watched  him  quietly  maneuver  the 
grandchildren  out  of  the  room. 
Then  she  squared  her  shoulders  and 
waited  for  a  chance  to  speak  to 
Sarah. 

Dorothy  was  smiling  by  the  time 
she  had  a  chance  to  say,  "Mother- 
Mother,  why  don't  you  ask  the 
grandchildren  to  put  on  some  kind 
of  entertainment  for  the  family  din- 
ner? I'm  sure  they'd  love  to  show 
off  for  the  aunts  and  uncles." 


Edith  Larson,  Manton,  Michigan,  won  third  prize  in  the  Rehef  Society  Short  Story 
Contest  last  year,  and  thus  is  a  second-time  award  winner  in  this  year's  contest.  She  is 
a  graduate  of  Northwestern  University.  Her  husband,  Carl  Larson,  is  in  the  lumber 
business,  and  her  daughter,  Mary  Margaret,  is  a  high  school  junior  with  aspirations 
toward  Brigham  Young  Uni\'ersity.  Mrs.  Larson  is  a  spare-time  writer  whose  work  has 
appeared  in  several  national  magazines.  At  present,  her  writing  time  is  being  seriously 
interrupted  by  an  original  television  program  for  children  which  she  directs  on  her 
hometown  station.  She  comments  that  she  is  as  active  in  the  Traverse  City  Branch  of 
the  Church  as  a  distance  of  forty  miles  permits.  She  is  currently  serving  as  Y.W.INLLA. 
president. 


CJuture  uiesoh 


esoive 

Hazel  M.  Thomson 

Dishes  to  be  washed, 

Scrubbing  to  be  done; 

Clothes  to  hang  out, 

W^hile  yet  there  is  sun. 

Socks  to  be  darned, 

Shirts  to  be  mended; 

Supper  time  comes. 

The  work  still  isn't  ended. 

Ld  write  the  great  verse, 

If  there  were  hours  to  borrow, 

The  words  sing  in  my  heart, 

I  shall  write  them  .  .  .  tomorrow. 


JACKSON  LAKE  AND  MOUNT  MORAN,  WYOMING 


uientagi 


Leslie  Savage  Clark 


These  are  our  common  heritage — 

The  scarlet  autumn,  spring; 

No  man  can  fence  bright  April  in, 

Nor  cage  the  migrant  wing. 

And  hearts,  alike,  have  common  dower 

Of  laughter,  tears,  and  pain. 

The  same  deep  need  to  share  love's  sun 

And  pity's  gentle  rain. 

May  God,  in  mercy,  make  us  wise 
So,  working  hand  in  hand. 
We  build  a  greater  brotherhood 
In  this  beloved  land. 


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cJhe    I  ietherlands    1 1  ii 


ission 


Pieston  R.  Nihley 


'TTHE  first  missionary  to  carry  the  gospel  to  the  Netherlands  was  Elder 
Orson  Hyde,  a  member  of  the  original  Council  of  the  Twelve,  who 
visited  Rotterdam  in  June  1841,  while  on  his  way  to  Palestine  to  dedicate 
that  land  for  the  return  of  the  Jews.  In  Rotterdam  he  became  acquainted 
with  a  Jewish  Rabbi,  *'to  whom  he  explained  the  object  of  his  intended 
trip  to  the  Holy  Land,  and  also  testified  of  the  restored  gospel." 

Twenty  years  were  to  pass  before  other  missionaries  of  the  Church 
visited  the  Netherlands.  At  the  annual  conference  of  the  Church,  held 
in  Salt  Lake  City  in  April  1861,  two  Elders,  Paul  Augustus  Schettler  and 
A.  Wiegers  van  der  Woude,  were  called  to  serve  as  missionaries  in  Holland. 
They  arrived  in  Rotterdam  in  August  1861,  and  after  spending  a  few 
days  in  that  city  proceeded  on  to  Amsterdam,  where  they  began  their 
labors.    Shortly  afterwards  Elder  van  der  Woude  traveled  to  Friesland  to 


Photograph  by  Rinze  Schippers 
Submitted  by  Ada  S.  Van  Dam 


THE  OLD  GATEWAY   (DELFTSEPOORT),  DELFT,  HOLLAND 


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THE  NETHERLANDS  MISSION 


89 


Photograph  submitted  by  Ada  S.  Van  Dam 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  VISITING  TEACHERS   IN  VLAARDINGEN, 

THE  NETHERLANDS 

Left  to  right:  Ogtavie  G.  A.  Van  Wijnen  and  daughter  Gabrielle;  Marrigje  A. 
Van  Rosmalen  and  daughter  Olga  Maria.  These  two  sisters  take  their  children  to 
kindergarten  and  then  do  their  visiting  teaching,  travehng  on  bicycles. 

visit  relatives  and,  on  October  i,  1861,  he  baptized  three  persons,  two  of 
whom  were  relatives,  in  the  town  of  Broek,  near  Akkerwoude.  These  were 
the  first  baptisms  in  the  Netherlands  Mission. 

On  December  23,  1861,  Elder  Schettler  baptized  three  persons  in 
Amsterdam;  other  conversions  followed,  and  early  in  1862  a  branch  of  the 
Church  was  organized  in  that  city. 

From  1861  to  1864  the  Netherlands  Mission  was  part  of  the  Swiss 
and  German  Mission,  but  in  the  latter  year  a  separate  mission  was  formed. 
Belgium  was  later  added  to  the  Netherlands  Mission,  but  it  was  transferred 
to  the  French  Mission  in  1923. 

The  Book  of  Mormon  was  translated  into  the  Dutch  language  in 
1890,  by  Elder  John  W.  F.  Volker  of  Ogden.  In  1896  a  periodical  was 
begun  by  the  Church  in  Holland,  entitled,  De  Ster,  which  has  continued 
to  the  present  time. 

There  are  now  3,254  members  of  the  Church  in  the  Netherlands  Mis- 
sion, located  in  twenty-six  branches.  The  president  of  the  Mission  is 
Elder  Rulon  J.  Sperry  of  Salt  Lake  City.  Twenty-two  Relief  Society 
organizations  were  reported  in  December  1955,  with  279  members.  Lucy 
Emma  G.  Sperry  presides  over  the  Netherlands  Mission  Relief  Society. 


Note:     The  cover  of  this  Magazine  is  a  view  of  a  Grain  Grinding  Mill  in  Leiden, 
Holland.    See  also  "Recipes  From  the  Netherlands  Mission/'  page  104. 


Values  Derived  From  Reading 
Worthwhile  Literature 


Thomas  C.  Roinney 
Do  not  read  good  books — life  is  too  short  for  that.    Only  read  the  best. — Dimnet 


NEVER  before,  perhaps,  was 
there  a  greater  need  for 
emphasis  upon  the  impor- 
tance of  having  high  class  literature 
put  into  the  hands  of  the  children 
and  young  people  than  there  is  at 
the  present  time.  Never  have  evil- 
designing  individuals  been  more 
determined  to  foist  upon  the  public 
their  nefarious  wares  such  as  im- 
moral literature,  indecent  films,  and 
glaring  tales  of  robberies  and  other 
crimes  than  now. 

Reports  from  juvenile  court  rec- 
ords throughout  the  land  reveal  the 
deplorable  fact  that  juvenile  delin- 
quency is  rapidly  on  the  increase, 
manifesting  itself  in  an  ever-increas- 
ing number  of  homicides,  thefts, 
and  other  infractions  of  the  moral 
code. 

The  chief  responsibility  for  the 
prevention  and  correction  of  these 
evils  must  be  placed  upon  the  par- 
ents in  the  home.  They,  in  the 
very  nature  of  things,  are  the  logical 
and  inescapable  guardians  of  their 
children.  The  family  is  the  oldest 
and  most  fundamental  of  all  social 
institutions,  and  here  is  laid  the 
cultural,  moral,  and  religious  pat- 
tern in  the  child's  life  that  will 
largely  determine  his  future  success 
or  failure. 

There  are  no  influences  in  the 
home  so  potent  in  the  formation  of 
the   character  of  the  child  as   the 

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example  and  the  verbal  teachings  of 
its  parents;  but  second  only  to  these 
is,  perhaps,  the  literature  with 
which  the  child  comes  in  contact 
through  different  media,  such  as 
retold  stories,  comic  books,  maga- 
zines, television,  and  radio. 

Of  such  grave  import  in  the  life 
and  character  of  the  child  are  these 
influences  that  the  late  President 
Joseph  F.  Smith  was  led  to  say: 

Books  constitute  a  sort  of  companion- 
ship to  everyone  who  reads,  and  they  cre- 
ate within  the  heart  feelings  either  for 
good  or  for  bad.  It  sometimes  happens 
that  parents  are  very  careful  about  the 
company  which  their  children  keep  and 
are  very  indifferent  about  the  books  they 
read.  In  the  end  the  reading  of  a  bad 
book  will  bring  about  evil  associates. 

It  is  not  only  the  boy  who  reads  this 
strange,  weird  and  unnaturally  exciting 
literature  who  is  affected  by  its  influence, 
but  in  time  he  influences  others.  This  lit- 
erature becomes  the  mother  of  all  sorts 
of  evil  suggestions  that  ripen  into  evil 
practices  and  bring  about  an  unnatural 
and  debased  feeling  which  is  ever  crowd- 
ing out  the  good  in  the  human  heart  and 
giving  place  to  the  bad.  .  .  . 

.  .  .  Let  the  Saints  beware  of  the  books 
that  enter  their  homes,  for  their  influences 
may  be  as  poisonous  and  deadly  as  the 
adder  .  .  .  {Gospel  Doctrine,  pp.  324-325, 
1952  Edition). 

In  like  strain,  President  David  O. 
McKay,  when  a  member  of  the 
Council  of  the  Twelve,  emphatically 
declared: 


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Men  in  Israel,  it  is  time  that  we  take 
a  stand  against  vile  literature.  It  is  poison- 
ous to  the  soul.  It  is  the  duty  of  a 
parent  to  put  the  poison  that  is  in  the 
house,  on  the  highest  shelf,  away  from 
that  innocent  little  child  who  knows  not 
the  danger  of  it.  It  is  the  duty  of  the 
parent  also  to  keep  the  boy's  mind  from 
becoming  polluted  with  the  vile  trash  that 
is  sometimes  scattered — nay,  that  is  daily 
distributed  among  us.  ,  .  .  Teach  your 
children,  your  boys  and  girls  e^'ery where, 
to  keep  away  from  every  bad  book  and 
all  bad  literature,  especially  that  which 
sa\'ors  of  hatred,  or  envy,  or  malice,  that 
v\hich  bears  upon  it  the  marks  of 
hypocrisy,  insincerity,  edited  by  men  who 
have  lost  their  manhood  (Liahona,  vol.  8, 
page  310). 

"^jyHILE  unfit  literature  has  such 
a  baleful  influence  upon  the 
morals  of  the  growing  child,  much 
can  be  said  of  the  uplifting  and 
wholesome  influence  of  good,  chaste 
literature  upon  his  life.  No  child 
is  likely  to  go  far  astray  from  the 
path  of  rectitude  and  virtue  who, 
from  his  earliest  childhood,  has 
been  reared  in  a  home  where  there 
is  daily  reading  of  the  scriptures 
and  other  good  books  as  the  Lord 
has  directed: 

.  .  .  yea,  seek  ye  out  of  the  best  books 
words  of  wisdom;  seek  learning,  even  by 
study  and  also  by  faith  (D.  &  C.  88:118) . 

Said  the  great  Roman  orator, 
Cicero: 

There  is  nothing  so  charming  as  the 
knowledge  of  literature;  of  that  branch  of 
literature,  I  mean,  which  enables  us  to 
discover  the  infinity  of  things,  the  im- 
mensity of  Nature,  the  heavens,  the  earth 
and  the  seas.  This  is  that  branch  which 
has  taught  religion,  moderation,  magna- 
nimity, and  that  has  rescued  the  soul 
from  obscurity;  to  make  her  see  all  things 
above  and  below,  first  and  last,  and  be- 
tween both;  it  is  this  that  furnishes  us 
wherewith  to  live  well  and  happy,  and 
guides  us  to  pass  our  lives  without  dis- 
pleasure and  offence. 


The  Bible  is  such  a  book,  and  it 
has  had  a  more  powerful  influence 
upon  the  lives  of  prominent  men 
and  women  down  through  the 
centuries  than  all  of  the  other  great 
works  of  literature  combined. 

There  are  few  plays  of  the  im- 
mortal William  Shakespeare  that  do 
not  bear  the  imprint  of  intensive 
reading  of  that  sacred  book;  and 
the  masterpieces  of  John  Milton, 
'Taradise  Lost"  and  'Taradise  Re- 
gained," have  borrowed  their  most 
important  characters  and  plots  and 
much  of  their  lofty  style  from  the 
Holy  Bible. 

By  taking  a  glance  at  the  found- 
ers and  preservers  of  our  great 
American  Republic,  we  see  that 
the  vast  majority  were  reverent  men 
and  intensive  readers  of  the  word 
of  God.  Such  were  George  Wash- 
ington, Benjamin  Franklin,  Abra- 
ham Lincoln,  and  others  whose 
names  loom  large  on  the  pages  of 
early  American  history. 

Space  will  not  permit  an  exhaus- 
tive survey  of  the  literature  read  and 
absorbed  by  these  men  and  its  in- 
fluence upon  their  lives,  but  by  way 
of  illustration,  I  submit  a  few  ex- 
amples from  the  life  and  utterances 
of  the  great  emancipator,  Abraham 
Lincoln. 

From  his  early  childhood,  Abra- 
ham had  related  to  him  by  his 
mother  the  beautiful  stories  of  the 
Bible.  Later,  as  he  developed  into 
young  manhood,  he  became  a  de- 
vout student  of  that  holy  record. 
The  influence  of  that  early  training 
and  profound  study  finds  expression 
on  almost  every  page  of  his  letters 
and  speeches  later  in  life.  We  see 
this  not  only  in  the  reverent  and 
heartbreaking  tenderness  of  his  mes- 


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sages,  but  in  the  strikingly  clear  and 
concise  language  in  which  he  clothed 
his  thoughts. 

'M'OTE  the  Christlike  quality  and 
directness  of  expression  in  the 
following  letter  addressed  by  him 
to  a  mother  whose  sons  had  been 
stricken  down  on  the  field  of  battle: 

Dear  Madam:  I  have  been  shown  in 
the  files  of  the  War  Department  a  state- 
ment of  the  Adjutant  General  of  Massa- 
chusetts that  you  are  the  mother  of  five 
sons  who  have  died  gloriously  on  the  field 
of  battle.  I  feel  how  weak  and  fruitless 
must  be  any  word  of  mine  which  should 
attempt  to  beguile  you  from  the  grief  of 
a  loss  so  overwhelming.  But  I  cannot  re- 
frain from  tendering  you  the  consolation 
that  may  be  found  in  the  thanks  of  the 
republic  they  died  to  save.  I  pray  that 
our  Heavenly  Father  may  assuage  the 
anguish  of  your  bereavement,  and  leave 
you  only  the  cherished  memory  of  the 
loved  and  lost,  and  the  solemn  pride  that 
must  be  yours  to  have  laid  so  costly  a 
sacrifice  upon  the  altar  of  freedom. 

As  he  left  his  home  in  Springfield 
to  assume  the  duties  of  the  highest 
position  that  can  be  conferred  upon 
a  citizen  of  the  United  States,  he 
bade  farewell  to  his  neighbors  and 
fellow-townsmen  in  these  touching 
words: 

For  more  than  a  quarter  of  a  century 
I  have  lived  among  you,  and  during  all 
that  time  I  have  received  nothing  but 
kindness  at  your  hands.  Here  I  have 
lived  from  my  youth  till  now  I  am  an 
old  man.  Here  the  most  sacred  trusts  of 
earth  were  assumed;  here  all  my  children 
were  born;  and  here  one  of  them  lies 
buried.  .  .  .  Today  I  leave  you:  I  go  to 
assume  a  task  more  difficult  than  that 
which  devolved  upon  General  Washing- 
ton. Unless  the  Great  God  who  assisted 
him  shall  be  with  and  aid  me,  I  must 
fail.  But  if  that  same  omniscient  mind 
and  the  same  Almighty  arm  that  directed 
and  protected  him  shall  guide  and  sup- 
port me,  I  shall  not  fail;  I  shall  succeed. 


Let  us  pray  that  the  God  of  our  fathers 
may  not  forsake  us  now.  To  Him  I 
commend  you  all.  Permit  me  to  ask 
that  with  equal  sincerity  and  faith  }'0u 
will  inxoke  His  wisdom  and  guidance  for 
me. 

A  classic  example  illustrative  of 
well-nigh  perfect  literature  and 
usually  cited  by  critics  of  speech  is 
Lincohi's  Gettysburg  address  which 
I  commend  to  the  reading  public. 

It  would  be  an  injustice  to  the 
memory  of  the  Prophet  Joseph 
Smith  did  I  not  call  attention  brief- 
ly to  some  of  the  beautiful  litera- 
ture contained  in  our  modern  sacred 
records.  There  is  no  more  impres- 
sive and  artistic  language  than  is 
contained  in  Section  121  of  the 
Doctrine  and  Covenants,  written  by 
the  Prophet  under  the  inspiration  of 
the  Almighty,  while  a  prisoner  in 
Liberty  jail  in  Missouri.  The  same 
can  be  said  of  Section  76  of  the 
same  book,  in  which  appears  a 
graphic  description  of  the  three  de- 
grees of  glory. 

And  what  has  been  said  of  The 
Doctrine  and  Covenants,  can  truth- 
fully be  claimed  for  The  Book  of 
Mormon  and  The  Pearl  of  Great 
Price. 

The  values  to  be  gained  from  the 
reading  of  good  literature  may  be 
summarized  in  a  few  simple  state- 
ments. Such  reading  will  stimulate 
growth  of  the  intellect  through  put- 
ting one  in  touch  with  the  wisdom 
of  the  ages,  both  past  and  present, 
and  will  give  a  foretaste  of  that 
which  is  to  come  through  a  perusal 
of  prophetic  utterances.  In  hours  of 
discouragement  and  despondency, 
the  spirit  can  be  revived  and  a  new 
courage  inspired  by  the  account  of 
others  who  have  similarly  been  de- 


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pressed  but,  by  the  exercise  of  sheer 
will  power,  have  lifted  themselves 
from  the  slough  of  despondency  to 
an  eminence  of  great  achievement. 
Vicariously,  one  can  see  through 
the  eyes  of  others  the  beauties  of 
this  world  and  can  share  in  the 
adventures  incident  to  travel  in  dif- 


ferent lands  and  among  varied  and 
interesting  races  of  people.  Finally, 
the  soul  can  be  enriched  and  puri- 
fied and  a  new  faith  and  hope  be 
born  through  the  reading  of  the 
word  of  God  as  revealed  to  man  in 
all  ages  of  the  world  for  the  salva- 
tion of  his  children. 


vi/hat    /I Lakes  a  uiappa  dii 


appyi 


ome 


Wilma  BoyJe  Bunker 


LAST  night  as  I  tucked  the  covers  around  my  young  son,  he  reached  up  and  pulled 
me  close  to  him  for  a  goodnight  kiss,  and  then  suddenly  asked,  "Mother,  what 
makes  a  happy  home?" 

"Well,  Son,"  I  said,  a  little  startled  by  his  mature  query,  "I  believe  the  most 
important  thing  in  a  happy  home  is  love — love  between  the  mother  and  father,  and 
love  among  all  the  members  of  the  family. 

"Then  you  have  to  have  comradeship,  with  the  whole  family  interested  in  each  other, 
and  part  of  the  time  interested  in  doing  things  together. 

"You  have  to  have  co-operation,  too.  A  family  in  which  each  member  is  selfishly 
pulling  for  himself  is  never  a  happy  one. 

"You  need  a  sense  of  humor  and  lots  of  laughter.  To  be  able  to  laugh  during 
trying  moments  averts  many  a  crisis. 

"You  need  to  have  time  to  relax.  A  family  that  is  too  busy  to  enjoy  life  is  tense 
and  irritable. 

"You  need  sentiment,  too.  Birthdays,  graduations,  achievements,  holidays  should 
be  celebrated,  snapshots  and  keepsakes  treasured. 

"You  need  compassion  and  kindness  inside  the  home,  and  lots  of  it  outside. 

"Above  all,  you  need  to  love  your  Heavenly  Father  and  his  Son,  Jesus,  so  that  you 
will  love  your  neighbor.  Rehgion  gives  comfort  and  warmth,  hope  and  faith,  to  a 
home. 

"So  you  see,  Son,  it  takes  a  lot  to  make  a  happy  home,  much  more  than  walls 
and  roof,  furnishings,  and  a  family  inside." 


K^iant  Saguaros 


Ethel  Jacohson 

Not  fearful  or  importunate, 
They  hft  great  arms  on  high 
In  strength  and  calm  as  to  uphold 
The  azure-vaulted  sky. 

Steadfast  they  rear  through  flood  and  drouth 
That  ravage  wasteland  bournes — 
Rugged  saguaros  robed  in  might 
And  majesty  and  thorns. 


Hearts  United 


Frances  C.  Yost 


CALVIN  and  Susan  Deaton  sat 
before  the  fireplace.  Its  cheer- 
ful warmth  felt  good  on  this 
cold  February  evening.  Occasionally 
Cah'in  would  reach  down  with  the 
fire  tongs  and  turn  the  log,  burning 
on  the  hearth.  Then,  too,  he  would 
reach  over  and  pat  Susan's  work- 
worn  hand  as  she  rested  it  on  the 
armchair.  It  had  been  quite  some- 
time since  either  of  them  had 
spoken. 

Calvin  wondered  what  Susan  was 
thinking  It  wasn't  like  her  to 
sit  with  her  hands  idle.  Usually  as 
they  chatted  in  the  evening,  she 
crocheted  or  knitted.  He  hoped  she 
was  happy,  that  she  was  glad  to 
share  the  September  of  her  life  with 
him.  He  remembered  their  wed- 
ding day,  just  a  year  ago.  Valen- 
tine's Day  seemed  such  an  approp- 
riate day  to  be  married.  Some  of 
the  children,  his  mischievous  Carl 
and  Susan's  Roger,  had  decorated 
their  car  while  they  were  being  mar- 
ried. Calvin  remembered  so  well 
the  drawing  on  the  back  of  the 
car.  It  was  two  hearts  united,  and 
with  the  words  inside,  "J^^^^  ^^^^' 
tied." 

Calvin  looked  over  at  Susan 
again.  She  seemed  lost  in  thought 
as  she  watched  the  firelight.  This 
wasn't  much  of  a  way  to  treat  a 
lady  on  her  wedding  anniversary. 
If  the  car  hadn't  broken  down,  he 
could  have  taken  her  to  a  movie. 
But  what  Susan  would  like  best, 
and  Calvin  admitted  to  himself 
that  he  would,  too,  would  have 
been  for  the  family,  his  grown 
children,  and  hers,  to  drop  in  and 
spend  the  evening.  He  had  thought 
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at  the  time  of  their  marriage  that 
all  the  children  approved,  but  if 
they  were  happy  about  this  second 
marriage,  some  of  them  would  have 
called  and  wished  them  greetings 
today. 

Calvin  looked  again  at  Susan  and 
spoke  affectionately.  "Susan,  my 
dear,  you  are  so  quiet  tonight.  A 
penny  for  your  thoughts."  He  pat- 
ted her  hand  tenderly. 

''I  was  thinking,  Calvin,  that  it's 
been  a  good  year  for  us.  I  was 
thinking  that  I'm  very  glad  you 
proposed  to  me  at  that  old-fashioned 
party,  and  that  we  chose  ^^alentine's 
Day  to  be  married."  She  sighed 
softly,  "But  I  must  admit  I'm  disap- 
pointed that  the  children  ha\e 
forgotten  entirely.  If  even  one  of 
them  had  remembered  to  call  on 
our  anniversary,  it  wouldn't  be  so 
bad." 

"Sometimes  children  are  thought- 
less. They  don't  mean  to  be,  it's 
just  that  they  are  so  busy  living 
their  own  lives.  You  know  how  it 
is  with  growing  children  and  all.  If 
the  old  car  hadn't  quit  on  us,  I'd 
ask  the  sweetest  person  I  know,  to 
go  see  a  movie.  Would  you  like  to 
hop  on  a  bus  and  go  downtown  to 
see  a  show?" 

"No,  Calvin,  I  like  it  here,  really. 
Except  I'd  like  to  see  some  of  the 
family."  Susan  smiled  sweetly  and 
patted  Calvin's  hand. 

"Well,  if  my  old  jitney  hadn't 
balked,"  Calvin  said,  "I  would  take 
you  to  see  them  all.  We'd  go  call- 
ing from  house  to  house  like  we  did 
on  Christmas  morning." 

"That  would  be  nice,  but  it's 
pleasant  here  by  the  fire.    Perhaps 


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some  of  the  family  will  think  to  call 
even  yet  this  evening,"  Susan  as- 
sured him. 

"You've  been  so  quiet,  I  got  to 
wondering  if  you  regretted  marrying 
an  old  codger  like  me.  Your  chil- 
dren were  mighty  devoted  to  you. 
It  wasn't  my  intention  to  come 
between  you  and  your  loved  ones. 
But,  by  George,  I  don't  know  how 
I  managed  without  you  for  those 
fifteen  years,"  Calvin  sighed. 

"I  must  admit,  I've  wondered 
this  evening,  if  your  family  really 
likes  me  as  a  stepmother.  Oh, 
they've  treated  me  lovely,  Calvin, 
really  they  have.  But  your  girls  did 
hover  around  and  sort  of  pamper 
you  all  those  years,  and  I've  won- 
dered if  you've  missed  it.  I 
wonder  if  they  sort  of  resent  my 
taking  their  mother's  place."  Susan 
felt  better  now  that  she  had  aired 
her  thoughts.  She  hoped  Calvin 
would  not  misunderstand  her. 

''Of  course,  my  family  loves  you. 
They  couldn't  help  loving  you. 
You're  so  sweet-natured,  and  as  for 
the  girls  not  dropping  in  each  day, 
it's  just  that  you  keep  the  house  so 
spic  and  span,  and  keep  cookies, 
pie,  and  cake  around  for  my  sweet- 
tooth,  so  that  they  don't  need  to 
come  so  often.  But  1  did  think 
some  of  the  family  would  drop  by 
today."  Calvin  could  not  hide  his 
disappointment. 

^^/^h,  I  forgot  to  tell  you,  Calvin, 
your  Carl  did  stop  by  this 
morning,  right  after  you  left  for 
work.  He  asked  if  he  could  store 
some  long  picnic  tables  in  our  base- 
ment, lie  said  Karen  was  making 
room  in  their  basement  for  the 
children  to  roller  skate  and  bicycle 
during  the  bad  weather.    I  thought 


it  would  be  all  right,  so  I  told  him 
to  bring  them  in." 

''Sure,  that's  fine,"  Calvin  replied. 

"It  was  sort  of  funny,  though. 
My  Roger  had  just  been  here  a  few 
minutes  before  that,  and  asked  if 
we  would  mind  if  he  stored  some 
boxes  and  things  in  the  basement." 
Susan  laughed.  "I  hope  you  don't 
mind." 

"No,  that's  okay.  There's  plenty 
of  room  in  the  rumpus  room.  We 
don't  have  the  parties  there  like  we 
used  to  when  the  kids  were  home. 
I'm  glad  to  help  them  out  any  way 
we  can,  but  didn't  either  of  the 
boys  say  anything?  Didn't  they 
even  say  happy  anniversary.  Mom?" 
Calvin   questioned. 

"No,  they  didn't,  Calvin.  I  guess 
that's  what  made  me  sort  of  down 
in  the  dumps.  I've  tried  to  shake 
it  off  all  day,  but,  it  just  keeps  com- 
ing back,  try  as  I  may."  Susan 
looked  at  Calvin  for  some  kind  of 
reassurance. 

"I  guess  we  have  to  make  our 
own  happiness,  Susan,  not  expect 
someone  else  to  hand  it  to  us  like 
a  valentine."  Calvin  was  more  seri- 
ous than  usual. 

"I  guess  you  are  right,"  Susan 
agreed.  Then  silence  enveloped 
them  as  they  each  lived  with  their 
thoughts  and  watched  the  firelight 
glow.  Yet  they  knew  that  real 
happiness  includes  outside  contacts, 
knowing  that  loved  ones  love  you 
and  approve  of  your  decisions. 
Perhaps  the  children  hadn't  ap- 
proved of  their  marriage,  and  this 
v^as  their  way  of  showing  it:  this 
complete  ignoring  of  their  first 
anni\'ersary! 

"I'm  thinking  too  much  and  not 
working  enough."     Susan  wiped  an 


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escaped  tear  from  her  lashes,  and 
picked  up  her  crocheting  from  the 
end  table.  She  watched  her  fingers 
work  with  the  thread,  the  way  she 
liked  them  to,  but  her  mind  kept 
dwelling  on  the  family,  the  whole 
united  family  —  hers  and  Calvin's 
children.  It  wasn't  as  if  they  lived 
a  long  way  off— everyone  of  them 
was  within  driving  distance.  They 
knew  that  Calvin's  car  wasn't  work- 
ing, they  knew  the  repair  man  had 
said  it  wasn't  worth  fixing.  They 
could  have  dropped  in  if  they  had 
wanted  to. 

Susan  looked  at  Calvin,  his  gray, 
thinning  hair  was  evidence  of  years 
of  toil  and  service  for  his  family 
and  the  community.  She  hated  to 
have  him  hurt.  For  his  sake,  she 
wished  his  children  would  come  by 
and  wish  them  well. 

Calvin  watched  Susan  crocheting 
and  thought  if  only  one  of  her  chil- 
dren would  come  this  evening,  and 
let  her  know  they  were  happy  that 
she  had  remarried.  Children  should- 
n't hurt  their  mother  like  this.  It 
was  like  a  sharp  blade  against 
Susan's  heart,  and  there  wasn't 
anything  he  could  do  about  it. 

"Well,  I'd  better  put  another  log 
on  the  fire,  the  evening  is  still 
young,"  Calvin  said,  rising  from  the 
chair. 

TT  was  after  he  had  placed  the  log 
and  straightened  up,  that  Calvin 
noticed  a  golden  crimson  light  fall 
across  the  window,  like  the  glitter 
on  the  cake  of  a  centenarian.  Then 
they  heard  some  peculiar  noise  out- 
side. Calvin  looked  quickly  at 
Susan,  then  suddenly  the  front  door 
burst  open,  and  it  seemed  the  very 
hosts  of  heaven  were  shouting, 
'Happy  Anniversary,  Mother  and 
Dad!" 


Their  faces  lighted  up  as  they 
looked  first  at  each  other  then  at 
the  throng  of  happy  people  tramp- 
ing through  the  front  door.  They 
both  were  pale,  but  it  was  from 
pure  joy.  Calvin's  children  with 
their  husbands  and  wives,  and  Su- 
san's children  with  their  husbands 
and  wives,  came  marching  in  two 
by  two,  filling  the  room  as  Noah 
filled  the  ark.  All  were  singing  an 
unrehearsed  song  from  an  old  fa- 
miliar tune,  every  line  ending  with 
the  words,  ''happy  anniversary." 

As  the  large  group  of  married 
young  folks  circled  the  room,  Calvin 
and  Susan  found  themselves  stand- 
ing in  the  center  of  all  of  their 
loved  ones.  It  was  such  a  good 
feeling,  having  all  the  children  to- 
gether. They  seemed  like  hearts 
united,  as  they  grouped  themselves 
according  to  age,  like  one  big,  hap- 
py family. 

When  the  song  was  finished,  and 
the  door  closed  against  the  evening's 
chill,  Calvin's  oldest  boy,  John, 
cleared  his  throat,  a  signal  for  com- 
plete silence.  Then  John  acted  as 
spokesman  for  the  group. 

"Mother  and  Dad,"  he  began, 
"in  behalf  of  all  of  us,  to  show  you 
our  love,  we  want  to  give  you  a 
little  present."  There  was  a  chuckle 
from  the  crowd,  then  John  resumed 
his  speech.  "Well,  it's  sort  of  big, 
folks,  we  couldn't  get  it  through 
the  door,  so  if  you'll  step  outside." 

John  took  Susan's  arm  and  John's 
wife.  Vera,  took  Calvin's,  and  they 
were  ushered  to  the  front  porch, 
with  all  the  others  following.  Out- 
side it  was  so  dark  the  stars  seemed 
to  pull  the  sky  down  close.  Then 
someone  turned  on  a  spotlight  at 
just  the  right  moment,  and  there  in 
the  driveway  was  a  new  red  car.    It 


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looked  like  a  valentine  all  wrapped 
in  cellophane  and  tied  with  ribbons. 

John  handed  them  the  biggest 
valentine  they  had  ever  seen,  and 
attached  to  it  were  the  keys  to  the 
car.  Susan  was  overcome  with  joy. 
She  looked  at  Calvin  and  gained 
strength.  He  was  like  a  boy  with 
his  first  ice  skates  at  Christmas 
time.  She  thought  her  heart  would 
burst  with  joy  when  she  read  aloud 
the  card:  ''Roses  are  red,  violets 
are  blue,  Valentine  greetings  to 
both  of  you."  Then  underneath  in 
neat  handwriting,  with  the  signature 
of  all  of  the  two  families,  was  the 
little  message,  ''An  anniversary  gift 
from  all  of  us." 

The  group  grew  suddenly  quiet, 
and  Susan  knew  it  was  time  to  say 
something.  She  turned  to  Calvin. 
Susan  was  glad  he  had  chosen  to 
speak  first,  perhaps  her  heart  would 
stop  fluttering  by  the  time  he  had 
finished. 

Calvin's  voice  choked  as  he 
spoke:  "It's  hard  to  tell  all  of  you 
what  this  means  to  me.  After  driv- 
ing a  car  for  as  many  years  as  I 
have,  a  fellow  sort  of  gets  used  to 
having  one  around  that  will  run. 
I  guess,  even  though  I  am  getting 
along  in  years,  I  never  figured  I  was 
quite  old  enough  to  start  riding  a 
bus  all  the  time." 

Everyone  laughed  a  little,  and 
then  Susan  knew  it  was  her  turn 
to  express  her  appreciation.  "Chil- 
dren, all  of  you,  my  children,  and 
Calvin's,  and  all  of  you  dear,  sweet 
sons  and  daughters-in-law,  we  want 
you  to  know  we  love  you  all  very 
dearly.  We  appreciate  your  open- 
ing your  purses  and  buying  the  car 
we  so  needed,  but  it's  this  coming 
to  see  us,  this  remembering  .  .  .  ." 


A  lump  rose  in  her  throat  and  Susan 
knew  she  couldn't  go  on. 

Then  Martin,  who  was  always  so 
understanding,  came  to  her  rescue 
and  said,  "We  know.  Mother." 

Then  it  was  that  three  of  the 
young  men  jumped  in  the  back  seat 
and  insisted  that  Calvin  and  Susan 
take  them  for  a  ride  around  the 
block.  Someone  shouted  from  the 
porch:  "Remember,  just  around  the 
block,  the  party  is  only  beginning." 

CUSAN  felt  it  was  just  as  well  the 
ride  was  short,  because  Calvin 
was  much  too  excited  to  do  his 
best  driving.  When  they  returned, 
they  found  themselves  being  ush- 
ered down  the  basement  to  the  rec- 
reation room. 

But  she  was  not  preparea  for  the 
surprise  which  greeted  them.  Every- 
one had  been  busy  as  beavers  while 
they  were  driving  around.  The  very 
picnic  tables  that  Carl  had  brought 
over  were  set  up,  and  the  tables 
were  decorated  with  valentines  and 
cupids  with  arrows,  and  entwined 
hearts. 

Susan  noticed  that  her  son,  Roger, 
was  pulling  folding  chairs  out  of 
the  boxes  he  had  brought  over  to 
store  that  morning.  How  very 
stupid  I  have  been,  Susan  chided 
herself. 

Then  down  from  the  kitchen 
came  the  girls,  each  wearing  a  little 
paper  valentine  apron,  and  carrying 
large  platters  of  cold  turkey,  salads 
of  all  kinds,  relishes,  punch,  and 
hot  rolls.  As  they  walked  around 
the  table  hunting  for  their  places, 
Susan  could  hardly  hold  back  the 
tears  of  joy.  Why  the  place  cards 
were  made  from  old  photographs  of 
each  of  them  when  they  were  chil- 
dren. 


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She  remembered  the  clay  Karen 
and  Mary  had  come  gathering  pic- 
tures. It  was  right  after  the  Christ- 
mas rush.  Why,  they  had  been 
planning  this  big  party  for  a  long, 
long  time.  It  would  take  a  long 
time  of  planning  to  ...  to  buy 
a  car.  Susan  knew,  because  even 
though  all  of  the  children  were 
successful,  they  would  have  had  to 
make  some  very  dear  sacrifices  to 
present  them  with  such  a  wonderful 
gift. 

OOW  could  she  ever  have  thought 
they  were  against  her  marriage 
to  Calvin?  Oh,  how  she  had  mis- 
judged them!  Susan  caught  Cal- 
vin's eye  to  sort  of  ask  forgiveness 
for  those  moments  of  distrust.  But 
he  only  winked  back  at  her  mis- 
chievously. 

The  big  dinner  was  topped  with 
homemade  ice  cream  and  cake  for 
dessert.  Martin  and  June  had 
brought  a  five  gallon  freezer  and 
everyone  else  must  have  brought  a 
cake,  because  there  was  such  a 
variety  of  delicious  ones. 

There  followed  a  homey  little  un- 
rehearsed program.  It  reminded 
Susan  of  the  home  evenings  they 
used  to  have  when  the  children 
were  growing  up,  with  each  person 
participating,  even  though  a  little 
timid. 

Then  the  tables  were  folded  up, 
and  Carl  laughed  and  said  that  he 
would  get  the  tables  out  of  their 
way  one  of  these  first  days.  They 
could  have  put  a  record  on,  but 
everyone  seemed  to  want  family- 
style  music.  Ruth  was  ushered  to 
the  piano,  Dick  had  brought  along 
his  violin,  and  Roger,  the  clown  of 
the  family,  improvised  a  drum  from 
some     laundry     equipment.     Paul 


started  calling  for  the  square  danc- 
ing. There  were  enough  to  make 
two  full  squares  of  dancers,  e\cn 
with  the  four-piece  orchestra. 

After  a  square  or  two  of  dancing, 
Calvin's  boy,  Paul,  came  over  and 
said:  ''Dad,  let  me  dance  with 
Mom,  you  call  the  changes  lots  bet- 
ter than  I  can." 

Susan  felt  light  as  a  feather,  and 
as  young  as  any  of  them  as  one 
young  man  after  another  "prome- 
naded the  prettiest  gal  in  town." 
But  it  was  her  heart  that  seemed  the 
lightest,  and  dispelled  entirely  was 
any  doubt  but  that  the  family  was 
completely  satisfied  with  their  mar- 
riage. 

Then,  only  too  soon,  Susan  and 
Calvin  were  standing  in  the  door- 
way with  arms  entwined  as  they 
bade  their  children  goodnight.  Some 
jokingly  said,  ''Good  morning,"  be- 
cause it  was  more  early  than  late. 

When  the  last  car  had  driven 
away,  they  stood  in  the  doorway, 
looking  at  the  car,  their  anniversary 
gift.  Neither  of  them  spoke  for 
some  time.  Words  were  not  need- 
ed. The  children  hadn't  forgotten; 
all  was  right  with  their  world. 

"Fm  glad  their  surprise  went  off 
so  well.  They  did  a  lot  of  work 
and  planning."    Susan  sighed. 

"Such  a  wonderful  surprise  as 
this  was  worth  the  little  tinge  of  un- 
happiness  we  experienced  the  first 
of  the  evening,"  Calvin  said. 

Then,  as  Calvin  closed  the  door 
and  they  turned  facing  the  glow  of 
the  warm  fire,  Calvin  spoke  for  both 
of  them:  "And  to  think  they  all 
chipped  in  and  bought  that  fine  car 
for  us.  They  just  don't  make  better 
children  than  ours,  Susan." 

"Yes,  Calvin,"  Susan  replied,  "all 
hearts  united." 


y^reat    1 1  Lea  Lrrayi 


"THE  TRUST  OF  A  CHILD  AT  A  MOTHER'S  KNEE" 


pRAYER  provides  one  of  the  most 
joyful  and,  yet,  challenging  ex- 
periences that  can  come  to  women 
—that  of  teaching  children  to  pray. 
The  occasion  of  kneeling  down 
with  children  or  having  a  child  at 
your  knee  is  the  beginning  of  a 
spiritual  habit  which,  if  cultivated, 
can  be  one  of  the  greatest  influences 
in  the  child's  hfe.  For  this  reason, 
a  woman  should  regard  the  teach- 
ing of  a  child  to  pray  as  one  of  the 
sacred  experiences  of  his  childhood. 

It  is  often  stated  that  the  basic 
habits  of  life  are  established  by  the 
time  the  child  reaches  the  age  of 
six    or    when    he    starts    going    to 


school.  The  habit  of  conversing 
with  our  Father  in  heaven  certainly 
is  basic  and  essential  to  spiritual 
health. 

When  a  mother  begins  to  teach 
a  child  to  pray,  she  must  pray  with 
words  that  will  be  simple  enough 
for  the  child  to  understand  and  try 
to  pronounce  correctly.  Neverthe- 
less, the  words  should  be  reverently 
spoken  in  such  a  way  that  the  child 
will  catch  the  spirit  of  pra^^er. 
Later,  when  a  child  begins  to  pray 
in  secret  by  himself,  he  will  repeat 
the  same  phrases  and  words  which 
he  has  heard  his  parents  use.  These 
words  and  phrases  may  lose  their 
meaning  to  a  child  through  re- 
peated use.  Therefore,  words  for 
prayers  should  be  carefully  selected 
and  varied,  in  order  that  the  child 
may  gain  a  full  insight  to  prayer  and 
the  power  which  comes  spiritually 
from  prayer. 

A  mother  and  her  child  both  re- 
ceive abundant  blessings  from  this 
enriching  experience  of  learning  to 
pray  together. 

Great  is  the  woman  who  has 
taught  a  child  to  rely  faithfully  on 
prayer  as  a  source  of  strength,  wis- 
dom, and  patience.  And  great  is 
the  child  spiritually,  who  has 
learned  to  do  so. 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


Page  99 


Sixty    years  Ji^go 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  February  i,  and  February  15,  1897 

'Tor  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 

Women  of  All  Nations" 

VIEW  IN  SWITZERLAND:  We  ascended  the  Rigi  Kulen  where  we  have  a 
fine  \'iew  of  Eastern  and  Northern  Switzerland.  The  eye  sweeps  over  eleven  lakes, 
plains  and  streams  to  the  crest  of  the  Jura  mountains  and  over  the  Burnese  Obcrland 
Alps,  a  circuit  of  three  hundred  miles  .  .  .  shining  snow-capped  peaks  rise  one  behind 
another  until  the  last  is  lost  in  clouds. 

—Kim 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONFERENCE  IN  SANPETE  STAKE:  Counselor  Abbie 
Shoemaker  said  '*We  come  together  to  be  fed  with  the  bread  of  life.  Let  us  be 
humble  and  seek  for  wisdom;  if  we  have  the  spirit  of  God  with  us  we  will  not  have 
malice  in  our  hearts,  but  will  have  a  sisterly  love."  .  .  .  Pres't  Zina  D.  H.  Young  said 
she  was  pleased  with  the  exertions  of  the  sisters  in  getting  houses  to  meet  in.  .  .  . 
Sister  Annie  Taylor  Hyde  of  Salt  Lake  said  if  we  would  desire  a  double  blessing  we 
should  attend  our  meetings.  This  Society  was  organized  by  the  Prophet;  we  are  being 
blessed  as  well  as  blessing,  and  it  makes  us  better  Saints.  .  .  . 

— Maria  Willardson,  Stake  Secy. 

TO  DR.  ELLIS  R.  SHIP? 
(on  her  Birthday) 

The  sun  sets  in  the  crimson  West; 
And  Nature  sinks  to  needed  rest; 
As  the  floods  of  glory  fill  the  air, 
So  may  thy  life  be  now  more  fair. 

Till  reaching  out  where  the  blue  tints  meet. 
May  all  thy  joys  be  full,  complete;  — 
Thy  aims,  thy  hopes,  thy  fondest  dreams, 
Be  glorious,  bright,  as  the  sun's  last  beams. 

— Lydia  D.  Alder 


A  MONUMENT  FOR  HARRIET  BEECHER  STOWE:  The  children  of  Har- 
riet Beecher  Stowe  (author  of  \Jude  Tom's  Cabin)  do  not  look  kindly  upon  the 
proposition  to  erect  a  public  statue  of  their  mother.  Her  son,  Rev.  Charles  E.  Stowe, 
says  it  belongs  to  him  and  his  sisters  to  erect  whatever  monument  may  be  placed 
over  their  mother's  grave.  .  .  . 

— Woman's  Journal 


THE  NEW  WOMAN:  The  new  woman  we  shall  consider,  though,  is  not  a 
new  woman  any  more  than  the  sun  that  shone  today  is  a  new  sun  or  the  stars  that 
shine  tonight  are  new  stars.  To  one  who  has  only  begun  to  see  they  might  all  appear 
new,  but  they  have  ever  existed,  conforming  always  to  God's  immutable  laws.  .  .  . 

— Miss  Elsie  Ada  Faust 

From  an  Address  at  the  Alumni  Banquet 
University   of   Utah 

Page  100 


Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


lyriSS  EMMA  LEAVEN- 
^  ^  W  O  R  T  H,  of  Seattle,  Wash- 
ington, took  up  airplane  flying  at 
the  age  of  fifty-seven.  Now,  at 
seventy-seven,  she  still  flies,  even 
solo.  Among  the  first  civilian  pilots 
to  volunteer  for  civil  defense  at  the 
outbreak  of  World  War  II,  she  is 
still  active  in  the  Civil  Air  Patrol 
and  subject  to  recall  in  an  emer- 
gency. 

lyrRS.  LINNEA  SETTERLIND 
^  ^  MORRISON,  a  young  widow 
with  three  children,  while  working 
for  her  bachelor  of  science  degree  in 
psychiatry  and  education  at  Gusta- 
vus  Adolphus  College,  St.  Peter, 
Minnesota,  became  converted  to  the 
gospel,  along  with  her  children. 
Now  at  Columbia  University,  New 
York,  working  for  a  master's  degree 
in  mental  health  and  psychiatric 
nursing,  she  has  been  awarded  the 
United  States  Public  Health  stipend 
($2,400)  for  advanced  study  in  her 
useful  field. 

TN  Waco,  Texas,  Baylor  University 
recently  honored  Mrs.  Ruth 
Schick  Montgomery— an  alumna  of 
its  journalism  department— as  ''an 
outstanding  champion  of  truth  and 
freedom."  A  correspondent  for  In- 
ternational News  Service  in  Wash- 
ington, D.  C,  she  was  awarded  the 
honorary  degree  of  doctor  of  laws. 


pRINCESS    MARIE    LOUISE, 

eighty-four,  last  surviving  grand- 
daughter of  Queen  Victoria,  died  in 
London  December  7.  The  Royal 
Princess,  democratic  in  manners 
and  adventurous  in  spirit,  traveled 
widely  and  wrote  several  books 
about  her  journeys. 

VARA  NELSOVA,  one  of  the 
world's  greatest  cellists,  was 
guest  soloist  with  the  Utah  Sym- 
phony in  the  Tabernacle  for  the 
world  premiere  of  Dr.  Leroy  Rob- 
ertson's ''Concerto  for  Cello  and 
Orchestra."  The  New  York  Times 
comments  that  she  "can  swarm  all 
over  the  finger  board  without  let- 
ting a  single  note  drop.  Few  of 
her  male  colleagues  can  claim  as 
much." 

jyrRS.  OWEN  (JAMES  H.) 
^  ^  SHERRAT  of  Cedar  City, 
celebrated  the  centennial  of  the 
handcart  pioneers  by  creating  a 
handcart  quilt  with  much  original- 
ity and  artistry.  She  stenciled  six- 
teen blocks  with  textile  paints,  de- 
picting the  activities  of  the  hand- 
cart women:  laundering,  cooking, 
combing  hair,  patching  children's 
threadbare  trousers,  mourning  for 
the  dying,  and,  lastly,  bowing  their 
heads  in  prayerful  thanksgiving  for 
safe  arrival  in  the  Valley.  The 
quilt  took  first  prize  at  the  Iron 
County  Fair  and  also  at  the  Utah 
State  Fair. 

Page  101 


EDITORIAL 


VOL  44 


FEBRUARY  1957 


NO.  2 


c/i  Step  J^side 


TN  life,  which  may  become  pre- 
dominated with  numberless  daily 
tasks  and  responsibilities,  discour- 
agement comes  easily;  a  gallant  atti- 
tude may  be  lost  and  goals  not 
realized.  Objective  thinking  is 
oftentimes  absorbed  into  the  whirl- 
pool of  circumstantial  emotional 
thoughts  and,  losing  sight  of  the 
end,  we  may  begin  to  think  that 
the  means  are  all  important.  It  is 
then  that  we  might  step  aside  to 
take  a  different  view. 

In  the  fall  of  the  year,  the  grove 
of  aspen  on  the  mountain  is  a  patch 
of  gold  in  the  brilliant  color  scheme 
of  autumn.  We  view  it  as  a  whole 
unit.  Within  the  grove,  the  trees 
stand  out  singly  each  with  its  own 
characteristics,  and  each  tree,  when 
considered  by  itself,  is  not  perfect. 
We  may  not  think  that  it  contrib- 
utes much  because  of  details  which 
we  would  call  defects.  Neverthe- 
less, with  the  others,  it  produces  a 
patch  of  beauty  on  the  mountains. 

The  opportunity  isn't  ours  to  step 
physically  aside  from  life  to  get  a 
different  view  of  our  own  life  with 
all  the  experiences  blending  togeth- 
er to  make  a  complete  and  beautiful 
pattern.  Each  day  a  new  situation 
arises  in  family  life  which  carries  its 
own  importance.  Sometimes,  neces- 
sary daily  tasks  take  on  so  much 
added  meaning  that  their  accom- 
plishment appears  to  be  an  end  in 
itself.      Our    attitudes    are    so    in- 

Pagc  102 


fluenced  by  these  daily  events  that 
our  values  may  become  changed.  As 
a  result,  many  times  the  ultimate 
end  or  goal  is  lost  from  view. 

However,  we  can  take  that  step 
spiritually  aside  from  life  to  view 
events,  attitudes,  and  other  elements 
in  our  pattern  of  life,  if  we  will.  To 
do  so  we  should  carefully  analyze 
each  element  in  the  pattern  of  our 
life  in  view  of  its  significance  and 
ascertain  its  value  by  the  true  stand- 
ards of  measurements  we  have  — 
those  standards  of  measurements 
which  are  included  in  the  gospel  of 
Jesus  Christ. 

The  step  spiritually  aside  can 
bring  beauty  into  the  pattern  along 
with  an  appreciation  for  those  small 
or  simple  things  which  are  around 
each  day  —  the  sunrise,  the  plant 
life,  the  intricate  structure  of  ob- 
jects, and  myriads  of  other  details. 
In  Gospel  Doctiine  (pp.  358-9)  this 
thought  is  inspirationally  stated: 

We  should  never  be  discouraged  in 
those  daily  tasks  which  God  has  ordained 
to  the  common  lot  of  man.  Each  day's 
labor  should  be  undertaken  in  a  joyous 
spirit  and  with  the  thought  and  convic- 
tion that  our  happiness  and  eternal  wel- 
fare depend  upon  doing  well  that  which 
we  ought  to  do,  that  which  God  has 
made  it  our  duty  to  do.  Many  are  un- 
happy because  they  imagine  that  they 
should  be  doing  something  unusual  or 
something  phenomenal.  Some  people 
would  rather  be  the  blossom  of  a  tree 
and  be  admiringly  seen  than  be  an  cndur- 


EDITORIAL 

ing  part  of  the  tree  and  live  the  common- 
place life  of  the  tree's  existence. 

''Let  us  not  be  trying  to  substitute  an 
artificial  life  for  the  true  one.  He  is 
truly  happy  who  can  see  and  appreciate 
the  beauty  with  which  God  has  adorned 
the  commonplace  things  of  life. 

Moments  spent  stepping  aside  in 


103 


spiritual  meditation  can  restore  and 
strengthen  faith,  give  us  new  mean- 
ing in  life,  and  fresh  courage  and 
confidence  to  go  forward,  bringing 
security  and  stability  to  our 
thoughts  and  actions  —  knowing 
that  ''the  threads  of  Hfe  will  run 
appointed  ways."— J.N. 


iuirthdayi  ^congratulations  to  Ji^m^   {Brown  cLyman^ 
QJormer  iKelief  Society  (general  Lrresiaent 

"VU^E  extend  birthday  congratulations  and  best  wishes  this  February  yth, 
to  our  beloved  former  president,  Amy  Brown  Lyman.  Relief  Society 
members  in  the  stakes  and  missions  of  the  Church  are  grateful  for  the 
many  years  of  devoted  service  she  has  given  to  the  work  of  Relief  Society. 
Her  presence  was  appreciated  at  the  recent  annual  general  conference  of 
Relief  Society,  at  the  dedicatory  services  for  the  Relief  Society  Building, 
and  at  the  reception  for  stake  and  mission  officers.  May  she  be  blessed 
in  the  service  she  continues  to  give  as  literature  class  leader  in  her  ward. 
Her  devotion  to  Relief  Society  is  an  example  to  all. 


^Jjawn   Castle 

Eva  WiiJes  Wangsgaard 

Dawn  shone  on  hills  along  the  west 
While  east  was  draped  in  shrouds. 

An  amber  halo  crowned  each  crest 
Beneath  the  smoke-blue  clouds. 

It  thinned  the  sky  to  lucent  green 
And  glowed  with  golden  light, 

As  though  tomorrow  could  be  seen 
While  earth  was  blue  with  night. 

Agleam  with  dawn,  the  flour  mill 

Was  radiant  and  grand, 
A  golden  castle  on  a  hill 

Called  up  from  storyland. 


LKecipes  QJrom  the    I  ietherlands    /flission 

Submitted  by  Ada  S.  Van  Dam 

Red  Cabbage 

(Roode  Kool) 

Recipe  given  by  Adriana  Van  der  Waal 

1  medium-sized  head  red  cabbage  salt  and  pepper  to  taste 

1  large  sour  apple  water 

!4    c.  uncooked  rice  i   tbsp.  vinegar 

!4   tsp.  cloves 

Prepare  the  cabbage  for  cooking  and  then  wash  and  shred.  Cut  the  apple  into 
slices,  add  the  rice  and  cloves  and  enough  water  to  cover.  Steam  for  about  two  hours. 
Mash  and  add  vinegar  to  restore  color.    Serve  hot. 

Carrot,  Potato,  and  Onion  Stew 

(Hutspot) 

Recipe  given  by  Mevrouw  Kraaij,  cook  at  the  Mission  Home 

3  lbs.  large  winter  carrots  4  lbs.  boiled  potatoes 

2  lbs.  onions  salt  to  taste 

Add  water  to  the  sliced  carrots  and  onions  and  cook  about  two  hours.  Then  add 
the  boiled  potatoes  and  salt.    Mash  and  serve  with  goulash  gravy. 

Goulash  Gravy 

2  lbs.  beef  cubes  !4   lb.  butter  or  margarine 
1   onion  1  bay  leaf 

Brown  the  beef  and  onion.  Add  the  bay  leaf  while  browning  the  beef  and  onion, 
and  then  add  water. 

Thicken  with  flour,  salt,  pepper,  and  water  mixed  to  a  smooth  paste.  Simmer  two 
hours  and  serve  over  the  Hutspot. 

Note:  During  the  Spanish  Inquisition,  the  people  of  the  city  of  Leiden  were 
on  the  verge  of  starvation.  Their  mayor,  Burgcmeister  Adrian  Van  der  Werf,  heroically 
refused  to  let  the  people  surrender.  Just  at  the  point  of  desperation,  the  Dutch  were 
successful  in  breaking  a  dike,  thus  flooding  the  Spanish  soldiers  and  forcing  their 
hasty  retreat.  A  little  Dutch  boy  found  some  of  the  enemy's  camp  fires  still  burning 
on  a  little  hill  where  the  water  had  not  reached.  Hanging  over  the  fires  were  kettles 
of  "Hutspot"  that  the  soldiers  were  cooking  for  their  supper.  It  was  the  first  good 
food  they  had  seen  for  weeks.  On  October  3d,  Hutspot  is  still  eaten  in  Holland,  in 
memory  of  the  brave  people  who  had  fought  in  the  siege  of  Leiden. 

Sauerkraut 

(Zuurkool  Stamppot) 

Recipe  given  by  Marie  Mook 

Use  equal  parts  of  sauerkraut  and  potatoes  boiled  separately.  Mash  potatoes.  Com- 
bine potatoes  and  sauerkraut.  Add  cooked,  sliced  frankfurters.  Season  to  taste  and 
serve  hot. 

Split  Pea  Soup 

(Erwten  Soep) 

Recipe  given  by  Mevrouw  Kraaij 

1  lb.  lean  pork  1  celery  stalk 

1  Wienerwurst  (substitute  frankfurters)  2  potatoes 

1  Yz   lbs.  split  peas  4  qts.  water 
4  leeks  (substitute  onions)  salt  to  taste 

celery  leaves 

Poge  104 


RECIPES  FROM  THE  NETHERLANDS  MISSION  105 

Pick  over  peas  and  wash.  Add  them  to  the  water  and  soak  for  several  hours. 
To  this  add  the  finely  cut  vegetables  and  cook.  When  the  peas  and  vegetables  are 
nearly  tender,  add  the  pork,  and  continue  cooking.  Simmer  the  wienerwurst  separately 
for  about  ten  minutes,  then  slice  in  small  pieces  and  add  to  soup.  Simmer  soup  for 
another  fifteen  minutes  and  serve  hot. 

Rice  With  Curry  Sauce 

(Rijst  met  Kerry  Saus) 
Recipe  by  Mevrouw  Kraaij 

Curry  Sauce:  2  tbsp.  butter 

1 n-^     ...T 1/      — ;^„ 


ourry  ^auce: 
4  bouillon  cubes 
1  qt.  boiling  water 

1%   tbsp.  flour 


1   tsp.  curry  powder 


Dissolve  bouillon  cubes  in  boiling  water.  Mix  gradually  and  combine  the  flour  with 
the  broth.     Brown  the  diced  onion  in  butter  and  add  to  the  broth;  add  curry  powder. 

Meat  balls,  seasoned  and  cooked  separately,  may  be  added  to  the  sauce.  Simmer 
for  one  half  hour.     Serve  over  steamed  rice. 

The  following  three  recipes  are  served  during  the  Christmas  and  New  Year  holidays 
in  the  Netherlands. 

Fruit-Filled  Punch  Bowl 

Strawberry  or  raspberry  punch  2  cans  tangerines 

base  diluted  with  water,  7-Up  banana  slices 

or  Sparkling  Water  orange  slices 

2  cans  strawberries  diced  apples 

2  cans  raspberries  chopped  nuts,  optional 

2  cans  cherries,  pitted 

Add  the  fruit  to  the  punch  base  and  sparkling  water.     Serve  cold  in  punch  glasses. 

Oliebollen 
Recipe  given  by  Mevrouw  Kraaij 

2  c.  flour  Vz  c.  currants  and  raisins 

4  tsp.  baking  powder  %  c.  diced  glazed  fruit 

Vi   tsp.  salt  1  medium-sized  sour  apple,  diced 

1  c.  milk  salad  oil  for  deep  fat  frying 

Sift  together  the  flour,  baking  powder,  and  salt.  Then  add  the  milk,  apple, 
currants,  raisins,  and  fruit,  and  mix  together,  forming  a  soft  dough.  Using  two  tea- 
spoons, drop  small  amounts  of  dough  into  hot  oil.  Cook  until  the  balls  become  golden 
brown.     Drain  on  unglazed  paper.     Sprinkle  balls  with  powdered  sugar. 

Apple  Rings 

(Appelbiegnets) 

Recipe  given  by  Mevrouw  Kraaij 

1  c.  flour  1   scant  c.  milk 

1  tsp.  baking  powder  6  sour  apples 

/4    tsp,  salt  salad  oil 

Sift  together  the  flour,  baking  powder,  and  salt.  Then  add  the  milk,  making  a 
batter  in  which  to  dip  the  slices  of  apples.  Each  apple,  uncored,  should  be  sliced  into 
about  six  slices.  Cook  the  apple  slices  in  the  hot  oil  until  the  apple  rings  are  golden 
brown.  Drain  on  unglazed  paper.  Sprinkle  with  powdered  sugar  and  serve  while 
warm. 


A  Flag  for  Utah  Statehood 


Margaret  G.  Derrick 


MANY  people  now  living  have 
probably  never  heard  this 
little  bit  of  history  of  the 
time  when  Utah  became  a  state. 
I  was  then  twenty  years  of  age  and 
took  a  small  part  in  the  making  of 
this  historical  event. 

The  people  of  Utah  had  waited 
long  and  patiently  to  enter  the 
Union.  At  last  the  time  had  ar- 
rived. On  January  4th,  1896,  Utah 
was  to  become  a  state.  There  was 
a  great  deal  of  excitement  in  the 
anticipation  of  this  event.  Everyone 
seemed  busy  making  ready  for  the 
big  celebration  that  was  to  take  place 
in  the  famous  Tabernacle  in  Salt 
Lake  City  on  Temple  Square, 

People  traveled  many  days  from 
all  parts  of  Utah  to  attend.  Some 
came  in  surreys;  some  came  in  wag- 
on boxes;  some  came  on  hayracks 
partly  filled  with  hay  to  feed  their 
horses. 

They  parked  their  teams  back  of 
what  was  then  the  tithing  office, 
which  stood  where  the  Hotel  Utah 
now  stands. 

Committees  were  appointed  to 
prepare  for  this  long-awaited  event. 
One  committee  was  headed  by  Hy- 
rum  B.  Clawson,  a  bishop  of  one 
of  the  wards.  He  said,  "We  will 
make  an  American  flag,  so  the  peo- 
ple of  Utah  will  see  for  the  first  time 
the  forty-fifth  star,  the  Utah  star, 
placed  on  the  blue  ground  of  our 
beloved  American  flag." 

This  flag  was  marked  and  cut  out 
by  my  brother,  David  Glade,  and 
was  to  be  made  on  the  high-powered 
machines  in  the  Z.  C.  M.  I.  Cloth- 
ing Factory.     The  flag  was  to  be 

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150  feet  long  and  seventy-five  feet 
wide.  The  stripes  were  to  be  six 
feet  in  width,  the  stars,  six  feet  from 
tip  to  tip.  These  dimensions  were 
handed  me  by  my  brother  on  a  lit- 
tle card  that  is  now  yellow  with  age. 

Six  women  were  asked  to  make 
this  flag.  I  was  the  youngest  of  the 
group.  The  other  five  were  con- 
siderably older  than  I.  The  flag  was 
made  of  good  bunting  and  every 
seam  was  felled  to  give  it  strength. 
Placing  the  stars  on  the  blue  ground 
was  the  hardest  and  the  most  tedi- 
ous part  of  the  work.  The  blue 
ground  was  cut  in  blocks.  Each  block 
was  large  enough  to  contain  a  star; 
then  the  blocks  were  joined  togeth- 
er. By  this  method  we  were  able 
to  do  a  better  job  of  placing  the 
stars  in  straight  rows.  It  took  one 
week  for  us,  working  eight  to  ten 
hours  a  day,  to  make  the  flag.  When 
it  was  finished,  it  took  eight  strong 
men  to  lift  it. 

We  who  worked  on  the  flag  were 
not  told  where  it  was  to  be  placed. 
We  knew  it  could  not  be  placed  on 
a  flag  pole.  We  were  soon  to  find 
out  that  it  was  to  be  placed  in  the 
Tabernacle  to  form  a  ceiling.  The 
blue  ground  was  placed  near  the 
large  organ,  that  is,  in  the  north- 
west part  of  the  Tabernacle.  There 
were  nine  feet  of  space  between  the 
dome  of  the  Tabernacle  and  the 
flag.  When  the  air  circulated 
through  this  space  it  caused  the 
flag  to  ripple  across  the  ceiling. 

What  a  beautiful  sight! 

r\^  the  momentous  day,  I  watched 

the  flag  as  it  rippled  across  the 

ceiling  and  tears  filled  my  eyes  and  a 


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lump  came  into  my  throat.  I  felt 
this  flag  was  saying,  'Troudly  I 
wave  over  you,  home  of  the  brave 
and  land  of  the  free."  Utah  was 
certainly  a  home  of  brave  pio- 
neers who  had  suffered  and  come 
here  to  have  freedom  to  worship. 

It  came  time  for  the  ceremonies 
to  begin.  A  large  electric  light  had 
been  placed  back  of  the  Utah  star. 
The  audience  was  seated  and  at- 
tention given  to  the  speaker.  Then 
the  light  was  turned  on,  and  the 
Utah  star  shone  out  bright  and 
beautiful.  The  people  wept  with 
joy  and  were  filled  with  humility, 
when  they  saw  the  Utah  star  with 
the  stars  of  the  other  forty-four 
states  of  the  Union.  The  dream  of 
the  people  of  Utah  had  come  true. 
For  the  first  time,  the  Utah  star 
took  its  place  on  the  blue  ground 
of  our  beloved  flag.  Patience  and 
hard  work  had  been  rewarded. 

For  many  years  this  flag  had  the 
distinct  honor  of  being  the  largest 
flag  ever  made.  Not  until  recent 
years  have  we  heard  of  one  larger. 

The  flag  stayed  on  the  ceiling  of 
the  Tabernacle  for  one  and  one- 
half  years.  It  was  then  taken  down 
and  placed  on  the  south  outside 
wall  of  the  temple,  covering  the  en- 


tire south  wall.  That  was  for  July 
24th,  1897  ~  celebrating  fifty  years 
since  the  coming  of  the  first  pio- 
neers. We  last  saw  the  flag  adorn- 
ing the  temple.  Many  prominent 
people  have  tried  to  find  out  what 
became  of  this  flag,  but  have  not 
succeeded. 

Sixty  years  ago  there  was  no  place 
to  store  such  an  immense  thing. 
Families  of  five  and  six  members 
were  living  in  three  small  rooms. 
Wherever  it  could  have  been  placed 
it  would  have  deteriorated. 

This  beautiful  flag  served  well 
the  purpose  for  which  it  was  made. 
Many  hearts  were  filled  with  joy 
and  happiness  as  they  looked  upon 
it. 

As  I  write  this,  I  am  the  only  one 
living  today  who  helped  to  make 
that  flag  that  was  the  first  to  carry 
the  forty-fifth  star,  the  Utah  star. 
I  hope  mv  grandchildren  will  re- 
member that  their  grandmother 
sewed  love  into  this  famous  flag. 

Let  us  all  remember,  as  Ameri- 
can citizens,  that  we  are  all  makers 
of  our  beloved  flag,  for  it  is  the 
symbol  of  faith,  courage,  and  the 
love  of  God  and  our  country  in 
the  hearts  of  each  individual.  May 
we  always  live  up  to  these  ideals. 


I  Le\K>  Serial    cJhe   {Bright  Star     to    iuegin  in    1 1  Larch 

\  new  serial  'The  Bright  Star,"  by  Dorothy  S.  Romney  will  begin  in  the  March 
-^~*-  issue  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine.  With  the  Golden  Gate,  California,  as  its 
setting,  the  story  tells  of  Kathy  Tracy's  search  into  the  past  to  find  her  parents,  and  her 
integrity  and  courage  in  planning  the  course  of  her  future.  Dorothy  S.  Romney,  the 
author,  has  previously  been  represented  in  the  Magazine  during  1954  and  1955  with  her 
serial  ''Contentment  Is  a  Lovely  Thing."  Mrs.  Romney  was  born  in  Logan,  Utah,  and 
attended  Utah  State  Agricultural  College.  She  is  the  widow  of  Elmer  Romney  and 
the  mother  of  a  thirteen-year-old  son.  Her  stories  and  plays  have  appeared  in  many 
juvenile  publications. 


■y--     >^A.JaxA*«*.'V=t 


l/lary  fe.  yones    Jjalton  QJinds   diappiness 
in   dier  (Jloobies 

ALTHOUGH  Mary  E.  Jones  Dal  ton,  Roy,  Utah,  is  past  eighty-nine  years  old,  she 
never  neglects  her  hobbies,  or  her  "real"  work. 

Making  quilts  is  an  activity  vi'hich  she  calls  her  "incessant"  hobby,  and  the  ex- 
quisite tulip  pattern  illustrated  in  the  picture  is  one  of  her  favorite  designs.  This  pat- 
tern enables  Mrs.  Jones  to  experiment  with  contrasting  colors  and  with  various  tints  of 
the  same  color  in  designing  the  tulip  bouquets  in  their  "potter}^  bowls."  She  also 
crochets  exquisite  gifts  in  lacy  starched  designs  and  the  popular  "upstanding"  patterns. 
Knitting  and  rug  making  are  long-time  hobbies,  which  provide  some  of  the  most  useful 
gifts  which  Mrs.  Jones  so  much  enjoys  giving  to  her  many  friends  and  relatives. 

She  is  the  mother  of  nine  children,  grandmother  to  twenty-seven,  great  grand- 
mother to  fifty-six,  and  great-great-grandmother  to  eleven.  She  keeps  up  her  own  five- 
room  home,  rents  an  apartment,  attends  all  her  meetings,  does  temple  work,  and  mani- 
fests such  a  keen  and  joyous  interest  in  life  that  she  "cuts  circles"  around  many  younger 
people.  She  has  visited  every  temple  except  the  Hawaiian,  and  the  temple  in  Bern, 
Switzerland. 


»  11^  ■ 


Vl/hen  LPortals  C^Iose 

Ma  be]  Law  Atkinson 

How  beautiful  are  those  we  love 
When  finite  portals  gently  close 
And  precious  memories  unfold 
Like  petals  of  a  perfect  rose! 


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Bitter  Medicine 


Part  2 
Olive  W.  Burt 


Synopsis:  Helen  Lund  for  some  time 
has  been  worried  about  a  neighbor,  May 
Turner,  whose  habit  of  gossiping  may 
cause  trouble  in  the  community.  At  a 
P.  T.  A.  meeting.  May  tries  to  find  out 
how  the  Carlsons  financed  a  new  Cadillac. 
Helen  refuses  to  offer  any  information,  but 
May  hints  that  the  car  may  have  been 
financed  by  a  crooked  business  deal. 

HELEN  Lund  did  manage  to 
forget  about  May  Turner 
and  her  gossipy  innuendoes 
for  several  days.  Then,  suddenly, 
she  was  brought  face  to  face  with 
them  again. 

She  was  sewing  a  little  costume 
for  Jill  to  wear  in  the  Primary  play- 
let when  the  telephone  rang.  She 
lifted  the  receiver  to  hear  Tess 
Carlson's  voice,  high-pitched  and 
almost  hysterical. 

''Helen?  Helen,  Fm  so  glad  you're 
home.  Fm  coming  right  over.  Fve 
got  to  talk  to  you!" 

"Of  course,  Tess.  Come  on." 

Tess  didn't  wait  for  anything 
more.  She  slammed  down  her  re- 
ceiver and  Helen,  somewhat  mysti- 
fied, slowly  replaced  her  own 
receiver  in  the  cradle.  Two  minutes 
later  Tess  was  at  the  door. 

As  soon  as  Helen  saw  her  neigh- 
bor's face  her  curiosity  changed  to 
alarm. 

''What  is  it,  Tess?  Has  some- 
thing happened  to  Jamie?  Or  to 
Jim?    What  is  it?" 

"Oh,  Helen,  it's  awful!  I  don't 
know  what  to  do!  I  called  Marge 
Lewis  and  she  said  to  talk  to  you, 
you  might  know  what  it's  all  about. 
She  said  she  saw  you  and  May 
Turner    talking    at    the    P.  T.  A. 


meeting    and    afterward    someone 
said      you      were      talking     about 

T'  " 

Jim.  .  .  . 

Helen's  face  flushed,  and  she  was 
about  to  say,  "I  wasn't  talking!" 
But  before  she  could  get  the  words 
said,  Tess  went  on,  "Someone's 
been  saying  awful  things  about  Jim 
—just  because  he  bought  a  new 
car 

"Weil,  if  that's  all,"  Helen  inter- 
rupted, "you  needn't  get  upset 
about  it.    It  can't  matter  much." 

"Oh,  can't  it?"  Tess  cried.  "You 
just  don't  know,  Helen.  Somehow 
Mr.  Nestor  —  he's  head  of  the  law 
firm,  you  know,  where  Jim  works  — 
well,  somehow  he  heard  something. 
Goodness  knows  what!  But  this 
morning  he  called  Jim  into  his 
office  and  said,  'What's  this  I  hear 
about  your  being  mixed  up  in  some 
crooked  uranium  deal?'  " 

"Oh,  no!"  Helen  exclaimed.  "It's 
not  possible,  Tess!  It's  just  not 
possible!" 

Tess  nodded  her  head  and  tears 
filled  her  eyes.  "That's  what  he 
said  to  Jim— to  my  Jim!  And  Jim 
just  stood  there  with  his  mouth 
open.  He  didn't  know  what  Mr. 
Nestor  was  talking  about,  and  when 
he  told  Mr.  Nestor  he  didn't  have 
any  idea  what  he  was  getting  at, 
he  still  acted  suspicious." 

Tess  flopped  down  onto  the  set- 
tee and  began  to  sob.  "Jim  phoned 
me.  He's  awfully  upset,  and  I 
called  Marge  to  see  if  she'd  heard 
anything  and  she  told  me  to  talk  to 
you.  Oh,  Helen,  what  is  it?  Crooked 
uranium  deal  —  I  never  heard  of 

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such  a  thing!    We  don't  even  have  this  sort  of  thing.   May  Turner  will 

any  uranium  stock,  or  anything!"  have    to    be    cured!"      The    tears 

"Listen,  Tess,"  Helen  said  quiet-  flooded  her  eyes  again, 
ly.  'Tet  me  tell  you  exactly  what  Helen  shook  her  head  determin- 
was  said  at  the  P.T.A.  meeting,  and  edly.  'The  best  way  to  cure  this 
maybe  we  can  get  some  idea.  .  .  ."  is  to  ignore  it,"  she  advised.  ''Be- 
Briefly  she  outlined  May's  at-  lieve  me,  Tess,  that's  the  only  thing 
tempts  to  extract  information  and  to  do.  I  know  none  of  our  crowd 
the  woman's  carelessly  tossed  bait  would  repeat  anything  malicious  — 
that  Jim  must  have  made  some  and  you  know  it,  too.  We'll  just 
money  in  a  crooked  uranium  deal.  forget  May  and  all  her  talk." 

''She  didn't  really  mean  it,  Tess. 
She  was  just  saying  that  to  try  to  IJELEN  had  reason  to  wonder 
get  something  out  of  me.  It  was  about  the  wisdom  of  this  advice 
too  silly.  I  guess  some  of  the  wom-  a  day  or  two  later.  Jill  was  en- 
en  standing  nearby  could  have  sconced  in  their  cheerful  kitchen 
heard  her,  but  no  one  —  not  a  eating  her  after-school  snack  while 
single  soul  would  believe  it  for  a  Helen  balanced  a  cake  on  one  hand, 
minute.  We  all  know  Jim  .  .  .  ."  as  with  the  other,  she  swirled  rich 
"Well,  someone  believed  it  and  frosting  over  the  sides.  Jill  watched 
passed  it  on  for  the  truth.  And  her  mother,  her  eyes  big  and  round 
somehow  it  got  to  Mr.  Nestor,  and  as  she  munched  a  cookie  and 
now,  maybe,  Jim  will  not  be  made  washed  it  down  with  milk, 
a  partner."  Finally  she  asked  casually,  "Mom- 

"Not  on  a  mere  rumor  like  that,  my,  when  is  Daddy  going  to  jail?" 

Tess.     You   tell   Jim   exactly  what  Helen    gave    a    start   and    nearly 

happened  and  have  him  explain  it  dropped   the  cake.     She  stared  at 

to  Mr.  Nestor.     Tell  him  to  keep  her  daughter,  open-mouthed.  Then, 

calm,  treat  it  for  just  what  it  is,  remembering  that  the  first  duty  of 

some  gossipy  woman's  careless  re-  a  parent  was  to  show  no  alarm  over 

mark.    Everything  will  be  all  right,  a     child's     questions,     she     smiled 

I  know  it  will,  Tess.    Jim  isn't  home  cheerfully.    "What  a  silly  question, 

now,  is  he?"  Jill!" 

Tess  shook  her  head.  "It's  not  silly.  Mommy.     Teddy 

"Well,  then,  dry  your  eyes.     I've  Turner  told  me  at  school.    He  said 

just   made  a   lemon-meringue    pie.  Daddy   might   go   to   jail  any   day 

your  favorite,  Tess.     I'll  go  cut  us  now,  and  he  wants  to  know  if  he 

each  a  slice,  and  we  can  think  about  can  go  with  us  when  we  go  to  visit 

something  more  pleasant  than  that  him,  'cause  Teddy's  never  seen  the 

silly  talk."  inside  of  a  jail." 

Tess  couldn't  resist  the  comfort  "Neither  have  you,  darling,  and 

of   Helen's   delicious   pie,   but   she  neither   have    I,    and    neither    has 

wasn't   entirely   consoled.      As   she  Daddy.      And    we    never    shall,    I 

ate,  she  said  thoughtfully,  "Some-  imagine.     Teddy  was  teasing  you, 

thing    ought    to    be    done,    Helen.  Jill." 

Really.     It's  getting  past  a  joke  —  "No,  he  wasn't  teasing.  Mommy, 

we  simply  can't  keep  on  ignoring  He  told  me.    He  said  he  heard  his 


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mommy  talking  on  the  phone  and 
she  said  she  wouldn't  be  s'prised  if 
Daddy  was  found  out  and  sent  to 
jail.  What  did  he  do,  Mommy,  to 
be  found  out?" 

Helen  set  the  cake  down  care- 
fully. She  waited  a  moment  to  get 
control  of  the  surprised  anger  that 
flared  through  her  whole  being. 
Then,  forcing  her  voice  to  sound 
casual  and  .unconcerned,  she  said, 
'Teddy's  a  joker,  darling.  His  mom- 
my was  just  playing  a  game.  You 
shouldn't  listen  to  such  silly 
things." 

"How  can  I  help  listening  when 
Teddy  is  talking  straight  to  me?" 
Jill  asked  reasonably.  ''All  the  kids 
were  Hstening,  too.  We  couldn't 
help  it.  And  he  wasn't  playing  a 
game.  .  .  ." 

"Jill^  hsten  to  Mommy.  When 
folks  say  things  like  that  they  are 
playing  a  game  —  a  silly,  naughty 
game.  They're  trying  to  make  you 
scared  or  angry."  She  sat  down 
beside  her  daughter.  "Look  at 
Mommy,  Jill.  You've  seen  naughty 
boys  tease  a  kitten,  haven't  you? 
Just  to  make  it  squirm  or  squeal?" 
Jill  nodded  thoughtfully.  "Well, 
Teddy  was  just  teasing  you.  But 
instead  of  pulling  your  hair  to  make 
you  cry,  he  just  told  you  stories  to 
make  you  excited  about  Daddy. 
They  were  just  stories,  Jill." 

"You  mean  lies^  Mommy?" 

"Yes,"  Helen  said  firmly.  "They 
were  lies,  naughty  lies.  Now  you 
drink  up  your  milk  and  skedaddle 
outside.  It's  a  lovely  afternoon  for 
jumping  the  rope." 

OUT  when  Jill  was  outside,  Helen 

sat  down  and  stared  at  the  wall. 

Pay  no  attention,  she  had  told  Tess 

the  other  day  and  Jill  today.    Pay 


no  attention.  But  what  good  was 
that  doing?  May  Turner's  gossip 
ing  was  getting  out  of  hand.  When 
it  threatened  a  man's  job,  when  it 
invaded  the  school  playground, 
something  must  be  done.  Obviously, 
paying  no  attention  was  too  mild  a 
pill  for  May's  disease.  Something 
stronger  was  required. 

And  it  was  imperative  that  some- 
thing be  done  immediately.  With 
the  school  bazaar  coming  up,  the 
P.T.A.  members  would  be  thrown 
together  day  after  day  in  work  ses- 
sions. May  would  have  unusual 
opportunities  to  carry  on  her  ma- 
licious work. 

And  how  vicious  it  was!  Helen 
thought,  wrathfully.  Just  because 
she  had  refused  to  discuss  a  neigh- 
bor's affairs,  her  whole  family  was 
being  involved  —  Tony  and  Jill, 
absolutely  innocent  victims.  May 
must  have  been  spreading  her 
poison  by  the  telephone  route. 
Helen  could  almost  hear  her,  "Oh, 
Josephine,  have  you  heard  what 
everyone  is  saying?  I  don't  believe 
it,  of  course— it's  just  gossip.  But 
then,  where  there's  smoke  there's 
fire,  I  always  say.  And  there  cer- 
tainly is  smoke!  No,  I  wouldn't 
want  you  to  repeat  it.  I  never  say 
anything  but  good  about  my  neigh- 
bors," and  then  a  malicious  giggle. 
"Listen.  .  .  ." 

Helen  shook  herself  angrily.  Yes, 
something  must  be  done.  Her  eyes 
shifted  from  their  fixed  gaze  at  the 
wall  and  roamed  around  the  room, 
seeking  inspiration,  help.  But  there 
was  nothing  in  that  bright,  gay 
kitchen,  filled  with  sunlight  and 
the  good  smell  of  cooking,  to  sug- 
gest how  to  combat  this  dark  evil. 

Helen's  eyes  came  to  the  window, 


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where  her  colored  glass  reflected  the 
afternoon  sun  in  myriad  colors.  She 
smiled  in  spite  of  her  worry,  as  she 
always  smiled  when  she  looked  at 
that  pretty  window  with  its  old 
glass,  much  of  which  had  been 
toted  across  the  plains  by  her  own 
ancestors. 

And  then  suddenly  her  roving 
glance  stopped  and  settled  on  a 
little  figurine  that  stood  between 
the  two  red  cologne  bottles  of  her 
own  great-grandmother. 

It  was  a  cheap  little  ornament 
that  her  grandmother  had  given  her 
when  she  was  no  older  than  JilL 
She  had  treasured  it  ever  since,  and 
had  placed  it  there  among  her  col- 
ored glass  so  that  she  could  see  it 
every  day.  She  smiled  now,  remem- 
bering what  her  grandmother  had 
said. 

''Keep  this  where  you  can  always 
see  it,  Helen,  and  it  will  help  you 


to  be  the  kind  of  girl  Grandma  will 
be  proud  of." 

Helen  went  to  the  window  and 
lifted  down  the  little  ornament. 
Holding  it  in  her  hands  she  repeat- 
ed aloud  her  grandmother's  words. 
'These  three  little  monkeys  have 
names,  Helen.  They  are:  Hear-No- 
Evil,  See-No-Evil,  and  Speak-No- 
Evil.  Make  them  your  friends  and 
your  example." 

Suddenly  Helen  laughed,  a  clear, 
ringing  laugh. 

"Yes,  Grandma,  darling,"  she 
said,  "your  three  little  monkeys 
have  been  a  great  help  in  keeping 
me  from  gossip.  And  now,  per- 
haps, they  will  help  someone  else. 
For  I  have  an  idea!  Thanks  Grand- 
ma, thanks!" 

Smiling,  Helen  replaced  the  three 
little  monkeys  in  their  accustomed 
place  on  the  window  shelf. 

{To  be  concluded) 


cJhe    Voice  of  LPi 


eace 


IsaheUe  Jensen 

Oh,  listen  to  the  voice  of  peace; 

It  fills  the  courts  above, 

And  whispers  in  the  lonely  vales 

Of  thy  redeeming  love. 

On  every  leaf  and  tuft  of  moss, 

It  scribes  a  pledge  divine, 

Points  to  the  vales  beyond  the  grave 

Beyond  the  sands  of  time. 

Oh,  listen  to  the  voice  of  peace; 

The  sylvan  echoes  clear 

Reach  out  beyond  the  ebbing  tide, 

To  noble  spirits  dear. 

The  minstrels  waft  it  far  and  wide, 

On  life's  unbounded  shore; 

Oh,  listen  to  the  voice  of  peace, 

Till  time  shall  be  no  more. 


(^andif  for    Valentine  s    Jjaii 


Mary  /.  Wilson 
Molasses  Taffy 


3  tbsp.  butter 
1  tsp.  vinegar 
Vs   tsp.  salt 


1  c.  sugar 
%    c.  water 
1  c.  light  molasses 

Mix  sugar,  molasses,  salt,  vinegar,  and  water  in  pan.  Cook  to  242°F.  (firm  ball). 
Add  butter  and  cook  to  265°  (very  hard  ball).  Pour  into  lightly  buttered  shallow  pans, 
let  stand  undisturbed  until  cool  enough  to  handle.  Butter  hands  lightly,  pull  until  candy 
has  a  satin-like  finish  and  is  elastic.  Pull  out  into  thin  rolls,  cut  with  scissors,  then 
wrap  in  wax  paper. 

Iceland  Moss 
(Hard  Candy) 


4  c.  sugar 

2  c.  white  syrup 

1  c.  water 


tbsp.  anise  extract 
red  coloring 


Combine  sugar,  syrup,  and  water  and  cook  to  310°.  Do  not  stir  while  cooking. 
Add  anise  extract  and  desired  red  coloring.  Mix  well.  Pour  onto  marble  slab.  When 
slightly  cooled,  pass  well-oiled  candy  knife  under  the  mass  of  candy.  Cut  into  squares. 
Wrap  each  piece  individually. 


Stuffed  Date  Drops 


1  Yt  c.  sifted  flour 

Yi  tsp.  baking  powder 

Yz  tsp.  salt 

Yz  c.  commercial  sour  cream 


1  lb.  pitted  dates  (about  70) 

1  egg 

13  oz.  package  pecan  nuts 

!4  c.  shortening 

%  c.  brown  sugar 

Stuff  dates  with  nut  halves.  Cream  shortening  and  sugar  until  light.  Beat  in 
egg.  Sift  dry  ingredients,  add  alternately  with  sour  cream  to  creamed  mixture.  Stir 
in  dates,  drop  on  greased  cookie  sheet,  a  date  per  cookie,  and  bake  in  400°  oven  for 
eight  to  ten  minutes.    Cool  and  top  with  panocha  icing. 


1  c.  brown  sugar  (packed) 


/4   c.  milk 


Panocha  Icing 

Yz   c.  butter 
1  %    to  2  c.  confectioner's  sugar 


Melt  butter  in  saucepan.  Add  brown  sugar.  Boil  over  low  heat  two  minutes, 
stirring  constantly.  Stir  in  milk.  Bring  to  boil,  stirring  constantly.  Cool  to  luke- 
warm. Gradually  add  confectioner's  sugar.  Beat  until  thick  enough  to  spread.  If 
icing  becomes  too  stiff,  add  a  little  hot  water. 


Kyittic  cJt 


re  a  sure 


Maude  Ruhin 

Paper  lace  —  a  bleeding  heart 
Pierced  by  Daniel  Cupid's  dart — 
Clasping  hands,  forget-me-nots, 
A  dove  of  peace  for  happy  thoughts- 
Faded  writing,  cramped  and  fine — 
All  on  Grandma's  valentine! 


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o/  ibxplore  the    Lipst 


airs 


Zippoiah  Layton  Stewart 


IT'S  lonesome  up  there  now— but 
the  rooms  are  filled  with  things 
and  memories  that  ''bless  and 
burn."  Guess  I  never  would  go  up 
those  well-worn  steps  again,  if  it 
were  not  to  lay  away  a  quilt  or  to 
spray  mothproofer  on  the  blankets 
that  are  stored  on  the  closet  shelves, 
and  seldom  used  now  that  the  boys 
and  Mary  are  gone  away. 

It's  an  interesting  place  up  there. 
Somehow,  through  the  years  I  have 
never  cared  to  change  or  make  it 
modern  and  pretty,  as  most  folks 
have  done  with  unused  bedrooms. 
The  scars  of  electric  train  tracks  and 
mechanical  toys  are  on  the  linoleum 
floors,  and,  in  a  large  dark  closet 
under  the  roof,  two  electric  trains 
and  yards  and  yards  of  shining  track 
silently  wait  to  be  polished  and  oiled 
and  played  with  again.  In  that 
same  attic  closet,  a  dozen  or  more 
automobiles,  perfect  replicas  of  past 
models,  are  waiting.  Then  there  are 
the  windup  toys  —  Amos  and  Andy 
and  their  famous  Ford,  a  negro  toe 
dancer,  and  a  large  singing  top, 
waiting  patiently  to  be  wound  up 
again  to  thrill  a  younger  generation 
who  may  play  with  them  and  find 
interest  and  curiosity  in  their  anti- 
quated styles  and  colors. 

In  an  old  steamer  trunk  at  one 
end  of  the  long  closet,  I  peek  in  at 
Mary's  dolls  —  dolls  of  the  past, 
baby  '  wetum"  dolls,  dolls  of  other 
nations,  character  dolls,  a  pretty 
standup  doll,  with  a  blue  dress  given 
her  by  the  captain  on  the  'Turline," 
and,  last,  the  lovely  keepsake  ''Horse- 
man" doll  sent  to  her  from  Hawaii 

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by  John  when  he  was  on  his  mis- 
sion. They,  too,  wait  patiently  in 
the  trunk  for  a  new  little  girl's  arms 
to  love  and  play  with  them  again. 

Hanging  on  the  wall  and  in  cor- 
ners of  this  large  closet  are  boxing 
gloves,  fencing  swords,  a  bow  made 
from  Osage  orange,  and  a  quiver 
filled  with  arrows,  waiting  since  Boy 
Scout  days  to  be  used  again.  On 
the  long  high  closet  shelf  I  find 
some  tennis  shoes,  a  pair  of  track 
shoes  —  and  one  pretty  pair  of 
white  shoe  skates  —  Mary's  last  pair 
before  she  went  away  to  college. 
Hanging  on  the  long  rod  beneath 
the  shelf,  along  with  costumes  and 
other  clothes,  are  some  pretty  eve- 
ning gowns  and  three  or  four  lovely 
bridesmaids'  dresses;  one  especially 
pretty  lavender  taffeta,  a  soft, 
creamy  yellow  one,  and  the  pink 
and  white  net  worn  at  Helen's  and 
Dick's  wedding  during  wartime 
when  taffetas  and  satin  were  not  so 
plentiful.  These,  now  old-fashioned 
frocks,  are  just  waiting.  I  love  to 
touch  them,  and  caress  their  soft, 
silky  folds.  They,  too,  bring  a  flood 
of  pleasant  memories,  and,  for  some 
reason,  I  do  not  care  to  use  them 
for  the  material  alone. 

Two  bedrooms  open  up  together. 
They  were  the  places  where  the  boys 
slept,  and  the  neighbor  boys  played 
on  stormy  days.  The  beds  are  made 
up  with  fresh  linen  now  waiting  to 
be  occupied  by  their  original  own- 
ers when  they  return  on  an  occa- 
sional visit. 

The  bookshelves  along  one  end 
of  the  west  room  are  filled  with  all 


I  EXPLORE  THE  UPSTAIRS 


115 


the  books  of  their  childhood  days. 
Mother  Goose  books,  Hans  Chris- 
tian Anderson's  stories,  Arabian 
Nights  stories,  beautifully  illustrat- 
ed by  Howard  Pyle,  Joel  Chandler 
Harris'  book  about  Uncle  Remus, 
Bible  stories,  Robert  Louis  Steven- 
son's stories,  and  poems  and  books 
about  animals  by  Ernest  Thompson 
Seton.  At  the  other  end,  are 
shelves  with  books  of  high  school 
and  college  days,  the  classics,  law 
books,  art  books,  a  few  fine  old  nov- 
els and  books  on  war  and  adven- 
ture —  books  and  stories  to  satisfy 
the  interests  of  all  of  them,  waiting 
to  be  opened,  read,  and  loved  again. 

'T^HE  walls  of  these  two  bedrooms 
are  interesting,  too.  They  are 
not  adorned  with  pretty  pictures,  but 
with  framed  certificates,  and  diplo- 
mas from  high  school  and  college, 
Priesthood  quorum  awards,  frater- 
nity initiation  certificates,  law  school 
diplomas,  and,  hanging  proudly 
above  them  all,  a  certificate  of  life 
membership  in  the  National  Rifle- 
man's Association  issued  to  one  boy 
in  1949.  In  a  small  drawer  in  the 
dresser  of  the  west  room  I  find  a 
number  of  prized  trophies  from 
small  arms  clubs  and  rifle  and  pistol 
associations.  In  another  larger 
drawer  I  see  the  gas  masks  used  by 
John  and  Dick  when  they  were 
gunners  on  B-i  2  bombers  during  the 
war,  and,  tucked  in  a  corner  of  this 
same  drawer,  is  a  small  black  book 
with  a  diary  or  log  of  Dick's  mis- 
sions over  Germany.  A  brief  story 
of  each  mission  is  outlined,  telling 
the  target,  the  weather,  the  take-off, 
his  personal  feelings,  and  results. 
The  last  story  is  not  complete,  and 
I  remember  that  on  this  mission 
they  were  shot  down  over  Germany 


and  did  not  return  to  the  base  in 
England.  For  a  moment  I  find  my- 
self pausing  to  thank  God  that  his 
life  was  spared  through  that  ter- 
rible ordeal. 

In  another  drawer  I  find  the 
precious  war  letters  tied  in  a  tight 
bundle  with  a  string.  Among  them 
I  find  the  cablegrams  sent  on  our 
birthdays  and  Mother's  and  Fa- 
ther's Days.  Those  yellow  slips  of 
paper  reminded  us  that  we  were 
never  forgotten.  They  were  so  very 
young  and  so  far  away.  Not  all  of 
the  letters  are  in  this  bundle,  just 
the  ones  I  especially  wanted  to 
keep,  the  more  intimate  ones— when 
each  boy  seemed  to  pour  out  his 
heart  a  bit  about  his  religion  or  his 
longing  for  home,  or  a  farewell  let- 
ter as  he  was  departing  for  overseas. 
These  letters,  though  not  so  post- 
marked, came  from  all  over  the 
world.  In  this  drawer,  also,  I  find 
three  certificates  of  honorable  re- 
lease from  the  Air  Corps  and  Navy 
and  a  few  badges  and  trophies  for 
deeds  well  done  while  they  were 
serving  their  country. 

In  another  trunk  in  the  far  end 
of  the  closet  I  open  and  look  over 
and  spray  with  mothproofer  two 
Army  Air  Corps  suits  and  one 
beautiful  suit  of  navy  blue  with 
overcoat  to  match  made  from  Aus- 
tralian wool  and  purchased  espe- 
cially for  Birge  to  come  home  in. 
Yes,  that  trunk  is  filled  with  mem- 
ories, too. 

Well  I  could  reminisce  forever 
telling  about  the  treasures  and  mem- 
ories in  those  upstair  rooms.  Guess 
I'll  go  up  those  stairs  again  and 
again,  when  I  feel  a  bit  sentimental, 
and  want  another  visit  with  Mary 
and  the  boys. 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  oi  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Phyllis  D.  Smith 

GULF  STATES  MISSION,  SOUTH  TEXAS  DISTRICT  RELIEF  SOCIETY 

SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC  FOR  CONFERENCE  AT 

CORPUS  CHRISTI,  October  21,  1956 

Front  row,  seated,  beginning  second  from  the  left:  Nancy  Elliff,  President,  Corpus 
Christi  Branch  Relief  Society;  Phyllis  D.  Smith,  President,  Gulf  States  Mission  Relief 
Society;  Mae  Pool,  President.  South  Texas  District  Relief  Society,  and  chorister  for 
this  group;  Mary  Toyn,  President,  Victoria,  Texas,  Branch  Relief  Society. 

Shirley  Clifton  at  the  organ. 

President  Phyllis  D.  Snuth  reports  that  this  group  presented  the  music  for  the 
conference  sessions  when  Elder  Alma  Sonne  and  Sister  Sonne  visited  the  mission. 

Page  116 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


117 


Submitted  by  Mabel  H.  Pond 

BENSON  STAKE  (UTAH)  SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC  FOR 
STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE,  October  28,  1956 

''All  nine  wards  of  Benson  Stake  were  represented  in  the  Singing  Mothers  chorus 
of  eighty  voices,  that  presented  music  at  both  general  sessions  of  stake  conference  in 
October,"  reports  Mabel  H.  Pond,  President,  Benson  Stake  Relief  Society.  Leora 
Smith  directed  the  chorus,  with  Myrl  Kendell  as  pianist,  and  Adonia  Dennis  as  organist. 


Submitted  by  Roma  C.  Esplin 

ST.  GEORGE  STAKE   (UTAH),  LEEDS  WARD  VISITING  TEACHERS 
ESTABLISH  ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT  RECORD  FOR  SEVEN  YEARS 

December  1956 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Etta  Mariger;  Margaret  Hartley;  Druie  Bradshaw;  Ruth 
Porter;  Dallice  Hartman  (deceased  since  picture  was  taken);  Ethel  Stirling;  Hazel 
McMullin. 

Second  row,  left  to  right:  Karma  Sorenson,  Blanche  Eastman;  Jessie  Eagar;  Ellen 
Savage;  Lula  Sullivan;  Geraldinc  Stirling;  Ethel  George;  Helen  Stirling. 

Back  row,  left  to  right:  Evelyn  McMullin,  President,  Leeds  Ward  Relief  Society; 
Rose  Hartley;  Wilma  Beal;  Marguerite  Smith;  Pearl  Hafen;  Kate  Allen;  Maida  Sullivan. 

Visiting  teachers  not  in  the  picture  but  who  helped  in  achieving  this  record  are 
Louise  Stirling,  Mildred  Dalton,  Daisy  Boulton,  Thelma  Holden,  Zella  Allen,  Tana 
Sullivan,  Lillian  Stratton,  Iris  Millctt. 

Roma  C.  Esplin  is  president  of  St.  George  Stake  Relief  Society. 


118 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— FEBRUARY   1957 


Photograph  submitted  by  Edith  Hubbard 

BANNOCK  STAKE    (IDAHO)    SINGING   MOIHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC   EOR 

STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONEERENCE 

Front  row,  seated,  beginning  tliird  from  the  left:  Shirley  Hubbard,  pianist;  Edsel 
Prescott,  organist;  Edith  Hubbard,  President,  Bannoek  Stake  Relief  Soeiety;  Ruth 
Jenkins,  director  of  the  chorus. 

Sister  Hubbard  reports  that  all  fi\e  wards  of  Bannoek  Stake  NAcre  represented  in 
this  chorus.  "These  busy  mothers  have  prepared  music  for  the  fall  conference  for 
the  past  five  years." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Lenore  G.  Merrill 

LONG  BEACH  STAKE  (CALIEORNIA),  LONG  BEACH  FOURTH  WARD 
OPENING  SOCIAL  IN  FORM  OF  A  POLITICAL  CONVENTION 

September  25,  1956 

Seated  in  front,  at  the  right:  Maude  Rowan,  President,  Long  Beach  Fourth  Ward 
Relief  Society;  Arden  Arnold,  social  science  class  leader;  Katherine  Poole,  literature 
class  leader,  who  planned  and  wrote  the  program  for  the  social. 

Sister  Rowan  reports  the  successful  efforts  of  this  ward  in  securing  an  increase  in 
membership:  "We  started  our  membership  drive  by  dividing  our  visiting  teaching 
districts  into  eleven  groups,  giving  each  a  name.  .  .  Each  chairman  selected  a  color  from 
construction  paper  and  made  a  campaign  button  for  each  of  her  group  to  wear.  Large 
banners  were  made  for  each  group,  and  also  three  slogan  banners.  .  .  Each  chairman 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


119 


personally  \ isited  each  woman  on  her  district  besides  the  regular  visiting  teachers  going 
to  see  the  ladies.  We  sent  out  in\itations  also,  and  then  there  was  a  notice  in  our 
Sunday  pamphlet.  Notice  was  also  given  from  the  pulpit,  that  every  lady  was  in\it- 
ed.  .  .  .  We  made  a  beautiful  banner  of  blue  satin  trimmed  in  gold  fringe  and  gold 
lettering.  This  will  be  hung  on  the  wall  and  each  group  that  has  the  largest  attendance 
that  week  will  ha\c  its  name  on  the  banner.  We  will  have  rallies  during  the  year. 
There  were  two  parties — the  Relief  Society  Party  and  the  Excuse  Party,  When  all 
ballots  were  counted,  the  Rehef  Society  party  had  102  votes  and  the  Excuse  Party, 
one  vote." 

Lenore  G.  Merrill  is  president  of  Long  Beach  Stake  Relief  Society. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Sylvia  Stone 


TONGAN  MISSION  RELIEF  SOCIETY  PRESIDENT  VISITS  SCATTERED 
ISLAND  RELIEF  SOCIETIES,  November   1956 

Sister  Sylvia  Stone,  President,  Tongan  Mission  Relief  Society,  writes  about  the 
modes  of  tra^'el  which  she  uses  to  visit  the  meetings  of  Relief  Society  sisters  on  the 
various  Tongan  islands.  She  reports:  "...  on  the  main  island  we  have  a  car  that 
takes  us  to  most  of  the  branches;  there  are  a  few,  however,  to  which  we  have  to  walk 
during  the  rainy  season.  .  .  .  This  picture  was  taken  on  the  island  of  Eua,  the  only 
Tongan  island  with  mountain  streams.  ...  I  have  had  no  alternative  so  I  have  made 
the  trip  horseback.  On  this  occasion  two  Catholic  sisters,  who  are  from  America  .  .  . 
heard  I  was  coming  and  sent  their  buggy  for  me  to  ride  in.  About  half  way  we  passed 
their  home,  they  had  the  American  flag  waving  from  their  window^  and  invited  us  in 
to  have  a  dish  of  ice  cream.  .  .  .  W^e  were  able  to  hold  a  wonderful  conference  with 
the  saints  there,  and  I  was  happy  to  hear  of  their  work  in  the  Relief  Society." 

In  the  picture,  left  to  right,  are  the  driver;  Sister  Stone;  Lois  Humphries;  Fred  W. 
Stone,  President,  Tongan  Mission;  E,  Morton,  with  Lavina  Bird,  behind  Brother  Morton. 


120 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— FEBRUARY   1957 


Photograph  submitted  by  Nannah  C.  Stokes 

IDAHO  FALLS  STAKE   (IDAHO)   SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSICAL 
NUMBERS  FOR  STAKE  CONFERENCE  AND  TRI-STATE  CONVENTION 

October  1956 

Evelyn  Hook,  stake  organist,  and  Edna  Johnson,  stake  chorister,  are  seated  on  the 
front  row  at  right. 

Nannah  C.  Stokes,  President,  Idaho  Falls  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  the  activi- 
ties of  the  Singing  Mothers:  "This  chorus  furnished  the  music  for  the  October  stake 
quarterly  conference.  They  also  sang  two  numbers  at  a  tri-stake  convention  in  Au- 
gust. There  are  seventy  members  in  the  chorus;  however,  all  were  not  present  when 
the  picture  was  taken." 


Submitted  by  Zina  R.  Engebretsen 


NORWEGIAN  MISSION,  BERGEN  BRANCH,  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT 
MUSIC  FOR  DISTRICT  CONFERENCE,  November   1956 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Selma  Grimstad;  Ragnhild  Sunde;  Jenny  Lohne;  Zina  R. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


121 


Engebretsen,  President,  Norwegian  Mission  Relief  Society;  Linea  Hansen;  Annie  B. 
Olsen;  Mary  Pedersen. 

Second  row,  left  to  right:  Ella  M.  Synnestvedt;  Elly  Michelsen;  Inger  Hoff;  Berith 
Folkedel;  Gunvor  Watne;  Odlaug  Mork  Pedersen;  Inger  Olsen;  Milly  Bjorndal,  con- 
ductor. 

Back  row,  left  to  right:  Margit  Michelsen;  Edith  Pedersen;  Turid  Waage;  Klara 
Hitland;  Ellen  Andreasen;  Anna  Fluge. 

Sister  Engebretsen  reports  that  this  is  the  "first  Singing  Mother  group  ever  to 
sing  for  any  occasion  in  the  Norwegian  Mission.  The  group  is  from  Bergen,  one  of  the 
larger  branches  on  the  west  coast  of  Norway." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Annie  B.  Larson 

WESTERN   CANADIAN    MISSION,    EDMONTON    SECOND    BRANCH 
CONDUCTS  SUCCESSFUL  CHILDREN'S  FASHION   SHOW  AND 

BAZAAR,  November  3,  1956 

Sister  Annie  B.  Larson,  President  of  the  Western  Canadian  Mission  Relief  Society, 
reports  that  a  very  successful  bazaar  was  held  by  the  Relief  Society  of  Edmonton  Second 
Branch  on  November  3,  1956,  under  the  direction  of  Sister  Hattie  Jensen,  President  of 
Edmonton  Second  Branch  Relief  Society,  and  her  counselors.  Marguerite  Low  and  Ella 
Sherwood. 

Sister  Larson  writes:  'The  bazaar  featured  a  children's  fashion  show  (shown  in 
the  picture),  a  sale  of  children's  clothing,  handwoven  baskets,  copper  tooling,  petit- 
point,  quilts,  embroidered  linens,  aprons,  lingerie,  homemade  candies  and  baked  goods, 
doll  clothes,  cookbooks,  and  novelties.  There  was  a  fish  pond  for  the  children.  A 
delicious  lunch  was  served. 

'The  purpose  of  the  Bazaar  was  two-fold:  to  raise  necessary  funds  to  carry  on  the 
work  of  the  organization  and  to  sponsor  love  and  good  fellowship  among  the  sisters  by 
working  in  unity  for  a  common  cause." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Rita  H.  Stone 

SAMOAN  MISSION  RELIEF  SOCIETY  DISTRICT  PRESIDENTS 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Alisa  Fitisemanu,  Vaiola  District;  Lisi  Su'a,  Falelima 
District;  Sia'a  Piircell,  Siumu  District;  Vaovai  Tu'ala,  Vailuutai  District;  Mua  Lulualii, 
Malie  District. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Pelese  Nunn,  Manu'a  District;  Usuia  Alofipo  Toso, 
Fagamalo  District;  Mele  Tafua,  Mapusaga  District;  Taupaolo  Togia'i,  Sauniatu  District; 
\^alila  Fonoti,  Pago  Pago  District;  Alataua  Soli,  Pesega  District;  Jane  Moors,  Secretary, 
Samoan  Mission  Relief  Society;  Rita  H.  Stone,  President,  Samoan  Mission  Relief 
Society. 

Sister  Stone  reports:  "Our  Relief  Society  conference  was  very  inspirational.  We 
have  an  enrollment  of  646  in  the  Samoan  Islands  of  the  Mission,  and  there  were  456 
present  at  the  meeting.  Each  district  was  represented  by  its  Singing  Mothers  group. 
It  was  a  thrill  to  have  them  all  together." 


iJ^t  S/s  JLove 

Gene  Komolo 

It  is  love  that  kno\^■s  the  word  to  speak. 
To  increase  hope  and  courage  in  the  meek. 
Love's  inspiration  creates  smiles  and  song, 
And  helps  us  cleave  to  right  and  conquer  wrong. 

It  is  love  that  glorifies  each  day, 

And  sees  some  good  in  all  along  life's  \\,\y — 

E\en  those  whose  feet  ha\c  never  trod 

The  faith-pa\ed  way  that  leads  mankind  to  God. 

It  is  \o\t  that  tunes  tlic  soul  to  be 
In  harmony  with  tones  of  Deity — 
For  it  is  only  ]o\e  that  can  impart 
A  Christ-like  fortitude  unto  the  heart. 


LESSON   DEPARTMENT 


cJheoiogy^ — Characters  and  Teachings 
of  The  Book  of  Mormon 

Lesson  48— "A  New  Witness  for  Christ" 
Elder  Ldand  H.  Monson 

For  Tuesday,  May  7,  1957 

Objective:  To  show  that  firm  testimonies  of  the  divinity  of  Christ  and  rich  bless- 
ings come  to  those  who  study  The  Book  of  Mormon  with  a  prayerful  heart  and  practice 
its  teachings  in  their  lives. 


l^OW  that  we  have  completed 
our  study  of  The  Book  of 
Mormon  and  ha\'e  read  its  pages 
according  to  the  instructions  of 
Moroni,  we  are  entitled  to  the 
promised  blessings: 

And  when  ye  shall  recei\'e  these  things, 
I  would  exhort  you  that  ye  would  ask 
God,  the  Eternal  Father,  in  the  name  of 
Christ,  if  these  things  are  not  true;  and 
if  ye  shall  ask  with  a  sincere  heart,  with 
real  intent,  haxing  faith  in  Christ,  he 
will  manifest  the  truth  of  it  unto  }0u,  by 
the  power  of  the  Holy  Ghost  (Moroni 
10:4). 

We  should  not  expect  the  fulfill- 
ment of  the  promise,  however,  if 
we  have  not  met  all  of  the  condi- 
tions. We  must  have  asked  the 
Eternal  Father  '\  .  .  with  a  sincere 
heart,  with  real  intent,  having  faith 
in  Christ  .  .  ."  and  we  must  have 
read  the  book. 

As  we  contemplate  the  message 
of  this  great  book,  we  should  be- 


come convinced  that  Latter-day 
Saints  do  not  need  to  rely  upon 
external  evidence,  powerful  as  it 
is,  to  gain  a  testimony  of  the  book. 
We  can,  from  following  Moroni's 
exhortation,  know  that  it  is  all  that 
it  purports  to  be,  a  record  of  the 
Jaredites  and  the  Nephites  and  the 
Lamanites,  divinely  preserved  and 
brought  forth  in  this,  the  last  dis- 
pensation of  the  fulness  of  times  to 
reaffirm  and  re-establish  in  the 
minds  of  men  '.  .  .  that  Jesus  is 
the  Christ,  the  Eternal  God,  mani- 
festing himself  unto  all  nations  .  .  ." 
(Title  Page  of  The  Book  of  Mor- 
mon). 

The  record  contains  the  fulness 
of  the  gospel  as  delivered  to  the 
Nephites,  and  will,  according  to  the 
Prophet  Joseph  Smith,  bring  us, 
by  following  its  precepts,  nearer  to 
God  than  any  other  religious  book. 
The  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  wrote: 

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...  I  told  the  brethren  that  the  Book 
of  Mormon  \\'as  the  most  correct  of  any 
book  on  earth,  and  the  keystone  of  our 
religion,  and  a  man  would  get  nearer  to 
God  by  abiding  by  its  precepts,  than  by 
any  other  book  (D.  H.  C.  IV,  page  461). 

President  Joseph  F.  Smith  stated 
that  The  Book  of  Mormon  is: 

.  .  .  the  only  book  written  which  has 
the  personal  endorsement  of  God  by  His 
voice  (The  Voice  From  the  Dust). 

And  President  Heber  J.  Grant, 
informing  us  about  his  experience 
with  The  Book  of  Mormon,  wrote: 

As  a  boy  of  fifteen  I  read,  carefully  and 
prayerfully,  the  Book  of  Mormon,  and 
there  came  into  my  heart  an  abiding  and 
firm  testimony  of  its  divine  authenticity. 
From  that  day  to  this  its  wonderful  teach- 
ings have  been  a  comfort,  a  blessing  and 
a  guide  to  me, 

I  thank  God  from  the  bottom  of  my 
heart  that  I  read  the  life  of  Nephi  in  my 
youth.  I  fell  in  love  with  him  then,  and 
his  life  has  influenced  mine  for  good  more 
than  that  of  any  other  character  in  ancient 
history,  sacred  or  profane — save  only  the 
Redeemer  of  the  world  {The  Voice  Fiom 
the  Dust). 

In  an  article  entitled,  ''Books 
That  Influenced  America/'  a  selec- 
tion was  made  of  the  one  hundred 
books  printed  before  1900  which 
had  the  most  influence  on  the  life 
and  culture  of  the  American  people. 
In  a  chronological  list  of  the  books 
appears  the  name  of  The  Book  of 
Mormon. 

This  book,  however,  has  not  only 
had  an  influence  upon  the  lives  of 
Americans,  it  has  influenced  all  oth- 
ers from  the  various  countries  of  the 
world  who  have  accepted  its  truth 
and  embraced  its  teachings.  In  the 
126  years  since  the  first  edition  ap- 
peared, over  2,500,000  copies  of 
The  Book  of  Mormon  have  been 


printed.  With  the  possible  excep- 
tion of  the  Bible,  The  Book  of 
Mormon  has  been  translated  into 
more  languages  than  has  any  other 
book.  Currently,  editions  of  the 
book  are  available  in  twenty-one 
different  languages:  English,  Dan- 
ish, German,  French,  Italian,  Welsh, 
Hawaiian,  Swedish,  Maori,  Dutch, 
Samoan,  Tahitian,  Turkish,  Japa- 
nese, Czechoslovakian,  Armenian, 
Portuguese,  Tongan,  Deseret  Alpha- 
bet, Spanish,  Norwegian  and  Braille. 
It  has  also  been  translated  into  Hin- 
doostani,  Hebrew,  Russian,  Finnish, 
Hungarian,  Serbo-Croatian,  Filipino, 
Bulgarian,  and  Greek.  However,  it 
has  not,  as  yet,  been  published  in 
these  languages.  Thus  we  see  that 
The  Book  of  Mormon  has  gone 
forth  as  a  messenger  of  the  truth  to 
many  peoples  of  many  lands  testify- 
ing of  the  divinity  and  resurrection 
of  Jesus  Christ. 

The  Book  of  Mormon 
As  a  Witness  for  Chiist 

Throughout  The  Book  of  Mor- 
mon history  the  prophets  taught 
the  peoples  on  this  Western  Hemis- 
phere about  the  coming  of  the  Sav- 
ior, his  mission  here  upon  the  earth, 
and  the  fact  that,  after  his  resurrec- 
tion, he  would  visit  the  people  on 
the  Western  Hemisphere. 

On  this  continent,  as  on  the  eastern, 
Jesus  manifested  himself  from  time  to 
time  to  his  faithful  servants,  before  his 
coming  in  the  flesh.  He  was  the  guide 
of  his  people,  the  guardian  of  the  church 
and  the  revealer  of  the  mind  and  will  of 
the  Godhead  [Dictionary  of  The  Book 
of  Mormon,  by  Elder  George  Reynolds, 
page  133,  1954  edition). 

When  Jesus  appeared  unto  the 
Nephites  in  the  flesh  he  did  so  as 
a  glorified,  resurrected  Being  com- 
ing    out     of     the     heavens.      He 


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stretched  forth  his  hand  to  the  mul- 
titude saying: 

.  .  .  behold,  I  am  the  hght  and  the  hfe 
of  the  world;  and  I  have  drunk  out  of 
that  bitter  cup  which  the  Father  hath 
given  me,  and  have  glorified  the  Father 
in  taking  upon  me  the  sins  of  the  world, 
in  the  which  I  have  suffered  the  will  of 
the  Father  in  all  things  from  the  begin- 
ning. 

And  it  came  to  pass  that  when  Jesus 
had  spoken  these  words  the  whole  multi- 
tude fell  to  the  earth;  for  they  remem- 
bered that  it  had  been  prophesied  among 
them  that  Christ  should  show  himself  un- 
to them  after  his  ascension  into  heaven. 

And  it  came  to  pass  that  the  Lord  spake 
unto  them  saying: 

Arise  and  come  forth  unto  me,  that  ye 
may  thrust  your  hands  into  my  side,  and 
also  that  ye  may  feel  the  prints  of  the 
nails  in  my  hands  and  in  my  feet,  that 
ye  may  know  that  I  am  the  God  of  Israel, 
and  the  God  of  the  whole  earth,  and 
have  been  slain  for  the  sins  of  the  world. 

.  .  .  and  this  they  did  do,  going  forth 
one  by  one  until  they  had  all  gone  forth, 
and  did  see  with  their  eyes  and  did  feel 
with  their  hands,  and  did  know  of  a 
surety  and  did  bear  record,  that  it  was 
he,  of  whom  it  was  written  by  the  proph- 
ets, that  should  come  ( 3  Nephi  11:11-15). 

After  Jesus'  ministry  here  upon 
the  earth,  he  continued  to  guide 
and  direct  the  Nephite  peoples, 
manifesting  himself  from  time  to 
time  unto  his  chosen  prophets.  Mo- 
roni testifies  of  this,  for  in  his  fare- 
well to  the  Gentiles  he  writes: 

And  then  shall  ye  know  that  I  have 
seen  Jesus,  and  that  he  hath  talked  with 
me  face  to  face,  and  that  he  told  me  in 
plain  humility,  even  as  a  man  telleth  an- 
other in  mine  own  language,  concerning 
these  things: 

And  now,  I  would  commend  you  to 
seek  this  Jesus  of  whom  the  prophets 
and  apostles  have  written,  that  the  grace 


of  God  the  Father,  and  also  the  Lord 
Jesus  Christ,  and  the  Holy  Ghost,  which 
beareth  record  of  them,  may  be  and  abide 
in  you  forever.  Amen  (Ether  12:39,  4i)- 

The  Book  of  Mormon  As  a  History 
The  Book  of  Mormon  is  a  history 
of  ancient  peoples  upon  the  Ameri- 
can continent.  It  portrays  their 
problems  and  struggles,  the  exhor- 
tations of  their  prophets  and  lead- 
ers, and  the  ministry  of  the  resur- 
rected Savior  among  them  as  he 
organized  his  Church  and  estab- 
lished its  principles  and  ordinances. 
Those  principles  which  governed 
and  promoted  successful  and  happy 
living  among  those  ancient  peoples 
have  not  changed.  The  truths  are 
eternal.  Father  Lehi,  in  teaching 
his  children,  said,  '\  .  .  men  are,  that 
they  might  have  joy"  (2  Nephi 
2:25);  and  each  succeeding  prophet 
throughout  the  entire  scripture  re- 
lates how  this  joy  may  be  obtained, 
not  only  in  this  life  but  in  the  life 
to  come.  The  mighty  prophet.  Al- 
ma, expressed  this  fundamental 
truth  in  these  words: 

.  .  .  inasmuch  as  ye  shall  keep  the 
commandments  of  God  ye  shall  prosper 
in  the  land  ...  for  I  do  know  that  who- 
soever shall  put  their  trust  in  God  shall 
be  supported  in  their  trials,  and  their 
troubles,  and  their  affhctions,  and  shall  be 
hfted  up  at  the  last  day  (Alma  36:1,  3). 

Alma  says  that  through  following 
this  advice,  ''.  .  .  the  Lord  doth 
give  me  exceeding  great  joy  in  the 
fruit  of  my  labors"  (Alma  36:25). 
(See  also  Alma  41:5-7;  Mosiah  1:7; 
2  Nephi  1:20;  1  Nephi  22:31;  1  Ne- 
phi 4:14.) 

Contents  of  The  Book  of  Mormon 
The  Book  of  Mormon  was  trans- 
lated in  a  little  over  two  months  by 


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a  voung  man  in  his  middle  twenties 
who  had  relatively  little  schooling. 
No  human  being,  regardless  of  his 
background,  training,  and  ability 
could,  of  himself,  have  created  such 
a  monumental  work  in  so  short  a 
time.  The  book  consists  of  522 
pages  and  has: 

.  .  .  fifteen  main  parts  or  divisions, 
known,  with  one  execption,  as  books,  each 
designated  by  the  name  of  its  principal 
author  (Rook  of  Mormon,  Brief  Analysis 
of  The  Book  of  Mormon). 

Elder  Hugh  B.  Brown  states  that 
it  has: 

,  .  .  fifty-four  chapters  dealing  with 
wars,  twenty-one  liistorical  chapters,  fifty- 
five  chapters  on  visions  and  prophecies 
.  .  .  seventy-one  chapters  on  doctrine  and 
exhortation,  twenty-one  chapters  on  the 
ministry  of  Christ. 

As  a  literary  work,  Elder  Brown 
points  out,  The  Book  of  Mormon 
employs: 

.  .  .  figures  of  speech,  similies,  meta- 
phors, narrations,  exposition,  description, 
oratory,  epic,  lyric,  logic,  and  parables.  .  .  . 

For  over  one  hundred  years,  some  of 
the  best  students  and  scholars  of  the 
world  have  been  trying  to  prove  from 
the  Bible  that  the  Book  of  Mormon  is 
false,  but  not  one  of  them  has  been  able 
to  prove  that  anything  in  the  Book  of 
Mormon  is  not  in  strict  harmony  with 
the  scriptures,  with  the  Bible  and  with 
the  W'ord  of  God  ("The  Profile  of  a 
Prophet,"  by  Elder  Hugh  B.  Brown). 

The  Book  of  Mormon  Diiected 
to  a  Future  Generation 

The  Book  of  Mormon  is  probably 
the  only  book  ever  written  which  is 
directed  to  a  future,  unseen  gen- 
eration. Nephi,  the  son  of  Lehi, 
says  of  his  writings: 

Nevertheless,  I  have  received  a  com- 
mandment of  the  Lord  that  I  should  make 


these  plates,  for  the  special  purpose  that 
there  should  be  an  account  engraven  of 
the  ministry  of  my  people. 

Upon  the  other  plates  should  be  en- 
graven an  account  of  the  reign  of  the 
kings,  and  the  wars  and  contentions  of 
my  people;  wherefore  these  plates  are  for 
the  more  part  of  the  ministry;  and  the 
other  plates  are  for  the  more  part  of  the 
reign  of  kings  and  the  wars  and  conten- 
tions of  my  people. 

\Mierefore,  the  Lord  hath  commanded 
me  to  make  these  plates  for  a  wise  pur- 
pose in  him,  which  purpose  I  know  not 
(1  Nephi  9:3-5). 

The  Savior  himself  said: 

.  .  .  write  the  things  which  I  have  told 
you;  and  according  to  the  time  and  the 
will  of  the  Father  they  shall  go  forth 
unto  the  Gentiles  (3  Nephi  23:4), 

The  prophet  Mormon  who 
abridged  the  large  plates  of  Nephi 
and  whose  son  Moroni,  completed 
the  writings  and  sealed  them  up, 
did  so  with  the  express  conviction 
that  thev  would  be  discovered  and 
read  by  a  generation  which  would 
long  succeed  them.  In  his  own 
words.  Mormon  said: 

Now  these  things  are  written  unto  the 
remnant  of  the  house  of  Jacob;  and  they 
are  written  after  this  manner,  because  it 
is  kno\Mi  of  God  that  wickedness  will  not 
bring  them  forth  unto  them;  and  they 
are  to  be  hid  up  unto  the  Lord  that  they 
may  come  forth  in  his  own  due  time. 

And  this  is  the  commandment  which 
I  ha\'e  received;  and  behold,  they  shall 
come  forth  according  to  the  command- 
ment of  the  Lord,  when  he  shall  see  fit, 
in  his  wisdom   (Mormon   5:12-13). 

Mormon  also  knew  the  book 
would  be  brought  forth  through  the 
Gentiles: 

...  I  have  written  them  to  the  intent 
that  they  may  be  brought  again  unto  this 
people   from    the    Gentiles,    according    to 


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the  words   which   Jesus   hath   spoken    (3 
Nephi  26:8). 

And  Moroni,  before  he  sealed  up 
the  records,  had  this  to  say: 

And  it  is  by  faith  that  my  fathers  have 
obtained  the  promise  that  these  things 
should  come  unto  their  brethren  through 
the  Gentiles;  therefore  the  Lord  hath 
commanded  me,  yea,  even  Jesus  Christ 
(Ether   12:22). 

Prophecies  Concerning  the  Tune 
When  the  Book  Should 
Be  Brought  Forth 

Moroni,  in  writing  of  Ether's 
prophesies  concerning  when  this 
book  should  be  brought  forth  by 
the  Gentiles,  in  the  latter  days, 
writes  that  this  land  should  become: 

...  a  choice  land  abo\e  all  other  lands, 
a  chosen  land  of  the  Lord;  wherefore  the 
Lord  would  ha\'e  that  all  men  should 
serve  him  who  dwell  upon  the  face  there- 
of; 

And  that  it  was  the  place  of  the  New 
Jerusalem,  which  should  come  down  out 
of  heaven.  .  .  . 

Behold,  Ether  saw  the  days  of  Christ, 
and  he  spake  .  .  .  that  a  New  Jerusalem 
should  be  built  up  upon  this  land,  unto 
the  remnant  of  the  seed  of  Joseph,  for  .  .  . 
the  Lord  brought  a  remnant  of  the  seed 
of  Joseph  out  of  the  land  of  Jerusalem, 
that  he  might  be  merciful  unto  the  seed 
of  Joseph  that  they  should  perish  not, 
even  as  he  was  merciful  unto  the  father 
of  Joseph  that  he  should  perish  not. 

Wherefore,  the  remnant  of  the  house 
of  Joseph  shall  be  built  upon  this  land; 
and  it  shall  be  a  land  of  their  inheritance; 
and  they  shall  build  up  a  holy  city  unto 
the  Lord,  like  unto  the  Jerusalem  of 
old.  .  .  . 

And  there  shall  be  a  new  hea\en  and 
a  new  earth;  and  they  shall  be  like  unto 
the  old  save  the  old  have  passed  away, 
and  all  things  have  become  new. 

And  then  cometh  the  New  Jerusalem; 


and  blessed  are  they  who  dwell  therein, 
for  it  is  they  whose  garments  are  white 
through  the  blood  of  the  Lamb;  and  they 
are  they  who.  ... 

.  .  .  were  scattered  and  gathered  in  from 
the  four  quarters  of  the  earth,  and  from 
the  north  countries,  and  are  partakers  of 
the  fulfilling  of  the  covenant  which  God 
made  with  their  father,  Abraham  (Ether 
13:2  ff.). 

Influence  oi  The  Book  of  Mormon 
Here  is  a  book  which  is  consid- 
ered to  be  divine  scripture  by  only 
approximately  one  per  cent  of  the 
population  of  the  United  States. 
Yet,  it  has  influenced  this  small 
group  of  people  so  profoundly  as 
to  have  changed  the  course  of 
American  history.  It  has  become 
the  religious  persuader  which  has 
altered  the  lives  of  thousands  of 
people  all  over  the  world  and,  as 
such,  has  caused  many  to  leave 
their  homes,  sever  their  ties  with 
loved  ones,  and  adopt  new  ways  of 
life,  often  in  a  strange  land. 

The  grandeur  of  this  volume  was 
summed  up  beautifully  by  Elder 
Adam  S.  Bennion  who  said: 

Hours  spent  with  this  book  are  hours 
spent  with  the  Master  and  His  holy 
prophets.  They  are  hours  which  will  bring 
to  the  reader  an  inspiration  and  an  en- 
richment of  spirit  almost  beyond  compre- 
hension. Indeed  many  readers  declare 
that  the  reading  of  the  Book  of  Mormon 
thrills  them  with  a  testimony  of  the 
truth,  as  the  reading  of  no  other  book 
can.  They  enjoy  the  fulfillment  of  the 
promise  of  Moroni  as  he  sealed  up  the 
records  of  Nephite  history  {Gleanei  Man- 
ual 1932-1933,  page  71). 

Moroni  declares: 

And  I  seal  up  these  records,  after  I 
have  spoken  a  few  words  by  way  of  ex- 
hortation unto  you. 

Behold,  I  would  exhort  you  that  when 
ye  shall  read  these  things,  if  it  be  wisdom 
in   God  that  ye  should   read  them,   that 


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ye  would  remember  how  merciful  the 
Lord  hath  been  unto  the  children  of  men, 
from  the  creation  of  Adam  even  down 
until  the  time  that  ye  shall  receive  these 
things,  and  ponder  it  in  your  hearts. 

And  when  ye  shall  receive  these  things, 
I  would  exhort  you  that  ye  would  ask 
God,  the  Eternal  Father,  in  the  name 
of  Christ,  if  these  things  are  not  true; 
and  if  ye  shall  ask  with  a  sincere  heart, 
with  real  intent,  having  faith  in  Christ, 
he  will  manifest  the  truth  of  it  unto  you, 
by  the  power  of  the  Holy  Ghost  (Moroni 
10:2-4) . 

Now  that  we  have  completed  six 
years  of  study  of  The  Book  of  Mor- 
mon, the  real  questions  which  con- 
front us  are: 

1 .  What  are  we  going  to  do  about 
the  wise  and  workable  principles 
which  this  great  book  contains? 

2.  If  we  lack  a  testimony,  do  we 
have  the  faith  and  desire  to  put 
Moroni's  promise  to  the  test? 

3.  Have  our  testimonies  really 
grown  as  a  result  of  our  study? 


For  those  of  us  who  can  honestly 
give  right  answers  to  these  ques- 
tions, then  this  great  book  will  have 
fulfilled  its  purpose  in  our  lives.  It 
will  have  brought  peace  and  com- 
fort to  our  souls  and  rich  blessings 
into  our  lives,  and  we  shall  hope  to 
be  numbered  among  those  of  whom 
Alma  speaks: 

For  the  names  of  the  righteous  shall  be 
written  in  the  book  of  life,  and  unto  them 
will  I  grant  an  inheritance  at  my  right 
hand  .  .  .  (Alma  5:58). 

Questions  on  the  Lesson 

1.  Did  the  reading  of  The  Book  of 
Mormon  increase  your  faith  in  God? 
Have  some  of  the  sisters  express  their 
feelings  in  this  regard. 

2.  What  characters  in  The  Book  of 
Mormon  have  been  most  impressive  to 
vou?  Why? 

3.  What  difference  does  it  make 
whether  we  accept  Jesus  Christ  as  a 
great  moral  teacher  or  as  the  Only  Be- 
gotten Son  of  God? 


Visiting  cJeacher   //Lessages — 

Book  of  Mormon  Gems  of  Truth 

Lesson  48— ''And  When  Ye  Shall   Receive  These  Things,   I  Would   Exhort 

You  That  Ye  Would  Ask  God,  the   Eternal   Father,   in  the  Name  of 

Christ,  If  These  Things  Are  Not  True;  and  If  Ye  Shall  Ask  With 

a  Sincere  Heart,  With  Real  Intent,  Having   Faith  in  Christ, 

He  Will    Manifest   the   Truth   of   It   Unto  You,    by  the 

Power  of  the   Holy   Ghost"   (Moroni    10:4). 

Leone  O.  Jacobs 

For  Tuesday,  May  7,  1957 

Objective:     To  point  out  that  Moroni's  promise  is  certain  of  fulfillment  if  pre- 
scribed conditions  arc  met. 

npHIS  promise  made  by  Moroni  to      carries  with  it  such  a  guarantee.    It 

all  who  will  read  ITic  Book  of     is  an  invitation  to  all  the  world  to 

Mormon  is  unique.    No  other  book     learn   of    the    truthfulness   of   The 


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Book  of  Mormon  and  to  test  its 
validity.  Thousands  have  made  this 
test  and  proved  the  guarantee  to  be 
as  purported.  Yet  some  have  read 
this  sacred  scripture  and  not  re- 
ceived a  testimony  of  its  truth. 
Why?  Because  one  or  more  of  the 
conditions  required  in  the  promise 
w^as  lacking.  The  heart  may  not 
have  been  truly  sincere,  the  intent 
not  real,  or  faith  in  Christ  may  have 
been  weak,  otherwise  the  result 
would  have  been  to  convince  the 
investigator  of  the  truth  of  The 
Book  of  Mormon  given  through 
the  power  of  the  Holy  Ghost. 

When  a  chemist  makes  an  experi- 
ment in  the  laboratory,  he  knows 
that  certain  specifications  are  neces- 
sary. Each  step  must  be  followed 
precisely  and  each  ingredient  must 
be  added  in  the  required  amount, 
or  the  desired  result  will  not  be  ob- 
tained. But  if  every  ingredient  out- 
lined in  the  formula  is  mixed  as 
directed,  then  the  result  will  always 
be  successful.  Moreover,  no  true 
student  of  science  attempts  an  ex- 
periment without  an  unbiased,  open 
attitude  of  mind. 

So  it  is  with  the  formula  pre- 
scribed by  Moroni  to  discover  the 
truthfulness  of  The  Book  of  Mor- 


mon. This  experiment  calls  for  the 
exercise  of  faith  as  the  book  is  read, 
the  exercise  of  sincerity,  and  a  great 
desire  to  know  the  truth,  otherwise 
the  Holy  Ghost  cannot  operate  in 
behalf  of  the  one  who  reads  it. 

Some  readers  of  The  Book  of 
Mormon  promise  to  try  the  experi- 
ment, but  they  feel  sure  beforehand 
that  it  cannot  possibly  be  true.  And 
so  they  begin  the  experiment  with 
doubt  in  their  minds.  This  is  not 
the  right  spirit  of  approach.  Hope 
and  faith  and  an  open  mind  are 
necessary  for  all  great  discoveries, 
material  as  well  as  spiritual. 

We  who  have  read  this  divine 
book  and  already  had  the  promise 
fulfilled,  rejoice  in  our  testimony. 
It  rings  true  to  our  hearts  and  our 
minds,  and  we  are  indeed  grateful 
for  this  ''New  Witness  for  Christ." 
With  each  rereading,  the  truths 
contained  therein  are  made  more 
plain,  and  one  is  persuaded  to  seek 
more  diligently  after  the  Lord. 

It  is  quite  fitting  that  we  close 
this  series  of  messages  with  this 
unique  promise,  which  has  been  in- 
strumental in  bringing  great  num- 
bers of  souls  to  a  knowledge  of  the 
gospel  of  Jesus  Christ. 


m 


eunion 


Eunice  ].  Miles 

Your  deep-blue  eyes,  pain-free  and  young. 

Alive  with  eagerness  and  laughter, 

Hold  hope  and  wonder  far  beyond  my  knowing 

We  seem  worlds  apart! 

The  years  stretching  between  us 

Cannot  be  spanned  by  living  speech. 

But  when  in  childish  grief, 

You  quickly  run  sobbing  into  my  arms. 

Then,  in  your  tear-stained  face, 

I  see  the  tiny  girl  I  used  to  be. 


yiyork    fl ieeting — Food  Preparation  and  Service 

(A  Course  Recommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 

Lesson  8— Summary 
Rhea  H.  Gardner 
For  Tuesday,  May  14,  1957 

IIJOMEMAKERS  never  just  ''cook  cause  meals  are  planned  and  pre- 

food,"  they  build  boys  and  girls,  pared    and    served    so    frequently, 

physically  and  otherwise.    They  be-  these  tasks  can  easily  fall  into  this 

gin    by    planning    meals    that    will  category. 

nourish  every  part  of  the  physical  Briefly,  let  us  review  the  yardstick 
body.  Meal  planning  is  followed  for  well-balanced  meals  and  taste- 
by  the  preparation  of  healthful  foods  fully  prepared  foods.  The  secret  of 
in  such  a  way  that  all  the  goodness  successful  food  combinations  lies  in 
nature  has  stored  in  them  is  pre-  the  skillful  use  of  contrast— contrast 
served.  Meals  are  served  in  an  at-  in  flavor,  texture,  color,  temperature, 
mosphere  of  order,  serenity,  and  and  concentration.  Meals  that 
perfect  harmony,  as  the  family  sur-  measure  up  to  these  standards  may 
rounds  the  table  to  give  thanks,  and  be  referred  to  as  'Tive  Star  Meals." 
to  partake  of  one  of  the  rich  bless-  Meat,  an  important  food,  must  be 
ings  of  life— food,  which  feeds  both  cooked  at  moderate  heat.  Too  high 
the  body  and  the  spirit.  temperatures    toughen    the    fibers. 

If,  as  a  result  of  this  course  of  shrink  the  meat,  extract  the  natural 

lessons,  the  horizon  of  each  Relief  juices  from  it,  and  result  in  unat- 

Society  sister  has  been  broadened  in  tractive  servings, 

some  way,  the  objective  of  the  les-  Soup  is  a  food  for  summer  and 

sons  has  been  achieved.  winter,  peasant  and  prince,  infants 

In  our  competitive  world  of  to-  and  the  aged,  the  ill  and  the  robust, 

day,    mealtime    service    must    offer  It  may  be  used  as  a  delicate  appe- 

more    satisfaction    to    active    teen-  tite   tempter   or  a   hearty   appetite 

agers   than   a   hamburger   stand   or  satisfier.    There  is  a  soup  for  every 

soda  pop  fountain  with  some  of  the  season,    every    appetite,    and    every 

gang.  age. 

Some  women  qualify  themselves  The  application   of  a   few   basic 

as  being  good  cooks  on  the  basis  of  principles  in  the  preparation  of  fresh 

long    experience    in    the    kitchen,  vegetables  is  the  secret  of  the  suc- 

Experience,  however,  is  not  the  best  cessful  cooking  of  them.    For  maxi- 

teacher  unless  it  forces  one  to  make  mum  flavor,  deep  natural  coloring, 

repeated   adjustments   and   changes  and  highest  nutritive  value,   select 

and  compels  one  to  be  alert  for  new  vegetables   that  are  slightly  imma- 

ideas  and  ways  of  making  progress,  ture  and  garden  fresh.    Cook  them 

After  the  novelty  wears  off,  experi-  in  a  minimum  amount  of  water  as 

ence,  for  most  of  us,  is  little  more  quickly  as  possible  and  only  until 

than  mechanical  performance.    Be-  they  are  just  tender.    They  will  still 

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be  a  little  crisp.  Slow,  long-time 
cooking  is  the  destroyer  of  color, 
flavor,  and  some  nutrients.  There- 
fore, the  peak  of  goodness  results 
when  large  vegetables  such  as  car- 
rots, parsnips,  turnips,  and  cabbage 
are  cut  into  small  pieces  and  cooked 
in  a  kettle  with  a  close  fitting  lid  in 
just  enough  water  to  keep  them 
from  scorching. 

While  nature  supplies  most  vege- 
tables with  about  all  the  seasoning 
they  need  to  tempt  the  appetite,  a 
variety  of  seasoning  such  as  cream 
sauce,  grated  cheese,  herbs,  and 
seasoned  crumbs  may  be  used  to 
give  variety  to  vegetable  dishes.  Use 
seasonings  to  add  to,  but  never  to 
mask  the  good  natural  flavor  of  the 
vegetable  with  which  they  are  used. 

Often  we  rely  on  salads  to  supply 
contrast  in  texture,  color,  and  con- 
centration to  the  menu,  qualities  so 
needed  in  a  high  percentage  of 
meals.  Because  we  eat  fresh  fruits 
and  vegetable  salads  for  their  cool- 
ness and  crispness,  a  cardinal  rule  is 
that  the  ingredients  should  be 
handled  lightly  and  served  while 
they  are  refrigerator  cold  and  garden 
fresh.  A  sorry  sight,  indeed,  is  a 
wilted  salad. 

Cheese  is  one  of  the  best  friends 
a  cook  has.  Grated  and  served  over 
a  bowl  of  hot  soup,  added  to  a 
cream  sauce  and  served  over  meat 


or  vegetable  dishes,  used  as  the 
main  ingredient  in  a  souffle,  or  as 
an  accompaniment  with  a  piece  of 
apple  pie,  in  countless  combinations 
as  a  sandwich  filling,  or  with  crack- 
ers or  fresh  fruit  as  the  last  course 
of  a  sumptuous  meal,  it  ranks  as 
the  most  versatile  of  all  foods.  It 
is  a  favorite  food  for  folks  of  nearly 
all  ages,  all  nationalities,  and  all  so- 
cial groups. 

There  are  few  cooks  who  could 
not  improve  the  acceptability  of  a 
meal,  now  and  then,  with  the  ju- 
dicious use  of  casseroles  and  left- 
overs. While  casseroles  often  are 
made  of  freshly  prepared  foods,  they 
are  also  an  ideal  way  to  serve  foods 
the  family  may  be  getting  tired  of, 
in  new  and  interesting  ways.  Dishes 
made  of  leftovers  can  be  family 
favorites,  if  prepared  tastefully  and 
seasoned  rightly. 

Along  with  the  basic  parts  of  fam- 
ily meals,  are  the  less  essential,  but 
to  many,  important  parts  —  bev- 
erages and  desserts.  It  is  important 
that  these  be  planned  to  complete 
the  rest  of  the  menu  and  give  bal- 
ance to  the  whole. 

If  your  refreshments  are  always 
truly  refreshing,  your  time  will  be 
profitably  spent  and  your  status  as 
an  understanding  hostess  is  sure  to 
rise. 


Star    LOust 


Vesta  N.  Lukei 


If  I  could  remember  the  earth  is  a  star 
Whirling  through  celestial  space, 
Then  I  might  have  more  tolerance 
Of  dust  on  a  small  son's  happy  face. 


^Literature — Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Lesson  8— Julius  Caesar 
Elder  Bimnt  S.  Jacobs 

(Text:  S/ialcespeare  Major  Plays  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948) 

For  Tuesday,  May  21,  1957 

Objecti\'e:  To  realize  that  idealistic  men  of  good  will  may  destroy  themselves  in 
bold  but  imprudent  attempts  to  destroy  the  evils  they  feel  exist. 

Men  at  some  time  are  masters  of  their  fates. 
The  fault,  dear  Brutus,  is  not  in  our  stars, 
But  in  ourselves,  that  we  are  underlings. 

I.  2.  139-141 

Since  Cassius  first  did  whet  me  against  Caesar 

I  have  not  slept. 

Between  the  acting  of  a  dreadful  thing 

And  the  first  motion,  all  the  interim  is 

Like  a  phantasma  or  a  hideous  dream. 

The  Genius  and  the  mortal  instruments 

Are  then  in  council,  and  the  state  of  man, 

Like  to  a  little  kingdom,  suffers  then 

The  nature  of  an  insurrection. 

n.i.  61-69 

Become  what  thou  art.  — Pindar 


CINCE  Julius  Caesar  is  prefaced 
in  our  text  by  generous  excerpts 
from  Plutarch's  Lives  of  Brutus, 
Antonius,  and  Caesar,  the  very  ma- 
terial out  of  which  Shakespeare 
composed  his  play,  you  may  wish  to 
see  for  yourself  how  faithfully 
greatness  followed  greatness.  Plu- 
tarch is  our  greatest  Greek  biogra- 
pher; and  you  may  marvel  how 
Shakespeare's  art  bestows  immediacy 
and  dramatic  intensity  to  Plutarch's 
facts.  Other  than  Shakespeare's 
addition  of  Caesar's  murderers  wash- 
ing their  hands  and  arms  in  his 
blood,  Shakespeare  adds  very  little 
factual  incident  to  Plutarch's  origi- 
nal. But  what  he  does  add  is  the 
fruit    of    an     ordered,     perceptive, 

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warming  imagination,  which  so 
clearly  reveals  the  difference  be- 
tween factual  history  and  factual 
art.  Each  is  valid  in  its  own  right. 
Shakespeare  proves  convincingly  that 
the  facts  of  art  are  not  merely 
the  facts  of  history  warmed  over. 

Although  Caesar  himself  speaks 
less  than  two  hundred  lines  in  the 
play,  it  is  justly  named.  His  pres- 
ence pervades  almost  every  action  or 
thought  in  it,  first  in  the  lusts  and 
ideals  of  those  who  conspire  to  de- 
stroy him;  later  in  the  minds  of 
those  who  honor  his  departed  great- 
ness, and,  finally,  in  the  frustrated 
quarrellings  of  Brutus  and  Cassius 
who  offer  sharp  contrast  to  the 
stable  state  they  have  just  destroyed, 


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as  well  as  to  the  ideal  Rome  Brutus 
had  hoped  for,  but  was  never  to 
realize. 

Julius  Caesar  a  Bridge 

Although  the  play  is  known  to 
have  been  written  in  1599,  placing 
it  in  time  alone  leaves  other  prob- 
lems unsolved.  Is  it  a  history  com- 
parable to  the  nine  historical  plays 
Shakespeare  had  written  preceding 
it?  No;  at  least  it  is  not  an  his- 
torical play  only,  since  in  Juh'us 
Caesar,  Shakespeare  is  far  more  in- 
terested in  the  inward  struggle  with- 
in the  characters  and  among  them, 
than  in  outward  events.  If  it  is  to 
be  a  tragedy,  obviously  it  differs 
vastly  from  Romeo  and  Juliet, 
which  is  hardly  true  tragedy  at  all; 
neither  does  it  contain  the  creative 
moral  power  of  Hamlet  or  King 
Lear.  Yet  Brutus  through  his  blind- 
ness, his  confused  idealism,  and  his 
growing  assurance  that  he  is  always 
right,  destroys  himself  in  a  manner 
not  unrelated  to  tragedy.  Predomi- 
nantly, then,  the  play  marks  transi- 
tion within  both  Shakespeare  the 
sayer  and  Shakespeare  the  knower. 

Style 

While  the  overall  structure  of  the 
play  is  loose  and  episodic,  the  style 
and  tone  are  uniformly  brilliant, 
even  brittle.  Often  the  language  is 
clipped  and  sparse,  almost  journal- 
istic in  its  effective  condensation  of 
truth  into  well-chosen  lines  and  sen- 
tences. It  has  the  simplicity  and 
clarity  which  must  account,  in  large 
measure,  for  its  appeal  to  millions 
of  people,  an  appeal  which  has  nev- 
er diminished  from  its  first  presenta- 
tion. Perhaps  Shakespeare's  diction 
is   so   bare   because  he  wanted  to 


catch  the  stern  strength  of  republi- 
can Rome  at  her  best.  There  is 
little  poetry  in  the  play,  and,  when 
we  do  find  eloquence,  it  reminds  us 
more  of  the  professional  debater  or 
public-eye  orator  than  of  the  poet. 
Again,  the  scarcity  of  poetry  might 
be  explained  by  the  absence  of 
many  ideas  in  the  play;  predomi- 
nantly it  is  concerned  with  political 
events  and  relationships.  Yet  the 
play's  action  is  based  on  certain 
basic  truths  implied,  rather  than 
stated;  namely,  lust  for  personal 
power  corrupts;  good  men  may  be 
blinded  by  flattery  and  cunning 
liars;  it  is  evil  to  be  so  entranced 
with  the  dream  of  the  ideal  siate 
that  hasty,  violent  destruction  of  the 
present  one  seems  justified. 

From  one  point  of  view  Julius 
Caesar  is  a  series  of  speeches  which 
might  be  delivered  from  a  platform. 
Throughout  the  play  occur  many 
rhetorical  questions,  which  always 
assume  an  audience: 

Wherefore  rejoice?    What  conquest  brings 

he  home? 
What  tributaries  follow  him  to  Rome, 
To    grace    in    captive    bonds    his    chariot 

wheels?  .  .  . 
And  do  you  now  put  on  your  best  attire? 

h  1-  37-39>  53 

Did  this  in  Caesar  seem  ambitious?  .  .  . 
You   will   compel    me   then   to   read   the 

will?    .  .   . 
Shall  I  descend?     And  will  you  give  me 

leave? 

III.  2.  95,  161,  164 

Note  also  how  many  long 
passages  of  monosyllables  occur 
throughout  the  play,  not  only  in 
Antony's  great  oration.  By  such  a 
device  the  speaker  convinces  his 
audience  he  is  speaking  simply,  di- 
rectly, entirely  free  from  flowery 
artificiality: 


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And  when  the  fit  was  on  him,  I  did  mark 
How  he  did  shake.  'Tis  true,  this  god  did 
shake. 

I.    2.    120-121 

.  .  .  What's  to  do? 

A  piece  of  \\ork  that  will  make  siek  men 

whole. 
But   arc   not   some   whole   that   we   must 

make  siek? 

II.  1.  326-328 

'Tis  good  you  know  not  that  }'0u  are  his 

heirs, 
For  if  vou  should,  oh,  what  would  come 

of  it! 

III.  2.  150-151 

The  Funchmental  Idea  of  the  Phy 
As  seen  centered  in  the  mind  of 
Brutus,  the  resolution  of  the  plot 
is  ambiguous,  and  at  war  with  it- 
self. Noble  Brutus  has  been  con- 
vinced that,  in  order  to  preserve  the 
glorious  Roman  State,  Caesar  must 
be  destroyed.  Brutus  believes  that 
the  glory  that  was  Rome's  will  no 
longer  be  glorious  if  deaf,  super- 
stitious, crotchety,  petty,  tyrannical 
Caesar  is  to  serxe  as  its  symbol.  To 
the  end  Brutus  has  righteous  goals. 
As  his  enemy  Antony  said  at  the 
very  end  of  the  play,  'This  was  the 
noblest  Roman  of  them  all.  .  .  . 
Nature  might  stand  up  and  say  to 
all  the  world.  This  was  a  man'  " 
(V.  5.  68,  74-75).  But  Brutus  be- 
comes so  aware  that  he  is  virtuous 
and  noble,  that  his  awareness  comes 
to  obscure  his  real  self.  Increasing- 
ly he  acts  out  a  part,  he  becomes 
self-righteous  until  he  becomes  in- 
fected with  the  very  disease  he  had 
hoped  to  stamp  out  by  murdering 
Caesar. 

Predominantly  the  play  is  one  of 
destruction.  Rome  is  destroyed, 
gentle  Brutus  is  destroyed,  compan- 
ionship and  trust  are  destroyed 
among  husbands  and  wives  and  all 


mankind.  The  play  is  one  of  bit- 
terness and  pain.  We  are  not 
soothed  by  so  gross  a  waste,  so  con- 
suming a  confession  of  motives  and 
distrusts. 

The  play  is  loaded  with  omens, 
warnings,  dreams,  and  portents,  as 
if,  suddenly,  Shakespeare  comes  to 
believe  that  man's  bewilderment 
here  below  may  be,  in  large  meas- 
ure, avoided  if  he  will  listen  to 
larger,  deeper  revelations  of  truth 
than  his  reason  and  senses  alone  can 
offer.  ''Beware  the  ides  of  March" 
is  common  to  every  schoolboy. 
Troubled  Caesar  paces  at  night, 
knowing  that: 

Thrice  hath  Calpurnia  in  her  sleep  cried 

out, 
"Help,  ho!  They  murder  Caesar!"  .  .  . 

II.  2.  2-3 

Awakened,  the  troubled  wife  re- 
counts evidence  to  her  husband: 

A  lioness  hath  whelped  in  the  streets. 
And  graves  ha\e  yawned  and  yielded   up 

their  dead.  .  .  . 
Horses  did  neigh  and  dying  men  did  groan, 
And   ghosts  did  shriek  and   squeal   about 

the  streets. 
O  Caesar!  these  things  are  beyond  all  use. 
And  I  do  fear  them. 

II.  2.  17-19,  23-26 

Just  before  Caesar  is  murdered  by 
the  mob,  the  poet  Cinna  dreams 
that  he  feasts  with  Caesar.  Most 
horrible  is  the  appearance  of  Cae- 
sar's ghost  to  Brutus,  first  in  his  tent, 
then  on  the  plains  of  Philippi  just 
before  his  death. 

Tempting  as  it  may  be  to  con- 
sider all  such  as  indication  of  a 
determined  universe  in  which  man 
cannot  escape  his  destiny,  we  must 
not  forget  that: 

The  fault,  dear  Brutus,  is  not  in  our  stars, 
But  in  ourselves,  that  we  are  underlings. 

I.  2.  140-141 


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Plot 

Julius  Caesar  has  returned  to 
Rome  in  the  }ear  44  b.c.  backed 
by  the  power  of  his  legions,  he 
effects  many  reforms  in  the  go\'ern- 
ment,  then  is  offered  a  crown  which 
he  refuses  reluctantly.  His  old 
schoolmate  Cassius  fears  that  Caesar 
may  become  dictator;  even  more 
strong  is  Cassius'  jealousy.  lie 
engineers  a  plot  to  kill  Caesar  for 
the  protection  of  the  State,  and  en- 
lists Brutus,  who  reluctantly  agrees 
to  lead  the  plot,  thus  giving  it  the 
prestige  it  needs.  Though  Caesar 
is  warned  by  his  wife  and  others  not 
to  go  to  the  Senate,  he  goes,  partly 
because  he  has  been  led  to  believe 
he  will  be  offered  a  crown.  The 
conspirators  gather  around  him  and 
stab  him,  Brutus  last.  Against  the 
advice  of  his  fellows,  Brutus  permits 
Caesar's  friend  Antony  to  give  a 
funeral  oration  over  Caesar's  bodv, 
thinking  that  if  he  himself  speaks 
first,  the  populace  will  understand 
and  approve  the  motives  of  the 
murderers.  But  Antony  so  skillfully 
inflames  the  citizens  that  riots  break 
forth;  and  Brutus  and  the  others 
flee  for  their  lives. 

Brutus  and  Cassius  join  forces  in 
Asia  Minor,  and  prepare  to  meet 
the  attack  of  forces  led  by  Antony, 
Octavius,  and  Lepidus.  When  Brut- 
us accuses  Cassius  of  accepting 
bribes,  they  quarrel  bitterly,  a  mood 
resulting  in  part  from  Brutus'  recent 
knowledge  that  his  noble  wife 
Portia  has  just  committed  suicide 
by  swallowing  hot  coals.  Brutus 
and  Cassius  are  reconciled  and  pre- 
pare for  battle,  but  both  feel  their 
death  is  certain.  Mistaking  the 
shouts  of  joy  of  his  own  men  for 
the    cries    of    the    enemy,    Cassius 


almost  cagcrlv  falls  on  his  sword. 
Caesar's  ghost  appears  again  to 
Brutus,  his  men  are  cut  off,  and 
Brutus,  too,  falls  on  his  sword,  say- 


mg: 


Caesar,  now  be  still. 

I  killed  not  thee  with  half  so  good  a  will. 

V.  5.  50-51 

Famous  Quotations 

Though  Caesar  is  old  and  in  part 
corrupt,  he  is  still  the  courageous 
soldier.  When  Calpurnia  pleads 
with  him  to  stay  home  and  avoid 
death,  he  says: 

Cowards    die    many    times    before    their 

deaths, 
The  valiant  never  taste  of  death  but  once. 
Of  all  the  wonders  that  I  yet  have  heard, 
It  seems   to   me  most   strange  that   men 

should  fear, 
Seeing  that  death,  a  necessary  end, 
Will  come  when  it  will  come. 

II.  2.  32-37 

And  Brutus  reminds  Cassius  that 
action  postponed  is  less  than  use- 
less: 

There  is  a  tide  in  the  affairs  of  men 
Which    taken   at   the    flood   leads   on    to 

fortune; 
Omitted,  all  the  voyage  of  their  life 
Is  bound  in  shallows  and  in  miseries. 
On  such  a  full  sea  are  we  now  afloat, 
And  we   must  take   the  current  when   it 

serves, 
Or  lose  our  ventures. 

IV.  3.  218-24 

The  greatest  lines  in  the  play  are 
contained  in  Antony's  funeral  ora- 
tion in  Act  III,  Scene  2.  These  lines 
deserve  to  be  read  to  the  class  as 
fully  as  time  permits.  After  Brutus' 
speech,  couched  in  balanced  sen- 
tences, flowery  words,  but  so  halt- 
ing and  hollow  as  to  betray  to  the 
Roman  citizenry  how  little  of  his 


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heart  is  in  the  assassination  of 
Caesar,  Antony's  biting  words  take 
on  e\en  sharper  edge.  Note  the 
crescendo  of  irony  which  he  builds 
into  his  phrase,  ''For  Brutus  is  an 
honorable  man/'  and  how  carefully 
he  teases,  hints,  implies,  until  the 
good  Romans  feel  they  have  been 
robbed  of  their  rightful,  noble 
leader: 


.  ,  .  The  noble  Brutus 
Hath  told  you  Caesar  was  ambitious. 
If  it  were  so,  it  was  a  grievous  fault, 
And  greviously  hath  Caesar  answered  it. 
Here,  under  leave  of  Brutus  and  the  rest — 
For  Brutus  is  an  honorable  man, 
So  are  they  all,  all  honorable  men — 
Come  I  to  speak  in  Caesar's  funeral. 
He  was  my  friend,  faithful  and  just  to  me. 
But  Brutus  says  he  was  ambitious, 
And  Brutus  is  an  honorable  man. 
He  hath  brought  many  captives  home  to 

Rome, 
Whose  ransoms  did  the  general  eoffers  fill. 
Did  this  in  Caesar  seem  ambitious? 
When   that   the  poor  have  cried,  Caesar 

hath  wept — 
Ambition  should  be  made  of  sterner  stuff. 
Yet  Brutus  says  he  was  ambitious, 
And  Brutus  is  an  honorable  man. 
You  all  did  see  that  on  the  Lupercal 
I  thrice  presented  him  a  kingly  crown, 
Which  he   did   thrice  refuse.      Was   this 

ambition? 
Yet  Brutus  says  he  was  ambitious. 
And,  sure,  he  is  an  honorable  man. 
I  speak  not  to  disprove  what  Brutus  spoke, 
But  here  I  am  to  speak  what  I  do  know. 
You  all  did  love  him  once,  not  without 

cause. 
What  cause  witholds  you  then  to  mourn 

for  him? 
O  judgment,  thou  art  fled  to  brutish  beasts, 
And    men    have    lost    their    reason!    Bear 

with  me, 
My    heart    is    in    the    coffin    there    with 

Caesar, 
And  I  must  pause  till  it  come  back  to  me. 

III.  2.  82-112 

Against  such  telling  knife-thrusts 
into  the  Romans'  memories  and 
emotions,  poor,  confused  Brutus  is 


helpless.  And  when,  inciting  the 
crowd  to  force  him  to  read  Caesar's 
will,  Antony  begins: 

If  you  have  tears,  prepare  to  shed  them 
now. 

III.  2.   173 

He  fulfills  his  own  vow  made  over 
Caesar's  body  preceding  the  funeral 
when  he  said: 

Woe   to  the  hand   that   shed   this   costly 

blood! 
Over  thy  wounds  now  do  I  prophesy, 
Which  like  dumb   mouths   do   ope   their 

ruby  hps 
To   beg   the   voice  and   utterance  of   my 

tongue.  .  .  . 

III.  1.  258-261 

Anthony  is  obviously  the  hero, 
Brutus  the  victim  both  of  himself 
and  of  others,  while  the  villain's 
role  has  been  pre-cut  for  Cassius.  It 
is  he  who  is  the  dedicated.  With 
cold  precision  he  invades  the  soul 
of  Brutus;  it  is  he  who  exploits 
Brutus'  sense  of  destiny  until  Brut- 
us agrees  to  lead  the  group  against 
usurping  Caesar.  In  the  most  vigor- 
ous scene  in  the  play— the  quarrel 
between  Cassius  and  Brutus  in 
Brutus'  tent— Cassius  is  fiery  and 
sharp,  but  it  is  the  unstrung  Brutus 
who  most  fully  loses  control  of  his 
temper. 

Both  Portia  and  Calpurnia  have 
roles  of  great  importance,  even 
though  they  are  not  long  on  the 
stage.  Brutus  speaks  no  line  more 
sincerely  than  his  prayer: 

O  ye  gods, 
Render  me  worthy  of  this  noble  wife! 

II.  1.  303-304 

With  complete  justice  she  refers 
to  herself  as  ''yourself,  your  half/' 
(II.  1.  274)  and  Brutus  knows  it 
well.    Theirs  is  one  of  the  strongest 


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137 


conjugal  relations  in  all  of  Shake- 
speare. Brutus  knows  her  strength 
and  fairness,  and  gives  her  the 
respect  she  deserves,  in  addition  to 
his  love.  When  Brutus  reminds  her 
that  she  shouldn't  kneel  to  him,  she 
answers: 

I    should    not   need    if   you    were    gentle 

Brutus. 
Within    the   bond   of   marriage,    tell   me, 

Brutus, 
Is  it  excepted  I  should  know  no  secrets 
That  appertain  to  you?  Am  I  yourself 
But,  as  it  were,  in  sort  or  limitation, 
To  keep  with  you  at  meals,  comfort  your 

bed, 
And  talk  to  you  sometimes?    Dwell  I  but 

in  the  suburbs 
Of  your  good  pleasure?     If  it  be  no  more, 
Portia  is  Brutus'  harlot,  not  his  wife. 

II.  1.  279-287 

Likewise,  Calpurnia  reminds  Cae- 
sar that  her  highest  wifely  function 
is  to  share  with  him  his  every 
trouble,  and  to  sustain  him  with 
womanly  intuitions  and  promptings 
which  draw  upon  depths  beyond  the 
reach  or  patience  of  most  men.  She 
tempers  Caesar's  vanity  and  ambi- 
tion, just  as  Portia  balances  Brutus' 
growing  rigidity  and  belief  in  his 
own  infallibility.  It  is  Portia  who 
best  knows  the  man  Brutus  could 
have  been;  no  wonder  she  symbo- 
lizes her  grief  by  killing  herself  in 
so  spectacular  a  fashion.  No  wonder 
that  the  heart  goes  from  Brutus' 
life  when  he  learns  of  her  death. 

The  slow  degradation  of  Brutus 
lies  at  the  heart  of  this  play. 
Though  he  always  deserves  our 
esteem  because  of  his  lofty  goals, 
we  wince  to  hear  him  claim  that 
every  man  who  has  ever  been  in  his 
presence  has  been  true  to  him;  that 
''no  man  bears  sorrow  better."  We 
realize  how  far  he  is  false  to  him- 


self, how  fully  he  puts  on  an  act 
when  news  is  brought  him  of 
Portia's  death  after  he  has  already 
discovered  the  fact.  Even  Cassius 
stands  amazed  at  his  calm,  unre- 
sponsive reaction.  When  Messala 
says  she  is  dead,  Brutus  replies: 

Why,   farewell,    Portia.      We  must 

die,  Messala. 
With  meditating  that  she  must  die 

once 
I  have  the  patience  to  endure  it  now. 
Mes:   Even    so    great    men    great     losses 

should  endure. 
Cas:    I  have  as  much  of  this  in  art  as  you, 
But  yet  my  nature  could  not  bear 
it  so. 
Bru:    Well,  to  our  work  alive.     What  do 
you  think 
Of  marching  to  Phillippi  presently? 
IV.  3.  190-197 

Already  we  have  seen  how  fully 
Brutus  confesses  ''the  phantasma  of 
hideous  dream"  which  he  feels  be- 
tween thinking  and  doing  a  dread- 
ful act.  Actually  Brutus  is  the  most 
sensitive  of  persons,  as  we  see  in 
the  final  act  when  he  treats  the 
boy-musician  Lucius  with  such  un- 
derstanding gentleness,  then  refuses 
to  disturb  his  sleep,  so  tired  is  he. 
Significantly  it  is  Brutus  who  is  the 
last  of  the  conspirators  to  stab 
Caesar;  in  return  Caesar's  dying 
words,  ''Et  tu,  Biuter  (III.  1.  77). 
Likewise,  when  plotting  Caesar's 
death,  it  is  Brutus  who  laments  the 
need  to  spill  blood  at  all,  and,  true 
to  his  real  self,  advises  the  paradoxi- 
cal action  of  killing  Caesar  as  gently 
as  possible: 

Our  course  will   seem  too  bloody,  Gains 

Cassius.  .  .  . 
Let   us   be   sacrificers,   but   not   butchers, 

Cains. 
We    all    stand    up    against    the    spirit    of 

Caesar, 
And  in  the  spirit  of  men  there  is  no  blood. 


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Oh,  that  we  then  could  come  by  Caesar's 

spirit, 
And  not  dismember  Caesar!     But,  alas, 
Caesar   must  bleed   for   it!      And,   gentle 

friends. 
Let's  kill  him  boldly,  but  not  wrathfully. 
Let's  carve  him  as  a  dish  fit  for  the  gods, 
Not  hew  him  as  a  carcass  fit  for  hounds. 

IL  1.  162,  166-174 

Thus  we  know  with  increased 
understanding  Brutus'  inner  con- 
flict. He  seeks  goodness  and  right, 
as  all  men  do,  but,  sensitive  to  pain 
and  tyranny  he  forsakes  his  own 
best  instincts  and  believes  that  the 
only  way  to  triumph  in  the  world 
is  to  fight  force  with  force.  And,  in 


thus  being  untrue  to  his  better  self, 
Brutus  begins  his  own  end.  Though 
he  merits  our  compassion,  we  suffer 
at  his  loss  of  direction  and  balance. 
How  sad  to  see  men  of  such  good 
intent  become  lost!  Here  tragedy 
lies  very  near  the  surface;  here  re- 
ality lies  hard  upon  us  all. 

Thoughts  foi  Discussion 

1.  How  does  a  play  differ  from  history? 

2.  While    Brutus   failed    to    moxe    the 
crowd,  why  was  Antony  so  successful? 

3.  Why  is  the  language  of  this  play  so 
spare  and  simple?     Why  so  little  poetry? 

4.  How  does  the  spirit  of  Caesar  finally 
triumph? 


Social  Science — Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 

Lesson  7— ''Be  Ye  Therefore  Perfect" 

Elder  John  Fan  Larson 

For  Tuesday,  May  28,  1957 

Objective:    To  suggest  the  importance  of  acquiring  desirable  qualities  and  to  show 
the  blessings  in  store  for  those  who  love  the  Lord. 


'pHE  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  was 
well  prepared  to  teach  the  Lat- 
ter-day Saint  women  about  God 
and  his  attributes.  By  1842,  when 
he  organized  and  instructed  the  Re- 
lief Society,  although  a  young  man 
of  thirty-six  years,  the  Prophet  had 
experienced  a  closeness  to  God  such 
as  few  other  prophets  who  ever 
lived.  After  a  vision  in  the  Kirt- 
land  Temple  he  recorded  the  fol- 
lowing: 

And  now,  after  the  many  testimonies 
\\hich  ha\e  been  given  of  him,  this  is  the 
testimony,  last  of  all,  which  wc  give  of 
him:  That  he  lives! 

For  we  saw  him,  even  on  the  right 
hand    of   God;   and   we    heard    the   voice 


bearing  record  that  he  is  the  Only  Begotten 
of  the  Father  (D.  &  C.  76:22-23). 

The  Prophet  knew  whereof  he 
spoke,  then,  when  he  said: 

If  you  wish  to  go  where  God  is,  you 
must  be  like  God,  or  possess  the  prin- 
ciples which  God  possesses,  for  if  we  are 
not  drawing  towards  God  in  principle, 
we  are  going  from  Him  and  drawing  to- 
wards the  devil  (D.  H.  C.  IV,  page  588). 

Thus,  in  capsule  form,  the  Proph- 
et summarized  a  great  principle  of 
perfection.  This  goal  is  neither 
quickly  nor  easily  attained,  but  any 
effort  to  emulate  God  will  reap 
bounteous  blessings. 

As  w^e  fashion  our  li\'es  we  experi- 
ence what  is  possibly  the  greatest 


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blessing  bestowed  generally  upon 
all  men,  i.  e.,  freedom  of  thought, 
and  its  product,  freedom  of  deci- 
sion. ''Where  there  is  a  mountain 
top  there  is  also  a  \alley"  (Jbid.,  V, 
page  20),  the  Prophet  once  in- 
formed the  Relief  Society.  Between 
the  mountain  and  valley,  good  and 
evil,  or  any  extremes,  lie  grades  and 
degrees,  and  it  is  up  to  us,  indi- 
vidually, as  we  face  life's  problems, 
to  consider  and  decide  where  we 
shall  be.  One  writer  in  The  Book 
of  Mormon  put  it  this  way: 

Wherefore,  men  are  free  according  to 
the  flesh;  and  all  things  are  gixen  them 
which  are  expedient  unto  man.  And  they 
are  free  to  choose  liberty  and  eternal  life, 
through  the  great  mediation  of  all  men, 
or  to  choose  captivity  and  death,  accord- 
ing to  the  captivity  and  power  of  the 
devil;  for  he  seeketh  that  all  men  might 
be  miserable  like  unto  himself  (2  Nephi 
2:27). 


of  us,  guided  by  the  available  light 
and  knowledge,  can  become  "a 
smooth  and  polished  shaft  in  the 
quiver  of  the  Almighty"  (Ibid.,  V, 
page  401 ) .  Now  let  us  consider  a 
few  of  the  affirmative  traits  which 
Joseph  Smith  urged  the  women  to 
acquire. 

Chanty 

At  one  of  the  Relief  Society  meet- 
ings the  Prophet  attended,  he  read 
from  the  13th  Chapter  of  1st  Cor- 
inthians as  follows: 

Though  I  speak  with  the  tongues  of 
men  and  of  angels,  and  have  not  charity,  I 
am  become  as  sounding  brass,  or  a  tinkling 
cymbal  (Ibid.,  IV,  page  606). 


He  then  cited  the  lack  of  charity 
in  the  \^'orld  as  an  evidence  of  the 
limited  knowledge  of  the  principles 
of  godliness.  'The  power  and  glory 
of  godliness,"  he  said,  "is  spread  out 
The  power  of  the  gospel  lies  in  on  a  broad  principle  to  throw  out 
its  ability  to  influence  people  to  the  mantle  of  charity.  God  does 
good  works  through  the  force  of  not  look  on  sin  with  allowance,  but 
ideas  and  the  pull  of  perfection  and  when  men  have  sinned,  there  must 
salvation,  rather  than  by  compul-  be  allowance  made  for  them"  (Ibid., 
sion.  The  Prophet,  while  warning  \^,  page  24).  To  be  charitable  does 
the  women  against  error,  primarily  not  mean  we  endorse  the  faults  and 
stressed  the  positive.  0\'er  and  failings  of  others,  primarily  it  sug- 
again,  both  to  the  Relief  Society  gests  not  judging  others, 
and  to  the  Church  generally,  the 
Prophet   urged   the   saints   to   seek     Tolerance 

and  develop  the  godlike  virtues.  "Is  "You  must  enlarge  your  souls  to- 
not  God  good?"  he  asked.  "Then  wards  each  other,"  the  Prophet  said, 
you  be  good;  if  He  is  faithful,  then  "Don't  be  limited  in  your  views 
you  be  faithful.  Add  to  your  faith  with  regard  to  your  neighbor's  vir- 
virtue,  to  virtue  knowledge,  and  tue,  but  beware  of  self-righteous- 
seek  for  every  good  thing"  (D.  H.  ness,  and  be  limited  in  the  estimate 
C,  IV,  page  588).  of  your  own  virtues,  and  not  think 

The  Prophet  once   commented:      yourselves  more  righteous  than  oth- 
"I  am  like  a  huge,  rough  stone  roll-     ers."    "Bear  with  each  other's  fail- 
ing down  from  a  high  mountain."      ings,"  he   urged,  "as  an  indulgent 
We  are  all  "rough  stones"  in  a     parent  bears  with  the  foibles  of  his 
sense,  waiting  to  be  polished.  Each     children"    {Ihid.,    IV,    page    606). 


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The  ability  to  endure,  without  criti- 
cism, the  behefs,  practices,  or  hab- 
its differing  from  one's  own,  repre- 
sents a  desirable  trait  which  should 
be  sought  by  all  who  desire  perfec- 
tion. 

Mercy 

Addressing  the  Relief  Society  on 
one  occasion,  the  Prophet  said  he 
was  going  to  preach  mercy.  He 
posed  a  question:  ''Suppose  that 
Jesus  Christ  and  holy  angels  should 
object  to  us  on  frivolous  things, 
what  would  become  of  us?"  He  an- 
swered his  question  by  saying,  ''We 
must  be  merciful  to  one  another, 
and  overlook  small  things"  (Ihid.^ 
V,  page  23). 

Mercy  implies  compassion  enough 
to  forbear  punishment  or  criticism 
of  those  who  warrant  it.  "  'Fret  not 
thyself  because  of  evil  doers,'  "  he 
advised.  "God  wih  see  to  it"  (Ihid., 
V,  page  21).  "The  nearer  we  get 
to  our  Heavenly  Father,"  the  Proph- 
et said,  "the  more  we  are  disposed 
to  look  with  compassion  on  perish- 
ing souls;  we  feel  that  we  want  to 
take  them  upon  our  shoulders,  and 
cast  their  sins  behind  our  backs." 
When  he  talked  of  mercy  he  em- 
phasized that  his  talk  was  "intend- 
ed for  all  this  society;  if  you  would 
have  God  have  mercy  on  you,  have 
mercy  on  one  another"  {Ihid.y  V, 
page  24). 

Forgiveness 

Gharity,  tolerance,  mercy,  forgive- 
ness, all  and  each  suggest  a  similar 
state  of  mind.  If  we  truly  forgive, 
we  banish  from  our  hearts  the  re- 
sentments we  have  against  the  acts 
and  omissions  of  others.  Once  the 
Prophet  indicated  he  had  been  in- 
strumental in  bringing  iniquity  to 


light.  "It  was  a  melancholy 
thought,"  he  said,  "and  awful  that 
so  many  should  place  themselves 
under  the  condemnation  of  the  dev- 
il, and  going  to  perdition.  With 
deep  feeling  he  said  that  they  are 
fellow  mortals,  we  loved  them  once, 
shall  we  not  encourage  them  to 
reformation?  We  have  not  [yet] 
forgiven  them  seventy  times  seven, 
as  our  Savior  directed;  perhaps  we 
have  not  forgiven  them  once.  There 
is  now  a  day  of  salvation  to  such  as 
repent  and  reform"  (Ibid.,  V,  pp. 
19-20). 

Kindness 

The  Prophet  told  the  women  that 
by  the  influence  of  kindness  they 
could  sanctify  and  cleanse  from  all 
unrighteousness  those  who  repent. 
The  love  of  tendeinesSy  he  observed, 
had  great  power  over  the  mind,  and 
actions  of  all  persons. 

Prayer 

The  Prophet  made  a  promise  in 
the  name  of  the  Lord,  saying  "that 
that  soul  who  has  righteousness 
enough  to  ask  God  in  the  secret 
place  for  life,  every  day  of  their 
lives,  shall  live  to  three  score  years 
and  ten"  (Ihid.,  page  24).  It  is  an 
interesting  observation  that  most 
of  the  knowledge  revealed  to  the 
Prophet  Joseph  came  after  he  had 
sought  his  Heavenly  Father  in 
prayer. 

The  Prophet  pointed  out  on  Au- 
gust 31,  1842,  the  efficacy  of  the 
prayers  in  his  behalf  and  expressed 
gratitude  to  the  Relief  Society  for 
their  prayers: 

Inasmuch  as  the  Lord  Almighty  has 
preserved  me  until  today,  He  will  con- 
tinue to  preserve  me,  by  the  united  faith 
and   prayers   of   the   Saints,   until   I   have 


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141 


fully  accomplished  my  mission  in  this 
life,  and  so  firmly  established  the  dispen- 
sation of  the  fullness  of  the  priesthood  in 
the  last  days,  that  all  the  powers  of  earth 
and  hell  can  ne\er  prevail  against  it  ...  . 
God  lo^'es  you,  and  your  prayers  in  my 
behalf  shall  avail  much:  let  them  not 
cease  to  ascend  to  God  continually  in  my 
behalf  {Ihid.,  V,  pp.  139-141). 

During  this  same  meeting  'Tresi- 
dent  Smith  .  .  .  addressed  the  throne 
of  grace  in  fervent  prayer/'  the 
minutes  read.  In  an  earher  meet- 
ing, the  Prophet  advised  the  sisters: 

.  .  .  always  to  concentrate  their  faith 
and  prayers  for,  and  place  confidence  in 
their  husbands,  whom  God  has  appoint- 
ed for  them  to  honor,  and  in  those  faith- 
ful men  whom  God  has  placed  at  the 
head  of  the  Church  to  lead  His  people, 
that  we  should  arm  and  sustain  them  with 
our  prayers  (Ihid.,  IV,  pp.  604-605). 

Knowledge 

One  of  the  Prophet's  great  ser- 
mons was  preached  in  the  Grove 
to  the  Church  at  Nauvoo  on  April 
10,  1842.  In  prefacing  his  remarks 
he  said,  "I  shall  speak  with  author- 
ity of  the  Priesthood  in  the  name 
of  the  Lord  God."  After  discussing 
evil  influence  he  then  made  this 
profound  statement,  as  found  in 
the  Journal  of  Wilford  Woodruff: 

A  man  is  saved  no  faster  than  he  gets 
knowledge,  for  if  he  does  not  get  knowl- 
edge, he  will  be  brought  into  captivity  by 
some  evil  power  in  the  other  world,  as 
evil  spirits  will  have  more  knowledge,  and 
consequently  more  power  than  many  men 
who  are  on  the  earth  (Ihid.,  IV,  588). 

Virtue 

In  the  early  days  of  the  Relief 
Society  the  Prophet  said  the  Society 
should  be  careful  of  its  membership; 
that  it  should  be  a  select  group  of 
the  'Virtuous"  and  ''those  who 
would   walk   circumspectly."     The 


privileges  and  blessings  of  the 
Priesthood,  the  Prophet  suggested, 
followed  a  virtuous  life  and  dili- 
gence in  keeping  the  command- 
ments. 

Blessings 

The  Prophet  did  not  stop  with 
urging  the  women  to  take  upon 
themselves  sterling  qualities.  He 
went  on  to  tell  them  of  the  bless- 
ings that  could  be  expected  from 
Relief  Society  membership  and 
from  applying  his  teachings  of  the 
gospel  in  their  lives. 

Each  Latter-day  Saint  woman  has 
been  promised  "Keep  my  command- 
ments continually,  and  a  crown  of 
righteousness  thou  shalt  receive" 
(D.&  0.25:15).  When  the  Relief 
Society  was  organized  the  Prophet 
said: 

And  now  I  turn  the  key  in  your  behalf 
in  the  name  of  the  Lord,  and  this  Society 
shall  rejoice,  and  knowledge  and  intelli- 
gence shall  flow  down  from  this  time 
henceforth  .  .  .  (D.  H.  C.  IV,  page  607). 

The  women  of  the  Church  can 
testify  to  the  fulfillment  of  this 
prophecy.  Since  that  time  the 
blessings  of  Latter-day  Saint  wom- 
en have  been  continuous.  These 
women  are  blessed  as  no  other  wom- 
en were  ever  blessed.  In  this  organ- 
ization Relief  Society  members  have 
the  privilege  of  working  under  the 
authority  of  the  Holy  Priesthood, 
of  learning  of  God  and  his  ways,  of 
sharing  precious  testimonies  with 
one  another.  Together  they  grow 
as  wives,  as  mothers,  as  homemak- 
ers,  and  as  children  of  God.  The 
blessings  of  mothers  in  Zion  are 
meaningful   and   opportunity-laden. 

"If  this  Society  listen  to  the 
counsel  of  the  Almighty,  through 
the  heads  of  the  Church,"  promised 


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the  Prophet,  ''they  shall  have  pow- 
er to  command  queens  in  their 
midst"  (Ihid.,  IV,  page  605). 

Latter-day  Saint  women  have 
been  blessed  with  leadership  quali- 
ties unequalled  by  their  sisters  who 
are  not  members  of  the  Church. 
This  is  realized  by  those  who  have 
opportunities  to  observe  both  groups 
in  leadership  capacities. 

One  choice  blessing  is  found  in 
the  association  of  the  young  women 
with  members  of  long  standing.  To 
this  association  the  young  woman 
brings  her  youth,  her  dreams,  and 
her  problems  and  partakes  of  the 
seasoned  experience  of  her  more 
mature  sisters.  She  eagerly  absorbs 
the  faith  and  testimony  and  wis- 
dom of  these  older  women. 

All  Relief  Society  members  who 
give  of  themselves  in  service  learn 
that  while  the  objects  of  their 
charity  receive  benefit,  they,  the 
givers,  receive  the  most. 

Eliza  R.  Snow,  the  poetess,  wrote 
in  her  poem  ''Evening  Thoughts": 

.   .  .  to  be  a  Saint  requires 
A  noble  sacrifice,  an  arduous  toil, 
A  persevering  aim;  the  great  reward 
Awaiting  the  grand  consummation  will 
Repay  the  price,  however  costly;  and 
The  pathway  of  the  Saint,  the  safest  path 
will  prove. 

This  same  Eliza  R.  Snow,  who  at 
one  time  headed  all  three  of  the 
Church  auxiliaries  to  which  women 
are  called,  wrote  of  the  blessings  of 
our  women  as  follows: 

The  Latter-day  Saint  women  ...  oc- 
cupy a  more  important  position  than  is 
occupied  by  any  other  women  on  the 
earth  ....  Who  can  fully  appreciate  our 
blessings;  and  who  is  capable  of  realizing 
the  weight  of  the  responsibilities  resting 
upon  us.  Where  much  is  given,  much  is 
required. 


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Of  greater  worth  than  all  the  rest 
are  blessings  of  perfection,  salvation, 
and  exaltation  in  the  kingdom  of 
heaven.  Each  and  all  these  are 
a\'ailable  to  those  who  earn  them. 
Said  the  Prophet  to  the  women: 

If  you  live  up  to  these  principles,  how 
great  and  glorious  will  be  your  reward  in 
the  celestial  kingdom!  If  you  live  up  to 
your  privileges,  the  angels  cannot  be  re- 
strained from  being  your  associates.  Fe- 
males, if  they  are  pure  and  innocent,  can 
come  in  the  presence  of  God;  for  what 
is  more  pleasing  to  God  than  innocence; 
you  must  be  innocent,  or  you  cannot 
come  up  before  God:  if  we  would  come 
before  God,  we  must  keep  ourselves  pure, 
as  He  is  pure  (D.  H.  C.  IV,  page  605). 

Supplementary  References 

1.  "The  Heritage  of  Rehef  Society"  — 
Vesta  P.  Grawford,  Relief  Society  Maga- 
zine, October  1954,  page  662. 

2.  "Testimony,  the  First  Responsibility 
of  Relief  Society"  —  President  Belle  S. 
Spafford,  Relief  Society  Magazine,  Novem- 
ber 1953,  page  716. 

3.  "O  Be  Wise;  What  Gan  I  Say 
More?"  Aleine  M.  Young,  Relief  Society 
Magazine,  March  1955,  page  148. 

4.  The  Way  to  Perfection,  Joseph  Field- 
ing Smith,  chapter  33,  pp.  225-231. 

Questions  ioi  Discussion 

1.  Why  is  the  principle  of  free  agency 
so  important? 

2.  Why  was  the  Prophet  in  a  unique 
position  to  discuss  attributes  of  the  Lord 
which  we  should  emulate? 

3.  Discuss  the  specific  virtues  the  Proph- 
et commended  to  the  women  of  the 
Ghurch.  How  may  they  strengthen  the 
Relief  Society  organization? 

4.  Discuss:  "If  wc  are  not  drawing  to- 
\\ards  God  in  principle  we  are  going  from 
Him  and  drawing  towards  the  devil." 

5.  What  are  the  blessings  associated 
with  Relief  Society  membership?  With 
keeping  all  the  connnandmcnts? 


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cJhe    Vastness  of  Space 

Katheiine  P.  Walton 

When  Fm  alone  beneath  the  stars 

That  fill  the  sea  of  space; 
When  I  behold  the  powers  that  are— 

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The  things  that  have  forever  been 

And  will  forever  be, 
Are  held  together  by  this  force 

Throughout  eternity. 
The  powers  that  keep  us  on  our  course 

Are  in  this  wondrous  plan. 
To  bring  to  pass  eternal  joy. 

And  eternal  life  to  man. 


The  Cover:   Sheep  Grazing  in  a  Green  Paddock,  New  Zealand 
Photograph  by  Whites  Aviation,  Ltd. 
Submitted  by  Arta  R.  Ballif 

Frontispiece:  The  Salt  Lake  Temple 

Photograph  by  Willard  Luce 

Cover  Design  by  Evan  Jensen 


Qjrom    I  Lear  and  CJc 


ar 


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Finnish  Mission  Relief  Society 

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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly  Publication   of  the   Relief   Society  of   The   Church  of   Jesus    Christ   of   Latter-day   Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 

Belle  S.  Spafford _         .         .         .         President 

Marianne   C.   Sharp         -------         First  Counselor 

Helen    W.    Anderson  ------         Second   Counselor 

Hulda    Parker         -------         Secretary-Treasurer 

Anno  B.  Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S.  Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie   M.    Ellsworth 

Florence    J.    Madsen  Aleine  M.  Young  Charlotte  »A.  Larsen  Mary  R.   Young 

Leone  G.  Layton  Josie  B.  Bay  Edith  P.  Backman  Mary  V.   Cameron 

Blanche  B.  Stoddard  Christine  H.  Robinson     Winniefred  S.  Afton  W.   Hunt 

Alberta  H.  Christensen      Manwaring 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 
Editor    -----------        Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Associate  Editor  -_-_--__-        Vesta  P.  Crawford 

Assistant  to  the  Editor  ---------     June   Nielsen 

General  Manager        -------------        Belle  S.  Spafford 

Vol.  44  MARCH  1957  No.  3 


e 


ontents 


SPECIAL  FEATURES 

Women  .Are  Worshipers  of  God  Levi  Edgar  Young  148 

Helen  Woodruff  Anderson  Appointed   Second  Counselor  Alberta   H.    Christensen  150 

Hulda  Parker  Named  General  Secretary-Treasurer   Caroline   Eyring   Miner  154 

Mary  Vogel  Cameron  Appointed  to  General  Board  Vesta  P.  Crawford  156 

Afton  W.   Hunt   Appointed  to  General  Board  Edith   S.   Elliott  157 

Velma  N.   Simonsen  Retires  From  General   Presidency   Belle   S.    Spafford  158 

Margaret  C.  Pickering  Resigns  As  General  Secretary-Treasurer  Leone  O.  Jacobs  159 

The  New  Zealand  Mission  Preston  R.   Nibley  166 

Vera    Hinckley    Mayhew— biographical    Sketch    179 

Run  and  Win  180 

Stratford-Upon-Avon  and  the  Shakespeare  Memorial  Theater  Ramona  W.   Cannon  182 

The   American   National   Red   Cross   Virginia   Glenn  187 

Be  a  Relief  Society  Magazine  "Promoter"  June  Nielsen  188 

Embellishment   Clarissa  A.    Beesley  190 

Buttercups   Mary   C.    Martineau  194 

FICTION 

The  Slow  Hurry — Third  Prize  Story  Vera  H.   Mayhew  160 

The  Bright  Star— Chapter  1  Dorothy  S.  Romney  168 

Bitter  Medicine— Part  3— Conclusion   Olive  W.   Burt   196 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

From   Near  and   Far   .'. 146 

Sixty  Years  Ago  172 

Woman's  Sphere  .Ramona  W.    Cannon  173 

Editorial:   Relief  Society  Legacy  for  Young  Women  June   Nielsen  174 

Relief  Society  Singing  Mothers  Present  Music  Over  National 

Broadcasting   Television   Network   175 

Announcing   the    Special   April    Short    Story    Issue    176 

Notes  to  the  Field:  Index  for  1956  Relief  Society  Magazine  Available  177 

Organizations  and  Reorganizations  of  Stake  and  Mission  Relief  Societies  for  1956  177 

Notes  From  the   Field:   Relief  Society   Activities   201 

Birthday    Congratulations    209 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes   from  New  Zealand   Arta   R.    Ballif  192 

Sarah  Seely  Larsen  Has  Enjoyed  a  Sewing  Hobby  for  Seventy  Years  .„ 195 

Herbs   for   Modern   Cookery— Tarragon    Elizabeth   Williamson  207 

POETRY 

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Hill,  151;  I  Had  Forgotten,  Catherine  E.  Berry,  171;  These  Things  I  Love,  Helen  H.  Jones,  176; 
World-Changer,  Maryhale  Woolsey,  179;  Spring  Opening,  Eva  Willes  Wangsgaard,  181;  The 
Whitethroat  in  the  Grass,  Ethel  Jacobson,  181;  Apricot  Tree,  Delia  Adams  Leitner,  187;  My 
Fortune,  Enola  Chamberlin,  189;  Preface  to  Day,  Dorothy  J.  Roberts,  191;  Wind  Pattern,  Vesta 
N.  Lukei,  195;  The  Length,  Frances  C.  Yost,  200;  Not  By  Chance,  Gene  Romolo,  206;  Window 
Gardens,  Gladys   Hesser  Bur.nham,  208;   Robin,  Evelyn  Fjedlsted,   208. 

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Women  Are  Worshipers  of  God 

President  Levi  Edgar  Young 
Of  the  First  Council  of  Seventy 

House  and  riches  arc  the  inheritance  from  fathers:   and  a  prudent  wife  is  from 
the  Lord.  (Proverbs  19:14) 

Who  can  find  a  \  irtuous  woman?  For  her  price  is  far  above  rubies. 
(Proverbs  31:10) 

WHEN  Adam  was  sent  to  the  the  principal  motive  in  all  they  did. 
earth  by  his  Father  in  Unshaken  faith  in  God  was  the 
heaven,  he  was  not  alone,  chief  characteristic  of  the  old  patri- 
for  a  woman  became  his  companion  archs  and  prophets.  Faith  came  as  a 
and  her  name  was  Eve.  Both  words  result  of  their  knowing  they  were 
are  Hebrew,  and  Adam  reminds  us  children  of  God. 
of  our  lowliness  and  mortality.  We  When  Moses  received  the  Ten 
know  that  God  gave  him  a  perfect  Gommandments  on  Mount  Sinai, 
human  body,  as  he  did  Eve.  They  he  gave  the  message  of  God  to  the 
were  placed  on  this  earth  in  the  children  of  Israel  who  were  march- 
Garden  of  Eden.  They  had  chil-  ing  to  Jerusalem  and  the  Promised 
dren  and  one  reads  their  history  in  Land.  Women  were  the  first  to 
the  opening  book  of  the  Holy  Bible  pledge  obedience;  the  men  followed, 
and  the  books  that  follow.  say  our  sages.  The  commandments 
'The  first  leaf  of  the  Mosaic  rec-  established  law  as  the  center  of 
ord,"  says  Jean  Paul,  ''has  more  Jewish  life.  One  of  the  most  schol- 
weight  than  all  the  folios  of  men  arly  historians  of  Judaism  is  George 
of  science  and  philosophy."  'And  Foot  Moore  who  tells  that  the 
he  is  right,"  says  Geikie,  "for  we  earliest  expositors  of  the  law  de- 
owe  to  it  the  earliest  and  grandest  clared  that  man  and  woman  are 
revelation  of  that  first  principle  of  equal  before  the  statutes.  The  au- 
all  religion— the  existence,  the  unity,  thority  for  this  statement  is  a  sen- 
the  personality,  and  the  moral  gov-  tence  in  the  fifth  commandment: 
ernment  of  God."  It  is  said  that  "Honor  thy  father  and  thy  mother," 
more  books  have  been  written  on  and  in  a  later  statement  found  in 
the  first  chapter  of  Genesis  than  the  book  of  Leviticus,  "Ye  shall  fear 
any  other  subject  known  to  man.  every  man  his  mother,  and  his  fa- 
One  may  well  accept  the  truth  of  ther.  .  .  ."  It  is  written  by  Professor 
this  statement,  for  it  deals  with  God  Moore  that,  "The  legal  status  of 
and  the  creation  and  man's  divine  women  under  Jewish  Law  compares 
origin.  to  its  advantage  with  that  of  con- 
From  the  beginning  of  human  temporary  civilizations  and  repre- 
history,  God  the  Father  in  heaven  sents  a  development  of  the  Biblical 
has  walked  with  and  talked  to  his  legislation  consistently  favorable  to 
children.  In  writing  and  thinking  women."  In  that  far  distant  age, 
about  the  history  of  Israel,  we  must  even  when  Rome  ruled,  Palestine 
always  remember  that  religion  was  was  a  part  of  the  Roman  Empire. 
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149 


The  Jews  had  their  synagogues  and 
women  took  part  in  holy  service. 
We  learn  that  the  "Mother  Syna- 
gogue" gathered  the  women  togeth- 
er, and  gave  the  women  their  duties. 
To  some  she  gave  cloth  to  sew  that 
no  maiden  in  Israel  might  go  to 
her  husband  lacking  a  bridal  chest. 
A  Jewish  Code  has  come  down  to 
us  giving  a  description  of  the  duties 
of  women.    They  are: 

Feed  the  hungry,  and  give  the  thirsty  to 
drink. 

Clothe  the  naked  and  shelter  the  home- 
less. 

Visit  the  sick,  bury  the  dead  and  give 
comfort  to  the  mourner. 

Support  the  widow  and  instruct  the 
fatherless. 

Ransom  the  captive. 

Make  garments  for  the  orphan  and  pro- 
vide for  the  betrothed  maiden. 

We  are  told  that  legend  throws 
this  code  back  to  Abraham  to  whom 
it  was  revealed.  When  it  was  read 
to  the  people  at  the  foot  of  Mount 
Sinai,  they  exclaimed,  ''We  hear 
and  we  obey." 

COME  of  the  most  beautiful 
stories  of  all  time  are  found  in 
the  Holy  Bible.  In  fact,  the  Bible 
becomes  the  masterpiece  of  history 
in  giving  us  the  story  of  the 
peoples  before  Christ,  our  Redeem- 
er, was  born.  Concerning  women, 
we  find  in  the  Bible  women  of  the 
truest  nobility.  The  Book  of  Ruth 
is  considered  the  most  beautiful 
short  story  ever  written,  and  then 
we  have,  to  mention  a  few  other 
women:  Sarah,  Rebecca,  Rachel, 
Deborah,  Esther,  Martha,  Mary, 
Mary  Magdalene,  Naomi,  and  the 
Queen  of  Sheba.  These  women 
''form  the  most  remarkable  female 
portrait  gallery  in  existence." 


The  beautiful  idyl  known  as  the 
Book  of  Ruth,  is  a  story  of  a  family 
that  lived  in  Bethlehem.  There 
came  a  famine  over  the  land  at  one 
time.  The  fruit  of  the  orchards 
dried  up  and  the  fields  yielded  but 
a  scarcity  of  harvest.  Much  suffer- 
ing came  to  the  people  everywhere. 
One  Elimelech  with  his  wife,  Na- 
omi, went  off  to  greener  fields  into 
the  land  of  Moab.  They  had  two 
sons  who  grew  up  among  the 
strange  people  of  Moab.  In  time 
they  married  two  Moabite  maid- 
ens. Sorrow  came  to  the  house  of 
Elimelech,  for  the  father  and  the 
two  sons  died,  and  the  three  widows 
were  left  unprovided  for  and  un- 
protected. Naomi  decided  to  go 
back  to  her  people  in  Bethlehem. 
She  did  not  expect  the  sons'  wives 
to  go  with  her,  but  Ruth  chose  to 
follow  the  mother,  and  the  two 
made  their  way  around  the  Dead 
Sea,  and  came  to  the  old  home  in 
Bethlehem.  Beautiful  were  the 
words  of  Ruth,  when  her  mother 
Naomi  entreated  her  to  remain  with 
her  people.  "Intreat  me  not  to  leave 
thee,  or  to  return  from  following 
after  thee,"  said  she,  "for  whither 
thou  goest,  I  will  go;  and  where 
thou  lodgest,  I  will  lodge:  thy  peo- 
ple shall  be  my  people,  and  thy  God 
my  God:  Where  thou  diest,  will  I 
die,  and  there  will  I  be  buried." 

Ruth  gleaned  in  the  fields  and 
won  the  heart  of  the  rich  Boaz, 
and  became  his  wife.  Children 
blessed  their  union.  Their  first- 
born, a  boy,  was  named  Obed,  and 
he  became  the  father  of  Jesse,  whose 
son  was  King  David.  "Thus  the 
maiden  of  Moab  became  the  moth- 
er of  many  kings  and  the  ancestress 
of  Jesus  Christ,  the  Redeemer  of 
the  world." 


150  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MARCH  1957 

TjyiTH  reverent  thought  we  turn  the   divinity  of  man,  and  he  was 

to    the    second    chapter    of  impressed  with  the  great  characters 

St.  Luke  in  the  New  Testament  and  of  history  who  seemed  to  speak  at 

read  about  the  birth  of  Jesus  Christ,  times  the  words  of  God  and  to  en- 

our  Savior.     It  is  another  exquisite  act  God's  holy  purposes.  This  was 

bit  of  history.  the  cause  of  his  unique  greatness. 

Joseph    and    Mary    hved    in    the  When  he  read  about  the  visit  of 

little  town  of  Nazareth.     It  was  a  the  angel  to  Joseph  Smith,  and  the 

strange    circumstance    that    caused  directing  him   in   the  discovery  of 

them  to  go  to  Bethlehem  at  the  the  gold  plates,  he  saw  something 

time  that  Mary  was  to  become  a  of   the   eternal  and   divine   in   the 

mother.    According  to  the  edict  of  story,  and  he  often  quoted  Michael 

the  Emperor  Augustus  Caesar,  all  Angelo:      ''Beauty   cannot  be   sep- 

people  of  Palestine  were  to  go  to  arated  from  eternity."  God  became 

the  place  to  which  by  descent  they  his  immutable  help.    As  one  looks 

belonged,  to  be  enrolled  in  a  gen-  at  the  angel,  one  is  impressed  with 

eral  census.  Joseph  and  Mary  chose  the    thought   that   it   is   a    perfect 

the  city  of  their  fathers  as  the  place  creation,   that  a  truth  was   in  the 

where  they  should  register.  The  city  mind  of  the  sculptor.     It  was  his 

was  full  of  people.    Only  one  place  ardent  faith  and  warmth  of  enthus- 

was  left  to  rest.    ''And  she  brought  iasm  that  made  him  see  something 

forth  her  firstborn  son,  and  wrapped  of  the  divine  in  the  angel  Moroni's 

him  in  swaddling  clothes,  and  laid  coming  to  the  earth, 
him  in  a  manger;  because  there  was 

no    room    for    them    in    the    inn."  ^^T  now  turn  the  key  for  women," 
The  angels  were  round  him  and  his  said  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 

birth.  They  worshiped  the  Newborn,  on  the  seventeenth  day  of  March, 

and  said  with  one  accord:   "Glory  1842,  when  he  organized  the  Relief 

to   God   in   the  highest,   on   earth  Society  of  the  Church  in  Nauvoo, 

peace,  good  will  toward  men."  The  and  sent  it  forth  on  its  mission  of 

stories   of  the   Magi   and   the   star  love.     It  was  the   beginning   of  a 

of   Bethlehem,   of   the  angels   and  better  age,  and  a  more  appreciative 

the  shepherds,  as  given  in  the  simple  understanding  of  the  divine  mission 

narrative  of   St.  Matthew   and   St.  of  woman  in  the  world.     She  was 

Luke,  go  to  make  the  story  of  the  to  take  her  place  in  the  work  of 

birth  of  the  Savior  the  most  beauti-  bestowing   upon    mankind   the   in- 

ful  idyl  of  all  literature.  creasing   consciousness   of   the   im- 

Coming  to   our  own  history,   it  mortality  of  spiritual  values.  Wom- 

was   the   mother   of   Cyrus   Dallin  an  was  to  take  her  place  by  the  side 

who  inspired  her  son  to  make  the  of  man  to  play  her  part  in  the  serv- 

angel  on  the  center  tower  of  the  ice  and  calling  of  God.  In  the  early 

Salt  Lake  Temple.  She  told  him  the  days  of  America,  woman  was  the 

story  of  the  coming  from  heaven  helpmate  of  man  in  the  hard  labor 

of    the    angel    Moroni    to    Joseph  of  those  times,  but  in  a  different 

Smith,  and  it  gave  Dallin  the  inspira-  manner  from  that  of  today.  Wives 

tion  for  creating  the  angel  Moroni,  and  daughters  made  clothing  in  the 

It  was  his  nature  to  wonder  about  homes,  helped  to  wield  the  ax,  and 


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151 


carried  rifles  to  protect  the  village 
and  home.  When  the  husband  was 
absent  in  the  fields,  the  wife  stood 
on  guard  in  the  cabin,  always  with 
eyes  alert  for  prowling  Indians.  The 
frontier  of  America  bred  valiant 
women,  who  were  likewise  heroines 
of  the  spirit  in  which  they  were  no 
less  intrepid. 

Today,  woman  has  been  lifted  out 
of  much  of  her  drudgery  of  a  hun- 
dred years  ago,  and  the  Latter-day 
Saint  people  have  done  a  far-reach- 
ing work  in  establishing  the  proper 
attitude  of  society  toward  the 
"mothers  of  men."  From  the  begin- 
ning of  the  Church  in  1830,  women 
have  been  given  equal  rights  with 
their  husbands  in  the  home  and 
social  group.  In  the  march  of  the 
saints  to  the  West,  women  and 
children  suffered,  and  the  mortality 
among  them  was  large,  but  hus- 
bands and  sons  had  a  sacred  trust 
to  protect  them  and  to  ameliorate 
their  sufferings. 

The  pioneer  women  of  the  Ameri- 
can frontier  were  often  the  leaders 
in  thought  and  promoters  of  educa- 
tional institutions.  A  woman 
opened  the  first  school  in  the  West 
for  the  education  of  Indian  children. 
Mary  Jane  Dilworth  taught  the  first 
school  in  Utah,  and  Camilla  Cobb 
opened  the  first  kindergarten,  which 


was  among  the  first  kindergartens  in 
America.  Both  were  faithful  mem- 
bers of  the  Relief  Society  of  their 
respective  wards.  Hundreds  of  such 
women.  Relief  Society  sisters,  have 
given  their  lives  to  the  uplift  of  hu- 
manity. They  have  looked  after 
the  poor,  comforted  the  sick  and 
unfortunate,  and  have  ministered 
comfort  when  death  has  taken  loved 
ones.  'Tike  ministering  angels, 
they  go  today  into  homes  and  com- 
fort the  sorrowful,  relieve  the  dis- 
tressed, feed  the  hungry,  clothe  the 
naked,  wait  upon  the  sick,  and 
scatter  glad  news  and  cheer  along 
the  road  of  life." 

The  work  of  the  members  of  the 
great  organization  for  women  found- 
ed over  one  hundred  years  ago, 
goes  on  from  day  to  day.  Theirs 
is  a  happiness  deep  and  lasting. 
Theirs  is  an  inherited  ideal  unique 
in  the  history  of  America.  They 
radiate  sunshine  and  joy  when  the 
clouds  descend.  Each  one  in  her 
sphere  has  a  dream  of  fine  spiritual 
value  as  expressed  by  Emily  Dickin- 
son: 

If  I  can  stop  one  heart  from  breaking, 

I  shall  not  live  in  vain; 

If  I  can  ease  one  life  the  aching, 

Or  cool  one  pain, 

Or  help  one  fainting  robin 

Unto  his  nest  again, 

I  shall  not  live  in  vain. 


[Preface  to  a   C^nlendar 

Lad  W.  Hill 

However  swiftly  days  take  wing  and  go — 
Like  birds,  like  soaring  wind  along  the  sky — 
How  singingly  the  swiftest  hours  fly! 

Oh,  lift  an  inner  listening,  and  know 
The  song  of  time  spun  lark-voiced,  and  as  high- 
A  moment's  brief  remembrance  rushing  by, 
Its  echo  feather-fallen  onto  snow.  .  .  . 


dielen    viyoodruff  J/Lnderson  Kyippolnted  Second 
(counselor  m   (general  IPresidencii  of  [Reuef  Society 

Alberta  H.  Christensen 

Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 


f\^  January  2,  1957,  Helen  Wood- 
ruff Anderson  was  appointed  to 
the  office  of  Second  Counselor  in 
the  General  Presidency  of  Relief 
Society.  Years  of  devoted  Church 
service,  academic  training,  and 
natural  endowment  qualify  Sister 
Anderson  for  this  important  calling. 

Helen  Anderson,  a  gentle-voiced 
and  gracious  woman,  evidenced, 
even  in  youth,  personality  traits 
which  qualify  her  to  fulfill  her  pres- 
ent assignment  with  distinction  and 
honor.  Humility,  a  subtle  sense  of 
humor,  and  a  marked  consideration 
for  others  have  endeared  her  to 
those  with  whom  she  associates  inti- 
mately and  to  all  who  have  known 
her  capable  leadership.  Hers  is  a 
judicious,  quiet  strength,  with  an 
element  of  self-restraint  which  com- 
mands respect;  yet  she  is  friendly 
and  sociable,  with  a  genuine  inter- 
est in  others.  Her  love  for  family 
and  friends  is  apparent  from  the 
unselfish  service  she  renders  them. 

In  tracing  the  factors  which  have 
influenced  her  life,  we  recall  that 
spirituality,  devotion,  and  humility 
are  her  heritage.  Her  paternal  grand- 
father was  President  Wilford  Wood- 
ruff, fourth  President  of  the  Church. 
The  memory  of  his  humility  and 
devotion  has  been  for  Helen  a  guid- 
ing light  through  the  years.  She  is 
a  daughter  of  the  late  Helen  May 
Winters  and  Abraham  O.  Wood- 
ruff, a  member  of  the  Council  of 

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HELEN  WOODRUFF  ANDERSON 

the  Twelve.  The  early  death  of 
her  parents  left  their  four  young 
children  parentless. 

Fortunately,  the  homes  into 
which  they  were  welcomed  were 
kindly  and  understanding.  After  the 
death  of  their  paternal  grandmother, 
they  made  their  home  with  Presi- 
dent Heber  J.  Grant  and  Augusta 
Winters  Grant,  a  sister  of  their 
mother.  Here  Helen  matured  in 
an  atmosphere  of  refinement  and 
spiritual  integrity.  She  always  speaks 
lovingly  and  appreciatively  of  the 
influence  of  this  home  in  shaping 
her  ideals  and  attitudes  toward  life. 
She  recalls  such  counsel  from  Aunt 
Augusta   which    she    feels    has   in- 


HELEN  WOODRUFF  ANDERSON 


153 


fluenced  her  attitude  and  action: 
''Always  do  a  little  more  than  is 
expected  of  you;  learn  to  enjoy  the 
things  you  are  required  to  do;  self- 
preparation  and  trust  in  the  Lord 
are  companion  requirements  for 
success  in  any  assignment." 

Sister  Anderson  attended  the 
L.D.S.  High  School  and  was  gradu- 
ated from  the  University  of  Utah 
with  a  major  in  home  economics. 
In  1925  she  married  Alexander 
Pyper  Anderson,  who  had  filled  a 
mission  in  New  Zealand  and  later 
was  bishop  of  Waterloo  Ward  for 
thirteen  years.  They  have  five 
children,  four  daughters  and  one 
son.  All  are  married  except  Lynda, 
a  high  school  student. 

Helen  loves  Relief  Society  and 
understands  the  many  facets  of  its 
program,  having  given  it  many  years 
of  devoted  service.  It  has  been  joy- 
ful   service,    for   her    testimony    is 


strong,  being  faith-grounded  and 
maintained  by  constant  activity. 
Under  President  Amy  Brown  Ly- 
man, she  worked  in  the  general  Re- 
lief Society  offices  in  charge  of 
employment.  She  has  been  a  visit- 
ing teacher,  stake  board  member, 
stake  counselor,  and  president  of 
Big  Cottonwood  Stake  Relief  So- 
ciety. She  has  also  served  as  group 
leader  in  the  employment  division 
of  Jordan  Valley  Welfare  Region. 
Since  1950  she  has  been  a  member 
of  the  general  board  of  Relief  So- 
ciety, where  she  has  become  recog- 
nized for  her  ability  and  dependa- 
bility and  loved  by  her  co-workers. 
As  each  new  door  of  increased 
responsibility  opens,  Helen  W. 
Anderson  steps  humbly  forward,  in- 
spired by  her  rich  heritage,  and 
sustained  by  her  great  abilities  and 
her  unwavering  faith. 


JLove   Ujegets  JLove 


^^TT  is  a  time-honored  adage  that  love  begets  love.    Let  us  pour  forth 
love  —  show  forth  our  kindness  unto  all  mankind,  and  the  Lord  will 
reward  us  with  everlasting  increase;  cast  our  bread  upon  the  waters  and  we 
shall  receive  it  after  many  days,  increased  to  a  hundredfold.  .  .  . 

''I  do  not  dwell  upon  your  faults,  and  you  shall  not  upon  mine. 
Charity,  which  is  love,  covereth  a  multitude  of  sins,  and  I  have  often 
covered  up  all  the  faults  among  you;  but  the  prettiest  thing  is  to  have 
no  faults  at  all.    We  should  cultivate  a  meek,  quiet  and  peaceable  spirit. 

'\  .  .  We  should  gather  all  the  good  and  true  principles  in  the  world 
and  treasure  them  up,  or  we  shall  not  come  out  true  'Mormons.'  "  {Teach- 
ings oi  the  Piophet  Joseph  Smithy  page  316.) 


diulda  [Parker    I  Lamed  (general  Secretary-c/reasurer 

of  LKelief  Society 

Caroline  Eyring  Miner 
Member,  General  Board,  Young  Women's  Mutual  Improvement  Association 


was    secretary    to    Elder    Mark    E. 
Petersen. 

Born  in  Richfield,  Utah,  Sister 
Parker  has  descended  on  her  fa- 
ther's side  from  pioneer  ancestors 
who  have  known  the  trials  and 
sacrifices  that  converts  experience 
and  that  the  early  pioneers  knew 
who  walked  across  the  plains  and 
built  up  communities  in  the  valleys 
of  the  mountains.  Ancestors  of  her 
mother's  family  were  converted  in 
Norway.  The  gospel  has  been  en- 
deared to  Sister  Parker  because  of 
this  heritage. 

Her  father,  Joseph  W.  Parker, 
deceased,  and  her  mother,  Matilda 
Olsen  Parker,  maintained  a  happy. 
God-fearing  home  for  their  family. 
Hulda  was  the  youngest  child.  Her 
father  served  as  a  bishop  and  a 
member  of  the  stake  presidency, 
and  her  mother  has  been  active  in 
stake  and  ward  Refief  Society  work 
and  in  teaching.  When  a  child, 
Hulda  moved  to  Draper,  Utah, 
where  she  has  lived  the  greater  part 
of  her  life. 

When  Sister  Parker  was  twenty, 
she  took  a  challenging  position 
to  teach  in  the  high  school  in 
Duchesne,  Utah,  and  taught  there 
for  two  and  one-half  years.  Her 
school  and  Church  students  every- 
where call  her  blessed.  When  she 
was  in  Washington,  D.  C,  work- 
ing as  secretary  to  Elder  Ezra  Taft 
Benson,  she  and  her  co-workers  in 


HULDA  PARKER 

f\^  January  2,  1957,  Sister  Hulda 
Parker  was  introduced  as  the 
new  General  Secretary-Treasurer  of 
Relief  Society  and  also  a  member 
of  the  general  board.  This  appoint- 
ment represents  for  Sister  Parker 
further  opportunity  for  Church 
service  in  a  life  already  filled  with 
much  service  in  all  of  the  aux- 
iliaries. She  is  well  prepared  for 
this  assignment  and  through  her 
faithfulness  and  diligence,  her  ap- 
pointment will  prove  to  be  a  great 
blessing  to  the  sisters  of  the  Church. 

At  the  time  of  her  appoint- 
ment she  was  serving  on  the  Special 
Interest  Committee  of  the  General 
Board  of  the  Young  Women's  Mu- 
tual Improvement  Association  and 

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HULDA  PARKER 


155 


the  Church  had  phenomenal  suc- 
cess with  a  genealogical  class— build- 
ing the  membership  from  a  small 
beginning  into  a  very  large  and 
interested  group. 

Other  forces  and  circumstances 
which  have  helped  to  prepare  Sister 
Parker  for  her  present  position  have 
been  her  service  in  the  Canadian 
Mission  field  where  she  was  an  out- 
standing missionary  and  served  as 
supervisor  of  the  mission  Sunday 
Schools  and  secretary  of  the  mission 
Relief  Society;  as  secretary  to  Patri- 
arch Kimball  of  Mount  Jordan  Stake; 
as  secretary  for  several  years  in  the 
Church  offices  for  Elder  Ezra  Taft 
Benson  and.  Elder  Mark  E.  Peter- 
sen and  others  of  the  General  Au- 


thorities; her  training,  at  Brigham 
Young  University;  and  her  service 
as  a  member  of  the  M.I.A.  General 
Board  from  1953-57  ^^  ^^^  ^^^ 
Hive  and  Special  Interest  Commit- 
tees. 

Sister  Parker  has  a  strong  testi- 
mony of  the  gospel.  She  is  hard- 
working, thorough,  sincere,  coa- 
scientious,  and  efficient.  She  is 
pleasant  and  helpful  and  loves  to 
work  with  people.  She  has  accept- 
ed this  new  assignment  with  true 
humility  and  dependence  upon  the 
Lord.  Those  who  know  her  and 
have  worked  with  her  are  confident 
of  her  success  in  this  great  new 
calling. 


cJhe  QJamilyi    LLnit 


^^'HTHERE  is  no  substitute  for  a  righteous  home.  That  may  not  be  so 
considered  in  the  world,  but  it  is  and  ought  to  be  in  the  Church  of 
Jesus  Christ  of  Latter-day  Saints.  The  family  is  the  unit  in  the  kingdom 
of  God.  That  we  believe,  and  if  we  are  fortunate  enough,  through  the 
keeping  of  the  commandments  of  the  Lord,  to  go  back  and  re-enter  the 
celestial  kingdom  to  dwell  with  him,  we  will  find  that  we  are  his  sons 
and  his  daughters,  that  he  is  in  very  deed  our  Father..  As  Paul  has  stated 
it,  we  are  his  offspring,  and  through  obedience  to-  every  principle  of 
eternal  truth  we  will  go  back  to  be  his  sons  and  his  daughters.. 

'Taul  has  said  and  prayed,  speaking  of  the  mission,  of  Christ  and  his 
obedience  to  him: 

t 

For  this  cause  I  bow  my  knees  unto  the  Father  of  our  Lord  Jesus  Christ,  Of 
whom  the  whole  family  in- heaven  and  earth  is  named  (Eph.  3:14-15). 

''If  we  get  back  into  that  great  kingdom  aftef  the  earth  is  redeemed, 
we  will  find  ourselves  members  of.  the  great  family  of  God,  and  he  will  be 
our  Father. 

''He  said,  you  know,  to  John: 

He  that  overcometh   shall  inherit  all   things;  and  I   will  be   his   God,   and  he 
shall  be  my  son  (Rev.  21:7}. 

— President  Joseph  Fielding  Smith,  Conferenc©  Address,  October  3,  1948,  page  152 


MARY  VOGEL   CAMERON 


lliaryi    Vogel  Cameron  Appointed  to   Qeneral  (Board 

Vesta  P.  Crawford 
Associate  Editor,  The  Relief  Society  Magazine 

counselor  in  the  presidency.  For 
nineteen  years  she  served  as 
a  missionary  guide  on  Temple 
Square,  where  she  deepened  and 
strengthened  her  testimony  of  the 
gospel,  as  well  as  explaining  the 
doctrines  of  the  Church  to  many 
who  have  since  become  members. 
Her  Relief  Society  work  has  in- 
cluded teaching  the  theology  les- 
sons in  her  ward,  and  a  long  period 
of  service  on  the  stake  Relief  Society 
board. 

Mary  is  an  ideal  mother  and 
homemaker.  A  spiritual  atmosphere, 
loving  devotion,  beauty,  and  order 
permeate  her  home.  She  was  mar- 
ried to  Donald  Cameron  in  the  Salt 
Lake  Temple,  and  they  are  the  par- 
ents of  three  daughters:  Anna  (Mrs. 
Dale  S.  Worden),  Louise  (Mrs. 
Robert  K.  Anderson),  and  Con- 
stance, a  sophomore  at  the  Univer- 
sity of  Utah.  Eight  grandchildren 
have  brought  much  joy  to  Sister 
Cameron. 

The  gospel  has  always  been  a 
guiding  light  to  Mary;  she  loves  to 
study  the  scriptures,  believes  in  the 
power  of  prayer,  and  has  a  deep  and 
abiding  testimony.  She  is  endowed 
with  wisdom,  understanding,  dis- 
cernment, and  the  priceless  ability 
of  instilling  faith  and  devotion  in 
others.  She  is  an  eloquent  and  sin- 
cere speaker  and  writes  with  integ- 
rity and  artistry. 

Now,  in  wider  fields  of  service, 
her  intellectual  and  spiritual  bless- 
ings will  be  extended  to  all  the 
sisters  of  Relief  Society,  whose  lives 
will  be  enriched  by  association  with 
Mary  Cameron. 


M' 


[ARY  Vogel  Cameron,  appointed 
to  the  general  board  of  Relief 
Society,  January  9,  1957,  comes  to 
her  new  calling  well  prepared  by 
heritage,  training,  and  attributes  of 
personality.  She  was  born  in  Pro- 
vo,  Utah,  to  George  and  Martha 
Roberts  Vogel,  graduated  from 
Ogden  High  School,  and  attended 
the  University  of  Utah  and  the 
University  of  California.  As  a  teach- 
er in  the  schools  of  Weber  County 
and  Jordan  District,  her  radiant 
personality  and  her  many  talents 
were  further  developed. 

The  rich  promises  of  her  gospel 
heritage  found  expresson  early  in 
Mary's  life  of  devoted  service.  She 
has  held  executive  and  teaching  po- 
sitions in  all  the  auxiliaries  of  the 
Church  officered  by  women,  and  for 
several  years  was  a  member  of  her 
stake    Primary   board    and    later   a 

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Jr/ton   v(y.   uiunt  .yippointed  to   (general  [Board 

Edith  S.  Elliott 
Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 

AFTON  Watson  Hunt,  who  was 
appointed  to  the  general  board 
of  Relief  Society,  January  9,  1957, 
was  born  in  Parowan,  Utah,  to 
Emily  Crane  and  Lorenzo  Dow 
Watson.  Brother  Watson  was  a 
lawyer.  He  died  seven  months  be- 
fore Afton  was  born.  Her  mother 
kept  her  family  of  seven  children 
together  and  reared  them  success- 
fully while  serving  as  librarian  for 
twenty-two  years  at  the  Carnegie 
Library  in  Cedar  City.  It  was  there 
that  Afton  spent  her  youth  and  re- 
ceived most  of  her  education. 

After  graduating  from  the  College 
of  Southern  Utah  in  Cedar  City, 
Afton  went  to  Berkeley,  California, 
for  special  training  to  equip  herself 
to  teach  the  physically  handicapped. 
She  taught  for  three  years  in  the 
California  State  School  for  the  Deaf 
and  Blind. 

While  in  the  Bay  area,  she  met 
Mitchell  W.  Hunt  whom  she  mar- 
ried. To  the  young  couple  were 
born  a  daughter,  Florian,  and  a  son, 
Mitchell,  Jr.  Afton  today  has  five 
lovely  grandchildren. 

Later  the  Hunts  moved  to  Idaho 
where  Brother  Hunt  became  first 
counselor  in  the  Twin  Falls  Stake 
presidency  and  Afton  served  as 
president  of  the  Twin  Falls  Stake 
Rehef  Society.  The  Hunts  filled 
an  Hawaiian  mission,  followed  by 
a  few  months  in  the  California  Mis- 
sion. Upon  their  release  they  re- 
tired to  Laguna  Beach  where  Broth- 
er Hunt  became  branch  president 
and  Sister  Hunt  was  active  in  the 
auxiliaries.  They  won  the  love  of 
many  friends  in  Southern  California, 


AFTON  W.  HUNT 

all  of  whom  were  deeply  saddened 
when  President  Hunt  passed  away 
suddenly  of  a  heart  attack  in  1951. 

In  1954  Afton  toured  Europe  and 
Britain  where  she  took  advantage  of 
educational,  cultural,  and  historical 
opportunities  and  also  visited  in 
many  of  the  missions.  Returning 
to  America,  she  established  a  home 
in  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah.  At  the 
time  of  her  appointment  to  the  gen- 
eral board  of  Relief  Society,  she 
was  first  counselor  in  the  University 
Ward  Relief  Society  in  the  Uni- 
versity Stake. 

Sister  Hunt  has  served  most  of 
her  lifetime  as  a  teacher  in  all  the 
auxiliaries  of  the  Church,  with 
thirty  years  of  service  in  ward  and 
stake  Relief  Societies.  Her  training, 
experience,  service  and  firm  testi- 
mony of  the  gospel  of  Jesus  Christ 
amply  prepare  her  for  the  position 
as  a  member  of  the  general  board 
of  Relief  Society. 

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Velma   iL  Simonsen  [Retires  CJrom  (general  [Presidencyi 

Piesident  Bdk  S.  Spafioid 


npHE  General  Presidency  of  Relief 
Society  announces  that  on  Janu- 
ary 2,  1957,  ""*  response  to  her  re- 
quest, Sister  Velma  N.  Simonsen 
was  released  as  Second  Counselor 
in  the  General  Presidency  of  Relief 
Society  and  as  a  member  of  the 
general  board. 

The  announcement  of  her  release 
will  bring  a  sense  of  loss  to  Relief 
Society  sisters  throughout  the 
Church.  At  the  same  time,  there 
will  be  feelings  of  gratitude  for  the 
happy  associations  they  have  had 
with  her  and  for  the  able  leadership 
she  has  given  them. 

Sister  Simonsen  was  named  a 
member  of  the  general  board  in 
May  1945.  In  this  calling,  her 
leadership  ability  so  asserted  itself 
that  when  Sister  Gertrude  R.  Garff 
was  released  as  Second  Counselor 
in  the  General  Presidency,  October 
2,  1947,  Sister  Simonsen  was  called 
to  fill  this  important  position. 

During  the  time  that  she  has 
held  this  office,  she  has  given  faith- 
ful, devoted,  and  capable  service. 
In  addition  to  her  general  duties  as 
counselor,  she  has  had  charge  of 
the  work  meeting  program,  and  also 
the  annual  stake  Relief  Society  con- 
ventions. She  has  had  continuous 
supervision  of  the  Mormon  Handi- 
craft Shop,  and  for  several  years  she 
supervised  the  Temple  Clothing 
Department.  As  a  member  of  the 
General  Presidency,  she  has  con- 
tinuously served  as  an  advisory 
member  of  the  General  Church 
Welfare  Committee  and,  in  addi- 
tion, has  been  a  member  of  the 
Deseret  Industries  Committee. 


VELMA  N.  SIMONSEN 

To  all  of  these  assignments  she 
has  brought  enthusiasm,  coupled 
with  good  judgment,  ability,  and  a 
willingness  to  serve.  Sister  Simon- 
sen has  a  strong  faith  in  God  and 
an  abiding  testimony  of  the  gospel 
of  Jesus  Christ.  Her  warm,  friendly 
personality,  together  with  her  genu- 
ine love  for  the  sisters  of  the  Church 
have  drawn  them  to  her  in  love  and 
admiration. 

She  has  been  a  loyal  and  valued 
counselor  and  her  contribution  to 
the  work  of  Relief  Society  has  been 
a  significant  one  that  will  stand  a 
credit  to  her  always. 

Her  associates  of  the  general 
board  love  and  esteem  her  as  an 
able  leader  with  whom  they  have 
enjoyed  a  close,  personal  relation- 
ship. It  is  with  regret  that  they 
part  with  her  as  one  of  their  num- 
ber, wishing  for  her  always  the 
choice  blessings  of  our  Heavenly 
Father. 


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illargaret   C  LPickenng  LKe signs  Kyis 
(general  Secretarg-cJreasurer 

Leone  O.  Jacobs 
Former  Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 


A\7ITH  deep  appreciation  for  her 
devoted  service  to  the  Relief 
Society,  the  general  board  reluctant- 
ly accepted  the  resignation  of 
Sister  Margaret  C.  Pickering,  after 
eleven  years  as  General  Secretary- 
Treasurer.  She  served  from  October 
31,  1945  to  December  31,  1956. 

Sister  Pickering  came  to  her 
position  highly  quahfied  in  experi- 
ence and  ability,  having  twice  served 
as  secretary  -  treasurer  of  Ensign 
Stake  Relief  Society  and  as  secre- 
tary-treasurer of  South  Eighteenth 
Ward  Relief  Society  from  the  time 
of  its  organization  in  1939  until 
she  was  called  to  the  general  board. 
She  has  a  firm  testimony  of  the 
gospel  of  Jesus  Christ,  and  a  gra- 
cious and  friendly  disposition,  which 
endeared  her  to  fellow  board  mem- 
bers and  all  others  who  came  to 
her  office  for  information  and  help. 

Also  a  valuable  asset  was  the 
executive  experience  Sister  Picker- 
ing brought  to  her  position.  She 
had  served  for  ten  years  as  a  director 
of  the  Salt  Lake  County  Chapter  of 
the  American  Red  Cross,  part  of 
which  time  she  was  vice-chairman 
in  charge  of  women's  activities,  dur- 
ing World  War  II.  In  addition 
she  had  held  executive  positions  in 
other  civic  organizations. 

The  work  of  General  Secretary- 
Treasurer  has  been  very  exacting 
and  complex,  and  during  the  elev- 
en years  of  Sister  Pickering's  tenure 


MARGARET  G.  PIGKERING 

the  volume  of  detail  and  correspond- 
ence has  increased  proportionately 
to  the  society's  great  increase  in 
numbers. 

Beside  her  work  in  the  office, 
Sister  Pickering  has  taken  her  share 
of  stake  conventions  throughout 
the  stakes  of  Zion,  fulfilling  these 
assignments  with  a  high  degree  of 
efficiency,  and  making  friends 
wherever  she  traveled. 

And  now  with  her  resignation, 
Sister  Pickering,  indeed,  merits  the 
satisfaction  that  comes  from  work 
well  done,  and  members  of  the 
general  board  and  her  many  friends 
throughout  the  Church  extend  to 
her  their  love  and  esteem,  wishing 
her  much  happiness  in  the  years 
ahead. 

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cJhird  [Prize  Storyi 

KyLnnuai  ^Jielief  Society  Snort  Story   Contest 

The  Slow  Hurry 

Vera  H.  Mayhew'' 


4  4X^7HY  can't  Daddy  go  with 
Y^  me?"  twelve-year-old  Jim- 
my Marcus  demanded. 
'Tm  sick  of  going  with  Joe  and  his 
dad.  Always  Joe  and  his  dad.  How 
come  Brother  Jenson  always  goes 
and  Daddy  never  does?"  He  sat 
sprawled  on  the  big  couch  in  the 
living  room,  his  face  dark  with 
frustration. 

Millie  wished  she  could  answer 
his  question.  Sometimes  she  was 
tempted  to  say,  ''Because  Daddy 
has  things  he'd  rather  do."  She  nev- 
er had  answered  that  way;  she  hoped 
she  never  would.  She  had  to  keep 
up  the  pretense  that  there  would 
come  a  day  when  Daddy  would  go 
with  Jimmy  to  the  Father's  and 
Son's  Outing,  with  Ellen  to  Fa- 
ther's and  Daughter's  Night,  or 
even  with  her  to  church,  all  the 
time  hoping  that  it  was  not  all 
pretense.  If  she  didn't  have  that 
hope  what  was  there  to  look  for- 
ward to? 

''Daddy  has  to  go  to  a  meeting 
of  the  planning  commission,"  she 
said  aloud.  "He's  very  sorry,  but 
you  know  how  important  it  is  to 
him  to  get  Orchard  Avenue  zoned 
for  two-family  houses.  Come  on 
now.  Brother  Jenson  said  he'd  be 
glad  to  come  around  for  you,  and 
you'll  have  fun,  once  you  get 
there." 

"Oh,  all  right,  but  I  feel  pretty 
funny  when  it's  supper  time  and  I 


VERA  H.  MAYHEW 

don't  have  a  dad  to  fill  a  plate  for." 
Jimmy  stood  up  and  planted  his 
feet  far  apart  and  firmly  on  the 
floor.  "And  Brother  Jenson  can't 
run  all  the  races  twice.  He  gets  too 
tired,  but  he  always  offers,  and 
then  I  have  to  pretend  I  have  a 
sore  knee  or  something." 

Jimmy  "hurried  slowly"  into  his 
room.  In  spite  of  her  sore  heart, 
Millie  had  to  smile,  remembering 
the  time  several  years  before  when 
she  kept  insisting  that  Jimmy  hurry 
to  do  something  and  he  had  an- 
swered, "Oh,  all  right  if  I  have  to, 
but  I'll  hurry  very,  very  slowly." 
Ever  since  she  had  called  his  re- 
luctant shuffle  to  do  something  he 


*For  a  biographical  sketch  of  Vera  H.  Mayhew,  see  page  179. 
Page  160 


THE  SLOW  HURRY  161 

didn't  really  want  to  do  ''hurrying  that  children  their  age  wanted  or 

slowly."  needed.    She  had  no  right  even  to 

Ellen,  who  at   fourteen  was  in-  think  disloyal  thoughts.    Maybe  she 

creasingly  intolerant  of  the  teasing  wanted  too  much.    Maybe  Jim  was 

of  a  younger  brother,  had  taken  ad-  right,  and  it  took  twelve  hours  a 

vantage  of  Jimmy  being  away  for  day,  seven  days  a  week  to  be  success- 

an    evening    to    invite    her    friend,  ful    in    business.      Maybe    all    the 

Jeanne,  to  study  with  her.     Now  things  they  could  have  because  Jim 

the   two   girls  were   seated  at   the  worked  so  hard  were  as  important 

dining-room  table  with  a  plate  of  as  Jim  thought.     She  stitched  the 

fruit  between   them,  chewing  and  torn  neckband  in  Jimmy's  T  shirt 

giggling  more  than  they  were  study-  and  resolved  to  think  of  something 

ing.     Millie  sat  in  the  living  room  else. 

where  she  could  see  the  girls  and  But  thoughts  once  started  have 

acknowledged    to   herself   that   she  a  way  of  coming  back  and  back, 

was  hurrying  slowly  with  the  pile  She  remembered  her  wedding  day. 

of  mending  in  her  lap.  They  had    come   out   of   the    Salt 

Lake  Temple  in  the  early  afternoon 

CHE  kept  thinking  of  Jimmy  at  the  and  her  parents  had  hurried  ahead 

party  with  no  dad  to  run  the  to  get  things  moving  for  the  recep- 

sack  race  with  him,  and  wondering  tion  that  night, 

how  long  she  was  going  to  be  able  Jim  had  guided  her  a  little  away 

to  keep  him  going  to  the  parties  from  the  path  and  had  taken  some- 

with    some    other    boy's    dad.      It  thing  from  his  pocket.    ''With  this 

wasn't  only  the  parties  either.  How  ring  I  thee  wed,"  he  had  said.  "Do 

long     would     Jimmy     think     that  you  mind  if  I  tell  you  twice  that 

church   was   important   if  his   Dad  it's  forever?    Eifty  million  years  and 

showed    by    his    actions    that    he  then  some  more."     He  had  slipped 

didn't   think   so?     She   glanced   at  the  thin  band  on  her  finger,  and  she 

Ellen's  laughing  face  and  thought,  had  stood  silent,  smiling  with  tears 

I  have  a  better  chance  with  her.  in   her   eyes,   remembering  all   the 

Girls  are  more  likely  to  go  along  vows  they  had  taken  that  day. 

with    their    mothers.      But    in   her  Millie  twisted  the  band  on  her 

heart  Millie  knew  fear.  finger.     It    was    worn    smooth    in 

Jim  isn't  helping  me  at  all,  she  sixteen    years,    and    she    wondered 

thought.      I    might   as   well    be    a  if    the    vows    hadn't    worn    a    bit 

widow    bringing    up    my    children!  smooth,   too?     Where  did  we   go 

Then   she  was   appalled    that    she  wrong?  she  thought, 

even  had  such  a  thought.    Jim  was  Was  it  that  Jim's  family  was  not 

a  sweet  husband,  a  kind  and  loving  quite  as  religious  as  hers?     In  his 

father,  whenever  he  was  at  home,  boyhood  Jim  had  gone  to  church  if 

If  he  were  any  other  kind  of  man  he  wanted  to  and  stayed  home,  if 

the  children  would  not  miss  him  that  was  what  he  felt  like  doing, 

so  much  nor  be  so  eager  to  have  But  all  the  while  they  had  dated  he 

him  go  with  them  on  their  small  had  gone  with  her  to  Mutual  and 

excursions.    They  had  a  good  home,  to  sacrament  meeting.  She  couldn't 

medical   care,   and    all    the    things  remember    that    she    had    noticed 


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whether  his  parents  were  there  or 
not.  It  was  only  later  when  Jim 
had  begun  to  find  excuses  for  stay- 
ing horiie,  and  she  had  gone  alone 
that  she  had  noticed  that  none  of 
Jim's  family  were  there  either. 

Millie  remembered  the  evening 
the  bishop  had  come  to  their  home 
a  few  months  after  they  were  mar- 
ried to  ask  Jim  to  be  a  member  of 
the  Sunday  School  superintendency. 
Jim  had  said  how  busy  he  was  just 
starting  his  own  real  estate  busi- 
ness, ''I  guess  Millie  will  have  to 
do  the  church  work  for  both  of 
us/'  he  had  said.  And  that's  the 
way  it  had  been. 

V|[7ELL,  she  had  kept  up  the 
church  work  and  had  taken 
the  children  to  all  the  meetings  they 
were  supposed  to  attend.  If  Jim 
made  other  plans  for  a  Mutual  or 
choir  practice  night,  she  had  not 
let  them  interfere.  She,  at  least, 
had  done  her  duty.  Jim  sometimes 
canceled  his  plans,  but  more  and 
more  he  had  proceeded  with  them 
alone.  Now  he  had  almost  stopped 
asking  her  to  do  things  with  him, 
and  he  never  went  with  her.  Lately 
they  hadn't  even  been  talking 
much.  A  little  about  the  children 
and  where  he  was  going,  if  she 
asked.  Tonight,  when  she  pinned 
him  down  about  going  with  Jimmy, 
he  had  told  her  about  the  zoning 
meeting.  But  mostly,  she  realized, 
she  didn't  know  what  he  was  doing. 
The  twist  of  fear  was  stronger. 
It  isn't  only  that  the  children  are 
growing  up  without  knowing  the 
companionship  of  a  father,  she 
thought,  but  after  the  children  are 
gone  and  we  are  alone,  what  will 
we  have?  What  had  happened  to 
this  marriage  that  was  to  last  for- 


ever? How  could  I  have  known  we 
didn't  have  the  same  ideas  about 
what  was  worthwhile  in  life? 

Millie  was  too  restless  to  sew. 
She  put  the  basket  of  mending  away 
and  went  into  the  kitchen. 

''We're  through  studying.  Mom," 
Ellen  called.  ''Is  it  all  right  if  we 
turn  the  television  on?" 

"Go  ahead,"  Millie  said.  "I'm 
making  a  batch  of  fudge.  It  will  be 
ready  before  Jeanne's  father  comes 
for  her,  I  think." 

It  was  better  to  keep  herself  busy. 
Perhaps  then  she  wouldn't  think  so 
much. 

Somehow  Millie  couldn't  stop 
thinking,  that  night  or  in  the  next 
few  weeks.  Something  had  to  be 
done  about  their  life  as  a  family. 
Almost  a  month  had  passed,  when 
Jim  came  home  from  a  late  ap- 
pointment and  sat  down  in  the  liv- 
ing room.  He  didn't  open  the 
paper  or  pick  up  a  book,  but  kept 
stirring  restlessly,  looking  at  her, 
then  looking  away. 

Finally  he  said,  "Mil,  Dave  Evans 
is  in  town  and  he  has  brought  his 
wife.  They  will  be  here  only  over 
tomorrow,  and  I'd  like  to  take  them 
to  dinner.  It  would  be  much  nicer 
for  Mrs.  Evans  if  you  went  along. 
I  know  it's  Mutual,  but  couldn't 
the  kids  go  with  some  of  the  neigh- 
bors just  this  once?" 

Something  about  the  way  Jim 
looked,  pleading  as  young  Jimmy 
when  he  wanted  something  very 
much  but  feared  he  wouldn't  get  it, 
stopped  the  almost  automatic  re- 
sponse on  her  lips.  Instead  of  re- 
fusing somewhat  curtly,  as  she 
usually  did,  she  said,  "Of  course, 
Jim,  if  you  want  it.  Would  it  be 
nicer  to  have  them  at  home?" 

Jim   looked   at   her    in    surprise. 


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163 


"Not  this  time/'  he  said.  ''It's 
pretty  short  notice  for  you  to  get 
up  a  dinner.  Sweet  of  you  to  offer. 
Nice  of  you  to  go."  He  stood  up 
and  moved  toward  the  bedroom. 
Almost  there,  he  turned.  'Thanks 
Mil,  thanks  awfully." 

I  should  thank  you,  Millie 
thought.  She  tried  to  remember 
the  last  time  Jim  had  asked  her  to 
go  any  place.  She  thought  about 
the  surprised  look  on  his  face  when 
she  said  yes.  She  must  think  about 
this.  Maybe  Jim  was  feeling  the 
same  need  of  family  closeness  that 
she  did.  Maybe  he  didn't  know 
how  to  go  about  getting  it  either. 

lyilLLIE  dressed  with  great  care 
for  the  dinner  party  with  the 
Evanses  and  tried  to  be  a  good  host- 
ess. She  turned  the  conversation 
to  the  Evans  family,  the  Evans  va- 
cation, the  Evans  home,  and  lis- 
tened with  real  interest.  She  sur- 
prised herself  by  not  thinking  about 
the  children  more  than  once  or 
twice  all  evening. 

''It  was  a  nice  evening,"  she  told 
Jim  as  they  Hngered  a  few  minutes 
in  their  own  living  room. 

He  put  his  arms  around  her  and 
laid  his  cheek  against  her  hair. 

"You're  a  knockout,"  he  said. 
"Pretty  as  sixteen  years  ago.  The 
Evanses  thought  so,  too.  I'm  glad 
we  could  give  them  a  pleasant 
evening.  Dave's  done  a  lot  for 
me." 

Millie  felt  closer  to  Jim  than  she 
had  done  in  years. 

The  next  day  as  she  went  about 
her  work  she  kept  thinking  of  the 
night  before.  If  just  once  agreeing 
pleasantly  to  a  wish  of  Jim's  could 
bring  her  this  feeling  of  increased 
compatibility,  she  wondered  what 
it  would  be  like  if  she  lived  more 


for  Jim.  Then  she  thought,  this 
thing  doesn't  work  one  way.  If  it 
makes  me  feel  so  good  to  do  some- 
thing Jim  wants,  he  would  feel  the 
same  way  about  doing  something 
for  me.  She  must  think  of  some- 
thing. 

Actually,  the  thing  came  about 
without  any  contriving.  On  Sun- 
day, as  Millie  cleared  the  table  after 
dinner,  she  slipped  on  a  spot  of 
grease  that  had  splattered  on  the 
floor  near  the  stove  and  turned  her 
ankle.  It  was  quite  painful  and 
the  swelhng  came  up  fast. 

The  first  few  minutes  all  was 
confusion.  Jim  picked  Millie  up 
and  carried  her  to  the  couch. 

"You  kids  get  busy  and  clean  up 
the  kitchen,"  Jim  said.  "Mother 
mustn't  step  on  this  foot  at  all." 

"How  can  we  do  dishes  when 
you're  taking  up  all  the  room  get- 
ting out  ice?"  Jimmy  asked. 

"There  are  other  things  to  do  on 
a  cleanup  job,"  Jim  snapped.  "Be- 
sides I'm  almost  through.  Just  get 
me  a  couple  of  thick  wash  cloths, 
Ellen,  and  I'll  be  out  of  your  way." 

With  infinite  gentleness,  Jim  took 
off  Millie's  shoe  and  stocking  and 
began  to  put  on  cold  compresses. 
When  he  called  the  doctor  he  was 
told  to  continue  the  treatment  and 
call  him  the  next  day,  if  the  swell- 
ing was  bad.  After  a  half  hour 
Jim  pulled  the  afghan  over  Millie 
and  sat  beside  her,  his  face  white  as 
hers.  So  the  afternoon  passed,  a 
half  hour  of  compresses,  a  half 
hour  of  rest. 

"Really  Jim,  it  hardly  hurts  at  all 
now,"  Millie  insisted  after  the  third 
application  of  cold,  wet  cloths. 

Ellen  and  Jimmy  kept  asking  how 
she  felt,  and  Jim  reported  that  the 
kitchen  looked  perfectly  slick. 


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Finally  Ellen  said,  "Is  it  all  right 
if  I  leave  for  church  now?  Fm  one 
of  the  youth  speakers  tonight." 

Millie  sat  up  quickly.  ''Hand  me 
my  shoes  and  bring  me  a  comb/' 
she  said.  ''Fll  be  ready  to  take  you 
in  just  a  minute." 

'Tou'll  do  nothing  of  the  kind," 
Jim  said.  'Tou'll  stay  right  on  that 
couch  till  I  carry  you  up  to  bed. 
You're  going  to  keep  off  that  foot 
for  several  days." 

''Ellen  can't  just  let  them  down 
at  the  last  minute  like  this,"  Millie 
protested. 

"Why  don't  I  stay  with  Mother," 
Jimmy  said,  "and  you  take  Ellen  to 
church,  Dad?  I  can  wring  cloths 
out  of  ice  water,  but  I  can't  drive 
a  car." 

Jim  looked  uncertain,  a  little 
shamefaced.  His  glance  turned  to 
Millie,  and  she  held  her  breath 
waiting  for  his  decision. 

"Okay,"  Jim  said.  "But  don't 
you  leave  your  mother's  side." 

^^'Y'OU  have  a  very  smart  daugh- 
ter, Mrs.  Marcus,"  Jim  said 
as  he  came  in  after  the  meeting. 
"People  were  almost  as  impressed  at 
her  talk  as  they  were  to  see  me  in 
church." 

"Oh,  Daddy!"  Ellen  said,  but 
her  face  was  glowing. 

"No  kidding.  You  gave  a  right 
good  talk."  Jim  put  his  arm  around 
Ellen's  shoulder  and  drew  her  close 
for  a  minute. 

"Fm  sorry  to  have  missed  it," 
Millie  said.  "I  knew  you'd  make 
us  proud." 

She  had  said  "us,"  and  hadn't 
reahzed  it  until  she  heard  the  word. 
She  held  out  her  arms  to  Ellen,  but 
her  thoughts  were  with  that  little 
word  she  had  used  that  showed  that 


unconsciously  she  thought  of  them 
as  a  family  all  concerned  with  each 
other's  successes. 

Now  was  the  time  to  hurry  slow- 
ly Millie  knew,  but  it  was  not  be- 
cause of  reluctance.  She  mustn't 
push  Jim.  He  loved  her  and  he 
loved  the  children.  He  had  shown 
that  the  day  she  sprained  her 
ankle.  But  the  pattern  of  sixteen 
years  would  not  be  easy  to  break. 
She  remembered  how  hard  it  had 
been  for  him  to  ask  her  to  go  with 
his  clients  to  dinner;  and  just  be- 
cause an  accident  had  gotten  him 
to  church  once  didn't  mean  that 
he  would  go -again.  But  Fll  keep 
praying  and  trying,  she  thought. 

Our  spiritual  separation  has  been 
as  much  my  fault  as  his,  maybe 
more,  she  admitted  in  a  flash  of 
honest  self-appraisal.  Fve  been 
self-righteous!  Fve  gloried  in  do- 
ing my  duty  just  to  show  him!  At 
that  moment  she  didn't  like  her- 
self very  much.  But  her  next 
thought  seemed  to  set  her  on  the 
right  track.  Maybe  Jim  has  been 
leaving  church  out  altogether  to 
show  me.  Oh,  not  consciously,  she 
hastened  to  add.  But  something 
may  have  pushed  him  as  something 
pushed  me.  Just  that  little  bit  of 
difference  in  our  background  kept 
pushing  us  farther  and  farther  apart. 
We  should  have  met  that  and 
worked  out  our  own  way  of  life 
in  the  beginning.  I  guess  that  deep 
down  inside  we  were  each  too  sure 
that  our  way  was  right.  But  it 
isn't  too  late.  Oh,  it  can't  be  too 
late! 

Nevertheless,  two  Sundays  had 
passed  and  Jim  had  not  offered  to 
go  to  Sunday  School  or  sacrament 
meeting.  Ellen  had  shyly  suggested 
that  he  come  along,  but  he  had  a 


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165 


ready  excuse  and  Millie  had  said 
nothing. 

Now  it  was  Sunday  again.  Jim 
stayed  home  and  worked  in  the 
garden  while  Millie  and  the  chil- 
dren went  to  Sunday  School.  As 
the  time  neared  for  sacrament  meet- 
ing, Millie  resolved  to  ask  Jim  her- 
self, if  he  would  go  with  them. 

''Jack  Barnes  and  Ken  Murray 
are  to  be  the  speakers  at  church 
tonight/'  she  said.  'They're  just 
back  from  their  two  years  in  the 
service.  Jack  has  been  in  Germany 
and  Ken  in  Japan.    Come  with  us!" 

TIM  looked  at  her  almost  blankly 
•^  then  a  look  of  relief  crossed  his 
face.    "I  don't  care  if  I  do." 

"How  different  those  boys  are/' 
Jim  mused  as  he  helped  Millie 
spread  sandwiches  for  a  late  Sun- 
day snack.  "Jack  could  say  every- 
thing so  easily.  You  felt  almost  as 
if  you  had  been  there  with  him. 
For  Ken  it  was  harder,  and  most 
people  wouldn't  get  much  from  his 
talk.  But  I  admired  Ken.  He  did 
something  hard  the  best  he  could. 
Ken  taught  me  something." 

Millie  waited  for  Jim  to  go  on, 
but  he  shced  meat  in  silence. 

At  last  he  continued,  "Do  you 
have  a  feeling  that  we  understand 
each  other  better?" 

"Yes,  I  do,"  she  answered. 

"What  do  you  suppose  hap- 
pened? You  know  I  was  getting 
worried  about  us." 

You  were  getting  worried!  Millie 
thought;  aloud  she  said,  "That 
night  I  went  with  you  to  take  the 
Evanses  out  to  dinner  something 
came  straight  in  my  mind.  I  dis- 
covered that  you  had  a  point  of 
view  and  that  I  could  look  through 
it,  too.  Before  that  there  had  been 
just  one  right  way.    Mine." 


Jim  smiled  and  took  her  in  his 
arms.  "The  same  bug  must  have 
bitten  us  both.  The  things  you 
like  aren't  really  so  bad.  I  sort  of 
like  to  go  to  church.  But  you 
made  such  a  thing  of  it  the  very 
first  time  I  just  didn't  feel  like  go- 
ing, that  I  had  to  rebel.  Or  thought 
I  did."  He  rumpled  her  hair  then 
pressed  her  head  against  his  shoul- 
der. "As  the  kids  grew  up,  I  always 
felt  like  a  heel  when  I  didn't  go 
some  place  where  I  should  have 
been.  But  I  could  see  you  know- 
ing I  was  going  to  let  them  down. 
Couldn't  seem  to  help  myself.  I 
just  never  could  be  pushed." 

Millie  smiled,  thinking  of  Jimmy. 
"It's  funny,"  she  said  softly.  "I 
can  see  now  that  there  are  times 
when  the  necessary  pressures  of  life 
would  make  it  wrong  for  you  to 
ignore  an  outside  call  to  go  to 
Mutual  or  on  a  picnic." 

"Not  often,"  Jim  replied.  "Most- 
ly I  made  the  importance  in  my 
own  mind.  Sometimes,  I  grant  you; 
times  when  a  plane  should  be  met 
or  things  happen  just  this  once. 
Mostly  it  was  my  pigheadedness." 

"And  mine,"  Millie  said,  then  she 
giggled.  "We  surely  hurried  very, 
very  slowly  toward  an  understanding 
of  family  life." 

"But  we  did  get  there,"  Jim  said. 

"Hey,  I  thought  you  were  making 
sandwiches,"  Jimmy  opened  the 
kitchen  door  and  shouted. 

"Give  them  time,"  Ellen  said  and 
pulled  him  back  into  the  dining 
room  and  closed  the  door. 

"They're    all    done,"    Jim    said. 

"We'll  be  right  with  you."  Mil- 
lie's eyes  met  his  in  deep  under- 
standing, as  they  turned  to  take  the 
filled  trays  in  to  the  rest  of  the 
family. 


cJhe    /Lew  Zealand   l/Ltsst 


ission 


Pieston  R.  Nihley 


Whites  Aviation   Ltd. 
Submitted  by  Arta  R. 


Ballif 


CABBAGE  TREE  IN  THE  "BUSH  COUNTRY,"  NEW  ZEALAND 


jyilSSIONARY  work  in  New  Zea- 
land began  in  October  1854, 
when  Augustus  Farnhani,  President 
of  the  Austrahan  Mission,  ac- 
companied by  Elder  William  Cooke^ 
a  convert  from  Australia,  arrived  in 
Auckland  to  open  a  mission  for  the 
Church.  They  labored  diligently 
in  Auckland  and  vicinity,  on  the 
North  Island,  and  in  Nelson  and 
vicinity  on  the  South  Island,  for 
about  two  months,  but  did  not 
make  any  converts.  President  Farn- 
ham  then  returned  to  Australia, 
leaving  Elder  Cooke  to  take  charge 

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of  the  work.  This  diligent  mission- 
ary, working  alone  during  the  win- 
ter of  1854-55,  baptized  ten  converts 
at  Karori  (near  Wellington)  and 
organized,  in  March  1855,  the  first 
branch  of  the  Church  in  New  Zea- 
land. 

The  headquarters  of  what  was 
known  as  the  Australasian  Mission, 
consisting  of  Australia  and  New 
Zealand,  was  moved  from  Sidney  to 
Auckland  in  1881.  During  the  same 
year,  the  mission  president,  William 
M.  Bromley,  began  missionary  work 
among  the  Maoris  of  New  Zealand. 


THE  NEW  ZEALAND  MISSION 


167 


Whites   Aviation    Ltd. 
Submitted  by  Arta  R.  Ballif 


VIEW  OF  THE  GREEN  HILLS  OF  NEW  ZEALAND 


The  -plan  met  with  success,  and,  in 
1883,  a  branch  of  twenty-seven 
members  was  estabhshed  in  the 
Waotu  settlement,  with  Hari  T. 
Katera  as  president. 

The  Book  of  Mormon  was  trans- 
lated into  the  Maori  language  in 
1887  by  Elders  Ezra  F.  Richards 
and  Sonda  Sanders,  assisted  by  sev- 
eral educated  natives.  At  the  close 
of  1887  there  were  2,573  niembers 
of  the  Church  in  New  Zealand, 
2,243  of  whom  were  Maoris. 

The  Australasian  Mission  was 
divided  in  1897  and  New  Zealand 
was  made  a  separate  mission.  At 
the  end  of  1930  there  were  7,256 
members  in  the  mission. 

In  1913  an  Agricultural  College 
was  established  by  the  Church  in 


New  Zealand,  which  has  been  of 
great  benefit  to  the  young  Maori 
members. 

President  David  O.  McKay,  the 
first  President  of  the  Church  to 
visit  New  Zealand,  announced  after 
his  return  to  Salt  Lake  City  in  Feb- 
ruary 1955  that  a  temple  would  be 
built  in  that  land. 

Today  the  New  Zealand  Mission 
is  in  a  prosperous  condition.  There 
are  14,630  members,  located  in  sixty- 
eight  branches.  Ariel  S.  Ballif  is 
the  mission  president.  In  Decem- 
ber 1955,  seventy  Relief  Society  or- 
ganizations were  reported  with  998 
members.  Arta  R.  Ballif  presides 
over  the  New  Zealand  Mission  Re- 
lief Society. 


Note:  The  cover  of  this  Magazine,  "Sheep  Grazing  in  a  Green  Paddock/'  repre- 
sents typical  New  Zealand  scenery.    See  also  "Recipes  From  New  Zealand,"  page  192. 


The  Bright  Star 

Chapter  i 
Doiothy  S.  Romney 


KATHY  Tracy  was  puffing 
from  her  steep  chmb  up  the 
hill  by  the  time  she  reached 
the  top  step  leading  to  the  terrace. 
As  usual  since  his  retirement,  old 
Phineas  Fenton  was  seated  in  his 
big  leather  armchair.  And,  as  usual, 
he  was  gazing  across  the  waters  of 
the  Golden  Gate,  crimson  now  in 
the  last  glow  of  the  September  sun. 

Without  a  single  word  of  greet- 
ing, Phineas  declared,  '1  like  the 
crash  of  the  waves  down  there. 
Shuts  out  the  humdrum  sounds  of 
all  those  new-fangled  household 
contraptions  Grace  has  let  herself 
be  talked  into  buying.'' 

Kathy  stood  there  not  knowing 
how  to  begin.  It  was  hard  enough 
just  to  face  old  Phin,  let  alone  ask 
him  for  a  job.  But  it  had  to  be 
done.  She  simply  could  not  allow 
Aunt  Em  to  go  on  working  so 
hard.  If  only  Uncle  Phin  were  a 
real  blood  relative,  instead  of  just 
a  family  friend.  .  .  .  She  took  a  step 
closer  and  began,  ''Uncle  Phin.  .  .  " 

''Hmm,"  he  growled,  ''you  star- 
tled me,"  as  if  this  were  the  first 
indication  he  had  of  her  presence. 
"What  do  you  want?" 

She  was  saved  from  replying  for 
the  moment,  when  Grace  Fenton, 
Phin's  daughter-in-law,  came  out  of 
the  house.  "Why,  Kathy,"  she  said 
graciously,  "how  nice  to  see  you. 
Not  that  I  blame  anyone  for  not 
climbing  up  here  any  oftener  than 
necessary." 

"Have  to  live  where  I  can  see  the 
ocean,"  old  Phin  muttered. 

"Of  course,"  Grace  agreed  pleas- 
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antly.  "It  just  makes  it  a  bit  hard  for 
others  to  get  up  here  to  see  us." 

Old  Phin  coughed  impatiently, 
and  Kathy  surmised  he  was  wishing 
his  visitor  would  come  to  the  point, 
then  take  herself  off,  so  he  could  go 
back  to  his  daydreaming. 

"Aunt  Em  is  getting  old,"  she 
began,  and  saw  Phineas  wince.  I 
would  start  out  wrong,  she  told  her- 
self. He's  a  whole  generation  older 
than  she  is,  and  likes  to  think  him- 
self young.  She  forced  herself  to 
continue.  "When  Grandfather 
Tracy  died  years  ago  you  told  us  to 
come  to  you  if  we  ever  needed  any- 
thing.   Uncle  Phin,  I  need  a  job." 

"Don't  know  that  I  have  a  job  for 
anyone.  Business  is  slow  all  over," 
Phineas  complained,  fretting  his 
lower  lip  with  his  teeth  like  a  petu- 
lant child. 

"You  can  find  Kathy  a  job  in 
one  of  your  office  buildings  in  San 
Francisco,"  Grace  said  in  her  soft, 
unemotional  tones.  "I'm  sure  some 
small  job  would  do  to  start  with. 
Kathy's  interested  in  becoming  an 
artist,  and  this  would  give  her  time 
to  work  on  her  paintings." 

"Painting!"  Phineas  snorted. 
"Same  kind  of  malarkey  Em  would 
have  gone  in  for,  if  her  father  hadn't 
had  sense  enough  to  put  a  stop  to 
it." 

Kathy  wisely  chose  to  ignore  this 
remark. 

"She's  bright  and  talented,  too," 
Grace  urged  loyally,  and  Kathy 
could  have  wept  for  her  kindness. 

"Gonfound  you  women,  let  me 
alone,"  Phineas  growled.  He  turned 


THE  BRIGHT  STAR 


169 


to  Grace.  ''Hand  me  that  note 
paper/'  he  said,  indicating  a  pad  on 
a  small  table  a  few  feet  away.  He 
started  scribbling,  then  turned  to 
Kathy.  ''Here,  girl,  what's  your  full 
name?" 

"Kathy  Lynette  Tracy,"  she  said 
distinctly. 

"Hmm,"  he  snorted,  "pretty 
fancy.  Sounds  like  a  brand  of 
starch." 

You'd  think  he  hadn't  heard  my 
name  hundreds  of  times,  Kathy 
found  herself  thinking,  as  Phineas 
tore  off  the  note  and  handed  it  to 
her. 

She  glanced  at  it  just  long  enough 
to  make  sure  he  was  giving  her  a 
job,  then  stood  up. 

"You  mustn't  go  yet,"  Grace  pro- 
tested. "Let  me  bring  you  a  glass 
of  cold  orange  juice." 

"Oh,  thank  you,"  Kathy  said, 
"but  I'm  afraid  I  must  get  back." 

She  had  a  job,  and  felt  that  she'd 
burst  if  she  didn't  get  down  and  tell 
Aunt  Em  the  joyful  news.  She 
stopped  in  front  of  Phineas'  chair. 
"You'll  never  regret  giving  me  this 
chance,  Uncle  Phin." 

He  scrutinized  her  owlishly,  then 
sat  up  straighter.  "By  jove,"  he 
said,  "it's  a  good  thing  you're  pret- 
ty. The  tenants  like  pretty  girls  in 
my  buildings." 

Kathy  nodded  goodbye  to  Grace, 
her  eyes  almost  brimming  over  with 
tears  of  gratefulness.  She  walked 
down  the  steps  and  path  leading  to 
the  shrubbery. 

Behind  the  thicket  of  laurel,  out 
of  sight  of  the  Fenton  mansion,  was 
a  stone  bench.  Kathy  crumpled  up- 
on it.  She  fished  in  her  sweater 
pocket  and  brought  out  the  note. 
Phineas  had  written  clearly  on  it: 
"Give    this    girl,    Kathy    Lynette 


Tracy,  a  job  as  switchboard  oper- 
ator. Pay  her  fifty  dollars  a  week." 
It  was  a  small  fortune,  she'd  be 
rich  on  this,  rich  enough  to  pay  all 
the  household  expenses,  and  the 
money  in  the  old  Chinese  chest 
could  be  saved  for  an  emergency. 
Money  Aunt  Em  had  saved,  penny 
by  penny,  through  an  infinity  of 
stitching,  a  maze  of  jams  and  jellies 
sold  to  the  village  stores.  Kathy 
never  wanted  to  take  another  stitch 
or  look  at  another  jar  of  jam  the  rest 
of  her  life.  She  and  Aunt  Em 
would  both  be  free  of  all  this  drudg- 
ery. 

She  started  planning.  She'd  come 
home  nights— commute  across  the 
Golden  Gate  bridge— that  way  she 
could  spend  all  her  spare  time  with 
Aunt  Em.  Then,  perhaps,  Kathy 's 
heart  gave  a  little  plunge— stay  over 
one  evening  a  week  to  take  that 
course  in  art  she  had  dreamed  of 
for  so  long. 

IZATHY  got  up  and  continued 
down  the  path.  Ahead  of  her 
loomed  home— the  gray,  three- 
storied  house.  The  house  her 
grandfather,  Jon  Tracy,  had  built  at 
the  turn  of  the  century.  The  house 
Aunt  Em  loved  so  dearly.  Kathy 
thought  its  three  uncompromising 
tiers  of  gray  wood  rising  from  the 
rocky  beach  were  just  as  gorgeous 
as  the  Fenton  place  atop  the  hill. 
Jon  Tracy,  who  had  spent  his  life 
piloting  one  of  Phineas'  cargo  ves- 
sels, had  built  his  home  as  close  to 
the  ocean  as  was  considered  safe, 
where  the  noise  of  the  surf  and  the 
foghorns  could  be  heard  constantly. 
Kathy  was  sure  Miss  Em  would 
die  without  these  familiar  sounds 
of  her  childhood.  She  must  never, 
never  have  to  give  up  the  gray 
house. 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MARCH  1957 


Kathy  left  the  path,  and  finally 
reached  the  ravine  made  by  the 
spring,  crossed  the  miniature  cherry- 
wood  bridge  she  herself  had  built 
over  the  small  stream.  She  paused 
with  a  longing  look  at  the  tiny 
cabin  at  the  very  feet  of  the  waves. 
The  cabin  Jon  Tracy  had  built  and 
filled  with  the  beautifully  carved 
chests  and  relics  he'd  brought  from 
far-off  lands.  The  China  house,  as 
it  had  become  known,  had  long 
been  Kathy's  refuge  when  troubled. 
But  she  dared  not  go  in  now  and 
sit  down  in  the  comfortable  rock- 
ing chair,  or  she'd  never  get  up  to 
the  house,  and  Aunt  Em  might 
need  her. 

When  she  finally  reached  the 
haven  of  the  kitchen,  she  found 
that  it  was  empty.  She  called 
''Aunt  Em!  Aunt  Em!"  Receiving 
no  answer,  she  went  into  her  aunt's 
bedroom.  It  was  empty,  and  so  was 
the  rest  of  the  house,  she  found. 
''Where  could  she  have  gone?" 
Kathy  asked  herself. 

Kathy  collapsed  in  the  rocking 
chair  beside  the  old-fashioned  kitch- 
en range.  The  fog  was  already  set- 
tling down  in  the  ravine,  and  it 
would  be  dark  before  long.  Maybe 
she'd  better  go  out  and  look  for 
Aunt  Em,  she  thought,  as  she  rose 
to  set  the  kettle  on  the  hot  part  of 
the  stove.  A  cup  of  chocolate 
would  warm  her  up.  It  was  then 
that  she  saw  the  note,  propped 
against  the  sugar  bowl  on  the  table. 

She  picked  it  up  and  read  it 
swiftly:  "I  felt  that  I  needed  some 
fresh  air.  Please  don't  worry,  and 
go  ahead  with  your  date  with  Jim. 
ril  be  back  soon." 


J 


IM!     Kathy  had  completely  for- 
gotten that  this  was  their  night 


to  go  into  the  village  for  that  movie 
date.  She'd  better  eat  a  hurried 
bite  and  get  ready,  as  Jim  was  never 
known  to  be  late  and  hated  to  be 
kept  waiting. 

She  reminded  herself  that  Aunt 
Em  insisted  on  her  going  out  once 
in  a  while  in  the  evening.  "I  won't 
have  you  making  a  recluse  of  your- 
self because  of  me,"  she'd  declared. 
"Besides,  it's  the  only  chance  I  have 
to  catch  up  on  my  Book  of  Mor- 
mon reading." 

A  sandwich  and  a  cup  of  hot 
chocolate  was  all  Kathy  could  pos- 
sibly eat.  She  had  barely  finished 
when  Jim's  knock  came  on  the 
kitchen  door. 

"Hi!"  he  greeted.  "Grab  your  coat 
and  let's  get  going,  or  we'll  miss 
the  early  show." 

Kathy  got  up,  but  stood  uncer- 
tainly in  the  middle  of  the  kitchen 
floor.  ''Hey,  come  on,  you  in  a 
trance  or  something?"  Jim  prodded. 

"Aunt  Em's  gone  out  .  .  .  and 
I  shouldn't  leave  until  she  gets 
back,"  Kathy  spoke  slowly. 

"What's  so  unusual  about  Aunt 
Em  going  out?"  Jim  asked.  "She's 
always  running  off  somewhere,  isn't 
she?  Goodness  —  she  knows  the 
countryside  around  here  like  the 
back  of  her  hand.  She'll  be  all 
right,"  he  assured  her. 

"I  suppose  so,"  Kathy  replied, 
still  reluctant  to  leave.  She  had  a 
strange  foreboding  —  she  felt  sure 
she  shouldn't  go  out  before  her 
aunt  returned.  For  one  thing,  she 
remembered  how  much  Aunt  Em 
had  slowed  down  in  the  past  few 
weeks,  not  only  in  her  actions,  but 
her  speech  was  actually  slower  — 
perhaps  she  wasn't  well. 

.    (To  be  continued) 


Ward  Linton 


HILLSIDE  IN  SAN  BENITO  COUNTY,  CALIFORNIA 
o/  diaa  QJorgotten 

Catheiine  E.  Berry 

I  had  forgotten  time  could  bring 
An  end  to  every  lovely  thing  .  .  . 
The  fairyland  the  snowfall  made, 
The  weeping  willow's  lacy  shade; 
A  candle's  glow,  a  scarlet  tree, 
The  way  your  eyes  once  looked  at  me. 
And  wept  for  loveliness  gone  past. 
For  dreams  and  love  that  did  not  last. 


I  had  forgotten  time  can  heal 
The  wounded  heart,  can  place  its  seal 
Upon  the  past,  and  yearly  bring 
The  cycle  back  again  to  spring. 


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Sixtyi    LJears  ^/igo 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  March  i,  and  March  15,  1897 

"For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

NORTHERN  IDAHO:  That  part  of  Idaho  called  Cocur  d'Alene,  and  in  which 
is  my  home,  comprises  the  two  northernmost  counties,  Shoshone  and  Kootenai.  It  is 
a  nest  of  mountains  \\ith  beautiful  lakes  nestling  among  them  and  streams  of  water 
coursing  through  e\ery  gulch,  except  where  to^^•er  the  snow  clad  peaks  abo\e  the 
timber  line. 

A  trail  cut  through  the  banks  of  snow 
W^inds  up  and  o'er  the  mountain  chain 
To  where  the  pines  of  Idaho 
Stand  guard  upon  the  Coeur  d'Alene. 

— Helen  L.  Young 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONFERENCE  IN  DAVIS  STAKE:  President  Susan  Grant 
presiding  .  .  .  made  opening  remarks,  said  ^^■e  did  not  come  together  to  advance  new 
ideas  but  \\t  ha\e  come  ^^'ith  a  desire  to  be  blessed.  ...  "I  ha\e  been  connected  with 
this  Church  for  a  long  time  and  it  is  my  testimony  that  God  hears  and  answers  the 
prayers  of  the  faithful  saints.  \Mien  we  are  in  deep  sorrow  we  can  go  to  Him  and 
He  will  hear  us.  Wt  ha\e  all  enlisted  in  the  ser\ice  of  God.  Our  names  are  all 
enrolled  in  the  Relief  Society,  it  is  the  duty  of  all  the  sisters  to  attend  their  meetings." 

— Phebe  C.  Sessions,  Secretary 

ROSES   FOR   PRESIDENT  WOODRUFF'S   NINETIETH    BIRTHDAY 

They  are  the  roses  Re\'erence  and  Regard 

That  know  no  change. 
But  bloom  forever,  though  the  storms  be  hard 

And  ways  grow  strange. 

They  are  the  roses  that  I  bring  to  you. 

Your  gaze  to  greet; 
To  scent  the  way  you  take  with  fragrance  true. 

And  make  life  sweet. 

— Miss  Rose  Wallace 

SILVER  WEDDING:  Elder  John  C.  Sharp,  Bishop  of  Vernon,  Tooele  Co., 
and  his  wife  celebrated  their  siher  \\'edding  by  entertaining  about  fifty  relati\es  and 
friends  at  the  Templeton  Hotel  in  this  city,  on  Friday  evening  March  12th.  Among 
the  guests  were  Apostle  H.J.  Grant  and  wife,  Mrs.  Catherine  K.  Palmer,  who  is  almost 
eighty  years  old  and  mother  of  Mrs.  Sharp,  Pres't  H.  Gowans  and  wife  of  Tooele 
Stake,  Brother  Samuel  Woollcy  and  wife  of  Grantsville,  Brother  Wright  and  wife  of 
Nephi,  Brother  Louis  Stransbury  and  wife  of  Vernon,  Brother  Thackeray  and  wife  of 
Croydon,  and  many  relati\es  of  this  city.  The  e\ening  was  pleasantly  spent  with 
music,  feasting  and  con\ersation. 

— E.  P.  F. 

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Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


'T^HERE  are  sixteen  women  in  the 
Eighty-fifth  Congress  of  the 
United  States,  the  same  number  as 
in  the  eighty-fourth,  though  two  of 
them  are  new:  Representative  Flor- 
ence P.  Dwyer,  Repubhcan,  New 
Jersey,  and  Representative  Kathryn 
E.  Granahan,  Democrat,  Pennsylva- 
nia. Edith  Nourse  Rogers,  Republi- 
can, Massachusetts,  was  elected  to 
the  House  of  Representatives  for  her 
seventeenth  term,  and  Frances 
Payne  Bolton,  Republican,  Ohio, 
for  her  tenth.  Margaret  Chase 
Smith,  Republican,  Maine,  remains 
the  only  woman  Senator.  The  other 
representatives  are:  Republican: 
Katherine  Ind  and  Marguerite 
Church,  Illinois;  Democratic:  Ed- 
na Kelly,  New  York;  Gracie  Pfost, 
Idaho;  Leonor  K.  Sullivan,  Mis- 
souri; Edith  Green,  Oregon;  Eliza- 
beth Kee,  West  Virginia;  Iris 
Blitch,  Georgia;  Martha  W.  Grif- 
fiths, Michigan;  and  Coya  Knut- 
son,  Minnesota. 

I^TELLIE     BELLES     MACMIL- 

LAN,  born  in  Spencer,  In- 
diana, is  the  mother  of  Harold 
Macmillan,  Britain's  new  Prime 
Minister.  She  met  and  married 
Maurice  Macmillan,  musician  and 
publisher,  in  Paris  in  the  i88o's. 
Largely  through  her  insistence, 
Margaret  Mitchell's  Gone  With  the 
Wind  was  purchased  and  published 
by  the  Macmillan  Company. 


lyrABEL  S.  HARMER^S  True 
Book  oi  Pioneeis,  published 
in  March  by  Childrens  Press,  Chi- 
cago, has  been  named  a  Junior  Lit- 
erary Guild  Selection.  It  is  the 
first  book  by  a  Utahn  to  receive  this 
distinction.  Mrs.  Harmer's  True 
Bocl:  oi  the  Circus  was  her  first 
contribution  to  the  Childrens  Press 
True  Book  series.  Beautifully  illu- 
strated, the  new  volume  depicts  the 
day-to-day  activities  of  America's 
countless  pioneers.  Mrs.  Harmer, 
an  active  Latter-day  Saint,  is  a  fre- 
quent contributor  to  The  Rehef 
Society  Magazine  and  the  author  of 
a  daily  Deseret  News-Salt  Lake  Tele- 
gram Children's  Story. 

iy|RS.  CLARE  BOOTH  LUCE, 

fifty-three,  has  resigned  as 
American  Ambassador  to  Italy. 
Foreign  Minister,  Gaetano  Martino, 
bestowed  the  Grand  Cross  of  the 
Order  of  Merit,  Italy's  highest  dec- 
oration, on  Mrs.  Luce,  commenting 
that  if  United  States-Italian  friend- 
ship ''has  now  become  a  permanent 
part  of  the  spiritual  life  of  the  two 
nations,"  it  was  to  her  credit. 

CUSAN  WARNER,  in  writing 
^  The  Wide,  Wide  Woild  in 
1850,  became  the  author  of  Ameri- 
ca's first  fiction  bestseller.  Thirteen 
editions  were  printed  in  1850-51. 

Page  173 


EDITORIAL 


VOL.  44 


MARCH  1957 


NO.  3 


Uxelief  cboctet^  JLegacii  for    Ljoung    Vl/omen 


^<'\TU^HAT  does  Relief  Society 
offer  to  me  as  a  young  wom- 
an?" This  is  a  question  which  may 
be  in  the  minds  of  many  young 
women  who  are  beginning  to  make 
a  home. 

Here  are  a  few  of  the  oppor- 
tunities which  may  be  mentioned 
that  a  young  woman  has  as  a  legacy 
of  Relief  Society. 

In  this  modern  mechanized  world, 
opportunity  for  expression  may  be 
lacking  because  so  many  of  us  are 
watchers  and  listeners.  In  Relief 
Society,  a  young  woman  has  an 
opportunity  of  voicing  her  views  on 
subjects  which  are  interesting  and 
worthwhile— theology,  literary  mas- 
terpieces, authors,  family  relation- 
ships, and  other  subjects.  She  has 
the  chance  for  forming  opinions 
through  study  and  discussion  with 
other  women— some  who  are  her 
own  age  and  others  who  are  older. 

The  knowledge  and  opinions  of 
the  mother  are  an  important  part 
of  the  foundation  on  which  children 
learn  to  think  and  learn  why  they 
think  the  way  they  do.  It  behooves 
young  Latter-day  Saint  women,  then, 
to  learn  as  much  as  possible  not 
only  of  the  gospel  of  Jesus  Christ, 
but  also  of  all  the  fine  and  domestic 
arts  and  handicrafts,  in  order  that 
they  may  share  this  knowledge  with 
their  families.  Much  of  this  knowl- 
edge can  be  gained  through  activ- 
ity and  study  in  Relief  Society. 

Page  174 


A  young  woman  may  have  the 
opportunity  of  developing  leader- 
ship abilities  if  she  becomes  pro- 
ficient and  is  called  to  executive  or 
teaching  positions.  In  these  capac- 
ities she  will  find  that  she  needs, 
among  many  virtues,  those  of  poise, 
kindness,  and  humility.  She  who 
inculcates  these  qualities  in  her  life 
will  have  a  great  influence  upon  the 
other  members  and  upon  her  chil- 
dren as  well. 

The  Relief  Society  Magazine  is 
another  avenue  of  expression  which 
the  young  woman  is  given  in  her 
legacy  of  Relief  Society.  She  may 
have  a  flair  for  poetry  or  short 
stories;  or  she  may  like  to  write  the 
factual  or  the  travel-type  article. 
One  of  the  main  purposes  of  the 
Magazine  is  to  stimulate  and  in- 
crease interest  in  the  literary  talents 
of  women. 

A  young  woman  also  finds  the 
opportunity  to  serve  in  many  dif- 
ferent ways.  She  may  be  able  to 
help  in  the  accomplishment  of  a 
welfare  project  or  she  may  realize 
the  joy  which  comes  from  compas- 
sionate service  she  has  given  to  a 
sister. 

From  her  associations  with  older 
women  of  the  society,  she  gains 
wisdom  and  insight  in  life's  situa- 
tions, and  a  feeling  of  oneness  with 
her  sisters,  an  understanding  that 
life  itself  is  unchanging  despite  ex- 
terior conditions. 


EDITORIAL  175 

Young  women   who   find  them-  sion  and  service,  it  would  be  a  price- 
selves  asking  the  question:    ''Why  less  gift  which  is  not  found  in  any 
should  I  be  interested  in  Relief  So-  club  or  other  activity, 
ciety?"    may    well    consider    these 

values.     If  the  legacy  of  Relief  So-  May  the  young  women  of  this 

ciety  to  the  young  women  of  the  generation  claim  this  gift  of  oppor- 

Church     included     nothing    more  tunities  by  actively  participating  in 

than  an  opportunity  for  self-expres-  Relief  Society.— J.N. 


uieuef  Soctetif  Singing    llLothers  [Present    ifiusic 
(cJver    I  Lationai   {jDroaacasting  cJeieviSion    iletworn 

CIX  hundred  Singing  Mothers  from  Salt  Lake  and  Utah  County  areas 
sang  'The  Twenty-third  Psalm/'  with  music  by  Franz  Schubert,  on 
the  "Wide  Wide  World  Program"  which  presented  a  Salute  to  the 
American  Woman,  over  the  National  Broadcasting  Television  Network, 
Sunday,  January  6,  1957,  in  the  Salt  Lake  Tabernacle.  The  event,  originat- 
ing with  KSL-TV,  was  telecast  over  200  stations  to  an  estimated  thirty 
million  listeners  and  viewers.  Representing  nearly  thirty-one  thousand  Sing- 
ing Mothers  throughout  the  Church,  these  sisters,  under  the  baton  of  Dr. 
Florence  J.  Madsen  of  the  Relief  Society  general  board,  and  with  Frank 
W.  Asper  at  the  organ,  rendered  the  sacred  anthem  with  great  sincerity 
and  accomplished  musicianship. 

The  Singing  Mothers  appeared  at  the  conclusion  of  the  "Wide  Wide 
World  Program.*'  They  were  introduced  by  commentator  Dave  Gerroway, 
who  spoke  as  follows: 

But  in  the  West  one  morfe  chapter  is  still  to  be  told.  We  visit  with  600  women 
who  tell  the  story  in  song.  Our  live  cameras  are  scanning  the  spires  of  the  Mormon 
Temple  and  Tabernacle  on  Temple  Square  in  Salt  Lake  City  and  the  voices  you  hear 
singing  praises  to  the  Lord  over  our  broad  land  are  the  combined  chorus  of  the  Relief 
Society  Singing  Mothers  of  the  Church  of  Jesus  Christ  of  Latter-day  Saints — mothers, 
wives,  and  daughters — out  of  their  homes  in  the  valley  of  Salt  Lake  and  the  mountains 
beyond. 

In  her  letter  to  the  stakes  represented,  thanking  the  Singing  Mothers 
for  their  lovely  and  enthusiastic  performance,  President  Belle  S.  Spafford 
expressed  her  appreciation: 

Not  only  did  they  perform  masterfully  under  the  able  baton  of  Sister  Madsen,  but 
through  their  radiant  countenances  did  they  portray  most  impressively  the  spirit  and 
beauty  of  Latter-day  Saint  womanhood.  We  feel  confident  that  through  this  perform- 
ance countless  numbers  both  in  and  out  of  the  Church  will  have  increased  their  ap- 
preciation of  the  cultural  opportunities  afforded  through  our  great  organization.  We 
feel  also,  that  many  other  Singing  Mothers  choruses  will  have  been  encouraged  in 
their  endeavors. 


176  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MARCH  1957 

Many  letters  of  appreciation  have  been  received  at  the  general  offices 
of  Relief  Society  commending  the  excellent  and  appealing  rendition  of 
the  great  Psalm,  and  expressing  admiration  for  the  unity  of  effort  and 
effect  in  the  singing  of  the  Mothers,  as  well  as  their  lovely  appearance 
as  a  group. 

In  a  congratulatory  letter  to  President  Spalford,  Herbert  Sussan,  pro- 
ducer of  ''Wide  Wide  World/'  commented: 

I  certainly  hope  you  agree  that  all  the  efforts  were  worthwhile.  We  were  all  most 
impressed  by  the  great  quality  of  the  performance.  Even  more  so,  the  faith  and  warmth 
reflected  in  the  faces  of  the  singers  was  most  inspiring  to  our  vast  television  audience. 

And,  in  a  letter  to  Sister  Madsen,  Mr.  Sussan  expressed  his  apprecia- 
tion for  the  quality  of  the  music  presented: 

I  should  like  to  congratulate  you  and  the  wonderful  organization  that  you  con- 
ducted on  the  January  6th  Wide  Wide  World  program  for  the  most  effective  pre- 
sentation of  its  type  that  I  have  ever  seen  on  television.  Musically,  we  were  thrilled 
by  the  high  quality  of  their  performance. 

This  event,  shared  by  many  people  in  all  parts  of  our  country,  was 
a  heartfelt  and  significant  occasion  for  the  Singing  Mothers  and  for  Relief 
Society  women  in  all  the  stakes  and  missions  of  the  Church— an  oppor- 
tunity to  present  a  message  of  faith  through  the  faces  and  the  voices  of 
the  Singing  Mothers.  Their  devotion  and  their  performance  will  long  be 
remembered. 


J/innouncing  the  Special  J/ipril  Short  Storif  cJ^ssae 

T^HE  April  1957  issue  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine  will  be  the  special 

short  story  number,  with  four  outstanding  stories  being  presented. 
Look  for  these  stories  in  April: 

''Mountain  Vacation,"  by  Deone  R.  Sutherland 

"New  Shoes  for  Flo,"  by  Wanda  F.  Hilton 

"Two  of  a  Kind,"  by  Maude  Rubin 

"Going  Modern,"  by  Frances  C.  Yost 


cJhese  cJhings  Sd  JLove 

Helen  H.  Jones 

These  things  I  love: 

Soft  music  built  on  unexpected 

Harmonies, 

Clean  silhouettes  against  the  moon 

Of  leafless  trees; 

Life  that  runs  a  rocky  course 

Not  hewn  by  chance, 

Finding  its  power  through  purpose. 

Not  through  circumstance. 


TbohUL 


TO  THE  FIELD 


cJ^fidex  for  ig^6  LKeltef  Society    i /  lagazine   K/ivauable 

/^OPIES  of  the  1956  index  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine  are  available 

and  may  be  ordered  from  the  General  Board  of  Relief  Society,  76  North 
Main  Street,  Salt  Lake  City  16,  Utah.    The  price  is  15^,  including  postage. 

Relief  Society  officers  and  members  who  wish  to  have  their  1956 
issues  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine  bound  may  do  so  through  the 
Deseret  News  Press,  31  Richards  Street,  Salt  Lake  City  1,  Utah.  The  cost 
for  binding  the  twelve  issues  in  a  permanent  cloth  binding  is  $2.50,  in- 
cluding the  index.  If  leather  binding  is  preferred,  the  cost  is  $3.50,  in- 
cluding the  index.  These  prices  do  not  include  postage,  and  an  additional 
amount  to  cover  postage  must  accompany  all  orders  for  binding  of  the 
Magazine.  See  schedules  of  postage  rates  in  this  issue  of  the  Magazine, 
page  208. 

If  bound  volumes  are  desired,  and  the  Magazine  cannot  be  supplied 
by  the  person  making  the  request,  the  Magazines  will  be  supplied  for  $1.50 
by  the  Magazine  Department,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society,  76  North 
Main  Street,  Salt  Lake  City  16,  Utah.  Only  a  limited  number  of  Magazines 
are  available  for  binding. 

It  is  suggested  that  all  wards  and  stakes  have  one  volume  of  the  1956 
Magazines  bound  for  preservation  in  ward  and  stake  Relief  Society  libraries. 


(cyrganizations  and  LKeorganizattons  of  Stani 
ana    1! iission  iKelief  Societies  for  igj6 


Stakes 

Ashley 
Brigham   Young 

University 
Burbank 
Canyon  Rim 
Covina 
Flagstaff 

Hayward 
Holladay 
Kansas  City 


Lake  Mead 

Oakland-Berkeley 

Reseda 

Spanish  Fork 

Springville 

Tucson 


ORGANIZATIONS 

Formerly  Part  of  Appointed  President     Date  Appointed 


Uintah 
East  Provo 

San  Fernando 

East  Mill  Creek 

Pasadena 

Snowflake  and 

California  Mission 

Oakland 

Cottonwood 

Independence  District 

Central  States 

Mission 

Las  Vegas  and  Moapa 

Oakland  and  Berkeley 

San  Fernando 

Palmyra 

Kolob 

Southern  Arizona 


Melba  H.  Tullis 
Alice  Wilkinson 

Evelyn  P.  Brown 
Bertha  H.  Blomquist 
Lucille  C.  Hales 
Ruth  W.  Palmer 

Myrtle    Davidson 
Elaine  B.  Curtis 
Marjorie  M.  Reeve 


Mary  R.  Edwards 
Annabelle  W.  Hart 
Blanche  A.  Flint 
Fern  Brockbank 
Clara   Sumsion 
Avez  M.   Goodman 


November  2,   1956 
January  8,  1956 

September  16,  1956 
October  28,    1956 
February  26,  1956 
September  23,  1956 

August  26,  1956 
March  18,  1956 
October  21,  1956 


August  19,   1956 
August  26,  1956 
September  16,  1956 
September  30,  1956 
October  21,  1956 
December  2,  1956 

Page  177 


178 

Stake 
Valley  View 

Walnut  Creek 

Missions 
Northern  Mexico 


Former^'  Part  oi 


East  Mill  Creek  and     Grace  E.  Berndt 

Wilford  Stakes 

Berkeley  Ellen  J.  Haddock 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MARCH  1957 

Appointed  President     Date  Appointed 

October  28,  1956 

August  26,  1956 


Mexican 


Kathleen  B.  Bentley     June  10,  1956 


Stake 
Beaver 

Bountiful 
Calgary 
Cottonwood 
East  Los  Angeles 

East  Mill  Creek 

East  Provo 

Emigration 

Farr  West 

Florida 

Fresno 

Gooding 

Grand  Coulee 

Gridley 

Houston 

Klamath 

Kolob 

Lake  View 

Layton 
Lyman 
Mill  Creek 
New  York 

North  Carbon 
North  Sevier 
Palmyra 
Palo  Alto 
Park 

Redondo 
St.  George 
Salmon  River 
San  Fernando 
San  Luis 
Santa  Monica 
Santa  Rosa 
South  Sanpete 
Temple  View 
Uintah 
Wasatch 
Washington 
Wilford 


REORGANIZATIONS 

Released  President        Appointed  President     Date  Appointed 


Bernice  Thompson 

Liila  G.  Eldredge 
Freda  Kenney 
Elaine  B.  Curtis 
Genevieve  L.  Ander- 
son 
Zettella  W.  Thurman 
Zina  P.  Dunford 
Lucille  G.  Williams 
Geneva  M.  Law 
Effie  Meeks 
Lyla  J.  Coombs 
Jenna  Vee  Hall 

Alfreta  Gail  Jardine 
Alice  I.  Ferrin 
Sadie  Ollorton  Clark 
Mae  Belle  Nielson 
Grace  C.  Crandall 
Esther  (Beth) 

McEntire 
Faun  L.  Reynolds 
Opal  W.  Broadbent 
Mary  M.  Wright 
Vera  H,  Hales 

Elva  Judd 
Josephine  Thomsen 
Fern  Brockbank 
Violet  B.  Smith 
Velma  N.  Glade 
June  Baggett 
Verna  L.  Dewsnup 
Louise  Arave 
Evelyn  P.  Brown 
Lettie  S.  Jensen 
Odette  P.  Coulam 
Ruth  M.  Pell 
Zella  C.  Christensen 
Lorena  W.  Anderson 
Muriel  S.  Wallis 
Ruth  Mae  Witt 
Mae  A.  Evans 
Grace  E.  Berndt 


Kathleen  S.  Farns- 

worth 
Marilla  H.  Sessions 
Helen  B.  Pitcher 
Nina  B.  Davis 
Margaret  W.  Clarke 

Thelma  B.  Dansie 
Ethel  M.  Wilson 
Dean  B.  Norberg 
Ada  j.  Taylor 
Vella  V.  Tilton 
Olive  Child  Phillips 
Nina  Beth  G. 
Cunningham 
Jane  Maria  Larsen 
Ivy  M.  iBrown 
Kathryn  K.  Willis 
Vesta  M.  Lewis 
Luella  T,  Wilson 
Catherine  Child 

Mary   Barber 
Elease  Rollins 
Rachel  Park 
Margaret  D. 

Stephenson 
Edna  Broadbent 
Ora  C.  Mason 
Maude  H.  Ludlow 
Ruby  M.  Dobbins 
Bernice  R.  Campbell 
Kathryn  L.  Squire 
Roma  C.  Esplin 
Helen  Olson 
Naomi  Gilmore 
Verla  Crowther 
Hilda  Goucher 
Dorothy  S.  Blaisdell 
LuDean  H.  Cox 
Margaret  M.  Glad 
Evyln  G.  Richardson 
Mina  C.  Giles 
Marcia  C.  Steele 
Lois  Jensen 


May  1,   1956 

March  20,  1956 
March  18,  1956 
March  18,  1956 
April  22,  1956 

October  28,   1956 
January  29,  1956 
September  zj,  1956 
September  22,  1956 
October  25,  1956 
September  9,  1956 
June  17,   1956 

February  26,   1956 
September  23,  1956 
October  14,  1956 
April  29,  1956 
October  21,  1956 
June  10,  1956 

February  5,  1956 
October  28,  1956 
July  9,  1956 
February  26,  1956 

August  6,  1956 
April  22,  1956 
September  20,  1956 
September  9,  1956 
March  11,  1956 
August  27,  1956 
June  10,   1956 
May  20,  1956 
September  16,  1956 
May  20,   1956 
September  16,  1956 
February  5,  1956 
September  25,  1956 
September  16,  1956 
June  10,   1956 
May  6,  1956 
August  2,   1956 
November  4,   1956 


ORGANIZATIONS  AND  REORGANIZATIONS 


179 


Missions 
Argentine 

Danish 

Great  Lakes  Mission 

Netherlands  Mission 

Northern  California 

Norwegian 

Samoan 

South  African 
Swedish 
Swiss-Austrian 
Uruguayan 

Western  Canadian 


Stakes 


Released  President       Appointed  President     Date  Appointed 


Berkeley 
Oakland 


Amy  Y.  Valentine 

Mary  G.  Sorensen 

Florence  H.  Richards 

Ada  S.  Van  Dam 

Amelia  P.  Gardner 
Sigrid  H.  Andresen 
Rita  H.  Stone 

Nora  C.  Duncan 
Ethel  E.  Blomquist 
Johanna  B.  Perschon 
Louise  Bush  Parry 

(deceased,  6-14-56) 
Elizabeth  Zimmerman 


Marilynn  Haymore 

Pace 
Ora  Irene  H.  Peter- 
sen 
Mary  Pehrson 
Christensen 
Lucy  Emma  Gedge 

Sperry 
Hazel  Sperry  Love 
Zina  R.  Engebretsen 
Thelma   Hansen 

Sampson 
Holly  Wood  Fisher 
Ruth  T.  Oscarson 
LaVelle  D.  Curtis 
Sharon  Parry  (Miss) 

Annie   Ruth   B. 
Larson 


STAKES  DISORGANIZED 

Released  President 

Irene  Thorley  Ranker 
Annabelle  W.  Hart 


July  25,  1956 

January  10,  1956 

October  17,  1956 

July  12,  1956 

August  22,  1956 
February  16,  1956 
October   17,   1956 

October  7,  1956 
July  12,  1956 
June  22,  1956 

January  10,  1956 


Date  Released 

August  26,  1956 
August  26,  1956 


vi/orld--  y^  hanger 

MaryhaJe  Woolsey 

Small  Danny-Boy  has  been  here  —  my  world 

globe  tells  me  so: 
Antarctica  is  up  on  top,  the  North  Pole's 

down  below. 
And  I'm  inclined  to  wonder,  as  I  view  it 

with  a  frown, 
In  what  ways  Daniel,  grown,  might  turn  a 

real  world  upside-down! 


Vera  diinckley    i/layhew 


Vera  Hinckley  Mayhew  appears  for  the  second  time  as  a  winner  in  the  Relief 
Society  Short  Story  Contest,  with  her  offering  "The  Slow  Hurry."  "My  husband, 
Wayne,  and  I  live  in  Berkeley,  California,"  she  writes,  "and  we  spend  as  much  time 
as  we  can  squeeze  out  on  our  ranch  in  the  Napa  Valley,  where  we  breed  Arabian 
horses  and  entertain  our  eight  grandchildren.  We  have  two  sons  and  two  daughters, 
all  married  and  living  in  widely  scattered  places.  I  have  been  active  in  Relief  Society 
for  many  years  as  a  ward  and  stake  literature  class  leader,  and  as  a  ward  and  then  a 
stake  president.  Over  the  past  twenty  years  a  story  of  mine  has  occasionally  appeared 
in  The  Relief  Society  Magazine  or  the  Era.  For  the  past  two  and  a  half  years,  since 
my  household  and  Church  responsil)ilities  have  decreased,  I  have  kept  a  more  regular 
writing  schedule  and  my  appearances  in  both  Church  and  outside  publications  have 
increased." 


e  Honest  with  Yourself 


(R 


un  an 


d    vi/in 


A  LL  life  is  a  race  which  everyone  wants  to  win.    Happily,  all  of  us  can 
win,  for  we  run  not  against  one  another  but  against  ourselves.    More- 
over, we  set  our  own  handicaps.    These  handicaps  are  the  times  and  the 
measures,  the  ambitions  and  the  goals  we  set  for  ourselves.     But  once 
having  set  our  sights,  it's  up  to  us  whether  we  win  or  lose  in  the  race. 
Young  man,  young  woman,  what  are  your  goals  in  the  race  of  life? 
Health,  long  life,  business  success,  the  friendship  of  good  and  great 
people,  a  comfortable  home,  a  happy  family,  security  for  self  and  loved 

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ones,  faith  in  a  more  glorious  future  life,  with  a  well-earned  inner  assur- 
ance that  a  loving  Father  will  reward  in  heaven  good  deeds  done  here? 
If  these  are  the  sights  you  set  for  yourself  and  for  those  you  cherish,  your 
high  aims  must  be  matched  by  constant  and  increasing  daily  endeavor. 

To  win  you  must  run  and  not  grow  weary;  you  must  not  faint  or 
falter  a  single  step  before  the  race  is  won.  Don't  slow  your  pace  by 
breaking  training  rules,  or  shorten  your  stride  in  the  running  of  the  race. 
To  win  the  race  of  life,  you  must  keep  physically,  mentally,  and  spiritually 
fit. 

To  be  less  —  to  do  less  than  your  best  is  to  cheat  yourself  and  your 
loved  ones  of  the  rewards  which  belong  only  to  winners. 

Then  —  on  your  mark,  get  set  —  go! 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


Spring   \:ypening 

Eva  WiJIes  Wangsgaard 

Forsythia  was  first  to  voice 

Disdain  for  winter's  reign  of  frost. 
There  was  scant  reason  to  rejoice 

For  earth  and  sky  were  winter-crossed. 

Still  every  limb  wore  bells  of  gold 
In  gay  defiance  of  the  weather. 

The  sun-flecked  tune  their  chiming  told 
Was  light  as  if  a  golden  feather 

Had  fallen  from  wide  wings  of  spring. 

Though  skies  were  cold  in  clouds  of  dun, 
As  warm  as  hours  June  would  bring, 

Forsythia  was  filled  with  sun. 


cJhe    v(y kite  throat  in  the   0 


^rass 


Ethel  Jacobson 

Sparrow  of  the  snowy  throat, 
Whence  these  arias  come  pouring, 
From  weedy  clumps  you  loose  a  note 
Pure  as  a  lark's  in  heaven  soaring, 
In  highest  heaven  soaring. 

Of  faith  you  sing,  though  men  shrug  by 
Where  praises  rise  from  grassy  altars, 
Of  faith  that  knows  how  fond  an  eye 
Watches  over  you,  nor  falters — 
Faith  that  never  falters! 


Stratford-Upon-Avon  and  the 
Shakespeare  Memorial  Theater 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


SHAKESPEARE  could  not  have 
been  Shakespeare  without 
Elizabethan  London,  with  its 
mere  200,000  inhabitants,  its  bril- 
liant eoffee-house  intelligentsia;  its 
newborn  spirit  of  youth,  hope,  and 
adventure;  its  beauty  and  brutality; 
its  perfumed  air  and  vile  stench;  its 
spiritual  yearning;  its  insistence  up- 
on the  importance  of  the  individual 
—  and  with  it  all  London's  almost 
daily  familiarity  with  the  execu- 
tioner —  so  much  so  that  not  death 
itself  was  what  counted  but  only 
the  manner  of  meeting  death— with 
courage  and  dignity.  All  of  these 
undoubtedly  taught  Shakespeare 
much  of  his  skill  in  probing  the 
diverse  passions  of  the  human 
heart. 

Shakespeare  could  not,  however, 
have  reached  that  vast  universality 
which  characterizes  him  above  all 
other  writers,  without  the  lovely 
Warwickshire  countryside  where  he 
had  his  important  beginnings  and 
early  youth.  In  visiting  Stratford- 
Upon-Avon,  one  feels  the  gentle 
shadow  of  this  exquisite  place  pro- 
jecting itself  into  drama  after  drama 
of  the  master  poet-playwright. 

How  different  is  nature's  grace  in 
the  broad  embracing  curve  of  the 
Avon  River,  from  the  tutored  grace 
of  Queen  Elizabeth  in  the  dance, 
executing  a  pas  de  chat  considerably 
above  the  floor!  The  sweet  air,  the 
ancient  trees,  the  incredible  profu- 

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sion  of  flowers  with  their  slight 
movements,  their  colors  and  starry 
forms,  their  legends;  the  ever-chang- 
ing ways  of  sky  and  clouds  —  these 
were  undoubtedly  the  gossamer 
threads  from  which  was  woven  much 
of  Shakespeare's  poetry,  his  Mid- 
summer Night's  Dream,  As  You 
Like  It,  Ophelia's  mad  scene  in 
Hamlet,  the  romantic  balcony  scene 
from  Romeo  and  Juliet,  and  many 
scattered  lines  of  verse  that  move 
the  soul  with  their  beauty. 

The  trip  from  London  to  Strat- 
ford-Upon-Avon in  May  was  a 
charming  introduction  to  the  theme 
of  Warwickshire  itself. 

There  were  still  patches  of  ''blue- 
bell woods"— carpets  of  tiny  massed 
bells  stretching  under  the  trees  in 
delicate  blue  glamor.  Bright-colored 
wild  flowers  and  ''lady's  white  petti- 
coats" made  the  scene  gay.  Green 
meadowlands  ascended  to  rolling 
hills  crowned  with  thick  growths  of 
trees  in  multiple  shades  of  green 
interspersed  with  red  copper  beeches 
and  other  bright  foliage.  Lovely 
hedgerows  divided  fields  and  farms 
and  grazing  lands,  with  Hereford 
and  Black  Angus  cows,  pigs,  and 
newborn  lambs  that  looked  scarcely 
a  foot  long.  Lilacs  bloomed  ex- 
uberantly, and  blossoming  shrubs 
and  fruit  trees  made  a  delicate  pink 
and  white  tracery. 

Suddenly  we  were  in  Stratford, 
and  we  had  slipped  far  back  in  time. 


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Young  William  Shakespeare  must 
have  been  familiar  with  many  of 
these  houses  almost  four  centuries 
ago. 

/^NE  could  spend  days  absorbing 
the  architectural  details  that 
lend  so  much  charm  and  quaintness 
to  Stratford.  The  irregularity  and 
diversity  in  the  shapes  of  roofs, 
gables,  substantial  chimney  stacks, 
and  projecting  circular  thatches  over 
dormer  windows  create  a  beautiful 
rustic  artistry.  The  chimneys  are 
most  picturesque.  They  may  be 
oblong,  square,  tall  and  narrow,  or 
diagonal  as  in  Shakespeare's  daugh- 
ter's home,  Hall's  Croft.  The  tops 
are  frequently  in  ornamental  shapes 
that  give  a  beautiful  architectural 


finish  to  the  buildings.  From  big 
chimneys  rise,  often,  clusters  of  little 
chimney  pots  (pipes). 

The  timbered  houses  give  Strat- 
ford its  most  characteristic  charm. 
Generally  the  handhewn  timbers 
are  set  perpendicularly  or  diagonally 
in  the  plaster  walls,  but  in  some 
they  are  elaborately  patterned  with 
curves,  which  are  difficult  of  execu- 
tion, as  an  important  part  of  the  de- 
sign. 

There  is  the  same  kind  of  alike- 
ness  in  the  houses  as  exists  in  peo- 
ple; yet  the  very  striving  for  indi- 
viduality that  characterized  the 
Elizabethan  men  and  women,  is 
evident  also  in  these  old  homes. 
Some  of  them,  of  the  pointed-archi- 
tecture  type,   are   very  interesting. 


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Thrift  is  apparent  here,  too.  There 
is  one  rehc  still  used  as  a  shop  and 
home.  Its  front  wall,  stricken  with 
age,  leans  toward  the  street,  sloping 
from  a  high,  steep  roof,  sharply 
pointed,  to  within  eight  feet  of  the 
ground.  Scraggly  thatch  projects 
like  a  beetling  eyebrow,  and,  oc- 
casionally, the  birds  take  out  a 
straw  for  their  nests.  The  support- 
ing corner  timber  is  split  wide  open 
so  an  iron  pipe,  planted  in  the 
ground,  rises  at  an  angle  of  forty- 
five  degrees,  pressing  against  the 
weakened  corner  timber,  and  is 
fastened  to  the  roof  at  its  high 
point. 

Many  houses  have  overhanging 
second  stories,  some  third  stories 
also.  There  are  thatch  roofs  and 
tile  roofs.  The  leaded  windows  and 
unusual  doorways  give  great  style 
and  beauty  to  the  buildings.  There 
are  large  window  spaces  —  some- 
times in  the  overhanging  fashion  — 
containing  perhaps  fifteen  panels. 
In  one  window,  each  panel  has  a 
double-leaded  circle  in  the  center, 
and  in  the  space  between  the  leaded 
rings,  is  a  fleur-de-lis  design,  prob- 
ably a  family  coat  of  arms.  Some  of 
the  glass  is  a  greenish  or  bluish  tint, 
often  with  a  very  transparent  bubble 
in  the  center  of  the  pane.  These 
occasional  colored  bubble  panes, 
contrasting  with  plain,  clear  ones, 
make  interesting  designs.  In  one 
doorway  of  fifty-four  small  panes, 
for  instance,  this  contrasting  bubble 
motif  was  worked  out. 

Of  the  historic  buildings  in 
Stratford,  Holy  Trinity  Church, 
where  Shakespeare's  remains  have 
rested  since  his  death  in  1616,  is  in 
a  remarkably  beautiful  location  on 
the  river  bank  and  is  representative 


of  architecture  beginning  with  the 
thirteenth  century.  Shakespeare's 
birthplace  is  a  large,  handsome  old 
home  dating  from  the  early  six- 
teenth century.  The  timbered  room 
in  which  he  was  born,  in  1564,  has 
a  large  stone-and-brick  mantel.  On 
the  glass  of  its  one  window,  eminent 
people  who  have  visited  through 
the  years  have  scratched  their  names, 
among  them  Thomas  Carlyle,  Isaac 
Watts,  Sir  Walter  Scott,  Henry  Irv- 
ing, and  Ellen  Terry. 

Of  New  Place  —  the  handsomest 
home  in  Stratford  at  the  time, 
which  Shakespeare  bought  for  re- 
tirement —  only  the  foundations  re- 
main, but  a  memorial  garden  is 
maintained  which  is  much  like  the 
garden  the  poet  himself  planted  and 
tended. 

npHE  thatched  cottage  of  Anne 
Hathaway  in  Shottery,  a  mile 
distant,  is  timbered  outside  and  in- 
side. It  is  a  spacious  farmhouse 
which  was  familiar  to  young  Wil- 
liam, who  courted  Anne  there.  The 
oldest  part  of  the  house  dates  from 
the  fifteenth  century;  the  old-fash- 
ioned garden  is  true  to  type,  and 
the  kitchen  has  a  fireplace  big 
enough  in  which  to  barbecue  an  ox, 
and  is  arrayed  with  old-fashioned 
kitchen  utensils.  There  is,  also, 
the  Arden  Farmstead,  home  of 
Shakespeare's  mother,  in  nearby 
Wilmcote,  and  near  the  center  of 
Stratford-Upon-Avon,  is  the  large 
and  elegant  home  of  Dr.  John  Hall 
and  Susanna  Shakespeare  Hall, 
daughter  of  the  dramatist. 

The  Shakespeare  museum  and  pic- 
ture gallery,  close  to  the  Memorial 
Theatre,  teems  with  interesting 
items  that  bring  Shakespearean  dra- 


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matic  history  to  life.  Among  many 
portraits  of  the  poet  is  the  famous 
Droeshout  painting,  which  is  one 
of  only  two  in  existence,  ''of  which 
it  can  be  positively  asserted  that 
they  were  known  to  anyone  who 
ever  set  eyes  on  Shakespeare  him- 
self/' There  are  magnificent  por- 
traits of  many  distinguished  Shake- 
spearean actors  through  the  centur- 
ies. Among  them  are  Ellen  Terry, 
Violet  Vanbrugh,  Sir  Johnston 
Forbes  Robertson,  Mary  Anderson, 
Madame  Modjeska;  and  one  espec- 
ially interesting  portrayal  of  the  trial 
scene  of  Queen  Katherine  in  Henry 
VIII,  presents  famous  Fanny  Kem- 
ble  and  other  members  of  the  acting 
family  of  the  Kembles. 


There  are  many  artists'  concep- 
tions —  both  poetic  and  dramatic  — 
of  great  scenes  in  Shakespeare's 
plays.  The  walls  are  lined  with 
imagined  biographical  portraits  of 
Shakespeare  as  an  infant,  surround- 
ed by  the  (nine)  passions,  Shake- 
speare at  the  baptismal  font,  and 
other  pictures.  The  dagger,  script, 
tablets,  and  chain  used  by  actor 
Henry  Irving  are  on  display  along 
with  a  cast  of  Sarah  Siddons'  lovely, 
artistic  left  hand,  and  a  death  mask 
and  a  cast  of  the  clasped  hands  of 
beloved  actress  Ellen  Terry. 

TN  1820  Charles  Mathews,  British 
comedian,  unsuccessfully  attempt- 
ed to  create  interest  in  building  a 


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Shakespeare  memorial  theatre  at 
Stratford.  Later,  Charles  E.  Flower 
got  the  idea  underway  and  present- 
ed a  two-acre  site  on  the  bank  of 
the  river.  In  1879  the  first  Me- 
morial Theatre  was  opened  with 
a  Shakespeare  Festival.  In  1926  the 
theatre  was  burned  to  the  ground. 
Through  press  appeals,  contribu- 
tions for  a  new  theatre  poured  in, 
with  Americans  giving  $625,000. 

The  present  theatre  was  opened 
in  1932.  It  is  a  modern  building  of 
rose  brick,  dramatically  situated  on 
the  bank  of  the  curving  Avon. 
Swans,  so  familiar  to  Shakespeare's 
eyes,  are  everywhere  in  evidence.  I 
easily  counted  twenty-nine  of  the 
long-throated  beauties  floating  on 
the  wide,  quiet  waters.  They  were 
especially  effective  under  the  arched 
bridge  which  spanned  the  Avon  in 
the  poet's  day. 

In  front  of  the  theatre,  the  flower 
gardens  on  a  belvedere  at  the  riv- 
er's edge  are  most  artistically  ar- 
ranged. Yellow  tulips  rise  high 
above  orange-red,  fragrant  Siberian 
wallflowers.  On  the  opposite  side, 
red  and  orange  parrot  tulips  top  vel- 
vety yellow  wallflowers.  A  wonder- 
ful rose  garden  is  not  yet  in  bloom, 
but  the  variety  and  number  of 
flowers  which  are  blooming  surprise 
one.  Corners  of  gardens  are  worked 
out  in  white  double  and  quadruple 
daisies.  In  one  corner  of  the 
grounds  are  ornamental  box  hedges 
about  ten  feet  long,  under  horse- 
chestnut  trees  burdened  with  pink 
blooms.  In  the  windows  of  the 
theatre  itself  are  boxes  of  bright  yel- 
low flowers,  while  inside  the  foyer 


is  a  great  vase  containing  a  most 
impressive  arrangement  of  flowers 
centered  by  an  enormous  calla  lily. 

The  building  is  modern,  comfort- 
able, and  well-lighted.  It  contains 
a  restaurant,  library,  picture  gallery, 
and  its  own  wardrobes  and  work- 
shops. 

Britain's  best  actors  now  take 
part  in  the  Shakespeare  Festival, 
which  lasts  six  months.  One  tour- 
ing company  carries  Shakespeare  to 
Europe  and  has  gone  as  far  as 
Australia.  The  very  highest  stand- 
ards are  maintained  both  in  their 
company  and  in  the  Memorial 
Theatre. 

I  was  fortunate  enough  to  see 
Hamlet,  which  was  most  satisfying. 
The  reading  of  the  lines  and  the 
English  diction  were  music  to  the 
ear  and  made  the  play  clear  even 
to  those  who  were  unfamiliar  with 
the  occasional  archaic  phrases.  The 
strolling  players  were  particularly 
vivid  in  their  parts.  Perhaps  that 
was  so  because  the  strolling  players 
of  Shakespeare's  day  were  very  good 
and  realistic  actors. 

A  minimum  of  scenery  was  used, 
but  that  troubled  no  one.  The 
properties,  if  scarce,  were  hand- 
some. The  picturesque  sea  chest 
that  represented  Hamlet's  departure 
really  dressed  up  the  stage. 

These  performances  are  well 
worth  the  traveler's  time  and  effort, 
and  forever  after  one  will  hold  in 
one's  heart  a  feeling  for  the  great 
poet-dramatist  which  comes  only 
from  experiencing  more  closely 
than  is  possible  in  any  other  spot  a 
little  of  Shakespeare  himself. 


cJhe  ^jLmerican    I iational  iKed  L^ross 

ON  THE  JOB  WHEN  IT  COUNTS 

By  Virginia  Glenn 
Red  Cross  Field  Representative 

'T^HE  American  National  Red  Cross  acts  day  in  and  day  out,  training 

people  in  first  aid,  home  nursing,  and  water  safety  skills  to  help  them 
be  more  self-sufficient  and  prepared  to  cope  with  the  hazards  both  of 
peacetime  living  and  potential  enemy  attack.  It  maintains  a  network  of 
regional  blood  programs  to  help  the  sick  and  injured  and  to  serve  the 
Nation  in  great  emergencies.  Red  Cross  today  is  giving  direct  personal 
assistance  to  the  people  of  Hungary— expressing  with  foDd,  clothing,  and 
shelter,  compassion  to  these  people  in  this  time  of  international  disaster. 

To  carry  on  this  great  work,  the  organization  needs  volunteer  workers 
to  serve  their  neighbors  through  the  Red  Cross.  And,  the  organization 
needs  the  financial  resources  which  make  the  work  possible. 

In  some  cities  the  Red  Cross  is  included  with  other  community  or- 
ganizations in  fall  campaigns.  If  this  is  the  case  in  your  community,  and 
you  did  not  join  the  Red  Cross  last  fall,  you  will  want  to  become  a  mem- 
ber in  March  and  receive  your  membership  card. 

This  is  your  Red  Cross.  Keep  it  strong  and  vital.  Keep  the  Red 
Cross  on  the  job  .  .  .  when  it  counts  .  .  .  where  it  counts.  Join  and  Serve. 


^yipncot  cJree 

Delia  Adams  Leitner 

From  my  north  window  I  can  see 

A  tree  lace-clad  in  spring  array 
Against  the  background  of  the  hills, 
-  It  heralds  all  the  joys  of  May. 

Each  time  I  look  out  I  rejoice 

In  loveliness  that  I  can  share; 
My  heart  is  stirred  to  gratitude, 

I  softly  breathe  a  thankful  prayer. 

It  sways  so  gently  in  the  breeze, 

The  birds  are  flitting  in  and  out; 
They  voice  the  praise  that  I  would  sing, 

Dispelling  thoughts  of  fear  and  doubt. 

At  harvest  time  the  luscious  fruit 

On  laden  boughs  will  fill  the  tree. 
But  all  the  beauty  it  now  gives 

SuppHes  a  feast  of  joy  to  me. 

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Be  a  Relief  Society  Magazine 
* 'Promoter'' 

June  Nielsen 
Assistant  to  the  Editor 

(Talk  given  at  The  Relief  Society  Magazine  Department,  Annual  General  Relief  Society 

Conference,  October  4,  1956.) 

VOU  are  promoters— promoters  of  the    dictionary,   which    is    'mental 

a  good  cause,  The  Relief  Society  certainty."     Faith  is,  then,  mental 

Magazine,  which  can  bring  inspira-  certainty  put  into  action, 

tion,  beauty,  pleasure,  and  knowl-  We  find,  in  most  of  these  stakes 

edge  to  the  reader  with  a  seeking  and  wards,  that  definite  goals  were 

mind  and  an  understanding  heart.  set     for     Magazine     subscriptions. 

To  ''promote"  means  to  move  These  goals  varied  —  some  stakes 
forward.  As  Latter-day  Saints  who  set  one  hundred  per  cent  in  all 
believe  in  the  principles  of  eternal  wards,  others  150  per  cent  for  the 
progression,  we  may  all  continue  to  stake.  These  goals  became  certain- 
move  forward.  To  help  you,  as  pro-  ties  in  the  minds  of  the  ward  and 
meters,  move  forward  in  your  work  stake  representatives  and  officers  as 
as  Magazine  representatives  and  to  they  went  forth  to  accomplish  the 
help  you  with  your  problems,  we  goals.  They  proceeded  to  put  those 
have  gleaned  suggestions  and  ideas  beliefs  into  action  throughout  the 
from  those  stakes  whose  promotion  year. 

of  the  Magazine  was  outstanding  We  want  to  share  with  you  some 
last  year  (1955) :  first,  from  those  of  the  ways  which  were  used  to  pro- 
which  made  the  highest  percentage  mote  the  Magazine.  After  the  goals 
increase  in  subscriptions  during  the  were  set,  in  several  of  the  stakes  all 
year;  second,  from  those  which  made  of  the  stake  officers  were  urged  to 
the  highest  percentage  increase  in  emphasize  the  Magazine  as  they 
subscriptions  in  stakes  making  the  visited  the  various  wards.  Thus,  the 
honor  roll  this  year  and  not  the  Magazine  representative  received 
previous  year;  and  third,  from  those  the  help  and  encouragement  of  the 
which  made  the  highest  percentage  entire  stake  board.  Some  stakes 
increase  in  subscriptions  having  all  used  charts  which  showed  the  status 
wards  one  hundred  per  cent  this  of  the  wards  in  the  Magazine  cam- 
year  and  not  last  year.  P^ign.      Charts    were    displayed   at 

Letters   from   those   stake   Relief  union  meetings.    Regular  Magazine 

Society    presidents    and    Magazine  departments    were    held    in    union 

representatives   tell   us   that  it  was  meetings    in    the   successful   stakes 

by  faith.     Because  of  faithful  ward  last    year.      In    these    departments, 

and  stake  representatives  and  other  topics  concerning  why  and  how  to 

officers,  they  achieved  their  goals.  I  sell   the  Magazine  were   discussed, 

think  a  concise  definition  of  faith  is:  Promotional  ideas  which  the  indi- 

belief  put  into  action.     We  might  vidual    ward    representatives    were 

take  the  definition  of  belief  from  using  were  exchanged.     One  stake 

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reported  they  used  the  prehminary 
time  of  union  meeting  once  each 
year  for  Magazine  promotion.  In 
this  program,  the  ward  representa- 
tives participated  and  were  recog- 
nized for  their  behind-the-scenes 
work.  This  proved  to  be  a  very 
effective  way  of  encouraging  ward 
representatives. 

PERSONAL  contact  with  the  Re- 
hef  Society  sisters  was  em- 
phasized as  the  greatest,  single  ele- 
ment in  increasing  subscriptions  to 
the  Magazine.  In  most  of  the  stakes 
from  which  we  have  received  letters, 
the  representatives  tried  to  make 
personal  contact  in  every  home  in 
the  ward.  In  one  stake  a  letter  was 
sent  to  each  home.  This  letter  told 
about  The  Reliei  Society  Magazine 
and  the  goal  which  had  been  set. 
It  was  reported  that  the  response 
was  very  encouraging.  One  stake 
representative  stated  that  she  never 
took  The  Rehef  Society  Magazine 
before  she  was  asked  to  be  stake 
representative— simply  because  no 
one  had  ever  asked  her  to  subscribe. 
One  stake  reported  that  the  stake 
representative  visited  Relief  Society 


meetings  in  all  the  wards  with  the 
permission  of  the  stake  Relief  So- 
ciety president  and  gave  a  short  talk 
using  the  Magazine  as  a  visual  aid. 
Another  stated  that  their  represen- 
tatives were  ''Magazine-minded/' 
that  they  never  went  any  place 
without  their  subscription  receipt 
books  because  they  found  so  many 
opportunities  to  use  them. 

The  ways  of  achieving  the  goals 
and  putting  your  beliefs  into  action 
are  many.  These  are  a  few  promo- 
tional ideas  that  have  proved  effec- 
tive in  stakes.  Some  of  the  elements 
which  I  think  could  make  up  the 
word  ''promote"  and  which  I  think 
will  bring  success  if  acted  upon  are: 

P — plans — set  your  goals. 

R — readiness — be  willing  and  prepared. 

O — opportunities — make  your  own  op- 
portunities, 

M — motivations — motives  mean  action. 

O — other  opportunities — be  "Magazine- 
minded." 

T — talk — the  way  of  making  personal 
contacts. 

E — enthusiasm — it  is  contagious  and  ef- 
fective. 

No  matter  where  you  are,  you  can 
move  forward  or  promote.  Be  a 
promoter  of  every  good  thing. 


iiiy  cfortune 

Enoh  ChamheiUn 

Days  I  have  loved  are  golden  days 
When  I  have  said  a  word  of  praise 
To  one  in  need,  when  I  have  smiled 
To  meet  the  laughter  of  a  child. 

Hours  I  have  loved  are  silver  hours 
When  I  have  taken  scented  flowers 
To  someone  loved  or  quite  unknown 
Who  was  shut  in  or  just  alone. 

These  days  and  hours  have  made  my  years 
Until  I  find  as  twihght  nears, 
And  gray  is  creeping  in  my  hair 
That  I  have  wealth  beyond  compare. 


Embellishment 

Clarissa  A.  BeesJey 


FROM  our  desks  in  the  Salt 
Lake  Temple  annex,  we 
watched  the  beautiful  Relief 
Society  building  rise  on  the  land- 
scape. First,  the  huge  excavation 
was  cut  deep  into  the  ground;  then 
the  solid,  massive  foundations  were 
laid,  and  the  thick,  enduring  walls 
were  raised  with  their  insets  of 
doors  and  windows;  finally,  the  pro- 
tecting roof  was  completed,  and  we 
said,  "It  is  finished."  But,  even  as 
we  spoke,  we  knew  it  was  not  so; 
we  knew  that  both  on  the  outside 
and  within  the  walls,  there  must  be 
added  manifold  details  of  embellish- 
ment before  this  imposing  building 
would  be  complete. 

And  I  thought,  how  like  this  is 
the  building  of  a  life  and  particular- 
ly, a  Latter-day  Saint  life! 

Often,  when  it  has  been  my  privi- 
lege to  lead  a  group  of  mature 
adults  in  a  gospel  study,  I  have  said 
within  myself,  why  do  I  attempt  to 
discuss  with  these  good  people  the 
things  which  they  already  know  so 
well?  They  are  highly  intelligent; 
they  have  been  trained  in  the 
Church  and  in  its  teachings  through 
all  their  days;  they  have  laid  strong 
foundations  of  faith  and  knowledge 
in  their  childhood;  in  their  youth 
and  early  maturity  they  have  built 
the  walls,  girded  with  strength  and 
endurance.  What  is  left  to  be 
done? 

The  building  across  the  street 
gave  the  answer:  There  is  still  the 
embellishment,  the  beautifying  to 
be  done. 

As  I  pondered  upon  this,  a  wide 
vista  of  possible  accomplishments  in 
life's  ripened  years  opened  up  before 
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me.  I  could  have  given  much 
thought  as  to  how  the  physical 
body,  notwithstanding  the  ravages 
of  time,  might  be  so  cared  for  that 
it  would  continue  lovely  in  personal 
cleanliness  and  daintiness  and  sweet- 
ness of  spirit,  and  how  the  mind 
might  not  be  allowed  to  become 
stagnant,  but  be  stimulated  ever  to 
be  alert  and  seeking  new  treasures 
of  knowledge  and  wisdom.  I  could 
wish  that  this  might  be  the  way 
with  each  one  of  us  and  that  age 
might  be  robbed  of  its  tragedy  and 
be  crowned  with  beauty,  vitality, 
and  joy. 

Especially  I  reverted  to  my  own 
troubled  question  concerning  the 
pursuit  of  gospel  study  and  asked 
myself,  what  are  some  of  the  things 
to  be  done  now  in  the  embellish- 
ment of  our  spiritual  lives'  building, 
in  these  later  years?  And  the  an- 
swer came: 

First,  we  must  be  sure  that  the 
knowledge  of  divine  principles 
gained  through  the  years  is  without 
blemish.  Did  we  grow  to  maturity 
with  a  correct  understanding  of 
these  doctrines?  In  our  childhood 
did  we  learn  this  gospel  correctly,  or 
did  we  receive  impressions  not  quite 
accurate  which  we  have  carried  with 
us?  How  many  such  impressions 
did  we  receive?  Now  is  the  time  to 
give  a  thorough  checkup  to  our 
store  of  information,  to  strengthen 
the  buttresses  of  truth,  and  to  re- 
move any  weak  supports. 

Next,  have  we  added  to  our 
original  store  of  knowledge  as  the 
years  have  come  and  gone  and  the 
walls  of  our  structure  have  risen, 
or  have  we  been   content  with  a 


EMBELLISHMENT 


191 


meager  supply  of  religious  facts  and 
failed  to  make  replenishment  from 
time  to  time? 

Furthermore,  if  our  knowledge  is 
found  to  be  considerable,  what  is 
its  source— our  own  research,  or  the 
findings  of  others?  Often  we  may 
have  envied  the  spiritual  experts 
among  us  and  wished  we  could 
know  vital  answers  as  did  they.  But 
have  we  taken  the  time  to  dig  deep 
into  the  scriptures  to  find  those  an- 
swers for  ourselves?  How  readily 
can  we  turn  to  desired  reference 
passages?  How  well,  now,  today, 
can  we  give  evidence  of  that  which 
we  speak? 

Then,  what  about  the  spirit,  the 
soul  of  our  building?  Has  our  in- 
terior decoration  become  beautiful 
and  complete  by  the  application  of 
knowledge  gained  in  adorning  and 
ennobling  our  character?  Are  there 
still  some  unadorned  spots?  What 
of  the  hidden  envyings  and  grudges 
held  long  years  against  a  neighbor, 
friend,  or  leader?  What  of  the  dis- 
content or  bitterness  against  our  lot 
in  life  and  the  seeming  misfortunes 
we  have  borne?  What  of  the 
doubts,  questionings  against  the  acts 
of  providence?  What  even  of  the 
wrongs  we   may  have  committed? 


Or  of  the  service  or  kindly  deed  we 
may  have  neglected? 

Yes,  the  building  of  our  lives  is 
not  yet  completed.  There  is  still 
much  embellishment  to  be  done. 
We  have  a  precious  opportunity 
now  to  correct  the  mistakes  of  learn- 
ing, of  judgment,  and  of  viewpoint; 
to  add  much  new,  beautiful  truth 
to  our  store;  to  arrange  our  facts  of 
knowledge  into  an  orderly  whole, 
and  to  become  so  familiar  with 
those  facts  that  they  are  made  a 
part  of  us;  to  learn  afresh  what  it 
means  to  repent  of  sin  and  to  for- 
give trespasses  against  us;  to  become 
gentle  and  tender  where  we  have 
been  hard  and  unrelenting;  in  fine, 
to  pohsh  our  souls  until,  indeed, 
they  approach  perfection  and  shine 
in  exquisite  beauty  before  that  last 
inspection  when  we  can  say  that  our 
building  is  finished,  ready  for  its 
final  dedication. 

These  years  may  not  be  the  gold- 
en period  of  our  experience,  for  that 
was  the  period  of  strength  and  viril- 
ity, of  great  activity  and  achieve- 
ment, our  youth.  But  these  are  the 
silver  years— mellow,  chaste,  sweet— 
the  time  of  the  embellishment  to 
the  full  of  the  structure  of  our  lives. 


LP  re  face  to   ^Jja^ 

Dorothy  J.  Roberts 

A  finch's  psalm  pours  from  the  pinion's  bough 

As  dawn  bathes  me,  hds  closed,  in  coolness.     Now 

From  the  roof  a  whir;  two  velvet  wings  flap  twice 

Then  sail  away  in  silence.     Day's  precise 

Alarm  is  rung.     Faintly  the  young  doves  coo. 

In  the  cone  of  the  flowering  crab,  the  warblers  woo. 

The  summer  long,  repeated  just  this  way, 

Breakfasting  on  song,  I  begin  the  day, 

Clinging  to  dreams  a  while  before  I  rise, 

Refreshed,  to  lift  the  curtains  from  my  eyes. 


[fieapes  Qjrom    /Lew   cloeaiand 

Submitted  by  Arta  R.  Ballif 

Ancient  Maori  Hangi 
(Underground  Steam  Cooking) 

The  ancient  Maoris  cooked  their  food  in  "hangis." 

Method:  Dig  a  hole  one  foot  deep  by  two  feet  round.  The  shape  and  size  vary 
according  to  the  amount  of  food  to  be  cooked.  Line  with  medium-sized  rocks  (porous 
ones  are  best).  On  these  place  dry  titree  (wild  scrub)  and  large  pieces  of  wood  to 
make  a  good  fire.  In  an  hour  or  so  remove  all  traces  of  fire  and  clean  the  rocks  by 
sprinkling  lightly  with  water.  Place  over  rocks  a  hangi  ring  (made  from  Nikau  leaves). 
This  keeps  the  food  intact  and  allows  complete  removal.  On  this,  place  the  food  to 
be  cooked,  large  pieces  of  pork,  fish,  kumara  (sweet  potato),  pigeon,  or  fern  root. 
Again  sprinkle  with  water,  generously,  so  as  to  create  a  steam.  Cover  with  Nikau 
leaves,  Nikau  mat,  and  top  soil.  This  is  to  prevent  the  escape  of  steam.  In  two 
hours,  remove  top  coverings,  lift  out  mat  and  the  food  is  ready  to  eat.  The  same 
hangi  could  be  a  permanent  cooking  place. 

The  above  method  is  used  today  on  special  occasions  with  slight  improvements. 
Today,  a  wire  netting  is  placed  on  the  rocks.  A  white  cloth  is  placed  between  the 
food  and  the  leaves,  and  then  wet  sacks  are  placed  over.  On  top  of  this,  soil  is  used 
to  cover  all.  It  is  actually  a  steam  cooking,  and  important  points  to  watch  are  that 
the  rocks  are  washed  clean,  that  there  is  sufficient  water  to  create  a  steam,  and  that 
every  trace  of  charcoal  or  burning  wood  is  completely  removed,  so  there  will  be  no 
taste  or  smell  of  smoke.  The  absence  of  smoke  taste  is  the  secret  of  nicely  cooked 
food. 

A  three  or  four  day  supply  of  food  can  be  prepared  at  one  time. 

MAORI  OLD-TIME  FOODS 

Pigeon 

(A  delicacy  and  a  favorite  of  the  Maori) 

Snare  required  number  of  pigeons.  Do  not  pluck  or  clean,  simply  cover  completely 
with  a  clay  paste  and  cook  in  hangi.  When  ready  to  eat,  the  clay  will  come  away 
bringing  with  it  all  the  feathers  and  leaving  a  clean  and  tasty  dish.  These  birds  never 
feed  from  the  ground.  In  season  they  live  only  on  the  Miro  berries,  and  this  is  the 
time  they  are  "fat"  and  ready  for  the  kill.  Out  of  season  they  live  on  the  leaves  of 
the  trees,  and  this  signifies  "no  kill,"  as  they  are  in  a  poor  condition.  The  inside  of 
the  bird  is  also  eaten. 

Fern  Root 
(This  serves  as  a  potato  to  the  Maori) 

Gather  fern  roots,  pound,  and  cook  in  hangi.  Keeps  indefinitely. 

Dry  Shark 
(Do  not  think  of  man-eating  sharks) 

After  the  catch,  clean,  remove  head,  and  hang  by  the  tail  in  the  sun  until  com- 
pletely sun-dried.  Can  be  eaten  like  this,  or  cut  in  pieces  and  placed  on  embers  which 
softens  it.    This  is  a  favorite  dish  which  keeps  indefinitely  (and  so  does  the  smell). 

MAORI  FOODS  SHOWING  EUROPEAN  INFLUENCE 

Paua  Fritters 
(Paua  is  a  large  shell  fish) 

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RECIPES  FROM  NEW  ZEALAND  193 

4  pauas  K   tsp.  salt 

1  small  onion  dash  of  pepper 

Shell  pauas,  mince,  and  season  with  finely  chopped  onion,  salt,  and  pepper. 

Batter  for  Paua  Fritters: 

1  c.  flour  1  egg 

1  tsp.  baking  powder  milk 

Mix  together  the  flour  and  baking  powder  with  the  beaten  egg  and  sufficient  milk 
to  form  a  creamy  batter.  To  this,  add  the  paua  mixture  and  brown  in  spoon  lots  in 
smoking  hot  fat.    Serve  hot. 

Pipi  Pie 

(Small  shell  fish,  similar  to  oysters) 

1   large  dish  of  freshly  gathered  pipis 
/4    tsp.  salt  and  dash  of  pepper 

Steam  pipis  sufficiently  to  open  shells.  Shell  and  mince.  Season  with  onion,  if 
desired;  add  salt  and  pepper.  Line  pie  dish  with  flaky  pastry  and  pour  in  pipi  mix- 
ture.   Cover  with  remainder  of  pastry  and  bake  20  minutes  at  350°  F.    Serve  hot. 

Steak,  Oyster,  and  Mushroom  Savory 

To  every  pound  of  meat  allow  one  dozen  oysters.  (Sirloin  or  fillet  steak  are  the 
best  cuts  for  this  dish.) 

Cut  meat  into  neat  pieces  and  place  one  layer  in  casserole.  Season  with  salt  and 
pepper  to  taste.  Add  a  layer  of  chopped  oysters,  then  a  layer  of  chopped  mushrooms. 
Continue  this  until  casserole  is  full.  Can  be  made  with  or  without  pastry.  Cook  in 
moderate  oven  one  hour  at  300°  to  350°  F. 

NEW  ZEALAND-EUROPEAN  RECIPES 

Anzac  Biscuits 

2  ozs.  flour  2  ozs.  butter 

3  ozs.  sugar  1   tbsp.  golden  syrup 
1  teacup  coconut                                              Vi    tsp.  soda 

1  teacup  rolled  oats  2  tbsp.  boiling  water 

Mix  flour,  sugar,  coconut,  and  rolled  oats.  Melt  butter  and  golden  syrup.  Dis- 
solve soda  in  boiling  water  and  add  to  butter  and  golden  syrup.  Stir  in  the  liquid. 
Place  in  spoonfuls  on  cold,  greased  trays.    Bake  15  to  20  minutes  at  350°  F. 

Holiday  Loaf 

4  c.  flour  1  tsp.  salt 

Vi   tsp.  sugar  2  tsp.  baking  powder 

1  small,  cold,  boiled  potato  1  pint  milk 

Sift  dry  ingredients.  Add  mashed  potato.  Add  milk  to  make  a  soft  smooth 
dough.  Knead  quickly.  Put  in  greased  bread  tin  about  three-fourths  full.  Smooth 
top  with  knife  dipped  in  melted  butter  and  milk.  Bake  one  hour  at  350°  to  400°  F. 
To  prevent  crusting  too  soon,  place  paper  over  top  of  loaf  for  the  first  10  to  15 
minutes.    When  done  wrap  in  cloth  until  cool. 


ujuttercups 

Mary  C.  Martfneau 

JOHN'S  teacher  was  getting  quite  old;  in  fact,  she  was  old  enough  to  retire,  but  John 
didn't  know  it.  John  just  knew  that  he  loved  her  dearly  and  that  she  looked  beautiful 
to  him.  She  wore  a  brown  taffeta  dress  with  a  little  bunch  of  scarlet  flowers  that  he 
liked  on  Monday.  On  Tuesday  she  wore  a  soft,  black  nylon  dress  with  TdIuc  flowers 
and  a  full  skirt  that  made  her  look  as  slim  as  a  'fairy  queen  crowned  with  snowy  hair. 
On  Wednesday  she  wore  purple,  on  Thursday  blue,  but  on  Friday  she  wore  a  suit,  and 
at  recess  she  put  her  coat  on  over  it  and  tied  a  scarf  over  her  head  for  that  was  her  day  to 
"tend"  the  playground. 

When  the  first  spring  days  began  to  arrive,  and  the  skies  were  blue  and  the  sun 
shone,  John  would  notice  her  looking  up  toward  the  old  brown  hills  west  of  the  school- 
house,  and  he  wondered  what  she  was  looking  for.  Then  one  day  he  found  out.  When 
recess  was  over,  and  all  the  children  were  sitting  in  their  seats  in  position,  she  said  to 
them,  "Turn."  They  all  turned  in  their  seats  to  the  right.  Then  she  said,  "Stand," 
and  they  all  stood  and  faced  her.  "Now  turn  to  the  west,"  she  said,  "and  look  through 
the  windows  and  tell  me  what  you  see." 

They  all  turned  and  looked  through  the  five  long  windows,  and  there  they  saw 
only  the  old  brown  hills.  They  were  silent. 

"What  color  are  the  hills,  John?"  she  asked. 

A  little  surprised  and  embarrassed,  he  answered,  "Brown,  Mrs.  Miller,  just  brown," 
and  she  said,  "Yes,  John,  just  brown." 

"Children,"  she  continued,  "there  is  magic  working  on  those  old  brown  hills 
now."  Their  eyes  grew  big.  "One  of  these  days  when  we  look  at  them  we  will  see 
what  the  magic  has  done.  When  we  see  them  then  they  will  not  be  brown,  they  will 
be  green  and  you  will  know  that  spring  is  truly  here." 

A  week  or  so  later,  one  morning  before  school  began,  Mrs.  Miller  looked  up  from 
her  desk  to  see  John  standing  before  her,  with  a  bunch  of  wild  flowers — ^buttercups — 
in  his  hand,  and  he  offered  them  to  her  with  his  broadest  smile.  To  the  delight  of  all 
the  children  and  especially  of  John,  she  held  them  up  for  all  to  see  and  admire. 

"Where  did  you  find  them,  John?"  she  asked,  and  he  said,  "On  the  hills." 

Then,  to  their  great  delight,  she  took  one  buttercup  out  of  the  bunch  and  held 
it  under  John's  chin  to  see  if  its  pollen  would  color  his  throat.  The  little  flower  cast 
a  bright  yellow  shadow  on  his  little  white  throat.  Each  child  was  called  in  turn.  They 
giggled  with  joy  and  dehght. 

Magic  worked  in  the  schoolroom  as  John's  teacher  said,  "Now,  turn,  stand,  and  look 
toward  the  west."  The  old  brown  hills  were  green,  and  the  children  looked  in  silent 
wonder.  But  the  teacher — she  stood  for  a  long  moment  lost  in  the  memory  of  other 
old  brown  hills  far  away,  where  two  httle  sisters  and  a  dear  pioneer  mother  had  searched 
among  the  sages  and  wild  grass  for  buttercups  in  the  magic  springtime. 

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Sarah  Seelyi  JLarsen  uias  ybnjoiied  a  Q>evi)ing  diobbyi 

for  Seventy    ijears 

'T^HE  many  hours  which  Sarah  Seely  Larsen  of  Castle  Dale,  Utah,  has  spent  sewing 
■'■  since  she  was  fourteen,  at  which  time  she  was  drafting  her  own  patterns  for  dresses, 
shirts,  pants,  and  coats,  have  been  enjoyable  and  she  is  far  from  retiring  from  her  hobby. 
For  seventy  years,  her  artistic  hands  have  made  many  beautiful  quilts,  bridal  gowns,  and 
other  dresses  and  clothing  for  her  own  family  and  others.  Quilt  top  making  "became  a 
real  hobby  about  fifteen  years  ago,  when  she  began  piecing  and  quilting  a  quilt  for  -each 
of  her  grandchildren  to  present  them  when  they  married.  She  now  has  enough  quilts 
on  hand  for  the  grandchildren  who  are  not  married. 

She  was  born  to  Orange  and  Hanna  Olsen  Seely  in  Mount  Pleasant,  Utah,  on 
February  7,  1872.  She  married  Samuel  H.  Larsen  in  1890.  Her  husband  was  bishop 
of  Castle  Dale  Ward  for  eighteen  years,  and  as  a  gracious  hostess  Sister  Larsen  received 
many  of  the  General  Authorities  as  guests  in  her  home.  Sister  Larsen  was  secretary  of 
a  ward  Relief  Society  for  ten  years  .and  also  served  for  many  years  on  a  sewing  commit- 
tee making  burial  clothes.  She  is  still  active  in  Relief  Society.  In  work  meeting,  she 
always  takes  her  place  at  the  quilts. 


Vl/ind  Pattern 

Vesta  N.  Lukei* 

The  whispering  wind-born  waves  caress, 
Insistently,  the  untouched  beach 
Until  the  ripple-patterned  sands 
Reveal  the  wind's  imprint  and  reach. 


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Bitter  Medicine 

Part  3  (Conclusion) 
Olive  W.  Burt 


HELEN  decided  to  put  into 
immediate  effect  her  plan  for 
curing  May  Turner  of  her 
bad  habit  of  gossiping.  For  the  next 
few  days  she  kept  the  telephone  as 
busy  as  ever  May,  herself,  could  have 
done.  And  by  the  time  of  the  first 
sewing  meeting  of  the  P.  T.  A. 
bazaar  committee,  she  had  talked  to 
every  woman  on  that  committee, 
excepting  one. 

Lettie  had  been  enthusiastic,  as 
she  always  was  over  Helen's  schemes 
whether  for  a  neighborhood  party, 
a  money-making  project,  or  just 
new  ways  to  trim  a  kitchen  apron. 

'Tou're  absolutely  marvelous!'' 
she  exclaimed,  when  Helen  had  out- 
lined her  proposed  treatment. 
'Trust  you  to  think  up  the  only 
thing  that  will  work  and  that  we 
could  do  with  dignity!"  she  went  off 
into  peals  of  laughter.  ''I  just  can't 
wait  to  begin!" 

''Now,  Lettie,"  Helen  cautioned, 
"this  isn't  any  joke.  It's  serious 
therapy,  I  hope.  Fm  serious,  at 
least." 

"Oh,  so  am  I,"  Lettie  agreed. 

"And,"  Helen  went  on  firmly, 
"we  mustn't  let  May  get  the  slight- 
est hint  of  what  we  propose,  or  it 
will  absolutely  fail.  And  there's 
another  thing,  Lettie.  Fm  count- 
ing on  you  to  be  tactful  and  gener- 
ous, if  it  works." 

Tess  Carlson  was  dubious.  "I 
don't  know,  Helen.  Oh,  I'm  with 
you  one  hundred  per  cent,  but  it 
seems  so  simple  —  such  an  easy  way 
of  treating  something  as  vicious  as 
that  gossiping.    I  think  May  Turner 

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needs  a  dose  of  really  bitter  medi- 
cine." 

"This  will  be  bitter  enough,  Tess," 
Helen  said  gently,  and  a  sudden 
comprehension  of  the  full  impact  of 
her  program  struck  her,  and  she 
was  afraid  —  afraid  of  hurting  May 
too  much,  of  being  the  one  to  in- 
flict hurt  upon  another  human  be- 
ing. 

Marge  Lewis  took  it  as  a  huge 
joke.  "What  a  scream!"  she  gig- 
gled. "I  know  I'll  die  laughing 
when  I  see  her  face." 

"I  don't  think  it  will  strike  us  as 
funny.  Marge,"  Helen  told  her.  "I 
think  we'll  find  it  pretty  hard  to 
do." 

"Maybe  so,"  Marge  agreed,  "but 
don't  go  tender-hearted  on  us, 
Helen.  I,  for  one,  will  relish  seeing 
her  face."  She  stopped  abruptly, 
and  after  a  moment  went  on,  "You 
didn't  know  that  I  have  reason  to 
want  to  cure  that  gossiping,  did 
you?  Because  we  never  pass  around 
stories  about  our  neighbors,  I  kept 
this  to  myself.  But  Fm  going  to 
tell  you  now. 

"May  Turner  hurt  my  mother 
dreadfully  last  summer,  when  Moth- 
er was  visiting  me.  You  know  what 
a  friendly  soul  Mother  is,  and  how 
she  thought  she'd  do  us  younger 
women  a  good  turn  by  baby-sitting 
for  anyone  who  wanted  an  evening 
off.  And  she  did  it  to  be  friendly, 
and  wouldn't  take  a  cent  of  pay. 
Well,  she  offered  to  tend  May's  two 
and,  of  course.  May  snatched  at  the 
chance.  But  when  Mother  refused 
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job  like  that,  May  couldn't  under- 
stand it,  and  she  began  hinting 
around  that  Mother  was  baby-sitting 
just  to  get  a  chance  to  snoop  around 
the  houses.  And  her  hints  grew 
and  grew,  as  they  always  do.  And, 
of  course,  Mother  finally  got  to  hear 
what  May  was  saying.  May  intended 
her  to  hear  it,  too.  It  nearly  broke 
Mother's  heart.  I  could  have  torn 
May's  hair  out  when  I  saw  Mother's 
face  that  day." 

Helen  shook  her  head  sadly.  "I 
don't  think  I'd  have  blamed  you, 
either.  Marge.  How  awful  for  your 
mother.  She  is  such  a  darhng  — 
my  Jill  adored  her." 

''All  the  children  did  —  and  stay- 
ing with  them,  tucking  them  into 
bed,  and  telling  them  stories  made 
Mother  so  happy.  And  everyone 
excepting  May,  was  wonderful.  You 
sent  Mother  flowers  every  day  from 
your  garden,  and  Lois  Jensen  made 
her  three  pretty  aprons,  and  Lettie 
took  her  riding  many  an  evening. 
Everyone  made  her  happy  but  May 
—  she  had  to  spoil  it  all." 

"Well,  then,  you'll  help?"  Helen 
asked,  getting  back  to  the  subject 
about  which  she  had  called. 

''Of  course,  I'll  help.  And  I 
know  some  of  the  women  on  the 
sewing  committee  have  just  as  much 
reason  to  follow  your  lead  as  I  do. 
I'm  sure  it'll  be  unanimous." 

"I  hope  so,"  Helen  sighed.  "It 
will  be  so  much  swifter  and  better 
if  everyone  co-operates." 

AS  the  time  for  the  first  sewing 
meeting  drew  near,  Helen  be- 
gan to  have  misgivings.  To  her 
gentle,  friendly  soul  her  plan  seemed 
terribly  harsh  and  brutal.  She  shud- 
dered when  she  thought  of  what 
she    had    started,    and    sometimes 


thought  she  would  have  turned 
back  the  clock  to  pre-scheme  days 
if  she  could. 

And  then  she  would  remember 
Jill,  round-eyed  and  casual,  "When 
is  Daddy  going  to  jail.  Mommy?" 
And  she  would  see  Tess  Carlson's 
tear-streaked  face  as  she  cried,  "He 
said  that  to  Jim— to  my  Jim!"  And 
she  would  hear  Marge's  voice  break- 
ing when  she  said,  "I  could  have 
torn  her  hair  out  when  I  saw 
Mother's  face  that  day."  Then 
Helen  would  straighten  her  shoul- 
ders, stick  out  her  chin,  and  re- 
solve to  go  through  with  the  plan. 
"Bitter  or  not,  she  must  take  her 
medicine!" 

In  spite  of  her  determination  and 
her  conviction  that  she  was  doing 
right,  Helen  found  herself  shaking 
as  she  dressed  to  go  to  the  meet- 
ing. Her  palms  were  wet  with 
perspiration  and  her  spine  felt  cold. 
She  stood  for  a  long  moment  before 
she  opened  the  door  to  go  out,  won- 
dering whether  she  would  have  the 
nerve  to  go  through  with  her  plan. 

"But  I  have  to,"  she  sighed.  "I 
thought  it  up;  I  got  the  others  into 
it."  Tears  stung  her  eyelids.  "But 
I  feel  sorry  for  May!" 

She  went  early  to  the  meeting, 
feeling  that  it  was  her  responsibility 
to  be  there,  to  take  upon  her  own 
shoulders  the  burden  of  the  job 
ahead.  But  as  she  went  into  the 
school  library,  which  had  been 
turned  over  to  them  for  these  sew- 
ing sessions,  she  found  a  number  of 
the  women  already  there.  They 
greeted  Helen  with  cries  of  wel- 
come, and  Helen,  looking  at  them, 
saw  that  they  were  as  tense  and 
worried  as  she. 

She  spoke  to  them  quietly.  "Let's 
be  as  kind  as  we  can."  Then,  "Let's 


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get  started  on  our  work.  We're  to 
make  fiber  corsages  today,  you 
know." 

She  opened  the  big  box  of  ma- 
terials and  began  to  distribute  them. 
The  women  picked  up  the  fiber  and 
wire,  the  stems  and  leaves,  and 
started  to  fashion  the  flowers  they 
had  learned  to  make  during  a  win- 
ter craft  class. 

They  had  scarcely  begun,  how- 
ever, when  the  door  opened  and 
May  came  bustling  in,  cheery  and 
efficient,  ready  to  do  her  full  share 
of  the  task.  Helen,  seeing  her  this 
way,  recalling  what  a  good  worker 
she  was,  felt  her  throat  swell  with 
pain  at  the  thought  of  what  lay 
ahead.  Mercifully,  though,  she 
knew  that  May  was  unaware  of 
their  plan. 

For  perhaps  half  an  hour  every- 
thing went  along  smoothly  and 
happily,  the  busy  snip,  snip,  snip  of 
the  scissors  making  a  pleasant  stac- 
cato accompaniment  for  the  buzz 
of  conversation.  The  topics  dis- 
cussed were  harmless  enough:  the 
bright  sayings  of  the  children,  the 
efforts  of  the  teachers  to  help  a 
backward  youngster,  gardens,  food, 
books.  And  then,  as  everyone  knew 
it  would,  the  gossip  began. 

May  leaned  closer  to  Marge 
Lewis,  who  happened  to  be  sitting 
next  to  her,  and  said  in  a  hissing 
whisper  that  could  be  heard  all 
around  the  long  table,  "Oh,  Marge, 
I  just  have  to  tell  you.  You  know 
Miss  Wilson,  the  third  grade  teach- 
er? Well,  what  do  you  think?  I 
was  coming  out  of  the  drugstore  last 
night— Teddy  had  a  cough  and  I'd 
run  down  to  pick  up  some  cough 
medicine— and  I  saw  her  with.  .  .  ." 

Her  voice  stopped  suddenly,  and 
a  startled  look  came  into  her  eyes 


as  they  rested  on  Marge's  face. 
Marge  had  very  quietly  laid  down 
her  work  and  placed  her  hands  over 
both  ears. 

npHE  blood  came  slowly  into 
May's  face,  dyeing  it  a  painful 
red,  and  she  turned  quickly  to  see 
whether  anyone  had  noticed  Marge's 
gesture.  And  as  her  eyes  flew 
around  the  table,  the  red  in  her 
face  and  neck  grew  deeper,  mottled, 
as  if  it  would  burst  from  the  pores. 
For  every  woman  there  had  her 
hands  firmly  over  her  eyes  or  her 
hps  or  her  ears. 

May  Turner  swallowed  hard, 
ducked  her  head,  and  began  to 
work  furiously.  The  others  took  up 
their  work  w^here  they  had  dropped 
it,  and  the  buzz  of  conversation  be- 
gan again.  But  no  one  felt  like 
smiling  at  May's  discomfiture. 
Every  woman  there  felt  as  if  it  had 
been  her  own  punishment,  and  the 
conversation  was  kept  up  with  dif- 
ficulty. 

Helen  felt  her  throat  constricted 
with  pain,  but  she  made  herself  tell 
an  anecdote  about  Jill  and  her  gup- 
pies,  and  gradually  the  tension 
eased  a  little  and  things  seemed  al- 
most normal  again.  For  another 
half  hour,  and  then  May,  who  had 
kept  determinedly  out  of  the  con- 
versation, heard  someone  mention 
Clarice  Hapgood,  who-  had  just  an» 
nounced  her  engagement. 

This  was  too  much  for  May.  She 
looked  up,  evidently  forgetting  her 
recent  discomfiture,  and  began, 
'That  reminds  me,  girls!  Clarice  is 
just  twenty,  isn't  she?  Well,  you 
know  I  don't  believe  she  is  really 
the  Hapgood's  child.  Just  twenty 
years  ago  Jane  Hapgood.  .  .  J' 

She  stopped,  gulped,  and  again 


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the  blood  rushed  to  her  face.  All 
around  the  table  the  women  sat, 
hands  over  eyes,  ears,  and  lips. 

May  jumped  to  her  feet,  flinging 
down  her  work.  'Tou  awful  wom- 
en!" she  cried.  "You're  horrible! 
Horrible!  I  hate  you  all!"  and  she 
turned  and  ran  from  the  room. 

Helen  got  up  quickly  and  fol- 
lowed her.  Outside  in  the  hall  May 
stood  leaning  against  the  wall,  her 
hands  over  her  face,  her  shoulders 
shaking  with  sobs.  Helen  went 
swiftly  to  her. 

''May!"  she  said  gently. 

"Go  away!  Go  away!"  May  cried. 
"I  don't  want  to  talk  to  any  of  you! 
You  all  act  so  superior  —  you  all 
pretend  .  .  .  ."  Her  words  were 
stopped  by  her  crying. 

Helen  put  her  arms  about  the 
shaking  woman.  "I  know  it  was 
awful,"  she  began,  close  to  tears 
herself.  "But  we  felt  we  had  to 
do  something.  .  .  ." 

"You  all  hate  me,  you  always 
have!"  May  went  on  hysterically. 
"I  try  to  be  one  of  you.  I  work 
hard  at  everything  we  have  to  do— 
I  never  shirk,  never  ask  anyone  to 
do  my  share.  I  want  to  be  one  of 
you  —  I  did  want  to.  But  not  any 
more.    I  hate  you  all!" 

"x\o,"  Helen  said.  "No,  you  don't 
hate  us— not  the  others,  anyway. 
You  can  hate  me  if  vou  must,  Mav, 
because  it  was  my  idea.  I  talked  the 
others  into  it.  .  .  ." 

ly/fAY'S  hands  dropped  from  her 
face  and  she  stared  at  Helen 
in  surprise.  "You?  You,  the  in- 
comparable Helen  Lund?  You 
thought  this  up!  Well,  now  I  know 
you  for  what  you  are!" 

"Yes,"  Helen  admitted  sadly, 
"yes,  you  do.    And  I  guess  I'm  not 


any  better  than  I  need  be.  But  you 
see.  May,  your  gossiping  was  hurt- 
ing people.  I  don't  think  you  real- 
ize how  much  you  were  hurting 
us  all.  Did  you  know  that  Jim 
Carlson  nearly  lost  his  partnership 
because  you  told  around  that  he'd 
been  in  a  crooked  uranium  deal  and 
made  a  lot  of  money  at  it?" 

"I  didn't  say  that  he  had!"  May 
objected  belligerently.  "I  just  said 
I  wouldn't  be  surprised.  .  .  ." 

"And  Jill  was  wondering  when 
her  Daddy  was  going  to  go  to  jail. 
Oh,  May,  you've  said  things  about 
us  all— things  that  weren't  true,  that 
didn't  have  a  single  basis  in  truth. 
And  we  just  had  to  stop  you." 

"But  why  me?"  May  wailed. 
"Why  pick  on  me?" 

Helen  sat  down  on  a  bench  there 
in  the  hall  and  drew  May  down  be- 
side her.  Then,  much  as  she  had 
spoken  to  Jill  a  few  days  earlier,  she 
said  quietly,  "Look  at  me.  May.  It's 
because  you  are  the  one  w^ho  starts 
these  stories— every  time." 

May  sat  still  a  moment  and  then 
said,  sniffling  a  little,  "Well,  you 
have  done  what  vou  wanted  to  do. 
You've  showed  me  you  don't  want 
me  here.  I'll  resign  from  the 
P.T.A.,  and  if  I  can  get  Ted  to 
move,  we'll  move,  and  you  won't 
be  bothered  with  me  any  more. 
You've  never  liked  me." 

"We  do  like  you.  May.  We  like 
you  so  much  that  we  were  willing 
to  go  through  this  unpleasant  scene 
in  order  to  cure  you  of  the  one 
thing  we  can't  tolerate  any  longer. 
Don't  you  ever  think  of  what  harm 
you  are  doing?" 

May  sat  silent,  wiping  her  eyes. 
Then  she  raised  her  head.  "I  guess 
I  don't  think,  really."  She  began 
to  cry  again.    "I  don't  know  what's 


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the  matter  with  me  —  I  don't  know 
why  I  do  it!  Sometimes,  when  you 
people  have  been  extra  nice  to  me 
I  make  up  my  mind  Fll  never 
breathe  another  word  about  you. 
And  then  something  happens— and 
I  feel  left  out.  I  want  to  be  in  with 
you,  attract  your  attention— so  I  say 
something  I  know  will  startle  you— 
anything.  Lots  of  times  I  don't 
even  think  what  I  am  going  to  say 
—it  just  pops  out." 

Helen  looked  at  the  woebegone 
face,  and  impulsively  she  gave  May's 
shoulders  a  friendly  squeeze.  'Tou 
sound  just  like  a  little  girl—  a  con- 
trite little  girl!"  she  smiled  gently. 
And  then  she  went  on  firmly,  ''But 
you're  not  a  little  girl.  May.  You're 
a  woman,  and  we  want  you  to  be 
one  with  us." 

May  shook  her  head  sadly.  ''But 
how  can  I?  How  can  I  ever  speak 
to  any  of  you  again?  I'll  always 
see  those  dreadful  faces  with  their 
hands.  .  .  ."  She  choked  on  the 
words. 

"I'll  tell  you  what  to  do,  May. 
Come  back  into  the  room  with  me. 
Act  as  if  nothing  had  happened. 
You'll  •see.  Everyone  will  be  glad 
it  is  over." 

May  made  no  move  to  rise. 
"Maybe  it's  not  over,  Helen.  Maybe 
I'll  forget  and  start  gossiping  again 
....  Will  they  —  are  they  going 
to.  .  .?" 


"Yes,  May.  I  think  they  will.  I 
think  they  will  keep  on  with  this 
treatment  until  they  cure  you." 

"Then  what  can  I  do?" 

"Take  it  in  the  spirit  in  which 
it  is  meant,  May.  It  is  bitter  medi- 
cine, but  it  is  given  as  medicine, 
just  that.  Swallow  it  —  and  if  you 
need  repeated  doses,  take  them  like 
the  woman  you  are.  You  have 
plenty  of  courage,  I  know  —  plenty 
of  spunk.  Come  on,  then.  Let's 
make  use  of  it." 

The  word  spunk  seemed  to  do 
the  trick.  May's  shoulders  straight- 
ened. She  stood  up.  Her  head 
raised. 

"You're  right,  Helen.  I  do  have 
spunk  —  as  much  spunk  as  any  of 
them."  She  managed  a  rueful 
smile.  "And  I  guess  it  did  take  a 
good  deal  of  gumption  for  you  all 
to  do  this  —  I  know  you  well 
enough  to  know  that  you  didn't 
particularly  relish  it— or  you'd  have 
done  it  long  before  this.  Well, 
come  on.  Let's  go  back  into  the 
room  and  face  my  doctors."  Her 
voice  broke  a  little,  but  she  walked 
purposefully  toward  the  door. 

Helen  followed  slowly.  She  knew 
she  could  count  on  the  others  to 
do  the  right  thing— to  act  as  if  noth- 
ing unusual  had  taken  place  that 
afternoon.  And  she  could  count 
on  May,  too.  She  was  a  soldier- 
she  was  worth  curing! 


»  ♦  ■ 


cJhe  JLength 

Fiances  C.  Yost 

The  thing  a  lady  won't  discuss, 
Or  does  with  brevity, 
The  darkest  secret  of  her  past, 
Her  own  longevity. 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  oi  Instiuctions,  page  123. 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Leona  S.  Seiter 

GRANITE  STAKE   (UTAH)   HONORS  VISITING  TEACHERS 

AT  CONVENTION 


Honored  with  all  the  visiting  teachers  of  Granite  Stake  at  a  program  and  buffet 
luncheon  were  the  oldest  visiting  teachers  (in  point  of  service)  from  each  of  the  six 
wards  in  the  stake. 

Front  row,  left  to  right,  are:  Lucinda  C.  Harrington,  Columbus  Ward,  forty- 
three  years  of  service  as  a  visiting  teacher;  Martha  Jane  R.  Johnson,  Fairmont  Ward, 
sixty-six  years  of  service. 

Back  row,  left  to  right:  Mervel  A.  Hall,  Nibley  Park  Ward,  forty-five  years  of 
service;  Rhoda  Reid,  Forest  Dale  Ward,  fifty  years  of  service;  Gertrude  Johnson,  Wells 
Ward,  forty-nine  years  of  service;  Dora  R.  Wilcken,  Lincoln  Ward,  thirty-four  years 
of  service. 

Elsie  B.  North,  President,  Granite  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  "a 
large  percentage  of  all  visiting  teachers  were  in  attendance  and  enjoyed  an  inspiring 
program  and  buffet  luncheon." 

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Photograph  submitted  by  Marion  N.  Pinkston 

LOS  ANGELES  STAKE   (CALIFORNIA),  ADAMS  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY 

HONORS  ELDERLY  MEMBERS 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Marie  Clark,  Secretary,  Adams  Ward  Relief 
Society;  Faye  Moon,  Second  Counselor;  Ingeborg  Brinek,  First  Counselor;  Mary  Evelyn 
Spencer,  President. 

Marion  N.  Pinkston,  President,  Los  Angeles  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  'This 
midsummer  celebration  honored  the  Relief  Society  sisters  who  have  been  members  for 
over  fifty  years.  Many  of  the  sisters  in  this  protograph  have  been  members  of  the  Adams 
Ward  since  the  days  when  it  was  the  only  ward  in  Southern  California.  There  are  now 
213  wards  in  the  Southern  California  area." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Edna  S.  Walker 

ALPINE   STAKE   RELIEF   SOCIETY   COMMEMORATES   THE   ONE 

HUNDREDTH  ANNIVERSARY  OF  THE  ORGANIZATION  OF 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  IN  AMERICAN  FORK,  UTAH 

September  26,  1956 

More  than  forty  Relief  Society  sisters  participated  in  the  program  of  the  opening 
social  which,  also,  commemorated  the  organization  of  Relief  Society  in  American  Fork, 
October  24,  1856.  Shown  in  the  picture,  left  to  right,  are:  Melissa  Robinson;  Doris 
Robinson;    Norma    Smith;    Harriet    Mulliner;    Emma    Steiner;    Nellie    Crystal;    Nancy 


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Reece;  Mary  McTague;  Mary  Griffith;  Edna  S.  Walker,  Stake  Relief  Society  President; 
Cleone  Cleghorn,  Counselor;  Erma  Burgess,  Counselor;  Dorothy  Wright;  Esther 
Christensen;  Lucile  Walker;  Alice  Vance;  Elsie  Strong;  Myrtle  Seastrand;  Luana  Smith. 

Back  row:  Leona  Anderson;  Jean  Gordon;  Vivian  Barker;  Myrl  Scott;  Lillie  Beck; 
Josie  Walker;  Zella  Thornton;  Lydia  Kirkpatrick. 

In  the  program,  from  the  frame  on  the  right,  the  story  of  the  first  Relief  Society 
in  American  Fork  was  dramatized.  Sister  Elsie  Strong  represented  the  first  American 
Fork  Relief  Society  president,  Agnes  Crooks.  Scenes  typical  of  this  period,  such  as 
wheat  gleaning,  visiting  teaching  when  commodities  were  gathered,  and  silkworm  rais- 
ing, were  pictured. 

The  second  part  of  the  program  introduced  the  1956-57  program.  Musical  num- 
bers in  keeping  with  the  theme  of  each  course  were  presented,  and  refreshments  were 
served. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Ruby  M.  Nielsen 

LEHI  STAKE  (UTAH),  FAIRFIELD  BRANCH  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MEMBERS 
.     GAIN  JOY  FROM  QUILT  MAKING  EXPERIENCE 

Left  to  right,  front  row:  Myrtle  Erickson;  Lois  Maybe;  Sophronia  Dubois,  Secre- 
tary-Treasurer; Leah  McKinney,  President,  Fairfield  Branch  Relief  Society;  Mildred 
Carson,  Second  Counselor;  and  Vera  Carson,  First  Counselor. 

Back  row:  President  Oscar  A.  Kirkham  of  The  First  Council  of  Seventy,  and 
Caroline  Cook. 

Ruby  M.  Nielsen,  President,  Lehi  Stake  Relief  Society,  sends  in  the  report  of 
Sister  McKinney  that  the  day  the  sisters  were  quilting  the  quilt  which  had  been  pieced 
by  Edith  Strasburg  of  Lehi,  they  were  discussing  ways  in  which  to  sell  the  quilt  to 
someone  outside  the  branch.  Then  President  Kirkham  came,  and  "he  brought  such 
a  sweet  peaceful  spirit  with  him.  He  encouraged  us  and  told  us  we  were  doing  a 
wonderful  work.  He  wanted  to  buy  the  quilt,  said  collecting  pieced  quilts  was  his 
hobby.  He  said,  They  remind  me  of  my  mother.'  "  Sister  McKinney  continues: 
"Of  course,  we  were  honored  to  add  this  quilt  to  his  collection.  ...  He  asked  that 
we  all  put  our  names  on  the  quilt,  then  bring  it  to  him  at  his  office. 

"The  day  we  took  the  quilt  to  Brother  Kirkham  was  full  of  memorable  ex- 
periences. ...  As  we  lunched  with  this  kind,  loving  man,  he  introduced  us  to  a  num- 
ber of  other  Church  authorities.  Then  we  saw  many  more  including  President  McKay. 
We  visited  the  Church  offices  and  touted  the  temple  grounds." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Isabella  P.  Walton 

SOUTH  BEAR  RIVER  STAKE   (UTAH)    JOINS  WITH  BEAR  RIVER  STAKE 
AND  NORTH  BOX  ELDER  STAKE  SINGING  MOTHERS  IN  PRESENTING 
MUSIC  FOR  SOUTH  BEAR  RIVER  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

September  2,  1956 

South  Bear  River  Stake  President  Isabella  P.  Walton  is  seated  fourth  from  the 
left  on  the  front  row;  pianist  Christine  Mason  at  the  piano;  organist  Ann  Freiss,  stand- 
ing back  of  Sister  Mason;  organist  Arlene  Ficklin,  at  the  left  of  Sister  Freiss;  Prudence 
W,  Reeder,  North  Box  Elder  Stake  chorister,  back  of  Sister  Ficklin;  Hilma  C.  Ander- 
son, South  Bear  River  Stake  chorister,  and  conductor  of  the  group,  seated  third  to  the 
right  of  the  piano,  in  the  front  row. 

This  group  participated,  with  other  Singing  Mothers  choruses,  in  the  October 
annual  general  Relief  Society  conference. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Cleona  W.  Hedenstrom 

OGDEN   STAKE    (UTAH),   TWENTIETH    WARD    RELIEF   SOCIETY   PAST 
AND  PRESENT  EXECUTIVE  OFFICERS  HOLD  OUTSTANDING  SOCIAL 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Rilla  Beck,  President,  Twentieth  Ward  Relief  Society; 
past  presidents:  Katherine  Smeding;  Elva  Kunz;  Grace  McFarland;  and  Kate  Wood- 
bury, former  Ogden  Stake  president. 

Second  row,  left  to  right:  Myrtle  Hansen;  Mildred  Alkema;  Mabel  Belnap;  Mar- 
tha London;  Mary  Perkins;  Lenora  Jacobsen;  Caroline  Kranenberg;  Mattie  Manning. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


205 


Third  row,  left  to  right:  Ella  Anderson;  Ruth  Williams;  Alice  Martin;  Addie 
Pulsipher;  Vera  Arrington;  Edith  Arnold. 

Officers  who  were  not  present  when  the  picture  was  taken  are:  Bergloit  Dinsdale; 
Eliza  Carruth;  Bessie  Mumford;  Marcella  Carruth. 

Cleona  W.  Hedenstrom,  President,  Ogden  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "Twenty- 
eight  years  of  Relief  Society  were  informally  talked  over  at  the  anniversary  party  of 
the  Twentieth  Ward  Relief  Society  of  Ogden  Stake.  Former  ward  executive  officers 
were  guests  of  honor  at  this  program"  which  was  ''one  of  the  outstanding  parties  of 
the  season.  A  beautiful  red  rose  was  presented  to  each  of  the  guests,  symbolizing  the 
love  the  ward  organization  feels  for  each  one  of  these  faithful  sisters." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Mildred  B.  Jarvis 

MARICOPA   STAKE    (ARIZONA)    RELIEF   SOCIETY   HOLDS   VISITING 
TEACHER  CONVENTION,  September  27,  1956 

Visiting  teachers  who  have  served  over  forty  years  in  the  Maricopa  Stake  are 
pictured,  left  to  right,  first  row:  Lillian  Palmer;  Pearl  Mathenia;  Blanche  Boyle;  Hazel 
McCook;  Edna  Martin;  Harriett  Webb;  Minnie  Bond;  Vera  Judd. 

Back  row:  Esther  Lewis;  Ida  Wakefield;  Nettie  Shumway;  Louise  Skousen;  Vera 
Jennings;  Dora  Openshaw;  Phoebe  Scott.  Not  present:  Hattie  Miller  and  Sina  Morten- 
sen,  eighty-nine,  who  has  served  as  a  visiting  teacher  for  the  longest  period  of  time. 

Mildred  B.  Jarvis,  President,  Maricopa  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  ''Each  ward 
participated  through  song,  prayer,  or  speech,  and  all  wards  were  well  represented  in 
general  attendance."  She  writes  that  a  skit  on  the  presentation  of  the  message  in  the 
homes  was  enacted  by  visiting  teachers  from  the  Mesa  Fourth  Ward,  written  by 
Lillian  Peterson,  stake  visiting  teacher  message  leader.  A  tribute  to  all  women  who 
have  accepted  the  visiting  teacher  calhng  was  presented  by  Sister  Peterson.  "Stake 
board  members  contributed  much  to  the  success  of  the  convention  through  their  ar- 
rangement of  details,  friendliness,  and  good  will  extended  to  the  sisters/'  and  by 
furnishing  and  serving  the  refreshments. 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Belva  Petersen 

EAST  OGDEN  STAKE    (UTAH),  THIRTY-SIXTH  WARD   RELIEF  SOCIETY 
HONORS  OLDEST  MEMBERS,  September  27,  1956 

Belva  Petersen,  President,  East  Ogden  Stake,  reports  that  Elizabeth  Clarke  East, 
(left)  and  Ida  H.  Wilson  Spence  (right),  were  special  guests  at  the  opening  social 
of  the  Thirty-sixth  Ward  Relief  Society.  Leona  Nielson,  (center)  President,  Thirty- 
sixth  Ward  Relief  Society,  presented  corsages  to  the  two  sisters  who  are  eighty-two 
years  old.  Sister  East  has  been  active  in  Relief  Society  for  twenty-three  years  and 
Sister  Spence  is  a  visiting  teacher  and  has  been  in  Relief  Society  for  twenty  years. 
Both  are  converts  to  the  Church.    A  program  and  dinner  featured  the  occasion. 


I  Lot  Ujy  (chance 


Gene  Romoh 

How  comes  reanimation  of  the  earth, 
As  spring,  each  year,  its  golden  wings  unfolds? 
Not  just  by  chance,  this  miracle  has  birth. 
The  sentient  mind,  a  Master's  hand,  beholds — 
Clothing  with  sheen  of  sun,  the  daffodil  .  .  . 
Fashioning  the  violet's  purple  gown  .  .  . 
Increasing  music  in  a  rippling  rill  .  .  . 
And  placing  upon  lily  brows  a  crown. 

That  which  comes  by  chance  will  have  its  flaw, 
This  is  perfection  born  of  highest  law. 


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Tarragon 
Elizabeth  Williamson 


TARRAGON  is  a  perennial  which 
grows  about  two  feet  high.  It  may 
be  divided  in  the  fall  and  starts  made  from 
cuttings  or  root  divisions.  The  superior 
variety,  French  tarragon,  produces  no 
seeds. 

Esdragon  is  the  French  word  for  tar- 
ragon, which  means  "little  dragon."  "Lit- 
tle dragon"  referred  to  snakes  and  rep- 
tiles during  the  middle  ages.  The  leaves 
of  the  herb  esdragon  (tarragon)  were  used 
in  healing  the  bites  of  the  reptiles. 

Esdragon  or  tarragon  is  a  delicate  herb, 
growing  beautifully.  It  produces  dark 
green  leaves  and  tiny  white  blossoms 
which  give  off  a  delightful  spicy  aroma. 
Tarragon  is  most  commonly  known  for 
its  use  in  vinegars,  but  if  used  sparingly 
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PouLET  ET  Esdragon 
(Chicken  and  Tarragon) 

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dish.  The  tarragon  sauce  is  served  over 
steamed  rice,  with  boiled  chicken.  This 
dish,  with  a  leafy,  green  salad  is  a  gour- 
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Tarragon  Sauce 


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Geraniums  and  violet  plants. 

Each  striving  in  its  turn 

To  blossom  best  or  bush  the  most, 

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J^pncot   Hjiossoms 


Christie  Lund  Coles 

Once  more  the  apricot  has  bloomed  in  lace. 
Embossed  with  palest  satin,  bridal  white; 
Lifting  her  gleaming  blossoms  to  the  face 
Of  heaven,  to  deny  the  earth-bound  night; 
Once  more  its  perfume  rises  to  the  sun 
Deep  from  the  hidden  place  of  life  and  root 
While  bees  sip  nectar  time  and  weather  won, 
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Qjrom    I  Lear  and  C/c 


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To  "the  many  testaments  that  have 
gone  before"  about  the  great  worth  of 
our  marvelous  Magazine,  I  should  like  to 
add  mine.  Our  Magazine  is  distinguished 
from  the  other  magazines  that  come  into 
our  home.  I  think  of  it  not  as  just  a 
paper-and-print  booklet,  but  as  a  Maga- 
zine with  a  heart.  I  never  read  an  issue 
without  feeling  the  love  and  elevating 
influence  of  my  sisters  who  edit  it  and 
write  the  many  inspirational  lessons, 
stories,  and  poems.  To  each  who  con- 
tributes to  its  great  worth,  I  should  like 
to  say  a  sincere  "Thank  you"  for  their 
being  worthy  of  receiving  inspiration  from 
our  Heavenly  Father  to  make  other  lives 
and  homes  sweeter.  This  year  I  have 
been  blessed  with  the  thrilling  experi- 
ence of  teaching  the  theology  lessons  in 
our  ward.  Because  of  the  special  help 
received  from  Brother  Leland  H.  Mon- 
son  in  presenting  The  Book  of  Mormon 
lessons,  I  should  like  to  express  special 
gratitude  to  him. 

— Mrs.  Lauradene  N.  Bryson^ 
Washington,  D.  C. 

My  mother,  Clara  B.  Singleton,  who 
is  ninety-four  years  old,  still  enjoys  the 
lessons  and  stories  in  the  Magazine.  She 
has  seen  so  many  changes  in  this  organ- 
ization in  her  lifetime. 

— Elva  S.  Seely 
Craig,  Colorado 

May  I  say  that  the  December  issue  of 
the  Magazine  is  a  masterpiece  of  expres- 
sion in  art  and  in  narrative  content. 

— LcNora  Kirkbride 
Smithfield,  Utah 

I  am  grateful  that  we  Relief  Society 
members  have  a  Magazine  that  we  can 
call  our  own  and  be  proud  to  do  so.  I 
find  both  old  copies  and  the  new  issues 
very  useful  in  preparing  talks,  enriching 
lessons,  and  for  special  activities,  such  as 
pageants,  readings,  etc.  Thanks  to  you 
all.  The  Magazine  continues  to  get  better 
and  better. 


— Maude  O.  Cook 
Trcmonton,  Utah 


I  enjoy  The  Reliei  Society  Magazine 
ever  so  much,  also  the  inspirational  lesson 
courses.  After  studying  the  fine  literature 
lesson  for  December  1956,  entitled 
"Shakespeare's  Poetic  Power,"  I  felt  in- 
spired to  try  to  express  my  appreciation 
for  it  in  poetry.  The  accompanying  poem 
expresses  my  sentiments,  thanks  to  the 
help  of  the  Magazine  and  the  fine  lessons. 
I  have  never  once  before  had  the  desire  to 
even  try  to  write  poetry. 

APPRECIATION 

I  hke  poetry!  It's  such  an  artful  way 

Of   putting  into   words   what   one  wants 

to  say; 
Oh,  would  that  I,  like  Shakespeare,  might 

become 
Able    to    weave  '  thoughts     into    words, 

masterfully,  as  he  has  done! 

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SPECIAL  FEATURES 

The  Family  and  the  Resurrection  Roy  W.  Doxey  212 

The  Northern  Far  East  Mission  Preston  R.  Nibley  218 

Selling  The  Relief  Society  Magazine  Thomas  S.   Monson  227 

What   Is   Joy?   Jennie    Brown   Rawlins  237 

Winning   Our   Goal   243 

Fight  Cancer  With  Research,  Education,  and  Service  Walter  J.  Kohler  246 

The  Value  of  Poetry  Elaine   C.   Southwick  248 

The  Three  Wise  Women  Fredrika   Clinch  257 

A  New  Quih  for  an  Old  Home  Jane  T.  Mattice  258 

Make  Them  Feel  Secure  Caroline  Eyring  Miner  265 

A  Look  Backward  and  Forward,  Relief  Society  All  the  Way  Annie  W.   Westover  266 

Formosa  —  Culinary  Melting  Pot  Edna  B.   Culmsee  267 

Dilemma    Wilma    Boyle    Bunker  275 

FICTION— SPECIAL  APRIL  SHORT  STORIES 

Mountain  Vacation   Deone   R.    Sutherland  220 

New  Shoes  for  Flo  Wanda   F.   Hilton  230 

Going   Modern   Frances   C.    Yost  252 

Two  of  a  Kind  Maude   Rubin  260 

The  Bright  Star — Serial — Chapter  Two  Dorothy  S.  Romney  271 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

From   Near   and   Far   210 

Sixty  Years  Ago   238 

Woman's    Sphere   Ramona    W.    Cannon  239 

Editorial:  Blessings  Attendant  Upon  an  Office   Marianne   C.   Sharp  240 

In   Memoriam — Nettie  Maria  Davis   Bradford   241 

Notes  to  the  Field:  Hymn  of  the  Month  242 

Notes  From  the  Field:   ReUef  Society  Activities  Hulda  Parker  276 

Birthday    Congratulations    280 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Let's  Garden  With  Half  the  Work  Dorthea  N.  Newbold  234 

Recipes  From  the  Northern  Far  East  Mission  Frances   P.   Andrus  244 

Miriam   Diplock   Land  Welcomes   Opportunities   to    Serve    270 

How  to  Plant  Small  Seeds  Elizabeth  Wilhamson  279 

POETRY 

Apricot  Blossoms  —  Frontispiece   Christie  Lund   Coles  209 

Camphor  Trees  Elsie  McKinnon  Strachan  233 

The  Smallest  One's  Prayer  Maryhale   Woolsey  233 

Legacy   Leslie    Savage    Clark  242 

An  Easter  Thought   Delia   Adams   Leitner  247 

Meeting  Place  Catherine   E.   Berry  251 

Time   to  Grow  Ada   Marie   Patten  270 

Late   Spring   Eva   Willes    Wangsgaard  275 

My  Lad  Dorothy  J.   Roberts  278 

Pamela    Ethel    Jacobson  278 

Reunion Vesta   N.    Lukei  278 

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The  Family  and  the  Resurrection 


Roy  W.  Doxey 

Assistant  Professor  of  Religion 
Brigham  Young  Universit}' 


THE  greatest  events  are  those 
which  affect  the  greatest 
number.  There  is  no  event 
that  will  ever  happen  to  individuals 
or  nations  which  is  as  important  as 
the  resurrection.  There  is  no  event 
for  which  one  should  more  care- 
fully prepare  than  for  this  experi- 
ence. Although  "man  is  that  he 
might  have  joy"  (2  Nephi  2:25), 
and  ''happiness  is  the  object  and 
design  of  our  existence,"  there  can- 
not be  a  fulness  of  joy  in  this  life. 
The  greatest  joys  attainable  to  the 
sons  and  daughters  of  God  are  those 
which  come  when  they  are  resur- 
rected. This  great  truth  is  pro- 
claimed in  a  revelation  gi\en  to  the 
Prophet  Joseph  Smith: 

For  man  is  spirit.  The  elements  are 
eternal,  and  spirit  and  element,  insepar- 
ably connected,  receive  a  fulness  of  joy; 
And  when  separated,  man  cannot  recei\e 
a  fulness  of  joy  (D.  &  C.  93:33-34). 

The  importance  of  this  great 
truth  cannot  be  overestimated  as  a 
contribution  to  one's  understanding 
of  the  purposes  of  God  for  his  chil- 
dren. 

The  interest  in  and  appreciation 
of  the  valued  information  possessed 
by  the  Latter-day  Saints  concerning 
the  resurrection  is  well  expressed  by 
President  Brigham  Young  when  he 
said:  "A  true  knowledge  and  a  cor- 
rect understanding  of  the  resurrec- 
tion is  a  source  of  great  comfort  and 
joy  to  a  Saint  of  God"  (Teachings 
of  Pres.  Brigham  Young,  page  19). 

The  feelings  and  the  actuality  of 
the  resurrection  foi"  mankind  were 
known  to  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith, 

Page  212 


in  part,  by  the  following  vision 
which  he  related  upon  learning  of 
the  death  of  Lorenzo  D.  Barnes  in 
England: 

I  will  tell  you  what  I  want.  If  tomorrow 
I  shall  be  called  to  lie  in  \onder  tomb,  in 
the  morning  of  the  resurrection  let  me 
strike  hands  with  m\-  father,  and  cr}', 
"My  father,"  and  he  will  say,  "My  son, 
my  son,"  as  soon  as  the  rock  rends  and 
before  we  come  out  of  our  graves. 

And  may  we  contemplate  these  things 
so?  Yes,  if  we  learn  how  to  live  and 
how  to  die.  .  .  . 

\\^ould  you  think  it  strange  if  I  relate 
what  I  ha^e  seen  in  vision  in  relation  to 
this  interesting  theme?  Those  who  have 
died  in  Jesus  Christ  may  expect  to  enter 
into  all  that  fruition  of  joy  when  they 
come  forth,  \^hich  the\'  possessed  or  an- 
ticipated here. 

So  plain  was  the  \ision,  that  I  actually 
saw  men,  before  they  had  ascended  from 
the  tomb,  as  though  they  were  getting  up 
slowly.  The\"  took  each  other  h\  the 
hand  and  said  to  each  other,  "My  father, 
my  son,  my  mother,  my  daughter,  my 
brother,  my  sister."  And  when  the  voice 
calls  for  the  dead  to  arise,  suppose  I  am 
laid  by  the  side  of  mv  father,  what  would 
be  the  first  joy  of  my  heart?  To  meet  my 
father,  m\-  mother,  my  brother,  my  sister; 
and  when  they  are  by  my  side,  I  embrace 
them  and  they  me.  .  .  . 

Oh!  how  I  would  delight  to  bring  before 
\"0u  things  which  \"0u  never  thought  of! 
But  povert}-  and  the  cares  of  the  world 
prevent.  But  I  am  glad  I  have  the  privi- 
lege of  communicating  to  you  some 
things  which,  if  grasped  closely,  will  be  a 
help  to  vou  when  earthquakes  bellow,  the 
clouds  gather,  the  lightnings  flash,  and 
the  storms  are  ready  to  burst  upon  you 
like  peals  of  thunder.  Lay  hold  of  these 
things  and  let  not  your  knees  or  joints 
tremble,  nor  your  hearts  faint;  and  then 
uhat  can  eartliquakes,  wars  and  tornadoes 
do?  Nothing.  All  your  losses  will  be 
made  up  to  you  in  the  resurrection,  pro- 


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213 


\-ided  vou  continue  faithful.  By  the  \is- 
ion  of  the  Almight}'  I  have  seen  it. 

More  painful  to  me  are  the  thoughts 
of  annihilation  than  death.  If  I  ha\e  no 
expectation  of  seeing  mv  father,  mother, 
brothers,  sisters  and  friends  again,  my 
heart  would  burst  in  a  moment,  and  I 
should  go  down  to  m\-  gra\  e. 

The  expectation  of  seeing  my  friends  in 
the  morning  of  the  resurrection  cheers 
mv  soul  and  makes  me  bear  up  against 
the  evils  of  life.  It  is  like  their  taking 
a  long  joumev,  and  on  their  return  we 
meet  them  with  increased  jov. 

God  has  revealed  His  Son  from  the 
hea\ens  and  the  doctrine  of  the  resurrec- 
tion also;  and  we  have  a  knowledge  that 
those  \\t  bun-  here  God  will  bring  up 
again,  clothed  upon  and  quickened  by  the 
Spirit  of  the  great  God;  and  what  mat- 
tereth  it  whether  we  lav  them  down,  or 
we  lav  down  with  them,  when  we  can 
keep  them  no  longer?  Let  these  truths 
sink  down  in  our  hearts,  that  we  may 
e\en  here  begin  to  enjov  that  which  shall 
be  in  full  hereafter  (D.H.C.,  V:  361-362). 

nPHE  sentiments  expressed  in  the 
foregoing  would  seem  to  give 
to  all  Latter-dav  Saint  mothers  an 
opportunity  to  teach  their  children 
the  subject  of  the  resurrection  and 
its  implications  concerning  the  ties 
of  affection  which  bind  families  to- 
gether. Latter-dav  Saints  are  blessed 
richlv  bv  the  guidance  of  God's 
revelations  through  the  living  oracles 
and  also  the  modern  books  of  scrip- 
ture. The  testimonies  of  the 
prophets,  both  ancient  and  modern, 
are  rich  sources  of  material  for 
enlarging  our  understanding  and 
testimonies  concerning  such  funda- 
mental doctrines  as  the  resurrection. 
In  the  language  of  the  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith  these  testimonies 
concerning  the  mission  of  Jesus 
Christ  constitute  the  fundamental 
principles  of  our  religion: 

The  fundamental  principles  of  our  re- 
ligion are  the  testimony  of  the  Apostles 
and    Prophets,    concerning    Jesus    Christ, 


that  He  died,  was  buried,  and  rose  again 
the  third  day,  and  ascended  into  heaven; 
and  all  other  things  which  pertain  to  our 
religion  are  only  appendages  to  it.  But 
in  connection  with  these,  we  believe  in 
the  gift  of  the  Holv  Ghost,  the  power  of 
faith,  the  enjoyment  of  the  spiritual  gifts 
according  to  the  will  of  God,  the  restora- 
tion of  the  house  of  Israel,  and  the  final 
triumph  of  truth  (D.H.C.,  III: 30). 

There  is  another  area  of  interest 
and  profit  for  Latter-day  Saint  moth- 
ers to  instruct  their  children  which 
follows  the  ''testimony  of  the 
Apostles  and  Prophets."  It  is  the 
place  of  prophecy  concerning  the 
divine  mission  of  Jesus  Christ,  an 
important  part  of  which  is  the  resur- 
rection. Probably  no  better  place  is 
found  in  scripture  concerning  the 
functioning  of  a  prophet  and  the 
witness  he  leaves  than  the  thoughts 
expressed  by  Jacob  the  son  of  Lehi. 
In  suggesting  that  a  purpose  of  writ- 
ing upon  plates  of  metal  during  the 
Nephite  dispensation  was  to  bring 
to  their  descendants  a  knowledge  of 
their  fathers  and  of  their  joy  in  what 
God  had  revealed  to  them,  Jacob 
writes: 

For,  for  this  intent  have  we  written 
these  things,  that  thev  may  know  that  we 
knew  of  Christ,  and  w-e  had  a  hope  of 
his  gloH'  manv  hundred  years  before  his 
coming;  and  not  onlv  we  ourselves  had 
a  hope  of  his  glor)-,  but  also  all  the  holy 
prophets  which  were  before  us. 

Behold,  they  believed  in  Christ  and 
worshiped   the  Father  in  his  name.   .   .    . 

Wherefore,  we  search  the  prophets, 
and  we  ha\e  many  revelations  and  the 
spirit  of  prophecy;  and  having  all  of  these 
witnesses  we  obtain  a  hope,  and  our  faith 
becometh  unshaken,  insomuch  that  we 
truly  can  command  in  the  name  of  Jesus 
and  the  ver\-  trees  obev  us,  or  the  moun- 
tains, or  the  waves  of  the  sea.  .  .  . 

Behold,  great  and  marvelous  are  the 
works  of  the  Lord.  How  unsearchable 
are  the  depths  of  the  mysteries  of  him;  and 
it  is  impossible  that  man  should  find  out 
all   his  wavs.     And   no   man   knoweth    of 


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his  ways  save  it  be  revealed  unto  him; 
wherefore,  brethren,  despise  not  the  reve- 
lations of  God.  .  ,  . 

Wherefore,  brethren,  seek  not  to  coun- 
sel the  Lord,  but  to  take  counsel  from  his 
hand.  For  behold,  ye  yourselves  know 
that  he  counseleth  in  wisdom,  and  in 
justice,  and  in  great  mercy,  over  all  his 
works  (Jacob  4:4  ff.). 

TACOB  continues  by  emphasizing 
^  the  necessity  of  being  reconciled 
to  Christ  through  his  atonement 
that  ''ye  may  obtain  a  resurrection, 
according  to  the  power  of  the 
resurrection  which  is  in  Christ.  .  .  /' 
(verse  11).  Then  Jacob  suggests 
the  place  of  prophecy  in  the  eternal 
plan: 

Behold,  my  brethren,  he  that  prophe- 
sieth,  let  him  prophesy  to  the  understand- 
ing of  men;  for  the  Spirit  speaketh  the 
truth  and  lieth  not.  Wherefore,  it  speak- 
eth of  things  as  they  really  are,  and  of 
things  as  they  really  will  be;  wherefore, 
these  things  are  manifested  unto  us  plain- 
ly, for  the  salvation  of  our  souls.  But 
behold,  we  are  not  witnesses  alone  in 
these  things;  for  God  also  spake  them 
unto  prophets  of  old  (Jacob  4:13). 

By  reason  of  God's  foreknowledge, 
he  inspired  his  divinely  ordained 
prophets  centuries  before  the  earth- 
ly mission  of  Jesus,  to  know  that 
Jesus  would  be  raised  from  the  dead. 
(See  Mosiah  13:33-35.)  The  proph- 
ets in  all  dispensations  have  looked 
forward  to  the  time  when  death 
would  be  removed  permanently,  and 
the  grave  would  no  longer  hold  a 
victory  over  the  spirits  and  bodies 
of  men.  Probably  one  of  the  best 
Old  Testament  prophecies  of  this 
event  is  the  19th  verse  of  the  26th 
chapter  of  Isaiah: 

Thy  dead  men  shall  live,  together  with 
my  dead  body  shall  they  arise.  Awake 
and  sing,  ye  that  dwell  in  dust:  for  thy 
dew   (sorrow  or  death)    is  as  the  dew  of 


herbs  (death  shall  quickly  pass  away  as 
dew  disappears  by  the  rays  of  the  morn- 
ing sun),  and  the  earth  shall  cast  out  the 
dead.     (Words  in  parentheses  author's.) 

Other  Old  Testament  prophets 
proclaimed  the  coming  resurrection 
as  the  hope  of  Israel  and  of  all  men. 
Latter-day  Saints  will  remember 
the  prophecies  of  Job  (See  Job 
19:25-27),  who  witnessed  that  he 
would  come  forth  from  the  grave 
as  a  tangible,  immortalized  being; 
of  Ezekiel  (See  Ezekiel  37:1-14), 
who  spoke  of  the  literal  joining  of 
the  physical  body  of  flesh  and 
bones;  and  of  Daniel's  (See  Daniel 
12:2)  testimony  that  both  the  just 
and  the  unjust  would  come  forth  to 
a  resurrected  life. 

Book  of  Mormon  prophets  have 
their  prophecies  (testimonies)  re- 
corded that  we  in  this  dispensation 
would  have  greater  faith  and  under- 
standing of  this  fundamental  sub- 
ject. Abinadi  (Mosiah  16:7-10), 
Amulek  (Alma  11:41-44),  Jacob 
(2  Nephi  9:6-8,  11-13),  Alma 
(40:21-23),  and  Samuel  the  La- 
manite  (Helaman  14:15-16)  pointed 
out  that  by  reason  of  the  mission 
performed  by  Jesus  all  men  would 
receive  their  bodies  again  never 
more  to  be  separated. 

The  predictions  of  these  many 
prophets  concerning  the  resurrec- 
tion, attest,  with  the  many  other 
prophecies  now  fulfilled,  that  God, 
and  not  man,  is  the  sovereign  of 
this  world.  For  those  who  have 
faith  in  the  divine  scriptures,  there 
is  ample  justification  for  believing 
that  God's  promises  will  not  go 
unfulfilled,  as  he  has  made  these 
promises  to  his  ''apostles  and  proph- 
ets." 


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215 


T  ATTER-day  Saint  parents  and, 
especially,  the  mothers  have  a 
wonderful  opportunity  to  teach 
their  children  the  answers  to  gospel 
questions  raised  by  their  children. 
Just  such  a  question  as  ''Why  did 
Jesus  come  alive  again?"  was  an- 
swered in  a  most  informative  article 
by  President  Joseph  Fielding  Smith 
in  the  August  1954  issue  of  the 
Improvement  Era,  pages  559,  578. 
A  brief  summary  of  that  article  fol- 
lows, in  order  that  those  mothers 
who  do  not  have  access  to  the  article 
may  be  prepared  with  the  answer 
to  this  question: 

All  of  us  lived  as  spirit  sons  and 
daughters  of  our  Heavenly  Father 
before  we  were  born  into  this  life. 
There  we  learned  that  this  earth- 
life  was  to  be  a  probationary  place 
where  we  would  be  tested  and  given 
the  privilege  of  walking  by  faith 
and,  if  faithful  in  keeping  the  Lord's 
commandments,  we  might  become 
like  our  Father  in  heaven.  Adam 
and  Eve,  our  first  parents,  were  not 
subject  to  death  when  placed  in  the 
Garden  of  Eden,  and  they  would 
have  remained  there,  without  chil- 
dren, forever,  if  they  did  not  become 
mortal,  as  we  are  today  (2  Nephi 
2:22-25;  Moses  5:11).  After  their 
transgression,  they  were  driven  from 
the  Garden  and  the  children  born 
to  them  inherited  death.  Thus 
everyone  of  us  would  have  come 
under  the  power  of  Satan  after 
death,  if  there  had  been  no  atone- 
ment. If  we  were  not  restored  to 
life  our  spirits  would  become  sub- 
ject to  Satan  forever,  and  our  bodies 
would  have  remained  in  the  grave 
without  end  (2  Nephi  9:6-13). 

Under  the  merciful  plan  of  sal- 
vation prepared  in  the  pre-earth  life, 
Jesus  became  the  one  who  would 


redeem  mankind  from  their  helpless 
state.  It  was  necessary  that  Jesus 
come  to  this  earth,  having  the  power 
over  death,  by  his  being  born  of 
our  Eternal  Father,  and  at  the  same 
time  capable  of  dying  because  his 
mother,  Mary,  was  a  mortal  being 
like  us.  Jesus  was  different  from  us 
in  being  the  only  one  who  had  such 
power  over  death  and,  therefore, 
capable  of  taking  up  his  life  again 
as  a  resurrected  being  (John  5:26-27; 
10:17-18). 

By  shedding  his  blood  on  the 
cross  Jesus  could  redeem  us.  After 
he  came  forth  from  the  tomb  he 
had  power  to  bring  every  person 
from  the  grave.  Following  his  own 
resurrection  on  that  first  Easter  day, 
Jesus  did  open  the  graves  of  the 
righteous  saints  who  had  lived  be- 
fore the  time  of  his  crucifixion 
(Mt.  27:52-53). 

President  Smith  concluded  his 
article  by  stating  that  all  teachers  of 
children  should  have  ''the  correct 
understanding  of  the  doctrine  of  the 
resurrection,  and  how  we  became 
redeemed  through  the  shedding  of 
the  blood  of  Jesus  Christ." 

/^NE  of  the  most  beautiful  and 
satisfying  doctrines  for  Latter- 
day  Saint  mothers  as  revealed 
through  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 
is  that  of  the  perpetuity  of  family 
associations  in  the  future  life.  Lat- 
ter-day Saints  understand  that  the 
next  step  in  our  eternal  progression 
is  the  spirit  world  to  which  Jesus 
went  at  death  (I  Peter  3:18-20)  and 
where  the  spirits  of  all  men  go 
(Alma  40:11-14).  The  spirit  world 
is  a  place  of  further  education  where 
opportunities  for  improvement  for 
both  the  righteous  and  the  wicked 
are  available.    The  spirit  of  the  de- 


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parted  child  goes  to  that  world  as 
well  as  the  adult  who  dies  at  an 
advanced  age.  Both  are  adult  in 
form,  however,  regardless  of  the  size 
of  the  physical  body  at  death  (Gos- 
pel Doctiine,  6th  ed.,  page  455). 
This  fact  concerning  the  deceased 
child  does  not  allow  for  the  belief 
of  some  Latter-day  Saint  mothers 
that  they  will  rear  their  children  in 
the  spirit  world.  The  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith  taught  that  the  ful- 
fillment of  this  promise  will  come 
in  the  resurrection,  as  expressed  in 
these  words  by  President  Joseph  F. 
Smith : 

Joseph  Smith  declared  that  the  mother 
who  laid  down  her  little  child,  being  de- 
prived of  the  privilege,  the  joy,  and  the 
satisfaction  of  bringing  it  up  to  manhood 
or  womanhood  in  this  world,  would,  after 
the  resurrection,  have  all  the  joy,  satisfac- 
tion, and  pleasure,  and  even  more  than 
it  would  have  been  possible  to  have  had 
in  mortality,  in  seeing  her  child  grow  to 
the  full  measure  of  the  status  of  its 
spirit  {Gospel  Doctrine,  6th  ed.,  p.  453; 
Cf.  D.H.C.,  IV:555-557).  (Words  in 
italics  the  author's) 

It  seems  most  appropriate  at  this 
point  to  quote  from  the  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith,  as  given  above  in 
the  account  of  his  vision  of  the 
resurrection,  ''All  your  losses  will  be 
made  up  to  you  in  the  resurrection, 
provided  you  continue  faithful.  By 
the  vision  of  the  Almighty  I  have 
seen  it."  Consistent  with  this  teach- 
ing are  the  words  of  the  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith  in  setting  forth  the 
truth  that  the  resurrected  body 
though  differing  in  size,  as  we  dif- 
fer here  in  mortality,  shall  be 
glorious,  whether  old  or  young: 

In  order  for  you  to  recei\e  your  chil- 
dren to  yourselves  you  must  have  a 
promise — some  ordinance;  some  blessing, 
in  order  to  ascend  above  principalities,  or 
else  it  may  be  an  angel.  They  must  arise 
just  as  they  died;  we  can   there  hail  our 


lovely  infants  with  the  same  glory — the 
same  loveliness  in  the  celestial  glory, 
where  they  all  enjoy  alike.  They  differ  in 
stature,  in  size,  the  same  glorious  spirit 
gives  them  the  likeness  of  glory  and  bloom; 
the  old  man  with  his  silvery  hairs  will 
glory  in  bloom  and  beauty.  No  man  can 
describe  it  to  you — no  man  can  write  it 
{D.H.C.,  VI:366). 

It  was  the  testimony  of  Alma  that 
as  resurrected  beings  we  shall  have 
perfect  bodies  because  the  disfigure- 
ments of  the  flesh  will  be  removed. 
This  assurance  is  another  phase  of 
the  resurrection  understood  by  the 
ancient  prophets  and  proclaimed 
anew  by  our  inspired  leaders  of  this 
dispensation  that  provides  comfort 
for  all. 

The  soul  shall  be  restored  to  the  body, 
and  the  body  to  the  soul;  yea,  and  every 
limb  and  joint  shall  be  restored  to  its 
body;  yea,  even  a  hair  of  the  head  shall  not 
be  lost;  but  all  things  shall  be  restored  to 
their  proper  and  perfect  frame  (Alma 
40:23). 

In  bearing  witness  of  the  redeem- 
ing power  of  Jesus,  who  was  yet  to 
come  in  the  flesh,  Amulek  gave  this 
eloquent  testimony  relative  to  the 
perfected,  resurrected  body,  and  the 
equally  profound  truth  that  when 
we  are  resurrected  we  shall  remain 
forever  united,  both  spirit  and  body: 

Now,  there  is  a  death  which  is  called  a 
temporal  death;  and  the  death  of  Christ 
shall  loose  the  bands  of  this  temporal 
death,  that  all  shall  be  raised  from  this 
temporal  death. 

The  spirit  and  the  body  shall  be  re- 
united again  in  its  perfect  form;  both 
limb  and  joint  shall  be  restored  to  its 
proper  frame,  even  as  we  now  are  at  this 
time;  and  we  shall  be  brought  to  stand 
before  God,  knowing  even  as  we  know 
now,  and  have  a  bright  recollection  of  all 
our  guilt. 

Now,  this  restoration  shall  come  to  all, 
both  old  and  young,  both  bond  and  free, 
both  male  and  female,  both  the  wicked 
and  tlic  righteous;  and  c\'cn  there  shall 
not  be  so  much  as  a  hair  of  their  heads 


THE  FAMILY  AND  THE  RESURRECTION 

be  lost;  but  every  thing  shall  be  restored 
to  its  perfect  frame,  as  it  is  now,  or  in 
the  body,  and  shall  be  brought  and  be 
arraigned  before  the  bar  of  Christ  the  Son, 
and  God  the  Father,  and  the  Holy  Spirit, 
which  is  one  Eternal  God,  to  be  judged 
according  to  their  works,  whether  they  be 
good  or  whether  they  be  evil. 

Now,  behold,  I  have  spoken  unto  you 
concerning  the  death  of  the  mortal  body, 
and  also  concerning  the  resurrection  of  the 
mortal  body.  I  say  unto  you  that  this 
mortal  body  is  raised  to  an  immortal  body, 
that  is  from  death,  even  from  the  first 
death  unto  life,  that  they  can  die  no  more; 
their  spirits  uniting  with  their  bodies,  never 
to  he  divided;  thus  the  whole  becoming 
spiritual  and  immortal,  that  they  can  no 
more  see  corruption  (Alma  11:42-45). 
(Words  in  italics  the  author's). 

A  S  we  contemplate  the  testimonies 
of  the  prophets,  we  are  yet  to 
reahze  that  as  we  have  hved  here 
in  mortahty,  so  shall  we  be  blessed 
or  condemned.  The  Lord  has  prom- 
ised his  saints  that  by  their 
obedience  to  the  laws  of  righteous- 
ness, they  shall  receive  a  celestial 
resurrection,  even  ''the  same  body 
which  was  a  natural  body;  even  ye 
shall  receive  your  bodies,  and  your 
glory  shall  be  that  glory  by  which 
your  bodies  are  quickened"  (D.  &  C. 
88:28).  The  body  received  in  the 
resurrection  will  be  our  own  and 
not  that  of  another.  Might  not 
there  be  a  lesson  here  for  parents  to 
teach  their  children  the  observance 
of  revealed  laws  concerning  health 
and  moral  cleanliness? 

How  fortunate  are  the  Latter-day 
Saints  in  the  knowledge  of  the  resur- 
rection and  its  many  ramifications! 
How  much  more  blessed  are  we  in 
teaching  our  children  that  by  reason 
of  the  restoration  of  the  gospel,  we 
have  modern  witnesses  of  the  reality 
of  the  resurrection.  Resurrected 
beings  in  the  persons  of  Moroni, 
John  the  Baptist,  Elijah,  Moses,  and 
other  prophets  have  come  to  earth 


217 

bringing  their  honors,  rights,  privi- 
leges, keys,  and  blessings  for  the 
eternal  salvation  of  all  who  will  be- 
lieve and  obey.  Each  one  of  these 
prophets  by  his  appearance  in  this 
dispensation  to  Joseph  Smith  and 
Oliver  Cowdery  has  attested  to  the 
literalness  and  the  reality  of  the 
resurrection  of  the  body. 

'The  greatest  events  are  those 
which  affect  the  greatest  number." 
The  resurrection  brought  about  by 
the  atonement  of  Jesus  Christ  will 
affect  every  being  who  has  lived, 
who  does  now  live,  or  will  yet  live 
in  mortality.  Everyone  will  be 
raised  from  physical  death  to  the 
resurrection  of  the  body.  There  is 
no  exception.  (See  Acts  24:15;  Rev. 
20:13;  Alma  12:16-18.) 

"There  is  no  event  for  which  one 
should  more  carefully  prepare  than 
for  this  experience  (the  resurrec- 
tion)." The  kind  of  resurrected 
body  a  person  receives  is  determined 
by  the  law  the  person  has  elected 
to  live  (D.  &  C.  88:20-32).  There 
is  "a  better  resurrection"  (Heb. 
11:35).  "^^^^  Lord  has  revealed  in 
plainness  that  there  are  bodies 
celestial,  terrestrial,  telestial,  and 
that  as  one  is  resurrected  so  one 
will  inherit  a  kingdom  of  glory 
commensurate  with  the  kind  of  body 
he  receives  in  the  resurrection. 
There  will  even  be  differences  in  the 
celestial  kingdom  between  those 
who  have  lived  the  fulness  of  the 
law  and  those  who  have  been  less 
valiant.  It  is  only  through  obedi- 
ence to  the  gospel  of  Jesus  Christ 
that  man  will  receive  the  celestial 
kingdom.  It  is  only  by  obedience 
to  the  fulness  of  the  gospel  of  Jesus 
Christ  that  man  may  reach  the 
heights  of  godhood  (D.  &  C. 
131:1-4;  132:28-33;  93:26-28;  130: 
20-21). 


cJhe   I  iorthern  cJar  ibast  Ilii 


ission 


Pieston  R.  Nihhy 


npHE  Northern  Far  East  Mission  is  one  of  the  recently  organized  mis- 
sions of  the  Church.  It  was  formed  on  July  28,  1955,  at  a  missionary 
conference  held  in  Karuizawa,  Japan,  under  the  direction  of  President  Jo- 
seph Fielding  Smith  of  the  Council  of  the  Twelve.  The  first  president 
of  the  new  mission,  which  comprised  the  countries  of  Japan,  Okinawa, 
and  Korea,  was  Hilton  A.  Robertson  who,  previously,  had  presided  over 
the  Japanese  Mission. 

The  preaching  of  the  gospel  in  Japan  began  in  August  1901,  when 
Elder  Heber  J.  Grant  of  the  Council  of  the  Twelve,  accompanied  by 
Elders  Horace  S.  Ensign,  Louis  A.  Kelsch,  and  Alma  O.  Taylor,  arrived 
in  that  land  for  the  purpose  of  opening  a  mission  for  the  Church.  At 
Yokohama,  on  September  1st,  the  missionaries  ''ascended  one  of  the  hills 
in  the  vicinity  of  Yokohama  and  held  a  meeting,  during  which  President 
Grant  dedicated  the  land  of  Japan  for  the  proclamation  of  the  gospel." 
Soon  afterwards  the  mission  headquarters  was  established  at  Tokyo.  The 
work  grew  slowly  and  it  was  not  until  March  1902,  that  the  first  baptism 
was  performed.  In  1904,  Elder  Alma  O.  Taylor,  assisted  by  Elder  Fred  A. 
Caine,  and  several  educated  Japanese,  translated  The  Book  of  Mormon 
into  the  Japanese  language.  However,  few  converts  were  made.  In  1920 
the  membership  of  the  Church  in  Japan  numbered  only  127.  Four  years 
later,  under  the  direction  of  the  First  Presidency,  the  mission  was  closed. 
In  the  spring  of  1948,  the  Japanese  Mission  was  again  opened,  with 
Elder  Edward  L.  Clissold  as  president.  The  active  work  of  proselyting 
has  continued  since  that  time. 


Japan  Photo-Movie  Service 

Photograph  submitted  by  Hazel  M.  Robertson 

KAGAWA  RITSURIN  PARK,  JAPAN 
This   place  is   claimed   to   be   one  of  the   most  exquisite  landscape  gardens   in 
the  world. 
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Japan  Photo-Movie  Service 

Photograph  submitted  by  Hazel  M.  Robertson 

PAGODA  IN  SPRING 

This  five-storied  pagoda  stands  in  Ueno  Park,  Japan,  its  oriental  architecture  en- 
hanced in  this  picture  by  the  cherry  blossoms  in  full  bloom.  The  pagoda,  said  to  be 
350  years  old,  is  considered  a  national  treasure, 

Korea  was  dedicated  for  the  preaching  of  the  gospel,  on  August  2, 
1955,  and  Okinawa  twelve  days  later,  both  by  President  Joseph  Fielding 
Smith,  as  he  made  a  tour  of  the  Northern  Far  East  Mission.  The  mem- 
bership of  the  mission,  as  reported  on  December  31,  1956,  was  1211. 
Elder  Paul  Charles  Andrus  is  now  serving  as  the  mission  president.  Thirty- 
four  Relief  Society  organizations,  with  231  members,  were  reported  in 
December  1956.  Frances  P.  Andrus  presides  over  the  Northern  Far  East 
Mission  Relief  Society. 

Page  219 


Mountain  Vacation 


Deone  R.  Sutherland 


MARGERY  wiped  the  oatmeal 
out  of  Baby  Jeff's  hair.  "You, 
now/'  she  said  sternly,  ''you've 
got  to  look  your  prettiest  this  morn- 
ing. Help  me  catch  Daddy  in  a 
good  mood."  She  buttered  Bill's 
toast  and  then  sprinkled  sugar  and 
cinnamon  on  it  and  popped  it  into 
the  oven.  ''Sure  as  I  do,"  she  said 
to  herself,  "this  will  be  his  every- 
thing-plain  morning." 

Bobby  and  Willie  Jr.  came 
tumbling  and  arguing  down  the 
stairs.  The  three-year-old  tumbled 
into  his  chair  at  the  table. 

Margery  caught  the  milk  just  be- 
fore he  spilled  it  over  the  side  of 
the  bowl. 

"I  don't  want  you  two  to  say 
anything  at  the  table  this  morning," 
Margery  said  to  them  politely.  "I 
want  you  to  play  you're  on  a  secret 
mission.  It's  so  secret  you  can't  say 
anything." 

"What  a  silly  game,"  Willie  said 
with  his  mouth  full. 

"What  a  silly  game,"  Bobby 
echoed,  filling  his. 

"Nevertheless,"  Margery  said 
sternly,  "I  want  you  to  play  it  no 
matter  what." 

Bill  came  running  down  the 
stairs,  and  Margery  gave  his  place  a 
last  flourish  just  as  he  sat  down. 

"Well,  this  does  look  nice."  He 
opened  his  napkin.  "Can't  you  boys 
even  wait  for  the  blessing?  Willie, 
it's  your  turn." 

Willie  looked  inquiringly  at 
Margery,  and  when  she  nodded,  he 
swallowed  his  food,  bowed  his  head, 
and  asked  the  blessing. 

"You  know  I  like  my  toast  plain/' 

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Bill  said  as  he  dished  his  oatmeal 
and  swallowed  his  milk. 

"Carma  Stewart  called,  dear," 
Margery  said,  as  she  handed  Bill  an 
egg.  "She  wants  me  to  help  her 
chaperon  her  Beehive  class  on  their 
canyon  trip  this  week.  I  said  I'd 
love  to  go,  but  I'd  have  to  talk  to 
you." 

Bill  was  choking  on  his  toast. 

"It's  only  four  days.  Mother  said 
she'd  be  happy  to  take  the  children 
during  the  day  if  you  could  manage 
them  at  night.  I  thought  it  would 
be  a  little  vacation  for  me  .  .  .  ." 

"How  many  girls?"  Bill  splut- 
tered. 

"Fourteen,  dear,  but  they  are 
older  children,  and  they  won't  be 
any  trouble— not  compared  to  boys, 
anyway." 

The  three  boys  all  looked  at  her 
with  angelic,  reproachful  eyes. 

Margery  cleared  her  throat.  "Oh, 
my  boys  are  the  very  best,  of  course, 
but  really  Carma  is  desperate. 
They've  promised  the  girls,  and 
Dorothy,  the  other  regular  teacher, 
has  had  to  go  to  California  to  be 
with  her  mother.  Dear,  you  can't 
disappoint  fourteen  girls  .  .  .  ." 

"How  can  you  stand  to  leave  us?" 
Bill's  face  wore  a  look  of  tragedy. 
"We'll  talk  about  it  tonight."  He 
barely  had  time  to  grab  his  brief  case 
and  kiss  her  in  the  vicinity  of  her 
nose.  He  kissed  each  of  the  boys 
on  the  back  of  the  head,  since  that 
seemed  safest  when  they  were  eat- 
ing, and  he  was  gone. 

Margery  rang  up  Carma  and  told 
her  she  was  almost  sure  she  was 
going.     Bill  hadn't   definitely   said 


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no,  and  when  he  took  all  day  to 
think  of  something  he  usually  de- 
cided in  her  favor.  Then  she  called 
her  mother  who  was  about  as  en- 
thusiastic as  Bill. 

''Of  course,  I  want  you  to  do  your 
duty,  Marg,  but  maybe  you  won't 
be  able  to  handle  fourteen  girls.  I 
think  it  will  be  too  much  work  for 
you.  You  know  you're  so  impul- 
sive—always rushing  into  things." 

''Nonsense,  Mother,  I  remember 
perfectly  well  being  a  Beehive  girl 
myself.    This  will  be  a  lark." 

"Well,"  said  her  mother  gloom- 
ily, "I  only  hope  your  three  boys 
don't  look  like  a  rest  cure  when 
you  come  back  from  your  vacation/" 

"DILL  had  carried  the  last  toy  into 
the  car  that  the  children  were 
going  to  need  at  their  grandmother's 
for  the  day.  Margery  was  checking 
her  supplies  on  the  front  porch.  Bill 
had  tied  her  bedroll  the  night  before 
and  tried  to  give  her  a  few  camping 
instructions. 

"Really,  Bill,  Carma  is  the  one 
who  knows  all  about  everything.  I 
just  do  what  she  tells  me.  Gloria 
will  be  there  to  help  her  mother, 
and  even  if  she  is  only  Beehive  age, 
still  a  daughter  is  often  lots  of  help 
in  a  project  like  this.  Carma  says 
not  to  worry  about  a  thing.  The 
supplies  will  all  be  on  the  truck.  I 
just  have  to  take  my  bedroll  and 
eating  utensils." 

Bill  came  up  on  the  porch.  "What 
are  all  those  magazines?"  he  asked 
suspiciously.  He  wasn't  in  his  best 
humor  this  morning  since  he  had 
had  to  get  up  an  hour  earlier  than 
usual  to  feed  the  boys. 

"They're  just  in  case  I  get  too 
bored,  dear.  Besides,  I  can  help 
start  fires  with  them  if  necessary." 


"Humph,"  grunted  Bill  ungra- 
ciously. 

He  was  putting  the  boys  in  the 
car  for  the  third  time  when  Carma's 
husband,  John,  drove  up  in  front 
with  the  truck. 

"Fll  take  your  bedroll,  Marg. 
Hello,  Bill.  Don't  you  wish  you 
were  going  camping  with  us?  No, 
I'm  just  going  to  be  up  there  at 
night.  Got  to  keep  the  business 
going,  you  know.  Carma  and  Marg 
think  they  can  keep  things  rolling 
in  the  daytime.  Now,  you  girls  have 
to  sit  down  back  there  if  you're  go- 
ing to  ride  in  my  truck.  We're  go- 
ing to  pick  up  most  of  the  girls  at 
the  wardhouse.  Carma's  waiting 
over  there  for  us.  Can  you  make  it 
up  there,  Marg?" 

"Surely,"  Margery  said,  laughing, 
but  Bill  came  and  boosted  the  leg 
she  was  hopping  up  and  down  on 
unconvincingly. 

"Wouldn't  you  rather  ride  in 
front?"  Bill  asked  curiously. 

"Oh,  no,  this  will  be  fine.  I'd 
better  start  out  on  an  even  footing 
with  the  girls,  dear,"  Marg  said 
just  before  she  skinned  her  leg  go- 
ing over  the  side  of  the  truck. 

"Well,  have  fun,  Marg."  Bill 
blew  her  another  kiss.  The  truck 
started  with  a  lurch  that  almost 
threw  Marg  back  into  Bill's  arms. 

"For  goodness  sake,"  Bill  shouted 
after  the  moving  truck,  "hold  on." 

"I  will."  Marg  waved  briefly,  for 
she  now  needed  both  hands. 

"It's  easier  if  you  sit  up  here  with 
your  back  to  the  cab,  Sister  Clark," 
shouted  Joanie  Turner. 

"Thank  you,"  Marg  called  back, 
but  she  was  afraid  to  let  go  and 
move  forward.  It  would  look  too 
ridiculous  to  go  crawling  about  on 
her  hands  and  knees.     She  would 


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wait  until  they  got  to  the  ward- 
house  to  make  the  change.  She 
tried  to  blow  her  hair  out  of  her 
mouth.  She  didn't  know  which  was 
worse,  the  dust  in  her  eyes  or  her 
flapping  hair.  There  had  been  no 
point  in  setting  her  hair  last  night, 
she  could  see  now. 

Carma  was  waiting  at  the  ward- 
house.  ''Well,  you  look  as  though 
you're  having  fun,''  she  called  out 
at  last.  ''Don't  you  want  to  ride 
in  front?" 

"If  you  think  the  girls  will  be  all 
right,"  Marg  said,  climbing  out  of 
the  truck  without  waiting  for  an 
answer. 

"Oh,  yes,"  Carma  said.  "Now, 
girls,  place  your  bedrolls  along  the 
sides  and  back  of  the  truck  and  use 
them  to  sit  on.  No  standing,  shov- 
ing, or  fooling  while  the  truck  is 
en  route." 

Carma  gave  directions  with  real 
authority.  Margery  looked  at  her 
with  admiration.  The  girls  hustled 
to  obey.  They  were  attractive 
youngsters  for  the  most  part.  The 
little  Wright  girl  had  a  smear  of 
bright  red  lipstick  across  her  mouth. 
Though  she  was  pulling  her  bed- 
roll along  with  the  others,  she  some- 
how seemed  apart.  Margery  felt  a 
slight  twinge  of  pity.  Some  girls 
always  hurled  themselves  into  this 
growing-up  business  too  soon. 

Marg  adjusted  her  legs  into  the 
cab  of  the  truck.  They  began  the 
long  climb  into  the  canyon.  The 
shifting  of  the  truck's  gears  set 
Margery's  nerves  tingling  and  some- 
how brought  to  her  mind  the  active 
play  of  her  boys.  She  felt  home- 
sick for  a  moment,  but  then  she 
swallowed  hard.  She  was  going  to 
enjoy  these  few  days  of  vacation  or 
know  the  reason  why.     She  turned 


her  attention  to  the  increasing 
amount  of  foliage  outside  her  win- 
dow. They  were  actually  coming 
into  the  mountains  now.  She  caught 
her  breath  at  the  beautv  of  the 
pines  climbing  the  mountains  on 
both  sides  of  the  truck. 

^'^LJERE  we  are  at  last,"  John  said 
cheerfully,  swinging  the  truck 
off  the  road  into  a  rutted  lane.  Then 
he  pulled  the  brake  of  the  truck, 
"This  is  as  far  as  we  go  with  the 
truck:  we  carrv  the  stuff  across  that 
bridge  down  there  and  then  follow 
the  trail  around  the  mountain  over 
there  to  the  snug  little  camping 
place." 

"My  goodness,"  Margery  ex- 
claimed on  her  third  trip  back  to 
the  truck  for  supphes,  "I  never 
would  have  believed  we'd  need  all 
this  stuff  for  just  four  days." 

"The  food  is  the  largest  item," 
Carma  said.  "Then  you  carried  the 
tent  by  mistake,  and  I'll  have  to 
admit  that  was  pretty  heavy.  Here 
comes  John  for  the  other  tent  now." 

"The  girls  are  making  it  fine," 
John  smiled  happily.  "You  girls 
can  bring  the  rest  of  the  stuff  now. 
I'm  going  up  and  try  to  get  these 
two  tents  set  up  before  it  gets  much 
later.  I  want  to  get  a  fire  going, 
too." 

Margery  looked  around.  Carma 
and  she  were  the  only  ones  left  by 
the  truck.  "I'll  go  up  and  assign 
the  girls  partners  and  send  them  out 
for  wood,"  Carma  said. 

That  left  only  Marg.  There  were 
at  least  three  boxes  of  food  left  in 
the  truck.  "I'll  start  on  these,"  she 
said  cheerfully. 

"Fine,"  John  called  back  over  his 
shoulder.  He  was  struggling  with 
the  other  tent  across  the  bridge. 


MOUNTAIN  VACATION 


223 


No,  I  have  a  better  idea,  Margery 
thought.  I'll  go  get  a  eouple  of  the 
girls  to  help  me  with  the  rest  of 
these  supplies. 

She  had  unloaded  half  a  box  so 
she  could  carry  it,  but  now  she 
didn't  know  how  she  was  going  to 
get  the  small  things  she'd  taken  out 
down  to  the  camp,  except  to  bring 
them  item  by  item.  Maybe  she 
could  find  an  extra  box  or  two  at 
the  camp.  She  went  across  the 
bridge  and  followed  the  winding 
trail  into  the  snug  little  camp.  John 
had  one  tent  partially  up,  and  the 
girls  were  dumping  twigs  and  sticks 
by  the  fireplace.  The  Wright  girl 
was  pulling  at  some  twigs  on  a 
nearby  tree.  She  didn't  seem  to  be 
with  a  partner. 

''Betty— say,  I  wonder  if  you'd 
mind  helping  me  with  some  of  the 
supplies?  I  don't  think  I'll  ever  get 
them  all  up  here  to  the  camp  by 
myself.    I  think  I've  been  deserted." 

Betty  Wright  nodded  her  head 
quickly  and  started  down  the  path 
to  the  bridge.  But  not  before 
Margery  thought  she  saw  the  glist- 
ening of  tears  on  her  lashes. 

Marg  chattered  all  the  way  back 
to  the  truck.  "I  think  I  sprained 
my  back  carrying  that  tent.  I  was 
so  noble.  I  thought  I  was  carrying 
sugar  or  flour  or  something.  I 
should  have  left  it  for  Brother 
Stewart,  but  once  you're  in  the  mid- 
dle of  that  footbridge,  there  is  no 
turning  back." 

Betty  was  smilirfg  when  they 
reached  the  truck,  and  they  were 
able  to  manage  a  box  between  them. 

It  was  almost  dark  before  the 
truck  was  completely  unloaded. 
John  had  left  his  work  on  the  tent 
to  get  the  fire  going  so  they  could 
cook  an  early  supper. 


'There  seem  to  be  a  few  clouds 
coming  up  there,  so  maybe  if  you're 
going  to  use  the  fire  it  would  be 
wisest  to  get  that  started." 

Carma  and  Margery  tore  open 
boxes,  looking  for  the  cooking  uten- 
sils. The  girls  ran  up  and  down 
the  mountains,  screaming  and  gig- 
gling. There  was  now  enough  wood 
to  build  ten  twig  houses,  Margery 
thought. 

'There,  I  think  that  finishes  that 
tent,"  John  said,  just  as  Gloria 
Stewart  moaned,  "Daddy!" 

"What  is  it,  baby,  what  is  it?" 
Gloria  lay  doubled  up  on  her  bed- 
roll. "It's  that  pain  in  my  side.  It 
hasn't  gone  away,  and  now  it  hurts 
so  I  can't  stand  up  straight." 

Carma  Stewart  knelt  by  her 
daughter  and  felt  her  forehead. 
"How  long  have  you  had  the  pain?" 

"Well,  it  hurt  a  little  at  home 
today,  but  I  didn't  want  to  tell  you 
because  I  thought  maybe  you 
wouldn't  let  me  go  camping  .  .  .  ." 
She  stopped  talking  to  moan  again. 

The  girls  began  to  look  fright- 
ened. John  and  Carma  had  a  quick 
conference.  Then  they  talked  to 
Margery.  They  would  take  Gloria 
down  to  Dr.  CambelFs  in  the  truck. 
It  might  be  appendicitis,  and  they 
didn't  know  how  serious  it  might 
be  if  they  let  it  go  very  long.  Marg- 
ery nodded.  There  was  nothing 
else  to  do. 

John  pointed  to  the  other  tent. 
"Just  follow  exactly  what  I  did  with 
this  tent.  You  won't  have  any 
trouble.  If  the  doctor  says  it's 
nothing  serious,  we'll  come  back  to- 
night no  matter  how  late  it  is.  At 
any  rate,  we'll  get  back  up  in  the 
morning  or  send  someone  to  help 
you  out." 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— APRIL  1957 


He  was  struggling  to  pick  up 
Gloria,  who  felt  she  couldn't  walk 
to  the  truck.  Carma  ran  along  be- 
hind them.  Margery  and  the  girls 
waved  until  they  were  out  of  sight. 

jyiARGERY  turned  cheerfully  to 
the  girls  and  immediately  for- 
got what  she  was  going  to  say.  The 
first  drops  of  rain  began  to  fall. 

The  raindrops  were  big  and  in- 
sistent. 'Tull  your  bedrolls  under 
the  tent  that's  up/'  Margery  said 
hoarsely,  ''and  then  help  me  to  get 
this  food  covered  up  again  and  put 
back  into  the  boxes." 

''But  Sister  Clark,  we're  starving," 
one  of  the  girls  groaned. 

Margery  picked  up  a  magazine 
and  held  it  over  her  head.  It  was 
no  use  trying  to  sort  out  the  food 
now.  It  was  getting  wet,  and  it 
would  be  impossible  to  cook  any- 
thing tonight. 

"Grab  anything  that  looks  edible 
and  pull  it  into  the  tent,"  Marg  of- 
fered. 

There  was  a  blast  of  thunder  and 
a  shattering  streak  of  lightning  that 
sent  the  screaming  girls  into  the 
tent. 

"Mrs.  Clark,  there  isn't  nearly 
room  for  all  of  us  in  here." 

Three  or  four  of  the  girls  could 
get  only  their  heads  into  the  tent. 
Mrs.  Clark  watched  the  rain  spatter 
down  the  protruding  levis. 

"Pull  the  other  tent  over  here. 
Come  on,  you'll  have  to  help  me  get 
it  open." 

Margery  felt  her  hair  beginning 
to  string  down  the  side  of  her  face. 
She  skidded  in  the  mud  as  she  tried 
to  open  the  tent.  She  had  it  open 
once  and  almost  over  the  rope  when 
a  gust  of  wind  whipped  it  and  her 
against  the  muddy  ground. 


"I  give  up,"  she  said.  "Come  on, 
just  pull  that  end  of  it  over  the 
food.  You  girls  will  simply  have  to 
hold  it  over  you,  that's  all." 

Margery  squatted  in  the  mud, 
tenting  the  dripping  canvas  with 
her  head.  Her  hair  not  only  felt 
wet,  but  she  was  sure  the  canvas 
leaning  heavily  upon  her  was  also 
muddy. 

Merle  Strong  leaned  out  of  the 
tent  that  was  up.  "Sister  Clark, 
would  you  like  a  raw  weiner?" 

"You  mean  cold  weiner,"  Marg- 
ery said,  but  Merle  couldn't  hear 
above  the  rain,  so  she  just  shook  her 
head. 

She  really  ought  to  go  over  and 
see  what  they  were  trying  to  eat  in 
there.  One  of  the  girls  who  squat- 
ted under  the  canvas  with  her  had 
reported  something  about  a  huge 
package  of  raw  bacon.  She  was  sure 
that  nobody  was  desperate  enough 
to  attempt  to  eat  that  though. 

jyiERLE  Strong's  head  showed  in 
the  tent  again,  but  Margery 
couldn't  hear  what  she  was  shouting. 
In  a  moment  she  reappeared  with  a 
blanket  over  her  head  and  ran  over 
to  Margery.  She  stooped  under 
Margery's  canvas  with  the  others. 
"Sister  Clark,  Bonnie  and  Jean 
thought  they  saw  the  lights  of  the 
truck,  and  they  ran  back  to  see. 
They've  been  gone  ages,  and  we  are 
getting  worried." 

Margery  felt  her  heart  in  her 
throat.  "When  did  they  go?"  she 
gasped.    She  must  keep  calm. 

"Oh,  right  after  it  first  started 
raining"  Merle  commented  eagerly. 

"I'll  leave  you  in  charge  of  your 
tent.  Don't  let  anyone  go  looking 
for  anything  or  anybody.  I'll  have 
to  go  find  the  girls." 


MOUNTAIN  VACATION 


225 


Marg  watched  Merle  run  back 
through  the  rain.  The  five  girls 
under  the  canvas  nodded  solemnly 
to  Margery's  directions. 

Margery  got  her  blanket  out  of 
her  bedroll  and  draped  it  around 
her.  She  hadn't  gone  six  yards  be- 
fore she  felt  someone  panting  be- 
hind her.  Betty  Wright  clung  to 
her  arm. 

''Let  me  go  with  you.  I  really 
want  to  be  some  help." 

Margery's  heart  was  pounding  too 
hard  for  speech.  She  nodded  grate- 
fully and  pulled  Betty  against  her. 
What  had  been  a  fairly  simple  trail 
to  follow  to  camp  had  now  become 
a  muddy,  slippery  obstacle  course. 
Down  below  them  the  creek  roared 
menacingly.  It  was  too  dark  to  see 
anything  except  during  the  flashes 
of  lightning.  Bill  always  comforted 
her  during  thunderstorms  at  home. 
She  thought  of  Bill's  comfortable 
shoulder  with  unbelievable  yearn- 
ing. The  thought  of  her  boys 
brought  tears  of  self-pity  to  her 
eyes.  What  had  she  ever  done  to 
deserve  this?  To  lose  two  girls! 

It  took  them  almost  half  an  hour 
to  reach  the  bridge.  Margery  put 
her  hand  on  the  bridge  rail,  and  her 
heart  failed  her.  She  could  not 
cross.  Yet  they  hadn't  seen  a  sign 
of  the  girls  on  the  trail.  She  and 
Betty  lifted  their  heads  to  shout 
once  more. 

''Sister  Clark?"  the  girls'  voices 
came  from  the  other  side  of  the 
bridge. 

A  lightning  flash  revealed  the  two 
girls  sitting  in  the  shelter  of  a  huge 
tree.  Margery  almost  snatched 
them  out  from  under  the  tree. 

"I  know  we  shouldn't  have  stayed 
there,  but  we  were  afraid  to  go  any 
place  else,  Sister  Clark.    You're  not 


mad  or  anything  at  us,  Sister  Clark?" 

"No,  no!"  Margery  smiled  with 
relief  in  the  darkness.  "I'm  so  hap- 
py we  found  you,  but  get  out  from 
under  that  tree  at  once."  She 
hugged  the  girls,  and  they  started 
single  file  back  to  the  tent. 

"Hey,  Betty,  you  were  a  real 
sport  to  come  looking  for  us,  too. 
I  don't  know  what  we'd  have  done 
if  somebody  hadn't  come.  Honestly, 
we  thought  those  lights  were  the 
truck  coming  back,  and  we  thought 
we'd  get  first  shelter  or  something." 

Margery  pulled  the  girls  along 
behind  her,  hugging  the  side  of  the 
trail  closest  to  the  mountain.  Bet- 
ty surely  seemed  at  home  with  the 
girls  now.  She  looked  like  a  differ- 
ent girl  with  her  face  washed  clean. 
She  was  as  attractive  as  any  of  them. 

When  they  got  back  to  the  tent, 
the  girls  pulled  Betty,  Jean,  and 
Bonnie  into  the  tent  to  hear  of 
their  adventures.  Margery  returned 
to  crouch  under  her  end  of  the 
canvas.  She  settled  her  blanket  in 
the  least  muddy  spot  she  could  find 
and  leaned  on  her  elbow  for  some 
rest.  A  glitter  in  the  mud  caught 
her  eye  during  a  flash  as  she  settled 
herself.  Betty  Wright's  lipstick. 
She  pocketed  it  quietly.  There 
would  be  time  enough  to  return  it 
to  Betty  later. 

npHE  sun  brought  the  day  to  the 
most  bedraggled  Beehive  class 
in  the  land  of  Zion,  Margery 
thought.  Her  heart  sank  when  she 
saw  the  number  of  muddy  blankets 
and  the  poor  condition  of  their 
supplies.  But  first  things  first. 
They  must  have  a  hot  breakfast. 
All  the  wood  that  had  been  gathered 
was  wet.  If  she  had  only  thought 
to  pull  some  it  under  the  canvas. 


226 

But  the  girls  were  scurrying  about, 
searching  under  heavy  pines  for 
dry  spots  to  find  twigs.  Margery 
gasped  at  how  fresh  and  young  they 
seemed.  She  felt  as  if  every  bone 
in  her  body  ached  in  several  places. 
The  ingenious  girls  soon  had  a  fire 
going,  and  Margery  cooked  and 
cooked  until  she  was  ready  to  swoon 
from  hunger. 

jDY  noon  the  truck  had  come  back 
with  John  and  Carma. 
'Tes,  it  was  appendicitis,  all 
right,"  Carma  explained.  'They  did 
an  emergency  operation,  but  she's 
doing  fine.  We'll  go  down  again 
tonight,  at  least  one  of  us  will,  to 
see  her  in  the  hospital,  but  we'll  be 
able  to  pull  our  share  up  here  now. 
Marg,  you  really  do  look  terrible. 
Is  that  mud  you've  got  in  your 
hair?" 

They  decided  to  spend  this  sec- 
ond day  washing  blankets  and  dry- 
ing them  out  on  branches.  Margery 
heated  water  and  rinsed  her  hair. 
Before  she  had  time  to  put  a  bobby- 
pin  in,  another  hike  was  scheduled, 
and  the  activities  roared  on  with 
astounding  regularity.  By  the  time 
the  evening  program  around  the 
campfire  was  over,  Margery  yearned 
only  for  sleep.  Her  hair  would  just 
have  to  wait. 

The  fourth  day  finally  dawned, 
and  some  of  the  girls  actually  shed 
tears  that  this  was  the  day  they 
were  leaving  their  camp. 

Betty  Wright  ran  up  to  her  and 
laid  her  cheek  against  Margery's 
straight  hair.  ''Oh,  Sister  Clark, 
this  has  been  the  most  wonderful 
four  days  of  my  life.  They've  been 
more  fun  .  .  .  ." 

Margery  felt  the  lipstick  in  her 
pocket.  "Betty,  does  this  belong 
to  you?    I  found  it  .  .  .  ." 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— APRIL  1957 

Betty's  cheeks  rosied  just  a  little. 
"It's  mine,  Sister  Clark." 

Margery  smiled  at  her.  "You  real- 
ly don't  need  it,  Betty;  you're  so 
pretty  without  it." 

"Thank  you.  Sister  Clark.  No, 
I'm  not  going  to  bother  using  it 
anymore  until  the  rest  of  my  friends 
do.    Keep  it  for  me,  will  you?" 

Betty  was  gone  to  some  of  the 
girls  who  were  calling  for  her. 
Margery  dropped  the  lipstick  back 
into  her  pocket. 

Yes,  the  canyon  was  beautiful, 
Margery  noticed  on  the  way  down. 
It  seemed  ages  ago  since  that  day 
they  had  driven  up.  Bill  and  the 
boys  were  waiting  at  the  church 
with  other  parents,  relatives,  and 
friends. 

Margery  almost  broke  her  leg  try- 
ing to  get  to  them  before  they  got 
to  her. 

"Are  you  thinner?"  Bill  asked. 

"What's  the  matter  with  your 
hair?"  Willie  asked  curiously. 

Margery  hushed  them,  trying  to 
smile  and  keep  back  the  tears  at 
the  same  time.  Just  then  some  of 
the  girls'  shouted  conversations 
reached  her  ears.  They  were  so 
enthusiastic,  so  full  of  energy. 

Margery  couldn't  help  hearing, 
"The  most  wonderful  canyon  trip 
you  can  ever  imagine,  Daddy.  The 
very  best  part  was  the  first  night 
when  it  rained  like  mad,  and  we 
had  the  craziest  adventures.  Gloria's 
going  to  be  green  with  envy  be- 
cause .  .  .  ." 

It  was  only  the  thought  of  a  hot 
bath  and  shampoo  that  led  Margery 
to  turn  away  from  one  of  the  most 
surprising  conversations  she  had 
ever  heard.  Later,  she  would  try 
to  understand  the  sudden  feeling  of 
well-being  that  flooded  even  to  the 
tips  of  her  fingers. 


Quelling  oJhe  U\euef  Society   lliagazine 

Thomas  S.  Monson 

Assistant  Manager,  Deseret  News  Press 

[Speech  delivered  at  the  Magazine  Department,  Annual  General  Relief  Society  Con- 
ference, October  4,  1956] 


I  approach  the  responsibility  of 
addressing  this  large  gathering 
of  Relief  Society  Magazine 
representatives  humbly.  I  realize 
that  it  would  be  difficult  to  assemble 
a  sales  force  that  is  more  dedicated 
to  its  product  than  are  you.  It  is 
important  that  we  be  dedicated, 
that  we  accept  the  callings  given 
us,  that  we  strive  for  perfection  in 
our  performance. 

Placing  myself  in  the  position  of 
a  sales  representative  for  The  ReUei 
Society  Magazine,  I  have  tried  to 
note  a  few  principles  which  I  be- 
lieve would  help  me  perform  my 
assignment  more  successfully.  These 
principles  comprise,  what  I  call,  a 
''Be  Chart  for  Successful  Selhng 
of  The  ReUef  Society  Magazine.'' 

Be  Inioimed 

To  Be  Informed  is  the  first  prin- 
ciple on  our  chart  for  successful 
selling.  We  must  be  informed  re- 
garding all  phases  of  our  product. 

We  must  be  intimately  acquaint- 
ed with  the  contents  of  the  Maga- 
zine and  the  varied  uses  to  which 
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ample, we  must  convince  our  sisters 
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In  short,  we  can  say  to  our  po- 
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In  addition  to  knowing  the  con- 
tents of  our  Magazine,  we  should 
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creation.  The  ReUei  Society  Maga- 
zine doesn't  just  grow  like  'Topsy.'' 
Each  item  for  its  production  is 
carefully  selected,  and  after  much 
thought  and  prayer,  it  is  merged 
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product.  Did  you  know,  for  ex- 
ample, that  Sister  Spafford  and  her 
associates  devoted  many  hours  in 
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the  first  copy. 
Be  Organized 

Be  Organized  is  our  second  prin- 
ciple. We  should  organize  our  time 
so  that  a  selected  period  can  be 
devoted  to  making  our  visits  to  the 
homes.  When  we  make  our  visits, 
we  should  be  prepared  with  all  of 
the  necessary  materials,  such  as  pen- 
cil and  subscription  book,  so  that  we 
can  properly  prepare  the  order.  A 
list  of  expiration  dates  is  also  help- 
ful as  a  sales  tool.  When  we  are 
organized,  our  work  becomes  much 
more  efficient  and  enjoyable. 
Be  Friendly 

Be   Friendly   and   carry   a   smile 
always.    It  is  much  easier  to  be  con- 


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vincing  when  we  are  friendly  and 
happy  to  see  our  fellow  members. 
We  must  never  use  harsh  methods 
or  force  others  to  subscribe  against 
their  will.  Instead,  friendly  per- 
suasion must  always  be  our  selling 
technique. 
Be  Y.nihu^m'^iiQ 

Be  Fnthusiastic  in  our  work. 
''Nothing  great  was  ever  achieved 
without  enthusiasm,"  Ralph  Waldo 
Emerson  once  observed.  We  note 
in  the  business  world  that  after  a 
salesman  makes  a  successful  call,  it 
is  much  simpler  for  him  to  con- 
vince the  second  customer.  In 
short,  when  a  sale  is  completed,  we 
naturally  become  enthusiastic,  and 
this  opens  the  way  for  the  second 
sale. 
Be  Humble 

Be  HumbJe  in  your  work.  Realize 
that  you  are  the  Lord's  emissary, 
and  that  you  should  carry  his  spirit 
in  all  your  endeavors.  The  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith  offered  this  admo- 
nition: 

And  no  one  can  assist  in  this  work 
except  he  shall  be  humble  ...  (D.  &  C. 
12:8). 

Be  thou  humble;  and  the  Lord  thy  God 
shall  lead  thee  by  the  hand,  and  give  thee 
answer  to  thy  prayers  (D.  &  C.  112:10). 

After  you  have  succeeded  in  your 
work,  remember  to  give  the  Lord 
the    credit    for    your    accomplish- 
ments. 
Be  Prayerful 

Be  Prayerful,  always!  Never  make 
your  visits  without  first  calling  upon 
the  Lord  for  his  divine  assistance. 
Your  assignment  is  important,  and 
it  requires  inspiration  from  on  high. 
Ask  the  Lord  to  bless  you,  and  also 
to  bless  and  to  touch  the  hearts  of 
the  sisters  that  you  visit. 

Several  years  ago,  a  striking  ex- 
ample of  the  eflficacy  of  prayer  came 
forcibly  to  my  attention.  Our  ward 


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Relief  Society  Magazine  representa- 
tive was  a  little  Scotch  sister,  Eliza- 
beth Keachie,  who  was  most  devoted 
to  her  assignment.  She  had  de- 
termined to  visit  every  home  in  the 
ward  to  explain  the  benefits  enjoyed 
by  subscribing  to  The  Relief  Society 
Magazine.  Each  day  before  making 
her  visits,  she  would  kneel  in  prayer 
and  ask  her  Heavenly  Father  to 
guide  her  activities. 
AFTER  many  weeks  she  com- 
pleted her  house-to-house  cam- 
paign with  the  single  exception  of 
the  homes  on  a  remote  street  that 
lay  in  an  industrialized  area  adjacent 
to  the  railroad  tracks.  Sister  Keachie 
hesitated  visiting  this  area  alone, 
and  therefore  she  requested  her 
visiting  teaching  companion,  Alice 
Johnson,  to  join  her. 

Sister  Johnson  commented  that 
there  were  only  one  or  two  homes 
at  best  on  the  street  and  that  no 
member  of  the  Church  resided  in 
any  of  them.  But  Sister  Keachie 
was  determined  to  complete  her 
task,  and  so  they  started  down  the 
uninviting  street. 

Visits  to  the  two  homes  yielded 
nothing,  but  as  they  turned  to  leave. 
Sister  Keachie  noted  a  curtain  at 
the  window  of  a  small  garage  located 
down  a  muddy  alleyway  behind  one 
of  the  buildings.  She  persuaded 
her  companion  to  visit  this  humble 
garage  with  her.  They  knocked  at 
the  door,  and  an  elderly  gentleman, 
ninety-three  years  of  age,  greeted 
them. 

They  explained  the  purpose  of 
their  visit  and  the  benefits  derived 
from  subscribing  to  The  Relief  So- 
ciety Magazine.  The  old  gentle- 
man talked  to  them  for  an  hour 
and  finally  subscribed.  He  also 
asked  them  if  they  would  return 
each  month  and  talk  to  him  about 


the  Church.  After  securing  permis- 
sion from  the  ward  Relief  Society 
presidency,  they  added  this  small 
abode  to  their  own  regular  visiting 
teaching  district. 

The  months  went  by,  and  then 
the  old  gentleman  started  to  attend 
Priesthood  meetings.  Eventually, 
he  was  advanced  in  the  Priesthood. 
After  about  a  year,  he  was  ordained 
an  elder  in  the  Melchizedek  Priest- 
hood and  applied  for  a  temple  rec- 
ommend. He  stated  that  his  wife 
had  died  many  yeara  before  and 
that  he  wanted  to  be  sealed  to  her 
for  the  eternities  to  come.  He  also 
confided  in  me,  as  his  bishop,  that 
he  had  made  her  a  promise  many 
years  ago  that  he  would  go  to  the 
temple  and  perform  this  important 
work. 

The  Sunday  after  he  had  complet- 
ed his  work  in  the  temple,  he  stood 
up  and  bore  his  testimony  in  fast 
meeting.  He  paid  tribute  to  Sister 
Keachie  and  Sister  Johnson,  the 
patient  sisters  of  the  Relief  Society, 
for  visiting  him  so  faithfully,  and 
then  he  praised  The  Relief  Society 
Magazine  and  told  of  its  importance 
in  assisting  him  to  build  his  testi- 
mony. 

Ninety-four  year-old  Brother  Ring- 
wood  died  within  six  months  of 
this  meeting.  I  recalled  this  experi- 
ence at  his  funeral  service;  and  I  am 
certain  that  the  tears  which  filled 
the  eyes  of  Sister  Keachie  and  Sister 
Johnson  were  tears  of  gratitude  for 
having  faithfully  performed  their 
labors  in  a  pleasing  manner  before 
the  Lord. 

You  see,  Sister  Keachie  was  in- 
formed; she  was  organized,  friendly, 
enthusiastic,  humble,  and  prayer- 
ful, and  because  she  followed  these 
principles,  she  was  successful!  May 
we  all  be  successful  in  our  callings. 


New  Shoes  for  Flo 

Wanda  F.  Hilton 

SUMMERS    when    it   was   hot  ears  open  for  any  mention  of  shoes, 

and    dry,    Flo    did    not    wear  But  for  two  days,  so  far  as  Flo  knew, 

shoes.       She     went    barefoot  her  mother  had  not  given  them  a 

Sunday    through    Saturday,    month  thought.    It  was  now  the  beginning 

after  month.    Of  course,  there  were  of  the  third  day,  and  mother  hadn't 

things  like  bruised  toes  and  thorn  given  one  hint  that  she  was  even 

pricks,  and   it  was  always  wise  to  tinkering  with  the  idea  of  suggest- 

look  about  carefully  when  climbing  ing  that  father  ride  into  Rexburg 

the  rocky  hillsides  for  rattlesnakes,  and  buy  the  winter  stock  of  shoes 

The   one   pair   of   shoes,   worn   all  and    other    necessities    like    bacon, 

winter,  did  well  to  last  through  the  sugar,  and  flour, 

spring  thaws.  The    blessing   on   the    food   had 

With  the  last  patch  of  snow  melt-  been  given   and   the   mush   dished 

ing   in    the   spring   sunshine,   Flo's  up,  when  Mother  spoke, 

shoes,  or  what  remained  of  them,  '7^^^/'  ^^^^  asked  in  a  matter-of- 

melted  away,  too.  fact  tone,  ''don't  you  think  tomor- 

Flo   loved  those  first  days   after  row  might  be  as  good  a   time  as 

the  shoes  were  gone.     It  was  good  any  to  hitch  up  old  Bess  and  Pet 

not  always  to  be  laboring  to  keep  a  and  drive  to  town  and  stock  up? 

ragged  piece  of  leather  tied  in  place.  It's  getting  along  in  the  season  and 

But  after  a  few  days,  she  just  didn't  things  are  running  low.  Flo  could 

give  it  a  thought  one  way  or  an-  even  do  with  some  shoes,  it's  that 

other.     Then  as  September  trump-  cold." 

eted  its  arrival  with  red  and  gold  Flo  sat  still  and  open-mouthed, 
pageantry,  Flo  began  to  dream  of  Even  though  she  had  been  expect- 
new  shoes,  and  by  Thanksgiving  it  ing  the  words,  they  came  as  a 
was  right  uncomfortable  to  be  with-  rapturous  shock, 
out  shoes  because  it  was  cold,  cold,  'Tes,  I  guess  it's  time,"  Father 
cold!  answered  looking  up  into  Mother's 

Then  Flo's  mother  would  wrap  face.     ''But  are  you  willing  that  I 

her  feet  in  warm  rags  and  that  felt  should  go  now?     Maybe  I'd  better 

good  as  long  as  she  stayed  indoors  wait  a  week  or  two." 

where  it  was  warm  and   dry,  but  Wait,  thought  Flo.     What  for? 

rags  got  wet  if  one  ventured  out,  There  had  never  been  any  talk  of 

and  then  they  were  worse  than  noth-  waiting  before  when   Mother   sug- 

ing.  gested  the  trip. 

There  was  always  one  thing  about  'In  a  week  or  two  the  road  may 

the  rag  business,  though,  that  made  be  closed  tight  as  snow  can  make 

Flo's  eyes   bright  and  her  dreams  it,"  Mother  replied.     "You  usually 

more  real,  for  then  Mother  would  have  made  the  trip  by  now.    I  just 

begin  talking  about  shoes.  realized    it    day    before    yesterday. 

Now,  for  two  days  Flo  had  been  when  I  had  to  wrap  up  Flo's  feet, 

wearing  rags,  and  she  had  kept  her  Best  go  right  away.  The  sooner  you 

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go,   the  sooner  you  will  be  back, 
and  that's  the  way  I  want  it/' 

npHERE  had  never  before  been 
allusions  to  things  not  being 
just  right,  and  it  worried  Flo;  but 
in  the  hurried  preparations  for 
Father's  going,  she  forgot  her  mis- 
givings. Everything  but  joy  van- 
ished when  she  looked  at  the  long 
list  of  things  for  Father  to  buy. 

The  first  item  on  the  list  was 
"A  pair  of  shoes  for  Floetta!" 

That  night  just  before  she 
climbed  into  bed,  Father  stood  her 
on  a  piece  of  paper  on  the  table  and 
traced  the  outline  of  her  foot  with 
his  stubby  pencil.  It  had  tickled 
and  she  had  wiggled. 

''Stop  now,"  Father  said.  'Ton 
must  stand  still  and  hard.  Let  your 
foot  spread  out  as  far  as  it  will.  We 
don't  want  those  new  shoes  to  be 
too  little." 

Flo  had  gone  to  bed  feeling  that 
she  had  tried  on  her  new  shoes, 
and  soon  she  would  have  them  for 
keeps. 

At  the  moment  of  Father's  de- 
parture, Flo  recalled  her  misgivings, 
for  Father  seemed  uncertain  and 
hesitant. 

'Tou're  sure  you  want  me  to 
go?"  he  asked,  and  Mother  nodded, 
her  face  calm. 

As  the  wagon  jolted  off  over  the 
rough,  uneven  trail,  the  calmness 
faded,  and  her  face  looked  like 
winter,  Flo  thought,  lonely  and  cold 
and  even  fearful. 

The  Harris  family  lived  far  away 
from  all  the  settlements  and  towns. 
Father,  Flo  had  heard  it  said,  had 
poor  health  and  the  natural  hot 
spring  about  a  mile  from  the  cabin 
was  good  for  whatever  was  the  mat- 
ter with  him.    So  Father  and  Moth- 


er had  sold  their  livery  stables  and 
town  lots  and  moved  up  to  no- 
where. 

The  cabin  had  been  built  close 
against  the  mountain  where  the 
aspen  trees  came  down  and  snug- 
gled about  in  a  tight  friendly  circle, 
only  giving  way  a  little  for  the  path 
which  led  down  to  the  road  a  half 
mile  away. 

The  trip  to  town  usually  took 
about  five  days— two  to  go,  one  in 
which  to  do  the  shopping,  and  two 
to  make  the  trip  home.  Father 
spent  the  two  nights  between  home 
and  town  at  the  Williams'  ranch. 

Flo  was  sure  Mother  had  never 
acted  as  if  she  were  expecting  Fa- 
ther before  the  fifth  day  before,  but 
this  time,  the  morning  of  the  third 
day  Mother  began  walking  the  half 
mile  to  the  road  and  back  again 
every  little  while.  Her  face  looked 
white,  and  she  said  few  words. 
When  they  knelt  for  prayer  her 
petitions  were  urgent,  and  she 
stayed  on  her  knees  a  long  time. 

When  it  was  bedtime,  Mother 
turned  out  the  lamp,  but  instead  of 
coming  to  bed,  she  sat  before  the 
fire  and  rocked  back  and  forth,  and 
sighed. 

Flo  was  sure  Mother  even  made 
the  trip  to  the  road  alone  that  night. 
The  pressure  of  her  uneasiness  was 
the  most  frightening  thing  Flo  had 
ever  endured.  It  was  so  big  and 
real  that  even  thoughts  of  the  shoes 
were  not  comforting  or  of  im- 
portance. 

npHE  morning  of  the  fourth  day, 
Flo  awakened  to  the  desolate 
sound  of  the  wind.  Mother  was  at 
the  window  peering  out  into  the 
semidarkness.     She   stood   there  a 


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long  time  before  she  let  the  curtain 
fall  back  into  place. 

All  day  the  wind  howled  with 
growing  fury.  The  windows  rattled, 
the  door  shook,  and  it  seemed  that 
Mother  bent  and  quivered  like  the 
trees  outside— almost  as  if  she  were 
in  pain. 

And  then  toward  evening  the 
first  snow  began  to  fall.  At  its  com- 
ing Mother  shed  her  first  tears,  and 
with  a  cry  that  chilled  Flo's  heart 
she  flung  open  the  door  and  ran 
like  a  frightened  creature  down  the 
path  to  the  road. 

When  she  came  back,  walking 
heavily,  the  weariness  on  her  face 
was  still  there,  but  the  fear  was 
gone.  Things  still  weren't  just  right, 
Flo  decided,  but  it  seemed  Mother 
could  and  would  take  care  of  what- 
ever was  the  trouble. 

The  prayer  at  mealtime  was, 
'Tlease  bless  our  Daddy  and  keep 
him  safe  from  the  storm  and  help 
us  here  at  home." 

Flo  was  familiar  with  those  words, 
but  somehow  the  way  Mother  said 
them  this  time  gave  them  a  bigger 
meaning  as  if  there  was  a  special 
need  right  now.  Flo  wished  she 
could  help,  and  could  know  what 
had  to  be  done,  but  Mother  rushed 
the  eating  —  her  movements  quick 
and  sure.  It  was  as  if  she  were 
racing  with  something  or  someone. 

When  the  food  was  eaten.  Moth- 
er said,  'Tou  are  to  sleep  in  the 
bedroom  tonight.  There  are  a  few 
things  that  need  to  be  done  before 
I  can  blow  out  the  lamp,  and  I 
don't  want  to  keep  you  awake." 

Flo  was  sorry  to  give  up  the  warm 
kitchen  and  Mother's  companion- 
ship, but  Mother's  voice  was  firm, 
and  when  she  pulled  the  door  closed 


it  was  somehow  important  that  it 
stay  that  way.  Mother  did  open  it 
again,  though,  to  give  her  a  second 
goodnight  kiss,  a  gentle  caress,  and 
a  sweet,  sweet  smile. 

Above  the  sharp  wail  of  the  wind, 
Flo  could  catch  the  soft  sound  of 
her  Mother's  movements.  The  kiss 
and  the  smile  had  quieted  her  fears 
and  her  last  thought  was  that  to- 
morrow would  bring  Daddy,  and 
Daddy  would  have  the  new,  won- 
derful shoes. 

The  wind  was  still  blowing  when 
Flo  awakened  next  morning,  and 
the  one  bedroom  window  was 
clogged  with  snow.  Her  breath  had 
made  frost  along  the  quilt  top,  but 
inside,  the  bed  was  snug  and  warm. 

Then  a  sharp,  cutting  thought 
tore  across  her  mind,  dark  as  night. 
What  if  Father  had  not  made  it 
safely  to  Williams'!  What  if  he 
had  been  caught  in  the  storm,  was 
even  now  somewhere  alone  in  the 
white,  howling  waste!  A  fear  more 
deadly  than  any  she  had  known 
pushed  and  hammered  at  her.  She 
must  get  to  Mother.  Together  they 
could  pray  again,  and  wherever  Fa- 
ther was,  God  would  save  him  and 
bring  him  safely  home. 

Flo  flung  open  the  kitchen  door 
and  stopped  there  stunned  and 
speechless.  There  sat  Father! 
Father  rocking  gently  back  and 
forth,  with  a  small,  white  bundle 
held  closely  in  his  arms.  Mother 
was  asleep  in  the  big  bed,  and  on 
the  table— on  the  table— was  a  pair 
of  black,  high-button  shoes. 

'T^HE  whole  sight  was  so  thorough- 
ly unexpected— so  wonderful 
after  the  smothering  fright,  that  all 
Flo  could  do  was  cry.  Great  chok- 
ing   sobs,    that    awakened   Mother, 


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and  Father's  bundle  began  to  make 
twittering  little  bird  sounds,  and 
it  was  all  so  queer  that  Flo  kept  on 
crying  until  she  reached  Mother's 
arms  and  Father  was  bending  over 
her.  Then  it  was  that  she  saw  what 
Father  was  holding.  It  was  a  baby. 
A  real,  little,  red-faced  baby. 

Her  amazement  dried  up  her 
tears  like  a  blotter,  and  she  just  sat, 
speechless,  with  the  most  wonder- 
ful feeling  welling  up  all  through 
her. 

Father  safe.  Mother  with  happi- 
ness on  her  pale  face,  a  baby,,  and, 
yes,  there  were  the  shoes. 

Oh,  what  joy!  Was  ever  the 
world  so  grand!  Were  evep  Father 
and  Mother  so  dear  or-  baby  so 
sweet! 


''Here,''  Father  said,  'you  hold 
him." 

'Ton  have  a  little  brother/'  Moth- 
er said. 

''Let  me  hold  the  shoes,  too/' 
said  Flo. 

It  was  like  a  miracle  she  thought, 
as  she  ate  tiny,  juicy  nibbles  of  her 
first  orange  and  wiggled  her  toes  in- 
side her  new  shoes.  A  miracle  that 
Father  was  home.  It  seemed  he 
had  known  the  baby  was  coming. 
It  hadn't  been  a  surprise  at  all  to 
him,  and  so  he  had  driven  straight 
through  to  Rexburg,  changing  teams 
at  the  Williams'  ranch.  The  shop- 
ping had  been  hurriedly  attended 
to,  and  he  had  started  back  after 
only  a  few  hours  rest.  He  had 
raced  the  storm  home  in  time  to  be 
with  Mother  when  the  baby  came. 


Camphor  cJrees 


Elsie  McKinnon  Strachan 

Willows  and  maples  and  poplars,  these  three 
Have  hung  their  green  color  in  April's  air. 
The  wakened  persimmon  and  cherry  tree 
Lend  viridian  with  the  leafing  pear; 
But  there  is  no  green  in  this  new  green  spring 
As  green  as  these  camphor  leaves  hung  high, 
Their  luminous  splendor  carohng 
A  chartreuse  song  against  the  sky! 


cJhe  Smallest  (cyne  s  LPrayer 

MaryhaJe  Woolsey 

She  watched  her  sisters  through  their  prayers  at  bedtime, 
Waiting  her  turn  with  wide  and  wondering  eyes; 
Then  joyously  she  knelt,  head  bowed,  hands  clasping. 
And  babbled  in  her  own  language,  baby-wise. 
We  felt  her  loving  innocence  and  sweetness. 
And  though  we  could  not  tell  what  plea  we  heard. 
At-  her  "Amen"  we  joined  her  confidently — 
Knowing  God  would  translate  her  every  word. 


Let's  Garden  With  Half  the  Work 


Dorthea  N.  NewboJd 


Garden  Editor,  Deseret  News  Salt  Lake  Telegram 


EVERYONE  wants  a  garden. 
Ask  the  average  person  for  a 
word  picture  of  a  garden,  and 
he  will  tell  you  that  he  sees  a  velvety 
lawn  surrounded  bv  borders  of 
shrubs,  the  whole  enclosed  with  a 
wall,  or  a  vine-covered  fence.  In 
front  of  the  shrubs  he  visualizes  a 
border  of  flowers,  with  good  shade 
trees  towering  over  the  whole  scene. 

In  this  picture  the  average  person 
always  sees  a  garden  in  ''apple-pie" 
order;  no  weeds,  no  pests,  no 
diseases,  no  shaggy,  seedy  looking 
plants;  borders  always  in  full  bloom! 
Utopia! 

The  homemaker  has  much  to  do 
with  planning  and  planting  the 
garden  or  outdoor  living  area.  She 
plans  it  so  that  it  will  become  the 
scene  of  the  family's  summer  activi- 
ties.    Large   groups  can  be  enter- 


tained in  a  garden,  or  small  groups 
can  enjoy  the  area.  With  the  in- 
crease in  activities,  the  gardened 
area  is  sure  to  show  wear  and  begin 
to  look  shabbv.  More  work  is  re- 
quired  to  maintain  it,  and  perhaps 
there  is  neither  the  time  nor  the 
energy  for  the  additional  work.  Let's 
cut  down,  then,  by  streamlining  the 
plantings,  and  paving  the  area  of 
lawn  that  shows  the  greatest  wear. 
And  you  don't  need  to  keep  the 
borders  full  of  flowers  all  summer 
in  order  to  possess  a  good  garden! 

Shrubs,  trees,  and  evergreens  can 
be  used  effectively  together  without 
flowers,  to  provide  interesting  con- 
trast of  color  and  textures.  Best  of 
all,  a  minimum  of  care  will  keep 
such  a  garden  looking  top  notch. 

You  will  enjoy  an  all-green  gar- 
den, providing  that  you  will  make 


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LET'S  GARDEN  WITH  HALF  THE  WORK 


235 


DRWErWAV 


Lorgelree 


Ground 
Covey  ' 


MOUSE- 

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(VnmQoula-fe,  4fie  free  wofcreM 
and  "fhe  gi-ound  cover   gro>vs 
fhr-i-ff/ly  undet-  such  cor©. 


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•to  Provide  Privacy. 


up  your  mind  to  accept  it.  You 
may  think  that  an  all-green  garden 
will  become  tiresome  and  monoto- 
nous, but  you  will  soon  notice  the 
difference  in  the  greens.  You  will 
see  that  there  are  few  plants  that 
can  be  classed  as  being  ''leaf  green." 
Rather,  the  greens  will  be  a  blue- 
green,  or  a  yellow-green,  or  shade  to 
a  gray-green. 

Textural  differences  in  the  foliage 
of  the  plants  can  create  a  fascinating 

picture.  There  are  many  leaves  that 
have  a  fuzzy  appearance,  others  are 
ruffled,  while  still  others  are  scal- 
loped. Some  leaves  are  quite  large, 
thick,  and  smooth.  The  contrast  in 
size  of  neighboring  plants  can  be 
picturesque.  For  example,  a  plant- 
ing of  Dianthus,  with  its  blade-like 
leaves,  will  provide  a  contrast  for 
the  coarser  leaves  of  the  taller  lilacs 
or  Viburnum. 


TTHE  very  easiest  kind  of  garden- 
ing is  water  gardening.  A  pool 
of  clear  water,  reflecting  the  sky  and 
clouds,  is  soothing  and  calming  to 
frazzled  nerves.  It  may  be  possible 
to  have  a  tiny  stream  of  water  falling 
or  spraying  into  the  pool.  The 
sound  of  falling  water  is  always  a 
great  delight.  A  pool  can  be  plant- 
ed with  water  lilies  to  provide  color 
throughout  the  summer  months, 
and  they  require  little  work. 

Of  course,  the  construction  work 
is  necessary  to  begin  with,  but  once 
the  pool  has  been  finished,  all  that 
is  required  to  have  an  attractive  spot 
is  a  yearly  cleaning  during  the 
spring  months.  The  pool  is  filled 
at  that  time  and  the  lilies  planted 
when  the  weather  is  settled.  The 
design  of  the  pool  can  be  formal  or 
informal,  following  the  general  de- 
sign of  the  remainder  of  the  garden. 

Brick  work  has  become  very  popu- 
lar.    Bricks    may   be   new   cement 


236 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— APRIL  1957 


DRWELWAY 


ones,  cinder  blocks,  or  old  weath- 
ered bricks.  Stepping  stones  may  be 
used  in  many  ways  to  cut  down  the 
amount  of  maintenance  work  in  the 
garden.  They  may  be  used  for 
pathways  or  for  paving  a  terrace. 
An  occasional  hosing  off  will  insure 
an  attractive,  clean  underfooting 
with  no  worries  about  worn  spots  in 
lawn  areas.  If  weeds  or  tufts  of 
grass  insist  on  pushing  up  between 
bricks  or  blocks,  it  is  a  simple  mat- 
ter to  spray  the  unwanted  plants 
with  one  of  the  weed  killers  on  the 
market.  Usually  one  treatment  is 
sufficient  to  kill  them. 

In  the  hotter  sections  of  our 
country,  some  discomfort  may  be 
encountered  if  the  paved  areas  arc 
quite  extensive.    To  offset  this,  use 


a  strip  of  grass  around  the  paved 
section.  Shrubs  and  trees  planted 
along  the  edges  of  the  terrace  will 
help  cut  the  high  temperatures.  Or 
plan  to  use  a  reflection  pool  as  a 
part  of  the  terrace. 

PORTABLE  gardens  can  add 
color,  if  you  decide  that  you 
must  have  some  color  in  your 
garden.  Set  plants  in  containers  that 
are  sufficiently  large  to  encourage 
good  growth.  Containers  that  are 
too  small  encourage  the  roots  to 
travel  out  the  drain  hole.  If  large 
planter  boxes  are  used,  it  is  a  good 
idea  to  put  heavy  coasters  under 
them  so  that  the  boxes  can  be 
wheeled  to  a  sheltered  spot  away 
from  heavy  winds  and  rains.  Wood- 


LET'S  GARDEN  WITH  HALF  THE  WORK 


237 


en  buckets  and  tubs  can  be  a  deco- 
rative part  of  the  terrace. 

A  thorough  daily  watering  is 
about  all  the  care  that  a  portable 
garden  needs,  although  a  good  prac- 
tice is  to  give  a  once-a-month  feed- 
ing to  the  plants.  Use  a  soluble 
plant  fertilizer.  Its  use  will  assure 
you  of  good  plant  growth. 

If,  in  the  past,  you  have  had  wide 
borders  of  flowers  around  your  gar- 
den, and  now  you  find  that  you  can- 
not care  for  them  properly  any 
longer,  gradually  do  away  with  the 
borders.  Instead  of  those  flowers, 
plant  different  kinds  of  ground  cov- 
ers. Plants  that  are  classed  as 
ground  covers  hug  the  ground,  sel- 
dom growing  more  than  five  inches 
tall.    They  are  attractive  throughout 


the  growing  season,  some  remain- 
ing green  throughout  the  year. 

A  list  of  ground  covers  would  in- 
clude Vinca  minor,  ajuga,  creeping 
Jenny,  and  wild  strawberry  for  the 
semi-shady  or  sunny  locations.  For 
the  very  sunny  spots,  try  using 
Sedums.  Sedums  are  rugged  plants, 
requiring  little  care,  once  they  have 
been  planted. 

In  the  shady  spots,  under  large 
trees  or  shrubs,  on  the  north  side  of 
the  buildings,  try  Pachysandra,  any 
of  the  ivies,  or  use  lily  of  the  valley 
or  sweet  violets. 

Once  the  plants  are  set  out,  about 
all  that  will  be  required  is  about 
two  feedings  a  year,  plus  regular 
watering  in  arid  sections  of  our 
country. 


What  Ss  goy? 

Jennie  Brown  Rawlins 

i'i'npHESE  things  have  I  spoken  unto  you,  that  my  joy  might  remain  in  you,  and 
•■•    that  your  joy  might  be  full"  (John  15:11). 

To  me  this  solemn  and  beautifwl  statement  means  that  through  God  we  have 
it  in  our  power  to  gain  a  fulness  of  joy  both  now  and  in  the  life  to  come. 

This  presents  a  second  question:  What  is  joy?  The  dictionary  defines  it  as  glad- 
ness, gaiety,  or  exhilaration  of  spirits.  To  me  it  has  a  more  sober  and  lasting  quality 
than  this  definition  suggests.  Joy,  as  the  Savior  spoke  of  it,  is  not  momentary,  un- 
adulterated bliss,  but  a  complex  thing,  a  thing  of  multi-variant  hues,  of  undulating 
inflections,  yet  deep  and  abiding.  We  say  that  we  have  joy  in  working  in  the  Church, 
in  rearing  our  families,  in  going  to  school.  Thus  joy  is  comprised  not  only  of  mo- 
ments of  rapture,  when  we  have  an  awareness  of  peace  in  the  glowing  instant,  but  of 
our  endeavors  to  overcome  obstacles,  our  striving  toward  accomplishment,  and  yearn- 
ings toward  the  divine,  as  well  as  countless  homely,  yet  heartwarming  experiences  that 
go  to  make  up  living. 

Joy  is  not  freely  given.  It  must  be  attained.  It  is  the  reward  God  gives  us  for 
accepting  our  tribulations  with  grace,  our  triumphs  with  humility,  our  daily  bread 
with  thanksgiving,  our  responsibilities  with  wilhngness,  the  unkind  acts  of  others  with 
tolerance,  and  the  ever-burgeoning  wonders  about  us  with  awareness  and  appreciation. 


Sixty    LJears  ^go 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  April  i,  and  April   15,   1897 

^ToR  THE  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  ANNIVERSARY  IN  PAROWAN  (UTAH):  The  fifty- 
fifth  anniversary  of  the  organization  of  the  Relief  Society  was  royally  celebrated  March 
17th  at  Parowan.  A  most  excellent  program  of  addresses,  recitations,  songs  and  music 
was  well  rendered,  the  brethren  feeling  honored  in  being  invited  to  contribute  to  the 
day's  enjoyment.  Sister  Lenora  Orton  gave  the  historical  address  .  .  .  which  was 
replete  with  information.  Among  the  aged  sisters  who  spoke  were  Sister  Nancy 
Decker  and  Aunt  Paulina  Lyman,  who  were  at  Nauvoo  at  the  time  the  Prophet 
Joseph  established  the  Society  .... 

— E.  Crane  Watson,  Secretary 

LAKE  TAHOE  (CALIFORNIA):  It  was  just  sundown  when  the  stage  coach 
turned  a  bend  in  the  r-oad  and  we  came  to  the  very  edge  of  the  lake,  ensconced  amid 
the  mountains  at  an  altitude  of  6,225  feet  above  sea  level  on  the  borders  of  Nevada 
and  California  in  the  Sierra  Nevada  Mountains,  its  length  2  2/4  miles,  greatest  width 
13  miles,  its  depth  1,506  feet,  its  waters  not  blue  but  wonderfully  clear,  looking  like 
a  sheet  of  glass,  surrounded  like  a  wall  by  the  mountains  while  the  beautiful  pines 
peeped  up  through  the  snow.  .  .  . 

—Kim 

LIVING  PICTURES  OF  THE  HOLY  LAND:  Madame  von  Finklestien  Mount- 
ford  has  been  given  her  unique  entertainment.  Living  Pictures  of  the  Holy  Land  under 
the  auspices  of  the  Brigham  Academy  in  several  of  the  larger  towns  in  the  State.  .  .  . 
Madame  Mountford  will  give  one  of  her  series  of  lectures  in  the  large  Tabernacle  in 
this  city  on  Tuesday  evening,  April  16th. 

— Editorial  Note 

FAREWELL  TO  SISTER  McCUNE  ON  HER  DEPARTURE  FOR  EUROPE 

Think  of  those  who  love  thee, 

And  miss  thee  every  day. 
Let  this  sweet  assurance 

Bring  peace  and  joy  alway.  .  .  . 
Fear  not  man  for  he  is  mortal. 

In  the  holy  cause  be  strong; 
Trust  in  God  in  silent  asking. 

He  will  move  the  proud  among.  .  .  . 
— Lydia  D.  Alder 

WOMAN  LAWYER:  Mrs.  Helen  M.  Gougar  was  admitted  to  practice  before 
the  Supreme  Court  of  Indiana  on  Feb.  19.  She  at  once  made  the  oral  argument  in  her 
test  case,  wherein  she  claims  that  the  present  law,  properly  interpreted,  is  sufficient  to 
permit  women  to  vote.  All  the  judges  came  down  from  the  bench  and  congratulated 
Mrs.  Gougar  on  the  ability  of  her  argument. 

— Selected 

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Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


T\R.  SITI  }.  R.  NOOR-ZAIN,  of 

Jakarta^  Indonesia,  represented 
her  country  at  the  International 
Federation  of  University  Women 
in  Paris,  France,  and  later  visited 
America.  A  dentist  by  training, 
educated  in  Holland  and  her  native 
land,  at  thirty-two  she  is  mother  of 
three  children,  editor  of  two  maga- 
zines, a  government  official,  and  an 
educator.  She  has  helped  to  reduce 
illiteracy  in  Indonesia  from  ninety- 
seven  to  forty-seven  per  cent. 
Woman's  position  has  greatly  im- 
proved, although  a  man  can  still 
divorce  his  v^ife  by  merely  announc- 
ing the  fact,  and  he  is  not  required 
to  support  his  children,  and  prop- 
erty rights  are  not  granted  to  wom- 
en. Fifty  per  cent  of  the  women 
now  exercise  their  right  to  vote. 

QRA    PATE     STEWART    has 

added  to  her  many  successful 
books  A  Letter  to  My  Daughter,  a 
sequel  to  A  Letter  to  My  Son.  This 
is  a  volume  of  sound  advice  to  girls 
on  the  best  and  happiest  way  to  live 
life,  how  to  prepare  for  marriage, 
and  what  to  expect  of  marriage. 
Written  from  the  Latter-day  Saint 
point  of  view,  it  contains  inspira- 
tional passages,  down-to-earth  com- 
mon sense,  and  flashes  of  humor. 
Mrs.  Stewart,  mother  of  seven  chil- 
dren, is  a  popular  lecturer  as  well  as 
an  author. 


DOSE  HEILBRON,  forty-two, 
attractive  and  feminine-looking 
in  her  judge's  white,  long,  wavy, 
wig,  is  the  first  woman  to  become 
an  English  judge.  Wife  of  a  sur- 
geon and  mother  of  an  eight-year- 
old  daughter,  she  is  regarded  as  one 
of  the  best  legal  minds  in  the  coun- 
try. Even  so,  she  had  to  overcome 
considerable  prejudice  to  reach  her 
present  position. 


B 


ELIEVED  to  be  the  nation's 
oldest  married  couple,  Mr.  and 
Mrs.  Peter  Petersen,  Latter-day 
Saints  of  Fairview,  Utah,  have  cele- 
brated their  seventy-eighth  wedding 
anniversary.  They  received  a  special 
delivery  letter  from  President 
Dwight  D.  Eisenhower.  Mr.  Peter- 
son is  ninety-six;  his  wife,  ninety-five. 

jyrRS.      PAT      McCORMACK, 

twenty-six,  of  Lakewood,  Cali- 
fornia, is  the  first  person  ever  to  win 
two  gold  medals  for  diving  in  two 
successive  Olympiads.  She  did  a 
two-and-a-half  somersault  and  a 
one-and-a-half  somersault  with  full 
twist  at  the  Olympic  Games  in  Mel- 
bourne, Australia,  last  December. 
Australia's  Lorraine  Crapp  won  the 
women's  400-meter  free-style  swim- 
ming event  in  a  new  time  record 
of  4:54.6.  Sylvia  Ruuska,  only 
fourteen,  of  Berkeley,  California, 
came  in  third  in  the  latter  event. 

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EIDITORIAL 


VOL.  44 


APRIL  1957 


NO.  4 


ujlessings  ^ytttendant    Lipon  an   (^yffice 


"C^VERY  calling  in  the  Church  car- 
ries a  particular  authority  and 
blessing. 

''When  will  I  be  set  apart?"  is 
a  question  often  asked  by  those  who 
have  been  asked  to  accept  a  call  in 
Relief  Society  and  feel  their  own 
weakness  in  it.  They  have  the  faith 
that  after  they  have  been  set  apart, 
if  they  strive  to  do  the  Lord's  will, 
he  will  endow  them  with  necessary 
attributes  to  fulfill  the  calling  pleas- 
ingly in  his  sight  and  to  the 
satisfaction  of  themselves. 

After  one  is  set  apart  by  one  in 
authority,  inspiration,  if  sought,  will 
attend  the  particular  office.  One 
is  given  the  assurance  that  the  Lord 
will  help  one  to  fulfill  her  calling, 
for  each  office  carries  its  own  en- 
lightenment. 

The  Lord  never  withdraws  his 
inspiration  from  a  handmaiden  who 
has  been  called  and  set  apart  so  long 
as  she  seeks  to  do  his  will  and  mag- 
nify her  office.  The  Lord  recog- 
nizes those  whom  he  has  chosen  to 
be  in  authority.  When  a  presi- 
dency meets,  all  confer  together, 
but  the  final  inspiration  is  looked 
for  from  the  president.  When  a 
counselor  meets  with  sisters  whom 
she  has  been  called  to  direct,  the 
final  decision  is  looked  for  from  the 
counselor.  So  it  is  in  all  situations. 
The  Lord's  house  is  a  house  of  or- 
der, and  to  fulfill  a  calling  one  must 
be  obedient  to  those  placed  over 

Page  240 


one,  and,  in  turn,  be  ready  to  direct 
in  humility  those  over  whom  one 
has  been  placed. 

The  inspiration  of  a  calling  is  a 
wonderful  manifestation  of  the 
Lord's  will.  Time  and  again  one 
sees  it  demonstrated.  While  a  sis- 
ter remains  in  a  certain  position, 
the  authority  and  inspiration  of  her 
calling  continue  to  rest  upon  her  to 
give  her  strength  and  wisdom  be- 
yond her  own  ability,  but  with  the 
passing  of  the  office,  there  passes 
also  the  particular  mantle  of  that 
oflPice  to  her  successor. 

This  bestowal  of  the  mantle  of 
an  office  was  witnessed  visually  by 
Latter-day  Saints  in  Nauvoo  who 
saw  the  mantle  of  the  Prophet  Jo- 
seph Smith  made  manifest  upon 
President  Brigham  Young.  Per- 
haps the  actuality  of  the  occasion 
was  needed  to  teach  the  member- 
ship of  the  Church— those  who  wit- 
nessed it  and  those  who  accept  it 
from  the  testimony  of  those  who 
were  present  —  of  the  actuality  of 
it.  But,  while  such  an  outward 
manifestation  is  not  commonly 
vouchsafed,  still  one  is  continually 
amazed  to  see  how,  after  being  set 
apart  to  a  particular  office,  through 
humility  and  prayer,  the  mantle  of 
that  office  becomes  evidenced 
through  the  wisdom  and  the  growth 
of  the  individual  in  her  office. 

The  Lord  has  said  that  he  will 
take  the  weak  things  of  the  earth 


EDITORIAL 


241 


to  confound  the  wise.  Whatever 
calhng  comes  to  one,  if  the  indi- 
vidual accepts  the  opportunity  in 
spite  of  her  own  feehngs  of  un- 
worthiness,  is  set  apart  by  those  in 
authority,  and  hves  to  magnify  her 
own  office  without  aspiring  to  the 
office  of  another,  she  will  grow  in 
righteousness  and  knowledge  per- 
sonally, and,  through  humble  serv- 
ice, she  will  do  her  part  in  forward- 
ing the  work  of  the  Lord.  The  more 
devotion  she  lends  to  her  office, 
without  neglecting  her  responsibili- 
ties as  wife  and  mother,  the  more 
she  will  be  the  recipient  of  the 
promises  made  to  her  at  the  time 
she  is  set  apart. 

It   is   a   great   blessing   that   the 
daughters  of  the  Heavenly  Father 


have  been  given  an  organization  of 
their  own  in  which  they  are  set 
apart  to  preside  under  the  Priest- 
hood, as  well  as  to  be  officers  and 
teachers.  Through  the  endowment 
of  the  setting  apart,  great  blessings 
of  discernment,  enlightenment, 
growth,  and  development  come  to 
the  daughters  of  Zion,  as  they  come 
to  no  other  women.  Those  who 
are  set  apart  testify  to  the  truth  and 
actuality  of  the  words  of  Nephi: 
'\  .  .  the  Lord  giveth  no  command- 
ments unto  the  children  of  men, 
save  he  shall  prepare  a  way  for  them 
that  they  may  accomplish  the 
thing  which  he  commandeth  them" 
(I  Nephi  3:7). 

-M.  C.  S. 


^n  m 


ernonam 


—  /let tie    IlLana    ^Jjams    [Joradford 


March  17,  1873— February  11,  1957 

VTETTIE  Maria  Davis  Bradford,  former  member  of  the  general  board  of 

Relief  Society,  died  at  her  home  in  Salt  Lake  City,  February  11th, 
1957,  a  little  less  than  a  month  before  her  eighty-fourth  birthday. 

Beginning  in  young  womanhood,  she  served  in  all  the  auxiliary  organ- 
izations of  the  Church  officered  by  women,  and  in  later  life  was  an 
ordinance  worker  in  the  Salt  Lake  Temple.  She  was  president  of  the  Salt 
Lake  Stake  Relief  Society  for  eight  years. 

She  was  appointed  a  member  of  the  general  board  of  Relief  Society 
March  25,  1925,  and  served  with  great  ability  and  untiring  devotion.  Her 
principal  duties  included  chairmanship  of  the  clothing  and  household 
supplies  committee,  membership  at  various  times  on  the  conference  com- 
mittee, work  and  business,  theology,  and  nursing  committees,  and  many 
other  responsibilities.  She  was  greatly  loved  by  her  associates  on  the 
board  and  gave  much  inspirational  direction  in  her  official  visits  to  the 
wards  and  stakes.    She  was  released  from  the  board  in  1939. 

Her  husband,  Robert  H.  Bradford,  Professor  and  Head  of  the  Depart- 
ment of  Metallurgy  at  the  University  of  Utah,  died  in  1931.  Their  three 
sons  and  a  daughter  have  followed  the  outstanding  example  of  their  par- 
ents in  rendering  community  and  Church  service.  Sister  Bradford's  many 
friends  will  long  remember  her  as  a  woman  who  used  all  the  days  of  her 
long  life  in  loving  service. 


TloJbiA. 


TO  THE  FIELD 


di^tnn  of  the    1 1  Lonth 


npHE  Church-wide  congregational  hymn  singing  project,  inaugurated  by 
the  Church  Music  Committee,  will  be  coiitinued  during  the  coming 
year,  and  all  auxiliary  organizations  have  been  invited  to  participate.  The 
purpose  of  this  project  is  to  increase  the  hymn  repertoire  of  the  Church 
members  and  to  place  emphasis  on  the  message  of  the  hymns.  Stake 
choristers  and  organists  are  requested  to  give  assistance  at  union  meetings 
to  ward  choristers  and  organists  in  carrying  out  this  project. 

An  analysis  and  story  of  the  hymn  will  be  printed  each  month  in  the 
Church  Section  of  the  Deseret  Nqws. 

Following  is  a  list  of  hymns  approved  for  the  twelve  months  July 
1957  to  June  1958: 


Month 

1957 

July 

August 

September 

October 

November 

December 

1958 

January 

February 

March 

April 

May 

June 


Hymn 

We  Love  Thy  House,  O  God 
O  My  Father 

This  House  We  Dedicate  to  Thee 
God  of  Power,  God  of  Right 
Come,  Ye  Thankful  People 


Composer        No. 


B  ullock-Robertson 

Snow-Mason 

Naisbitt-Asper 

Bennett-Cannon 

Alford-Elvey 


I  Heard  the  Bells  on  Christmas  Day  Longfellow-Calkin 

In  Memory  of  the  Crucified  Kooyman-Schreiner 

A  Mighty  Fortress  Is  Our  God  Luther-Luther 

Christ  the  Lord  Is  Risen  Wesley-Carey 

Father  In  Heaven  Hibbard-Flemming 

The  Lord  My  Pasture  Will  Prepare  Addison-Bortniansky 

Come,  O  Thou  King  of  Kings  P.  P.  Pratt 


203 

138 

176 

36 
29 

219 


99 

3 

10 

34 

113 

20 


JLegaci[ 

Leslie  Savage  Chik 

No  legacy  of  land  was  his. 

No  vast  estate,  nor  gold; 

Nor  this,  some  famous  ancestor 

Of  whom  proud  tales  were  told. 

And,  yet,  some  sire  bequeathed  him  gifts 

Beyond  all  counterpart — 

The  seeing  eye,  the  hearing  ear. 

The  understanding  heart. 


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Wi 


inmn 


9 


\:yur  \joai 


TOY  of  achievement  is  mirrored  on 
^  the  face  of  the  young  man  in  the 
poster  who  has  just  won  the  foot- 
race. He  is  experiencing  the  real- 
ization of  earnest  effort,  training, 
clean  living,  and  of  learning  to  ac- 
cept and  obey  orders.  He  has 
reached  his  goal  because  he  was 
willing  to  follow  the  rules  which 
led  to  it. 

Latter-day  Saints  who  would 
travel  life's  course  so  as  to  win  their 
coveted  goal  must  follow  a  like 
course.  They  hold  their  bodily 
desires  in  subjection  to  their  spirit- 
ual strength  and  they  never  become 
discouraged  to  the  point  that  they 


are  overcome  by  the  trials  and 
temptations  of  the  world. 

A  child  once  asked  her  mother, 
''Why  does  Sister  Toone  always 
pray  that  she  will  endure  to  the 
end?  She  is  very  old  and  good.  Why 
does  she  always  say  that  when  she 
bears  her  testimony?'' 

The  child  was  too  young  to  real- 
ize that  no  mortal  age  places  one 
beyond  the  reach  of  temptation,  but 
each  age  presents  different  testings 
and  trials.  The  wisdom  and  experi- 
ence of  years,  however,  should  ex- 
pand our  souls  so  that  our  love  is 
not  stopped  at  the  family  circle  and 
beloved  friends,  but  flows  over  to 
embrace  our  neighbors.  We  must 
offer  friendship  to  the  lonely,  give 
service  to  the  sick  and  needy,  tender 
encouragement  to  the  discouraged, 
and  a  deep  assurance  of  faith  to  the 
doubting. 

To  win  in  life's  course  requires 
the  development  in  the  soul  of 
charity,  the  pure  love  of  Christ 
which  guides  us  along  the  straight 
and  narrow  path  to  the  shining, 
glorious  goal  of  eternal  life. 

To  win  the  race  of  life  we  must 
keep  in  training  just  like  the  ath- 
lete, but  the  course  is  longer,  the 
trials  more  difficult,  and  the  tempta- 
tion to  falter  greater.  In  life  "... 
the  race  is  not  to  the  swift  nor  the 
battle  to  the  strong"  (Eccles.  9:11  )^ 
but  to  him  that  endures  to  the  end. 


BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


Page  243 


LKecipes  QJrom  the    liorthern  cfar  ibast    lliission 

Submitted  by  Frances  P.  Andius 
Sushi 


Sushi  Meshi  (Rice  Mixture) 
4  c.  cooked  rice 
/4    c,  vinegar 
/4    c.  cane  sugar 


2  tsp,  Ajinomoto  (Accent) 
Vz    c.  dry  shrimp 
salt  to  taste 


Shrimp  should  be  soaked  in  vinegar,  sugar,  and  salt  overnight.  Cover  the  dish. 
Drain  shrimp  and  save  liquid.  Use  this  vinegar  liquid  to  pour  over  cooled  rice  and 
toss  lightly  so  rice  will  not  be  gummy.  This  rice  mixture,  when  placed  in  aburage 
(bean  cake)  cones,  is  dehcious  for  in-between  snacks,  for  picnics,  and  buffet  parties. 

For  Cones:  12  aburage,  cut  in  two 


Filling: 

2  medium-sized  carrots,  chopped 
10  string  beans,  chopped 
salt  to  taste 
few  dry  shrimps 
1  tbsp.  cane  sugar 


1  /4    c.  water 
}4    tsp.  Ajinomoto  (Accent) 

small  shavings  from  12  aburage  (fried 
pressed  bean  cakes)  when  cut  into 
two  for  cones 


Chop  carrots  and  beans  in  long,  fine  strips,  add  1  c.  water  and  boil  for  five 
minutes.  Boil  shavings  of  aburage  for  ten  minutes  in  %  c.  water.  Add  sugar  and  salt. 
Cook  a  little  longer.  Drain  and  cool.  Bring  chopped  shrimp  to  a  boil  and  in  the 
water  drained  from  aburage  shavings  cook  slowly  several  minutes.  Add  seasoning  and 
aburage  shavings.  Drain  and  mix  vegetables  with  rice,  and  scoop  into  the  cones  made 
from  12  aburage  cut  in  two,  making  24  filled  cones. 

Cucumber  Sumiso 
2  medium-sized  cucumbers 

Peel  the  cucumbers,  remove  seeds,  and  cut  in  halves  lengthwise. 

Sumiso  Sauce 


3  tbsp. 

miso  (soy  bean 

paste) 

(optional) 

/4    tsp.  Ajinomoto  (Accent) 

3  tbsp 

vinegar 

1  tbsp. 

clam  juice 

tbsp.  cane  sugar 

tbsp.  sesame  seeds  or 

tbsp.  roasted  peanuts  ground 

tbsp.  green  onion  chopped 

can  hokkigai  (boiled  clams)  sliced 


For  making  the  sumiso,  combine  miso  (if  desired),  Ajinomoto,  vinegar,  and  clam 
juice.  Add  the  chopped  green  onion.,  sliced  clams,  and  ground  peanuts  or  sesame 
seeds.     Chill      Just  before  serving,  add  the  chilled  sumiso  (sauce)   to  the  cucumbers. 

Meat  or  Fowl  With  Eggplant 

Cut  up  pork,  beef,  or  fowl,  01  use  hamburger,  and  cook  with  little  water  and 
soy  sauce.  Cut  up  eggplant  with  the  skin  on  and  cook  with  the  meat  until  tender. 
Add  a  little  sugar  if  desired. 


SUKIYAKI 


2 
lYz 


lbs  tenderloin  beef  or  chicken 
c.  shoyu  (soy  sauce) 


fat  or  oil  for  frying 
Yi   c.  sugar  or  sweeten  to  taste 

Page  244 


2  bunches  green  onions 

1  can  Japanese  bamboo  shoots 

1  c.  mushrooms 


RECIPES  FROM  THE  NORTHERN  FAR  EAST  MISSION  245 

Slice  beef  thin  or  cut  chicken  into  small  pieces.  Slice  bamboo  shoots  and  mush- 
rooms. Cut  green  onions  into  one-inch  pieces.  This  includes  the  tops.  Heat  the  pan 
and  put  in  some  beef  or  chicken  fat.  When  melted,  put  in  enough  meat  to  fill  half 
of  the  pan.  Stir  with  fork  or  chopstick  to  keep  from  sticking.  Put  in  sugar  and 
six  tbsp.  shoyu  and  mix  well  with  meat.  When  it  begins  to  boil,  put  it  on  one  side 
of  the  pan  and  add  mushrooms,  bamboo  shoots,  and  onions.  Since  the  vegetables 
require  very  little  cooking,  do  not  put  in  too  much  at  a  time.  Cook  for  ten  minutes. 
More  meat,  vegetables,  sugar,  and  shoyu  should  be  added  from  time  to  time.  Do  not 
allow  the  sukiyaki  to  burn.  If  it  begins  to  dry  out,  add  a  little  water  and  additional 
sugar  and  shoyu. 

Sukiyaki  is  correctly  spelled  "tsukiyaki."  It  may  be  served  with  rice,  a  green 
salad,  and  a  pickled  vegetable. 

NiSHIME 

Vi   c.  dried  fish  (iriko)  or  pork  2  c.  water 

cut  fine  1  tsp.  vinegar 

1  gobo  (burdock  root)  3  tbsp.  cane  sugar 

1  carrot,  diced  2  tsp.  salt 

1  bunch  young  taro  or  dasheen  (long             Vi  c.  shoyu  (soy  sauce) 

white  radishes),  diced  1  tofu  (soy  bean  curd  cake) 

Soak  diced  gobo  in  2  c.  water  and  1  tsp.  vinegar  for  about  Vi  hour.  Drain  the 
gobo.  Dice  carrot  and  dasheen  or  taro  which  have  been  peeled.  Cut  tofu  into  four 
pieces  and  fry  in  deep  oil  and,  after  frying,  dice  also.  Put  diced  fish  (iriko)  or  meat 
in  pot  and  add  vegetables  in  order  listed,  add  seasonings  and  enough  water  to  cover 
the  mixture. 

There  is  a  name  for  stew  in  every  language.  In  Japanese  it  is  Nishime. 

Teriyaki  Hamburgers 

Teriyaki  Sauce: 

1  clove  garlic,  crushed 
Yz  c.  shoyu  (soy  sauce) 
Hamburgers: 

1  lb.  ground  beef 

1  egg 
%    c.  dry  bread  crumbs 

Combine  all  ingredients  for  sauce.  Combine  ingredients  for  the  hamburgers  and 
meat  around  wooden  skewers.  Soak  patties  in  sauce  for  one  hour.  Place  on  a  cold 
broiler  grill,  heat  grill,  and  broil  for  about  five  minutes  on  each  side. 

Shrimp  Tempura 
(Shrimps  Fried  in  a  Batter) 

1  lb.  fresh  shrimps  (18-20) 

Wash  and  shell  shrimps  leaving  the  tails.  Split  shrimps  down  the  center  of  the 
back  and  open  flat.  Remove  black  intestinal  vein.  Place  shrimps,  cut  side  down, 
on  board  and  score  to  prevent  curling. 

Batter:  K  tsp.  Ajinomoto  (Accent) 

Yz   c.  flour  1  egg 

Yz   c.  cornstarch  J4  c.  water 

Ys   tsp.  salt  cooking  oil  or  fat 


% 

c.  onion 

1 

tsp. 

ginger,  grated 

3 

tbsp 

.  cane  sugar 

Yz 

tsp. 

salt 

Ys 

tsp. 

pepper 

2 

tbsp 

.  Teriyaki  sauce 

pinch  of  Ajinomoto 

(Accent) 

246  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— APRIL  1957 

Sift  dry  ingredients  together.  Beat  egg  and  add  water.  Add  to  dry  ingredients  and 
mix  well.  For  thin  batter,  remove  Vi  c.  of  the  batter  and  add  2  tbsp.  water.  The 
remaining  portion  is  the  thick  dipping  batter  for  the  shrimps.  Heat  oil  or  fat  in 
frying  pan  to  375°  F.  Dip  fingers  in  the  thin  batter  and  sprinkle  over  fat.  Repeat 
several  times.  Then  dip  shrimp  in  thick  dipping  batter  and  fry  until  golden  brown. 
Drain  on  paper  towel  and  serve  immediately  with  tempura  sauce.  ....     - 

Tempura  Sauce 

2  c.  water  Vi  tsp.  sugar 

Vi    c.  bonito  flakes  Ve,  tsp.  Ajinimoto  (Accent) 

(dried  fish  flakes)  Vi  c.  grated  turnip 

2  tbsp.  shoyu  (soy  sauce)  1  tbsp.  chopped  green  onion 
Vi   tsp.  salt 

Boil  bonito  in  water  three  minutes.  Strain.  Add  seasonings  (except  turnips  and 
green  onion)   and  bring  to  boil.     Cool.     Before  serving,  add  turnip  and  green  onion. 


CJight  L^ancer   viyith  LKesearch,  (bducation,  and  Service 

Walter  /.  Kohhi 

National  Campaign  Chairman 

American  Cancer  Society 

npHE  American  Cancer  Society  is  sending  forth  its  annual  call  for  con- 
tributions to  fight,  on  an  ever-broadening  front,  the  scourge  of  cancer 
which  takes  so  many  lives.  April,  proclaimed  by  the  President  as  Cancer 
Control  Month,  sees  the  launching  of  the  Society's  Crusade  to  raise 
$30,000,000.  Ever  since  1945  the  American  Cancer  Society  has  appealed 
to  the  American  people  for  the  necessary  funds  to  carry  on  its  program  of 
research,  education,  and  service.  Its  accomplishments  are  ever  more  heart- 
ening, but  much  remains  to  be  done.  .  .  . 

The  American  Cancer  Society  is  doing  its  share  in  educating  the  pub- 
lic and  the  medical  profession  and  in  giving  service  where  needed  to 
cancer  patients.  It  has  underway  a  country-wide  program  of  research 
which  supports  more  than  1,000  top-flight  scientists  in  more  than  100 
hospitals,  universities,  and  laboratories,  scientists  who  are  seeking  a  final 
cure  or  preventive  for  this  dread  disease. 

The  response  to  the  April  Crusade  of  the  American  Cancer  Society 
will  determine  the  extent  and  impact  of  the  Society's  educational  drive, 
its  service  in  the  community  which  brings  aid  and  comfort,  and  its  research 
program  which  scientists  now  believe  will  bring  the  ultimate  victory  in 
our  lifetime. 

Help  to  hold  up  the  Sword  of  Hope  which  is  the  Society's  symbol! 
Give  generously! 


■fM^:^'^ A'"'^''', ''  T':»{^"V'W'T'W'^?'%'^'^f^^'^<''"v'''^^^^i''^''',  V'^'^?'?5'T5^f';'^^'''?5°f^^'^^*^^?*15^^ 


Josef  Muench 


ATHABASKA  RIVER  AND  MOUNT  CHRISTIE,  CANADA 


^xn  ibaster  cJ nought 

Delh  Adams  Leitner 

Christ  did  not  need  the  stone  released; 

It  did  not  bar  his  way. 
It  was  removed  that  those  who  came 

Might  see  he  did  not  stay. 

The  opened  tomb,  the  grave  clothes  there, 
The  angels  with  their  word 

Gave  to  the  bowed,  grief-stricken  ones 
Proof  of  their  risen  Lord. 

Material  barriers  are  as  nought 

To  him,  but  still  he  needs 
An  opened  way  to  human  hearts 

And  lovingly  he  pleads 

That  stones  of  doubt  be  cast  aside 
So  he  may  enter  and  abide. 


Page  247 


The  Value  of  Poetry 


Elaine  C.  Southwick 


POETRY  is  an  indigenous 
expression  of  all  peoples  at 
all  stages  of  life,  and  is,  per- 
haps, the  most  ancient  and  persist- 
ent of  the  arts. 

Man,  in  a  primitive  state,  ex- 
pressed himself  in  rhythmical  chant- 
ing in  order  to  command  attention 
because  he  wanted  his  friends  to 
know  and  remember  the  things  he 
saw  and  did  and  felt.  The  desire  to 
make  another  respond  to  beauty, 
bravery,  sorrow,  or  any  emotional 
impression  led  man  to  intensify  the 
relating  of  his  experiences  with 
repetition  and  metrical  chanting. 
The  famous  chants  were  treasured 
verbally  and  considered  sacred.  They 
are  our  heritage  of  primitive  poetry, 
translating  for  us  the  basic  emotions 
and  activities  of  a  long-buried  life. 

Poetiy  for  the 
Integration  of  Life 

Poetry  became  an  essential  part 
of  the  healthy  integration  and  men- 
ticulture  of  life.  Nationalities  have 
theii  epic  poems  depicting  the 
struggle  to  emerge  from  scattered 
oblivion  into  a  module  of  im- 
portance. Poems  have  also  played 
an  eminent  part  in  the  lives  of  in- 
dividuals making  history.  Biogra- 
pheis  point  out  that  as  Alexander 
the  Great  strove  to  conquer  the 
world,  he  carried  Homer's  JJiad 
about  with  him  in  a  gold  casket; 
that  the  great  British  general, 
James  Wolfe,  told  his  council,  on 
the  eve  of  victory,  that  he  would 
rather  have  written  Gray's  Elegy 
than  capture  Quebec.  Field  Mar- 
Page  248 


shall  Viscount  Wavell  said  of 
Thompson's  Hound  of  Heaven:  ''It 
has  a  special  place  in  my  life  as  a 
charm  in  danger  or  trouble  ....  I 
have  used  the  magic  of  its  imagery 
in  many  times  of  stress  to  distract 
my  mind  from  peril  or  disaster." 

Poetry  has  been  many  things  to 
many  people,  but  from  the  chanting 
figure  in  the  thermal  glow  of  the 
campfire  undulating  to  the  rhythm 
of: 

The  corn  grows  by  the  red  rock — 
Beautifully  it  grows  .... 

to  these  lyrical  lines  of  a  later  day: 

Beautiful  for  spacious  skies, 
For  amber  waves  of  grain  .... 

the  poet's  intent  has  been  identical. 
He  has  tried  to  tell  something  in 
pictures— symbols  that  would  stir 
the  imagination  and  leave  a  ''magic 
pattern  on  the  mind."  A  modern 
critic  says,  "At  its  highest  moments, 
poetry  is  identified  with  the  central 
meaning  of  all  religion  and  sees  one 
principle  behind  all  creation  .  .  .  ." 

But  for  no  two  people  will  poetry 
mean  quite  the  same  thing,  because 
each  must  interpret  it  according  to 
his  own  experiences  and  tastes.  "Ac- 
cording to  our  ages,"  says  Ralph 
Henry,  "we  will  dust  it  with  nos- 
talgic memory  or  the  joys  of  discov- 
ery. 

Poetry  for  Children 

Of  what  value  is  poetry  to  a  child? 

Poetry  is  the  reflection  of  child- 
hood.     It   jumps   and   skips,   soars 


THE  VALUE  OF  POETRY 


249 


and  flies,  laughs  and  grieves,  discov- 
ers and  treasures.  It  can  move  as 
heavily  as  an  armored  truck,  or  sway 
as  deeply  as  wind-pushed  trees;  it 
can  creep  like  gooseflesh,  or  trip  as 
lightfootedly  as  sparrows.  It  is  the 
seriousness,  the  impulsiveness,  the 
fleeting  desire,  and  the  intense 
tragedy  of  childhood. 

Every  child  loves,  responds  to, 
and  remembers  some  poetry  taught 
to  him  because  it  helps  to  interpret 
for  him  his  own  experiences  and 
reveals  to  him  the  hidden  beauty  of 
his  world.  Even  when  one  leaves 
the  fields  of  childhood,  the  response 
to  once  impressionable  verse  remains 
spontaneous  and  recapturable.  Feel 
your  arm  circle  involuntary  to: 

Hickory,  dickory,  dock, 

The  mouse  ran  up  the  clock. 

or  experience  again  the  delightful 
shiver  that  accompanies: 

Hark,  hark,  the  dogs  do  bark. 

The  beggars  are  coming  to  town  .... 

Envision  once  more  the  field  of 
clover  wherein  browses: 

The  gentle  cow  all  red  and  white 

I  love  with  all  my  heart. 

She  gives  me  cream   with   all   her   might 

To  eat  on  apple  tart. 

Become  newly  conscious  of  the 
injustice  of  ingratitude  by: 

Blow,  blow,  thou  winter   wind! 
Thou  are  not  so  unkind 
As  man's  ingratitude. 

Do  you  not  still  remember  the 
curiously  magical  effect  of: 

The  splendor  falls  on  castle  walls 

And  snowy  summits  old  in  story. 

The  long  light  shakes  across  the  lakes, 

And  the  wild  cataract  leaps  in  glory  .... 


By  becoming  acquainted  with 
poetry  in  childhood,  one  becomes 
more  perceptive  to  the  beauty 
around  him,  and  sees  the  world  as 
different  and  more  enchanting.  It 
highlights  the  loveliness  of  a  com- 
mon day  from  the  moment  when 
the  cock  is  crowing  and  morning's 
at  seven  to  the  hour  when  the  ten- 
der grace  of  a  day  is  dead,  for  the 
child  knows: 

The  night  will  never  stay; 
The  night  will  still  go  by. 
Though  with  a  million  stars 
You  pin  it  to  the  sky. 

Poetry  creates  in  a  child  a  sensi- 
tiveness to  nuances  in  words,  there- 
by increasing  his  vocabulary. 

The  reading  of  great  poetry  to 
children  offers  excursions  into  the 
best  of  life. 

Poetry  iox  the  Middle  Years 

What  can  poetry  lay  against  the 
roots  of  those  in  ''harsh  middle 
life'7  No  age  can  escape  from 
poetry,  and  men  and  women  intent 
upon  the  exigencies  of  everyday 
living  need  its  quick  power  to  in- 
tensify little  moments  of  beauty  or 
remembrance,  to  make  life  more 
vivid  and  colorful,  and  to  drama- 
tize an  event  or  explode  an  emo- 
tion. But,  apart  from  the  fact  that 
the  reading  and  enjoyment  of  poetry 
highlight  cherished  moments  in  the 
drab  routine  of  life,  it  lures  one's 
mind  from  the  commonplace  and 
points  it  to  life  and  beauty. 

Every  time  a  poem  is  read  with 
understanding,  the  reader  becomes 
the  poet  and  identifies  himself  with 
a  like  experience.  Those  who  have 
the  capacity  to  get  a  great  deal  out 
of  poetry  usually  are  the  ones  who 
get  a  great  deal  out  of  life. 


250  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— APRIL  1957 

We  are  not,  in  many  communi-  objective.    The  memorizing  of  the 
ties,  utilizing  the  persuasive  power  hues  and  thought  will  come  as  sec- 
of  poetry  as  we  might.  For  example,  ond  nature,  if  people  expose  them- 
in  one  small  town  with  one  public  selves  to  poetry  in  the  right  way. 
library,  of  the  forty-two  poetry  an- 
thologies   and    collections    in    the  -^^^^^  ^nd  Old  Age 
Public  Library,  only  six  have  been  ^s  we  advance  toward  mellow  old 
taken  out  the  past  year.  ^g^^  our  experience  with  recognized 

Poetry  not  only  stirs  one  spiritual-  P^^try  is  very  rewarding.    We  rein- 

ly,  but  it  moves  one  to  action.    Ex-  t^rpret  it  in  the  light  of  accumulat- 

perience  the  ethical  pull  of  the  fol-  ^^  years  of  experience  and  wisdom, 

lowing  lines:  ^^  ^^^  repertoire  of  good  poetry  is 

small,  our  enjoyment  will  be  limited 

Thou  must  be  true  thyself  by  its  narrowness;  if  our  exposure  to 

If  thou  the  truth  would  teach  ....  its  charm  has  been  great,  our  en- 

Horatius  Bonar  joyment  will  be  intensified  and  in- 

^     ,,     ,,       ,,               .,,       1      J    J  creased.    As  I  read  to  a  class  in  Re- 
Breathes  there  the  man,  with  soul  so  dead,  i-ro      •.      r           ,i              .t-      ti 
Who  never  to  himself  hath  said,  ^^^f  Society  from  the  great  English 
This  is  my  own,  my  native  land!  pocts,  I  see  a  memory  struggle  and 

— Scott  stir  behind  the  eyes  of  a  listener, 

_    _    .                      ^                   ^  and  when  a  familiar  voice  sings  out 

Build  Jhee  more  stately  mansions,  O  my  ^^^^  ^^^  ^^^^^^  ^^^  ^^^^  ^.^^^^  ^p 

As  the  swift  seasons  roll!  like  chrome  after  glass  wax,  and  the 

Leave  thy  low-vaulted  past  ....  head  nods  approval,  while  the  lips 

— Holmes  silently  rehearse  a  remembered 
phrase. 

Thoughts  like  the  foregoing  help  it  is  true  that  not  everyone  has 

souls   to   wonder   at   beauty,   hold  inherited  a  love  of  poetry  anymore 

reverence  for  life,   and  surge  with  than  everyone  has  acquired  at  birth 

tolerance  for  mankind.  an  oval  face  or  curly  hair  or  desir- 

If  poetry,  then,  is  so  important,  able  characteristics  of  temperament, 

why  isn't  it  read  more  avidly  by  a  but  even  as  these  qualities  can  be 

greater   majority  of  people?     Is  it  improved,  so  can  we  diminish  the 

because    the    memorizing    of    it    is  deficiency    of    an    insensitive    ear. 

tedious  as  learned  in  our  schools?  More  constant  association  with  the 

It  has  been  suggested  that  many  of  cadence  of  poetry  read  by  oneself 

us  learned  too  late  what  might  have  or  someone  else,  will  condition  the 

brought   us    nearer    to    the    joy   of  ear  to  hear  and  translate  beauty  to 

poetry  if  we  had  learned  it  sooner,  the    mind   and   soul.     Poetry  was 

that  ''this  ability  to  analyze  and  dis-  meant  to  be  a  declamatory  art,  and 

sect  material  structures  according  to  most   of   us   will    find    a   common 

the  rules  of  teachers  and  critics  is  ground  of  enjoyment  in  vocalized 

of  small  importance  in  comparison  poetry.     It  has  been  said  that  no- 

with  the  ability  to  feel  a  beautiful  body  has  ever  really  read  a  poem 

rhythm  and  enjoy  a  fine  poem."  It  until  he  has  read  it  with  his  own 

is  the  day-by-day  pleasant  experience  voice  for  the  pleasure  of  his  own 

with  poetry  that  should  be  our  first  ears. 


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The  Lasting  Value  of  Poetry 

Once  one  succumbs  to  the  charm 
of  poetry,  it  offers  the  reader  valu- 
able vicarious  experiences.  Know 
that  through  its  power  one  can  walk 
in  the  moccasins  of  the  Indian  or 
parade  in  the  sandaled  feet  of  a 
queen;  explore  the  outposts  of  civil- 
ization or  crouch  in  the  chimney 
corner;  revel  with  the  rich  or  pauper- 
ize with  the  poor.  It  comes  with  an 
Aladdin's  lamp  to  transport  one 
anyplace,  anytime,  into  old  sijtua- 
tions  made  new  with  more  vivid 
colors  and  wider  dimensions.  Poetry 
helps  one  to  see  through,  as  well  as 
with  his  eyes,  even  as  did  William 
Blake  who,  when  asked  as  the  sun 
rose,  if  he  did  not  see  it  as  a  round 
disk  of  fire  somewhat  like  a  guinea, 
answered,  ''Oh,  no,  no,  I  see  an  in- 
numerable   company    of    heavenly 


hosts  crying,  'Holy,  Holy  is  the  Lord 
God  Almighty.'  " 

This  power  to  translate  life  into 
beauty,  truths,  sincerity,  and  noble- 
ness is  the  heritage  of  every  one  of 
God's  children.  It  has  been  said 
that  the  greatest  power  we  know  is 
the  power  of  speech,  ''but  they 
speak  to  small  purpose  nowadays  if 
they  never  use  the  bravest  and  most 
beautiful  human  speech,  which  is 
poetry." 

Poetry  is  both  the  earliest  expres- 
sion of  primitive  people,  and  the 
highest  expression  of  civilization. 
Its  greatest  value  is  still  to  reveal 
miracles  of  creation  and  to  ''spread 
the  contagion  of  beauty"  that  we, 
too,  might  (as  Blake): 

...  see  a  world  in  a  grain  of  sand, 
And  a  heaven  in  a  wild  flower; 
Hold  infinity  in  the  palm   of  your  hand^ 
And  eternity  in  an  hour. 


iHeeting  [Place 

Catheiine  E.  Berry 


I  have  come  back  to  our  meeting  place, 

(How  long  ago  it  seems!) 
To  see  if  I  can  find  a  trace 

Of  those  first  lovely  dreams. 
But  time  has  wrought  its  changes  here 

The  same  as  in  your  heart, 
The  love  we  found  that  yesteryear 

Has  left  no  tell-tale  part; 
Only  in  the  wind  that  blows 

With  hint  of  twilight  rain, 
Whispers  a  memory  that  knows 

This  was  a  magic  lane! 


Going  Modern 

Frances  C.  Yost 


NELL  Gordon  looked  up  from 
the  new  wall-to-wall  carpet, 
and  rested  her  eyes  on  the 
soft  tones  of  the  rose  drawn  drapes. 
Then  her  eyes  passed  appreciatively 
over  the  new  three-piece  sectional, 
which  filled  the  big  corner  opposite 
the  new  blonde  television  set.  Her 
eyes  were  pools  of  complete  satis- 
faction until  they  turned  to  the 
old  upright  piano  standing  tall  and 
ungainly  against  the  wall. 

'Tom,  that  old  piano  has  to  go,'' 
Nell  said  determinedly. 

"Go!"  If  Nell  had  said  to  go 
set  fire  to  the  new  barn,  Tom 
would  not  have  been  more  dumb- 
founded. 'The  piano  has  to  go 
where?" 

''Out/'  Nell  said  emphatically. 
"It's  obsolete.  It  ruins  the  modern 
effect  in  the  whole  living  room. 
Why,  look  at  the  scroll  on  the 
front  of  it!  They've  made  pianos 
plain  finished  for  at  least  twenty- 
five  years."  Nell  showed  her  dis- 
taste as  she  frowned  at  the  old 
piano. 

"But  we've  had  the  piano  for 
forty  years.  In  its  day,  our  piano 
was  the  finest  thing  in  woodcarv- 
ing."  Tom  spoke  defensively,  as  he 
would  of  a  friend  or  relative  who 
was  being  chastised. 

"In  its  day!"  Nell  spoke  up. 
"That's  exactly  what  I  mean.  Up- 
right pianos  were  the  thing  in  Wil- 
son's day,  and  need  I  point  out  it 
is  now  the  year  1957?  Why,  we're 
not  driving  around  in  a  surrey  just 
because  it  was  the  thing  to  do  when 
we  were  married.  Everything's  low 
slung    these    days,    cars,    furniture. 

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and  pianos.  This  high  upright 
spoils  the  effect  of  the  lowness  and 
beauty  of  the  whole  living  room. 
The  whole  house,  I  might  add." 

"What  do  you  plan  to  do,  Nell, 
give  it  to  one  of  the  married  chil- 
dren?" 

Nell  groaned.  "They  wouldn't 
appreciate  a  big  antique  in  their 
modern  apartments.  We'll  take  it 
to  Salt  Lake  City  and  trade  it  in  on 
a  new  spinet,"  Nell  explained  mat- 
ter-of-factly.  "Of  course,  we  can't 
expect  to  get  much  out  of  this 
old  piano,  but  it  might  take  the 
sting  off  the  price  of  a  new  one." 

"A  new  piano?"  Tom  looked 
puzzled.  "You've  said  a  number  of 
times,  Nell,  that  our  old  upright 
has  better  tone  than  some  of  these 
new  blonde  beauties." 

"True,  I  have  said  that  about  the 
tone,  but  I'm  not  playing  the  piano 
as  much  since  we  have  television, 
and  the  children  aren't  around  to 
practice.  It  isn't  the  tone  of  the 
piano  I'm  objecting  to,  it's  the  con- 
trast with  this  modern  furniture," 
Nell  went  on  to  say.  "I've  thought 
the  thing  through  completely,  Tom, 
before  I  ever  mentioned  the  subject 
to  you.  The  only  thing  to  do  is 
get  rid  of  the  old  piano." 

"Mother,  I  don't  mind  your  fixing 
up  the  house.  I  sort  of  like  the 
new  wall-to-wall  carpeting,  feels 
comfy  on  my  bare  toes.  And  this 
three-piece  sectional,  it's  pretty  and 
comfortable  to  lie  on.  And  the 
drapes,  I  like  them  the  way  they 
can  be  closed  when  the  lights  are 
bright.  But  the  piano!  We  started 
out  our  married  life  with  this  piano. 


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It's  like  trading  in  our  firstborn  for 
a  modern  1957  baby.  I  remember 
the  day  we  bought  the  piano  at  the 
auction  sale  as  if  it  were  yesterday." 


>!«     *     *     * 


lyrELL  and  Tom  had  been  married 
in  the  Logan  Temple,  and  the 
very  next  day,  quite  by  coincidence, 
the  furniture  in  the  old  Madsen 
house  was  being  sold  at  auction. 
Tom  had  saved  one  hundred  dollars 
to  buy  furniture.  If  they  were  care- 
ful, they  could  buy  the  essential 
things  to  start  housekeeping.  Nell 
and  Tom  had  come  early  to  spot 
the  furniture  they  wanted  so  they 
could  bid  on  it.  They  had  decided 
on  the  kitchen  range,  the  kitchen 
table  and  chairs,  and,  if  they  could 
spread  the  money  far  enough,  the 
entire  set  of  bedroom  furniture. 

'Tom,  we  don't  need  furniture 
for  the  whole  house  to  start  with. 
We  can  close  up  all  the  rooms  but 
the  kitchen  and  bedroom,"  Nell 
had  said  thriftily,  as  she  pushed  a 
wisp  of  wavy  blonde  hair  from  her 
brow. 

To  Tom,  his  eighteen-year-old 
bride  was  enchanting  and  beautiful. 
''Gee,  Nell,  that's  mighty  nice  of 
you,  to  be  so  thrifty  and  thought- 
ful. Of  course,  we'll  get  a  piano  for 
you  as  soon  as  we  can.  Let's  just 
walk  over  and  look  at  this  one." 

Nell  was  just  sort  of  tinkling  the 
keys  when  the  auctioneer  stood  on 
an  overturned  box  and  started  shout- 
ing above  the  din,  "How  much  am 
I  bid  for  this  beautiful  fancy  piano?" 

Nell,  a  little  embarrassed  at  being 
in  the  spotlight,  stepped  quickly 
back  from  the  piano. 

"What  am  I  bid  for  the  fancy 
piano?"  the  auctioneer  repeated. 

Nell  looked  about;  no  one  seemed 


even  vaguely  interested  in  the  piano. 
She  never  remembered  being  at  an 
auction  sale  before,  but  she  had 
heard  that  sometimes  things  went 
real  cheap  when  people  didn't  run 
the  bid  up.  Why,  if  a  person  could 
buy  a  piano  for,  say  fifty  dollars, 
that  would  still  leave  something  for 
necessary  furniture. 

"What  am  I  bid  for  the  fancy 
piano?"  the  auctioneer  shouted  a 
little  louder. 

"Forty-nine  dollars,"  Nell  spoke 
timidly. 

"The  lady  opens  the  bid  on  this 
fine  piano  at  the  too-low  price  of 
forty-nine  dollars,"  the  auctioneer 
almost  snickered.  A  laugh  swept 
through  the  crowd.  "Who  will 
offer  seventy-five  dollars?" 

"Seventy-five  dollars!"  A  man 
shouted  from  the  rear  of  the  crowd. 

Nell  looked  about  to  see  who  was 
bidding.  She  remembered  seeing 
the  man  talking  to  the  auctioneer 
before  the  auction  started.  Had  he 
been  planted  there  to  bid? 

"The  gentleman  bids  seventy-five 
dollars!  Who  will  offer  one  hun- 
dred for  this  fine  piano?" 

"Seventy-six  dollars,"  Nell  said 
timidly. 

"The  lady  offers  a  mere  pittance. 
Only  seventy-six  dollars,  the  lady 
offers." 

A  second  laugh  swept  the  crowd, 
which  was  followed  by  a  bid  of 
eighty-five  dollars  from  the  man  in 
the  rear. 

"The  gentleman  offers  eighty-five 
dollars.  Who  will  raise  it  to  one 
hundred?"  the  auctioneer  was  beg- 
ging. 

Nell  stole  a  side  glance  at  the 
black  kitchen  range.  A  person 
could  build  a  table,  and  boxes  could 


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be  covered  for  chairs.  Boxes  could 
be  used  to  hold  the  bed  springs, 
and  she  could  drape  the  bed  real 
pretty  with  a  skirt.  But  a  person 
had  to  have  a  stove  to  cook  on  and 
to  keep  warm.  Perhaps  the  old 
cook  stove  might  sell  for  as  low  as 
ten  or  eleven  dollars.  Nell's  eyes 
wandered  again  to  the  piano.  A 
piano  was  the  heart  of  a  home.  This 
piano  had  a  better  tone  than  the 
one  her  folks  had  paid  several  hun- 
dred dollars  for.  She  would  make 
all  kinds  of  sacrifices  if  she  could 
get  this  piano.  She  could  even  en- 
dure the  insinuations  from  the 
auctioneer  and  the  laughing  people. 

"Who  will  offer  one  hundred  dol- 
lars for  this  fine  piano?"  the  auction- 
eer repeated. 

''Eighty-nine  dollars/'  Nell  said. 

'The  lady  did  not  hear  me.  The 
lady  offers  only  eighty-nine  dollars/' 
the  auctioneer  said.  ''Who  will  top 
the  lady's  bid?" 

"Ninety  dollars!"  the  man  in  the 
rear  shouted. 

Nell  Gordon,  by  now,  did  not 
care  if  the  whole  crowd  laughed 
their  heads  off.  She  only  cared 
about  making  this  fine  piano  hers. 
She  turned  around  and  glared  at 
the  bidder  in  the  rear. 

"I  am  offered  ninety  dollars!  Who 
will  offer  one  hundred?"  the  auc- 
tioneer shouted. 

"Ninety-one  dollars  and  no 
more/'  Nell  spoke  determinedly. 
Then  she  turned  and  glared  at  her 
opponent. 

"Going  once!  Ninety-one  twice! 
Sold  to  the  lady  with  the  wavy 
blonde  hair  for  ninety-one  dollars!" 

Suddenly  Nell  Gordon  realized 
their  predicament.  She  and  Tom 
had  come  to  the  auction  to  buy 
necessary  furniture,  stove,  table,  cup- 


board, bed,  and  she  had  spent 
almost  all  of  Tom's  money  on  a 
piano.  It  would  take  the  remainder 
of  his  hundred  dollars  to  get  some- 
one to  haul  the  piano  home.  She 
turned  to  Tom  expecting  him  to 
chide  her.  Of  course,  he  could  say, 
"All  our  money  gone  for  a  piano, 
what  do  you  plan  to  sleep  on  and 
to  cook  on?"  But  Tom  didn't  say 
those  things. 

"Nell,  let's  get  out  of  here.  We'll 
need  to  hire  a  wagon  to  haul  our 
piano  home."  Tom  took  her  arm 
and  escorted  her  through  the  crowd 
as  if  she  were  a  queen. 

Now  Nell  remembered  the  old 
stove  Tom's  aunt  had  loaned  them. 
The  oven  door  was  gone,  and  Tom 
had  fashioned  one  out  of  tin.  It 
did  not  have  a  catch  but  was  held 
shut  with  a  stick  propped  against 
it.  Tom  had  built  most  of  their 
furniture.  But,  even  from  the  start, 
their  friends  had  liked  to  gather  at 
their  house  to  dance  or  sing  because 
they  had  the  luxury  of  a  piano.  Then 
when  the  children  came  along,  one 
by  one,  until  they  numbered  an 
even  dozen,  Nell  had  taught  each 
one  to  play  the  piano.  What  warm 
and  wonderful  memories  she  had 
of  the  family  gathered  around  the 
piano  singing! 


^   i'  ^  ^ 


N 


ELL  wiped  a  tear  with  her  apron, 
as  if  to  erase  that  memory. 
Then  she  said:  "Yes,  Tom,  we'll  go 
to  Salt  Lake  City  tomorrow  and 
make  the  trade." 

Tom  Gordon  had  learned  through 
the  years  not  to  argue  with  a  lady. 

"We  can  run  into  Salt  Lake  City 
tomorrow  if  you  wish  and  look  at 
new    pianos,"    Tom    said,    affably. 

"We'll  go  in  the  pick-up  and  take 


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the  old  piano  with  us/'  Nell  decided. 

"The  thing  weighs  close  to  a 
ton/'  Keith,  their  son,  stated,  as  he 
and  his  brother,  Emery,  helped  Tom 
load  the  piano  into  the  back  of  the 
pick-up,  and  waved  their  parents  on 
their  way. 

As  the  two  rattled  along  in  the 
pick-up,  Nell  glanced  sideways  at 
Tom.  He  was  a  tall,  lean  man,  and 
in  his  brown  tweed  jacket  and  flan- 
nel slacks,  he  had  the  appearance 
of  a  college  man.  Today  Nell 
could  not  study  his  eyes  or  read  his 
thoughts. 

''Look  back,  Nell,  and  make  sure 
the  piano's  okay,"  Tom  would  say 
occasionally.  ''We  don't  want  any- 
thing to  happen  to  the  piano." 

"We'd  probably  do  as  well  if  we 
rolled  it  in  the  Bear  River,  and  just 
bought  a  new  blonde  spinet  out- 
right," Nell  laughed. 

"All  I  can  say  for  you,  is,  you 
surely  have  gone  modern  all  of  a 
sudden."  Tom  spoke  defensively, 
and  then  silence  enveloped  them. 

As  they  rounded  the  point  of  the 
mountain,  their  eyes  picked  out  the 
temple  which  had  been  forty  years 
in  the  making,  then  Tom  broke  the 
silence. 

"Nell,  we're  nearly  there,  and 
I've  got  to  see  a  fellow  about  some 
machinery.  If  you'd  like  to  do  some 
of  your  shopping,  I  could  come  for 
you  in  about  a  half  hour." 

"That's  fine.  I  did  want  to  get 
some  material  to  line  a  quilt  for 
the  next  Relief  Society  work  meet- 
ing. I'll  meet  you  here  by  the 
Brigham  Young  Monument  corner 
in  a  half  hour,"  Nell  said,  as  she 
alighted  from  the  truck. 

She  admitted  to  herself,  it  was  a 
little  embarrassing  coming  to  town 


in  a  truck,  especially  with  a  big  old 
piano  tied  up  in  patchwork  quilts 
in  the  back.  Who  would  people 
think  they  were? 

Promptness  was  one  of  Tom's 
virtues,  and  in  half  an  hour  he 
drove  up  in  the  pick-up  and  Nell 
climbed  in  before  the  light  turned 
green. 

"We  might  as  well  start  at  this 
piano  store,  and  see  what  they  have 
in  the  line  of  new  low  blondes," 
Tom  said  almost  mischievously. 

AS  they  entered  the  store,  Nell 
found  herself  in  the  center  of  a 
dozen  or  more  new  pianos.  Each  of 
them  was  different,  yet  pleasingly 
low  and  beautiful.  Nell  fancied 
each  of  them,  in  turn,  in  her  lovely 
redecorated  living  room.  Yes,  she 
thought,  any  one  would  look  lovely. 
After  forty  years,  she  and  Tom  had 
come  to  the  financial  position  where 
they  could  pay  cash  for  most  any- 
thing they  desired.  All  she  had  to 
do  was  make  her  selection  and  any 
one  of  the  beautiful  new  pianos 
could  be  hers,  and  by  night,  they 
would  have  it  in  their  living  room 
with  the  other  modern  things.  But 
they  might  as  well  find  out  first, 
what  the  dealer  would  offer  them  as 
a  trade-in. 

"Would  you  look  at  our  old 
piano,  before  we  decide  on  a  new 
one?"  Nell  asked. 

"I'd  be  glad  to  make  you  an  of- 
fer," the  dealer  said. 

The  three  walked  to  the  curb 
where  the  truck  stood,  and  the 
dealer  jumped  up  on  the  back  of 
the  truck,  and  removing  the  two 
quilts  Tom  and  the  boys  had  care- 
fully covered  over  the  piano,  he  sat 
down  and  started  playing. 

"How  much  do  you  offer?"  Nell 


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asked,  but  the  dealer  seemed  en- 
grossed in  Schubert's  ''Moonhght 
Sonata."  It  was  as  if  he  had  for- 
gotten his  business  entirely  as  he 
shifted  to  "Largo/'  and  followed 
that  with  several  Strauss  waltzes. 

Nell  nodded  at  Tom  to  ask  him 
to  hurry  the  dealer.  It  was  a  long 
way  home,  and  they  should  start 
right  away,  if  they  were  to  get  the 
new  piano  unloaded  before  dark. 
But  Tom,  like  the  dealer,  seemed  to 
be  deep  in  the  heart  of  the  music 
and  did  not  seem  to  hear  Nell's 
urgent  whispers. 

Nell  turned  slightly  and  noticed 
that  a  crowd  had  gathered  to  listen 
to  the  music  on  the  piano.  She  bit 
her  lip  and  murmured,  ''I  bought 
this  old  upright  forty  years  ago  at 
an  auction  sale,  looks  like  it's  up 
to  me  to  dispose  of  it."  She  walked 
over  close  to  the  dealer  and  shouted 
up  at  him,  ''How  much  will  you  give 
us  on  a  new  piano?" 

The  dealer  stopped  short,  leav- 
ing the  ''Blue  Danube"  in  mid-air. 

"Mrs.  Gordon,  I'll  make  you  a 
trade  straight  across.  You  can  have 
any  of  the  smaller  pianos  in  the 
store  for  this  one." 

"What?"  Surely  Nell  had  heard 
the  man  incorrectly.  Had  he  said 
a  deal  straight  across?  Nell  Gordon's 
puzzled  face  asked  why. 

"Well,  Mrs.  Gordon,  call  me  an 
antique  collector  if  you  wish,  but  I 
collect  these  rare  old  pianos.  Take 
your  choice  of  any  of  the  smaller 
pianos,"  the  dealer  repeated. 

Nell  turned  then  toward  the  pi- 
anos placed  in  the  circle  near  the 
front  of  the  music  store.  They 
were  beautiful,  and  they  would  fit 
in  nicely  with  her  new,  modern  liv- 


ing room,  but  she  turned  again  to 
the  old  upright  standing  forlornly 
in  the  back  of  the  truck.  It  sort  of 
seemed  like  a  child  which  had  been 
driven  from  its  home  for  no  other 
reason  than  that  it  had  grown  up, 
and  wasn't  cute  anymore. 

Nell  walked  out  of  the  store  to 
where  Tom  and  the  dealer  were 
making  arrangements  for  the  trade. 

She  heard  the  dealer  say:  "You 
can  unload  the  piano  at  my  place, 
and  come  around  and  pick  up  the 
lady's  choice.  I  know  this  piano's 
heavy,  I'll  send  a  couple  of  fellows 
with  you  to  unload  it."  He  turned 
and  shouted  into  the  store,  "Mike 
and  Slim,  can  you  come  here  a 
minute?" 

'M'ELL  glanced  at  Tom.  It  was 
like  Tom  to  wait  quietly  and 
let  her  pick  out  the  piano  she 
wanted.  But  if  the  dealer  wanted 
their  piano  so  much,  he  was  willing 
to  trade  straight  across,  she  had  a 
notion  to  keep  it  herself.  The  men 
were  coming  to  help  unload  their 
old  upright,  she  had  to  decide 
quickly,  or  it  would  be  too  late. 

"I  guess  I've  changed  my  mind 
about  trading  pianos,"  Nell  said. 
Then  by  way  of  explanation  she 
added,  "It  would  be  sort  of  like 
trading  our  firstborn  for  a  1957  baby. 
I  realize  I'm  probably  throwing  over 
a.  fine  offer,  but,  well,  I  might  as 
well  admit  it,  there  are  a  lot  of 
memories  stored  in  the  strings  of 
this  old  upright." 

Nell  Gordon  turned  to  Tom  and 
said,  "Let's  go." 

Then  it  was,  his  face  shone  with 
happiness.  Nimble  as  a  college  boy, 
Tom  jumped  on  the  back  of  the 
pickup  and  wrapped  the  quilts  lov- 


GOING  MODERN 


257 


ingly  around  the  piano  again  and 
tied  it  securely. 

As  they  jogged  along  in  the  front 
of  the  pick-up,  Tom  kept  asking: 
''How's  she  riding?''  And  Nell 
would  glance  back  with  the  same 
concern  with  which  she  had 
watched  the  piano  being  hauled  by 
team  and  wagon  to  their  home 
forty  years  ago. 

Nell  decided  on  the  long  ride 
home  that  she  would  play  lots  of 
good  music  on  the  old  piano  yet, 
her  children  and 
The     trouble 


and    so    would 

grandchildren. 

probably  that  they  had  watched  tel- 


was 


evision  too  much  lately  and  hadn't 
had  enough  family  song-fests. 

Nell  turned  to  Tom  and  spoke 
softly,  'Tom,  now  that  we  have 
the  house  remodeled,  what  do  you 
say  we  have  the  children  all  in  for 
an  evening?  After  dinner  we  could 
gather  around  the  piano  and  sing 
like  we  used  to." 

"I  think  it's  a  good  idea.  I've  let 
my  tenor  get  sort  of  rusty  lately 
watching  the  television  shows." 
Tom  patted  her  hand  softly. 

Nell  squeezed  his  hand  in  return 
and  said,  "And  Tom,  Fm  glad  I 
didn't  go  too  modern." 


■  ♦ 


cJhe  cJhree    vi/ise    vl/omen 

Fiediika  Clinch 


I 


asked  three  women  to  write  their  greatest  joy. 

The  first  woman  replied: 

"I  have  many  joys,  but  my  greatest  joy  is  getting  along  with  people. 


of  living  and  learning  to  get  along  with  people, 
toward  all. 


It  takes  lots 
I  fill  my  mind  with  love  and  good  will 


'The  happiest  people  are  those  who  share  joy  and  sorrow  of  others.  Alertness  to 
the  needs  of  others  leaves  no  room  for  mental  disorder  through  self-pity.  When  a 
woman  begins  to  pity  herself  she  loses  power  and  initiative.  She  is  on  the  road  of 
failure." 

The  second  woman  wrote: 

"One  of  my  greatest  joys  is  keeping  my  mind  and  hands  busy.  There  is  no  reason 
why  age  should  put  me  in  the  rocking  chair  to  dream  about  the  past.  Why  should  I 
let  my  trained  brain  and  fingers  rust  away  in  idleness?  Idleness  breeds  discontent,  un- 
happiness,  and  is  bad  for  the  health.  Work  occupies  the  mind.  The  busy  mind  is 
the  healthy  mind.  There  is  no  need  to  sit  idle;  no  one  gets  to  the  point  where  she 
can't  learn  more." 

The  third  one  expressed  herself: 

"One  of  my  greatest  enjoyments  is  to  greet  a  new  day.  One  by  one  the  stars  dis- 
appear. From  the  horizon  comes  a  shaft  of  hght.  I  see  the  highest  mountains  catch 
the  first  beams  of  the  morning  sun,  while  the  valley  below  is  still  submerged  in  shadow. 
I  drink  the  glory  of  the  unfolding  day  as  the  mounting  sun  reveals  new  charm  and 
fresh  beauty.  I  paid  nothing  for  this  new  day  that  is  unfolding  before  me.  It  is  given 
to  me  as  a  gift,  one  of  God's  greatest  gifts,  because  with  it  are  all  the  wonders  of  his 
creation.  I  have  learned  to  appreciate  the  beauty  of  the  present  and  to  have  faith  in 
the  future." 


Jrt    /lew  kluiit  for  an   (^id  uiome 

Jane  T.  Mattice 
President,  Pima  Ward  Relief  Society,  St.  Joseph  Stake  (Arizona) 

IN  the  summer  of  1955,  my  husband  and  I  were  taking  a  vacation, 
motoring  through  the  eastern  part  of  the  United  States.    We  made  a 

point  of  visiting  the  many  places  of  interest  in  Church  history. 

One  day,  about  noon,  we  stopped  at  the  Joseph  Smith  Farm  and  were 
very  graciously  welcomed  by  Sister  Nellie  Hathaway,  who,  with  her  hus- 
band, were  missionary  guides  at  the  farm.  After  visiting  a  few  minutes, 
she  learned  we  were  Church  members  and  asked  if  we  wanted  her  to  tell 
the  story  of  the  Prophet  and  the  incidents  that  happened  at  the  farm  and 
in  the  Sacred  Grove  near  by.  Of  course  we  wanted  to  hear  the  story,  as 
told  by  our  missionaries  to  the  thousands  of  visitors  who  stop  at  this  his- 
toric place  each  year. 

As  we  talked,  I  told  her  I  was  Relief  Society  president  in  the  Pima 
Ward  in  Arizona.  She  immediately  asked  if  we  would  like  to  make  a  quilt 
for  the  Peter  Whitmer  Home.  At  this  time  the  home  was  being  re- 
stored. I  felt  sure  our  sisters  would  be  pleased  to  have  an  opportunity  to 
help  in  this  restoration,  so  I  told  Sister  Hathaway  I  would  ask  the  sisters 
and  let  her  know. 

When  I  returned  home  and  told  the  Relief  Society  members  of  the 
opportunity  offered  us  to  help,  they  were  delighted. 

We  wondered  about  the  pattern  and  the  colors  to  use.  We  needed 
an  old  pattern,  and  one  well  known  in  1830.  For  assistance  we  turned 
to  our  older  sisters.  We  have  many  of  these  lovely  ladies  who  are  in  their 
seventies  and  eighties.  They  are  experienced  quilt  makers  and  wonderful 
quilters.  They  discussed  it  among  themselves  and  decided  we  should 
make  'The  Double  Irish  Chain"  in  red  and  white.  Several  remembered 
that  their  mothers  and  grandmothers  had  such  a  quilt.  So  we  quickly 
accepted  their  suggestion. 

We  wanted  this  quilt  as  near  perfect  as  we  could  make  it.  The  little 
blocks  were  two  inches  square,  and  we  pulled  threads  for  all  of  them,  to 
make  sure  they  were  true  squares.  The  beautiful  finished  quilt  was  reward 
enough  for  our  efforts.    It  was  68"  x  100"  when  finished. 

Our  members  all  helped,  even  some  who  did  not  attend  regularly 
came  to  offer  assistance  and  add  a  few  stitches.  A  few  MIA  girls  asked 
to  help,  and  some  of  our  sisters  from  the  Pima  Second  Ward  came  to  help. 
These  sisters  had  been  members  of  our  Society  until  our  ward  was  divided. 
One  dear  old  lady  who  is  ninety-seven  years  old  came  to  add  her  bit,  and 
another  sister,  who  is  too  blind  to  quilt,  came  and  threaded  needles  for  the 
others.  She  has  learned  to  use  a  needle  threader  and  is  a  great  help  on 
work  day. 

It  was  wonderful  to  see  the  interest  these  sisters,  old  and  young,  were 
taking  in  our  project.     To  them  this  wasn't  just  another  quilt.     It  was 

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A  NEW  QUILT  FOR  AN  OLD  HOME 


259 


Mrs.  Walter  H.  Moss 

QUILT  IN  THE  UPSTAIRS  BEDROOM,  PETER  WHITMER  HOME 


very  very  special.  Their  conversation  as  they  worked  often  went  hke  this, 
'1  never  dreamed  I  would  have  the  opportunity  to  help  in  such  a  wonder- 
ful undertaking.  I  may  never  see  the  Peter  Whitmer  home,  but  I  am  so 
glad  to  have  a  part  in  its  restoration." 

On  one  corner  of  the  lining  we  embroidered  ''Made  and  presented  by 
the  Pima  Ward  Relief  Society,  St.  Joseph  Stake,  Arizona,  September  1955." 

When  it  was  finished  we  displayed  it  in  the  foyer  of  the  chapel  one 
Sunday.  The  enthusiasm  of  our  members  had  been  contagious,  and  all 
the  ward  wanted  to  see  this  much-talked-about  quilt  before  it  was  sent  on 
its  way.  Our  husbands  and  children  were  just  as  proud  of  the  finished 
product  as  were  we.    Soon  the  quilt  was  sent  back  East  to  its  home. 

Sister  Hathaway  was  pleased  and  very  liberal  in  her  praise  and  thanks 
for  our  efforts.  She  took  it  to  Sister  Moss,  who,  with  her  husband,  Brother 
Walter  H.  Moss,  were  missionary  guides  at  the  Peter  Whitmer  Home.  Sis- 
ter Moss  wrote  to  express  her  thanks  and  appreciation  for  the  work  of  our 
Rehef  Society  sisters.  She  sent  the  picture  showing  ''Our  Quilt"  in  the 
upstairs  bedroom. 

Relief  Society  and  Relief  Society  women  are  wonderful.  If  there  is 
some  worthy  work  to  be  done,  our  sisters  are  always  willing  and  anxious 
to  be  of  assistance. 


Two  of  a  Kind 


Maude  Rubin 


SALLY  Harding  was  struggling 
with  her  damp  hair,  trying  to 
put  it  up  in  pin-curls.  It  was 
just  wavy  enough  to  be  stubborn. 

In  the  mirror  she  could  see 
Mother  Harding,  Jim's  mother, 
watching  her  with  polite  interest. 
But  without  offering  to  help.  Im- 
maculate as  always,  in  a  smart  blue 
suit  and  small  blue  hat,  Mother 
Harding  had  stopped  in  to  wait  for 
the  bus,  saying,  ''I  thought  Fd  go 
into  the  city  for  lunch  and  the 
style  show  at  Simmons'.  It's  such 
a  lovely  day!" 

Mother  Harding  might  have 
been  a  fashion  model  herself,  Sally 
thought  wistfully  as  she  looked  at 
her— ''What  the  Mature  Woman 
Will  Wear."  So  slim  and  straight, 
hair  smoothly  waved,  every  detail 
perfect.  Definitely  ungrandmother- 
ly.  .  .  .  It  was  a  disappointment,  a 
hurt  that  Sally  had  not  been  able 
to  overcome.  She  glared  at  her 
own  wet  brown  locks  and  jabbed 
the  last  pin  in  viciously,  so  that  it 
pricked  her  scalp. 

'*It  never  looks  right,  somehow. 
Especially  the  back  curls.  No  mat- 
ter how  hard  I  try!" 

"I  was  never  very  good  at  fixing 
hair,  either,  Sally.  But  Muriel  used 
to  be  very  clever  with  it.  She  did 
mine  while  she  was  at  home.  And 
she  decided  that  I  should  always 
wear  it  this  way."  She  touched  the 
smooth  gray  waves.  "It  is  more  be- 
coming, I  guess.  But  sometimes 
Fd  like  to  try  some  other  style.  .  .  ." 

Muriel  was  Jim's  sister.  Thirtyish, 
a  reporter  on  a  New  York  daily, 
capable  of  managing  the  entire  city 

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if  she  had  to,  Sally  thought.  Muriel 
had  come  to  see  them  last  fall,  just 
between  planes.  But  while  she  was 
there,  she  had  arranged  her  moth- 
er's furniture  in  the  small  cottage 
at  the  end  of  the  garden;  had  out- 
lined the  winter's  activities  for  her 
mother,  making  numerous  lists  and 
schedules,  marking  the  calendar 
with  blue  pencil.  She  designed  the 
new  rose  garden  for  Jim  and  Sally, 
decided  on  the  exact  shade  of  wall- 
paper for  their  living  room.  'The 
only  possible  color  for  this  room!" 
It  was  right,  too,  perfect.  Sally  ad- 
mired her  efficiency  and  was  more 
than  a  little  afraid  of  her. 

Now  Mother  Harding  reached 
down  and  brushed  a  tiny  speck  of 
lint  from  her  skirt.  "Never  mind, 
Sally.  Your  hair  will  look  nice- 
it  always  does.  And  when  the  chil- 
dren are  grown,  you'll  have  lots  of 
time.  Then  you  can  go  to  the 
beauty  shop.  It  sort  of  relaxes  one, 
I  find."  She  smiled  brightly, 
pulled  on  white  gloves  as  she  went 
down  the  walk  toward  the  bus  stop. 

Sally  stood  in  the  doorway  and 
waved  to  her  as  she  got  on  the 
bus.  She  admitted  to  herself  that 
she  was  almost  envious  of  her 
mother-in-law.  Jealous  of  her  smart 
daintiness,  of  her  leisure,  her  inter- 
ests. It  must  be  nice  to  have  the 
whole  day  free,  to  dress  up  and  go 
places.  ... 

I  wish  we  could  be  real  friends, 
Sally  said  to  herself. 

Sally's  clear  gray  eyes  were  cloud- 
ed as  she  thought,  she  doesn't  need 
me,  or  the  children.  Not  with  her 
concerts,  her  shopping.  .  .  . 


TWO  OF  A  KIND  261 

Briskly  Sally  whisked  the  break-  disconnected  the  TV.  The  children 

fast  dishes  into  the  sink,  turned  on  weren't  watching  it.  They  were  too 

the  hot  water  and  said  to  herself,  excited  and  thrilled  by  the  storm. 

''Well,  Madge  says   I   don't  know  Hardings,  both  of  them— afraid  of 

how  lucky  I  am!     A  mother-in-law  nothing. 

who  doesn't  interfere,  doesn't  try  to  ''Mommy!    Mommy!"  Jim  Third 

run   my  house.     Mother    Harding  turned  toward  her,  all  excitement, 

certainly  doesn't."  elation. 

Madge  Jones  was  their  nearest  Then  Judy  piped  up,  "It  was  a 
neighbor,  Sally's  only  friend  since  tree  that  time,  Mommy!"  She 
the  Hardings  had  moved  to  The  turned  from  the  window  to  demon- 
Acre,  strate  with  her  thin  arms  just  how 

The  day  was  perfect,  without  the  the  lightning  had  forked.  "A  great 

humid    midwest    heat    that   would  big  fire-tree  in  the   sky!      It  filled 

come  later  in  the  season.    Sally  de-  the  whole  sky.  Mommy!" 

cided  to  work  in  the  garden.     Jim  Judy  at  six  was  something  of  a 

was  on  a  buying  trip  to  Des  Moines  poet.     Sally  wished  miserably  that 

and  wouldn't  be  home  for  another  she  could  see  some  of  the  beauty 

three  days.    The  new  rosebed  need-  in  it.     Well,  at  least  they  weren't 

ed  attention.  frightened,  thank  goodness  for  that. 

She  might  as  well  get  started  on  When  she  spoke,  she  managed  to 
it  today  as  any  time.  The  baby  was  keep  her  voice  level,  matter-of-fact: 
still  asleep,  Judy  and  Jim  Third  ''Don't  stand  so  close  to  the  win- 
were  playing  contentedly  in  the  dow,  children.  You— you— might 
orchard,  their  two  apple  trees.  She  catch  cold!"  Just  how  silly  can  you 
tied  a  scarf  around  her  head  and  sound?  she  wondered, 
went  happily  to  work.  Paying  no  attention  to  her,  prob- 

BTT'-rur          ••ui.i.i,          1     A/r  ably    not    even    hearing    her,    they 

UT  before  night  the  early  May  -^     ,      ,               ,      i^        I     s.x, 

,,    ,     ,^  ^          ,  ,   -^     ,.  r  pressed    closer    and    closer    to    the 

warmth  had  changed  to  sultri-  ^n 

ness.  The  eastern  sky  was  ominous-  t^*  ,  .... 
ly  black.  When  the  first  white  glare  Jhe  next  glare  was  brilliant, 
of  lightning  streaked  the  clouds,  a  changing  to  an  eerie  blue-white  as 
deafening  clap  of  thunder  followed.  \he  jagged  streaks  shot  up  across  the 
Sally  shivered,  listened  to  the  next  '^Y'  ^^^Y ,  ^^^^  her  hands  grow 
crash  rip  through  the  airless  dusk  ^^"^P^  "^"^^  with  terror,  not  know- 
and  rumble  to  a  slow  silence.  The  ^^g  ^^at  to  do  next, 
first  big  splatters  of  rain  struck  the  To  calm  herself,  she  walked  across 
window  as  she  looked  out  to  see  if  the  room  and  pulled  the  plug  of 
Mother  Harding  was  home  yet.  the  iron  cord  and  put  away  the 
Yes,  there  was  a  light  in  the  cot-  board.  No  ironing  tonight.  "Now 
tage.  I  wish  I'd  gone  ahead  with  it  this 
The  flashes  came  faster  now,  morning.  But  who  would  imagine? 
closer  together,  with  no  space  be-  This  early?  The  first  week  of  May?" 
tween  their  brief  brilliance  and  the  she  said  aloud, 
immediate  thunder.  She  had  purposely  left  the  iron- 
Sally   hurried   to   the  wall  plug,  ing  for  tonight,  so  they  could  watch 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— APRIL  1957 


TV  while  she  worked.  That  was 
one  of  the  few  jobs  she  could  man- 
age and  look  at  TV.  This  was  the 
night  for  the  Disney  program,  and 
she  had  planned  that  they  would 
all  watch  it  together,  a  nice  family 
thing  to  do.  She  had  even  thought 
of  asking  Mother  Harding  to  come 
and  sit  with  her  and  the  children, 
but  gave  that  up.  She  would  prob- 
ably be  bored. 

Together.  To  Sally  that  togeth- 
erness was  all  important.  All  the 
family  doing  things  together.  Some- 
thing to  remember  all  their  lives. 

OER  thoughts  went  on:  If  Mother 
Harding  were  only  a  little  bit 
like  my  Granny!  I  thought  the 
children  would  mean  so  much  to 
her.  ...  If  she  were  a  normal 
Grandma,  she  would  be  here  with 
us.  Right  now.  She  wouldn't  let 
us  stay  here  alone  .  .  .  about  to  be 
struck  with  lightning!  Sally  looked 
again  at  the  cottage.  Mother  Hard- 
ing had  drawn  the  Venetian  blind, 
but  the  light  still  showed  through 
the  slits. 

She  wished  again  that  Jim  were 
home.  I  wouldn't  be  half  so  scared 
with  another  grownup  in  the  house. 
Fm  always  sensible— well,  almost 
sensible— when  Jim  is  here. 

Wham!  Another  earth-rocking 
crash.  I  can't  stand  it,  she  thought, 
I  can't.  But  there  was  nothing  else 
to  do. 

Maybe  there  was.  Maybe  Madge 
Jones  would  come  up  and  stay  with 
her,  if  she  knew.  She  stumbled  to 
the  telephone,  dialed  frantically. 
No  answer.  Again.  Still  no  an- 
swer. She  listened,  realized  that 
there  was  no  dial-tone.  The  phone 
was  dead. 

She  placed  the  receiver  back  in 


its  cradle,  straightened  it  carefully. 
At  that  moment  the  lights  went 
out. 

She  ran  through  the  dark  to  the 
back  door,  knocking  her  knee  on  a 
chair  on  the  way,  opened  her  mouth 
to  call  to  Mother  Harding,  to 
scream  for  help,  and  remembered 
just  in  time.  No  screaming,  no  fear 
in  front  of  the  children.  Now,  with 
the  lights  out,  she  couldn't  even 
see  the  cottage  through  the  rain. 
The  cottage  where  Mother  Hard- 
ing lived  her  own  secure  and  worry- 
free  life.  Sally  swallowed  hard  and 
forced  herself  to  go  back  into  the 
living  room. 

It  was  because  of  the  cottage  that 
they  had  bought  The  Acre.  After 
Jim's  father  had  died,  Sally  had 
wanted  Jim's  mother  to  come  to 
live  with  them. 

''Why  couldn't  we  be  all  togeth- 
er, Jim,  as  a  family  should  be?  She'll 
be  so  lonesome,  and  I  get  lonesome, 
too,  Jim,  sometimes.  We  always 
had  so  many  at  home."  She  had 
added,  'Td  love  your  mother,  Jim. 
I  know  I  would.  And  she  could 
stay  with  the  children  sometimes, 
so  we  could  go  out.  I'd  know  they 
were  safe  with  their  Granny!" 

She  had  stopped,  looked  at  Jim. 
He  had  been  smiling  queerly. 

''Oh,  not  often,  Jim.  I  don't 
mean  for  her  to  do  a  lot  of  baby- 
sitting. But  just  once  in  a  while, 
for  something  special.  Jim,  I — I 
can't  bear  to  leave  them  with  a 
stranger.  Not  while  the  baby's  so 
little." 

He  had  leaned  down  and  kissed 
the  top  of  her  head  lightly.  "No, 
Sally,  it  just  wouldn't  do.  Mother 
is  different,  independent;  and  keeps 
very  busy."  Jim  grinned. 


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''But,  Jim,  I  don't  care.  She's 
the  children's  Granny.  They'd  love 
her.  And  she'd  love  them.  I  know 
she  would." 

"Of  course.  But,  Sally,  Mother 
wouldn't  have  time  for  baby-sitting. 
She's  always  going  somewhere,  con- 
certs, meetings,  and  lectures.  You're 
so  domestic,  darling.  You  wouldn't 
know  about  women  like  Mother!" 
He  had  hugged  her. 

Oh,  wouldn't  I?  Sally  had 
thought.  I'm  no  more  domestic 
than  anyone,  Mr.  Harding.  But 
how  could  I  go  to  concerts?  Just 
how?  She  had  bitten  her  lips  to 
keep  the  words  inside,  unsaid. 

Jim  had  continued,  "And  I've 
always  heard  that  no  house  is  big 
enough  for  two  women,  Sally.  I'm 
not  taking  any  chances  with  my 
women!"  He  had  grinned  happily 
and  the  subject  had  been  closed. 

Except  in  Sally's  mind:  That's 
all  you  know  about  it,  Jim  Harding! 
My  folks  all  lived  together  and 
worked  together  and  had  a  won- 
derful time.  Granny  lived  with 
us  always  and  what  would  we 
ever  have  done  without  her?  And 
Aunt  Jennie  part  of  the  time,  and 
old  Uncle  Tim,  too,  until  he  died. 
That's  all  a  mistake  about  families 
not  getting  along  together.  And  I 
happen  to  know  what  I'm  talking 
about! 

"DUT  it  was  settled  as  Jim  decided, 
of  course.  So  they  had  bought 
The  Acre,  out  in  the  country,  but 
on  the  bus  line.  With  a  separate 
cottage  for  Mother  Harding. 

When  Mother  Harding  moved  in, 
Sally  could  see  what  Jim  meant. 
Always  busy,  always  smartly  dressed, 
the  older  woman  lived  in  a  different 
world    from    Sally's.     Even    here, 


where  she  knew  no  one.  Mother 
Harding  found  plenty  to  keep  her 
interested,  apparently.  Plenty  of 
things  to  do,  places  to  go.  Always 
calm,  pleasant;  but  never  helpful, 
never  just  "family." 

At  the  second  loud  crash  of  thun- 
der within  as  many  seconds,  Sally 
ran  upstairs  to  see  if  the  baby  was 
all  right.  She  carried  a  flashlight, 
played  its  light  over  the  crib  and 
whispered,  "There  he  is,  bless  his 
heart,  sound  asleep  through  all  this 
racket!"  She  shivered  at  the  next 
blue-white  flare  that  highlighted  the 
room. 

Downstairs  again,  hunting  for 
matches  and  a  candle,  Sally  listened 
to  the  downpour  and  the  excited 
chatter  of  Judy  and  Jim  Third. 

Judy  shouted,  "There  it  is  again. 
Mommy!     That  fire-tree,  I  mean!" 

Then  Jim  Third's  loud  roar, 
"Bang!  Bang-bang!  Roar-r-r-r!  Rum- 
m-m-m-ble."  He  was  dramatizing  it. 

Sally  reached  out  vaguely  till  her 
hand  touched  a  chair.  Then  she 
let  herself  down  carefully,  her  legs 
feeling  limp,  boneless.  She  couldn't 
take  much  more  of  this.  Without 
someone  to  hold  to,  someone  to 
talk  to,  she  was  finding  out  exactly 
how  worthless  she  really  was.  Not 
the  sensible,  self-confident  mother 
she  wanted  to  be,  pretended  to  be. 
She  finally  found  a  stub  of  a  candle, 
lighted  it,  set  it  on  the  mantle. 

TIM  was  the  only  one  who  knew 
^  about  her  terror  of  thunder- 
storms; and  even  to  him  she  had 
never  let  go  entirely,  never  dared 
break  down  and  cry,  which  is  what 
she  felt  like  doing  right  now.  How 
Muriel  would  despise  her. 

Now  why  should  I  think  of 
Muriel  at  a  time  like  this?    Because 


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Muriel  is  such  a  Harding,  I  sup- 
pose. And  Fm  not.  I  never  will 
be!  Muriel  would  think  her  broth- 
er had  married  a  regular  little 
simpleton! 

The  next  crash  was  a  rending 
detonation,  a  resounding  catas- 
trophe of  sound.  Close,  close.  It 
must  have  struck  the  house.  Sally 
ran  to  the  window,  looked  out  past 
the  children's  heads.  No,  but  it 
had  struck  the  old  elm.  In  the 
glare  of  the  next  flash  she  saw  the 
huge  limb  torn  from  the  trunk, 
lying  lopsided  across  the  gate. 

Well,  that  does  it!  she  thought. 
I  can't  take  this  any  longer.  Not 
alone  I  can't.  I'll  go  get  Mother 
Harding.  No  matter  if  she  despises 
me  forever!  Aloud  she  said,  'T\\ 
be  right  back,  children!"  She 
grabbed  up  Jim's  old  coat,  threw  it 
over  her  head  and,  with  the  dim- 
ming flashlight  in  her  hand,  ran 
pell-mell  across  the  garden,  splosh- 
ing through  rain  and  puddles, 
straight  for  the  cottage.  Why  didn't 
Mother  Harding  light  a  candle? 
There  wasn't  a  glimmer  of  light 
through  the  glass  door. 

In  her  panic,  Sally  pushed  the 
door  open  without  knocking,  turned 
the  flashlight  wildly  about  the  room, 
and  saw  Mother  Harding.  She  was 
on  her  knees  by  the  bed,  her  arms 
stretched  out  on  the  spread,  two 
pillows  stuffed  tight  against  her  ears. 
At  Sally's  voice,  she  jumped, 
startled,  and  let  out  a  stifled  scream. 

Her  face  was  strained  and  swollen 
with  tears,  distorted  with  fear.  In 
the  weak  light  from  the  flash,  she 
looked  ghastly.  Her  hair,  always  so 
perfect,  was  rumpled,  wild,  where 
her  fingers  had  run  through  it. 

''Oh,     Sally— I'm     so     ashamed. 


You'll  think  I'm  terrible!  Scared  of 
lightning.  It's  so  silly.  But,  Sally, 
I  always  have  been  horribly  scared." 

Her  words  stumbled  over  one 
another,  poured  out  frantically. 
''When  the  children  were  little,  I 
had  to  hide  my  fear."  She  was 
sobbing  against  Sally's  wet  coat, 
shaking  spasmodically. 

CALLY  put  her  arms  tight  about 
her.  "Come,  come,  now. 
Mother.  There's  nothing  to  be 
afraid  of.  You've  got  me,  right 
here."  She  felt  her  tremble,  hugged 
her  closer.  "But  we  must  get  back 
to  the  children.  Come  on,  let's 
make  a  run  for  it.  It's  a  regular 
cloudburst!"  She  actually  managed 
a  laugh.  Her  voice  sounded  firm 
and  cheerful,  as  if  she  were  talking 
to  Jim  Third  or  to  Judy. 

Holding  onto  each  other,  they 
hurried  through  the  rain  and  got  to 
the  house  just  as  the  flashlight  gave 
out  completely.  They  slammed  the 
door  against  the  storm. 

Together,  they  put  the  protesting 
children  to  bed,  then  sat  in  the  liv- 
ing room.  The  stub  of  candle  had 
burned  out,  too.  The  only  light 
was  from  the  brief  flames  of  light- 
ning. 

Mother  Harding  was  talking,  say- 
ing things  she  would  never  have 
said  in  daylight.  "Muriel  was 
always  strong,  Sally,  different  from 
me.  Never  afraid  of  anything,  a 
Harding.  She  warns  me  in  every 
letter  not  to  interfere,  not  to  bother 
you  and  Jim.  To  keep  busy."  She 
sneezed. 

Sally  put  her  arm  around  her  and 
rubbed  her  cold  hands.  Sally's  fear 
was  gone,  completely  gone. 


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She  listened  to  the  words  that 
were  pouring  out:  ''Muriel's  a  dear 
girl,  of  course,  gets  me  the  concert 
tickets,  reserves  the  seats,  every- 
thing/' She  drew  a  long  breath. 
''But  I  always  have  such  a  hard  time 
to  remember  what  I  hear  and  I  get 
tired  of  going  out/' 

"Why,  Mother!"  Sally  giggled. 
"And  here  I  thought  you  loved  to 
go!  I've  been  so  ashamed  because 
I  knew  so  little  about  things!" 

"Sally,  all  I  really  want  is  to  be 
a  good  comfortable  Grandma.  To 
stay  home  evenings.  Read  stories 
to  Jim  Third— cuddle  little  Judy. 
And  I'd  love  to  rock  the  baby.  .  .  ." 
Then,  quickly  and  timidly,  "But  I 
know  the  book  says  you  mustn't!" 

"Not  my  book.  Mother.     It  says 


rocking's  wonderful  for  them.  Gives 
them  security." 

"Then  you— you  wouldn't  mind 
leaving  them  with  me?  Sometimes? 
Let  me  take  care  of  them,  when  you 
and  Jim  go  out,  I  mean?" 

Could  this  be  the  reserved,  poised 
Mother  Harding? 

Sally  thought  happily,  so  you  are 
like  my  Granny,  after  all!  Aloud 
she  said,  "Why,  Mother,  I'd  love  it! 
And  so  would  the  children.  Of 
course,  we  would!" 

The  rain  lessened  and  then 
stopped.  There  was  one  last  brief 
flash  of  lightning. 

"And,  Sally,  I'll  never  let  them 
know  that  I'm  scared  of  thunder. 
Not  ever!"  Mother  Harding  prom- 
ised. 


1 1  Lake  oJhem  QJeel  0( 


ecure 


CciToUne  Eyring  Miner 


IT'S  a  big  world,  and  little  people  in  it  sometimes  feel  afraid,  insecure.  Are  we  as 
parents  doing  what  we  can  to  help  our  children  feel  secure  in  this  changing,  troubled, 
and  uncertain  world? 

A  certain  wise  mother  I  know,  whose  husband  traveled  all  the  time  and  moved 
her  from  pillar  to  post,  found  a  way  to  help  her  three  little  ones  feel  secure  and  at  home 
no  matter  where  they  were.  As  soon  as  the  family  moved  to  a  new  town,  the  mother 
would  take  her  little  children  out  for  a  walk.  If  it  were  daytime,  they  noted  that  the 
same  sun  shone  over  them  in  each  place  they  went,  that  the  sun  is  unchangeable.  They 
looked  for  mountains  or  ocean  or  river  which,  too,  endure  and  are  the  same.  Also 
never  changing  are  the  signs  of  the  seasons — emerald  blades  of  new  grass  or  birds  nest- 
ing in  spring;  flowers  in  full  bloom  in  the  warm  summer;  grain  and  fruit  ripening  in 
autumn;  frost  and  ice  and  snow  in  dcHcate  tracery  in  winter. 

If  this  little  family  arrived  in  a  new  town  at  night  they  walked  together  under  the 
stars.  It  was  thrilling  to  find  the  same  moon  and  the  same  friendly  constellations  dot- 
ting the  sky.  It  was  reassuring  also,  and  gave  them  the  fecHng  that  God  was  in  his 
heaven;  hence  all  was  right  with  the  world. 

How  wise  this  mother  was,  I  learned  last  summer  when  I  traveled  around  the 
world  and  lost  sight  and  sound  of  many  familiar  things — especially  of  those  that  are 
man-made.  When  we  became  uncertain  of  things  and  lonely,  we  walked  under  the 
stars,  the  same  that  we  had  known  at  home.  We  saw  the  mountains  solid  and  serene; 
we  felt  the  joy  of  finding  familiar  flowers  in  blossom,  familiar  trees  rustling  in  the  lazy 
afternoon  breeze.  We  were  at  peace  and  secure  again.  We  knew  that  God  was  in 
his  heaven,  so  all  was  right  with  the  world,  as  Browning  so  poignantly  wrote. 

Let  us  teach  our  children  peace  and  security  out  under  the  stars  or  in  the  early 
dawn  watching  the  world  awaken,  so  that  they  will  be  at  home  and  feel  secure  the 
wojld  around. 


Jt  JLook    [Jtjackward  and  QJorvcard, 
[fielief  Societii  ^yiU  the    Vi/aii 

Annie  W.  Westover 

"V/f  Y  first  contact  with  Relief  Society,  as  an  organization,  dates  back  about  sixty  years, 
-^  •••  at  which  time  my  mother  was  acting  secretary  under  Sister  Isabelle  Home, 
President  of  the  Fourteenth  Ward  Relief  Society,  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah.  Because  my 
mother  had  no  one  with  whom  to  leave  me,  I  always  went  along  to  meetings.  While 
she  sat  at  the  table  with  her  clerical  work,  I  sat  at  the  feet  of  the  dear  sisters  and 
threaded  their  needles  as  they  sewed  carpet  rags  and  pieced  quilt  blocks. 

My  mother  had  very  decided  opinions  about  keeping  httle  fingers  active,  and 
when  I  was  six  years  old,  I  could  sew,  knot,  and  crochet.  That  winter  I  knitted  my 
first  hose,  striped  red  and  white,  and  of  heavy  yarn.  My  little  fat  legs  so  striped  made 
me  think  of  the  giraffes  in  my  painted  storybook.  It  makes  me  itch  yet  when  I  think 
of  those  hose.  That  winter  I  also  crocheted  lace  for  the  caps  we  gave  as  Christmas 
presents  to  the  old  folks.  In  those  days  whoever  thought  of  sleeping  without  a 
nightcap,  from  grandpa  to  the  baby? 

On  Saturdays  my  regular  job  was  to  go  the  rounds  of  the  older  sisters  who  hap- 
pened to  be  on  mother's  visiting  teacher  list,  and  with  a  basket  as  heavy  as  a  youngster 
could  manage,  I  delivered  little  extras  for  Sunday  dinners  that  otherwise  would  not 
have  been  found  on  those  particular  tables.  This,  of  course,  was  a  secret  between 
mother  and  me  and  made  me  feel  very  important.  How  those  dear  women  would 
look  forward  to  my  weekly  calls,  and  sometimes  they  had  a  sweet  morsel  laid  up 
for  me. 

My  next  contact  with  Relief  Society  was  when  I  was  a  young  matron  in  1899, 
when  I  was  secretary.  We  lived  on  a  ranch  about  two  miles  over  rough  mountain  roads 
from  the  meetinghouse  and  our  only  means  of  transportation  was  a  farm  wagon  and 
team.  Indians  were  bad;  we  always  had  to  have  a  male  escort  along,  carrying  firearms 
ready  for  the  occasion  should  it  arise. 

Our  fancywork  department  included  such  practical  instructions  as  carding  and 
spinning,  dyeing  both  wool  and  cotton,  weaving  cloth  and  carpets,  knitting  hose, 
mittens,  sweaters,  caps,  nubbies,  mufflers,  and  petticoats.  We  gleaned  straw  from 
the  wheat  fields,  split  it,  bleached  it  with  sulphur  for  summer,  or  dyed  it  for  winter 
wear,  braided  or  sewed  it  into  hats,  blocked  the  hats,  and  trimmed  them  according  to 
our  own  fancy  of  millinery. 

The  domestic  science  department  included  making  soap  with  lye  leached  from 
ashes  of  burned  wood,  and  candles  made  from  wicking  and  melted  tallow  poured 
into  the  candle  molds.  Kerosene  lamps  were  a  luxury  few  could  afford.  We  made 
our  butter  and  cheese.  Without  any  refrigeration,  we  did  our  home  canning  and 
baking  and  all  the  other  activities  that  went  into  such  a  department  of  domestic 
science,  with  such  tools  and  materials  as  could  be  shaped  and  utilized. 

THE  LONG  AGO 

Well  do  I  remember  the  days  of  Long  Ago, 

When  the  girls  wore  homespun  dresses,  the  boys  wore  pants  of  tow. 
And  shoes  were  made  of  cowhide  and  socks  of  homespun  wool. 
And  children  did  a  half  day's  work  before  they  went  to  school.  .  .  . 

Then  no  electric  buttons  turned  on  our  cold  or  heat, 

To  freeze  ice  cream  or  sherbet,  or  roast  a  chunk  of  meat, 

Nor  did  electric  washers  put  laundry  on  the  line, 

While  mother  read  the  morning  news  or  called  up  Mrs.  Stine, 

Upon  the  telephone,  to  ask  when  could  they  take  the  car 

To  make  their  monthly  visits,  for  good  teachers  they  still  are — 

They're  always  on  the  job,  dependable  and  true. 

And  if  a  car  cannot  be  had,  a  bicycle  will  do. 

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Formosa — Culinary  Melting  Pot 


Edna  B.  Culmsee 


AS  we  bowled  along  Chung 
Shan  Pei  Lu  in  a  pedicab, 
'  my  husband  chuckled  de- 
lightedly at  the  incongruous  sign.  It 
was  at  the  corner,  facing  the  crowd- 
ed thoroughfare,  proclaiming  in 
bold  red  letters  on  four  stories  of 
gray  stucco:  Teiry's  American  Res- 
taurant —  Chop  Suey.  To  us,  an 
American  couple  who  had  recently 
come  to  Taipei,  the  capital  city  of 
Free  China,  this  was  hilarious.  In 
China  chop  suey  is  an  American 
dish! 

Now,  nearly  a  year  later,  we  ac- 
cept the  sign  as  a  matter  of  fact. 
It  is  no  longer  incongruous.  In  the 
countless  times  since  then  that  we 
have  dined  with  Chinese  friends  in 
their  homes  or  restaurants,  we  have 
never  encountered  chop  suey.  In 
their  own  land  the  Chinese  seem 
not  to  eat  chop  suey,  chow  mein, 
egg  fu  yung,  or  those  other  exotic 
dishes  that  were  served  to  us  in 
Chinese  restaurants  at  home.  Such 
appetizing  concoctions  apparently 
were  devised  by  clever  Chinese 
cooks  to  tempt  the  foreign  palate. 
Or,  perhaps,  some  essential  ingredi- 
ents for  their  native  dishes  were 
not  readily  available  in  a  strange 
land.    So  they  improvised. 

That  talent  for  improvisation 
probably  holds  the  secret  charm  of 
Chinese  cuisine.  For  throughout  the 
vastness  of  China,  the  art  of  cook- 
ing is  various,  not  uniform,  as  indi- 
vidual as  the  Chinese  themselves, 
and  I  daresay  no  dictator  is  likely 
ever  to  standardize  or  regiment  it. 
Because  they  use  what  is  at  hand, 
wasting  nothing,  often  making 
much  of  little  with  artful  garnishes 


and  ingenious  seasonings,  the  Chi- 
nese probably  have  created  the 
greatest  variety  in  their  cookery  of 
any  people  in  the  world. 

Every  province  has  made  special 
contributions.  Formosa  has  become 
a  "melting  pot"  of  foods,  adding  to 
its  own  skills  those  of  two  million 
or  so  mainlanders  who  have  come  to 
this  island,  bringing  their  various 
forms  of  cookery.  While  rice  is  a 
basic  food  in  a  large  part  of  China, 
in  the  North,  noodles  and  a  white 
steamed  bread  called  man-tou  take 
its  place.  Familiar  to  us  from  far- 
away places  are  the  famous  Peking 
duck,  the  peppery  hot  foods  of 
Szechwan  province,  fish  ball  soup 
of  Fukien  province,  and  fried  beef 
in  oyster  sauce  from  Canton,  to 
name  but  a  few.  Then  there  are  the 
fascinating  Mongolian  foods,  either 
cooked  at  the  table  in  water  boiling 
around  the  charcoal  heated  center 
of  a  huo-kua  (fire-pot)  or  out-of- 
doors  over  a  special  kind  of  barbe- 
cue.   The  variety  is  endless. 

A  gustatory  marathon,  the  typical 
Chinese  dinner  party  is  served  at  a 
large  round  table  covered  with  a 
white  cotton  cloth.  This  cloth  is 
immaculate  at  the  beginning  of  the  ^ 
meal,  but  as  course  after  course  is 
served  by  the  host  and  hostess  from 
the  dish  in  the  center  to  the  eight 
or  ten  guests,  drops  of  sauce  or  bits 
of  food  fall  upon  it.  Nobody  seems 
to  mind  or  even  to  notice  it.  It  is 
just  as  well,  because  it  could  hardly 
be  avoided. 

Each  course  usually  consists  of 
but  one  dish  served  in  a  large 
bowl  or  platter  placed  in  the  center 
of  the  table.    At  opposite  sides,  be- 

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fore  the  host  and  the  hostess,  he  a 
pair  of  chopsticks  for  serving,  or  a 
large  china  spoon  or  ladle  if  the 
course  is  liquid.  With  these  imple- 
ments they  lift  portions  of  the  food 
from  the  central  dish  over  to  the 
guests  seated  around  the  table.  Each 
place  setting  consists  of  a  small 
bowl,  usually  a  china  spoon,  a  small 
plate  of  bread-and-butter  size,  and 
a  tiny  plate  about  two  inches  in  di- 
ameter on  which  to  rest  one's  chop- 
sticks as  one  finishes  each  course. 
From  time  to  time  the  small  main 
plates  or  the  bowls  are  changed. 
Often  there  are  no  napkins,  but,  at 
intervals,  a  servant  passes  hot  damp 
wash  cloths  which  cleanse  the  fing- 
ers thoroughly.  A  diner  may  even 
refresh  himself  by  mopping  his  face 
with  it  as  well. 

The  amount  one  consumes  at 
these  feasts  is  astonishing,  because 
the  helpings  seem  very  small,  but 
the  courses  range  from  ten  to 
twenty.  Each  is  a  work  of  art  to 
behold  and  is  presented  with  a 
flourish,  with  hospitable  hosts 
always  urging  more  upon  you.  If 
you  are  a  novice  you  may  think  the 
end  of  the  meal  is  approaching 
when  the  sweets  are  served,  such  as 
Eight  Precious  Rice  and  some  of 
the  many  sweet  fruit  soups.  But, 
actually,  it  is  just  a  good  start.  You 
will  go  on  for  several  substantial 
courses  after  that,  finally  ending 
with  a  delicious  clear  chicken  soup. 
Although  rice  is  seldom  served  at  a 
feast,  it  comes,  when  it  does,  at 
this  point  in  individual  bowls  as  a 
separate  course.  Then,  as  a  con- 
cession to  Western  taste,  no  doubt, 
tangerines  or  watermelon  or  sliced 
fresh  pineapple  may  be  passed  final- 
ly to  complete  the  meal,  but  not 
invariably. 


It  is  difficult  to  describe  the  food 
at  a  typical  Chinese  dinner  because 
each  is  different.  Always  it  is  color- 
ful. Vegetables  are  cooked  to  per- 
fection, never  overdone,  and  in  full 
color  —  crisp  cauliflower,  green 
beans,  carrots,  spinach,  tomatoes, 
and  onions  that  we  know,  besides 
bamboo  shoots,  bean  sprouts,  sweet 
tender  peas  in  the  pod,  leeks,  water 
chestnuts,  slim  celery,  large  mush- 
rooms, long  slender  eggplants  no 
larger  around  than  a  banana,  small, 
succulent  heads  of  Chinese  cabbage 
cooked  whole  in  delicious  sauce,  and 
others  I  cannot  name. 

TV/IOST  of  the  courses  consist  of 
meat,  fish,  or  fowl.  Chickens, 
duck,  and  pigeons,  with  tender 
lacquered  skin  of  a  flavor  even  more 
delectable  than  the  sweet  flesh  it 
encloses;  fish  served  whole,  deep- 
fried  or  steamed  or  gently  cooked 
the  West-Lake  way,  by  pouring 
boiling  water  over  it  until  it  is  done 
and  then  covering  it  with  sweet- 
sour  sauce,  or  one  containing  bright 
bits  of  red  and  green  peppers  and 
carrots,  cubes  of  pale  ginger,  and 
cauliflower.  Prawns,  shrimps,  and 
crabs  prepared  many  ways  both  in 
and  out  of  their  shells;  sweet-sour 
pork,  beef  and  peppers,  tailored  to 
chopstick  size.  White,  plump  rolls 
of  steamed  bread,  chiao-tzu  (the 
pork-filled  steamed  dumplings ) , 
spring  rolls  (dainty  cylinders  of 
paper-thin  pastry  stuffed  with  pork, 
bean  sprouts,  mushrooms,  and  deep- 
fried).  Always  soup,  sometimes 
several  kinds,  during  a  meal— cold 
lotus  or  fruit  soups,  hot  soups  of 
shark-fin  or  of  chicken  with  deli- 
cate cubes  of  custard  or  cheese-like 
bean  curd,  or  mushrooms,  or  slen- 
der strips  of  pork  highly  seasoned. 


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Though    I    can't    name    them    all, 
neither  shall  I  ever  forget  them. 

The  only  Chinese  foods  rvQ»  en- 
countered that  I  could  not  relish 
(due  to  prejudice,  I  know)  are  sea 
slugs  and  one-hundred-year-old  eggs. 
The  latter  are  not*  so  ancient  as 
their  name  implies.  They  are  mere- 
ly cured  or  pickled  as  we,  for  in- 
stance, make  sauerkraut  of  cabbage. 
But  their  unnatural  green  centers 
enclosed  in  brown  gelatinous 
''whites"  simply  do  not  appeal  to 
me. 

One  must  not  assume  from 
this  account  that  the  Chinese  are 
gluttonous.  They  are  not.  They 
are  a  gay,  convivial  people  who  de- 
light in  good  companionship  and  a 
festive  occasion.  Ordinarily,  they 
live  simply,  and  most  Chinese  drink 
no  alcoholic  beverages.  One  must 
admit,  also,  that  the  dinners  de- 
scribed here  are  those  enjoyed  by 
the  ''upper  classes"  or  at  least  those 
who  have  received  a  Western  edu- 
cation and  can  speak  English  and 
who  make  some-  allowances  for 
Western  notions. 

TN  China,  however,  it  is  not  too 
difficult  to  get  some  idea  of  how 
the  "other  half"  lives  because  it  is 
spread  out  openly  before  you. 
There  is  not  much  privacy  in  fam- 
ily life  that  is  lived  in  tiny  shops 
open  to  the  street,  where  all  sleep 
on  the  floor  at  night  after  the  front 
is  boarded  shut.  If  you  are  down 
town  about  eight  in  the  morning, 
you  may  see  them  taking  down  the 
boards,  wheeling  out  their  bicycles 
to  park  them  on  the  sidewalk  in 
front  during  the  day,  and  the  fam- 
ily one  by  one  emerging,  perhaps 
to  breakfast  on  a  bowl  of  rice  or 


noodles  purchased  with  small  coins 
from  a  passing  vendor. 

If  "daddy"  happens  to  be  the 
vendor,  he  may  be  just  returning 
from  his  early  morning  rounds  to 
feed  his  family  on  what  remains. 
Gently  smiling  into  the  attentive 
eyes  of  his  children  ranged  around 
his  cart,  he  takes  great  care  in  serv- 
ing, fastidiously  placing  the  small 
bits  of  vegetable,  chopped  pickle, 
fish,  or  whatever  touch  of  garnish  he 
would  use  with  his  paying  custom- 
ers, while  their  waiting  appetites 
quicken. 

Before  the  small  shops  farther  out 
from  town,  "mommy"  squats  before 
a  charcoal  burner  at  the  edge  of  the 
pavement  to  cook  the  family  meal. 
Sometimes  the  group  may  be  seen 
inside  seated  around  a  small  table, 
but  often  a  little  child  simply  stands 
at  the  edge  of  the  street  or  sits  on 
the  high  threshold  of  the  house 
door,  holding  his  bowl  just  below 
his  chin  and  by  nimble,  rhythmic 
movements  of  his  chopsticks  mak- 
ing the  rice  disappear  in  a  continu- 
ous stream  into  his  mouth. 

But  again  and  again,  one  is 
touched  by  the  simple  pride,  rev- 
erence almost,  with  which  food  is 
served.  There  is  no  sloshing  of  un- 
gainly masses  such  as  one  some- 
times sees  in  American  lunch  rooms 
or,  say,  on  army  mess  trays.  Here, 
hunger  watches  with  pleasant  an- 
ticipation while  the  cook  does  his 
artistic  best.  Surely,  here  on  For- 
mosa where  there  is  food  enough 
for  all,  and  the  combined  skills 
brought  from  many  parts  of  China, 
will  be  found  the  choicest  Chinese 
food  in  the  world.  And  maybe- 
some  day— in  this  culinary  "melting 
pot,"  American  chop  suey  will 
emerge  as  naturalized  Chinese. 


1 1  iinatn    ^Jjiplock  JLand    vl/elcomes 
(cypportunities  to  Serve 

DURING  the  past  four  years,  Sister  Miriam  Diplock  Land,  eighty-seven,  of  Sacramento, 
California,  has  bound  120  quilts  made  by  the  First  Ward  Relief  Society  in  Sacra- 
mento, where  she  is  a  member.  She  sews  beautifully  and  is  eager  to  be  of  service  to 
the  Relief  Society,  and  to  all  others.  Some  of  the  quilts  which  she  has  bound  are 
shown  in  the  picture. 

Sister  Land  and  her  husband,  William  E,  Land,  were  converted  to  the  Church  in 
Lovell,  Wyoming,  in  1929.  She  became  a  visiting  teacher  on  the  Tuesday  after  she 
was  baptized  and  has  been  active  in  Relief  Society  work  ever  since.  She  was  born  in 
Falmer,  Sussex,  England,  and  at  the  age  of  seventy-nine,  she  completed  the  necessary 
preparation  for  becoming  a  United  States  citizen  and  passed  the  examinations  without 
an  error. 


cJime  to  y^row 

Ada  Marie  Patten 

The  violet  blooms  but  in  the  spring. 
Its  span  of  life  is  brief; 
The  oak  tree  stands  for  many  years, 
Its  strength  beyond  belief. 

Love  also  needs  time  to  mature 
However  fair  its  birth; 
To  send  stout  branches  to  the  sun, 
Deep  roots  into  the  earth. 


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The  Bright  Star 

Chapter  2 
Dorothy  S.  Romney 


Synopsis:  Kathy  Tracy,  an  orphan,  who 
wishes  to  become  an  artist,  hves  with  her 
Aunt  Emerald  Jewel  Tracy  in  an  old- 
fashioned  house  overlooking  San  Francisco 
Bay.  In  order  to  help  with  household  ex- 
penses, Kathy  applies  to  Phineas  Fenton, 
a  neighbor  and  owner  of  a  shipping  line, 
for  employment.  He  offers  her  the  posi- 
tion of  switchboard  operator  in  his  office 
building  in  San  Francisco.  When  Kathy 
returns  home  from  the  Fenton  house,  she 
finds  that  her  aunt  has  gone  out,  and 
her  friend  Jim  Parker  is  there  waiting  for 
their  evening  date. 

A  misty  rain  had  begun  to  fall 
when  the  lights  of  Jim 
Parker's  small  car  started 
back  over  the  hill  along  Pine  Road. 
Kathy  Tracy  sat  silently  in  the  seat 
beside  him. 

''Can't  carry  on  much  of  a  con- 
versation by  myself/'  Jim  com- 
plained. 

Kathy  smiled.  "I  w^as  thinking  of 
the  picture.  Imagine  that  girl  giv- 
ing up  her  w^onderful  career  to  mar- 
ry and  live  way  out  on  that  farm. 
She  must  have  loved  him  deeply." 

''Hmm/'  said  Jim,  ''getting  mar- 
ried's  fine.  I  just  hope  he  had  his 
farm  where  it  was  paying.  Folks 
have  to  eat,  you  know." 

"Dear,  practical  Jim,"  Kathy 
laughed.  "Don't  be  so  down-to- 
earth,  and  with  the  moon  just  ris- 
ing, too.  After  all,  it  was  only  a 
movie." 

"Say,"  he  said  suddenly,  stopping 
the  car  with  a  lurch,  "what's  that?" 
He  backed  the  car  a  few  feet  and 
stopped  beside  a  clump  of  bushes. 

Sitting   on    the    ground,    leaning 


against  a  fallen  log  was  a  woman. 
Kathy  sprang  from  the  car  and  ran 
to  the  crumpled  figure.  The  pale 
moonlight  fell  across  the  woman's 
face. 

"Jim!  Jim!"  the  girl  cried  in  a 
stricken  voice,  "it's  Aunt  Em!  She's 
hurt!" 

Frantically,  the  girl  grasped  her 
aunt's  cold  wrist  and  felt  for  her 
pulse.  "Oh,  thank  goodness,  she 
isn't— I  mean.  .  .  .  Oh,  Jim!  .  .  .  . 
We'll  get  her  home  in  bed,  then 
I'll  call  Bishop  Henderson  in  San 
Rafael  and  see  if  he  can  send  some- 
one to  help  us,  and  I'll  get  a  doc- 
tor." 

Miss  Em  opened  her  eyes  and 
looked  at  her  niece  and  murmured 
dazedly,  "Oh,  it's  you,  Kathy.  I 
just  sat  down  to  do  some  sewing, 
and  sort  of  dozed,  I  guess  .  .  .  why 
...  I  ...  ."  She  lifted  her  hand 
helplessly  to  her  head. 

"She  must  have  tripped  and  hit 
her  head  on  this  log,"  Kathy  ex- 
plained to  Jim. 

He  bent  down  and  picked  the 
frail  figure  up  and  put  her  in  the 
car.  It  was  then  that  Kathy  noticed 
a  brown  paper  parcel  on  the  ground. 
Must  be  the  hemming  Aunt  Em 
had  promised  to  do  for  Nan  Press- 
man's trousseau. 

"Oh,  Aunt  Em,"  she  cried  broken- 
ly, "you  walked  all  the  way  to  the 
Pressman  place!" 

She  must  have  been  lying  here 
on  the  ground  for  several  hours! 
A  sick  feeling  of  guilt  swept  over 
Kathy.    How  could  she  have  gone 

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away,  not  knowing  where  her  Aunt 
was,  or  when  she'd  return  home? 

As  Kathy  got  in  the  car  beside 
her,  Miss  Em  opened  her  eyes  again. 
''I  sat  down  by  the  fire,  it  was  so 
cold,"  she  muttered.  Then  she  burst 
out,  suddenly  rational,  ''Did  Phineas 
give  you  that  job  in  the  city,  hon- 
ey?" 

'Tes,  Aunt  Em,"  the  girl  an- 
swered. 

TIM  stepped  on  the  gas,  hard. 
^  "You  didn't  tell  me  about  any 
job,"  he  said.  ''A  girl  like  you 
ought  to  be  getting  married,  not 
running  oflf  to  the  city  to  work," 
he  added  emphatically. 

''Let's  not  talk  about  it  now," 
said  Kathy,  with  a  warning  look  at 
Jim,  ''and  please  hurry."  She  was 
rubbing  her  Aunt's  hands,  as  she 
talked,  trying  to  bring  some  warmth 
back  into  them. 

"All  right,"  he  answered. 

The  car  swung  rapidly  around  the 
curves  of  Pine  Road,  the  trees  and 
shrubbery  making  grotesque  pat- 
terns in  the  quick  flash  of  the  head- 
lights. 

"I'll  see  you  in  the  morning,  Jim," 
Kathy  whispered  to  the  young  man 
as  they  helped  Miss  Em  from  the 
car  to  a  chair  in  the  kitchen.  "I'll 
have  to  put  Aunt  Em  to  bed." 

Jim  walked  to  the  old-fashioned 
kitchen  range,  lifted  the  lid  and 
started  shoving  in  lengths  of  split 
pine,  then  turned  to  Kathy. 

"Better  phone  the  doctor  before 
she  gets  any  worse,"  he  suggested. 

"She'll  be  all  right  as  soon  as  she 
gets  warmed  up,"  Kathy  replied 
softly.  "I  doubt  if  Fll  need  to  dis- 
turb anyone  at  this  late  hour  after 
all.     Aunt  Em  needs  rest.     Good 


night,  Jim,  and  thanks  for  the 
movie." 

"Good  night,  Kathy,"  he  said  and 
closed  the  kitchen  door  quietly. 

Kathy  removed  Miss  Em's  damp 
shoes  and  thrust  her  feet  into  some 
warm  slippers,  then  taking  off  the 
shoddy  coat,  she  wrapped  her  in  a 
heavy  robe.  "I'll  have  a  cup  of 
chocolate  for  you  in  a  jiffy,"  she 
promised,  "that  will  warm  you  up." 

With  a  great  effort,  Miss  Em 
roused  herself.  "You  go  to  the 
city,  Kathy,  take  that  job— study 
hard.  The  money  —  the  Chinese 
chest— find  the  bright  star.  .  .  ." 
Her  voice  trailed  off. 

"Yes,  yes,  I  know  we  have  money 
in  the  chest,"  Kathy  murmured. 
"The  bright  star,"  she  repeated, 
puzzled.  What  on  earth  could 
Aunt  Em  mean  by  that?  It  must 
be  some  figment  of  her  imagination. 
For  the  first  time  a  cold  fear  swept 
over  Kathy.  Aunt  Em's  illness  was 
more  than  a  bump  on  the  head. 

"Remember  —  money  —  treasure 
—  Chinese  ch.  .  .  ."  the  older  wom- 
an muttered  again.  She  shuddered 
and  fell  back  in  her  chair,  uncon- 
scious, and  the  frightened  girl  ran 
for  the  telephone  to  summon  the 
doctor. 

npHE  next  morning  Kathy  picked 
her  way  over  the  beach  boul- 
ders to  where  Jim  sat  waiting  for  her, 
hand  up  to  shade  her  weary  eyes 
from  the  bright  morning  sunlight. 
She  had  sent  him  there  to  get  him 
out  of  the  way  of  the  doctor,  and 
now  that  Sister  Swenson,  a  Relief 
Society  sister  from  Sausalito,  had 
arrived  to  take  over  the  nursing 
duties  for  the  day,  she  was  free  to 
follow  him  for  a  moment's  breath- 
ing spell. 


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Good,  old  dependable  Jim,  she 
thought,  what  would  I  do  without 
his  broad  shoulders  to  lean  on  now? 
As  he  sat,  solidly  competent,  upon 
his  rock,  he  visibly  embodied  all 
the  commoner  virtues.  Kathy  knew 
this.  Jim  would  never  change  in 
this  changing  world.  He  had  gone 
competently  to  Agricultural  College 
at  Davis  just  long  enough  to  learn  to 
be  a  good  poultry  man — no  longer. 
He  always  put  just  the  right  amount 
of  effort  into  each  of  his  projects- 
no  more.  With  the  same  forth- 
rightness  he  was  planning  to  marry 
Kathy.  Just  how  and  why  she  had 
agreed,  Kathy  was  sometimes  at  a 
loss  to  explain,  but  she  was  engaged 
to  him,  nonetheless,  even  though 
she  wouldn't  seriously  consider 
marriage  until  he  advanced  in  the 
Priesthood,  so  they  could  be  mar- 
ried in  the  temple. 

Kathy  sat  down  on  the  boulder 
next  to  Jim  with  a  sigh  of  relief.  It 
was  good  to  be  near  so  safe  and  re- 
assuring a  person  on  this  uncertain 
day.  The  earnest  set  of  his  square 
jaw,  his  blunt  nose,  and  clear,  deep 
blue  eyes  looked  steady  and  safe  as 
the  rock  on  which  he  sat.  If  only 
he  didn't  look  so  determined! 

''Well,"  he  asked  with  character- 
istic bluntness,  ''how  is  she?" 

"Better,  I  suppose,  although  it's 
hard  to  tell.  She  doesn't  talk,  just 
looks  at  you,"  Kathy  sighed.  "It's  a 
stroke,  you  know,"  she  admitted. 
"We  sat  up  with  her  all  night.  The 
doctor  said  she  had  probably  had 
one  before." 

"She'll  be  a  helpless  invalid,"  Jim 
said  reluctantly. 

"Oh,  no!"  cried  Kathy,  balling 
her  hands  up  into  tight  little  fists. 


"No,  that  mustn't  happen."  But 
Jim  might  be  right.  She  shivered. 

The  shining  vision  of  San  Fran- 
cisco, of  the  art  school  wavered, 
crashed  like  a  bright  Christmas  tree 
ornament  falling  to  the  floor  with- 
out warning.  Then  she  remembered 
the  words  of  Brother  Woods  as  he 
had  administered  to  Aunt  Em  last 
night.  He  had  promised  that  she 
would  be  restored  to  her  normaal 
state  of  health— but  that  could  be  a 
long,  long  time,  she  thought. 

Jim's  hand  closed  over  her  warm 
fingers.  Gently,  he  said,  "Marry  me 
now,  Kathy,  I'll  help  you  take  care 
of  her." 

She  looked  up  to  meet  Jim's  eyes. 
Oh,  why  must  there  always  be  a 
problem  to  solve?  she  thought.  For 
a  moment  she  was  tempted  to 
throw  her  burden  on  his  competent 
shoulders.  But,  no,  although  Aunt 
Em  had  always  respected  Jim,  she 
had  urged  Kathy  to  be  very  sure 
before  accepting  him  and  the  re- 
sponsibilities of  marriage,  and,  above 
all,  not  to  marry  until  they  could 
be  married  in  the  temple. 

"That's  very  thoughtful  of  you, 
Jim,"  she  said  as  gently  as  she 
could,  "but  not  now.  It  would  ex- 
cite Aunt  Em  too  much.  There's 
the  doctor  coming  out  now." 

She  scrambled  up  hurriedly  and 
ran  up  the  rough  path  to  the  drive, 
Jim  following. 

"P\R.  Ransome  put  his  hand  kindly 
upon  Kathy's  shoulder.  "She'll 
live  a  long  time  yet,  with  good 
care,"  he  told  her,  then  added, 
"but  you  can't  take  care  of  her 
alone.  I'll  send  my  best  practical 
nurse  tomorrow.  Sister  Swenson 
will  stay  the  day  out." 


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Kathy  choked  a  little.  ''We  have 
some  money  in  the  Chinese  chest- 
enough  to  pay  for  a  nurse/'  she  told 
him,  "if  you  think  we  need  one/' 
she  added  reluctantly.  Yes,  money 
saved,  penny  by  penny,  she  thought 
bitterly. 

''Now  don't  you  go  worrying 
about  that,"  said  the  doctor.  He 
climbed  into  his  car.  "I'll  look  in 
on  you  later,"  he  called  out,  against 
the  chugging  of  the  motor. 

Kathy  nodded  mutely  and  fled 
along  the  grass-grown  drive,  beyond 
the  house  to  the  log  cabin  down  by 
the  water,  Jim  close  at  her  heels. 
She  felt  she  had  to  have  a  minute 
to  compose  herself  before  going 
back  to  the  house. 

They  stepped  up  onto  the  minia- 
ture veranda  of  the  China  house 
and  sat  down. 

"Well,"  he  said,  with  his  familiar 
opening. 

"I  stay  here,  of  course,  San  Fran- 
cisco's out,"  she  said  dully,  and 
looked  up  in  time  to  catch  a  satis- 
fied look  on  Jim's  face. 

"Sensible  thing  for  us  to  do  is 
get  married,"  he  repeated.  "We  can 
start  work  on  the  new  house  on 
Elm  Hill  and  stay  here  until  it's 
finished.  Then  sell  this  place  and 
use  the  money  for  Aunt  Em's  ex- 
penses. We  can  go  to  the  temple 
later/'  he  finished. 

A  cold  little  fear  shadowed 
Kathy's  mind.  Without  stopping 
to  think  things  out,  she  knew  that, 
except  for  the  temple,  Jim  was 
right.  How  on  earth  could  she 
manage  the  doctor  bills,  medicines, 
the  extra  dainties,  to  say  nothing  of 
the  nurse's  pay?  But  instinctively 
she  shook  her  head,  nibbling  hard 
on  a  piece  of  grass  she'd  plucked. 


"Why  not?"  Jim  demanded. 

Dear,  dependable  Jim.  She  could 
not  tell  him  —  not  now  —  that 
there  were  many  reasons  why  she 
refused  —  that  Miss  Em  would 
surely  die  if  she  left  the  gray  house, 
or  how  she  would  feel  if  her  niece 
should  marry  outside  the  temple. 
That  as  fond  as  Kathy  was  of  Jim, 
the  dream  of  the  art  school  was 
dearer  to  her  than  he  was. 

"It  wouldn't  be  fair  to  dump  all 
our  worries  on  you,"  she  said  quiet- 

"I  only  want  to  help.  You  know 
I'd  do  anything  for  you,  Kathy,"  he 
insisted. 

"I'm  sorry,  Jim,"  Kathy  said,  "but 
we'll  just  have  to  wait/' 

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npHAT  evening,  after  she'd  told 
Sister  Swenson  goodbye,  and 
assured  her  they'd  be  all  right  until 
the  nurse  arrived,  Kathy  tiptoed  in- 
to her  aunt's  bedroom  and  sat  down 
in  the  old  rocking  chair.  She  felt 
a  little  shock  go  through  her  as  she 
looked  at  the  hands,  lying  still  and 
waxen  looking  on  the  coverlet. 
Hands  that  had  never  been  idle 
before. 

It  seemed  to  Kathy  that  an  etern- 
ity had  gone  by,  when  the  old  lady's 
lips  started  moving.  Kathy  jumped 
up  and  leaned  over  her,  her  heart 
beating  fast.  She  waited,  but  no 
words  came. 

"Please,  Aunt  Em,  just  try  to 
rest,"  she  finally  said.  "There  is 
nothing  for  you  to  worry  about.  I 
know  we  have  some  money  in  the 
chest,  and  it's  all  safe.  I'll  look  for 
the  bright  star  tomorrow." 

Kathy  still  had  no  idea  what  Miss 
Em  had  meant  last  night.     Some- 


THE  BRIGHT  STAR 


275 


thing  the  confusion  of  her  mind 
had  brought  forth,  perhaps. 

Miss  Em  frowned,  and  Kathy 
thought,  she's  not  satisfied.  She'll 
never  be  satisfied  just  to  lie  there. 
She  got  up  presently  and  came  back 
with  the  brown  paper  package, 
which  she  had  completely  forgotten. 
Miss  Em  watched  closely,  while  she 
untied  the  string  and  took  out  the 
lacy  froth  that  was  to  be  the  bridal 
veil  for  Nan  Pressman. 

Kathy's  fingers  flew  along,  doing 
this  work  that  she  despised  with  all 
her  heart,  but  gradually  Miss  Em's 


eyelids  closed  and  Kathy  knew  that 
she  was  asleep  and  at  peace  for  a 
time,  at  least. 

Yesterday,  old  Phineas  Fenton, 
the  richest  man  on  the  hill,  had  giv- 
en her  a  job  in  one  of  his  San  Fran- 
cisco office  buildings,  tomorrow  he 
would  get  it  back.  In  the  meantime 
Kathy  meant  to  dream  a  little  about 
what  it  would  have  been  like  if 
Aunt  Em  hadn't  gotten  sick,  and 
she  could  have  gone  to  work  in  the 
fascinating  city  across  the  bay. 

(To  be  continued) 


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Eva.  Willes  Wangsgaard 

Oh,  the  spring  is  late  and  the  seeding's  late 
But  spring  came  in  today. 
The  cardinals  seeking  their  summer  haunts 
Paused  briefly  on  their  way. 

The  cardinals  pecked  in  our  chicken  yard 
For  grain  that  the  hens  had  left, 
And  the  sudden  pattern  of  crimson  wings 
Wore  spring  in  its  warp  and  weft. 

Oh,  the  cardinals  paused  in  our  yard  today, 
They  and  the  spring  together. 
And  the  trees  are  beaded  with  swelling  buds 
As  red  as  a  cardinal's  feather. 


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WiJma  Boyle  Bunker 


TJAVE  you  ever  been  torn  between  a  sink  full  of  breakfast  dishes  and  an  overwhelm- 
•'•  ■*•  ing  desire  to  capture  a  thought  on  paper  which  has  suddenly  taken  shape  in  your 
mind?  Or  have  you  glanced  out  your  window  at  the  morning  sun  on  the  snowcapped 
mountains,  and  ignoring  unmade  beds,  reached  for  your  pallet  and  brush?  To  get 
your  house  in  order,  have  you  ever  postponed  writing  down  the  beginning  of  a  melody 
or  verse,  and  then  found  later  that  you  had  lost  it? 

Why,  oh,  why  can't  the  inspirations  come  when  the  floors  are  swept  and  the 
dusting  done? 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


Hukh  Parker,  General  Secretary-Treasurer 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  oi  Instructions,  page  123. 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Lucile  Bunker 

SOUTHERN  STATES  MISSION,  GEORGIA  DISTRICT,  MACON  BRANCH 
RELIEF  SOCIETY  HOLDS  OUTSTANDING  BAZAAR 

Officers  of  the  Macon,  Georgia,  Branch  are  shown  checking  some  of  the  many 
articles  which  were  featured  in  their  bazaar.  Left  to  right  are:  Alma  P.  Hudson,  Sec- 
retary; Mazelle  B.  Clark,  President;  Hattie  G.  Holloman,  Counselor;  and  Mae  Lomi- 
nick,  work  meeting  leader.  Rosa  T.  Parker,  Counselor,  was  absent  when  the  picture 
was  taken. 

Lucile  Bunker,  President,  Southern  States  Mission,  reports:  "Our  Relief  Society 
organization  is  growing  very  steadily  in  the  South,  and  while  some  small  groups  in  the 
outlying  branches  struggle  to  find  teachers  enough,  the  work  goes  forward  just  the 
same.  Last  year  we  made  fine  gains  in  Magazine  sales  as  well  as  procuring  sixty  addi- 
tional visiting  teachers  and  making  1,200  more  visits  to  the  homes  than  the  previous 
year." 

She  continues:  "This  picture  of  the  Macon  Branch  bazaar  is  typical  of  the  fine 
bazaars  we  have  yearly  in  our  eighty-seven  organizations." 

Page  276 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


277 


Photograph  submitted  by  Veda  F.   Moss 

RENO  STAKE  (NEVADA)   SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC  FOR 
STAKE   QUARTERLY   CONFERENCE,   January    20,    1957 

Pauline  Richardson,  stake  chorister,  is  seated  on  the  front  row  at  left.  Norma 
Kotter,  stake  organist,  is  seated  on  the  front  row  at  right. 

Veda  F.  Moss,  President,  Reno  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  the  activities  of  the 
Singing  Mothers:  "This  chorus  furnished  the  music  for  the  January  stake  quarterly 
conference.  We  have  sixteen  wards  and  branches;  there  are  about  seventy-five  mem- 
bers in  the  chorus;  however,  all  were  not  present  because  of  a  snowstorm." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Eva  L.  Clinger 

SHELLEY  STAKE   (IDAHO)   SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC  FOR 
STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

Sister  Eva  L.  Clinger,  President,  Shelley  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  Members 
of  the  Singing  Mothers  choruses  from  the  ten  wards  in  our  stake  participated  in  the 
singing  for  both  sessions  in  our  quarterly  conference.  Sister  Florence  Dye,  stake 
chorister,  is  third  from  the  right  in  the  back  row;  Verla  Thomas,  stake  organist  is 
second  from  the  right  in  the  back  row. 


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Alice  Money  B^ihy 

Spring  dances  in  this  valley 
On  ballerina  toes, 
And  leaves  her  magic  footprints 
In  blossoms  as  she  goes. 
She  curtsies  by  the  willow 
And  buds  break  shining  skins; 
Petalled  miracles  erupt 
Everywhere  she  spins. 

Once  she  touched  the  apple  buds 
Which  framed  my  new  love's  hair; 
StiJJ  my  dear  love  seems  to  me 
Just  as  young  and  iaii. 

She  traces  with  a  fairy  hand 
A  tall  pear's  silhouette. 
The  almond's  cone  at  flowering 
Describes  her  pirouette. 
She  twirls  on  pointed  satin  feet 
Along  the  plum's  dark  ranks 
And  mirrored  pink  and  purple 
Perfume  the  blue  lake's  banks. 

She  dances  in  this  valley 
In  vine  and  shiuh  and  tree. 
Oh,  let  her  kiss  the  apple  hough 
And  spring  will  come  to  me. 


The  Cover:  The  Majestic  Naerofjord,  Nord  Trondelag,  Norway 
Photograph  by  Wilse 
Submitted  by  Zina  R.  Engebretsen 

Frontispiece:  Almond  Orchard  in  Antelope  Valley,  California 
Photograph  by  Ward  Linton 

Cover  Design  by  Evan  Jensen 


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The  December  issue  of  1\\q  Relief  So- 
ciety Magazine  is  a  marvelous  revelation 
from  cover  to  cover,  especially  to  us  who 
are  so  far  from  home,  away  down  here  in 
the  "Land  of  the  Southern  Cross"  half- 
way around  the  world  from  the  beautiful 
edifice  featured  in  that  issue.  I  have 
heard  many  favorable  comments  around 
our  mission,  not  only  from  Rehef  Society 
members,  but  from  the  saints  in  general, 
and  from  missionaries.  Thanks  for  such 
an  inspirational  masterpiece  of  art. 
— Adelphia  D.  Bingham 

President 

South  Australian  Mission 
Relief  Society 
Victoria,  Australia 

I  cannot  refrain  from  expressing  my 
appreciation  and  special  gratitude  for  the 
December  Magazine.  The  front  cover  with 
the  beautifully  colored  photograph  of  the 
building  is  magnificent,  with  the  simple 
elegance  of  its  classic  design.  .  .  .  All  of 
the  Magazine  is  inspirational  and  deeply 
impressive  as  a  symbol  of  the  glory  of 
Latter-day  Saint  womanhood  and  the  ef- 
fective work  of  our  great  Relief  Society 
organization.  The  photograph  of  our  be- 
loved First  Presidency  of  the  Church 
standing  in  front  of  the  plaque  with  the 
words  "You  will  receive  instructions 
through  the  order  of  the  Priesthood  .  .  ." 
was  deeply  impressive,  .  .  .  The  Dedi- 
catory Prayer  given  by  our  beloved  Proph- 
et and  President,  David  O.  McKay,  is  soul 
stirring  and  truly  a  masterpiece  of  lan- 
guage and  thought.  .  .  .  The  editorials  by 
Marianne  C.  Sharp  and  Vesta  P.  Craw- 
ford are  messages  of  heartfelt  gratitude, 
encouraging  love  and  sublime  faith. 
— Emma  M.  Gardner 

Sacramento,  California 


I  always  enjoy  Florence  Dunford's 
stories  in  the  Magazine,  and  have  recently 
delighted  in  Deone  Sutherland's  serial 
"Heart's  Bounty."  It  would  be  hard  to 
excel  the  poetry  of  Christie  Lund  Coles. 
— Harriet  H.  Eliason 


I  loved  the  March  issue  of  The  Relief 
Society  Magazine,  and  have  written  a  let- 
ter of  congratulations  to  Vera  H.  May- 
hew  for  her  prize-winning  story  "The 
Slow  Hurry."  Miss  Hulda  Parker,  the  new 
General  Secretary-Treasurer,  is  a  dear 
friend  of  mine.  We  share  the  same  home- 
town. Mrs.  Afton  W.  Hunt,  one  of  the 
new  board  members,  is  a  long-time  ac- 
quaintance. I  knew  her  in  Twin  Falls, 
Idaho,  when  I  was  a  child.  I  was  pleased 
with  their  appointments. 

— Frances  C.  Yost 

Bancroft,  Idaho 


I  would  not  have  missed  the  December 
issue  of  the  Magazine  for  anything.  The 
Magazine  is  always  inspiring,  but  I  think 
I  received  the  biggest  lift  of  spirit  from 
reading  and  rereading  "Charity  Never 
Faileth"  by  George  H.  Mortimer  in  the 
October  1956  issue  of  the  Magazine. 
— Mrs.  Lee  Ridenour 


Salt  Lake  City,  Utah 


Rozet,  Wyoming 


I  feel  I  must  tell  you  that  I  enjoy  the 
Magazine  thoroughly  from  cover  to  cover. 
To  me  it  has  been  the  most  important 
Magazine  since  I  was  a  young  girl  in  my 
mother's  home.  The  Birthday  Congratu- 
lations always  interest  me,  and  I  am  im- 
pressed with  the  number  of  women  who 
have  lived  so  many  years,  experiencing  so 
much  from  "then  to  now." 
— Leah  Huntsman 
Las  Vegas,  Nevada 


I  have  been  a  subscriber  to  the  Maga- 
zine since  I  married,  thirty  years  ago.  Of 
all  the  wonderful  Magazines,  the  most 
beautiful  was  the  issue  showing  the  rooms 
of  the  new  ReHef  Society  Building.  It 
makes  me  very  happy  to  know  that  in  a 
small  way  I  helped  to  build  it.  Some  day 
I  hope  to  visit  the  building  and  meet  the 
people  who  plan  the  Relief  Society  work. 

— Muriel  C.  James 

Monahans,  Texas 


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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of  the   ReUef   Society  of  The   Church   of   Jesus    Christ   of   Latter-day    Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 
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Marianne   C.   Sharp ^    First  Counselor 

Helen    W.    Anderson  ------         Second   Counselor 

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Anna  B   Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S   Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie    M     Ellsworth 

Florence    J     Madsen  Aleine  M.  Young  Charlotte  A.  Larsen         Mary  R.    Young 

Leone  G    Layton  Josie  B.  Bay  Edith  P.  Backman  Mary  V.   Cameron 

Blanche  B.  Stoddard  Christine  H.  Robinson     Winniefred  S.  Alton  W.   Hunt 

Alberta  H.  Christensen      Manwaring  Wealtha  S.  Mendenhall 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE  ^    ^^ 

Editor    -----------  Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Associate  Editor Vesta  P.  Crawford 

Assistant  to  the  Editor tT  „  ^""o  ^c^' «^^^ 

General  Manager        -        -        - Belle  S.  Spafford 

Vol.  44  MAY  1957  No.  5 


(contents 


SPECIAL  FEATURES  „    ^,  ^     ,.     „_,^ 

A  Mother's  Joy  in  Her  Family  Vivian  R.   McConkie  ZBA 

The   Norwegian  Mission   Preston   R.    Nibley  28/ 

Contest  Announcements — 1957  ;^°^ 

Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Contest  ^°^ 

Relief  Society  Short  Story  Contest  •"— ■  ^^^ 

The  Gift  and  the  Giving— of  Poetry  Lael  W.   Hill  291 

How  to  Write  a  Short  Story  Mary  Ek  Knowles  294 

A  Year's   Supply   Mabel   L.   Anderson  309 

Modesty  Is  the  Best  Policy  Y"  n!2 

The  Old-Fashioned  Clock  Vernessa  M.  Nagle  317 

Bright   Barrier    of   the   Plains   Nell    Murbarger  318 

The  Old  Tin  Trunk  Grace  W.  Ball  321 

"Be  Still  and  Know  That  I  Am  God"  Mabel  Law  Atkinson  341 

FICTION 

"This  Is  My  Baby"  Christie  Lund  Coles  298 

The  Third  House  Down  Florence  B.    Dunford  314 

The   Bright   Star— Serial— Chapter   Three   Dorothy   S.   Romney  323 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

From    Near   and  Far   282 

Sixty  Years  Ago  304 

Woman's    Sphere   Ramona    W.    Cannon  305 

Editorial:   Pen  in  Hand Vesta   P.    Crawford  306 

Notes  to  the  Field:  Brigham  Young  University  Leadership  Week  308 

Magazine  Subscriptions  for  1956  Marianne  C.  Sharp  328 

Magazine   Honor   Roll  for   1956   333 

Notes  From  the  Field:  ReUef  Society  Activities  Hulda  Parker  337 

Birthday    Congratulations 344 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes   From   the    Norwegian   Mission    Zina   R.    Engebretsen  312 

Mary  C.   Hendry,   Artist   in   Handicraft   327 

Herbs  for  Modern  Cookery — GarUc  Elizabeth  Williamson  342 

POETRY 

Ballerina— Frontispiece    Alice    Morrey    Bailey  281 

Spring  Sabbath  Dorothy  J.   Roberts  302 

Dawn  Sylvia   Probst  Young  303 

Signal  by  Sun  Maryhale  Woolsey  307 

Hold  Every  Moment  Elise   Bailey  Collins  309 

The  Cereus  Blooms  Ethel  Jacobson  311 

Petition  Grace  Barker  Wilson  313 

Singing  Moments  Mabel  Jones  Gabbott  317 

In  Compensation   Eleanor   W.   Schow  326 

May's   Promise   Catherine    E.    Berry  326 

Triumph    Eva    Willes    Wangsgaard  327 

These  Things  I  Need  Jennie  Brown  Rawlins  341 

Loneliness    Vesta    N.    Lukei  343 

I    Love    a   Window   Caroline    Eyring    Miner  343 

The  Token  Enola   Chamberlin  344 

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A  Mother's  Joy  in  Her  Family 

Vivian  R.  McConkie 
Former  Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 


JOY  is  our  compensation  for 
successfully  terminating  right- 
eousness, because  of  our  obedi- 
ence to  the  laws  upon  which 
blessings  are  predicated.  A  mother's 
joy  is  very  great  when  she  under- 
stands the  laws  of  the  Lord  and  sees 
her  children  faithful  to  them.  To 
Latter-day  Saint  parents  who  have 
covenanted  through  baptism,  the 
sacrament,  the  Priesthood,  and  other 
ordinances,  *'Lo,  children  are  an 
heritage  of  the  Lord." 

'Train  up  a  child  in  the  way  he 
should  go:  and  when  he  is  old,  he 
will  not  depart  from  it,"  holds  great 
promise.  But,  right  or  wrong,  chil- 
dren will  go  some  way.  They  will 
reach  conclusions,  good  or  bad.  No 
one  can  stop  the  mind  from  think- 
ing, nor  a  child  from  habit  forming. 
A  mother  has  greatest  joy  in  her 
child  if  she  patterns  her  life  after 
gospel  standards;  then,  having  filled 
her  child  with  good  things,  she  sees 
him  walking  according  to  the  high- 
est truths  he  has  received.  Mothers 
should,  of  course,  be  acquainted 
with  the  laws  and  ordinances  of  the 
gospel. 

Neither  a  mother  nor  her  child 
will  ever  act  better  than  their  un- 
derstanding. Mothers  acquire  abil- 
ity to  enjoy  by  understanding  the 
purpose  of  life,  as  revealed  through 
the  restored  gospel.  Salvation  is 
based  on  this  principle.  Therefore, 
mothers  who  lead  their  children  to 
faith  and  good  works,  have  increas- 
ing joy  in  them,  nor  do  they  unwit- 
tingly lead  them  in  the  wrong  direc- 
tion. Hence,  mothers'  anxieties  and 
joys  vary.  Behavior  which  is  grave 
Page  284 


to  one  may  be  trivial  to  another. 
Obedient  mothers  are  more  hopeful 
for  their  children  to  love  the  Lord 
than  disobedient  mothers  are  cap- 
able of  being,  hence,  they  have 
greater  joy  when  their  children  are 
found  on  the  Lord's  side. 

Now  that  our  children  have  their 
own  families,  I  look  in  retrospect 
upon  the  work  of  my  hands.  My 
family  being  my  greatest  responsi- 
bility, and,  next  to  God,  my  greatest 
treasure,  I  look  to  it  to  see  whether 
my  life's  labors  are  good  or  bad. 
My  joy  will  overflow  if  they  are  all 
secure  in  the  Church,  with  sound 
gospel  understanding,  having  a  live- 
ly hope  and  determination  for  faith- 
fulness unto  the  end.  Ofttimes 
parents  presume  to  suspend  or 
annul  the  law  by  permitting  their 
children  to  go  to  picture  shows  on 
Sunday  or  otherwise  to  violate  the 
law.  This  evidences  parental  mis- 
understanding. 

In  our  home,  we  never  accepted 
the  intent  of  the  oft-repeated  folly 
of  ''rather  seeing  a  sermon  than 
hearing  one."  Precept  and  example 
walk  hand  in  hand  in  well  regulated 
families.  What  student  ever  earned 
a  passing  grade  by  observing  a  good 
life?  Who  ever  obtained  a  knowl- 
edge of  God's  salvation  by  seeing 
majesty  in  the  universe?  What 
truthful  witness  ever  spoke  who  did 
not  call  for  precept  and  example? 
Hasten  to  plant  both  in  the  child- 
seed  that  God  will  be  pleased  to 
nurture.  The  Lord  gives  parents  a 
free  hand,  with  Satan  bound,  until 
the  age  of  the  child's  accountability. 


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Therein  is  the  mother's  greatest  op- 
portunity. 

Sabbath  day  observance  has  been 
a  steadying  factor  in  our  home. 
Ghmpse  the  joy  of  learning  that  your 
son,  three  thousand  miles  away, 
said  to  a  distinguished  Sunday  din- 
ner guest,  not  a  Latter-day  Saint: 
''We  will  now  go  into  the  living 
room  and  discuss  the  gospel.  That 
is  a  tradition  in  our  family.  It  is 
the  way  my  father  did";  that  a  son 
refused  to  play  a  matched  ball  game 
with  an  out-of-state  team,  because 
it  was  scheduled  for  Sunday;  that 
a  son  in  the  service  said  everywhere 
he  went  he  gathered  Church  mem- 
bers together  to  worship  on  the 
Sabbath  day,  and,  ''If  I  am  sent 
where  there  are  no  Church  mem- 
bers, I  know  the  true  God,  and  on 
the  Sabbath  day  I  will  worship  him 
alone." 

Evils  spring  up  whenever  parents 
take  liberties  with  the  law.  Of 
course,  none  has  a  legal  right  to 
amend  or  repeal  the  word  of  the 
Lord.  Since  none  is  as  wise  as 
the  Lawgiver,  all  should  adjust  to  his 
will.  Rebellions  are  a  bad  example 
to  children.  Be  sincere  in  truth- 
fully observing  the  law,  remember- 
ing that  sincerity  alone  is  not 
enough.  One  may  be  ever  so  sin- 
cere while  traveling  in  the  wrong 
direction. 

Forthright  honesty,  with  no 
double  standards  nor  special  privi- 
leges, is  of  major  importance  in 
the  home.  Every  dishonesty  is  cor- 
rupting—political and  otherwise. 
Teach  your  children  to  live  by  the 
rules  and  interlace  respect  and 
obedience  in  them.  Children  bred 
on  political  trickery  will,  in  their 
own  way  and  time,  apply  their  breed- 
ing to  whatever  they  have  to  do. 


Parents  who  disobey  certain  laws 
will  probably  find  their  children 
taking  similar  liberties.  The  parent 
may  offend  by  using  tea,  coffee,  or 
tobacco,  but  the  child,  taught  in 
disobedience,  may  choose  to  offend 
the  moral  code. 

/^NLY  the  gospel  points  the  true 
way.  It  cannot  be  found  else- 
where. If  mothers  do  not  know  its 
requirements,  they  may  pyramid 
sorrow  upon  themselves.  The  Lord 
holds  them  accountable  to  obey  his 
requirements,  all  of  them.  If  they 
do  it,  their  lives  will  be  easier  at  the 
end  rather  than  harder,  which  is  the 
righteous  plan,  according  to  the  di- 
vine purpose.  Eternal  progress  is  to 
expand  eternally  which  is  the  joy- 
ful course.  Plant  in  children  an 
awareness  that  the  day  in  which 
they  live  is  the  day  of  their  salva- 
tion. Do  not  procrastinate  until 
the  child  is  out  of  reach,  and  do 
not  expect  good  results  from  bad 
teaching  and  example.  Employ  the 
highest  excellence.  Your  child  will 
likely  pattern  after  you.  The  union 
of  school,  society,  and  Church  can- 
not guarantee  good  results  if  the 
home  is  bad.  Fail  in  the  home, 
and  you  bereave  yourself. 

The  influence  of  the  home  can- 
not be  overestimated.  The  Lord 
established  it,  and  civil  authority 
patterns  after  the  divine  plan,  as  to 
responsibility  of  parents.  Teach 
children  respect  for  law  and  consti- 
tuted authorities.  If  wicked  men 
rule,  and  bad  laws  are  enacted,  teach 
with  increasing  care,  lest  the  chil- 
dren become  enemies  to  all  law  and 
all  rulers.  Chart  the  child's  mind 
before  the  time  of  accountability. 
Seek  the  Spirit  of  the  Lord,  and 
finding  it,  keep  it  in  the  home. 


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Studying  the  scriptures  is  of  great 
importance.  Parents  who  do  not  do 
it  have  no  unity  of  understanding  of 
what  God  expects  of  them  and  their 
children.  They  cannot  give  what 
thev  do  not  ha\e,  nor  teach  what 
they  do  not  know.  Why,  oh, 
mothers  of  Israel,  are  there  so  many 
non-temple  marriages,  when  it  is  so 
easy  for  a  mother  with  an  under- 
standing of  the  gospel  to  strengthen 
the  child's  desire  for  the  blessed 
privilege  of  a  faithful  companion 
and  the  blessings  of  the  Priesthood? 
Wliy  do  so  many  \iolate  the  Word 
of  Wisdom;  the  law  of  the  Sabbath, 
and  why  does  sexual  immorality 
stain  some?  Is  it  because  parents 
betrav  God's  trust  and  fail  their 
children? 

Several  little  girls,  all  members  of 
the  Church,  were  planning  a  chil- 
dren's part\-.  One,  out  of  the  ex- 
perience of  her  home,  suggested 
cards.  Another,  reflecting  the  at- 
mosphere of  better  training,  said 
cards  were  ''against  the  Church." 
The  first  asked:  "What  church  do 
you  belong  to?"  It  is  not  so  much 
that  children  fail  their  parents  as 
that  parents  fail  their  children. 
There  is  joy  where  the  parental 
mind  set,  from  before  the  child  is 
born,  is  dedicated  to  hope,  through 
righteous  endeavor  unto  the  end  of 
the  mortal  life. 

A  mother  has  cause  for  joy  when 
her  son,  upon  becoming  twelve 
years  of  age,  tells  the  girl  at  the 
theatre  ticket  office  that  he  now 
requires  an  adult  ticket;  when  her 
little  girl,  leading  in  family  prayer, 
asks  God  to  bless  the  home  and 
keep  the  devil  out;  when  her  small 
son  is  instantly  healed  by  his  own 


prater  of  faith;  when  her  boy,  bare- 
ly old  enough  to  enlist  in  the  Navy, 
directs  the  go\ernment  to  send  one 
tenth  of  his  monthly  pay  to  his 
bishop,  tithing  for  the  Lord;  when 
her  son,  shot  out  of  the  sky,  para- 
chutes to  safetv,  and  on  his  knees 
thanks  God  on  the  spot  for  his  pro- 
tection; when  the  Spirit  whispered 
to  her  son  in  the  midst  of  an  air 
battle,  to  stoop  down  quickly,  and 
he  as  quickly  obeved,  just  in  time 
to  miss  a  shell  that  passed  through 
the  plane's  wall  exactly  where  he 
was  standing;  when  her  husband 
fled  the  house  in  greatest  haste,  not 
knowing  why,  vet  once  out  of  doors 
and  running  through  the  orchard, 
discovered  a  horse  running  among 
the  trees,  his  first-born  child  with 
his  foot  through  the  stirrup,  he 
having  been  brushed  off  by  a  limb. 
Quick  obedience  by  the  father,  ex- 
actly as  directed,  saved  the  life  of 
the  boy.  Think  of  a  mother's  joy, 
mingled  with  sorrow,  when  she 
learned  of  her  son's  reliance  upon 
the  prayer  of  faith  at  Bastone,  and 
that  a  remnant  of  his  company  was 
preserved  from  death,  whilst  almost 
all  about  them  were  slain.  \^isualize 
the  joy  of  a  mother  who  sees  her 
family  married  in  the  house  of  the 
Lord  to  companions  equal  to  them, 
united  in  teaching  their  families  that 
there  is  but  one  source  of  happiness 
—the  favor  of  God. 

A  mother's  joy  o\erflows  within 
her  when  her  heart  and  mind,  and 
the  heart  and  mind  of  her  husband, 
and  the  hearts  and  minds  of  her 
children  and  children's  children  fol- 
low after  the  Lord  in  righteousness. 
These  are  joys  that  mothers  in  the 
Church  may  have  the  happiness  to 
hope  for,  if  only  they  will  follow 
after  the  Lord. 


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:: :  1S5:.  by  Erastus  Sno\^-,  a  r  :r  :t:  i  :  t  Council  of  the 
T"  elve,  and  three  elders  who  accompanied  him  from  S;  :  Like  Cit}.  One 
of  the  first  converts  made  by  the^e  ~  :  ionaries  was  Hans  F.  Petersen  of 
Aalborg,  Denmark, 

In  September  iS^i.  Ii.it:  Pjitre:^.  1:  :e  t  :ta  dv  ErastiLS  Snow 
to  joume\-  to  Xon^ay  ari  i;^:.  11  n  that  countn*.     He 

took  passage  on  a  sailing  vessel,  t  :i  ::  n  ..izoig  to  Osterrisor,  Nor- 
\^-ay.  -\s  he  had  neglected  to  obtar.  1  passport,  he  was  forced  to  :e:i:a 
home  a  few  days  later.  His  conversations  on  the  boat  both  goirz  iT.i 
returning,  led  to  the  conversion  of  the  ship's  captain,  Svend  Larsen,  ^z.i 
this  faithful  man  v^^as  baptized  on  September  23.  1S51.  "being  the  £r>: 
fruit  of  the  gospel  in  Norway." 

Elder  Petersen  made  the  second  joume\'  to  Norway  in  October  1S51, 
and  on  November  26th,  following,  baptized  t\\"o  converts  at  Osterrisor. 
Other  baptisms  followed,  and  on  July  16,  1S52,  the  first  branch  of  the 
Church  in  Norway  w^as  organized  at  Osterrisor,  with  eighteen  members. 


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Photo  by  Burton  Holmes 
Ewing   Galloway 

A  FARMSTEAD  IN  UPPER  ROMSDAL,  NORWAY 

More  elders  were  sent  to  assist  Elder  Petersen  and  a  second  branch  was 
organized  in  Frederikstad.    The  work  has  continued  since  that  time. 

The  first  missionaries  to  Norway  met  with  considerable  persecution, 
and  many  were  imprisoned,  as  freedom  of  religion  was  not  allowed.  Nor- 
way remained  a  part  of  the  Scandinavian  Mission  until  1905,  when  the 
Danish-Norwegian  Mission  was  formed.  Then,  in  1920,  the  Norwegian 
Mission  was  created,  with  Andrew  S.  Schow  as  the  first  president. 

Andrew  Jenson,  Assistant  Church  Historian,  estimated  in  1930,  that, 
from  1851  to  the  end  of  1930,  converts  baptized  in  Norway  numbered 
8,555.  ^^  ^^^^  number  he  computed,  approximately  3,500  had  emigrated 
to  Utah. 

At  the  close  of  the  year  1956,  there  were  1,623  members  of  the 
Church  in  Norway,  located  in  fourteen  branches.  Ray  Engebretsen  of 
Seattle,  Washington,  is  serving  as  the  mission  president.  In  December 
1956,  twelve  Relief  Society  organizations  were  reported  with  340  members. 
Zina  R.  Engebretsen  presides  over  the  Norwegian  Mission  Relief  Society. 


Note:  The  cover  of  this  Magazine,  'The  Majestic  Naerofjord,  Nord  Trondelag, 
Norway,"  represents  typical  Norwegian  scenery.  See  also  "Recipes  From  the  Nor- 
wegian Mission,"  page  ^12, 


Contest  Announcements — 1957 

CONTESTS  CLOSE  AUGUST  15,  1957 

THE  Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Contest  and  the  Relief  Society  Short  Story 
Contest  are  conducted  annually  by  the  general  board  of  Relief  So- 
ciety to  stimulate  creative  writing  among  Latter-day  Saint  women 
and  to  encourage  high  standards  of  work.    Latter-day  Saint  women  who 
qualify  under  the  rules  of  the  respective  contests  are  invited  to  enter  their 
work  in  either  or  both  contests. 

The  general  board  would  be  pleased  to  receive  entries  from  the  out- 
lying stakes  and  missions  of  the  Church  as  well  as  from  those  in  and  near 
Utah.  Since  the  two  contests  are  entirely  separate,  requiring  different  writ- 
ing skills,  the  winning  of  an  award  in  one  of  them  in  no  way  precludes 
winning  in  the  other.  It  is  suggested  that  authors  who  plan  to  enter  the 
contests  study  carefully  the  articles  on  story  writing  and  poetry  which  ap- 
pear in  this  Magazine  and  similar  articles  in  the  May  issues,  1955  and  1956, 
and  in  the  June  issues  for  the  preceding  nine  years. 

ibliza  LK.   (bnow  Lroern   L^ontest 

npHE  Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Contest  2.  Only  one  poem  may  be  submitted  by 

opens  with  this  announcement     ^       contestant. 
T    \  .  ,  T^  •  ^.     Ihe    poem    must    not    exceed    hrty 

and  closes  August  15,  1957.    Prizes      ^-^^^  ^^^  ^^^^^^^  b^  typewritten,  if  pos- 

will  be  awarded  as  follows:  sible;    where    this    cannot    be    done,    it 

First  prize $2C  should  be  legibly  written.     Only  one  side 

Second  prize                    $20  °^  ^^^  paper  is  to  be  used.   (A  duplicate 

f-pi  •    1       •                              (t^  copy  of  the  poem  should  be  retained  by 

,             P           •,""',' 1  1-  1         •  contestants  to  insure  against  loss.) 

Prize  poems  will  be  published  in  ^.  The   sheet   on  which   the  poem   is 

the  January   1958  issue  of  The  Re-  written  is  to  be  without  signature  or  other 

lid   Society  Magazine    (the   birth-  identifying  marks. 

month  of  Eliza  R.  Snow).  .    5-   No   explanatory   material   or  picture 

-p.  .          •       .                       1                 ,1  IS  to  accompany  the  poem. 

Prize-wmmng  poems  become  the  ^  ^^^^  ^^^^  -^  ^^  b^  accompanied  by 

property  of  the  Relief  Society  gen-      a  stamped  envelope  on  which  is  written 

eral    board    and    may    not    be    pub-       the  contestant's  name  and  address.     Nom 

lished  by  others  except  upon  writ-  ^^  plumes  are  not  to  be  used. 
,                    ••          r             .1                     1  7.  A  signed  statement  is  to  accompany 

ten    permission    trom    the    general  . ,  ^  u    -4.4.  ^       t.i  ■ 

^  ^  tiie  poem  subinitted,  ccrhiymg: 

board.     The  general  board  reserves  a.  That  the  author  is  a  member  of  The 

the  right  to  publish  any  of  the  other  Church  of  Jesus  Christ  of  Latter-day 

poems  submitted,  paying  for  them  Saints. 

at  the  time  of  publication  at  the         ^-  ^^^^    ^^^  P^^"'  .  ('^f ^    ^f^^    '' 

-,       ,  ,  .     ^  the  contestants  ongmal  work, 

regular  Magazine  rates.  c.  That  it  has  never  been  published. 

T)    1      £       .r  .      .  d.  That  it  is  not  in   the  hands   of  an 

Rules  tor  the  contest:  j-.  .1  •., 

editor  or  other  person  with  a  view 

1.  This  contest  is  open  to  all  Latter-day  to  publication. 

Saint  women,  exclusive  of  members  of  the  e.  That   it   will   not   be   published  nor 

Relief    Society    general    board    and    em-  submitted   elsewhere   for  publication 

ployees  of  the  Relief  Society  general  board.  until  the  contest  is  decided. 

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8,  A  writer  who  has  received  the  first 
prize  for  two  consecutive  years  must  wait 
t\\'0  years  before  she  is  again  ehgiblc  to 
enter  the  contest. 

9.  The  judges  shall  consist  of  one  mem- 
ber of  the  general  board,  one  person  from 
the  English  department  of  an  educational 
institution,  and  one  person  who  is  a 
recognized  writer.  In  case  of  complete  dis- 
agreement among  judges,  all  poems  select- 
ed for  a  place  by  the  various  judges  will  be 
submitted  to  a  specially  selected  commit- 
tee for  final  decision. 


In  evaluating  the  poems,  consideration 
will  be  given  to  the  following  points: 

a.  Message  or  theme 

b.  Form  and  pattern 

c.  Rhythm  and  meter 

d.  Accomplishment  of  the   pur- 
pose of  the  poem 

e.  Climax 

10.  Entries  must  be  postmarked  not 
later  than  August  15,  1957. 

11.  All  entries  are  to  be  addressed  to 
Relief  Society  Eliza  R.  Snow  Poem  Con- 
test, 76  North  Main,  Salt  Lake  City  11, 
Utah. 


irielief  Society  Short  Story^    (contest 

npHE    Relief    Society    Short    Story  2.  Only  one  story  may  be  submitted  by 

^     Contest   for   1957   opens  with  ^'^^^  contestant. 

this  announcement  and  closes  Aug-  ^,  ^he  story  must  not  exceed   3  000 

^  words  m  length  and  must  be  typewritten. 

USt  l^y  1957'  The   number  of   the   words   must   appear 

The    prizes    this    year   will   be   as  on  the  first  page  of  the  manuscript.   (All 

follows*  words    should   be   counted   including   one 

and  two  letter  words.)    A  duplicate  copy 

rirst  prize   4)50  of  the   story  should  be  retained  by   eon- 

Second  prize  $40  testants  to  insure  against  loss. 

Third   prize  $30  4.  The  contestant's  name  is  not  to  ap- 

The    three    prize-winning    stories  Pf"  ^"y^here  on  the  manuscript,  but  a 

1  T  1      1                     •     1      •  stamped    envelope    on    which    is    written 

will   be    published   consecutively    m  the  contestant's  name  and  address  is  to  be 

the  first  three  issues  of  The  Relief  enclosed  with  the  story.     Nom  de  plumes 

Society  Magazine  for  1958.     Prize-  -^re  not  to  be  used. 

winning  stories  become  the  property  5-  A  signed  statement  is  to  accompany 

of  the  Relief  Society  general  board  ^^''  '^^'^  submitted  certifymg: 

and  may  not  be  published  by  others  ^-  J}}''^  ^}'^  ff""'  ''^  "l^"!^^'^  "f  ^}'^ 

^                 ^  .^                  ■'     .     .  Church  ot  Jesus  Christ  ot  Latter-day 

except     upon     written     permission  Saints. 

from  the  general  board.  The  general  b.  That  the  author  has  had  at  least  one 

board  reserves  the  right  to  publish  literary  composition  published  or  ac- 

any  of  the  other  stories  entered  in  cepted  for  publication.   (This  state- 

the  contest,  paying  for  them  at  the  "^^"^  ^."^^  ^'''^  "^"?^  f"^  ^^'\  f 
\K.  ^    .^                             1  publication    m    which    the    contest- 
time   of   publication   at   the  regular  g^t's  work  has  appeared,  or,  if  not 
Magazine  rates.  yet    pubhshed,    evidence    of    accept- 
ance for  publication.) 

Rules  for  the  contest:  C.  That  the  story  submitted   (state  the 

title   and  number  of  words)    is  the 

1.   This   contest   is   open   to   Latter-day  contestant's  original  work. 

Saint    women — exclusive    of    members    of  d.  That   it   has   never   been   published, 

the  Relief  Society  general  board  and  em-  that  it  is   not  in   the  hands   of  an 

ployees  of  the  general  board — who   have  editor  or  other  person  with  a  view 

had  at  least  one  literary  composition  pub-  to  publication,  and  that  it  will  not 

lished  or  accepted  for  publication.  be    published    nor    submitted    else- 


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where  for  publication  until  the  con- 
test is  decided. 

6.  No  explanatory  material  or  picture  is 
to  accompany  the  story. 

7.  A  writer  who  has  received  the  first 
prize  for  two  consecutive  years  must  wait 
for  two  years  before  she  is  again  eligible 
to  enter  the  contest. 

8.  The  judges  shall  consist  of  one  mem- 
ber of  the  general  board,  one  person  from 
the  English  department  of  an  educational 
institution,  and  one  person  who  is  a  re- 
cognized writer.  In  case  of  complete  dis- 
agreement among  the  judges,  all  stories  se- 


lected for  a  place  by  the  various  judges 
will  be  submitted  to  a  specially  selected 
committee  for  final  decision. 

In  evaluating  the  stories,  consideration 
will  be  given  to  the  following  points: 

a.  Characters  and  their  presentation 

b.  Plot  development 

c.  Message  of  the  story 

d.  Writing  style 

9.  Entries  must  be  postmarked  not  later 
than  August  15,  1957. 

10.  All  entries  are  to  be  addressed  to 
Rehef  Society  Short  Story  Contest, 
76  North  Main,  Salt  Lake  City  11,  Utah. 


The  Gift  and  the  Giving — of  Poetry 


Lael  W.  Hill 


EVERY  soul  newborn  into  this 
world  is  given  not  only  the 
gift  of  life,  but  certain  tal- 
ents, which  may  be  developed  and 
used  to  numerous  ends.  These  tal- 
ents include  every  field  of  endeavor 
from  home  baking  to  politics  to 
music  and  poetry,  which  gift  is 
sometimes  looked  upon  with  envy 
by  those  who  ''cannot"  write  verse. 

Yet  the  truth  is  that  some  poetic 
ability  is  given  everyone.  Poetry  is 
so  much  of  life,  and  there  are  many 
real  poets  in  the  world  who  have 
just  not  ''found  themselves,"  or  who 
have  become  so  entangled  among 
the  humdrums  they  lose  the  aware- 
ness of  each  day's  newness  and 
uniqueness,  which  is  of  primary  im- 
portance to  the  making  of  poems. 

It  is  almost  as  if  poetry  were  a 
world  one  must  approach  as  a  child. 

For,  as  a  young  child  explores  the 
world  about  him,  looking,  listening, 
touching  with  curious  fingers,  sniff- 
ing, and  tasting  everything  he  can 
put  his  mouth  to,  so  wTiters  of  verse 
must    observe    everything    around 


them,  over  and  over,  as  if  for  the 
first  time.  Actually,  everything  is 
always  different,  if  only  from  the 
ever-changing  points  of  view  we 
develop  as  we  grow  in  knowledge 
and  understanding.  But  we  must, 
to  keep  alive  this  awareness  of  the 
world,  be  ourselves  always  active  in 
life  —  not  just  "busy"  at  task  or 
pastime  —  but  opening  eyes,  mind, 
and  heart  to  every  day  —  until, 
filled  with  discovery,  we  must  share 
with  others. 

Poetry  is  communication.  And 
communication  is  a  first  need  of 
mankind.  The  newborn  squalls  a 
lusty  announcement  on  his  arrival 
to  this  life,  and  from  then  on  finds 
his  voice  very  important.  He  cries, 
coos,  babbles,  coaxing  or  command- 
ing; he  imitates  what  he  hears,  tell- 
ing his  wants,  thoughts,  experiences, 
and  beliefs.    So  with  the  poet. 

Writing  poetry  is  a  two-way 
process  —  a  taking  in  (inspira- 
tion) and  a  giving  forth  (expres- 
sion ) .  We  receive  inspiration  from 
many  sources.    Besides  our  personal 


292  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MAY  1957 

observation  and  experience,  we  may  he  receives  —  his  ''taking  in."  This 

have  others'  problems  and  achieve-  is  also  true  with  poets.     The  tools 

ments  for  the  listening.     We  may  we  work  with  are  not  only  pencil, 

learn  as  much  as  anyone  ever  knew,  paper,    typewriter,   and    experience, 

if  we  read  widely  and  wisely  enough,  real  or  imagined.  We  need  a  knowl- 

The    Bible,    other    poets'    poems,  edge  of   rhythms,   of  language,   of 

travelogues,     and     biographies     are  verse. 

doorways    to    otherwise    impossible  Rhythm  is  with  the  child  from 

adventures.    And  when  we  are  thus  the  beginning,  and  all  life  on  earth 

filled,  we  may  give  forth.  is   set  to   one  kind   or  another  of 

Poetry  must  be  a  labor  of  love,  regularity,    from    the    turn    of   the 

for   this   day  seems   to   offer   little  seasons    or    the    ebb   and    flow    of 

appreciation,    and   therefore,    slight  ocean  tides,  to  our  patterns  of  sleep 

demand  for  what  has  been  called  and  waking,  our  stride,  our  pulse 

the  stepchild  of  the  arts.     Yet  we  beat.     The  rhythms,  or  meters,  of 

who  work  at  poetry  find  reward  in  poetry,    then,    are    as    natural    as 

the  enrichment  of  our  own  minds  breathing.     But  it  is  the  poet's  re- 

and  lives,  the  increasing  of  our  own  sponsibility  to  know  —  and  to  use 

powers  of  appreciation,  the  satisfac-  most  effectively  —  the  meters  de- 

tion  of  contributing  some  coin,  how-  veloped  and  named  by  our  predeces- 

ever  small,  to  the  wealth  of  human  sors:     iambic,     trochaic,     spondaic, 

wisdom.  dactylic,     amphibrachic,    anapcstic, 

and  many  variations. 
pOETRY  is  a  labor  that  demands  In  free  verse  cadence  is  empha- 
its  share  of  sacrifice,  as  does  any  sized  —  a  flow  of  words  usually 
creative  effort.  It  demands  fine  sensi-  pleasantly  rhythmical  yet  with  no 
tivity  to  the  beauty  and  the  ugli-  regularly  stressed  syllables, 
ness  around  us.  It  demands  great  Language,  of  course,  is  our  use 
receptivity  of  moods,  ideas,  joys,  and  of  words.  The  words  we  choose  may 
hurts.  It  demands  time  —  hours  be  quite  simple,  or  complex  —  and 
we  may  feel  should  be  devoted  to  either  can  be  used  effectively  in 
cleaning  house  or  canning  fruit,  or  poetry,  though  the  choice  should 
mending  socks  and  levis.  Frequent-  be  consistent  in  any  one  poem, 
ly  a  compromise  can  be  effected  Every  poet  ought  to  select  each 
here,  the  children  helping  with  word  for  truest  tone  and  perspective 
chores,  which  is  also  good  for  them,  of  expression.  This  will  not  always 
or  the  time  spent  on  these  duties  be  the  factual  word;  it  will  frequent- 
used  simultaneously  for  turning  over  ly  be  one  that  in  prose  might  have 
old  conclusions  and  receiving  new  some  other  meaning.  We  might 
inspiration.  The  point  is:  to  write,  write:  "All  the  tiny  insect  eyes," 
you  must  write .  And  you  must  do  but  a  moth's  eyes  glow  ruby  red  in 
it  now.  There  is  no  other  time,  and  lamplight,  so  we  extend  the  image 
poetry  ideas  set  aside  for  someday  to  include  all  these  little  creatures, 
may  never  be  written.  and    say,    "All    the    tiny    jewelled 

How  well  a  child  communicates  eyes"      (From      "While     Sunmier 

depends  on  the  extent  and  sureness  Sings,"   The  Rdid  Society  Maga- 

of  his  explorations,  the  instruction  zine,  June   1955)-     It  might  have 


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293 


been  even  better  to  say  ''jewels  of 
eyes/'  thus  eliminating  an  adjective. 
Adjectives  so  often  become  mere 
''padding." 

Sometimes,  in  the  constant  search 
for  new  expressions,  the  poet  per- 
haps tries  too  hard,  and  his  poem 
will  not  be  understandable  to  any 
reader;  or  it  may  be  laughable  where 
humor  was  not  intended.  A  poem 
printed  in  a  century-old  book  says: 

I  made  a  posie,  while  the  day  ran  by: 
Here  will  I  smell  my  Temnant  out,  and  tie 
My  life  within  this  band  .... 

(ItaKcs  mine). 

Or,  secretly  or  unconsciously 
doubting  his  poem's  clarity,  a  poet 
may  add  an  explanation  or  a 
"moral."  If  this  happens,  he  should 
re-examine  the  whole  poem,  reword 
where  necessary,  and  so  present  the 
message  with  no  glaring  label. 

npHE  forms  into  which  we  may 
set  our  ideas  are  so  many  and 
varied  that  probably  no  one  of  us 
will  ever  try  them  all.  For  less  ex- 
perienced verse  writers,  I  would  sug- 
gest working  first  with  the  simple 
ballad  or  lyric,  the  sonnet,  and  per- 
haps terza  rima  (less  difficult  than 
it  sounds). 

The  ballad  is  probably  easiest, 
with  its  four-line  stanzas,  the  first 
line  in  each  stanza  rhyming  with 
the  third  line,  the  second  with  the 
fourth.  The  ballad  is  usually  iambic 
meter,  which  seems  the  most 
natural  for  the  English  language. 
This  form  is  most  often  used  for 
lyric  verse,  which  has  a  "singing" 
quality.  A  "four-three-four-three" 
pattern  of  measured  beats  is  not  dif- 
ficult to  follow,  and  may  be  varied 
by  an  extra,  unstressed  syllabic  oc- 
casionally, thus  avoiding  the  "sing- 


song" of  nursery  rhymes  and 
doggerel.  It  is  not  the  total  num- 
ber of  syllables  that  controls  line 
length,  but  rather  the  number  of 
accented  syllables. 

Most  readers  arc  familiar  with  the 
sonnet,  the  fourteen-line  pattern 
used  so  beautifully  by  Shakespeare, 
Elizabeth  Barrett  Browning,  and 
Edna  St.  Vincent  Millay.  Its  five- 
stress  iambic  meter,  its  rhyme 
schemes,  most  popularly  "A  B  A  B 
CDCDEFEFG  G,"  offer  ex- 
cellent challenge.  And  some  of  the 
loveliest  poems  of  our  language  are 
in  this  form.  But  one  word  of  cau- 
tion: sonnets  can  be  habit  forming, 
and  it  might  be  a  good  idea,  if 
poems  seem  always  to  begin  as  son- 
nets, to  break  the  rhythm  deliberate- 
ly and  try  another  pattern,  just  for 
added  experience. 

Terza  rima  is  a  pattern  of 
three-line  stanzas,  with  interlocking 
rhymes  (A  B  A,  B  C  B,  etc.)  and 
a  concluding  couplet.  It  is  often 
fourteen  lines,  like  a  sonnet,  but 
can  be  shorter  or  longer. 

A  good  book  on  poetry  technique 
will  describe  many  other  "fixed" 
forms,  which  are  always  good  prac- 
tice to  try,  if  only  that  one  may 
then  better  appreciate  other  poets' 
work.  And  remember  that  almost 
any  of  the  principles  of  poetry,  once 
thoroughly  mastered,  may  be  "bent" 
or  even  broken,  if  it  is  done  skill- 
fully and  to  purposeful  effect. 

Free  verse,  often  mistakenly 
thought  to  be  the  easiest  to 
write,  is  as  exacting  as  any  other, 
sometimes  more  exacting.  While  it 
may  ha\'e  cadence,  for  instance,  it 
must  not  have  meter  —  and  how 
slyly  an  iambic  line  can  slip  in,  or 
the  poetic  idea  degenerate  into 
prose!  And  how  easy  it  is  to  get  on 


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a  tangent  to  nowhere!  Though  the 
modern  idea  is  to  suggest  rather 
than  to  tell,  allowing  the  reader  to 
participate  in  this  creative  venture, 
the  poet  should  not  lead  his  part- 
ner into  a  morass  of  abstraction  and 
there  leave  him  without  even  a  map. 
And,  as  Clement  Wood  once  wrote 
me:  'The  choice  of  the  free  verse 
form  leaves  no  excuse  for  less  than 
the  perfect  word."  Note  that  word 
''form."  Like  all  freedoms,  free 
verse  requires  almost  more  discipline 
than  any  rigid  form.  Without  dis- 
cipline in  poetry,  as  in  life,  there 
can  be  only  chaos. 

The  gift  of  life  is  invitation  to 
many  kinds  of  poetry.  We  who 
choose  to  work  and  play  with  words 
might  do  well  to  heed  this  admoni- 
tion, found  in  a  newspaper  column 


some  time  ago:  ''Whatever  talent 
you  possess  is  God's  gift  to  you. 
What  you  do  with  it  is  your  gift 
to  God." 

Above  and  beyond  our  own  needs 
of  expression,  our  personal  ambi- 
tions, therefore,  shall  we  not  offer 
to  the  Lord  our  most  sincere,  most 
careful  effort? 

SOME  HELPFUL  BOOKS  FOR  POETS 

First  Principles  of  Verse,  by  Robert 
Hillyer,  $2 

How  to  Revise  Your  Own  Poems,  by 
Anne  Hamilton,  $1,50 

Writing  Light  Verse,  by  Richard  Ar- 
mour, $2.  (The  Writer,  Inc.,  8  Arhngton 
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How  to  Write  a  Short  Story 


Mary  Ek  Knowles 


HAVING  been  a  beginning 
writer  myself,  I  know  the 
many  problems  which  con- 
front you  new  writers  or  would-be 
writers  for  The  Relief  Society  Maga- 
zine. You  have  a  burning  within 
you,  a  great  urge  to  tell  a  story.  You 
see  something,  or  you  hear  some- 
thing, or  some  incident  occurs  in 
your  life  and  you  know,  'That 
would  make  a  good  story."  And 
yet  when  you  try  to  put  your  idea 
on  paper  you  find  difficulty  in  ex- 
pressing yourself. 

I  have  been  in  that  predicament 
myself.  I  still,  at  this  late  date,  find 
myself    limited,    because    a    writer 


never  learns  everything,  and  each 
story  is  a  challenge,  a  problem  which 
must  be  solved  in  such  a  different 
and  fresh  way  that  it  will  achieve 
publication. 

I  cannot  tell  you  how  to  become 
a  writer.  No  one  can.  But,  per- 
haps, if  I  pass  on  to  you  some  of 
the  things  I  have  learned  from  ex- 
perience, I  can  help  you  get  through 
the  first  agonizing  stages. 

First,  the  beginning  writer  should 
think  seriously  about-  the  choice  of 
subject  matter.  It  must  be  subject 
matter  with  which  he  is  familiar 
or  the  story  will  have  the  dull  thud 
of  a  counterfeit  coin.     Remember 


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that  the  greatest  short  stories  have 
been  written  about  people  as  fa- 
mihar  as  the  family  next  door,  faced 
with  such  problems  as:  jealousy  be- 
tween brothers;  the  waywardness  of 
a  daughter;  the  misunderstanding 
between  a  mother  and  her  daugh- 
ter-in-law; the  discouragement  of  a 
husband.  These  are  only  a  few  of 
the  problems  which  would  make  for 
an  absorbing  short  story,  but  they 
are  age-old. 

Look  in  the  Bible  or  The  Book 
of  Mormon,  and  you  will  find  there 
the  same  problems,  because  human 
nature  does  not  change.  This  is 
the  reason  why  such  basic  problems 
give  a  story  reader  identification.  By 
reader  identification  we  mean  that 
the  reader  can  see  himself  faced 
with  such  a  problem  and  ask  him- 
self, ''What  would  I  do  in  such  a 
situation?" 

/^HOOSE  then  a  problem  with 
^  which  you  are  familiar.  ''But," 
you  ask,  "if  all  of  the  problems  are 
age-old,  how  can  I  present  them  in 
a  new  way?" 

The  answer  to  this  lies  in 
characterization.  There  are  no  new 
problems,  no  new  plots,  but  it  is 
the  manner  in  which  your  main 
character  meets  his  problem  and 
solves  it  that  gives  your  story  a  fresh 
slant.  Because  no  two  people  are 
alike  and  no  two  people  will  solve 
a  problem  in  the  same  way. 

Second  in  importance  is  character- 
ization. Know  your  characters  and 
make  them  alive  to  the  reader.  For 
instance,  a  problem  may  be  a  simple 
everyday  problem,  but  to  the  main 


character  it  is  a  life-and-death  mat- 
ter, and  you  must  make  your  reader 
feel  his  anxiety. 

You  will  need  some  knowledge 
of  human  nature  and  reactions.  Ask 
yourself  such  questions  as:  What 
forces  within  are  pushing  my 
character?  What  kind  of  childhood 
did  he  have?  What  are  his  inter- 
ests? What  are  his  ambitions? 
What  is  his  moral  code?  It  is  im- 
portant to  know  these  things,  be- 
cause in  a  time  of  crisis  his  actions 
will  be  consistent  with  his  back- 
ground which  begins  at  birth. 

Let  me  recommend  very  highly 
the  book  Characters  Make  Your 
Story  by  Maren  Elwood.*  This  book 
is  well  worth  the  price.  Read  it 
from  cover  to  cover,  and  then  go 
back  and  do  the  exercises  at  the 
end  of  each  chapter.  Characters  do 
make  your  story. 

A  few  paragraphs  above,  I  stated 
that  the  problem  must  be  a  life-and- 
death  matter  to  the  main  character. 
A  story  which  arouses  no  feeling  of 
emotion  in  the  reader's  heart  is  a 
lifeless  thing.  So  how  can  a  writer 
put  emotion  into  his  story?  Remem- 
ber this  one  thing:  It  is  the  situation 
which  arouses  an  emotion.  Not  the 
flowery  or  descriptive  adjectives 
used,  but  the  situation.  Place  your 
character  in  a  dramatic  situation, 
and  you  will  have  emotion. 

To  give  an  example:  The  story 
opens  with  a  young  wife  being  told 
by  her  family  doctor  that  her  hus- 
band is  dying.  Nothing  can  be 
done  for  him,  and  for  the  good  of 
the  patient  he  must  not  be  told  the 
truth.    Heretofore    the    wife    has 


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shared  every  problem  with  her  hus- 
band, but  now  she  must  stand 
alone.  That  situation  creates  an 
emotion,  and  the  emotion  intensi- 
fies as  the  wife  must  conceal  her 
true  emotions  and  yet  appear  hope- 
ful. 

And  how  can  the  reader  be  made 
to  know  her  concealed  emotions? 
By  knowing  what  the  wife  is  think- 
ing. Read  thoroughly  the  chapter, 
'Thoughts  are  Things"  in  Charac- 
ters Make  Your  Story.  Not  only 
does  this  thought-device  create  emo- 
tion, but  it  can  do  many  other 
things;  for  example,  it  is  an  excellent 
way  to  create  reader  sympathy  for 
an  unsympathetic  character. 

For  instance:  A  character  may  act 
in  a  bold,  ruthless  manner,  but  from 
his  thoughts  the  reader  knows  that 
underneath  he  is  frightened,  inse- 
cure, and  desperately  wanting  affec- 
tion. The  very  fact  that  he  goes 
about  in  such  a  clumsy  way  to  get 
affection  gives  the  reader  a  sympa- 
thy for  him. 

npHERE  are  a  few  basic  rules 
which  a  good  short  story  must 
obey,  but  don't  be  misled  by  their 
seeming  simplicity.  To  follow  these 
rules  takes  the  greatest  skill. 

1.  State  the  main  character's  problem 
at  the  beginning  of  the  story. 

2.  Make  certain  the  character  solves  his 
problem. 

3.  Check  to  see  if  the  story  moves  for- 
ward towards  the  climax  with  each  scene, 
with  each  bit  of  dialogue. 

4.  When  the  story  is  ended  be  sure  that 
it  has  said  something,  demonstrated  some 
truth. 

To  enlarge  on  this  last  important 
point:  Demonstrating  a  truth  is 
what  is  known  as  the  theme  of  a 


story.  The  writer  must  ask  herself, 
"What  do  I  want  my  story  to  say 
to  the  reader?  Will  the  reader  after 
having  read  my  story  say  to  herself, 
'I  have  the  same  problem  the  charac- 
ter in  this  story  had.  Maybe  I  can 
solve  it  as  she  did.'  " 

Maybe  your  character  couldn't 
solve  her  problem.  Quite  often  peo- 
ple can't  solve  their  problems,  you 
know.  Maybe  you  ended  the  story 
with  your  character  —  after  she  had 
tried  to  solve  her  problem  by  every 
method  and  means  —  being  re- 
signed to  this  fact,  but  reaching  the 
conclusion  that,  with  the  help  of 
the  Lord,  she  will  live  with  the 
problem  and  in  the  end  rise  above 
it  and  be  a  better  person. 

The  theme  of  this  story  would 
then  be,  from  courage  conies 
strength  and  wisdom.  Or  you  might 
write  a  story  which  —  to  give  a  few 
examples  —  demonstrates  such 
themes  as:  good  is  rewarded,  or  evil 
is  always  punished,  or  love  con- 
quers all,  or  murder  will  out,  or 
patience  is  rewarded.  A  theme  is 
the  type  of  homey  moral  which  our 
grandmothers  embroidered  in  cross- 
stitch  and  hung  on  the  wall.  Just 
be  sure  that  your  story  has  a  strong 
theme. 

It  is  of  prime  importance  that 
your  story  end  with  a  ''lift."  By 
this,  I  do  not  mean  a  sirupy,  happy 
ending  which  would  be  inconsistent 
with  what  has  happened  in  the 
story  up  to  that  point.  If  you  have 
shown  your  main  character  as  being 
very  selfish  all  the  way  through  the 
story,  you  cannot  suddenly  have  him 
solve  his  problem  with  an  unselfish 
act. 

Leave  your  reader  feeling  better 
for  having  read  the  story.  If,  in  your 


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story,  the  main  character,  as  I  said 
above,  has  not  solved  her  problem, 
but,  has  learned  compassion  for  the 
person  who  created  the  problem, 
and  resolves  with  divine  help  to  find 
the  courage  to  go  on,  your  story  will 
end  on  a  note  of  hope  and  will  give 
the  reader  a  "lift." 

Remember  that  writing  is  a  pro- 
fession, and  the  writing  of  a  short 
story  is  one  of  the  most  exacting 
tasks  in  the  field  of  creative  art.  In 
only  a  few  thousand  words  you  must 
present  a  problem,  do  a  skillful 
characterization,  keep  the  story 
moving,  end  the  story  in  a  satisfac- 
tory manner.  All  this  at  the  same 
time.  The  writer  is  not  unlike  a 
juggler. 

You  will  not  become  a  writer 
overnight,  any  more  than  the  medic- 
al student  becomes  a  doctor  over- 
night, or  the  law  student  sits  in  the 
judge's  seat  overnight.  So  don't  be 
discouraged  if  your  early  efforts  are 
disappointing.  Only  by  writing  and 
by  the  trial-and-error  method  will 
you  learn. 

There  is  no  easy  road,  there  is 
no  substitute  for  the,  perhaps,  mil- 
lion words,  many  of  which  will  land 
in  the  wastebasket.  But  there  is  a 
reward  which  comes  from  those  first 
million  words  because  you  will  final- 
ly learn  at  which  type  of  story  you 
are  the  most  adept,  and  what  your 
best  method  of  working  is,  and  you 
will  develop  a  story  sense. 

The  Church  publications  offer  an 
excellent  training  for  the  beginning 
writer.  I  am  grateful  to  The  Relief 
Society  Magazine  and  The  Improve- 
ment Era   for   the   encouragement 


they  gave  me  in  my  early  days  of 
writing,  and  I  am  always  proud  to 
see  one  of  my  stories  in  these  maga- 
zines. 

As  to  what  other  books  I  might 
recommend  to  help  the  writer:  I 
found  Dynamics  oi  Drama*  by 
Shaftel  to  be  very  good.  Read  any 
book  you  can  get  on  writing.  You 
may  find  one  that  suits  you  even 
better  than  the  two  I  have  named. 

Right  now  the  short  story  field 
is  in  a  highly  competitive  stage. 
Even  established  writers  are  not 
selling.  Let  me  caution  you  at  this 
point  not  to  sell  your  talent  short. 
Perhaps  you  dream  of  becoming  a 
great  financial  success  as  a  result  of 
your  talent.  If  you  don't  realize 
this  ambition,  don't  let  frustration 
and  bitterness  belittle  this  talent 
which  you  have. 

You  may  use  your  skill  with  words 
in  writing  the  story  of  your  life,  so 
that  your  children  and  grandchil- 
dren may  someday  read  it,  or  write 
newsy  letters  to  missionaries,  or  to 
the  boys  in  the  service,  or  write 
skits  for  the  different  organizations 
of  the  Church.  If  you  do  this,  you 
will  have  justified  your  talent. 

Remember  that  the  money  one 
receives  for  the  sale  of  a  story  is 
the  smallest  part  of  the  reward.  One 
of  my  stories  of  which  I  am  most 
proud  was  published  in  a  magazine 
which  paid  nothing,  but  it  was  an 
honor  to  appear  in  its  pages.  Re- 
member that  the  money  is  soon 
spent,  but  if  you  have  written  some- 
thing which  has  influenced  or 
brought  a  bit  of  joy  or  humor  into 
someone's  life,  those  are  the  last- 
ing rewards. 


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This  Is  My  Baby" 


Chiistie  Lund  Coles 

YOU  were  so  pretty  standing  which  you  were  determined  to  con- 
before  me  in  your  pink  and  quer. 

black   skirt,   and   your   trim,  My  heart  went  out  to  you  in  love 

little  pink  blouse.    Your  eyes  were  and  tenderness.     I  thought  of  the 

like    blue    delphiniums,    and    your  many  times  through  the  years  when 

fair  skin  took  on  some  of  the  pink-  you   had   sat   in    that   same   chair: 

ness  of  your  clothes.  when  you  were  very  small,  curled  up 

You   looked   little   more   than   a  in   it;   when  you  were  larger,  and 

child  yourself  as  you  reminded  me  there  was  company,  and  you  would 

quite    emphatically,    'This    is    my  sit  primly  —  in  your  best  dress,  and 

baby,''  in  answer  to  a  suggestion  I  patent-leather  slippers  —  your  feet 

had  made,  telling  me  that  you  were  not  quite  touching  the  floor;  when 

responsible  for  my  adorable  grand-  you  were  in  high  school, 

daughter.  We  talked  a  little  as  I  crocheted 

'That  is  right,''  I  replied,  'would  a  new  edge  on  a  white  linen  hankie, 

you  like  some  cookies  and  milk?  We  We  didn't  talk  loudly  because  Ann 

can  give  Ann  a  graham  cracker."  is  a  light  sleeper  and  we  didn't  want 

You    hesitated    briefly,    then    ac-  to  awaken  her. 

cepted,  smiling.    We  went  into  the  It  was  enough  for  me  just  to  have 

kitchen  to  sit  at  the   table  where  you  there. 

the  sun  made  the  yellow  curtains  As  I  thought  of  the  baby's  com- 

more   yellow,    and   the   flowers   on  ing,  I  remembered  when  you  were 

the  sill  shone  in  leaf  and  bud.  born.     The  doctors  had  told  me  I 

We  ate  together  while  Ann  did  shouldn't  have  a  child  because  of 

a  delightful  job  of  getting  the  crack-  my  heart,  badly  damaged  by  years 

er  any  place  except  in  her  mouth,  of  semi-invalidism  from  rheumatic 

We  watched   her  in   delight  until  fever.    But  I  wasn't  afraid.  My  want 

her  eyes  became  heavy,  and  you  said  of  you  transcended  all  fear.     Even 

you  should  take  her  home  for  her  during  the  difficult  and  long  birth, 

nap.  when   even  the  doctor  was  fright 

"Couldn't    she    nap    here,    just  ened,  I  did  not  lose  faith, 

once?"  I  asked.  When  you  were  born,  I  saw  your 

Sorry  for  your  abrupt  words,  you  delicate  head,  your  gray-blue  eyes, 

smiled,  agreeing,  "I  suppose  so."  your  slim  fingers  that  touched  mine 

And     together     we     put     chairs  and  made  me  forever  your  slave,  and 

around  the  bed  in  your  room  which  knew   you   were  worth   it  all   and 

still  stands  the  way  you  left  it.     I  much,  much  more, 

went  out,  you  stayed  a  moment.  I  thought  fondly  and  swiftly  of 

You  came  out  and  sat  opposite  my  own  birth  and  my  dear  mother, 

me  in  the  blue  mohair  chair.    You  I  told  myself  again,  we  were  all  a 

took  out  the  socks  you  were  knit-  part  of  this  new  and  wonderful  life, 

ting   for   Jim,    the    intricate    heels  Ann  is  not  yours. 

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"THIS  IS  MY  BABY''  299 

I  recalled  how  much  I  had  loved  I  took  you  into  the  house  to  dry 

you  .  .  .  how  I  had  sat  by  your  crib  you.    What  did  you  do?  You  looked 

and  actually  wept  in  gratitude,  see-  into  the  long  mirror  and  said,  ''All 

ing  you  asleep,  touching  your  hair,  my  curls  are  gone." 

and  glad  because  you  were  so  per-  And  indeed  they  were,  the  curls 

feet,  so  sweet.  we  had  worked  so  hard  putting  in 

that  morning. 

COON  you  were  walking.    For  a  'There    will    be    lots    of    other 

time  we  lived  in  the  same  apart-  curls/'  I  whispered,  gathering  you 

ment  house  as  my  mother  and  fa-  into  my  arms,  "lots  of  curls.'' 

ther.      They   were   just   above    us.  You    saved    me    from    drowning 

You  used  to  climb  the  stairs  some  later.    And  I,  who  was  afraid  of  a 

mornings  before  I  was  awake  and  tiny  spider  —  once  chased  a  taran- 

tell  grandma  you  wanted  hotcakes.  tula  all  over  the  bed  to  protect  you. 

I'm  sure  she  and  grandpa  loved  you  There  was  the  time,  in  another 

just  as  I  love  Ann.    There  was  nev-  strange  town,  when  your  father  was 

er  enough  they  could  do  for  you.  away,  when  we  were  ill  at  the  same 

And  you  were  dear  to  Daddy's  time,  without  a  loaf  of  bread  in  the 

parents  also  though  we  were  not  as  house,  and  with  no  phone  to  order 

close  to   them.     But   I   recall  one  any.     But  we  managed.     And  we 

day  we  were  at  their  home  in  the  had  fun  .  .  .  fun.    Until  you  were 

country.     It  was  some  holiday  and  a   big  girl,  you  would  ask   me   to 

all    the    family    was    there,    sitting  sing  to  you  after  we  were  in  bed. 

around   in   the  back  yard   visiting.  With  the  doors  open  between  our 

You  had  followed  the  dog  to  the  rooms,  I  would  sing  sometimes  for 

front  lawn  and,  naturally,  I  had  fol-  an  hour,  or  until  I  was  too  hoarse  to 

lowed  you.  sing  any  longer.     And  there  were 

The  flowing  well  was  at  the  top  nights  when  we  were  both  nervous, 

of  the  lawn  near  the  fence  and  it  and  you  would  come  and  crawl  into 

ran   constantly  into  a   large  barrel  my  bed. 

sunk  into  the  ground.    You  leaned  Today,  as  I  looked  at  you  across 

over  to  take  a  drink  from  the  run-  the  room,  trying  to  appear  so  ma- 

ning  tap  and,  although  I  was  hold-  ture,  I  thought  of  many  things: 

ing  you,  you  slipped  and  went  head-  The  day  we  were  wishing  on  a 

first  into  the  overflowing  barrel.  wishbone,  and   I  said,  "Well,  you 

You  were  a  dead  weight,  heavy  got  your  wish." 

for  me  to  try  and  lift  out.    I  called  You    answered,    "No,    you    got 

frantically  for  help,  but  because  of  your  wish." 

the   distance  and   the   talking  and  "But  you  got  the  head,"  I  insist- 

the  laughter,  no  one  heard  me.     I  ed,  "you  got  your  wish." 

knew  I  must  get  you  out,  and  do  You  smiled,  shyly,  "I  wished  that 

it  quickly.     Almost  immersing  my-  you  would  get  your  wish." 

self  I  reached  down  to  get  a  good  And  the  day  you  said,  "Maybe  I 

hold    on    you    and,    with    all    my  could  do  something  so  you  would 

rather  limited  strength,  pulled  you  stop  loving  me.     But  nothing  you 

to  the  surface,  coughing  and  chok-  could  ever  do  could  make  me  stop 

ing.  loving  you." 


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Is  it  any  wonder  that  I  love  you  thinking,  you  smiled,  "You  may  not 

so  very,  very  much?  believe  it,  but  I'm  going  to  finish 

*****  these.    He  may  not  be  able  to  wear 

f  recalled  when  Jim  came  along.  He  t^'^™  ^"^^  t'^^y'"  ^"^  knitted." 
*  was  a  fine,  good  boy  from  down  „  "He'll  wear  them,"  I  assured  you 
the  street.     It  didn't  seem  serious  y°"  "  '^\  ,^'  y°"  '™^ed  toward 
at   first.     You    went   together   for  me  the  sunlight  touched  your  almost 
nearly  two  years.    After  he  finished  transparent,  fair  skin,  and  I  asked 
college,  he  asked  to  marry  you.  We  .^'^  y^"  '^"'^  your  blood  is  up  a 
thought    you    were    too    young  -  nght  now?    Do  you  feel  all  right? 
nearly  nineteen  -  but  you  said  you  ^ever    better.      Actually,    Im 
knew  what  you  wanted,  and  since  ^^^'               ^  ^^^  ^  ^  ^ 
our   wish    for   your   happiness   was  ^ttt^t^t-xtt  x^     t 
sincere,  we  consented.  The  temple  SUDDENLY,    I   was   seeing  you 
ceremony  was  beautiful  and  sacred  when  you  were  pregnant,  see- 
and    the    wedding    reception    was  ^"g  Y^u  pass  the  big  living  room 
]Qyg]y  window  in  your  cute,  blue-checked 
Your  dress  was  hand-sewn.     Fm  smock,  carrying  your  white  purse  as 
sure  there  has  never  been  a  lovelier,  ^"ly  ^  little  girl  playing  house  could 
more     radiantly     beautiful     bride,  possibly  carry  it,  coming  in  smiling 
When  the  receiving  was  over  and  ^^  we  rushed  to  kiss  you. 
you  cut  your  wedding  cake,   I  sat  ^^^  the  day  before  the  baby  was 
at     the     side    and    watched    you  ^^^^>  Y^u  said  to  me,  '^I  think  I'll 
serving    grandmas    and    aunts.      I  ^^^^  out  to  Rita's  tomorrow  and 
had  not  wept.     But  as  you  moved  spend  the  day. 
back  toward  the  table,  for  just  the  '^^h,   no,"   I   cried,   '^tomorrow's 
fraction    of    a    moment    your    eyes  when  the  baby  is  due.    You  mustn't 
moved    to    mine    with    a    sort    of  ^ake  any  chances  driving  that  far. 
frightened,  seeking  expression.  You  Something  might  happen." 
stood  as  though  you  were  about  to  ^'^^>   I'^  ^^  all   right,"  you  as- 
run  toward  me,  and  I  felt  that  I  ^^^^^^  "^^• 

must  run  toward  you  and  take  you  ^ut  I  wasn't  that  easily  put  off. 

in  my  arms.    But  you  went  on  and  ^  insisted,  ^'Promise  me  you  won't," 

I  turned  my  head.    And  cried-just  You  finally  promised,  then  rose 

a  little.  to  leave.    You  kissed  me  a  bit  long- 

^  «  «  *  *  er  than  usual  that  day,  clung  to  me, 

^'Oh,  dear,  I  dropped  a  stitch,"  ^"^  ^  ^"^^  Y^"  ^^^^  frightened, 

you    said,    furrowing    your    smooth  I   assured  you,    "It  will  be   just 

brow,  "Can  you  help  me?"  fine.    Don't  worry." 

"I'm    not    too    good    at    it,    you  At   a  quarter  to  eight  the  next 

know,  but  I'll  try,"  I  told  you,  re-  morning  the  phone  rang.     It  was 

membering  the  shawl  I  had  begun  Jim.    You  two  had  been  at  the  hos- 

before    Ann    was   born    and    never  pital    since    midnight.     Now    you 

quite  finished  —  though  I  still  had  were  in  the  delivery  room  and  we 

hopes.  could  come  out.    Your  Daddy  went 

As  though  you  knew  what  I  was  pale,  and  I  trembled  as  I  got  ready, 


"THIS  IS  MY  BABY' 


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all  the  time  saying  a  prayer  over 
and  over. 

We  were  in  the  waiting  room  for 
nearly  an  hour.  Daddy  had  an  ap- 
pointment in  Lake  City  to  meet  the 
manager  of  his  company  at  the 
train.  He  kept  saying,  ''I  don't 
want  to  go,  but  Fm  afraid  Fll  have 
to." 

Everything  had  gone  fine,  so  we 
told  him  he  had  better  go,  and 
regretfully,  he  did.  Shortly  after- 
ward, a  nurse  came  into  the  room 
and  said  there  were  too  many  in  the 
waiting  room,  and  all  except  the 
fathers  would  have  to  go  downstairs 
in  the  lobby.  Jim's  mother  and  I 
went  reluctantly. 

It  was  in  that  half  hour  that  we 
were  gone  that  they  brought  you 
out,  and  word  was  sent  to  us  that 
we  could  see  you.  When  I  walked 
into  your  room,  you  were  very  pale, 
but  your  eyes  were  bright  and  you 
said,  ''Oh,  Mama,  you  should  have 
been  here.  When  they  wheeled  me 
out  they  put  her  in  my  arms  and 
let  me  carry  her  down  the  hall.  Oh, 
shes  so  sweetJ' 

I  thought  of  when  we  had  first 
reached  the  hospital  and  Jim  and 
his  mother  had  been  talking  about 
the  name  for  the  baby  if  it  were  a 
boy.  I  said,  ''Now,  just  think  how 
badly  she's  going  to  feel  about  all 
this  planning  for  a  boy." 

I  kissed  you,  whispering,  "Of 
course  she  is  sweet.  Now,  you  must 
rest," 

\U^  two  mothers  left.  In  the  hall 
we  met  your  doctor  who 
asked  if  we  had  seen  the  baby. 
When  we  said,  "No,"  he  took  us 
to  the  nursery.  He  went  in,  asked 
for  your  baby,   brought   it  to   the 


door  for  us  to  see.  I  fell  in  love 
with  her  then. 

We  came  back  to  your  room.  I 
could  see  you  were  in  pain,  and  I 
asked  the  nurse  about  it.  She  said 
it  was  natural  and  you  would  be 
fine.  Still,  I  turned  at  the  door  to 
look  at  you,  thinking,  she's  paler 
now  than  when  we  came  in. 

About  noon,  I  called  your  room. 
I  was  ready  to  hang  up  when  you 
told  me  the  doctor  was  there.  But 
he  wanted  to  speak  to  me.  He  said, 
trying  to  make  his  voice  casual, 
"You  and  her  husband  might  come 
out  within  half  an  hour  or  so.  It 
is  nothing  to  worry  about.  .  .  ." 

In  spite  of  his  casualness,  after  a 
moment  I  knew  he  meant  that 
there  was  trouble.  You  had  looked 
so  pale  and  tired.  Jim  and  I  knelt 
down  and  prayed  together  before  we 
left,  and  I  felt  sure  you  would  be 
?11  right. 

Later,  when  you  came  out  of  the 
operating  room,  you  were  very  pale 
and  in  pain.  I  could  have  stayed.  But 
I  knew  you  needed  rest  .  .  .  rest. 
And  if  I  stayed  Jim's  mother  would 
stay,  too,  and  it  might  be  too  much 
for  you.  I  left,  my  heart  straining 
back  to  you,  and  your  pain  which 
I  had  no  power  to  ease. 

It  seemed  no  time  at  all  until 
someone  was  at  my  front  door.  It 
was  Jim's  mother.  She  said  the 
hospital  had  been  unable  to  reach 
me  and  had  called  her.  You  had  to 
have  another  operation. 

I  stood  trembling  and  managed 
to  say,  "I  can't  ...  I  can't  go  this 
minute.  I  will  be  out  as  soon  as 
possible." 

Alone,  I  prayed,  then  called  my 
mother  in  Lake  City,  where  your 


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father  had  gone,  told  her  to  try  and 
get  in  touch  with  him. 

I  sobbed  on  the  telephone,  "I 
can't  bear  to  have  anything  happen 
to  her."  My  mother  wept. 

I  knew  that  nothing  could  keep 
me  from  the  hospital.  I  called  a 
friend,  and  she  said  she  would  be 
right  over  to  take  me  out.  I  didn't 
think  of  a  taxi,  and  I  suppose  the 
reason  was  that  I  needed  a  friend  so 
badly.  The  ten  minutes  I  waited 
seemed  an  eternity. 

WHEN  I  got  to  the  hospital,  I 
met  the  doctor  and  a  special- 
ist he  had  called  in  to  help  him,  in 
the  hall. 

''How  is  she?"  I  whispered. 

''She  is  in  her  room.  If  this 
doesn't  help,  we'll  have  to  do  some- 
thing more  drastic." 

"It  must  help,"  I  whispered. 

I  went  to  your  room  where  you 
still  lay.  There  was  a  blood  trans- 
fusion (your  fourth)  in  one  arm, 
glucose  in  the  other,  and  oxygen  in 
your  nose.  You  managed  part  of 
your  wonderful  smile,  and  I  stroked 
back  your  hair  —  from  which  the 
curl  had  gone  —  and  thought  of 
you  passing  the  big  window  carry- 
ing your  white  purse;  thought  of 
the  time  as  a  child  when  you  were 
strong  and  insisted  on  stirring  my 
cake  batter,  saying,  "I'll  be  your 
electric  beater." 

I  kissed  you,  and  not  meaning  to, 
let  a  tear  fall  on  your  cheek.  Then 
I  turned  and  walked  out  of  the 
room.  Soon,  Jim's  mother  came  out 
and  admonished  me  not  to  let  you 
see  me  cry.  I  nodded.  You  weren't 
hei  child. 

You  asked  me  later  why  I  cried, 


and  I  smiled,  saying,  "I  was  sorry 
that  you  had  to  go  back  into  the 
operating  room,  and  sorry  I  didn't 
get  there  sooner.  But  everything's 
just  fine.    Just  fine." 


:i;c      j^c      j^c      jj:      )!« 


npHAT  was  months  ago.  Now  you 
are  sitting  opposite  me,  well  and 
strong  again. 

You  said,  "She's  stirring.  Do  you 
want  to  get  her?" 

I  nodded,  rising,  going  toward  the 
room  which  would  always  be  yours. 
You  were  close  behind  me,  however, 
for  her  every  waking  moment  was  a 
wonder  to  us  all. 

We  entered  the  room.  She  looked 
at  us  with  her  lovely  eyes.  I  reached 
my  arms  out  to  her.  But  she 
turned  and  reached  for  you  in- 
stead. Just  as  she  still  does  when 
she  first  wakens  or  is  tired  or  un- 
happy. Grandma  is  wonderful  at 
other  times,  but  in  these  moments, 
you  are  the  one  she  wants. 

Suddenly  as  I  watched  you  lift 
her  to  your  shoulder,  I  knew  with 
a  strange  pang  that  what  you  had 
said  was  true.  She  was  indeed  your 
baby.  You  had  paid  for  her  with 
your  travail,  just  as  I  had  paid  for 
you. 

But  it  was  infinitely  more  than 
that.  All  of  my  thinking  and  re- 
membering had  proved  not  my 
point,  but  yours.  There  is  birth, 
and  there  is  something  else,  knit  by 
the  moments  and  the  hours  that 
no  one  else  ever  shares.  I  said, 
"Yes,  my  darling,  she  is  your  baby." 

To  myself  I  thought.  But  she  will 
not  always  be. 

And  that,  too,  is  as  it  should  be. 
As  it  must  be  if  the  world  is  to 
go  on. 


Don  Knight 

THE  GRAND  TETONS  AND  JACKSON  LAKE,  WYOMING 


■  ♦  » 


Sylvia  Probst  Young 

Crimson  streaked  and  gold  is  dawn, 
Lifting  through  the  gray. 
Dew-bathed  rose,  and  winging  bird- 
Harbinger  of  day. 

Lift  your  eyes  to  wood  and  field. 
Look  to  rock-ribbed  hill. 
In  the  gentle,  waking  hour. 
All  is  hushed  and  still — 

Peace  be  thine,  oh,  tired  heart. 
Now  the  night  is  gone — 
God  has  willed  it  shall  be  so. 
After  darkness — dawn! 


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(bixtt/    LJears  KyLgo 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  May  i,  and  May  15,  1897 

*'FoR  THE  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

EGYPT:  Egypt  is  a  country  in  the  northeast  of  Africa,  extending  from  the  Medi- 
terranean Sea  to  the  first  cataract  of  the  Nile,  that  of  Assouan.  ...  Its  length  from 
this  cataract  to  the  northernmost  point  of  the  Delta,  is  about  500  miles;  and  its 
breadth  from  the  shores  of  the  Red  Sea  to  the  Libyan  desert,  may  be  estimated  at  250 
miles.  This  land  was  inhabited  at  a  very  early  period  of  the  world's  existence;  and  in 
ancient  times  it  contained  a  great  number  of  cities,  and  an  incredible  multitude  of 
people.  Egypt  may  be  described  as  "the  bed  of  the  Nile,"  the  cultivated  territory  only 
extending  to  the  limits  of  the  inundation.  .  .  . 

— Julia  A.  Druce 

FROM  NEW  ZEALAND:  The  White  Kihhon  (New  Zealand)  states  that  two 
Maori  ladies,  Mrs.  Hirani  and  Mrs.  Taranaki,  were  members  of  a  deputation  which 
recently  waited  on  the  premier  of  New  Zealand  in  regard  to  native  land  disputes. 

— News  Note 

PARTY  IN  THE  LION  HOUSE:  On  Thursday  afternoon,  April  29,  Sister 
Margaret  P.  Young  gave  a  most  enjoyable  party  in  the  interesting  parlor  of  the  Lion 
House.  Most  of  the  guests  present  were  Temple  workers.  .  .  .  The  afternoon  was 
passed  in  social  conversation  mostly  reminiscent  of  the  house,  its  illustrious  owner  and  its 
belongings,  of  incidents  connected  with  it  and  the  people  who  were  familiar  and 
frequent  guests  there  in  the  days  of  President  Brigham  Young.  .  .  .  President  Lorenzo 
Snow  addressed  .  .  .  the  sisters,  alluding  particularly  to  the  work  in  the  Temple  and 
urging  the  benefits  to  the  living  and  the  dead.  .  .  . 

— News  Note 

ODE  TO  THE  PIONEERS 

Hail  to  the  year  of  Jubilee! 

Let  pealing  anthems  rise. 

And  bursts  of  echoing  melody 

Loud  mingle  with  the  skies! 

Let  earth  resound  with  music's  power; 

Glad  welcoming  the  year. 

When  Utah  sees  her  natal  hour 

The  fiftieth  time  appear.  .  .  . 

— Orson  F.  Whitney 

GENERAL  RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONFERENCE:  Conference  opened  with 
singing  "O  say  what  is  truth";  prayer  was  offered  by  Elder  Charles  O.  Card,  President 
Alberta  Stake,  Canada;  continued  by  singing  "Redeemer  of  Israel."  President  Zina  D.  H. 
Young  made  a  few  opening  remarks.  .  .  .  Sister  Annie  D.  Hardy,  representative  from 
Mexico,  spoke  cheerfully  in  an  interesting  manner  of  the  country,  the  mission  under- 
taken by  the  people  in  that  locality  .  .  .  spoke  in  terms  of  praise  of  the  sisters.  .  ,  . 
President  Ann  C.  Woodbury,  St.  George  Stake,  felt  sure  they  had  a  mint  in  sericul- 
ture, realized  it  would  be  a  benefit  to  them  in  taking  care  of  the  poor.  .  .  .  Sister 
Woodbury  also  urged  the  sisters  to  be  faithful  and  work  for  their  dead.  .  .  .  Sister 
Zina  Y.  Card  talked  about  home  industries.  .  .  .  thought  we  as  a  people  had  made  too 
much  of  the  things  of  this  world  .  .  .  thought  it  was  displeasing  in  the  sight  of  the 
Lord.  .  .  . 

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Woman's  Sphere 


Ramoiia  W.  Cannon 


T  lEUTENANT  Colonel  Mary  L. 
Milligan,  Edgewood,  Pennsylva- 
nia, has  taken  over  the  Women's 
Army  Corps  command.  She  enter- 
ed the  WAC  in  1942. 


B 


EAUTIFUL  Thailand  Princess 
Wiwam  Worawam  is  secretary 
to  her  father,  Prince  Wan  Waitha- 
yakon,  new  President  of  the  General 
Assembly  of  the  United  Nations. 
She  is  also  being  very  successful  as 
a  general  good-will  ambassador. 


lyrRS.  GOLDA  MEIR,  reared  in 
Milwaukee,    Wisconsin,    is    Is- 
rael's Foreign  Minister. 


\  quarter  of  a  century  ago  Spanish- 
speaking  women  were  expected 
to  be  ''like  flowers  decorating  their 
homes."  The  men  of  their  coun- 
tries felt  that  being  in  business,  poli- 
tics, universities,  and  public  life  in 
general  was  ''all  right  for  the  women 
of  the  United  States,  but  not  for 
our  women.''  Today,  in  Spain, 
Cuba,  and  South  America  women 
are  doing  all  these  things.  Young 
girls  study  in  the  universities  along 
with  the  men.  They  are  very  am- 
bitious. Yet  with  all  their  modern 
progress,  they  retain  the  romantic 
beauty  and  charm  of  the  maidens 
who  coquetted  modestly  behind 
iron-grilled  windows  some  years  ago. 


lyrRS.  REED  H.  (AURELIA 
^  *    PYPER)     RICHARDS,     an 

active  Latter-day  Saint  woman,  a 
native  of  Salt  Lake  City,  was  recent- 
ly named  "U.  S.  Lady  of  the  Year" 
by  the  magazine  U.  S.  Lady,  which 
is  devoted  to  problems  of  service- 
men's wives.  On  the  selection  com- 
mittee were  the  wives  of  the  Secre- 
taries of  Defense,  Army,  Navy,  Air 
Force,  and  other  service  leaders.  Her 
husband  is  Lt.  Col.  Reed  H.  Rich- 
ards, also  a  Latter-day  Saint,  former- 
ly of  Salt  Lake  City,  now  of  Fort 
Bragg,  North  Carolina.  The  couple 
has  seven  adopted  children.  Mrs. 
Richards  won  enthusiastic  personal 
approval  on  her  national  television 
broadcast,  following  this  honor. 


ORITISH  Betty  E.  Box  is  a  noted 
producer    of    motion    picture 
films  in  England. 


ALENE  D ALTON,  Salt  Lake 
City's  nationally  famous  Story 
Princess,  told  the  story,  "The  Littlest 
Angel,"  on  a  national  television 
broadcast,  December  23.  The  N.  A. 
Donohue  Company,  Chicago,  has 
recently  published  a  book  of  Mrs. 
Dalton's  original  stories.  The  Story 
Piincess  Stories,  charmingly  told 
and  beautifully  illustrated. 

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NO.  5 


(P. 


en  in 


npHE  woman  who  takes  her  pen  in 
hand  to  weave  her  thoughts  in- 
to words  enters  an  infinite  world  of 
far-reaching  influence  and  signifi- 
cance. Her  poem  or  her  story  may 
reach  the  hearts  of  thousands  whom 
she  has  never  seen,  and  their  spirits 
may  be  enlightened  and  uplifted- 
may  be  changed  and  enriched— 
through  the  new  patterns  woven 
with  familiar  words.  All  the  words 
of  the  language  are  ready  for  the 
writer  to  use— all  the  singing  words, 
all  the  beckoning  words,  all  the  pro- 
found words.  It  is  for  the  woman 
with  her  pen  in  hand  to  make  the 
new  patterns  and  to  mark  those  pat- 
terns with  the  signature  of  her  own 
personality,  the  depth  and  beauty 
of  her  thoughts;  it  is  for  her  to 
communicate  the  meaning  of  life  as 
it  has  been  given  her  to  understand 
the  worth  and  the  purpose  of  her 
days  upon  the  earth. 

Poetry,  as  song,  was  the  first  form 
of  literature,  and  it  has  become 
a  heritage  of  harmony,  singing 
through  the  centuries.  It  partakes 
of  music  in  its  sweep  of  rhythm;  it 
is  like  sculpture  in  its  use  of  form; 
and  it  is  allied  to  painting  in  color 
and  perspective  vision.  A  great  and 
good  poem  draws  its  richness  from 
many  sources,  and  may  be  compared 
to  a  precious  tapestry  of  muted  or 
glowing  colors,  symbolic  of  the 
spirit  in  its  everlasting  search  for 
eternal  values. 

Fictional  and  imaginative  stories 

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uiand 

have  been  told  since  time  began, 
and  in  the  scattering  of  the  people, 
each  land  developed  its  epics  and 
sagas,  its  small  romantic  legends,  its 
great  heroic  narratives.  Set  in  its 
framework  of  historic  perception, 
the  short  story  can  be  more  than 
plot  and  people,  more  than  prob- 
lems and  solutions.  In  presenting 
its  illuminated  segment  of  life,  the 
story  may  unify,  with  the  power  of 
words,  the  discordant  threads  of 
earthly  existence,  and  in  its  reveal- 
ing design,  the  story  may  beckon 
its  reader  to  heights  of  spiritual 
understanding  not  visible  before. 

The  ability  to  weave  a  tapestry  of 
words  is  a  precious  gift— worthy  of 
use  and  development.  The  strands 
for  the  weaving  are  endless,  and 
their  colors  may  be  patterned  in  the 
aspirations  and  the  hopes  of  women 
through  the  ages.  Consider  the 
natural  world,  the  beautiful  and 
ever-revealing  earth,  which  the 
Heavenly  Father  has  given  us  for 
our  sojourn  in  time  and  for  our 
habitation  in  eternity.  Portraits  of 
earth's  loveliness  may  be  made  with 
words  —  perhaps  the  inspiration 
may  come  from  a  flower  or  a  bird, 
or  the  greening  hills  of  home.  A 
writer  may  speak  of  the  unfolding 
ways  of  children,  the  emotions  of  a 
mother's  heart,  the  lasting  com- 
munion of  friendship,  the  abiding 
thoughts  of  maturity,  the  wise  ex- 
panse of  the  minds  of  the  aged. 
These  may  be  the  strands  for  the 


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beginning  of  the  weaving,  for  the 
design  and  for  the  pattern. 

For  the  Latter-day  Saint  woman, 
the  subject  matter  of  her  hterary 
composition  can  be  wide  and  lofty, 
spiritually  beckoning,  for  to  her  has 
been  given  a  priceless  legacy  of 
aspiration  and  understanding.  Not 
only  may  she  choose  to  recount  the 
emotions  and  ideals  which  appeal 
to  her  womanhood,  but  she  may 
place  these  thoughts  in  their  right- 
ful sequence  in  the  eternal  plan  of 
family  patterns.  A  woman,  having 
the  heritage  of  the  gospel,  may  de- 
lineate the  courageous  ways  of  pio- 
neering with  the  realization  that  the 
light  of  faith  illuminated  the  dark 
plains  and  glowed  upon  the  un- 
known mountains.  The  story  of 
sacrifice  and  accomplishment,  the 
story  of  banishment  and  rebuild- 
ing, the  story  of  the  desert  turned 
to  a  garden— how  various  and  how 
beautiful  are  the  strands  for  our 
weaving  with  words. 

The  poetry  of  Eliza  R.  Snow,  for 
whom  the  Relief  Society  contest  is 
named,  expressed  the  ideals  and 
yearnings  of  her  people.  Her  poems 
were  trumpets  calling  and  banners 
waving;  they  were  evening  prayer 
and  home  fires  burning.  She  has 
given  to  Latter-day  Saint  women  an 


example  and  a  challenge.  Realizing 
the  importance  of  this  challenge  to 
Relief  Society  and  to  women  inter- 
ested in  writing,  the  general  board 
has  provided  an  opportunity  for  the 
women  of  the  Church  to  express 
themselves  in  poems  of  lasting  sig- 
nificance. Each  year  the  prize-win- 
ning poems  are  published  in  the 
Magazine  in  January,  the  birthday 
month  of  the  pioneer  poet,  Eliza  R. 
Snow. 

The  story  contest,  initiated  in 
1942,  as  a  memorial  to  the  centen- 
nial year  of  Relief  Society,  has  been 
continued  since  that  time,  offering 
to  the  sisters  the  wide  field  of  fic- 
tion for  the  expression  of  themes 
dear  to  their  hearts. 

Who  will  sing  with  strength  and 
beauty  the  songs  of  modern  Zion? 
Who  will  there  be  among  us  to 
tell  the  story  of  our  people  —  their 
past  and  their  present  —  their  hopes 
for  the  future?  When  a  woman 
takes  her  pen  in  hand,  she  weaves 
a  tapestry  which  is  intended  to  be 
shared  with  her  sisters.  For  this 
far-reaching  purpose,  she  will  choose 
the  strands  with  care,  and  she  will 
carefully  plan  the  design,  make 
strong  the  weaving,  and  illuminate 
her  tapestry. 

-V.  P.  C. 


Signal  oil  (bun 

Maiyhah  Woolsey 

A  little  while  each  day,  the  sun  shines  in 
And  lays  upon  the  floor  a  golden  square 
Patterned  with  lacy  shadows  of  the  leaves 
The  window-arching  elms  and  maples  wear. 

And,  watching,  I  renew  a  deep  sweet  sense 
Of  peace,  contentment,  and  serenit}^; 
This  small  design  of  light  and  shadow  seems 
A  token  that  all's  well,  and  so  shall  be. 


TbJbuL 


TO  THE  FIELD 


ujiighain    LJoung    LLnive/sitii  JLeadership    vi/eek 

Annual  ''Festival  of  Learning"  —  'The  Family  Faces  the  Future" 

T3RIGHAM  Young  University  Leadership  Week  will  be  held  June  24-29, 
1957,  on  the  Brigham  Young  University  Campus,  Provo,  Utah.  Relief 
Society  members  have  found  the  leadership  classes  of  great  interest  and 
value  and  are  looking  forward  to  this  year's  program.  The  general  board 
wishes  to  call  to  the  attention  of  Relief  Society  members  the  following 
classes  which,  in  addition  to  many  others,  it  is  believed  will  be  of  special 
interest  to  Relief  Society  women: 

Messages  of  the  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Shakespeare 

For  Teachers  of  Adults 

Arts  and  Crafts  for  Adults 

Makmg  Our  Own  Audio — Visual  Aids 

Materials  and  Methods  for  Church  Choirs 

Challenges  of  the  Family  in  the  Modern  World 

Roots  of  Family  Happiness 

Home  Nursing 

Family  Night 

Family  Financial  Planning 

"How"  and  "Why"  for  the  Housewife 

Fashion  Show  —  "Clothing  the  Latter-day  Saint  Family" 

Parenthood  in  a  Free  Nation 

Elder  Roy  W.  Doxey,  author  of  the  theology  lessons  for  the  coming 
year,  will  teach  the  course  on  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants;  Elder  Briant  S. 
Jacobs,  author  of  the  Relief  Society  literature  lessons,  will  teach  the  classes 
in  Shakespeare;  and  Elder  John  Farr  Larson,  author  of  the  social  science 
lessons,  will  teach  a  course  on  Latter-day  Saint  family  life.  Many  excel- 
lent courses  on  family  life,  in  addition  to  those  listed  above,  will  be  given. 

A  detailed  program  may  be  obtained  by  requesting  a  copy  of  "The 
Family  Faces  the  Future"  from  Brigham  Young  University  Adult  Educa- 
tion and  Extension  Services,  Provo,  Utah. 

While  the  instruction  and  teaching  received  at   Leadership  Week 
are    not    the    official    instructions    representing    Relief    Society,    yet    the 
material  is  beneficial  because  it  will  supplement  and  enhance  understand- 
ing. 
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cyt     LJear's  Supply 

Mabel  L.  Anderson 

npHE  advice  of  the  Church  to  store  food  has  brought  back  to  me  many 
happy  memories  of  my  childhood. 

My  parents  would  never  think  of  starting  a  winter  without  a  year's 
supply  of  coal  and  wood,  without  the  barns  full  of  hay,  the  granaries  full 
of  wheat  and  oats,  the  potato  cellar  bulging,  cabbages  wrapped  in  papers, 
carrots  and  parsnips  dug  and  placed  under  the  ground,  great  bins  of 
apples,  barrels  of  meat  in  brine,  and  smoked  meat  hanging  from  the 
ceiling,  shelves  of  colorful  jams,  jellies,  fruits,  meats,  and  vegetables.  We 
had,  in  addition,  a  case  or  two  of  canned  goods,  at  least  a  hundred-pound 
sack  of  sugar,  five  gallons  of  honey,  a  gallon  or  two  of  ''Dixie"  molasses, 
and,  hanging  from  the  ceiling,  was  a  platform  on  which  were  several  sacks 
of  flour.  Before  freezing  weather,  mother  always  made  a  goodly  supply  of 
homemade  laundry  soap.  With  our  own  cow  and  chickens,  we  were 
"prepared." 

My  parents  were  not  unique.  That  was  the  way  most  people  lived. 
It  was  a  sane,  safe,  secure  way  of  life.  We  knew  that  our  loved  ones  and 
the  strangers  within  our  gates  would  not  need  to  hunger,  because  we  had 
our  cellars  and  our  bins  full. 

Today,  as  in  the  past,  it  is  wise  to  have  a  year's  supply  of  essentials  on 
hand.  Such  a  plan  gives  us  a  feeling  of  security,  a  knowledge  that  we 
are  obeying  the  counsel  of  the  General  Authorities.  It  is  a  way  of  life 
which  has  been  taught  and  practiced  by  faithful  Church  members  over 
the  years. 


uiold  (bverg    llioment 

Elise  Bailey  Collins 

Listen!  The  day  is  a  beautiful  song 
Playing  for  people  to  hear  with  their  hearts. 
Hold  every  moment-note  preciously  long. 
Savor  the  magic  before  it  departs. 

Violin  sunshine  and  wind-cellos  blend; 
Cymbal-puff  clouds  echo  all  through  the  sky; 
Quicksiher  chords  shimmer  over  a  lake. 
Weaving  a  melody  meant  for  the  eye. 

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/ 


is  the 


best  policy 


1 1  iodestyi  SJ^s  the   Ujest  IjPoucg 

TV/IODESTY,  like  honesty  in  the  copy  book  adage,  is  the  best  pohcy.  It 
is  the  best  pohcy  because  it  is  best  for  you. 

Modesty  is  a  many-sided  virtue.  It  apphes  to  your  manner  of  speech, 
your  manner  of  dress,  your  manner  of  conduct.  And  thus  it  reveals  the 
manner  of  person  you  are. 

Take  speech.  One  who  is  modest  in  speech  talks  with  restraint,  sticks 
to  the  facts,  gives  to  others  the  right  to  their  own  opinions  without  com- 

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MODESTY  IS  THE  BEST  POLICY  3l1 

promising  his  own.  His  opinions  are  listened  to;  his  advice  is  often 
heeded. 

Modesty  in  dress  is  another  virtue.  Smartness  of  style  and  modesty 
can  go  together,  and  often  do.  On  the  other  hand,  to  flaunt  one's  figure, 
especially  before  persons  of  the  opposite  sex,  may  excite  attention  but 
not  inspire  admiration.  Immodesty  in  dress  is  more  likely  to  bring  a 
'Svhistle  call"  of  dubious  compliment  than  a  sincere  proposal  of  honorable 
friendship. 

Modesty  of  conduct  also  brings  its  own  reward.  In  a  day  when  vul- 
garity is  sometimes  commercialized  to  the  tune  of  ''off  beat"  dance  steps, 
it  may  take  restraint  to  be  modest  on  dance  floor  or  in  parked  car,  but  true 
modesty  will  pay  off  in  the  lasting  trust  and  enduring  friendships  of  your 
companions. 

To  these  rewards  of  modesty  you  can  add  another  —  your  own  self- 
respect  —  and  without  self-respect  you  can  never  have  the  true  joy  of 
living  which  a  loving  Heavenly  Father  put  us  here  to  find  and  cherish.  So 
—  be  modest. 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


cJhe  L^ereus  [Blooms 

Ethel  Jacohson 

There  is  no  more  spectacular  flower  than  the  cereus  Queen  of  the  Night,  whose 
enormous  blooms  open  in  summer  for  one  night  only. 

This  is  the  night  long  awaited, 

When  all  the  desert,  breath  bated, 

Watches  loveliness  unfold. 

Petal  by  petal,  aureoled 

With  lucent  silver,  till  a  queen 

Radiant  as  a  star  is  seen 

Mantled  in  moonlight,  crowned  with  dew 

Among  her  night-moth  retinue. 

Dawn  finds  no  trace  of  wonderment — 
Only  a  flowerhead  withered,  spent. 
And  a  ghost  of  fragrance  on  the  breeze 
To  hint  of  midnight  witcheries. 


LKectpes  QJrom  the    f iorwegian    llLission 

Submitted  by  Zina  R.  Eiigebretsen 

Fish  Baked  in  Deep  Fat 

1  lb.  fish  fillet  (can  use  frozen)  Dipping  Mixture: 

salt 

deep  fat  ^  ^'   ^-  ^^^"^ 

Vs  tsp.  salt 
White  Sauce:  y,    tsp.  sugar 

1  tbsp.  butter  54    c.  milk 

1  tbsp.  flour  1  tbsp.  butter 

1-1  Vz   c.  milk  1   egg 

Add  to  the  white  sauce: 

1   tbsp.  vinegar  2  tbsp.  minced  parsley,  cucumber  cut 

!4    tsp.  mustard  fine,  or  capers 

1-2  egg  yolks 

Cut  the  fish  in  slices  of  one-half  inch,  dip  in  the  mixture,  and  bake  in  deep  fat 
for  about  ten  minutes.  Serve  with  the  sauce. 

Boiled  Cod 

1  lb.  cod  *y3  c.  salt 

1  qt.  water  1  tsp.  vinegar 

Cut  the  fish  in  slices  of  one-half  inch  and  let  stand  under  running  water  for  ten 
minutes.  Place  in  boiling  salt  water  to  simmer  for  seven  minutes.  Caution:  Do  not 
allow  to  boil  after  the  fish  has  been  put  in. 

*The  salt  helps  to  bring  out  the  flavor  of  the  fish  and  keeps  it  firm  while  cooking. 

Veiled  Country-Girls 

1  c.  bread  crumbs  Vz    tbsp.  cinnamon 

1   tbsp.  sugar 

Toast  the  bread  crumbs  until  they  are  golden  brown.  Leave  to  cool.  Then 
sprinkle  them  with  the  sugar  and  cinnamon. 

Applesauce: 

3-4  apples  1-2  tbsp.  sugar 

Yz-i  c.  water 

Cook  apples  with  water  and  sugar.    Cool. 

Filling: 

1  c.  cream  Vz    tsp.  vanilla 

Place  the  bread  crumbs  and  the  applesauce  in  layers  in  a  bowl  and  cover  with 
whipped  cream.  Jam  may  be  added  to  the  top  layer,  if  desired. 

Lamb  in  Cabbage 

4-5  lbs.  lamb  or  mutton  salt 

6  lbs.  cabbage  water 

The  meat  should  be  washed  in  lukewarm  water,  cut  into  chunks,  and  then  put 
into  just  enough  hot,  salted  water  to  cover  the  meat.  Skim  the  grease  from  the  water 
when  it  begins  to  boil.     Simmer,  with  lid  on,  for  one-half  hour.     Remove  from  stove. 

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RECIPES  FROM  THE  NORWEGIAN  MISSION  313 

Sauce: 

Vs   lb.  butter  i  tbsp.  whole  pepper  (unground) 

Ys   lb.  white  flour 

Melt  the  butter  and  blend  in  the  flour.  Thin  with  strained  broth.  To  this  sauce, 
add  a  layer  of  meat,  and  then  a  layer  of  washed,  cut  cabbage,  then  another  layer  of 
meat,  and  so  on,  until  cabbage  and  meat  have  been  placed  in  the  sauce.  Add  the 
pepper  (may  be  tied  in  small  linen  bag).  Simmer,  with  lid  on,  until  tender  (at  least 
three  hours). 


Lapskaus 

1  lb.  salted  side  meat  (pork) 

1   lb.  lean  beef 
Vi   lb.  pork  fat 
'/4    qt.  potatoes 

1   small  onion 
salt  to  taste 
pepper  to  taste 
water 

The  lean  beef,  pork  fat,  and  potatoes  are  diced,  covered  with  water,  and  put  on  to 
cook.  The  finely  chopped  onion,  salt,  and  pepper  are  added  to  taste.  Boil,  under  lid, 
for  about  one  and  one-half  hours.  The  salted  side  pork  should  be  added  after  the 
meat  has  boiled  for  one-half  hour.     This  dish  has  a  stew-like  consistency. 

You  Cannot  Leave  Me  Alone 

2  eggs  Vz    c.  cold  water 

2  tbsp.  sugar  i   c.  cream 

1  env.  unflavored  gelatine  /4    tsp.  vanilla 

Sprinkle  gelatine  in  the  cold  water  to  soften.  Place  on  heat  to  melt.  Whip  the 
eggs  and  mix  them  with  the  melted  gelatine.  Stir  slightly  until  mixture  thickens. 
Pour  into  a  glass  bowl  and  cover  with  raspberries,  strawberries,  or  other  berries  or 
fruit.    Then  cover  with  whipped  cream. 


^Petition 

Grace  Barker  Wilson 

I  did  not  ask  for  sun  to  shine 
Along  my  way, 

But  took  the  brightness  or  the  gloom 
Day  after  day. 

I  did  not  ask  that  all  of  joy 

Should  come  to  me. 

But  laughed  or  wept  as  time  went  on. 

Impartially. 

But  for  my  child,  I  beg  the  road 
Be  not  too  rough. 
Could  not  for  her  a  few,  brief  tears 
Be  just  enough? 


The  Third  House  Down 


Florence  B.  Dunioid 


THE  first  Grace  Warren  knew 
that  their  neighbors,  across 
the  street  and  the  third  house 
down,  were  moving  was  when  she 
saw  it  in  the  morning  Chionicle. 

She  looked  across  the  breakfast 
table  in  the  small  perfectly  appoint- 
ed dining  room  at  her  husband. 
'Tom,  the  Normans  down  the  street 
are  moving  to  California.  The 
Whites  had  a  neighborhood  party 
for  them  last  night." 

Tom,  one  of  those  good-looking 
homely  men,  looked  up  from  his 
half  of  the  paper.  "Oh.  How  come 
they  didn't  invite  us?" 

'*I  guess  because  we're  not  friends 
of  the  Normans,"  Grace  said.  ''Well, 
really,  we  scarcely  know  them  at 
all."  Grace  was  slight  of  build,  and 
blonde,  perhaps  a  little  shy.  But 
not  really  shy,  she  acknowledged  to 
herself.  People,  she  thought,  just 
any  people,  were  sometimes  too 
much  trouble  to  bother  with. 
Still.  .  .  .  She  looked  down  at  the 
social  item  again. 

'The  Kains  were  there,"  she  went 
on.  The  Kains  lived  on  the  east  of 
Tom  and  Grace,  a  house  farther 
away  from  the  Normans  than  them- 
selves. Still,  Betty  Kain  was  more 
Janis  Norman's  age  than  was  she, 
Grace. 

She  read  a  little  farther.  'The 
Moores  were  there,  too."  The 
Moores  lived  directly  across  the 
street;  they  were  much  older  than 
even  she  and  Tom. 

"I  saw  Olive  and  Dr.  Moore  going 
down  the  street  last  night,"  Grace 
said.  "They  were  all  dressed  up.  I 
wondered  where  they  were  going." 

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As  though  he  detected  the  odd 
note  of  distress  in  her  voice,  Tom 
said,  "The  Moores  are  friends  of  the 
Whites,  aren't  they?"  The  Whites 
were  the  ones  who  gave  the  party. 

"Yes,  of  course,"  Grace  said 
quickly.  She  brushed  at  an  imagi- 
nary hair  on  her  forehead.  Really, 
for  the  last  of  August  it  was  quite 
warm. 

It  was  not  jealousy,  of  course.  The 
Whites,  who  gave  the  party,  were 
a  young  couple,  younger  than  the 
Normans,  who  were  moving.  All  of 
which  added  up  to  the  fact,  Grace 
had  to  admit,  that  age  has  little  to 
do  with  friendship. 

The  thought  of  the  Normans 
moving  away,  and  all  the  way  to 
California,  arose  disturbingly  in 
Grace's  mind  several  times  that  day. 
When  Mrs.  Norman  first  moved 
into  the  third  house  down,  three 
years  ago,  she  had  seemed  a  friendly 
sort  of  person.  Though  she  was  a 
busy  one,  too,  with  her  three  chil- 
dren. Even  so  she  found  time  for 
golf.  One  morning  she  had  even 
phoned  Grace,  w^ho  had  never  been 
to  call  on  her.  That  was  a  couple 
of  summers  ago. 

^^T  was  going  out  to  Hill  Acres  to 
golf  this  morning  with  Betty 
Kain,"  Janis  Norman  had  said  in 
her  quick,  rather  abrupt  tone.  "But 
now  Betty  can't  go.  I  was  wonder- 
ing if  you  might  go  with  me." 

There  had  been  no  good,  valid 
reason,  Grace  remembered  guiltily 
now,  why  she  couldn't  have  gone. 
It  was  just  one  of  those  days  when 
she  hadn't  cared  about  it. 


THE  THIRD  HOUSE  DOWN 


315 


'Tm  sorry/'  she  had  told  Janis. 
'1  just  can't."  She  hadn't  given  an 
excuse.  The  fact  was  that  she  had 
not  had  one. 

''But  I  have  a  baby-sitter  here!" 
Janis  had  been  very  insistent;  her 
voice  almost  excited.  Evidently  she 
would  have  to  pay  the  sitter  any- 
way. Or  else  with  her  three  chil- 
dren, a  baby-sitter  and  an  outing 
had  made  an  occasion  for  her  that 
she  didn't  want  to  miss. 

/^RACE  had  taken  a  moment  long- 
er. 'Tm  really  very  sorry/'  she 
had  said  then.  'Tlease  call  me, 
though,  another  time." 

Janis  had  not  called  her  another 
time.  Very  often  Grace  would 
be  out  front  as  Janis  walked  by  with 
one  or  more  of  the  children.  But 
though  she  always  smiled  and  spoke, 
she  did  not  stop  and  chat. 

This  incident  and  several  of  less 
importance  kept  rising  up  to  trouble 
Grace  all  through  that  night.  She 
had  not  meant  to  be  unfriendly. 
When  Janis'  new  baby  came,  Grace 
was  always  going  to  run  down.  But 
somehow  she  hadn't.  Now,  this 
late  summer  of  1956,  the  baby  was 
walking. 

'Til  rather  miss  the  Normans," 
Grace  told  Tom  that  next  morning 
at  breakfast.  "The  children  were 
nice.  Sometimes  I  wished  Janis 
would  let  their  hair  grow.  I  couldn't 
tell  if  they  were  boys  or  girls.  I 
didn't  much  like  that  big  old  gray 
dog  of  theirs,  though  he  never  gave 
us  any  trouble." 

The  Normans  were  still  on  her 
mind  along  about  eleven-thirty  that 
morning.  Grace  had  been  to  the 
grocery  store.  As  she  drove  their 
new  shiny  car  into  their  driveway, 
Janis  Norman,  a  hand  holding  each 


of  the  two  smaller  children,  was 
passing. 

Grace  jumped  out  of  the  car, 
banged  the  door,  and  with  some 
alacrity  hurried  out  to  the  street. 

"Oh,  Mrs.  Norman!"  Grace  cried 
in  her  most  friendly,  charming  man- 
ner. For  the  instant  she  could  not 
recall  the  girl's  first  name.  "I  hear 
you're  moving  to  California.  And 
here  I've  never  gotten  acquainted 
with  you  yet." 

"No."  Janis  Norman  showed 
even  white  teeth,  but  Grace  could 
not  have  called  it  a  very  friendly 
smile. 

Still  Grace  persisted.  She  was 
truly  sorry  about  it.  She  supposed 
it  was  her  fault.  "Where  to  in  Cali- 
fornia?" she  asked,  wanting  to  pro- 
long the  conversation. 

"Oakland,"  Janis  Norman  said. 

"How  nice!"  Grace  said,  smiling. 
Funny,  she  didn't  feel  at  all  shy 
now.  Could  it  be  her  laziness  in 
getting  acquainted  had  been  just 
complacency,  because  she  and  Tom 
were  so  happy  with  their  new  home, 
their  life,  and  their  old  friends? 

"I  have  two  sisters  who  live  out 
of  San  Francisco,"  she  persisted 
now.  "It's  lovely  and  sunny  in 
Oakland,  I  believe." 

"We've  bought  a  big  old  house," 
Janis  Norman  said.  "I'm  trying  to 
decide  how  to  decorate  it.  I  was 
just  next  door,"  she  went  on. 
"Mrs.  Moore  invited  me  to  see  how 
she  has  redecorated  hers." 

Though  Grace  thought  Janis 
Norman  might  get  some  ideas  from 
her  own  place,  too,  she  didn't  feel 
she  could  ask  her  to  come  in  now 
and  see  hers.  They  spoke  a  moment 
longer  and  Grace  wished  them  well. 
Then  Janis  Norman  and  the  two 
children  moved  on  down  the  street. 


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'T^HE  feeling  of  regret  to  see  her 
neighbors  move  away,  stayed 
with  Grace.  And  it  was  tinged  more 
than  ever  now  with  a  feehng  of 
conscience.  How  could  she  have 
lived  so  close  to  the  Normans,  and 
she  without  any  children  at  home, 
and  never  have  become  acquainted 
with  them? 

The  next  day  was  Wednesday. 
The  weather  had  turned  abruptly 
cool,  though  of  course  it  was  the 
last  of  August.  Along  about  noon 
Grace  took  a  cushion  and  a  book 
and  sat  down  on  the  front  step  to 
get  the  sun.  But  before  she  started 
to  read,  her  eyes  wandered  down 
the  street. 

A  little  shock  went  through  her. 
In  the  driveway  of  the  Normans' 
was  a  big  moving  van. 

The  van  was  a  dingy  gray,  and 
shabbier  than  most  vans  she  had 
seen.  The  double  doors  were  open 
on  this  side.  "F  .  .  .  I  .  .  .  .''  Grace 
tried  to  read  the  name  blazoned 
across  the  side  in  red  paint,  but  a 
tree  blocked  her  effort— as  she  had 
blocked  Janis  Norman's  efforts  to 
be  friendly? 

Guilt  and  regret  tugged  at  her 
again.  Her  thoughts  went  back  to 
yesterday's  conversation  with  Janis. 
Janis  had  said  that  they  were  leav- 
ing today.  Yet,  even  that  had  not 
registered  on  Grace's  mind!  How 
could  she  be  so  negligent,  so  care- 
less! How  could  she  put  off  things 
the  way  she  did!  She  had  lost  an 
opportunity  that  could  never  be 
recalled. 

On  impulse,  Grace  jumped  up 
and  hurried  down  the  street. 
Skirting  the  big  van  and  crowding 
between  a  tow  car  and  a  smaller  car 
at  the  curb,  she  went  up  the  walk^ 
rang  the  doorbell. 


Janis  Norman  came  to  the  door. 

"It's  I,"  Grace  said  humbly.  "I 
saw  the  van.  I  didn't  really  think 
you  were  leaving  so  soon.  So  soon," 
she  echoed  bleakly. 

"I  told  you  yesterday,"  Janis  said, 
again  with  the  even,  white,  rather 
forced  smile. 

''I  know.  I  don't  know  where  my 
mind  is,"  Grace  said  contritely.  *'I 
hate  so  to  see  you  go.  I  was  won- 
dering if  all  of  you  couldn't  come 
up  for  lunch?" 

''Janis,  Jan!"  Mr.  Norman's  voice 
came  from  the  rear  of  the  house. 
''We're  all  ready.  Come  get  the 
baby!" 

"I'm  sorry,"  Janis  said.  "We're 
just  leaving." 

They  were  going  to  stop  down- 
town, Grace  knew,  or  along  the 
way. 

"I'm  sorry,  too,"  Grace  said. 
Tears  were  in  her  throat. 

As  she  went  back  up  the  walk  she 
knew  somehow  that  she  would 
always  be  sorry.  It  was  something 
she  would  never  forget.  An  oppor- 
tunity lost  to  be  friendly.  A  chance 
that  would  never  come  again. 

TT  was  two  weeks  later  when  she 
looked  out  her  kitchen  window 
and  saw  a  new,  shiny  green  and 
blue  van  at  the  third  house  down. 
She  was  honestly  and  truly  busy 
that  morning.  She  had  helped 
Tom  with  some  letters  before  he 
left  for  work.  She  was  going  to  a 
luncheon  at  twelve.  She  wanted  to 
put  a  couple  of  batches  of  clothes 
in  her  washer  and  get  them  on  the 
line,  and  she  couldn't  think  of  going 
away  without  the  beds  made,  the 
house  in  order. 

"I'm  going  down  the  street,"  she 
called  out  to  Tom,  who  himself  was 


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just  leaving  the  house.  ''Our  new 
neighbors  are  moving  in.  I  want 
to  get  acquainted  with  them,  see  if 
there's  anything  I  can  do."  If  it 
looked  as  if  they  needed  help,  the 
housework,  she  decided,  would  have 
to  go. 

As  she  hurried  along,  the  shyness 
she  had  always  used  as  an  excuse 
was  not  bothering  her  at  all.  Per- 
haps, she  admitted  honestly,  it  had 
never  been  anything  but  a  shield, 
an  excuse  for  being  self-complacent, 
for  laziness. 

She  skirted  the  big  van,  went  up 


the  walk.  Even  so,  she  decided,  it 
was,  perhaps  never  easy  for  anyone 
to  make  these  first  friendly  advances. 
But  they  were  necessary.  They 
were  what  made  life  worth  living. 
And  when  they  weren't  made,  there 
was  always  the  feeling  left  behind, 
as  it  was  with  her  about  the  Nor- 
mans, of  regret,  of  something 
missed,  like  a  shadow  across  the 
sun. 

Grace  pressed  her  finger  to  the 
doorbell  of  her  new  neighbors.  This 
time,  at  least,  the  shadow  would  not 
be  of  her  making. 


Q/he  y^id-QJashioned  K^lock 


Yeinessa.  M.  Nagle 

T  TOW  soothing  can  be  the  steady  "tick-tock"  of  an  old-fashioned  clock.  The  regular 
•■■  •■■  repetition  with  which  fragments  of  time  are  checked  off  can  soothe  frazzled  nerves 
and  afford  a  feeling  of  security.  To  the  accompaniment  of  time's  audible  metering, 
memories  can  be  stirred,  silent  prayers  offered,  and  new  resolves  made.  These  brief 
moments  of  reflection  daily  can  bring  solace  for  disappointments,  provide  an  oppor- 
tunity for  appraisal  of  values,  or  afford  time  to  snatch  a  brief  answer  to  the  eternal 
question,  "Whither?" 

Try  stopping  in  the  middle  of  a  task,  listening  to  the  sound  of  fragments  of  time 
recorded — not  with  an  attitude  of  relinquishment,  but  with  a  feehng  of  well  being. 
The  next  task  will  be  welcomed  with  greater  optimism. 


Q>i 


inging 


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oments 


Mabel  Jones  Gahhott 

There  are  moments  when  the  heart  must  sing; 
When  lilac-laden  breezes  whisper  spring. 
And  husbands  pause  to  press  a  stolen  kiss. 
The  heart  goes  spiraling  in  grateful  bliss; 

Or  when  your  three-year-old  as  twilight  ends. 
Whispers  softly,  "Mommy,  we  are  friends," 
And  kneels  to  bless  you  in  his  simple  prayers. 
Then  raptures  choke  your  speaking  unawares. 
Or  after  darkened  hours  when  the  mind, 
Hopeless,  hurt,  bewildered,  turns  to  find 
Faith  reborne  on  fleet  yet  fervent  wing — 
Oh,  thesre  are  moments  when  the  heart  must  sinf 


[Bright  {Barrier  of  the  Lrlains 

Nell  Murbarger 

EVEN  the  briskly  trotting  work  to  know  the  crunch  of  steel  wagon 

team  seemed  to  sense  the  big  tires. 

glory  of  the  morning.     If  the  It  would  not  always  be  so,  Father 

air  of  the  High  Plains  country  still  was  saying.     He  was  pointing  out 

carried  a  little  of  winter's  bite,  and  the  location  of  the  section  line  that 

a  few  small  patches  of  snow  still  bounded    our    homestead    on    the 

lingered  in  the  deeper  coulees,  it  did  south  and  cast  sides  —  a  line  still 

not    matter,    since    everything   else  indistinguishable    from    a    million 

told  of  spring's  arrival!     Our  own  other  acres   of  virgin  prairie.     He 

hearts  told  us  of  that  miracle:  the  was  telling  Mother  that  along  that 

new  blades  of  grass  appearing  in  the  line  eventually  would  run  a  smooth, 

draws,  the  meadow  larks  newly  re-  hard-surfaced  road   over  which  we 

turned  from  the  south,   the  bold,  might  haul  to  market  our  grain  and 

bright  blueness  of  the  sky  ...  all  produce. 

these  things  bore  witness  to  winter's  Grain  and  pioduce.  .  .  .  Those 

end.  were  wonderful  words  to  my  young 

Standing  proudly  upright  in  the  ears!  Almost  as  wonderful  as  the 
wagon  box  behind  Father  and  sounds  issuing  from  the  rear  of  the 
Mother,  my  small,  mitten-clad  wagon  box,  where  sledge  and  ham- 
hands  clutching  the  back  of  the  mer  and  axe  and  post  auger  were 
spring  seat  for  support,  I  looked  rattling  and  bouncing  together  in  a 
about  at  my  world.  merry,  mad  rhythm,  and  even  that 

It  was  a  big  world  —  a  terribly  big  mad  rhythm  was  a  poor  match  for 

world!    —   and,    judged    by    some  the  exultant  rhythm  in  our  hearts! 

standards,  I  suppose,  it  might  have  On    this    day    —    after    fourteen 

seemed  an  empty  world.    As  far  as  months  of  planning  and  disillusion- 

my  eyes  could  range  in  any  direc-  ment,  and  waiting  and  striving  and 

tion,  was   neither  fence  nor   field,  planning  again  —  we  were  actually 

neither  tree  nor  trail,  and,  with  our  to  begin  work  on  The  Fence  .  .  . 

own  homestead  shanty  now  hidden  the  fence  that  would  set  our  lands 

behind    the   shoulder    of    the    hill,  apart,  and,  for  the  first  time,  would 

there  was  not  even  one  house  any-  bring    to    our    homestead    acres    a 

where  to  be  seen.  promise  of  security  and  the  joy  of 

In  all  this  wide  world,  spreading  harvest! 
away  from  our  moving  horses  and  Thus  far,  in  our  homesteading  ex- 
wagon,  there  existed  only  blue  sky  perience,  neither  security  nor  har- 
and  sunshine,  and  springtime,  and  vest  had  been  ours, 
gently  rolling  hills  and  swales  mat-  With  the  passing  of  the  buffa- 
ted  over  by  the  cured  grass  of  the  lo,  the  Great  Plains  had  become 
previous  summer  .  .  .  grass  that  an  empire  for  cattlemen  whose 
never  had  felt  the  bite  of  a  plow-  droves  of  white-faced  Ilerefords 
share,  and  only  now  was  beginning  swarmed  over  the  open  range,  un- 

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restrained  by  boundary,  unrestrained 
by  law.  When  Father  and  Mother 
and  I  had  emigrated  west  to  file 
claim  on  160  acres  of  land,  cattle 
still  had  held  the  right-of-way,  and 
the  *'nester"  who  dared  trespass  on 
their  domain  might  as  well  accept 
the  fact  that  neither  peace  nor  crops 
could  be  his  until  his  acres  were 
bound  about  by  the  bright,  singing 
barrier  of  barbed  wire. 

But  our  first  summer  on  the 
homestead  had  found  a  great  many 
tasks  to  be  done,  and  pitifully  little 
time  in  which  to  do  them.  With 
building  our  claim  shanty,  digging 
a  well,  contriving  a  weather-tight 
shed  for  our  animals  and  chickens, 
and  cutting  prairie  hay  and  juniper 
wood  for  winter,  there  had  been  no 
time  available  for  constructing  two 
miles  of  fence. 

Lacking  any  previous  experience 
with  range  cattle.  Father  and  Moth- 
er had  been  hopelessly  optimistic. 
Even  without  a  fence,  they  had 
supposed,  we  should  be  able  to 
raise  at  least  a  few  ''kitchen  vege- 
tables''; but  it  soon  became  obvious 
there  would  be  no  chance  to  raise 
either  blade  or  root. 

Despite  all  our  efforts  to  guard 
against  the  nightly  pillaging  of  the 
cattle,  we  had  seen  our  thriving  field 
of  emerald  green  sod-corn  laid  to 
waste  by  their  devastating  greed. 
We  had  seen  our  young  Hubbard 
squashes  trodden  to  pulp  under 
their  hooves.  Even  Mother's  brave 
clump  of  petunias  and  marigolds  by 
the  kitchen  door,  and  the  box  elder 
whip  Father  had  planted  so  hope- 
fully, had  met  the  same  discourag- 
ing end. 

I  was  only  a  little  shaver,  but  Fll 
never  forget  the  look  that  passed 


over  Mother's  face  the  morning  she 
stepped  out  the  door  and  saw  her 
little  flower  bed  had  been  complete- 
ly destroyed  during  the  night.  She 
had  been  using  every  drop  of  her 
kitchen  waste  water  to  keep  the 
plants  alive  and  blooming,  and  had 
seemed  to  draw  a  great  store  of 
strength  and  comfort  from  the 
bright  flowers.  And  now,  they  were 
trampled  into  the  earth  as  though 
they  had  never  existed. 

''Just  wait!"  Father  had  said,  re- 
assuringly. "Things  will  be  differ- 
ent, next  year!" 

Nodding  dully.  Mother  had 
mumbled  something  about  it  being 
of  no  importance  .  .  .  but  I  still 
remember  the  tired,  beaten  look  in 
her  eyes  as  she  turned  back  into  the 
shanty. 

CUMMER  is  brief  in  the  Great 
Plains  country,  and  almost  be- 
fore we  had  realized  what  was 
happening,  September  had  sent 
snow  whirling  across  the  land. 

Throughout  the  long  winter,  the 
gaunt  range  cattle  had  milled  and 
bawled  around  our  tar-papered 
claim  shack,  seeking  to  gain  what- 
ever protection  they  might  from  the 
icy  blizzards.  Whenever  we  had 
stepped  out  the  door,  they  had 
circled  away  warily,  pivoting  to 
stare  at  us  from  their  wild,  hollow 
eyes.  It  had  been  impossible  not 
to  pity  their  desperate  hunger  — 
even  as  we  had  resented  their  pres- 
ence on  our  land  —  but  our  meager 
store  of  hay  had  been  barely  enough 
to  carry  our  own  animals  through 
the  long,  cold  months. 

All  that  winter  we  had  talked 
about  The  Fence.  Some  of  our 
neighboring  homesteaders  —  either 


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less  resourceful  or  more  affluent  I  would  stay  out  of  the  way  at  least 
than  we  —  were  planning  to  fence  half  the  time,  would  carry  the  tools 
their  claims  with  split  cedar  posts  and  lead  the  horses  forward  from 
imported  from  the  State  of  Wash-  one  post  hole  to  the  next;  and, 
ington.  Our  posts,  however,  were  meanwhile,  would  make  a  reason- 
to  be  made  from  pine  saplings  cut  able  effort  to  remain  unpunctured 
by  Father  the  previous  autumn  and  by  cactuses  and  unbitten  by  rattle- 
hauled    from    the    ''cedar    breaks,"  snakes. 

twenty  miles  away.  During  the  win-  This   inexperience,  however,  did 

ter  evenings  we  had  peeled  the  bark  not  prevent  my  being  terrifically  in- 

and  scraped  each  post  until  it  had  terested  in  the  operation,  and  every 

shone  with   the  white   smoothness  phase  of  development  found  me  a 

of  ivory;  and  always,  as  we  worked,  fascinated  spectator, 

we  had   made  plans  for  the  tmie  when  a  hole  had  been  reamed 

when  we  might  incorporate  those  to  sufficient  depth  with  the  auger, 

posts  into  a  cattle-tight  barrier.  pother  would  insert  the  larger  end 

At  last  had  come  spring;  and  as  of  a  post,  settling  it  in  place  with 

soon  as  the  snow  was  well  enough  a  few  strong  blows  of  the  sledge, 

gone  that  he  could  find  our  corner  Mother,  using  the  butt  end  of  the 

monuments.  Father  had  begun  sur-  hammer  handle,  would  then  tamp 

veying  our  boundary,  sighting  from  the   loose   earth   solidly   about   the 

each  corner  marker  to  signal  flags  post  until  the  hole  was  filled  and 

raised  on  opposite  corners.     Stakes  rounded.  Meanwhile,  Father  would 

had  been  driven  along  this  line  and  have  begun  digging  a  new  hole,  two 

posts  had  been  strung.  rods  beyond. 

At  noon  we  sat  in  the  shelter  of 
TX^HEN  the  first  week  of  April  the  wagon  and  ate  a  cold  lunch  of 
showed  the  ground  to  be  free  bacon  sandwiches  and  boiled  eggs, 
of  frost,  we  had  known  that  our  and  not  until  sundown  did  we  turn 
long-awaited  fence  might,  at  last,  homeward.  By  that  time,  we  were 
be  started.  hungry  and  muscle-sore,  and  very 
Despite  their  lack  of  experience  tired,  but  posts  had  been  set  for 
with  range  cattle.  Father  and  Moth-  the  first  half  mile  of  fence.  Father 
er  had  come  from  long  lines  of  said  it  had  been  a  good  day's  work, 
eastern  farm  folk  and  were  thor-  Next  morning,  the  barbed  wire 
oughly  conversant  with  this  business  was  strung  —  the  heavy  spool  being 
of  fence  building.  As  for  myself,  threaded  on  an  iron  bar  laid  across 
I  was  strictly  inexperienced  labor.  I  the  w^agon  box.  As  the  horses  were 
had  been  in  the  world  but  a  very  driven  along  the  fence  line,  the 
short  while,  and  in  that  period  had  spool  revolved  and  the  wire  played 
never  built  a  fence,  assisted  in  build-  out  smoothly  behind.  Upon  reach- 
ing a  fence,  nor  even  watched  a  ing  the  farther  end  of  our  half-mile 
fence  being  built.  As  a  matter  of  boundary,  one  end  of  the  wire  was 
fact,  I  had  scarcely  seen  a  fence  in  attached  to  the  wagon  wheel,  the 
all  my  short  life;  so  about  all  that  other  end  first  having  been  fastened 
could  be  expected  of  me  was  that  to  a  well-anchored  corner  post. 


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As  the  horses  strained  forward, 
the  wire  grew  steadily  tighter  until 
Father  judged  it  sufficiently  well 
''stretched."  Setting  the  brake,  so 
the  wagon  could  not  settle  back, 
he  and  Mother  then  started  staphng 
the  wire  to  the  proper  height  on 
the  posts. 

Ten  days  later,  with  two  miles 
of  fencing  completed,  our  home- 
stead, for  the  first  time,  assumed  a 
definite  identity.  Before,  it  had 
been  only  160  acres  of  prairie  sod, 
lost  in  the  midst  of  a  prairie-sod 
world,  and  cryptically  designated  in 
records  of  the  Land  Office,  "NW34 
S.  27,  Twp.  7,  R.  6  E." 

Now,  however,  we  could  see  the 
actual  extent  of  it!  All  the  land 
encompassed  by  these  three  tight, 
singing    wires  —  all    these    rolling 


hills,  that  rocky  butte  where  the 
lupines  grew  tallest,  those  green 
draws  and  fertile  slopes  —  all  this 
was  our  homestead.  Our  home, 
our  empire,  our  world,  our  universe! 

The  curlews  and  prairie  chickens 
were  free  to  fly  over  this  fence  and 
to  light  upon  our  land.  The 
meadow  larks  and  buntings  could 
nest  in  our  fields  if  they  chose;  and 
the  jackrabbits  and  coyotes  might 
pass  through  the  fence  and  pursue 
their  age-old  ways.  With  all  these 
we  would  share  gladly  our  little 
square  of  prairie.  But  never  again 
would  we  need  share  with  the  ravag- 
ing hordes  of  range  cattle! 

Our  security  from  fear,  our  free- 
dom from  want,  had  come  not  in 
legislation  nor  in  proclamation,  but 
in  the  bright  barrier  of  barbed  wire! 


of  he   (y/a   of  in  drunk 


Grace  W.  Ball 


IT  was  moving  day.  The  accumu- 
lation of  twenty  years  was  be- 
ing sorted— some  items  to  be 
packed  for  shipping,  some  to  be 
sent  to  the  Deseret  Industries,  and 
much  to  the  trash  heap. 

The  basement  held  the  most  for- 
midable array  of  things  that  had 
been  saved  to  the  last.  Toys,  books, 
and  fruit  bottles  could  not  all  be 
taken.  Only  books  would  be  sent, 
which  could  not  be  replaced.  One 
big  trunk  that  held  Hawaiian  mis- 
sionary relics  would  be  sent  intact. 

My  eye  caught  the  old  tin  trunk. 
That  was  a  problem,  a  sentimental 
one,  too.  It  had  belonged  to  my 
grandmother.     After  her  death^  it 


had  fallen  into  mother's  hands,  and 
now  I  was  heir  to  it. 

For  years,  when  I  was  a  girl,  it 
was  brought  out  of  its  resting  place 
every  spring  and  fall  for  airing  and 
cleaning.  The  contents  were  most 
fascinating.  There  was  the  red 
plush  family  album,  with  pictures 
dating  back  to  the  old  country,  the 
stern  faces  of  our  ancestors,  the 
women  with  severe  hair-dos,  and 
dark  men  with  foreboding  mus- 
taches. There  was  an  account  book 
kept  by  my  grandmother  when  she 
ran  a  store,  soon  after  arriving  in 
the  valley  in  i860;  baby  clothes 
that  had  belonged  to  my  mother; 
and,   added    to    these   relics,   were 


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treasures  of  mine  and  my  children,  life  and  the  heritage  she  had  left 
The  former  things  had  outlived  any  us,  and  then  decided  on  the  garb- 
sentiment  for  any  but  me,  and  the  age  man  as  holding  the  fate  of  the 
top  of  the  trunk  was  rent  and  bent,  trunk. 

The  bottom  was  worn  through  with  The    curb   was   piled   high   with 

rust,  and  I  knew  it  wouldn't  stand  refuse.    I  carried  the  trunk  out  and 

the  long  trip  to  California.     What  put  it  beside  the  other  items.  I  was 

to  do  with  it  was  something  to  pon-  still  disturbed  about  leaving  it.  The 

der.  garbage  truck  was  almost  full  when 

The  relics  were  finally  stored  in  it  arrived  at  our  place,  so  the  man 

a  stout  box  and  labeled.     I  set  the  was  only  able  to  take  about  half  of 

trunk  to  one  side,  still  thinking  of  the  things.     The  trunk  went  with 

its  disposal.     The  time  was  going  the  first  load.     I  felt  a  little  easier 

by  fast,  and  my  husband  had  warned  after  it  left  and  decided  to  forget  it 

me    about    taking   anything    super-  and  lock  my  storehouse  of  memories 

fluous.     Surely,  the  trunk  was  just  for  the  time  being, 

that.    Silly  to  be  so  sentimental.  A  half  hour  after  the  departure 

Many  times  the  stories  had  been  of    the    garbage    truck    the    phone 

recounted  about  my  grandmother's  rang.     It  was  my  aunt  from  out  in 

trip  across  the  plains.     I  could  see  the  country,  my  grandmother's  old- 

her   as   a  young  girl   of   seventeen  est  living  daughter.     I  had  forgot- 

pushing    a    handcart    all    the    way,  ten  that  she  might  be  interested  in 

with    her    belongings    in    the    tin  the  trunk.    ''Whatever  you  do,"  she 

trunk.  said,  ''don't  dispose  of  the  old  tin 

Grandmother  had  been  a  small  trunk.  .  .  .  You  know  that  trunk 
person,  with  shining  brown  eyes  is  over  one  hundred  years  old,  was 
filled  with  love  and  compassion  for  purchased  in  London,  and  carried 
everyone  and  everything.  She  was  all  of  mother's  belongings  as  she 
the  idol  of  her  large  posterity.  Her  pushed  it  across  the  plains." 
lovely,  well-kept  home  was  a  sanctu-  My  heart  sank.  I  stammered  out, 
ary  for  all  who  entered  it.  Every-  almost  incoherently,  the  details  of 
thing  about  her  was  famous  to  all  the  disposal.  I  assured  her  that  I 
of  us.  Her  currant  biscuits,  flowers,  would  do  everything  to  get  it  back, 
and  genuine  hospitality  were  known  "It  belongs  in  the  museum,"  she 
throughout  the  State.  The  hard-  said.  Of  course  it  did,  why  hadn't 
ships  she  had  borne  rested  lightly  I  thought  of  that? 
on  her  shoulders,  as  her  great  faith  Fortunately,  the  garbage  man  re- 
carried  her  on  to  higher  achieve-  turned  for  the  second  load.  I 
ments.  rushed  out  when  he  came  back  and 

We  loved  to  hear  her  tell  of  her  told  him  of  my  plight.  He  told  me 

trip  across  the  plains  with  its  dang-  that  he  had  thought  it  an  unusual 

ers  and  privations.    Now  the  trunk  old   piece  and  had   put  it  to  one 

was  one  of  the  last  links  with  that  side  and  would  bring  it  back  to  me. 

great  migration.     However,  it  was  I  paid  him  for  his  trouble,  and  the 

useless  now  and  could  do  no  good  trunk   was    returned    to    repose    in 

to  anyone,  as  I  thought.  I  breathed  the  museum  as  its  rightful  place  of 

a  little  prayer  of  gratitude  for  her  abode. 


The  Bright  Star 

Chapter  3 
Doiothy  S.  Romney 


Synopsis:  Kathy  Tracy,  an  orphan,  who 
wishes  to  become  an  artist,  Hves  with  her 
Aunt  Emerald  Jewel  Tracy  in  an  old- 
fashioned  house  overlooking  San  Fran- 
cisco Bay.  In  order  to  help  with  house- 
hold expenses,  Kathy  has  applied  to  a 
neighbor,  Phineas  Fenton,  who  owns  a 
shipping  line,  for  employment,  and  is 
promised  a  position  in  his  San  Francisco 
office  building.  In  the  meantime,  how- 
ever. Aunt  Emerald  has  a  partial  stroke, 
and  Kathy  gives  up  the  position  she  has 
been  promised.  Jim  Parker,  in  love  with 
Kathy,  suggests  an  immediate  marriage, 
but  Kathy  declines.  During  Aunt  Em's 
illness  she  mentions,  incoherently,  some- 
thing about  money  in  a  Chinese  chest 
which  they  keep  in  Grandfather  Tracy's 
China  house. 

KATHY  walked  up  the  steep 
hill  toward  the  Fenton  man- 
sion. The  wind  blew  chill 
through  the  lightweight  sweater  she 
had  hurriedly  put  on.  The  Fentons 
would  be  inside  in  front  of  the  fire 
on  this  cold  evening. 

She  rang  the  bell  timidly,  and 
was  told  by  Tina,  the  maid,  to  go 
into  the  library.  Old  Phineas  was 
dozing  in  front  of  an  open  fire,  his 
pink-skinned  cheeks  lax.  Kathy  sat 
stiffly  on  the  edge  of  the  chair  and 
waited.  Suddenly  the  old  man  sat 
up  straight  and  blinked  his  hard, 
blue  eyes  until  he  was  awake.  He 
looked  at  her  with  the  round-eyed 
stare  of  an  infant. 

''Hmm,"  he  barked,  'what  do  you 
want?" 

'1  don't  want  anything,''  Kathy 
replied.  ''I  came  to  tell  you  I 
won't  be  able  to  accept  that  job  you 
offered  me  yesterday." 


'7ob!  Job!  What  job?" 

''Why,  the  job  you  promised  me 
in  one  of  your  office  buildings  in 
San  Francisco,"  she  explained. 

"Oh,"  the  old  man  grunted,  and 
Kathy  had  a  feeling  his  memory 
wasn't  as  spry  as  he  pretended  it  to 
be  —  that  for  all  his  past  brilliant 
career  and  present  riches,  he  was 
sinking  down  into  a  vague,  unre- 
membering,  selfish  childishness. 

He  scrutinized  her  closely.  Kathy 
sat  quietly  and  waited.  Finally  he 
spoke.  "Now  where  did  Old  Em 
get  a  pretty  girl  like  you?  Did  a 
good  job  when  she  picked  you  up." 

'Tm  her  brother's  daughter," 
Kathy  explained  patiently.  "He  died 
before  my  mother  did.  She  died 
when  I  was  born." 

Old  Phin  threw  his  head  back 
against  the  red  leather  of  his  easy 
chair  and  roared.  "A  likely  story. 
Jon  Tracy  never  had  but  one  chick 
or  child,  and  that  one  was  Miss 
Emerald  Jewel  Tracy  herself." 

Behind  her,  Kathy  heard  the  soft 
voice  of  Grace  Fenton.  "Why,  Fa- 
ther, what  are  you  saying?  Don't 
pay  any  attention  to  him,"  she 
whispered  to  the  girl.  "He's  getting 
so  old  he  doesn't  remember  things 
rightly." 

I  was  right,  he  is  forgetful,  and 
ril  take  Grace's  advice  and  not  pay 
any  attention,  Kathy  told  herself 
firmly.  She  said  her  goodbyes  and 
started  for  the  front  door. 

As  she  walked  down  the  path, 
Old  Phineas'  words  ran  through  her 

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mind  again.  ''She  did  a  good  job 
when  she  picked  you  up."  Just  as 
though  Aunt  Em  had  walked  up  to 
a  batch  of  new  kittens  and  taken 
the  pick  of  the  basket. 

Kathy  was  inchned  to  dismiss  the 
whole  thing,  but  still,  this  might 
explain  many  past  incidents.  Why 
Miss  Em— Aunt  Em,  had  always 
been  evasive  when  Kathy  asked  to 
see  pictures  of  her  parents,  or 
mementoes  of  the  past.  'Tlease, 
Kathy,  not  now,"  had  been  her  un- 
changing answer. 

TZATHY  searched  the  memories  of 
her  early  childhood.  No,  there 
had  never  been  anyone  but  Aunt 
Em  who  cared  for  her.  Tears  stung 
her  eyes.  She  was  remembering  the 
countless  number  of  times  Aunt 
Em  had  sewed  through  the  night 
so  that  she,  Kathy,  might  have  some 
luxury  their  meager  budget  couldn't 
afford.  And  her  graduation  dress! 
The  most  beautiful  dress  in  the 
high  school  class.  She  remembered 
how  one  of  Jon  Tracy's  precious 
chests  disappeared  a  short  time  be- 
fore Aunt  Em  bought  the  frosty, 
delicate  lace  that  had  taken  days 
to  make  into  the  exquisite  dress, 
explaining  ''A  Tracy  must  have  the 
best." 

And  now!  Was  it  really  possible 
that  she  wasn't  a  Tracy  at  all,  but 
a  waif  Aunt  Em  had  picked  up 
some  place?  The  house  was  dark, 
and  Kathy  felt  cold  fear  rushing  at 
her.  Where  was  Marta,  the  nurse 
Dr.  Ransome  had  sent  in  to  care  for 
Aunt  Em?  She  opened  the  door 
and  went  into  the  kitchen. 

'Tm  glad  your're  back,"  Marta 
whispered,  so  close  to  Kathy's  ear 
it  startled  her.     ''I  didn't  turn  on  a 


light.  We've  had  a  prowler.  He 
was  poking  around  the  China 
house." 

"Nonsense,"  said  Kathy,  and  im- 
mediately flooded  the  kitchen  with 
light.  'If  it  will  make  you  feel  any 
better,  though,  I'll  take  Grandfa- 
ther Tracy's  sea  glasses  and  have  a 
look  around.  It  may  not  be  too 
dark." 

She  took  a  flashlight  and  the 
glasses  from  the  cupboard,  and  start- 
ed up  the  stairs  to  the  eight-sided 
cupola  at  the  tip-top  of  the  gray 
house.  Night  had  spread  its  velvet 
mantle,  but  there  was  a  full  moon 
rising.  Kathy  directed  her  search 
toward  the  China  house.  There 
was  no  one  there,  she  made  sure  of 
that,  and  was  about  to  return  to  the 
kitchen  when  she  saw  a  black  object 
moving  up  Pine  Road.  She  trained 
her  glasses  on  it.  It  was  a  small 
coupe. 

It  was  then  that  Kathy  remem- 
bered she'd  left  one  of  the  chests 
in  the  China  house  unlocked  when 
she'd  gone  down  to  search  for  the 
"bright  star"  yesterday  to  please 
Aunt  Em.  It  had  never  before  oc- 
curred to  her  that  someone  might 
be  interested  in  the  store  of  souve- 
nirs and  trinkets  that  Jon  Tracy  had 
brought  from  almost  every  foreign 
land  during  his  years  of  piloting 
one  of  Phineas'  freighters.  She  de- 
cided to  check  tomorrow  and  see  if 
anything  had  been  disturbed. 


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HE  September  sun  flashed  gold- 
red  lights  from  Kathy's  lovely 
hair  as  her  head  nodded  to  the 
rhythm  of  the  hoe.  She  had  neg- 
lected the  garden  shamefully  dur- 
ing the  last  few  tension-filled  weeks 
since    Aunt    Em    had    become    ill. 


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Besides,  working  in  the  fresh  air 
might  clear  her  mind  and  perhaps 
she  could  think  of  a  plan  whereby 
she  might  stay  home  and  take  care 
of  Aunt  Em,  and  earn  a  living  at 
the  same  time.  Marta  was  due  to 
leave  in  a  week's  time.  Her  own 
family  needed  her  for  a  while. 

She  shivered  slightly  as  a  gust  of 
wind  blew  around  the  corner  of  the 
China  House,  then  she  started  hoe- 
ing faster.  She'd  be  warm  soon 
enough  if  she  worked  as  fast  as  she 
should  to  rid  the  garden  of  its  ac- 
cumulation of  weeds.  She  heard 
the  drone  of  a  motor  up  the  slope, 
and  hoped  it  wasn't  Jim  —  the 
garden  needed  weeding  so  desper- 
ately. She  worked  on,  then  stopped 
and  looked  up  when  she  heard  foot- 
steps just  beyond  the  berry  patch 
at  the  end  of  the  cabin  platform. 

She  saw  the  tall  figure  of  a  man 
peering  in  the  window  of  the  China 
house. 

''What  are  you  doing  here?"  she 
demanded.  'Tou're  probably  that 
prowler  Marta  saw  last  night?" 

'Trobably,"  he  agreed,  turning 
around. 

Kathy  was  startled  to  see  how 
pale  and  thin  his  face  was.  His  eyes 
were  shaded  with  a  pair  of  dark 
glasses. 

'1  had  decided  the  place  was  un- 
inhabited, and  I  could  move  right 
in,  as  there  were  no  lights  anywhere 
last  night.  However,"  he  said, 
"Fm  willing  to  pay  rent." 

'To  pay  rent  on  what?"  Kathy 
challenged. 

He  laughed  briefly.  "On  this  con- 
traption," he  said,  indicating  the 
China  house.  "It's  exactly  the  spot 
I  need  to  recuperate  from  an  ill- 
ness, and  I  need  it  right  away." 


Kathy's  heart  softened  at  the 
mention  of  his  illness,  but  his  re- 
quest was  out  of  the  question.  "I'm 
sorry,"  she  said,  "but  it  would  be 
impossible  for  us  to  rent  you  the 
China  house."  She  picked  up  her 
hoe  and  started  working  again. 

"The  China  house,  is  it?"  he  pon- 
dered. "And  just  why  isn't  it  for 
rent?  I'm  prepared  to  pay  far  more 
than  it  is  worth." 

Kathy  was  beginning  to  be  an- 
noyed at  his  persistence.  "Because 
it's  sort  of  a  shrine,"  she  explained. 
"My  grandfather  built  it  ...  it  was 
his  favorite  spot,  and  he  stored  all 
of  his  treasures— relics  in  it."  What 
a  difficult  man,  she  thought,  then 
could  have  bitten  off  her  tongue 
when  she  blurted  out:  "And  don't 
you  go  bothering  Aunt  Em,  she  is 
far  too  ill." 

APPARENTLY  the  information 
that  Kathy  was  not  the  person 
in  charge  around  here  was  exactly 
what  he  was  looking  for.  He  turned 
and  made  straight  for  the  house, 
with  Kathy  trailing  along  after  him 
as  fast  as  she  could. 

She  was  right  on  his  heels,  pro- 
testing, when  he  rapped  on  the 
screen  door  of  the  kitchen.  Marta, 
washing  dishes  at  the  sink,  turned, 
startled.  "You  look  like  the  prowler 
last  night,"  she  spoke  impulsively. 

"I  apologize  for  that,"  he  said, 
coming  unbidden  into  the  kitchen. 
"All  I  wanted  was  to  look  in  the 
cabin.  I  want  to  rent  the  cabin 
down  by  the  water.  You'd  think 
I  was  a  highway  robber  the  way  this 
young  lady  has  been  treating  me." 
He  laughed  briefly. 

Marta    dried   her   hands.     "You 


326  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MAY  1957 

may  as  well  go  in/'  she  said,  nodding  is  hard  enough  right  now  without 

towards    Miss    Em's    room.     ''She  having  a  stranger  under  one's  very 

couldn't  have  helped  but  hear,  and  nose  for  goodness  knows  how  long! 

the  cabin  belongs  to  Miss  Em."  Besides  having  to  give  up  our  China 

The  three  of  them  trooped  into  house! 

Miss   Em's   room,   and    Kathy   ex-  ''At  least,"   said  Kathy  to  Miss 

plained  the  offer  to  her  aunt.  When  Em,  after  Marta  had  ushered  their 

she   was    through,    she   was   aston-  new  tenant,  Marc  Hale,  out,  "it'll 

ished  to  see  Aunt  Em  indicate  that  pay  Marta's  wages,"  and  she  noted 

she'd  take  the  offer.  that  Miss  Em  looked  grimly  satis- 

As  Kathy  accepted  the  money  for  fied.     She  leaned  over  and  impul- 

the  rent,  she  gritted  her  teeth  hard  sively  kissed  her  aunt's  cheek.  "I'm 

and  felt  the  hot  tears  stinging  her  going  back  to  the  garden,"  she  said, 

eyelids.    Oh,  she  thought,  surely  life  {To  he  continued) 


1 1  lay  s  Lrromise 

Catherine  E.  Beiiy 

The  chugging  tractor  crawls  across  the  field, 
And  leaves  brown  ribbons  lying  in  straight  lines. 
For  as  the  earth  is  turned,  so  shall  it  yield, 
When  growth  fills  these  symmetrical  designs. 
A  faith  as  old  as  man  is  breathing  here. 
May's  promise  of  new  life  is  shining  bright. 
The  spring  has  come  again  with  this  new  year, 
And  seeds  will  root  and  grow  through  day  and  night. 

The  wonder  of  this  month,  the  magic  found, 
Renews  the  heart  as  busy  hands  drop  seeds. 
The  knowledge  of  the  harvest  from  this  ground 
Sustains  the  mind,  gives  answer  to  our  needs. 
Man  turns  the  earth  and  plants  the  fragrant  sod, 
Holding  within  his  heart  his  faith  in  God. 


o/n   (compensation 

Eleanor  W.  Schow 

No  day  ever  brought  a  trial 
When  sorrow  or  pain  befell. 
But  before  its  end  some  tender  friend 
Brought  balm  to  my  heart  as  well. 

Then  sustained  by  her  cup  of  kindness 
And  the  healing  rays  of  her  smile. 
With  my  grief  subdued  and  my  faith  renewed 
My  day  was  again  worthwhile. 


niary  G.   Crtendry,  Jirtist  in  uiandicraft 

MARY  C.  Hendry,  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah,  loves  beauty  in  all  its  forms.  She  writes 
descriptive  poetry  with  a  discriminating  selection  of  words  and  phrases;  she  has 
made  an  illustrated  scrapbook  for  each  of  her  great-grandchildren.  She  has  shared  her 
spiritual  insight  and  her  many  blessings  with  her  large  family  and  her  neighbors,  living 
daily  her  motto:  "Love  your  Heavenly  Father,  love  your  neighbors,  develop  a  sense  of 
humor,  and  keep  busy." 

Her  handicraft  hobbies  have  brought  much  pleasure  to  Sister  Hendry  and  have 
beautified  the  homes  of  hundreds  who  have  received  her  handmade  articles  as  gifts. 
She  makes  crocheted  doilies  of  many  intricate  patterns,  designs  and  makes  appliqued 
tablecloths,  pieces  quilts  in  original  patterns,  and  makes  lovely  gifts  of  "odds  and 
ends"  of  materials. 

On  July  6,  1957,  Mary  Hendr}^  will  be  one  hundred  years  old.  She  is  mother 
of  eight  children,  grandmother  of  twenty,  great-grandmother  of  forty-six,  and  great-great- 
grandmother  of  one.  Her  long  life  has  been  devoted  to  family,  friends,  and  to  her 
Church — a  century  of  loving  service. 


cJriumph 

Eva  WilJes  Wangsgaard 

It's  not  the  prize  I  won  that  set  me  flying 

My  little  banner  starred  with  joy  and  pride; 

But  this:  I  struggled  through  the  body's  crying 
And  did  not  heed  the  ache  to  turn  aside. 


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Magazine  Subscriptions  for  1956 

Counselor  Marianne  C.  Sharp 

npHE  callings  of  stake  and  ward,  membership  of  Latter-day  Saint 
mission  and  branch  Relief  So-  women,  The  Reliei  Society  Maga- 
ciety  Magazine  representatives,  if  zine  likewise  enters  new  portals  to 
faithfully  performed,  have  far-reach-  bring  inspiring  and  refining  influ- 
ing  results.  Not  only  do  they  render  ences  to  an  enlarged  circle  of  sisters, 
service  to  Relief  Society  today  The  increase  in  number  of  sub- 
through  bringing  the  spirit  of  Relief  scriptions  in  1956  is  the  largest  re- 
Society  into  Latter-day  Saint  homes  corded  —  10,465  —  the  subscriptions 
within  the  stakes  of  the  Church  as  of  December  31,  1956  were 
and  in  the  far  distant  lands  of  the  148,562  and  the  number  in  Decem- 
earth,  but  their  work  will  not  be  ber  31,  1955  was  138,097.  When  one 
forgotten  in  the  years  ahead.  considers  the  zeal  and  effort  some- 

By  commandment  of  the  Lord,  times  expended  in  securing  one  sub- 
the  Latter-day  Saints  are  a  record-  scription,  one  may  realize  even 
keeping  people.  So,  today,  we  turn  though  dimly,  the  great  amount  of 
to  the  pages  of  the  Woman's  Ex-  work  and  the  devotion  which  this 
ponent  to  read  of  the  record  of  great  number  of  subscriptions  rep- 
Relief  Society  from  1872  to  1914,  resents.  One  year's  award  subscrip- 
as  it  was  reported  from  societies  in  tion  which  is  given  to  each  Maga- 
that  day.  And  for  the  enlighten-  zine  representative  whose  subscrip- 
ment  of  those  sisters,  we  find  our  tions  equal  seventy-five  per  cent  of 
early  great  Relief  Society  leaders  the  respective  enrolled  Relief  So- 
sharing  their  experiences  of  Nauvoo  ciety  membership,  is  but  a  small 
in  the  pages  of  the  Woman's  token  of  regard. 
Exponent.  These  precious  papers  The  reward  to  Magazine  repre- 
give  us  understanding  and  apprecia-  sentatives  is  in  the  blessings  which 
tion  of  Relief  Society's  work  of  each  one  receives  for  having  accept- 
earlier  years.  Had  sisters  of  that  ed  the  calling  and  faithfully  per- 
day  not  acted  as  agents  for  the  formed  it,  and  these  blessings  are 
Woman's  Exponent,  these  copies  not  confined  to  our  life  here.  Re- 
would  not  be  found  today.  cently  a  mission  Relief  Society  presi- 

In   this  day   The  Rehei  Society  dent  said  that  she  considered  The 

Magazine  is  presenting  and  preserv-  ReUef  Society  Magazine  one  of  the 

Relief  Society  history.  To  the  Mag-  best    proselyting    mediums    in    the 

azine  representatives  throughout  the  mission  over  which  her  husband  pre- 

world,  the  general  board  expresses  sides. 

its  heartfelt  thanks  for  their  love  of  For   the   tenth   year.   South   Los 

Relief  Society  which  urges  them  to  Angeles   Stake  leads  the  stakes  of 

fulfill  their  callings  so  nobly.    Year  the  Church  with  253  per  cent.  They 

by  year,  as  the  blessings  of  Relief  have   1143   enrolled   Relief  Society 

Society  are  extended  to  a  greater  members    and    2896    subscriptions. 

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South  Gate  Ward  of  that  stake 
reached  481  per  cent,  with  eighty- 
five  members  and  409  subscriptions. 

In  1956  there  are  222  stakes  on 
the  honor  roll  and  1949  wards.  This 
compares  very  favorably  with  the 
1955  report  which  had  204  stakes  on 
the  honor  roll  and  1739  wards  and 
branches  in  stakes.  Twenty-six 
stakes  in  1956  had  every  one  of  their 
wards  over  one  hundred  per  cent, 
which  is  seven  less  than  last  year. 

Fifteen  missions  are  on  the  hon- 
or roll  in  1956,  an  increase  of  one 
over  the  previous  year,  and  642 
branches,  whereas  there  were  only 
486  mission  branches  on  the  honor 
roll  in  1955.  The  missions  are  to  be 
commended  for  this  excellent  in- 
crease. 

As  each  Magazine  representative 
goes  about  her  calling,  her  interest 
is  centered  —  and  rightly  so  —  upon 


her  particular  ward  or  branch.  The 
stake  and  mission  Magazine  repre- 
sentatives are  concerned  with  larger 
geographic-ecclesiastical  units,  but 
the  real  significance  of  the  work  of 
the  Magazine  representative  is  ap- 
proximated only  when  the  statistics 
for  the  entire  Church  are  studied. 
Then  the  light  of  the  service  of 
each  faithful,  devoted  individual 
Magazine  representative  joined  with 
the  lights  of  hundreds  of  her  sister 
Magazine  representatives  bursts  into 
a  great  flame  of  service. 

It  is  the  hope  of  the  general  board 
that  the  words  of  instruction  and 
encouragement  in  The  Relief  So- 
ciety Magazine  may  be  as  a  lamp  to 
help  guide  the  sisters  who  read  and 
follow  the  teachings  of  their  be- 
loved Relief  Society.  Then  will  the 
Magazine  representatives  feel  their 
labors  have  indeed  borne  fruit. 


uionors  for  uiighest  LKatings 

Stake 

South  Los  Angeles  (California)   253% 
Magazine  Representative — Edna  C.  Stoutsenberger 

Ward 

South  Gate  Ward,  South  Los  Angeles  Stake   (California)   481% 
Magazine  Representative — Eva  Guynn 

Branch 


Eloy  Branch,  Mesa  Stake  (Arizona)  280% 
Magazine  Representative — Flora  Johnson 

Mission 


California  Mission — 103% 
Mission  Relief  Society  President — Alta  H.  Taylor 

Mission  Distiict 

South  Texas  District,  Gulf  States  Mission — 130% 
Magazine  Representative — (None  given) 

Mission  Branch 

Franklin  Branch — 250% 

West  Virginia  North  District,  East  Central  States  Mission 

Magazine  Representative — May  eel  W.  Sponaugle 


330 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MAY  1957 


Ten  JJigJicst  Pcrccutcigcs  in  Stakes 

South  Los  Angeles 2  53....r]clna  C.  Stoutscnbergcr 

Glendalc i62....r',lsie  Weber 

Provo   1  50.. ..Mora  Buggert 

Oqiiirrh    146. ...Helen  D.  Jensen 

Rexburg   1 38.... Martha  J.  Kriekson 

San  Joaquin  i34....Leona  B.  Hansen 

Hurley 1 33.. ..lone  Chureh 

Santa  Monica i32....Kathleen  Savage 

Burbank   126.. ..Edith  MeKenny 

Covina   126.. ..Helen  G.  Baxter 

Missions  Achieving  Ten  Highest  Percentages 

California  io3....Alta   H.  Taylor 

Central  States  103.... Mae  E.  J.  Dyer 

Western   States  103.... Mildred  P.  Elggren 

Gulf  States  100.. ..Phyllis  D.  Smith 

Northern  California  97.... Hazel  S.  Love 

West  Central  States  95....Marteal  W.  Hendricks 

Eastern  States  94.... Florence  S.  Jacobsen 

Canadian    89.... Leah  H.  Lewis 

Northern  States  88.... Nettie  P.  Smoot 

North  Central  States  88.. ..Dora  IL  England 

Ten  Stakes  With  Highest  Number  of  Subscriptions 


No. 

No. 

Subscriptions 

Subscriptions 

South  Los  Angeles 

2896 

East  Jordan 

917 

Glendale 

1058 

Sugar  House 

911 

San  Diego 

999 

West  Pocatello 

908 

South  Salt  Lake 

949 

Big  Horn 

899 

Ensign 

936 

East  Los  Angeles 

894 

Ten  Missions  With  Highest  Numbei  oi  Subscriptions 

No. 

No. 

Subscriptions 

Subscriptions 

West  Central  States 

1438 

Central  Atlantic  States 

905 

Southern  States 

1174 

Western  States 

785 

Central  States 

1061 

Northwestern  States 

747 

Great  Lakes 

1005 

Northern  States 

724 

Eastern  States 

985 

California 

661 

Stakes  in 

Which  A]]  the  Wards  Achieved  100%  or  Over 

Bonneville  Ruth  Peterson 

Burbank Edith  McKcnny 

Burley   lone  Church 

Cottonwood    Mabel  R.  Baker 

Covina  Helen  G.  Baxter 

East  Long  Beach  .Margaret  Bryan 
East  Los  Angeles  ..Orlcne  N.  White 
East  Mill  Creek  ...Barbara  L.  Beesley 

East  Sharon   Edna  M.  Hansen 

Glendale   I*'.lsie  Weber 

Holladay    AudrieM.  Kennington 

Idaho  Falls  Josie  N.  Scoresby 

Inglewood  Janet  C.  Medina 

Las  Vegas  Lila  H.  Leavitt 


Liberty Kathcrine  H.  MeOmie 

Malad    Elizabeth  B.  Facer 

Oquirrh  Helen  D.  Jensen 

Pasadena   Vera  Jean  N.  Jones 

Pocatello  Esther  H.  Hanks 

Provo  Flora  Buggert 

Rexburg Martha  J.  Erickson 

St.  Joseph  Nira  P.  Lee 

Santa  Monica  Kathleen  Savage 

Shelley  Merle  Young 

South  Los  Angeles.  Edna  C.  Stoutscn- 
bergcr 

West  Pocatello  lona  G.  Slayden 

Wilford  Lois  Jensen 


MAGAZINE  SUBSCRIPTIONS  FOR  1956 


331 


1 1  iission    J^ercentages  on    7/0 nor  Jioil 


California 

103 

West  Central  States 

95 

Central  States 

103 

Eastern  States 

94 

Western  States 

103 

Canadian 

89 

Gulf  States 

100 

Noitli  Central  States 

88 

Northern  California 

97 

Nortfaeni  States 

88 

Noiliiwesteni  States  86 

Great  Lakes  S5 

Soodieni  States  83 

Western  Canadian  Sc 

New  Kngbnd  79 


Stakes  oy  -J^ercenlages 


South  Los  Angeles       : 

'53 

Nyssa 

110 

N<jith  Tooele 

104 

Glen  dale                        ] 

L62 

East  Sharoa 

109 

Ha}-vtard 

104 

Pro\o                             1 

L50 

Bbdifoot 

109 

Pasadena 

104 

Oquirrh                         1 

46 

Pocatello 

109 

Bear  River 

104 

Rexburg                        ] 

138 

South  Box  Elder 

109 

North  Idaho  Falls 

1*^4 

San  Joaquin                 i 

34 

Humboldt 

109 

Kansas  Cit} 

1-4 

Burle\-                            1 

33 

South  Idaho  Falls 

109 

Emigiation 

T  '^    ' 

Santa  Monica               1 

32 

Soudi  Ogden 

109 

F;ist  MillcTeek 

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Burbank                        1 

126 

Reseda 

109 

Grand  Junctioa 

1S2 

Covina                           1 

L26 

West  FocateBo 

109 

East  Mesa 

102 

Shelle}-                          1 

L23 

San  Jose 

108 

Fboenix 

102 

Long  Beach                  ] 

L21 

South  Salt  Lake 

108 

Uintah 

102 

Ingle^vood                     ] 

L20 

Cal^arv 

108 

Mesa 

102 

Idaho  Falls                   ] 

L20 

Mt.  Graham 

108 

Wells 

102 

New  York                     j 

LI9 

Bountiful 

108 

F^st  Provo 

102 

Gridle}'                          ] 

LI9 

Moapa 

108 

American  Falls 

101 

East  Long  Beach          i 

^17 

Poitlaiid 

108 

San  Juan 

101 

San  Francisco               ] 

^17 

Weiser 

108 

Se\-ier 

101 

Minidoka                      3 

LI7 

Giauite 

107 

Mt.  Rubidoux 

101 

San  Diego                     ] 

L16 

Los  Angles 

106 

Grant 

ICl 

Las  \^ega$                    i 

114 

Foitnenf 

106 

Rose  Park 

101 

Change  Comity            ] 

LI4 

Sacramento 

106 

North  Rey:zi:z 

IZl 

Hollada)-                       ] 

LI4 

Sn^  House 

106 

Benson 

101 

Bonne\ille                     ] 

^13 

Boise 

106 

Salt  Lake 

ICl 

Valley-  View                 : 

^13 

^fakld 

106 

San  Feiuaudo 

ICl 

North  Jordan                ] 

L12 

Wilford 

ic6 

W  asatch 

101 

Monument  Park           ] 

L12 

St-  Joseph 

106 

East  Phoemx 

100 

Maricopa                       1 

Lll 

North  Davis 

105 

Denver 

ICC 

Cottonwood                  ] 

111 

Spanish  Foik 

105 

Ti»-in  Falls 

100 

Union                            ] 

Lll 

Yelkm-stone 

105 

Butte 

2CC 

Bakersfield                    ] 

110 

Ogden 

105 

Riverside 

lie 

San  Bernardino 

110 

^^'est  Utah 

105 

NhTlcrfHr 

100 

Liberty                         : 

LIO 

East  Los  Angeles 

104 

Nanipa 

100 

332 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MAY  1957 


South  Bear  River 

Big  Horn 

Taylor 

East  Rigby 

Lake  Mead 

Chicago 

Highland 

Rigby 

Seattle 

W^est  Boise 

Park 

Zion  Park 

Palmyra 

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St.  Johns 

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Taylorsville 

Reno 

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Timpanogos 

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Mt.  Jordan 

Kolob 

Washington 

South  Blackfoot 

Bannock 

Tooele 

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South  Summit 

Kanab 

Young 

East  Ogden 

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Cedar 

South  Carolina 

Bear  Lake 

Oakland-Berkeley 

West  Jordan 

Oneida 

Lake  View 

Ben  Lomond 

Detroit 

Florida 

Grantsville 

Pioneer 

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Lorin  Farr 

East  Cache 

Nevada 

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Juab 

North  Weber 

Emery 

Walnut  Creek 

University 

Beaver 

Orem 

Blaine 

Mt.  Logan 

Smithfield 

Wayne 

Carbon 

Fresno 

Gooding 


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Spokane 

Alpine 

Montpelier 

Salmon  River 

North  Carbon 

Sharon 

North  Sanpete 

New  Orleans 

Millard 

Canyon  Rim 

Springville 

Temple  View 

Roosevelt 

Mt.  Ogden 

Panguitch 

Cannon 

Riverdale 

Lehi 

Richland 

Farr  West 

Santa  Rosa 

Summit 

Santaquin-Tintic 

Juarez 

University 

Logan 

Snowflake 

South  Sevier 

Honolulu 

South  Sanpete 

Layton 

Hyrum 

Santa  Barbara 

Hillside 

Morgan 

Willamette 

Gunnison 

Klamath 

Lyman 

Moon  Lake 

Moroni 

Oahu 


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FROM    THE    FIELD 


Hulda  Parker,  General  Secretary-Treasurer 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  HandbooJ:  of  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Mae  C.  Johnson 

WEST  JORDAN  STAKE    (UTAH),  HERRIMAN  WARD,  NOTES  THIRTY- 
FIFTH  YEAR  OF  ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT  VISITING  TEACHING 


The  present  visiting  teachers  are,  front  row  left  to  right:  Georgie  Swasey;  Fern 
Poor;  Tola  Butterfield;  Nora  Crane;  Daisy  Poor;  Phyllis  Swasey;  Second  row:  Mae 
Read;  Martha  Christensen;  Leone  Parry;  Persilda  Eastman;  Mayme  Ingram;  Bessie 
Butterfield.  Third  row:  Dot  Miller;  Lottie  Bodell,  President,  Herriman  Ward  Relief 
Society;  Mary  Crane. 

Sister  Mac  C.  Johnson,  Presidcn-t,  West  Jordan  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes  that 
Sister  Bodell  reports  "that  many  of  these  sisters  have  wonderful  individual  records. 
Sister  Nora  Crane,  mother  of  seven  children,  has  a  perfect  record  of  forty-three  years. 
Sister  Fern  Poor  has  been  a  visiting  teacher  for  thirty-five  years.  Sisters  Martha 
Christensen,  Leone  Parry,  and  Persilda  Eastman  have  been  visiting  teachers  for  twenty- 
five  years." 

Sister  Johnson  also  reports  "Herriman  has  a  flourishing  organization  with  many 
young  women  enjoying  Relief  Society  with  their  older  sisters." 

Page  337 


338 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— MAY  1957 


Photograph  submitted  by  Betty  Jo  C.  Reiser 

ROSE  PARK  STAKE   (UTAH),  ROSE  PARK  THIRD  WARD  VISITING 
TEACHERS  HONORED  AT  LUNCHEON,  February  8,  1957 

The  visiting  teachers  of  Rose  Park  Third  Ward  were  honored  at  an  ''Academy 
Award"  Unicheon,  given  by  the  presidency,  February  8,  1957,  for  completing  three 
years  of  one  hundred  per  cent  visiting  teaching.  Sister  Betty  Jo  C.  Reiser,  President, 
Rose  Park  Stake,  reports,  "The  teachers  are  the  mothers  of  176  children,  113  of  whom 
are  under  eight  years  of  age  and  must  be  tended  by  other  mothers  in  the  ward  when 
their  own  mothers  do  visiting  teaching." 

Seated,  left  to  right  on  the  front  row  are  Betty  Jo  C.  Reiser,  Ruth  J.  Harrison, 
and  RosLynn  W.  Bunting,  who  have  served  as  presidents  of  the  ward  Relief  Society 
during  the  one  hundred  per  cent  record.  Louise  Linton,  fourth  from  left,  front  row, 
is  visiting  teacher  message  leader. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Margie  D.  Barber 

ZION  PARK  STAKE    (UTAH),  HURRICANE   SOUTH   WARD  VISITING 

TEACHERS  ACHIEVE  ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT  VISITING 

TEACHING  FOR  SIX  YEARS 


Front  row,  left  to  right:  Emmarene  Graff,  President,  Hurricane  South  Ward  Relief 
Society;  Josephine  Sandbcrg;  Annie  Stout;  Sarah  Thurston;  Sarah  Ilinton;  Rose  Scow; 
Mary  Workman;  Mattie  Spendlove;  Lovinia  Campbell;  LaRue  Heaton,  Work  Director 
Counselor. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


339 


Second  row:  Alice  Thurston;  Mildred  Bliss;  Allie  Wright;  Doris  Barber;  Thelma 
Stirling;  Kathleen  Black;  Sybil  Hirschi;  Isabell  Hinton;  Edna  Heywood;  Amelia  Heaton; 
Artie  Reeve. 

Third  row:  Vera  Ballard;  Mary  Wright,  Secretary -Treasurer;  Winona  Beatty;  Helen 
Hall;  Leone  McMullin;  Eva  Woodbury;  Itha  Workman. 

Back  row:  Lettie  Whitney;  Elva  Samuelson;  Lorraine  Lewis;  Ruth  Hinton;  Beth 
Humphries;  Margaret  Nuttall;  Sarah  Lemmon;  Margie  D.  Barber,  Stake  Relief  Society 
President;  Guenivere  White;  Delma  Lemmon. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Delia  H.  Teeter 

DENVER  STAKE    (COLORADO)    SINGING   MOTHERS  CHRISTMAS   TREE 

BECOMES  ANNUAL  PROGRAM 


Sister  Delia  H.  Teeter,  President,  Denver  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "This  Sing- 
ing Christmas  tree  is  presented  every  year  at  the  December  Union  Meeting  and  also 
in  several  of  the  wards.  Christmas  carols  and  stories  are  used  in  the  program,  which  is 
produced  and  directed  by  Sister  Reta  R.  Beck,  stake  Relief  Society  chorister,  on  the 
left  side  of  the  tree  in  center  and  Sister  Alleen  Brown,  stake  Relief  Society  organist, 
right  side  of  tree  in  center." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Aliene  N.  Bloxham 

HUMBOLDT  STAKE  (NEVADA)  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC 
FOR  STAKE  CONEERENCE,  January  13,  1957 

Dora  Westover,  stake  chorister,  is  on  the  front  row  at  the  right.  Since  Anna 
V.  Nielson,  stake  organist,  was  away,  Helen  Wright,  who  is  on  the  back  row,  third 
from  right,  accompanied  the  chorus. 

Sister  Ahene  N.  Bloxham,  President,  Humboldt  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "We 
have  tried  so  hard  to  have  a  Singing  Mothers  chorus  in  our  stake,  and  at  last  we  feel 
we  are  well  on  our  way,  having  furnished  the  music  for  the  stake  conference  for  the 
first  time." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Ruth  F.  Heninger 

LETHBRIDGE   STAKE    (CANADA)    SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT   MUSIC 
FOR  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

Sister  Ruth  F.  Heninger,  President,  Lethbridge  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that 
the  Singing  Mothers'  participation  was  "a  successful  undertaking  and  there  were  a  few 
o\'er  a  hundred,  so  we  were  very  pleased." 

Standing  at  the  right  are  Sister  Ruby  Pierson,  (left);  and  Sister  Grace  Buchon,  far 
right,  chorister  and  organist,  respectively.  Seated  next  to  Sister  Pierson,  Ruth  F. 
Heninger  and  next  to  her  Clara  A.  Smith,  Second  Counselor,  Lethbridge  Stake  Relief 
Society. 


)Jtje  Still  and  Jxnow  cJhat  o/  Jt/ti    C^oa 

Mabel  Law  Atkinson 

AS  a  child  I  loved  the  beauty  of  the  Bible  verse,  "Be   still,  and  know  that  I  am 
God.  .  .  ."     Whenever  I  heard  it,  I  imaged  a  clear,  still  pool  with   pale  pink 
water  lilies  reflected  in  its  mirror-depths. 

As  I  grew  into  girlhood  and  young  womanhood  on  the  farm,  the  words  often 
came  to  me  when  I  beheld  with  awe  the  miracles  of  nature:  the  ever-new  mystery  of 
the  sunrise;  the  unfolding  of  a  wild  rose;  a  gentle  summer  rain;  a  clear  little  stream, 
whose  waters  were  ice  cold,  rippling  lightly  under  the  bridges,  across  the  road  to  lose 
itself  in  a  grove  of  white-limbed  aspen  fluttering  their  leaves  like  tinkling  silver  bells; 
a  lark  releasing  a  splashing  fount  of  jeweled  notes  on  a  cool-dewed  April  morning;  the 
clean,  golden  kernels  pouring  from  the  thresher  at  harvest;  the  silence  of  night  beneath 
the  stars  with  the  moon  silvering  the  ebon  shade.  At  such  times  God  seemed  very  near, 
and  I  experienced  the  serenity  and  strength  of  his  love. 

After  my  marriage,  the  verse  came  to  hold  even  deeper  beauty  and  meaning. 
Crystal-clear  in  my  memory  is  the  sweet  assurance,  the  faith  that  touched  knowledge, 
which  came  to  me  when  I  first  looked  upon  the  miracle  of  my  little  daughter,  my 
first-born.  "Be  still,  and  know  that  I  am  God."  I  felt  so  near  heaven  that  it  seemed 
I  could  reach  out  and  take  the  Father's  hand. 

So  many  times  the  sacred  words  have  bowed  my  head  in  reverence  and  thanks- 
giving in  the  rearing  of  my  little  group.  Joy  unspeakable  has  filled  my  soul  as  I  have 
watched  five  pairs  of  blue  eyes  rapt  with  wonderment,  and  smiles  slowly  illuming 
trusting  little  faces  as  the  principles  of  the  gospel  were  unfolded  in  simplicity  in  the 
bedtime  story. 

Even  in  death,  when  my  kingdom  has  seemed  on  the  verge  of  crashing,  these 
beautiful  words  of  sublime  serenity  and  trust  have  given  strength  and  peace.  I  have 
been  able  to  say,  "Thy  will  be  done,"  and  despairing  bitterness  has  departed.  My 
tears  have  become  prayers  of  thankfulness  for  the  loan  of  one  of  God's  spirits,  even  for 
a  few  short  years. 

Since  my  children  have  reached  maturity  and  the  "world"  has  called  them  to 
their  labors  in  different  places,  I  have  come  to  value  the  calming  power  and  strength 
of  this  quiet  verse  more  than  ever  before,  for  so  many  times  I  have  been  reassured  that 
God  lives  and  watches  tenderly  over  his  children. 

At  one  such  time  beneath  the  stars,  I  sang  a  silent  paean  to  the  Lord  for  his  ever- 
watchful  care.  Then,  looking  up,  it  seemed  that  the  crystal  stars  were  warm  and 
friendly  and  mutely  singing  of  eternal  love.  Slowly  and  with  awe  I  spoke  aloud,  "Be 
still,  and  know  that  I  am  God." 


cJhese  cJhings  H    ileed 

Jennie  Brown  Rawlins 


These  things  I  need  to  build  my  happmess: 

A  httle  love,  a  little  tenderness, 

A  dream  unrealized,  goals  I  can  reach; 

A  chance  to  learn,  and,  yes,  a  chance  to  teach; 

A  hand  to  cling  to  mine  along  the  way, 

And  faith  that  God  will  hear  me  when  I  pray. 

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Garlic  (Allium  Sativum) 
Elizabeth  WiUiamson 


GARLIC  is  a  perennial  herb.  Set  the 
cloves  out  in  early  spring,  two  inches 
apart,  in  rich  soil.  Harvest  them  in  Aug- 
ust. If  you  produce  a  large  crop,  braid 
the  dried  garlic,  stems,  and  cloves.  Hang 
this  attractive  addition  in  your  kitchen, 
where  it  is  convenient  for  your  cookery. 

Garlic  is  one  of  the  most  ancient 
herbs  —  probably  originating  around  the 
Mediterranean  area,  but  grown  in  rich  soil 
all  over  the  world.  Homer  mentions  gar- 
lic in  the  Odyssey.  He  says  it  was  used 
to  ward  off  evil  spirits. 

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to  salads,  sauces,  roasts,  and  vegetables. 
Garlic  is  a  must  for  salad  dressings  of  the 
French  type.  Never  overdo  garlic — it  is 
delightful  when  suggested  —  but  many 
people  dislike  the  actual  flavor. 

GUACAMOLE  AND  VARIATIONS 

1  large  avocado 

1  crushed  garlic  clove,  minced  very  fine 
or  put  in  a  garlic  crusher 

Lemon  juice,  salt,  and  pepper  to  taste. 

Peel  and  mash  the  avocado,  add  the  rest 
of  the  ingredients.  Serve  with  crackers, 
tortillas,  or  sliced  tomatoes. 

A  variation  of  guacamole  which  is  pret- 
ty served  as  an  appetizer  is  the  addition 
of  one  large  package  of  cream  cheese  and 
a  little  mayonnaise.  Whip  the  mixture 
in  your  electric  mixer  until  very  smooth 
and  creamy  and  a  beautiful  pale  green. 
Serve  in  a  bowl  for  a  cracker  dip. 


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oneuness 

Vesta  N.  Lukei 

Tonight,  perhaps  on  some  far  isle 
That  I  have  never  seen,  awhile 
You  watch  the  lonely,  moving  moon 
And  think  how  brightly  and  how  soon 
That  silver  orb  will  arch  the  skies 
And  be  reflected  in  my  eyes. 
But  cold,  uncaring,  high  above. 
It  brings  no  message  from  my  love. 


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I  love  a  window  to  the  east; 
I  love  to  lift  my  eyes 
And  look  upon  another  day 
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In  magic  glow  and  fire. 
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Monthly  Publication  of  the  Relief  Society  of  The  Church  of  Jesus   Christ  of  Latter-day   Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 
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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 
Editor    -----------        Marianne  C.  Sharp 

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Assistant  to  the  Editor  ---------     June   Nielsen 

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Vol.  44  JUNE   1957  No.  6 


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SPECIAL  FEATURES 

They  Shall  Call  Him  Blessed  Christine  H.   Robinson  348 

Wealtha   S.   Mendenhall  Appointed   to   General   Board   W.    Aird   McDonald  352 

The  Samoan  Mission  Preston  R.   Nibley  354 

A   Relief   Society   Gleaning   Rachel   Grant   Taylor  363 

Modesty  Is  the  Best  Policy  372 

Mental  Illness — A  National  Disaster  F.   Barry  Ryan  373 

Help  Yourself  to  Happiness  Frances   C.    Yost  376 

A  Nursery  Will  Be  Maintained  Edna  H.   Day  378 

This  Is  My  Building  Maud  H.  Fullmer  383 

Mother   Had   Seven   Girls   Jennie    Brown    Rawlins  384 

FICTION 

Slight   Hazards   Deone   R.    Sutherland  356 

The  Patchwork  Quilt  Elizabeth  Cannon  McCrimmon  382 

The  Bright  Star — Chapter  Four  Dorothy  S.   Romney  386 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

Sixty  Years  Ago  366 

Woman's   Sphere    Ramona   W.    Cannon  367 

Editorial:  The   127th  Annual  Church  Conference   Helen  W.   Anderson  368 

In    Memoriam — Lucy    Jane    Brimhall    Knight    369 

Notes  to  the  Field:   Summer  Work  Meetings  371 

Program   for  the   November   Fast   Sunday   Evening   Meeting    371 

Copies  of  Wist  Ye  Not  That  I  Must  Be  About  My  Father's  Business  available  371 

Notes  From  the  Field:  Relief  Society  Activities  Hulda  Parker  390 

Birthday    Congratulations     415 

From   Near  and   Far   416 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes  From  the  Samoan  Mission  Rita  H.   Stone  374 

Mama's    Cooking    Christie    Lund    Coles  380 

Martha  H.  McKaig  Composes  Lyrics  and  Music  for  Children's  Songs  389 

LESSON  DEPARTMENT— PREVIEWS  FOR   1957-58 

Teaching  Aids   for  the   1957-58  Lessons   Mary  R.   Young  398 

Suggestions   for   Music    Leaders    Florence    J.    Madsen  400 

Theology — The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  Roy  W.  Doxey  403 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages — Truths  To  Live  By  From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Christine     H.     Robinson  405 

Work  Meeting — Living  More  Abundantly  William  F.  Edwards  407 

Literature — Shakespeare   in    Our    Lives    Briant    S.    Jacobs  407 

Social  Science — Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life  John  Farr  Larson  409 

Notes  on  the  Authors  of  the  Lessons   410 

POETRY 

Western    Wife — Frontispiece    Lizabeth    Wall    Madsen  347 

Speak  Softly,  by  Ada  Marie  Patten,  351;  Summer's  Cup,  by  Beatrice  K.  Ekman,  351;  Another 
June,  by  Dorothy  J.  Roberts,  353;  Dear  Flag,  by  Ivy  Houtz  Wooley,  362;  June  in  the  Kaibab, 
by  Eva  Willes  Wangsgaard,  370;  Bride's  Choice,  by  Ethel  Jacobson,  371;  At  the  Ishtar  Gate, 
by  Elsie  N.  Chaney,  373;  Mother  and  Child,  by  Enola  Chamberlin,  375;  A  Woman's  Years,  by 
Elsie  McKinnon  Strachan,  379;  The  Berry-Pickers,  by  Maryhale  Woolsey,  397;  Mathematics,  by 
Mabel  Jones  Gabbott,  402;  Mother,  by  Lillian  E.  Miles,  413;  Epitome,  by  Vesta  N.  Lukei,  413; 
Hitch-Hiker,  by  Alice  Morrey  Bailey,  413 

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Lizaheth  Wall  Madsen 

The  aspen  leaves  are  legion  in  my  hair, 

And  grasses  thread  a  sandal  for  my  foot. 

I  wake  thin  strains  of  singing  everywhere: 

A  starling  cries,  a  rabbit  snaps  a  root, 

A  browsing  deer  makes  whispering  in  the  firs. 

And  I  stand  hill-borne,  hand  to  heart,  afraid 

To  love  too  much  the  golds  and  lavenders 

That  summer  weaves  of  morning  sun  and  shade. 

There  is  a  house  behind  me  on  the  hill, 
A  man  to  rouse,  a  flame  to  touch  to  wood, 
And  there  is  dust  to  sweep  from  window  sill 
And  floor,  and  prayers  to  say  for  all  things  good. 
Yet  day  long,  warm  against  me  I  shall  hold 
A  shawl  of  summer,  lavender  and  gold. 


The  Cover:  Native  Home,  Samoan  Mission 

Photograph  by  Rita  H,  Stone 
Frontispiece:  Vista  in  Yosemite  National  Park,  California 

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They  Shall  Call  Him  Blessed 

Christine  H.  Rohinson 
Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 


A  good  name  is  a  priceless  in- 
heritance.    To    be    born    of 
honorable  parents  is  one  of 
life's  choicest  blessings. 

This  basic  truth  is  emphasized 
throughout  the  sacred  scriptures. 
Repeatedly  in  the  Bible  we  are  ad- 
monished, for  the  sake  of  our  own 
progress  and  happiness,  to  love  and 
honor  our  parents  and  to  be  guided 
by  their  counsel  and  advice.  One 
of  the  greatest  commandments  is 
''Honour  thy  father  and  thy  moth- 
er: that  thy  days  may  be  long  upon 
the  land  which  the  Lord  thy  God 
giveth  thee"  (Exodus  20:12).  The 
wise  Solomon  said:  ''My  son,  hear 
the  instruction  of  thy  father,  and 
forsake  not  the  law  of  thy  mother" 
(Proverbs  1:8).  Solomon  further 
reminds  us  that,  "A  good  name  is 
rather  to  be  chosen  than  great 
riches  .  .  ."  (Proverbs  22:1). 

The  Book  of  Mormon  is  also  re- 
plete with  similar  statements  refer- 
ring to  the  importance  of  a  worthy 
heritage,  and  its  writers  make  fre- 
quent reference  to  the  wisdom  of 
following  the  teachings  of  righteous 
parents.  The  great  prophet  Nephi 
considered  his  own  heritage  so  im- 
portant that  he  began  his  narration 
in  The  Book  of  Mormon  with  these 
words:  "I,  Nephi,  having  been  born 
of  goodly  parents,  therefore  I  was 
taught  somewhat  in  all  the  learning 
of  my  father  ..."  (I  Nephi  1:1). 

It  is  bounteously  evident  that 
one  of  the  prime  reasons  behind  this 

Page  348 


remarkable  man's  wisdom,  humility, 
obedience,  and  leadership  ability 
was  that  he  hearkened  to  his  fa- 
ther's teachings  and  followed  in  his 
righteous  footsteps. 

Although  it  is  the  essence  of  wis- 
dom to  honor  our  fathers  every  day, 
it  is  nevertheless  appropriate  that 
one  special  day  be  designated  as 
Father's  Day.  This  special  day, 
each  year,  is  the  third  Sunday  in 
June,  and  on  that  day  we  turn  our 
loving  attention  to  our  fathers. 
Through  this  special  recognition  we 
reaffirm  our  determination  to  honor 
our  fathers  for  the  unnumbered 
blessings  they  bestow  upon  us,  not 
alone  on  this  day  but  throughout 
our  lives. 

There  is  truly  something  special 
about  this  specially  designated  an- 
nual Father's  Day.  Each  of  us  will 
observe  this  day  in  our  own  personal 
way.  But,  to  each  of  us.  Father's 
Day  should  bring  to  mind  fond 
memories  of  past  and  present  hap- 
py associations.  It  should  provide 
for  us  the  opportunity  to  fix  indel- 
ibly upon  our  minds  our  father's 
teachings  exemplified  both  by  pre- 
cept and  example.  On  this  day  we 
should  remember  and  redetermine 
that  we  will  follow  these  teachings 
so  that  they  may  lead  us  to  fuller 
and  more  useful  lives.  Motivated 
by  the  observance  of  Father's  Day, 
we  can  build  on  solid  foundations 
the  kind  of  priceless  heritage  we  so 
want  to  pass  on  to  our  children  and 
to  the  generations  that  follow. 


THEY  SHALL  CALL  HIM  BLESSED 


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On  this,  my  own  personal  Father's 
Day,  my  thoughts  are  centered 
on  the  virtues  and  quahties  of  the 
fine  man  whose  heritage  I  so  humbly 
bear.  What  a  privilege  and  a  bless- 
ing it  is  for  me  to  honor  him  and 
to  contemplate  that  through  me, 
if  I  am  worthy,  present  and  yet  un- 
born generations  may  rise  up  and 
call  him  blessed. 

My  father,  Bryant  Stringham 
Hinckley,  too,  was  born  of  goodly 
parents  ninety  years  ago  this  9th 
of  July.  Like  some  other  humble 
but  great  men,  he  was  born  in  a 
lowly  log  cabin.  From  this  humble 
beginning  he  moved  forward  on 
paths  charted  by  his  own  wise  and 
righteous  father  to  a  life  of  service 
to  his  God  and  to  his  fellow  men. 

As  a  portion  of  this  service,  to 
spotlight  only  a  few  of  his  many 
and  varied  activities,  he  served  as 
secretary,  second  counselor,  first 
counselor,  and  president  of  the 
Y.M.M.I.A.,  both  at  the  ward  level 
and  in  the  stake  organization.  He 
was  a  member  of  the  Y.M.M.I.A. 
general  board  for  twenty-five  years. 
He  served  as  a  high  councilman  in 
the  old  Salt  Lake  Stake  and  as  presi- 
dent of  the  Liberty  Stake  for  twenty- 
two  years.  During  1935  to  1939,  he 
served  as  president  of  the  Northern 
States  Mission. 

In  his  early  life.  Father  was  a 
schoolteacher— -a  profession  which 
he  loved  and  in  which  he  started  at 
the  early  age  of  eighteen.  Under 
the  inspired  teaching  of  President 
Karl  G.  Maeser,  in  1883,  he  attend- 
ed the  Brigham  Young  Academy. 
After  graduation  from  this  school, 
he  sought  further  learning  in  New 
York  and  in  California. 

Along  with  these  busy  responsi- 
bilities,  Father   wove   into   his  ac- 


complishments voluminous  writings 
of  articles  and  books  which  consti- 
tute an  important  contribution  to 
the  literature  of  this  area.  Yet,  with 
all  of  these  activities,  he  found  time 
to  be  a  wonderful  father  to  fifteen 
children,  eleven  of  whom  still  sur- 
vive, and  all  of  whom  have  been 
blessed  by  his  exemplary  life  and  ef- 
fective teachings. 

Each  of  us  is  privileged  to  think 
that  ours  is  the  ideal  father.  The 
ideal  father  is  one  who  possesses 
those  qualities  that  endear  him  to 
his  children  and  enable  them  to 
place  him  on  a  high  pedestal  of  love 
and  respect. 

Some  of  the  qualities  of  which 
my  own  father's  special  pedestal  is 
composed,  consist  of  honesty,  hu- 
mility, steadfastness,  courage,  loyal- 
ty, modesty,  faithfulness,  industri- 
ousness,  and  a  superb  sense  of  hu- 
mor. 

Obviously,  I  am  biased,  but  my 
father  is  really  special.  Never  have 
I  heard  him  criticize  or  speak  ill  of 
another.  Ever  is  he  steadfast  and 
loyal  in  his  friendships.  With  abso- 
lute constancy,  he  sustains  whole- 
heartedly the  Authorities  of  the 
Church.  My  father  is  his  own 
taskmaster  and  is  never  satisfied  with 
anything  but  the  best.  He  believes 
unquestioningly  that  the  glory  of 
God  (and  man)  is  intelligence,  and 
he  seeks  industriously  for  knowl- 
edge. 

My  father  is  proud  of  his  own 
heritage  and  constantly  urges  his 
children  to  follow  in  the  footsteps 
of  their  worthy  ancestors.  Never 
has  he  used  force  as  a  method  of 
teaching  his  children,  but  rather,  by 
patience,  persuasion,  and  unfalter- 
ing example,  he  has  sought  to  lead 
them  into  the  better  paths. 


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These  enviable  qualities  pos- 
sessed by  my  father  were  developed 
and  refined  in  the  mill  of  hard 
experience  which  began  at  the 
frontier  settlement  of  Cove  Fort, 
Utah.  Here  my  father  grew  up  as 
a  boy.  His  father,  Ira  Nathaniel 
Hinckley,  was  selected  by  President 
Brigham  Young  to  go  to  Cove  Creek 
and  build  a  fort.  'To  afford  pro- 
tection from  the  Indians  to  the 
telegraph  and  mail  stations  and  to 
the  travelers  who  are  almost  con- 
stantly on  the  road.  Also  to  furnish 
food  and  protection  to  this  latter 
class"  (From  a  letter  written  by 
Brigham  Young  to  Ira  N.  Hinckley, 
dated  April  2,  1867). 

This  little  fort  was  twenty-two 
miles  from  the  nearest  white  settle- 
ment. Those  days,  in  the  1870's 
and  the  1880's,  were  exciting  and 
eventful  days.  The  fort  sheltered 
both  good  and  bad.  There  were  In- 
dians and  cowboys,  miners  in  quest 
of  gold,  cattle  rustlers  and  despera- 
does and,  as  a  vivid  contrast,  there 
were  the  regular  visits  of  President 
Brigham  Young  and  other  promi- 
nent Church  officials.  These  Church 
visitors  usually  spent  a  night  or  two 
at  the  fort  during  their  travels  from 
Salt  Lake  City  to  southern  parts  of 
the  state. 

Life  at  Cove  Fort  was  a  rugged 
pioneer  life,  yet  it  provided  the  re- 
fining substance  which  laid  the 
foundation  for  a  strong  character. 
Out  of  these  pioneer  experiences 
came  the  courage  and  ability  which 
enabled  my  father  to  conquer  life's 
difficult  problems  and  to  rise  to 
high  levels  of  service  and  accom- 
plishment. 

Along  the  way  my  father  met  his 
share  of  tragedy  and  sorrow.  While 


still  a  voung  man  and  with  the  re- 
sponsibility of  rearing  eight  young 
children,  the  oldest  fourteen  and 
the  youngest  eight  weeks,  his  beau- 
tiful and  talented  wife,  my  mother, 
passed  away.  In  tragic  sequence,  in 
the  years  that  followed  he  also  bur- 
ied his  second,  and  then  his  third 
wonderful  wife.  And,  to  add  fur- 
ther to  his  sad  burdens,  two  of  his 
fine  sons  died  after  they  had  grown 
to  manhood.  In  spite  of  these  sor- 
rows. Father's  faith  and  courage  nev- 
er faltered.  His  confidence  in  the 
sustaining  influence  of  his  Father 
in  heaven  never  wavered.  Some  of 
the  sterling  qualities  I  see  in  my 
father  are  beautifully  described  in 
this  statement  by  Robert  Louis 
Stevenson: 

He  has  achieved  success  who  has  lived 
well,  laughed  often,  and  loved  much.  Who 
has  gained  the  respect  of  intelligent  men 
and  .  .  .  love  of  .  .  .  children. 

nPHE  tribute  which  I  am  privileged 
here  to  pay  to  my  father  is  pre- 
sented with  the  thought  that  per- 
haps it  may  encourage  others  to 
ponder  in  their  hearts  the  real  mean- 
ing and  significance  of  Father's  Day. 
It  is  my  hope  that  my  description 
of  the  qualities  possessed  by  my 
father  may  serve  in  a  small  way  to 
encourage  all  of  us  to  express,  while 
there  is  still  time,  our  gratitude  and 
appreciation  to  our  fathers.  Surely 
the  best  way  we  can  show  this  grati- 
tude and  appreciation  is  to  follow 
in  their  righteous  footsteps  and,  by 
precept  and  example,  to  strive  to 
instill  in  our  children  love  and  hon- 
or for  the  blessings  of  a  worthy 
heritage. 

Let  us  remember  that  our  worthy 
fathers  have  a  special  significant 
place,  not  only  in  our  hearts,  but 


THEY  SHALL  CALL  HIM  BLESSED 


351 


also  in  our  homes.  As  bearers  of 
God's  Holy  Priesthood,  they  are  the 
patriarchs  and  presiding  authorities 
of  our  households.  Righteous  fa- 
thers carry  heavy  responsibilities. 
Not  only  must  they  administer  to 
the  economic  welfare  of  the  family, 
but  also  it  is  their  duty  to  set  the 
pattern  for  the  family's  spiritual 
well-being. 

Through  wise  counsel  and  loving 


guidance,  our  honorable  fathers 
strive  to  bring  to  us  the  blessings 
of  genuine  happiness.  Such  happi- 
ness is  not  dependent  upon  money 
and  material  possessions.  Rather, 
it  comes  from  the  \irtues  of  service, 
kindness,  loyalty,  trust,  and  lo\-e. 

Certainly,  you  and  I,  the  children 
of  such  fathers,  on  this  Father's  Day 
and  always,  should  honor  them  and 
rise  up  and  call  them  blessed. 


Speak  Q^oftlyi 

Ada  Marie  Patten 

Guide  your  child  gently, 
With  tenderness  sustain  him, 
Assuaging  all  his  fears. 

Speak  to  him  softly. 

Hush  not  the  heavenly  cadence 

Still  ringing  in  his  ears. 


c^". 


Ci/i 


uininer  s  ^up 

Beahice  K.  Ekman 


On  the  lush,  green  valley  and  wooded  hills, 
Healing  warmth  of  the  early  summer  spills, 
And  the  air  is  stirred  by  the  drone  of  bees 
And  the  call  of  birds  from  the  orchard  trees. 

Beside  the  cool  stream  in  the  willow-shade, 
\\^here  flickering  shadows  of  sun  are  laid, 
The  white  sheep  with  their  young  lambs  lie  at  rest 
And  a  tranquil  quiet  is  manifest. 

Beyond  the  wild  hedge  of  the  narrow  lane 

A  gentle  breeze  weaves  through  the  fields  of  grain. 

\\"here  the  noonday  sun  climbs  up  the  sky 

A  feather-plumed  cloud  drifts  slowh-  by. 

In  the  meadow  pasture  the  clear  creek  flows 
Through  the  buttercup  patches  and  clumps  of  wild  rose; 
Here  the  magic  enchantment  that  summer  brings 
Fills  my  cup  to  the  brim  when  a  meadow  lark  sings. 


vi/ealtha  o.    ii  iendenhall  KyLppointeci 
to  (general   iJDoara  of  LKehef  Society 

W.  Aiid  McDonald 
Associate,  Church  Building  Program 


\TU^EALTHA  Spafford  Mendenhall 
of  the  Ensign  Stake,  and  for- 
merly from  Stockton,  California, 
was  appointed  to  the  general  board 
of  Relief  Soeiety,  March  28,  1957. 
She  was  born  in  Springville,  Utah, 
to  Alma  H.  and  Mary  Clyde  Spaf- 
ford. She  was  married  to  Wendell 
Bird  Mendenhall  (now  Chairman 
of  the  Church  Building  Commit- 
tee), in  the  Salt  Lake  Temple,  Sep- 
tember 30,  1927.  Her  early  educa- 
tion was  received  in  Springville, 
where  she  graduated  from  high 
school  in  June  previous  to  her  mar- 
riage. They  have  two  sons,  Paul 
W.  of  Honolulu,  and  Robert  L.,  a 
student  at  B.Y.U.,  and  three  grand- 
children. Elder  Mendenhall  and 
both  sons  have  filled  missions  for 
the  Church  in  New  Zealand. 

Mrs.  Mendenhall  has  just  re- 
turned from  accompanying  Elder 
Mendenhall  on  a  trip  to  the  South 
Pacific  for  the  Church.  She  was 
present  when  Elder  Hugh  B.  Brown, 
Assistant  to  the  Council  of  the 
Twelve,  laid  the  cornerstone  for  the 
New  Zealand  Temple,  returning 
home  only  two  days  before  her  new 
appointment. 

The  new  board  member  is  well 
qualified  by  temperament  and  train- 
ing for  her  new  position.  She  has 
served  energetically  and  efficiently 
in  almost  every  stake  and  ward  po- 
sition of  Relief  Society.  She  served 
in  the  ward  presidency  in  Stockton, 
1939-1941,  then  as  ward  president 

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WEALTHA  S.  MENDENHALL 

for  three  years.  She  served  as  the 
social  science  class  leader  on  the 
Sacramento  Relief  Society  stake 
board  for  two  years  and  as  visiting 
teacher  message  leader  for  two  years. 
When  the  stake  was  divided  and 
San  Joaquin  Stake  was  organized  in 
1948,  Sister  Mendenhall  was  called 
as  the  social  science  class  leader  on 
the  new  stake  board.  Later,  she 
served  for  three  years  as  stake  Maga- 
zine representative.  She  was  a  visit- 
ing teacher  in  Stockton  Ward  from 
1939  until  she  moved  to  Salt  Lake 
City  in  May  1956.  Besides  her  Re- 
lief Society  work,  she  was  a  tireless 
and  dependable  worker  in  all  activi- 
ties of  her  ward.  In  the  exacting 
role  of  wife  of  a  bishop  and  stake 


WEALTHA  S.  MENDENHALL 


353 


president,  she  was  a  charming  and 
gracious  hostess,  and  her  home  be- 
came the  ''hospitahty  center"  of  the 
stake.  Visitors  to  their  lovely  home 
in  Stockton  will  long  remember 
those  joyous  and  festive  occasions. 

Before  her  Relief  Society  serv- 
ice, Sister  Mendenhall  was  active  in 
Primary  and  Sunday  School  in  Pro- 
vo,  Ogden,  and  Logan,  while  Elder 
Mendenhall  was  finishing  his  school- 
ing, after  his  return  from  his  mission. 
In  1952-3  the  Mendenhalls  visited 


their  son  Paul  in  New  Zealand,  and 
then  proceeded  on  around  the 
world,  touring  India,  Palestine,  Italy, 
France,  and  England.  They  returned 
to  the  South  Pacific  and  made  prep- 
arations for  and  accompanied  Presi- 
dent and  Sister  McKay  on  their  tour 
of  the  islands  in  1955. 

A  life  devoted  to  Church  service 
has  ably  fitted  Sister  Mendenhall 
for  her  new  position  of  responsibility 
which  she  will  fill  with  grace  and 
humility. 


Kyinother  y^une 

Doioihy  J.  Roberts 

Today  another  June  will  come 

For  new  eyes  to  behold 

Where  sweet-briars  tumble  down  the  fence 

In  tides  of  stamened  gold. 

And  today  another  child  will  walk, 
Holding  his  father's  hand 
Along  the  sorrel-colored  road 
And  the  patchwork  summer  land. 

Another  lad  will  learn  his  might 
Can  turn  the  wayward  streams; 
Will  hear  the  rocket-song  of  birds 
Make  music  for  his  dreams. 

His  mind  will  carry  the  crescent  mark 
From  a  tawny,  feathered  throat; 
Retain  the  sweep  of  crystal  air 
Hung  with  a  lilting  note. 


Another  summer  sun  will  pour 
Power  and  peace  on  the  loam, 
That  another  heart  may  beat  as  mine 
Here  in  an  alien  home. 


Photograph  by  Rita  H.  Stone 

PAGO  PAGO  HARBOR,  SAMOA 

cJhe  Samoan    iliission 

Pieston  R.  Nihley 
Assistant  Church  Historian 

npHE  first  missionaries  of  the  Church  to  carry  the  gospel  to  the  Samoan 
Islands  were  two  native  Hawaiians,  Kimo  Belio  and  Samuela  Manoa, 
who,  in  1862,  arrived  on  the  Island  of  Aunuu,  one  of  the  Samoan  group. 
They  taught  the  gospel  to  the  natives,  baptized  a  small  number,  organized 
a  branch  and  built  a  meetinghouse,  but  they  were  not  adequately  super- 
vised and  no  assistance  was  sent  to  them.  As  the  years  passed  the  mem- 
bers gradually  fell  away  from  the  faith.  Belio  died  in  1876,  but  Manoa 
married  and  continued  to  live  in  Aunuu. 

The  first  American  missionary  to  live  in  the  Samoan  Islands,  appoint- 
ed by  the  Church  authorities,  was  Elder  Joseph  H.  Dean,  who,  accompanied 

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THE  SAMOAN  MISSION 


355 


by  his  wife,  arrived  at  Aunuu  in  June  1888.  He  was  met  by  Samuela  Manoa^ 
who  proved  to  be  of  great  assistance  to  him  in  beginning  the  missionary 
work. 

In  October  1888,  three  more  elders  arrived  from  Utah  to  labor  under 
the  direction  of  President  Dean  in  the  Samoan  Mission.  They  were  Wil- 
liam O.  Lee,  Adelbert  Beesley,  and  Edward  J.  Wood.  With  the  assistance 
of  the  nati\es,  the  four  brethren  erected  a  new  meetinghouse,  held  meet- 
ings, made  converts,  and  organized  a  branch  of  the  Church. 

In  November  1888,  in  order  to  extend  their  activities.  President  Dean 
and  Elders  Beesley  and  Wood  visited  the  Island  of  Tutuila.  They  remained 
several  months  and  held  meetings  in  all  the  towns  and  villages.  Before 
beginning  their  return  journey  they  purchased  a  small  sailing  vessel,  in 
order  that  they  might  travel  from  island  to  island  as  they  desired. 

The  work  was  now  greatly  extended  and  branches  of  the  Church  were 
established  in  Upolu  and  Savaii.  A  statistical  report  of  the  Samoan  Mis- 
sion made  in  1893,  showed  253  members,  which  included  two  priests  and 
twelve  teachers.  By  1930  the  number  of  members  had  increased  to  4,491, 
including  forty-four  elders,  sixty-two  priests,  and  one  teacher.  Today 
there  are  in  the  Samoan  Mission,  7,558  members,  located  in  fifty-six 
branches.  The  mission  president  is  Charles  I.  Sampson.  Fifty-five  Relief 
Society  organizations,  with  700  members,  were  reported  in  December  1956. 
Thelma  H.  Sampson  presides  over  the  Samoan  Mission  Relief  Society. 


Photograph  by  Rita  U.  Stone 

HARVESTING  COCONUTS,  A  STAPLE  FOOD  IN  SAMOA 


Slight  Hazards 

Deone  R.  Sutherland 


KATHERINE  stirred  the  wheat 
cereal  into  the  boiling  water 
and  looked  across  Peterson's 
back  yard  into  Arnold's  next  door. 
Carrie  Arnold  sat  in  the  early  spring- 
frayed  grape  arbor  painting  a  pic- 
ture of  what?  "Of  Mount  Majes- 
tic." Katherine's  eyes  filled  with 
tears.  What  was  the  matter  with 
her?  She  had  been  like  this  almost 
ever  since  Bobby  had  been  born 
just  three  weeks  ago.  She  was  so 
happy  to  have  this  fourth  baby,  she 
knew.  Yet  what  was  it  that  filled 
her  with  resentment  every  time  she 
looked  toward  Carrie's?  Katherine 
blinked  the  tears  from  her  eyes  as 
the  Arnold's  back  door  slammed. 

"Carrie!  Carrie!"  Tom  Arnold's 
strident,  exasperated  voice  carried 
into  the  Peterson's  neat  little  kitch- 
en. From  habit  Katherine  Peterson 
shut  her  ears  to  it,  but  she  couldn't 
help  noticing  how  slowly  Carrie  rose 
to  answer  the  summons,  how  she 
stopped  to  dab  once  more  at  the 
painting  before,  with  the  utmost 
serenity,  she  turned  and,  with  flap- 
ping houseslippers,  went  dilatorily 
into  the  Arnold  house. 

Katherine  opened  the  drawer  for 
the  napkins  and  crossed  to  the 
breakfast  room.  The  knock  at  the 
back  door  did  not  take  her  by  sur- 
prise. She  finished  tucking  each 
napkin  at  the  five  place  settings  and 
then  went  quietly  to  the  door.  Little 
Nana  Arnold  stood  there  blinking 
up  at  her,  her  small  face  seemingly 
all  blue  eyes,  an  elf  child,  a  nymph, 
this  little  Nana.  Katherine  felt  the 
same  stir  as  if  she'd  read  a  line  of 

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poetry  when  she  looked  into  this 
child's  face. 

"Mrs.  Peterson,  could  we  please 
borrow  enough  butter  for  our  toast? 
Mama  says  she'll  be  sure  to  pay  it 
back." 

"Of  course,  come  in."  Katherine 
had  given  up  trying  to  keep  the 
many  borrowings  of  her  neighbor 
straight.  Besides,  Carrie  often 
brought  over  a  whole  sack  of  some- 
thing or  other  or  made  some  other 
extravagant  gesture  to  make  up  for 
any  inconvenience  she  had  caused 
Katherine.  At  first  Katherine  had 
been  annoyed.  She  would  never 
dream  of  being  so  careless  with 
what  she  might  owe  another  person. 
But  that  was  before  she  had  become 
resigned  to  Carrie. 

As  Katherine  took  out  the  quar- 
ter of  a  pound  of  butter,  again  there 
was  that  ridiculous  lump  in  her 
throat.  She  busied  herself  in  the 
refrigerator  for  a  moment. 

"Hi,  Nana,  aren't  you  ready  for 
school  yet?"  It  was  her  Margaret, 
the  same  age  as  Nana,  but  half  a 
head  taller. 

"Not  yet,"  said  Nana,  dismissing 
school  with  a  shrug.  "Guess  what, 
Margaret?  I'm  going  to  dance  in 
the  Civic  Auditorium  at  the  May 
festival.  My  mother  was  really  hap- 
py. She  says  I'm  going  to  be  a 
great  ballerina  someday,"  and  Nana 
whirled  and  twirled  around  the  Pet- 
erson kitchen,  which  suddenly 
seemed  to  Katherine  so  common- 
place as  to  be  almost  unbearable. 

"That's  fine,"  Margaret  said  kind- 
ly, her  brown  eyes  scarcely  noticing 


SLIGHT  HAZARDS 


357 


Nana.  Her  interest  was  in  her 
schoolbooks  at  the  window  seat. 
''Did  you  read  about  Leeuwenhoek 
last  night?  We  had  family  night, 
and  Daddy  let  me  read  the  whole 
story  ....''  Margaret  was  putting 
her  lunch  on  her  pile  of  school 
books. 

''No/'  said  Nana,  on  one  toe  eager 
to  be  out  the  door. 

Katherine  handed  her  the  butter. 

"You  can  call  for  me,  Margaret/' 
Nana  offered. 

"Okay/'  said  Margaret,  "but  we 
won't  wait  if  you're  not  ready." 

Nana  was  whirling  across  the 
lawn. 

"Would  you  like  to  take  danc- 
ing?" Katherine  handed  Margaret 
the  sugar. 

"I  guess  so.  Of  course,  I'm  already 
taking  piano  and  violin,  so  I'm  pret- 
ty busy."  Her  brown  eyes  looked 
directly  at  her  mother  with  an 
almost  adult  kindliness.  "Mother, 
Miss  Lester  says  I'm  the  best  reader 
in  the  whole  class." 

There  was  that  lump  in  Kath- 
erine's  throat  again.  She  poured  the 
milk  so  hurriedly  she  almost  spilled 
it. 

FjAVID  came  in  with  four-year- 
old  Mark  piggyback.  John  was 
putting  his  lunch  beside  his  cap,  and 
then  they  all  sat  down  to  breakfast. 
David  helped  Mark  say  the  bless- 
ing, and  unfolded  his  napkin.  "Was 
that  Nana  leaping  across  our  flower 
beds?" 

"Yes."  Katherine  cut  into  her 
grapefruit.  "Butter  for  their  toast," 
she  anticipated  her  husband's  ques- 
tion. 

"If  you  could  just  pass  me  a  few 
balls  as  soon  as  you  get  home,  Dad- 


dy—" John  was  saying  earnestly. 
That  conversation  must  have  started 
upstairs,  Katherine  thought.  She 
listened  absent-mindedly  while  Da- 
vid agreed  to  hurry  home.  She  rose 
as  soon  as  David  finished  and  then 
was  tempted  to  sit  down  again. 
What  would  it  be  like  to  linger  at 
the  breakfast  table  and  read  the 
paper  or  even  a  magazine  the  way 
Carrie  often  did?  But  if  she  did 
that,  there  would  be  no  family 
prayers.  They  always  retired  to  the 
living  room  for  family  prayers  before 
David  went,  and  then  the  children 
cleared  the  table  while  Katherine 
prepared  for  washing  the  dishes. 
Katherine  had  learned  early  that  the 
children  worked  much  more  happily 
and  willingly,  if  she  worked  at  a 
task  along  beside  them. 

Katherine  knelt  beside  the  sofa 
and  leaned  her  cheek  against  her 
hands.  She  was  so  thankful  for  the 
children  and  her  lovely  home,  for 
David  who  always  came  home  so 
promptly  and  eagerly  from  work. 
She  thought  of  Tom  Arnold  who 
often  did  not  get  home  until  very 
late  in  the  evening  after  the  chil- 
dren's bedtime.  She  guiltily  forced 
her  thoughts  back  to  John,  who  was 
taking  his  turn  at  saying  the  family 
prayer. 

David  patted  her  on  the  back  and 
kissed  her  goodbye.  "Take  a  good 
long  rest  today— morning  and  after- 
noon. We  can  do  anything  that 
needs  doing  when  we  come  home. 
You  look  kind  of  pale." 

"She  looks  sad,"  Mark  said. 

"No,  I  don't,"  Katherine  laughed 
at  him  as  his  father  swung  him  into 
the  air  for  his  goodbye  kiss.  Mar- 
garet and  John  joined  in  the  leave 
taking.    They  make  such  a  fuss  over 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JUNE  1957 


him,  Katherine  thought  to  herself. 
He  is  the  world's  best  father.  She'd 
banish  all  signs  of  disorderly  think- 
ing, she  promised  herself.  Children 
were  too  discerning. 

After  the  kitchen  was  straight- 
ened, the  two  school  children  were 
ready  to  take  their  leave.  John 
spelled  his  five  new  words  for  her 
proudly.  He  was  always  so  careful 
with  his  work.  There  were  no  bet- 
ter children  anywhere.  But  maybe 
she  was  spoiling  them  for  all  the 
fun  in  life  by  making  them  be  con- 
sistent with  their  chores,  be  in  by 
five  on  school  nights  because  Daddy 
came  half  an  hour  later.  Now  there 
was  little  Peter  Arnold  in  the  top 
half  of  his  pajamas,  happily  petting 
his  cat  on  the  back  steps  in  the 
chilly  morning  air.  Maybe  in  bun- 
dling up  her  children  she  had 
bundled  up  something  of  their 
spirits. 

John  and  Margaret  hadn't  waited 
for  Nana.  She  bit  her  lip.  Was  it 
unnatural  for  her  children  to  refuse 
to  be  late  for  school?  What  if  they 
were  late  one  morning?  She  couldn't 
believe  that  she  was  thinking  such 
things. 

Mark  had  his  cap  on  and  was 
struggling  with  his  jacket.  ''I  can  do 
it,  I  can  do  it!"  he  exclaimed  proud- 
ly, when  she  offered  to  help.  And, 
of  course,  he  did  do  it.  He  was 
bundled  against  the  chilly  spring 
morning  and  out  to  play  with  a  kiss 
from  Katherine. 

She  went  upstairs  when  she  heard 
the  baby  cry.  How  was  it  possible, 
she  thought  to  herself,  that  each 
child  was  more  wonderful  than  any- 
thing they  had  dreamed  of?  When 
he  was  bathed  and  fed,  and  sleepy, 
she  laid  him  back  in  his  bassinet. 


lyf  ARK  and  Peter  were  arguing  in 
the  kitchen.  Katherine  felt  the 
calm  that  the  nursery  had  brought 
her  begin  to  disappear.  Peter  w^as 
dressed  after  a  fashion,  but  his  shoes 
were  damp  and  sandy.  She  couldn't 
lock  her  door  against  the  children, 
but  they  never  seemed  to  remember 
to  wipe  their  feet.  At  least  Peter 
didn't. 

'Tm  hungry,"  Peter  said  hope- 
fully. 

''Didn't  you  eat  breakfast  at 
home,  Peter?"  At  least  her  voice 
was  perfectly  calm. 

''Oh,  yes,"  Peter  said  indifferently. 

"\\^ell,  go  and  tell  your  own 
mother  you're  hungry  for  a  change." 
Katherine  leaned  against  the  sink. 
What  had  possessed  her  to  say  such 
a  terrible  thing? 

"She's  painting,"  Peter  said  from 
habit. 

"Well,  then,  tell  her  to  stop  paint- 
ing and  to  give  you  some  food." 

Katherine  felt  it  couldn't  be  she 
who  was  talking.  Her  voice  must 
be  perfectly  normal,  for  Mark  ac- 
cepted the  unusual  conversation 
without  the  slightest  indication  of 
alarm.  The  two  little  boys  trotted 
across  the  yard  to  the  Arnold  house. 
Katherine  began  dust  mopping  the 
upstairs  bedrooms.  She  had  finished 
down  the  stairs  when  she  heard  the 
Arnold  screen  door  bang.  She 
crossed  to  the  window.  The  two  lit- 
tle boys  were  happily  eating  slices 
of  bread  covered  with  jam.  Carrie 
opened  the  back  door  and  handed 
out  two  tall  glasses  of  milk.  She 
would  have  to  dash  over  and  tell 
Carrie  she  was  sorry  about  being 
so  rude  to  the  boys.  Then  Carrie 
came  out  and  sat  on  the  back  porch 
and  ate  a  slice  of  bread  herself.  No, 


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there  was  nothing  to  apologize  to 
Carrie  about.  Carrie  wouldn't  have 
hurt  feelings.  She  accepted  the 
world  as  she  found  it.  Perhaps  Car- 
rie was  the  one  who  had  time  to 
know  she  was  alive,  and  Katherine 
was  the  one  who  was  being  by- 
passed. 

npHE  front  door  chime  interrupted 
her  thoughts.  It  was  her  moth- 
er, and  she  opened  the  door  eagerly. 
The  small,  white-haired  woman,  so 
neat  and  cheerful,  fragrant  with  a 
suggestion  of  scent,  bustled  in  like 
a  sudden  warm  south  wind.  How 
soft  and  familiar  was  the  cheek  she 
kissed.  How  sure  and  purposeful 
were  the  hands  that  drew  off  the 
gloves. 

''Oh,  Mother,  Fm  so  glad  to  see 
you.  Fm  having  the  blues  this 
morning."  Katherine  had  to  stop 
^  talking.  Another  moment  and  she'd 
burst  into  tears.  And  the  crazy 
thing  was  that  there  was  simply 
nothing  in  her  life  to  cry  about. 
What  on  earth  could  be  the  mat- 
ter? 

"You  need  to  get  out.  It's  just 
that  you're  feeling  tied  down.  A 
new  baby  makes  you  feel  like  that 
sometimes.  What  you  should  do 
is  call  someone  and  go  somewhere 
for  lunch  .  .  .  /' 

''Oh,  no,  I  wouldn't  like  that 
really.  But,  Mother,  would  you 
mind,  maybe  I  will  just  go  visiting 
next  door  for  a  bit.  I  haven't  been 
over  to  Carrie's  for  ages,  and  I  can 
check  on  Mark." 

Her  mother  was  already  slipping 
into  one  of  her  aprons.  "Stay  awhile, 
won't  you?  I  want  to  spend  a  little 
time  with  my  newest  grandson.  He 
is  such  a  darling.  Papa  says  he's  the 


image  of  some  of  the  Johnsons,  but 
I  guess  the  Petersons  think  he's  a 
lot  like  David.    His  chin  now  .  .  .  ." 

Katherine  pulled  on  her  coat  and 
fled  through  the  back  door.  Carrie 
had  gone  in.  She  went  up  the  back 
steps  and  knocked  on  the  door.  The 
boys  were  digging  in  the  bare  back 
yard.  They  were  so  busy  they  hard- 
ly noticed  her.  "Grandma's  over  to 
our  house,  Mark,"  she  said. 

"Oh,  boy,"  said  Mark,  but  he 
went  on  digging.  "I  got  to  finish 
these  caves." 

"Have  to,"  corrected  Katherine  as 
Carrie  called  to  her  to  come  in. 
Katherine  stepped  into  the  cluttered 
kitchen.  The  breakfast  dishes  still 
lay  on  the  table  and  cupboard.  A 
cereal  box  had  tipped  over  and 
spilled  from  cupboard  to  floor. 

"In  here,"  Carrie  called.  "I'm  in 
the  living  room." 

The  ironing  board  was  open,  but 
Carrie  was  working  at  a  sewing  ma- 
chine. Curls  of  dust  looked  bleakly 
into  the  sun  slanting  down  from  the 
long,  bare  windows. 

"Fm  making  me  the  cutest  skirt," 
Carrie  smiled,  sweeping  up  some 
pins  with  her  hand.  She  dropped 
the  skirt  on  a  small  table  and 
crossed  to  the  couch  where  she 
curled  up  with  her  bare  legs  beneath 
her.  "No,  no,  it's  all  right.  I've  been 
hunting  for  an  excuse  to  stop  work- 
ing. Besides,  you  never  get  over 
to  see  me,  you're  so  busy,  so  this  is 
a  real  occasion.  All  I  have  are  some 
stale  doughnuts.  We  can  eat  those." 

"No  thanks,"  Katherine  laughed. 
"I'm  just  in  need  of— of  someone  to 
talk  to,  I  guess.  Someone  not  in 
the  family— if  you  know  what  I 
mean." 


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Carrie  nodded  and  twisted  her 
hair  up  into  her  pony  tail.  How 
comfortable  Katherine  felt.  Carrie 
always  made  people  feel  so  at  ease. 
Even  if  there  was  always  such  a  clut- 
ter in  her  house,  you  always  felt 
welcome. 

Katherine  looked  out  the  front 
window  to  the  grass  just  beginning 
to  show  an  interest  in  being  green 
again.  ''You're  always  so  calm,  Car- 
rie, you  ne\'er  seem  to  ha\'e  any 
problems  .  .  .  ." 

Carrie  tossed  her  head  back 
against  the  couch  and  began  to 
laugh  at  the  ceiling.  "I  admit  I 
don't  spend  much  time  woir^nng 
about  problems,  but  my,  I  really 
have  them.  I  guess  you  didn't  know 
about  Miss  Lester  arranging  appoint- 
ments for  me  with  a  child  psycholo- 
gist over  Nana  .  .  .  ." 

Katherine  stared  at  Carrie,  'Tm 
so  sorry,  I  didn't  mean  to  .  .  .  ." 

''It's  all  right,"  Carrie  smiled. 
"Nana's  always  had  little  nervous 
tics,  but  then  she  began  bursting 
into  tears  in  school— in  class  for  no 
reason.  Anyway,  to  make  a  long 
story  short,  it  seems  I'm  too  permis- 
sive as  a  parent.  We  don't  have 
enough  rules.  The  children  aren't 
secure  because  I  let  them  do  pretty 
much  as  they  please." 

I^ATHERINE  shut  her  eyes  and 
then  opened  them.  Darling 
little  Nana  not  feeling  secure.  She 
remembered  how  Margaret  and 
John  complained  when  they  had  to 
report  home  at  five  on  school  nights 
to  take  care  of  chores  and  homework 
and  to  help  get  ready  for  dinner. 
She  had  been  feeling  guilty  about 
that. 


"And  Tom,"  Carrie's  voice  went 
on,  "well,  Tom  does  most  of  his 
work  in  the  office  or  the  public  li- 
brary because  he  can't  stand  the 
clutter  at  home,  he  says.  You  should 
hear  him  about  .  .  .  ." 

Katherine  felt  a  moment's  embar- 
rassment. Yes,  she  had  heard  Tom, 
and  she'd  always  w^ondered  what 
kind  of  person  he  was  to  raise  his 
voice  so.  She  closed  her  mind  to 
further  thoughts  on  that  subject. 
She  had  no  right  to  listen  to  these 
problems. 

"But  I'm  going  to  try  to  change. 
I'm  going  to  get  over  and  visit  you 
more,  Katherine.  I  always  used  to 
feel  happier  after  being  over  to  your 
house.  I'd  determine  to  go  home 
and  be  a  better  wife  and  mother. 
I'm  going  to  work  out  a  schedule 
and  really  stick  to  it." 

An  hour  later,  when  Katherine 
took  a  hungry  little  boy  home  to 
lunch  with  her,  she  felt  in  such  good 
spirits  that  she  wondered  how  she 
could  have  been  so  blue  that  morn- 
ing. Her  mother  had  finished  fold- 
ing the  clothes  out  of  the  dryer  and 
had  fed  Bobby. 

"I  did  your  vacuuming,  too,"  she 
greeted  Katherine,  "and  your  lunch 
is  on  the  table.  Come  on,  Mark, 
Grandma  will  help  you  get  washed 
up  for  lunch.  Then  I'm  going  to 
slip  home  and  fix  Papa  his  lunch, 
but  I  won't  go  unless  you  promise 
to  take  a  good  long  nap  to  make  up 
for  this  morning.  But  I  can  see 
the  visit  did  you  good.  You  know, 
Katherine,  a  visit  in  your  friendly, 
happy  home  is  always  such  a  joy 
to  Papa  and  me." 

Katherine  lay  down  beside  Mark 
and  held  his  hand  until  he  drifted 
off  to  sleep.    Then  she  slipped  into 


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her  own  room  and  stretched  out  on  "Hurry,    Daddy/'    John    coaxed, 

the  big  double  bed.    In  a  moment  Mark  and  Peter  tagged  along  to 

she  was  asleep.    Mark  never  napped  watch. 

for  much  more  than  an  hour,  so  After  dinner  and  the  dishes,  John 

Katherine  usually  provided  an  hour  said  his  combinations  in  arithmetic 

of  quiet  play  for  him  after  his  nap,  for  David,  and  Margaret  told  about 

before  he  went  outside  again.    He  an  electric  magnet  they  had  made 

painted  or  colored  or  cut  with  toy  at  school  that  day.    Then  Margaret 

scissors  or  molded  with  clay.  Today  practised  her  music  while  Katherine 

she  buttoned  him  into  one  of  the  put  up  the  lunches  for  the  next  day. 

many  paint  smocks  she  had  made  It  was  almost  bedtime  for  the  chil- 

from  David's  old  shirts  and  got  out  dren.      David    would    be    carrying 

the  tubes  of  finger  paints.     While  Mark  up  any  minute.    He'd  already 

he  worked  she  lay  on  the  floor  and  had  his  bath  with  John,  and  David 

did  her  exercises.  had  helped  him  into  his  pajamas. 

After  a  moment  she  got  up  and  She  could  see  his  head  curled  against 

went  to  the  back  door.    There  had  P^^^^  ^  shoulder  as  he  read  about 

been  no  knock,  but  she  opened  it  Wmnie  the  Pooh  pretendmg  he  was 

anyway.    Yes,  there  was  Peter  wait-  ^  ^^^^^  ^"^  ^^^^^"g  ^P  "^'^^  ^  ^^1' 

ing  patiently  on  the  back  step  for  ^^on  to  the  hive  of  bees. 

Mark.    ^'Come  in,  Peter,''  she  said  Katherine  looked  around  the  neat 

gently,   ''come   in   and   help   Mark  kitchen,   shmmg  with   anticipation 

fingerpaint  for  a  while.     I  have  a  ^^^  tomorrow  s  breakfast.  She  hung 

smock  just  especially  for  you,  too."  ?"*  ^'^'^  ^.^^^^^^l  ^''^  ^^^^^^  '^^ 

had    embroidered    before    she   and 

Peter's  eyes  sparkled.     It  would  ^^vid  were  married, 

be  more  fun  for  Mark  with  a  friend,  ^^y^  g^i^g  to  help  Carrie,  and 

too.    She  should  have  done  this  be-  5^^  ^an  help  me,"  she  said  softly  to 

^ore.  herself. 

One  of  Carrie's  lovely  paintings 
JOHN  and  Margaret  dashed  in  ^^^i^  look  beautiful  in  the  hall. 
^  after  school  to  change  clothes  it  was  wonderful  to  have  a  talent 
and  then  dashed  out  to  play  again,  like  that.  But  homemaking  was 
Promptly  at  five  they  came  in  and  wonderful,  too,  and  it  did  take  in- 
washed.  John  set  the  table  while  genuity  and  quick  thinking  and 
Margaret  helped  her  mother  with  planning  to  make  a  day  end  happily 
the  dinner.  Katherine  looked  out  and  make  the  home  a  place  where 
the  window.  Yes,  it  was  five-thirty,  the  family  wanted  to  be.  She  flipped 
and  there  was  David.  What  a  dash  out  the  kitchen  light  and  watched 
there  was  to  the  door  to  greet  the  moonlight  lap  against  the  win- 
^^^dy-  dow    sill.     The    house    was    quiet. 

'Tlenty   of   time   to   pass   a   few  Family  prayer,  the  trip  upstairs,  the 

balls,"  Daddy  assured  him.    He  put  tucking  in,   all   were   over  for  the 

his  briefcase  away.  ''It's  worth  com-  night.     Katherine    carried    Bobbie 

ing  home  to  get  a  reception  like  downstairs  and  rocked  him  in  the 

that,"  David  grinned  at  Katherine  big  rocker  while  David  read  at  his 

as  he  kissed  her.  desk. 


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'Turn  on  the  television  if  you 
like/'  David  said,  ''it  won't  bother 
me. 

"Vm  enjoying  the  quiet/'  Kath- 
erine  laughed,  hugging  the  baby 
to  her. 

'TouVe  loved  him  long  enough/' 
David  said  in  a  few  minutes.  "It's 
my  turn  now." 

He  cradled  new  little  Bobby  into 
his  arms,  and  then  when  he  abso- 
lutely refused  to  open  even  an  eye, 
David  took  him  upstairs  and  put 
him  in  his  bassinet  for  the  night. 

Katherine  opened  a  magazine  and 
read:  ''Homemaking,  the  Ideal 
Career  for  Women."  She  would 
loan  this  to  Carrie.  Both  of  us 
need  articles  like  this,  she  thought. 

''Katherine.  Katherine."  David 
had  sat  down  on  the  couch  beside 
her.  He  held  out  two  white  en- 
velopes.    It  took  her  a  moment  to 


realize  that  David  meant  for  her 
to  open  them. 

"Oh,  David!" 

There  were  tickets  to  the  spring 
Community  Concert  series  and  tick- 
ets to  the  Little  Theater. 

"It  will  be  wonderful  to  go,"  and 
she  hugged  him  delightedly. 

"You  seemed  so  downhearted 
this  morning  that  I  thought  maybe 
you  needed  some  cheering  up,  or 
at  least  a  change  of  scenery." 

Had  she  been  depressed  this 
morning?  Yes,  she  had  forgotten. 
She  concentrated  for  a  minute  try- 
ing to  puzzle  out  just  what  had  been 
the  matter  the  last  few  days  and 
this  morning.  Well,  it  didn't  mat- 
ter; she  was  back  on  an  even  keel 
now.  She  snuggled  up  against 
David  and  opened  her  magazine 
again.  A  homemaker  was  impor- 
tant; anyway,  she  knew  she  was,  and 
she  turned  the  page. 


LUear  Qjiag 

Ivy  Houtz  V^ooWey 

Dear  Flag — 

Did  you  borrow  the  red  from  the  reddest  rose 

And  match  it  with  patriot's  blood? 

Did  the  heart  of  that  flower  feel  a  soldier's  last  pulse 

While  it  still  held  that  glow  in  the  bud? 

Dear  Flag — 

Did  a  soul  before  you  were  born 
Bring  his  whiteness  and  offer  to  you 
The  unsullied  promise  of  courageous  ones 
Who  died  for  the  thing  they  held  true? 

Dear  Flag — 

Did  the  heavens  above  take  a  strip  from  her  breast 

Bedeck  it  with  resplendent  stars, 

Then  fashion  it  after  a  pattern  from  God 

Completed  with  red  and  white  bars? 

Dear  Flag — 

Do  you  thrill  as  I  do  when  proudly  you  float 

In  the  air,  on  the  land  and  the  sea? 

Your  message  from  God,  "Right  is  might,  right  is  right — ' 

With  this  plan  our  great  land  was  made  free. 


A  Relief  Society  Gleaning 

Rachel  Giant  Tayloi 


RECENTLY  a  tiny  photo  two 
and  one-half  by  four  inches, 
bequeathed  to  me  because 
my  name  was  Rachel,  became  a  chal- 
lenge. I  had  known  three  of  the 
six  women  in  the  picture  from  child- 
hood, my  grandmother  Rachel 
Grant,  Aunt  Emmeline  Wells,  and 
Bathsheba  Smith,  but  who  were  the 
other  three,  and  what  offices  did 
they  hold  in  the  Relief  Society? 

They  were  all  fine  looking  women 
and  had  been  carefully  posed.  Their 
dark  dresses  with  pleats  and  points, 
white  collars,  and  long  watch  chains, 
were  most  interesting.  Apparently, 
the  photographer  did  not  say 
''Smile,"  perhaps  because  they  were 
the  dignified  officers  of  the  Thir- 
teenth Ward  Relief  Society. 

The  date.  May  1873,  on  the  back 
of  the  picture  led  me  to  visit  the 
Ghurch  Historian's  office  and  ask 
if  they  had  any  records  that  might 
assist  me  in  my  search  for  the  names 
of  the  officers  of  the  Thirteenth 
Ward  Relief  Society  at  that  time. 
To  my  delight,  the  attendant 
brought  out  a  much-used  but  well 
preserved  brown  leather  book,  con- 
taining 650  closely  written  pages  of 
minutes.  Included  in  the  minutes 
were  the  names  of  all  members  and 
the  dates  they  joined  the  society. 

The  minutes  of  the  May  meeting 
in  1873,  revealed  the  probable  rea- 
son for  the  photo  being  taken,  for 
Margaret  Mitchell,  Grandmother's 
second  counselor,  was  leaving  for 
the  Sandwich  Islands,  where  her 
husband  was  to  become  the  mission 


president.  The  records  gave  desired 
names  and  dates  for  my  picture — 
Rachel  Ivins  Grant,  President,  April 
18,  1868;  Bathsheba  W.  Smith,  First 
Gounselor,  May  6th,  1869;  Margaret 
Mitchell,  Second  Gounselor,  April 
18,  1868;  Elizabeth  Goddard,  Secre- 
tary, April  18,  1868;  Emmeline  B. 
Wells,  Assistant  Secretary,  May 
1871;  and  Mary  Musser,  Treasurer, 
May  3,  1871. 

Grandmother  Grant  and  Eliza- 
beth Goddard  served  as  president 
and  secretary  of  the  society  for 
thirty  years.  Here  are  some  of  the 
first  and  last  entries  of  this  out- 
standing historical  record: 

Record  of  the  organization  of  the 
Female  Relief  Society  of  the  Thir- 
teenth Ward,  Salt  Lake  City: 

Bishop  Woolley's  residence 
April  18th,  1868 

Present:  Bishop  Edwin  D.  Woolley 
[Grandfather  of  President  J.  Reuben  Clark, 
Jr.]  and  his  counselors,  W.  S.  Godbe  and 
F.  A.  Mitchell. 

Meeting  opened  by  prayer  by  the  Bishop 
after  which  the  bishop  took  the  chair  and 
Brother  W.  S.  Godbe  was  appointed  sec- 
retary pro  tern. 

The  bishop  made  some  very  interesting 
remarks  relative  to  the  organization  about 
to  be  formed.  Said  that  he  had  been 
slow  with  regard  to  the  Society — that  he 
had  not  felt  the  spirit  of  it  until  he  had 
heard  the  remarks  of  President  Young  ex- 
pressed at  the  last  conference — that  it  was 
not  his  habit  to  be  in  a  hurry  in  his 
movements  but  be  cool  and  deliberate.  He 
said  in  the  organization  he  wished  to  se- 
lect such  sisters  for  officers  as  would  lis- 
ten to  his  council  and  carry  out  such 
measures  as  he  should  suggest  from  time 
to  time. 

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Photograph  by  C.  W.  Carter 

OFFICERS  OF  THE  THIRTEENTH  WARD 
(SALT  LAKE  CITY)   RELIEF  SOCIETY,  May   1873 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Margaret  Mitchell,  Second  Counselor,  appointed 
April  18,  1868;  Rachel  R.  Grant,  President,  April  18,  1868;  Bathsheba  W.  Smith,  First 
Counselor,  May  6,  1869. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Emmeline  B.  Wells,  Assistant  Secretary,  May  1, 
1871;  Elizabeth  Goddard,  Secretary,  April  18,  1868;  Mary  Musser,  Treasurer,  May  13, 
1871. 


The  bishop  continued  by  saying  that 
if  the  sisters  needed  assistance  the  breth- 
ren would  be  on  hand  to  help — that  he 
did  not  wish  them  to  perform  heavy  and 
laborious  duties,  such  as  would  tax  their 
strength.  He  wished  them  to  go  to  work 
to  make  their  own  clothing  and  establish 
such  fashions  for  dress  as  would  be  be- 
coming for  the  Saints  and  not  subject 
themselves  to  imitate  fashions  which  are 
invented  and  worn  by  dishonorable  women 
of  the  world. 

The  bishop  then  suggested  that  the 
meeting  proceed  to  organize  the  Society 
and  moved  that  Mrs.  Rachel  R.  Grant  be 


chosen  president  which  was  seconded  and 
carried  unanimously. 

He  then  moved  that  Mrs.  Grant  pro- 
ceed to  choose  her  counselors. 

Mrs.  Grant  then  made  choice  of  Mrs. 
Annie  Godbe  for  her  first  counselor  and 
Mrs.  Margaret  Mitchell  for  her  second 
counselor,  which  was  carried  unanimously. 

The  bishop  and  his  counselors  laid  their 
hands  upon  the  head  of  Mrs.  Grant  and 
blessed  and  ordained  her  and  set  her  apart 
to  be  the  presidentess  over  the  Female 
Relief  Society  of  the  Thirteenth  Ward, 
the  bishop  officiating  as  spokesman. 

They   then   proceeded   to   ordain   Mrs. 


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365 


Godbe  and  set  her  apart  to  act  as  first 
counselor  to  the  Presidentess.  Brother 
Godbe  officiating  in  the  same  manner, 
they  ordained  Mrs.  Mitchell  to  act  as 
second  counselor  to  Mrs.  Grant  and  with 
Mrs.  Godbe  to  assist  her  in  all  the  vari- 
ous  duties   of   her  office  and   councillor. 

It  was  then  moved  that  Mrs.  Elizabeth 
H.  Goddard  be  chosen  to  act  as  secretary 
and  Mrs.  Ann  L.  Musser  as  treasurer,  sec- 
onded and  carried  unanimously.  (Four- 
teen sisters  were  named  as  teachers  in  the 
ward.) 

The  bishop  invited  Miss  E.  R.  Snow 
to  make  remarks,  when  she  arose  and 
addressed  the  sisters  present,  by  saying 
this  society  had  much  for  its  encourage- 
ment in  the  kind  remarks  of  the  bishop 
and  also  in  combining  a  great  amount  of 
ability — that  inasmuch  as  the  sisters  keep 
themselves  humble  and  united  there  is 
nothing  to  prevent  them  doing  much  good, 
becoming  truly  a  model  society,  as  sug- 
gested by  the  bishop.  Very  appropriate 
and  instructive  remarks  were  then  made 
by  Elders  Godbe  and  Mitchell.  Meeting 
adjourned  to  April  30th  at  Mrs.  Mary 
Godbe's  residence  at  2  p.m. 

William  S.  Godbe 

Secretary  Pro  Tem. 

INCLUDED  in  the  minutes 
tliroughout  the  book  was  a  record 
of  the  donations  of  members.  A 
summary  of  these  was  included  in 
an  item  that  mentioned  Father's 
[President  Heber  J.  Grant's]  aid  to 
the  society. 

Through  the  management  of  H.  J. 
Grant  in  1886,  the  investment  in  the 
Thirteenth  Ward  store  was  sold  to  J.  P. 
Freeze  for  $1,000  with  which  was  pur- 
chased nine  shares  in  Z.G.M.I.  Have  also 
deposited  $432  in  the  State  Bank  of  Utah 
at  eight  per  cent  interest.  Bro.  Heber  J. 
Grant  donated  to  the  Society  $50,  whose 
liberality  helped  to  increase  our  invest- 
ment. The  total  disbursements  to  the 
poor  amount  to  $3710  cash.  In  merchan- 
dise $1758.  This  is  dating  from  1868  to 
1893.  To  Temple  $805.50.  Merchants 
$105.00,  to  hospital  $102.00,  to  Emigra- 


tion $161.99,  Wheat  $185.85.  Building 
$232.40,  Silk  factory  $20.  Have  dis- 
persed from  two  to  five  hundred  dollars 
in  carpets,  blinds,  curtains  and  other 
adornments  for  assembly  room. 

To  make  their  record  complete, 
Sister  Goddard  wrote  of  the  first 
organization  of  the  society: 

Historical  Sketch  of  the  Thirteenth 
Ward  Relief  Society 

First  account  of  the  society  formed  was 
on  29th  August  1855.  On  September 
19th  Sister  Pascal  was  appointed  to  act 
as  president  and  treasurer  and  Sister  Eliza- 
beth Goddard  as  secretary. 

Meetings  were  held  in  the  basement  of 
the  Social  Hall,  which  were  devoted  to 
sewing,  such  as  making  quilts,  sewing 
carpet  rags  towards  making  a  carpet  for 
the  old  Tabernacle,  braiding  straw  for 
bonnets,  etc.  In  1857  the  meeting  dis- 
continued on  account  of  the  unsettled 
state  with  regard  to  the  army  coming  to 
molest  us,  which  caused  us  to  leave  our 
homes  and  go  south. 

On  the  18th  of  August  1868  the  so- 
ciety was  organized  according  to  the  pat- 
tern of  the  first  organization  instituted  by 
the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  on  March  17th, 
1842. 

To  end  her  records,  Sister  God- 
dard wrote  the  following  touching 
message: 

These  are  the  last  minutes  I  can  write 
in  this  book.  Feel  thankful  to  my  Heav- 
enly Father  that  he  has  enabled  me  to 
record  so  many  pages  in  the  30  years 
acting  as  secretary.  I  now  resign  this 
book  to  others,  on  account  of  my  ad- 
vanced age.  Praying  that  the  work  will 
prosper  in  younger  and  more  efficient 
hands.  And  that  the  blessings  of  the 
Lord  may  ever  be  with  my  dear  sisters  of 
the  Thirteenth  Ward  Relief  Society  and 
all  other  wards  engaged  in  this  labor  of 
love  until  it  shall  be  said  'There  are  no 
poor  in  Zion." 

Lovingly  your  sister  and  fellow  worker, 
Elizabeth  Goddard. 


(bixtif    ijears  J/Lgo 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  June  i,  and  June  15,  1897 

"For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

HONORING  OUR  PARENTS:  It  is  right  and  proper  that  children  shonld  honor 
their  parents,  and  what  is  more  fitting  than  to  meet  together  on  their  parents'  natal 
day  .  .  .  and  talk  o\er  the  reminiscences  of  their  childhood  and  rehearse  all  the  good 
and  pleasant  things  they  have  experienced,  and  store  their  minds  with  memories  rich 
and  precious  to  hand  down  to  coming  generations.  ...  If  children  have  differences 
they  are  soon  forgotten  and  naught  but  the  happy  times  remembered.  Ties  have  been 
formed  that  will  never  be  broken.  Children  grow  up,  get  married  and  are  in  a  measure 
separated,  but  there  is  in  each  heart  a  bond  of  love.  A  love  that  has  grown  with  their 
lives  and  will  continue  to  grow  stronger  and  stronger  while  life  shall  last,  and  in  the 
eternal  worlds  it  will  grow  no  less. 

— Editorial 

THE  PIONEER  JUBILEE:  Great  preparations  are  going  forward  here  and  in 
other  adjacent  locations  for  celebrating  the  Pioneer  Jubilee  of  a  half  century;  the  Hall 
of  Relics  is  nearing  its  completion  and  is  quite  artistic  in  design,  and  presents  some- 
thing of  the  appearance  in  its  whiteness  of  the  World's  Fair  buildings  in  Chicago.  .  .  . 
The  foundation  for  the  monument  in  honor  of  Brigham  Young  is  also  in  process  and 
the  work  is  being  pushed  as  rapidly  as  possible.  The  pioneers  themselves,  the  real 
veterans,  should  be  honored  and  made  to  feel  that  their  labors  are  appreciated  by  those 
who  are  reaping  in  great  measure  the  benefits  of  their  toil  and  endeavors.  .  .  , 

— News  Note 

VICTORIA  THE  GREAT 

The  dew  was  on  the  summer  lawn, 
The  roses  bloomed,  the  woods  were  green. 
When  forth  there  came  as  fresh  as  dawn 
A  maiden  with  majestic  mien  .... 

Longer  and  longer  may  she  reign, 
As  through  a  summer  night  serene, 
Whence  day  doth  never  wholly  wane; 
God  spare  and  bless  our  empress-queen. 

— Alfred  Austin 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONFERENCE  IN  SUMMIT  STAKE:  President  Mary  C. 
Atwood  presiding,  said:  "I  am  pleased  to  say  we  have  the  annual  reports  from  every 
branch  in  the  Stake,  we  number  seventeen  branches,  three  of  them  being  in  Wyoming." 
....  Elmina  S.  Taylor  said,  ",  .  .  The  Prophet  Joseph  turned  the  key  of  knowledge 
for  women;  he  made  it  possible  for  us  to  meet  together  and  speak  of  the  principles  of 
the  Gospel.  I  say  God  bless  this  noble  band  of  sisters  that  administer  to  the  needy." 
.  .  .  Sister  Emma  Goddard  .  .  .  advised  daughters  to  love  and  cherish  their  parents 
while  they  live  ....  — L.N. 

MRS.  GARRETT'S  PARTY:  There  was  a  very  pleasant  gathering  of  brethren 
and  sisters  at  the  home  of  Elder  Geo.  B.  W^allace  in  this  city  on  the  afternoon  of 
Thursday  June  10,  the  occasion  being  the  birthday  of  his  daughter,  Mrs,  Mary  E. 
Garrett.  T'he  rooms  were  fragrant  with  the  odor  of  June  roses  ....  Sister  Garrett  is 
ver}'  fond  of  old  ladies  and  quite  a  number  were  invited  to  her  party.  Sisters  Susan 
Grant  and  Melissa  Lambson,  both  pioneers  of  1 847,  helped  with  their  remembrances.  .  . . 

— News  Note 
Page  366 


Woman's  Sphere 


Ramoiia  W.  Cannon 


lyfRS.  ENRICO  FERMI,  widow 
of  the  famed  nuclear  physicist, 
attended  in  1955  as  historian  for 
the  Atomic  Energy  Commission, 
the  Atoms-for-Peace  Conference  in 
Geneva,  Switzerland.  In  the  book 
she  subsequently  authored.  Atoms 
for  the  World,  she  predicts  that 
Russia  between  1950-1960,  will  grad- 
uate 1,200,000  scientists  and  engi- 
neers, compared  with  900,000  in  the 
United  States— 300,000  more  gradu- 
ates than  we  are  likely  to  have. 

pRICA  ANDERSON  is  the  author 
of  The  World  of  Albeit  Schweit- 
zer, a  book  of  unusual  photographs 
taken  at  the  famous  mission  hospital 
at  Lambarene,  French  Equatorial 
Africa,  where,  for  fifty  years,  this 
great  medical  missionary  carried  on 
his  work  of  helping  the  natives  and 
studying  tropical  diseases.  His  phil- 
osophy is  "Reverence  for  Life." 

jyiRS.  IVY  BAKER  PRIEST, 
United  States  Treasurer,  was 
the  overwhelmingly  amazed  guest  of 
honor  on  Ralph  Edwards'  'This  Is 
Your  Life"  television  program,  on 
March  13.  National  admiration  was 
hers  as  the  story  of  her  gallant  early 
struggle  unfolded— all  the  way  from 


her  childhood  epoch  at  Bingham 
Canyon,  Utah,  to  Bountiful,  Utah, 
to  Washington,  D.  C. 

lyrRS.    R.    F.    HERNDON,    of 

Springfield,  Illinois,  died  in 
March  at  the  age  of  one  hundred 
and  two  years.  She  is  believed  to 
be  the  last  person  in  Springfield  who 
had  seen  Abraham  Lincoln. 

lyiRS.  ARTHUR  U.  (Blanche) 
MINER,  mother  of  four  chil- 
dren, an  intelligent,  talented,  pub- 
lic-spirited woman,  and  a  Latter-day 
Saint,  has  been  appointed  to  the 
Board  of  Regents  of  the  University 
of  Utah. 

lyrANY  descendants  of  titled 
French  families  are  influential 
in  French  life  today.  The  Duchess 
of  Montesquieu  -  Fezensac,  one  of 
the  most  beautiful  women  of 
France,  is  a  grandmother  and  holds 
an  M.D.  degree.  The  Countess  of 
Paris,  who  would  be  Queen  of 
France  today  had  the  Bourbon  dy- 
nasty survived,  is  a  very  popular 
public  figure  and  the  mother  of 
eleven  children.  Countess  Jean  de 
Beaumont  is  the  capable  mayor  of 
the  village  of  Mareil-sur-Mauldre. 
The  heroic  nurse  of  the  Indo-Chi- 
nese war,  the  ''angel  of  Dienbien- 
phu,"  is  young  Viscountess  Gene- 
vieve de  Galard-Terraube,  now  wed. 

Page  367 


EDITORIAL 


VOL.  44 


JUNE  1957 


NO.  6 


cJhe  i2jth  J^nnual  (church   (conference 


AT  the  conclusion  of  the  i2yth 
annual  conference  of  the 
Church,  tens  of  thousands  of 
Latter-day  Saints  had  gained  a  re- 
newed determination  to  live  the 
gospel  more  fully.  Each  succeeding 
conference  seems  to  be  more  vital, 
more  spiritual  and  uplifting  than  the 
last,  perhaps,  because  the  need  for 
renewed  spirituality  is  more  urgent. 
Hearts  swelled  with  gratitude  as 
words  of  encouragement,  warning, 
and  counsel  were  spoken  by  Presi- 
dent David  O.  McKay  and  by  other 
General  Authorities. 

President  David  O.  McKay  pre- 
sided and  conducted  all  seven 
sessions  of  the  conference  and  all  of 
the  General  Authorities  were  in  at- 
tendance. Elder  Marion  G.  Rom- 
ney  gave  the  C.B.S.  "Church  of  the 
Air"  sermon,  'The  Voice  of  the 
Spirit.''  Proceedings  of  the  general 
Priesthood  meeting,  which  was  held 
Saturday  evening,  April  6,  in  the 
Tabernacle,  were  carried  by  closed 
circuit  to  ninety-five  assemblages  of 
the  Priesthood  of  the  Church 
throughout  the  United  States  and 
Canada. 

After  telling  of  the  growth  and 
activity  in  the  Church  during  the 
past  year.  President  McKay  used  as 
his  text  for  his  opening  address, 
Matthew  7:21:  "Not  every  one  that 
saith  unto  me.  Lord,  Lord,  shall 
enter  into  the  kingdom  of  heaven; 
but  he  that  doeth  the  will  of  my 

Page  368 


Father  which  is  in  heaven.''  He 
said  that  "salvation  is  an  individual 
affair,"  and  that  it  is  "an  outstand- 
ing doctrine  of  the  Church  that 
each  individual  carries  the  responsi- 
bility to  work  out  his  own  salva- 
tion." He  described  salvation  as  a 
"process  of  gradual  development/' 
stating: 

"He  who  would  ascend  the  stair- 
way leading  upward  to  eternal  life 
must  tread  it  step  by  step  from  the 
base  stone  to  the  summit  of  its 
flight.  Not  a  single  stair  can  be 
missed,  not  one  duty  neglected,  if 
the  climber  would  avoid  danger  and 
delay,  and  arrive  with  all  safety  and 
expedition  at  the  topmost  landing 
of  the  celestial  exaltation." 

PRESIDENT  Stephen  L  Rich- 
ards explained  to  the  saints  that 
reproof  of  the  "wayward"  is  proper 
when  given  in  love  and  kindness.  He 
stated  that  the  Lord  had  revealed  to 
the  Latter-day  Saints  the  manner  in 
which  reproof  should  be  given.  He 
then  quoted: 

No  power  or  influence  can  or  ought  to 
be  maintained  by  virtue  of  the  priesthood, 
only  by  persuasion,  by  long-suffering,  by 
gentleness  and  meekness,  and  by  love  un- 
feigned .... 

Reproving  betimes  with  sharpness, 
when  moved  upon  by  the  Holy  Ghost; 
and  then  showing  forth  afterwards  an  in- 
crease of  love  toward  him  whom  thou  hast 
reproved,  lest  he  esteem  thee  to  be  his 
enemy  (D.  &  C.  121:41,  43). 


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369 


President  Richards  continued:  '1 
know  that  a  great  effort  is  being  put 
forth  by  milhons  of  good  people  to 
hold  before  the  youth  the  advan- 
tages and  the  lasting  values  emanat- 
ing from  the  teachings  of  our  Lord." 
He  stressed  that  it  is  necessary  ''to 
make  clear  that  the  kingdom  of 
God  is  a  kingdom  of  law;  that  the 
governing  laws  are  of  divine  origin; 
that  they  are  eternally  right  and  do 
not  change  —  interpretations  may 
vary,  but  the  laws  are  eternal;  that 
infraction  of  the  law  is  sin  and 
draws  a  penalty/' 

PRESIDENT  J.  Reuben  Clark,  Jr. 
stated  in  his  scholarly  address  on 
the  subject  of  the  Constitution  of 
the  United  States  being  a  divine  sys- 
tem of  human  government,  that  our 
''great  and  priceless  liberties,  includ- 
ing the  security  of  our  homes  and 
property,  our  freedom  of  speech  and 
of  the  press,  freedom  of  religion  and 
the  free  exercise  thereof,  indeed 
freedom  itself  and  its  liberties  as  our 
fathers  knew  and  enjoyed,  as  also, 
ourselves,  depend  upon  its  preser- 
vation." 

President    Clark    further    stated: 
^\  .  .  the  divine  sanction  ...  re- 


peatedly given  by  the  Lord  himself 
to  the  Constitution  of  the  United 
States  .  .  .  makes  the  principles  of 
that  document  an  integral  part  of 
my  religious  faith."  He  further  de- 
clared: "God  gave  us  the  power, 
each  of  us,  to  enshrine  in  our  hearts 
the  eternal  truths  of  our  Constitu- 
tion, that,  come  what  may,  we  shall 
never  desert  these  truths,  but  work 
always  and  unceasingly  that,  as 
Lincoln  said,  'government  of  the 
people,  by  the  people,  and  for  the 
people,  shall  not  perish  from  the 
earth.' " 

Conference  is  a  miraculous  time- 
conference  time  affects  for  good 
people  in  many  parts  of  the  world. 

It  was  a  blessed  privilege  to  hear 
the  words  of  counsel,  admonition, 
and  encouragement  from  the  Gen- 
eral Authorities  given  within  the 
hallowed  walls  of  the  historic  Taber- 
nacle on  Temple  Square,  April  5,  6, 
and  yth,  1957.  Relief  Society  sisters 
throughout  the  Church  were  im- 
pressed with  a  great  desire  to  main- 
tain homes  where  the  gospel  prin- 
ciples are  taught  and  lived,  and 
where  spirituality  prevails. 

-H.  W.  A. 


Sin     1 1  Lemonam  -  JLuc^   j<fane    Ujnmhaii   uXraght 

December  13,  1875  —  March  31,  1957 

T  UCY  Jane  (Jennie)  Brimhall  Knight,  beloved  leader  among  women,  and 
former  counselor  in  the  general  presidency  of  Relief  Society,  died  at 
her  home  in  Edgemont,  Provo,  Utah,  March  31,  1957.  She  was  a  daugh- 
ter of  George  H.  Brimhall,  former  President  of  Brigham  Young  University, 
and  Alsina  Wilkins  Brimhall.  Her  husband,  J.  Will  Knight,  devoted 
Church  worker  and  prominent  in  the  industrial  development  of  the  West, 
died  in  March  1956.  Two  sons  and  ten  brothers  and  sisters  survive  Sister 
Knight. 


370  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JUNE  1957 

Interested  in  ci\'ic  improvement  and  in  education,  Sister  Knight  sup- 
ported with  her  time  and  means  many  worthy  endeavors.  She  and  her 
husband  were  generous  patrons  of  Brigham  Young  University,  and  she 
was  honored  by  B.Y.U.  in  1951  as  a  distinguished  akmmus.  One  of  the 
women's  dormitories  was  named  in  her  honor  in  1954.  She  was  a  mem- 
ber of  the  B.Y.U.  Emeritus  Club. 

Sister  Knight's  service  in  the  auxihary  organizations  of  the  Church 
began  in  her  young  womanhood.  While  living  in  Canada,  she  was  active 
in  the  Young  Women's  Mutual  Improvement  Association  and  in  the  Sun- 
day School. 

She  was  appointed  by  President  Heber  J.  Grant  in  1921  as  First  Coun- 
selor to  President  Clarissa  S.  Williams  in  the  general  presidency  of  Relief 
Society.  She  acted  in  this  position  with  devotion  and  gracious  qualities 
of  inspirational  leadership.  With  the  release  of  Sister  Williams  in  1928, 
Sister  Knight,  while  relieved  of  her  responsibilities  in  the  general  presi- 
dency, continued  as  a  member  of  the  general  board  until  1939.  She  was 
a  competent  administrator  and  a  judicious  and  understanding  friend  of 
women.  Blessed  with  fluency  of  expression  and  a  beautiful  speaking 
voice,  she  represented  the  general  board  on  many  occasions  with  distinc- 
tion. She  was  a  delegate  to  meetings  of  the  National  Council  of  Women 
and  represented  Relief  Society  at  two  national  conferences  on  social  work 
and  attended  many  other  important  conventions  and  meetings. 

Sister  Knight  served  as  matron  in  the  Salt  Lake  Temple  from  1944  to 
1947  while  her  husband  served  in  the  temple  presidency. 

She  will  be  long  remembered  as  a  lovely  and  capable  woman  in  whose 
life  the  qualities  of  compassion,  intelligence,  and  understanding  were 
beautifully  blended. 


9- 


ne  in  the  Jxaibab 

Eva  Wflles  Wangsgaard 


I  walked  alone  into  the  wood 

And  was  companioned  there; 

Not  by  the  curious  fawn  that  stood 
Then  sprang  off  hght  as  air. 

And  not  by  pink  and  columbine 

That  touched  my  sandaled  feet. 

A  greater  comradeship  was  mine, 
Root-deep  and  leaf-complete. 

Here  was  a  friendliness  to  gain 
Fir-tall  and  pinion-wide. 

Peace  was  as  near  as  my  own  vein 
And  courage  walked  beside. 


%ohA. 

TO  THE  FIELD 


Summer    Vl/ork     llieeUngs 

TT  is  the  desire  of  the  general  board  that  a  work  meeting  be  held  each 
month,  as  heretofore,  during  the  summer  period,  June  through  Sep- 
tember 1957. 

[Program  for  the    1  io'oemher  Q/ast  Sunday 
ibverung    1 1  ieeting 

npHE  special  program  for  Sunday,  November  3,  1957,  'To  Build  a  Spiritual 
House,''  was  mailed  to  Relief  Society  stake  presidents  in  May  1957. 
We  urge  that  these  programs  be  distributed  to  the  wards  without  delay. 

The  program  includes  two  numbers  from  the  Singing  Mothers  chorus. 
For  these  numbers  it  is  recommended  that  a  sacred  anthem  already  in  their 
repertoire  be  chosen,  and  an  appropriate  hymn  from  the  Latter-day  Saint 
hymn  book.  It  is  suggested  that  these  numbers  be  practiced  during  the 
summer  months. 

(^opies  of     vUist    LJe    /Lot  cJnat  0/    11  Lust    iue  J/tvout 

1 1  Lyi  Q/atner's   iuusiness?    Jytvaiiaole 

r^OPIES  of  the  book  Wist  Ye  Not  That  I  Must  Be  About  My  Father's 
Business.^  by  President  J.  Reuben  Clark,  Jr.  are  again  available  and  may 
be  ordered  from  the  General  Board  of  Relief  Society,  76  North  Main 
Street,  Salt  Lake  City  11,  Utah,  for  $2  postpaid.  An  invaluable  reference 
on  the  visit  of  Jesus  to  the  temple  at  twelve  years  of  age,  the  book  gives 
details  on  temple  ceremonies  and  sacrifices  in  the  time  of  Christ,  with 
illustrations.    This  book  makes  an  excellent  gift. 


ionde  s  (choice 

Ethel  Jacohson 

Satin  shall  I  wear,  or  lace,  Velvet  shall  it  be,  or  silk, 

With  a  train  of  airy  grace?  Soft  as  ermine,  white  as  milk? 

Thistledown  and  moonbeams,  please^  Weave  a  film  oi  candle  glow 

A  thiush-enchanted  summer  breeze,  Stitched  with  petals  row  on  row, 

Pearls  that  decked  a  mermaid's  ear.  With  mornings  stars  to  wreathe  my  hair  .... 

And  silver  moth  wings,  cobweb-sheer.  Embroider  me  a  dream  to  wear! 

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//Lodesty  SJs  the   {Best  [Policyi 


Keeping  Due  Measure 


fu^/{^/i/  is  the 
best  policy 


CUSAN  looked  down  at  the  beau- 
tiful alexandrite  ring  which  she 
had  recently  received  from  her 
brother  who  had  been  touring  in 
Egypt.  She  was  watching  the  bril- 
liances which  were  reflected  from 
the  many  precision  cut  facets  as  she 
moved  the  ring  from  bright  sunlight 
into  the  shadow.  She  had  noticed 
that  in  the  sunlight  the  stone  would 
be  a  blue-green  and,  in  artificial 
light,  it  would  almost  be  a  maroon 
color.  ''Look,  Mother/'  she  said 
finally,  ''this  ring  doesn't  confine 
itself  to  just  one  beautiful  color.'' 

Her  mother  admired  the  brilliant 
stone  again  and  replied,  "No,  dear, 
it  doesn't.  It  is  like  many  of  the 
virtues  of  life  which  aren't  confined 
to  just  one  phase  of  our  lives." 

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"That's  like  modesty,"  Susan  said. 
"Modesty  is  featured  on  the  last 
new  poster  at  the  chapel.  Modesty 
doesn't  reflect  good  taste  in  clothes 
alone,  but  also  in  our  actions.  What 
else  would  you  think  modesty 
would  include.  Mother?" 

"What  about  the  way  you  talk 
and  the  respect  which  you  have  for 
yourself?"  her  mother  answered. 

Even  though  their  conversation 
was  interrupted  by  a  telephone  call, 
Susan  didn't  let  the  analogy  of  mod- 
esty and  the  ring  go  completely  out 
of  her  thoughts.  She  remembered 
conversations  with  her  girl  friends, 
and  how  they  had  expressed  the 
idea  that  modesty  referred  only  to 
clothes  and  the  manner  in  which 
people  dressed. 

Susan  checked  the  dictionary  for 
the  meaning  of  modesty  and  found 
that  the  word  "modest"  came  from 
a  Latin  word  "modestus"  which 
means  "keeping  due  measure."  The 
thought  came  to  her,  one  must  keep 
due  measure  in  every  phase  or  activ- 
ity of  life.  How  grateful  she  was 
that  her  parents  set  this  example  be- 
fore her  and  her  brothers  and  sisters. 
In  reviewing  their  home  life,  Susan 
could  see  that  her  parents  did  try 
to  keep  due  measure.  That  would 
be  a  good  motto  to  keep  in  mind- 
to  keep  due  measure  in  all  things— 
and  then,  perhaps,  her  life  would 
reflect  true  brilliances  as  did  her 
ring. 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


Il  ientai    cJ^llness  -  Jr     i  iational    'JJtsaster 

F.  Barry  Ryan 

President,  National  Association  for  Mental  Health 

/^LOUDED  by  fear,  ignorance,  shame,  and  sheer  disinterest,  the  problem 

of  mental  illness  has  been  hidden  away  in  the  closets  of  society  for 
generations  while  its  victims  have  suffered  intense  agony,  disgrace,  and 
banishment. 

Only  now  that  it  assumes  the  proportions  of  a  national  disaster  have 
we  begun  to  apply  the  same  sane  and  intelligent  approach  to  the  allevia- 
tion of  mental  illness  which  has  been  used  in  conquering  such  scourges  as 
smallpox,  diphtheria,  and  polio. 

More  than  250,000  new  patients  are  admitted  to  mental  hospitals  each 
year,  and  mental  disorders  are  estimated  by  the  United  States  Public  Health 
Service  as  an  important  factor  in  fifty  or  seventy  per  cent  of  all  medical 
cases  treated  by  physicians. 

The  National  Institute  of  Mental  Health  concerns  itself  with  research 
and  extension  of  community  services  through  legally  constituted  bodies 
such  as  Bureaus  of  Mental  Health  in  many  states. 

The  National  Association  for  Mental  Health,  with  forty  state  associa- 
tions and  over  500  local  associations  affiliated,  has  a  six-point  program 
for  improving  the  nation's  mental  health: 

1.  Education  (both  for  citizens  and  professional  personnel) 

2.  Volunteer  services  (in  mental  hospitals  and  clinics) 

3.  Information  and  referral  centers 

4.  Legislation  (in  support  of  sound  mental  health  laws  and  appropriations) 

5.  Sufficient  facilities  and  personnel    (through  legislation,   scholarships,  institutes 
and  seminars) 

6.  Research 


^t  the  cJshtar  \^ate 

"Sic  transit  gloria  mundi" 
EJsie  N.  Chaney 

Here  is  not  glory  that  was  Babylon 

But  all  glory  in  its  last  repose! 

Dust  and  broken  brick,  from  which  has  flown 

All  living  fragrance,  as  a  rose 

Lies  scattered  on  the  ground. 

From  all  their  emptiness — no  sound. 

No  motion,  save  the  flash  of  azure  wing 
Wheeling  where  the  Hanging  Gardens  stood. 
All  dungeons  open  to  the  sky;  no  hidden  thing 
Left  secret;  no  sepulchre  retains  its  golden  hood. 
O  Babylon,  I  never  dreamed  your  fall  so  great 
Until  I  stood  beside  the  Ishtar  Gate! 


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LKecipes  c/rom  the  (bamoan    1 1  iission 

Suhmitted  by  Rita  H.  Stone 

Baked  Fish  In  Coconut  Cream 

4  fillets  of  any  white  fish  or  i  chopped  onion 

1  No.  1  can  red  salmon  salt  and  pepper  to  taste 

pe'epe'e  (coconut  cream) 

Place  fish  in  a  sliallow  baking  dish,  cover  with  chopped  onion.  Salt  and  pepper  to 
taste  and  cover  with  pe'epe'e.  Bake  in  moderate  oven  for  one-half  hour  or  until  set 
and  nicely  browned. 

Cocoa  Rice 

1  c.  rice  2  tbsp.  cocoa 

3  qts.  water  1  c.  pe'epe'e 

sugar  to  taste 

Thoroughly  wash  the  rice  and  drain.  Boil  the  rice  in  the  water  until  soft,  and 
add  cocoa  mixed  with  a  small  amount  of  water  and  sugar.  Just  before  serving,  add  the 
pe'epe'e.    This  is  very  good  for  a  breakfast  dish. 

Palusami 

taro  leaves  pe'epe'e 

small  amount  of  chopped  onion  1    12-oz.  can  corn  beef  (if  desired) 

Cook  tender  taro  leaves  for  ten  minutes  in  boiling  water  and  drain  well.  Place 
the  leaves  in  baking  dish  with  a  little  chopped  onion  and  cover  with  pe'epe'e.  Place  in 
moderate  oven  until  set  or  thickened.     Corn  beef  may  be  added  for  variety. 

Young  taro  leaves  are  one  of  the  best  Samoan  greens  and  pro\'ide  a  good  source 
of  vitamins.  This  is  a  very  common  way  of  serving  taro  leaves.  However,  spinach 
leaves  and  Swiss  chard  can  be  used. 

Banana  Poi 

8  ripe  bananas  leaves  from  orange 

1   c.  pe'epe'e  or  lemon  tree 

Mash  bananas  into  a  pulp  and  add  the  pe'epe'e.  If  leaves  from  an  orange  or 
lemon  tree  arc  available,  put  a  few  of  them  in  also  for  added  flavor. 


Salaki 

4  papayas  1   fresh   pineapple  or 

8  ripe  bananas  1   No.  2  can  crushed  pineapple 

1  c.  pe'epe'e 

Cut  papa}'n  and  bananas  into  small  pieces.  Peel  and  grate  the  fresh  pineapple. 
(1  No.  2  can  of  cruslied  piiicap])le  may  be  used  in  place  of  the  fresh  one.)  Combine 
together  with  pe'epe'e  and  a  few  ice  cubes.     A  very  good  dessert. 

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RECIPES  FROM  THE  SAMOAN  MISSION  375 

Coconut  Balls 

10  ruskets  (biscuits)  i  can  condensed  milk 

2  tbsp.  cocoa  sweeten  to  taste 

/4  c.  raisins  coconut  as  needed 

Vt  c.  chopped  nuts 

Mix  together  the  crushed  ruskets,  the  nuts,  cocoa,  raisins,  and  the  milk,  and  press 
into  little  balls.    Then  roll  them  in  the  coconut  and  leave  to  set.    Do  not  bake. 


Coconut  Biscuits 

Vi   c.  butter  3  c.  flour 

2  c.  sugar  3  tsp.  baking  powder 

3  c.  fresh  grated  coconut  2  tbsp.  karo  syrup 

(not  dried  or  processed) 

Cream  the  butter  and  sugar.  Add  the  syrup  and  beat  well.  Stir  in  coconut  and 
gradually  add  the  flour  and  baking  powder.  If  the  coconut  seems  very  moist,  a  little 
more  flour  may  be  added.  Place  spoonfuls  of  dough  on  a  greased  cooky  sheet  and  bake 
in  a  moderate  oven. 


Raw  Fish  and  Pe'epe'e 

Cut  any  boneless  white  fish  in  small  pieces.  Cover  with  lemon  juice  and  set  for 
three  hours.  Drain  well.  Cover  with  pe'epe'e  and  a  little  chopped  onion,  and  let  it 
stand  for  a  few  minutes  and  then  serve.  Excellent  for  a  buffet  supper  or  as  an  hors 
d'oeuvre. 

Note:  Pe'epe'e  is  the  Samoan  name  for  coconut  cream  and  is  used  often  in  the 
preparation  of  food.  It  is  prepared  by  grating  the  coconut  meat  and  straining  the 
cream  from  the  pulp. 


ilLother   and    i^hud 

Enoh  Chamheilin 

When  she  is  well  and  filled  with  joy 
She  races  in  ecstasy. 
Giving  to  others  love  and  smiles 
As  much  as  she  gives  to  me. 

And  yet  when  the  little  heart  is  hurt. 
And  pain  swells  the  small  skinned  knee. 
She  eagerly  runs  to  my  open  arms 
And  snuggles  down  to  me. 


uielp    Ljourself  to  uiappiness 

Fmnces  C.  Yost 


TIME  was,  when  I  had  moods,  philanthropists  with  money,  but  we 

Sad  days  would  come  along,  can  all  be  generous  of  ourselves.  In 

and  I  could  not  lay  my  finger  my  little  way  I  started  doing,  like  a 

on  the  reason.     Moodily,   I  would  boy  scout,  a  good  turn  daily.    I  try 

get  to  feeling  that  nobody  liked  me,  to  give  of  my  substance,  although 

and  I  brooded  about  it.    Then  one  I   have   found   people   are   literally 

day  I  changed  my  whole  way  of  liv-  starved  for  attention,  compliments, 

ing.     I  found  how  to  help  myself  praise,     and     encouragement,    and 

to  happiness.  these  things  cost  nothing. 

There  were  things  I  decided  to  3.  Be    a    good   listener.     When 

incorporate  into  my  life  to  make  it  someone  speaks,  I  try  to  listen  with 

full  and  meaningful.     Could  I  do  the  eyes  and  with  the  mind,  and 

these   extra   things    in   addition    to  concentrate  on  what  is  being  said, 

my   already  heavy  load?     It   takes  whether  it  is  a  child  or  adult  speak- 

time  to  be  a  mother  to  four,  house-  ing.     If,  for  some  reason  there  is 

keeper  to  nine  rooms,  gardener  to  an    interruption,    as    soon    as    pos- 

lawn,    flowers,    garden,    and    straw-  sible  I  say:     'Tou  were  telling  us 

berry  patch,  and  to  serve  commu-  about.    .    .    ."     The   informer  will 

nity  and  Church.  Although  my  days  never  forget  your  kindness,  and  will 

seemed  steeped  with  work,  I  could  remember  you   as   a   good   conver- 

not  strike  one  item  from  my  list.  sationalist. 

*Tou  will  need  more  hours  in  a  4.  Read  something  of  lasting  value 

day  to  accomplish  what  you  have  each  day.    There  is  so  much  of  good 

outlined,"  I  told  myself.    Then  my  reading  in  the  world,  scriptures,  his- 

better  self  replied:  "I  shall  find  time  tory,    biography,    poetry,    to    name 

for  these  things  that  really  count."  but  a  few.    Choose  something,  even 

I  pass  along  my  guide  for  living  if  you  have  to  do  snatch  reading, 

in  the  hopes  that  you,  too,  can  help  for    even    an    artesian    well    needs 

yourself  to  happiness:  priming  occasionally. 

1.  Do  an  unpleasant  or  neglected  5.  Do  something  in  a  musical 
job.  Time  was  when  I  would  dread  way.  Everyone  can  enjoy  music, 
cleaning  out  a  drawer,  the  basement,  It  was  Congreve  in  The  Mourning 
or  typing  a  funeral  service  for  some-  Bride,  who  said:  ''Music  hath 
one.  I  was  the  world's  worst  pro-  charms  to  soothe  the  savage  breast." 
crastinator.  Now,  I  never  dwell  on  It  is  true  that  music  lifts  the  soul  as 
a  task  at  hand,  I  just  surprise  my-  nothing  else  will.  As  a  child  I 
self  by  doing  one.  It  is  surprising  longed  for  a  piano  and  lessons.  Now 
how  dreaded  tasks  get  behind  one  I  am  grown  I  play  each  day  for  my 
when  one  a  day  is  done.  own     entertainment.     The     music 

2.  Do  at  least  one  kind  deed  a  day  that  was  hard  to  play  last  week  is 
for  someone.     Few  of  us  can  be  much  easier  this.     No  one  is  too 

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HELP  YOURSELF  TO  HAPPINESS 


377 


old  to  begin  learning  music.  If 
no  instrument  is  at  hand,  the  dish- 
pan  is  a  lovely  accompaniment  for 
your  own  voice,  and  there  is  also 
radio  or  phonograph  music  to  en- 
joy. 

6.  Do  something  to  beautify.  This 
can  entail  a  lot  of  time,  or  be  as 
simple  as  pulling  a  weed,  picking 
up  a  gum  wrapper,  setting  a  lawn 
sprinkler,  or  making  tiebacks  for 
the  kitchen  curtains. 

7.  Do  something  creative,  some- 
thing lasting.  Someone  has  said,  a 
woman's  work  is  never  done.  True, 
she  cleans,  cooks,  washes,  and  irons, 
and  does  those  same  tasks  over  and 
over,  but  you  can  save  time  for  cre- 
ating a  little  sewing,  crocheting,  em- 
broidering, or,  if  you  are  gifted, 
each  day  you  may  work  on  a  poem, 
or  a  painting.  Keats  wrote:  ''A 
thing  of  beauty  is  a  joy  forever." 

8.  Look  up  and  out.  Too  many 
of  us  get  in  the  habit  of  going 
around  looking  at  our  shoes.  The 
beauty  of  the  universe  escapes  us. 
Arise  early  enough  to  enjoy  the 
sunrise  occasionally,  or  watch  the 
sunset,  because  they  never  happen 
exactly  the  same.  Take  time  to 
watch  the  changing  patterns  of  the 
clouds.  An  artist  friend  has  seen 
the  same  bear-shaped  cloud  a  num- 
ber of  times,  and  she  watches  eager- 
ly for  this  facsimile.  Look  as  far 
as  the  eye  can  reach. 

9.  Enjoy  God's  greatest  creation, 
humanity.  Each  of  us  can  find 
that  people  are  interesting.  Someone 
has  said  if  you  want  to  grow,  as- 
sociate with  older  people  while 
young,  and  younger  people  when 
you  are  old.    But  each  day  enjoy  all 


people.  It  was  Lincoln  who  said, 
''.  .  .  the  Lord  prefers  common- 
looking  people.  That  is  the  reason 
he  makes  so  many  of  them."  So, 
enjoy  the  imagery  of  little  persons 
and  the  wisdom  of  the  aged. 

10.  Be  a  real  helpmate.  If  you 
have  given  yourself  in  marriage,  re- 
member to  give  of  yourself.  Be 
your  best  for  that  certain  someone. 
Freshen  up  for  him  before  the  day 
starts,  and  make  your  voice,  your 
smile,  your  personality  sparkle  for 
him  all  day.  Try  to  do  something 
special  to  please  him,  like  making 
a  batch  of  his  favorite  cookies  or 
cake.  A  man's  heart  is  very  close 
to  his  stomach.  So  be  a  helpmate 
as  God  intended  a  wife  should  be. 

11.  Review  the  most  beautiful 
experience  of  the  day.  When  day 
is  finished  and  you  find  yourself 
between  cool  white  sheets,  pick 
from  your  day  a  beautiful  memory. 
All  the  cares  and  troubles  of  the  day 
may  pass  into  oblivion  as  you  dwell 
on  this  happy  memory.  It  need 
not  be  a  big  event,  little  things  are 
beautiful  too.  Whatever  it  be,  let 
the  memory  of  it  be  your  last 
thought,  as  you  drift  off  to  slumber. 
Pleasant  memories  will  bring  pleas- 
ant expressions  to  a  time-etched 
face. 

Those  are  some  of  my  guides  to 
living.  Some  of  them  take  very 
little  time.  They  fit  into  the  regu- 
lar doing  of  most  any  day.  When 
too  much  time  is  spent  on  one,  sev- 
eral others  will  work  in,  in  almost 
no  time  at  all,  to  compensate.  I 
find  that  one  often  helps  another. 

I  pass  them  along  to  you,  in  the 
hopes  that  from  them  you,  too,  may 
help  yourself  to  happiness! 


Jd.    iiursery    vi/iU  uje    1 1  iaintained 

Edna  H.  Day 


ALMOST  always  when  a  news- 
paper carries  the  announce- 
ment of  a  Rehef  Society 
meeting  in  our  locahty,  this  phrase 
appears:  A  nursery  will  he  main- 
tained. The  nature  of  the  meetmg 
varies :  work,  theology,  social  science, 
or  literature,  but  the  nursery  an- 
nouncement is  constant. 

This  helpful  nursery  service  which 
the  organization  provides  for  its 
members  enables  young  mothers  to 
participate  in  the  wonderful  lessons 
which  Relief  Society  affords.  They 
can  relax  and  pass  on  to  a  com- 
petent and  interested  person  the 
responsibility  of  caring  for  their 
little  ones  while  they  give  full  at- 
tention to  the  lessons  being  pre- 
sented. 

''A  competent  and  interested  per- 
son?" I  did  not  know  what  to  call 
the  women  who  preside  over  our 
nurseries  until  the  children  them- 
selves solved  the  problem  very  well 
by  giving  the  nursery  supervisor  the 
dignified  and  complimentary  title 
of  ''teacher.'' 

Usually  the  Junior  Sunday  School 
and  the  Primary  nursery  classes 
have  been  the  first  to  teach  the 
children  reverence  and  group  par- 
ticipation, but  often  the  first  con- 
tact a  child  has  with  a  Church 
organization  is  in  the  Relief  Society 
nursery.  Besides  teaching  rever- 
ence, nurseries  introduce  the  chil- 
dren to  the  idea  of  sharing  and 
getting  along  with  others,  and 
participating  in  games  and  other 
group  activities. 

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A  box  of  toys  is  usually  provided 
by  the  organization,  but  good  nurs- 
ery teachers  bring  additional  ma- 
terial which  will  interest  and  amuse 
the  children  as  well  as  instruct  them. 
Toddlers  are  satisfied  with  toys,  but 
the  older  children  get  tired  of  play- 
ing with  toys.  They  love  to  have 
supervised  creative  activities,  such 
as  cutting  and  pasting  pictures  from 
catalogues  and  magazines  in  self- 
made  scratch  paper  booklets,  and 
painting  pictures  torn  from  coloring 
books;  they  enjoy  writing  on  the 
classroom  blackboards  and  placing 
pictures  on  flannel  boards;  they 
think  it  is  fun  to  make  chains  from 
colored  paper;  they  like  to  make 
posters;  and  they  enjoy  modeling 
clay. 

With  most  of  these  activities  the 
supervisor  needs  four  eyes  and  six 
hands,  because  paste,  modeling 
clay,  and  crayons  taste  good  to  tod- 
dlers, and  even  blunt  pointed  scis- 
sors can  be  hazardous. 

The  answer  is  not  to  deprive  the 
older  children  of  the  pleasure  these 
creative  pastimes  afford,  but  to 
safeguard  the  toddlers  from  harm. 
A  table  for  the  older  children  is  the 
best  answer,  but  a  chair  partition 
placed  across  the  center  of  the  room 
serves  very  well,  and  the  chairs  may 
be  used  as  tables  when  the  older 
children  kneel  by  them. 

Finger  plays  and  action  songs 
amuse  very  young  boys  and  girls  as 
well  as  older  children.  Mothers  are 
often  amazed  when  toddlers  go 
through  the  motions  of  ''Heads  and 


A  NURSERY  WILL  BE  MAINTAINED 


379 


shoulders,  knees  and  toes."  Pro- 
grams are  always  fun,  especially  if 
the  teacher  has  a  fund  of  nursery 
rhymes  to  help  the  backward  chil- 
dren so  that  all  can  participate.  Tel- 
evision shows  can  be  staged  with 
an  ordinary  box  without  the  bottom 
and  top. 

Oddly  enough,  the  children  never 
refer  to  the  room  they  occupy  as 
the  ''Nursery."  It,  too,  is  Relief 
Society.  'Teacher,"  they  say,  "I 
had  to  stay  home  from  Relief  So- 
ciety last  week  because  my  little 
brother  was  sick  and  mother  had  to 
take  care  of  him." 

Have  you  ever  wondered  how 
many  times  the  children  bring  the 
mothers  to  Relief  Society  where  a 
good  nursery  is  provided?  You 
might  be  surprised. 

Last  month  our  local  paper  ran  a 
full  page  spread  of  pictured  activi- 
ties in  which  Relief  Society  sisters 
were  shown  carrying  out  various 
projects:  quilting,  preparing  for 
bazaars,  presenting  lessons  and— 
guess  what!  One  ward  in  our  stake 
chose  to  feature  a  nursery  full  of 


children,  with  a  supervisor  as  the 
only  grownup  shown.  The  attend- 
ance of  children  in  that  ward  is 
usually  more  than  twenty-five  for  an 
ordinary  meeting,  and  as  many  as 
seventy  for  special  affairs,  such  as 
the  opening  social. 

About  a  year  ago  the  same  ward 
asked  one  of  the  supervisors  to  pre- 
pare and  read  an  original  poem  for 
the  mothers  as  part  of  a  program. 
She  said: 

Grandmother  Pro  Tem 

The  little  ones  entrusted  to  my  care 
I  substitute  for  children  of  my  own; 
And  see  in  fairy  forms  and  gleaming  hair 
Images  of  my  offspring  long  since  grown. 
I  thrill  when  tiny  hands  slip  into  mine, 
(Not  questioning  my  scant  ability); 
But  say,  with  happy  smile  and  eyes  that 

shine, 
"Please,  teacher,  come  and  write  a  duck 

for  me." 
Sometimes,  with  books  we  set  our  fancies 

free, 
Or  sing,  or  build  a  block  tower  very  high; 
And  all  of  us  are  happy,  for  you  see 
I  seem  to  feel  a  grandchild  standing  by. 
I  treasure   these  wee  ones  you've  loaned 

to  me. 
Be  sure  that  I  shall  treat  them  tenderly. 


Jt    vl/oman  s    LJears 

Elsie  McKinnon  Strachan 

Cookies  and  milk,  a  story  read, 
Nightgowns  placed  on  a  turned-down  bed. 

Small  hands  of  trust,  love-halted  tears, 
Bright  banners  these,  of  a  woman's  years. 

The  music  of  snow  sleds,  of  summer's  stream, 
Teaching  reality,  sharing  the  dream; 

A  son's  tall  strength,  a  bridal  dress. 
These  make  a  woman's  happiness. 


And  on  the  mind's  deep-rooted  tree, 
They  leaf  again  in  memory. 


n Lama  s  L^oomng 

Chiistie  Lund  Coles 


I  heard  a  young  man  say,  recently, 
''We  kids  may  not  have  had 
money  for  every  change  of 
show,  but  we  always  sat  down  to  a 
table  of  really  luscious  food." 

I  knew  his  mother,  and  I  knew 
by  the  look  in  his  eyes  that  the 
food  really  had  been  something 
special,  something  to  remember. 

I  remember  Mama's  cooking  as 
something  special,  too.  Don't  you, 
too,  carry  such  a  memory? 

Maybe  what  made  it  so  special 
was  Mama  herself,  just  the  way  she 
looked  and  moved;  and  tasted,  and 
blended  the  food;  and  the  warmth 
and  coziness  of  the  large,  old-fash- 
ioned kitchen  with  its  smells  and 
wonderful  aromas,  and  steam  on  the 
windows;  and  the  sight  of  the  food 
being  carried  to  the  golden-oak  din- 
ing table.  Hm!!!  It  makes  my 
mouth  water  yet. 

It  is  strange,  though,  that  the 
food  I  remember  best,  was  not  the 
fancy  food,  pics,  cakes,  and  pud- 
dings, but  rather  the  more  simple, 
nourishing  kind  —  which,  after  all, 
was  what  we  ate  when  we  were  most 
hungry. 

I  remember  on  wash  day,  how  we 
nearly  always  had  scalloped  potatoes, 
because  they  could  be  put  in  the 
oven  and  not  interfere  with  the  tub 
of  water  boiling  on  top  of  the  coal 
stove.  They  were  not  ordinary  scal- 
loped potatoes,  mind  you.  They 
were  special,  made  with  rich,  coun- 
try milk  and  large  slices  of  fresh 
side  pork,  or  home-cured  bacon 
(from  a  neighbor's  recent  kill)  on 
top.  In  the  oven  also  were  large 
slabs  of  Hubbard  squash.     Funny, 

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my  fancy  gas  range  doesn't  seem 
able  to  make  squash  bake  the  same. 
Not  a  bit  the  same. 

In  the  summer,  I  recall  we  had 
raspberries  and  strawberries  growing 
in  our  garden.  Before  them,  we  had 
tall,  softly  pink  stalks  of  rhubarb. 
My  mouth  puckers  at  the  thought 
of  how  we  used  to  break  off  a  piece 
and  eat  it  raw.  Yet,  I  remember  best, 
how  Mama  would  cook  either  the 
rhubarb  or  strawberries  or  raspber- 
ries, strain  them  and  thicken  the 
juice  with  either  cornstarch  or  tapi- 
oca, and  serve  with  whipped  cream. 
She  called  it  ''red  mush"  (the  Dan- 
ish name)  but  by  whatever  name,  it 
was  a  dish. 

Of  course,  there  was  the  inevi- 
table chicken  soup.  And  nobody, 
but  nobody  could  make  Danish 
dumplings  to  taste  like  hers.  They 
were  not  a  fluffy,  large,  floury  dump- 
ling. But,  rather  small,  and  some- 
what firm,  made  with  lots  of  eggs 
and  shortening,  (butter,  that  is) 
and  boiling  water.  I  can  tell  you 
how,  but  I  can't  guarantee  they  will 
taste  the  same  .  . .  though  even  mine 
are  something. 

First,  she  would  take  one-half  cup 
butter  (or  margerine),  one  half 
teaspoon  salt,  and  one  cup  of  water. 
This,  she  would  heat  to  boiling 
while  she  was  sifting  and  measur- 
ing one  cup  of  flour.  When  the 
water  had  reached  a  rolling  boil  she 
would  add  the  flour  at  once  stirring 
swiftly  (preferably  with  a  wooden 
spoon)  until  the  mixture  left  the 
sides  of  the  pan  and  did  not  cling 
to  the  spoon.  Wlien  this  dough 
was  slightly  cooled  she  would  break 


MAMA'S  COOKING 


381 


three  eggs  (one  at  a  time)  into  the 
dough.  Each  egg  was  stirred  vigor- 
ously into  the  mixture  before  the 
other  one  was  added.  Then  the 
dough  was  dropped  a  teaspoonful  at 
a  time  into  the  boihng  soup,  the 
hd  was  put  on  the  kettle  for  ten 
minutes,  and  .  .  .  well,  I  just  can't 
tell  you,  you'll  have  to  try  it. 

Another  thing  we  liked,  was  to 
cook  these  same  dumplings  in  boil- 
ing milk  and  eat  them  with  sugar 
and  cinnamon. 

Enough  about  dumplings.  Or  is 
it?  I  can  distinctly  taste  the  meat 
dumplings  she  used  to  cook  with 
boiled  celer\'.  She  would  take  one 
half  pound  of  ground  beef  and  one 
half  pound  pork  sausage,  season  with 
allspice,  salt,  pepper,  a  bit  of  onion, 
and  drop  with  a  spoon  into  celery 
that  had  been  cut  up  and  boiled 
for  ten  or  fifteen  minutes.  She 
would  thicken  the  water  in  which 
the  meat  had  been  added  and 
cooked,  and  serve  piping  hot. 

This  same  meat  preparation  she 
would  use  to  stuff  a  large,  scooped- 
out  head  of  cabbage,  or  scooped- 
out  large  onions.  The  tops  were 
kept  and  tied  on  after  the  meat  was 
put  in,  and  the  vegetables  allowed 
to  boil  until  tender.  Then,  water 
which  had  cooked  down,  was  thick- 
ened and  used  for  a  gravy. 

And  I  might  say,  good  gravy, 
when  do  we  eat? 

But  I  can't  go  and  see  until  I 
have  told  you  about  my  very  favorite 
dish  of  all.  Sweet  soup.  And  don't 
let  the  name  frighten  you.  It  has 
nothing  to  do  with  soup  as  such. 

Mother  would  cook  prunes  and 
raisins  in  about  a  quart  of  water  un- 
til tender,  thicken  the  mixture 
slightly  with  tapioca,  then  add  two 


or  three  lightly  beaten,  sweetened 
eggs  just  as  it  was  ready  to  be  taken 
from  the  fire. 

A  stick  of  cinnamon  added  at  the 
beginning  added  just  the  super  flav- 
or. Sometimes,  she  would  add  fruit 
juice  and  canned  cherries,  raspber- 
ries, or  strawberries  instead  of  the 
eggs,  but  the  former  was  my  favor- 
ite. It  was  a  must  when  there  was 
illness  or  convalescence. 

I  remember  the  spareribs  she 
cooked  with  prunes  and  apples,  the 
''head  cheese"  made  from  the  meat 
of  a  pig's  head  (sounds  unappetiz- 
ing, but  you  should  live  so  long  as 
to  taste  it),  the  homemade  stuffed 
sausages,  the  liver  loaf;  the  pressed 
veal  roll,  which  took  days  and  days 
to  flavor  in  a  salt  brine  with  leaves 
of  thyme  and  bay,  and  more  days  to 
press  into  a  firm  roll  that  was  sliced 
on  homemade  bread,  and  what  the 
thought  of  that  does  to  my  taste 
buds! 

And  I  must  tell  you  about  her 
sour-and-sweet  red  cabbage  that 
practically  made  Christmas  dinner 
with  its  goose  or  its  turkey.  Yet, 
it  is  so  simple  we  should  have  it 
often.  She  would  shred  a  head  of 
red  cabbage,  boil  it  in  water,  add 
several  tablespoonfuls  of  vinegar,  a 
half  cup  of  sugar,  and  a  bit  of  but- 
ter. And  speaking  of  sour-and-sweet 
things,  there  was  the  sour  and  sweet 
gravy  she  made  for  boiled  or 
steamed  halibut,  but  we  won't  go 
into  that.    I  feel  hunger  pains. 

How  thankful  I  am  for  the  food 
that  so  often  satisfied  those  pangs, 
and  for  the  memory  of  that  food 
and  the  blessed  hands  that  prepared 
it. 

There  was  just  nothing  quite  like 
Mom's  cooking.  And  there  still  is 
not. 


The  Patchwork  Quilt 

Elizabeth  Cannon  McChnnnon 


4  4  i^^H.  dear,  I'm  afraid  Grandma 
I      I  is  going  to  give  us  a  patch- 
work   quilt    for    our    wed- 
dingl"  \'ida  confided  to  her  Aunt 
Rose. 

To  avoid  the  usual  conglomera- 
tion of  presents,,  \^ida  had  seen  that 
her  friends  learned  of  her  selected 
patterns  of  siher,  chma.  potterv.  and 
sterling.  If  guests  couldn't  afford 
a  spoon,  thev  could  send  a  potterv 
dish.  That  shouldn't  work  a  hard- 
ship on  anybodv,  \^ida  had  decided. 

Alreadv  Aunt  Rose  knew  of  some 
insurrection.  Uncle  George  had 
selected  an  enormous  kitchen  clock, 
shaped  like  a  sunflower,  "So  Jack 
can  get  to  work  on  time."  Rose 
herself  had  purchased  a  wall  can 
opener,  accompanied  bv  a  book 
Two  Hundred  and  FifhSeven  Ways 
to  Prepare  Canned  Foods.  She  dis- 
trusted her  niece's  cooking  abilit}-. 
^^'ith  all  the  present-day  acti\ities 
of  voung  people,  cooking,  somehow, 
seemed  relegated  to  the  background. 

"You  don't  mean  to  say  Mother 
is  giving  vou  the  double-wedding- 
ring  quilt?  I  always  knew  she  fav- 
ored vou,  but  I  didn't  think  anyone 
would  get  thati  It's  her  most  cher- 
ished possession.  The  historv  of 
the  whole  family  is  sewed  up  in  it." 

"WTiat  do  you  mean?''  \^ida  asked 
curiously. 

''The  wool  bats  are  from  Uncle 
Fred's  sheepherd.  \\'ith  all  these 
new  svnthetic  materials,  they  say 
that  sheep,  like  horses,  are  on  the 
vsav  out.  But,  to  mv  wav  of  think- 
ing, there  is  nothing  like  a  good 
wool  filling  for  warmth.'' 


"That  delphinium  blue  it  is  lined 
with  is  a  lo\ely  color,"  \^ida  ad- 
mitted. 

"Do  you  know  what  that  is?  It's 
raw  silk  from  China  that  Maud 
purchased  in  Honolulu.  She  brought 
it  as  a  present  to  Mother  when  she 
made  the  trip  to  Hawaii  on  the 
Lurline." 

"And  Grandma  put  it  in  the 
quilt!" 

"The  double-svedding-ring  is  a 
beautiful  idea.  Man\-  men  nowa- 
davs  wear  a  wedding  ring  on  their 
left  hands  to  indicate  that  thev  are 
married.  The  pattern  was  brought 
into  our  familv  b\-  Great-Great- 
Grandmother  Paul  when  she  walked 
across  the  plains  before  the  railroad 
came  to  Salt  Lake.  One  Scotch 
plaid  piece  of  cloth  actualh-  is  from 
a  dress  that  belonged  to  her  little 
girl,  Annie,  \\ho  died  and  was  buried 
by  the  side  of  the  road." 

"Honestlv!'' 

'"Yes,  and  it's  the  tartan  of  our 
ancestors  in  Scotland.'' 

'A\Tiat  about  the  Irish  side  of 
the  house?"  Bv  now  \*ida  was  re- 
gretting her  former  feeling. 

"I  guess  the  bits  of  green  are  from 
the  Emerald  Isle,"  Aunt  Rose 
vouchsafed,  with  a  t\\inkle  in  her 
eye. 

"We'll  appreciate  the  quilt  now, 
if  we  are  lucky  enough  to  get  it," 
\'ida  confessed.  "You  must  show 
us  the  pieces  and  tell  us  their  his- 
tory." 

"The  most  precious  things  to 
me,"  said  Aunt  Rose,  tears  coming 
into  her  eves,  "are  the  manv  hours 


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and  the  tinv  stitches  Mother  put  bride's  home,  in  a  tropical  setting 

into  it,  to  say  nothing  of  the  fine  of  hibiscus,  bougainvillaea,  camellias, 

co-operative  project  the  ward  Relief  and  fuchsias.    The  ushers,  in  white 

Society  members  made  of  quilting  coats,  led  guests  to  the  bridal  couple, 

it."  their  parents,  and  attendants.  Japa- 

******  nese  lanterns  lent  an  exotic  atmos- 

The  young  people  were  married  phere,    while     a     string     orchestra 

on  a  spring-like  day  in  early  summer  played  sweet  music, 

in  the  beautiful  new  Los  Angeles  In  the  glassed-in  lanai,  the  wed- 

Temple.    After  the  ceremony,  they  ding  gifts  were  displayed.  Dominat- 

sped  home  to  a  family  dinner.  This  ing    the    scene    and    spreading    its 

was  followed  in  the  evening  by  a  ample  folds  in  the  place  of  honor, 

garden  reception  in  the  patio  of  the  was  Grandma's  patchwork  quilt. 


cJhis  cJ-s    I /ill   uJuuding 


Maud  H.  Fullmer 

AS  I  enter  The  Relief  Society  Building,  I  am  not  so  conscious  of  the  sturdiness  of 
construction,  the  beauty  of  line  or  the  blending  of  colors,  as  I  am  of  the  spirit  of 
the  building — the  years  of  prayer,  thought,  longing,  and  work  for  just  such  a  place.  Not 
only  do  I  sense  a  feeling  of  awe  and  re\erence,  but  also  a  sense  of  ownership  and  be- 
longing. 

Many  times  I  sit  in  the  lounge  and  read  the  words  of  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 
inscribed  on  the  plaque: 

"You  will  recei\e  instructions  through  the  order  of  the  Priesthood  which  God  has 
established,  through  the  medium  of  those  appointed  to  lead,  guide,  and  direct  the  affairs 
of  the  Church  in  this  last  dispensation; 

"And  I  now  turn  the  key  in  your  behalf  in  the  name  of  the  Lord,  and  this  Society 
shall  rejoice,  and  knowledge  and  intelligence  shall  flow  down  from  this  time  henceforth; 

"This  is  the  beginning  of  better  days  to  the  poor  and  needy,  who  shall  be  made  to 
rejoice  and  pour  forth  blessings  on  your  heads"  (D.H.C.,  IV,  page  607). 

Then  it  is  that  I  have  a  song  in  my  heart  which  repeats  over  and  over  again — 
This  is  M}'  Building. 

I  like  to  think  that  the  courage,  stamina,  hopes,  and  dreams  of  the  past  leaders  of 
Relief  Societ)'  are  incorporated  in  the  spirit  of  the  building  and  that  Emma  Smith, 
Eliza  R.  Snow,  Zina  D,  H.  Young,  and  the  others  w^ho  have  gone  on  are  pleased  and 
happy  with  what  we  are  doing,  I  am  sure  the  work,  prayers,  aspirations,  and  dreams 
of  the  present  valiant  leaders  are  also  becoming  a  part  of  the  spirit  of  the  building. 

I  picture  the  women  in  all  parts  of  the  world  who  may  never  have  an  opportunity 
to  see  the  building,  that  as  they  sit  around  their  heating  stoves,  gather  in  their  meetings 
in  the  cold  countries;  and  the  other  dear  sisters  in  the  hot  countries  who  sit  under  the 
shade  of  the  trees  during  the  heat  of  the  day  talking  about  the  building,  looking  at 
the  pictures  and  listening  to  the  missionaries  as  they  describe  the  beauties  and  func- 
tions of  our  building,  that  they,  too,  may  feel  that — This  Is  Afy  Building. 

And  so  I  dream  of  the  future  and  vision  my  daughters,  my  granddaughters,  and 
great-granddaughters  down  through  many  generations  as  they  work  in  Relief  Society 
with  unshakeable  faith;  charity  in  their  hearts  and  always  with  the  light  of  hope  in 
their  windows,  that  they  too  may  hear  that  same  beautiful  refrain — This  Is  My  Building 
— This  Is  My  Building. 


llLother  uiad  Seven   Q^lrls 
Jennie  Brown  Rawlins 


AS  I  switched  on  my  automatic 
washer  the  other  day  I 
couldn't  help  thinking  what 
a  pity  it  was  that  Mother  hadn't 
had  a  few  of  the  modern  con- 
veniences when  she  was  rearing  her 
family  of  seven  girls.  Then,  in  ret- 
rospect, I  went  back  to  those  old 
washdays,  but  contrarily,  the  pic- 
ture my  mind  conjured  up  was  not 
unpleasant.  I  could  see  the  wash- 
er, with  the  copper  bands  and  wood- 
en tub,  which  was  Mother's  pride 
and  joy  after  years  of  scrubbing 
clothes  on  the  board.  True,  it  had 
had  to  be  turned  by  hand,  but  there 
was  always  one  to  turn  the  washer 
and  one  to  turn  the  wringer.  We 
used  to  sing  as  we  turned,  ''Swing- 
ing, swinging,  lulling  cares  to  rest 
'neath  the  old  apple  tree."  (I  used 
to  wonder  about  lulling,  and  why 
she  cared  to  rest),  or  read  Ann  oi 
Green  Gables. 

Occasionally,  Mother,  flushed  and 
damp,  would  emerge  from  the 
kitchen  carrying  pans  of  steaming 
clothes  or  buckets  of  boiling  suds. 
There  were  two  to  hang  the  sweet- 
smelling  clothes  on  the  long  lines, 
rows  of  whites,  fresh  and  snowy 
from  being  boiled  in  homemade 
soap  and  lye-water,  and  dozens  of 
gaily  colored  dresses  hung  in  gradu- 
ated sizes. 

The  next  day,  there  was  the  big 
fruit-basket  filled  to  overflowing 
with  tightly  rolled  and  dampened 
pieces.  The  stove  glowed  red,  the 
irons  were  sizzling  hot,  and  the 
house  was  filled  with  the  fragrance 
of    freshly    ironed    clothes,    mixed 

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occasionally  with  the  faint  scent  of 
scorch,  for  Mabel  usually  lingered 
too  long  on  a  ruffle.  We  used  to 
take  turns  at  the  irons,  the  older 
ones  doing  the  more  difficult  pieces. 
Lois,  the  youngest,  was  permitted 
to  iron  only  the  handkerchiefs  and 
pillow  slips — much  to  her  annoy- 
ance. It  was  a  mark  of  honor  to  be 
allowed  to  iron  one  of  Father's  white 
shirts,  the  collar  and  cuffs  cold- 
starched  to  cardboard  stiffness;  and 
a  lace-trimmed  flounce  ironed  silk- 
en smooth  was  a  thing  to  stir  one's 
pride— almost  a  work  of  art. 

On  a  brisk  Saturday  morning 
what  a  stir  we  made— what  scrub- 
bing, shining,  polishing,  sweeping, 
dusting,  and  airing.  There  were 
two  for  the  upstairs,  one  for  the 
parlor,  one  for  the  kitchen,  and  one 
for  the  screened-in  back  porch  and 
storeroom.  Lois  stood  on  a  chair 
and  washed  dishes,  being  very  care- 
ful with  the  hand-painted  china 
that  mother  indulgently  permitted 
her  to  wash.  We  rotated,  and  the 
one  who  got  the  parlor  was  always 
considered  the  lucky  one,  for  she 
could  dust  the  sea  shells,  cut  glass, 
and  other  interesting  things  that 
were  in  the  china  cupboard. 

When  we  got  through,  how  the 
old  house  sparkled  and  seemed  to 
emanate  a  warm  and  friendly  homi- 
ness.  The  beds  looked  fresh  and 
inviting,  with  their  plump  straw 
ticks  and  smooth  snowy  cases;  the 
old  stove  shone  like  polished 
ebony;  and  the  upright  piano  in  the 
parlor  (with  Mother  and  Father's 
wedding  picture  set  at  just  the  right 


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385 


angle  atop  it)  glowed  in  all  its 
ornate  beauty.  Then  Father's  suit 
must  be  pressed  until  the  creases 
were  knife-sharp,  and  shoes  must 
be  shined,  and  more  water  heated 
for  baths. 

In  the  evening,  as  we  sat  in  the 
cozy  kitchen  with  a  fire  crackling  in 
the  stove,  and  the  warm  ruddy  glow 
of  the  lamps  shining  upon  the  faces 
of  those  we  loved,  how  the  old 
house  seemed  to  gather  us  close,  as 
if  it  were  enfolding  us  tenderly  in 
its  arms! 

npHEN  Sunday  —  that  was  a  day 
of  days.  The  whitetop  buggy 
groaned  with  its  weight  of  girls  in 
white  lawn  or  voile  or  embroidery, 
and  Father's  two  hundred  pounds 
and  Mother's  diminutive  one-hun- 
dred-twenty. The  horses  trotted 
briskly  along,  the  ribbons  on  our 
straw  sailors  fluttered  in  the  breeze, 
and  seemed  symbolic  of  our  lightly 
tethered  spirits. 

After  Sunday  School  the  women 
spread  out  quilts  and  placed  red- 
checked  cloths  upon  them,  and 
from  well-stocked  boxes  unloaded 
roast  chicken,  potato  salad,  home- 
cured  ham,  spice  cake,  rhubarb 
pies,  and  currant  jelly.  Then,  after 
all  had  eaten  and  the  tables  were 
cleared,  we  older  girls  gathered  un- 
der the  big  poplar  tree  and  talked 
in  low,  animated  tones,  and  the 
women  sat  on  the  quilts,  tended 
the  younger  children,  visited,  and 
exchanged   recipes. 

The  horses,  their  tugs  loosened, 
grazed  contentedly,  and  the  men 
leaned  up  against  the  buggies  or 
squatted  on  the  grass  (being  very 
careful  of  their  Sunday  trousers) 
and  talked  man-talk.     Father  kept 


them  entertained  with  stories  of  his 
amusing  experiences,  and  though 
the  other  men  chuckled  apprecia- 
tively and  Father's  eyes  twinkled 
and  his  mustache  quivered,  he  nev- 
er laughed  at  his  own  stories.  Once 
in  a  while  the  women  would  stop 
to  listen,  and  when  the  laughter 
got  too  loud.  Mother  would  draw 
her  brows  close  together  in  disap- 
proval, but  all  she  ever  said  was, 
''Now,  John,  remember  it  is  the 
Sabbath." 

Promptly  at  two  the  afternoon 
meeting  began,  after  which,  filled 
with  a  deep,  quiet  peace,  we  made 
our  way  home.  Father  sat  in  the 
driver's  seat  and  mused  contentedly, 
letting  the  lines  droop,  and  the 
horses  sauntered  sleepily  along.  Lois 
drowsed,  her  head  in  Mother's  lap, 
Mabel  finger-pressed  a  pleat  over  a 
hole  in  her  new  voile  dress,  looking 
furtively  about  to  see  if  anyone 
else  had  discovered  it;  and  Mother, 
her  hand  resting  lightly  on  Lois' 
bright  head,  was  happy  knowing 
that  here  was  her  family  about  her, 
all  safe  and  free  from  harm. 

The  rolling  fields,  a  deep  lush 
green  in  the  softened  light,  became 
to  me  the  rolling  waves  of  some  far 
sea,  and  the  gentle  rocking  of  the 
whitetop  became  the  rocking  of  a 
white-sailed  ship.  But  always  and 
always,  instead  of  it  taking  me  to 
faraway,  glamorous  shores,  I  was 
returning  from  those  places  to  bring 
my  treasures  home— home,  not  so 
much  a  tall  white  house  set  in  an 
apple  orchard,  as  a  circle  of  hands 
that  opened  to  draw  me  in. 

Yes,  we  have  many  wonderful 
modern  inventions,  but  let's  not 
make  the  mistake  of  thinking,  even 
for  a  moment,  that  happiness  is  one 
of  them. 


The  Bright  Star 

Chapter  4 
Doiothy  S.  Roniney 


Synopsis:  Kathy  Tracy,  an  orphan,  who 
wishes  to  become  an  artist,  hves  with  her 
Aunt  Emerald  Jewel  Tracy  in  an  old- 
fashioned  house  overlooking  San  Francisco 
Bay.  Kathy  applies  to  a  neighbor,  Phineas 
Fenton,  for  employment;  however.  Aunt 
Em  suffers  a  partial  stroke,  and  Kathy 
gives  up  the  promised  position.  Using 
her  aunt's  illness  as  an  excuse,  Kathy  post- 
pones marriage  to  Jim  Parker.  A  stranger. 
Marc  Hale,  asks  to  rent  the  China  house, 
and  Aunt  Em  agrees. 

ONCE  back  in  the  garden, 
Kathy  found  that  the  exub- 
erance she'd  felt  earlier  had 
left  her.  She  sat  facing  the  hills, 
her  back  against  the  rough  exterior 
of  the  China  house.  She  ought  to 
like  the  new  tenant  of  the  China 
house,  she  told  herself.  The  money 
was  a  life-saver.  But  she  didn't. 
For  one  thing  he  wasn't  young 
enough  to  interest  her.  He  looked 
all  of  thirty-five.  And  his  highhand- 
edness! No,  she  did  not  like  the 
tenant  of  the  China  house. 

As  she  sat  thus  brooding,  Marta's 
son,  who  delivered  papers  about  the 
countryside,  whistled  from  the  road. 
''Hey,  want  a  paper?"  he  called. 
'Tve  got  an  extra  one  today.  Mom 
likes  to  read  the  society  page."  He 
tossed  the  paper  in  Kathy's  direc- 
tion, and  was  off  on  his  bike  again. 
A  daily  paper  was  a  luxury  the  Tracy 
household  could  not  afford. 

Kathy  picked  it  up,  and  began 
brushing  the  loose  dirt  from  it.  A 
small  headline  at  the  bottom  of  the 
folded  paper  darted  out  at  her.  ''Art 
Contest."  She  read  the  item  care- 
fully, excitement  and  interest  rising 
in  hen  ''Art  Scholarship.  One  thou- 

Page  386 


sand  dollars,  or  a  year  In  a  chosen 
school,"  it  began. 

Excitedly  Kathy  ran  into  the 
kitchen  and  thrust  the  paper  at 
Marta.  "Hank  left  it,"  she  cried. 
She  started  dancing  around  Marta 
in  a  circle.  "I'm  going  to  enter  it. 
I'm  going  to  enter  it  and  win,"  she 
sang. 

"For  goodness  sake,  sit  down," 
Marta  cried,  "you're  making  me  diz- 

Apparently  not  having  paid  any 
attention  to  what  Kathy  was  saying, 
Marta  spread  the  paper  out  on  the 
kitchen  table  and  started  reading 
aloud. 

But  Kathy  wasn't  listening.  The 
picture  she  would  send  in  to  the 
contest  was  already  taking  shape  in 
her  mind.  It  would  be  hauntingly 
life-like,  a  ship  materializing  out  of 
the  fog,  yet  no  ghost  ship.  Sturdy 
as  the  freighter  Grandfather  Tracy 
had  piloted  for  the  Fenton  line. 
How  often  Kathy  and  Aunt  Em  had 
stood  on  the  cupola  at  the  top  of 
the  house  watching— listening  for 
Jon  Tracy's  signal  as  his  ship  round- 
ed into  the  Golden  Gate.  The  sig- 
nal that  meant  happy  days  ahead 
until  the  time  came  for  him  to  sail 
out  again.  She'd  take  the  thousand 
dollars  she  would  win  and  give 
Aunt  Em  a  chance  to  be  free  from 
worry. 

Then  another  thought  intruded 
on  her  mind— a  few  more  months 
to  be  free  herself— how  wonderful 
that  would  be— she  needn't  marry 
Jim  just  yet.  And  suddenly  she  rea- 
lized that  now  that  Jim  had  been 


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ordained  an  elder,  there  was  some-  Kathy  had  decided  it  was  foohsh 

thing    else    that    was    holding    her  to  go  on  resenting  him,  since  there 

back.  was  nothing  to  be  gained.  He  had 

Firmly     Kathy     smothered     this  nodded  to  her  on  several  occasions, 

thought.     No  one  could  be  better  and  had  made  a  few  inquiries  as  to 

to  me  than  Jim  has  been— he's  so  their  source  of  fresh  eggs,  vegetables, 

dependable.     We'll   be   happy    to-  and  butter.    This  had  been  her  only 

gether,  surely  we  will,  she  told  her-  contact  with  him.     She  tried  never 

self.     If  only  he  weren't   so  stub-  to  think  of  him. 

born.  Often,  after  having  been  absent 

for  a  few  hours  she  had  come  home 
npHE  Pacific  Ocean  had  long  been  to  find  his  laughter  coming  from 
Kathy's  friend.  Whenever  she  Miss  Em's  room,  her  aunt  pink- 
was  troubled  she'd  walk  down  to  cheeked  and  almost  gay  looking, 
the  China  house,  sit  on  its  minia-  Aunt  Em  had  smiled  at  Kathy's  in- 
ture  veranda,  listen  to  the  rush  of  dignation  after  he'd  gone.  ''He's 
the  waves,  and  think  things  out.  good  for  me,"  she'd  managed  to 
She  knew  the  ocean's  moods  and  say,  almost  her  first  complete  sen- 
what  they  foretold.  At  times  calm  tence  since  her  illness, 
and  blue  as  a  summer  sky,  other  Kathy  found  herself  laughing  at 
times  sullen  and  brooding  under  fog  Marta's  version  of  these  visits, 
or  rain,  or  rising  in  angry  green  ''What's-his-name,"  Marta  was  no 
waves,  the  white  caps  breaking  good  at  remembering  names— ''the 
almost  under  her  feet.  ex-prowler  was  here.     Looking  sour 

But  now  the  China   house  was  ^^  crab  apples-till  he  come  out  of 

occupied  by  this  highhanded  young  Miss  Em's  room,  all  smiles,  he  was 

man.     Kathy  needed  solitude  des-  ^l^^n."  Or,  "  'His  Happiness'  of  the 

perately.    She'd  have  to  begin  work  Chma  house,"    as   she   had   finally 

on  her  contest  picture  immediately,  dubbed  him,  "paid  us  a  visit  today. 

The    old-fashioned    cupola    at   the  ^ot   to    laughing   with    Miss    Em. 

top  of  the  house  offered  the  only  Say,   Td  like  to  know  what  their 

haven.       She     selected     materials,  secret  is. 

found  a  folding  stool,  and  started  Whatever  it  was,  Kathy  had  de- 

the  climb  up  to  the  third  floor  of  cided,  they  could  keep  it,  although 

the  old  house.    She  placed  her  stool  she  was  grateful  to  know  that  Aunt 

so   that   the   afternoon    sun   would  Em  was  finding  a  few  moments  of 

warm   her  back,    settled   her   easel  pleasure  now  and  then, 

and  looked  out  over  the  wide  blue  She  shook  her  head  impatiently, 

expanse  of  the  Pacific.     Finally  her  This  would  never  do.     She  turned 

gaze   came   to   rest   on   the   China  her  stool  away  from  the  view  of  the 

house.  China  house  and  started  to  paint. 

Stretched  in  his  deck  chair,  the  She  must  have  been  working  for 

long  length  of  him  almost  complete-  hours,    too    absorbed   in   what   she 

ly  covering  the  small  space  of  the  was  doing  to  notice  that  it  had  be- 

veranda  was  Mr.  Marc  Hale,  week-  gun  to  grow  chilly.    She  felt  a  shiver 

long  tenant  of  the  cabin.  go  through  her,  relaxed  her  hold  on 


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the  paintbrush,  and  looked  up  just 
in  time  to  see  the  fiery  red  sun  be- 
gin its  plunge  into  the  Pacific. 

Gracious,  she  told  herself,  I  must 
have  been  sitting  here  for  ages,  and 
I  promised  Aunt  Em  fresh  peas 
from  the  garden  for  her  supper. 

IZATHY  hurriedly  folded  her  camp 
stool  and  started  down  the 
steep  stairs  that  led  directly  to  the 
garden,  the  picture  in  hand.  Luckily 
for  her,  she  thought,  "His  Happi- 
ness" had  abandoned  his  post  on  the 
veranda.  At  least  she'd  be  spared 
the  dubious  pleasure  of  his  comp- 
any. 

She  put  her  picture  down  in  a 
safe  place  and  started  pulling  the 
plump  green  pods  off  the  vines. 
Both  hands  were  full  before  she  rea- 
lized that  she  had  nothing  to  put 
them  in.     She  looked  around. 

'TIere,  put  them  in  this,"  a  voice 
behind  her  said— a  voice  so  bland 
and  soft  she  failed  to  recognize  it 
until  she  looked  into  the  face  of 
Mr.  Marc  Hale  himself.  He  was 
holding  out  a  small,  shiny  saucepan 
to  her. 

''You  look  as  if  you'd  never  seen 
me  before,"  he  stated,  grinning. 

''I  haven't,"  she  blurted  out  truth- 
fully, and  realized  for  the  first  time 
that  her  imagination  had  been  play- 
ing tricks  on  her.  He  looked  almost 
boyish  and  good-natured,  with  his 
hair  slightly  rumpled  and  a  faint 
brush  of  sun-tan  on  his  face. 

''Hmm,"  he  mused,  "I  wonder." 
Then  went  on,  "I  saw  you  working 
on  the  cupola.  Your  aunt  tells  me 
you're  an  artist." 

'That's  for  the  future  to  decide," 
Kathy  murmured.  ''I  do  want  to 
enter  this  contest,  the  one  for  the 


scholarship  or  the  thousand  dollars 
in  cash."  She  so  desperately  need- 
ed someone  to  talk  to  she  forgot 
for  a  moment  that  this  arrogant  man 
was  her  enemy. 

"A  contest,  is  it?"  he  said,  and 
thrust  the  pan  at  her.  There  was 
nothing  for  Kathy  to  do  but  take  it 
with  a  murmured  thanks.  He 
reached  down,  and  without  so  much 
as  a  "by  your  leave,"  picked  up  the 
picture  she  had  been  working  on 
and  started  studying  it. 

"Not  bad— not  bad  at  all,"  he 
conceded  after  a  few  moments,  and 
Kathy  felt  her  cheeks  coloring  under 
this  faint  praise.  "But  contests  are 
a  disappointment.  I  understand 
they're  strictly  for  the  professional." 

"Maybe  not,"  Kathy  retorted 
sharply.  "Anyway,  I'm  going  to  try 
it.  It's  a  way  of  finding  out  if  I'm 
any  good."  A  way  of  making  ex- 
penses, if  I  win,  she  thought. 

"Atta  girl.  I  like  a  person  with 
spunk."  He  laughed  a  little,  as 
though  ashamed  of  his  confession, 
and  Kathy  noticed  he  was  looking 
at  her  curiously.  He  must  have 
suddenly  realized  he  was  staring,  as 
he  turned  hastily  back  to  studying 
the  picture. 

"Say,"  he  exclaimed  after  a  mo- 
ment, "this  might  go  places  in  a 
contest  at  that.  You've  got  a  good 
beginning." 

Kathy  sparkled.  "Oh,  you  really 
think  I  might  have  a  chance?"  she 
asked,  and  realized  all  of  a  sudden 
that  she  was  thoroughly  enjoying 
this  conversation.  "Well,  I  shall 
certainly  try.  I'd  never  get  any 
place  just  sitting  around." 

Hale's  laugh  was  short  and  mirth- 
less. "Yes,  I  suppose  you're  right. 
I   must   say,   however,   that   you've 


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389 


chosen  a  hard  role.  Artists  and 
writers  are  a  dime  a  dozen.  Better 
forget  contests  and  get  married. 
Don't  tell  me  that  fellow  with  the 
scrubbed  look  about  him  comes  to 
see  auntie." 

Kathy  was  angry  again.  She 
clutched  the  pan  of  peas  in  one 
hand,  and  with  the  other  gingerly 
accepted  the  picture  Marc  handed 
her,  and  started  up  through  the  ber- 
ry patch,  the  red-gold  of  her  hair 
flashing  in  the  last  rays  of  the  sun. 
At  least,  she  thought,  ''that  fellow 
with  the  scrubbed  look"  has  some- 


thing you  don't  have,  Mr.  Marc 
Hale,  as  she  thought  of  him  now 
being  an  elder. 

Her  anger  had  softened  a  little  by 
the  time  she  reached  the  house.  I 
wonder  what  church  he  does  belong 
to?  she  asked  herself.  Since  Aunt 
Em's  illness,  Kathy  hadn't  been 
able  to  get  to  church  as  often  as  she 
liked.  She  missed  the  peaceful, 
secure  feeling  she  got  from  attend- 
ing services  in  the  little  ward  chapel 
in  San  Rafael,  the  warmth  of  her 
many  friends. 

(To  be  continued) 


1 1  iartha   ui.   1 1  icJvaig   (j^ornposes  JL^ncs  and    1 1  Lusic 

for  L^hilaren's  Songs 

ALTHOUGH   she   is   nearly   ninety-one  years  of  age,   Martha   Hardy 
McKaig  of  Oakland,  California,  enjoys  many     varied  activities  and 

hobbies.    Besides  writing  the  lyrics  for  children's  songs,  she  also  composes 

the  score  for  the  songs.    Sister  McKaig  is  a  fine  quilter  and  homemaker  and 

still  bakes  excellent  bread.    She  is  active  in  the  Church  auxiliaries. 

Mrs.  McKaig  was  born  in  Salt  Lake  City  and  graduated  from  the 

University  of  Utah  in  the  class  of  1886.    She  is  the  mother  of  four  children, 

grandmother  to  five,  and  great-grandmother  to  ten. 

She  has  seen  the  branch  Relief  Society  in  Oakland  grow  into  three 

stakes  with  more  than  forty  Relief  Society  organizations.    She  has  devoted 

many  years  to  Relief  Society  compassionate  services. 


QTt-^  P    FROM    THE    FIELD     °^ 


Hj-f£  F£:"<e:.  General  Secretan-Treasurer 


AD  r:z--::     ^^     ef  f 
staioe  ar:   ~r..\'7.   :  t    ::   ^ ::: 
of  mater  :    :   :     '       i;  7: :~   :: 
die  H2BCixx}k  or  iasuucaons,  page  123. 

RELIEF  SOCIE-n'  ACTIMTIES 


iblication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 

^readents.     See  regulations  gmeming  the  submittal 

:  £"'  in  the  Magazine  for  x\pril  1950,  page  278,  and 


Fkotceraph  sabmitted  by  Hope  Beus 

RIGBY  STAKE    aDAHO-.  ROBERTS  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETi'  HOLDS 

ANNUAL  BAZ:\AR  AND  DANCE 

Left  to  right:  Catherine  Paulsen;  Ardis  Fullmer,  President  Roberts  Ward  Relief 
Sodety;  Ann  Sureras,  First  Counselor;  June  Duke,  Secretan-Treasurer;  Jessie  Lake,  Sec- 
ond Coanselor:  Nona  Braegger,  work  meeting  leader;  Shirlee  Holm;  Inez  Zollinger; 
Dorothy  Wells;  Thelma  Dutson. 

Hope  Beus,  President,  Rigb;.  Stake  Relief  Societ\,  reports:  "A  large  variet}  of 
articles  was  displaced  on  tables  representing  a  train  engine  and  cars"  at  the  annual 
bazaar. 

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Photograph  submitted  by  Rhoda  Thorpe 

HYRUM  STAKE     UTAH   .  EIGHT  \\'ARD  RELIEF  SOCIETIES  JOIN  TO 
PRESENT  MARCH  SUNDAY  E\TNTNG  PROGR-\M 

Rhoda  Thorpe,  President.  Hymm  Stake  Relief  SocieK,  reports:  "'Eight  wards  of 
H\Tum  Stake  Relief  Societ}'  joined  together  to  present  the  March  Sundav  night  meet- 
ing, 'Portrait  of  a  Dream'  under  direction  of  the  stake  board.  Music  directors  were 
Matilda  Miller,  chorister,  and  Alta  Petersen,  organist,  who  are  both  seated  in  front  of 
the  Singing  Mothers  chorus." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Marie  J.  Monson 

BUTTE  STAKE   ^MONTANA^    SINGING  MOTHERS   PRESENT  MUSIC  FOR 
STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE.  Februar)-  24,  1937 

Verla  Boetticher.  chorister,  stands  in  front  of  the  piano:  Lucile  Rossiter,  organist, 
is  seated  at  the  piano:  \'iola  Shuman:  First  Counselor,  Butte  Stake  Relief  Socieh'.  stands 
eighth  from  right  on  first  row;  Marie  J.  Monson,  President,  is  second  from  left  on  second 
row;  Helen  Smith.  Secretary-Treasurer,  is  third  from  left  on  back  row. 

Sister  Monson  reports:  'There  were  sevent\"hvo- women  who  participated.  These 
women  traN  eled  from  as  far  as  115  miles  aw  a\".  Thev  practiced  in  their  own  wards 
and  branches,  having  only  one  combined  practice  Sunday  morning  before  the  session 
of  conference." 


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Photograph   submitted  by  Ida  H.   Gallagher 

MURRAY    STAKE    (UTAH),   MURRAY   SEVENTH    WARD   VISITING 
TEACHERS  ACHIEVE  ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT  FOR  FIVE  YEARS 

Sister  Ida  A.  Gallagher,  President,  Murray  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  the 
visiting  teachers  of  the  Murray  Se\'enth  Ward  have  achieved  one  hundred  per  cent  in 
their  visiting  teaching  since  the  ward  was  organized  five  years  ago. 

In  the  picture,  beginning  sixth  from  left  in  front  row  are:  Marjorie  H.  Newman, 
First  Counselor;  Ina  H.  Day,  President;  Nola  S.  Winget,  Second  Counselor;  Lovella  }. 
Green,  Secretary-Treasurer,  of  the  Murray  Seventh  Ward. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Olive  C.  Phillips 

FRESNO  STAKE  (CALIFORNIA)  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  AT 
STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE,  February  24,  1957 

Leida  Anderson,  chorister,  is  standing  second  from  right,  on  the  third  row;  Mary 
Thompson,  organist,  is  third  from  right,  third  row;  Olive  C.  Phillips,  President,  Fresno 
Stake  Relief  Society,  is  at  far  right  on  third  row. 

Sister  Phillips  reports:  "This  is  the  first  time  the  Singing  Mothers  of  this  stake 
have  sung  for  quarterly  conference  and,  although  they  live  in  widely  scattered  localities, 
and  their  practicing  together  was  limited  to  one  session,  their  singing  was  beautiful." 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


393 


Photograph  submitted  by  LaVora  S.  Wood 

NORTH  DAVIS  STAKE  (UTAH)  SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC 

FOR  STAKE  CONFERENCE 

La\^ora  S.  Wood,  President,  North  Davis  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  the 
Singing  Mothers  recently  furnished  the  music  for  stake  conference.  Carol  Steed 
is  chorister,  and  Mary  Christiansen  is  organist. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Pauline  Stevens 

BIG  HORN  STAKE   (WYOMING),  COWLEY  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY 
HOLDS  COUNTRY  STORE  AND  BAZAAR 

Left  to  right:  Louise  Taggart,  Cody,  Wyoming;  C.  Golden  Welch,  Cowley; 
Helena  Belnap,  former  President,  Big  Horn  Stake  Relief  Society;  Cleone  Crosby,  Secre- 
tary, Cowley  Ward  Relief  Society. 

Pauline  Stevens,  President,  Big  Horn  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  "Tliis 
country  store  and  bazaar  is  an  annual  affair  where  old  as  well  as  new  articles  are 
sold.  An  old-fashioned  lunch  is  also  sold."  Sister  Stevens  writes  that  the  organ  in 
the  picture  was  the  first  organ  in  the  Cowley  Ward  and  the  round  table  is  seventy-five 
years  old. 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Lucille  S.  Condie 

HILLSIDE  STAKE   (UTAH),  COLONIAL  HILLS  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY 

HOLDS  BIRTHDAY  PARTY 

Left  to  right:  Alta  Brown,  organist;  Irene  Piatt,  chorister;  Ann  Borg,  social  science 
leader;  Ida  C.  Bowers,  Second  Counselor;  Lena  Glanser,  visiting  teacher  supervisor; 
Agnes  R.  MacKay,  President,  Colonial  Hills  Ward  Relief  Society;  Elder  LeGrand  Rich- 
ards; Sister  Richards;  Governor  George  D.  Clyde;  Sister  Clyde;  Helen  Hedquist,  First 
Counselor,  Hillside  Stake  Relief  Society;  Ruby  S.  Ockey,  Secretary;  Ruth  Schoenhals, 
literature  leader;  Harold  M.  Wright  of  the  Hillside  Stake  Presidency;  Genevieve  Wright, 
theology  leader;  Marian  Johnson,  work  meeting  leader;  Joy  Slack,  visiting  teacher 
message  leader;  Ray  C.  Johnson,  Bishop,  Colonial  Hills  Ward. 

Lucille  S.  Condie,  President,  Hillside  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "The  birthday 
party  was  given  in  honor  of  Sister  Glauser,  who  has  been  the  visiting  teaching  super- 
visor since  the  ward  was  organized.  Elder  LeGrand  Richards  was  guest  speaker."  The 
party  was  held  March   15,   1957. 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Bertha  Burch 


MINIDOKA  STAKE   (IDAHO)    RELIEF  SOCIETY  PRESENTS  PAGEANT 

March  1957 

Bertha  Burch,  President,  Minidoka  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  the  pageant, 
"Characters  and  Teachings  of  The  Book  of  Mormon/'  was  presented  with  great  success 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


395 


under  the  direction  of  Jean  Hansen,  stake  theology  leader,  assisted  by  Sister  Burch; 
Bessie  Dixon,  First  Counselor;  Thelma  Attridge,  Second  Counselor  and  Maybell  Steven- 
son, Secretary-Treasurer. 

Main  characters  in  costume,  left  to  right  beginning  fifth  from  right  are:  Alene  Sum- 
mers representing  a  Lamanite  sister;  Cathleen  Keolanui,  of  Hawaiian  descent;  Leah 
Heiner,  a  Jewish  descendant;  Marjorie  Crofts,  theology  class  leader;  Lester  Tracy  repre- 
senting King  Benjamin,  Back  row,  Earl  Corless  representing  Nephi,  son  of  Lehi;  Ferrell 
Catmull  representing  Mormon;  Calvin  Heiner  representing  Moroni. 

Organ  music  was  furnished  by  Lapriel  Stoddard,  stake  organist,  standing  left  of 
organ.  The  Singing  Mothers  chorus  was  directed  by  Thelma  Widmier,  stake  chorister, 
standing  second  from  left  on  front  row  of  chorus. 


Photograph  submitted  by   Mary  P.   Christensen 

GREAT  LAKES   MISSION,   YOUNGSTOWN    (OHIO)    BRANCH   RELIEF 
SOCIETY  HOLDS  ANNUAL  CONFERENCE 


Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Hazel  Carman,  Work  Director  Counselor;  LaRue 
Barnett,  President,  Youngstown  Relief  Society;  Mildred  Martin,  Secretary-Treasurer; 
Robert  C.  Martin,  Branch  President. 

Second  row:  Vernell  Markusic;  Helen  Schmidt;  LaWanna  Robison;  Barbara  Cum- 
mings;  Estella  Eshbaugh. 

Back  row:  Emma  Dear;  Agnes  Ohl;  Goldie  Flesch;  Charlotte  Beeler;  Lelah  Geist; 
Olivia  Lundstrum;  Nola  Mallery.  Not  present  when  the  picture  was  taken:  Lena 
Robison,  Educational  Counselor;  Lois  Samsa;  Leota  Hurley;  Betty  Nemenz. 

Sister  Barnett  reports:  "Our  activities  have  been  numerous  and  joyous.  We  have 
our  goal  set  for  a  lovely  chapel  here  in  Youngstown,  and  are  earnestly  working  along 
with  the  Priesthood  toward  that  goal." 

Sister  Mary  P.  Christensen  is  president  of  the  Great  Lakes  Mission  Relief  Society. 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Annabell  W.  Hart 

OAKLAND-BERKELEY  STAKE    (CALIFORNIA)    SINGING   MOTHERS 
PROVIDE  MUSIC  FOR  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE,  February  1957 

Annabell  W.  Hart,  President,  Oakland-Berkeley  Stake  Relief  Society,  is  ninth  from 
left  in  front  row;  LaVern  W.  Rock,  Counselor,  is  seventh  from  left  in  the  front  row; 
PhylHs  Warnick,  Counselor,  is  at  far  right  on  front  row.  Emma  C.  Harmon,  chorister, 
is  on  the  podium  and  Elnora  Jensen,  organist,  is  at  the  piano. 

Sister  Hart  reports  that  the  chorus  sang  during  the  morning  session  and  that  there 
are  120  women  in  the  chorus. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Ruby  M.  Dobbins 

PALO  ALTO  STAKE  (CALIFORNIA),  REDWOOD  CITY  WARD  RELIEF 
SOCIETY  DRAMATIZES  ITS  HISTORY 

Ruby  M.  Dobbins,  President,  Palo  Alto  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "Re-enacting 
the  history  are  six  former  presidents  and  four  officers  of  the  Redwood  City  Ward  Relief 
Society."  Left  to  right,  standing:  Delia  Rose;  Naomi  Bodily,  who  represented  Mrs. 
Redwood  City  Ward  Relief  Society;  Thelma  Howard;  Melba  Stevens;  Geneva  Coy;  and 
Eileen  Weaver,  all  former  presidents.  Margaret  Grubb,  narrator  for  the  program  and 
President,  Redwood  City  Ward  Relief  Society,  stands  at  far  right.  Seated  are  Ida 
Knight;  former  President  Theda  Farnsworth;  and  Ruby  Cannon, 

The  program  told  the  story  of  the  life  of  the  society  from  its  organization  in 
1939  to  the  present  time.  The  eleven  presidents  of  the  ward  ReUef  Society  were  repre- 
sented in  person  or  by  others  and  "life"  memories  of  activities  were  presented. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


397 


Photograph  submitted  by  Avez  M.  Goodman 

TUCSON  STAKE   (ARIZONA)    RELIEF  SOCIETY  BOARD  ORGANIZED 

Avez  M.  Goodman,  President,  Tucson  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "We  were 
made  a  new  stake  December  2,  1956,  and  the  members  of  the  stake  Relief  Society  presi- 
dency were  sustained  that  day,  but  we  did  not  start  our  work  until  January  1957.  .  .  . 
We  have  a  very  excellent  board  who  all  are  so  enthusiastic  in  their  work  that  I  feel 
we  can  accomplish  a  great  deal." 

Front  row  left  to  right,  the  stake  board  includes:  Lola  Killpack,  visiting  teacher 
message  leader;  Virginia  Swanson,  organist;  Rose  Clifford,  Second  Counselor;  Avez  Good- 
man, President;  Nina  Brewer,  First  Counselor;  Zina  Skaggs,  social  science  leader. 

Back  row:  Veda  Blain,  work  meeting  leader;  Ethel  Clawson,  theology  leader;  Joan 
Cornia,  Secretary-Treasurer;  Belva  Jones,  Magazine  representative;  Jean  Dees,  chorister; 
Louise  Call,  literature  leader. 


cJhe   [Jtjerryi-LPickers 

MaryhaJe  ^oohey 

Today's  strawberries  in  the  market-place 
Reminded  me  of  summers  long  ago; 
Those  berry-picking  hours.  .  .  .  We  used  to  race 
Each  other  down  the  patch,  and  proudly  show 
Cups  grown  to  crates,  crates  tallied  up  for  pay; 
This  our  one  aim,  day  after  sunlit  day. 

Now  I  remember  long  rows,  glossy  green 

And  sparked  with  luscious  fruit,  bright  ruby-red; 

Now  recall  sun-warmed  fragrance,  and  the  scene 

Of  summer  loveliness  around  us  spread. 

Now  I  remember  beauty  our  young  eyes  spurned. 

Seeing  only  the  pennies  our  filled  baskets  earned. 


N   DEPARTMENT 


cJeachifig  J^ids  for  the  ^g37'38  JLessons 


Mary  R.  Young 

Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 


AUDIO-visual  aids  can  help 
promote  good  teaching  when 
used  properly  and  effectively. 
A  class  leader  should  understand 
that  visual  aids  are  a  means  toward 
achieving  her  major  purpose— good 
teaching. 

Teaching  aids  are  not  new  to  us 
today.  They  were  used  in  the  time 
of  Moses,  some  3,000  years  ago, 
when  the  Ten  Commandments 
were  written  on  tablets  of  stone  by 
the  finger  of  God  (Exodus  31:18). 
Christ,  the  Master  Teacher,  showed 
us  the  value  of  appealing  to  the  eye 
as  well  as  to  the  ear.  As  class  lead- 
ers in  Relief  Society,  we  are 
privileged  to  walk  modestly  and 
reverently  in  the  footsteps  of  the 
Master  Teacher. 

To  see  as  well  as  hear  helps  to 
stimulate  interest  and  focus  atten- 
tion. It  aids  in  remembering,  and 
clarifies  and  enriches  the  lesson. 
Teaching  becomes  increasingly  ef- 
fective when  we  understand  and 
know  our  class  members  and  use 
aids  that  have  been  carefully  select- 
ed as  suitable  for  Relief  Society. 

Page  398 


Theology 

We  suggest  that  in  the  study  of 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  that 
the  course  objective  be  written  on 
the  blackboard  or  printed  on  a  chart 
so  it  may  be  referred  to  frequently 
during  the  course  of  study.  We  also 
could  list  on  the  blackboard  or  print 
on  butcher  or  poster  paper,  the 
points  we  wish  to  stress  through- 
out the  course,  such  as: 

1.  Reading  of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants. 

2.  Application  of  the  teachings  in  the 
lives  of  women. 

3.  Teaching  of  the  doctrines  in  the 
home. 

Well-chosen  pictures  definitely 
increase  understanding  and  interest 
and  can  be  used  to  good  advantage 
if  they  forward  the  objective.  The 
use  of  one  or  two  good  mounted 
pictures  is  better  than  using  a  num- 
ber of  small  ones  that  are  difficult 
to  be  seen  by  the  entire  group. 

Yisiting  Teacher  Messages 

The  blackboard  may  be  used  to 
good  advantage  and  should  be  read- 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


399 


ily  available.  Let  your  chalk  talk, 
too. 

When  the  visiting  teachers  can 
read  the  scriptural  reference  and  the 
objective  from  the  blackboard  or 
from  a  printed  chart,  it  definitely 
focuses  attention  and  aids  them  in 
remembering  the  message. 

Points  to  stress  in  the  message 
might  also  be  listed. 

Liteiatme 

Pictures  which  may  be  used  again 
this  year  include  Shakespeare,  the 
Globe  Theater,  and  London  in 
Shakespeare's  Day. 

A  blackboard  may  be  used  to 
good  advantage  in  pointing  out  con- 
trasts in  some  of  the  plays.  List  the 
main  characters,  or  make  a  listing 
of  them  according  to  their  good  and 
evil  characteristics,  using  different 
colored  chalk. 

Blackboard  or  chart  presentation 
of  the  three  plot  threads  might  be 
used  for  plot  clarification  in  Lesson 
Eleven,  "Twelfth  Night."  The  love 
interest  might  form  two  triangles 
centering  in  Olivia,  the  second  tri- 
angle would  include  Maria  and  Sir 
Toby  who  were  its  instigators. 

Character  growth  of  King  Lear 
might  be  charted  in  Lesson  Four- 
teen. 

Make  blackboard  patterns  of  pri- 
mary and  secondary  plots  in  con- 
trasting colors  of  chalk. 

Recordings  of  applicable  music 
may  be  stimulating. 

Social  Science 

Pictures  and  charts  will  add  inter- 
est and  make  the  lessons  more  force- 
ful in  this  year's  course  of  study, 
''Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life."  We 
must  be  sure  that  the  pictures  and 


aids  have  a  direct  relationship  to 
the  lesson  subject  matter,  however, 
and  will  forward  the  lesson  objec- 
tive. 

In  Lesson  Nine  we  may  use  black- 
board or  charts  giving  interesting 
statistics,  use  Church  posters,  or  pic- 
tures of  family  groups,  or  list  values 
and  dangers  of  television  programs 
and  comic  books. 

In  Lesson  Twelve,  pictures  of  the 
temples  may  be  shown,  and  a  list- 
ing of  the  eternal  blessings  of  temple 
marriage  may  be  made. 

For  Lesson  Fourteen,  a  picture 
representing  'The  Good  Samari- 
tan" may  be  shown. 

Music 

Leaders  will  find  their  lessons  will 
be  more  effective  by  the  use  of  good 
visual  aids. 

Flash  cards  of  music  symbols,  of 
scales  in  a  few  different  keys,  and 
of  Italian  words  and  their  meaning 
used  for  tempos  like  andante,  largo, 
etc.,  may  be  used  as  aids.  Material 
in  the  text.  Fundamentals  of  Con- 
ducting, by  J.  Spencer  Cornwall,  will 
aid  in  teaching. 

Magazine  Representatives 

Magazine  representatives  can 
make  use  of  attractive  posters, 
charts,  graphs,  and  bulletin  boards 
effectively  to  stimulate  interest  in 
their  work.  There  is  an  excellent 
article  and  chart  on  successful  sell- 
ing by  Thomas  S.  Monson  in  The 
Reliei  Society  Magazine,  April  1957, 
"Selling  The  Rehef  Society  Maga- 
zine. 

The  lesson  previews  appear  far 
enough  in  advance  of  the  time  the 
lessons  will  be  taught  to  acquaint 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JUNE  1957 


class  leaders  with  the  year's  course 
of  study,  so  that  they  may  be  alert 
to  collect  pictures,  articles,  and  vari- 
ous aids  which  will  enrich  their  les- 
sons. 

The  following  articles  on  visual 
aids  ha\e  been  published  in  The 
Relief  Society  Magazine: 

"The  Value  and  Use  of  Audio-Visual 
Aids  in  Relief  Society,"  by  Leone  G. 
Lay  ton,  January  1953,  page  ^7. 

"Suggestions  on  Teaching  Aids  for 
1953-54  Lessons,"  by  Leone  G,  Layton, 
June  1953,  page  418. 

"Teaching  Aids  for  1954-55  Lessons," 
by  Edith  S.  Elliott,  June  1954,  page  400. 

"Teaching  and  Teaching  Aids  for  the 
1955-56  Lessons,"  by  Mildred  B.  Eyring, 
June  1955,  page  403. 


"Audio-Visual  Aids  for  1956-57,"  by 
Mildred  B.  Eyring,  July*  1956,  page  475. 

Note:  The  following  sets  of  pictures 
are  a\ailable  at  the  Deseret  Bookstore,  44 
East  South  Temple  St.,  Salt  Lake  City, 
Utah,     For  social  science: 

Set  of  twelve  black  and  white  pictures 
of  the  temples,  60c. 

Set  of  twehe  colored  pictures  of  the 
temples,  80c. 

Set  of  se\en  pictures  pertaining  to  the 
theology  lessons,  which  include  the  fol- 
lowing: The  Prophet  Joseph  Smith,  Angel 
Moroni  Appearing  to  Joseph  Smith,  The 
Susquehanna  Ri\er,  Oliver  Cowdcry, 
Martin  Harris,  David  Whitmcr,  and  the 
Restoration  of  the  Aaronic  Priesthood, 
(six  colored,  one  black  and  white)  50c 
plus  5c  postage. 

One  picture  of  the  Good  Samaritan, 
10c. 


(Suggestions  for   ll iusic  JLeaders 

Fhience  J.  Madsen 
Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 


THE  following  article  is  present- 
ed, along  with  the  previews 
of  lesson  courses  and  helps  in 
audio-visual  aids,  in  the  hope  that 
it  will  be  helpful  to  stake  music 
leaders  in  conducting  their  union 
meeting  departments  during  the 
coming  educational  year. 

In  order  to  make  the  music  depart- 
ment of  union  meetings  profitable 
for  all  concerned,  sufficient  material 
on  the  techniques  of  music  should 
be  presented  and  considered.  This 
may  mean  that  at  times  the  very 
rudiments  of  music  may  have  to  be 
discussed  for  the  benefit  of  those 
who  are  new  in  their  positions  and 
who  have  had  but  little  contact  with 
the  subject.  Encouragement  and 
help  should  be  given  these  inex- 
perienced leaders  who  feel  their  in- 


adequacy because  of  limited  knowl- 
edge of  music. 

The  subject  of  music,  like  all 
other  subjects,  is  learned  through 
constant  study  and  perseverance.  It 
seems  a  bit  difficult  for  some  con- 
ductors to  learn  to  conduct  music 
with  definite  baton  patterns;  there- 
fore, time  should  be  given  in  the 
departmental  sessions  at  union 
meeting  for  the  conductors  and  the 
accompanists  to  learn  and  practice 
the  needed  baton  techniques  to- 
gether. 

Place  on  the  blackboard  a  large 
picture  or  drawing  of  the  baton  pat- 
tern that  is  to  be  learned.  This 
helps  to  fix  the  design  in  the  minds 
of  those  who  are  conducting  and 
safeguards  those  who  might  stray 
from  it.  While  counting  the  rhythm 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT  401 

aloud,   have   the   group    take   their  tainty  in  the  minds  of  those  learn- 

batons  and   reproduce  the  pattern  ing  to  conduct.    Change  the  songs, 

that  is  on  the  blackboard,  at  first,  but  retain  the  same  rhythm  so  that 

without  any  music.     After  the  pat-  the  baton  pattern  can  be  used  until 

tern  is  sufficiently  learned,  practice  it  is  thoroughly  learned, 
hymns  and  songs  of  different  styles         Other  techniques  might  be  intro- 

and  tempos  that  require  the  same  duced  similarly,  for  instance:  some 

baton  pattern,  this  time  with  the  of    the    music    symbols    and    signs 

music,  and  including  a  few  retards,  found  in  Elsons  Music  Dictionary 

Practice  songs  starting  on  both  the  under  the  title  ''Signs."     Keys  and 

up  beat  and  the  down  beat— with  scales  should  likewise  receive  atten- 

cue  beat  preceding  each  one.     To  tion,  as  should  also  note  values  and 

introduce  the  baton  patterns  in  this  their  corresponding  rests.     In  other 

way  will  give  the  conductors  a  feel-  words,  our  aim  should  be  to  under- 

ing  of  assurance  and  result  in  a  right  stand  all  the  symbols  that  we  en- 

and  artistic  performance.  counter  in  the  pages  of  the  music 

In    teaching    baton    techniques,  we    conduct,    play,    or   sing.     This 

however,  do  not  move  too  rapidly  would  eliminate  the  guessing  as  to 

from  one  pattern  to  another,  as  this  what  is  meant  and  replace  it  with 

often   causes  confusion  and  uncer-  knowing  what  is  wanted. 

Note:  Study  the  textbook  Fundamentals  of  Conducting,  by  J.  Spencer  Cornwall; 
the  lesson  series  "Fundamentals  of  Musicianship" — Appreciation,  Conducting,  Singing 
and  Accompanying,  The  Relief  Society  Magazine,  1951-52;  "Prelude  Music,"  The 
ReUef  Society  Magazine,  April  1954,  P^§^  ^43- 

BOOKS  FOR  ORGANISTS  AND  PIANISTS 

This  list  provides  suggestions  for  different  types  of  music  books  from  which  books 
may  be  selected  as  desired. 

A.  Reed  Organ  Books: 

Organ  Voluntaries,  volumes  I  and  II,  Schreiner  and  }.  Fischer  $2.50 

Thirty-Eight  Voluntaries  for  Reed  Organ,  Jackson  &  G.  Schirmer 1.00 

Thirty-Eight  Voluntaries  for  Reed  Organ,  J.  Fischer 

volume  I 1 .00 

volume  II  1.50 

Reed  Organ  Player,  Walter  Lewis  and  T.  Presser 90 

Forty-Three  Organ  Voluntaries,  Lorenz  85 

Gems  for  the  Organ,  Shelley  and  G.  Schirmer 1.75 

Harker's  Harmonium  Collection,  G.  Schirmer 1.00 

Ninety-Three  Short  Pieces  for  the  Hammond  Organ  or  Piano, 

Jackson  and  G.  Schirmer  (written  in  two  staves)  2.25 

B.  Sacred  Piano  Music: 

Sahhath  Day  Music  for  the  Piano,  O.  Ditson 1.00 

Church  and  Chapel  Voluntaries,  Dreisbach  and  G.  Schirmer 2.00 

Chapel  Musings,  Perry  and  Presser y5 

C.  Pipe  Organ  Books: 

Devotional  Organ  Music,  Asper  and  Carl  Fischer  (also  for  electronic  organ)  ....  2.50 
Organ  Voluntaries,  volumes  I  and  II,  Schreiner  and  J.  Fischer 2.00 


402  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JUNE  1957 

Church  Music  for  the  Smallest  Organ,  Nevin  and  }.  Fischer i.oo 

Organ  Melodies,  Landon  and  Presser  1.50 

Ecciesiae  Organum,  William  C.  Carl  and  John  Church 2.50 

Organ  Musings,  Presser  1.50 

Chancel  Echoes,  William  M.  Felton  and  Presser  1.00 

Organ  Vistas,  Presser  1.50 

Twenty-Five  Pieces  for  the  Small  Pipe  Organ,  Schreiner  and  J.  Fischer  2.50 

The  books  listed  above  are  recommended  by  the  Church  Music  Committee. 

SUPPLEMENTARY  LIST  OF  BOOKS  RECOMMENDED  FOR 
ORGANISTS  AND  PIANISTS 

Perry's  Piano  Voluntaries,  Lorenz 1.25 

Church  Service  Selections  ioi  Organ  or  Piano,  No.  2,  Rodeheaver  1.25 

Chapel  Voluntaries  for  Organ  or  Piano,  Edward  B.  Marks 75 

Chapel  Voluntaries  for  Organ,  Harmonium,  or  Piano,  Edward  B.  Marks 

(from  books  I  to  X,  inclusive)   (2  staves)  75 

Thirty-Two  Short  Pieces  for  Hammond  or  Pipe  Organ,  G.  Schirmer 

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1 1  iathematics 

Mabel  ]ones  Gahhott 

When  I  was  proudly  sweet  sixteen, 
I  thought  that  middle  age 
Was  old  as  ancient  history 
And  dull  on  every  page. 

Now  I  am  twice  sixteen  and  more, 

I  wisely  hold  my  tongue; 

The  years  have  brought  me  such  rich  store, 

What  waits  at  sixty-young? 


cJkeologyi —  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 


Preview  of  Lessons  for  1957-58 
Elder  Roy  W.  Doxey 


npHE  course  of  study  beginning 
this  year  and  continuing  for 
several  years  is  a  section-by-section 
or  chronological  study  of  The  Doc- 
trine and  Covenants.  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants  is  the  textbook.  This 
standard  work  of  the  Church  holds 
a  unique  place  among  the  books  of 
scripture  in  this  Church.  It  is  a 
modern  book  revealing  eternal  truths 
for  the  people  of  this  generation. 
If  these  truths  are  followed,  they 
will  lead  the  saints  to  the  highest 
blessing  of  which  we  know  that  the 
Lord  bestows  upon  his  children- 
eternal  life  or  exaltation.  It  con- 
tains the  message  the  Lord  would 
have  this  generation  understand 
that  repentance  may  take  hold  of 
the  hearts  of  people  throughout  the 
world  that  they,  too,  may  receive 
the  greater  blessings  in  store  for  the 
obedient. 

The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  be- 
gins with  the  revelations  which 
brought  The  Church  of  Jesus  Christ 
of  Latter-day  Saints  into  existence 
and  carries  into  the  period  of  the 
Church's  infancy  up  to  and  includ- 
ing a  section  on  the  martyrdom  of 
the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  and  his 
brother  Hyrum.  Section  136  is  a 
revelation  given  to  Brigham  Young 
on  January  14,  1847. 

To  us  living  in  the  year  1957,  ^^^^ 
Lord  has  provided  in  his  book  of 
revelations:  (1)  the  counsel  of  our 
all-wise  Father  whose  object  is  to 
bring  joy  into  the  lives  of  his  chil- 
dren today  by  their  following  in- 
structions    given     to     individuals, 


groups  of  persons,  and  the  Church 
over  a  century  ago;  (2)  a  knowledge 
of  how  to  live  in  this  present  world 
of  uncertainty  and  insecurity;  (3) 
the  meaning  of  world  conditions 
and  events;  (4)  a  philosophy  of  life 
that  enables  one  to  see  God's  justice 
and  purposes  for  mankind;  (5)  a 
spirit  of  conversion  to  the  truth- 
seeker  which  bears  witness  that 
Jesus  is  the  Christ  and  of  the  divine 
mission  of  the  Prophet  Joseph 
Smith. 

The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 
breathes  the  spirit  of  truth  with 
the  divine  promise: 

And  if  your  eye  be  single  to  my  glory, 
your  whole  bodies  shall  be  filled  with 
light,  and  there  shall  be  no  darkness  in 
you;  and  that  body  which  is  filled  with 
light  comprehendeth  all  things. 

Therefore,  sanetify  yourselves  that  your 
minds  become  single  to  God,  and  the 
days  will  come  that  you  shall  see  him;  for 
he  will  unveil  his  face  unto  you,  and  it 
shall  be  in  his  own  time,  and  in  his  own 
way,  and  according  to  his  own  will 
(D.  &  C.  88:67-68). 

It  is  believed  that  the  greatest 
good  will  result  to  class  leaders  and 
the  women  of  the  Church  if  the 
lesson  discussions  are  based  on  the 
material  given  in  The  Relief  Society 
Magazine.  Inasmuch  as  The  Doc- 
trine and  Covenants  is  to  be  studied 
section-by-section  or  chronologically, 
with  few  exceptions,  the  class  leader 
will  find  most  value  in  using  as  ref- 
erence books,  the  following:  Doc- 
trine and  Covenants  Commentary 
(Revised)    and  Documentary   His- 

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tory  of  the  Church,  also  known  as 
the  History  oi  the  Church  by  Joseph 
Smith,  especially  Volume  i. 

The  purpose  of  this  course  of 
study  may  be  stated  as  follows: 

To  reaffirm  that  Jesus  Christ  is  the 
Savior  and  that  Joseph  Smith  is  a  Prophet 
of  God,  through  a  knowledge  of  the  con- 
tents of  The  Doetrine  and  Covenants;  and 
to  re-estabhsh  the  apphcation  of  its  teach- 
ings to  the  hves  of  the  women  of  the 
Church,  that  they  may  reahze  the  eternal 
importance  of  setting  themselves  and 
their  houses  in  order. 

It  is  hoped  that  during  the  period 
covered  by  this  course  of  study  every 
member  of  the  Relief  Society  will 
have  read  and  studied  the  entire 
book  of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants. 

The  first  two  lessons  for  1957-58 
are  intended  to  give  some  back- 
ground material  on  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants.  A  study  of  the 
Lord's  purpose  in  giving  revelation 
in  our  day  is  considered  in  Lesson  3 
which  takes  up  the  study  of  Section 
1  which  is  one  of  the  few  sections 
in  the  book  that  is  out  of  chrono- 
logical order.  The  remaining  five 
lessons  of  this  course  discuss  items 
in  connection  with  the  preparation 
of  the  Prophet  and  others  in  the  re- 
establishment  of  the  kingdom  of 
God  upon  the  earth.  In  so  many 
of  the  revelations  given  during  this 
pre-Church  organization  period  one 
finds  great  truths  that  apply  to  the 
lives  of  us  who  live  more  than  a 
century  after  their  being  received. 

This  year  class  leaders  will  become 
initiated  into  some  of  the  ways  in 
which  this  course  will  be  studied. 
One  important  part  of  this  proce- 
dure begins  with  Lesson  5,  based 
upon  Sections  3  and  10.    You  will 


discover  that  the  objective  of  this 
lesson  does  not  include  some  im- 
portant ideas  found  in  these  revela- 
tions. In  order  that  these  points 
might  not  go  unobserved,  they  are 
set  forth  under  the  heading  of 
''Additional  Items"  with  section 
numbers  as  sub-headings.  Entire 
sections  will  be  discussed  briefly 
under  this  general  heading.  This 
procedure  will  be  followed  to  take 
care  of  some  sections  which  do  not 
always  lend  themselves  to  an  ob- 
jective common  with  other  revela- 
tions. 

For  the  first  year  Sections  1  to  1 3, 
and  17,  excluding  7  and  11,  are  to 
be  studied.  The  lessons  for  this 
year  have  been  given  the  following 
titles  and  objectives: 

Lesson  1— The  Lord  Speaks  Through 
His  Prophets 

Objecti\'e:  To  recognize  that  by  reve- 
lation the  Lord  has  led  his  people 
in  the  past,  and  that  by  a  reopening 
of  the  heavens  he  has  restored  the 
gospel  and  re-established  his  Church 
upon  the  earth  in  fulfillment  of  Bible 
prophecies. 

Lesson  2— Origin  of  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants  (Explanatory  Intro- 
duction of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants and  Chronological  Order  of 
Contents;  67:1-7) 

Objective:  To  learn  of  the  events 
which  brought  forth  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants. 

Lesson  3— What  to  Expect  From  a 
Study  of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants (D.  &  C.  Section  1) 

Objective:  To  show  that  a  principal 
idea  throughout  the  revelations  is  to 
warn     the    world    of    judgments    to 


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come  and  that  the  means  of  escape 
is  by  the  restored  gospel  of  Jesus 
Christ. 

Lesson  /^—The  Prophecy  Concein- 
ing  Elijah  the  Piophet    (D.  &  C. 

Section  2) 

Objective:  To  show  the  value  of  the 
prophet  Elijah's  predicted  visit  to  the 
earth  in  our  dispensation. 

Lesson  5— Satan's  Opposition  to  the 
Coming  Foith  of  The  Book  oi 
Moimon  (D.  &  C.  Sections  3  and 

10) 

Objective:  "Remember,  remember 
that  it  is  not  the  work  of  God  that  is 
frustrated,  but  the  work  of  men" 
(D.  &C.  3:3). 

Lesson  6— Qualifications  oi  Those 


Who  Labor  in  the  Ministry  (D.  & 
C.  Sections  4  and  12) 

Objective:  To  show  the  importance 
of  service  and  the  qualities  necessary 
in  the  lives  of  those  who  are  called 
into  the  Lord's  work. 

Lesson  7— The  Three  Special  Book 
oi  Mormon  Witnesses  (D.  &  C. 
Sections  6,  8,  9,  5,  and  17) 

Objective:  To  emphasize  the  im- 
portance of  the  testimonies  of  the 
men  who  assisted  Joseph  Smith  at 
the  time  of  the  coming  forth  of  The 
Book  of  Mormon. 

Lesson  8— The  Restoration  oi  the 
Aaronic  Priesthood  (D.  &  C.  Sec- 
tion 13) 

Objective:  To  point  out  the  im- 
portance of  the  restoration  of  the 
Aaronic  Priesthood. 


Visiting  cJeacher    1 1  iessages-^ 

Truths  to  Live  By 
From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Preview  of  Lessons  for  1957-58 
Christine  H.  Kobinson 


/^UR  Father  in  heaven  is  ever 
mindful  of  us  his  children.  In 
order  to  make  sure  that  we  have  the 
opportunity  for  happiness  in  this 
life  and  eternal  joy  in  the  life  to 
come,  he  has  again,  in  these  latter 
days,  given  us  revelations  for  our 
direction  and  guidance.  These  rev- 
elations, as  compiled  in  The  Doc- 
trine and  Covenants,  apply  to  our 
particular  times  and  conditions  and 
have  special  value  for  us  today. 

The  Visiting  Teacher  Messages 
for  1957-58,  'Truths  to  Live  By 
From    The    Doctrine    and    Cove- 


nants," are  taken  from  those  sec- 
tions of  this  inspired  book  which 
will  be  studied  in  the  theology 
course  of  study. 

The  material  used  as  a  basis  of 
these  messages  has  been  written 
from  a  practical  point  of  view.  Each 
message  is  illustrated  with  a  perti- 
nent example  which  can  easily  be 
applied  to  the  lives  of  the  sisters. 

One  definition  of  a  message  is  ''a 
divinely  inspired  communication 
sent  from  one  person  to  another." 
The  messages  taken  from  The  Doc- 
trine   and   Covenants    are    directly 


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from  our  Savior  Jesus  Christ.  If  we 
study  them  and  put  their  truths  into 
practice  in  our  hves,  we  will  enlarge 
our  understanding  of  God's  teach- 
ings, we  will  improve  the  spirituality 
in  our  homes,  increase  our  faith  in 
the  Lord,  and  lay  the  foundation 
for  a  happier,  more  useful  life. 

The  messages  and  their  objectives 
for  1957-58  are: 

Message  1— ''And  the  Voice  of 
Warning  Shall  Be  Unto  All  People, 
By  the  Mouths  of  My  Disciples, 
Whom  I  Have  Chosen  in  These 
Last  Days''  (D.  &C.  1:4). 

Objecti\'e:  To  show  that  the  Lord 
reveals  his  plan  of  sahation  through 
his  chosen  leaders  and  that  only 
when  we  heed  their  warnings  can  we 
build  strong,  useful  lives. 

Message  2— ''And  Inasmuch  As 
They  Were  Humble  They  Might 
Be  Made  Strong,  and  Blessed  From 
on  High..."  (D.&C.  1:28). 

Objective:  To  point  out  the  mean- 
ing of  true  humility,  the  need  for  it 
in  our  lives,  and  to  show  that  the 
Lord  blesses  and  makes  strong  those 
who  possess  it. 

Message  3-".  .  .  O  Ye  That  Em- 
bark in  the  Service  of  God,  See  That 
Ye  Serve  Him  With  All  Your  Heart, 
Mind  and  Strength,  That  Ye  May 
Stand  Blameless  Before  God  at  the 
Last  Day"  (D.  &  C.  4:2). 

Objective:  To  emphasize  the  im- 
portance of  wholehearted,  conscien- 
tious service  and  to  show  that  to 
serve  God  means  to  serve  our  fellow 
men. 

Message  4— "Remember  That  With- 
out Faith  You  Can   Do  Nothing; 


Therefore  Ask  in  Faith  .  .  .  Do  Not 
Ask  for  That  Which  You  Ought 
Not"  (D.  &C.  8:10). 

Objective:  To  show  that  all  things 
are  possible  to  him  who  has  abso- 
lute faith,  and  who  exercises  it 
wisely. 

Message  5—".  .  .  Behold,  You 
Should  Not  Have  Feared  Man 
More  Than  God  . .  ."  (D.  &  C.  3:7) . 

Objective:  To  show  that  to  fear  God 
means  to  love  him  and  to  keep  his 
commandments  and  that  in  so  doing 
we  earn  the  respect  of  all  good  peo- 
ple. 

Message  6— "Fear  Not  to  Do  Good, 
My  Sons,  for  Whatsoever  Ye  Sow, 
That  Shall  Ye  Also  Reap;  Therefore, 
If  Ye  Sow  Good  Ye  Shall  Also  Reap 
Good  for  Your  Reward"  (D.  &  C. 
6:33). 

Objective:  To  emphasize  the  fact  that 
everything  we  do,  our  every  word  or 
deed  has  its  effect  for  good  or  evil, 
and  we  shall  be  blessed  through  our 
good  acts. 

Message  7— "Look  Unto  Me  in 
Every  Thought;  Doubt  Not,  Fear 
Not"  (D.&  0.6:36). 

Objective:  To  emphasize  the  fact 
that  when  we  place  our  complete 
trust  in  the  Lord  we  gain  strength 
and  peace  of  mind. 

Message  8—"  ...  Be  Faithful  and 
Diligent  in  Keeping  the  Command- 
ments of  God,  and  I  Will  Encircle 
Thee  in  the  Arms  of  My  Love" 
(D.  &  C.  6:20). 

Objective:  To  show  that  the  only 
way  to  earn  and  share  God's  love  is 
through  keeping  his  commandments. 


vi/ork    11  ieeting — Living  More  Abundantly 


Preview  of  Lessons  for  1957-58 
EldGi  William  F.  Edwards 


npHE  purpose  of  this  series  of  les- 
sons, ''Living  More  Abundant- 
ly/' is  to  help  each  family  live  more 
abundantly.  The  Prophet  Lehi 
understood  so  well  the  real  meaning 
of  life  when  he  stated,  .  .  .  ''men  are, 
that  they  might  have  joy."  Every 
person  should  be  challenged  to 
reach  that  high  ideal  to  the  greatest 
possible  degree.  We  should  strive  to 
have  a  well-managed  home  where 
the  wise  spending  of  money  will 
bring  a  more  abundant  life. 

We  must  desire  the  more  abund- 
ant life  so  strongly  that  we  will  chal- 
lenge our  present  way  of  doing 
things,  and  change  our  ways  when 
we  find  they  are  not  the  best.  As 
has  been  so  wisely  stated,  "We  can't 
make  footprints  on  the  sands  of 
time  sitting  down."  Equally,  we 
cannot  improve  the  way  of  our  daily 


living  without  dreaming  and  then 
working  to  make  those  dreams  come 
true.  And  what  could  be  more 
thrilling. 

The  questions  do  not  appear  at 
the  end  of  the  lessons,  but  will  be 
embodied  in  the  lessons. 

Titles  for  the  1957-58  course  of 
lessons  are  as  follows: 
Lesson  1.  Spending  Money  Wisely 
Lesson  2.  Licreasing     Our     Stand- 
ard of  Living 
Lesson  3.  Living  Economically 
Lesson  4.  Making     Money     More 

Valuable 
Lesson  5.  The     Family     and     the 

Home 
Lesson  6.  The    Importance   of   In- 
surance 
Lesson  7.  Debts  and  Trouble 
Lesson  8.  Savings  and  Added  Hap- 
piness 


Jiiterature  —  Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Preview  of  Lessons  for  1957-58 
Elder  Briant  S.  Jacobs 


\\7HETHER  you  come-  to  Shake- 
speare new  or  renewed,  this 
study  course  should  yield  abundant 
challenge  and  reward.  Class  lead- 
ers who  have  already  enjoyed  the 
first  year  of  "Shakespeare  in  Our 
Lives"  are  eagerly  anticipating  a 
second  year. 

Many  class  leaders  believe  with  us 
that  everyone  learns  most  aptly  and 
memorably  from  one  who  is  a 
friend.  Shakespeare  is  a  friend  and 
will  continue  to  prove  himself  so, 
both  in  the  study  course  immediate- 


ly ahead  and  in  decades  to  come. 
And  just  as  all  good  things  cease- 
lessly must  be  sought,  just  as  neces- 
sarily must  they  be  earned— and 
shared.  Prepare  to  share  insight 
into  greatness  now. 

Our  primary  goal  is  to  help  others 
know  Shakespeare  well  enough  that 
they  may  come  to  know  themselves 
more  deeply  and  truly,  both  indi- 
vidually and  in  the  sustaining  groups 
which  comprise  our  way  of  life. 
Three  subsidiary  goals,  but  nonethe- 
less vital  and  compelling,  are: 

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(i)  To  witness  with  wonder  and  hu- 
mility the  workings  of  genius  as  Shake- 
speare organizes  reality  into  communicat- 
ing words  and  dramatic  art  forms; 

(2)  To  realize  more  intently  within 
ourselves  the  timelessness  of  beauty  and 
immortal  truth; 

(3)  To  frame  Shakespeare's  name  with 
the  emotions  of  gratitude  and  love,  inas- 
much as  he  has  for  all  time  put  great 
words  in  our  mouths,  pure  poetry  in  our 
ears,  and  living  characters  embodying  wis- 
dom and  insight  into  our  hearts  and 
heads. 

Our  study  this  year  should  give  us 
a  concept  of  tragedy  as  it  deals  with 
universal  moral  issues  and  is  con- 
cerned with  great  problems  or  weak- 
nesses which  mankind  faces  at  one 
time  or  another. 

As  last  year,  the  text  is  G.  B. 
Harrison's  edition  of  Shakespeare's 
Major  Phys  and  the  Sonnets,  Har- 
court,  Brace  and  Company,  1948. 
It  is  recommended  that  each  class 
leader  have  this  text,  which  contains 
footnotes  at  the  bottom  of  each  page 
and  is  competently  edited. 

Lesson  titles  and  objectives  for 
1957-58  follow: 


Lesson  11— Twelfth  Night,  or  What 
You  Will  (Text,  pp.  565-599) 

Objective:  To  show  that  even  though 
exaggerated  through  comedy  situa- 
tions, Shakespeare's  characters  reveal 
to  us  traits  common  to  all  humanity. 


Lesson    1 2— The     Hamlet 
(Text,  pp.  600-654) 


Frame 


Objective:  To  appreciate  Shake- 
speare's most  provocative  drama  that 
we  may  find  new  meaning  for  our 
own  lives  and  deeper  or  more  ade- 
quate expression  to  our  thoughts. 


Lesson    1 3— Hamlet,     Prisoner 
Denmark  (Text,  pp.  600-654) 


in 


Objective:  To  seek  to  understand 
Hamlet's  mind  and  heart,  that  we 
may  better  understand  our  own. 


Lesson    14— King  Lear    (Text,  pp. 

780-827) 

Objective:  To  rise  above  life's  tan- 
gible trivia  and  conceits  and  feel 
about  us  the  sustaining  bonds  of  uni- 
versal family  love. 


Lesson     9— Wilh'am     Shakespeare, 
Dramatist 

Objective:  To  become  more  aware 
of  Shakespeare's  genius  in  integrating 
within  the  art-form  of  drama  the 
great  truths  and  eternal  conflicts  with- 
in all  mankind. 


Lesson  10— Othello,  The  Moot  of 
Venice  (Text,  pp.  700-743) 

Objective:  To  review  and  consider 
pride,  jealousy,  and  passion  as  tools  of 
self-destruction,  through  re-experienc- 
ing this  artistic  record  of  life's  truths. 


Lesson  1 5— Macbeth,  Villain  or  He- 
ro.^ (Text,  pp.  828-862) 

Objective:  To  realize  the  ruin  which 
comes  to  one  who,  possessed  of  basic 
virtues,  yields  to  the  powers  of  evil. 

Lesson  16— The  Tempest  (Text,  pp. 
1001-1031) 

Objective:  To  recognize  that  in  The 
Tempest  Shakespeare  shares  with  us 
a  serene  view  of  life;  and  to  perceive 
that  contentment  and  happiness  are 
dependent  upon  self-mastery  and 
reconciliation  with  our  fellow  men. 


Social  c5cimce  —  Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 


Preview  of  Lessons  for  1957-58 
Elder  ]ohn  Fan  Larson 

What  is  a  home  in  the  sight  of  God?  ...  I  define  home  as  being  a  divinely  ap- 
pointed institution  in  which  a  servant  and  handmaiden  of  the  Lord  prepare  themselves 
in  righteousness  to  receive  chosen  spirits  coming  from  our  Eternal  Father,  and  give  them 
bodies  in  the  flesh  for  mortal  probation,  and  then  undertake  with  all  the  power  at  their 
command  to  lead  these  spirit  children  entrusted  to  their  care  back  into  the  presence 
of  God  whence  they  came  (President  Stephen  L  Richards,  Address  at  Sunday  School 
General  Conference,  October  7,  1956). 


A  year's  study  of  the  Prophet  Jo- 
seph Smith's  teachings  and  con- 
tributions to  the  women  of  the 
Church  has  given  an  appropriate 
foundation  for  further  consideration 
of  the  Latter-day  Saint  family  and 
its  role  of  returning  its  members  to 
the  presence  of  God.  Having 
learned  of  the  personal  character- 
istics encouraged,  taught,  and  exem- 
plified by  the  Prophet,  as  well  as 
the  unique  relationship  of  women 
to  the  Priesthood,  as  clarified  by 
him,  we  are  now  ready  to  consider 
the  family  in  its  twentieth  century 
setting.  Perfection,  as  taught  by 
the  Prophet  and  his  inspired  suc- 
cessors, will  be  our  goal. 

In  the  social  science  lessons  for 
this  year,  an  effort  has  been  made  to 
discuss  the  basic  human  needs 
which  must  be  met  by  the  home 
and  family,  if  healthy  personalities 
are  to  result.  We  shall  view  the 
family  through  the  eyes  of  its  mem- 
bers at  various  age  levels,  and  we 
shall  note  the  contributions  of  these 
age  groups  to  the  family  develop- 
ment and  happiness.  The  character- 
istics of  the  Latter-day  Saint  home 
will  be  studied.  Our  relationship  to 
one  another  in  the  family,  and  to 
our  neighbors,  the  responsibilities 
of    these    relationships   as   well   as 


their  eternal  consequences  will  be 
our  concern. 

Latter-day  Saint  families  are  not 
without  problems,  but  these  prob- 
lems can  be  met  and  solved  better 
when  seen  in  proper  perspective  and 
when  the  solutions  applied  are 
based  on  Church  teachings.  ''Love 
at  Home''  will  have  a  new  meaning 
as  we  study  its  power  to  weld  fam- 
ily members  together  with  happi- 
ness. 

One  of  the  greatest  needs  in  the 
world  today  is  for  parents  who  are 
willing  and  who  make  themselves 
able  to  assume  fully  their  responsi- 
bilities and  their  role  in  the  family. 
If  the  Latter-day  Saint  family  is  to 
maintain  its  rightful  place  in  the 
social  structure  of  today  and  to  take 
its  place  in  the  eternal  scheme  of 
our  Heavenly  Father,  we  must  set 
our  households  in  order  by  putting 
first  things  first;  we  must  treat  fam- 
ily members  as  children  of  God, 
which  they  are,  and  help  each  of 
them  to  grow  in  faith  toward  per- 
fection; we  must  use  love  wisely  and 
make  living  happy  and  purposeful; 
and  we  must  make  the  Lord's  way 
our  way  of  life.  Only  then  can  we 
live  in  happiness  as  families,  in 
peace  with  our  neighbors,  and  in 
partnership  with  God. 

Page  409 


410 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JUNE  1957 


.  .  .  Moses,  herding  his  father-in-law*s 
sheep  at  Mount  Horeb,  saw  one  day  a 
flaming  bush,  and  the  flame  did  not  con- 
sume. Being  curious,  he  started  to  walk 
toward  this  flaming  bush,  and  the  voice 
of  the  Lord  came  out  of  the  bush  forbid- 
ding him  to  come  farther,  for,  said  the 
Lord,  ".  ,  .  the  place  whereon  thou  stand- 
est  is  holy  ground"  (Ex.  3:5).  So  I  think 
that  in  every  Latter-day  Saint  home  the 
Spirit  of  the  Lord  is  a  flaming,  non-con- 
suming fire,  there  to  light  our  way,  to 
guide  us,  to  protect  us,  and  to  help  us  do 
our  duty,  and  every  inch  of  space  in  the 
home  is  holy  ground.  We  should  never 
forget  it.  Always  remember,  and  always 
live  so  that  we  shall  not  defile  in  any  way 
the  holiness  of  the  home  which  should  be 
ours  (President  J.  Reuben  Clark,  Jr.,  Gen- 
eral Conference,  October  1951). 

The  lesson  titles  and  objectives 
for  1957-58,  the  second  year  of  the 
social  science  course,  ''Latter-day 
Saint  Family  Life/'  are  as  follows: 

Lesson  8— The  Family  Is  Forever 

Objective:  To  show  the  influence  of 
gospel  principles  on  the  Latter-day 
Saint  family. 

Lesson  9— Famih'es  Have  Piobhms 
Objective:    To    illustrate    the   nature 


and  extent  of  problems  which  face 
families  of  today. 

Lesson  10— Eternal  Marriage 

Objective:  To  show  the  significance 
of  temples  in  the  Church  of  Jesus 
Christ  and  the  advantages  of  temple 
marriage  to  the  family. 

Lesson  11— ''As  the  Twig  Is  Bent" 
Objective:  To  illustrate  how  we  are 
influenced  by  our  environment,  par- 
ticularly by  the  environment  of  the 
home. 

Lesson  12— Famih'es  Have  Members 

Objective:  To  show  how  the  family 
unit  meets  the  needs  of  the  various 
family  members. 

Lesson  13— Love— A  Basic  Ingredi- 
ent 

Objective:  To  show  that  love  is 
essential  for  family  happiness. 

Lesson  14— Families    Have    Neigh- 
hois 

Objective:  To  show  the  importance 
of  wholesome  neighborhood  relation- 
ships on  family  life. 


/  totes  on  the  Authors  of  the  JLessons 


T^HIS  year,  two  writers,  not  pre- 
viously represented  among  the 
authors  of  the  lessons,  are  intro- 
duced to  Relief  Society  members 
and  readers  of  the  Magazine.  They 
are  Elder  Roy  W.  Doxey,  author  of 
the  theology  lessons,  and  Elder  Wil- 
liam F.  Edwards,  author  of  the  work 
meeting  lessons.  Christine  H.  Rob- 
inson, author  of  the  visiting  teacher 
messages,  previously  wrote  the  work 


meeting  lessons  "The  Art  of  Home- 
making"  for  1950-51. 

Biographical  sketches  of  Elder 
Doxey,  Sister  Robinson,  and  Elder 
Edwards,  follow. 

pLDER  Roy  W.  Doxey,  author  of 
the  Relief  Society  theology  les- 
sons, "The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants," was  born  in  Ogden,  Utah, 
the  son  of  Thomas  and  Bessie  Wat- 


NOTES  ON  THE  AUTHORS  OF  THE  LESSONS 


411 


kins  Doxey.  He  was  graduated 
from  Weber  College  and  earned  his 
A.B.  and  Master's  degree  from 
George  Washington  University^ 
Washington,  D.C.,  in  1940.  He  was 
elected  to  membership  in  Pi  Gam- 
ma Mu,  social  science  honorary  so- 
ciety, and  Omicron  Delta  Gamma, 
honorary  economics  fraternity,  while 
attending  George  Washington  Uni- 
versity. 

Elder  Doxey  was  a  housing  econ- 
omist with  the  National  Housing 
Administration  until  1944,  at  which 
time  he  was  called  to  be  the  Presi- 
dent of  the  Eastern  States  Mission, 
with  headquarters  in  New  York 
City.  He  served  in  this  capacity  for 
more  than  four  and  one-half  years. 
In  1948,  he  became  a  member  of 
the  faculty  of  Brigham  Young  Uni- 
versity, where  he  is  chairman  of  the 
department  of  Bible  and  modern 
scripture  in  the  division  of  religion. 
He  has  long  served  the  Church  in 
both  Priesthood  and  auxiliary  lead- 
ership capacities. 

He  served  in  the  bishopric  of  the 
Arlington  Ward,  Washington  (D. 
C.)  Stake  and  also  was  active  in  stake 
missionary  work  and  on  the  high 
council  in  the  Nation's  capital.  In 
1930,  Elder  Doxey  served  a  mission 
for  the  Church  in  Eastern  Canada. 
Since  the  latter  part  of  1948,  he  has 
been  a  member  of  the  general  board 
of  the  Y.M.M.I.A. 

Elder  Doxey  married  Alberta 
Opheikens,  in  the  Salt  Lake  Temple 
in  August  of  1934,  and  they  are  the 
parents  of  three  sons  and  one  daugh- 
ter: Douglas  Allen,  seventeen; 
Clarke  Benson,  thirteen;  Kimball 
Roy,  eleven;  and  Cheryl  Diane, 
eight. 

He  is  the  author  of  lessons  for 


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the  M.  I.  A.  and  has  written  articles 
for  The  Relief  Society  Magazine 
and  The  Inipwvcment  Era.  He  is 
the  author  of  The  Doctiine  and 
Covenants  and  the  Future,  the  sec- 
ond edition  of  which  is  now  just  off 
the  press.  Under  the  direction  of 
the  First  Presidency,  he  dehvered  a 
series  of  addresses  during  the  latter 
part  of  1955  over  Radio  Station  KSL 
on  the  Sunday  Evening  Program  of 
the  Church. 

r^HRISTINE  H.  Robinson,  author 
of  the  visiting  teacher  messages, 
was  appointed  a  member  of  the  gen- 
eral board  of  Relief  Society  in  May 
1948.  She  is  a  daughter  of  Bryant 
S.  Hinckley  and  Christine  Johnson 
Hinckley.  Her  mother  died  when 
Christine  was  an  infant,  and  she 
was  reared  in  the  home  of  her  ma- 
ternal grandparents  in  Provo,  Utah, 
and  educated  in  the  Provo  City 
schools  and  Brigham  Young  Univer- 
sity. Later,  she  attended  New  York 
University  where  she  specialized  in 
home  economics  and  interior  decor- 
ating. For  several  years  she  was  a 
teacher  in  the  Foster  School  of  Fine 
Arts  in  New  York  City. 

Sister  Robinson  is  the  wife  of  O. 
Preston  Robinson,  General  Manager 
of  the  Deseret  News  Publishing 
Company,  and  the  mother  of  three 
children:  Miriam  Rebholz;  Bruce 
Hinckley  Robinson,  recently  re- 
turned from  the  British  Mission; 
and  Christine  Carol,  a  high  school 
student.  The  family  lived  for 
twenty  years  in  New  York  City, 
where  Sister  Robinson  was  active  in 
the  auxiliary  organizations  of  the 
Church,  particularly  in  Relief  So- 
ciety, where  she  was  a  class  leader, 
and  later  served  as  a  counselor  in 


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the  stake  Relief  Society  presidency. 
She  is  a  gifted  writer  and  has  con- 
tributed feature  articles  to  The  Re- 
Uei  Society  Magazine  and  other 
Church  publications.  She  has  also 
written  numerous  professional  ar- 
ticles for  newspapers  and  magazines, 
and  collaborated  with  her  husband 
in  writing  the  well-known  text  and 
reference  book  Successful  Retail 
Selling. 

I7LDER  William  F.  Edwards  was 
born  in  Emery,  Utah,  and  at 
the  age  of  eight  the  family  moved 
to  Rigby,  Idaho.  In  common  with 
so  many  young  men,  he  worked  his 
way  through  the  Brigham  Young 
University  and  there  met  his  eternal 
sweetheart,  Catherine  Eyring.  They 
were  married  in  the  Salt  Lake  Tem- 
ple, in  September  1929,  and  they 
have  six   children:    Carolyn    (Mrs. 


NOTES  ON  THE  AUTHORS  OF  THE  LESSONS 


413 


Clifford  Cline);  Weston,  also  mar- 
ried; and  Robert,  Mildred,  Cath- 
erine, and  William. 

After  graduation.  Brother  Ed- 
wards continued  his  education  at 
Columbia  and  New  York  Universi- 
ties by  working  in  the  financial  dis- 
trict. He  obtained  the  Master  of 
Science  degree  in  1930  and  the 
doctorate  of  Commercial  Science 
from  N.Y.U.  Graduate  School  of 
Business  in  1937.  His  major  sub- 
jects of  interest  were  banking,  eco- 
nomics, and  investments. 

From  1929  through  1950  Brother 
Edwards  was  engaged  in  investment 
and  banking  activities  in  New  York. 
The  family  moved  West  when  he 
was  appointed  Dean  of  the  College 
of  Commerce  at  the  Brigham  Young 
University,  effective  in  January 
1951.  In  1953  he  was  given  addi- 
tional duties  as  Vice-President  in 
charge  of  finance  and  business  ad- 
ministration for  the  University  and 
the  Church  School  System.  In 
April  1957,  he  was  appointed  Sec- 
retary of  Finance  to  the  First  Presi- 
dency. 

Always  active  in  the  Church,  he 
was  President  of  the  New  York 
Stake  at  the  time  the  family  came 
West.  Elder  Edwards  has  had  a 
special  interest  in  the  economic  wel- 
fare of  people,  and  he  is  qualified 
by  training  and  experience  to  pre- 
sent a  helpful  series  of  lessons. 

For  biographical  sketches  of  the 
authors  of  the  literature  and  social 
science  lessons,  see  the  following 
references  in  The  Reliei  Society 
Magazine : 

Elder  Briant  S.  Jacobs,  July  1949, 
page  471. 

Elder  John  Farr  Larson,  June  1956, 
page  412. 


1 1  lot  hers 

Lillian  E.  Miles 

I  used  to  smile  at  mother  hen 
Whose  ducklings  took  to  sea 
And  paddled  gaily  out  from  shore. 
Diving  merrily. 

But  now,  land-bound,  I  stand  in  fear. 
And,  anxious,  watch  the  sky; 
I  smile  no  more  at  mother  hen — 
My  lad  has  learned  to  fly! 


Kbpitome 

Vesta  N.  Lukei 

It  takes  a  single  meadow  lark 
To  make  a  spring, 
A  single  fern  frond  curled,  a  tree 
Bright  flowering. 

A  star,  a  cradle  moon,  a  firefly 

Flickering, 

Or  single  breath  of  violets 

Will  make  a  spring. 

A  hillside  slope  of  grasses,  green 
And  burgeoning. 

An  orange  blossom,  or  lilac  plume 
Holds  all  of  spring. 

What  joy!  For  me,  each  bird, 

each  bloom 
Each  single  thing 
Of  nature's  loveliness  creates 
Enchanting  spring. 


aiitch-uiik 


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Alice  Morrey  Baihy 

It  leaped  across  a  dreary  place 
And  made  it  lively,  sweet. 
Then,  passing  so  from  face  to  face, 
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Today  as  I  picked  up  my  December 
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for  every  issue  of  our  precious  Magazine. 
— Cleopha  J.  Jensen 

Brigham  City,  Utah 

I  have  read  and  enjoyed  The  Relief 
Society  Magazine  since  I  was  a  young  girl. 
I  offer  sincere  thanks  for  a  Magazine  filled 
with  so  much  value  we  can  have  just  for 
turning  the  pages,  and  it  takes  so  little 
effort  on  our  part  to  gain  it. 

— Mrs.  Ida  II.  Johnson 

Garland,  Utah 

I  appreciated  and  enjoyed  reading  the 
story  '"Hearts  United"  by  Frances  C.  Yost 
in  the  February  issue  of  the  Magazine. 
After  reading  her  article  in  the  May  1956 
Magazine,  '^So  You  Want  to  Write  a 
Storv,"  I  can  see  why  she  is  successful  in 
having  her  stories  published.  Everything 
she  said  I  believed,  and  it  was  very  in- 
spirational to  me. 

— Mrs.  Lily  Norton  Hortnagl 

Long  Beach,  California 

You  are  to  be  congratulated  on  the 
quality  of  the  work  you  are  able  to  main- 
tain in  The  ReUef  Society  Magazine.  It 
is  wonderful  for  poets  to  have  such  a  fine 
market  for  their  wares.  I  especially  enjoy 
the  frontispiece  poems. 

— Ethel  Jacobson 

Fullerton,  California 

I  wish  to  express  my  gratitude  to  all 
who  make  up  our  wonderful  Magazine. 
Being  converts  nearly  a  year  now,  the 
Magazine  has  helped  our  whole  family — 
a  mother,  three  sisters,  and  myself.  In  our 
time  of  sorrow  recently,  the  articles  pub- 
lished brought  great  comfort  to  us. 
— Mary  Jane  Gustafson 


Washburn,  Illinois 


In  reading  Thomas  S.  Monson's  address 
"Selling  The  Relief  Society  Magazine,"  in 
the  April  issue,  his  "Be  Chart,"  page  228, 
was  appropriate  to  the  hopeful  signs  of 
spring,  and  quite  provocative  of  poetic 
strivings   (laying  no  claim  to  talent): 

If  blessings  we'd  bring, 
Best  virtues  we'd  sing; 
Nor  leaving  a  sting, 

Be  a  Humble  Bee, 

Not  a  Bumble  Bee! 
— Sam  J.  Black 

Logan,  Utah 

I  enjoyed  the  editorial  "Yet  Your  Light 
So  Shine,"  by  Vesta  P.  Crawford,  in  the 
January  issue  of  the  Magazine.  I  ask  my- 
self "Is  my  light  shining  brightly  enough?" 
I  am  teaching  the  two  new  songs  to  my 
group  of  Singing  Mothers  for  the  March 
3d  program. 

— Dora  Toone  Brough 
Tremonton,  Utah 

I  have  just  finished  reading  the  short 
stories  in  the  April  issue  of  the  Magazine. 
They  are  all  so  excellent  that  I  cannot  de- 
cide which  one  of  them  I  like  best.  It 
is  a  real  joy  to  read  such  wholesome  real- 
istic work.  I  felt  myself  camping  in  the 
mud  with  Margery  Clark  (in  "Mountain 
Vacation,"  by  Deone  R.  Sutherland); 
walking  barefoot  with  Flo  Harris  (in 
"New  Shoes  for  Flo,"  by  Wanda  F.  Hil- 
ton); sharing  her  joy  in  the  acquisition  of 
a  new  baby  brother;  realized  the  reluctance 
of  Tom  Gordon  to  part  with  a  fine  piano 
(in  "Going  Modern,"  by  Frances  C. 
Yost);  and  poignantly  lived  with  Sally 
and  her  mother-in-law  through  the  storm 
(in  "Two  of  a  Kind,"  by  Maude  Rubin). 
There  is  no  doubt  about  it,  The  Relief 
Societ}'  Magazine  has  achieved  another, 
success  in  its  April  issue. 
— Gene  Romolo 

Provo,  Utah 

I  wish  to  express  my  pleasure  in  the 
Magazine,  with  the  history  of  our  beauti- 
ful Relief  Society  Building.  It  represents 
a  large  portion  of  what  faith  can  do,  in 
unison. 

— Mrs.  Delta  Williams 

Uravan,  Colorado 


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important  ones  en  route  to  manhood.  If  he  could  cut  the  cake  in  enough 
pieces,  he  would  like  every  one  of  you  to  share  this  experience  with  him. 

His  Dad  has  a  birthday  this  month,  too  .  .  .  one  of  two  he  has  every 
year.  His  real  birthday  is  in  November,  but  his  "insurance  birthday"  is  in 
May — six  months  earlier.  That's  the  date  the  premiums  increase  on  any  new 
life  insurance  he  takes  out. 

You  can  beat  the  birthdays  yourself  by  inviting  your  Beneficial  Life 
agent  over  for  his  visit  soon.  Ask  him  to  check  over  the  life  insurance  program 
you  now  carry,  and  see  if  it  meets  the  needs  of  your  growing  family  and  your 
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The  years  are  long,  but  oh,  how  fast  they  go! 

And  you  who  knew  our  towns  when  they  were  young 

Have  watched  their  early  struggles,  helped  them  grow 

To  busy  cities,  noisy,  neon-strung, 

Take  now  belated  thanks  so  long  deserved 

For  many  tasks  performed  for  men  unborn. 

However  simply  you  have  lived,  you  served. 

Who  wrested  wheatlands  from  the  drouth  and  thorn, 

Something  there  is  beyond  the  strength  of  man 

Which  stays  behind  when  he  is  deep  in  sod. 

And  something  which  you  left  for  us  will  span 

The  gulf  between  mortality  and  God— 

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A  very  dear  sister  of  the  Church,  Mrs. 
Stayner  Richards,  subscribed  to  have  The 
Relief  Society  Magazine  for\\'arded  to  me 
every  month.  I  would  hke  to  tell  you 
how  much  I  appreciate  its  wonderful,  in- 
spiring lessons,  also  how  much  I  look  for- 
ward to  receiving  this  beautiful  Magazine. 
— Mrs.  Oliver 

London,  England 

When  I  read  Alice  Morrey  Bailey's 
poem  "Ballerina"  in  the  May  issue  of 
The  Rehei  Society  Magazine,  I  was 
thrilled.  I  am  especially  fond  of  lyrics, 
and  this  one  not  only  dances,  it  sings. 
— Gene  Romolo 

Provo,  Utah 


Lael  Hill  did  a  beautiful  job  with  her 
article  "The  Gift — and  the  Giving  of 
Poetry"  in  the  May  issue  of  The  Relief 
Society  Magazine. 

— Ethel  Jacobson 

Fullerton,  California 


All  issues  of  The  Relief  Society  Maga- 
zine are  truly  outstanding.  We  in  the 
Church  can  justifiably  feel  proud  of  the 
publications  prepared  for  us.  No  other 
publications  equal  them.  Sister  Elna  P. 
Raymond  (of  the  general  board  of  Relief 
Society)  was  my  "mission  mother"  in 
the  Northern  States  Mission  in  1946-47. 
—Mrs.  Coleen  Hill 

St.  Anthony,  Idaho 


Thank  you  for  a  gracious  response  to 
my  letter  asking  birthday  recognition  for 
Mary  Ann  Smith  of  Randolph,  Utah.  One 
of  the  most  precious  things  about  Relief 
Society  is  that  older  women  feel  they  are 
needed  and  wanted.  I  hope  that  this  at- 
titude will  always  be  cherished.  So  much 
emphasis  is  placed  on  youth  at  this  time, 
but  I  feel  that  the  experience,  wisdom, 
and  tact  of  the  older  women  have  a  real 
value. 

— Faye  B.  Gardner 


Tacoma,  Washington 


I  enjoy  the  poetry  in  the  Magazine  so 
much.     It  seems  there  is  always  a  source 
of  inspiration  in  the  poetry  for  me. 
— Millicent  Kendall 

Blackfoot,  Idaho 

I  have  been  an  appreciative  subscriber 
and  reader  of  the  Magazine  since  my  mis- 
sionary days  in  1939-1941.  I  have  been  a 
counselor  and  class  leader  in  "our"  organ- 
ization, and  recognize  the  Relief  Society 
as  the  "Mother"  organization  in  the 
Church  as  the  Priesthood  is  the  "Father." 
—Wanda  F.  Hilton 

Walnut  Creek,  California 

I  enjoy  The  Relief  Society  Magazine 
and  read  it  from  cover  to  cover.  I  realize 
its  great  worth  to  the  women  of  our  organ- 
ization as  I  have  been  president  of  this 
Bothwell  Ward  Relief  Society  for  four 
years.  This  experience  is  giving  me  great 
pleasure  and  knowledge  I  could  get  no- 
where else. 

— Mabel  C.  Anderson 

Tremonton,  Utah 

I  would  like  to  say  how  very  much  we 
enjoy  our  wonderful  Magazine.  I  am  a 
convert  to  the  Church,  and  I  would  like 
to  tell  all  the  sisters  ever)'where  how 
much  the  Church  has  done  for  me.  I  am 
indeed  grateful  for  being  a  member. 
— Mary  Baker 

San  Jose,  California 

My  May  Magazine  came  yesterday,  and 
I  read  the  editorial  "Pen  in  Hand,"  by 
Vesta  P.  Crawford,  and  was  so  thrilled 
with  the  writing,  I  read  it  and  read  it. 
It  reads  like  something  out  of  Proverbs  or 
Psalms.  It  says  things,  too,  but  the  way 
they  arc  said  is  what  impressed  me  so 
forcibly.  It  is  really  a  poem  without 
rhyme.  I  liked  the  story  "This  Is  My 
Baby,"  by  Christie  Lund  Coles,  also,  and 
I  thought  Florence  Dunford's  story  "The 
Third  House  Down,"  was  very  good.  The 
Magazine  continues  to  become  better  and 
better. 

— Dorothy  Clapp  Robinson 

Boise,  Idaho 


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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of  the   Relief   Society  of   The   Church   of   Jesus    Christ   of   Latter-day    Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 

Belle  S.  Spafford President 

Marianne  C.  Sharp        -------         First  Counselor 

Helen   W.    Anderson  _.-_.-         Second   Counselor 

Hulda    Parker         -------         Secretary-Treasurer 

Anna  B.  Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S.  Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie    M.    Ellsworth 

Florence    J.    Madsen  Aleine  M.  Young  Charlotte  A.  Larsen  Mary  R.   Young 

Leone  G.  Layton  Josie  B.  Bay  Edith  P.  Backman  Mary  V.   Cameron 

Blanche  B.  Stoddard  Christine  H.  Robinson     Winniefred  S.  Afton  W.   Hunt 

Alberta  H.  Christensen      Manwaring  Wealtha  S.  Mendenhall 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Editor    -----------  Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Associate  Editor          ---------  Vesta  P.  Crawford 

General  Manager        - -.--  Belle  S.  Spafford 

Vol.  44  JULY  1957  No.  7 


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on  tents 


SPECIAL  FEATURES 

Habits  of  Industry  and  the  Abundant  Life  for  Children  and  Parents  Madeline  B.  Wirthlin  420 

The  South  African  Mission  Preston  R.    Nibley  424 

Let's  Visit  a  Desert  Botanical  Garden  Marijane  Morris  430 

The  Joy  of  Renewal  Naomi   M.   Manwaring  434 

The   Long   and    Short   of   Marriage   448 

America,  Cradle  of  Liberty  Elsie  Matthews  449 

Prayer   Celia   Luce  451 

Your  Child  Is  a  Music  Lover  Helen  Morris  452 

Life  Is  a  Journey  Cleopha  Jensen  463 

No  Hate  in  Our  Hearts  Wilma  Boyle  Bunker  487 

FICTION 

Holly— Part  I  Margaret   S.    Hardy  426 

Ice  Cream  for  the  "Fourth"  Maryhale  Woolsey  435 

The  Bright  Star — Chapter  5   Dorothy   S.    Romney  455 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

From  Near  and  Far  418 

Sixty  Years   Ago  440 

Woman's  Sphere  Ramona  W.  Cannon  441 

Editorial:  The  Spirit  of  the  Pioneer  Marianne  C.   Sharp  442 

Notes  to  the  Field:  Buying  Textbooks  for  Relief  Society  Lessons  444 

Notes  From  the  Field:  Relief  Society  Activities  Hulda  Parker     458 

Birthday   Congratulations    _  488 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes  From  the   South   African  Mission   Nora   C.    Duncan  445 

Leah  A.  Hamilton  Collects  Potted  Plants  and  Does  Handwork,  Weaving,  and  Painting  454 

When  Mother  Made  Butter  Mae  R.   Winters  486 

LESSON  DEPARTMENT 

Theology:   The  Lord  Speaks  Through  His   Prophets   Roy   W.   Doxey  464 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages:   "And  the  Voice  of  Warning  Shall  Be  Unto  All  People" 

Christine     H.     Robinson  470 

Work  Meeting:  Spending  Money  Wisely  William  F.   Edwards  471 

Literature:  William  Shakespeare,   Dramatist  Briant  S.    Jacobs  473 

Social  Science:  The  Family  Is  Forever  John  Farr  Larson  479 

POETRY 

To  Our  Forerunners — Frontispiece  Eva  Willes  Wangsgaard  41) 

Bread  of   Beauty  Gene   Romolo  423 

Lupine  and  Larkspur  Ivy  Houtz   Woolley  429 

Sorrow's   Treasure  Ada   Marie   Patten  434 

Mother  to  Daughter  ; Elsie   McKinnon   Strachan  438 

Mountain   Pine    Vesta   N.    Lukei  439 

Serenity   Dora   Toone    Brough  444 

Together  They  Walk  Maude  Rubin  447 

Fulfillment    Louise    Call    Nelson  462 

Black   Hills    Ethel    Jacobson  487 

Oh,  Foolish  Heart  Lillian  E.   Miles  488 

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Habits  of  Industry  and  the 

Abundant  Life  for  Children 

and  Parents 

Madeline  B.  Wiithlin 

My  son,  keep  thy  father's  commandment,  and  forsake  not  the  law  of  thy  mother: 
Bind  them  continually  upon  thine  heart,  and  tie  them  about  thy  neck.  When  thou 
goest,  it  shall  lead  thee;  \^hen  thou  sleepest,  it  shall  keep  thee;  and  when  thou 
awakest,  it  shall  talk  with  thee.  For  the  commandment  is  a  lamp;  and  the  law  is 
light  .  .  .   (Proverbs  6:20-23). 


THE  above  was  a  favorite 
Mutual  theme.  It  contains 
a  commandment  and  a  law, 
but  it  also  gives  great  and  wonder- 
ful promises  to  children.  To  par- 
ents, it  implies  the  responsibility  of 
example,  counsel,  good  judgment, 
justice,  kindness,  consideration,  and 
consistency.  One  sees  a  well-knit 
family  where  righteousness  and  love 
of  the  Lord  are  dominant,  where 
prayer  is  a  daily  ritual,  where  faith 
in  God  is  nurtured  and  where  love 
dominates  all  that  is  said  and  done. 
Summer,  vacation  time  is  here! 
The  children  are  home,  happy  in 
their  release  from  the  curtailments 
of  school.  What  promise  does  vaca- 
tion hold  for  us  as  a  family?  Are 
our  commandments,  as  parents, 
such  as  can  be  bound  about  the 
hearts  of  our  children— will  they 
truly  lead  them,  keep  them,  talk 
with  them,  and  be  a  lamp  and  a 
light  to  them  always? 

It  has  been  said  we  start  to  train 
a  child  at  the  birth  of  his  great- 
grandparents.  I  am  grateful  for  the 
training  the  paternal  grandparents 
gave  our  children  when  in  far-off 
England  a  great-grandfather  prayed 
for  divine  direction  to  find  the  true 
Church.     In  a  dream,  he  saw  the 

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hall  in  which  two  Mormon  mission- 
aries were  preaching.  He  accepted 
their  teaching,  and  after  years  of 
frugality  brought  his  ten  children 
to  Utah.  Struggle  and  privation  fol- 
lowed them,  but  their  loyalty  and 
devotion  to  the  Church  never 
failed.  Gratitude  increases  with 
thoughts  of  the  great-grandmother 
who  gave  birth  to  her  children  in  a 
dirt-roofed  dugout,  and  who  sold 
their  only  cow  that  her  husband 
might  go  back  to  Switzerland  to  car- 
ry the  gospel  message  to  his  native 
land.  She  then  sewed  salt  sacks 
for  one  dollar  a  thousand  to  support 
her  family.  The  maternal  grand- 
mother left  her  home  in  Christiania, 
Norway,  when  only  eighteen  years 
old  to  immigrate  to  Zion  alone  for 
the  cause  she  had  espoused.  She 
reared  a  family  of  twelve  children 
and  never  faltered  in  her  faith  and 
devotion  to  the  Church.  When 
the  maternal  grandfather  was  a  boy 
of  fourteen,  he  drove  his  widowed 
mother's  ox  team  across  the  plains 
and  then  supported  her  by  herding 
cattle  on  the  foothills  surrounding 
the  city.  Their  cabin  floor  was 
covered  with  straw,  ready  to  burn, 
if  their  Prophet  Brigham  Young 
gave  the  word  when  the  invading 


HABITS  OF  INDUSTRY  AND  THE  ABUNDANT  LIFE  421 

Johnston's    Army    came    into    the  sponsibihty  to  pay  your  tithing,  but 

city.  someone     else's     responsibihty     to 

Memory  takes  me  back  to  my  spend  it."  It  has  always  seemed 
childhood.  The  farm  was  large,  such  a  shame  to  take  thirty  minutes 
the  house  had  many  rooms,  and  the  to  do  the  dishes  when  they  could 
family  was  ever  increasing,  with  our  be  done  in  ten.  There  is  real  satis- 
own  children,  workmen,  and  guests,  faction  in  two  or  three  hustling 
There  was  always  work  to  do  and  with  plenty  of  clean  towels,  cloths, 
meals  to  prepare.  Milk  and  butter,  soapy  water  and  rinse  water  so  the 
fruit  and  garden  vegetables,  chick-  dishes  can  drain  shiny  bright  or  be 
ens  and  lambs  were  our  responsi-  wiped  and  put  straight  and  clean 
bihty.  Wool  was  washed,  carded,  on  the  cupboard  shelves.  Every 
and  made  into  warm  quilts  for  the  child  can  do  a  good  job  if,  as  adults, 
family  and  the  sheep  camps.  I  we  reahze  sustained  effort  cannot 
never  remember  of  being  tired  of  last  too  long.  It  is  better  to  give 
the  work.  We  all  worked  together,  them  a  boost  and  let  them  enjoy 
An  older  sister  always  had  a  young-  the  satisfaction  of  a  finished  job. 
er  one  to  do  the  upstairs  or  the  Kathy's  assignment  was  to  clean 
kitchen  work.  Mother  prepared  the  bathtub,  which  was  accom- 
the  meals  with  the  vegetables  and  pHshed  with  all  the  scouring  and 
took  care  of  the  milk,  but  it  was  rinsing  necessary  for  a  six-year-old, 
accepted  by  all  that  she  needed  help  although  her  school  dress  suffered 
when  we  had  finished  our  appoint-  from  cleanser.  Michele  was  to  dust, 
ed  tasks.  Yes,  the  lamp  shade  was  taken  com- 

What  pleasant  memories  of  the  pletely  off  and  rubbed  inside  and 
fun  and  jokes  we  enjoyed  while  out  before  it  was  precariously  re- 
picking  over  the  peas  on  the  shady  placed.  Grandfather  said  to  Jamie 
lawn  or  singing  the  arias  of  the  from  across  the  table,  ''If  you  will 
operas  in  which  the  girls  had  par-  stay  on  the  farm  with  us,  you 
ticipated.  While  picking  cherries,  can  have  your  pony  and  Queen,  the 
strawberries,  raspberries,  and  cur-  collie,  and  we  will  have  good  times 
rants  in  the  cool  of  the  morning  or  together."  Jamie  looked  up  with 
evening,  these  melodies  became  his  big  brown  eyes  and  said  serious- 
very  dear  to  our  hearts.  About  four  ly,  ''I  would  like  to.  Grandfather, 
o'clock,  nearly  every  afternoon,  all  but  my  mother  needs  me."  Yes, 
would  go  down  to  the  Cottonwood  he  was  needed— he  had  a  job  to  do 
Greek  for  a  swim.  We  followed  a  —a  definite  responsibility— his  moth- 
path  through  the  tall,  sweet-smell-  er  ''needed"  him!  When  we  are 
ing  meadow  grass  to  enjoy  an  hour  needed,  how  much  more  can  we  do 
of  complete  relaxation  and  enjoy-  —how  many  difficulties  can  be  over- 
ment.  come,  for  with  need,  there  is  ap- 
preciation, which  is  the  greatest 
lyrOTHER'S     admonitions     have  reward  for  work! 

carried  through  to  my  children  We  have  all  been  interested  in 

when  she  said,  "Let  your  head  save  ten-year-old     Robert     Strom     and 

your   heels,"   and,    "It   is   your   re-  Charles  Van  Doren,  two  TV  celeb- 


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rities,  who  have  won  great  sums  of 
money  recently.  I  have  wondered 
what  their  home,  family,  and  par- 
ents contributed  toward  their  amaz- 
ing mental  powers.  Mr.  Strom, 
Robert's  father,  said: 

We  feel  there  are  a  great  number  of 
gifted  children  all  over  the  country  who 
are  lost  because  their  very  young  curiosity 
is  not  satisfied  .  .  .  they  become  frustrated, 
get  lethargic  habits  and  their  interest  is 
atrophied, 

Mrs.  Strom  said: 

I  have  not  worked  since  the  children 
were  born.  I  am  staying  home  and  bring- 
ing them  up  myself.  We  never  have  a 
question  unanswered,  an  idea  undiscussed. 
We  always  had  a  policy  that  if  something 
wasn't  finished  we  couldn't  start  some- 
thing else.  My  favorite  motto  is  ''Not 
failure,  but  low  aim  is  crime."  As  long 
as  they  tried  their  best,  they  knew  no  one 
was  going  to  reject  them.  Once  something 
excites  their  interest  they  will  ask  many 
questions,  run  the  thing  down  to  the 
bottom.  If  we  can't  answer,  we  always 
point  out  how  they  can  find  it.  "Talk  to 
me"  is  a  favorite  phrase  around  our  house. 
"All  right,"  I  say,  "what  will  we  talk 
about?"  Then  we  discuss  the  project  of 
the  day  or  some  scientific  idea. 

Robert  said: 

I  think  I  have  been  curious  since  I  was 
born;  so  often  kids  don't  get  a  chance  to 
learn  enough  to  get  their  curiosity  satis- 
fied. 

(From  an  article  in  the  Deseiet  News- 
Salt  Lake  Telegram,  April  12,  1957,  by 
Joseph  R.  Marshall.  Quotation  used  by 
permission). 

f\F  Charles  Van  Doren,  it  is  said 
his  mind  comes  through  on  TV 
as  a  reasoning  instrument  that  ex- 
poses a  memory  clearly  embedded 
in  taste.  Everything  interested  him, 
nothing  was  unimportant.  He  had 
a  passion  for  getting  facts  straight 


and  checking  them  in  reference 
books.  He  read  the  dictionary  as 
living  literature.  When  he  looked 
up  a  word,  he  would  browse,  and 
the  next  thing  he  knew,  he  would 
read  four  or  five  pages.  One  week- 
end he  picked  up  the  Bible  and 
read  it  through.  He  systematically 
read  his  way  through  the  Columbia 
Library  stacks  on  English  Literature 
in  which  he  got  his  Ph.D,  averaging 
twenty  books  a  week  for  two  years. 
A  friend  said,  'T  have  always  thought 
the  Van  Dorens  the  most  success- 
ful family  Lve  ever  experienced  in 
terms  of  closeness,  intellectual  vital- 
ity, mutual  respect,  in  terms  of  ex- 
change of  ideas  and  the  flow  of 
electricity  that  keeps  everybody 
learning  all  the  time." 

Few  of  us  have  a  Robert  Strom 
or  a  Charles  Van  Doren  in  our 
homes,  but  we  can  stimulate  and 
help  to  satisfy  our  children's  curios- 
ity. If  we  have  a  good  dictionary 
and  an  encyclopedia,  we  can  answer 
correctly  most  of  their  questions. 
Grammatical  errors  and  mispro- 
nounced words  can  be  corrected  and 
not  forgotten  when  children  are 
young.  How  broad  would  our  ho- 
rizons be  as  parents,  if  we  continued 
intelligent  discussions  with  each  of 
our  children  through  the  elementary 
grades,  high  school,  and  college. 
Would  not  we  be  more  understand- 
ing parents,  better  Church  auxiliary 
teachers,  and  would  not  our  children 
know  and  enjoy  difficult  subjects 
better  if  they  had  the  opportunity 
to  explain  a  problem  to  an  under- 
standing father  and  mother  at 
home?  Summer  is  a  good  time  to 
catch  up  on  our  reading.  Libraries 
are  full  of  classics  that  when  read 
will  always  be  remembered. 


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423 


We  are  all  grateful  for  the  surge 
of  interest  taken  by  civic  clubs, 
newspaper  and  magazine  articles 
that  offer  real  help  and  many  sug- 
gestions for  compensating  work  op- 
portunities for  teen-agers.  Church 
auxiliary  and  playground  programs 
are  helpful  and  well-supervised.  Care 
should  be  taken,  however,  that  these 
activities  should  not  become  too  de- 
manding and  interfere  with  home 
responsibilities.  Music,  carpentry, 
cooking,  gardening,  and  sewing  fill 
a  need  in  every  child's  life. 

Are  we  not  told,  ''Seek  and  ye 
shall  find"?  What  are  we  seeking 
for  this  summer  vacation?  If  we 
were  given  one  wish,  we  might  say, 
'1  want  to  be  happy,  truly  happy, 
and   have   my   children   enjoy   this 


great  blessing."  I  am  sure  we  can't 
all  expect  to  be  happy  all  the  time 
when  we  know  ''some  rain  must 
fall,  some  days  must  be  dark  and 
dreary."    I  like  this  prayer: 

God  grant  me  serenity 
To  accept  the  things  I  cannot  change, 
The  courage  to  change  the  things  I  can. 
And  the  wisdom  to  know  the  difference. 

Ten  Rules  of  Happiness  have 
been  written  by  our  own  President 
David  O.  McKay.  They  are  beauti- 
fully written,  concrete,  and  practical. 
He  says  happiness  does  not  just 
come.  It  must  be  worked  for.  It 
must  be  earned.  May  these  rules 
be  incorporated  in  every  home,  that 
as  parents  and  children,  we  may  de- 
velop habits  of  industry  and  the 
abundant  life. 


cJen  LKules  for  diappiness 
By  Piesident  David  O.  McKay 


1.  Develop  yourself  by  self-disciphne. 

2.  Joy  comes  through  creation — sorrow  through  destruction.  Every  living  thing 
can  grow.     Use  the  world  wisely  to  realize  soul  growth. 

3.  Do  things  which  are  hard  to  do. 

4.  Entertain  upbuilding  thoughts.  What  you  think  about  when  you  do  not 
have  to  think  shows  what  you  really  are. 

5.  Do  your  best  this  hour,  and  you  will  do  better  the  next. 

6.  Be  true  to  those  who  trust  you. 

7.  Pray  for  wisdom,  courage,  and  a  kind  heart. 

8.  Give  heed  to  God's  messages  through  inspiration.  If  self-indulgence,  jealousy, 
avarice,  or  worry  have  deadened  your  response,  pray  to  the  Lord  to  wipe  out 
these  impediments. 

9.  True  friends  enrich  life.     If  you  would  have  friends,  be  one. 
10.     Faith  is  the  foundation  of  all  things — including  happiness. 


iuread  of  )Joeauty[ 

Gene  Komolo 

If  you  would  be  to  higher  being  borne, 

Choose  a  way  that  loveliness  has  spread 

With  perfumed  petals — 

Though  now  and  then  your  palms  be  brier-torn. 

Beauty  for  soul-sustenance  is  said 

To  be  as  needful  as  wheat  is  for  bread. 


Courtesy  South  African  Railways 
Submitted  by  Xora  C.  Duncan 


JOHANNESBURG,  SOUTH  AFRICA 


cJhe  South  J^frican    liiissLon 

Preston  R.  Nihley 

Assistant  Church  Historian 


AT  a  special  missionary  conference,  held  in  Salt  Lake  Citv  on  August  28, 
1852,  under  the  direction  of  President  Brigham  Young,  Elders  Jesse 
Haven,  Leonard  L  Smith,  and  \\^illiam  H.  \\'alker  were  called  to  open  a 
mission  for  the  Church  in  South  Africa.  These  faithful  brethren  made 
their  way  to  their  field  of  labor  in  po\ert\-  and  distress,  a  journev  \^hich 
consumed  more  than  six  months  time,  before  thev  reached  Cape  Town 
on  April  19,  1853.    Elder  Haven  was  designated  as  the  mission  president. 

As  soon  as  they  began  to  distribute  their  literature  and  hold  meetings 
the\"  met  with  opposition.  However,  a  friend,  Nicholas  Paul,  of  Mowbray, 
a  suburb  of  Cape  To\\n,  opened  his  house  to  them  and  offered  them  pro- 
tection. Meetings  were  held  in  this  home  and  the  first  con\ert,  Henrv 
Stringer,  was  baptized  on  June  15,  1853,  bv  Elder  Smith.  Other  baptisms 
followed,  and  on  August  15,  1853,  ^^^^  ^^^^  branch  of  the  Church  in  South 
Africa  was  organized  at  Mowbray. 

The  work  continued,  and  at  a  conference  held  at  Port  Elizabeth  on 
August  13,  1855,  it  was  reported  that  there  were  six  branches  of  the 
Church  in  the  South  African  Mission  with  a  total  membership  of  126. 

On  November  27,  1855,  Elders  Walker  and  Smith  began  their  return 
journey  to  Utah,  ''accompanied  by  fifteen  emigrating  saints."  In  December 

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Elder  Ilaxcn  left  Cape  Town  for  America,  and  the  work  was  left  in  the 
eharge  of  local  brethren. 

As  nianv  of  the  Saints  had  emigrated  to  Utah,  and  as  the  Ci\  il  W^ar 
was  being  fought  in  the  United  States,  the  South  African  Mission  was 
closed  in  the  i86o's.  Missionaries  were  not  sent  there  again  until  1903, 
when  Elders  Warren  FI.  Lyon,  William  R.  Smith,  Thomas  L.  Griffiths, 
and  George  A.  Simpkins  were  called  to  reopen  the  mission.  The  \^ork 
has  continued  since  that  time. 

On  March  31,  1957,  there  were  2,363  members  of  the  Church  in  the 
South  African  Mission,  located  in  seventeen  branches.  Glen  G.  Fisher  is 
the  mission  president.  Sixteen  Relief  Society  organizations,  with  249 
members,  were  reported  in  December  1936.  Holly  \\'ood  Eisher  presides 
over  the  South  African  Mission  Relief  Society. 

Note:  The  cover  for  this  Afagaznie,  "Victoria  Falls,  Rhodesia,  Africa,"  was  sub- 
mitted by  Nora  C.  Duncan,  former  president  of  the  South  African  Mission  Relief 
Society.     See  also  "Recipes  From  the  South  African  Mission,"  page  445. 


,^:^^ 


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Cuuitcs>   South  African  Railways 
Submitted  by  Nora  C.  Duncan 


CAMPS  BAY,  CAPE  TOWN,  AFRICA 


Holly 

Part  I 

Margaret  S.  Hardy 


THE  red  hills  had  never  been 
so  hot,  nor  the  sun  so  cruel. 
Holly's  legs  moved  like  stilts 
over  the  rocky  path  that  led  to  the 
cabin  in  the  hollow  below.  Heat 
waves  rising  from  the  scorched  earth 
fanned  her  face  as  though  a  grass 
fire  burned  at  her  feet.  The  sharp, 
spiny  fingers  of  a  mesquite  bush 
clung  to  her  skirts  and  she  tugged  to 
free  them. 

''Grabbing  thorns/'  she  cried  as 
she  tried  to  work  them  loose.  ''Oh, 
what's  the  use  to  spare  this  old 
thing?" 

A  sudden  pull  and  the  bush 
snapped  back  triumphant,  holding 
a  wool  piece  of  faded  red. 

The  goal  was  in  sight.  A  few 
more  steps— then  a  step  from  the 
path  and  shade;  a  resting  place  worn 
smooth  from  use  before.  She  settled 
herself  down,  her  back  against  the 
curve  of  the  gnarled  pine  trunk  and 
closed  her  eyes  against  the  glare, 
then  opened  them  again.  Her  home 
was  in  view  from  where  she  sat,  and 
Jesse  somewhere  near— the  garden 
by  the  stream's  edge  burned  as  red 
as  the  earth  in  which  it  grew.  How 
they  had  struggled  to  save  it  when 
the  creek  began  to  dry,  coaxing  the 
last  trickle  of  water  into  pans.  But 
the  withering  Utah  sun  had  won  the 
battle,  with  even  the  springs  that 
fed  the  tiny  reservoir  above,  threat- 
ening to  dry.  Water.  That  was 
what  she  wanted.  Everyone  here 
was  thirsty  all  the  time  it  seemed. 

A  Mormon  bride  of  seventeen, 
she  had  come  to  this  land  of  promise, 

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leaving  family  and  loved  ones  far 
behind.  She  and  Jim  would  build 
a  home  here  in  the  wilderness— 
their  children  would  inherit  it,  and 
their  roots  would  go  down  strong 
and  deep.  A  log  cabin  was  their 
home  now,  a  stone  house  to  come 
later,  a  story  and  a  half,  and  it 
would  tower  there  above  the  cedars. 

Holly  braced  one  hand  on  the 
ground  beside  her,  the  other  she 
laid  on  the  rock  cleft  at  her  side  and 
pulled  herself  to  her  feet.  The  path 
grew  steeper,  with  each  stone  trying 
to  roll  when  she  stepped  on  it.  Three 
weeks  by  her  count— could  be  only 
two,  and  she  would  be  lithe  again 
and  never  care  a  fig  for  the  stones 
in  her  path.  But  she  would  never 
attempt  the  trail  again  in  this  con- 
dition.   Never. 

July  into  August,  and  the  promise 
of  more  glimmering  sun  continued 
unbroken,  relentless  heat.  Food  bins 
nearby  empty  and  crops  shriveling 
back  into  the  ground  brought  the 
farmers  to  their  knees  and  the  In- 
dians to  their  rain  dances,  praying 
for  the  miracle  that  would  save  them 
—rain. 

This  August  day  started  as  every 
day  that  summer  had  started;  with 
Jesse  up  and  out  searching  the 
heavens,  determined  that  the  bar- 
ren sky  should  yield  its  share  to  life. 
Holly  watched  the  morning  ritual 
from  the  open  doorway,  hoping  with 
him,  laughing  when  he  wet  a  finger 
and  held  it  up  to  catch  a  hoped-for 
breeze.  He  stood,  a  giant  in  her 
eyes,  strong  and  noble,  a  man  to 


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lean  on,  and  willing.  She  loved 
everything  about  him.  Everything. 
As  she  watched  this  morning,  a 
quickening  of  his  movements  told 
her  something  stirred.  Again  and 
yet  again,  his  hand  went  up  before 
him.  Suddenly  he  turned  and 
bounded  toward  her. 

'Today  we'll  have  rain,  Holly 
love,"  burst  from  his  lips. 

''And  maybe  more.''  Holly  whis- 
pered it,  for  even  now  the  twinge 
grew  faintly  stronger. 

npHE  rain  came  as  Jesse  had  said; 
in  large,  separate  drops,  mak- 
ing little  mounds  where  the  dust 
puffed  up  as  it  fell.  A  gentle  rain 
it  was,  feeling  its  way  to  the  thirsty 
earth.  They  went  outside  and  let 
the  huge  drops  splash  on  their  up- 
turned faces  in  childish  delight. 

"It  will  cool  you  down,"  Jesse 
said,  "then  let  me  go  for  Stacy." 

Of  a  sudden  the  rain  stopped  as 
they  stood  there.  The  trees  stopped 
their  quivering  and  the  darkening 
sky  turned  darker  still.  Hushed, 
dead  silence  hung  from  the  leaden 
sky  holding  all  in  its  grasp.  Then, 
like  giant  cymbals  clashing  together, 
a  thunderclap  crashed  down  over 
the  hills,  bringing  torrents  of  water 
sweeping  down  from  the  sky.  Holly 
threw  her  hands  over  her  ears,  cry- 
ing out  her  terror,  with  Jesse  pulling 
to  get  her  to  the  cabin. 

A  fire,  stirred  up  from  dying  em- 
bers, to  dry  her  dripping  hair;  a 
rocking  chair;  and  Jesse  at  the  win- 
dow, the  storm  his  interest— Holly's 
thoughts  on  Stacy,  wishing  she  were 
here.  But,  no  bother.  It  took  days 
at  times,  so  she  had  been  told;  and 
time  for  supper,  rain  or  not. 
Still 


"Jesse?  How  can  Stacy  come  in 
this  storm?" 

"Now,  Holly  love."  He  turned 
at  hearing  Stacy's  name.  "The  storm 
won't  last  for  long.  It  is  coming 
all  at  once  and  will  end  as  it  start- 
ed." 

"I  can  wait,  Jesse.  It  will  be  a 
while  yet.  In  the  morning  maybe— 
and  it's  suppertime." 

The  sound  of  horse's  hooves  slosh- 
ing near  the  window  made  Jesse 
jump  from  the  table  to  pull  open 
the  door.  An  excited  voice  calling 
out  reached  Holly's  ears. 

"There's  been  a  cloudburst  The 
dam's  washing  away.  We  need 
men." 

Jesse  wheeled  around  to  look 
askance  from  Holly's  startled  face. 

"They  need  you.  I  need  you, 
too.  Oh,  Jesse.  The  dam— our 
house— we're  right  in  the  path  .  .  .  ." 

Jesse's  hands  gripped  her  shoul- 
ders. "Look  at  me.  Holly.  What 
shall  I  do?  A  broken  dam  will  flood 
the  settlement  below.  Our  house 
will  go,  too.  Say  it.  Holly.  If  you 
need  me,  I'll  stay.    Is  it  time?" 

"How  do  I  know  if  it's  time?  I've 
never  had  .  .  .  ."  She  stopped  and 
closed  her  eyes,  found  control  of  her 
rising  voice.  "Go,  Jesse.  But,  hurry 
back.  And  get  word  to  Stacy  if  you 
can." 

OE  was  gone— vanished  into  the 
downpour  of  the  deepening 
night,  and  Holly  was  alone.  She 
leaned  against  the  closed  door  to 
steady  herself,  for  her  body  went 
weak  with  fear  and  all  strength  was 
gone.  Rain!  How  badly  they  had 
wanted  it,  and  now  it  came  and 
threatened  to  destroy  everything— 
even  herself,  perhaps,  if  Stacy  didn't 


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come.  Across  the  cabin  she  swayed 
and  knelt  down  by  the  bed,  her  head 
bowed  to  her  hands,  and  prayed— 
for  Jesse  and  the  men— and  for  the 
dam— and  for  herself  and  her  babe 
soon  to  be  born — and  for  Stacy. 

Her  terror  lifted  somewhat  and 
her  strength  came  slowly  back  so 
that  she  busied  herself  with  what- 
ever she  could  find  to  do.  But  each 
hour  became  a  night,  and  morning 
a  thing  never  to  come.  Water  ran 
a  steady  stream  across  the  cabin 
floor.  The  bottom  of  her  night- 
dress clung  like  ice  sheets  around 
her  legs  as  she  walked  and  rocked, 
walked  and  rocked,  until  she 
climbed  feebly  into  bed,  only  to 
pull  herself  back  out  again. 

The  cookstove  She  had  forgot- 
ten the  fire  in  the  cookstove.  That 
would  warm  her.  Split  logs  laid  on 
embers  burst  into  flame,  and  she 
cried  out,  half  laughing,  half  crying 
at  sight  of  the  dancing  blaze.  Almost 
immediately  the  room  became  so 
hot  she  dripped  with  perspiration. 
Slowly  she  sank  into  the  rocker  and 
raised  her  feet  to  the  oven,  hot  and 
cold  at  the  same  time.  And  then 
the  candle  went  out.  It  was  that 
that  made  her  do  it.  Panic  took 
her  senses  and  she  could  not  find 
another  candle. 

The  creek  roared  louder  in  the 
dark,  a  terrifying  enemy.  The  lone- 
liness became  unbearable,  and  she 
put  a  coat  over  her  shoulders  and 
went  out  into  the  storm. 

The  trail  over  the  hill  seemed 
not  so  far  with  Stacy  waiting  at  the 
other  end.  The  thunder  seemed  to 
be  farther  in  the  distance,  and  the 
hardest  of  the  pelting  rain  had 
ended.  Yet,  how  could  a  trail  so 
well    remembered    in    the    daytime 


have  to  be  felt  for  now?  Hands 
found  familiar  places;  rocks  which 
days  before  had  threatened  to  un- 
foot  her  were  friends  to  hold  her 
feet  against  the  slippery  clay.  It 
was  two  steps  up  and  a  slide  hack- 
but progress  nonetheless,  with  each 
step  a  prayer  that  she  would  find 
her  way  in  time.  Holly  reached  the 
rock  where  last  she  had  sat  and 
vowed  not  to  pass  the  rocky  trail 
soon  again.  She  stopped  and 
squeezed  the  water  from  her  sodden 
hair.  The  crest  of  the  hill  was 
ahead,  then  the  down  path  and  not 
far  to  go.  Sucking  clay  pulled  at 
her  shoes,  so  sodden  and  heavy  she 
could  no  longer  pick  them  up  one 
before  the  other;  so  she  pulled  her 
feet  free  and  left  the  only  shoes  she 
owned  buried  in  the  mud  on  the 
trail. 

Now  she  prayed  aloud  in  gasping 
breath  as  she  worked  her  way  up 
the  hill;  then  she  called  for  Jesse 
until  she  felt  herself  go  suddenly 
warm  and  pleasant  with  a  comfort- 
ing weakness  where  pain  had  been. 
This  is  how  people  die,  she  thought. 
This  is  where  they'll  find  me— lying 
here  on  the  muddy  trail.  The  last 
ounce  of  strength  ebbed  from  her 
body.  There  was  only  the  warmth 
and  the  weakness  and  the  sound  of 
her  own  voice  calling  —  Jesse  —  far 
away  as  in  a  dream. 


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'HEN  Holly  opened  her  eyes  it 
was  daylight,  and  she  was 
lying  in  a  bed.  She  snapped  her 
eyes  shut  again.  Her  hands  explored 
the  rough  woolen  quilt.  She  felt 
so  good,  the  air  smelled  so  clean— 
and  new— like  freshly  washed  clothes 
not  yet  worn.    She  opened  her  eyes 


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again.  A  ribbon  of  water  trickled 
down  the  wall  near  the  foot  of  the 
bed.  She  strained  to  hear  some- 
thing forgotten  for  the  love  of  this 
sweet  moment.  Rain!  Jesse!  The 
horrible,  slippery  trail.  She  popped 
up  to  a  sitting  position  and  looked 
around  her. 

''Stacy!''  A  cry,  this,  from  a 
throat  hoarse  with  crying.  ''Stacy! 
How  did  I  get  here?  Where's  Jes- 
se?" 

"No  need  to  cry  out  now,  Holly, 
nor  to  fret.  It's  all  over— and  don't 
kick  up  the  end  of  the  bed.  You'll 
send  your  son  a  flying." 

Jesse  stood,  when  he  came,  in  the 
doorway,  a  man  grown  older  in  a 
night.  He  stood  with  shoulders 
stooped  a  little,  the  bold  stance  of 
his  legs  gone,  as  he  paused,  shaking 
the  water  from  his  hair,  brushing 
down  his  trousers  with  one  hand. 
In  the  other  he  held  a  silty  cloth 
behind  him.  Holly  tried  for  a  smile, 
but  brought  a  flood  of  tears  instead 
that  had  Jesse  on  his  knees  by  the 
bed. 

"It  is  all  over  now.  Holly  love," 
he  exclaimed,  "and  you  a  moth- 
er. .  .  ."  His  head  burrowed  on  her 
chest,  his  voice  came  muffled.     "I 


never  should  have  left  you.  Not 
ever."  He  raised  his  head  and 
found  Holly's  hand  warm  in  his. 
"What  fortune  I  found  you  when 
I  did.  Your  nightdress  white  against 
the  blackened  trail  stopped  the 
horse  from  trampling  you  where  you 
lay." 

"I  thought  I  would  die  on  the 
trail.  I  did  for  truth.  .  .  .  What  do 
you  have  in  your  hand,  Jesse?" 

"Your  bonnet.  It  was  hanging  on 
a  bush  near  where  the  cabin  door 
had  been  tossed  there  by  the 
water." 

"And  everything  is  gone?" 

"Everything." 

"And  those  below?" 

"Washed  out  some.  Not  much 
left  for  the  sun  or  the  crickets  or 
for  anyone  else.  But  don't  you 
worry.  Holly  love,  the  Lord  won't 
see  us  starve." 

"Oh,  Jesse!  Your  love  is  true, 
and  mine  as  strong  as  yours." 

And  on  that  day  Holly  started  a 
diary: 

August  17,  1854 

So  much  has  come  to  us  this  day.  Our 
home  is  gone,  the  plantings  washed  away 
— and  I  have  had  a  baby. 

{To  be  concluded) 


JLupine  and  JLarkspur 

Ivy  Houtz  Woolley 

Hot  fingers  of  the  sun  stay  not  their  will  to  rise 

And  bloom  abo\'e  the  sand,  blue  magic  in  their  eyes. 

Hot  fingers  of  the  wind  touch  petals,  tenderly, 

Then  leave  each  silken  flower  to  glow  where  none  can  see. 

Blue  gypsies  of  the  waste,  with  Stardust  on  their  lips — 
Winged  nomads  of  the  plains  find  nectar  in  deep  sips. 
In  azure  velvet  dress,  they  stand  in  clusters  tall, 
The  desert  urges  them  to  blossom  at  her  call. 

Blue  gypsies  of  the  waste,  small  fragments  of  the  sky, 
Come  bringing  subtle  charm  where  all  is  drab  and  dry. 


cJLets   Visit  a  ^Jjesert  [Jjotanical  Cfardi 

Maiijane  Moiiis 


^       en 


Mountain-born,  island  born,  or  in    the    New    World.    There    are 

from  the  desert  country,  you  something  like  one  hundred  genera 

will  find  yourself  completely  and   1,800  species,  wild  and  culti- 

fascinated  when  you  begin  the  na-  vated.     Here  in  the  Desert  Botan- 

ture  walk  in  the  Desert  Botanical  ical  Garden,  there  are  8,000  to  9,000 

Garden  of  Arizona  at  Tempo.  species  of  desert  plants,  of  which 

This  garden  (on  Highway  89)  is  about  1,300  are  cacti, 

not  marked  with  road  advertising.  Once  we  let  a  cactus  or  any  desert 

There  are  only  a  simple  sign  and  plant  ''stick  us,"  we  are  forever  awed 

stone    entrance    posts    proclaiming  by  this  vegetation  that  survives  in 

what  it  is,  and  marking  the  way  into  an  area  of  little  rainfall,  a  high  per- 

an  enchanted  land  of  thousands  of  centage     of     sunshine,     and     high 

desert  plants  in  a  single  setting.    In  temperatures.     Only  the  most  he- 

this  world  plants  grow  erect,  climb,  roic    of    plants    can    prosper    in    a 

creep,  or  are  just  small  growths  in  desert. 

the  ground.     Their  very  grotesque-  The  plants   now  on   our  deserts 

ness  will  rouse  your  admiration  and  seem  even  more  remarkable  when 

respect.  we  learn  that  they  are  relics  of  a 

The  Desert  Botanical  Garden  is  heavy  plant  population  that  once 
operated  by  the  Arizona  Cactus  and  occupied  the  area  when  rainfall  was 
Native  Flora  Society,  a  non-profit,  greater.  These  survivors  gradually 
educational  organization  supported,  built  up  resistance  to  drought  con- 
in  part,  by  an  endowment  from  the  ditions  as  the  area  became  increas- 
late  Gertrude  Divine  Webster,  but,  ingly  dry. 

principally,  by  membership  and  do-  Many  of  us  know  by  sight  the 
nations.  It  costs  the  visitor  nothing  stately  Saguaro  (so-wha'ro).  This 
to  see  these  plants  in  a  setting  pro-  cactus  is  Arizona's  state  flower  and 
duced  by  many  hours  of  planning,  the  best  example  of  the  desert's  liv- 
vision,  love,  and  dedication.  All  ing  reservoir.  The  pronounced  ribs 
that  could  be  required  of  anyone  is  of  this  plant  expand  and  contract  in 
a  camera  permit  and  that  the  tourist  accordion  fashion  to  store  and  use 
stay  on  the  black-topped  walks  and  water.  The  one  in  the  Botanical 
away  from  the  cacti.  (There  are  Garden  is  approximately  180  years 
seeds  that  might  be  killed  and  plants  old.  The  Saguaro  produces  a  waxy, 
too  small  to  be  seen.)  For  a  small  showy  flower,  followed  by  red, 
amount,  the  visitor  may  purchase  a  juicy  fruits  of  delicious  flavor,  and, 
bulletin  giving  detailed  information  if  you  have  ever  wondered  at  holes 
about  each  species.  The  different  found  in  their  stems,  they  are  pro- 
kinds  of  cacti  and  other  desert  plants  duced  by  the  Gila  woodpecker.  This 
are  numbered  to  correspond  with  bird  finds  the  Saguaro  a  wonderful 
the  numbers  in  the  pamphlet.  place  to   nest.     The   Saguaro   is  a 

You  may  be  surprised  to  find  that  sensitive  but  stubborn  plant.  When- 

cacti  are  found  almost  exclusively  ever  it  is  disturbed  either  by  wind 

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TEMPE,  ARIZONA 


or  earth  movement,  it  is  likely  to 
throw  out  another  branch.  Saguaro 
wood  can  be  fashioned  into  furni- 
ture, lamps,  can  be  used  in  house 
construction,  and  in  numerous  other 
ways. 

It  doesn't  take  long  to  recognize 
the  chollas  (chaw-ya),  either,  and 
there  are  thousands  of  other  curious 
and  beautiful  varieties  found  in  the 
Desert  Botanical  Garden.  Among 
these  are  the  so-called  ''jumping 
chollas."  These  cacti  are  supposed 
to  jump  at  unwary  visitors  to  the 
desert. 

AS  we  continue  through  the  Des- 
ert Botanical  Garden,  we  find 
at  stake  number  six,  a  cactus  called 
the  "Old  Man  of  the  Desert."  Here 
is  truly  an  oddity.  The  spines  have 
a  hair-like  appearance  and  cover  the 
tall,  pole-shaped  cactus  as  does  an 


old  man's  beard.  Their  spines  look 
soft,  but  how  deceiving!  This  plant 
is  young  and  is  expected  to  attain 
a  height  of  thirty  feet  or  more. 

Before  you  finish  your  walk^  you 
may  have  a  favorite  cactus  picked 
out.  Maybe  it  will  be  the  creeping 
plant  called  the  caterpillar  cactus. 
This  one  is  found  only  on  the 
Magdalena  Plains  of  Baja,  Gali- 
fornia,  outside  of  cultivated  gardens. 
One  wonders  where  its  roots  are,  as 
its  branches  crisscross  over  each  oth- 
er. If  we  consult  our  pamphlet,  we 
read  that  its  roots  form  the  portion 
of  the  stem  against  the  ground  and 
that  it  grows  forward  at  the  rate  of 
about  five  inches  a  year,  dying  off 
at  the  back  at  the  same  rate.  In  its 
native  soil  it  forms  dense  colonies. 
It  is  correctly  named;  it  looks  like 
a  caterpillar  on  the  crawl.  But  un- 
like  the   caterpillars  we   know,   its 


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Photographs  by  Josef  Muench 

NIGHT-BLOOMING 
CEREUS 


YUCCA  BLOSSOMS 

(Desert  Lily) 
Family   Liiiaceae 


PRICKLY  PEAR 

Opuntia  EngJmannii 


dagger-like  spines  can  penetrate  the 
heaviest  of  boots. 

As  we  follow  along  the  trail,  we 
discover  the  organ-pipe  cactus,  which 
has  a  night-blooming  flower  and  a 
delicious  fruit.  Quite  possibly,  we 
may  look  at  the  next  plant  and  ex- 
claim: ''A  Saguaro"  But  it  isn't.  It 
resembles  its  relative,  the  Saguaro, 
and  meets  the  Arizona  cactus  just 
south  of  the  border,  but  from  there 
on  it  belongs  to  Baja,  California, 
and  Sonora,  Mexico.  Technically  it 
is  called  Pachycereus  pringJei.  How- 
ever, once  we  have  seen  the  knobby 
surface  of  this  totem-pole  cactus  we 
will  never  forget  it.  It  lacks  the 
pronounced  ribs  of  most  cacti  and 
has  a  bumpy  surface  much  like  an 
Indian  totem  pole. 

As  this  garden  contains  not  only 
cacti,  but  desert  plants  of  all  kinds, 
you  will  discover  that  the  century 
plant  and  the  Joshua  tree,  and  many 
other  plants  in  this  garden  are  not 
true  cacti.  The  century  plant  is  a 
curious  thing,  which  spends  its  en- 
tire life  storing  food  and  water  in  its 
leaves  and  then  sends  up  a  flower 


stalk,  five  to  thirty-five  feet  into  the 
air.  This  stalk  shoots  upward  at 
the  almost  unbelievable  rate  of  six 
to  sixteen  inches  a  day.  Its  lifetime 
is  over  after  it  produces  one  crop  of 
flowers  and  the  accompanying  fruits. 
This  plant  belongs  to  the  Amaryllis 
family. 

The  Joshua  tree  is  a  member  of 
the  lily  family.  It  is  regarded  as  the 
oldest  living  thing  on  the  desert! 
Some  are  estimated  to  be  i  ,000  years 
old.  Yucca,  the  ''Spanish  Bayonet," 
with  its  radiant  creamy  blossoms, 
also  belongs  to  the  lily  family  and 
adorns  the  deserts  throughout  the 
Southwest.  The  prickly  pear  is  said 
to  be  the  only  other  desert  plant 
whose  range  is  more  widespread. 

Most  of  us  recognize  the  Ocotillo 
(ok-o-te-yo)  or  scarlet  torch,  also 
not  a  cactus.  For  much  of  the  year 
the  Ocotillo  presents  leafless,  spiny 
wand-like  stems  up  to  twelve  feet 
long,  all  arising  from  the  common 
base.  When  it  rains  these  stems 
leaf  out  with  small  groups  of  leaves 
at  the  base  of  each  spine.  Then, 
in  a  few  days,  the  scarlet,  tubular 


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flowers  grow  from  the  apex  of  each 
stem,  and  as  the  flowers  open  the 
leaves  fall  off.  At  the  next  rainfall 
the  process  starts  all  over  again. 

A  S  every  story  or  event  must  have 
a  high  interest  at  one  point,  so 
does  our  nature  walk  through  the 
Desert  Botanical  Garden.  It  is  the 
aluminum  lath  house  we  reach  about 
half  way  through  our  walk.  There 
is  enough  lath  in  this  desert  shelter 
to  reach  to  the  heart  of  Phoenix, 
westward  some  eight  miles.  Hun- 
dreds of  cacti  and  desert  plants  are 
housed  here,  the  ones  that  cannot 
take  the  full  sun  or  the  winter 
temperatures  or  which  must  have 
humidity.  The  soil  is  especially 
prepared  and  the  plants  are  in  raised 
beds.  They  thrive  in  this  soil  and 
atmosphere.  (The  soil  consists  of 
silt,  sharp  sand,  and  fertilizer.) 

In  this  lath  house  are  some  of  the 
garden's  most  unusual  plants.  There 
is  a  cactus,  Pereskia,  a  plant  from 
the  West  Indies  which  represents 
the  first  transition  from  roses  to 
cacti.  There  is  the  plant  with  small 
blood-red  blooms  called  ''crown  of 


thorns,"  which  belongs  to  the  Poin- 
settia  family,  and  the  ''firecracker" 
species  of  cacti  from  South  America. 
This  type  has  red  day  flowers  that 
resemble  firecrackers  in  size,  shape, 
and  color.  There  is  a  swamp  cactus 
that  requires  so  much  water  during 
hot  weather  that  an  overhead 
sprinkler  operates  day  and  night  to 
stimulate  natural  environment.  In 
a  glass-topped  display  case,  are 
species  of  the  fig-marigolds  from 
South  Africa,  which  closely  resemble 
the  pebbles  among  which  they  grow. 
The  lath  house  shelters  desert  spec- 
ies of  the  pineapple  family,  trees  and 
shrubs  of  the  American  and  African 
deserts,  including  two  elephant- 
wood  trees  and  a  coral  tree,  as  well 
as  crested  forms  of  cacti.  This 
cresting  is  a  breakdown  of  cell  struc- 
ture probably  caused  by  radio-activ- 
ity of  the  soil  in  which  they  were 
growing  when  they  were  found. 
There  is  a  crested  Saguaro  cactus, 
with  a  fan-shaped  top,  at  the  garden 
entrance. 

Outside,  and  on  the  path  again, 
one  is  quite  unexpectedly  in  a  small 
clearing.      It   is   an   outdoor   living 


Photographs  by  Josef  Muench 

RAINBOW  CACTUS 

Echinoceieus  ligidissimus 


HEDGEHOG  CACTUS 

Echinoceieus   Aiizonicus 


SUN  CEREUS 
HelioccTeus   speciosus 


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room  which  in  time,  will  be  com- 
pletely shaded  by  umbrella  trees. 
The  desert  quietness  is  persuasive 
here  and  tends  to  relax  and  invigor- 
ate as  one  sits  a  few  precious  mo- 
ments. 

Many  curious  and  beautiful  va- 
rieties of  cacti  are  prized  as  hot- 
house plants,  among  them  the 
night-blooming  cereus.  A  perfect 
way  to  end  our  nature  walk  is  to 
visit  the  ''night-blooming  patio/'  by 
going  through  the  administration 
building  and  out  the  south   door. 


Here,  we  will  find  the  nightingales 
of  the  cacti.  They  ''sing"  with  their 
lovely  night  beauty,  but  are  gone 
when  the  sun  lights  the  desert. 

Last  year  some  120,000  visitors 
viewed  these  desert  plants.  The 
garden  is  open  to  the  public  Octo- 
ber 1st  to  May  1st  daily,  except  Mon- 
days, from  10  A.M.  to  5  P.M.  In  May, 
June,  and  September  it  is  open  only 
on  Saturday  and  Sunday  from  1 
P.M.  to  6  P.M.  and  is  closed  during 
July  and  August. 


cJhe  y^oy^   of  Lfienewal 

Naomi  M.  Manwaring 

inpHERE  are  times,  when  through  the  necessity  of  making  a  daily  living,  or  through 
■'■  too  much  cluttering  of  our  lives  with  nonessentials,  we  lose  contact  with  the  more 
important  and  worthwhile  activities. 

Sometimes  we  take  so  for  granted  that  which  we  have  that  we  fail  to  enjoy  our 
blessings.  Then,  when  they  are  taken  away  from  us  for  awhile,  we  come  to  the  full 
realization  of  what  we  have  missed,  when  we  experience  a  renewal. 

It  happened  to  me  yesterday,  the  joy  of  renewal,  when  for  the  first  time  in  two 
years,  I  was  privileged  again  to  attend  Relief  Society. 

Now,  as  I  look  back,  perhaps  I  was  not  appreciative  enough  of  the  wonderful 
blessings  that  were  mine  during  the  many  years  I  attended  and  worked  in  Relief  Society. 
Perhaps  I  needed  that  fallow  period  in  order  to  realize  the  full  significance  of  this  in- 
spired organization. 

This  I  do  know,  that  yesterday  when  I  attended  Relief  Society,  the  full  impact 
of  the  greatness  of  this  work  enveloped  me.  I  realized  the  abundance  of  blessings 
attending  those  sisters  who  came  out  to  partake  of  the  testimonies,  prayers,  lessons, 
and  music. 

Humbly  I  bowed  my  head  in  prayer  and  gratefulness  for  the  blessings  of  the  sweet 
spirit  of  love,  the  friendliness  and  companionship  of  my  sisters  that  was  present,  for 
the  contentment  and  happiness  that  surrounded  each  one  of  us  at  that  meeting. 

I  am  truly  grateful  to  my  Father  for  the  blessing  that  is  mine  again  and  the  joy 
that  comes  from  the  renewal  of  my  active  membership. 


S, 


arrow's  cJreasure 

Ada  Marie  Patten 


Sorrow  has  a  treasure 

It  yields  in  generous  measure. 

It  is  the  rare  endowment 
Beyond  all  we  have  known 
To  feel  another's  heartache 
As  keenly  as  our  own. 


Ice  Cream  for  the  "Fourth" 

Maryhale  Woolsey 


FROM  its  first  sunup  moment, 
it  seemed,  that  day— July  4, 
1904— was  bright  and  hot. 
''She's  a  blazer/'  Papa  said  when  he 
brought  the  morning  milk  in,  froth- 
ing high  in  the  shiny  brass  pail;  and 
''She's  sure  one  blazer!"  he  said 
again  when  he  came  in  from  the 
beeyard  to  eat  dinner.  His  face  was 
rosy  and  perspiring,  and  his  blue 
madras  shirt  had  wide  streaks  of 
wetness  down  its  back.  He  filled 
the  washbasin  with  cool  water  and 
dipped  his  face  in  it,  and  doused  it 
over  his  hair. 

I  went  to  the  wide-open  door  and 
stared  over  the  expanse  of  Oregon 
sagebrush  stretching  away  to  the 
top  of  a  hill,  past  the  curling  line 
of  green  that  was  Willow  Creek 
meandering  its  way.  Over  west- 
ward were  our  neighbors'  ranches, 
where  lay  the  purple-bloomed  fields 
of  alfalfa  where  Papa's  bees  flew  to 
gather  honey.  I  couldn't  see  any- 
thing anywhere  that  looked  like 
blazes.  Puzzled,  I  came  back  and 
slid  into  my  chair. 

"Blazer  or  not,  it  doesn't  seem 
like  the  Fourth  of  July,"  Mama  was 
saying,  as  she  set  a  big  bowl  of 
creamed  peas  and  new  potatoes  on 
the  table  next  to  the  platter  of  fried 
ham.  Her  blue-flowered  calico  dress 
looked  wilted,  her  bangs  were  com- 
ing uncurled,  and  her  face  was 
dampy  pink.  "No  parade  to  go  to, 
no  program  with  speeches  and  sing- 
ing, no  flags  to  wave."  Her  voice 
sounded  wobbly. 

"Dickens  of  a  note,"  said  Papa. 
*'Why  didn't  we  think?    We  could 


have  sent  to  Sears  and  Roebuck  and 
got  a  flag.  We  really  ought  to 
have  one." 

"No  picnic  like  back  home," 
Mama  went  on.  (Home,  to  Mama, 
was  a  Utah  farm  near  mountains, 
with  a  canyon  always  deep-green 
and  cool  and  tangy  with  smells  of 
pine  trees  and  spruce.  I  almost 
knew  what  it  was  like,  myself,  from 
hearing  her  tell  about  it  so  much.) 
"Not  even. .  .  ."  Here  Mama's  voice 
had  a  break  in  it,  and  I  looked  up 
and  saw  her  eyes  blinking  tears  back. 
"Not  even  a  dish  of  ice  cream  to 
eat!" 

"We  sure  ought  to  have  ice  cream 
for  the  Fourth  of  July,"  Papa  said. 
"It'd  sure  taste  good,  too,  a  day  like 
this."    He  looked  sad. 

I  felt  sad,  too.  I  remembered  ice 
cream,  from  a  day  last  summer  in 
twenty-miles-away  Vale,  where  Papa 
had  taken  us  to  an  ice-cream  parlor. 
It  was  all  pink  and  white,  with 
tables  that  had  round  wood  tops 
and  queer— but  pretty— twisted-wire 
legs;  one  set  was  children's  size, 
special.  I  sat  at  that  one  with  Ben- 
jie  and  Freddie,  who  ate  their  ice 
cream  down  real  fast  and  howled 
for  more— which  Papa  said  they 
couldn't  have;  but  I  ate  mine  slow- 
ly, savoring  the  cold  delightful 
sweetness  of  long  thin  "licks"  off 
each  spoonful,  so  mine  lasted  long- 
est of  anybody's. 

T  came  back  from  remembering,  to 

hear    Mama    say,    "Oh,    it    isn't 

really  important,   I   guess.     We've 

got  so  much  to  be  happy  about— 

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436  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JULY  1957 

the   honey   crop   looking   so   good,  ''I    don't   know   ...    ice  cream 

and  .  .  .  exervthing.  .  .  ."  freezers  are  so  different  from  any- 

Benjie  and  Freddie,  with  bibs  tied  thing    else/'    Mama    began.     "But 

o\'er  their  blue  denim  rompers,  were  you're   good   at   rigging   things   up, 

eating  peas  and  potatoes  as  fast  as  dear;  just  maybe,  you.  .  .  ." 

they  could.    I  guessed  they  couldn't  "I've   got   it!"   Papa   jumped   up 

remember  ice  cream  yet;  I  guessed  and  went  to  the  corner  where  the 

remembering    didn't    start    till   you  wash  tubs  were,  and  set  the  smallest 

were  about  five  and  had  napkins  in-  one  on  the  ironing  table.    Then  he 

stead  of  bibs.     I  tucked  mine  care-  got  a  ten-pound  size  lard  pail  from 

fully  in  at  the  neck  of  my  favorite  the    high    shelf,    one   of   the   extra 

red  and  white  checkered  gingham  strong  pails  that  we  were  saving  to 

everyday  dress,  feeling  glad  I  didn't  put  honey  in,  when  the  extracting 

have  to  have  it  all  covered  up  with  was  done,  and  set  it  inside  the  tub. 

a    big    bib    like    Mama    was    tying  Taking  hold  of  the  pail  by  the  little 

around  baby  sister  Linda;  her  dress,  round  knobs  at  the  sides,  he  began 

made  of  the  same  goods  as  mine,  to  turn  the  pail  this  way  and  that; 

hardly  could  be  seen.  a  half-turn  left  and  then  a  half-turn 

All  at  once  Papa  spoke  up  so  loud  right, 
it  made  me  jump.  "Lib,  why  can't  "Now,  see— we  put  the  custard 
we  make  some  ice  cream?"  ("Lib"  in  the  pail  and  put  the  cover  on; 
was  Mama  when  Papa  got  excited  then  we  put  the  ice  and  salt  around 
or  mad.)  "I  could  get  some  ice  from  it,  in  the  tub,  and  I  move  it  back 
old  man  Gregory's  place;  he's  got  and  forth  this  way.  Every  so  often 
a  cave  full  of  it  up  there,  he  stored  we  open  it  up  and  you  can  beat  the 
from  the  creek  last  winter.  He'd  custard  with  the  eggbeater  to  make 
let  me  have  enough  to  freeze  a  gal-  it  fluffy.  See?" 
Ion  of  ice  cream."  "Oh,  darling!"  Mama  said,  breath- 
Mama's  eyes  lighted  up  bright-  less.  "U  you  aren't  the  smartest 
blue  for  a  minute  and  then  faded,  man!  Do  you  suppose  it'll  really 
"It's  five  miles,  at  least,  to  Greg-  work?" 

cry's.    Take  half  a  day.  .  .  ."  ''I  don't  see  why  not."  Papa  came 

"Well!  What's  half  a  day  when  back  to  finish  his  eating.    He  looked 

it's  the  Fourth  of  July?  We  ought  mighty  proud.    "Anyway,  we're  sure 

to  have  some  ice  cream,  and  I  guess  going  to  find  out.    Now,  look,  you'd 

we  can  knock  off  for  the  afternoon  better  get  the  custard  made  right 

—when  it's  a  holiday  like  this!"  away,  so  it'll  have  time  to  cool.    I'll 

"Besides,  we  haven't  any  ice  cream  raise  you  a  tubful  of  water  to  set 

freezer,"  Mama  said.  the  kettle  in;  that'll  help,  and  you 

"Oh,  I  had  forgotten,"  Papa  said,  can  save  the  water  for  washday  or 

''Why  didn't  we  bring  along  the  Saturday   baths.     And   how   about 

Co-op  store  when  we  came  to  Ore-  making  a  chocolate  layer  cake  to  go 

gon?      The    hardware    department,  with  the  ice  cream?    Seeing  as  you 

anyway."     He    began    to    rub    his  have  to  have  the  stove  hot  anyway 

chin,  his  face  thoughtful.     ''Maybe  to  cook  the  custard?" 

we    can    rig    up    something;    there  'Til    do    it!"    Mama    promised, 

ought  to  be  some  way "  "Shall  I  make  the  ice  cream  with 


A 


ICE  CREAM  FOR  THE  "FOURTH"  437 

mixed  vanilla  and  lemon  flavors?"  gunnysacks  so  the  hot  sun  wouldn't 

The  bright-blue  sparkle  was  in  her  melt  it  away  before  Papa  could  get 

eyes  again,  dancing  with  happiness,  home  with  it. 

"Mixed  will  be  fine/'  said  Papa.  Mama's   sigh  of  relief,  when  at 

LL  four   of  us   children   trailed  ^^'^  ^^P^'^,  ^^§^"  ^PP^^^,^^  *^^^"^"g 

^              .,    n        111       1  into  our  lane,  was  no  deeper  nor 

Papa  excitedly  while  he  drew  i            .i           • 

M      1-     1    i.      £       i.      r         i-i,  longer  than  mine, 

up  the  buckets  or  water  rrom  the  °                                        . 

deep  walled-up  well,  and  chopped  Then,  such  excitement-ice-and 

extra   stovewood   from  the  pile  of  ^ot  wintertime!  We  drank  ice  water 

sagebrush  clearings,  and  and  hitched  enough  to  float  us  away,  Papa  said, 

up  the  horses  to  the  spring  wagon.  We   fondled   chunks   of   the   cold, 

Then  we  stood  by  the  gate  watch-  sparkling,  miraculous  stuff  until  our 

ing  him  drive  down  the  long  lane  Angers  were  blue  and  stiff-and  we 

between    tall   white-clover   hedges,  loved  it. 

until  he  crossed  the  creek  bridge  and  The  rigged-up  ice  cream  freezer 

turned  out  of  sight  onto  the  hill  wasn't    exactly    perfect.    Papa    was 

road.  finding.     He  got  tired  standing  up 

It  was  a  long,  long  afternoon— in  by  the  table  ''agitating"  the  pail,  so 

spite  of  the  busyness  in  the  kitchen,  he  had  to  stop  and  fix  a  low  bench 

Mama  and  I  wore  our  best  white  so  he  could  sit  down.     His  hands 

aprons  and  Mama  let  me  help  beat  got  cold,  and  he  said  it  must  have 

eggs  and  mix  flour-and-milk  thicken-  brought  on  his  rheumatism,  the  way 

ing   for   the  custard,   and   stir   the  his  fingers  hurt.    He  stopped  again 

cake  batter  while  she  was  greasing  while  he  hunted  up  a  pair  of  wool 

the  tins.    I  got  a  few  good  licks  at  gloves  to  put  on.     He  would  rest 

the  mixing  spoons,  too;  but  Benjie  each  time  the  pail  was  opened  up 

and  Freddie,  as  a  reward  for  carrying  for  Mama  to  use  the  eggbeater.  She 

in  wood  and  kindling  chips  (there-  took  a  few  whacks  too  at  the  '  agi- 

by  keeping  out  from  underfoot),  got  tating,"  but  she  had  to  get  our  sup- 

the  bowls  to  scrape.     Linda  slept  per— we  had  the  rest  of  the  peas 

nearly  all  afternoon.  'Thank  good-  and  potatoes  and  some  canned  sal- 

ness!"  Mama  said,  telling  Papa  after-  mon  and  lettuce  leaves  with  vinegar, 

wards.  and  because  we  were  so  hungry  and 

Long  before  we  could  expect  him,  the  ice  cream  wasn't  frozen  yet,  we 

we   kept    going    to    the    gate    and  ate  the  chocolate  layer  cake!    Then 

squinting  our  eyes  down  the  lane  to  Papa  went  back  to  the  freezing  busi- 

watch  for  Papa.     Especially  with  a  ness  again, 
slow  old  team  like  our  Tom  and 

Jonah,   ten  miles  of  driving  along  lyi AMA  and  I  did  the  dishes;  the 

the   dusty,   rutted   wagon   road   up  sun  went  down  and  the  twi- 

Willow  Creek   would   take   hours,  light  deepened.     After  awhile  the 

Mama  said.     Of  course,  Papa  and  midsummer  full  moon  came  sailing 

Mr.   Gregory   would    have   to   talk  up  above  the  east  hill.  Papa  moved 

some,  before  ever  they'd  start  to  get  out  to  the  back  yard.    "Too  pretty 

the  ice  out  and  load  it,  and  cover  a  night  to  stay  inside,"  he  said,  "and 

it  all  up  with  sawdust  and  lots  of  besides  it's  quite  a  lot  cooler  out." 


438  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JULY  1957 

We    brought    chairs    out    and    sat  There  were  hard  icy  himps  that  had 

around,  waiting.  escaped  the  eggbeater's  blades,  and 

At  last,  opening  the  lard-pail  for  the  texture  was  splintery  with  ice 

mavbe    the    twentieth    time.    Papa  crystals;  but  it  was  cold  and  sweet 

said,  'Tm  fagged.     It's  not  like  it  and    tasted    wonderfully    of   mixed 

ought  to  be,  but  Fm  going  to  call  vanilla   and   lemon    flavorings,   and 

it  ice  cream  and  we're  going  to  eat  the  moonlight  added  magic,  I  guess, 

it.    Now  or  never."  to  make  it  unforgettable. 

'Toor  darling;  you've  worked  so  ''Next  year,"  Papa  said,  ''Fm  go- 
hard!"  Mama  said.  ing    to    organize    the    ranch    folks 

She  began  to  fill  the  glass  dishes,  around  here  for  a  Fourth  of  July 

Oh,  but  they  looked  festive,  heaped  celebration  that  will  make  you  sit 

with  pale-yellow  mounds  and  with  up   and    take    notice.     We'll   have 

their  rims  sparkling  in  the  moon-  flags   and    ice    cream   freezers,   and 

light  like  fairy  rings!     At  the  very  speeches    and— everything.      You'll 

last,  Mama  piled  two  extra  spoon-  see.  .  .  ." 

fuls  into  Papa's  dish.  We  did  see,  and  it  was  wonderful 

He  grinned  tiredly.    ''Don't  know  and  we  never  had  another  Fourth 

if  I  want  it  now  that  Fve  made  it/'  without  its  just  due  of  celebration, 

he  said.  But  no  ice  cream  that  ever  came 

"Why,  darling!"  Mama  told  him,  after  had  quite  the  miraculous  qual- 

"of  course  you  want  it.    Taste  it!"  ity  and   flavor  of   that  which  was 

He  did,  and  perked  up  at  once,  made  in  Papa's  rigged-up  freezer  and 

"Why,  it's  not  half  bad!"   he  ex-  eaten,  lumps  and  ice  splinters  and 

claimed.   "Not  bad  at  all.  Not  half  all,    joyously    in    the    midsummer 

bad!"  moonlight  of  that  first  Fourth  on 

We   all   began   joyously   to   eat.  Willow  Creek. 


11  iother  to    ^Jjaughter 

Elsie  McKinnon  Stmchan 

I  have  been  here  before,  before, 
With  bright  gifts  in  my  hand, 
Viewing  the  waiting  walls,  as  you, 
From  where  you  stand. 

I  brought  crystal  and  china,  too. 
Hung  each  cup  on  a  hook, 
Placed  each  pan  and  kettle  so. 
Each  shining  vase,  each  book. 

Oh,  I  was  here  before,  before 

I  knew  your  lovely  face; 

Or  knew  those  tender  hours  would  bring 

Joy,  indefinite  as  grace. 

To  blend  with  this  new  wonderment, 
Nebulous  in  tone; 

While  you  who  reached  to  light  my  lamp. 
Now  light  your  own. 


Jeff  Thomson 

SENTINEL  PINE  IN  YOSEMITE  NATIONAL  PARK,  CALIFORNIA 


1 1  Lountain  iPi 


ne 


Vesta  N.  Lukei 


If  it  can  reach  the  sky 

Where  wild  geese  go, 

If  it  has  strength  to  bear 

The  winter  snow, 

If  cones  at  bough-tips  stand 

Like  candle  glow, 

If,  sheltered  near  it,  quaking 

Aspen  grow. 

And  gold  Brodiaea,  asters 

Bloom  below. 

How  tall  a  pine  may  be 

I  need  not  know. 


Page  439 


Sixty    LJears  J^go 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  July  i,  and  July  15,  1897 

"For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

LETTER  FROM  CANADA:  The  Relief  Society  is  still  looking  after  the  interests 
and  welfare  spiritually  and  temporally  of  the  sisters  in  this  locality,  there  are  com- 
paratively few  who  require  financial  assistance,  but  there  are  many  who  are  willing  and 
able  to  assist  in  sickness,  of  which  we  have  very  little,  or  aid  in  the  many  benevolent 
enterprises  to  keep  means  in  our  treasury.  We  have  organized  one  new  society  in  the 
last  year  that  is  composed  principally  of  young  married  sisters.  ...  It  is  a  matter  of 
surprise  the  amount  of  talent  and  excellent  ability  that  seems  to  be  the  natural  in- 
heritance of  the  children  of  the  Saints.  .  .  , 

— Zina  Y.  Card 

THE  BRIGHAM  YOUNG  MONUMENT  UNVEILED:  The  immense  multi- 
tude burst  into  applause  as  President  Woodruff  arose,  then  silence  fell  again  and  the 
honored  veteran  of  ninety  years  said  in  clear  tones  and  audible  voice  while  the  great 
multitude  was  hushed  in  eager  listening,  "In  the  name  of  God  I  now  unveil  this 
monument,"  and  instantly  the  Stars  and  Stripes  began  to  unfold  and  fall  away  from 
the  granite  column,  revealing  to  the  people  the  heroic,  bronze  figure  of  the  great 
Pioneer  leader  Brigham  Young. 

— Editorial 

DEATH  OF  THE  GOVERNOR'S  WIFE:  We  offer  a  tribute  of  love  to  Teresa 
Clawson  Wells,  the  beloved  wife  of  Governor  Heber  M.  Wells  and  daughter  of  H.  B. 
and  Sister  Margaret  Clawson  of  this  city.  ...  As  a  child  the  writer  remembers  Teresa 
as  very  beautiful  in  face  and  figure,  fair  as  a  lily,  with  long  golden  curls,  and  better  still, 
gentle  in  all  her  ways  and  beloved  by  her  associates  for  her  unsefishness  and  amiability. 
.  .  .  She  was  a  devoted  daughter  and  affectionate  sister.  .  .  ,  Mrs.  Wells  died  in  the 
very  bloom  of  womanhood  in  the  midst  of  a  rich  life  ...  an  exceptionally  de\oted  wife, 
a  tender  and  true  mother  and  well  calculated  to  entertain  and  do  honor  to  the  position 
of  her  husband  as  the  Chief  Executive  of  the  State.  .  .  . 

— Editorial 

OLD  AGE 

How  grand,  how  beautiful  is  old  age! 
The  crowning  glory  of  a  life  well  spent. 
That,  looking  back,  can  see  no  rent, 
But  noble  effort  writ  on  every  page; 
Truly  it  is  a  noble  heritage, 

That  lovely,  gentle  grace  which  time  has  lent.  .  .  . 
—Ruth  M.  Fox 

A  PIONEER  WOMAN'S  BIRTHDAY:   Monday,  June   14th,  was  the  birthday 

anniversary  of  Sister  Mary  Jane  Thompson,  a  pioneer  of  1847,  although  at  that  time 

she  had  not  entered  her  teens.     Sister  Thompson's  parents  were  veterans  in  the  Church 

and  she  is  the  cousin  of  Prest.  Joseph  F.  Smith,  their  mothers  were  sisters  and  the 

daughters  of  Joseph  Fielding,  who  with  his  family  was  among  the  first  who  embraced 

the  Gospel  in  this  dispensation.     Sister  Sarah  M.  Kimball  and  Sister  Thompson's  son 

Robert,  arranged  a   surprise  for  Sister  Thompson   and   invited  a  few  of  her  intimate 

friends  and  Sister  Kimball  presented  her  with  an   elegant  ornamented  birthday  cake 

with  her  name  on  it. 

— News  Note 

Page  440 


Woman *s  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


OELLE  S.  SPAFFORD,  General 
President  of  Relief  Society,  in 
May,  attended  the  convention  of 
the  American  Association  of  Practi- 
cal Nurses  in  Atlantic  City,  New 
Jersey,  as  a  member  of  their  board. 
She  also  met  with  the  members  of 
the  National  Board  of  the  American 
Mothers  Association  in  New  York 
City,  the  association  which  selects 
the  American  Mother  of  the  year. 
She  conferred  with  leaders  of  the 
National  Council  of  Women  of  the 
United  States,  and  met  informally 
with  officers  of  the  New  York  Stake 
Relief  Society. 

jyrRS.  HAZEL  HEMPEL  ABEL, 

of  Lincoln,  Nebraska,  sixty- 
eight  year  old  mother  of  four  daugh- 
ters and  one  son  (all  outstanding), 
is  the  American  Mother  of  1957.  An 
ex-school  teacher,  she  successfully 
managed  her  husband's  big  con- 
struction company,  as  president,  for 
fifteen  years  after  his  death.  She 
also  contributed  much  to  her  home, 
church,  and  community.  For  fifty- 
five  days,  in  1954,  ^^^^  filled  an  un- 
expired term  as  United  States  Sena- 
tor, having  beaten  fourteen  men 
competitors  in  a  political  race. 


lyjRS.  GENEVIEVE  RAINE 
^  ^  CURTIS,  Salt  Lake  City,  a 
great-granddaughter  of  Brigham 
Young,  and  wife  of  A.  R.  Curtis, 
retired  businessman,  was  named 
Utah  Mother  of  the  Year.  Mrs. 
Curtis  is  the  first  and  only  woman 
to  be  elected  to  the  Salt  Lake  City 
Board  of  Education.  A  director  of 
several  business  firms,  she  has  also 
been  very  active  in  civic  assignments 
and  Church  work.  Adept  in  the 
domestic  virtues,  she  has  reared 
eight  sons,  two  daughters,  (one  died 
at  seventeen),  and  a  foster  daugh- 
ter for  twelve  years.  Mrs.  Curtis  has 
given  years  of  devoted  service  to  Re- 
lief Society.  All  her  children  hold 
positions  of  responsibility. 

RS.  DAN  SHERWOOD,  sixty- 
seven-year-old  Latter-day  Saint 
widow  of  Mesa,  Arizona,  was  select- 
ed as  Arizona  Mother  of  1957.  Mrs. 
Sherwood  is  the  mother  of  ten  sons 
and  four  daughters,  all  of  unusual 
accomplishments.  She  also  has  sixty- 
seven  grandchildren. 

QERRI  BUCHER,  Latter-day 
Saint  girl  from  Salt  Lake  City, 
is  doing  some  beautiful  ballet  work. 
She  has  been  on  an  extended  tour 
with  the  San  Francisco  Ballet  Com- 
pany through  the  Far  East,  includ- 
ing India  and  the  Philippines,  and 
will  be  on  another  foreign  tour  soon. 

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EDITORIAL 


VOL.  44 


JULY  1957 


NO.  7 


cJhe  Spirit  of  the  LPioneer 


UERE  come  the  Pioneers!  Each 
year  the  children  watched  eager- 
ly for  the  first  glimpse  of  the  "white- 
top"  with  the  side  curtains  rolled  up 
to  reveal  the  row  of  pioneers  sitting 
smiling  and  waving  at  their  town- 
folks  who  lined  the  roadside.  That 
was  always  the  climax  of  the  July 
Twenty-Fourth  parade. 

A  pioneer  woman  to  the  children 
was  an  old  woman  with  skin  weath- 
ered and  wrinkled  from  the  burning 
rays  of  the  sun,  the  cutting  winds 
of  winter,  and  the  dry,  alkali  dust. 
Her  back  was  bent  from  bending 
over  a  washtub,  bending  over  to 
stir  the  soap  grease,  bending  over 
the  hot  cook  stove,  bending  over  the 
ironing  board,  bending  over  the 
cradle.  Her  palms  and  knees  were 
calloused  from  kneeling  to  scrub, 
kneeling  to  weed  her  garden,  kneel- 
ing to  pray.  The  soles  of  her  feet 
were  leathery  from  walking  miles 
with  worn  or  no  shoes,  either  walk- 
ing of  necessity,  or  walking  to  min- 
ister to  the  sick  and  dying  who 
would  otherwise  go  uncared  for  and 
uncomforted. 

The  children  were  in  their  teens 
before  they  realized  that,  when 
those  pioneer  women  came  West, 
they  had  been  young,  not  old.  They 
had  grown  old  in  fulfilling  their 
destinies.  They  had,  in  the  begin- 
ning for  a  short  time,  been  straight 
in  form,  with  light  step,  ruddy, 
smooth  cheeks,  with  quick,  easy 
movements,  red  lips  ready  for  a 
song  or  laughter.     In   their  youth 

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they  chose  their  future  path— dic- 
tated by  a  firm  conviction  and 
knowledge  of  the  truth— the  path 
which  caused  them  to  forsake  their 
silken  gowns,  their  mahogany  bed- 
steads, their  fragile  china,  their 
flowering  gardens.  But  each  tried 
to  include  in  her  scant  stores  for 
the  journey  westward,  just  a  sample 
of  her  former  gracious  living. 

The  journey  had  been  hard,  for 
many  of  the  old,  the  middle-aged, 
and  even  the  young— dearly  beloved 
ones— had  finished  their  earth  jour- 
neys before  they  finished  the  west- 
ern journey.  Those  who  remained 
had  stilled  their  sorrow,  their  heart- 
ache, and  silently  endured  homesick- 
ness, loneliness,  hunger,  pain,  and 
anguish.  They  joyed  in  the  small 
pleasures  of  each  day,  filled  with  a 
rare  contentment  that  they  were  in 
the  Lord's  work  and  helping  to  ful- 
fill his  prophecies. 

The  pioneer  women  would  gladly 
have  traxeled  much  further  had  they 
been  permitted  to  settle,  at  length, 
in  green  pastures.  But  they  gave 
reverence  to  the  Priesthood  of  God 
and  were  obedient  to  its  decisions. 
The  pioneer  women  were  to  be 
smoothed  and  polished  in  the 
friction  of  adversity  so  that,  deep 
bedded  within  them,  the  abiding 
qualities  of  thrift,  unselfishness,  per- 
severance, patience,  diligence,  and 
humility  might  increase  and  blos- 
som. 

Today,  Latter-day  Saint  women, 
by  lineage  or  adoption,  are  four,  five, 


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443 


six  generations  removed  from  their 
pioneer  mothers.  Do  the  same  at- 
tributes of  character  continue  to 
abide  in  their  descendants  who  now 
hve  in  ease,  blessed  with  plenty?  In 
a  time  of  adversity,  do  their  convic- 
tions of  the  truth  carve  out  a 
straight  path  to  be  followed? 

Do  the  same  hidden  forces  of 
spiritual  discernment  guide  Mary  in 
the  rearing  of  her  children  after  her 
husband  was  killed  in  an  auto  acci- 
dent, as  guided  Sister  Bailey  to  rear 
her  faithful  family  after  her  husband 
was  killed  by  the  Indians?  Sister 
Owens  accompanied  her  husband  to 
a  desert  wasteland  and  there  bore 
and  reared  his  children  amid  dang- 
ers and  privations— but  in  a  home 
filled  with  love  and  consideration. 
Does  Jane  possess  the  same  qualities 
as  she  leaves  her  small  girlhood 
community  to  accompany  her  hus- 
band to  live  among  a  strange  people 
in  an  alien  land?  Sister  Johnson  left 
all  she  loved  on  earth  for  the  greater 
love  of  the  gospel  and  found  joy 
among  faithful,  welcoming  saints. 
Does  Gretchen  receive  the  loving 
welcome  in  this  day  from  her  sisters 
in  the  gospel? 

The  same  opportunities  for  ac- 
quiring a  pioneer  spirit  along  life's 
way  continue  to  be  offered  Latter- 
day  Saint  women  today,  although  in 
different  surroundings  and  under 
different  guises.  The  way  no  longer 
holds  the  prairie  schooner,  the  In- 
dian, the  buffalo.  It  traverses  the 
earth,  the  waters,  and  the  clouds 
with  incredible  speed,  yet  the  way 
remains  hard.  Household  tasks  are 
accomplished  with  incredible  ease, 
yet  love  must  grow  and  be  nurtured 
to  fill  the  home.  In  the  evening 
family  members  may  sit  and  behold 


with  varied  interest  the  wonders  of 
the  world;  but  the  closeness  and 
solidarity  of  family  life  must  be 
carefully  cultivated.  No  longer  does 
the  family  invariably  gather  around 
the  dining  or  kitchen  table  beside 
the  warm  stove  while  the  clock  ticks 
and  the  eight  staccato  strokes  mark 
the  time  for  prayers  and  bed  for  the 
younger  family  members.  This  pat- 
tern has  passed  away,  and  a  new  one 
must  be  charted  to  reap  the  former 
harvest. 

The  pioneer  mother  accepted 
harsh  conditions  to  build  upon  ever- 
lasting values.  Pleasant  conven- 
iences and  the  wish  for  luxuries  did 
not  blind  her  to  her  supreme  duty 
of  motherhood.  She  served  her 
household  first  and  her  presence  was 
considered  vital  to  the  well-being  of 
family  members.  She  stood  a  source 
of  virtue  and  strength  in  times  of 
trouble  and  joy— a  beloved  compan- 
ion and  a  gracious,  loving  mother. 

Perchance  a  pioneer  woman  is 
any  woman  who  accepts  her  daily 
living  pattern  and  performs  its  tasks 
as  they  are  allotted  to  her.  This  she 
does  because  of  her  firm  conviction 
in  the  individual  plan  for  her  of  an 
all-wise  Heavenly  Father.  She  sees 
beyond  the  present  through  to  the 
glorious  end.  Her  pioneer  spirit 
gives  her  an  incentive  to  make  do 
with  what  is  at  hand  and  causes  her 
to  stand  independent  of  the  urges 
and  follies  of  the  world.  Of  over- 
whelming importance  is  the  spiritual 
welfare  of  her  family.  Habits  of 
industry  and  thrift  set  the  example 
for  her  children. 

When  the  children  who  watched 
the  parade  are  themselves  old,  will 
they,  too,  be  pioneers,  respected  and 


revered? 


-M.  C.  S. 


TO  THE  FIELD 


uju^ing  cJextoooks  for  Uxelief  Society  cLessons 

"C^ROM  inquiries  which  come  to  the  general  board  it  would  seem  that 

some  Relief  Society  officers  and  class  leaders  are  not  acquainted  with 
the  recommended  procedure  for  acquiring  necessary  textbooks  for  lessons. 

The  education  counselor  in  both  the  stake  and  the  ward  should  pre- 
sent to  the  president  of  the  respective  organizations,  a  list  of  the  textbooks 
which  will  be  needed  to  teach  the  Relief  Society  lessons  during  the  coming 
season.  She  should  then  be  authorized  to  purchase  these  books  with  funds 
from  the  Relief  Society  general  fund.  The  education  counselors  should 
see  that  the  name  of  the  Relief  Society  organization  is  written  in  each 
book  before  giving  it  to  the  respective  stake  or  ward  class  leader  for  her 
use.  At  the  end  of  the  course  the  education  counselor  is  responsible  for 
collecting  the  books  and  placing  them  in  the  Relief  Society  library. 

Where  a  teacher  wishes  to  purchase  her  own  textbook  in  order  to  be 
able  to  mark  it  and  keep  it  after  the  conclusion  of  the  course,  it  is  recom- 
mended that  the  Relief  Society  organization  should  also  purchase  a  text- 
book: 1.  in  order  that  the  book  may  become  a  part  of  the  Relief  Society 
library;  2.  to  be  available  for  use  by  those  given  special  assignments;  3.  be- 
cause a  change  of  teachers  might  be  necessary  during  the  course,  and  at 
that  time  it  might  be  impossible  for  the  Relief  Society  organization  to 
purchase  a  copy  of  the  desired  textbook. 

Education  counselors  are  urged  to  safeguard  Relief  Society  libraries 
and  to  be  alert  to  opportunities  of  adding  to  them  gifts  of  Church  and 
other  worthwhile  books. 


Sere  rut  If 

Dora  Toone  Biough 

I  saw  serenity  today  in  such 
Abundance,  and  I  lingered  for  awhile — 
A  woman's  countenance  with  just  a  touch 
Of  tenderness  that  blended  with  a  smile; 
Her  aged  face  showed  wisdom  and  a  ray 
Of  brightness  beamed,  much  like  refiner's  gold 
In  rare  design,  for  she  had  found  each  day 
A  lasting  graciousness  while  growing  old. 

Life's  twilight  calm  had  brought  tranquility. 
And  love  of  God  gave  her  serenity. 


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Uxeapes  QJroni  the  (bouth  .jtfncan    1 1  iission 

Submitted  hy  Nora  C.  Duncan 

Chutney 

1  lb.  dried  apricots  4  c  white  vinegar 

1  lb.  onions  10  chilies  or 

1  lb.  raisins  3  tbsp.  cayenne  pepper 

2  c.  sugar  (amount  of  pepper  may  be  decreased 

2  oz.  salt  if  desired) 

Leave  apricots  in  vinegar  overnight.  The  next  day  mince  all  ingredients.  Add  sugar 
and  mix  \^ell  and  then  bottle.     Do  not  cook. 

Serve  as  a  condiment  with  beef  curry  or  chicken  curry  and  rice,  but  can  be  served 
with  any  kind  of  meat. 

Pickled  Fish 

3  lbs.  fish  (salmon  or  halibut)  Vz    tsp.  salt 

Vz   c.  water  %   tsp.  pepper 

Cut  the  fish  into  half-inch  thick  slices,  season  with  salt  and  pepper.  Arrange  care- 
fully in  a  large  baking  pan  and  then  pour  in  the  water  and  bake  in  a  hot  oven,  400 
degrees,  for  fifteen  minutes  or  until  tender.  In  the  meantime,  prepare  the  curry  sauce 
as  follows: 

Curry  Sauce: 

3  large  onions  3  tbsp.  sugar 

2  c.  vinegar  2  tbsp.  curry  powder 

1/4    c.  water  2  tbsp.  flour  or  corn  flour  (corn  meal) 

Peel  the  onions  and  cut  into  fairly  thick  rings.  Put  into  the  saucepan  and  add 
the  water.  Then  bring  the  onions  to  the  boiling  point  and  allow  them  to  cook  for  two 
or  three  minutes,  but  not  until  soft.  Mix  together  in  a  bowl  the  dry  ingredients  and 
add  the  vinegar.  Then  stir  mixture  into  the  onions  and  water.  Cook  until  smooth,  for  a 
minute  or  two. 

Arrange  the  fish  carefully  in  a  glass  dish  into  which  pour  first  a  layer  of  the  curry 
sauce  and  then  a  layer  of  fish.  Cover  the  la}'cr  of  fish  with  the  remaining  curry  sauce. 
Leave  for  a  day  or  two  before  serving.  It  will  keep  indefinitely  in  a  refrigerator  or  cool 
place. 

BOBOTEE 

1  lb.  beef  (raw  or  cooked)  6-  8  almonds 

1  onion  1   tsp.  salt 

1  tbsp.  curry  powder  1   tbsp.  lemon  juice  or  vinegar 

1  tbsp.  chutney  1  large  slice  of  bread 

1  egg 

Put  the  meat  through  a  food  chopper,  together  with  the  onion.  Add  the  curry 
powder,  chutnev,  coarsely  chopped  almonds,  salt,  and  vinegar  or  lemon  juice,  together 
with  bread  soaked  in  cold  water  then  squeezed  dry.  Break  in  one  egg,  then  mix  well 
together.  Put  into  a  pie  pan  and  place  on  top  shelf  in  a  hot  oven  (400  degrees)  for 
about  fifteen  minutes  or  until  a  crust  has  formed. 

Raw  meat  will  produce  a  better  flavored  Bobotee  than  cooked  meat.  Mutton  for 
this  dish  is  superior  to  beef.  (Instead  of  chutney,  apricot  jam  may  be  used,  or  sugar, 
and  should  almonds  not  be  available,  they  may  be  omitted.) 

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446  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JULY  1957 

Custard  for  Bohotee: 

2  eggs  1   tbsp.  corn  flour  (corn  meal) 

1  tsp.  sugar  1  Vz    c.  boiling  milk 

1  tsp.  curry  powder  2  tbsp.  butter 

While  the  pie  shell  (Bobotee)  is  baking  prepare  the  custard  fiUing.  Break  the 
eggs  into  a  bowl,  add  the  sugar,  curry  powder,  and  corn  flour  diluted  with  a  little  cold 
water.  Mix  well.  Gradually  pour  in  the  boiling  milk.  Return  to  saucepan  o\'er  the 
fire  and  stir  until  custard  mixture  just  commences  to  thicken,  then  remove  and  pour 
on  top  of  hot  Bobotee.  Put  in  a  250  to  300  degree  oven  and  bake  thirty  minutes  or 
until  a  nice  golden  brown. 

SWARTBEK  BOONTJIES    (BeAn)    CuRRY 

1  c.  small  lima  beans  2  lbs.  beef  or  mutton 
pinch  of  soda  salt  and  pepper  to  taste 

2  onions  2  tbsp.  curry  powder 
2  tbsp.  drippings  (fat)  1  tbsp.  flour  or  meal 

1  Vi    tsp.  sugar  lemon  juice 

Soak  the  beans  overnight  in  cold  water,  and  the  following  day  put  over  the  fire, 
together  with  a  pinch  of  bicarbonate  of  soda.  Cook  gently  until  slightly  tender.  Cut 
up  the  onions  fine,  and  cook  to  a  nice  golden  brown  in  the  drippings  (fat).  Add 
stewing  beef  or  mutton  cut  into  small  pieces  and  sprinkled  with  salt  and  pepper.  Then 
cook  gently  for  about  an  hour,  without  adding  any  water,  as  the  meat  will  draw  its 
own  juice.  Blend  together  the  curry  powder,  flour  or  meal,  and  sugar.  Stir  into  the 
meat  and  allow  to  cook  for  a  few  minutes.  Then  add  the  beans,  together  with  water 
in  which  they  are  cooked.  Cook  gently  until  meat  and  beans  are  quite  tender  and 
the  curry  nicely  browned.  Season  well  with  salt  and  pepper  and  a  little  lemon  juice. 
Serve  with  rice. 

The  beans  used  for  this  curry  are  small  white  beans  with  a  black  center.  They 
have  a  characteristic  flavor  and  are  popular  in  Cape  Town.  But,  if  they  are  not  avail- 
able, small  lima  beans  may  be  used. 

KOESISTERS 

2  c.  flour  1  tbsp.  baking  powder 

2  tbsp.  butter  pinch  of  salt 

1  egg  ¥4   c.  milk  (or  less) 

Sift  the  dry  ingredients  into  a  bowl  and  then  cream  in  the  butter.  Add  the  milk 
to  the  well-beaten  egg,  and  then  add  to  flour  mixture  to  make  a  soft  dough.  Roll 
out  to  about  one-fourth  inch  thick.  Cut  with  cutter  or  twist.  Fry  in  hot  oil  to 
golden  brown  and  dip  at  once  into  cold  syrup. 

Syrup: 

2  Yz    c.  sugar  Vi   tsp.  tartaric  acid 

1  c.  water  1  piece  of  cinnamon 

Boil  the  sugar  and  water  for  ten  minutes,  then  add  the  tartaric  acid  a^id  cinnamon. 
This  syrup  will  keep  for  months  in  an  airtight  tin. 

Honeycomb  Cream 

2  c.  milk  1  %    tbsp.  gelatine 

5  eggs  4  tbsp.  cold  water 

4  tbsp. sugar  pinch  of  salt 

1  tsp.  vanilla 


RECIPES  FROM  THE  SOUTH  AFRICAN  MISSION 


447 


Bring  milk  to  boiling  point.  Then  pour  onto  the  beaten  yolks  of  the  eggs  and 
sugar.  Return  to  the  saucepan  and  add  the  gelatine  soaked  in  eold  water,  and  bring 
again  to  boiling  point.  Then  remove  at  once  and  add  vanilla  and  a  pinch  of  salt. 
Cool  slightly,  then  pour  onto  the  stiffly  beaten  egg  whites. 

When  mixture  comes  to  the  boil,  curdling  will  commence,  and  eggs  will  separate 
from  the  milk  and  sink  to  the  bottom.  The  egg  whites,  being  lighter,  will  rise  to  the 
top,  and  so  when  the  mould  is  turned  out  there  will  be  a  layer  of  clear  jelly  at  the  top, 
next  a  layer  of  cream,  and  lastly  a  frothy  layer. 

Serve  with  fresh  or  canned  fruit  and  top  with  a  thin  custard  or  vanilla  pudding. 


Milk  Tart 


Filling: 

1  tbsp.  flour 

1  Yz   tbsp.  corn  flour  (corn  meal) 

2  eggs 

2  c.  milk 

2  tbsp.  butter 


4  tbsp.  brown  sugar 

(or  sweeten  to  taste) 
2  tbsp.  ground  almonds 
4  sticks  bark  cinnamon 


Pour  milk  into  a  saucepan,  add  cinnamon,  and  bring  to  boiling  point.  Mix  the 
flour  and  sugar,  add  a  little  cold  milk,  and  mix  to  a  smooth  paste.  Pour  into  the 
boiling  milk  and  cook  for  a  few  minutes. 

Remove  from  the  stove  and  add  the  butter.  Allow  to  cool  off  and  add  the  well- 
beaten  egg  yolks.  Mix  well.  Then  add  stiffly  beaten  egg  whites.  If  not  sweet  enough 
add  more  sugar  and  stir  in  ground  almonds.  (Almonds  may  be  omitted.)  Line  plates 
with  flaky  pastry.  Pour  in  the  mixture  and  bake  in  hot  oven  of  about  400  degrees. 
When  baked,  sift  sugar  and  ground  cinnamon  (1  tsp.  each  mixed)  over  the  top.  This 
is  better  when  served  warm. 

Yellow  Rice 


1  c.  nee 

Yz  c.  seeded  raisins 

2  c.  water 
1  c.  milk 


Yz  tsp.  salt 

1  tbsp.  butter 

1  tsp.  turmeric 

1  tbsp.  brown  or  white  sugar 


Wash  the  rice  and  add  the  other  ingredients.  Cook  on  low  heat  until  the  rice 
is  well  bulged  with  the  consumed  moisture.  Then  add  the  sugar.  Leave  twenty 
minutes  longer.  (Raisins  may  be  omitted.) 

Yellow  rice  is  always  served  with  roast  potatoes,  roast  meat,  and  vegetables. 


cJogefher  cJheyi   Vl/alk 


Maude  Rubin 


I  watched  two  doves.  .  .  .  They've  raised  their  brood- 
Now,  two  alone, 

They  walk  along  my  garden  path — 
A  path  of  stone. 

No  buds  unfurl;  the  yellow  leaves 

Say  summer's  done  .  .  , 
But  see  them  walk  along  together 

In  the  suni 


cJhe  Jiong  and  Short  of  771 


am 


age 


'JpHIS  is  a  picture  of  an  idea— and  an  ideal. 

It  is  a  picture  of  two  fine  young  newlyweds— a  tall,  handsome,  whole- 
some young  bridegroom  and  a  sweet  but  not-so-tall  young  bride.  They 
have  stars  in  their  eyes— stars  of  eternal  hope  and  happiness. 

But  the  artist  intended  to  suggest  to  us  far  more  than  this.  He 
has  here  painted  the  dream  of  every  normal,  healthy  young  man  and  young 
woman— a  dream  filled  with  a  honeymoon,  a  happy  home,  laughing,  loving 
children,  faith,  trust,  honor,  achievement— all  these  and  a  never-ending 
love  and  life  together. 

Page  448 


THE  LONG  AND  SHORT  OF  MARRIAGE 


449 


Ask  any  starry-eyed  newly-wedded  couple  how  long  they  want  their 
marriage  to  last,  and  the  answer  will  come  easily:  'Torever'' 

Forever?  Do  they  really  mean  forever?  Not  to  end  in  the  divorce 
court  as  thousands  of  American  marriages  now  do?  Marriage  till  death? 
Yes,  that  long  and  longer— for  even  then  separation  forever  w^ould  be 
tragedy. 

Theirs  is  the  hope  of  eternal  living  and  learning  and  loving  together— 
an  ideal— an  eternal  ''togetherness"  of  parents  and  children  in  the  old  and 
hallowed  patriarchal  pattern,  consecrated  and  enriched  by  the  blessings 
of  a  loving  and  eternal  Father  in  heaven  so  long  as  love  and  faith  and 
fidelity  shall  endure. 

There  you  have  it:  the  long  and  the  short  of  marriage.  Which  will 
vou  choose? 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


J/imeiica,   \^radle  of  JLibertii 


Elsie  Matthews 


LIBERTY  is  something  very 
dear  to  the  heart  of  everyone 
of  us.  It  has  been  offered 
down  through  the  stream  of  time 
as  a  reward  for  righteous  living. 
When  Lehi  and  his  family  came  to 
America  some  six  hundred  years  be- 
fore Christ,  the  Lord  told  him  that 
this  was  a  choice  land,  choice  abo\e 
all  other  lands,  and  it  should  be  a 
land  of  liberty  to  him  and  his  de- 
scendants for  evermore  if  they 
would  live  righteous  lives.  The 
Lord  said  he  had  kept  this  land 
from  the  knowledge  of  other  na- 
tions for  a  wise  purpose. 

But  the  Nephites  forgot  the  won- 
derful promises  of  the  Lord  and, 
although  there  were  many  very 
righteous  people  among  them,  as  a 
whole,  they  became  very  wicked, 
and  as  the  centuries  passed,  Jacob 
said  they  were  more  wicked  than 
the  Lamanites,  and  after  the  Ne- 
phite  prophets  pleaded  with  them 
for  hundreds  of  years  it  seemed  that 


their  cup  of  iniquity  was  full,  and 
the  Lord  allowed  them  to  be  swept 
completely  off  the  land  that  would 
have  been  theirs  for  evermore  had 
they  repented.  There  was  only  one 
man  left— that  great  Nephite  proph- 
et, Moroni.  He  was  hiding  in  the 
hills,  watching  the  battles  in  the 
valley  below,  and  he  saw  the  last 
of  his  people  destroyed  and,  being 
alone,  he  had  no  one  to  whom  he 
could  deliver  the  golden  plates— the 
records  of  his  people— the  written 
history  of  the  Nephites,  so  he  bur- 
ied them.  With  the  death  of 
Moroni,  the  world  entered  a  period 
of  spiritual  darkness,  which  the 
world  called  the  Dark  Ages,  and  for 
many  centuries  the  Lamanites 
roamed  at  will. 

But  America  was  destined  to  be- 
come the  birthplace  of  the  restored 
gospel,  and  for  that  it  had  to  be 
prepared.  It  had  to  be  repopulated. 
But  first  it  had  to  be  discovered. 
And  we  see  Columbus  filled  with 


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an  irresistible  urge  to  sail  out  over 
the  ocean— nothing  could  stop  him. 
The  Book  of  Mormon  tells  us  that 
the  spirit  of  God  came  down  and 
wrought  upon  the  man,  and  he 
sailed  out  over  the  great  waters  and 
came  to  the  land  of  Lehi's  children. 
Thus  was  America  discovered. 

There  seemed  to  be  a  spirit  of 
unrest  over  all  the  countries  of 
Europe  at  this  time.  Many  reform- 
ers sprang  up,  many  new  religions 
were  started.  People  were  begin- 
ning to  rebel  at  religious  oppression 
and  they  broke  away  from  the  estab- 
lished churches.  These  reformers 
were  good  men,  deeply  religious, 
and  though  they  did  it  unconscious- 
ly, they  prepared  the  way,  they 
softened  the  path,  for  the  Restora- 
tion. They  were  really  the  fore- 
runners of  Joseph  Smith.  Martin 
Luther  did  as  much  or  more  than 
any  of  them  to  break  down  religious 
oppression.  Truly,  "God  moves  in 
a  mysterious  way,  his  wonders  to 
perform.'' 

Then  we  see  the  Pilgrims— that 
courageous  little  band  of  people, 
willing  to  brave  the  dangers  of  the 
Atlantic  Ocean  because  they  hoped 
that  out  here  in  this  new  land  they 
would  find  freedom  to  live,  work, 
and  serve  the  Lord  the  way  they 
wanted  to,  and  after  a  voyage  of 
nearly  four  months,  they  landed  at 
Cape  Cod,  Massachusetts.  Although 
many  of  them  died  the  first  winter 
of  cold  and  hunger,  enough  survived 
to  establish  themselves,  build  little 
homes,  and  rear  their  families. 
Many  others  came  from  different 
parts  of  the  Old  World,  and  after 
1 50  years  from  the  time  the  Pilgrims 
came,  the  white  population  had 
greatly  increased,  and  again  we  see 


the  will  of  the  Lord  being  done. 
But  the  colonies  didn't  possess  the 
kind  of  liberty  they  believed  they 
were  entitled  to,  because  they  were 
still  tied  to  the  apron  strings  of  the 
Mother  Country,  and  at  that  time 
England  was  a  rather  harsh,  tyran- 
nical mother.  King  George  III  was 
becoming  more  demanding  all  the 
time.  The  thirteen  colonies  were 
heavily  taxed  and  they  had  no  voice 
in  government,  and  naturally  the 
people  rebelled. 

'INHERE  were  many  outstanding 
men  during  those  war  years, 
many  great  and  unforgettable  char- 
acters. Patrick  Henry  was  but  one 
giant— in  an  age  of  giants.  Who 
can  forget  Nathan  Hale,  that  twen- 
ty-one-vear  old  lad,  standing  on  the 
scaffold,  waiting  for  death,  and  re- 
gretting that  he  had  but  one  life 
to  give  for  liberty.  And  George 
Washington!  How  our  hearts  swell 
with  pride  and  gratitude  as  we  pon- 
der him  crossing  the  Delaware  that 
bitterly  cold  night,  spending  a  win- 
ter of  hardship  with  his  soldiers  who 
were  starving  and  freezing,  their 
uniforms  in  rags,  and  Washington 
kneeling  in  the  snow  pleading  with 
his  Heavenly  Father  to  show  him 
the  way.  His  prayer  was  answered, 
the  colonies  won  the  war,  and  were 
now  free  to  form  their  own  Govern- 
ment, make  their  own  laws.  And 
liberty  was  born. 

And  on  a  little  island  in  New 
York  harbor  stands  the  Statue  of 
Liberty.  She's  a  magnificent  lady 
as  she  stands  there  with  h€r  right 
hand  held  high  above  her  head, 
holding  the  torch  of  liberty.  She 
gazes  out  over  the  Atlantic  Ocean 
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into  the  harbor.  And  down  be- 
neath her  feet  there  is  an  inscrip- 
tion, a  little  verse,  written  by  Emma 
Lazarus,  and  it  reads  like  this: 

Give  me  your  tired,  your  poor, 

Your  huddled  masses  yearning  to  breathe 

free, 
The    wretched    refuse    of    your    teeming 

shore, 
Send  these,  the  homeless,  tempest  tossed, 

to  me: 
I  lift  my  lamp  beside  the  golden  door. 

Now  the  time  was  drawing  very 
near  for  the  restoration  of  the  gos- 
pel. In  just  a  very  few  years  the 
Prophet  was  born,  and  his  name  was 
Joseph,  and  his  father's  name  was 
Joseph— just  as  the  prophecy  said 
it  would  be.  And  to  him  was  given 
the  power  to  bring  forth  a  'Voice 
from  the  dust,"  a  voice  of  those 
who  slumbered,  which  we  know  to 
be  the  golden  plates  that  Moroni 
had  buried  there  many  centuries 
before.  The  Prophet  Joseph's  mis- 
sion was  to  organize  and  establish 
the  Church,  then  seal  his  testimony 
with  his  blood. 

Because  of  cruel  persecution,  the 
Lord  made  it  known  to  President 
Brigham  Young  to  bring  the  Saints 
to  the  western  desert.  The  Lord 
prepared  and  reser\ed  this  place.  It 
was  unattractive  to  everyone  else, 
these  large  sagebrush  valleys— these 


rugged,  defiant  mountains.  This 
area  was  not  a  bit  alluring;  in  fact, 
it  was  believed  that  the  white  man 
could  not  survive  hereabouts.  But 
the  Latter-day  Saints  were  glad  to 
come  here  because  they  could  estab- 
lish their  own  kingdom,  could  wor- 
ship God  with  liberty  and  accord- 
ing to  the  dictates  of  their  own 
conscience.  And  the  Lord  had  said 
that  he  would  hide  them  up  for 
awhile  until  they  were  able  to  take 
care  of  themselves.  So  the  valleys 
of  the  Rocky  Mountains  became  the 
cradle  of  the  infant  Church.  But 
now  it  has  grown  and  is  able  to 
stand  on  its  own  feet,  and  is  spread- 
ing out  its  borders  in  all  directions, 
forming  new  stakes  and  missions  in 
many  parts  of  the  world. 

Freedom  is  the  responsibility  of 
everyone.  If  we  wish  to  keep  this 
the  Land  of  the  Free,  we  must  live 
the  gospel.  That  is  the  only  con- 
dition under  which  freedom  and 
liberty  are  promised  to  us.  If  we 
love  Life,  Liberty,  and  the  Pursuit 
of  Happiness,  we  must  obey  the 
laws  of  the  land,  and  keep  the 
commandments  of  the  God  of  this 
land,  who  is  Jesus  Christ.  I  know 
of  no  better  way  to  begin  than  to 
say  with  Joshua  of  old,  ''But  as  for 
me  and  my  house,  we  will  serve  the 
Lord." 


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Celia  Luce 

pRAYER  is  like  a  pathway  between  God  and  man.  The  wise  man  keeps  the  path  con- 
stantly open  through  daily  use.     If  the  path  becomes  overgrown,  through  disuse, 
man  may  get  lost  when  his  need  is  great,  and  be  unable  to  find  God. 


Your  Child  Is  a  Music  Lover 


Helen  Morris 


MY  little  red-headed  boy  loves 
music.  Almost  as  soon  as 
he  could  talk  he  was  sing- 
ing 'Top  Goes  The  Weasel"  and 
clapping  his  hands  delightedly.  A 
tiny  blond  toddler  cuddles  her  rub- 
ber baby,  rocks  it  in  her  rocking 
chair,  and  sings  'Tye  Baby  Bunt- 
ing/' My  kindergarten  warrior 
dons  a  feathered  headdress  and 
beats  his  ice-cream  carton  drum 
chanting  the  words  to  a  rhythmic 
Indian  song. 

A  child  usually  loves  music. 
Sound  and  rhvthm,  its  basic  ele- 
ments,  are  his,  just  waiting  to  be 
tapped  and  enjoyed.  As  a  new- 
born baby,  whose  only  impressions 
of  his  world  come  from  what  he 
feels,  he  responds  favorably  to  pleas- 
ant sounds.  Yesterday  I  watched 
a  young  mother  bend  over  the  bed 
of  her  tiny  two-weeks-old  son.  She 
lovingly  stroked  his  head,  talked  to 
him  for  a  moment,  then  hummed  a 
quiet  melody.  His  entire  body  re- 
sponded with  relaxed,  secure  con- 
tentment. 

In  a  few  weeks  he  will  turn  his 
head,  smile,  and  coo  at  the  ap- 
proaching sound  of  her  voice.  His 
arms  will  fly  and  his  legs  kick  in 
excited  reply.  He  will  be  fascinated 
by  the  sounds  of  rattles  and  bells 
as  he  learns  to  grasp  them  in  his 
hands.  As  soon  as  he  is  able  to 
sit  he  will  join  in  a  game  of  'Tat- 
a-cake" and  delight  in  the  rhythm 
of  "The  Pig  That  Went  to  Market." 

If  you  make  singing  and  rhythm 
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a  natural  part  of  the  mothering  of 
your  baby,  you  are  not  only  help- 
ing him  to  be  happy  and  secure— 
you  are  laying  a  foundation  for  fu- 
ture years  of  musical  enjoyment. 

As  the  baby  grows  into  an  ex- 
ploring adventurer  and  begins  to  dis- 
co\er  his  awesome  world,  he  ^^ill 
find  that  he  can  create  pleasant 
sounds  for  himself.  He  loves  the 
crisp  crackle  of  crumpling  paper. 
He  likes  nothing  better  than  to 
open  kitchen  drawers  and  find  pots 
and  pans  to  clang  together  or  to 
beat  with  a  spoon.  You  may  join 
the  fun  by  lightly  tapping  a  pan 
yourself  and  singing  a  rhythmic 
tune.  Often  the  child  will  laugh 
excitedly  and  may  even  attempt  to 
imitate  your  game  of  rhythm. 

With  his  early  vocalizations  come 
many  simple  imitations  of  the  fa- 
miliar sounds  of  his  everyday  experi- 
ences. He  will  moo  at  the  sight  of 
a  cow  or  choo  choo  when  a  train 
speeds  by.  These  spontaneous  re- 
sponses are  easily  transformed  into 
simple  chants,  grow  into  jingles,  or 
may  be  accompanied  by  homemade 
tunes. 

Chants  may  accompany  bodily 
movement.  Try  singing  down, 
down,  down  on  the  notes  of  the 
scale  as  you  come  down  the  stairs. 
Soon  your  child  will  join  the  chant 
himself.  My  own  sons  quite  will- 
ingly follow  me  up  the  stairs  for 
naps  as  together  we  sing  up,  up,  up, 
with  each  ascending  step.  Once 
you  begin,  you  will  naturally  find 


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many  opportunities  to  translate  a 
simple  activity  into  a  simple 
rhythm. 

A  little  three-year-old  neighbor 
girl,  like  most  children,  loves  to 
swing.  She  composed  her  own 
rhythmical  accompaniment  and  can 
be  heard  chanting  ''swinker  swan- 
ky" as  the  moving  swing  carries  her 
up  and  down. 

"VJiTHY  is  Mother  Goose  a  favorite 
friend  of  every  boy  and  girl? 
It  is  the  rhythmic  beat  of  'Teter, 
Peter,  pumpkin  eater,"  or  ''J^ck  and 
Jill  went  up  the  hill"  that  stimu- 
lates and  entertains. 

As  soon  as  a  toddler  can  repeat  a 
few  simple  words,  or  even  before, 
he  eagerly  joins  hands  for  ''Ring 
Around  the  Roses."  As  soon  as 
his  balance  is  sure  he  combines 
rhythm  and  melody  as  he  joins  oth- 
er children  in  a  game  of  ''London 
Bridge"  or  "Farmer  in  the  Dell." 

Each  time  I  sit  at  the  piano  my 
three-year-old  mounts  his  rocking 
horse,  and  my  five-year-old  shifts 
his  tricycle  into  high  gear.  The 
horse  gallops  at  full  speed  and  the 
tricycle  circles  the  living  room. 
Soon  they  request  a  march,  then 
parade  around  the  room  singing, 
waving  flags  in  the  air,  or  beating 
the  rhythm  on  a  cardboard  drum. 

A  favorite  rainy  day  activity  for 
the  three  of  us  is  to  sit  at  the  piano 
with  a  songbook.  Favorite  nursery 
rhymes  are  illustrated  and  written 
with  musical  accompaniment.  Often 
the  children  sit  at  the  piano  alone, 
turn  the  pages  of  the  book,  drum  on 
the  keys,  and  sing  the  rhyme  indi- 
cated by  the  picture.  There  are 
many  excellent  songbooks  for  chil- 
dren of  nursery  ages. 


A  phonograph  has  great  value  in 
developing  a  love  for  music.  Chil- 
dren respond  with  skipping,  march- 
ing, and  dancing  to  the  easy  rhythms 
of  children's  songs.  They  relax 
readily  at  quiet  time  with  soft  clas- 
sics playing  in  the  background. 
While  they  naturally  react  to  the 
simple,  their  developing  minds  and 
emotions  should  be  challenged  to 
reach  and  explore. 

A  musical  instrument  and  phono- 
graph are  valuable  aids  in  musical 
enjoyment,  but  they  are  not  indis- 
pensable. There  is  no  instrument 
more  flexible  than  the  human  voice. 
Children  often  enjoy  their  singing 
more  when  there  is  no  loud  ac- 
companiment to  limit  their  spon- 
taneity. It  is  fun  for  them  to  play 
their  own  accompaniment  by  tap- 
ping out  rhythm  on  a  tambourine 
or  a  cardboard  drum  as  they  sing 
their  favorite  songs.  Later,  other 
rhythm  instruments  may  be  added, 
and,  in  time  the  entire  family  can 
join  in  a  kind  of  musical  compan- 
ionship. 

In  my  opinion,  a  love  for  music 
should  not  be  considered  an  indica- 
tion that  a  young  child  is  ready  for 
formal  music  training.  In  the  early 
years  he  is  entitled  to  uninhibited 
enjoyment.  He  should  dance  when 
he  feels  like  dancing,  and  sing  when 
the  urge  to  sing  is  upon  him.  He 
should  march  or  rock  or  just  sit 
and  listen  as  the  feeling  within  him 
dictates.  Performance  and  drill  are 
enemies  to  the  natural  growth  of 
his  inborn  love  of  pleasant  sounds. 
If  he  has  been  given  his  freedom,  he 
will  be  eager  to  learn  the  skills  that 
will  permit  him  to  play  a  musical 
instrument  when  he  is  mentally  and 


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physically  mature  enough  to  take 
this  step. 

With  musical  activities  in  your 
home,  your  own  love  for  this  im- 
portant part  of  our  heritage  will  be 
deepened  as  you  watch  it  daily 
growing  within  your  child.  You 
will  thrill  when  your  tiny  toddler 
says,  ''Mommy,  let's  sing  a  song.'' 

Your    own    awareness    of    your 


world  will  deepen  as  you  see  the 
creative  expressions  of  your  child 
and  know  that  his  enjoyment  is 
deep  and  full.  You  will  be  con- 
vinced that  music  is  not  something 
to  be  ignored  until  a  determined 
point  in  the  child's  life,  then  sud- 
denly turned  over  to  a  specialist. 
You  will  know  that  it  is  an  insepar- 
able part  of  growth  and  develop- 
ment from  the  very  beginning. 


JLeah  Kji.   aiarnilton   (^oliects  LPotted  LPlants  and 
JUoes  uianav^ork,    vi/eaving,  ana  IPainting 

AFTER  rearing  a  large  family  of  eleven  children,  Mrs.  Leah  A.  Hamilton,  Magrath, 
Alberta,  Canada,  now  finds  time  to  relax  and  work  at  her  hobbies,  which  in- 
clude quilting,  crocheting,  embroidery  work,  painting,  weaving,  handicrafts  in  copper 
and  aluminum.  To  add  to  the  variety,  she  keeps  an  interesting  collection  of  potted 
plants  as  well  as  a  lovely  outdoor  garden.  The  singing  of  her  jovial  little  canary  is  a 
pleasant  accompaniment  for  her  working  hours. 

In  addition  to  the  four  quilts  pictured  abo\'e,  she  has  made  at  least  one  hundred 
other  quilts  for  friends  and  relatives.  This  number  does  not  include  the  numerous 
baby  quilts,  which  she  says  do  not  count.  She  shares  the  pleasure  of  these  works  of 
art  by  giving  the  completed  articles  to  her  family  and  friends. 


The  Bright  Star 

Chapter  5 
Dorothy  S.  Romney 


Synopsis:  Kathy  Tracy,  an  orphan,  who 
wishes  to  become  an  artist,  hves  with  her 
Aunt  Emerald  Jewel  Trac}/  in  an  old- 
fashioned  house  overlooking  San  Francisco 
Bay,  Kathy  applies  to  a  neighbor,  Phineas 
Fen  ton,  for  employment;  however,  Aunt 
Em  suffers  a  partial  stroke,  and  Kathy 
gives  up  the  promised  position.  During 
her  illness.  Aunt  Em  mentions  some  money 
in  a  chest  which  is  kept  in  Grandfather 
Tracy's  China  house.  Kathy,  using  her 
aunt's  illness  as  an  excuse,  postpones  her 
marriage  to  Jim  Parker.  A  stranger.  Marc 
Hale,  rents  the  China  house,  and  Kathy 
begins  to  work  on  a  painting  to  enter  in 
an  art  scholarship  contest.  Marc  tells  her 
that  he  thinks  the  painting  is  very  good. 

KATHY  worked  furiously  at  her 
household  tasks  during  the 
next  few  weeks  to  allow  time 
for  her  painting.  She  was  determined 
not  to  think  about  Mr.  Marc  Hale 
and  his  exasperating  manners,  but 
he  kept  slipping  into  her  mind,  re- 
gardless. About  eleven  o'clock  one 
morning  she  heard  the  chug-chug  of 
Jim's  old  coupe  coming  down  the 
hill.  Hurrah,  she  thought,  Aunt 
Em  can  have  fresh  eggs  for  lunch. 
Jim  was  a  dear  to  leave  his  work  and 
come  over  two  or  three  times  weekly 
to  bring  them  fresh  eggs,  especially 
since  he  refused  to  accept  a  single 
penny  in  payment. 

She  dropped  her  dustcloth  on  the 
elaborately  carved  old  grand  piano 
she  had  been  polishing  and  dashed 
out  onto  the  side  veranda.  She 
hoped  ''His  Happiness"  would  be 
draped  in  his  deck  chair,  and  observe 
with  what  enthusiasm  she  greeted 
the  visitor. 

Kathy  ran  down  the  veranda  steps, 
the  morning  sun  so  bright  in  her 
eyes  that  for  a  moment  she  didn't 


see  the  figure  seated  beside  Jim.  He 
stopped  his  car  with  a  jerk.  All  of 
his  movements  were  decisive  and 
quick.  It  wasn't  until  then  that  she 
saw  a  buxom  young  lady. 

Without  getting  out  of  the  car, 
Jim  handed  Kathy  three  cartons  of 
eggs,  then  he  surprised  her  by  say- 
ing, 'That'll  be  ninety  cents.  I'll 
give  you  wholesale  prices."  Then, 
after  a  poke  in  the  ribs  from  the 
elbow  of  his  companion,  he  turned 
and  introduced  her  to  Kathy. 

"This  is  my  new  neighbor,  Lina 
Carlson,"  he  said.  "We're  on  our 
way  into  town  for  a  poultry-raisers 
convention.  Lina  has  bought  the 
place  next  to  mine,  the  one  that 
belonged  to  Lars  Swenson." 

"Hello,"  said  Kathy,  thinking  that 
interest  in  this  new  neighbor  might 
explain  Jim's  absence  from  the  Tracy 
place  the  past  few  days. 

"Pleased  to  meet  you,"  the  girl 
replied,  looking  at  Kathy  curiously. 

"I'll  get  the  money  for  you," 
Kathy  said,  slightly  embarrassed,  and 
wondering  what  Jim  could  have  told 
the  girl  to  make  her  stare  so  openly. 

"No,  I'll  drop  back  tonight.  You 
can  give  it  to  me  then,"  he  an- 
swered, and  Kathy  saw  the  surprise 
and  hurt  in  the  eyes  of  the  girl  be- 
side him. 

"I  do  believe  she's  in  love  with 
him,"  she  thought.  She  was 
amazed  that  she  felt  no  sense  of  loss. 

As  soon  as  they  had  driven  away, 
Kathy  turned  to  go  back  to  her 
cleaning,  but  not  before  she  saw^ 
the  tall  figure  of  Marc  Hale  coming 
toward  the  house. 

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Her  first  impulse  was  to  turn  him 
away — tell  him  Aunt  Em  was  rest- 
ing, but  no,  she  told  herself  firmly, 
he's  good  for  Aunt  Em.  And  be- 
sides, Kathy  discovered,  Marta  had 
already  seen  the  \isitor  approaching 
the  house,  and  was  on  her  \\ny  to 
bid  him  come  in.  Here  was  a  young 
man  with  a  problem  on  his  mind, 
Kathy  had  decided. 

CHE  was  in  the  hall  dusting  the 
banisters  a  few  minutes  later, 
when  the  voices  of  her  aunt  and 
Marc  Hale  came  clearly  to  her.  They 
were  apparently  discussing  the  art 
contest. 

''She'll  win,"  Aunt  Em  was  say- 

''She  might,"  the  young  man  said, 
doubtfully. 

"I  don't  know  \\hy  not,"  Aunt 
Em's  voice  held  a  note  of  defiance. 
''I  had  artistic  ability,  and  she's  my 
niece,  isn't  she?" 

Kathy  fled  up  the  stairs  to  the 
privacy  of  her  own  bedroom. 

She'd  win  all  right.  She'd  have 
to.  She  couldn't  bear  to  let  Aunt 
Em  down.  She'd  finish  the  picture 
this  very  day,  then  go  into  the  vil- 
lage and  see  if  there  was  some  part- 
time  job  she  could  get.  Perhaps  at 
that  little  souvenir  shop.  The  pro- 
prietor was  a  Mr.  Rickson,  whom 
Kathy  knew  slightly.  A  job  such  as 
this  would  give  her  time  for  the 
housework,  and  to  care  for  Aunt 
Em,  too. 

She  gathered  her  materials  and 
almost  flew  up  the  stairs  to  the  cu- 
pola. The  ocean  was  calm,  shim- 
mering under  the  autumn  sun.  She 
turned  her  back  to  it,  away  from  the 
golden  brilliance,  and  could  see  that 
Marc  Hale  was  just  nosing  his  coupe 


into  Pine  Road,  headed  toward  the 
bridge  and  San  Francisco,  no  doubt. 

She  reluctantly  turned  back  to 
her  picture,  thinking  there'd  be  no 
pleasure  trips  for  Miss  Kathy  Tracy 
from  this  day  on. 

She  worked  furiously  for  some 
time,  then  tilted  her  head  back  and 
surveyed  her  work.  Satisfied  that 
the  picture  was  at  last  as  good  as 
she  could  make  it,  she  put  down  her 
paint  brush. 

She  could  hear  the  crash  of  the 
waves  against  the  cliffs  below  the 
Fenton  place,  and  she  suddenly  rea- 
lized that  a  brisk  wind  had  sprung 
up.  The  mother-of-pearl  sea  had 
turned  to  an  angry  green. 

It's  certainh  luck\,  she  thought, 
that  the  wa\es  pound  out  their  fury 
before  they  reach  our  China  house. 
She  remembered  then  that  Aunt 
Em  had  told  her  to  clear  out  one  of 
the  chests  in  the  China  house.  She 
had  a  buyer  for  it,  and  since  Marc 
Hale  had  given  permission  for  her 
to  enter  his  domain,  she'd  hurry  and 
clear  it  now. 

Kath\  had  not  entered  the  China 
house  since  Marc  Hale  had  mo\ed 
in.  The  place  was  orderly  and  clean. 
She  tiptoed  re\erently  about,  almost 
able  to  feel  Grandfather  Tracy's 
presence  here,  almost  able  to  hear 
his  voice  as  he  told  his  fascinating 
tales  of  the  sea. 

It  had  grown  quite  chilly,  but 
even  on  the  warmer  days  Marc  built 
a  fire  in  the  tiny  fireplace.  Kathy 
could  often  see  the  smoke  curling 
comfortably  up  over  the  little  cabin. 
The  embers  \\'ere  still  aglow.  She 
couldn't  resist  tossing  a  small  log 
on  them  from  the  store  in  the  minia- 
ture woodbox.  She  stood  watching 
as  the  flames  built  up,  grew  taller. 


THE  BRIGHT  STAR 


457 


lit  up  the  ceiling  and  the  corners 
of  the  little  room. 

CHE  took  off  her  sweater  and 
threw  it  on  a  nearbv  chest. 
Dear  Aunt  Em,  she  thought,  it's  like 
parting  with  a  friend  for  her  to  have 
to  give  up  one  of  her  treasures,  but 
she  ne\er  complains.  Well,  this 
will  be  the  last  one,  she  \owed. 

As  her  sweater  skimmed  over  the 
top  of  the  chest,  she  heard  a  small 
crash,  and  looked  down  to  see  one 
of  the  smaller  chests  on  its  side  on 
the  floor— the  one  Aunt  Em  had 
told  her  never  to  touch.  Its  contents 
tumbled  out  in  a  mustv  assortment 
of  trinkets.  Aunt  Em's  most  cher- 
ished childhood  mementoes,  Kathy 
knew.  Some  tiny  carved  animals, 
bits  of  Indian  beadwork,  an  old  doll 
with  a  china  head,  an  elaborate  pink 
satin  skirt,  and  staring  black  eves. 

Nothing  of  any  real  \'alue,  Kathy 
found  herself  thinking.  Then  she 
picked  up  a  small  parcel.  Carefully 
wrapped  in  yellowed  tissue  paper 
tied  with  ribbon,  its  diamond  en- 
crusted star  shape  plainly  visible 
through  the  thin  covering,  was  Aunt 
Em's  "bright  star,"  surely  the  one 
she  had  muttered  about  in  her  ill- 
ness. 

Kathy  sat  down  shakilv  on  the 
larger  chest,  the  points  of  the  star 
digging  into  her  palm,  as  she  pressed 
it  in  her  hand.  She  had  had  the  feel- 
ing from  the  first  time  her  aunt  had 
mentioned  it  that  the  bright  star 
concerned  her  own  destiny.  Had  she 
the  courage  to  unwrap  it? 

She  finally  bent  down  and  re- 
placed the  contents  of  the  chest. 
She  was  much  too  excited  to  dehe 
through  the  larger  chest  now.  The 
flames  had  died  down  to  a  glow 
again  as  Kathy  gathered  up  her  be- 
longings and  closed  the  door  of  the 


China  house.  Like  a  burning  em- 
ber from  the  tiny  fireplace  the  star 
lay  in  her  hand.  She  would  take  it 
straight  to  Aunt  Em. 

Her  aunt  was  sitting  in  the  kitch- 
en in  the  light  mobile  chair  Dr. 
Ransome  had  provided  for  her— for 
although  she  had  some  use  of  her 
limbs  now,  the  doctor  thought  it 
best  for  her  to  reserve  her  strength. 
A  bright  spot  showed  in  each  of  her 
cheeks,  and  her  eyes  sparkled— a 
sure  sign  that  she  was  excited. 

''Now,  Aunt  Em,"  Kathy  said 
immediately,  ''you  know  the  doctor 
said  positively  no  excitement,  so 
whatever  it  is  just.  ..." 

But  evidently  Aunt  Em  had  no 
intention  of  calming  down  until 
she  had  gotten  this  matter  off  her 
mind. 

"I've  been  calling  you,  Kathy," 
she  said.  "Marc  was  here!  He's 
gone  into  town!"  She  paused  for 
breath,  and  watched  Kathy  closely. 

"Yes,  yes,  I  saw  him  leave,"  the 
girl  replied.  "Is  that  what  you're 
so  excited  about?    Remember.  .  .  ." 

"You  don't  understand,"  Aunt 
Em  went  on.  "You've  got  to  stop 
him." 

"Stop  him  from  what,  darling?" 

But  she  wasn't  to  find  out  that 
evening,  for  at  that  moment  the 
bell  rang.  It  was  Marta,  and  she 
took  one  look  at  the  bright  spots 
in  Miss  Em's  cheeks,  and  wheeled 
her  into  the  bedroom,  after  giving 
her  a  glass  of  warm  milk.  She  put 
her  to  bed,  then  declared,  "Now 
you  go  straight  to  sleep,"  and  sat 
down  bv  the  bedside  to  see  that  her 
orders  were  obeyed. 

Aunt  Em  evidently  knew  Marta 
too  well  to  protest,  Kathy  found  her- 
self thinking. 

[To  be  continued) 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


Hulda  ParJcer,  General  Secretary-Treasurer 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  ''Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  of  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Irene  T.  Erekson 

AUSTRALIAN  MISSION,  HURSTVILLE  BRANCH  (NEW  SOUTH  WALES) 
RELIEF  SOCIETY  HELPS  COMPLETE  PROJECT 

Left  to  right:  Adelaide  Adams,  Second  Counselor,  Hurstville  Branch  Relief  Society; 
Irene  T.  Erekson,  President,  Australian  Mission  Relief  Society;  Florence  Wardingly, 
President,  Hurstville  Branch  Relief  Society;  Pauline  McMaugh,  Secretary;  Judith  Bailey, 
First  Counselor. 

Sister  Erekson  reports  that  "the  recent  dedication  of  the  Hurstville  chapel  of 
Sydney,  New  South  Wales,  was  a  great  thrill  to  the  branch  Relief  Society,"  which 
helped  in  raising  funds  to  enlarge  and  beautify  the  chapel.  "Elder  Hugh  B.  Brown, 
Assistant  to  the  Council  of  the  Twelve,  dedicated  the  chapel  during  his  recent  tour 
of  the  Australian  Mission.  .  .  .  The  sisters  raised  their  quota  with  banquets,  street 
stalls  .  .  .  dances,  concerts,  and  home  parties.  All  was  done  with  a  spirit  of  humility 
and  enthusiasm,  with  nothing  too  great  a  sacrifice. 

'The  Hurstville  chapel  has  the  first  Relief  Society  room  and  kitchen  in  New  South 
Wales,  with  up-to-date  facilities  for  the  work  of  the  sisters. 

"The  Relief  Societies  throughout  the  mission  are  in  'top  condition' — all  are  fol- 
lowing the  Magazine,  all  are  up-to-date  on  lessons,  and  there  are  capable  teachers  in 
every  department.  The  recent  March  birthday  programs  were  very  successful." 

Page  458 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


459 


Photograph  submitted  by  Evelyn  P.  Brown 

BURBANK  STAKE    (CALIFORNIA)    SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT 
MUSIC  FOR  STAKE  EVENTS 

Evelyn  P.  Brown,  President,  Burbank  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "Many  weeks 
of  rehearsing  were  climaxed  for  the  Singing  Mothers  of  Burbank  Stake,  when  they 
sang  several  numbers  on  March  15th  at  the  Relief  Society  birthday  party,  held  this 
year  on  a  stake  basis. 

''The  same  group  had  performed  previously  at  stake  quarterly  conference  on 
February  3.  The  chorus  is  conducted  by  our  stake  Relief  Society  chorister  Beth  Soren- 
son,  front  row  at  extreme  right;  and  Jean  Wilcox,  the  accompanist  for  these  special 
events,  is  seated  next  to  Sister  Sorenson." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Gladys  R.  Winter 

SAN  FRANCISCO   STAKE    (CALIFORNIA)    SINGING   MOTHERS   PRESENT 
MUSIC  FOR  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

March  17,  1957 

Gladys  R.  Winter,  President,  San  Francisco  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "The 
Singing  Mothers  were  honored  by  being  asked  to  present  the  music  for  San  Francisco 
Stake  Conference,  which  was  held  March  17,  the  anniversary  of  the  Relief  Society  .  .  .  ." 

The  chorister,  Nada  W.  Fluckiger,  is  in  the  second  row  at  the  extreme  right.  In 
the  first  row  in  front  of  her  is  Mabel  M.  George,  the  organist.  Sister  Winter  is  in  the 
second  row,  fifth  from  the  right;  and  Vera  M.  Murray,  First  Counselor,  is  in  the  first 
row,  second  from  the  right. 


460 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JULY  1957 


Photograph  submitted  by  Virginia  R.  Vaterlaus 

MONTPELIER   STAKE    (IDAHO)    VISITING   TEACHERS  ACHIEVE 

FIFTY-YEAR  RECORDS 

V^irginia  R.  Vaterlaus,  former  president,  Montpelier  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes: 
"We  have  in  our  stake  six  Relief  Soeiety  sisters  who  have  served  fifty  years  or  over  as 
visiting  teaehers." 

Left  to  right:  Janet  Dunn,  who  has  served  fifty  years  as  a  visiting  teacher;  Martha 
Mourtsen,  fifty  years;  and  Deborah  Rich,  fifty-three  years. 

Women  not  in  the  picture  because  of  illness  are:  Mary  Simmons,  who  served  fifty- 
six  years;  Carrie  Teuscher,  fifty-three  years;  and  Nellie  Lyons,  fifty  years. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Mildred  P.  Elggren 

WESTERN  STATES  MISSION,  WEST  NEW  MEXICO  DISTRICT  SINGING 
MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  AT  DISTRICT  CONFERENCE 

February  3,  1957 

Mildred  P.  Elggren,  President,  Western  States  Mission  Relief  Society,  reports  that 
the  Singing  Mothers  represent  six  of  the  eight  branches  of  the  West  New  Mexico  Dis- 
trict— namely,  Albuquerque  First,  Albuquerque  Second,  Albuquerque  Third,  Bluewater, 
Las  Vegas,  and  Santa  Fe.  The  conference  was  the  first  meeting  to  be  held  in  the 
Albuquerque  Second  Branch  chapel. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


461 


Photograph  submitted  by  Anna  O.  Smith 

MOUNT  LOGAN  STAKE    (UTAH)    SINGING  MOTHERS   PRESENT  MUSIC 
FOR  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE,  March  lo,  1957 

Anna  O.  Smith,  President,  Mount  Logan  Stake  Rehef  Society,  writes  that  124 
members  of  the  191  Singing  Mothers  in  the  stake  sang  at  the  quarterly  conference. 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Cumorah  Alder,  stake  theology  leader;  Margaret  Kloepfer, 
stake  visiting  teacher  message  leader;  Anna  O.  Smith,  Relief  Society  Stake  President; 
Ella  Rinderknect,  First  Counselor;  Emily  Larsen,  Second  Counselor;  Ella  Davis,  Secre- 
tary; Blanche  Thompson,  organist;  Alvina  Pehrson,  stake  chorister;  Lila  Jones,  pianist; 
and  Joan  Peterson,  assistant  pianist. 

Sister  Smith  continues:  "Our  chorus  has  increased  in  numbers  and  has  become  a 
very  important  part  of  Relief  Society.  Sister  Pehrson  has  directed  the  chorus  since 
1948  and  has  now  been  released,  having  moved  from  our  stake." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Hazel  S.  Love 

NORTHERN   CALIFORNIA   MISSION,    SHASTA    DISTRICT    SINGING 
MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC  FOR  DISTRICT  CONFERENCES 


Hazel  S.  Love,  President,  Northern  California  Mission  Relief  Society,  reports: 
"The  Singing  Mothers  from  Shasta  District  have  presented  music  for  the  last  two 
quarterly  district  conferences  in  the  afternoon  sessions." 

Seated  left  to  right,  front  row:  Irma  Angus,  district  Relief  Society  organist;  Lois 
Rhodes,  chairman,  district  music  committee;  Lucile  Hansen,  district  Relief  Society 
president;  and  Theressa  Sims,  district  chorister. 


462 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— JULY  1957 


Photograph  submitted  by  Vesta  M.  Lewis 

KLAMATH  STAKE  (OREGON),  KLAMATH  FALLS  WARD,  FORMER  RELIEF 
SOCIETY  PRESIDENTS  ATTEND  AND  ASSIST  AT  ANNIVERSARY  PARTY 

Front  row,  seated  left  to  right:  Helen  Caseman;  June  Peterson;  Eudora  Morris; 
Velta  L.  Shaffer. 

Back  row:  Afton  Shaffer;  Mable  Behnke;  Vesta  M.  Lewis;  Maxine  Lawrence;  Inez 
Blessinger. 

Vesta  M.  Lewis,  President,  Klamath  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "Klamath  Falls 
Relief  Society  was  organized  January  9,  1930,  as  a  branch.  There  have  been  seventeen 
Relief  Society  presidents  since  that  time — two  of  those  presidents  have  ser\'ed  for  a 
second  time,  two  are  deceased,  four  have  moved  away,  and  nine  are  still  active  in  the 
ward  and  stake  work." 


c/i. 


ulfillment 


Louise  Call  Nelson 

You  lived  in  all  my  childhood  games, 

I  nursed  you  at  my  play; 

I  saved  you  for  my  choicest  names, 

And  modeled  you  in  clay. 

In  fervency  of  hope  I  knelt 

At  your  prenatal  shrine. 

In  my  maternal  flesh  you  dwelt — 

Then  one  day  you  were  mine. 

Fruition  reached  the  hallowed  peak 

Of  its  potential  crest 

The  moment  that  your  tiny  cheek 

Was  pillowed  on  my  breast. 

Now  consummation  of  your  horning 

Has  given  you  and  me — our  morning. 


JLife  S/s  a  ^ourney^ 

CJeopha  Jensen 

T  IKE  a  mountain  trail,  life's  journey  should  wind  upward  to  more  lofty  heights.  Some- 
^  times  we  seem  to  be  going  downward  when  we  are  merely  wmding  around  the 
mountainside — through  dark  paths  where  night  seems  to  have  fallen — only  later  to 
come  out  on  higher  ground  and  into  brighter  sunlight.  Our  narrow  path  gains  alti- 
tude, and,  although  there  may  be  descents  into  shallow  valleys,  we  gradually  trend 
upward. 

The  first  part  of  our  journey  may  be  harsh  and  rugged;  the  grades  may  be  steep  and 
painful,  but,  as  we  travel  on,  we  gain  strength  for  the  trail  ahead.  Perhaps,  after  some 
strenuous  traveling,  we  may  come  to  a  pleasant  valley — green  pastures  and  still  waters. 
Here  we  may  feel  inclined  to  loiter,  to  pause  and  enjoy  nature's  beauty,  as  we  meditate 
and  languidly  dream — life  is  beautiful.  But  we  can't  remain.  We  realize  "life  is  a 
journey  and  not  a  destination."  Everything  in  life  means  motion  and  change.  Nor, 
strangely  enough,  can  we  keep  anything  by  holding  on  to  it — we  must  let  it  pass  on. 

We  continue  on  our  journey,  "just  over  the  next  hill,"  we  tell  ourselves,  "there 
may  be  a  quiet  path  leading  to  another  pleasant  valley."  Perchance,  however,  just 
around  some  turn  on  the  trail,  we  may  come  abruptly  face  to  face  with  a  steep  rocky 
cliff — as  when  hfe  is  at  the  crossroads  with  a  crisis  to  be  met.  A  crucial  decision  must 
be  made  as  to  which  road  to  take.  By  faulty  decision  we  may  get  off  on  the  wrong 
trail  for  some  distance,  only  to  ha\'e  to  retrace  our  steps  and  begin  anew. 

Thus,  we  must  learn  to  accept  the  barriers  on  life's  highway  as  a  means  of  teach- 
ing us  the  things  we  need  to  know.  With  renewed  strength  and  courage,  we  press 
on,  perhaps  for  some  distance  through  another  pleasant  valley,  only  to  come  unex- 
pectedly to  the  brink  of  a  chasm,  deep  and  wide.  We  ponder  dejectedly — there  is  no 
detour.     These  are  the  occasions  that  test  our  faith. 

Finally,  we  reach  a  summit  on  our  mountain  trail — when  a  pause  comes  in  life's 
activities.  From  our  vantage  point  of  experience,  we  look  back  across  the  years,  re- 
viewing the  trail  we  ha\'e  traveled.  We  see  our  many  mistakes,  heartaches,  successes, 
and  failures.  We  view  life  from  a  new  perspective  which  reveals  life's  real  value  and 
meaning,  and  within  us,  we  have  the  assurance  of  having  learned  many  of  the  funda- 
mental values  of  life  and  that  life  is  good. 

But,  as  we  further  meditate,  we  come  to  realize  that  life  is  but  a  vantage  ground 
for  a  future  step;  we  can  never  arrive  at  a  point  of  completion,  for  our  journey  in  time 
is  only  the  prelude  to  eternity. 

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LESSON   DEPARTMENT 


cJheologyi — The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Lesson  1— The  Lord  Speaks  Through  His  Prophets 

Elder  Roy  W.  Doxey 

For  Tuesday,  October  i,  1957 

Objective:  To  recognize  that  by  re\'elation  the  Lord  has  led  his  people  in  the  past, 
and  that  by  a  reopening  of  the  heavens  he  has  restored  the  gospel  and  re-established  his 
Church  upon  the  earth  in  fulfillment  of  Bible  prophecies. 


I 


Why  Study  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants? 
N  this  course  of  study  of  The 
Doctrine  and  Covenants,  we  are 
to  learn  what  God  has  revealed  in 
this  dispensation  to  his  prophets. 
We  should  recognize  that  there  is 
still  need  for  divine  direction  to  the 
leadership  of  the  Church  as  ancient- 
ly. Individually  as  members  of  that 
Church,  we  have  a  need  for  divine 
guidance  in  our  lives  that  we  may 
eventually  become  joint  heirs  with 
Christ.  Acceptance  of  the  revela- 
tions in  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants as  being  divine,  will  bring 
great  blessings  to  the  adherents. 

The  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  in- 
structed the  brethren  of  the  Church 
in  1834  ^^  regard  to  the  holy  scrip- 
tures as  follows: 

We  take  the  sacred  writings  into  our 
hands,  and  admit  that  they  were  given  by 

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direct  inspiration  for  the  good  of  man.  We 
believe  that  God  condescended  to  speak 
from  the  heavens  and  declare  His  will 
concerning  the  human  family,  to  give 
them  just  and  holy  laws,  to  regulate  their 
conduct,  and  guide  them  in  a  direct  way, 
that  in  due  time  He  might  take  them  to 
Himself,  and  make  them  joint  heirs  with 
His  Son.  But  when  this  fact  is  admitted, 
that  the  immediate  will  of  heaven  is 
contained  in  the  Scriptures,  are  we  not 
bound  as  rational  creatures  to  live  in  ac- 
cordance to  all  its  precepts?  Will  the 
mere  admission,  that  this  is  the  will  of 
heaven  ever  benefit  us  if  we  do  not  com- 
ply with  all  its  teachings?  Do  we  not 
offer  violence  to  the  Supreme  Intelligence 
of  heaven,  when  we  admit  the  truth  of 
its  teachings,  and  do  not  obey  them?  Do 
we  not  descend  below  our  own  knowledge, 
and  the  better  wisdom  which  heaven  has 
endowed  us  with,  by  such  a  course  of 
conduct?  For  these  reasons,  if  we  have 
direct  revelations  gi\en  us  from  heaven, 
surely  those  revelations  were  never  given 
to  be  trifled  with,  without  the  trifler's 
incurring  displeasure  and  vengeance  upon 
his  own  head,  if  there  is  any  justice  in 
heaven  .  .  .  (D.  H.  C.  II:ii). 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


465 


The  Christian  World 
and  Revelation 

When  the  clergy  of  Joseph 
Smith's  day  learned  that  Joseph 
professed  to  have  had  revelation 
from  the  Lord  in  the  actual  appear- 
ance of  the  Eternal  Father  and  his 
Son  Jesus  Christ,  there  began  a 
controversy  which  continues  to  this 
day.  Aside  from  other  points  of 
difference  arising  from  the  first  vis- 
ion of  the  Prophet,  the  fundamental 
issue  was  the  claim  of  Joseph  Smith 
to  revelation  from  God.  This  claim 
meant  that  the  ''Christian''  churches 
had  departed  from  the  true  doctrine 
and  Church  established  by  Jesus  in 
the  meridian  of  time. 

It  was  contended  by  the  adver- 
saries of  the  Prophet  that  revelation 
from  the  Lord  was  neither  expected 
nor  necessary.  The  canon  of  scrip- 
ture was  closed— for  God  had  spok- 
en in  the  past  through  his  Son  Jesus 
and  the  apostles,  and  thereafter 
there  was  no  need  of  revelation.  It 
is  not  difficult  at  all  to  understand 
that  where  divine  revelation  was  not 
received  by  the  clergy  who  denied 
its  necessity,  they  would  immediate- 
ly oppose  such  a  claim  as  Joseph 
Smith  put  forth. 

This  position  would  take  on 
added  zeal  when  their  own  standing 
as  ministers  was  set  aside  because  of 
a  claimed  apostasy.  Many  were  the 
arguments  presented  from  the  Bible 
in  an  attempt  to  show  that  revela- 
tion in  a  post-meridian  period  was 
not  to  be  expected. 

It  is  by  no  means  an  unfruitful 
experience  to  examine  a  few  of 
those  assumed  reasons  for  declaring 
that  no  more  scripture  or  revelation 
was  necessary.  In  other  words,  how 
would  you,   as   a   member   of  the 


Church,   meet   such   arguments   as 
the  following? 

Arguments  Advanced  Against 
Fuithei  Revelation 

(It  is  suggested  that  in  consider- 
ing these  arguments  against  further 
revelation,  that  you  first  read  the 
scripture  and  then  the  application 
used  by  those  who  denied  that  reve- 
lation would  be  received  in  our  time. 
Next,  consider  how  you  would  re- 
ply to  this  application  or  interpreta- 
tion. Finally,  read  the  answer  gen- 
erally used  by  the  Latter-day  Saints 
to  prove  wherein  the  application  of 
the  clergy  was  out  of  harmony  with 
the  facts,  and,  therefore,  false.) 

For  I  testify  unto  every  man  that  hear- 
eth  the  words  of  the  prophecy  of  this 
book,  If  any  man  shall  add  unto  these 
things,  God  shall  add  unto  him  the 
plagues  that  are  written  in  this  book: 

And  if  any  man  shall  take  away  from 
the  words  of  the  book  of  this  prophecy, 
God  shall  take  away  his  part  out  of  the 
book  of  life,  and  out  of  the  holy  city, 
and  from  the  things  which  are  written  in 
this  book   (Rev.  22:18-19). 

Application  by  "Christian'  clergy: 
No  man  has  the  right  to  add  to 
the  Bible;  therefore,  no  fur- 
ther revelation  (scripture)  is 
to  be  expected. 

Answer  by  Latter-day  Saints:  The 
Bible  as  a  collection  of  books 
did  not  exist  when  this  inspired 
scripture  was  given;  consequent- 
ly, this  injunction  was  not  in- 
tended to  include  other  scrip- 
tures written  after  the  Book  of 
Revelation,  such  as  the  Gospel 
of  John,  and  other  parts  of  the 
New  Testament.  Furthermore, 
this  admonition  was  given  to 


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^ 


man,  and  it  was  not  intended 
that  God  could  not  or  that  he 
would  not  give  further  revela- 
tion. Notice  in  Deuteronomy 
4:2,  the  same  admonition  is 
given  concerning  the  writings 
of  Moses.  If  the  same  applica- 
tion was  made  as  was  made  for 
Revelation  22:18-19  by  ''new 
revelation"  deniers,  there  would 
have  been  no  inspired  writings 
after  Moses. 

.  .  .  from  a  child  thou  hast  known  the 
holy  scriptures,  which  are  able  to  make 
thee  wise  unto  salvation  through  faith 
which  is  in  Christ  Jesus  (2  Tim.  3:15). 

Application  by  "Christian"  clergy: 
If  there  was  sufficient  revela- 
tion to  give  salvation  to  Tim- 
othy as  a  child,  there  would  be 
no  further  need  for  additional 
revelation. 

Answer  hy  Latter-day  Saints:  This 
application  would  do  away  with 
the  New  Testament;  for,  again, 
there  was  not  a  New  Testament 
in  existence  when  Timothy  was 
a  child.  He  was  acquainted 
with  the  Old  Testament. 

Charity  never  faileth:  but  whether  there 
be  prophecies,  they  shall  fail;  whether 
there  be  tongues,  they  shall  cease;  whether 
there  be  knowledge,  it  shall  vanish  away 
(I  Cor.  13:8). 

Application  by  "Christian'  clergy: 
Prophecies  and  the  other  spirit- 
ual gifts,  among  which  is  reve- 
lation, were  to  cease  after  the 
days  of  Jesus  and  the  apostles. 

Answer  by  Latter-day  Saints:  The 
next  two  verses  (1  Corinthians 
13:9-10)  point  out  that  proph- 
ecy would  be  unnecessary 
''.  .  .  when  that  which  is  per- 
fect is  come  .  .  .  ."  The  day 


of  perfection  has  not  yet  come, 
so  these  gifts  are  still  necessary. 

The  absence  of  scriptural  justifi- 
cation to  deny  new  revelation  is 
established  by  the  accepted  Chris- 
tian standard  of  judgment  —  the 
Holy  Bible.  When  the  Lord  de- 
sires to  give  new  revelation  to  man, 
he  will  do  so,  but  only  in  accord- 
ance with  his  designs.  (See  2  Nephi 
29:1-14;  Alma  29:8.) 

Revelation  in  the  Past 

The  Latter-day  Saints  learned 
early  that  "Where  there  is  no  vis- 
ion, the  people  perish  .  .  ."  (Prov. 
29:18),  and  that  "Surely  the  Lord 
God  will  do  nothing,  but  he  reveal- 
eth  his  secret  unto  his  servants  the 
prophets"  (Amos  3:7).  It  then 
became  a  matter  for  the  early  day 
Latter-day  Saint  missionaries  to 
demonstrate  from  the  Bible  that 
God  had  always  directed  his  people 
in  the  past.  Furthermore,  there 
were  sufficient  grounds  for  know- 
ing that,  if  God's  purposes  for  his 
children  were  to  be  fulfilled,  new 
revelation  from  the  Giver  of  all 
truth  would  be  necessary. 

One  of  the  outstanding  lessons 
the  Latter-day  Saint  missionary  saw 
in  the  Bible  was  that  the  Lord's 
servants  in  the  meridian  of  time 
were  directed  in  their  ministry  by 
revelation.  In  fact,  Jesus  had  prom- 
ised his  disciples  that  the  Holy 
Ghost  would  direct  them  after  his 
ascension.  (See  John  16:1-7,  ^3'^4' 
15:26.)  Paul  received  the  gospel  by 
revelation  (Galatians  1:11-12),  and 
instructions  came  from  the  Lord  by 
a  vision  and  from  the  Holy  Ghost 
as  to  when  to  teach  the  gospel  and 
when  not  to  teach  it.  (See  Acts 
16:6;  18:9-10.) 


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It  was  also  apparent  that  the 
leadership  of  the  Church  was  direct- 
ed in  matters  which  affected  the 
entire  Church  of  Jesus  Christ.  An 
example  of  this  may  be  found  in  the 
revelation  to  the  apostle  Peter  con- 
cerning the  preaching  of  the  gos- 
pel to  the  Gentiles.  (See  Acts 
10:19-48.)  During  Jesus'  ministry 
on  earth  he  confined  his  teaching  to 
the  house  of  Israel.  (See  Matthew 
15:24.)  Paul  also  knew  by  revela- 
tion that  upon  the  rejection  of  the 
gospel  by  the  Jew  it  was  to  go  to 
the  Gentile  (Acts  13:46).  John  the 
Revelator  directed  the  Church  by 
revelation  when  the  seven  branches 
of  the  Church  in  Asia  required  re- 
buke and  admonition  (Revelation, 
chapters  1-3). 

This  guidance  was,  in  part,  the 
fulfillment  of  Jesus'  promise  con- 
cerning the  Church.  In  conversa- 
tion with  his  disciples  Jesus  asked 
whom  men  declared  him  to  be. 
Various  answers  were  given;  where- 
upon, the  Lord  asked  them,  ".  . .  But 
whom  say  ye  that  I  am?"  The  re- 
ply of  Peter  was  '\  .  .  Thou  art  the 
Christ,  the  Son  of  the  living  God." 
Jesus  then  said  to  Peter  that 
'\  .  .  flesh  and  blood  [man]  hath  not 
revealed  it  unto  thee,  but  my  Father 
which  is  in  heaven."  It  was  then 
that  the  Master  declared  the  great 
truth  that  upon  the  rock  of  revela- 
tion, he  would  build  his  Church. 
(See  Matthew  16:13-18.) 

Another  reason  for  knowing  that 
revelation  was  necessary  in  our 
times  was  found  in  the  fact  that 
the  scriptures  spoke  of  many  lost  or 
missing  books  which  do  not  now 
form  a  part  of  the  Old  and  the  New 
Testaments.  (Examples  of  these 
are    given    in    1    Chron.    29:29;    2 


Chron.  33:18-19;  I  Cor.  5:9;  Eph. 
3:3;  and  Col.  4:16.) 

Contending  Christian  Churches 

The  great  number  of  divisions  in 
Christianity  which  existed  at  the 
time  of  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith, 
each  contending  against  the  other, 
and  new  churches  coming  into  ex- 
istence, were  evidence  that  men 
without  revelation  could  not  inter- 
pret the  Bible  correctly.  The  differ- 
ences, which  existed  among  the  vari- 
ous churches  and  which  often  give 
rise  to  new  organizations,  were  based 
upon  this  simple  fact.  It  was  pointed 
out  that  the  wisdom  of  man's  learn- 
ing was  not  sufficient  to  give  true 
doctrine.  (See  I  Corinthians  2:11, 
14.)  Only  God  could  provide  man 
with  the  way  of  eternal  life  and  that 
required  continuous  revelation  from 
the  Lord.  An  outstanding  example 
of  the  lack  of  revelation  in  modern 
Christianity  was  evident  in  that  the 
organization  of  the  Church  of  Jesus 
Christ  as  made  known  in  the  New 
Testament  could  not  be  duplicated 
by  men.  Although  officers  in  the 
Church  were  mentioned,  their  du- 
ties and  privileges  were  not  clearly 
made  known.  Only  new  revelation 
from  God  could  bring  into  being 
the  true  Church  organization  with 
saving  principles  and  ordinances. 

A  New  Dispensation  Piophesied 

The  apostles  of  Christ  had  fore- 
seen that  the  gospel  and  the  Church 
would  be  lost  to  the  world  by  the 
apostasy  of  the  members  of  the 
Church  (See  Isaiah  24:1-6;  2  Peter 
2:1-3;  Galatians  1:6-10)  but  gave 
sufficient  evidence  to  know  that  rev- 
elation was  not  to  cease  forever.  It 
was  proclaimed  by  three  New  Testa- 


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ment  writers— Peter,  Paul,  and  John 
the  Revelator— that  subsequent  to 
their  dav  the  Lord  would  usher  in 
the  greatest  dispensation  of  the  gos- 
pel. It  was  the  apostle  Peter  who 
said  that  before  the  second  com- 
ing of  Christ  there  would  be  a 
"...  times  of  refreshing  .  .  .  from 
the  presence  of  the  Lord"  (Acts 
3:19),  which  would  constitute  a 
*'.  .  .  times  of  restitution  [or  restora- 
tion] of  all  things.  .  .  ."  These  are 
Peter's  inspired  words: 

Repent  ye  therefore,  and  be  converted, 
that  your  sins  may  be  blotted  out,  when 
the  times  of  refreshing  shall  come  from 
the  presence  of  the  Lord; 

And  he  shall  send  Jesus  Christ,  which 
before  was  preached  unto  you: 

Whom  the  heaven  must  receive  until 
the  times  of  restitution  of  all  things,  which 
God  hath  spoken  by  the  mouth  of  all  his 
holy  prophets  since  the  world  began  (Acts 
3:19-21). 

The  word  of  the  Lord  would 
come  in  preparation  for  the  great 
second  coming  of  Christ. 

The  second  apostle  of  record  to 
predict  the  restoration  of  the  gos- 
pel was  Paul.  In  his  letter  to  the 
saints  at  Ephesus,  after  reminding 
them  of  their  pre-earth  existence 
and  of  the  mission  of  Jesus,  he  set 
forth  the  purposes  of  the  Lord  con- 
cerning the  day  in  which  we  live. 
These  are  his  words: 

Having  made  known  unto  us  the  mys- 
tery of  his  will,  according  to  his  good 
pleasure  which  he  hath  purposed  in  him- 
self: 

That  in  the  dispensation  of  the  fulness 
of  times  he  might  gather  together  in  one 
all  things  in  Christ,  both  which  are  in 
heaven,  and  which  are  on  earth;  even  in 
him  (Eph.  1:9-10). 


In  what  way  does  Paul's  predic- 
tion relate  to  the  latter  days?  This 
period  was  to  be  the  "fulness  of 
times,"  an  expression  which  con- 
notes a  culminating  or  concluding 
period.  The  Lord's  word  was  to  be 
dispensed  again  in  the  final  dispen- 
sation. Notice  the  similarity  of 
thought  and  language  of  Peter's 
statement  on  the  ''times  of  restitu- 
tion" before  Jesus'  second  coming 
(which  was  to  include  ''all  things") 
and  Paul's  prophecy  that  Christ 
would  "...  gather  together  in  one 
all  things  in  Christ  .  .  ."  things 
".  .  .  which  are  in  heaven,  and 
which  are  on  earth"  (Eph.  1:10). 
In  effect,  what  these  two  apostles 
prophesied  is  the  same  thing  which 
the  Prophet  Joel  said  would  occur 
"...  before  the  great  and  the  ter- 
rible day  of  the  Lord  .  .  ."  or  the 
second  coming  of  Christ  (Joel 
2:28-32). 

A  third  prophecy,  made  by  the 
apostle  John,  is  that  of  the  coming 
of  an  angel  in  the  hour  of  God's 
judgment  or  in  the  latter  days  pre- 
ceding the  second  coming  of  Christ. 
This  holy  messenger  was  to  bring 
"the  everlasting  gospel"  which  was 
to  be  preached  "to  every  nation, 
and  kindred,  and  tongue,  and  peo- 
ple" (Rev.  14:6).  Thus,  the  apostles 
Peter,  Paul,  and  John  had  spoken 
as  directed  by  the  Spirit,  and  the 
missionaries  of  the  new  dispensa- 
tion carried  this  message  to  the 
world. 

Latter-day  Saints 
Fulfill  Piophecies 

The  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  re- 
marked at  a  conference  of  elders  of 
the  Church  that  "we  are  differently 
situated  from  any  other  people  that 


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ever  existed  upon  this  earth;  conse- 
quently those  former  revelations 
cannot  be  suited  to  our  conditions; 
they  were  given  to  other  people, 
who  were  before  us;  but  in  the  last 
days,  God  was  to  call  a  remnant,  in 
which  was  to  be  deliverance,  as  well 
as  in  Jerusalem  and  Zion"  (D.H.C. 
11:52).  This  fact  was  apparent  to 
our  people  when  they  discovered 
that  Bible  prophets  foresaw  the  time 
when  God  would  raise  up  a  people 
in  the  last  days  who  would  fulfill 
the  prophecies  spoken  by  them. 
What  were  some  of  the  things  to 
be  accomplished  in  the  dispensation 
of  the  fulness  of  times? 

New  scripture  was  to  be  made 
known  in  the  form  of  a  ''book" 
from  ancient  American  peoples  that 
would  ''speak  from  the  dust"  at  a 
time  when  the  religious  world  was 
in  a  condition  of  apostasy.  By  this 
book  of  scripture,  faith  in  Jesus 
Christ  would  increase  and  bring 
people  to  understand  the  plan  of 
salvation.  (Read  Isaiah  ch.  29, 
especially  verses  4,  9-12,  17-19,  24.) 
This  book  was  known  by  Ezekiel 
as  the  "stick  of  Joseph"  and  the 
Bible  as  the  "stick  of  Judah"  (Ezek- 
iel 37:16-28). 

The  prophets  had  made  known 
that  in  the  latter  days  Israel  was  to 
be  gathered  from  her  scattered  con- 
dition. (Isa.  11:11-12;  35:4,  10;  Jer. 
3:12-15,  18;  16:14-16;  23:2-4,  7-8; 
31:7-12;  Ezek.  37:21-27.)  That  por- 
tion of  Israel  which  would  consti- 
tute the  Latter-day  Saints  was  to 
be  a  temple-building  people  (Isa. 
2:2-3)  and  the  fulfillment  of  the 
ancient  prophecy  of  Malachi,  chap- 
ter four,  verses  five  and  six,  concern- 
ing the  coming  of  Elijah  would  also 


mean  new  revelation  subsequent  to 
the  time  of  Jesus'  apostles. 

Summary 

The  true  ministers  of  the  Lord  in 
this  dispensation  knew  that  the 
Lord  had  never  said  by  his  proph- 
ets that  there  was  to  be  no  more  reve- 
lation or  scripture  after  the  meridian 
dispensation.  They  were  also  assured 
that  the  Lord  had  (1)  directed 
his  servants  by  immediate  revela- 
tion; (2)  that  the  leadership  of 
the  Church  was  led  by  revelation  in 
order  to  govern  the  Church;  (3) 
that  there  was  a  need  for  further 
revelation  because  the  Bible  was 
incomplete;  (4)  that  uninspired 
men  were  unable  to  interpret  the 
Bible  correctly  and  thereby  many 
divisions  in  Christianity  were  cre- 
ated; (5)  that  the  restoration  of 
the  gospel  was  prophesied;  (6)  that 
new  scripture,  as  The  Book  of  Mor- 
mon, was  to  be  revealed;  and  (7) 
that  Israel  was  to  be  gathered, 
temples  were  to  be  built,  and  other 
prophesied  events  were  to  take  place 
as  a  part  of  the  dispensation  of  the 
fulness  of  times. 

These  reasons  obtained  from  the 
scriptures  give  to  us  Latter-day 
Saints  confirmation  of  our  faith  in 
what  God  has  done  for  us  in  the 
establishment  of  his  Church  upon 
the  earth. 

Questions  for  Discussion 

1.  What  reasons  can  you  give  for  be- 
lieving that  Joseph  Smith  would  be  op- 
posed by  the  "Christian"  ministry? 

2.  In  what  ways  was  the  Church  di- 
rected by  revelation  in  the  days  of  the 
apostles? 

3.  Name  some  of  the  "lost"  books  of 
scripture,  and  indicate  what  they  might 
contribute  to  the  objective  of  this  lesson. 


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4.  Illustrate  from  the  New  Testament 
by  the  use  of  a  Bible  Concordance,  how 
one  could  not  determine  the  specific  du- 
ties of  the  Priesthood  officers  of  the 
Church.  What  does  your  conclusion  con- 
tribute to  the  need  for  additional  revela- 
tion? 


5.  In  what  ways  have  the  Latter-day 
Saints  fulfilled  Bible  prophecies? 

6.  Do  you  belie\e  that  "the  will  of 
heaven"  is  contained  in  the  scriptures?  If 
so,  answer  each  question  raised  by  the 
Prophet  Joseph  Smith  in  his  statement 
quoted  in  the  beginning  of  the  lesson. 


Visiting  cJeacher    l/iessages  — 

Truths  to  Live  By  From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Message  1— "And  the  Voice  of  Warning  Shall  Be  Unto  All  People,  By  the 
the  Mouths  of  My  Disciples,  Whom  I  Have  Chosen  in  These 
Last  Days"  (D.  &  C.  1:4). 

Chiistine  H.  Rohinson 

For  Tuesday,  October  1,  1957 

Objective:  To  show  that  the  Lord  reveals  his  plan  of  salvation  through  his  chosen 
leaders  and  that  only  when  we  heed  their  warnings  can  we  build  strong,  useful  lives. 


"DEFORE  constructing  a  building, 
the  architect  works  out  detailed 
plans  and  specifications.  Through 
his  knowledge  and  experience  he 
knows  the  stresses  and  strains  to 
which  the  building  will  be  subjected 
and  that  only  when  the  right  plans 
are  followed  will  the  structure  stand 
strong  and  firm. 

Our  Father  in  heaven,  the  great 
Architect  of  our  souls,  has  prepared 
the  necessary  plans  for  us  to  follow 
if  we  would  build  strong,  useful 
lives.  He  knows  the  pitfalls,  the 
stresses,  and  the  strains,  which  are 
ever  present  to  weaken  and  divert 
us.  It  is  his  work  and  his  glory  to 
lead  all  of  his  children  to  exaltation, 
and  he  has  appointed  his  chosen 
disciples  to  guide  and  direct  us  in 
paths  of  righteousness. 

The  Bible  and  The  Book  of  Mor- 
mon are  both  replete  with  illustra- 
tions of  what  has  happened  to  God's 


children  when  they  accepted  or  re- 
jected the  warnings  of  the  Lord's 
anointed.  When  they  heeded  the 
counsel  of  their  prophets,  they  had 
peace,  prosperity,  and  happiness 
throughout  their  lives.  When  they 
turned  deaf  ears  to  the  warnings  of 
their  leaders,  misery  and  misfortune 
resulted. 

The  story  is  told  of  three  fisher- 
men who,  unmindful  of  the  rough 
rapids  and  falls  ahead,  were  rowing 
their  boat  down  a  river.  A  young 
man  on  the  shore,  sensing  the  dan- 
ger before  them,  called  out,  ''Ahoy, 
there,  beware,  the  rapids  are  ahead 
of  you!"  The  men  could  see  no  im- 
mediate danger  and  went  on  fishing 
and  enjoying  themselves.  Again 
and  again  the  young  man  called, 
''Beware,  beware,  the  rapids  are 
ahead  of  you!"  The  river  looked 
calm  and  safe  to  the  fishermen  so 
they   failed   to   heed   the  warning. 


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Suddenly,  they  were  in  the  midst  In  these  latter  days,  we  have  been 

of  the  rapids  and  the  great  falls  were  warned  that: 

immediately  ahead.     It  was  too  late  therefore   the   voice   of   the  Lord   is 

to  make   the   shore.     Row  as  they  ^^to  the  ends  of  the  earth,  that  all  that 

might,  the  stream  was  too  swift  and  will  hear  may  hear: 

turbulent  for  their  frantic  efforts.  ^^^  ^^^^  ^^^  ^^^^^^  ^^^^  ^^^^  ^^^ 

Some  of  us  today  hear  the  voices      will  not  hear  the  voice  of  the  Lord  nei- 

£  '^^  -n.^^   f^;i   4-^   l-.oo^   fl-,0,-.-.  ther  the  voice  of  his  servants,  neither  give 

ot  warnmg  and  tail  to  need  tnem.  ,      ,  ^    ^,  i      r  .^  -u  i.       j 

■^^r     1   n  1  •    .  £  i^eed   to  the  words   or  the   prophets   and 

We  lull   ourselves    mto    a   sense   ot  apostles,  shall  be  cut  off  from  among  the 

false   security  thinking  all   is  well,  people  (D.  &  C.  i:ii,  14). 

We  fail   to   realize   that   it   is   not  t    ^  •    i                    •       n    1 1        j 

1    •    1.  i.     T  4-       4-^4-1^  4-^^^!.  In  this  day,  we  are  signally  blessed 

enough  lust  to  listen  to  the  teach-  r>   j^      ^                  x.^      1. 

^  J    J        •■  •          £  4.1     1^^  1^^,  to   have   God  s  chosen  apostles  to 

mes  and  admonitions  ot  the  leaders  1       i     i  •           •     fi               i 

£            r>i       1       \\r^        ,o4-   1.^^/1  counsel  and  advise  us  m  the  eospel 

of    our    Church.    We   must    heed  ,         r     1    ,.•          rri         j  j  •    :  j 

,    .            .             1       .   .1    •    ^      1  plan  ot  salvation.     Ihese  dedicated 

their  warnings  and  put  their  teach-  {^^^^^^  ^^^^^^^  ^^^^.^  ^.^^^  ^^^  ^^^^^^ 

ings  into  action  m  our  daily  lives.  -^  teaching  us  the  gospel,  in  warn- 

We  must  follow  the  admonition  of  j^g  us  of  the  dangers  in  our  paths, 

James,  when  he  wrote,  ".  .  .  be  ye  and  in  helping  us  build  useful  and 

doers  of  the  word,  and  not  hearers  abundant  lives.    Let  us  be  wise  and 

only  .  .  /'  (James  1:22).  heed  their  warnings. 

v(/orR    1 1  ieeting — Living  More  Abundantly 

(A  Course  Recommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 

Lesson  1— Spending  Money  Wisely 

Elder  WiWmn  F.  Edwards 

For  Tuesday,  October  8,  1957 

Objective:  To  show  that  it  requires  skill  and  wisdom  to  spend  money  wisely. 

We  are  all  blessed  with  the  same  amount  of  time,  and  with  a  sufficient  amount 
of  time  to  achieve  great  success  in  hfe.  But  some  use  their  time  more  effectively  than 
others  and  achieve  a  richer  hfe.  There  is  a  parallel  in  the  financial  art  of  living.  With 
minor  exceptions,  we  are  all  blessed  with  sufficient  income  to  hve  a  good  life,  but  some 
people  achieve  it  more  fully  because  of  how  they  use  what  they  have.  In  this  lesson 
we  want  to  see  clearly  the  wise  way  of  spending  money. 

TN  this  busy  work-a-day  world,  do  cause    there   is    absolutely    nothing 

we  always  remember  that  we  are  you  desire  to  do? 
not  happy  unless  we  are  confronted 

with  a  shortage  of  time?     Can  you  Source  of  Happiness 
think  of  anything  worse  than  a  sur-         Happiness    comes    from    making 
plus  of  time— a  period  of  time  each  wise  choices  of  things  that  you  de- 
day  you  wish  you  could  avoid  be-  sire  to  do.     The  Master  was  con- 


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stantly  mindful  of  this  principle  of  as  much  as  any  life  that  any  being 

life.    He  taught  the  importance  of  can  possess  in  time  or  in  eternity, 

choosing  to  do  the  things  of  eternal  There  is  no  life  more  precious  to 

value  in  contrast  to  worldly  things,  us  in  the  eyes  of  eternal  wisdom  and 

''Lay  not  up  for  yourselves  treasures  justice  than  the  life  we  now  possess. 

upon  earth,  where  moth  and  rust  Our  first  duty  is  to  take  care  of  this 

doth    corrupt,    and    where    thieves  life''  (President  Brigham  Young), 

break  through  and  steal:  But  lay  up  Time   will   never   be   more  prec- 

for  yourselves  treasures   in   heaven,  ious.     Oh,  how  important  it  is  for 

where  neither  moth  nor  rust  doth  our    happiness    that    we    use    this 

corrupt,  and  where  thieves  do  not  precious    time    doing    those    things 

break     through     nor     steal    .    .    ."  that  will  bring  us  the  greatest  meas- 

(Mt.  6:19-20).  ure  of  satisfaction. 

That  was   the   challenging   issue 

confronting  the  Prophet  Joshua  who  Use  of  Precious  Money 

testified,     "choose     you     this     day  All  that  has  been  said  about  the 

whom  ye  will  serve  .  .  .  but  as  for  use  of  time  applies  equally  to  mon- 

me  and  my  house,  we  will  serve  the  ey.     We   must   recognize   that  we 

Lord"  (Joshua  24:15).  will  be  unable  to  acquire  all  of  the 

things  we  desire.  This  is  a  blessing. 

First  Things  First  There    would    be    few    ''temporal" 

The  Chinaman,  Ling  Po,  saw  the  thrills  left  in  life  if  we  could.  Would 

importance  of  wise  choices  when  he  we  be  equally  interested  in  working 

said,  "What  a  fool  does  in  the  end,  hard  at  our  job  if,  when  pay  day 

a  wise  man  does  in  the  beginning."  came,  there  was  nothing  we  desired 

The  successful  student  must  learn  to  do  with  our  earnings? 

how  to  balance  his  time  between  The  challenge  is  to  learn  what  we 

study  and  play,  and   which   to  do  need  most,  what  will  give  us  the 

first.     The  housewife  must  choose  greatest    satisfaction,    so    that    the 

between  preparing  in   advance  for  more  beneficial  things  will  be  ob- 

Sunday,  with  its  blessings,  or  doing  tained  and  those  not  obtained  will 

extra    work   on   the    Sabbath    Day.  be  the  less  important. 

Brigham    Young    expressed    it   this  Let  us  apply  the  principle  to  two 

way   for   the   fathers:    "This  is   the  women,   each   with   twenty  dollars, 

greatest  wealth  we  possess— to  know  and    both    entering    an    attractive 

how   to    direct   our   labors   rightly,  store.    The  first  woman  is  favorably 

spending  every  hour  advantageously  impressed   with   what   is    displayed 

for   the  benefit   of  our  wives   and  just  inside  of  the  door.    She  forgets 

children    and    neighbors."     Success  all  of  her  other  desires  and  spends 

or  failure  is  largely  a  matter  of  do-  her  money  on  these  items.     After 

ing  the  right  thing  at  the  right  time,  the  money  is  spent,  she  continues 

putting  first  things  first.  throughout  the  store— only  looking, 

of  course.     The  second  woman  is 

Use  oi  Precious  Time  also   favorably   impressed  with   the 

Life  will  never  be  more  important  first   displays.     But   she   has   given 

than  it  is  today.    "This  life  is  worth  careful  consideration  to  the  things 


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she  desires.  She  goes  on  to  differ- 
ent parts  of  the  store  and  compares 
items  and  values,  until  she  is  quite 
certain  that  she  has  selected  the 
things  that  she  desires  most.  Need 
we  ask  which  woman  will  return 
home  happier  to  prepare  supper  and 
obtain  the  greater  satisfaction  ex- 
plaining to  her  family  for  what  she 
spent  the  money? 

''A  fool  can  earn  money;  but  it 
takes  a  wise  man  to  save  and  dis- 
pose of  it  to  his  own  advantage." 
This  statement  of  President  Brig- 
ham  Young  makes  it  clear  that  it 
requires  skill  and  wisdom  to  spend 
money  wisely.  The  housewife  who 
regularly  spends  a  large  per  cent  of 
the  family  income,  bears  a  great  re- 
sponsibility in  spending  the  money 


in  a  way  that  brings  the  family  maxi- 
mum satisfaction.  Success  in  hand- 
ling family  financial  affairs  is  usually 
determined  less  by  the  amount  of 
income  and  more  on  how  it  is 
spent.  It  requires  very  little  local 
research  to  confirm  this  observation. 
If  you  take  a  particular  area,  is  it 
likely  that  the  ten  families  with  the 
highest  income  are  the  happiest 
families?  Can  you  determine  which 
mother  spends  the  largest  amount 
of  money  for  her  food  by  the 
healthy  appearance  of  the  children? 
It  is  hoped  that  this  series  of  les- 
sons and  the  thoughtful  discussion 
of  the  sisters  will  help  each  par- 
ticipant to  build  a  financially  safe 
road  along  which  to  travel  to  the 
goal  of  more  abundant  living. 


JLiterature  —  Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 


Lesson   9— William   Shakespeare,   Dramatist 
Elder  Brhnt  S.  Jacobs 

Text:  Shakespeare  Major  Phys  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948 

For  Tuesday,  October  15,  1957 

Objective:  To  become  more  aware  of  Shakespeare's  genius  in  integrating  within  the 
art-form  of  drama  the  great  truths  and  eternal  conflicts  within  all  mankind. 

Knock  there,  and  ask  your  heart  what  it  doth  know 
That's  hke  my  brother's  fault. 

(Measure  for  Measure,  II. 2.  137-138). 


r\URING  our  first  year  with 
Shakespeare,  we  studied  his 
greatness.  We  found  out  how 
much  he  meant  to  us  already,  as 
we  identified  long-known  expres- 
sions as  having  been  written  by 
Shakespeare.  In  separate  lessons 
we   considered  his   rare   quahty  of 


evoking  sensory  and  music-magic  in 
his  poetry,  his  beliefs  and  conflicts 
as  he  depicted  the  Elizabethan  world 
about  him,  and  his  ability  to  see 
truth  so  truly  that  always  he  de- 
picted good  or  evil  as  such.  As  each 
phase  of  his  genius  was  thus  treated 
separately,  each  of  his  individual  ex- 


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cellences  within  itself  proved  to  be 
a  rewarding  introductory  approach 
to  our  greatest  writer  in  Enghsh. 

In  last  year's  introductory  lessons 
Shakespeare  was  thus  studied  one 
phase  at  a  time  because  such  an  ap- 
proach seemed  the  best  preparation 
for  a  discussion  of  his  individual 
plays.  Yet,  it  is  in  the  plays,  not 
in  any  part  of  Shakespeare,  that  our 
interest  lies,  and  our  purpose  in 
studying  each  play  is  three-fold:  we 
strive  to  realize  ( i )  how  near  us 
Shakespeare  lives  in  our  daily  lives; 
( 2 )  how  much  our  awareness  of  the 
human  and  natural  worlds  is  quick- 
ened through  knowing  him;  and  ( 3 ) 
how  deeply  indebted  we  are  to  him 
for  his  words  of  universal  truth  and 
beauty. 

Now  it  is  time  for  us  to  acknow- 
ledge the  quality  which  climaxes 
and  unites  the  separate  parts  of 
Shakespeare's  genius  into  the  co- 
hesive oneness  we  know  each  of  his 
plays  to  be.  That  quality  is  his  dra- 
matic power.  Above  all  else  Shake- 
speare was  a  dramatist,  a  maker  of 
plays  for  the  Elizabethan  theater.  It 
was  as  a  playwright,  not  as  a  poet  or 
a  philosopher,  that  young  Shake- 
speare hoped  to  achieve  identity  and 
success.  And,  having  achieved  this 
success  of  which  he  dreamed— both 
in  the  judgment  of  his  contemp- 
oraries and  of  the  centuries  follow- 
ing —  it  is  pre-eminently  as  the 
dramatist  that  he  marshalled  to- 
gether all  his  various  artistic  powers. 
Within  the  theater,  his  chosen  art- 
form,  he  combined  his  talents  into 
the  harmonious  oneness  which  every 
great  dramatist  must  possess  before 
he  can  create  great  living  characters. 
And  Shakespeare's  characters  are 
greatest  of  all. 


The  Elizabethan  Achievement 

In  medieval  England,  when  the 
Catholic  Church  was  the  church, 
and  the  church  was  all,  the  choirs 
told  stories  from  the  Bible  in  music, 
the  most  popular  and  elaborate,  of 
course,  being  the  depiction  of  the 
resurrection  and  the  Easter  themes. 
One  voice  or  phone  within  the  choir 
would  sing  a  theme  or  cadence;  this 
was  then  repeated  by  another  group 
of  voices  seated  opposite  the  first 
singers,  and  was  called  the  antiphon. 
Once  individual  priests  began  per- 
sonifying the  three  Marys  and  the 
angels  visiting  them  at  Christ's 
tomb,  this  individual  singing  proved 
spectacularly  successful,  and  the 
foundations  of  the  English  theater 
were  laid. 

About  1000  A.D  .  these  perform- 
ances became  so  elaborate  that  they 
were  moved  outside  the  churches 
where  the  yeoman  peasantry  enjoyed 
them  even  more,  especially  since 
they  were  being  sung  in  English 
rather  than  in  Latin  which  only  the 
educated  few  could  understand. 
Then  the  mayors  and  town  councils 
took  them  over,  so  successful  were 
they,  and  the  various  guilds  or  work- 
ingmen's  organizations  sponsored 
them  as  the  great  entertainment 
spectacles  of  the  entire  year.  Series 
or  cycles  of  plays  extending  over 
three  or  four  entire  days  were  pre- 
sented annually  in  certain  villages, 
favorite  themes  being  the  dramatic 
representation  of  the  plan  of  salva- 
tion, or  the  lives  and  miracles  of 
various  saints.  When  around  1350- 
1400  vigorous  folk  and  comic  ele- 
ments began  creeping  in,  the  re- 
ligious elements  gradually  became 
weaker  and  the  imaginative,  folksy, 
melodramatic,  but,  most  of  all,  zest- 


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ful  roots  of  Elizabethan  drama  were 
laid  in  place  and  began  to  grow. 

It  is  to  be  credited  to  the  eternal 
glory  of  the  Elizabethan  playwrights 
that  they  perfected  the  first  "mod- 
ern" stage  and  first  wrote  ''modern" 
plays.  And,  as  so  often  happens, 
this  first  period  in  the  modern  the- 
ater still  remains  the  greatest,  nor 
has  its  superiority  ever  been  serious- 
ly questioned.  While  Shakespeare 
is  the  giant  playwright  of  the  period, 
towering  above  all  others  and  in- 
tensifying their  virtues,  he  is  by  no 
means  the  only  genius  of  the  day. 
Marlowe,  Jonson,  Massinger,  Ford, 
Tourneur,  Heywood,  Webster— all 
shared  with  Shakespeare  and  each 
other  a  participation  in  the  vibrant 
excitement  of  the  day  which  had 
long  been  fermenting  during  the 
emerging  Renaissance.  The  Eliza- 
bethan theater  was  the  ''mirror  held 
up  to  nature,  as  t'were"  which  Ham- 
let defines;  it  reflected  the  entire 
image  of  Elizabethan  culture  more 
fully  than  has  any  other  art-form 
from  that  day  to  this.  As  evidenced 
by  mass  hunger  for  it  among  the 
common  people,  the  Elizabethan 
stage  not  only  lay  at  the  very  center 
of  community  life;  but  it  created 
that  throbbing  center.  In  its  inte- 
grating role,  the  stage  filled  the 
functions  played  in  our  present-day 
culture  by  comic  books,  magazines, 
newspapers,  books,  radio,  movies, 
Hi-fi,  TV,  telephone,  and  the  stage. 

With  his  contemporary  drama- 
tists, Shakespeare  shared  his  abun- 
dant talents:  a  sensitive  ear  for 
melody  and  word-music  and  actual 
dialogue,  a  deep  understanding  of 
individual  and  group  humanity,  and, 
above  all,  a  life-giving  zest  and  vital- 
ity. These  he  blended  together  with- 


in his  brilliant,  creative  imagination 
which,  through  its  dramatic  powers, 
erected  into  life  on  the  stage  many 
hundreds  of  Shakespearean  charac- 
ters as  throbbingly  alive  as  actual 
Londoners  walking  the  streets  either 
then  or  now.  Such  a  concentration 
of  dramatic  virtues  has  never  since 
been  achieved;  surely  such  excel- 
lence was  inspired  by  a  most  re- 
sponsive audience.  But  whether  it 
was  the  great  audience  which  called 
forth  this  dazzling  display  of  genius 
from  the  playwrights,  or  whether  the 
playwrights  first  created  within  their 
plays  the  causes  for  electric  respon- 
ses within  their  audience,  it  is 
impossible  to  say.  However,  it  is 
undeniable  that  their  stimulation 
was  mutual,  and  that  the  result  of 
this  mutual  enrichment  was  the 
greatest  drama  we  have  ever  known. 

Pwhlems  of  the  Dramatist 

Drama  is  derived  from  the  Greek 
word  meaning  to  do  or  to  perform. 
From  the  beginning,  the  essence  of 
drama  has  been  action  and  voice; 
it  is  no  more  designed  to  achieve  its 
ultimate  power  by  being  read  than 
is  a  score  to  a  symphony.  But  does 
this  mean  that  drama  is,  then,  a 
form  of  literature  not  to  be  read  at 
all?  Or,  since  it  emphasizes  move- 
ment, spoken  dialogue,  representa- 
tion, costume,  and  scenery,  is  drama 
literature  at  all? 

Because  drama  attempts  to  recre- 
ate life  as  it  is  seen  and  valued 
through  the  temperament  of  one 
subjective  individual  (the  dramatist 
himself),  it  is  one  of  the  seven  sister 
arts.  And  because  without  the  use 
of  words  it  would  become  panto- 
mime or  dancing,  it  must  be  classed 
as  literature,  whose  main  concern  is 
with  words.    Yet  all  word-communi- 


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cations  are  not  literature;  far  from 
it.    Why,  then,  is  drama  hterary? 

In  the  words  of  Dr.  P.  A.  Chris- 
tensen,  'To  read  great  hterature 
greatly  is  always  an  emancipation 
and  an  exaltation.  It  is,  in  a  very 
real  sense,  to  be  born  again.  Great 
literature  is  great  experience.  It  is 
experience  that  awakens,  quickens, 
challenges,  enriches  all  that  man  is 
when  he  is  most  truly  himself  .... 
Those  books  are  good  which  would 
in  some  degree  transform  us." 
When  seen  from  this  point  of  view, 
Shakespeare's  dramas  best  exemplify 
this  highest  definition  of  literature. 
Even  so,  drama  differs  greatly  from 
the  essay,  poetry,  and  fiction,  and, 
at  this  point,  those  differences  de- 
serve our  attention. 

Drama  might  be  defined  simply 
as  one  way  of  telling  a  story. 
Drama's  way  of  intensifying  human 
life  which  it  seeks  to  recreate  is  to 
build  up  an  ''illusion  of  reality,''  one 
which  entirely  justifies  our  "willing 
suspension  of  disbelief."  Life  itself 
is  rarely  exciting  or  dramatic;  there- 
fore, mankind  perpetually  hungers 
for  some  intensifying,  condensing 
representation  of  life.  This  is  found 
in  all  art-forms,  but  it  belongs  most 
of  all  to  drama.  For  it  is  drama 
which  recreates  with  that  greatest 
artistic  power  peculiarly  its  own. 

Before  ever  a  play  can  be  spoken 
and  acted,  it  must  be  written.  And 
while  the  playwright  is  aware  that 
the  imaginative,  child-like  willing- 
ness of  his  audience  to  suspend  dis- 
belief and  to  be  captured  by  his 
"illusion  of  reality"  gives  him  much 
leeway,  it  is  still  his  great  problem 
to  create  an  illusion  which  is  suc- 
cessful, or  which  seems  real.  This 
he  must  do  by  impersonating  reality. 
His  tools:  costume,  scenery,  occas- 


ionally  music,   movement,   gesture, 
action,  and  the  spoken  word. 

Like  all  other  makers,  Shake- 
speare first  had  to  decide  what 
dramatic  form  he  should  choose  to 
express  best  that  particular  conden- 
sation of  human  reality  which  still 
lay  unrealized  and  uncommunicated 
within  himself.  Once  he  decided 
whether  to  write  a  comedy  or  a 
tragedy,  his  next  problem  was  to 
write  the  play  which  would  create 
the  particular  illusion  of  reality  he 
desired,  but  which,  at  the  same  time, 
concealed  within  itself  all  the  artistic 
devices  by  which  it  was  realized. 
How  cunning  a  maker  he  had  to  be, 
for  example,  to  fashion  each  speech 
precisely  so  the  audience  could  know 
the  true  character  of  the  speaker  as, 
unconsciouslv,  he  reveals  himself! 
But  how  much  more  complex  was 
his  problem  of  creating  just  the 
right  tone  for  an  entire  scene,  in 
which  the  words  of  each  person 
might  be  likened  to  one  note,  and 
the  playwright  must  harmonize  all 
such  "notes"  until  exactly  the  most 
effective  musical  chord  or  dramatic 
tone  is  produced.  Here  are  magic 
and  genius  at  work,  and  in  abun- 
dance. 

Comedy  Defined 

Two  of  the  six  plays  to  be  dis- 
cussed this  year  are  comedies;  the 
remaining  four  are  tragedies.  Rough- 
ly, all  plays  belong  in  one  or  the 
other  of  these  major  divisions. 

Comedy  is  a  light  form  of  drama 
designed  primarily  to  amuse,  with 
a  happy  ending.  Wit,  humor,  music, 
and  dancing  are  commonly  em- 
ployed, as  is  incongruity  of  speech, 
action,  or  general  behavior.  Comedy 
is  concerned  more  with  depicting 
social  patterns  and  the  "way  of  the 


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world"  rather  than  deahng  with  the 
great  moral  problem  of  human 
destiny  and  weakness.  Yet  we  must 
remember  that  the  wit  and  irony  of 
comedy  are  not  always  merely 
trifling  or  amusing.  Both  in  Mid- 
summei  Night's  Dream  and  -King 
Lear  the  Fool's  comments  contain 
serious  criticisms  of  human  weak- 
ness, and  Falstaff  is  one  of  Shake- 
speare's best-loved  characters,  largely 
because  beneath  his  banter  lies  a 
great  awareness  of  society's  foibles. 
Yet  we  should  never  forget  how 
often  laughter  and  tears  are  inter- 
mixed. Nor  should  we  ever  forget, 
as  Shakespeare  never  did,  that  a 
keen  sense  of  humor  implies  a  good 
standard  of  judgment. 

Tragedy  Defined 

In  our  contemporary  world  the 
word  tragedy  is  used  very  loosely. 
We  speak  of  some  child's  disease  or 
imperfection  as  ''tragic,"  yet  in  strict 
usage  tragedy  concerns  only  adults. 

Melodrama  is  concerned  with 
hair-raising  escapes  from  physical 
danger;  tragedy  deals  with  universal 
moral  issues  which  some  great 
character  must  confront  alone,  and 
whose  inexorable  laws  he  cannot 
escape.  Tragedy  is  concerned  with 
some  great  problem  or  weakness 
which  all  mankind  must  face  at  one 
time  or  another;  it  results  when  out 
of  man's  nature  come  conflicts  re- 
sulting from  his  own  inward  grap- 
plings  with  the  forces  of  good  and 
evil.  Great  tragedy  does  not 
''escape"  from  life;  instead  it  forces 
man  to  face  the  serious  problems  of 
mortality,  usually  as  exemplified  by 
his  personal  strengths  and  weak- 
nesses. Instead  of  bringing  us  relief 
with  a  happy  ending,  tragedy  makes 


us  marvel  at  mankind's  power  to 
endure  life's  greatest  sufferings  with- 
out breaking.  And  seeing  strength 
in  such  extreme  sufferings,  we  find 
ourselves  stronger  in  facing  our  own 
whenever  they  come  to  us. 

One  of  our  great  statements  on 
tragedy  was  written  by  William  Haz- 
litt  in  his  discussion  of  OtheJIo.  Be- 
cause he  both  knows  the  true  spirit 
of  tragedy  and  expresses  it  within 
this  passage,  we  can  do  no  better 
than  read  his  words: 

It  has  been  said  that  tragedy  purifies 
the  affections  by  terror  and  sympathy. 
That  is,  it  substitutes  imaginary  sympathy 
for  mere  selfishness.  It  gives  us  a  high 
and  permanent  interest,  beyond  ourselves, 
in  humanity  as  such.  It  raises  the  great, 
the  remote,  and  the  possible  to  an  equal- 
ity with  the  real,  the  little  and  the  near. 
It  makes  man  a  partaker  with  his  kind. 
It  subdues  and  softens  the  stubbornness 
of  his  will.  It  teaches  him  that  there  are 
and  have  been  others  like  himself,  by 
showing  him  as  in  a  glass  what  they  have 
felt,  thought,  and  done.  It  opens  the 
chambers  of  the  human  heart.  It  leaves 
nothing  indifferent  to  us  that  can  affect 
our  common  nature.  It  excites  our  sensi- 
bility by  exhibiting  the  passions  wound  up 
to  the  utmost  pitch  by  the  power  of 
imagination  or  the  temptation  of  circum- 
stances; and  corrects  their  fatal  excesses  in 
ourselves  by  pointing  to  the  greater  extent 
of  sufferings  and  of  crimes  to  which  they 
have  led  others.  Tragedy  creates  a  bal- 
ance of  the  affections.  It  makes  us 
thoughtful  spectators  in  the  lists  of  life. 
It  is  the  refiner  of  the  species;  a  discipline 
of  humanity. 

This  great  statement  personalizes 
and  interprets  Aristotle's  definition 
of  tragedy  which  appeared  in  his 
Poetics  long  before  Christ  and  to 
this  day  is  the  springboard  for  all 
discussion  of  tragedy.  Says  Aristotle: 

Tragedy  is  a  form  of  drama  exciting  the 
emotions  of  pity  and  fear.  Its  action 
should  be  single  and  complete,  presenting 
a  reversal  of  fortune,  involving  persons  re- 


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nowned  and  of  superior  attainments,  and 
it  should  be  written  in  poetry  embellished 
with  every  kind  of  artistic  expression. 

Shakespeare  knew  this  ''classicar' 
definition  of  tragedy  and  honored  it 
in  his  plays.  Yet  to  this  concept 
Shakespeare  added  something  of  his 
own.  He  believed  that  the  basic 
conflict  in  tragedy  should  be  that 
of  wills,  either  within  some  great 
person,  or  between  a  person  and  cir- 
cumstance. According  to  this  con- 
cept, the  hero  or  protagonist  can 
never  place  the  blame  for  his  own 
suffering  and  fall  upon  a  malignant 
fate,  or  upon  our  modern  equiva- 
lents of  fate,  namely  economic 
cycles,  glandular  secretions,  or  hered- 
ity and  environment.  Shakespeare's 
concept  of  tragedy  is  an  extremely 
moral  one,  since  in  his  greatest 
characters  we  see  exemplified  his  be- 
lief that,  within  a  moral,  ordered 
universe,  it  is  man  himself  who 
carves  out  his  own  fate.  Thus,  with- 
in himself  lie  both  the  causes  which 
bring  on  his  own  suffering  and,  at 
the  same  time,  the  strength  to  bear 
such  sufferings  nobly. 

Because  by  its  basic  definition 
and  purpose,  tragedy  attempts  to 
search  out  the  entire  range  of  man's 
soul,  that  he  may  better  see  its  work- 
ings and,  therefore,  come  to  under- 
stand himself  and  humanity  more 
fully.  It  is  forced  to  use  a  language 
which  is  most  comprehensive  in  its 
versatility.  Since  poetry  is  widest 
and  deepest  and  richest,  and  there- 
fore best  enables  the  dramatist  to 
create  the  dramatic  sense  of  vitality 
and  exalted  rhetoric  which  is  ever 
the  hallmark  of  great  tragedy,  it  is 
not  by  chance  that  poetry  is  the 
language  which  high  tragedy  must 
speak,  if  it  is  to  express  itself  and 


thus  create  its  own  identity.  And 
this  must  always  be  so,  not  because 
the  beauty  of  a  soaring  soliloquy  bal- 
ances the  suffering  or  evil  which  it 
expresses,  but  because  poetry  alone 
can  pull  us  out  of  our  selfish,  sep- 
arate shells  to  become  completely 
at  one  with  the  exalted  suffering 
which  Shakespeare's  great  tragic 
heroes  express.  Thus  it  is,  and  only 
thus,  that  poetic  tragedy  universal- 
izes all  those  who  would  feed  their 
unsatisfied  hungers  to  find  a  still 
more  comprehensive  view  of  man 
than  they  have  known  heretofore. 
And,  once  discovering  Shakespearean 
tragedy,  which  represents  this  master 
dramatist  at  his  best,  people  not 
only  find  their  mature  hungers  fed, 
but  in  witnessing  such  passages  as 
the  one  referred  to  below,  when 
spoken  by  a  great  actor,  they  find 
their  inward  selves  cleansed  and  ex- 
alted by  the  catharsis  which  Aris- 
totle defined  so  long  ago  as  the 
greatest  justification  of  tragic  drama. 

Witnessing  the  artificial  passion 
of  a  hired  player,  Hamlet  suddenly 
revolts  at  his  own  inability  to  ex- 
press his  own  inner  turmoil,  and 
worst  of  all,  to  kill  King  Claudius, 
whom  he  now  knows  murdered  his 
father.  This  famous  soliloquy  uni- 
fies the  talents  of  the  dramatist 
Shakespeare  in  a  furor  so  terrifying 
but  so  immediate  that  we  can  no 
more  escape  the  realism  of  its  power 
than  we  can  escape  ourselves.  (Read 
Hamlet  II.  2.  576-615.) 

How  better  exemplify  the  mag- 
nificent, terrifying  power  which 
drama  alone  can  produce  than 
through  this  soliloquy?  In  such  a 
passage,  then,  we  experience  not 
only  the  best  of  Shakespeare  but 
the  best  of  English  drama. 


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Thoughts  foi  Discussion 


1.  Why  is  drama  art?  Why  is  it  Ht- 
erature? 

2,  Many  still  believe  that  the  greatest 
period  in  EngHsh  literature  and  drama  is 
the  Elizabethan  age.  Do  you  agree? 
Regardless,  how  do  you  account  for  such 


superiority  in  dramatic  power  and  poetry 
so  long  ago?  Why  isn't  the  modern  best? 

3.  For  you  what  is  Shakespeare's  su- 
preme accomplishment  as  a  dramatist? 

4.  How  can  any  good  come  from  en- 
during a  spectacle  on  the  stage  which 
makes  us  suffer?  Can  suffering  ever  be 
good?  Why  must  pity  and  terror  always 
be  present  in  great  tragedies? 


Sociai  Science  —  Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 


Lesson  8— The  Family  Is  Forever 
Elder  John  Fan  Larson 

For  Tuesday,  October  22,  1957 
Objective:  To  show  the  influence  of  gospel  principles  on  the  Latter-day  Saint  family. 

The  family  is  like  a  book — the  children  are  the  leaves, 

The  parents  are  the  covers  that  protectixe  beauty  gives. 
At  first  the  pages  of  the  book  are  blank  and  purely  fair. 

But  time  soon  writeth  memories  and  painteth  pictures  there. 
Love  is  the  little  golden  clasp  that  bindeth  up  the  trust, 
Oh,  break  it  not,  lest  all  the  leaves  shall  scatter 

and  be  lost. 

— ^Anonymous 


npHE  pattern  of  life  provided  by 
the  gospel  in  its  fulness  has  pro- 
duced a  philosophy  of  family  living 
which  is  peculiar  to  Latter-day 
Saints.  Its  application  brings  happi- 
ness and  satisfaction  as  well  as  the 
acceleration  of  the  God-like  potenti- 
alities of  family  members.  Family 
life  is  regarded  by  the  world  as  the 
social  institution  of  greatest  influ- 
ence in  molding  the  lives  and 
personalities  of  people.  While  Lat- 
ter-day Saints  agree  with  this,  the 
deeper  significance  of  the  family  as  a 
character  builder  is  seen  only  when 
the  eternal  nature  of  the  family  is 
understood.  Because  of  its  eternal 
nature,  and  its  importance  in  shap- 
ing the  destinies  of  the  individual 


family  members,  we  must  strive  to 
make  family  life  what  God  intended 
it  to  be. 

What  Is  a  Family.^ 

"Family"  is  easily  defined,  but 
the  meaning  it  holds  for  family 
members  depends  upon  many  fac- 
tors. The  age,  background,  train- 
ing, status,  and  belief  of  the 
individual  all  make  for  important 
deviations  from  a  general  concept. 
In  one  sense  we  are  the  product  of 
the  family.  Just  as  certain  physical 
characteristics  are  passed  from  one 
generation  to  another,  so,  too,  are 
personality  characteristics  passed  by 
means  of  family  living. 

Webster   defines    the   family  as: 


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'The  body  of  persons  who  hve  in 
one  house,  and  under  one  head;  a 
household."  But  a  family  is  more 
than  this.  It  is  many  things.  It  is 
at  once  a  social  institution,  an  ac- 
complishment, an  opportunity,  a 
dream,  the  pleasant  past  and  future 
hope.  A  family  is  what  you  make 
it,  a  burden  or  blessing.  It  is  warmth, 
security,  tender  care,  and  "happy 
birthday"  all  rolled  into  one.  Con- 
tentment, pride,  and  memories  are 
all  parts.  Most  of  all  it  is  together- 
ness, the  sharing  of  substance  and 
love.  Its  pleasures  erase  its  sacri- 
fices. From  it  spring  the  hope  of 
today  and  the  leaders  of  tomorrow. 

Basic  Family  Responsihilities 

In  our  present-day  civilization 
families  have  three  primary  responsi- 
bilities: 

1.  The  function  of  child  bearing. 

2.  The  responsibility  for  physical  care 
and  support. 

3.  The  responsibility  for  teaching  chil- 
dren personal  virtues.  While  the  family 
is  logically  situated  to  perform  this 
important  function,  there  are  many 
children  who  are  deprived  of  full  oppor- 
tunities because  of  the  families  with  which 
they  live. 

The  Latter-day  Saint  Family 

Latter-day  Saint  philosophy  of 
family  life  has  certain  ingredients 
which  characterize  it  as  unique  and 
different  from  traditional  family  life. 
Its  flavor  stems  from  the  basic  prin- 
ciples of  the  gospel.  To  understand 
it  fully,  all  Latter-day  Saints  should 
strive  to  know  and  understand  the 
principles  of  the  gospel.  To  achieve 
the  maximum  joy  and  happiness  it 
offers,  we  must  translate  this  phi- 
losophy into  a  pattern  for  everyday 
living   by   making   it   our   constant 


guide.  Below  are  set  forth,  in  brief, 
some  of  the  major  doctrinal  influ- 
ences of  the  gospel  upon  family  life. 
A  fuller  discussion  of  these  and  oth- 
er items  will  be  had  in  subsequent 
lessons. 

1.  The  Personality  oi  God:  Lat- 
ter-day Saints  believe  that  when  the 
Lord  said  ''.  .  .  Let  us  make  man  in 
our  image,  after  our  likeness  .  .  ." 
(Gen.  1 126),  he  meant  exactly  what 
he  said.  The  life  and  teachings  of 
Christ,  as  well  as  of  the  prophets 
since  the  creation,  further  convince 
us  that  we  worship  a  personal  God. 
This  concept  within  the  family 
creates  a  feeling  of  kinship  with 
Deity  and  makes  worship  a  natural, 
joyous,  and  comfortable  experience 
for  all  family  members.  Children 
can  approach  the  Lord  as  an  under- 
standing Father,  with  faith  and  con- 
fidence rather  than  with  fear  and 
apprehension,  and  talk  to  him  as 
they  would  converse  with  an  earthly 
father.  Families  with  this  knowl- 
edge feel  that  they  have  an  addi- 
tional member  who  watches  over 
them  with  love  and  understanding, 
who  provides  their  joys  and  bless- 
ings and  lightens  their  sorrows,  and 
who  stands  at  the  door  ready  to 
dwell  in  their  midst,  if  their  homes 
are  in  tune  with  his  teachings.  His 
nearness  must  be  recognized  and 
the  power  of  his  influence  comes  by 
invitation  from  within  the  heart  and 
soul  of  each  person  who  seeks  it.  It 
is  as  if  his  entry  is  through  a  door 
having  an  inside  latch  only.  True 
Latter-day  Saints  are  thus  impelled 
conscientiously  to  conduct  their 
family  life  on  a  higher  spiritual  plane 
than  they  would  otherwise,  and  hav- 
ing done  this,  their  homes  are  ready 
for  the  Spirit  of  the  Lord  to  enter. 


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Behold,  I  stand  at  the  door,  and  knock: 
if  any  man  hear  my  voice,  and  open  the 
door,  I  will  come  in  to  him,  and  will  sup 
with  him,  and  he  with  me  (Rev.  3:20). 

2.  The  Nature  oi  Man:  The 
eternal  nature  of  the  spirit  of  man, 
together  with  the  correlative  doc- 
trines which  regard  the  spirit  of 
man  as  sacred  and  the  body  a  temple 
of  God,  unite  to  create  within  the 
hearts  of  Latter-day  Saints  a  rev- 
erence for  the  individual  and  a  high 
regard  for  the  dignity  of  the  human 
soul.  These  become  influential  and 
integral  parts  of  the  everyday  living 
of  all  true  Latter-day  Saints. 

What  is  man,  that  thou  art  mindful  of 
him?  and  the  son  of  man,  that  thou 
visitest  him? 

For  thou  hast  made  him  a  little  lower 
than  the  angels,  and  hast  crowned  him 
with  glory  and  honour. 

Thou  madest  him  to  have  dominion 
over  the  works  of  thy  hands;  thou  hast 
put  all  things  under  his  feet  (Pss.  8:4-6). 

.  .  .  For  I,  the  Lord  God,  created  all 
things,  of  which  I  have  spoken,  spiritually, 
before  they  were  naturally  upon  the  face 
of  the  earth.  .  .  .  And  I,  the  Lord  God, 
had  created  all  the  children  of  men  .  .  . 
for  in  heaven  created  I  them  .  .  .  (Pearl 
of  Great  Price,  Moses  3:5). 

The  following  is  taken  from  a 
letter  of  President  Joseph  F.  Smith 
and  his  two  counselors  on  this  im- 
portant subject: 

.  .  .  The  written  standards  of  scripture 
show  that  all  people  who  come  to  this 
earth  and  are  born  in  mortality  had  a  pre- 
existent,  spiritual  personality  as  the  sons 
or  daughters  of  the  Eternal  Father.  .  .  . 
A  spirit  born  of  God  is  an  immortal  be- 
ing. When  the  body  dies  the  spirit  does 
not  die.  In  the  resurrected  state  the 
body  will  be  immortal  as  well  as  the 
spirit  .  .  .  (GospeJ  Doctrine,  9th  Edition, 
page  12). 


The  elements  are  the  tabernacle  of 
God;  yea,  man  is  the  tabernacle  of  God, 
even  temples;  and  whatsoever  temple  is 
defiled,  God  shall  destroy  that  temple 
(D.&  0.93:55). 

Remember  the  worth  of  souls  is  great 
in  the  sight  of  God  (D.  &  G.  18:10). 

3.  The  Plan  of  Salvation:  Three 
aspects  of  the  plan  of  salvation  have 
tremendous  impact  upon  family  life 
within  the  Church. 

A.  The  Principal  of  Eternal  Pio- 
giession.  Our  knowledge  of  where 
we  came  from,  why  we  are  here, 
and  where  we  are  going  is  a  power- 
ful force  in  directing  our  conduct 
during  mortal  life.  Knowing  the 
end  from  the  beginning  and  the  di- 
rect course  to  be  followed  is,  in 
itself,  a  great  time  and  effort  saver. 
It  has  been  said  that  the  world  steps 
aside  for  the  man  who  knows  where 
he  is  going.  Surely  if  we  pursue  the 
''straight  and  narrow  road,"  nothing 
can  deter  our  progress.  We  know 
that  much  must  be  accomplished 
on  earth,  if  we  are  adequately  to  pre- 
pare for  eternity.  Life  is  a  brief 
span  in  the  eternal  scheme.  This 
gives  purpose  and  direction  to  our 
goals  and  helps  us  utilize  our  re- 
sources to  best  advantage. 

Be  ye  therefore  perfect,  even  as  your 
Father  which  is  in  heaven  is  perfect 
(Mt.  5:48). 

No  man  will  ever  enter  there  until  he 
has  consummated  his  mission;  for  we 
have  come  here  to  be  conformed  to  the 
likeness  of  God.  .  .  .  And  we  must  be- 
come more  and  more  like  him  ...  in 
love,  in  charity,  in  forgiveness,  in  patience, 
long-suffering  and  forbearance,  in  purity 
of  thought  and  action,  intelligence,  and 
in  all  respects,  that  we  may  be  worthy  of 
exaltation  in  his  presence  {Gospel  Doc- 
trine, 9th  Edition,  page  276). 


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The  doctrine  of  eternal  improve- 
ment and  progression  instills  within 
Latter-day  Saints  a  desire  and  de- 
termination to  teach  their  children 
correct  principles  upon  which  they 
can  grow  spiritually. 

B.  The  Marriage  Covenant:  The 
Prophet  Joseph  Smith  taught  that 
''marriage  was  an  institution  of 
heaven,  instituted  in  the  garden  of 
Eden/'  and  that  ''it  was  necessary 
it  should  be  solemnized  by  the 
authority  of  the  everlasting  Priest- 
hood" (D.  H.  C.  II,  page  320).  Not 
only  do  Latter-day  Saints  believe 
that  marriage  was  instituted  of  God, 
but  that  a  marriage  solemnized  in 
the  temple  of  the  Lord  by  the 
authority  of  the  Holy  Priesthood 
extends  beyond  this  life  into  eternity. 
This  concept  not  only  strengthens 
the  Latter-day  Saint  marriage,  but 
causes  young  people  to  prepare  for 
parenthood  and  to  choose  a  mate 
with  much  greater  care  than  if  it 
were  a  union  for  this  life  only. 

C.  Family  Life  Eternal:  The 
Prophet  Joseph  Smith  also  taught: 

Except  a  man  and  his  wife  enter  into 
an  everlasting  covenant  and  be  married  for 
eternity,  while  in  this  probation,  by  the 
power  and  authority  of  the  Holy  Priest- 
hood, they  will  cease  to  increase  when 
they  die;  that  is,  they  will  not  ha\'e  any 
children  after  the  resurrection  (DHC.  V, 
page  391). 

Neither  are  the  relationships  that  exist 
or  should  exist,  between  parents  and  chil- 
dren, and  between  children  and  parents, 
of  an  ephemeral  nature,  nor  of  a  temporal 
character.  They  are  of  eternal  conse- 
quence, reaching  beyond  the  veil,  in  spite 
of  all  that  we  can  do  (Gospel  Doctrine, 
page  272). 

This  great  principle  provides 
ample  incentive  for  parents  to  teach 
children  the  importance  of  prepar- 


ing for  temple  marriage  and  to 
resolve  to  settle  for  nothing  less.  It 
also  firmly  roots  the  family  unit  here 
on  earth.  Elder  Joseph  Fielding 
Smith  has  said: 

The  family  unit  continues  only  in  the 
celestial  kingdom.  .  .  .  The  family  is  the 
unit  in  the  kingdom  of  God.  .  .  .  Out- 
side the  celestial  kingdom  there  is  no 
family  organization.  That  organization  is 
reserved  for  those  who  are  willing  to  abide 
in  e\'ery  covenant  and  every  obligation 
which  we  are  called  upon  to  receive  while 
we  sojourn  here  in  this  mortal  life  {Doc- 
trines of  Salvation,  II,  page  67). 

4.  Priesthood  Presides  in  the 
Home:  Nowhere  in  all  the  world, 
except  in  Latter-day  Saint  homes, 
do  you  find  the  Priesthood  presid- 
ing over  the  family.  The  recogni- 
tion of  the  husband  and  father  as 
the  ultimate  authority  within  the 
home  does  much  to  avoid  dissen- 
sion. 

The  patriarchal  order  is  of  divine  origin 
and  will  continue  throughout  time  and 
eternity.  There  is,  then,  particular  reason 
why  men,  women  and  children  should 
understand  this  order  and  this  authority 
in  the  households  of  the  people  of  God, 
and  seek  to  make  it  what  God  intended 
it  to  be,  a  qualification  and  preparation  for 
the  highest  exaltation  of  his  children.  .  .  . 
The  father  presides  at  the  table,  at  prayer, 
and  gives  general  directions  relating  to  his 
family  life  whoever  may  be  present.  Wives 
and  children  should  be  taught  to  feel  that 
the  patriarchal  order  ...  of  God  has  been 
established  for  a  wise  and  beneficent  pur- 
pose, and  should  sustain  the  head  of  the 
household  and  encourage  him  in  the  dis- 
charge of  his  duties,  and  do  all  in  their 
power  to  aid  him  in  the  exercise  of  the 
rights  and  privileges  which  God  has  be- 
stowed upon  the  head  of  the  home 
(Gospel  Doctrine,  page  287). 

5.  Free  Agency: 

And  now  remember,  remember,  my 
brethren,  that  whosoever  perisheth,  perish- 


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483 


eth  unto  himself;  and  whosoever  doeth 
iniquity,  doeth  it  unto  himself;  for  behold, 
ye  are  free;  ye  are  permitted  to  act  for 
yourselves;  for  behold,  God  hath  given 
unto  you  a  knowledge  and  he  hath  made 
you  free  (Helaman  14:30).  (See  also 
Joshua  24:15.) 

The  right  to  choose  is  funda- 
mental. How  we  choose,  in  this 
life,  will  largely  determine  how  we 
progress  and  what  our  status  will  be 
hereafter.  The  process  is  a  power 
by  which  man  can  reach  great 
heights.  The  principle  covers  all 
phases  of  life  which  involve  decis- 
ion. Parents  soon  learn  that  chil- 
dren develop  most  when  they  have 
grasped  the  process  of  choosing.  The 
direction  in  which  they  develop  de- 
pends upon  what  they  have  absorbed 
from  their  environment  which  in- 
fluences their  decisions.  When  they 
learn  to  make  sound  decisions  they 
are  prepared  to  progress  in  relation 
to  God  and  in  relation  to  the  things 
of  this  life. 

6.  Gift  oi  the  Holy  Ghost:  In  ad- 
dition to  the  principle  of  free  agency, 
the  Lord  has  given  us  a  great  gift 
to  assist  us  in  the  exercise  of  our 
agency— the  gift  of  the  Holy  Ghost. 
This  can  serve  as  a  constant  guide 
in  our  decisions,  if  we  are  attuned 
to  its  promptings;  it  is  our  spirit  of 
truth.  This  gift  sets  us  apart  from 
the  world  and  can  radiate  a  great 
influence  in  our  homes,  if  we  choose 
to  let  it. 

And  I  will  pray  the  Father,  and  he  shall 
give  you  another  Comforter,  that  he  may 
abide  with  you  for  ever; 

Even  the  Spirit  of  truth;  whom  the 
world  cannot  receive,  because  it  seeth  him 
not,  neither  knoweth  him:  but  ye  know 
him;  for  he  dwelleth  with  you,  and  shall 
be  in  you.  .  .  . 


But  the  Comforter,  which  is  the  Holy 
Ghost,  whom  the  Father  will  send  in  my 
name,  he  shall  teach  you  all  things  and 
bring  all  things  to  your  remembrance, 
whatsoever  I  have  said  unto  you  (John 
14:16,  17,  26). 

7.  Family  Responsibilities:  Latter- 
day  Saints  are  taught  responsibility 
for  one  another.  Parents  are  charged 
of  the  Lord: 

.  .  .  inasmuch  as  parents  have  children 
in  Zion  .  .  .  that  teach  them  not  to  under- 
stand the  doctrine  of  repentance,  faith  in 
Christ  the  Son  of  the  living  God,  and  of 
baptism  and  the  gift  of  the  Holy  Ghost 
by  the  laying  on  of  the  hands,  when  eight 
years  old,  the  sin  be  upon  the  heads  of 
the  parents. 

For  this  shall  be  a  law  unto  the  inhabi- 
tants of  Zion.  .  .  . 

And  they  shall  also  teach  their  children 
to  pray,  and  to  walk  uprightly  before  the 
Lord  (D.  &  C.  68:25-26,  28). 

The  Authorities  of  the  Church 
have  continually  stressed  that  par- 
ents are  responsible  for  their  chil- 
dren physically,  morally,  and  spirit- 
ually. The  great  Welfare  Plan  em- 
phasizes the  prime  responsibility  of 
the  family  in  meeting  the  material 
needs  of  family  members.  Children 
are  trained  to  care  for  needy  and 
aged  parents.  Children  visualize 
the  reality  of  eternity  when  taught 
to  seek  out  their  ancestors  so  that 
temple  work  can  be  done  for  them. 

While  not  strictly  doctrinal  influ- 
ences, two  other  areas  of  family  in- 
fluence connected  with  the  Church 
are  worthy  of  mention. 

Religious  Training 

From  the  cradle  Latter-day  Saints 
are  taught  the  principles  of  the  gos- 
pel, the  attributes  of  God,  his  near- 
ness, the  power  of  prayer,  and  are 
surrounded  by  sweet  and   refining 


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influences.  The  missionary  system 
contributes  understanding  and  spirit- 
uality. All  of  this  tends  to  make 
children  fine  individuals,  good  fam- 
ily members,  and  it  prepares  them 
for  their  responsibilities  of  parent- 
hood. 

Pioneer  Heiitage 

There  are  characteristics  to  be 
found  in  our  people  which  are  trace- 
able to  our  pioneer  ancestry.  These 
are  particularly  noticeable  to  ''out- 
siders" who  observe  our  religion  in 
action  for  the  first  time.  In  October 
1947,  Mr.  E.  Kent  Kane,  grandson 
of  Colonel  Thomas  L.  Kane,  was  a 
guest  at  general  conference.  Presi- 
dent George  Albert  Smith  invited 
him  to  address  the  conference,  a 
privilege  rarely  extended  a  nonmem- 
ber.  He  spoke  'as  an  outsider  who 
has  had  the  good  fortune  to  come 
and  observe  with  a  friendly,  if  not 
an  understanding  heart."  The  fol- 
lowing excerpts  are  taken  from  Mr. 
Kane's  remarks: 

.  .  .  when  I  came  out  here  to  Utah  I 
saw  how  your  people  believed  that  the 
Lord  was  your  shepherd.  You  have  cre- 
ated your  own  green  pastures  where  there 
were  none  and  brought  in  your  own 
running  waters  when  you  could  find  none 
to  walk  by.  I  read  how  the  women  of 
this  Church  had  at  one  time  prepared 
a  table  in  the  presence  of  your  enemies 
from  the  food  that  their  husbands  had 
wrenched  from  these  deserts.  ...  I  saw 
that  the  Lord  has  restored  your  souls.  I 
could  not  help  but  observe  that  here  in 
Utah  I  had  beheld  the  works  of  the  Lord 
made  manifest.  .  .  . 

Your  religion  is  strong.  ...  It  is  im- 
pressive to  look  over  this  vast  audience 
and  to  see  to  what  extent  the  religion  of 
your  Church  is  a  religion  of  men.  I  am 
afraid  there  are  a  lot  of  churches  that 
would  perish  entirely  if  it  were  not  for 
the  fact  that  their  religion  reposes  today 


almost  entirely  in  the  hands  and  hearts 
of  the  mothers.  And  yet  I  can't  believe 
that  the  battles  of  the  Lord  are  to  be 
fought  entirely  by  the  distaffs  but  I  think 
it  takes  the  good  strong  arms  of  the  men 
of  any  religion  such  as  I  see  before  me 
here  to  fight  those  battles  with  a  good 
firm  hold  upon  the  sword  of  the 
spirit  .... 

Yours  seems  to  be  a  growing  religion 
....  You  are  not  static  .... 

Yours  is  a  joyous  religion.  .  .  .  Yours  is 
a  singing  religion  and  I  believe  .  .  .  the 
words  of  religion  dissolved  in  music  soak 
into  the  human  soul  better  than  any  other 
way.  ...  It  is  as  if  when  you  open  your 
mouths  to  sing  the  spirit  entered  in  ...  . 

Yours  is  a  family  religion.  .  .  .  For  three 
years  in  this  last  war  I  was  a  division 
officer  in  the  Navy  .  .  .  some  of  the  very 
finest  men  that  we  had  in  our  commands 
in  the  service  were  from  the  JNlormon 
Church  and  they  were  by  all  odds  the 
cleanest.  I  don't  know  what  they  do  else- 
where, but  I  do  say  that  those  I  saw  .  .  . 
were  very  creditable  members  of  your  con- 
gregation. And  I  want  to  add  that  it  was 
not  always  as  easy  as  it  would  have  been 
in  Salt  Lake  during  conference  week 
(Reports  of  the  One  Hundred  Eighteenth 
Semi-Ann ual  Conference  of  The  Church 
oi  Jesus  Christ  of  Latter-day  Saints,  Oc- 
tober 1947,  pp.  161-164). 

Such  observations  as  these  reacti- 
vate our  desire  to  let  our  light  so 
shine  before  men  that  they  may  see 
our  good  works  and  glorify  our 
Father  which  is  in  heaven.  If  this 
light  is  properly  kindled  in  our 
homes  the  result  will  be  a  spirit  of 
love,  devotion,  democracy,  industry, 
service,  progression,  peace,  and  tran- 
quility. 

Supplemental  References 

1.  "Contributions  of  the  Church  to 
Home  and  Family" — Stephen  L  Richards, 
The  Relief  Society  Magazine,  December 
1954,  page  790. 


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485 


2.  "The  Mission  of  the  Church  and 
Its  Members"  —  President  David  O. 
MeKay,  Improvement  Era,  November 
1956,  page  781. 

3.  ''Influence  of  Rehef  Society  in  the 
Home" — Marion  D.  Hanks,  The  Relief 
Society  Magazine,  September  1955,  page 
566. 

Questions   ioi  Discussion 

1.  How  can  Latter-day  Saint  parents 
teach  their  children  to  hve  their  religion 
without  compromise,  and  yet  be  tolerant 
and  friendly  with  young  people  of  other 
faiths? 

2.  What  are  the  basic  religious  beliefs 
and  practices  which  distinguish  Latter-day 
Saint  homes  from  the  rest  of  the  world? 

3.  What  pioneer  characteristics  are 
worthy  of  perpetuating  in  our  homes? 

4.  What  Church  influences  do  you  re- 
member most  from  the  home  in  which 
you  grew  up?  Are  you  emulating  these 
examples  in  your  own  home? 


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ONE  of  the  most  vivid  rpemories  I  ha\e  of  my  home  and  my  mother  was  when  she 
made  butter.     To  her,  making  butter  was  not  a  task  but  an  art  in  which   she 
excelled.     Mother  was  very  proud  of  her  skill. 

First  of  all  came  the  separating  of  the  golden  cream  in  the  separator.  Twice  daily 
the  warm  milk  was  brought  from  the  barn  into  the  milkhouse;  there  the  cream  was 
separated  from  the  milk.  The  cream  v/as  caught  in  a  large  blue  bowl  and  allowed 
to  cool  completely  before  it  was  emptied  into  a  big  crock  with  the  other  cream.  It  was 
then  allowed  to  ripen.  Mother  seemed  to  know  just  when  the  cream  was  sour  enough 
to  make  the  best  butter;  she  judged  more  by  the  smell  than  by  anything  else. 

The  churning  of  the  cream  took  place  very  early  in  the  morning,  usually  at  five 
o'clock  in  the  summertime.  Morning  was  the  best  time  for  working,  and  the  cream 
was  just  right  when  it  was  cool.  Singing  always  went  along  with  the  swish-swish  of 
the  cream  as  it  dashed  to  and  fro  in  the  old  wooden  churn.  Most  often  it  was  a 
hymn  mother  sang  or  an  old  English  folk  song.  Many  times  we  children  were  awak- 
ened by  the  churning  and  mother's  singing  as  she  went  cheerfully  about  her  task. 

I  suppose  my  mother  owned  many  churns  in  her  life,  but  the  one  I  remember 
best  was  an  old  wooden  one  that  was  also  owned  by  my  grandmother.  It  had  been 
brought  from  England  and  then  across  the  plains  in  an  ox-driven  wagon.  The  churn 
stood  on  legs  just  the  right  height  for  sitting  and  turning.  I  was  never  allowed  to  turn 
the  churn,  for  mother  declared  that  I  turned  either  too  fast  and  slopped  cream  all  over 
the  kitchen,  or  too  slowly  and  the  butter  never  came.  Churning  morning  found  us 
close  to  the  kitchen  as  we  watched  in  fascination. 

The  golden  butter  was  lifted  from  the  churn  with  a  wooden  paddle  into  a  large, 
flat  wooden  bowl.  We  were  not  allowed  to  wash  this  bowl  with  soap,  for  this  would 
make  the  butter  stick  to  the  bo\^'l.  Mother  had  found  this  out  through  long  years  of 
experience. 

The  molding  of  the  butter  into  pounds  was  a  ritual  in  itself.  It  called  for  extra 
care  because  all  of  the  buttermilk  must  be  removed.  Over  and  over  again  it  was 
pressed  against  the  side  of  the  bowl,  turned  and  worked,  and,  finally,  washed  in  ice-cold 
water.  Then  the  right  amount  of  salt  was  added.  The  salt  was  never  measured; 
mother  knew  just  how  much  was  needed.  The  mold  was  supposed  to  hold  just  one 
pound,  but  Mother  always  heaped  some  on  top  so  that  the  top  of  each  pound  was 
round  instead  of  flat.  When  weighed  at  the  store,  each  so-called  pound  was  actually 
much  more.  Oh,  how  sweet  and  good  the  butter  tasted  on  hot  biscuits,  on  pan- 
cakes made  from  the  buttermilk,  or  on  big  slices  of  homemade  bread  with  strawberry 
jam! 

After  the  butter  was  molded,  each  pound  was  wrapped  in  tissue-thin  paper  which 
bore  Mother's  name  and  address.  She  was  justly  proud  of  her  name  on  that  butter 
wrapper  because  it  was  a  symbol  of  her  ability  and  artistry. 

Taking  the  butter  to  market  was  a  joy  to  all  of  us  children.  To  be  denied  the 
privilege  of  hitching  the  horse.  Old  Dan,  to  the  little  buggy  and  riding  with  Mother 
into  town  was  the  most  severe  punishment  that  could  be  administered. 

Most  of  the  butter  went  to  the  local  merchant  where  it  was  traded  for  our  food 
and  clothing;  some,  however,  was  distributed  to  customers.  Mother  had  the  same 
customers  for  years.  Twenty-five  cents  was  a  good  price  per  pound.  Mother  often 
received  as  much  as  ten  cents  a  pound  more,  because  her  butter  was  always  sweet, 
clean,  and  of  good  measure. 

Yes,  one  of  the  fondest  memories  I  hav€  of  my  dear  mother  was  her  making  of 
butter. 

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I  to  uiate  in   (cJur  aiearts 

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Beneath  that  shimmering  star-glow 
The  tides  run  deep  and  strong. 
And  with  their  outward  racing 
They  take  my  heart  along. 

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To  lands  remote  and   strange. 
Oh,  heart  forever  seeking 
In  restlessness  for  change, 

Awake  and  know  that  moon  tides 
Which  wash  a  far-off  shore, 
Turn  backward  in  their  season 
And  flow  toward  home  once  more. 


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one  of  the  women  said,  "Did  you  see 
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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of   the   Relief   Society   of  The   Church   of   Jesus   Christ   of   Latter-day   Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 
Belle  S.  Spafford         ---------         President 

Marianne   C.   Sharp         -------         First  Counselor 

Helen   W.    Anderson  ------         Second    Counselor 

Hulda    Parker         -------         Secretary-Treasurer 

Anna  B.  Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S.  Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie    M.    Ellsworth 

Florence    J.    Madsen  Aleine  M.  Young  Charlotte  A.  Larsen  Mary  R.    Young 

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Alberta  H.  Christensen      Manwaring  Wealtha  S.  Mendenhall 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

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Associate  Editor          ---------  Vesta  P.  Crawford 

General  Manager        --.._--------  Belle  S.  Spafford 


Vol.  44 


AUGUST   1957 


No.    8 


e 


on  tents 


SPECIAL  FEATURES 

The  Worth  of  Souls  John  Longden  492 

The  South  Australian  Mission  Preston  R.  Nibley  496 

The  Long  and  Short  of  Marriage — The  Continuity  of  Companionship  510 

A  Need  for  Patience  Myrtle  M.  Dean  518 

Annual  Report  1956  Hulda  Parker  528 

FICTION 

Society  Sonnets  Frances  C.   Yost  498 

Holly— Part  II  Margaret  S.   Hardy  514 

All  Is  Well  Queenie  Jenkins  520 

The  Bright  Star — Chapter  6  Dorothy  S.  Romney  523 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

From  Near  and  Far  490 

Sixty  Years  Ago  506 

Woman's  Sphere  Ramona  W.  Cannon  507 

Editorial:  A  Day  of  Doing  Common  Things  Vesta  P.  Crawford  508 

Notes  From  the  Field:  Relief  Society  Activities  Hulda  Parker  537 

Birthday   Congratulations    568 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes  From  the  South  Australian  Mission  Adelphia  D.  Bingham  511 

Ella  J.  Kotter  Finds  Self-Expression  Through  Color  Combinations  and  Designs  for  Quilts 513 

Flowers  and  Children  Celia  Luce  527 

LESSON  DEPARTMENT 

Theology:  Origin  of  the  Doctrine  and  Covenants  Roy  W.  Doxey  545 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages:     "And  Inasmuch  As  They  Were  Humble   ..." 

Christine    H.    Robinson  551 

Work  Meeting:  Increasing  Our  Standard  of  Living  William  F.  Edwards  552 

Literature:   "Othello,  The  Moor  of  Venice"  Briant  S.  Jacobs  555 

Social  Science:  Families  Have  Problems  John  Farr  Larson  562 

POETRY 

Inventory  for  August — Frontispiece  ...Maryhale  Woolsey  489 

Caring  Is  Mortar  Margery  S.   Stewart  495 

Home  Mabel  Jones  Gabbott  505 

Glimpse  of  Heaven  Ruth  Lounsbury  517 

Expression  Gene  Romolo  518 

End  of  Summer  Catherine  E.  Berry  519 

They  Fell  the  Ancient  Elms  Today  Dorothy  S.  Roberts  522 

To  Any  Parent  ...Christie  Lund  Coles  527 

Seasonal  Reminders   Enola    Chamberlin  550 

Echo  Leslie  S.   Clark  567 


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The  Worth  of  Souls 

Elder  John  Longden 

Assistant  to  the  Council  of  the  Twelve 


A  young  mother  expressed  the 
misgivings  in  her  heart  when 
she  knew  her  firstborn  was 
to  attend  school  for  the  first  time. 
She  said,  "There  are  railroad  tracks 
to  cross  and  a  highway.  I  wish  it 
were  possible  to  go  with  him  every 
day!  But,  of  course,  I  have  the 
other  children  to  care  for.''  So 
motherlike!  The  child's  father, 
more  like  a  father,  said,  ''We've 
taught  him  to  watch  where  he  is 
going,  to  be  careful.  We've  tried 
to  teach  him  the  rules  of  the  road. 
He'll  have  to  be  on  his  own."  The 
little  mother  insisted,  ''I  know  this, 
but  he  is  so  young  and  may  forget 
for  a  moment." 

How  great  is  the  worth  of  our 
children's  lives  in  our  earthly  eyes. 
What  one  of  us  does  not  say  a  quiet 
prayer  as  they  leave  our  homes  in 
the  morning  for  school  or  work,  or 
in  the  evening  for  dates  and  other 
social  events— a  quiet  but  most  de- 
vout prayer  that  our  Father  in  heav- 
en will  watch  over  them  and  help 
them  to  remember  who  they  are? 

There  are  some  parents  who  have 
forgotten  who  they  are,  while  still 
worrying  and  watching  over  their 
precious  earthly  charges,  parents 
who  are  doing  things  which  must 
worry  our  Heavenly  Father.  What  of 
the  young  scout  who  told  his  scout- 
master that  ''Mom  and  Dad  sure  live 
it  up  with  a  bottle  when  we  go 
fishing,  but  they're  okay  at  home." 
We  wonder  if  our  Heavenly  Moth- 
er and  Father  must  not  be  worried 

Page  492 


and  concerned  over  some  of  our 
antics. 

It  must  be  quite  an  occasion  in 
heaven  when  our  Heavenly  Mother 
bids  us  a  loving  farewell  for  the 
time  being!  Perhaps,  like  earthly 
mothers,  she  thinks,  "They  are  so 
young,  and  they  might  forget  for  a 
moment."  Yet,  our  wonderful,  all- 
wise  Eternal  Father  has  repeatedly 
given  us  rules  and  commandments 
by  w^hich  we  are  privileged  to  live, 
for  our  souls  are  precious  in  his 
sight!  The  Master  has  told  us, 
"This  is  my  work  and  my  glory- 
to  bring  to  pass  the  immortality  and 
eternal  life  of  man"  (Moses  1:39). 

Beyond  the  comprehension  of 
mortal  man,  God  has  placed  a  su- 
preme value  upon  a  human  soul 
when  he  says: 

Remember,  the  worth  of  souls  is  great 
in  the  sight  of  God;  for,  behold,  the  Lord, 
your  Redeemer  suffered  death  in  the  flesh; 
wherefore  he  suffered  the  pain  of  all  men, 
that  all  men  might  repent  and  come  unto 
him.  And  he  hath  risen  again  from  the 
dead,  that  he  might  bring  all  men  unto 
him,  on  conditions  of  repentance.  And 
how  great  is  his  joy  in  the  soul  that  re- 
penteth  (D.  &  C.  18:10-13). 

We  read  the  other  day  something 
that  expressed  the  thoughts  of  many 
of  us.  It  was  to  the  effect  that  in 
the  beginning  years  a  parent's  fears 
are  for  bugs,  and  the  less  visible  the 
worse  the  fear,  but  not  much  can 
be  done  about  them.  In  the  later 
years  the  bugs  are  still  there,  but 
the    enemy   is    people   and   things. 


THE  WORTH  OF  SOULS 


493 


some  of  them  no  more  visible  than 
the  most  dangerous  bugs.  Rehef 
Society  mothers  can  do  much  to 
fight  this  invisible  enemy,  for  they 
truly  rock  the  cradle  of  the  Church. 
At  the  knees  of  our  mothers  we 
learn  about  our  Heavenly  Father 
and  the  protection  he  has  for  us. 
We  should  learn  to  talk  to  our 
Father  in  heaven  at  our  mother's 
knees.  Men  of  the  Church  rely 
heavily  on  their  wives  and  the  moth- 
ers of  their  children  to  make  their 
homes  heavens  on  earth.  Wives  can 
help  them  to  remember  who  they 
are— truly  sons  and  daughters  of 
God,  and  that  their  souls  —  every 
one  —  are  precious  in  the  sight  of 
our  Father  in  heaven. 

"\17E  have  watched  hundreds  of 
paients  proudly  acknowledge 
the  accomplishments  of  their  chil- 
dren as  they  graduate  from  high 
school  and  college.  How  proud  a 
mother  and  father  whose  daughter 
earned  a  Phi  Beta  Kappa  key!  —  and 
true  accomplishments  these  things 
are,  for  have  we  not  been  told  ''The 
glory  of  God  is  intelligence,  or  in 
other  words,  light  and  truth"? 
(D.  &  C.  93:36).  Without  at  all 
belittling  scholastic  achievement,  it 
is  important  also  that  we  balance 
our  lives  with  spiritual  achieve- 
ments. Each  individual  must  grow 
up  spiritually,  if  he  would  enter  the 
kingdom  of  our  Father.  Oh!  the 
majesty  of  the  individual!  Each  of 
us  born  of  our  mothers  may,  if  we 
keep  all  the  commandments,  look 
forward  to  exaltation  in  the  king- 
dom of  our  Father,  yes,  to  inherit- 
ing part  of  our  Father's  kingdom. 

How  much  is  a  human  soul 
worth?  The  psalmist  exclaimed 
about  the  greatness  of  man's  worth: 


For  thou  hast  made  him  a  Httle  lower 
than  the  angels,  and  hast  crowned  him 
with  glory  and  honour.  Thou  madest  him 
to  ha\e  dominion  over  the  works  of  thy 
hands;  thou  hast  put  all  things  under  his 
feet   (Psahiis  8:5-6). 

We  were  all  interested  back  in 
1949  in  the  story  of  Kathy  Fiscus, 
who  fell  into  an  abandoned  well  by 
her  home.  Under  a  blaze  of  lights 
men  and  machines  battled  with 
mother  earth  for  Kathy's  life.  Fifty- 
three  hours  after  the  accident,  after 
a  total  expenditure  of  a  quarter  of 
a  million  dollars,  Kathy's  lifeless 
body  was  brought  to  the  top.  A 
quarter  of  a  million  dollars  to  at- 
tempt to  save  one  life! 

In  New  York  this  year  a  little 
boy's  life  was  miraculously  saved. 
He  had  a  similar  experience.  Young 
Benny  Hooper,  Jr.,  most  of  the  time 
did  what  his  parents  told  him,  but 
one  evening  he  played  in  a  forbid- 
den area  where  his  father  had  dug 
a  twenty-one  foot  hole  for  a  well. 
Again,  many  man  hours  and  thou- 
sands of  dollars  were  expended  in 
his  rescue. 

SOMETIMES  we  wander  into  for- 
bidden areas  both  in  our 
thoughts  and  our  actions.  Daily 
there  are  forces  in  the  earth  battling 
for  men's  souls.  Why?  Because 
the  mere  loss  of  life  is  not  a  penalty 
inflicted  on  man,  but  Satan  knows 
that  he  must  spoil  men's  souls  if  he 
is  to  win  his  battle.  It  was  his  wish 
to  force  us  back  into  the  presence  of 
our  Father.  Most  wisely,  our  dear 
Father  rejected  this  plan  and 
through  his  beloved  son  Jesus 
Christ,  gave  us  our  free  agency  to 
return  to  his  presence  on  our  own 
power. 

Know  this,  that  every  soul  is  free 
To  choose  his  life  and  what  he'll  be, 


494 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


For  this  eternal  truth  is  given 

That  God  will  force  no  man  to  heaven. 

He'll  call,  persuade,  direct  aright, 
And  bless  with  wisdom,  lo\e,  and  light, 
In  nameless  ways  be  good  and  kind, 
But  ne\er  force  the  human  mind. 

(William  C.  Gregg) 

Some  of  us  interpret  free  agency 
to  mean  license  to  do  many  for- 
bidden things. 

Thank  goodness  for  many  who 
reahze  that  free  agency  points  the 
way  to  majestic  self-mastery  in  all 
things.  Through  free  agency  we 
may  climb  to  the  high  peaks  of 
spirituality.  Our  lives  will  then  be- 
come guideposts  and  lights  to  others 
who  meet  us  along  life's  highway. 
Most  of  us  who  are  earthly  parents 
do  e\'ery thing  in  our  power  to  bring 
happiness  to  our  children  here.  How 
our  hearts  swell  when  our  offspring 
are  truly  obedient!  Our  happiness 
cannot  even  compare  with  the  joy 
of  our  Heavenly  Father  when  we 
are  obedient  to  his  laws  and  com- 
mandments, and  his  blessings  to  us 
will  be  far  greater  for  ''eve  hath 
not  seen,  nor  ear  heard,  neither  have 
entered  into  the  heart  of  man  .  .  /' 
(I  Cor.  2:9). 

In  our  homes  today,  through  the 
mediums  of  radio  and  television, 
beautiful  young  women  and  hand- 
some young  men  for  money  do  quite 
a  selling  job  on  us  and  our  families, 
selling  ideas,  philosophies,  and  prod- 
ucts which  are  absolutely  adverse  to 
the  teachings  of  the  gospel  of  Jesus 
Christ  —  Satan's  way  of  spoiling 
souls!  What  are  we  doing  in  our 
homes  to  combat  these  influences 
that  we  are  meeting  on  every  hand 
wherever  we  go? 

We  are  wondering  if,  when  we 
left  the  presence  of  our  Heavenly 


Father  and  Mother  to  come  to  this 
earthly  existence,  we  did  not  say 
something  like  the  little  child  who 
went  for  the  first  time  to  school, 
'Tes,  ril  remember  the  rules  and 
regulations.  I'll  watch  all  the  signs 
on  the  road.  I'll  be  good."  We 
wonder! 

'TPHE  Church  of  Jesus  Christ  is 
replete  with  signs  along  the 
road,  pointing  the  way  for  young 
and  old,  to  help  us  to  keep  on  the 
straight  and  narrow  path,  close  to 
the  Master.  Our  scriptures  contain 
complete  formulae  for  a  good,  rich 
life. 

The  rumors  of  wars,  the  hate, 
envy,  jealousy,  strife,  in  the  world 
today  would  not  be,  if  we  all  li\ed 
by  the  tenets  of  the  gospel.  And,  if 
we  lived  by  the  tenets  of  the  gospel, 
we  would  all  return  to  our  Father, 
exalted  beings. 

There  is  so  much  mothers  can  do 
to  insure  the  eternal  salvation  and 
exaltation  of  the  souls  of  men! 

A  little  lad  came  home  to  his 
mother  one  day  and  said,  "Mom,  I 
hate  Judy!"  The  wise  little  mother 
took  the  young  child  on  her  knee 
and  said,  ''Darling,  you  must  not 
hate  anyone.  Try  to  find  out  \\'hy 
she  acts  the  way  she  does.  You  don't 
ha\e  to  be  like  her,  but  maybe  you 
can  help  her  instead  of  hating  her." 
Then  she  showed  her  son  that  hate 
and  help  contain  the  same  number 
of  letters,  but  what  difl^erent  mean- 
ings! There  is  great  need  in  the 
world  today  for  us  to  help  each  oth- 
er. Our  neighbors  need  us.  We 
need  our  neighbors  in  so  many  w^ays; 
to  help  us,  not  to  hate  us,  to  pat  us 
on  the  back  once  in  awhile  and  say 
"Well  done,  old  timer!"  The  little 
mother  who  taught  her  son  not  to 


THE  WORTH  OF  SOULS 


495 


hate  but  to  help  had  a  real  tangible 
lesson  in  mind. 

Bless  the  mothers  of  the  Church 
who  make  their  homes  spots  of  wis- 
dom, shrines  and  castles  for  their 
husbands  and  children.  Bless  the 
mothers  who  know  that  perhaps 
they,  more  than  any  others,  have  it 
in  their  power  to  save  the  souls  of 
men.  Bless  the  parents  of  this 
Church  who  remember  who  they 
are,  who  know  that  their  souls  are 
the  offspring  of  God,  as  are  the  souls 


of  their  earthly  children;  who  daily 
remember  the  promise  we  might 
have  made  as  we  left  our  heavenly 
parents  that  we  would  remember 
the  rules  and  regulations,  that  we 
would  watch  the  signs  along  the 
way,  and  that  we  would  be  good! 
Bless  the  parents  and  others  who 
know  that  "If  ye  are  faithful  ye  shall 
be  laden  with  many  sheaves,  and 
crowned  with  honor,  and  glory,  and 
immortality,  and  eternal  life" 
(D.&  0.75:5). 


(^aring  0/5    1 1  iortar 

Margery  S.  Stewart 

All  day  I  li\'ed  in  the  shadows  of  uncaring. 

For  the  morning  had  been  long,  the  noon 

Too  burning. 

Night  came  with  new  thorns  for  my  mind, 

Ashes  for  remembrance, 

A  broken  sword  and  the  battle  not  over. 

All  day  I  lived  silent  and  blind 

In  the  shadows  of  my  own  uncaring. 

Then  I  saw  what  uncaring  is.  I  held  it 
In  my  palm.  Uncaring  is  disintegration. 
Caring  is  mortar, 

Mortar  for  the  stones  of  the  universe. 
There  is  no  building  without  caring. 
It  is  many  things  ...  a  tender  mother 
Answering  her  new  child,  a  husband 
Breaking  himself  on  the  wheels  of  trade, 
A  teacher  planting  the  endless  seeds 
With  no  hope  of  seeing  the  harvest. 
It  is  the  lonely  woman  being  beautiful 
Because  she  wills  to  make  even  loneliness 
Lovely. 

Caring  is  the  call  remembered,  children 
Comforted,  votes  on  election  day,  a  party 
For  the  stranger.     It  is  compassion  for 
One  who  has  lost  all  right  to  compassion, 
And  it  is  a  single  flower  for  the  beloved. 
Caring  builds,  oh,  how  it  builds,  cities. 
Nations,  worlds,  schools,  hospitals, 
Friendships,  loves,  and  the  tender  peace. 
He,  who  would  destroy  his  own  caring 
Destroys  himself  .  .  .  while  he  who  will 
Not  surrender  holds  always  material 
For  another  tomorrow. 


cJhe    South    J^ustrauan     1 1  iission 

Pieston  R.  Nihley 
Assistant  Church  Historian 

npHE  South  Austrahan  Mission  was  formed  on  July  3^  1955,  at  a  confer- 
ence of  saints  and  missionaries  at  Melbourne,  held  under  the  direction 
of  Elder  Marion  G.  Romney  of  the  Council  of  the  Twelve.  Elder  Romney 
had  made  the  journey  from  Salt  Lake  City  for  the  purpose  of  dividing  the 
Australian  Mission. 

The  new  mission  comprises  the  states  of  Victoria,  South  Australia, 
West  Australia,  and  Tasmania,  with  a  Church  membership  of  approxi- 
mately 1,500  persons  and  an  over-all  population  of  about  5,000,000. 1'homas 
Sanford  Bingham  was  sustained  as  the  first  president. 

Shortly  after  he  was  installed  as  mission  president,  President  Bingham 
chose  as  his  counselors.  Elders  Edward  Armstrong  Johnson  and  Percival 
W.  F.  Davis.  He  also  purchased  for  the  Church  a  new  mission  home, 
located  at  189  Koo  Yong  Road,  Toorak  S.  E.,  Victoria. 

The  gospel  had  been  taught  in  Australia  over  one  hundred  years  before 
the  mission  was  divided.  As  early  as  1840,  a  young  Elder  from  England, 
William  Barrett,  a  sailor  on  a  ship  plying  between  England  and  Australia, 
delivered  tracts  in  Sidney  and  attempted  to  make  converts.  In  1842,  An- 
drew Anderson,  a  convert  from  Scotland,  who  had  moved  to  Australia, 
baptized  a  few  members  in  Sydney,  where  he  had  located.  Then,  in  1851, 
the  Australian  Mission  was  organized,  with  Elder  John  Murdock  of  Lehi, 
Utah,  as  the  first  president.  The  missionary  work  has  continued  since  that 
time. 


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KOALAS,  LONE  PINE  FAUNA  RESERVE,  AUSTRALIA 

Through  the  years  many  of  the  converts  made  in  Austraha  have  emi- 
grated to  America  and  joined  the  saints  in  the  valleys  of  the  mountains. 
With  the  building  of  the  new  Latter-day  Saint  temple  in  New  Zealand, 
it  is  thought  that  more  of  the  members  in  the  South  Pacific  missions  will 
remain  permanently  in  their  homelands. 

Elder  Hugh  B.  Brown,  Assistant  to  the  Twelve,  accompanied  by  Mrs. 
Browii,  arrived  in  Melbourne  on  January  6,  1957,  to  make  a  tour  of  the 
South  Australian  Mission,  with  President  and  Mrs.  Bingham.  They  visited 
the  principal  branches  of  the  Church  and  held  many  meetings.  Every- 
where he  went  Elder  Brown  delivered  inspiring  and  faith  promoting  mes- 
sages and  the  saints,  missionaries,  and  friends  profited  by  his  visit. 

Ten  Relief  Society  organizations,  with  177  members,  were  reported 
in  December  1956.  Adelphia  D.  Bingham  presides  over  the  South 
Australian  Mission  Relief  Society. 


Note:  The  cover  for  this  Magazine,  "Swan  River  From  King's  Park,  Perth,  Western 
Australia,  was  submitted  by  Adelphia  D.  Bingham,  President,  South  Austrahan  Mission 
Relief  Society.    See  also  "Recipes  From  the  South  Australian  Mission,"  page  511. 


Society  Sonnets 

Frances  C.  Yost 


SARAH  Barnes  listened  atten- 
tively to  the  literature  lesson 
given  by  Sister  Nellie  Morris. 

''It  is  generally  agreed  that  no 
other  writer  ^^'as  so  universal,  so 
timeless,  so  full  of  all  kinds  of  wis- 
dom and  so  rich  in  beauty,  as  was 
Shakespeare."  Sister  Morris  smiled 
at  her  class  of  sisters. 

It  seemed  to  Sarah  Barnes  that 
the  world  of  literature  opened  for 
her  here  at  these  meetings  each 
month.  They  seemed  to  fill  the 
abyss  of  her  meager  education.  She 
loved  to  read  Shakespeare's  plays 
and  his  poems.  Why,  Sarah  thought, 
his  sonnets  are  out  of  this  world. 
If  I  could  write  a  sonnet  like  one  of 
his! 

Sarah  wished  she  weren't  so  timid. 
Why,  even  when  she  had  a  good 
thought,  even  when  she  knew  the 
answer,  and  no  one  else  did,  she  was 
too  timid  to  raise  her  hand  and  par- 
ticipate. What  was  Sister  Morris, 
the  literature  teacher,  saying? 

''Now,  for  a  special  assignment 
for  next  month,  I  want  each  of  you 
to  try  to  write  a  sonnet.'' 

A  groan  rippled  through  the  class 
of  Relief  Society  sisters,  followed  by 
a  mild  chuckle.  But  Sister  Morris, 
always  in  command  of  any  situation, 
spoke,  ''Now  mind  you,  I  said  try. 
Perhaps  all  of  you  won't  be  success- 
ful, but  I  hope  you  are.  At  any 
rate,  I  know  of  no  better  way  for  a 
person  to  appreciate  the  many  won- 
derful sonnets  Shakespeare  has  writ- 
ten, than  to  try  to  write  one. 

Page  498 


''Now,  to  help  3^ou  carry  out  this 
assignment,  Fm  going  to  take  a  few 
minutes  and  here,  on  the  board,  out- 
line the  pattern  of  a  sonnet,  and 
gi\'e  you  some  tips,  which  should 
make  it  easier  for  you. 

"First,  a  sonnet  has  fourteen  lines, 
and  it  is  written  in  pentameter.  Can 
someone  explain  what  pentameter 
means?"  Sister  Morris  smiled  help- 
fully. Her  method  of  teaching  was 
always  by  class  participation. 

At  first  Sarah  Barnes  didn't  rec- 
ognize the  word.  She  had  always 
thought  the  pronunciation  was 
penta-meter.  But  Sister  Morris, 
who  was  so  well  grounded  in  Eng- 
lish, pronounced  it  pentam-eter.  So 
it  surely  was  correct  that  way.  That 
was  the  nice  thing  about  Relief 
Society,  you  could  learn  things  here 
that  you  would  never  learn  at  home, 
studying  alone.  Sarah  wanted  to 
raise  her  hand  and  tell  the  group 
that  pentameter  meant  five  feet  to 
a  line.  She  knew  it  was  right,  but 
she  just  couldn't  make  her  hand  go 
up,  or  her  voice  stay  calm  enough 
to  speak.  She  wished  she  weren't 
so  timid,  when  all  of  these  sisters 
were  her  dear  friends.  She  looked 
about.  Sister  Vera  Means  had 
raised  her  hand. 

"Sister  Means,  will  you  tell  us 
what  pentameter  means?"  Sister 
Morris  spoke  kindly. 

"It  means  five  feet  to  a  line.  A 
foot  in  poetry  is  much  like  a  bar  in 
music,  though  the  lines  of  course, 
are  imaginary/'  Vera  Means  ex- 
plained. 


SOCIETY  SONNETS 


499 


'Tes,  that  is  correct;  five  feet  to 
each  hne/'  Sister  Morris  repeated. 
Then,  turning  to  the  blackboard,  she 
wrote  the  first  hne  from  one  of 
Shakespeare's  sonnets. 
When  ioity  winteis  shall  besiege  thy 
hiow.  .  .  . 

''Now,  we'll  use  this  for  an  ex- 
ample. Will  someone  step  to  the 
blackboard  and  mark  this  line  of 
poetry  off  in  pentameter?"  Sister 
Morris  smiled  as  she  challenged 
them. 

Sarah  Barnes  studied  the  line 
carefully.  She  would  mark  the  first 
line  through  the  center  of  forty; 
the  second  through  the  center  of 
whiteis;  the  third  after  shall;  and 
the  fourth  after  besiege.  But  she 
couldn't  raise  her  hand  to  answer 
the  question,  much  less  walk  to  the 
front  of  the  room,  pick  up  the 
chalk,  and  mark  the  meter  in  the 
line.  She  glanced  about  the  room. 
Sister  Pearl  Moffett,  with  a  little 
embarrassed  laugh,  walked  to  the 
blackboard,  and  marked  it  off  just 
as  Sarah  Barnes  had  figured  it 
should  be. 

'That's  just  fine,"  Sister  Morris 
complimented.  "Now  we  ha\'e  the 
line  marked  off  in  meter.  Let's  talk 
about  accenting  syllables.  Words 
are  like  children,  they  have  their 
tender  places,  which  are  not  meant 
for  spanking,  such  as  the  ears.  We 
must  tap  them  lightly  in  some  places 
and  accent  them  harder  in  others." 

nPHE  sisters  were  enjoying  the 
humor  of  Sister  Morris.  Then 
she  continued:  ''Words  have  proper 
places  for  accenting,  and  we  must 
never  line  them  up  in  poetry,  so 
they  will  be  accented  improperly. 
Now  let's  study  this  line  for  ac- 
cent." 


Sarah  Barnes  studied  the  line  for 
awhile.  She  even  repeated  it  in 
her  mind:  When  forty  winters  shall 
besiege  thy  biow.  The  accents 
would,  of  course,  fall  on:  for,  win, 
shall,  siege,  brow. 

"It's  easy,  sisters,"  Sister  Morris 
encouraged.  She  looked  about  the 
room.  Her  eyes  fell  on  Sarah 
Barnes.  She  must  have  seen  her 
lips  forming  the  accented  syllables. 

"I'm  sure  you  can  do  this.  Sister 
Barnes.  You  accent  your  own  words 
so  well."  Nellie  Morris  handed  the 
chalk  to  Sarah  Barnes,  saying:  "Just 
draw  a  line  like  this,  over  the  ac- 
cented syllables." 

Sarah  Barnes  was  glad  she  had 
worn  her  nice  suit  today,  if  she  was 
to  stand  in  front  of  the  ladies.  She 
swallowed  part  of  her  timidity,  and 
walked  to  the  board  and  put  the 
same  diagonal  accent  line  Sister 
Morris  had  used  over:  for,  win,  shally 
siege,  and  brow. 

"Perfect,"  Sister  Morris  beamed. 
"Now  let's  all  scan  this  line.  That 
is,  let's  te-tum  it."  Sister  Morris 
laughed,  and  her  laughter  was  catch- 
ing. She  had  the  ladies  enjoying 
their  lesson  in  poetry.  "Here  goes, 
put  the  stress  on  tum— te-tum,  te- 
tum,  te-tum,  te-tum,  te-tum.  'When 
forty  winters  shall  besiege  thy 
brow.' 

"Now,  the  easy  thing  about  a 
sonnet  is  that  every  line  is  the  same 
as  far  as  accent  and  meter  go.  So, 
instead  of  it  being  hard  to  write  a 
sonnet,  it  is  really  quite  easy  when 
you  get  the  idea."  Sister  Morris 
smiled  encouragement. 

Sarah  Barnes,  watching  her, 
thought,  yes,  it  is  easy  if  one  has 
as  fine  an  education  as  Sister  Mor- 
ris. 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


"Now/'  continued  Sister  Morris, 
''let's  scan  this  whole  poem  of 
Shakespeare's.  This  is  one  of  my 
favorites,  e\en  though  it  isn't  quot- 
ed as  widely  as  others." 

Her  voice  was  excellent,  in  dic- 
tion, emphasis,  and  interest.  Sarah 
loved  to  hear  Sister  Morris  read 
poetry. 

WHien  forty  winters  shall  besiege  thy  brow 
And  dig  deep  trenches  in  thy  beauty's  field, 
Thy  youth's  proud  livery,  so  gazed  on  now. 
Will  be  a   tattered  weed,   of  small  \\orth 

held. 
Then   being   asked   where   all    thy   beauty 

lies, 
Where  all  the  treasure  of  thy  lusty  days, 
To    say    within    thine    own    deep-sunken 

eyes, 
Were   an   all-eating   shame   and   thriftless 

praise. 
How    mueh    more    praise    deserved    thy 

beauty's  use 
If   thou   couldst   answer,   "This   fair  ehild 

of  mine 
Shall    sum    my   count   and   make   my   old 

excuse," 
Proving  his  beauty  by  succession  thine! 
This  is  to  be  new-made  when  thou  art  old, 
And  see  thy  blood  warm  when  thou  feel'st 

it  cold. 

npHERE  was  a  hush  in  the  Relief 
Society  room  as  Sister  Morris 
finished  reading  the  sonnet.  Then 
Sister  Morris  spoke.  "I  don't  believe 
anyone  has  ever  explained  more  viv 
idly  the  joy  of  having  children,  and 
seeing  them  progress,  living  in  your 
children  and  grandchildren,  even 
after  death,  as  has  Shakespeare,  in 
this  sonnet.  I  hope  you'll  all  take 
a  copy  of  this  poem  and  learn  it, 
and  enjoy  it  as  much  as  I  have. 

''Now  that  we  have  the  entire 
poem  on  the  board,  and  we've  talked 
about  the  accent  and  rhythm  of 
the  poem,  let's  talk  a  little  about 
rhyme.  If  you'll  notice  exery  other 
line  rhymes  until  we  get  to  the  last 


two,  which  rhyme.  Now,  an  easy 
way  to  remember  which  lines  should 
rhyme  when  you  write  a  Shake- 
spearean sonnet,  is  to  number  lines 
down  to  fourteen.  Then,  in  front 
of  each  line,  down  to  the  last,  write: 
A  B  A  B;  C  D  C  D;  E  F  E  F;  G  G. 
Now,  with  this  done,  all  you  will 
ha\'e  to  do  is  make  the  A  lines 
rhyme,  the  B  lines  rhyme,  and  so 
on  down  until  you  are  finished.  If 
you  were  writing  some  other  kind 
of  sonnet,  you  would  use  a  different 
rhyme  scheme,  but  the  number  of 
lines  would  be  the  same,  and  the 
number  of  feet  and  the  type  of 
accent  would  be  the  same. 

"Now,  I  might  say,  also,  that  in 
Shakespeare's  time,  they  used  many 
contractions,  such  as  the  one  in  the 
last  line,  iecVsi.  But  today  contrac- 
tions are  frowned  upon,  so  don't  use 
them  in  your  sonnet.  Now,  in  the 
fourth  line,  which  reads:  Will  be  a 
tattered  weed,  oi  small  worth  held, 
today,  we  would  not  invert  as  Shake- 
speare has  done.  We  would  say, 
'Will  be  a  tattered  weed,  held  of 
small  worth.'  So,  in  your  verse  writ- 
ing,  don't  use  inversions.  Another 
thing  to  watch  for  is  that  the  rhyme 
words  used,  should  not,  if  at  all  pos- 
sible, appear  in  the  body  of  the  poem. 
Again,  I  will  use  an  example  of  this 
from  our  poem  on  the  board.  Praise 
is  used  as  the  rhyme  word  in  the 
eighth  line  and  repeated  in  the 
ninth  line,  but  this  is  all  right  in 
this  case,  because  it  is  repeated  more 
for  emphasis  than  for  lack  of  an- 
other good  word.  Now,  are  there 
any  questions  on  your  assignment  of 
\Miting  a  sonnet  for  next  month's 
lesson?" 

Sister  Morris  smiled  sweetly  at 
the  class  of  sisters  she  was  teaching. 


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501 


''What  if  we  can  only  write  four 
lines,  or  maybe  even  two,  and  can't 
go  any  further?"  Sister  Mecham 
asked. 

"There  are  lots  of  poems  with 
only  two  lines.  They  are  called 
couplets.  There  are  poems  with  only 
four  lines.  They  are  called  qua- 
trains. There  are  poems  with  six 
lines,  which  are  called  sestets.  If  you 
have  put  over  a  complete  thought 
in  a  shorter  poem  than  a  sonnet, 
that  will  be  just  fine. 

''But,  please,  all  of  you  try!"  Sis- 
ter Morris  urged.  "If  Shakespeare 
would  take  the  time  and  thought  to 
write  all  those  wonderful  plays  and 
hundreds  of  poems  for  people  to 
read  and  enjoy  all  through  the  years, 
surely  we  can  write  one  tiny  verse, 
to  gain  a  better  understanding  of  his 
fine  accomplishments." 

CARAH  Barnes  listened  as  Sister 
Morris  finished  her  lesson.  She 
was  gaining  so  much  joy  and  knowl- 
edge from  this  course.  She  kept 
thinking,  if  only  I  could  write  a 
sonnet. 

As  Sarah  Barnes  walked  the  few 
blocks  from  the  chapel  to  her  home, 
she  kept  repeating,  "The  mighty 
Shakespeare,  king  of  all  the  bards." 
Upon  entering  the  house,  even  be- 
fore she  took  her  suit  jacket  off,  she 
hurried  to  her  little  white  desk  in 
the  kitchen  and  wrote: 

If  I  could  write  a  sonnet  such  as  he 
The   mighty  Shakespeare,   king  of  all   the 
bards. 

She  took  her  pencil  and  marked 
the  lines  for  meter,  as  Sister  Morris 
had  had  them  do  at  the  meeting. 
Sister  Morris  had  said  words  are  like 
people— they  don't  care  to  be  tapped 
in  tender  places.  If  one  were  not 
sure  of  the  accent  it  could  be  looked 


up  in  the  dictionary.  Sarah  studied 
the  two  lines  carefully.  Not  a  single 
word  seemed  to  be  lined  up  so  the 
accent  fell  on  the  syllable  which  was 
not  accented.  The  two  lines  were 
both  perfect  pentameter! 

Sarah  Barnes  felt  a  thrill,  with 
just  two  lines  written.  Of  course,  it 
was  onlv  a  start.  She  hadn't  even 
worked  into  the  rhyme  of  it  yet, 
much  less  completed  a  thought. 

What  would  a  good  third  line  be? 
It  would,  of  course,  have  to  rhyme 
with  he.  Sarah  Barnes  toyed  with 
the  pencil  as  she  thought,  then 
scribbled:  A  sonnet  equal  to  a  sym- 
phony. She  tested  the  line  for 
meter  and  accent.  It,  too,  seemed 
correct.  Now,  to  think  of  one 
which  would  rhyme  with  bards,  and 
still  carry  on  the  thought.  With 
neither  faulty  notes  nor  monochoids. 

Sarah  read  the  four  lines  over  al- 
together. Not  bad  she  thought,  but 
the  words  bards  and  monochords, 
did  not  seem  to  be  perfect  rhymes. 
She  glanced  at  the  clock.  It  was 
time  she  was  preparing  dinner.  She 
tucked  the  scribbled  lines  out  of 
sight  in  the  desk,  hurried  to  change 
into  a  prim  little  housedress,  and 
started  peeling  potatoes.  She  was 
glad  she  had  set  the  salad  and  pre- 
pared the  dessert  before  she  went 
to  Relief  Society.  "With  all  these 
poetry  notions  buzzing  in  my  head," 
she  said  aloud,  and  smiled. 

Anyway  it  had  been  fun,  and  it 
had  made  her  think  as  nothing  had 
for  years  and  years.  U  I  could  wiite 
a  sonnet  such  as  he,  she  kept  repeat- 
ing, as  if  gaining  courage  to  con- 
tinue with  the  sonnet  project  which 
she  had  started. 

Now  she  was  in  the  mood  for  it, 
she  found  it  fun  writing  verse.    As 


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she  fried  the  steaks,  she  thought  of 
a  fifth  hne:  Would  that  I  could  por- 
tray my  soul  with  woid.  She  scrib- 
bled the  words  down,  as  the  steaks 
browned.  The  sixth  hne  didn't 
have  to  rhyme  with  the  one  preced- 
ing. Sarah  reached  out  for  some- 
thing fine  and  fresh:  Words  which 
would  Jive  on  after  hie  is  past. 

Sarah  Barnes  tapped  out  the 
words  with  a  sort  of  te-tum  on  her 
fingers  as  Sister  Morris  had  done  at 
meeting.  Now  the  seventh  hne  must 
rhyme  with  word.  Sarah  thought  of 
bird,  but  bird  was  certainly  off  the 
subject.  How  would  this  be:  A 
pedcct  poem  worthy  to  he  heard? 
Sarah  wrote  it  down  quickly. 

CTEVE  Barnes  was  late  coming 
home  for  dinner.  Sarah,  who 
usually  peered  out  of  the  window 
and  worried  about  his  lateness,  now 
turned  her  thoughts  to  adding  an- 
other line  to  her  sonnet.  Let  me 
see,  the  eighth  should  rhyme  with 
past.  How  about,  And  add  a  hit  of 
joy  to  those  downcast? 

Sarah  leaned  back  in  the  chair  and 
mused  about  the  fun  she  was  hav- 
ing. Eight  lines  already.  Why  she 
was  more  than  half  finished  with  a 
sonnet.  Only  six  more  lines  to  go, 
and  she  hadn't  had  the  assignment 
more  than  three  hours! 

There  wasn't  time  that  evening 
for  more  versification.  Sarah  didn't 
want  Steve  to  know  she  had  been 
trying  her  hand  at  poetry.  It  might 
bring  on  one  of  his  teasing  moods. 
The  Barnes  couple  enjoyed  the 
evening  talking  about  their  experi- 
ences of  the  day.  Sarah  told  of  the 
lovelv  literature  lesson  Sister  Morris 
had  given  on  Shakespeare's  sonnets, 
and  she  read  the  one  aloud  which 
she  had  copied  from  the  blackboard. 


Steve  chuckled  at  the  first  line: 
When  forty  winters  shall  besiege 
thy  brow.  "Let's  see  I  was  forty 
when  my  brow  was  besieged,  and 
I  lost  my  hair." 

But  when  Sarah  came  to  the  last 
two  lines:  This  is  to  he  made  new 
when  thou  art  old,  And  see  thy 
hlood  warm  when  thou  fccTst  it 
cold,  Steve  spoke  of  the  joy  of  hav- 
ing children  grow  up  and  go  out 
into  the  world  and  make  successes 
of  their  lives. 

''A  person  certainly  hasn't  lived 
for  naught,  when  a  fine  posterity  is 
left  to  carry  on,"  Steve  Barnes  said. 

Sarah  was  glad  she  had  shared 
part  of  the  literature  lesson  with 
him.  It  was  just  as  Sister  Morris 
had  encouraged  the  sisters  to  do,  to 
share  the  lessons  with  their  family. 
Sarah  found  herself  wishing  that  she 
had  shared  her  Relief  Society  les- 
sons more  when  the  children  had 
been  home.  It  would  ha\'e  been 
good  for  the  children  and  for  her. 

Sarah  was  bothered  in  the  night 
with  insomnia,  but  instead  of  wor- 
rying about  little  things  when  she 
couldn't  sleep,  she  recited  the  first 
eight  lines  of  her  sonnet  and 
thought  of  how  she  could  finish  it. 

The  next  morning,  she  saw  Steve 
off  to  his  work  and  then  started 
washing  the  breakfast  dishes.  Sister 
Morris  had  said  that  lots  of  her 
poems  came  to  her  as  she  washed 
dishes.  Sarah  washed  and  dried  and 
thought  of  her  sonnet.  The  ninth 
and  tenth  lines  came  together,  as 
one.  If  I  could  ponder,  sift,  and 
then  refine  my  thoughts,  then  share 
them  with  the  world  of  men. 

Sarah  wrote  them  down,  and  re- 
read them.  It  did  sound  a  little  like 
Kipling's  'If"  poem,  but  still  it  was 


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not  at  all  the  same,  except  for  the 
word  ''if/'  and  certainly  Kipling  had 
no  corner  on  a  word,  when  it  was 
in  the  dictionary  for  everyone  to 
use. 

Well  she  certainly  had  persisted 
with  this  sonnet!  She  wrote  the 
eleventh  and  twelfth  lines  down. 
Write  sonnet  structure  in  perfect 
align,  Play  words  as  Shakespeare 
pJayed  each  tragedienne.  Align  was 
rhyming  very  nicely  with  refine,  and 
tragedienne  with  world  oi  men.  Did 
that  seem  right?  It  didn't  seem 
quite  right. 

"It  takes  a  little  longer  to  do  the 
dishes.  But  I've  never  enjoyed  the 
task  so  much,"  Sarah  said,  as  she 
hung  the  dish  cloth  neatly  in  its 
place. 

CHE  turned  to  her  sonnet.  Twelve 
lines  were  there.  Lots  of  poems 
ended  with  twelve  lines,  but  Sister 
Morris  had  said  that  a  poem  was 
not  complete  until  the  thought  was 
complete.  If  she  could  only  clinch 
her  thought  with  two  more  lines, 
then  she  would  have  a  poem  of 
sonnet  length  and  a  complete 
thought. 

It  was  while  she  was  dusting  that 
the  thirteenth  line  came:  Then  I 
could  touch  another's  own  heart- 
strings. 'That's  good,  but  I  would 
like  to  tell  what  writing  a  sonnet 
has  done  to  me,  deep  inside,"  Sarah 
spoke  softly. 

Quick  as  a  flash  the  final  line 
made  itself  known:  Down  deep 
withm,  my  heart  would  also  smg. 

Sarah  Barnes  had  never  been 
quite  so  excited,  as  she  hurried  to 
the  little  white  desk  to  WTite  the 
entire  poem  on  a  clean  white  sheet. 
She  used  the  dictionary  to  check 


spelling  and  accent  of  words.  Could 
it  really  have  happened  that  she  had 
written  a  sonnet  at  the  age  of  sixty? 
She  shut  her  eyes.  Even  if  no  one 
ever  sees  this  verse,  she  thought,  I 
have  accomplished  something  won- 
derful. It's  done  something  for  me, 
deep  down  inside.  Did  Shakespeare 
enjoy  such  a  feeling  of  creation, 
when  he  finished  a  sonnet?  "If 
only  I  could  show  it  to  Sister  Mor- 
ris," Sarah  said. 

The  timidity  which  shrouded  Sa- 
rah Barnes  grew  more  dense,  but 
she  gave  a  shrug  to  skiff  it  off  and 
spoke  aloud:  "I've  been  timid  all 
my  life,  and  what  has  it  done  for 
me?"  Then,  in  a  chiding  voice,  her 
better  self  spoke  up:  "Sarah  Barnes, 
you  get  on  the  phone  right  this 
minute  and  call  Sister  Morris,  and 
tell  her  you  have  completed  your  as- 
signment. If  she  doesn't  invite  you 
over,  ask  her  when  it  will  be  con- 
venient to  call."  Then  Sarah  added, 
"After  all,  she  did  ask  us  all  to  stop 
in  if  we  needed  any  help,  and  know- 
ing Sister  Morris,  she  meant  every 
word  of  it." 

Sarah  Barnes  dialed  the  number, 
but  she  wasn't  prepared  for  the 
genuine  joy  which  Sister  Morris  had 
in  her  voice  when  she  answered, 
"Well,  good  for  you.  Sister  Barnes! 
I  just  knew  you  could  do  it  if  you 
tried!  Come  over  this  afternoon  by 
all  means!"  She  hesitated  for  a 
moment  then  continued:  "I  guess 
I'm  overanxious  to  see  your  work, 
but  I  have  to  pass  your  house  on  my 
way  to  the  store  in  less  than  a  half 
hour.  I  could  drop  in  on  you,  if 
you  like." 

"Please  do!"  Sarah  said  warmly. 

She  was  elated,  as  she  hung  up 
the    receiver.     She    knew    that    it 


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would  ha\'e  been  hard  for  her  to 
wait  until  afternoon  to  see  if  the 
poem  was  good,  if  she  had  actually 
written  a  sonnet! 

Sarah  finished  her  morning  work 
quickly  and  then  remo\'ed  her  little 
work  apron  just  before  the  doorbell 
rang. 

Sister  Morris  read  the  poem  si- 
lently. Then  she  tapped  her  fing- 
ers, and  Sarah  Barnes  knew  she  was 
te-tum,  te-tuming  the  poem  for  ac- 
cent. What  had  she  called  it, 
scanning?  She  was  putting  a  check 
here  and  there.  Sarah's  heart  sank. 
Perhaps  she  had  been  foolish  to 
even  think  she  could  write  a  son- 
net at  her  age. 

At  length  Sister  Morris  spoke: 
''Sister  Barnes,  it's  lovely.  It's  just 
wonderful!  You've  put  over  such 
a  fine  thought  and  expressed  a 
worthwhile  feeling.  You've  shared 
your  innermost  self  with  others  in 
this  sonnet/' 

CARAH  Barnes  felt  a  joy  within 
which  had  seldom  been  equaled. 
Sister  Morris  had  actually  called  it 
a  sonnet.     What  was  she  saying? 

''There  are  one  or  two  little 
places,  I  would  suggest  you  think 
about.  Perhaps  you  will  want  to 
revise  it.  Let's  look  up  the  word 
monochoid  in  your  dictionary." 

Sarah  Barnes  couldn't  feel  hurt 
at  Sister  Morris,  she  was  so  kind,  so 
helpful,  the  perfect  teacher.  To- 
gether they  bent  over  the  dictionary 
and  read  about  monochords.  "Why, 
a  monochoid  was  a  single-string  in- 
strument used  in  medieval  times," 
Sarah  laughed.  "I  must  have  been 
thinking  of  monotone!  Let's  see, 
it  should  rhyme  with  bards.  Could 
I  use  discoids?''    Sarah  thought  for 


a  moment,  and  Sister  Morris  waited, 
and  soon  the  revised  line  came: 
With  neither  faulty  notes  nor  sound 
diseoids. 

Sarah  Barnes  could  feel  her  life- 
long introvert  trouble  sort  of  dis- 
solving in  front  of  this  understand- 
ing teacher. 

"Now,  in  the  eleventh  line,"  Sis- 
ter Morris  pointed  out,  "the  word 
perieet,  is  perfect."  She  laughed  a 
little,  then  continued:  "But  the 
accent  is  wrong.  So  often  in  poetry 
writing  one  has  to  substitute  a  word, 
sometimes  not  quite  so  good,  be- 
cause of  accent.  Can  you  think  of 
another  word  for  perfect,  which  is 
two  syllables,  and  the  last  syllable  is 
accented,  rather  than  the  first?" 

Sister  Morris  was  so  kind,  so  help- 
ful, she  wasn't  using  her  own  words 
to  perfect  the  poem,  she  was  help- 
ing her,  like  a  good  teacher  V\^ould, 
to  complete  it  herself.  "How  about 
eomplete?"  Sarah  asked. 

"Complete  is  perfect!"  Sister 
Morris  chuckled,  "even  Shakespeare 
himself  could  have  done  no  better!" 

"Now  that  your  sonnet  is  finished 
and  revised,  let's  read  it  for  depth 
and  meaning,"  Sister  Morris  said. 
It  was  with  the  same  fine,  rich  voice 
which  she  had  used  to  read  Shake- 
speare's When  ioity  winters  shall 
besiege  thy  hiow: 

If  I  coukl  write  a  sonnet  such  as  he, 

The  mighty  Shakespeare,  king  of  all  the 
bards, 

A  sonnet  equal  to  a  symphony. 

With  neither  faulty  notes  nor  sound  dis- 
cords; 

Would  that  I  could  portray  my  soul  with 
word. 

Words  which  would  live  on  after  life 
is  past. 

A  perfect  poem  worthy  to  be  heard, 

Which  would  add  joy  to  those  who 
seem  downcast. 


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If  I  could  ponder,  sift,  and  then  refine 
My  thoughts,  then  share  them  with   the 

world  of  men, 
Write  sonnet  structure  in  complete  align, 
Play   words,   as    Shakespeare    played    each 

tragedienne. 
Then  I  could  touch  another's  taut  heart- 
string, 
And   deep   within,    my   heart   would   also 
sing. 


There  was  a  moment  of  complete 
silence  between  the  two  women. 

Then  Sister  Morris  spoke,  "Sister 
Barnes,  I  want  to  tell  vou  what  this 
means  to  me.  All  my  life  I  have 
wanted  to  be  a  schoolteacher,  but 
I  was  denied  higher  education.  I've 
just  studied  by  myself  and  learned 
alone.  It  was  through  the  Relief 
Society  and  other  organizations  that 
Fve  been  able  to  fulfill  a  desire  to 
teach  others.  This  sonnet  you  have 
written  is  proof  that  I  can  teach, 
that  I  can  help  others  to  learn.  You 
see  it's  sort  of  proof  that  I  have 
put  over  the  lesson.  YouVe  made 
me  so  very  happy.  And  now  I  want 
to  ask  a  favor.    I  want  to  read  your 


sonnet  at  our  next  literature  meet- 
ing.   It's  so  good,  such  a  gem! 

'If  the  other  sisters  have  captured 
the  joy  of  creating,  as  you  have,  if 
they,  too,  have  written  poems  of 
worth,  ril  run  off  mimeograph  cop- 
ies of  all,  and  we'll  bind  them,  so 
that  each  of  us  may  have  a  booklet 
to  cherish  all  our  lives.  And,  Sister 
Barnes,  I  want  yours  as  the  frontis- 
piece!" 

Sarah  Barnes  felt  a  change  come 
over  her.  She  knew  that  from  now 
on  she  wouldn't  be  the  timid  little 
introvert  she  had  always  been.  If 
Sister  Morris  could  grow  through 
study  to  become  a  fine  teacher  in 
the  Church,  why  she  would  grow, 
too.  She  would  answer  questions 
when  she  knew  them,  and  take  part 
in  the  meetings.  What  had  Sister 
Morris  said:  put  their  verses  in  a 
little  booklet,  so  that  each  sister 
could  have  a  copy  of  all  the  poems 
written.    It  was  a  good  idea! 

Sarah  Barnes  smiled  and  said: 
''We  could  name  the  booklet  So- 
ciety SoniiQi^r 


•  ^^  • 


uiome 

Mabel  Jones  Gabhott 

This  is  the  porch  I  played  upon 
As  a  toddling  child;  the  years  are  gone 
Swiftly,  swiftly  in  time's  whirl; 
Yet,  this  is  the  door  as  a  little  girl 
Through  which  how  gladly  I  would  go. 
Running  to  school,  so  long  ago. 
The  family  home  is  not  the  same 
Under  other  people's  name; 
Now  in  the  room  I  laid  my  head 
Other  children's  prayers  are  said; 
And  here  where  mother's  raisin  pies 
Won  her  praise  from  lips  and  eyes 
Others  share  good  food  and  talk; 
Slowly  down  the  curving  walk 
My  feet  and  heart  in  memory  go, 
Past  the  peonies'  crimson  glow. 
Bricks  may  be  scarred  by  wind  and  rain. 
But  love  and  memories  remain. 


Sixty    LJears  J/igo 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  August  i,  and  August  15,  1897 

*'FoR  THE  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

TWO  SILK  FLAGS:  The  Utah  silk  eommission  accomplished  the  making  of 
two  silk  flags  for  the  Jubilee  which  \\ere  used  in  the  parade  on  the  memorable  24th  of 
July.  The  flags  were  of  genuine  home-made  silk,  cocoons  raised  and  silk  reeled  right 
here  in  the  city  [Salt  Lake  City] — the  reeling  was  done  by  two  young  girls.  Miss  Flor- 
ence Harrison  and  Miss  Maria  Horrocks,  and  the  entire  work  was  done,  and  the  flags 
were  made  under  the  directions  of  Mrs.  Margaret  A.  Caine,  whose  untiring  efforts  in  the 
matter  of  silk  culture  deserve  public  recognition.  One  of  the  flags  was  displayed  by  the 
Go\ernor's  staff  and  the  other  just  next  to  President  Woodruff's  carriage. 

— News  Note 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  OFFICERS  VISIT  SANPETE:  After  enjoying  the  kindly 
hospitality  of  the  people  of  Mayfield  .  .  .  the  party  drove  to  Fayette,  holding  meeting 
in  the  new  Relief  Society  hall  .  .  .  with  nearly  all  the  members  present,  as  well  as  the 
young  ladies.  The  president.  Sister  Eliza  Bartholomew  ...  is  keenly  alive  to  the 
duties  of  her  .  .  .  office  and  has  an  efficient  aid  in  her  husband,  the  worthy  Bishop. 
The  next  appointment  was  at  Gunnison.  .  .  .  The  weather  was  quite  cold  and  disagree- 
able, and  the  cheer)'  pitch-pine  fire  \^'hich  greeted  our  entrance  into  Bishop  Madsen's 
dining  room  was  only  equaled  by  the  \^'arm  ^^'elcome  extended  by  the  Bishop  and  his 
wife,  who  is  the  president  of  the  Relief  Society  and  is  very  energetic  in  her  field  of 
labor.  Our  meeting  in  the  evening  was  ^^■cll  attended  and  a  good  spirit  prevailed. 

— From  "Visits  and  Meetings" 

JUBILEE  POEM 

(The  Utah  Pioneer  Journey) 

Now!  Let  the  Scroll  of  Time  awhile  unroll — 

That  briefly  we  can  scan  on  history's  page — 

A  pilgrimage  of  fifty  years  ago, 

Fraught  with  importance  to  this  wondrous  age  .... 

List!  The  jubilant  echoes  o'er  mountain  heights  ringing, 
List!  The  beautiful  valleys  resounding  with  praise. 
List!  The  streams  and  the  fountains  together  arc  singing — 
A  chorus  of  joy,  on  this  day  of  all  days  .... 

— Emily    H.    Woodmansec 

OLD  FOLKS  DAY  IN  PAROWAN:  Irrespective  of  creed,  color  or  political  faith, 
all  who  had  passed  three  score  or  more  milestones,  adown  the  journey  on  this  sphere, 
were  entitled  to  a  free  seat,  with  all  the  comforts  and  attention  that  a  bevy  of  good 
natured  young  people  could  bestow,  and  at  one  o'clock  the  large,  new  opera  hall  was 
filled  with  the  honored  guests,  seated  around  tastily  decorated  tables  laden  so  com- 
pletely with  the  choicest  dishes  that  it  was  a  perfect  surprise,  and  many  queries  were 
propounded  as  to  where  so  many  good  things  came  from;  right  here  our  much  loved 
President  ga\e  a  feeling  poetical  address  of  welcome,  the  blessing  was  pronounced  and 
the  feast  partaken  of  in  a  way  that  all  were  assured  that  the  labors  and  generosity  of  the 
Relief  Society  members  were  truly  appreciated.  .  .  . 

— News  Note 

Page  506 


Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


OELLE  S.  SPAFFORD,  General 
President,  represented  Relief 
Society  as  a  delegate  at  the  meetings 
of  the  International  Council  of 
Women  in  Montreal,  Canada,  June 
5th  to  June  15th,  1957.  Counselor 
Marianne  C.  Sharp,  as  an  alternate, 
representing  the  Young  Women's 
Mutual  Improvement  Association, 
also  attended  the  meetings.  Thirty 
member  nations  were  represented, 
with  observers  from  additional 
countries. 

r\R.  MARTHA  ELIOT,  former 
head  of  the  Children's  Bureau 
of  the  United  States  Department  of 
Health,  Education,  and  Welfare,  is 
now  a  professor  in  Harvard's  School 
of  Public  Health.  She  says  that  the 
modern  trend  in  some  states  to  pun- 
ish parents  vicariously  for  children's 
delinquency,  is  "not  only  repugnant 
to  American  concepts  of  justice  and 
fair  play;  it  is  contrary  to  sound 
social  policy."  The  real  need,  she 
feels,  is  to  provide  the  kinds  of 
diagnostic  counseling  and  guidance 
services  that  help  parents  who  have 
serious  personal  or  social  problems. 

lyf  ABEL  LAW  ATKINSON,  Day- 
ton, Idaho,  a  long-time  con- 
tributor to  The  Relief  Society  Maga- 
zine, has  placed  first  and  second  and 
has  also  won  honorable  mention  in 
the  national  1956  Davis  Contest  for 


poetry  contributing  to  everyday  liv- 
ing. For  the  first  time  all  the  judges 
voted  the  prize-winning  poem,  ''A 
Sixth  Door  Opens"  first  place.  Mrs. 
Atkinson  has  used  her  Latter-day 
Saint  teachings  as  the  theme  of  the 
poem.  Her  poems  also  placed  first 
in  the  Arnold  Davidson's  'Time" 
contest  and  second  in  the  "Space" 
poem  contest. 

'TpHREE  women  graduates  of  the 
University  of  Utah  are  now  en- 
gaged in  important  foreign  service 
work  for  the  United  States  Depart- 
ment of  State.  Mrs.  Isabel  G. 
Blackstock  is  in  the  division  of  re- 
search for  U.  S.  S.  R.  and  Eastern 
Europe;  Mrs.  Marie  W.  Cannon  is 
consul  in  Berlin;  and  Mrs.  Alice  B. 
Correll  is  in  the  office  of  special 
consular  services. 


D 


R.  LEONA  C.  BAUMGART- 
NER,  New  York  City  Commis- 
sioner of  Health,  points  out  from 
statistics  that  the  mothers  who  get 
the  best  quality  of  medical  care  dur- 
ing and  after  pregnancy,  are  the 
ones  who  produce  the  healthiest 
infants.  Perinatal  deaths  (those  oc- 
curring within  thirty  days  after 
birth)  take  the  lives  of  165,000  in- 
fants a  year.  This  number  of  deaths 
is  exceeded  only  by  the  mortality 
from  heart  disease,  cancer,  and  cere- 
bral hemorrhage,  or  stroke. 

Page  507 


EDITORIAL 


VOL  44 


AUGUST  1957 


NO.  8 


tyt    ^Jja^  of  'Jjoing   d 


oininon 


cJni 


jings 


TT  has  been  said  that  summer  is 
the  swiftest  season  of  the  year. 
Although  the  time  in  actual  hours 
is  long  between  sunrise  and  sunset, 
and  the  blue  twilight  lingers  in  the 
valley,  still  the  days  for  most  women 
are  filled  with  a  multitude  of  duties. 
These  tasks,  some  of  them  small 
and  insignificant  in  themselves,  re- 
quire such  a  variety  of  activity,  that 
many  women  say  when  day  is  done 
that  nothing  has  been  accomplished 
—  the  day  has  been  wasted. 

Yet  how  strange  it  is  that  a  day 
which  we  may  have  considered  as 
wasted  may  remain  in  our  minds  as 
perhaps  the  most  sunlit  day  of  our 
lives  —  the  day  in  which  we  have 
most  fully  claimed  our  heritage  as 
women  and  as  homemakers. 

Take  the  ordinary  day  of  an  ordi- 
nary woman,  a  day  that  seemed  at 
its  ending,  and  for  years  in  memory, 
to  hold  in  the  limits  of  its  swift 
hours  a  radiant  circle  of  fulfillment. 

A  group  of  women  while  making 
a  quilt  were  discussing  some  prob- 
lems of  homemaking,  the  need  for 
scheduling  one's  time,  and  the  feel- 
ing of  accomplishment  that  comes 
with  order  and  planned  routine. 
Some  of  the  women  mentioned  the 
necessity  of  being  flexible  enough  to 
accept  emergencies  and  to  alter  one's 
daily  plans. 

Then  an  elderly  sister  recounted 
the  experiences  of  a  day  that  she  had 
remembered  over  the  years.  It  was 
a  summer  day,  in  August,  she  said, 

Page  508 


when  all  of  her  children  except  the 
two-year-old  daughter  had  gone  with 
their  father  to  the  ranch,  and  she 
had  a  day  allowing  some  liberty  for 
choosing  what  she  wanted  to  do. 

Morning  lay  cool  and  beautiful 
upon  her  garden  and  the  bordering 
orchard  trees,  inviting  her  to  spend 
the  early  hours  there.  Her  daugh- 
ter, wandering  at  will  through 
the  flower  garden,  touched  the 
blossoms  lightly  saying,  'Tretty, 
pretty,"  as  she  walked  along.  Then, 
seeing  a  large  red  carnation  blossom, 
she  seized  it  quickly  and  broke  the 
flov/er  from  the  stem.  The  mother 
turned  to  say,  ''Oh,  no,  don't  pick 
the  flowers,"  and  she  saw  the  little 
girl  trying  eagerly  to  put  the  blos- 
som back  on  the  stem  —  an  impos- 
sible task,  as  the  child  soon  found 
out.  But  the  mother  saw  the  sig- 
nificance of  that  little  garden  inci- 
dent on  an  ordinary  day  —  there  are 
in  our  lives  those  events  which  have 
happened  and  cannot  be  changed  — 
those  mistakes,  large  or  small,  which 
cannot  be  completely  mended. 

Later,  on  that  summer  morning, 
the  woman  began  to  make  bread. 
She  had  prepared  her  own  yeast  and 
it  was  covered  with  white  foam.  As 
she  measured  the  brown  flour  and 
added  milk,  she  thought  of  bread  as 
a  blessing,  and  the  making  of  bread 
as  an  ancient  and  honored  art  —  a 
brown  loaf  as  the  pride  of  home- 
makers  since  first  the  pioneer  wom- 
en had  come  to  the  sagebrush  valley 


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509 


and  turned  its  wilderness  to  fields  of 
grain.  Breadmaking  is  not  a  task, 
she  thought,  but  a  privilege,  the 
blessed  symbol  of  life,  the  evidence 
of  plenty  —  food  for  her  family.  And 
the  breadmaking  was  in  itself  a 
gleaming  segment  of  the  circle  of 
a  summer  day. 

In  the  afternoon,  while  the  child 
slept,  and  there  was  a  quiet  time, 
the  mother  went  to  the  bookcase 
and  picked  up  a  volume  of  poems 
which  her  grandfather,  treasuring 
the  rich  legacy  of  his  homeland,  had 
brought  from  England  —  Selected 
Poems  of  William  Woidswoith. 
She  had  not  had  time  for  much  read- 
ing, but  she  turned  again  to  her 
favorite  lines  from  the  poem  "I 
Traveled  Among  Unknown  Men": 


Among  thy  mountains  did  I  feel 

The  joy  of  my  desire; 
And  she  I  cherished  turned  her  wheel 

Beside  an  Enghsh  fire. 


It  seemed  to  this  woman  that  the 
poem  not  only  expressed  the  love 
of  her  ancestors  for  their  homeland, 
but  it  made  the  line  of  descent  seem 
more  precious  to  her  and  added  sig- 
nificance to  her  records  and  her 
genealogical  work,  as  if  a  shining 
light  illumined  the  pathway  of  her 
forefathers  and  her  own  destiny  as 
well. 

So  much  can  happen  on  an  ordi- 
nary day.  In  the  afternoon  she  saw 
her  elderly  neighbor  across  the 
street  being  wheeled  out  to  the 
porch,  and  she  remembered  that  it 
had  been  several  days  since  she  had 


visited  this  woman  who  was  not 
able  to  walk  about  and  enjoy  the 
summer.  She  wrapped  a  loaf  of  the 
newly  baked  bread  in  a  clean  cloth, 
took  two  of  the  crimson  roses  from 
the  vase  on  the  table,  and  with  the 
little  girl  at  her  side,  she  crossed  the 
street  and  greeted  her  neighbor. 

The  elderly  woman  smiled  and 
expressed  her  appreciation.  ''I  want 
to  tell  you  about  the  things  I  can 
see  from  this  porch,"  she  said.  She 
mentioned  the  panorama  of  the  red 
foothills,  the  dark  blue  slopes  of 
evergreens,  and  the  crown  of  granite 
peaks.  "The  hills  give  me  courage," 
she  said,  ''remember  the  gospel 
hymn.  Tor  the  strength  of  the  hills 
we  bless  thee,  our  God,  our  fathers' 
God.  .  .  /  " 

The  younger  woman  then  looked 
with  newer  vision  upon  her  valley 
and  the  guardian  mountains.  Almost 
she  said  to  herself,  ''Count  your 
blessings.  .  .  ."  And  the  feeling  was 
part  of  the  summer  day  —  a  day  that 
turned  to  twilight  as  the  woman  re- 
turned to  her  own  home  and  set  the 
supper  table  for  her  family. 

It  was  only  an  ordinary  day  — 
and  yet  each  event  seemed  to  glow 
with  importance  and  a  shining 
grandeur  that  made  this  woman's 
day  one  long  to  be  remembered. 
Remembered  not  because  of  each 
task  or  incident  within  itself,  but 
remembered  because  each  happen- 
ing seemed  an  integral  part  of  life 
and  contributed  richly  to  her  fulfill- 
ment as  a  woman  and  as  a  home- 
maker. 

-V.  P.  C. 


And  they  that  shall  be  of  thee  shall  build  the  old  waste  places:  thou  shalt  raise  up 
the  foundations  of  many  generations;  and  thou  shalt  be  called,  The  repairer  of  the 
breach,  The  restorer  of  paths  to  dwell  in   (Isaiah  58:12). 


cJhe  JLi 


d  Shi 


arnage 


ong  ana  ojnort  of  11 L 

The  Continuity  of  Companionship 

while  they  were  still  living  in  dug- 
outs, while  much  of  the  valley  was 
yet  un tilled,  where  no  granaries 
were  needed  to  hold  the  meager 
harvest,  while  there  was  not  a  meet- 
inghouse or  a  Relief  Society  hall  in 
all  the  valley. 

Her  people  had  looked  toward  a 
spiritual  light  and  had  labored  for  a 
spiritual  accomplishment.  It  seemed 
to  her  that  the  continuity  of  the 
gospel  was  a  shelter  about  her  and 
as  a  mansion  of  beauty  in  which  she 
would  be  privileged  to  live  during 
her  earthly  life  and  in  the  long  to- 
morrows. This  is  my  homeland, 
she  thought,  these  are  my  moun- 
tains and  my  hills.  These  are  my 
people  and  this  is  my  valley,  the 
privilege  and  the  blessing  of  going 
to  the  temple  are  mine. 

She  thought  of  the  future  years 
with  her  husband.  She  knew  that 
trouble  and  problems  come  to  all 
earth's  people,  but  she  knew,  also, 
that  the  feeling  of  continuity  and 
permanence  bestowed  by  temple 
marriage   would  be  as  a  tower  of 


"DECENTLY  a  young  woman  was 
traveling  with  her  parents  to- 
ward a  temple  where  she  would 
meet  her  bridegroom,  and  their  mar- 
riage would  be  performed  in  accord- 
ance with  her  faith  and  the  cove- 
nants of  her  people. 

Over  this  road,  she  said  to  herself, 
my  grandfather  drove  his  wagon 
from  his  farm  on  the  river,  traveling  strength  to  her  and  her  husband, 
to  the  temple  to  participate  in  and  that  the  tower  would  be  lighted 
eternal  ordinances  for  his  kindred  forever,  even  as  the  morning  sun- 
dead  who  had  passed  away  in  lands  light  shone  upon  the  temple  above 
beyond  the  sea,  not  knowing  of  the  the  green  hills  of  home.  She  knew 
gospel  and  the  Priesthood  power  for  that  when  the  pathway  is  lighted, 
sealing  husbands  and  wives  in  com-  one  can  perceive  direction,  one  can 
panionship  forever.  The  white  tow-  be  guided,  one  can  better  avoid  by- 
ers  of  the  temple  and  its  walls  of  ways  of  dissension  and  conflict.  For 
native  stone  rose  high  on  the  round-  them,  newly  married,  and  even  into 
ed  green  hill,  and  to  the  young  the  twilight  years,  their  destination 
bride,  all  the  surrounding  mountains  would  be  in  view,  they  would  know 
seemed  to  shout  for  joy.  Here  in  in  full  surety  that  no  earthly  mis- 
this  valley,  she  thought,  my  moth-  chance  could  separate  them  —  that 
er's  people  planned  for  a  temple  their  union  would  be  forever. 
BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 

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Uxecipes  Qjrotn  the  o^outh  Kytustralian    1 1  Lission 

Submitted  by  Adelphia  D.  Bingham 
Pineapple  Pudding 

1  tin  (2/4  c.)  pineapple  chunks  i  pt.  milk 

1  pkg.  jelly  crystals   (jello)  i   tbsp.  corn  flour  (cornstarch) 

2  eggs  1  tbsp.  sugar 

Cut  the  pineapple  into  small  pieces  and  put  into  a  dish.  Pour  off  the  juice.  Make 
a  boiled  custard  with  yolks  of  eggs,  milk,  corn  flour,  and  sugar,  adding  a  Httle  vanilla. 
When  cool,  pour  custard  over  pineapple  and  stir  well  together.  Pour  hot  pineapple 
juice  over  the  jello  and,  if  necessary,  add  enough  water  to  make  one  pint  of  liquid. 
Beat  egg  whites  stiff  and  when  jello  is  partly  set  beat  in  the  egg  whites.  Pour  this 
carefully  over  the  custard.  Leave  to  set  and  then  serve  with  whipped  cream.  (Fresh 
pineapple  is  not  suitable,  use  only  preserved  or  tinned  pineapple.) 

Raspberry  Shortbread 

^/4   lb.  butter  %    c.  sugar 

1  %   c.  self-rising  flour  i  egg 

Rub  butter  into  flour,  add  sugar  and  egg,  and  work  into  a  stiff  dough.  Line  the 
tray  with  the  dough  and  thinly  spread  raspberry  jam  over  it. 

Filling  ioT  Shoitbiead 

1  c.  coconut  1  egg 

1  c.  sugar 

Mix  together  the  coconut,  sugar,  and  egg.  Spread  this  over  the  jam.  Bake  in 
moderate  oven  for  twenty-five  minutes.  Leave  in  tray  until  cold  and  then  cut  into 
small  slices. 

Note:  To  make  self-rising  flour,  add  baking  powder  to  ordinary  flour  in  proportions 
suggested  on  the  can. 

Lamingtons 

3  eggs  1  tbsp.  butter 

1  c.  sugar  Vz    c.  boiling  water 
1  !4   c.  self-rising  flour 

Beat  eggs  and  sugar  for  fifteen  minutes,  add  flour,  then  add  butter  and  boiling 
water.  Bake  twenty-five  minutes.  When  cold,  cut  into  squares,  dip  into  chocolate 
icing,  and  roll  in  coconut. 

Beefsteak  Pudding 

1  %   lbs.  steak  ^   c.  plain  flour 

2  sheeps'  kidneys  salt  and  pepper 

1  onion  water  (small  amount) 

Vi   c.  water 

Cut  steak  into  small  pieces,  add  onion,  pepper,  salt,  and  flour.     Put  into  steamer. 

Pudding 

4  ozs.  beef  suet  i  Yi    c.  self-rising  flour 

Grate  the  beef  suet  into  the  self-rising  flour,  adding  a  pinch  of  salt.  Rub  the 
flour  and  suet  together  and  mix  with  a  little  water.  Place  this  on  top  of  meat  in 
steamer.  Steam  four  hours. 

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512  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 

Seasoned  Steak 

1  lb,  steak  2  small  onions 

2  potatoes  3  tomatoes 
salt  and  pepper  grated  cheese 

Put  a  little  dripping  or  water  in  baking  dish,  having  it  very  hot.  Lay  the  steak, 
which  should  be  about  one  inch  thick,  in  the  baking  dish,  baking  rather  slowly  for 
fifteen  minutes.  Baste  \\'ell  and  season  with  a  little  pepper  and  salt.  Slice  onions  \ery 
thin  and  co\'er  meat  in  an  e\en  layer.  Bake  this  until  the  onions  are  tender.  Then 
co\er  with  a  thin  layer  of  potatoes  and  bake  until  tender.  Cover  with  slices  of  to- 
matoes and  bake  until  tender,  with  occasional  basting.  Then  sprinkle  with  grated 
cheese,  letting  it  melt  before  ser\'ing. 

Passion  Fruit  Flummery 

1  c.  milk  1  e.  hot  water 

1  egg  1  pkg.  lemon  jelly  (jello) 

Vz   c.  sugar  4  passion  fruit  (use  only  juice  and  seeds) 

Beat  egg  and  sugar  to  a  froth.  Add  milk.  Dissolve  jelly  (jello)  in  hot  water. 
Add  to  mixture.     Add  passion  fruit  and  beat  well.     Leave  to  set. 

Plum  Pudding 

2  c.  white  bread  crumbs  1  c.  seeded  raisins 

3  ripe  bananas,  cut  up  1  tsp.  soda  mixed  in  %  c.  milk 
1  c.  seedless  raisins 

Mix  all  together  and  steam  for  two  hours.     Serve  with  any  desired  sauce. 

Chocolate  Sauce  Pudding 

2  tbsp.  butter  1  tbsp.  cocoa 

1  c.  sugar  Vi  c.  milk 

1  egg  Vz  tsp.  vanilla 

1  c,  flour,  or  more  pinch  of  salt 

1  tsp.  baking  powder  1  K  c.  hot  water 

Cream  butter  and  Vi  c.  sugar,  add  egg  and  mix  \\'ell.  Fold  in  sifted  dry  ingredients 
alternately  with  milk.  Pour  into  greased  pan.  Mix  together  Vi  c.  sugar  and  1  tbsp. 
cocoa  and  sprinkle  o\'er  mixture.  Lastly,  over  all,  pour  1  !4  c.  hot  water.  Cover  and 
steam  1  Vz  -2  hours.     Serve  with  cream. 

Lemon  Snowdrift  Cake 

Vz   c.  butter  3  eggs 

1  c.  sugar  1   tsp.  baking  powder 

1  c.  flour  1   tsp.  grated  lemon  rind 

Cream  butter  and  sugar,  add  well-beaten  eggs  gradually.  Mix  in  lemon  rind,  then 
stir  in  sifted  flour  and  baking  powder.  Blend  until  smooth.  Bake  in  round  cake  pans, 
in  moderate  oven,  350°  for  15-20  minutes.  Put  together  with  lemon  filhng,  and  sprinkle 
top  with  powdered  sugar. 

Lemon  Filling: 

Vz   e.  water  1  tbsp.  butter 

Vz    e.  sugar  1  egg 

juice  of  1  lemon  2  tsp.  cornstarch 


RECIPES  FROM  THE  SOUTH  AUSTRALIAN  MISSION 


513 


Beat  egg  in  saucepan,  add  rest  of  ingredients,  and  stir  over  heat  until  thick.     Cook 
about  1  minute. 


Afternoon  Cake 


2  tbsp  butter 
%   c.  sugar 

1  egg 
Vi    c,  milk 


1   c.  flour 

1   tsp.  baking  powder 

1  tsp.  vanilla 


Cream  butter  and  sugar,  add  egg,  milk,  vanilla,  and  flour  containing  baking  powder. 
Pour  into  greased  cake  pan  and  bake  twcnt\  fi\c  minutes.  When  cooked,  spread  with 
butter  while  still  hot,  then  sprinkle  on  top,  the  following  mixed  together: 


1  tsp.  cinnamon 

2  tsp.  coconut,  chopped  fine 


2  tsp.  powdered  sugar 


Q)lia  ^.   Jxotter  CJinds  Q>elj-ibxpression   cJhrough 
L^olor  (^onioi nations  ana    ^JUesigns  of  Guilts 

Tj^OR  Sister  Ella  J.  Kotter,  eighty-five,  of  Brigham  City,  Utah,  making  hand-pieced 
■■■  quilts  is  not  only  a  hobby  but  it  is  also  an  art  through  which  she  expresses  her  feel- 
ings for  colors  and  designs.  She  has  made  over  fifty  of  these  beautiful  quilts,  some  of 
which  she  has  given  as  gifts  to  her  seven  children  and  sixteen  grandchildren. 

She  was  born  in  Brigham  City  of  pioneer  parents,  Andrew  C.  Jensen  and  Anna 
Marie  Carlson  Jensen.  She  married  the  late  William  F.  Kotter.  Sister  Kotter  served 
as  a  Relief  Society  counselor  for  eight  years,  and  then  as  president  in  the  Brigham  City 
Fourth  Ward  for  three  years.     She  also  devoted  many  years  as  a  visiting  teacher. 

Sister  Kotter  has  found  happiness  and  contentment  in  life,  when  she  keeps  her 
hands  and  her  mind  busy. 


Holly 

Part  II 

(Conclusion) 

Margaret  S.  Haidy 


Synopsis:  Holly  and  her  husband  Jesse 
live  in  a  log  cabin  on  a  pioneer  home- 
stead, where  drought  has  destroyed  the 
crops.  Holly,  who  is  expecting  her  first 
child,  is  left  alone  in  the  cabin  when 
Jesse  is  called  to  help  the  other  farmers 
fight  a  flash  flood.  Fearful  of  being  alone, 
Holly  goes  out  into  the  darkness  in  an 
attempt  to  get  help.  She  is  rescued  and 
taken  to  the  midwife's  home  where  her 
son  is  born. 

THE  end  of  August  found  Jesse 
working  in  the  sawmill  and 
Holly  moved  into  a  dugout — 
damp,  dark,  but  a  roof  no  less.  The 
day  was  cool  and  fine  when  Holly 
walked  to  town  to  meet  the  mail 
coach.  The  destroying  rain  had,  also, 
brought  new  life  to  the  sun-baked 
earth  and  Holly  found  pleasure  in 
every  step.  She  left  the  path  and 
turned  down  Shoonsburg  road  and 
past  Doe  Ketting's  house.  Doe  was 
left  all  alone  since  Cam  went  on  his 
mission.  The  thought  made  Holly 
feel  uneasy  and  her  feet  moved  fast- 
er, as  she  held  the  baby  close.  Jesse 
could  be  called— oh,  perish  the 
thought  —  her  without  a  house  and 
a  new  baby  to  look  after  in  this 
land  of  Indians  and  wild  beasts.  But 
the  thought  had  filled  her  with  fear. 

"Holly!     Wait!" 

She  stopped  and  turned  to  see 
Doe  hurrying  after  her. 

'The  mail  coach  is  already  come, 
Holly,  and  strangers  on  it.  And  a 
letter  from  Cam.  Fourteen  months 
and  he'll  be  home." 

'Tourteen  months,  Doe!  Four- 
teen years!"  Holly  cried  out,  then 

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clamped  her  lips  shut  tight  and 
threw  her  hand  up  to  her  mouth  lest 
she  should  say  more.  Then,  with 
sympathy  for  Doe,  and  thinking  of 
herself,  too,  she  lowered  her  voice. 

''What's  it  like,  Doe,  with  having 
to  find  your  own  food,  and  Indians 
coming  to  your  door  at  night  when 
you're  alone?  I  could  never  stand 
it.  Doe.    Never." 

''It  may  be  that  one  who  lacks 
the  courage  was  not  made  for  pio- 
neering." 

Holly  felt  a  hot  blush  rise  and 
words  caught  in  her  throat. 

"I'm  not  —  it's  not  that.  .  .  ." 
She  stopped  to  look  into  Doe's  face. 
Then,  "Things  aren't  always  the 
way  they  seem,"  she  said.  "Jesse  has 
never  been  called." 

Holly  turned  to  leave  and  saw 
Doe's  hand  stretched  out— heard 
words  meant  to  pacify— but  couldn't 
stop  her  moving  feet  to  turn  back. 

Back  up  Shoonsburg  road  she 
went;  back  up  the  path  that  led  over 
the  hill.  The  resting  place  not  far 
ahead  and  the  dugout  below,  where 
some  day  soon  she  would  see  a  stone 
house,  a  story  and  a  half;  and  she 
would  walk  home  leaning  on  Jesse's 
arm,  new  shoes  on  her  feet,  and  a 
parasol  in  her  hand. 

"This  is  a  right  fine  day  for  a  lady 
to  be  out  for  a  stroll  without  shoes, 
and  carrying  a  baby  besides,"  said  a 
voice  beside  her. 

Holly  jumped  and  stooped  to 
cover  her  toes  with  her  skirt. 


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''Why,  Captain  John,  ifs  you, 
and  on  foot." 

'1  came  on  the  mail  coach,  Holly; 
came  to  muster  up  a  team  of  men 
to  take  a  wagon  train  back  to  the 
states;  and  Jesse  to  head  it." 

n^HE  path  did  a  dance  before 
Holly's  eyes,  and  she  laid  her 
hand  against  the  big  arm  beside  her 
to  steady  herself  until  she  found  her 
voice.  It  came,  sounding  weak  and 
faraway,  'To  go  after  immigrants?" 
Holly's  feet  were  rooted  to  the 
ground. 

'They  need  help  to  come  West, 
Holly.  Jesse's  the  man  we  need." 
He  spoke  with  authority,  a  leader 
he.  "You  should  know  that.  Holly. 
Your  wagon  train  had  a  guard— you 
couldn't  come  without  it." 

Something  remembered,  a  flick- 
er of  hope,  and  Holly  raised  an 
eager  face  to  Captain  John's.  "Oh, 
Captain  John!"  she  explained,  "you 
haven't  heard  about  us— I  mean  the 
flood  taking  our  house  and  Jesse 
having  to  build  a  new  one  with 
winter  coming,  and  the  baby  and 
all " 

'This  call  doesn't  come  from  me. 
Holly.    It  comes  from  higher  up." 

Words  sprang  to  her  lips  unspok- 
en, the  ring  of  them  terrifying  in 
her  mind  lest  she  should  blurt  them 
out;  thoughts  that  should  never 
have  come  into  her  head.  Her  legs 
moved  her  feet  slowly  forward,  and 
they  climbed  in  silence  up  the  wind- 
ing path.  Holly  first,  picking  her  way 
thoughtlessly,  each  step  a  habit. 
Captain  John  was  following,  the 
grinding  of  his  boots  on  the  stones 
the  only  sound.  Holly  looked  around 
her  at  the  red  hills  and  the  harsh, 
barren  land  of  stone  and  sun  wait- 


ing still  to  be  conquered.  This  was 
her  home,  bought  and  held  with 
the  faith  and  sacrifice  of  the  women 
and  the  straining  and  toiling  of  the 
men.  Grasshoppers  —  famine  — 
floods;  babies  born  in  wagons  — 
loved  ones  laid  away  in  forgotten 
graves.  That  was  the  price  they  had 
paid.  She,  too,  had  paid,  and  the 
pride  of  it  crept  into  her  heart.  Here 
her  son  would  grow  strong,  where 
only  the  strong  could  live.  She 
w^ould  be  one  with  Doe,  and  with 
the  others;  so  many  young  wives 
were  alone,  and  more  men  would  be 
going  now. 

She  lifted  her  face  again  to  the 
Captain  beside  her. 

"Will  Jesse  be  a  captain  like  you. 
Captain  John?" 


jjs     sjc     5;;     >J:     5j: 


npHE  summer  sun  was  gone,  and 
the  winter  sun  came,  filtering 
through  the  small  dugout  window. 
Holly  awoke  with  a  start.  This 
would  be  the  day.  The  Indian  run- 
ner had  said  the  wagon  train  was 
three  sleeps  away.  This  was  the 
third  sleep  Holly  had  taken,  so  at 
this  very  minute  Captain  Jesse 
would  be  riding  out  his  last  day. 
Some  five  months  before.  Holly  had 
started  to  mark  the  miles  off  on  the 
dugout  wall.  Twenty  miles  a  day 
she  had  counted  —  and  sometimes 
maybe  more,  given  good  oxen  and 
peaceable  Indians.  Twenty  hundred 
miles  had  marched  across  her  wall— 
and  she  had  counted  him  home 
some  twenty-three  days  before. 

And  then  Panimeto  had  come 
with  news  of  the  wagon  train  up- 
state and  the  bravery  of  Captain 
Jesse.  Fancied  pictures  came  to  her 
mind— a  picture  of  Jesse,  at  the 
company's  head,  with  a  decision  to 


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make.  Indians  preparing  for  an 
attack,  their  wolf  -  calls  carrying 
through  the  quiet  of  the  dread  night. 
A  picture  of  Jesse  crawling  on  his 
stomach  beneath  the  Indian  sen- 
try's very  nose  —  stampeding  the 
horses  while  the  warriors  danced  in 
a  frenzy  around  the  fire.  And  best 
of  all,  the  picture  of  Jesse  leaping 
from  his  horse  and  coming  straight 
to  her,  their  baby  in  her  arms.  And 
with  a  new  pair  of  shoes  for  her.  No 
doubt  about  it. 

She  sprang  from  her  bed.  "Oh, 
happy  day  in  the  morning"  burst 
from  her  lips  as  she  hurried  about 
her  morning  tasks.  Work  done,  she 
wrapped  the  baby  in  his  wooly  and 
stepped  from  the  dugout  and  up 
the  frosty  path.  Excitement  made 
her  feet  fleet,  and  no  weariness  was 
in  her.  Holly  walked  swiftly  by 
Doe's  house,  but  a  slamming  door 
and  Doe's  voice  calling  brought  her 
to  a  stop. 

''No   need   to   hurry   so,    Holly," 
she  called.     ''No  wagon  train  has 
arrived  or  we'd  have  heard." 
"I'm  going  to  the  store." 
"To  buy,  or  warm  your  feet?" 
A    blushing    warmth    started    to 
spread  over  Holly's  body  and  she 
looked  to  see  if  her  toes  were  show- 
ing from  under  the  ragged  hem  of 
her  dress.    It  was  then  that  she  saw 
Doe's  feet— as  bare  as  her  own  and 
likely  as  cold. 

pVENING,  and  the  cold  brisked 
up  and  a  bright  moon  was  prom- 
ised for  the  night.  Preparations  for 
the  welcome-home  dance  were  com- 
pleted, though  no  wagon  train  as 
yet  had  arrived.  The  social  hall 
filled  early  with  merry  dancers  young 
and  old.    Admission,  two  candles- 


one  for  light  and  one  to  pay  the 
fiddlers.  Holly  stepped  inside  and 
looked  for  a  corner  in  which  to  put 
her  box  lunch,  neatly  packed  in  a 
pan.  Alongside  the  hall,  logs  cov- 
ered with  bright  quilts  for  better 
sitting  were  already  well  filled  with 
widows  and  wallflowers.  An  empty 
spot,  and  Holly  settled  herself, 
tucked  her  feet  under  her  skirt,  and 
looked  around  her. 

The  hall  warmed  with  the  danc- 
ers, and  men's  bright  linsey  shirts 
looked  brighter  still  for  dampness 
on  the  backs.  Babies  were  wrapped 
in  blankets  laid  on  benches,  pressed 
against  the  wall  to  keep  from  rolling. 
Children  grew  weary  and  hungry  for 
the  lunches  waiting  in  the  corner. 
Candles,  held  fast  in  turnip  holders, 
flickered  lower  after  every  dance, 
dripped  their  tallow  on  whoever  sat 
beneath  them.  And  Holly's  heart 
grew  tired  with  its  pounding. 

Supper  —  and  enough  for  the 
travelers,  but  none  to  share  it  yet. 
Fancy  fare,  thought  Holly,  beans, 
baked  in  molasses,  cold  steamed 
mutton,  biscuits.  The  memory  of 
long,  lean  months  past,  with  little 
to  eat,  crowded  into  her  mind,  and 
she  felt  hungrier  than  she  had  ever 
felt  in  her  life.  Merriment  dimmed 
as  the  bishop  raised  his  hand  for 
silence  and  a  blessing  on  the  food. 
Stillness  over  the  hall,  and  night 
sounds  creeping  in  from  out  of 
doors.  Holly  listened  to  every  grate- 
ful word  and  heard  the  people  mov- 
ing when  the  prayer  was  ended. 

Then  came  another  sound,  and 
this  one  from  outside,  faint  and  far 
away.  A  pause,  and  she  heard  it 
again.  Her  heart  beat  faster.  Were 
only  her  ears  tuned  for  the  sound? 
She  mustn't  run.     It  would  not  be 


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proper.  Walk  like  a  lady  aeross  the 
floor.    No  one  else  had  heard. 

She  reached  the  doorway.  The 
brightness  of  the  moonlight  night 
was  lighter  than  the  hall  had  been. 
Now  she  could  shout^  "They're 
coming  —  they're  here." 

She  heard  feet  shuffling  behind 
her,  but  she  was  first.  First  to  see 
Jesse  leading  the  guard  whose  ban- 
ners were  flying  in  the  moonlight, 
making  their  way  down  Shoonsburg 
road,  the  whitetops  lumbering  be- 
hind, creaking,  moaning,  weary. 

''Captain  Jesse!" 

She  ran  down  the  moon-splashed 
road  toward  the  procession.  She 
could  see  him  more  clearly  now,  sit- 
ting tall  astride  his  horse  —  hero  to 
these  —  but  husband  to  her.  He 
saw  her.  The  captain  of  the  guard 
was  swinging  down  from  his  horse, 
a  pair  of  shoes  dangling  from  his 
belt. 

Then,  inside  the  hall,  it  was  fid- 
dle and  song,  and  the  benches  were 
emptied.  So  much  running  through 
Holly's  mind,  so  much  to  be  grate- 


ful for,  with  Jesse  at  her  side  and 
her  feet  warm  once  more.  Doe  was 
sitting  by  the  fiddler's  table,  and 
Cam  still  away  on  his  mission.  Holly 
felt  a  sudden  surge  of  compassion 
for  Doe,  and  she  left  the  floor  and 
went  to  her  and  kissed  her  cheek. 

''Cam  will  be  home  soon.  Doe, 
and  then  maybe  you'll  have  a 
baby.  .  .  ." 

The  hand  on  her  arm  was  Jesse's. 

"Shall  we  go  home,  Hohy  love?" 

Holly  turned  to  look  up  into 
Jesse's  face.  Home!  The  dugout 
over  the  hill.  Wagon,  log  cabin, 
stone  house  in  the  cedars.  A  place 
wrung  out  of  the  barren  wilderness. 
Home  was  where  Jesse  was,  no  mat- 
ter what.  He  would  be  called  to 
go  away  again  without  a  doubt,  and 
she  would  be  ready  to  let  him  go — 
ready  to  welcome  him  home  again. 
She  leaned  against  Jesse  and  smiled 
at  him,  the  baby  in  her  arms,  at 
last,  her  answer  came. 

"I'm  ready,  Jesse.  We're  ready," 
she  said. 


(glimpse  of  crii 


eaven 


Ruth  Lounshuiy 


We  hold  within  the  circle  of  our  home 
A  portion  of  our  Heavenly  Father's  grace, 
For  him  we  guide  each  child  to  us  endeared, 
We  catch  a  glimpse  of  heaven  in  each  face. 
On  family  night  we  pause  to  count  our  gifts, 
Each  one,  a  precious  jewel  of  priceless  worth. 
Our  kingdom,  reaching  far  beyond  this  sphere, 
Ls  anchored  in  our  home,  its  earthly  berth. 
How  sweet  the  ties  of  family  love  that  bind 
Each  soul  on  earth  to  those  in  heaven  above! 
When  kneeling  in  our  daily  family  prayer 
How  near  we  come  to  God's  own  perfect  love! 


t/t    I  ieed  for  LPatience 

Myitk  M.  Dean 


ONE  evening  I  called  to  visit  for  a  few 
moments  with  a  young  mother  who 
had  three  small  boys.  Iler  husband  was 
away  from  home  on  an  assignment  for 
the  government,  lea\  ing  her  with  the  full 
responsibility  of  the  children . 

She  invited  me  in,  and  as  we  sat  to 
talk  she  dropped  heavily  on  to  her  ehair. 
Tears  came  to  her  eyes  when  she  spoke. 

"At  last  the  children  are  all  in  bed  and 
asleep."  Then  she  continued,  "Oh,  how 
I  pray  for  patience,  CNCry  night." 

I  remembered  the  days  when  my  own 
children  were  small,  and  were  growing  up; 
how  difficult  it  was  to  meet  patiently  all 
the  daily  problems. 

"They  look  so  sweet  and  innocent 
when  they  are  asleep,  all  safe  for  the  night 
in  their  beds.  And  I  feel  ashamed  then 
that  I  have  been  so  impatient  with  their 
little,  mischievous  ways,"  the  young 
woman  said. 

I,  too,  know  the  regret  one  feels  for 
impatience.  As  a  child  kneels  at  your 
knee  to  repeat  his  prayer;  as  you  tuck 
him  in  bed  all  rosy  and  clean,  and  after 
a  good-night  kiss  he  soon  falls  asleep, 
then  a  great  thankfulness  fills  you  for 
your  children. 

I  smiled  at  the  mother  as  I  told  her, 
"You  ha\'e  found  the  secret  to  help  you 
with  your  problems — a  prayer  for  pa- 
tience." 

As  I  left  her,  I  thought  of  the  great 
need  each  of  us  has  for  patience  every 
day. 

Usually    it    is    the    mother    who    must 


keep  the  home  atmosphere  free  from  dis- 
turbance and  emotional  tensions.  She 
must  satisfy  the  family's  needs  for  food 
and  clothing;  their  surroundings  must  be 
kept  clean  and  comfortable.  Even  more 
important,  she  must  be  an  ever-ready 
spiritual  ad\'iser  when  a  need  arises.  A 
mother,  too,  must  undergo  the  ceaseless 
repetitions  of  daily  tasks,  and  intelligently 
answer  the  numerous,  persistent  questions 
of  a  family.  She  must  be  a  wise  arbiter 
of  their  childish  differences. 

To  attain  a  truly  peaceful  and  tranquil 
atmosphere  in  the  home,  one's  serenity 
must  be  genuine.  It  is  not  enough  to 
display  an  outward  composure  when  there 
is  an  undercurrent  of  seething  tension. 
Children  readily  discern  deception  or  pre- 
tense. It  is  only  by  continued  awareness 
that  a  habit  of  thoughtful  patience  may 
be  established. 

Just  as  a  flock  of  birds  congregating  in 
a  green  meadow  will  surely  be  put  to 
flight  by  a  sudden  sound  or  some  foreign 
object  coming  too  close  to  them,  so  will 
the  joy  be  banished  from  a  happy  heart, 
and  the  brightness  of  a  peaceful  day  be 
darkened  by  a  hasty  word  or  unkind  ac- 
tion. 

It  takes  courage  and  fortitude  to  curb 
impatient  words  and  impetuous  emotions. 
Through  a  sincere  prayer,  we  may  receive 
the  help  to  attain  to  the  patience  we  de- 
sire. Each  morning  at  the  beginning  of 
a  new  day,  a  prayer  will  give  strength 
and  courage.  A  prayer  e\'ery  night  will 
bring  gratitude,  comfort,  and  peace. 


(g. 


xpression 

Gene  Romolo 

Not  alone  man  speaks;  all  nature  \'oices, 
In  ^•a^ying  moods,  a  language  of  its  own, 
And  every  comprehending  soul  rejoices 
In  myriad  tongues  of  nature's  magic  tone. 

They  who  hearken  unto  nature's  language 
Receive  the  largess  of  a  boon  sublime. 
For  nature  gives  expressions  of  all  time. 
And  of  all  seasons,  and  far  and  near  are  flun^ 
Enchanting  strains  its  hlting  voice  has  sun§ 


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WHITE  AZALEAS 


ibnd  of  Summer 

Catheiine  E.  Berry 

How  fast  the  days  are  running  now, 

As  if  some  ghostly  winds 
Were  prodding  them  to  speed  ahead. 

Before  the  earth  rescinds 
The  httle  time  that  summer  has 

Before  the  cycle  turns. 
And  autumn  brings  her  caravan. 

And  every  leaf  pile  burns. 

The  August  days  are  flying  past 

The  calendar  of  hours, 
With  lavish  beauty  scattered  now 

In  carpets  starred  with  flowers. 
And  summer  spends  her  last  few  coins 

Each  blue-bright  day  and  night 
To  garner  all  the  earth  can  give, 

Before  her  final  flight. 


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T 


Queenie  Jenkins 
HE  snow  had  stopped  falling      family.     But  it  wasn't  that  way  at 


through  the  night  and  the 
brisk  wind  was  busily  tidying 
up  the  landscape  outside  the  Suther- 
land's kitchen,  where  Matty  was 
busy  preparing  breakfast;  and  in  the 
bathroom,  Kirk,  her  husband,  was 
doing  his  best  to  warble  ''The 
Donkey  Serenade"  melodiously  un- 
der the  cold  shower  and  not  making 
a  very  great  success  of  it. 

As  she  listened  to  him,  Matty 
mentally  stamped  her  foot.  How 
could  he  be  so  cheerful,  she 
wondered,  when  she  felt  so  down- 
hearted. This  was  their  first  Thanks- 
giving Day  in  America,  and  she  had 
hoped  they  would  spend  it  in  their 
own  quiet  home.  But  Kirk  had  had 
it  planned  to  the  last  detail  before 
he  told  her.  Yet,  she  might  have 
expected  it,  she  reminded  herself, 
because  back  home  in  Australia,  he 
had  described  Thanksgiving  in 
America  over  and  over  to  her. 

Dreamily  she  thought  back  to  the 
time  when  she  had  first  met  him. 
She  had  been  a  governess  on  an  iso- 
lated sheep  station  where  Kirk  was 
the  manager. 

She  had  thought  Australians  were 
the  tallest  men,  but  they  had  noth- 
ing on  Kirk.  He  stood  six  feet  six 
inches  in  his  socks.  Tall,  dark,  and 
handsome  described  him  perfectly. 
She  had  fallen  in  love  at  once. 

On  moonlight  nights,  when  they 
went  for  walks.  Kirk  had  told  her 
all  about  the  life  back  in  the  States. 
The  only  thing  he  hadn't  told  her, 
was  the  size  of  the  families.  She  had 
imagined    the    ordinary    Australian 

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all.  There  were  eight  brothers  and 
four  sisters  who  were  all  married 
and  had  large  families.  Since  she 
and  Kirk  were  the  only  ones  with- 
out a  family,  they  were  in  constant 
demand  to  help  out  with  this  or 
that. 

Then,  too,  she  had  been  inter- 
ested in  the  way  he  described  his 
Church.  From  what  she  could 
make  out,  the  entire  family  spent 
most  of  their  lives  in  Church  meet- 
ings. She  was  entranced  as  she 
listened  to  the  way  Latter-day  Saints 
loved  their  Church  and  all  attended 
the  meetings  together.  Then  Kirk 
had  said,  ''Oh,  darling,  you'll  love 
it,  too.  You  couldn't  help  it."  After 
a  year  of  married  life,  Matty  agreed 
with  him  wholeheartedly.  Never, 
in  all  her  life  had  she  experienced 
the  feeling  of  belonging  as  she  had 
among  the  saints. 

Each  time  she  met  them  she  ex- 
perienced the  same  warm  glow.  But, 
to  get  back  to  Thanksgiving  —  it 
seemed  like  the  Church;  it  was  a 
whole  family  affair.  Kirk  had  in- 
formed her  that  the  boys,  meaning 
his  brothers  and  himself,  would  be 
fixing  the  corral  fence,  and  Matty 
felt  as  though,  for  all  she  would  see 
of  her  husband,  they  might  have 
been  separated  with  one  at  the 
North  Pole  and  one  at  the  South 
Pole. 

Now,  as  Kirk  left  the  table  and 
passed  her  chair,  he  kissed  the  back 
of  her  neck  and  murmured  in  her 
ear,  "Know  something,  honey?" 

"What?"  asked  Matty. 


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'Tour  husband  loves  you  very 
much,  Sister  Sutherland,"  and  Mat- 
ty felt  the  same  old  thrill  as  she 
listened  to  him. 

''Kirk,  couldn't  we  .  .  ."  she  start- 
ed, then  stopped. 

''Couldn't  we  what,  sweetheart? 
Come  on,  tell  me  what  you  started 
to  say." 

"All  right,  I  will."  Matty  took  a 
deep  breath  and  then  let  it  out  in 
one  long  sentence.  "Couldn't  we 
just  forget  the  family  for  once  and 
go  away  on  our  own  somewhere?" 

Kirk  let  her  go  as  he  gasped, 
"Forget  the  family?  Not  go  to 
Thanksgiving  dinner?  Darling, 
you're  joking." 

"No,  Kirk,  Fm  not.  I've  been 
wanting  us  to  be  alone  and  some- 
how we  never  get  to  be.  Can't  you 
understand,  dear?" 

"Yes,  perhaps,  I  can  at  that." 

"Then  you  will?  Forget  them,  I 
mean,  just  this  once?" 

"No,  honey,  we  can't  do  that. 
Look,  let's  try  to  be  sensible.  Every- 
thing is  prepared.  Evervbody.  .  .  ." 

"Oh,  stop  it!"  cried  Nlatty.  "All 
right,  we'll  go.  Put  them  all  before 
me.  See  if  I  care."  Matty  burst  into 
4ears. 

Kirk  took  her  into  his  arms  and 
said,  "Darling,  what's  gone  wrong 
with  our  wonderful  day?" 

"That's  just  it,"  sobbed  Matty. 
"It  isn't  our  day." 

"Well,  listen,  we'll  just  go  along 
and  see  how  it  goes,  huh?  Just  to 
please  Mother?  You  know,  she 
loves  you  very  much,  and  wants  you 
every  bit  as  much  as  she  does  me. 
She's  planned  on  this  reunion  on 
Thanksgiving  all  those  years  while 
I  was  over  in  Australia.  We  can't 
let  her  down  now,  can  we?" 


"No,  I  guess  not,"  said  Matty  as 
she  followed  him  out  to  the  car. 

^O^HEN  they  arrived  at  Kirk's 
home,  his  mother  greeted  her 
lovingly  and  said,  "Oh,  I'm  so  glad 
you're  here.  Will  you  help  with 
the  twins?  You  have  such  a  wonder- 
ful way  with  them,  dear." 

Somehow,  those  few  words 
warmed  Matty's  heart,  so  that,  after 
dinner  when  the  children  had  left 
the  table  and  the  adult  members  of 
the  familv  were  sitting  there  quietly 
chatting,  Matty  said,  "Mother,  has 
anything  been  arranged  about 
Christmas  day?  I  mean,  where  we 
are  to  meet?" 

"Why,  no,  dear,  we  were  going 
to  discuss  that  over  dinner,  but  we 
didn't  get  around  to  it." 

Matty  found  Kirk's  hand  in  hers 
as  she  said,  "Then  whv  don't  vou 
all  come  over  to  our  place  and  cele- 
brate there?"  She  heard  Kirk's 
gasp,  "atta  girl,"  and  then  remem- 
bered nothing  more  until  she  found 
herself  in  bed,  with  the  doctor  son, 
Ralph,  standing  beside  the  bed, 
looking  at  her  with  a  wise  smile. 

"Well,  Matty,  you  gave  us  quite 
a  scare.  I'm  going  to  talk  to  that 
lankv  husband  of  vours  in  a  min- 
ute,  and  —  here  comes  Mother.  Fll 
see  you  later,  Matty" 

Suddenly,  Matty  found  herself  in 
tears  and  was  drawn  into  the  older 
woman's  arms,  \^■hile  the  latter  spoke 
soothingly  as  she  would  to  a  child. 
"You  are  all  right  now." 

"But,  what  happened.  Mother?" 

"Well,  dear,  first,  I  guess  we 
Sutherlands  have  been  getting  too 
much  for  you.    Is  that  right?" 

Matty  drew  away  and  asked  won- 
deringly,  "You  knew?" 


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The  older  woman  nodded,  'Tes, 
dear,  more  than  you  think.  I  went 
through  much  the  same  experience. 
When  I  married,  I  had  no  idea  what 
famity  hfe  meant  to  the  Latter-day 
Saints.  Let  me  try  to  explain  it  to 
you,  if  you're  not  too  tired?" 

Matty  nodded  and  lay  back  on 
the  pillows  as  Mother  Sutherland 
continued. 

'To  Latter-day  Saints,  family  life 
is  very  important.  Each  member  is 
a  unit,  and  all  units  blend  together 
to  make  a  perfect  whole.  There  is 
a  oneness  in  Latter-day  Saint  fami- 
lies that  is  not  often  found  outside 
the  Church.  All  are  bound  together 
with  divine  love,  the  same  love 
that  bound  the  pioneers  together 
and  enabled  them  to  make  the  trek 
to  the  Salt  Lake  Valley. 

"I'his  love  enabled  them  to  ful- 
fill the  promise  of  the  Prophet 
Isaiah  when  he  wrote  in  the  Bible, 
'and  the   desert    shall   rejoice,   and 


blossom  as  the  rose.'  And  it  isn't 
only  the  families  that  are  united  in 
this  way.  E\ery  family  is  a  unit  in 
the  Church  and  all  these  units, 
closely  bound  together  with  one 
purpose,  loving  and  serving  one  an- 
other, and  our  Heavenly  Father, 
make  the  Church  into  one  glorious 
\^'hole. 

"And  I  think  that  someday  soon, 
there's  going  to  be  a  new  unit  in 
your  family,  binding  you  and  Kirk 
together  into  a  firmer  oneness.  But 
now,"  she  paused,  "listen." 

And  softly,  wafting  upstairs, 
could  be  heard  the  blending  of 
voices  singing  the  last  part  of  the 
hymn  beloved  by  all  Latter-day 
Saints,  "All  is  well." 

Matty,  with  shining  eyes,  whis- 
pered, "Fm  a  lucky  girl,  to  have 
such  a  wonderful  mother  and  hus- 
band. I  am  grateful  to  my  Heaven- 
ly Father  for  leading  me  here  to 
you.    Truly,  all  is  well." 


Qjhei[  QJell  the  Ancient  ib/nis  cJociay 

Dorothy  J.  Roheits 

Watch,  for  they  fell  a  bygone  year, 
A  song,  the  touch  of  a  pioneer. 
See,  little  son,  from  the  root's  dim  hold 
Is  poured  a  mound  of  powdered  gold, 
And  a  seed's  long,  skyward  climb  toward  might 
Falls  like  a  meteor's  arch  in  the  night. 
Pause  with  me  and  count  the  rings; 
The  leaves  are  trembling;  no  bird  sings. 
Nine  pools  of  earth  on  the  lawn  lie  bare; 
Come  stand  in  the  noon's  unlidded  glare. 
The  shadow  and  veil  of  shade  torn  down, 
How  naked  the  sky  and  the  gabled  town. 
The  worm  of  age  has  found  the  wood. 
This  bower  where  we  dreamed  and  stood, 
These  boughs — once  winter  lutes  and  spars — 
These  twigs  that  caught  for  us  the  stars. 
Spring  still  lies  green  on  every  limb 
And  wakens  in  the  heart  a  hymn. 
These  scars  will  heal,  that  mar  the  grass; 
Your  sons  will  come;  strange  footsteps  pass. 
New  elms  will  lift  their  branches  up. 
Feathered  with  leaves  and  the  linnet's  cup. 


The  Bright  Star 

Chapter  6 
Doiothy  S.  Romney 


Synopsis:  Kathy  Tracy,  an  orphan  who 
wishes  to  become  an  artist,  hves  with  her 
Aunt  Emerald  Jewel  Tracy  in  an  old-fash- 
ioned house  ONcrlooking  San  Francisco 
Bay.  Kathy  plans  to  accept  a  position  in 
an  office  building  in  San  Francisco  owned 
by  Phineas  Fenton,  a  neighbor  and  friend 
of  the  family,  but  her  aunt  suffers  a  partial 
stroke  and  Kathy  remains  at  home  to  care 
for  her.  During  her  illness  Aunt  Em 
mentions  something  about  a  sea  chest  in 
the  China  house  and  a  Bright  Star,  which 
Kathy  feels  may  re\'eal  something  of  her 
parentage  and  her  past.  Her  romance 
with  Jim  Parker  gradually  becomes  of  less 
importance  to  her  and  finally  Jim  intro- 
duces Kathy  to  Lina  Carlson,  his  neighbor, 
in  whom  he  is  interested.  In  the  mean- 
time Marc  Hale,  a  stranger,  has  rented 
the  China  house,  and  one  day  while  visit- 
ing with  Aunt  Em  and  Kathy,  he  tells 
Kathy  that  the  picture  which  she  is  paint- 
ing for  an  art  contest  is  very  good.  At 
the  China  house  during  Marc's  temporary 
absence  Kathy  finds  the  Bright  Star,  a 
richly  embossed  locket. 

KATHY  wandered  into  the  liv- 
ing room,  the  sohtude  of  the 
old  gray  house  closing  all 
around  her.  At  times  she  liked  this 
feeling  of  aloofness,  but  not  today. 
The  finished  picture  was  on  the 
living-room  table.  There  were  wrap- 
pings in  the  table  drawer,  and  just 
enough  daylight  left  to  walk  into 
the  village,  mail  the  picture,  then 
see  Mr.  Rickson  about  that  job.  But 
she  was  afraid  she  wouldn't  ac- 
complish this  errand  today. 

She  was  cutting  the  string  on  the 
last  knot  of  the  package  when  Marta 
came  quietly  out  of  Miss  Em's  bed- 
room. "She's  asleep,"  she  an- 
nounced. ''What  was  all  the  excite- 
ment about?" 


'T  don't  know,"  Kathy  answered. 

''Mailing  a  package?"  Marta  asked. 

"I  wanted  to  —  it's  my  picture," 
she  explained,  "but  now.  ..." 

"Go  ahead,"  Marta  offered  gen- 
erously. "Ed's  pickup  truck  is  out- 
side. That  will  get  3^ou  there  and 
back  in  a  hurry.  Here's  the  key." 
She  handed  Kathy  a  kev-ring.  "I'll 
stay  until  you  come  back  —  fresh 
air'll  do  you  good." 

Kathy  took  the  key  with  a  grate- 
ful thanks,  got  her  package,  coin 
purse,  and  driver's  license,  and  hur- 
ried out  to  the  pickup.  She  had 
learned  to  drive  before  Miss  Em's 
old  car  had  fallen  apart. 

She  made  her  way  slowly  along 
Pine  Road,  taking  the  sharp  turns 
carefully.  Suddenly  she  drove  out 
of  the  fog  into  sunshine.  She  had 
begun  to  feel  dank  and  droopy  her- 
self. It  was  good  to  be  suddenly 
thrust  into  a  golden,  glimmery, 
faintly  dusty  world. 

She  stopped  at  the  post  office 
first,  mailed  her  package,  then 
walked  to  the  souvenir  shop.  Her 
heart  sank  as  she  entered  the  shop. 
Mr.  Rickson  was  nowhere  in  sight, 
and  there  was  a  young  girl  in  charge. 
I'm  too  late,  she  thought,  he's 
already  hired  someone. 

"Hi,"  the  girl  said,  "remember 
me?  I'm  Roni  Rickson.  I  met  you 
at  a  music  festival  in  the  village  last 
year. 

Kathy  nodded,  and  the  girl  ex- 
plained, "Dad  thinks  I'm  too  young 
to  be  left  here  alone,  but  he  had 

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to  go  into  the  city  on  urgent  busi- 
ness. He  hasn't  been  able  to  find 
anyone  wilhng  to  work  part  time 
yet,  and  that's  all  the  help  he  can 
afford  to  hire/'  Roni  chattered  on. 

This  was  good  news.  Kathy  made 
a  small  purchase  out  of  the  coin 
purse  in  her  pocket,  and  bade  Roni 
goodbye,  thinking,  I'll  be  back  first 
thing  in  the  morning. 

CHE  remembered  Aunt  Em  had 
^  wanted  a  certain  book  from  the 
library.  She  turned  her  footsteps 
in  that  direction.  Kathy  found  the 
book,  and  was  returning  to  the 
street  door,  when  the  figure  of  Marc 
Hale  caught  her  eye.  She  was  close 
enough  to  him  to  see  that  he  was 
looking  over  a  file  of  yellowed  news- 
papers, so  absorbed  he  was  appar- 
ently oblivious  to  all  else.  She 
wouldn't  disturb  him. 

She  walked  out  to  the  pickup,  and 
started  along  Pine  Road.  She  tried 
to  concentrate  on  other  things,  but 
her  mind  kept  returning  to  Marc 
and  his  absorption  in  his  task. 

Marta  greeted  her:  "Jim  Parker 
was  here.  Seemed  to  have  some- 
thing on  his  mind.  Said  he'd  come 
back  later." 

''Hmm,"  Kathy  murmured,  "I 
wonder.  .  .  ." 

She  thanked  Marta  and  bade  her 
goodnight,  then  settled  herself  in 
the  living  room.  She'd  learned  to 
respect  her  moments  of  solitude 
and  to  use  them  wisely.  There 
were  a  dozen  or  more  mending  jobs 
to  be  gotten  out  of  the  way.  Then 
her  hand  slipped  into  her  sweater 
pocket.  Aunt  Em's  Bright  Star!  She 
moved  to  a  stool  near  the  flickering 
flames  of  the  fire  Marta  had  built 
in  the  fireplace,  and  unwrapped  the 
small  package.  She'd  never  have  any 


peace  of  mind  until  she  looked  at  it, 
she  knew. 

It  was  a  large,  expensive  looking 
locket,  diamonds  sparkling  from  its 
entire  star-shaped  surface.  Kathy 
took  a  deep  breath,  and  pressed 
open  the  back.  Inside  was  a  tinted 
picture  of  a  man  and  a  woman.  The 
woman  had  the  exact  shade  of  red 
hair  as  her  own.  ''My  father  and 
mother,"  she  whispered,  unable  to 
mistake  the  resemblance.  "Marie 
and  Phineas  Fenton,  Jr.,"  was  en- 
graved on  the  gold  back  of  the 
locket. 

"Phineas  Fenton,  Jr.,"  she  repeat- 
ed again,  so  dazed  to  see  her  par- 
ents for  the  first  time  she  didn't  stop 
to  analyze  fully  what  the  name 
meant. 

She  examined  their  every  feature, 
an  ache  in  her  heart  to  think  that 
she  had  never  known  them.  After 
a  time,  she  walked  to  the  corner  of 
the  room  and  opened  the  lid  of  the 
huge  Chinese  chest.  For  a  mo- 
ment she  simply  stood  there,  her 
eyes  brooding  on  past  memories. 
She  could  see  herself  sitting  on 
Grandfather  Tracy's  knee,  his  arm 
held  lovingly  about  her,  as  he  slowly 
unfolded  his  fascinating  tales  of  far- 
away places.  Places  with  names  that 
rang  like  bells,  bronze  bells  in  an- 
cient temples,  silver  ones  on  cor- 
nices of  pagodas  standing  tall  above 
rice  swamps  —  China.  Memories 
of  herself  and  Aunt  Em  sitting  in 
the  eight-sided  cupola  patiently 
watching  for  Grandfather's  ship  to 
round  into  the  Golden  Gate.  Final- 
ly, the  ship  moving  toward  them 
out  of  the  fog,  phosphorescence 
round  it  making  silvery  fire,  and 
each  approaching  swell  gleaming 
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525 


the  blast  of  the  horn  as  the  ship 
passed  through  the  ''Gate/'  signify- 
ing all  was  well. 

Yes,  memories  that  she  treasured 
as  much  as  she  treasured  Aunt  Em's 
love  and  devotion,  she  thought.  In 
her  heart  she  was  a  Tracy,  and 
would  be  always,  loving  the  old  gray 
house,  Aunt  Em,  and  the  things 
she  had  taught  her  —  her  values 
crystal  clear,  her  loyalties  true.  Of 
these  things  she  was  sure. 

"DUT  how  strange  to  realize  that 
she  was  really  a  Fenton.  Was 
it  possible  that  she  was  actually  old 
Phin's  granddaughter?  But  why,  she 
wondered,  had  he  never  acknowl- 
edged their  relationship?  Or  was  it 
because  he  had  never  known  who 
she  was?  She  remembered  hearing, 
years  ago,  that  Phineas  had  quarreled 
with  his  elder  son  over  some  trivial 
matter.  Grandfather  Tracy  had  de- 
clared that  it  was  old  Phin's  stub- 
bornness that  had  caused  the  rift 
between  the  two.  She  remembered, 
too,  allusions  to  a  quarrel  between 
Phineas  and  Grandfather  Tracy  be- 
cause Grandfather  had  taken  the 
son's  part  in  this  matter  —  the  only 
quarrel  in  a  lifelong  friendship. 
There  had  never  been  any  mention 
of  her  being  a  relative  of  old  Phin's, 
however. 

She  looked  at  the  locket  closely, 
and  thought  of  the  many  things  she 
could  buy  if  she  sold  it.  It  was 
undoubtedly  extremely  valuable.  It 
would  probably  pay  for  continued 
nursing  care  for  Aunt  Em  and  that 
year  in  art  school.  For  a  moment 
she  was  tempted,  but  no,  she'd  bury 
the  locket  and  her  identity  with  it, 
deep  down  beneath  the  piles  of  silk- 
en kimonos  and  trinkets;  these  treas- 
ured gifts  that  she  had  long  since 


outgrown,  but  could  never  bear  to 
part  with.  If  she  was  really  Phineas 
Fenton's  granddaughter  and  he 
didn't  want  to  acknowledge  her,  she 
would  do  nothing  to  call  his  atten- 
tion to  their  relationship. 

''No  one  need  ever  know  that  I've 
found  Aunt  Em's  Bright  Star!" 

She  had  just  closed  the  lid  of  the 
chest  when  the  doorbell  rang.  Jim, 
she  thought,  as  she  went  to  answer 
it. 

Kathy  and  Jim  talked  earnestly 
for  a  long  time.  He  had  come  to 
offer  to  release  Kathy  from  their 
engagement. 

'Td  never  give  you  up,"  he  said 
seriously,  "but  I've  finally  realized 
that  you  don't  really  love  me,  and 
it's  foolish  to  hold  you  to  your 
promise." 

Jim  was  right,  of  course,  Kathy 
concluded.  She  was  glad  he  had 
the  courage  to  admit  what  he  knew 
to  be  true.  He  was  too  honest  a  per- 
son to  hold  her  to  a  bargain  she 
didn't  want  to  keep. 

'Tour  new  neighbor,  Jim,"  she 
said,  "tell  me  about  her." 

"She's  a  very  fine  girl,"  he  told 
her.  "A  recent  convert  from  Swed- 
en, and  terribly  lonesome,  over  here 
all  alone." 

"I  think  she's  in  love  with  you, 
Jim,"  she  said.  "I  think  she'd  make 
you  a  splendid  wife." 

"She  does  need  someone  .  .  ." 
Jim  said  slowly,  as  though  thinking 
it  over. 

"Promise  me  one  thing,"  Kathy 
said,  "whether  you  marry  Lina  or 
someone  else  —  that  you  will  never 
marry  outside  the  temple." 

Jim  gave  her  his  solemn  promise. 

*     *     *     * 

ORIGHT  and  early  one  morning  a 
few  days  later  Marc  Hale  pre- 


526  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 

sented  himself  at  the  kitchen  door,  out  of  the  house  to  make  sure  he 

Kathy  and  Aunt  Em  had  just  sat  didn't  have  any  more  surprises  for 

down  to  their  breakfast  of  hot  muf-  Aunt  Em. 

fins,  honey,  and  milk.  'T\\  be  glad  to." 

"May  I  come  in?"  he  asked.    He  "Fine.     Now,   would  you   mind 

looked  so  serious  Kathy  hoped  he  putting   some  wood   in   the   stove? 

wouldn't    go    upsettmg    Aunt    Em  Keep  things  nice  and  warm  until  we 

with  anythmg  unpleasant.    Besides,  get  back,"  said  Kathy.  She  walked 

she  wanted  to  get  into  the  village  to   the   hall   closet   and   selected  a 

soon,  and  had  no  tmie  to  visit  this  jacket.    The  morning  was  cool,  with 

morning.      .  a  hint  of  rain. 

"Sit  down   and  let  Kathy  bring  ^^^^  ^'^^^^  ^'^'  ^^"^'s  cheek,  and 

you  a  hot  muffin,"  Aunt  Em  mvit-  assured  her  they  wouldn't  be  gone 

^^  too  long.      Ihe  sky  was  slate  gray 

T^  ,1     ,     1     ,    ,  1             ,1       ^  when  thev  left  the  house,  the  ocean 

Katny  looked  at  her  aunt  sharply.  ,         i.      '       i  •.            u      i  •            u 

t.,          -^     ,               ,         1    1  •    1   , r  tumultous,  whitecaps   breaking  not 

^he  sensed  somewhere  behind  the  re.        c    I  c         i.i     r>i  •      i 

f.         .       ,         .  .                               ,  hrteen  teet  trom  the  China  house, 
forced   calm   ot  her  voice,  a  great 

anxiety,     even     a     fear,     carefully  jyf ARC   drove   slowly  along   Pme 

screened.  Road.    He  gave  Kathy  a  side- 

The  young  man  sat  down,  accept-  long  look.  "That  was  clever  of  you 
ed  the  muffin  Kathy  brought,  and  to  get  me  out  of  the  house.  How- 
spread  it  lavishly  with  honey.  He  ever,  I  wasn't  going  to  say  anything 
laid  a  folded  newspaper  on  the  table,  to  excite  Miss  Em.    It's  you  I  want 

Aunt  Em  took  the  paper,  started  to  talk  to." 

to  read  from  the  back  page,  then  Kathy  nodded  her  head  in  solemn 

chuckled.  "It's  Jim/'  she  said.  "He's  agreement    and    waited    for    what 

going  to  marry  his  new  neighbor,  Marc  had  to  say. 

the  young  lady  who  raises  chickens."  "You   must  know  by  now   that 

Kathy  had  said  nothing  to  her  you're  not  really  Miss  Em's  niece," 
aunt  about  her  talk  with  Jim,  and  he  stated  bluntly.  "Your  father  was 
the  broken  engagement,  for  fear  of  Phineas  Fenton,  Jr.,  old  Phin's  eld- 
exciting  her.  er     son.     For     some     reason     they 

"Yes,  I  know,"  Kathy  said  quietly,  quarreled.  .  .  ."  His  voice  trailed  off. 

Marc  Hale  looked  first  at  Kathy  "Yes,   I  know  who   I   am,"   said 

and  then  at  her  aunt,  utter  astonish-  Kathy.    "I  found  Aunt  Em's  Bright 

ment  written  on  his  face.    "I  must  Star  several  days  ago." 

say  you're  taking  it  calmly,"  he  said.  "Aunt  Em's  Bright  Star?"  Marc 

"It's  all  right,"  Kathy  said,  almost  repeated, 

thankfully.     "Jim  and  I  had  a  long  "A    star-shaped    locket    with    my 

talk    the    other    night."     She    was  parents'  pictures  and  names,"  Kathy 

grateful  that  Jim  had  done  the  sen-  explained.    "I  knew  who  they  were 

sible  thing,  as  usual.  the  minute  I  looked  at  it."    There 

Kathy    commenced    clearing   the  was  no  joy  or  emotion  in  her  voice, 

breakfast  dishes.    "Like  to  drive  me  "I'll  tell  you  about  it  later." 

into  the  village?"  she  asked  Marc.  They  were   entering  the  village, 

It  would  be  a  way  of  getting  him  and   Kathy   directed   Marc  to  The 


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527 


souvenir  shop.  "V\l  be  just  a  little 
while/'  she  promised.  But  she  re- 
mained in  the  shop  almost  half  an 
hour,  and  when  she  finally  came  out 
and  climbed  into  the  coupe,  her  face 
was  aglow.  ''Mission  accomplished/' 
she  said. 

It  had  begun  to  rain,  and  the 
huge  spatters  flattened  themselves 
furiously  on  the  highway.  Marc 
leaned  over  the  wheel  in  his  effort 
to  see  clearly  through  the  stuttering 
windshield  wiper.  Finally,  they 
reached  the  wooded  area  just  be- 
yond the  gray  house.  The  ocean 
came  into  view  for  the  first  time, 
and  both  Kathy  and  Marc  caught 
their  breath  at  the  beauty  of  it:  the 


rain — a  fairy  shower,  with  each  huge 
separate  droplet  striking  the  water 
like  a  pearl. 

Marc  slowed  the  car.  Suddenly 
he  put  his  hand  over  Kathy's  warm 
fingers.  'Tour  mother,  Marie  Fen- 
ton,  was  my  mother's  best  friend.  I 
found  the  record  of  your  birth  in 
the  newspaper  files.  With  Old 
Phin  away  on  his  ships  all  the  time, 
and  Frank,  Grace's  husband  still  a 
child,  in  care  of  a  nurse,  it's  not 
surprising  that  they  knew  nothing 
of  your  existence.  I  suppose  you'll 
want  to  claim  your  rightful  place 
now."  Marc  looked  at  Kathy 
searchingly. 

{To  be  concluded) 


cJo  ^ytiv^  Lrarent 

Christie  Lund  Coles 

You  will  never  forget, 
And  your  child  will  long  remember, 
The  home-baked  loaf  of  bread 
Stories  by  the  fire's  ember; 

The  spontaneous  song  you  sang, 
The  games  you  found  for  playing, 
Your  assuring  step  at  night, 
The  moment  bent  in  praying; 

Autumn  hikes  upon  the  hill, 
Picnics  in  golden  weather. 
The  di\iding  time  comes  soon, 
Laugh  well  these  days  together. 


C/ lowers  and  (^  hud  ten 

Ceiia  Luce 

A  flower  must  be  carefully  tended.  The  weeds  must  be  pulled  away  from  it,  and 
the  flower  watered  and  fertilized.     Then  it  must  be  left  alone. 

A  plant  that  is  roughly  handled  becomes  warped  and  dwarfed.  A  flower  that  is 
held  too  close  is  crushed  and  fades  quickly. 

Children  are  like  flowers.  They  must  have  proper  care.  They  thri\e  in  an  environ- 
ment full  of  love  and  proper  character  training. 

Like  flowers,  children  must  not  be  held  too  close.  They  must  learn  to  make  their 
own  decisions  and  hve  by  them.  They  must  be  set  free  to  live  their  own  lives.  Parents 
who^  hold  their  children  too  close,  who  try  to  make  all  decisions  for  them  and  live 
their  lives  for  them,  find,  to  their  sorrow,  that  they  have  stunted  their  children. 


Q>elected  'JUata — Kyinnual  LKeport  ig^G 

THE  year  1956  has  been  another  year  of  growth  and  progress  in  the  program  of  Relief 
Society  throughout  the  Church  as  reflected  in  the  annual  report.  The  blessings 
of  this  great  organization,  described  by  the  First  Presidency  in  1942  as  "a  unique 
organization  in  the  whole  world,"  have  been  extended  to  increasing  numbers  of  moth- 
ers and  homemakers  throughout  the  Church.  The  basic  purposes  of  the  organization 
ha\e  been  perpetuated  and  through  them  testimonies  have  been  strengthened,  converts 
have  been  brought  into  the  Church,  inactive  sisters  have  again  realized  the  joy  of 
service  and  activity,  comfort  has  been  brought  to  the  bereaved,  sick,  and  homebound, 
assistance  has  been  rendered  to  the  needy,  and  intellectual  and  cultural  growth  has  been 
enjoyed  by  the  sisters.  Both  the  narrative  and  statistical  reports  received  from  the 
Relief  Societies  in  the  235  stakes  and  forty-five  missions  of  the  Church  reveal  these  facts. 

The  year  1956  has  brought  to  the  Relief  Society  its  largest  rate  of  increase  in 
membership  since  the  Centennial  year,  1942.  This  increase  of  9,209  makes  a  total 
membership  of  172,722,  which  includes  32,278  sisters  in  the  missions  and  140,444 
in  the  stakes. 

Growth  is  also  evidenced  through  the  202  additional  local  societies  organized  dur- 
ing the  year,  making  a  total  of  3,938  ward  and  branch  Relief  Societies.  These  organiza- 
tions are  distributed  throughout  each  of  the  forty-eight  states  in  the  United  States, 
Alaska,  Hawaii,  the  District  of  Columbia,  and  thirty-three  foreign  countries. 

The  average  attendance  at  regular  meetings  has  shown  an  increase  of  6.56  per  cent, 
v/ith  the  greatest  percentage  of  increase  being  in  the  stakes.  The  theology  meetings 
continue  to  lead  in  attendance,  followed  in  order  by  the  literature,  work,  and  social 
science  meetings.  However,  the  greatest  rate  of  increase  during  1956  was  in  the  social 
science  meetings,  which  had  an  increase  of  9.03  per  cent. 

The  lives  of  34,621  sisters  were  enriched  through  participation  in  2,299  Singing 
Mothers  choruses,  which  was  an  increase  of  294  choruses  over  1955,  with  3,638  more 
singers. 

There  has  been  a  marked  increase  in  visiting  teaching  activities,  both  in  attend- 
ance at  visiting  teacher  meetings  and  in  the  visits  to  the  homes.  The  attendance  at  visit- 
ing teacher  meetings  has  increased  8.23  per  cent  over  1955.  The  general  growth  in  the 
organization  has  resulted  in  2,123  additional  visiting  teacher  districts  with  2,941,430 
visits  being  made  to  Latter-day  Saint  homes  by  69,984  visiting  teachers.  This  was  an 
increase  of  144,166  visits  over  1955,  made  by  4,472  more  teachers.  This  consistent 
trend  of  increased  activity  in  visiting  teaching  is  an  indication  of  the  continued  emphasis 
being  given  to  this  vital  part  of  the  Relief  Society  program  which  is,  no  doubt,  un- 
paralleled throughout  the  world.  This  program  of  carrying  a  spiritual  message  into 
each  Latter-day  Saint  home  every  month  and  of  "searching  after  objects  of  charity," 
as  counseled  by  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith,  is  one  of  the  major  activities  of  the  society. 

During  1956,  the  members  of  Relief  Society  have  manifested  the  true  spirit  of  the 
organization  through  their  unselfish  service  in  administering  to  the  sick  and  sorrowing 
and  their  uplifting  visits  to  the  homebound.  This  is  evidenced  through  the  255,719 
visits  made  to  the  sick  and  homebound  and  the  26,148  days  care  of  the  sick.  These 
figures,  however,  do  not  include  the  innumerable  services  rendered  by  faithful  sisters 
who  go  into  the  homes  of  those  in  distress  and  help  care  for  the  needs  of  the  family, 
who  bring  in  a  warm  meal  or  take  back  to  their  own  homes  household  duties  that  could 
not  be  done  in  the  homes  of  the  sick.  Thus,  the  promise  made  by  the  Prophet  Joseph 
Smith  at  the  fifth  meeting  of  the  society  continues  to  be  realized  and  continues  as  the 
great  and  fundamental  work  of  the  society:  "This  is  the  beginning  of  better  days  to 
the  poor  and  the  needy  who  shall  be  made  to  rejoice  and  pour  forth  blessings  on  your 
heads." 


Genera]  Secretary- Treasurer 
Page  52§  ' 


ANNUAL  REPORT 


529 

TOTAL  L.D.S.  MEMBERSHIP 

1955  1956  Increase 

L.D.S.  Families  334,906        347,752     +   12,846 

R.S.  Members  163.513        172,722     +     9,209 


In  Stakes 

1955 

1956           Increase 

L.D.S.  Families 

276,077 

286,199     +   10,122 

R.  S.  Members 

133,228 

140,444     +     7,216 

In  Missions 

1955 

1956           Increase 

L.D.S.  Families 

58,829 

61,553     +     2,724 

R.  S.  Members 

30,285 

32,278     +     1,993 

LEADERSHIP 

109,815  Relief  Society  Members  Participated  in 
Leadership  Activities  —  1956 

103,467  in  1955 

1955  1956 

General  Officers  26  25 

Stake  Officers  2,579  2,725 

Mission  Officers  697  735 

Local  Executive  Officers  13,882  14,547 

Other  Officers  7,309  7,652 

Class  Leaders 13,462  14,147 

Visiting  Teachers  65,512  69,984 


530 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


GEOGRAPHIC  DISTRIBUTION  OF  RELIEF  SOCIETY 
ORGANIZATIONS  AND  MEMBERS— 1956 


Location 

< 

Stakes 

Missions 

Total 

Organi- 

' Members 

Organi- 

Members 

Organi- 

Members 

zations 

zations 

zations 

United  States 

and  Territories 

Alabama 

15 

208 

15 

208 

Alaska 

6 

167 

6 

167 

Arizona 

122 

7,045 

13 

210 

135 

7,255 

Arkansas 

8 

128 

8 

128 

California 

310 

19,529 

40 

1,056 

350 

20,585 

Colorado 

yi 

1,864 

19 

280 

56 

2,144 

Connecticut 

4 

97 

4 

97 

Delaware 

3 

52 

3 

52 

District  of 

Columbia 

3 

151 

3 

151 

Florida 

10 

368 

37 

723 

47 

1,091 

Georgia 

3 

93 

20 

447 

23 

540 

Hawaii 

17 

833 

42 

817 

59 

1,650 

Idaho 

340 

20,656 

7 

96 

347 

20,752 

Illinois 

8 

346 

28 

474 

36 

820 

Indiana 

1 

36 

24 

600 

25 

636 

Iowa 

11 

225 

11 

225 

Kansas 

18 

315 

18 

315 

Kentucky- 

21 

335 

21 

335 

Louisiana 

11 

262 

8 

179 

19 

441 

Maine 

10 

147 

10 

147 

Maryland 

4 

236 

1 

21 

5 

257 

Massachusetts 

14 

232 

14 

232 

Michigan 

9 

302 

5 

119 

14 

421 

Minnesota 

17 

367 

17 

367 

Mississippi 

7 

118 

10 

162 

17 

280 

Missouri 

22 

528 

22 

528 

Montana 

13 

394 

52 

1,216 

65 

1,610 

Nebraska 

14 

260 

14 

260 

Nevada 

45 

2,503 

45 

2,503 

New  Hampshire 

4 

42 

4 

42 

New  Jersey 

2 

100 

5 

137 

7 

237 

New  Mexico 

17 

648 

35 

632 

52 

1,280 

New  York 

5 

276 

21 

412 

26 

688 

North  Carolina 

43 

876 

43 

876 

North  Dakota 

5 

54 

5 

54 

Ohio 

1 

36 

25 

554 

26 

590 

Oklahoma 

21 

349 

21 

349 

Oregon 

60 

3,007 

23 

531 

h?> 

3,538 

Pennsylvania 

1 

43 

28 

479 

29 

522 

Rhode  Island 

.2 

17 

2 

17 

ANNUAL  REPORT 

531 

Location 

Stakes 

Missions 

1 

Total 

Organi- 

- Members 

Organi- 

Members 

Organi 

-  Members 

zations 

zations 

zations 

South  Carolina 

12 

459 

10 

140 

22 

599 

South  Dakota 

9 

126 

9 

126 

Tennessee 

14 

208 

14 

208 

Texas 

44 

1.217 

38 

636 

82 

1,853 

Utah 

956 

70,959 

956 

70,959 

Vermont 

3 

31 

3 

31 

Virginia 

5 

279 

24 

489 

29 

768 

Washington 

66 

3,144 

8 

166 

74 

3.310 

West  Virginia 

8 

198 

8 

198 

Wisconsin 

3 

119 

11 

158 

14 

277 

Wyoming 

54 

2,835 

15 

279 

69 

3,114 

Total 

United  States 

2,166 

137,858 

821 

15,975 

2,987 

153,833 

Other  Countries 

Argentina 

22 

539 

22 

539 

Australia 

28 

656 

28 

656 

Austria 

6 

126 

6 

126 

Belgium 

11 

115 

11 

115 

Brazil 

19 

235 

19 

235 

Canada 

58 

2,443 

67 

1,379 

125 

3,822 

Costa  Rica 

2 

19 

2 

19 

Denmark 

17 

385 

17 

385 

El  Salvador 

3 

46 

3 

46 

England 

75 

1,050 

75 

1,050 

Finland 

17 

337 

17 

337 

France 

16 

112 

16 

112 

Germany,  East  ( 

;i955) 

97 

3,727 

97 

3,727 

Germany,  West 

70 

913 

70 

913 

Guatemala 

8 

130 

8 

130 

Honduras 

2 

39 

2 

39 

Ireland 

4 

65 

4 

65 

Japan 

36 

262 

36 

262 

Mexico 

4 

143 

56 

1.259 

60 

1,402 

Netherlands 

20 

268 

20 

268 

New  Zealand  (1955) 

70 

998 

70 

998 

Nicaragua 

2 

14 

2 

14 

Norway 

12 

340 

12 

340 

Panama  Canal  Zone 

2 

27 

2 

27 

Puerto  Rico 

2 

24 

2 

24 

Samoa 

55 

700 

55 

700 

Scotland 

6 

84 

6 

84 

Sweden 

40 

535 

40 

535 

Switzerland 

27 

402 

27 

402 

Tahiti 

10 

189 

10 

189 

Tonga 

40 

662 

40 

662 

Union  of  South  Africa 

16 

199 

16 

199 

Uruguay 

26 

424 

26 

424 

Wales 

5 

43 

5 

43 

Total 

62 

Other  Countries 

2,586 

889 

16,303 

951 

18,889 

GRAND 

TOTAL 

2,228 

140,444 

1,710 

32,278 

3,938 

172,722 

532 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


VISITING  TEACHER  SERVICE 

1955  1956  Increase 

Total  Family  Visits    2,797,264     2,941,430     +144,166 

Visiting  Teachers         65,512  69,984     +     4,472 

35,045         37,168     +     2,123 


Districts 
Families  Visited 
At  Home 
Not  Home 


1,873,610     1,963,269     +  89,659 

923,654       978,161     +  54,507 

9.46  Av.  visits  were  made  to  each  L.D.S.  family  in  1956 
8.35  In  1955 


VISITING  TEACHER  MEETINGS 

1955  1956  Increase 

Av.  Attend,  in  Stakes      29,401  31,391     -f     1,990 

Av.  Attend,  in  Missions    3,837  4,584     +        747 

Total  Av.  Attend.  33,238  35,975     +     2,737 


COMPASSIONATE  SERVICE 


Visits  to  Sick  and 
Homebound 

Days  Care  of  Sick 

Number  of  Funerals 
at  Which  Relief 
Society  Assisted 

Dressing  for  Burial 


1955 

247,878 
25,510 


7,168 
656 


1956 


Increase 


255,719  + 
26,148  4- 


7,371  + 
726  4- 


7,841 
638 


203 
70 


ANNUAL  REPORT 


533 


CONSOLIDATED  FINANCIAL  REPORT  FOR 
STAKES  AND  MISSIONS 

Receipts  and  Disbursements  —  1956 

Cash  Balance  on  Hand.  January  1  $  L163.953.92 

Receipts 1.881.499.29 

$  3.045.453.21 

Disbursements 1.804.669.17 

Cash  Balance  on  Hand.  December  31  1.240.784.04 


Assets  and  Liabilities  —  December  31,  1956 

Assets 

Cash  Balance  on  Hand.  December  31  $  1.240.784.04 

Wheat  Trust  Fund  Deposited  at 

Presiding  Bishops  Office  . .. 422.912.22 

Other  Invested  Funds  (Savings  Bonds,  etc.) 72,822.76 

Real  Estate  and  Buildings 91.721.09 

Furniture  and  Fixtures 897,038.70 

Other  Assets 176.537.86 

Total  Assets  $  2.901.816.67 

Liabilities 

Accounts  Pavable  $  990.95 

Balance  Net  Worth 2.900.825.72 

Total  Liabilities  and  Net  Worth $  2.901.816.67 


COMPARATIVE  FINANCIAL  AND  STATISTICAL  DATA 

1955-1956 

1 956  1 955      Changes  1 955  to  1 956 

Number    Number     Number 


or  or 

Amount    Amount 


or 
Amount 


Per  Cent 


Organizations 

Stakes  and  Missions.  Total 280 

Stakes   235 

Missions    45 

Local  Organizations 3.938 

Wards  and  Branches  in  Stakes  2.228 

Branches  in  Mission  1.710 

Membership,  Total  172.722, 

Stakes 140.444 

Missions 32.278 

General  Officers  and 

Board  Members  25 

Stake  Officers  and 

Board  Members  2.725 

Mission  Presidents  and 

Other  Officers  735 

Ward  and  Branch 

Executive  Officers  14.547 


267 

223 

44 

3,736 

2.104 

1.632 


+ 
I 


+ 


13 
12 

1 

202 

124 

7% 


+ 

I 

T 


+ 


U?>22%  4- 

26  — 

2.579  4- 

697  + 


7.216  -I- 
1.993  ^ 


4.87 

227 
5.41 
5.89 

4.78 


163.513     4-     9.209  +     5.63 


5.42 
6.58 


1  —  2>.^5 

146  -i-  5.66 

38  +  5.45 

665  4-  4.79 


534 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


1956  1955     Changes  1955  to  1956 

Number  Number     Number 

or  or                 or 

Amount  Amount   .  Amount      Per  Cent 


343  +  4.69 

685  +  5.09 

4,472  +  6.83 

2.861   4-  4.76 


2  1.67 

253  +  4.92 

53  +  1.84 

200  4-  8.86 


Other  Officers 7.652  7,309     + 

Class  Leaders 14.147  13,462     + 

-  Visiting  Teachers 69,984  65,512     + 

All  Other  Members 62,907  60,046     + 

L.D.S,  Families— Total  347,752  334,906     -f   12,846  +     3.84 

In  Stakes 286,199  276,077     +   10,122  +     3.67 

In  Missions  - 61,553  58,829     +     2,724  +     4.63 

Meetings  and  Attendance 

L  Meetings  Held,  Total  191,591  181,651     +     9,940+     5.47 

General  Board  Meetings  33  31      +            2  -f     6.45 

Relief  Society  General 

Conference  1  1                   —              — 

Group  Stake  Conventions  .-..  122  120     -f- 

In  Stakes  and  Missions  5,394  5,141     -f 

Stake  and  Mission  District 

Board  Meetings  -- 2,936  2,883     + 

Stake  and  Ward  OfEicers 

(Union)  Meetings  .-. 2,458  2,258     -f 

In  Wards  and  Branches 186,041  176,358     -f     9,683  +     5.49 

Regular  Meetings  for 

Members  -- 127,172  120.008     +     7,164  +     5.97 

March,  November  Sundays 

and  Other  Special 

Meetings  -..- 13,547  12.959 

Visiting  Teacher  Meetings  21.473  1 9.790 

Preparation  Meetings  18,507  18,496 

Relief  Society  Conferences.  3.302  3,192 
R.  S.  Conf.  Preliminary 

Meetings 2,040  1,913 

2.  Average  Attendance  at  Reg- 
ular Meetings  for  Members  ....  62,477  58,633 

In  Stakes  50,023  46,599 

In  Missions 12,454  12,034 

3.  Percent  of  Members  Repre- 
sented by  Average  Attendance 

at  Regular  Meetings  36.17%  35.86% 

In  Stakes  35.62%  34.98% 

In  Missions  38.58%  39.74% 

4.  Average  Attendance  at  Visit- 
ing Teachers  Meetings 35,975  33,238 

5.  Per  Cent  of  Visiting  Teachers 
Represented   by   Average    At- 
tendance     51.40%  50.74% 


+ 

588 

+ 

4.54 

+ 

1,683 

4- 

8.50 

4- 

11 

4- 

.06 

+ 

110 

4- 

3.45 

+ 

127 

4- 

6.64 

4- 

3,844 

4- 

6.56 

+ 

3,424 

+ 

7.34 

+ 

420 

4- 

3.49 

+     2,737  +     8.23 


ANNUAL  REPORT 


535 


1 956  1 955     Changes  1 955  to  1 956 

Number  Number     Number 

or  or                or 

Amount  Amount     Amount      Per  Cent 

Visits  by  Stake  and  Mission  OfiEicers 

1.  To  Wards  and  Branches  26,760         24,864     4-     1,896  -f     7.63 

To  Wards  by  Stake  Officers..  20,887         19,309     +     1,578  +     8.17 

To  Branches  by  Mission  and 
District  Officers  5,873  5,555     +        318  -|-     5.72 

Activities 

1.  Visiting  Teaching: 

Number    of   Visiting    Teacher 

Districts    -- 37,168         35,045     +     2,123  +     6.06 

Family  Visits  —  Total  2,941,430  2,797,264  +144,166+  5.15 

Home 1,963,269  1,873,610  +89,659+  4.79 

Not  Home 978,161  923,654  +  54,507  +  5.90 

Per  Cent  at  Home  66.75%  66.98% 

Number  of  Communications  in 

Lieu  of  Visits 51,019        42,798     +     8,221  +   19.21 

2.  Educational  Meetings: 
Average  Attendance  at  ReUef 

Society 

Theology 67,770         63,746     +     4,024  +     6.31 

Work   60,747         58,019     +     2,728  +     4.70 

Literature   60,803         56,702     +     4.101   +     7.23 

Social  Science  59,688         54,745     +     4,943  +     9.03 

3.  Sewing  Service  at  Meetings: 
Average   Number    of   Women 

Sewing  Monthly 48,177        45,888     +     2,289+     4.99 

Total  Articles  Completed 353,697       313,495     +  40,202  +   12.82 

Kinds  of  Articles: 

Quilts 18,884  18,367  +  517  +  2.81 

Children's  Clothing  32,671  30,664  +  2,007  +  6.55 

Women's  Clothing 49,178  43,644  +  5,534  +  12.68 

Men's  Clothing 5,429  2,505  +  2.924  +116.73 

Household  Furnishings  ....  115,118  99,711  +  15,407  +  15.45 

Other  (Miscellaneous)   ....  132,417  118,604  +  13,813  +  11.65 

4.  Compassionate  Service: 

Visits  to  Sick  and  Homebound  255,719  247,878  +  7,841+  3.16 

Number  Days  Care  of  the  Sick  26,148  25,510  +  638+  2.50 
Number  of  Bodies  Dressed  for 

Burial    726  656  +  70  -{-  10.67 

Number  of  Funerals  at  Which 

Relief  Society  Assisted  7,371  7,168  +  203  +  2.83 

5.  Church  Welfare  Services: 
Average  Number  Women  Par- 
ticipating in  Welfare  Sewing 

at  Work  Meeting 8,347  8,268     +  79  +       .96 


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1956  1955    Changes  1955  to  1956 

Number  Number    Number 

or  or               or 

Amount  Amount    Amount    Per  Cent 

Activities  (  Continued ) 

Average  Number  Women  Par- 
ticipating in  Welfare  Sewing 
at  Sewing  Center 2,822  2,374     +        448  +   18.87 

Average  Number  Women  Par- 
ticipating in  Welfare  Proj- 
ects Other  Than  Sewing 23,839         18,077     +     5,762  +  31.87 

6.  Family  Welfare  Service: 
Number    Initial    Visits    Under 

Direction  of  Bishop 12,489         11,093     +     1,396+12.58 

Number  of  Subsequent  or  Fol- 

low-Up  Visits 31,482        27,518     -f     3,964  +  14.41 

Number  Visited  Who  Gave 
Service  on  Church  Welfare 
Projects  2,360  2,395    —         35  —     1.46 

Number  of  Women  Visited 
Who  Sewed  at  Work  Meet- 
ing    2,099  2,243    —       144  —    6.42 

Number  of  Women  Visited 
Who  Sewed  for  Themselves 
and  Families 2,675  2,713     —  3S  —     1.40 

Total    Number    of    Wards    and 

Branches  With  Lists  of  Nurses  2,288  2,190  +  98+  4.47 

Wards  and  Branches  in  Stakes  1,743  1,673  +  70+  4.18 

Mission  Branches 545  517  +  28  +  5.42 

Total  Number  of  Wards  and 
Branches  Having  Singing 
Mothers  Choruses 2,299  2,005     +        294  +   14.66 

Wards  and  Branches  in  Stakes  1,727  1,600     +         127+     7.94 

Mission  Branches 572  405     +         167  +  41.23 

Total   Approximate    Number    of 

Singers 34,621         30,983     +     3,638  +  11.74 

Wards  and  Branches  in  Stakes  29,131         26,683     +     2,448+     9.17 

Mission  Branches  5,490  4,300     +     1,190  +  27.67 

Magazine 

Relief  Society  Magazine 

Subscriptions  146,100       135,726     +    10,374  +     7.64 

Finances 

Cash  Receipts $1,881,499.29       $1,668,621.55  +$212,877.74  +12.76 

Cash  Disbursements  ....  1,804,669.17         1,592,047.01   +  212,622.16  +13.36 
Net  Assets  2,900,825.72        2,743,289.63  +  157,536.09  +  5.74 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


tl 


HuJda  Parker,  General  Secretary-Treasurer 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  oi  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Mona  H.   Brown 

TWIN  FALLS  STAKE  (IDAHO)  RELIEF  SOCIETY  HOLDS  FASHION  SHOW 

May  1957 

Front  row:  Bonita  Lammers,  Joyce  Thompson,  Sonya  Sharp;  Marlyn  Van  Noy; 
Janet  Moyes,  Ann  Watson;  Pamela  Muirhead;  Vickie  Van  Leeuwen;  Valarie  Van  Leeu- 
wen;  Jolene  Grow;  Mariel  Stewart;  Ilene  Phillips. 

Second  row:  Belva  Lammers;  Marge  Atwood;  Thelma  Quigley;  Alta  Jensen;  Nora 
Ward;  Tress  Hurd;  Lucille  Nelson;  Marion  Edwards;  Nadine  Stanger;  Donna  Allred; 
Vivetta  Merrill;  Norma  Van  Leeuwen, 

Back  row,  left  to  right:  Pat  Hansen,  narrator;  Clara  Jean  Olsen;  Betty  Glenn; 
Arlene  Thompson;  Oles  Bingham;  Ruth  Hansen;  Ruth  Briggs;  Vida  Harrison;  Jean 
Staley;  Sharon  Birrell;  LuAnn  Amiga;  Joyce  Johnson;  Sherry  Flynn;  Ruth  Christopher- 
son;  Bonnie  Anderson. 

Mona  H.  Brown,  President,  Twin  Falls  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "A  fashion 
show  was  held  .  .  .  following  the  May  union  meeting,  under  the  direction  of  Alene 
Johnson,  Counselor,  and  Mary  Cheney,  Work  Director.  Two  or  three  models  from  each 
of  the  twelve  wards  in  the  stake  participated.  All  of  the  clothing  modeled  was  created 
by  the  model  or  a  member  of  her  family.  .  .  .  Following  the  fashion  show,  refreshments 
were  served  by  the  stake  board  members." 

Page  537 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


Photograph  submitted  by  Beth  M.  Stallman 

INGLEWOOD  STAKE  (CALIFORNIA)  RELIEF  SOCIETY  COMMEMORATES 
115th  ANNIVERSARY  OF  THE  ORGANIZATION  OF  RELIEF  SOCIETY 

Beth  M.  Stallman,  President,  Inglewood  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "More 
than  four  hundred  Relief  Society  sisters  enjoyed  an  outstanding  program  and  social, 
March  14,  1957,  to  commemorate  the  birthday  of  Relief  Society.  An  inspirational 
dramatization  of  the  'Characters  and  Teachings  of  The  Book  of  Mormon'  was  pre- 
sented by  members  of  the  various  wards.  At  the  conclusion  refreshments  were  served 
from  a  beautifully  decorated  table.  The  centerpiece  was  made  and  presented  to  us  by 
Sister  Amy  Greenhalgh.     One  hundred  fifteen  candles  adorned  the  cake." 

Shown  in  the  picture  are  the  Relief  Society  stake  board  and  the  Relief  Society 
presidents  of  each  ward  in  the  stake. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Elizabeth  E.  Kaiser 

CHICAGO  STAKE   (ILLINOIS)  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  FOR 

STAKE  CONFERENCE,  May  5,  1957 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Chicago  Stake  Relief  Society  officers:  Ilene  B.  Della-Piana, 
chorister;  Jasmine  R.  Edmunds,  First  Counselor;  Elizabeth  E.  Kaiser,  President;  Emma 
A.  Johnson,  Second  Counselor;  Dorothy  B.  Hart,  Secretary-Treasurer;  Nannie  Gardner, 
organist. 

Sister  Kaiser  reports:  "There  were  twelve  wards  and  branches  represented  in  the 
group.  Sixty-two  Singing  Mothers  participated.  Although  the  members  of  this  chorus 
are  from  northern  Indiana,  Illinois,  and  Southern  Wisconsin,  and  their  practicing  was 
limited  to  one  session  with  the  combined  group,  their  singing  was  most  beautiful  and 
well  received." 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


539 


Picture  submitted  by   Mary   Barber 

LAYTON  STAKE  (UTAH)  RELIEF  SOCIETY  SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH 
MUSIC  FOR  STAKE  CONFERENCE,  April  21,  1957 

Mary  Barber,  President,  Layton  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "Layton  Stake  Sing- 
ing Mothers  furnished  music  for  stake  quarterly  conference  on  Easter  Sunday  (April  21, 
1957).  Erma  Boam  is  chorister;  Marion  Call,  organist;  and  Mary  Barber,  pianist.  There 
are  162  members  in  the  chorus." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Jane  M.   Larsen 

GRAND  COULEE  STAKE  (WASHINGTON),  MOSES  LAKE  SECOND  WARD 
VISITING  TEACHERS  ACHIEVE  ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT 

FOR  TWO  YEARS 

First  row,  left  to  right:  Olga  Hansen;  Colleen  Swallow;  W^anda  Crawford;  Carol 
Larsen;  Zona  Wakefield;  Helen  Francom;  Norma  Fukriman;  Margret  Oman,  Second 
Counselor;  Amber  Pierce,  First  Counselor;  Erma  Griffen,  President,  Moses  Lake  Sec- 
ond ^^^^rd;  Maude  Campbell;  Barbara  DeMillc;  Faye  Thornton;  Verna  Duval;  Annie 
Montague;  Luceille  Daniels,  \isiting  teacher  supervisor;  Lucile  Lyhbert;  Amy  Wright. 

Second  row:  Arvena  DeMille;  Lilly  McKay;  Charlene  Hansen;  Naola  Brown;  Betty 
Lee;  Delcia  Lyhbert;  Sybill  Carringer;  Pauhne  Deval;  Nellie  Chapman;  Delvia  Lyhbert; 
Louise  Hill;  Lavera  Bone;  Beth  Burnett;  Helen  Gaugh;  Thelma  Nielson;  Velma  Hunt; 
Adaline  Hansen;  Janice  Sanders. 

Third  row:  Ranee  Earl;  Lavon  Isaacson;  Gladys  Hiatt;  Jean  Hill;  Flora  Wright; 
Juaneta  Harrison;  Marian  Hickman;  Melba  Jackson;  Jessie  Yasuda;  Evelyn  Norman; 
Pearl  Hansen;  Zola  Smith;  Alta  Duval;  Pat  Thompson;  Jewel  Iverson;  Grace  Morris. 

Jane  M.  Larsen,  President,  Grand  Coulee  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "There 
are  thirty-seven  districts  and  seventy-four  visiting  teachers."  One  hundred  per  cent  for 
the  last  two  years  was  achieved. 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


Photograph  submitted  by   Marilla   H.   Sessions 

BOUNTIFUL  STAKE  (UTAH),  BOUNTIFUL  FIRST  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY 
HOLDS  ANNIVERSARY  SOCIAL,  March,  1957 

Marilla  H.  Sessions,  President,  Bountiful  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "The  Bounti- 
ful First  Ward  Relief  Society  of  Bountiful  Stake  had  a  unique  anniversary  social.  The 
bishopric  was  in  attendance  to  participate  in  the  program.  The  members  of  the  society, 
dressed  in  pioneer  costume,  met  at  noon  for  a  luncheon  that  might  have  been  served  in 
Nauvoo  in  1842.  The  homemade  bread,  pickles,  jellies,  and  relishes,  print  molded  but- 
ter patties,  slices  of  ham,  and  baked  rice  pudding  might  have  dated  back  to  those  early 
days.  The  program  consisted  of  musical  numbers  appropriate  for  the  day  and  a  play 
which  reviewed  the  history  of  the  organization  of  the  Relief  Society  115  years  ago. 
Bishop  Keith  A.  Hansen  characterized  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith,  and  his  counselors 
represented  John  Taylor  and  Willard  Richards.  Pioneer  relics,  such  as  cream  churns, 
butter  and  candle  molds,  spinning  wheels,  looms,  and  new  braided  rugs  created  the 
proper  atmosphere  for  such  an  occasion." 


Photograph    submitted  by  Pearl   A.    Heaton 

CACHE  STAKE  (UTAH),  LOGAN  THIRD  WARD  VISITING  TEACHERS 
ACHIEVE  ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT  FOR  TEN  YEARS 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Nina  Kowalhs;  Lilly  Larsen;  Irene  Larsen;  Sophia  Woodall, 
visiting  teacher  leader;  Gwenn  Card,  former  president,  1947-51;  Alice  Griffin,  former 
president,   1951-53;  Pearl  Haddock,  President,  Logan  Third  Ward  Relief  Society;  Bar- 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


541 


bara  Watts,  Second  Counselor;  La  Veil  Bradley,  First  Counselor;  Bertha  Gessel;  Daphna 
Hancey;  Aletha  Funk;  Miriam  Perry. 

Second  row:  Virginia  Kowallis;  Ina  Ballif;  Mae  Orison;  Zella  Ault;  Cora  Blanchard; 
Flora  Pcttv;  Alice  Larson;  Mabel  E\'ans;  Pearl  Christensen;  Annie  Blanchard;  Kate  Morti- 
mer; Katie  Earl;  \^aleda  Shaffer;  Helen  Bradford;  Mabel  Brown,  Secretary-Treasurer; 
Norma  Wilson. 

Third  row:  Phyllis  Jacobson;  Marguerite  Smith;  Donell  Hansen;  Kate  Carlson; 
Catherine  Cowley;  Gertrude  Ault;  Sarah  Davidson;  Afton  Evans;  Moziene  Jensen;  Erma 
Eliason;  Fern  Griffin;  Lucile  Partington;  DuRell  Austin;  Marilda  Andrews. 

Pearl  A.  Heaton,  President,  Cache  Stake  Rehef  Society,  writes:  "The  year  1957 
marks  the  completion  of  ten  years  of  one  hundred  per  cent  visiting  teaching," 


Photograph  submitted  by  Effie  K.   Driggs 


NORTHWESTERN  STATES  ^TISSION,  PORT  TOWNSEND  (WASHINGTON) 
BRANCH  HOLDS  SOCIAL,  March  17,  1957 


Seated,  left  to  right:  Maud  Shaw;  Rachel  Ellis;  Florence  Anderson;  Annie  Sand- 
berg;  Gail  Bishop;  Dorothy  Roberts,  organist. 

Standing,  left  to  right:  Daisy  Shaw;  Marion  Robinson;  Clara  Lopthein;  Marca 
Bills,  music  director:  Violet  Thompson,  Education  Counselor;  Margaret  Lieby,  litera- 
ture leader;  Beatrice  Presler;  Pearl  Callo\^■ay,  Secretary-Treasurer;  Ella  Curdie;  Jean 
Green,  visitor;  Cora  Porter;  Clare  Moody;  Blanche  Lee,  President. 

Effie  K.  Driggs,  President,  Northwestern  States  Mission,  reports:  "A  combined 
social  of  the  sisters  from  Sequiam  and  Port  Townsend,  Washington,  was  held  in  Port 
Townsend  on  March  17th.  During  the  social  they  exchanged  ideas  and  displayed  their 
bazaar  articles  for  each  other's  benefit.  These  sisters  live  in  our  smallest  branch  where 
there  is  a  lack  of  Priesthood  leadership.  However,  they  have  carried  forward  with 
great  courage,  endeavoring  to  carry  out  the  program  outlined  for  the  branches  in  the 
missions.  The}'  report  that  great  strength  has  come  to  them  by  living  their  religion 
and  receiving  of  its  blessings." 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— AUGUST  1957 


Photograph  submitted  by  Cora  S.  Jenkins 

BONNEVILLE  STAKE  (UTAH),  YALE  SECOND  WARD  SPONSORS 

SUCCESSFUL  NURSERY 

Elsa  T.  Peterson,  President,  Yale  Second  Ward  Relief  Society,  reports  to  Cora 
Jenkins,  President,  Bonneville  Stake  Relief  Society:  "Brother  Willey  Frank,  (pictured 
behind  the  group  of  children),  custodian  of  Yale  Second  Ward,  assists  his  wife  in  the 
nursery  during  Relief  Society  meetings.  The  children  dearly  love  him — they  can't  wait 
for  Relief  Society  days.  Our  nursery  has  greatly  increased  the  attendance  of  young 
mothers  at  Relief  Society." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Merna  E.  Marchant 

BURLEY  STAKE  (IDAHO),  UNITY  WARD  VISITING  TEACHERS  ACHIEVE 
ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT  FOR  TEN  YEARS 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Maude  K.  Brown;  Sara  Elquist;  Mary  Crane;  Lois  Baker, 
Counselor;  Ann  Gerratt,  President;  Donna  Call,  Counselor;  Josephine  Rigby,  Secretary; 
Jane  Robinson;  Teresa  Banner;  Ethel  Gooch. 

Back  row:  Evelyn  Stout;  Rachel  Larsen;  Gwenna  Rasmussen;  Elaine  Page;  Vera 
Richman;  Ellen  Poulton;  Violet  Baker;  Chloey  Banner,  visiting  teacher  message  leader; 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


543 


Beatrice   Rittel;  Anna  Jolley;   Dora   Meline;   lone   Church;   Vyla   Frost;   Laura   Harris. 
(Several  teachers  were  absent  when  the  picture  was  taken.) 

Merna  E.  Marchant,  President,  Burley  Stake  Rehef  Society,  reports:  "Tliis  fine 
record  was  started  when  Sister  Afton  Baker  \\'as  president  and  has  continued  under 
three  succeeding  presidents.  A  stake  visiting  teacher  con\'ention  was  held  in  November 
(1956)  for  all  visiting  teachers  of  the  Burley  Stake,  honoring  three  wards  having  one 
hundred  per  cent  visiting  teaching,  with  special  tribute  going  to  the  Unity  Ward  for 
having  achieved  one  hundred  per  cent  \isiting  teaching  for  ten  years.  The  program 
included  a  skit  presented  by  the  stake  board.  Refreshments  were  served  to  approxi- 
mately 300.  Lenna  B.  Fillmore,  stake  visiting  teacher  message  leader,  was  in  charge 
of  arrangements." 


Photograph   submitted  by  lone  J.   Simpson 

SOUTH  IDAHO  FALLS  STAKE,  WARD  SEWING  LEADERS  WHO 
CONDUCTED  SEWING  CLASSES 


In  the  picture  are  the  ward  sewing  leaders  who  conducted  the  seventeen  sewing 
classes. 

Seated,  left  to  right:  Violet  Jaussi;  Donna  Andrews;  Ruth  Hogg;  Lometa  Johnson; 
Bonnie  Dee  Neuenswander;  Ethel  Sparks;  Marjorie  Homer. 

Standing,  left  to  right:  Twilla  Suitter;  Virginia  Garner;  Margaret  Thomas;  Bertha 
Purcell;.  Jonelle  Homer;  Burness  Goates;  Jeness  Balmforth;  Margaret  Manwaring.  Vera 
Lee  was  absent  at  the  time  the  picture  was  taken. 

lone  J.  Simpson,  President,  South  Idaho  Falls  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes: 
"A  spring  concert  and  fashion  show,  'Family  Fashion  in  Rhythm,'  were  presented 
as  a  culmination  of  seventeen  sewing  classes  under  the  direction  of  sixteen  ward  leaders. 
These  classes  were  held  from  January  through  March.  Each  class  was  six  weeks  long 
and  averaged  two  classes  weekly.  Instruction  ranged  from  classes  for  beginners  to  ad- 
vanced tailoring.  In  the  fashion  show  approximately  133  models,  including  seventy- 
seven  children,  displayed  their  lovely  home-sewed  clothing  to  an  audience  of  600  people. 

'The  stake  Singing  Mothers,  featured  in  special  numbers,  greatly  enhanced  the 
beauty  and  success  of  the  event.  Display  tables  were  arranged  by  wards  to  show  results 
of  work  meetings.  Among  the  articles  displayed,  were  quilts,  rugs,  copper  and  drapery 
pictures,  baskets,  pillows,  crocheted  pieces,  and  clothing. 

"After  the  show,  refreshments  were  served  from  decorated  tables." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Marjorie  M.  Ward 

SALT   LAKE   STAKE    (UTAH)    RELIEF   SOCIETY   SINGING   MOTHERS 
PRESENT  MUSIG  AT  STAKE  CONFERENCE,  March  24,   1957 

Marjorie  M.  Ward,  President,  Salt  Lake  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "The  Singing 
Mothers  chorus  of  Salt  Lake  Stake  presented  music  for  the  morning  and  afternoon 
sessions  of  stake  quarterly  conference,  March  24,  1957-  Minnie  A.  Rossiter  is  stake 
chorister  and  Emma  A.  Hanks,  organist." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Bertrude  S.  Mitchell 

PAROWAN  STAKE    (UTAH)    SINGING  MOTHERS   PRESENT   MUSIC   FOR 

STAKE  CONFERENCE,  April  28,  1957 

Annie  P.  Jones,  pianist,  is  seated  at  the  piano;  Shirley  R.  Evans,  chorister,  is 
standing  by  the  piano. 

Front  row,  first  from  left  is  Bertrude  S.  Mitchell,  President,  Parowan  Stake  Relief 
Society;  second  from  right,  Margaret  H.  Knight,  Second  Counselor;  first  on  right  in 
center  of  back  row  is  Edna  W.  Brown,  Secretary-Treasurer.  \^iolet  Unlet,  First  Coun- 
selor, was  unable  to  be  present  when  the  picture  was  taken. 

Sister  Mitchell  reports:  "Each  year  we  furnish  music  for  one  or  two  sessions  of 
the  quarterly  conference  and,  though  we  are  a  scattered  stake,  we  don't  mind  travel- 
ing the  required  distance  to  our  rehearsals.  In  fact,  we  deem  it  an  honor  and  a  privilege 
to  render  this  service.     All  six  of  our  wards  are  well  represented  in  this  group. 

"This  year  we  sang  an  original  number,  'Song  of  Praise/  composed  by  Sister  Annie 
P.  Jones,  that  was  well  rccei\ed  by  our  audience." 


N   DEPARTMENT 


cJheologyi — The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Lesson    2— Origin    of   The    Doctrine   and    Covenants 
Elder  Roy  W.  Doxey 

(Text:  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants:  Explanatory  Introduction) 
For  Tuesday,  November  5,  1957 
Objective:  To  learn  of  the  events  which  brought  forth  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants. 


npHE  prophesied  dispensation  of 
the  fulness  of  times  opened  in 
the  spring  of  1820  with  the  glorious 
revelation  known  as  the  first  vision. 
Although  this  revelation  is  not  in- 
cluded in  the  one  hundred  and 
thirty-six  sections  of  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants,  reference  to  it  is 
found  in  the  first  three  paragraphs 
of  the  ''Explanatory  Introduction." 
The  full  account  of  the  first  vision 
is  printed  in  the  Pearl  of  Great 
Price.  (See  Wiitings  oi  Joseph 
Smith,  2:5-26.) 

Value  of  the  First  Vision 

As  we  begin  a  study  of  the  revela- 
tions given  to  Joseph  Smith,  it 
seems  most  appropriate  to  ask  our- 
selves this  question:  of  what  im- 
portance is  the  first  vision  in  the 
opening  of  the  new  dispensation? 
In  answering  this  question,  we 
should  keep  in  mind  that  all  revela- 
tions and  commandments  given  to 
men  are  for  their  salvation.    What 


then,  does  the  first  vision  contrib- 
ute to  the  salvation  of  men?  Here 
are  some  ideas: 

First,  it  proved  the  actual  exist- 
ence of  God  our  Father  as  a  personal 
being.  Joseph  Smith  saw  God! 
''.  .  .  I  saw  two  Personages,  whose 
brightness  and  glory  defy  all  de- 
scription, standing  above  me  in  the 
air  .  .  ."  (P.  of  G.  P.,  Writings  oi 
Joseph  Smith,  2:17).  No  longer 
could  men  say  that  God  does  not 
exist  because  he  had  not  revealed 
himself  to  man.  A  correct  knowl- 
edge of  God  was  revealed.  Without 
this  knowledge,  man  could  not  re- 
ceive life  eternal.     (See  John  17:3.) 

Second,  it  proved  that  Jesus  is  a 
resurrected  Personage,  separate  and 
distinct  from  the  Father. 

.  .  .  One  of  them  spake  unto  me,  call- 
ing me  by  name  and  said,  pointing  to 
the  other — This  is  My  Beloved  Son.  Hear 
Him!  (P.  of  G.  P.,  Writings  of  Joseph 
Smith,  2:17). 

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Jesus  Christ  is  declared  to  be 
divine— the  Son  of  God.  Doubt  con- 
cerning his  divinity  and  of  his  resur- 
rection is  removed.  Men  have  a 
firm  basis  for  faith  in  Jesus  as  the 
Savior  of  mankind. 

Third,  it  proved  that  there  was 
an  universal  apostasy  from  the 
Church  established  by  Jesus  in  the 
meridian  of  time;  that  no  existing 
church  was  the  true  Church. 

My  object  in  going  to  inquire  of  the 
Lord  was  to  know  which  of  all  the  sects 
was  right,  that  I  might  know  which  to 
join.  No  sooner,  therefore,  did  I  get 
possession  of  myself,  so  as  to  be  able  to 
speak,  than  I  asked  the  Personages  who 
stood  above  me  in  the  light,  which  of  all 
the  sects  was  right — and  which  I  should 
join. 

I  was  answered  that  I  must  join  none 
of  them,  for  they  were  all  wrong;  and  the 
Personage  who  addressed  me  said  that 
all  their  creeds  were  an  abomination  in 
his  sight;  that  those  professors  were  all 
corrupt;  that:  "they  draw  near  to  me 
with  their  lips,  but  their  hearts  are  far 
from  me,  they  teach  for  doctrines  the 
commandments  of  men,  having  a  form  of 
godliness,  but  they  deny  the  power  there- 
of." 

He  again  forbade  me  to  join  with  any  of 
them;  and  many  other  things  did  he  say 
unto  me,  which  I  cannot  write  at  this 
time.  When  I  came  to  myself  again,  I 
found  myself  lying  on  my  back,  looking 
up  into  heaven.  When  the  light  had 
departed,  I  had  no  strength;  but  soon 
recovering  in  some  degree,  I  went  home. 
And  as  I  leaned  up  to  the  fireplace, 
mother  inquired  what  the  matter  was.  I 
replied,  ''Never  mind,  all  is  well — I  am 
well  enough  off."  I  then  said  to  my 
mother,  "I  have  learned  for  myself  that 
Presbyterianism  is  not  true."  It  seems 
as  though  the  adversary  was  aware,  at  a 
very  early  period  of  my  life,  that  I  was 
destined  to  prove  a  disturber  and  an  an- 
noy er  of  his  kingdom;  else  why  should 
the  powers  of  darkness  combine  against 
me?  Why  the  opposition  and  persecu- 
tions that  arose  against  me,  almost  in 
my   infancy?    [Ihid.,   2:18-20). 


Fourth,  it  proved  that  men  may 
have  the  assurance  that  sincere 
prayer  is  answered. 

While  I  was  laboring  under  the  extreme 
difficulties  caused  by  the  contests  of  these 
parties  of  religionists,  I  was  one  day  read- 
ing the  Epistle  of  James,  first  chapter  and 
fifth  verse,  which  reads:  li  any  oi  you 
lack  wisdom,  iet  him  ask  of  God,  that 
giveth  to  all  men  liberally,  and  uphiaideth 
not;  and  it  shall  he  given  him. 

Never  did  any  passage  of  scripture  come 
with  more  power  to  the  heart  of  man 
than  this  did  at  this  time  to  mine.  It 
seemed  to  enter  with  great  force  into 
every  feeling  of  my  heart.  I  reflected  on 
it  again  and  again,  knowing  that  if  any 
person  needed  wisdom  from  God,  I  did; 
for  how  to  act  I  did  not  know,  and  un- 
less I  could  get  more  wisdom  than  I 
then  had,  I  would  never  know;  for  the 
teachers  of  religion  of  the  different  sects 
understood  the  same  passages  of  scripture 
so  differently  as  to  destroy  all  confidence 
in  settling  the  question  by  an  appeal  to 
the  Bible. 

At  length  I  came  to  the  conclusion  that 
I  must  either  remain  in  darkness  and  con- 
fusion, or  else  I  must  do  as  James  directs, 
that  is,  ask  of  God.  I  at  length  came  to 
the  determination  to  "ask  of  God,"  con- 
cluding that  if  he  gave  wisdom  to  them 
that  lacked  wisdom,  and  would  give  liber- 
ally, and  not  upbraid,  I  might  venture  .... 

I  had  now  got  my  mind  satisfied  so  far 
as  the  sectarian  world  was  concerned — 
that  it  was  not  my  duty  to  join  with  any 
of  them,  but  to  continue  as  I  was  until 
further  directed.  I  had  found  the  testi- 
mony of  James  to  be  true — that  a  man 
who  lacked  wisdom  might  ask  of  God, 
and  obtain,  and  not  be  upbraided  (Ibid., 
2:11-13,  26). 

In  order  to  achieve  salvation,  men 
must  ''ask  of  God"  for  knowledge 
by  which  they  may  walk  uprightly 
before  him.  (See  Moroni  10:3-7.) 
Joseph  Smith's  testimony  concern- 
ing prayer  and  the  reality  of  the 
future  life  furnish  further  reasons 
for  faith  in  the  efficacy  of  prayer  in 
leading  one  to  salvation.    There  is 


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no  promise  that  all  men  will  receive 
a  visitation  of  God  the  Father  or  of 
his  Son  Jesus  Christ.     These  holy 

Personages  have  been  seen  only  on 
a  few  occasions  and  at  those  times 
to  their  chosen  prophets.  (See 
John  1:18;  Acts  7:55-56.) 

Compiling  of  the  Revelations 

The  many  visits  of  the  angel 
Moroni  with  Joseph  Smith,  begin- 
ning in  September  1823,  brought 
forth  revelations  in  connection  with 
The  Book  of  Mormon  to  be  studied 
later.  This  coming  of  the  resurrect- 
ed Moroni  was  the  next  step  in  the 
events  which  led  up  to  the  compil- 
ing of  the  many  revelations  into  a 
volume  of  scripture.  As  also  point- 
ed out  in  the  "Explanatory  Introduc- 
tion/' many  other  revelations  were 
received  by  the  summer  of  1830, 
when,  ''acting  under  Divine  com- 
mandment/' the  Prophet  ''was  en- 
gaged in  copying  and  arranging  the 
revelations  received  up  to  that 
time  .  .  .  ."  In  this  work  he  was 
assisted  by  John  Whitmer,  who 
later  became  the  Church  his- 
torian by  divine  appointment.  (See 
D.H.  C.  1:104;  D.  &C.  47:1.) 

The  Book  oi  Commmidments 

The  special  Priesthood  conference 
which  convened  on  November  1, 
1831,  at  Hiram,  Ohio,  authorized 
the  printing  of  10,000  copies  of  the 
compilation  of  revelations  to  be 
known  as  the  Book  of  Command- 
ments. However,  on  May  1,  1832, 
a  general  council  of  the  Church  de- 
cided that  3,000  copies  should  be 
printed,  and  ".  .  .  that  William  W. 
Phelps,  Oliver  Cowdery,  and  John 
Whitmer,  be  appointed  to  review 
and  prepare  such  revelations  for  the 
press  as  shall  be  deemed  proper  for 


publication,  and  print  them  as  soon 
as  possible  at  Independence,  Mis- 
souri; the  announcement  to  be  made 
that  they  are  'Published  by  W.  W. 
Phelps  &  Co.  .  .  .'"  (D.  H.  C. 
1:270).  Before  this  (November 
1831 ),  Oliver  Cowdery  was  appoint- 
ed to  "..  .  carry  the  commandments 
to  Independence,  Missouri,  for 
printing.  .  .  ."  Inasmuch  as  he  was 
also  to  take  "moneys"  with  him,  a 
traveling  companion,  John  Whit- 
mer, was  to  accompany  him  because 
of  the  protection  which  seemed 
necessary  in  traveling  in  an  area 
where  frontier  conditions  existed 
(See  D.  H.  C.  1:229;  D.  &  C.  69). 

Destruction  of  the  Printing  Press 

On  the  2oth  of  July,  1833,  a  mob 
consisting  of  from  three  to  five  hun- 
dred, "demanded  the  discontinuance 
of  the  Church  printing  establish- 
ment in  Jackson  county,  the  closing 
of  the  store,  and  the  cessation  of  all 
mechanical  labors.  The  brethren 
refused  compliance,  and  the  conse- 
quence was  that  the  house  of  W. 
W.  Phelps,  which  contained  the 
printing  establishment,  was  thrown 
down,  the  materials  taken  possession 
of  by  the  mob,  many  papers  de- 
stroyed, and  the  family  and  furni- 
ture thrown  out  of  doors"  (D.  H.  C. 
1:390). 

Fortunately,  a  few  incomplete 
copies  of  the  Book  of  Command- 
ments survived  the  destruction. 
This  book  was  reprinted  at  different 
times.  It  contains  sixty-five  chap- 
ters. 

Approval  of  Doctrine  and 
Covenants 

The  next  date  of  significance  in 
this  brief  history  of  the  Doctrine 


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and  Covenants  is  September  24, 
1834,  when  a  committee  with  Jo- 
seph Smith  as  its  head  was  appoint- 
ed to  pubhsh  the  revelations.  Upon 
the  completion  of  its  work,  a  Gen- 
eral Assembly  of  the  Church  con- 
vened on  August  17,  1835,  at  Kirt- 
land,  Ohio,  ''.  .  .  to  see  whether  the 
book  be  approved  or  not  by  the 
authorities  of  the  Church:  that  it 
may,  if  approved,  become  a  law  and 
a  rule  of  faith  and  practice  to  the 
Church.  .  .  ."  The  two  High  Coun- 
cils (Kirtland  and  Missouri)  and 
the  quorum  of  the  Priesthood  ac- 
cepted and  acknowledged  the  book 
as  the  doctrine  and  covenants  of 
their  faith,  by  a  unanimous  vote, 
and  the  written  testimony  of  the 
Twelve  Apostles  was  read.  (See 
D.  H.  C.  11:243-246). 

Meaning  of  Doctrine  and  Covenants 
This  volume  of  revelations  was 
printed  with  the  title  Doctrine  and 
Covenants.  As  early  as  November 
1831,  the  Prophet  referred  to  the 
revelations  as  the  book  of  Doctrine 
and  Covenants.  (See  D.  H.  C. 
1:229.)  It  seems  appropriate  that 
the  new  name  was  given  it  with  an 
increase  in  the  number  of  sections 
from  sixty-five  to  102.  The  com- 
prehensiveness of  the  title  is  indi- 
cated in  the  ''Introduction"  to  the 
Doctrine  and  Covenants  Commen- 
tary (Revised  Edition),  where  we 
learn  that  ''  'Doctrine'  means  'teach- 
ing, instruction!'  ....  The  word 
'covenant'  is  a  term  by  which  God 
indicates  the  settled  arrangement 
between  Him  and  His  people.  .  .  . 
This  covenant  concerning  the  salva- 
tion of  the  human  race,  entered  in- 
to in  eternity,  was  made  known  to 
Adam,  Noah,  Abraham,  and  others, 
and,   finally,    through   the   Prophet 


Joseph,  to  the  people  of  God  in 
our  day.  It  is  the  'everlasting'  cove- 
nant, because  it  is  from  eternity  to 
eternity.  The  new  and  everlasting 
covenant  is  the  Gospel  of  Jesus 
Christ"  (Doctrine  and  Covenants 
Commentary,  page  xiv). 

Other  Editions  of  The 
Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Before  his  death,  the  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith  worked  on  another 
edition  of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants. (See  D.  H.  C.  V:264,  273.) 
It  was  printed  in  1844  with  111  sec- 
tions one  of  which  was  the  historical 
account  of  the  martyrdom  of  Joseph 
and  Hyrum  Smith.  (It  is  num- 
bered Section  135  in  the  current 
edition.) 

The  next  important  edition  was 
the  revision  of  1876  when  the  num- 
ber of  sections  was  increased  to  1 36. 
The  1921  edition  is  the  one  in  cur- 
rent use.  It  contains  double-col- 
umn pages,  with  section  headings, 
footnote  references,  and  an  index. 
The  "Lectures  on  Faith"  which 
were  included  in  the  1835  edition 
are  not  printed  in  the  currently  used 
edition.  In  the  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants Commentary,  page  xvn,  one 
finds  this  statement  in  a  footnote 
concerning  these  lectures:  "These 
lectures  were  removed  from  the 
Doctrine  and  Covenants  in  the  edi- 
tion of  1921,  not  because  they  were 
called  in  question,  for  they  are  excel- 
lent lectures  of  great  value  on  the 
principle  of  faith,  but  because  they 
were  not  revelations.  When  they 
were  received  and  ordered  printed 
in  the  Doctrine  and  Covenants,  it 
was  with  the  understanding  as  ex- 
pressed by  Elder  John  Smith, 
'.  .  .  that  the  lectures  were  judicious- 
ly arranged  and  compiled,  and  were 


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profitable  for  doctrine  .  .  /  {D.H.C.  The  Holy  Ghost  speaks  to  man's 

11:244).  The  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  spirit,   and,    thereby,    becomes    the 

revised  and  prepared  these  Lectures  powerful    influence    of    conversion 

himself,  and  they  are  still  'profitable  which  is  even  stronger  than  the  vis- 

for  doctrine/  "  ible  manifestation  so  often  thought 

T.j^r>-       £  T     *             17  -4.7  to  be  the  convincing  sign  of  truth. 

Note:  Copies  or  Lectures  on  taitn  are  „            ,           .     ,                     i        r     i  • 

available  at  the  Deseret  Book  Company,  Examples    of    the    strength    of    this 

44  East  Sonth  Temple,  Salt  Lake  City,  kind  of  testimony  are  found  in  the 

Utah,  at  the  price  of  fifty  cents.  experiences  of  the  apostles  of  the 

It  should  be  kept  in  mind  that  Lord  in  the  meridian  dispensation, 

not  all  of  the  revelations  received  While  with  the  Savior  they  saw  him 

by  the  Prophet  are  found  in  The  heal  the  sick  (Mt.  15:28),  cast  out 

Doctrine  and  Covenants.  devils  (Luke  8:29),  and  even  raise 

the  dead    (John    11:44),   and   per- 

Witnesses  to  The  f^^ni    other    mighty    works     (Mt. 

Doctrme  and  Covenants  15:30-31).      Later,    however,    Peter 

Latter-day  Samts  are  generally  fa-  ^gnied   being  a  disciple   of  Christ 

miliar   with   the  testimony  of   the  (jo^^    18:17,    25).     However,   fol- 

Three  Witnesses  and  also  the  Eight  i^^^j^g   j^^^^^    ascension   and   after 

Witnesses   to   The   Book   of   Mor-  ^j^^   j^^j^  qj^^^^   ^^3^^^              ^1^^ 

mon.    It  is  not  so  well  known,  how-  ^^^^^^^^   (^cts  2),  they  labored  in 

ever  that  witnesses  have  attested  to  ^j^^             j^    ^^^   ^^^^    imprisoned, 

the    truth    of    The    Doctrine    and  ^^^  ^^                    ^^^^  ,|^i^^.   (j^^c- 

Covenants      Their  testimony  does  ^^-^^^  ^^^^  Covenants  Commentary, 

not  include  the  actual  appearance  n 

of  an  angel,  the  seeing  of  ancient  ^s  long  as  the  recipient  of  the 
instruments  and  records,  or  having  ^  .  q^^^^  ^^-^^^^  .  ^1^^  command- 
a  voice  declare  that  the  record  is  ^^^^^^^^  ^^^^  ^^H  continue 
true.  But  it  is  no  ess  conclusive.  ^^^j^  j^^^^^  ^3  ^  ^^^^-  possession  that 
.  .  .  The  Lord  has  borne  record  ^^n  ^^^  ^^  -^  ^^^^^^^  manif esta- 
te our  souls,  through  the  Holy  ^^^^^  ^^  ^  ^-^  ^^^  ^1^^  Church. 
Ghost,    shed   forth    upon    us,    that 

these  commandments  were  given  by  Joseph  Smith's  Integrity 

inspiration  of  God,  and  are  profit-  The  origin  of  The  Doctrine  and 

able    for   all    men,    and    are    verily  Covenants  involves  the  honesty  of 

true  ..."  (D.H.  C.  1:226)  was  the  the    Prophet    Joseph    Smith.    The 

testimony     given     concerning     the  Prophet  well  understood  the  great 

''Book  of  Commandments"  by  the  responsibility   devolving   upon   him 

elders  present  at  the  time  it  was  in    speaking   for   the   Lord    in   the 

approved  during  the  conference  of  revelations  he   received.   One  time 

the    Church    in    November    1831.  he  wrote  that  ".  .  .  it  was  an  awful 

These   same   words   appear   in   the  responsibility  to  write  in  the  name 

''Explanatory  Introduction"  to  each  of  the  Lord  .  .  ."  (D.  H.  C.  1:226). 

copy  of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove-  The  assurance  with  which  he  "wrote 

nants    as    the    Testimony    of    the  for  the  Lord"  is  well  illustrated  by 

Twelve  Apostles  of  the  truth  of  this  an  incident  in  the  early  history  of 

book  of  modern  scripture.  this  dispensation. 


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Not  long  after  the  Church  was 
organized,  the  Prophet  received  a 
letter  from  Oliver  Cowdery  in 
which  Oliver  Cowdery  commanded 
the  Prophet  ''to  erase  those  words," 
meaning  a  part  of  verse  thirty-seven 
of  Section  twenty.  Joseph  Smith 
immediately  wrote  to  Oliver  Cowd- 
ery and  asked: 

...  by  what  authority  he  took  upon 
him  to  command  me  to  alter  or  erase, 
to  add  to  or  diminish  from,  a  revelation 
or  commandment  from  Almighty  God 
(D.  H.  C,  1:105). 

In  a  Church  which  had  just  been 
organized  and  with  so  few  mem- 
bers, if  the  leader  had  been  an  im- 
poster,  he  could  easily  have  com- 
promised and  changed  this  docu- 
ment to  satisfy  the  one  man  and 
his  friends  who  had  done  so  much 
for  him.  For  the  Whitmer  family 
had  also  been  influenced  by  Oliver 
Cowdery  to  agree  with  him  on  this 
command  to  Joseph.  This  meant 
that  three  members  of  the  original 
six  who  organized  the  Church  were 
opposed  to  the  Prophet  Joseph 
Smith    on    this    matter.     But    the 


Prophet  was  not  an  imposter.  He 
knew  he  had  received  the  will  of 
the  Lord  and,  although  a  calamity 
of  this  magnitude  might  conceiv- 
ably have  destroyed  the  work,  it  did 
not  deter  the  Prophet  from  his 
course,  and  Oliver  Cowdery  and  the 
Whitmer  family  soon  repented  of 
their  error.  (See  D.  H.  C.  1:104, 
105.) 

Questions  ioi  Discussion 

1.  What  are  the  contributions  of  the 
first  vision  to  man's  salvation? 

(a)  How    does    it    teach    the    correct 
knowledge  of  God? 

(b)  Can     there     be     only     one     true 
Church?     Explain. 

(c)  How  does  prayer  lead  one  to  sal- 
vation? 

2.  Briefly  relate  the  origin  of  The  Doc- 
trine and  Covenants. 

3.  What  is  the  meaning  of  the  title 
"Doctrine  and  Covenants"? 

4.  What  are  the  "Lectures  on  Faith"? 

5.  "The  witness  of  the  Holy  Ghost  is 
a  greater  power  for  conversion  than  an 
outward  manifestation."  What  does  the 
above  statement  have  to  do  with  this 
lesson? 

6.  In  what  way  was  Joseph  Smith's 
honesty  affirmed  as  brought  out  by  this 
lesson? 


Seasonal  IKemindi 


ers 


Enoh  Chamhedin 


On  and  on  each  season  goes, 
Stepping  on  the  next  one's  toes. 
And  I  see  them  quickly  pass 
Not  by  looking  in  a  glass, 
But  by  Mary's  dress  that  goes 
Up  and  up  as  Mary  grows. 
And  by  Tommy's  jeans  that  climb 
From  foot  to  shin  each  season  time. 
On  and  on  each  season  goes, 
While  I  lengthen  children's  clothes. 


viSitifig  cJeacher    t/  Lessages  — 

Truths  to  Live  By  From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Message  2— "And  Inasmuch  As  They  V/ere  Humble  They  Might  Be  Made 
Strong,  and  Blessed  From  on  High  .  .  /'  (D.  &  C.  1:28). 

Chiistine  H.  Robinson 

For  Tuesday,  November  5,  1957 

Objective:  To  point  out  the  meaning  of  true  humility,  the  need  for  it  in  our  lives, 
and  to  show  that  the  Lord  blesses  and  makes  strong  those  who  possess  it. 


nPHE  study  of  the  scriptures  im- 
presses one  with  the  fact  that 
great  emphasis  is  placed  upon  the 
virtue  of  humihty.  True  humihty 
lies  at  the  base  of  most  of  life's  de- 
sirable qualities. 

One  cannot  serve  the  Lord  unless 
he  humbles  himself  and  conforms 
his  individual  will  to  the  Lord's  will. 
Our  Father  in  heaven  has  said, 
''.  .  .  no  one  can  assist  in  this  work 
except  he  shall  be  humble  .  .  ." 
(D.  &  C.  12:8).  Neither  can  one 
obtain  spiritual  strength  unless  he 
puts  aside  selfishness,  self-depend- 
ence, pride,  and  arrogance. 

For  whosoever  exalteth  himself  shall  be 
abased;  and  he  that  humbleth  himself 
shall  be  exalted  (Luke  14:11). 

Many  years  ago  a  religious  leader 
w^as  asked,  ''What  is  the  first  article 
in  the  Christian  religion?"  He  an- 
swered, ''Humility."  Then  he  was 
asked,  "What  is  the  second?"  He 
answered  "Humility."  "And  the 
third?"  Again  the  leader  answered, 
"Humility." 

The  need  for  humility  is  promi- 
nent in  all  of  Jesus'  teachings.  As 
in  all  other  things,  the  Savior  set  the 
perfect  example.  Although  he  was 
the  "light  and  life  of  the  world," 


"the  Alpha  and  Omega,"  the  Archi- 
tect and  Builder  of  the  universe, 
still  he  was  born  under  the  humblest 
of  circumstances.  His  entire  life 
was  lived  in  a  simple  and  modest 
way.  He  declared  himself  to  be 
".  .  .  meek  and  lowlv  in  heart  .  .  ." 
(Mt.  11:29).  ^"  ^^1  ^^^  teachings 
he  emphasized  the  importance  of 
this  virtue. 

The  following  incident,  found  in 
John  1 3,  is  probably  the  most  classic 
example  in  all  history  of  true  hu- 
mility : 

.  .  .  Jesus  knew  that  his  hour  was  come 
that  he  should  depart  out  of  this  world 
unto  the  Father  .... 

.  .  .  knowing  that  the  Father  had  given 
all  things  unto  his  hands,  and  that  he 
was  come  from  God,  and  went  to  God; 

He  riseth  from  supper,  and  laid  aside 
his  garments;  and  took  a  towel,  and  girded 
himself  .... 

.  .  .  and  began  to  wash  the  disciples' 
feet,  and  to  wipe  them  with  the  towel 
wherewith  he  was  girded  .... 

...  he  said  unto  them  .... 

Ye  call  me  Master  and  Lord:  and  ye 
say  well;  for  so  I  am. 

If  I  then,  your  Lord  and  Master,  have 
washed  your  feet;  ye  also  ought  to  wash 
one  another's  feet. 

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For  I  have  given  you  an  example,  that 
ye  should  do  as  I  have  done  to  you  (John 

13:1  ff.). 

Humility  is  a  noble  virtue. 
Although  it  reflects  itself  in  meek- 
ness, gentleness,  and  submissiveness 
to  the  Lord's  will,  yet  it  in  no  way 
implies  self-depreciation  or  weak- 
ness. Humility  is  actually  the 
foundation  of  strength.  In  order  to 
gain  moral   and  spiritual   strength. 


one  must  first  recognize  his  short- 
comings and  failings  and  then 
acknowledge  his  dependence  upon 
the  Lord.  He  must  seek  to  do  the 
Lord's  will  and  have  faith  and  trust 
in  his  guidance.  Thus,  with  the 
Lord's  help,  he  overcomes  his  weak- 
nesses and  replaces  them  with  the 
virtues  that  bring  strength. 

Truly,    those    who    are    humble 
'are  blessed  from  on  high." 


ivbm    n ieeting — Living  More  Abundantly 

(A  Course  Reeommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 

Lesson    2— Increasing    Our   Standard    of    Living 

Elder  William  F.  Edwards 

For  Tuesday,  November  12,  1957 

Objective:  To  achieve  a  higher  standard  of  living,  to  obtain  more  of  the  important 
things  in  life,  without  an  increase  in  family  income. 


The  Purpose  oi  Budgets 

Budgeting  in  its  true  sense  is  a 
method  of  estimating  ahead  how  to 
spend  one's  income  in  order  to  re- 
ceive the  greatest  values.  The  first 
requirement  is  to  approach  the 
problem  with  a  mind  as  open  and 
rational  as  that  with  which  a  good 
scientist  undertakes  his  studies.  Can 
I  say,  ''My  house  is  a  house  of 
order"?  Can  I  say,  if  a  housewife, 
that  I  give  the  same  care  and 
thought  to  determining  how  to 
spend  our  income  as  my  husband 
gives  to  his  work  in  order  to  earn 
the  income?  As  it  is  true  that  the 
cost  of  money  is  determined  by 
what  it  takes  to  earn  it,  so  it  is  true 
that  the  value  of  money  is  de- 
termined by  how  we  use  it. 


Wise  Counsel 

Benjamin  Franklin  caught  the 
vision  of  wise  budget  planning 
when  he  observed: 

There  are  two  ways  of  being  happy;  We 
may  either  diminish  our  wants  or  augment 
our  means  —  either  will  do  —  the  result 
is  the  same;  and  it  is  for  each  man  to  de- 
cide for  himself,  and  do  that  which  hap- 
pens to  be  the  easiest.  If  you  are  idle  or 
sick  or  poor,  however  hard  it  may  be  to 
diminish  your  wants,  it  will  be  harder  to 
augment  your  means.  If  you  are  active 
and  prosperous  or  young  or  in  good  health, 
it  may  be  easier  for  you  to  augment  your 
means  than  to  diminish  your  wants.  But 
if  you  are  wise,  you  will  do  both  at  the 
same  time,  young  or  old,  rich  or  poor,  sick 
or  well;  and  if  you  are  very  wise,  you  will 
do  both  in  such  a  way  as  to  augment  the 
general  happiness  of  society. 

Brigham  Young  gave  frequent  ad- 
vice about  handling  personal  fi- 
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If  you  cannot  obtain  all  you  wish  for 
today,  learn  to  do  without  that  which  you 
cannot  purchase  and  pay  for;  .  .  .  Bring 
your  minds  into  subjection  that  you  must 
and  will  live  within  your  means. 

How  to  Become  Strong 

The  truth  of  such  counsel  as  thai 
given  by  Brigham  Young  is  readily 
apparent,  but  for  many  it  is  hard 
to  live  by.  But  what  good  thing  is 
not  hard  to  acquire?  We  become 
strong  by  overcoming  obstacles.  The 
story  of  building  the  Salt  Lake 
Temple,  for  example,  is  a  story  of 
achieving  the  impossible,  except  for 
a  determined  people  who  were  will- 
ing to  pay  the  price  of  doing  what 
was  right. 

Items  Every  Latter-day  Saint 
Budget  Should  Contain 

1.  Tithing  and  Other  Church 
Contributions: 

Church  expenses  is  an  item  not 
entirely  peculiar  to  Latter-day  Saints. 
Every  well-considered  family  budget 
book  makes  provision  for  this  item. 
The  difference  is  that  Latter-day 
Saints  are  commanded  to  pay  their 
tithes  and  offerings. 

For  members  of  The  Church  of  Jesus 
Christ  of  Latter-day  Saints  these  appro- 
priately come  first.  They  bring  eternal  bless- 
ings and  joys.  It  is  expected  that  honest 
and  faithful  people  will  return  to  the 
Lord  his  ten  per  cent  and  in  addition 
make  the  other  contributions  needed  to 
carry  out  his  purposes  for  their  good 
(Edwards,  William  F.:  The  Relief  Society 
Magazine,  August  1953,  page  501). 

I  do  not  suppose  for  a  moment,  that 
there  is  a  person  in  this  Church,  who  is 
unacquainted  with  the  duty  of  paying 
tithing,  neither  is  it  necessary  to  have 
revelation  every  year  upon  this  subject. 
There  is  the  Law — pay  one-tenth  (Dis- 
courses oi  Biigham  Young,  page  174). 


2.  Taxes  and  Other  Civic 
Expenses  and  Contributions: 

The  services  rendered  by  govern- 
ments are  indispensable  to  modern 
progressive  living.  We  should  be 
good  members  of  society  by  support- 
ing, financially  and  otherwise,  praise- 
worthy activities.  In  this  spirit,  we 
should  pay  our  taxes  and  other  as- 
sessments and  allocate  some  money 
for  contributions  to  worthy  pro- 
grams. 

3.  Health  Protection: 

The  Lord  has  made  it  clear  that 
our  bodies  are  sacred: 

If  any  man  defile  the  temple  of  God, 
him  shall  God  destroy;  for  the  temple  of 
God  is  holy,  which  temple  ye  are  (I  Cor. 

3:17)- 

Thus,  we  are  each  charged  with 
the  responsibility  of  keeping  our 
bodies  as  clean  and  healthy  as  pos- 
sible. It  is  important  that  some 
funds  be  earmarked  for  periodic 
dental  work,  health  examinations, 
medicine  and  medical  attention  for 
minor  ailments.  The  best  and  cheap- 
est care  is  preventive.  When  avail- 
able at  a  reasonable  cost,  some  peo- 
ple will  find  it  advisable  to  carry  a 
health  insurance  policy  covering 
extraordinary  expenses  in  connection 
with  medical  attention. 

4.  Emergency  Saving: 

Into  every  life  come  emergencies, 
such  as  illness,  unemployment,  acci- 
dents, old  age,  and  death,  and  they 
cost  money.  It  is  a  family's  respon- 
sibility to  provide  for  these,  even  if 
it  necessitates  certain  immediate 
sacrifices.  In  accordance  with  the 
Welfare  Program,  part  of  the  emer- 


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gency  savings  could  be  held  in  the 
form  of  food  and  other  necessities 
of  life.  Each  individual  or  family 
should  determine  the  appropriate 
amount  to  have  on  hand  for  this 
purpose. 

If  a  man  does  not  provide  for  his  chil- 
dren, if  he  does  not  provide  for  all  those 
dependent  upon  him,  and  if  he  has  not 
that  vision  of  conditions  to  come,  and 
that  care  for  the  days  that  have  not  yet 
dawned,  which  we  sum  up  in  the  whole 
idea  of  thrift  and  saving,  then  he  has  not 
opened  his  eyes  to  any  adequate  con- 
ception of  human  life.  We  are  in  this 
world  to  pro\ide  not  for  ourselves,  but  for 
others,  and  that  is  the  basis  of  economy 
(Woodrow  Wilson). 

5.  Life  Insurance: 

Likewise,  no  head  of  a  family  is 
doing  his  duty  to  his  family  unless 
he  carries  a  reasonable  amount  of 
life  insurance  for  their  protection. 

Nothing  is  as  certain  as  death,  yet  noth- 
ing is  more  uncertain  than  the  time  of 
death  (Legal  Proverb). 

6.  Food 

7.  Clothing 

8.  Shelter  and  Home 

9.  Other  Items  Possibly  Varying 
With  Each  Family 

Group  discussion  should  develop 
important  considerations  regarding 
each  of  these  items.  A  group  of 
Relief  Society  sisters  can  sit  as  a 
group  of  experts  —  then  they  ap- 
proach these  subjects  objectively 
and  critically. 

10.  Working  Fund: 

After  allowance  for  all  of  the  areas 
of  expenses  previously  discussed, 
there  should  remain  a  balance  which 
might  be  called  the  Working  Fund. 


The  usage  of  this  fund  is  an  indi- 
vidual problem,  each  family  doing 
\\'hat  will  gi\e  them  the  greatest 
satisfaction.  It  should  certainly  be 
the  aim  in  one's  financial  program 
to  make  this  fund  as  large  as  pos- 
sible, since  it  plays  such  an  impor- 
tant part  in  one's  living  more 
abundantly. 

Under  Latter-day  Saint  philos- 
ophy, an  adequate  part  of  this  fund 
should  be  used  for  investment  pur- 
poses beyond  that  contemplated 
with  ''Emergency  Savings."  There 
is  nothing  that  leads  to  independ- 
ence of  thought  and  action  quite  as 
much  as  economic  independence. 
And  by  right  living  this  independ- 
ence is  within  the  grasp  of  most 
members  of  our  group. 

Use  just  enough  of  your  earnings  to 
make  your  bodies  and  your  families  happy 
and  comfortable,  and  save  the  residue 
(Brigham  Young). 

Of  probably  even  greater  im- 
portance than  monetary  savings  un- 
der our  teachings,  however,  is  the 
part  that  should  be  used  for  self- 
improvement  and  advancement,  in- 
cluding education  in  all  its  proper 
forms. 

The  first  great  principle  that  ought  to 
occupy  the  attention  of  mankind,  that 
should  be  understood  by  the  children  and 
the  adults,  and  which  is  the  mainspring 
of  all  action  ...  is  the  principle  of  im- 
provement. 

We  cannot  trust  to  the  certainty  of 
mortal  possessions;  they  are  transitory  and 
a  dependence  upon  them  Nvill  plunge  into 
hopeless  disappointment  all  those  who 
trust  in  them  (Discourses  of  Brigham 
Young,  page  306), 

This  fund  will,  also,  in  individual 
instances,  have  to  help  to  provide 


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for  the  support  of  fathers,  mothers, 
brothers,  and  sisters  who  are  hving 
elsewhere.  By  placing  this  last,  we 
do  not  mean  to  lessen  its  import- 
ance. To  those  who  thus  contrib- 
ute to  the  support  of  others,  it  is 
an  item  second  to  none  in  im- 
portance—unless it  be  the  item  of 
tithing.  This  is  a  way  of  life  ac- 
cepted by  the  membership  of  the 
Church  in  general  in  accordance 
with  the  teachings  of  ancient  and 
modern  prophets. 


The  intent  in  this  lesson  is  to 
outline  some  of  the  more  important 
areas  of  expenditures  in  the  hope  of 
helping  each  one  to  examine  his 
own  position  with  the  objective  of 
learning  how  to  put  first  things  first 
so  that  the  more  important  things 
will  be  accomplished  and  those 
neglected  will  be  the  least  impor- 
tant. Wise  budget  planning  will 
contribute  to  more  abundant  living; 
it  will  make  possible  a  higher  stand- 
ard of  living  without  an  increase  in 
family  income. 


^Literature  —  Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Lesson    10— Othello,   The  Moor  of  Venice 

Elder  Briant  S.  Jacobs 

Text:  Shakespeare  Major  Plays  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948 

For  Tuesday,  November  19,  1957 

Objective:   To  review  and  consider  pride,   jealousy,  and  passion  as  tools  of  self- 
destruction,  through  re-experiencing  this  artistic  record  of  life's  truths. 


T  IKE  Shakespeare's  other  best 
plays,  Othello  creates  its  own 
personality  and  power.  Therefore, 
to  compare  it  with  other  plays  in 
terms  of  greatness  or  majesty  is  as 
mysterious  a  process  as  an  attempted 
dissection  of  life  itself.  As  a  drama 
it  is  perfectly  constructed,  and  of 
all  Shakespeare's  tragedies  it  is  most 
often  successfully  acted.  Words, 
images,  symbols,  and  actions  of  the 
play  complement  each  other.  Here- 
in are  no  poetic  flights  for  their  own 
sakes;  every  word  carries  its  own 
weight,  and  all  parts  contribute  to 
the  irresistible  cumulation  of  pur- 
pose and  theme.  Thus,  this  tragedy 
of  jealousy  and  haste  becomes  for 


each  of  us  here  and  now  a  lived  ex- 
perience as  personal  as  our  own  in- 
ner hearts. 

Othello's  self-knowledge  is  ac- 
curate when  he  says  early  in  the 
play: 

.  .  .  Rude  am  I  in  my  speech, 
And  little  blest  with  the  soft  phrase  of 
peace. 

I.  3.  81-82 

The  poetry  in  Othello  is  not  as 
lofty  and  noble  as  that  found  in 
Hamlet  and  King  Lear;  instead  it  is 
restrained,  oftentimes  more  perti- 
nent than  inspiring.  Therefore, 
fewer  lines  are  commonly  lifted  from 


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its  pages  to  be  quoted  apart  from 
the  play. 

E\'en  so,  such  quotes  as  the  fol- 
lowing are  too  useful  to  be  ignored: 

.  .  .  O  thou  in\isible  spirit  of  wine,  if 
thou  Imst  no  name  to  be  known  by,  let 
us  call  thee  dc\il! 

II.   3.   2S2-284 

.  .  .  that  men  should  put  an  enemy  in 
their  mouths  to  steal  a\\'ay  their  brains!. 
That  we  should,  with  joy,  pleasance,  revel, 
and  applause,  transform  ourselves  into 
beasts! 

II.  3.  291-294 

The  robbed  that  smiles  steals  something 
from  the  thief. 

I.  3.  208 

Men's  natures  wrangle  with  inferior  things. 
Though  great  ones  are  their  object.  ,  .  . 

III.  4.  144-145 

.  .  .  Trifles  light  as  air 

Are  to  the  jealous  confirmations  strong 

As  proofs  of  Holy  Writ.  .  .  . 

III.  3.  322-324 

How  poor  are  they  that  ha\e  not  patience! 
What   wound    did   c\er   heal   but   by    de- 


grees? 


II. 


376-377 


Good  name  in  man  and  woman,  dear  my 

lord. 
Is  the  immediate  jewel  of  their  souls. 
Who    steals    my    purse    steals    trash — 'tis 

something,   nothing, 
'Twas  mine,  'tis  his,  and  has  been  sla\'c  to 

thousands — 
But  he  that  filches  from  me  my  good  name 
Robs  me  of  that  which  not  enriches  him 
And  makes  me  poor  indeed. 

III.  3.  155-161 

Although  wellnigh  matchless  in 
beauty  and  pure  trust  and  inno- 
cence, even  Desdemona's  final  words 
speak  with  ample  power  only  when 
contained  within  the  play  itself. 
Here,  more  than  in  many  of  Shake- 
speare's plays,  we  need  all  if  we  are 
to  get  any,  so  tight-knit  is  its  con- 
struction, so  many  layered  the  over- 


tones radiating  from  one  character 
or  scene  to  diffuse  influence  to  all 
others, 

Although  flamlet  excells  OtheJJo 
in  intellectual  keenness  and  revela- 
tion of  inner  conflict,  just  as  Mac- 
beth and  King  Lear  contain  greater 
depth,  this  play  might  well  be  re- 
garded as  Shakespeare's  most  warm- 
ly human  and  most  natural  tragedy. 
It  contains  neither  ghosts,  witches, 
portents  of  death,  nor  a  sense  of 
fulfilling  destiny,  nor  a  resolving  of 
epic  issues.  The  scene  is  laid  en- 
tirely within  the  human  heart, 
\^'here  good  and  evil  grapple  together 
to  win  Othello's  soul.  At  its  core 
it  is  a  play  of  intrigue  and,  since  its 
purpose  is  merely  to  present  the 
workings  of  love  and  evil,  it  never 
attempts  to  define  or  explain  these 
universally  dominant  yet  mysterious 
forces. 

While  the  ingredients  of  the  play 
are  as  timeless  as  humanity  itself— 
ambition,  pride,  importance,  love, 
rashness,  honor,  innocence,  integrity 
—predominantly  the  play  is  a  trag- 
edy of  jealousy,  that  ''.  .  .  green-eyed 
monster  which  doth  mock  the  meat 
it  feeds  on  .  .  ."  (III.  3.  166).  Also, 
in  the  incompleteness  of  the  flaw- 
less love  between  Othello  and  Des- 
demona,  it  forces  us  to  admit  how 
isolated  each  of  us  is  from  fellows, 
lovers,  indeed  our  own  soul  mates. 
How  beautifully  Desdemona  and 
Othello  blend  into  one;  how  purely 
they  fulfill  each  in  the  other.  And 
yet  in  this  blissful  unity  how  devas- 
tatingly  yawns  the  green  gap  be- 
tween them. 

Truly  this  is  a  play  of  destruction: 
jealousy  is  the  destroyer;  love,  the 
destroyed.  And  these  inner  work- 
ings we  witness  in  horror  and  sympa- 


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thetic  suffering,  since  beneath  the 
set  smile  and  the  seen  pose  we  know 
them  only  too  well  within  ourselves. 

Plot 

The  play's  action  is  laid  against  a 
background  of  war,  which  serves  to 
reduce  life  to  its  essential  values, 
and  to  accentuate  the  prowess  of 
Othello,  a  Christian  Moor  who  is 
fighting  as  a  hired  general  for  the 
City  of  Venice.  Invited  to  the 
home  of  Brabantio,  a  Venetian  sen- 
ator, he  tells  of  his  adventures  with 
such  power  that  Desdemona,  the 
senator's  daughter,  falls  in  love  with 
him  and  they  are  secretly  married, 
lago,  ambitious  of  promotion  and 
domination,  has  just  sworn  eternal 
revenge  on  Othello  for  promoting 
Cassio  to  the  army  position  he  had 
hoped  for.  Once  he  learns  of  his 
master's  marriage,  lago  rouses  Bra- 
bantio out  of  his  bed  to  warn  him 
that  his  daughter  is  being  stolen  by 
the  black-bosomed  Moor,  and 
Brabantio  is  furious,  believing  that 
his  fair  Desdemona  has  been  led  to 
love  him  only  through  sorcery.  But 
when  the  case  is  heard  before  Ve- 
netian senators,  the  Duke  of  Venice 
approves  the  match  and  gives  the 
two  his  blessing,  even  though 
Brabantio  still  feels  he  has  been 
robbed,  and  bemoans  the  fact  that 
he  was  ever  a  father. 

Ordered  to  Cyprus  to  fight  the 
Turks,  Othello  leaves  Desdemona 
behind,  though  their  marriage  is 
but  a  few  hours  past.  The  storm 
turns  back  the  Turks,  and  a  general 
celebration  is  ordered.  lago  devises 
a  scheme  through  which  he  gets  Cas- 
sio drunk  and  induces  Roderigo  to 
quarrel  with  him.  lago  then  noti- 
fies Othello  of  the  brawl,  and  Cassio 
is  demoted,  to  lago's  great  satisfac- 


tion, lago  decides  to  further  his 
revenge  by  making  Othello  believe 
his  wife  has  been  unfaithful  with 
Cassio,  who  has  already  asked  Des- 
demona to  plead  with  Othello  to 
restore  him  (Cassio)  to  rank.  When 
Othello  sees  them  talking,  Cassio 
leaves  and  ''honest"  lago  points 
this  out  to  Othello  as  evidence  of 
Cassio's  guilt. 

As  a  love  gift,  Othello  had  given 
Desdemona  his  mother's  handker- 
chief, lago  had  pleaded  with  Emilia, 
his  wife  and  Desdemona's  maid,  to 
steal  it,  but  Emilia  refused.  How- 
ever, when  Desdemona  drops  it, 
Emilia  picks  it  up  and  gives  it  to 
lago,  who  ''plants"  it  in  Cassio's 
quarters.  Intrigued  by  its  beauty, 
Cassio  gives  it  to  his  mistress  to 
copy  its  design,  and  Othello  by 
chance  witnesses  the  giving.  Now 
certain  that  his  fair  wife  has  given 
the  handkerchief  to  Cassio  and  that 
Cassio  is  her  lover,  Othello  suc- 
cumbs to  lago's  suggestion  that,  in 
the  name  of  justice,  he  smother  his 
wife  to  keep  her  from  ruining  other 
men.  His  intention  is  accelerated 
when  Desdemona's  kinsman,  Lodo- 
vico,  arrives  to  recall  Othello  to 
Venice,  appointing  Cassio  in  his 
place.  Before  her  husband,  Desde- 
mona rejoices  at  Cassio's  good  for- 
tune "for  the  love  I  bear  him." 
Enraged  in  his  blind  jealousy,  Othel- 
lo strikes  her  and  accuses  her  of 
infidelity.  He  dismisses  her  maid 
and  commands  Desdemona  to  re- 
turn to  her  bed.  Despite  her  pro- 
testations of  innocence  and  her 
unwavering  love  for  him,  Othello 
smothers  Desdemona  in  her  bed. 
Emilia,  the  maid,  hears  Othello's 
confession  of  murder,  then,  in  the 
presence  of  all,  begins  telling  of  her 


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husband  lago's  treachery.  lago  kills 
her  to  seal  her  mouth,  and  only  mo- 
ments too  late  Othello  realizes  that 
he  has  loved  ''not  wisely  but  too 
well."  Recalling  his  lost  military 
glory,  he  stabs  himself;  and  Cassio, 
the  new  governor,  plans  at  once  to 
execute  unrepentant  lago,  who  re- 
fuses to  give  any  reason  for  his  arch- 
villainy. 

Othello 

It  takes  the  entire  play  to  reveal 
Othello's  full  identity  to  us.  In  the 
first  act  keen  lago  sees  him  truly 
as  a  man: 

...  of  a  free  and  open  nature 
That  thinks   men   honest  that   but  seem 
to  be  so  ...  . 

I.  3.  405-406 

After  Othello's  death,  Cassio  re- 
calls in  justice  that  ''he  was  great 
of  heart"  (V.  2.  361).  Basically 
Othello  is  a  simple  man  who  pos- 
sesses all  the  military  virtues:  emo- 
tional control,  cool  judgment,  belief 
in  action,  ability  to  make  decisions, 
courage,  loyalty,  entire  honesty,  an 
abiding  sense  of  justice,  and  the 
ordered  relation  of  authority  to  sub- 
ordinates, and  of  man  to  man. 
Othello,  a  middle-aged  man,  tells 
Desdemona's  father  that  he  loves 
Desdemona  and  needs  her,  not  to 
fulfill  bodily  appetites,  but  because 
he  desires  her  near  him  "...  to  be 
free  and  bounteous  to  her  mind" 
(I.  3.  266).  His  love  for  her  seems 
a  most  spiritual  one  and  entirely  sin- 
cere. Yet  throughout  his  life  Othel- 
lo has  never  before  been  in  society, 
nor  learned  even  the  most  prelimi- 
nary awareness  of  woman's  mystery. 
It  is,  therefore,  not  surprising  to 
learn  that  he  feels  his  winning  of 
the  lovely  Desdemona  to  be  too 
good  to  be  true.     Yet  in  his  new- 


found love  he  is  entirely  happy,  as 
is  shown  in  one  sunny  scene  within 
the  play  when  Desdemona  lands  at 
Cyprus  to  rejoin  her  bridegroom, 
and  Othello  reveals  his  feeling  for 
her.  Note  that,  soldier  true,  his 
most  endearing  love  for  her  is 
couched  in  military  language: 

Oth.  O  my  fair  warrior! 

Des.  My  dear  Othello! 

Oth.  It    gives    we    wonder    great    as    my 

content 
To  see  you  here  before  me.     O  my 

soul's  joy! 
If   after    every    tempest    come    such 

calms, 
May  the  winds  blow  till  they  have 

wakened  death! 
And    let    the    laboring    bark    climb 

hills  of  seas 
Olympus-high,  and  duck  again  as  low 
...  If  it  were  now  to  die, 
'Twere  now  to  be  most  happy,  for 

I  fear 
My   soul   hath   her   content   so   ab- 
solute 
That  not  another  comfort  like  to  this 
Succeeds  in  unknown  fate. 

II.  1.  183-194 

Thus  Othello's  joy  becomes  even 
greater  when  contrasted  with  empty 
tents  and  the  stern  utility  which 
comprise  the  realm  of  war  and  ex- 
clusive male  company.  But  his  joy 
is  short-lived,  for  lago  senses  that, 
inwardly,  Othello  may  not  be  as 
sure  of  his  newly  won  prize  as  he 
may  appear.  When  explaining  to 
Brabantio,  Desdemona's  father,  how 
he  had  won  her,  Othello  said: 

She  lo\ed  me  for  the  dangers  I  had  passed, 
And  I  loved  her  that  she  did  pity  them. 
This  only  is  the  witchcraft  I  have  used. 

I.  3.  167-169 

Desdemona  was  hungry  for  vicari- 
ous adventure  and  gallantry;  Othello 
needed  an  adoring  audience,  and 
mutual  lo\'e  filled  both  needs.  Yet 
she  was   too  beautiful,  too  nearly 


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perfect  for  him  to  trust  his  own 
plain  tongue  and  brusque  manner 
to  hold  her.  Therefore  when  lago 
merely  hints  at  her  inconstancy, 
suspicion  enters  Othello's  mind. 
Here  is  outward  support  of  his  own 
sheltered,  yet  shattering  inner  fears. 

From  this  point  to  his  death, 
Othello's  downfall  is  rapid  and 
cataclysmic.  Those  of  us  who  have 
inward  peace  find  it  easy  to  blame 
Othello  for  his  gullibility  and  for  his 
failure  to  examine  evidence  and 
motive  before  he  killed  his  greatest 
treasure.  Yet,  in  sympathy,  we 
should  recall  that  in  times  of  per- 
sonal failure  we  trust  ourselves  least 
of  all,  and  lean  most  heavily  on  our 
trusted,  honest  friends.  Othello, 
who  earlier  distrusted  all  passion, 
now  becomes  the  slave  of  the  green- 
eyed  monster  jealousy,  and,  as  it 
consumes  him,  he  thinks  not  only 
that  his  new-found  love  is  endang- 
ered, but  that  his  wife's  duplicity 
will  destroy  his  pride  and  position 
in  his  hfelong  passion:  war.  It  is 
not  only  that  his  wife  is  untrue, 
but  that  his  men  know  he  has  been 
made  a  fool  of  by  a  treacherous 
minx.    (Read  III.  3.  347-357.) 

And  Othello's  passion  of  jealousy 
begins  working  within  him.  Fed  by 
the  evil  lago,  he  comes  to  believe 
Desdemona  untrue.  He  uses  gross, 
obscene  language  in  addressing  her, 
and,  finally,  strikes  her.  Yet,  though 
his  revenge  is  of  ice,  steeled  and 
premeditated,  he  now  seems  to  find 
his  strongest  release  in  dramatizing 
his  revulsion  for  his  Desdemona, 
elsewhere  called  ''chaste,  skin  whiter 
than  snow,  smooth  as  monumental 
alabaster."  Here,  indeed,  is  passion 
at  war  with  itself,  all  within  a  man 
who  only  feeJs  passion  but  under- 


stands   nothing    of    its    compelling 
force.    Sincerely  he  asks: 

\\niip  me,  ye  devils, 

From  tlie  possession  of  this  heavenly  sight! 

Blow  me  about  in  winds!     Roast  me  in 

sulphur! 
Wash   me  in   steep-down   gulfs   of  liquid 

fire! 

0  Desdemona!  Desdemona!  Dead! 

Oh!   Oh!   Oh!  V.  2.  277-282 

When  Desdemona  is  dead  and 
Othello  calls  himself,  ''fool,  fool, 
fool,"  he  makes  his  final  speech,  in 
remembrance  of  their  love,  mention- 
ing that  he  had  done  good  in  serv- 
ing the  state.  Still,  unable  to  ex- 
plain what  has  happened  within 
himself,  his  last  act  of  defiance 
against  his  overwhelming  dilemma 
is  to  stab  himself,  a  most  willing 
victim  of  lago's  manipulations  and 
his  own  jealous  blindness. 

Jago 

While  at  first  glance,  Othello 
might  seem  the  victim  of  lago,  in 
many  basic  respects,  the  two  are 
destroyed  by  similar  weaknesses.  As 
lago  revealed  in  the  opening  speech 
to  Roderigo,  he  is  consumed  by  jeal- 
ousy; so,  finally,  is  Othello.  Both 
are  proud  and  ambitious.  lago  longs 
to  forsake  his  own  role  as  underdog 
and  to  command  men,  as  Othello 
now  commands  them. 

Were  I  the  Moor,  I  would  not  be  lago. 
In  following  him,  I  follow  but  myself.  .  .  . 

1  am  not  what  I  am.  I.  1.  57-58,  65 

Or,  that  disguise  I  appear  in  to- 
day is  not  my  true  destiny;  when  I 
am  equivalent  to  Othello,  I'll  then 
have  achieved  my  true  identity. 

So  jealous  is  lago  of  promoted 
Cassio,  as  well  as  of  Othello,  who 
now  has  fairer  wife  than  he'll  ever 
know,  and  so  deeply  wounded  is 
lago's  pride,  that  in  his  desire  for 


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revenge  he  most  beautifully  exem- 
plifies his  own  cynical  definition  of 
virtue: 

Virtue!  A  fig!  'Tis  in  ourselves  that 
we  are  thus  or  thus.  Our  bodies  are 
gardens,  to  the  which  our  wills  are  garden- 
ers. So  that  if  we  will  plant  nettles  or 
sow  lettuce,  set  hyssop  and  weed  up 
thyme,  supply  it  with  one  gender  of  herbs 
or  distract  it  with  many,  either  to  have  it 
sterile  with  idleness  or  manured  with  in- 
dustry— why,  the  power  and  corrigible 
authority  of  this  lies  in  our  wills.  .  .  .  But 
we  have  reason  to  cool  our  raging  motions, 
our  carnal  stings,  our  unbitted  lusts,  where- 
of I  take  this  that  you  call  lo\'e  to  be  a 
sect  or  scion  [bud  or  slip]. 

I.  3.  322-329,  334-337 

Constantly  maintaining  that  he 
is  ''nothing  if  not  cynical/'  lago 
spurns  emotion  and  love,  trusts 
nothing  and  no  one,  but  believes 
only  in  reason  and  cunning;  by  these 
he  destroys  and  is  destroyed.  In 
similar  vein,  Othello  claims  reason 
and  order  for  his  guides,  yet  his  de- 
struction is  brought  about  by  the 
entirely  opposite  evils  of  passion 
and  jealousy  run  rampant,  just  as 
similarly  these  evils  destroy  lago. 
Both  men  deserve  their  separate  yet 
similar  ends,  for  they  are  incapable 
of  assessing  themselves  truly,  and 
both  bring  about  their  own  self- 
destruction,  after  first  causing  havoc 
and  suffering  among  humankind. 
Further,  though  lago  claims  only 
intellectual  powers,  he  floods  the 
first  part  of  the  play  with  intense 
obscenities.  Yet  it  is  Othello  who 
finally  surpasses  him  as  he  reviles 
Desdemona  in  the  scenes  preceding 
her  murder.  Thus  barbaric,  pas- 
sionate emotions  overpower  both 
men  at  different  times,  but  for  simi- 
lar reasons. 

lago  shapes  Othello  to  his  will 
because  he  knows  him  to  be  both 


gulhble  and  proud.  For  lago,  all 
people  are  mechanical  objects  to  be 
manipulated.  First,  he  inflames 
Othello's  imagination  by  recounting 
Cassio's  dream  of  Desdemona  which 
occurred  only  in  lago's  evil  mind. 
When  Othello  reacts,  lago  sneers 
at  him,  which  wounds  Othello's 
pride  unbearably. 

0th    Dost  thou  mock  me? 

lago.  I  mock  you!    No,  by  Heaven. 

Would  you  would  bear  your  fortune 

like  a  man! 

IV.  1.61-63 

What  greater  wound  to  a  military 
hero  than  to  compare  him  thus  to 
a  whimpering  boob? 

lago's  cold  revenge  is  diabolical, 
intellectual,  complete.  Blending 
jealousy  and  hatred,  it  destroys  all 
it  touches,  save  Desdemona's  pure 
spirit.  Only  her  body  dies,  but  as 
surely  as  good  triumphs  over  evil, 
so  was  she  too  unsullied  even  to 
dream  that  such  incarnate  evil  as 
lago  could  exist,  and  her  sweet 
spirit  cowed  him  as  nothing  else 
does  in  the  play. 

Desdemona 

Entirely  a  great  woman,  ruled  by 
goodness,  love,  loyalty,  and  beauty, 
Desdemona  is  probably  the  strong- 
est heroine  in  all  Shakespeare.  By 
her  following  the  course  of  love  as 
she  found  it  in  Othello,  she  defied 
her  father  and  the  conventions  of 
her  time  to  follow  her  own  convic- 
tions. Such  an  act  demands  vision 
and  courage.  Desdemona  had  these 
and  more. 

Further,  so  great  was  the  beauty 
of  her  spirit  that,  until  he  became 
poisoned  by  distrust,  Othello  was 
exalted  by  her  love  into  becoming  a 
larger,  better  person.  This  miracle 
only  love  can  perform. 


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From  her  opening  scene,  Desde- 
mona's  words  achieve  great  heights. 
When  Othello  demands  that  she 
produce  his  handkerchief,  truly  she 
tells  him  that  he  is  to  blame  for  her 
having  lost  it;  but  he  bolts  away  in 
temper.  In  dismayed  selflessness, 
yet  with  constancy,  she  confides  to 
Cassio: 

My   lord    is    not   my   lord,    nor    should    I 

know  him 
Were  he  in  favor  as  in  humor  altered.  .  .  . 
What  I  ean  do  I  will,  and  more  I  will 
Than  for  myself  I  dare  .... 

III.  4.  124-125,  130-131 

And  so  Desdemona  contains  her 
own  feelings  within  herself,  and 
never  blames  nor  reproaches  Othello 
for  his  extravagant  accusation,  other 
than  to  reply,  ''I  have  not  deserved 
this"  after  he  strikes  her  in  front  of 
her  relative  Lodovico.  Contrast 
their  moods  and  controls: 

Oth.  O  devil,  devil! 

If  that  the  earth  eould  teem  with  a 

woman's  tears, 
Eaeh  drop  she  falls  would  prove  a 

crocodile. 
Out  of  my  sight! 
Des.    I  will  not  stay  to  oflFend  you. 

IV.  1.  255-258 

Othello's  fury  is  intensified  at 
their  next  meeting  when,  calling  her 
strumpet,  she  protests  ''By  Heaven, 
you  do  me  wrong"  (IV.  2.28).  After 
he  charges  out,  Desdemona  lies  half 
stunned  at  his  bitterness  and  invec- 
tive, lago  enters  with  Emilia  and 
in  tenderness  asks: 

lago.  \\niat  is  your  pleasure,  madam?  I  low 

is't  with  you? 
Dcs.    I  cannot  tell.     Those  that  do  teach 
young  babes 
Do   it  with   gentle   means   and   easy 

tasks. 
He  might  have  chid  me  so,  for,  in 
good  faith, 


I  am  a  child  to  chiding. 

IV.  2.  110-114 

Unable  even  to  repeat  the  word 
with  which  Othello  branded  her, 
she  still  manages  to  recover  suf- 
ficiently to  ask  wise  lago  for  tender 
advice: 

Des.    O  good  lago. 

What   shall    I   do   to   win   my  lord 

again? 
Good  friend,  go  to  him,  for,  by  this 

light  of  IIea\'en, 
I  know  not  how   I  lost  him.   Here 

I  kneel. 
If  e'er  my  will   did   trespass   'gainst 

his  love 
Either    in    discourse    of    thought    or 

actual  deed. 
Or   that   mine   eyes,   mine   ears,    or 

any  sense 
Delighted  them  in  any  other  form, 
Or  that  I  do  not  yet,  and  ever  did, 
And  ever  will,  though  he  do  shake 

me  off 
To    beggarly    di\'orcement,    love   him 

dearly, 
Comfort   forswear  me!      Unkindness 

may  do  much, 
And  his  unkindness  may  defeat  my 

life, 
But  never  taint  my  love. 

IV.  2.  148-161 

Thus  Othello's  abuse  is  answered. 
In  her  all-consuming  constancy 
Desdemona  feels  secure  from  any 
word  or  act  which  might  issue  from 
him.  Even  after  she  has  been  suf- 
focated, she  revives  for  a  moment. 

Emil.  Out  and  alas!     That  was  my  lady's 

voice. 

Help!  Help,  ho!  Help!  O  lady, 
speak  again! 

Sweet  Desdemona!  O  sweet  mis- 
tress, speak! 

Dcs.     A  guiltless  death  I  die. 

Emil.  Oh,  who  hath  done  this  deed? 

Des.     Nobody,  I  myself.     Farewell. 

V.  2.  119-125 
Commend  me  to  my  kind  lord. 
Oh,  farewell! 


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Indeed,  greater  charity  hath  no 
man,  nor  exen  hath  Shakespeare. 

Thoughts  for  Discussion 

1 .  Do  \oii  agree  or  disagree  that  OthcUo 
is  Shakespeare's  "most  warmh'  human  and 
most  natural  tragedy?"  Why  so? 


2.  \\'hat  was  the  tragedy  of  Othello? 

3.  What  human  strengths  and  weak- 
nesses are  brought  out  in  Othello? 

4.  I  low  possibly  eould  Desdemona  still 
lo\e  the  man  who  killed  her,  and  hold 
him  blameless? 

5.  \\'hat  is  Shakespeare's  attitude  to- 
ward drinking  as  brought  out  in  the  play? 


Social  Science  —  Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 

Lesson  9— Families  Have  Problems 
Elder  John  Fair  Larson 

For  Tuesday,  November  26,  1957 

Objective:  To  illustrate  the  nature  and  extent  of  problems  whieh  face  families  of 
today. 

We  are  troubled  on  every  side,  yet  not  distressed;  we  are  perplexed,  but  not  in 
despair  (II  Cor.  4:8). 


n^HE  family  today  faees  obstaeles 
which  threaten  the  very  founda- 
tion of  our  society.  Forces  that  scar 
and  warp  people  are  strong  and  their 
victims  are  many.  A  new  set  of  liv- 
ing patterns  finds  many  families  ill- 
prepared  to  meet  resulting  problems. 
The  economy  of  our  day  creates 
stress  in  family  relations.  Without 
conscientious  and  prayerful  effort, 
families  can  easily  be  divided  and 
destroyed.  Though  we  are  mindful 
of  our  problems,  we  cannot  despair. 
Existing  knowledge,  however^  can 
and  must  be  marshalled  to  ''retool" 
our  thinking  so  that  we  can  face 
and  solve  our  problems.  We  must 
rely  upon  the  refining  influences  of 
the  home,  if  we  would  have  our 
children  walk  sturdily  ahead  and  up- 
rightly before  our  Heavenly  Father. 
With  the  resources  at  our  com- 
mand, it  is  within  our  power  to 
strengthen  the  individual  and  there- 
by  contribute   to    happy   and    har- 


monious family  life.  The  gospel 
challenges  Latter-day  Saints  to  avoid 
family  deterioration  and  destruction 
and  enables  them  to  fashion  happi- 
ness and  eternal  progress  from  the 
opportunities  presented  by  the  fam- 
ily. 

Some  of  the  realities  facing  to- 
day's families  are  here  set  forth.  An 
exhaustive  treatment  is  not  intend- 
ed. 

L  The  Family  Time 

Two  generations  ago  individuals 
were  closely  anchored  to  the  home, 
where  food  was  raised  and  prepared 
and  where  clothing  and  other  items 
were  manufactured.  Parents  and 
children  worked  side  by  side.  Family 
chores  were  time-and-energy  con- 
suming. Recreation  was  largely 
self-made  and  in\'olved  initiative  as 
well  as  group  participation.  The  pop- 
ulation of  the  United  States  was 
largely  rural. 


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Slowly  all  of  this  changed.  The 
ingenuity  of  man  brought  an  era  of 
specialization  which  snatched  from 
families  many  of  the  tasks  they  had 
previously  performed.  Labor-saving 
devices  in  the  home  and  mechaniza- 
tion of  the  farm,  with  other  influ- 
ences, had  a  tendency  to  increase 
leisure  time.  The  leisure  did  not 
stay.  Today  outside  influences  have 
pulled  family  members  away  from 
the  hearth.  Much  of  our  recreation 
is  specialized,  time-consuming,  and, 
too  often,  requires  only  passive  par- 
ticipation with  limited  creative 
thinking.  Family  recreation  is  lim- 
ited. Most  families  now  live  in 
urban  areas.  Travel  is  taking  family 
members  away  from  home  for  short 
and  extended  stays.  Employment, 
education,  and  cultural  activities 
have  each  taken  their  toll  of  family 
time.  Fathers,  and  in  some  in- 
stances, mothers,  work  outside  the 
home.  Fortunately  the  effectiveness 
of  familv  influence  is  not  measured 
entirely  by  the  amount  of  time  fam- 
ily members  spend  together.  The 
quality  and  nature  of  the  associa- 
tion have  the  greatest  bearing  on  its 
end  result.  In  view  of  the  above 
trends,  will  the  home  remain  the 
cradle  of  conscience  and  virtue? 
What  can  \\t  do  to  see  that  families 
spend  time  together? 

2.  Communication  Mediz 

One  of  the  distinguishing  char- 
acteristics of  our  time  is  the  tre- 
mendous development  of  mass  com- 
munication media.  Fortunately 
none  of  us  lives  in  a  social  vacuum 
but  we  are  barraged  with  many  and 
varied  influences  which  affect  how 


we  think  and  act.  Radio,  television, 
movies,  and  comic  books,  to  name 
a  few,  are  of  recent  origin,  and  are 
a  part  of  this  new  influence.  The 
growing  child  of  today  and  his  par- 
ents are  constantly  exposed  to  sights 
and  sounds  undreamed  of  a  genera- 
tion ago.  Much  of  our  enjoyment 
and  progress  is  a  result  of  this  de- 
velopment. While  these  sights  and 
sounds  can  do  good,  we  cannot 
avoid  the  fact  that  they  can  also  be 
carriers  of  evil  and  sinister  influen- 
ces. This  places  the  added  respon- 
sibility upon  parents  to  evaluate  and 
regulate  the  use  of  these  new  in- 
fluences in  the  home.  The  impact 
of  comic  books  of  the  horror  and 
crime  type  were  recently  the  subject 
of  an  investigation  by  the  U.S.  Sen- 
ate Judiciary  Committee's  Subcom- 
mittee to  Investigate  Juvenile 
Delinquency.  The  subcommittee 
found  legions  of  these  magazines 
(they  were  neither  books  nor  com- 
ic) depicting,  explaining,  and  il- 
lustrating, in  detail,  virtually  every 
form  of  crime  and  horror.  In  the 
spring  of  1954,  over  thirty  million 
copies  of  ''funny  books"  of  the  crime 
and  horror  type  were  being  printed 
and  distributed  monthly  in  the 
United  States. 
The  subcommittee  observed: 

.  .  .  this  country  cannot  afford  the  cal- 
culated risk  invohed  in  feeding  its  chil- 
dren through  comic  books,  a  concentrated 
diet  of  crime,  horror,  and  \iolence.  There 
was  substantial  .  .  .  agreement  among  the 
experts  that  there  may  be  detrimental  and 
delinquency-producing  effects  upon  both 
the  emotionally  disturbed  child  and  the 
emotionally  normal  delinquent.  ( 1 ) 

Many  wholesome  ''funny  books'' 


1.  Interim   Report  of  the  Subcommittee   to   Investigate  Ju\enile  Delinquency   to 
the  Committee  on  The  Judiciary,  U.  S.  Senate,  84th  Congress,  1956,  on  Comic  Books. 


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are  published  and  available,  and 
parents  would  do  well  to  discourage 
children  from  reading  the  other 
type. 

Television,  radio,  movies,  and 
newspapers  were  also  found  to  be 
producing  material  which  overem- 
phasized crime  and  violence.  The 
subcommittee  reported: 

These  media  have  a  tremendous  influ- 
ence on  the  young  child  in  his  early  de- 
velopment and  that  while  reflecting  the 
major  attitudes  of  the  society,  they  are 
in  turn  influencing,  to  a  great  degree,  the 
attitudinal  development  of  children.  That 
given  an  emotionally  stable  child  who  has 
had  what  may  be  interpreted  as  the  prop- 
er emotional  relationship  with  his  par- 
ents, this  type  of  presentation  in  the  mass 
media  may  have  little  or  no  effect  in 
terms  of  influencing  his  behavior.  How- 
ever, given  a  child  with  a  more  or  less 
undeveloped  attitudinal  framework,  the 
mass  media  may  go  a  long  way  toward 
providing  ideas  both  in  the  development 
of  attitudes  and  in  predisposing  the  child 
for  a  certain  type  of  behavior.  (2) 

Parents  who  are  mindful  of  our 
cherished  principles  of  freedom  of 
the  press  and  free  agency,  and  of 
the  obligation  to  teach  their  chil- 
dren properly,  will  diligently  thwart 
the  degrading,  stimulate  the  whole- 
some, and  be  very  sure  that  their 
children  see  virtues  and  values  with- 
out distortion. 

3.  An  Aging  Population 

In  1900  there  were  only  three  million 
persons  in  the  United  States  \\'ho  were  65 
years  of  age  or  over.  Today  there  are  ap- 
proximately 14  million.  It  is  estimated 
that  by  1970  there  will  be  18.5  million 
and  by  the  year  2000  almost  27  million 
persons  aged  65  and  over.  .  .  .  The  aged 
population  is  increasing  by  1,000  every 
day.    (3) 


In  most  parts  of  the  world,  peo- 
ple are  living  longer.  If  you  are  now 
twenty-fi\'e  years  of  age  you  can 
expect  to  live  to  seventy-two;  if  you 
are  now  forty  you  can  expect  to  live 
past  seventy-three;  if  you  are  now 
sixty  you  can  expect  to  live  past 
seventy-seven;  and  if  you  are  sixty- 
nine  you  will  likely  live  to  the  age 
of  eighty. 

We  are  forever  grateful  for  the 
contributions  made  by  the  more 
mature  among  us  and  we  can  show 
that  gratitude  by  recognizing  them, 
as  God  intended,  as  individuals  who 
have  varying  needs,  desires,  circum- 
stances, and  capacities.  They  con- 
tinue to  have  aspirations  to  grow 
and  develop.  As  more  elderly  peo- 
ple remain  with  the  family,  the  job 
of  planning  for  them  and  with  them 
becomes  a  necessity.  Can  we  help 
them  as  they  once  helped  us?  How 
and  where  the  aged  shall  spend 
their  time  and  whether  they  are 
happy  and  contented  is  largely  the 
result  of  family  decisions.  The  decis- 
ions we  make  may  well  become  the 
patterns  by  which  our  own  situa- 
tion is  determined  when  we  become 
old. 

4.  Family  Breakdown 

The  increasing  evidence  of  fam- 
ily breakdown  is  distressing.  Far 
too  many  parents  are  failing  to  solve 
and  avoid  personal  difficulties  and 
are  turning  to  divorce  as  the  answer. 
Too  many  children  find  themselves 
in  a  half-parentless  world  and  in 
homes  where  parents  provide  an 
example  of  quarrelling,  bitterness, 
and  distrust  for  children  to  absorb. 


2.  Ibid.,  on  Motion  Pictures. 

3.  Social  Security  Bulletin,  U.  S.  Department  of  Health,  Education,  and  Welfare, 
August,  1956,  Volume  19,  No.  8. 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


565 


In  recent  years  the  divorce  rate  has 
increased  in  the  United  States  as 
well  as  other  countries.  Fortunately 
about  sixty  per  cent  of  the  divorces 
granted  were  to  couples  who  had  no 
children.  Divorces  involving  chil- 
dren usually  occur  in  the  early  years 
of  marriage.  Two-thirds  of  the  chil- 
dren affected  are  under  ten.  (4) 
Divorce  and  parental  desertion  are 
increasing  at  an  alarming  rate  and 
are  now  the  major  causes  of  child 
dependency.  There  are  likely  some 
justifiable  divorces.  Basically,  how- 
ever, marriages  fail  because  of  the 
failure  of  the  individuals  who  mar- 
ry. What  can  be  done  to  stem  the 
tide  of  family  breakdowns? 

5.  Mental  JJJness 

A  congressional  committee,  ap- 
pointed to  investigate  the  toll  of 
major  diseases,  after  making  an  ex- 
haustive study  of  all  health  prob- 
lems, concluded: 

There  is  probably  no  more  serious 
problem  in  the  health  field  today  than 
that  of  mental  illness.    (5) 

Hospitalization  for  mental  illness 
has  increased  sixty  per  cent  in  twenty 
years.  This  tells  only  part  of  the 
story.  The  wasted  lives,  the  misery, 
and  the  unhappiness  of  the  mentally 
ill  and  their  families  cannot  be  esti- 
mated. Fortunately,  tremendous 
gains  are  currently  being  made  by 
which  mental  illness  is  prevented 
and  treated.  What  can  we  do  to 
avoid  mental  illness? 

6.  Delinquency  and  Crime 

Crime  remains  one  of  the  all-time 


problems  affecting  people.  The 
percentage  rise  in  crime  in  the 
United  States,  1950  through  1955, 
was  three  times  that  of  the  popula- 
tion. Crime  was  up  twenty-six  per 
cent  while  population  was  up  nine 
per  cent.  (6) 

Other  countries  have  had  similar 
disturbing  increases  in  juvenile  de- 
linquency and  adult  crime. 

No  pat  solution  to  crime  and 
delinquency  has  been  found.  How- 
ever, certain  things  are  known  about 
the  problems.  Human  behavior  is 
the  end  result  of  many  influences, 
environmental  and  inheritable.  Ac- 
tion not  in  conformity  with  the 
accepted  code  of  conduct  is  the 
result  of  multiple  causes.  An  exami- 
nation of  these  hard-to-find  causes 
often  suggests  treatment  measures 
helpful  in  solving  the  problem. 
Until  we  are  able  to  avoid  the  de- 
velopment of  criminal  tendencies  in 
people,  or  until  we  are  able  to  solve 
personality  problems  of  those  who 
commit  crime,  we  shall  not  make 
effective  inroads  upon  the  elimina- 
tion of  this  social  ill.  Crime  and 
delinquency  bring  unhappiness  to 
the  individual  and  his  family.  What 
can  we  do  as  mothers  to  meet  this 
alarming  problem? 

7.  Economic  Factors  in 
Family  Living 

Many  problems  of  an  economic 
nature  strain  family  life  today.  We 
shall  mention  briefly  only  a  few. 
Desertion  of  wives  and  children  has 
resulted  in  the  public  assuming  re- 


4.  A  Chart  Book,  Children  and  Youth  at  the  Mideentury,  Mideentury  White  House 
Conference  on  Children  and  Youth,  1950. 

5.  Committee  on   Interstate  &  Foreign  Commerce,  Rep.  Charles  A.   Wolverton, 
N.  J.,  Chairman.     Commonly  called  the  Wolverton  Committee. 

6.  Uniform  Crime  Reports,  Volume  XXVI,  No.  2,  Annual  Bulletin,  1955. 


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sponsibility.  Employment  often 
separates  families.  The  cost  of  liv- 
ing, desire  for  material  things  as 
well  as  low  income,  often  result, 
separately  and  collectively,  in  stress. 
Young  couples  often  assume  they 
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mothers  with  children  under  the 
age  of  eighteen  years  in  1949,  over 
four  million  worked  outside  the 
home.  One  and  one-half  million 
of  these  had  children  of  preschool 
age.  (7) 

Families  Can  Meet  the  Challenge 

It  takes  little  imagination  to 
realize  that  the  home  is  vulnerable 
to  attack.  Latter-dav  Saint  families 
face  problems  similar  to  those  faced 
by  other  families.  It  is  not  intend- 
ed in  this  lesson  to  suggest  solutions 
to  the  problems  above  discussed. 
We  must  be  constantly  alert  to  the 
development  of  problems  which 
affect  the  family  and,  once  a  prob- 
lem is  detected,  our  efforts  should 
be  towards  solving  it.  Future  lessons 
will  dwell  on  how  families  can  meet 
problems  that  arise. 


4.  A  Chart  Book,  Children  and  Youth 
at  the  Mideentnry,  Midcentury  White 
House  Conference  on  Children  and  Youth, 
1950. 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


567 


The  task  which  is  ours  is  stated 
in  the  following  words: 

We  cannot  insulate  our  children  from 
the  uncertainties  of  the  world  in  which 
we  live  or  from  the  impact  of  the  prob- 
lems which  confront  us  all.  What  we 
can  do  is  to  equip  them  to  meet  these 
problems,  to  do  their  part  in  the  total 
effort,  and  to  build  up  those  inner  re- 
sources of  character  which  are  the  main 
strength  of  the  American  people.  (8) 

Within  the  gospel  is  found  the 
power  to  defeat  and  destroy  un- 
wholesome family  influences.  It 
requires  more  than  acceptance  and 
belief,  however.  We  must  make 
apphcation  of  the  gospel  in  our 
lives.  Conscientious,  prayerful  ef- 
fort to  know  and  understand  the 
gospel,  and  the  living  of  it,  will 
reduce  the  threat  of  defeat  and  will 
bring  happiness  and  the  realization 
of  pleasant  ambitions.  Children  will 
be  prepared  to  meet  squarely  the 
temptations  and  problems  which 
are  theirs,  and  all  family  members 
will  be  grateful  for  the  fruits  of  the 
gospel. 

Supplementary  Reference 

1.  "Valiant  Womanhood" — Vesta  P. 
Crawford,  The  Reliei  Society  Magazine, 
October  1955,  page  660. 

Questions  for  Discussion 

1.  Suggest  ways  in  which  families  of 
today  could  better  utilize  their  time  to 
spend  more  hours  together.  How  can 
family  time  be  used  wastefully?  How 
can  the  Family  Hour  be  used  to  increase 
family  solidarity? 

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programs  for  children  and  adolescents. 
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3.  What  tangible  steps  can  be  taken 
in  our  homes  to  offset  the  comic  book 
craze? 

4.  Point  out  the  recent  advancements 
made  in  the  treatment  of  mental  illness. 
Why  is  greater  understanding  of  this 
problem  necessary  for  all  of  us? 

5.  Why  should  every  parent  be  con- 
cerned with  the  problem  of  delinquency 
and  crime?     With  the  causes? 


8.  President  Harry  S.  Truman,  Proceed- 
ings Midcentury  White  House  Conference 
on  Children  and  Youth,  1950. 


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Magazine  as  much  as  I  do.  One  daughter, 
Mrs.  Joan  Kershaw,  hves  in  Ogden, 
Utah.  .  .  .  She  presides  over  her  home 
and  family  of  fi\'e  from  her  wheel  chair, 
and  gets  many  happy  hours  from  our 
Magazine.  My  other  daughter,  Dorothy 
Cunningham,  is  now  in  far-off  Okinawa 
with  her  airforce  husband  and  little 
daughter.  They  enjoy  the  Magazine  and 
Relief  Society  over  there.  She  says  she 
feels  most  at  home  in  Okinawa  when  she 
is  in  Relief  Society. 

— Edith  Weenig 

President 

Riverside  Ward  Relief  Society 

Salt  Lake  City,  Utah 


I  sent  a  copy  of  the  July  issue  of  the 
Magazine  (containing  my  article,  "Let's 
Visit  a  Desert  Botanical  Garden")  to  Mr. 
Marshall  of  the  Tempe  (Arizona)  Botani- 
cal Garden,  and  he  said,  quote:  'Xet  me 
say  that  this  is  the  first  article  written  by 
an  author  outside  of  our  staff  which  was 
factual  and  unobjectional  in  every  way. 
Congratulations."  That's  meat  and  drink, 
isn't  it,  to  a  struggling  author? 

— Marijane  Morris 

Corrine,  Utah 


It  was  with  great  interest  that  I  read 
Preston  Nibley's  account  of  the  South 
African  Mission  (July  1957).  As  a  child 
I  attended  those  meetings  with  my  moth- 
er, Edith  M.  Spanton,  and  learned  the 
gospel  hymns.  She  was  converted  to  the 
Church  by  Elders  Lyon  and  Simpkins  and 
came  to  Utah  in  1906.  Strangely  enough, 
in  her  later  years,  she  sometimes  served 
as  baby-sitter  for  Brother  Nibley's  small 
twin  granddaughters.  As  this  is  her  birth- 
day month,  I  am  sending  this  letter  in 
loving  tribute  to  her  memory  and  with 
everlasting  gratitude  to  her  and  to  those 
elders  who  made  our  coming  to  Utah  pos- 
sible. 

— Edith  S.  Anderson 


Berkeley,  California 


I  did  enjoy  Edna  Day's  article  "A 
Nursery  Will  Be  Maintained,"  in  the 
June  issue  of  the  Magazine.  I  am  proud 
to  be  her  friend.  Relief  Society  has  in- 
troduced me  to  so  many  friends — Erances 
C.  Yost,  Mabel  Law  Atkinson,  Agnes  Just 
Reid.  Years  ago,  before  I  ever  dreamed 
that  someday  I  would  be  a  Latter-day 
Saint,  I  sold  romantic  verse  to  national 
magazines — and  I  could  usually  count  on 
appearing  alongside  Catherine  Berry, 
whom  I  hope  to  see  some  day. 

— Elaine  Walters 

Blackfoot,  Idaho 

I  cannot  refrain  from  expressing  my  ap- 
preciation for  the  editorial  "Pen  in  Hand" 
(by  Vesta  P.  Crawford)  in  the  May  Mag- 
zine.  I  read  it  for  the  first  time  this  morn- 
ing, then  immediately  reread  it,  and  now, 
this  afternoon,  I  read  it  again  and  find  it 
even  more  beautiful  and  vital,  especially 
for  Latter-day  Saint  writers. 

— Mabel  Law  Atkinson 

Dayton,  Idaho 

I  wish  to  express  my  pleasure  in  the 
article  "A  Nursery  Will  Be  Maintained" 
(June  1957).  It  recalled  to  memory  some 
of  my  own  teaching  experiences  and  the 
joy  I  find  when  some  fine  young  man  or 
woman  comes  up  to  me  and  asks  "Do  you 
remember  me?  You  taught  me  in  sec- 
ond grade,"  and  I  grope  back  through  the 
years  for  the  small  edition  I  once  knew. 
It  is  a  wonderful  privilege  to  be  a  teacher 
and  have  some  small  part  in  instructing 
and  shaping  these  young  lives.  I  always 
enjoy  Erances  Yost's  stories  and  articles. 
Her  versatility  amazes  me.  It  shows  what 
determination  and  faith  can  do. 
— Edith  Johannesen 

Idaho  Ealls,  Idaho 

I  watch  the  Magazine  with  interest 
from  month  to  month,  and  enjoy  it  very 
much.  When  I  get  back  in  Zion,  I  plan 
to  try  many  of  those  wonderful  recipes 
(from  the  missions)  that  have  been  pub- 
lished. 

— Bernice  O.  Dyer 

President 

West  German  Mission 

Relief  Society 


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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of  the   Relief   Society   of   The   Church   of   Jesus    Christ   of   Latter-day    Saints 

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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Editor    -----------  Marianne  C.  Sharp 

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Vol.  44 


SEPTEMBER   1957 


No.   9 


e 


on  tents 


SPECIAL  FEATURES 

My  Father — A  True  Leader  Emma  Rae  McKay  Ashton  573 

Free  Agency  Henry  D.   Moyle  575 

The  Southern  Far  East  Mission  Preston  R.   Nibley  580 

A  Temple  Rises  in  New  Zealand  Wealtha  S.   Mendenhall  582 

Nothing  Worth  Having   Is   Free   601 

FICTION 

The  Heavenly  Bonus  Rosa  Lee   Lloyd  589 

For  This  I  Have  Yearned  Mabel  Law  Atkinson  605 

The  Bright  Star — Chapter   7    (Conclusion)    Dorothy   S.    Romney  608 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

From  Near  and  Far  570 

Sixty  Years  Ago  596 

Woman's    Sphere    Ramona    W.    Cannon  597 

Editorial:  Her  Choice  Marianne  C.   Sharp  598 

Notes  to  the  Field:  Relief  Society  Magazine  Subscription  Price  Raised  to  $2  600 

Annual  General  Relief  Society  Conference  600 

Notes  From   the   Field:      Relief   Society   Activities   Hulda  Parker  612 

Birthday    Congratulations     640 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes  From  the  Southern  Far  East  Mission  Luana  C.  Heaton  602 

Dora  Jolley  Pursues  a  Hobby   of  Handwork  611 

LESSON  DEPARTMENT 

Theology:  What  to  Expect  From  a  Study  of  the  Doctrine  and  Covenants  Roy  W.   Doxey  619 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages:   "'O  Ye  That  Embark  in  the  Service  of  God   .   .   .   ." 

Christine    H.    Robinson  625 

Work   Meeting:    Living   Economically    William    F.    Edwards  626 

Literature:  "Twelfth  Night,  or  What  You  Will"  Briant  S.   Jacobs  629 

Suggested  Music  for  Lessons  on  Shakespeare   636 

Social  Science:  References  for   "Families   Have  Problems"   638 

POETRY 

Country  Neighbors — Frontispiece,  Elsie  McKinnon  Strachan,  569;  Cool  Grove  of  Language, 
Dorothy  J.  Roberts,  574;  Summers  Past,  Gertrude  T.  Koven,  578;  The  Golden  Net,  Ethel  Jacob- 
son,  579;  Tour  of  Pennsylvania,  Margery  S.  Stewart,  588;  Drowsing  in  the  Sun,  Ida  Isaacson,  595; 
To  Aunt  Getty's  Old  Blue  Bowl,  Matia  McClelland  Burk,  599;  Only  These,  Mabel  Jones  Gabbott, 
604;  Seed  of  Lace,  Maryhale  Woolsey,  607;  My  Husband's  Hands,  Marie  Ricks,  618;  To  Children 
Asleep,  Florence  Marie  Gates  Bennett,  624;   Worship,   Wanda  Greene   Nielson,   640. 


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PRESIDENT  DAVID  O.  McKAY 

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lliyi  CJather — .jL  cJrue  JLeader 

Birthday  Greetings  to  President  David  O.  McKay 
On  His  Eighty-Fourth  Birthday,  September  8,  1957 

Emma  Rae  McKay  Ashton 

PARENTS  of  the  Church  are  admonished  by  their  leaders  to  teach  the 

gospel  in  their  homes  and  to  direct  their  children  wisely  at  the 
critical  periods  of  their  lives.  Father,  I  appreciate  your  guidance  through- 
out my  life. 

It  seems  only  yesterday  that  I  pleaded  to  stay  home  from  the  kinder- 
garten class  in  Sunday  School.  You  smiled  and  explained  gently,  ''Oh, 
everyone  in  our  family  attends  Sunday  School  on  Sunday  morning.  Out 
of  the  seven  days  in  the  week,  this  first  one  belongs  to  the  Lord.  It  is 
different.  It  is  his  day— the  day  when,  fresh  and  clean,  your  hair  neatly 
curled,  and  wearing  your  best  shiny  shoes  and  crisp  frock,  you  honor  and 
worship  our  Heavenly  Father  in  his  house.  Your  spirit,  as  well  as  your 
body,  must  be  fed  to  become  the  lovely  thing  you  want  it  to  be." 

Needless  to  say,  after  that,  with  you  and  Mother  we  filed  happily  to 
Church.  After  Sunday  School,  permission  to  play  on  the  slide  and  swings 
in  the  park  we  knew  would  be  denied,  so  we  read  quietly,  or  visited  rela- 
tives. How  secure  a  small  child  feels  under  the  influence  of  parents  who 
live  with  a  purpose  and  point  the  way  of  truth  unwaveringly. 

Not  long  after  you  returned  from  your  mission  around  the  world, 
one  day  you  seated  me  beside  you  and  announced  that  it  was  time  that 
I  was  baptized.  ''Do  you  know  what  that  means,  Emma  Rae?  When  you 
are  immersed  in  the  water,  all  of  your  sins  are  washed  away.  You  emerge 
a  new  person  with  a  determination,  I  hope,  to  keep  your  life  clean  and 
sweet.  After  you  are  baptized,  you  v/ill  be  confirmed  a  member  of  The 
Church  of  Jesus  Christ  of  Latter-day  Saints  and  receive  the  gift  of  the 
Holy  Ghost  to  guide  you  in  choosing  the  right  when  temptation  confronts 
you." 

With  deep  appreciation,  I  recall  a  lesson  in  politeness  that  you 
taught  me.  Upon  request,  I  arose  from  the  dinner  table  to  cut  more 
bread.  Returning,  and  before  placing  the  bread  on  the  table,  I  helped 
myself  to  a  slice.  All  you  said  was,  "Always  serve  yourself  last.  Be  mind- 
ful of  others  first."  That  was  enough.  Although  you  said  no  more  than 
that,  from  then  on,  this  lesson  in  courtesy  was  reinforced  and  indelibly 
stamped  upon  my  mind  by  your  daily  practice  of  it. 

Often  you  counseled,  "It  is  the  little  things  in  life  that  count— the 
habitual  use  of  'please,'  'thank  you,'  and  'pardon  me,'  that  are  im- 
portant." Sometimes,  when  our  play  was  tense  and  our  voices  became 
shrill,  you  quoted  King  Lear's  eulogy  to  Cordelia  to  quiet  us:  "Her  voice 
was  ever  soft,  gentle,  and  low,  an  excellent  thing  in  woman." 

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574  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER  1957 

Problems  confront  teenagers  whose  professors  attempt  in  various  ways 
to  encourage  disbelief  in  Christ's  teachings.  One  day  I  was  perturbed  over 
the  explanation  in  a  university  class  that  a  separate  spirit  leaving  the  body 
and  ascending  to  heaven  is  inconceivable.  The  professor  illustrated  his 
point  with  an  analogy— comparing  the  body  with  the  mechanism  of  a 
watch.  When  the  mainspring  of  the  watch  breaks  or  important  parts  fail 
to  function,  the  ticking  stops.  When  the  human  heart  ceases  beating, 
the  body  dies.  Your  decisive  answer  strengthened  my  testimony.  *'Your 
professor  forgets  that  the  intelligence  behind  that  watch  still  lives,  and 
will  go  on  living.  Life  is  eternal."  You  explained  that  intelligence  never 
was  created  nor  can  be;  that  heavenly  parents  created  spiritual  bodies  in 
which  the  organized  intelligences  could  dwell;  and  that  the  spirit  bodies 
are  permitted  to  be  born  into  earthly  bodies.  By  obeying  the  Word  of 
Wisdom  and  exercising  self-control,  we  keep  unsullied  the  earthly  taber- 
nacles of  our  eternal  spirits. 

''A  true  leader,"  a  noted  educator  defined,  ''possesses  two  outstanding 
qualities:  first,  consideration  for  the  welfare  of  others;  and  second,  the 
ability  to  help  people  understand  their  assignments."  These  qualities  in  you 
are  evident  in  your  piloting  of  this  great  Church.  Your  love,  sympathetic 
understanding,  and  deep  concern  for  the  happiness  of  members  of  the 
Church,  and  your  wisdom  in  counseling  and  interpreting  life's  purposes 
to  your  people  have  endeared  you  forever  in  their  hearts. 


L^ooi  (^rove  of  JLanguage 
Dorothy  ].  Roheits 

I  walked  the  cool  grove  of  language 
For  healing;  through  untoned  reams 
Of  silence,  for  a  faith. 
I  moved  down  the  long  corridors 
Of  men's  thinking  and  was  assuaged. 
For  through  all  the  groves  stirred 
The  whisper  of  God's  voice, 
Root  and  bud  .  .  .  common  to  all. 
I  walked  the  cool  grove  of  language 
And  in  the  green  forest  of  words 
Found  my  heart  made  whole. 


Free  Agency 

Henry  D.  MoyJe 
Of  the  Council  of  the  Twelve 

Choose  you  this  day  whom  ye  will  serve  (Joshua  24:15). 


THIS  was  the  call  of  a  great 
prophet  of  God  to  his  people, 
to  exercise  their  free  agency. 
So  has  it  been  in  all  generations  of 
time.      Indeed,    our    free    agency 
reaches  into  the  eternities. 

Heaven  wills  our  happiness,  allows  our 
doom    (Young,  Night  Thoughts). 

We  often  have  occasion  to  repeat 
with  approval  the  poetic  words  of 
William  C.  Gregg: 

Know  this,  that  every  soul  is  free 

To  choose  his  life  and  what  he'll  be, 

For  this  eternal  truth  is  given 

That  God  will  force  no  man  to  heaven. 

He'll  call,  persuade,  direct  aright. 

And  bless  with  wisdom,  love,  and  light, 

In  nameless  ways  be  good  and  kind, 
But  never  force  the  human  mind. 

These  poetic  words  portray  the 
author's  deep  insight  into  the  in- 
herent power  of  man.  By  and 
through  the  inspiration  of  the  Al- 
mighty, it  is  written: 

Now  there  was  no  law  against  a  man's 
belief;  for  it  was  strictly  contrary  to  the 
commands  of  God  that  there  should  be 
a  law  which  should  bring  men  on  to  un- 
equal ground  (Alma  30:7). 

Free  agency  is  a  godly  attribute 
in  which  we  share  as  his  children. 
It  is  our  most  priceless  heritage. 
Like  all  other  endowments  from  on 
high,  to  benefit  by  it,  we  must  exert 
ourselves.  Stamped  indelibly  on  the 
minds  of  Latter-day  Saints,  is  this 
truth: 


'The  glory  of  God  is  intelligence/' 

We  are  limited  in  the  exercise  of 
our  free  agency  by  the  extent  or 
degree  of  our  intelligence.  Joshua's 
choice  of  whom  he  would  serve  was 
an  intelligent  choice.  He  knew  the 
alternatives  when  he  chose  the  God 
of  Israel.  He  realized  that  man 
could  not  be  saved  in  ignorance. 
Throughout  the  history  of  the  world, 
it  is  the  ignorant  who  have  been 
oppressed  and  deprived  to  the  great- 
est extent  of  their  liberty.  It  stands 
to  reason  that  such  a  great  gift  from 
God  entails  equally  great  responsi- 
bilities upon  the  part  of  the  recip- 
ient. We  do  not  merit  possession 
of  this  great  gift  unless  we  use  it 
intelligently  and  beneficially.  For 
this  power  of  free  agency  to  be 
functional,  there  must  needs  be  a 
choice. 

And  men  are  instructed  sufficiently  that 
they  know  good  from  evil  ...   (2  Nephi 

For  it  must  needs  be,  that  there  is  an 
opposition  in  all  things.  If  not  so  .  .  . 
righteousness  could  not  be  brought  to 
pass,  neither  wickedness,  neither  holiness 
nor  misery,   neither  good   nor  bad.   .    .   . 

And  if  ye  shall  say  there  is  no  law,  ye 
shall  also  say  there  is  no  sin.  If  ye  shall 
say  there  is  no  sin,  ye  shall  also  say  there 
is  no  righteousness.  And  if  there  be  no 
righteousness  there  be  no  happiness.  And 
if  there  be  no  righteousness  nor  happiness 
there  be  no  punishment  nor  misery.  And 
if  these  things  are  not  there  is  no 
God  ...  (2  Nephi,  2:11,  13). 

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Without  the  inherent  power  to 
decide,  man's  abihty  to  progress 
eternally  would  be  destroyed. 

Our  voluntary  efforts  toward  our 
improvement  carry  us  along  a  very 
interesting  road.  The  farther  we 
travel,  the  greater  becomes  the  scope 
of  our  opportunity.  The  more  we 
learn  the  greater  becomes  the  field 
of  the  unknown.  Through  it  all  we 
gain  at  least  a  vague  conception  of 
the  infinite.  It  makes  it  easier  to 
comprehend  in  some  small  measure 
the  possibility  of  our  endless,  un- 
limited development.  The  finite 
mind  has  its  limitations,  but  of  this 
we  can  be  assured,  we  are  all  able  to 
grasp  so  far  as  we  will  the  possibili- 
ties of  progress  within  our  own 
reach.  Whether  we  stretch  out  our 
hand  to  secure  for  ourselves  our  op- 
portunities, or  let  them  pass  by,  is 
the  office  of  our  free  agency.  As 
we  will,  so  can  we  succeed.  In  fact, 
our  free  agency  is  the  foundation  of 
life.  It  is  controlled  in  large  meas- 
ure by  our  faith.  Paul  commented 
beautifully  when  he  said: 

Now  faith  is  the  substance  of  things 
hoped  for,  the  evidence  of  things  not  seen 
(Hebrews  11:1). 

Then  he  goes  on  in  verse  6  to  say: 

But  without  faith  it  is  impossible  to 
please  him:  for  he  that  cometh  to  God 
must  believe  that  he  is,  and  that  he  is  a 
rewarder  of  them  that  diligently  seek 
him. 

We  see,  therefore,  without  faith 
it  is  impossible  to  progress.  Faith  in 
very  deed  motivates  action.  With- 
out action  there  is  no  such  thing  as 
success.  We  sometimes  err  in  limit- 
ing the  scope  of  our  free  agency  to 
man's  religious  needs.  Like  all 
other  principles  of  the  gospel,  there 


is  no  circumscription.  It  is  the  con- 
trolling factor  in  all  our  human 
activities  and  considerations. 

Man  was  also  in  the  beginning  with 
God.  Intelligence,  or  the  light  of  truth, 
was  not  created  or  made,  neither  indeed 
can  be. 

All  truth  is  independent  in  that  sphere 
in  which  God  has  placed  it,  to  act  for 
itself,  as  all  intelligence  also;  otherwise 
there  is  no  existence  (D.  &  C.  93:29,  30). 

T  ET  us  for  a  moment  reflect  upon 
what  has  been  accomplished  by 
the  exercising  of  the  free  agency  of 
man.  It  is  natural  that  we  should 
immediately  turn  to  the  establish- 
ment of  our  own  great  nation.  The 
authors  of  the  Declaration  of  Inde- 
pendence and  the  framers  of  our 
Constitution  recognized  the  heaven- 
ly endowment  of  free  agency  in 
man  in  the  great  work  which  they 
accomplished.  We  read  in  the 
Declaration  of  Independence: 

We  hold  these  truths  to  be  self- 
evident,  that  all  men  are  created  equal, 
that  they  are  endowed  by  their  Creator 
with  certain  unalienable  rights,  that 
among  these  are  Life,  Liberty  and  the 
pursuit  of  Happiness.  That  to  secure  these 
rights,  Governments  are  instituted  among 
Men,  deriving  their  just  powers  from  the 
consent  of  the  governed. 

The  Constitution  declares  above 
all  else  that  it  was  adopted  to  secure 
the  blessings  of  liberty  to  ourselves 
and  our  posterity. 

I  quote  from  Article  I  of  the  Bill 
of  Rights  of  the  Constitution: 

Congress  shall  make  no  law  respecting 
an  establishment  of  religion,  or  prohibit- 
ing the  free  exercise  thereof  or  abridging 
the  freedom  of  speech,  or  of  the  press; 
or  the  right  of  people  peaceably  to  as- 
semble, and  to  petition  the  Government 
for  a  redress  of  grievances. 


FREE  AGENCY 


577 


And  in  Article  IX  of  the  same 
Bill  of  Rights  is  written: 

The  enumeration  in  the  Constitution, 
of  certain  rights,  shall  not  be  construed 
to  deny  or  disparage  others  retained  by 
the  people. 

This  is  an  absolute  recognition  by 
the  government  of  the  inherent  right 
of  free  agency  of  man.  He  should 
be  deprived  of  as  little  of  his  free- 
dom as  possible.  None,  as  a  mat- 
ter of  fact,  without  his  consent- 
that  is,  the  consent  of  the  majority. 
Even  then,  the  limitations  placed 
upon  man's  free  agency  should  be 
confined  to  those  essentials  of  gov- 
ernment by  which  our  security  is 
insured,  and  the  individuals  permit- 
ted to  live  lives  of  liberty  and  to 
pursue  happiness  as  they  would. 

The  difficulty  with  all  govern- 
ments, and  one  to  which  our  own 
has  fallen  heir,  is  that  the  majority, 
by  virtue  of  its  right  to  place  limi- 
tations on  man's  free  agency,  has 
undertaken  to  infringe  upon  the 
rights  reserved  to  the  individual,  for 
the  direct  and  immediate  benefit  of 
the  majority  individually  rather  than 
for  the  establishment  of  law  and 
order.  For  example:  the  Constitu- 
tion expressly  prohibits  taking  of 
personal  property  for  public  pur- 
poses without  just  compensation. 
Under  the  guise  of  taxation,  the 
Constitution  is  violated  and  prop- 
erty is  taken  from  one  and  given  to 
another.  This  demonstrates  clearly 
the  power  to  tax  is  the  power  to 
destroy.  That  is  the  course  which 
we  now  pursue.  Even  here  it  is  a 
question  of  the  proper  use  of  our 
free  agency.  The  Constitution  de- 
fines our  rights.  Our  difficulties 
today  come  as  a  result  of  the  use 
we  make  of  our  own  free  agency  in 


preserving  and  protecting  these 
rights,  which  should  be  unalienable, 
as  declared. 

Freedom  of  worship,  as  well  as 
political  and  spiritual  freedom,  has 
been  lost  to  those  who  could  not 
make  relatively  intelligent  decisions 
pertaining  to  their  own  well-being. 
There  has  never  been  a  dearth  of 
men— cunning,  crafty,  unscrupulous 
—who  were  ever  ready  to  oppress 
the  poor,  the  weak,  the  ignorant.  In 
so  doing,  they  have,  and  do  even 
now,  operate  in  the  sphere  of  almost 
every  human  activity.  Their  influ- 
ence is  felt  economically,  socially, 
politically,  and  religiously.  The  only 
difference  in  the  various  ages  of  man 
is  the  ability  on  the  one  hand,  the 
opportunity  on  the  other,  for  the 
few  to  oppress  the  masses  and  seek 
to  control  their  destinies  for  their 
own  selfish  purposes. 

TT  is  the  influence  of  the  true  gos- 
pel of  Jesus  Christ  which  has 
helped  to  uplift  men  in  their  own 
estimation,  brush  aside  the  mists  of 
darkness  from  the  minds  of  men, 
and  restore  to  them  the  ability  to 
think  and  act  in  keeping  with  the 
laws  of  God,  to  grow  in  knowledge 
and  understanding,  each  to  become 
his  own  savior  by  willing  to  be  what 
his  righteous  ambitions  direct.  All 
this  spells  progress.  On  the  other 
hand,  where  people  live  in  ignor- 
ance under  the  domination  of  oth- 
ers, little  of  their  free  agency  re- 
mains. They  have  almost  lost  this 
gift  and  likewise  almost  ceased  to 
exist  as  the  children  of  our  Heavenly 
Father.  As  the  light  of  knowledge, 
the  expansion  of  their  powers  of 
reason  and  perception  dawns,  their 
powers  of  decision  increase  and 
greater  and  greater  freedom  of  ac- 


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tion  is  theirs.  It  is  then,  and  then 
only,  that  the  redeeming  power  of 
the  gospel  of  Jesus  Christ  can  lift 
them  into  the  light  and  knowledge 
of  God  and  his  ways. 

It  is  not  alone  governments  that 
seek  to  enjoin  us  in  the  exercise  of 
our  own  free  agency.  This  has 
sometimes  been  done  in  the  name 
of  religion. 

Such  an  injunction  at  once  seeks 
to  destroy  under  the  guise  of  divine 
prerogative  our  free  agency  in  de- 
termining for  ourselves  what  is  true 
or  false. 

I  for  myself  have  long  since  de- 
termined that  a  safe  criterion  by 
which  movements  political,  social, 
or  religious  can  be  judged  meri- 
toriously is  by  their  impact  upon 
our  Godly  attribute  of  free  agency. 

God  would  not  seek  to  destroy 
with  the  left  hand  that  which  he 
bequeathed  to  us  with  his  right 
hand. 

Every  good  gift  and  every  perfect  gift 
is  from  above,  and  cometh  down  from 
the  Father  of  lights,  with  whom  is  no 
variableness,  neither  shadow  of  turning 
(James   1:17). 

Neither  would  he  leave  to  one  man 


the  prerogative,  divine  or  otherwise, 
to  choose  for  another  what  is  right 
or  wrong. 

As  noted,  our  Constitution  recog- 
nizes that  all  men  are  created  equal. 
Even  God  did  not  reserve  this  right 
to  himself  to  control  the  mind  of 
man. 

See,  I  have  set  before  thee  this  day  life 
and  good,  and  death  and  evil.  .  .  . 

I  call  heaven  and  earth  to  record  this 
day  against  you,  that  I  have  set  before 
you  life  and  death,  blessing  and  cursing: 
therefore  choose  life,  that  both  thou 
and  thy  seed  may  live  (Deuteronomy 
30:15,  19). 

Let  us,  therefore,  be  so  grateful 
for  our  rich  heritage  that  we  evi- 
dence our  gratitude  by  the  use  we 
make  of  this  eternal  power  to  render 
our  own  decisions  and  to  determine 
for  ourselves  what  is  truth  on  the 
one  hand  and  error  on  the  other.  To 
do  this,  we  are  all  equally  endowed 
with  our  free  agency.  May  we  nev- 
er find  ourselves  under  the  necessity 
of  permitting  others  to  make  that 
decision  for  us.  Let  us  all  decide 
with  Joshua  of  old: 

.  .  .  but  as  for  me  and  my  house,  we 
will  serve  the  Lord  (Joshua  24:15). 


S. 


uintners 


G^ast 


GeitTude  T.  Koven 


How  many  seasons  pass  before  the  heart 
Can  realize  the  wealth  of  summertime — 
Can  know  this  transient  beauty  set  apart, 
To  hold  the  sequence  of  each  flowing  rhyme, 
Rich  with  assured  abundance — summertime. 

Summer  once  more  retreating  on  the  hills 
And  fading  slowly  in  the  cool  of  night.  .  .  . 
I  pray  that  I  may  keep  a  summer  hour 
When  leaves  have  faded  and  the  winter's  blight 
Has  settled  on  the  years  I  count  tonight. 


Josef  Muench 

MALIGNE  LAKE,  JASPER  NATIONAL  PARK,  CANADA 


cJhe   i^olden    I  Let 

Ethel  Jacohson 

Summer  was  green,  so  green  it  would  never  end, 

Alders  painted  the  sky  over  mirroring  streams, 

Emerald,  jade— each  leaflet  dappled  to  blend 

In  a  verdant  eanopy.  Green  was  the  color  of  dreams, 

The  green  of  willow,  aspen,  and  mountain  larch, 

Of  blackberry  runners  fagoting  each  lane, 

Of  foxgrapes  in  the  wood,  and  the  lacy  arch 

Of  birches  weaving  summer's  counterpane. 

There  time  dozed  in  a  peppermint-hued  cocoon. 

Time  and  I— but  one  night  it  grew  still 

And  trees  stood  silent,  snared  by  the  yellow  moon 

In  a  golden  net,  stood  shivering  and  chill. 

Their  color  drained  where  meshes,  magic-stitched, 

Had  stained  and  left  them  yellow,  moon-bewitched. 

Page  579 


cJke  Southern   OJar  (bast    1 1  it 


ission 


Pieston  R.  Nibley 
Assistant  Church  Historian 

"PEARLY  in  May  1955,  the  First  Presidency  announced  the  division  of  the 
Japanese  Mission  into  two  missions,  to  be  known  as  the  Northern  Far 
East  and  the  Southern  Far  East. 

The  Southern  Far  East  Mission  was  to  include  Formosa,  the  British 
colony  of  Hong  Kong,  the  Philippines,  and  the  island  of  Guam.  Herald 
Grant  Heaton  of  Salt  Lake  City  was  appointed  to  preside  over  this  mission. 

The  division  of  the  Japanese  Mission  was  ratified  at  a  missionary  con- 
ference held  in  Karuizawa,  Japan,  on  July  27,  1955,  under  the  direction 
of  President  Joseph  Fielding  Smith  of  the  Council  of  the  Twelve.  Presi- 
dent Smith,  accompanied  by  his  wife,  Mrs.  Jessie  Evans  Smith,  had  made 
the  journey  to  Japan  for  the  purpose  of  supervising  the  division  of  the 
mission  and  installing  President  Heaton  as  president  of  the  Southern  Far 
East  Mission. 

At  a  meeting  of  the  saints  and  missionaries  held  in  Hong  Kong  on 


mmmi/'V''':- ' 
Photograph  submitted  by  Luana  C.  Heaton 


CHINESE  JUNK  WITH   PART  OF  HONG   KONG  ISLAND 
IN  THE  BACKGROUND 


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581 


Ewing  Galloway 


WINNOWING  RICE,  LUZON,  PHILIPPINE  ISLANDS 


August  17,  1955,  under  the  direction  of  President  Smith,  the  action  of 
creating  the  Southern  Far  East  Mission  was  again  ratified. 

A  temporary  headquarters  for  the  mission  was  estabhshed  at  149 
Argyle  Street,  Kowloon,  Hong  Kong.  The  first  missionaries  assigned  to 
labor  in  the  Southern  Far  East  Mission  were  Elders  Garnet  E.  Birch,  Rob- 
ert M.  Jackson,  Alexander  K.  Madsen,  Gary  L.  Bradshaw,  Kenneth  Kui 
Sing  Fong,  Ronald  Ollis,  Duane  W.  Degn,  and  Jerry  D.  Wheat. 

In  June  1956,  four  missionaries  were  assigned  to  Formosa;  the  first  to 
be  assigned  to  that  country. 

The  first  baptisms  in  the  Southern  Far  East  Mission  were  performed 
on  April  26,  1956,  when  Mr.  and  Mrs.  Leslie  Dickman,  natives  of  England, 
were  baptized  at  Hong  Kong  by  Elder  Leslie  W.  Degn.  Five  days  later 
eleven  Chinese  converts  were  baptized  in  the  mission  home  in  Kowloon. 

At  the  end  of  May  1957,  it  was  reported  that  there  were  284  members 
of  the  Church  in  the  Southern  Far  East  Mission,  located  in  four  branches. 
Luana  C.  Heaton  presides  over  the  Southern  Far  East  Mission  Relief 
Society. 

Note:  The  co^'e^  for  this  Magazine,  "Pagoda  in  Kowloon,  Hong  Kong,"  was  snb- 
mitted  by  Luana  C.  Heaton,  President,  Southern  Far  East  Mission  Rchef  Society.  See 
also  "Recipes  From  the  Southern  Far  East  Mission,"  page  602. 


A  Temple  Rises  in  New  Zealand 

Wealtha  S.  Mencknhdl 
Member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society 

4  4  T  F  any  of  you  lack  wisdom,  Church  has  grown  since  that  time 
I  let  him  ask  of  God,  that  giv-  in  New  Zealand  until  we  now  have 
eth  to  all  men  liberally,  and  14,630  members, 
upbraideth  not;  and  it  shall  be  given  It  was  easy  for  this  people  to 
him."  How  grateful  we  are  this  accept  much  of  the  doctrine  of  the 
day  that  our  great  Prophet  Joseph  Church,  especially  was  it  easy  to 
Smith,  when  just  a  boy,  was  im-  accept  The  Book  of  Mormon, 
pressed  by  the  above  message;  that  Brother  Matthew  Cowley,  in  his 
it  entered  with  great  force  into  his  book  Matthew  Cowley  Speaks, 
heart,  and  he  did  seek  in  faith,  states  that  he  had  never  met  a  Poly- 
nothing  wavering,  for  needed  wis-  nesian  who  had  read  The  Book  of 
dom  from  God  many  times.  We  Mormon  who  did  not  say:  'That 
are  grateful  that  on  the  morning  of  book  came  from  God.  That  is 
a  very  beautiful,  clear  day  in  the  our  record.''  It  was  easy  for  them 
early  spring  of  1820,  Joseph  knelt  in  to  believe  in  the  words  of  the  Lord, 
prayer,  and  that  he  was  visited  by  'If  any  of  you  lack  wisdom,  let  him 
the  Father  and  his  Son  Jesus  Christ,  ask  of  God."  They  do  this  con- 
At  that  time  the  Father  introduced  stantly. 

the   Savior   of   mankind  by   saying,  It  was  easy  for  them  to  accept  the 

''This    is   My    Beloved   Son,    Hear  genealogical  program  of  the  Church, 

Him/"     We  are  grateful  that  The  because    their    dearest    interests    in 

Church  of  Jesus  Christ  of  Latter-  life  are  entwined  about  their  pos- 

day  Saints  was  organized  in  its  ful-  terity;  their  children  are  their  prize 

ness  under  the  guidance  and  inspira-  possessions;  they  lo\'e  them  dearly, 

tion    of    the    Savior    through    the  They    recite    their   genealogy   from 

Prophet  Joseph  Smith,  and  that  it  memory  for  many  generations.  They 

is  for  all  people  wherever  they  are.  continually  speak  of  the  fact  that 

Missionaries  were  sent  out  into  the  they    are   born    of   goodly   parents, 

world,  and  the  truths  of  our  gospel  Yes,   they  are  eager  to   go  to  the 

have  been  proclaimed  to  hundreds  house   of   the   Lord   and   there   be 

of  thousands  of  our  Father's  chil-  sealed  as  husband  and  wife  and  have 

dren.  their  children   sealed   to  them   for 

The  beautiful  land  of  New  Zea-  time   and   all    eternity.     They   are 

land  was  first  visited  by  the  Latter-  eager  and  willing  to  go  into  a  tem- 

day  Saint  missionaries  in  1854,  ^^^^  P^^    of    God    and   be    baptized    by 

it  was  not  until  1881  that  the  mis-  proxy    for    their   ancestors    and   do 

sionaries    from    the    ''rising    sun,"  their  work,  that  they,  too,  may  be 

traveling  in  pairs,  prepared  to  live  sealed  for  all  eternity, 

in  the  homes  of  the  people,  and  to  These  wonderful  people  of  New 

learn  the  Maori  language  and  teach  Zealand  and  those  of  Australia,  Sa- 

the  Maori  the  gospel  in  their  own  moa,    Tonga,    Tahiti,    and    other 

tongue.     The   membership   of   the  island   people,  have   been   and  are 

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Hamilton,  New  Zealand 

THE  BEAUTIFUL  NEW  ZEALAND  COUNTRYSIDE,  WITH  THE  TEMPLE 
AT  THE  UPPER  LEFT  OF  THE  PICTURE 


faithful,  humble,  devoted  members 
of  the  Church.  They  love  the  Lord, 
and  the  truth  is  embedded  deep  in 
their  hearts.  They  enjoy  their 
Church  work  and  live  according  to 
its  teachings. 

Many  of  these  people  have  saved 
money  for  years  to  take  them  to 
the  house  of  the  Lord,  but  the 
amount  needed  is  almost  prohibi- 
tive, as  they  have  large  families  and 
money  is  not  easy  for  them  to  ob- 
tain. The  majority  of  those  faith- 
ful souls  who  have  traveled  to 
Hawaii  to  the  temple  have  traveled 
steerage  on  a  ship,  with  little  or  no 
spending  money  in  their  pockets, 
and  all  that  they  owned  has  been 
sold  in  order  to  make  the  trip.  Yet 
they  were  happy  in  the  thought  that 


they   were    saving    themselves   and 
their  ancestors. 

These  good  people  have  been 
told,  in  recent  years,  to  stay  home 
and  save  their  money,  to  be  faith- 
ful to  the  teachings  of  the  gospel, 
and  it  might  be  possible  to  bring  a 
temple  to  them.  They  have  been 
waiting  faithfully. 

/^NE  day  in  December  1954,  Presi- 
dent  David  O.  McKay  called 
Brother  Wendell  B.  Mendenhall 
into  his  office  and  assigned  him  to 
a  special  mission  of  investigating 
possible  temple  sites  in  the  beauti- 
ful faraway  land  of  New  Zealand. 
This  assignment  was  of  a  confiden- 
tial nature,  and  it  made  it  impos- 
sible for  Brother  Mendenhall,  upon 


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Candid  Camera  Studies 
Hamilton,  New  Zealand 

AT  THE  CORNERSTONE  OF  THE  NEW  ZEALAND  TEMPLE 

December  22,  1956 

Left  to  right:  Elder  Wendell  B.  Mendenhall,  Chairman  of  the  Church  Building 
Committee;  Elder  R.  Elvvin  Clark,  a  labor  missionary;  Elder  Hugh  B.  Brown,  Assistant 
to  the  Council  of  the  Twelve;  Elder  Ariel  S.  Ballif,  President,  New  Zealand  Mission. 


his  arrival  in  that  land,  to  let  the 
people  he  loved  so  much  know  that 
their  dreams  were  finally  going  to 
come  true.  However,  it  was  quite 
enough  at  that  time  to  tell  them 
that  the  Prophet  of  God  and  Sister 
McKay  were  going  to  pay  them  a 
visit  in  approximately  three  weeks. 
Imagine  the  thrill  and  excitement 
of  those  humble  saints  in  knowing 
that  President  McKay  was  coming 
to  their  land!  Many  of  them  had 
never  seen  a  prophet,  now  they 
would  both  see  and  hear  one,  may- 
be even  shake  his  hand.  No  king 
had  a  greater  welcome  to  any  land 
than  did  the  President  of  the 
Church  have  in  the  South  Seas. 


He  retired  early  the  night  of  his 
arrival  and  was  up  bright  and  early 
the  next  morning  ready  and  anxious 
to  look  at  the  temple  site  that  had 
been  selected,  although  it  had  not 
been  discussed  since  his  arrival.  He 
was  met  by  Brother  Mendenhall, 
Brother  Biesinger,  Supervisor  of 
Church  Construction  in  New  Zea- 
land, and  others,  and  they  drove 
through  Church-owned  property  to 
a  beautiful  green  rolling  hill  on  the 
connecting  farm.  All  stepped  from 
the  car  and  looked  over  the  grounds 
and  the  new  college  that  is  being 
constructed  there.  President  Mc- 
Kay's eyes  were  bright  with  what  he 
saw^  and  a  smile  came  upon  his  face. 


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585 


He  was  happy  as  he  looked  over  the 
hill  and  could  see  the  small  cities 
around;  he  could  see  the  little  lake 
a  short  distance  away,  also  beautiful 
grazing  land  for  livestock. 

He  called  to  Brother  Mendenhall 
to  come  to  his  side  and  said,  ''What 
do  you  think?" 

In  reply  to  his  question,  Brother 
Mendenhall  said,  ''What  do  you 
think?" 

Then,  in  an  almost  prophetic 
tone.  President  McKay  said,  "This 
is  the  place  to  build  the  temple." 

npHE  ground  was  purchased  and 
the  temple  ground-breaking 
ceremony  was  held  December  21, 
1955  at  2  P.M.  President  Ariel  S. 
Ballif  of  the  New  Zealand  Mission 
was  in  charge  of  the  program,  and 
approximately  1500  people  attended. 
After  singing  "We  Thank  Thee  O 
God  for  a  Prophet,"  and  hearing 
those  words  full  of  meaning  ring  out 


to  all  the  inhabitants  nearby,  I 
thought  of  the  words  of  the  prophet 
Brigham  Young  when  the  Salt  Lake 
Temple  was  being  built.  He  said: 
"I  want  to  see  the  temple  built  in 
a  manner  that  it  will  endure 
through  the  Millennium.  This  is 
not  the  only  Temple  we  shall  build; 
there  will  be  hundreds  of  them  built 
and  dedicated  to  the  Lord.  This 
Temple  will  be  known  as  the  first 
Temple  built  in  the  mountains  by 
the  Latter-day  Saints."  I  kept 
thinking,  and  this  temple  will  be 
the  first  temple  built  in  the  South 
Pacific  by  our  Latter-day  Saints; 
they  will  build  so  it  will  endure 
through  the  Millennium  as  their 
hearts,  and  all  their  strength  will  be 
in  their  work. 

Thirty-six  labor  missionaries  had 
been  called  from  the  mainland  as 
supervisors  for  this  work,  and  other 
Church  buildings  on  the  island. 
Brother    E.    Albert    Rosenvall   was 


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586  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER  1957 

called  to  be  supervisor  for  the  con-  order  to  dedicate  their  temple  unto 
struction  of  the  temple  under  the  the  Lord  around  the  beginning  of 
direction  of  Brother  George  Bie-  1958.  From  my  apartment,  I  could 
singer.  Two  hundred  fifteen  labor  hear  singing  from  the  early  morn- 
missionaries  were  there  from  the  ing  hours  until  long  after  the  stars 
Church  membership  of  Australia,  and  the  moon  were  shining  brightly 
Tonga,  Samoa,  Tahiti,  and  New  Zea-  at  night.  How  these  people  love 
land,  living  in  small  homes  and  to  sing  as  they  work!  Yes,  they  are 
dormitories  they  had  helped  to  build  a  chosen  people, 
while  working  on  the  New  Zealand 

College  and   chapels   in   that  area.  HpHE    temple    is    located    on    the 

These  missionaries  are  supported  by  North  Island  of  New  Zealand, 

the  membership  of  their  missions.  It  is  about  three  miles  west  of  the 

inasmuch     as     the     New     Zealand  town  of  Frankton  Junction,  which 

Temple    will    serve    approximately  is  near  the  city  of  Hamilton.    It  is 

40,000    of    the    faithful    people    of  on  the  most  prominent  site  of  the 

those  islands.  Church  property,  and  the  main  axis 

Work  on  the  temple  started  im-  of   the   building   extends   east   and 

mediately  after  the  groundbreaking  west  and  is  parallel  with  the  main 

and  hasn't  stopped   since.     While  highway  running  on  the  west  side 

serving    the    Lord,   men    and    boys  of  the  temple,  which  is  the  Pirongia 

have    learned    their    trades.      One  Highway. 

Moari  boy  said,  ''I  didn't  want  to  According  to  Edward  O.  Ander- 
come  here  to  work,  but  now  I  want  son,  architect,  entrance  to  the  tem- 
to  die  here."  They  love  their  work,  pie  grounds  is  by  way  of  Temple 
they  love  the  association  with  other  Drive,  which  extends  off  Pirongia 
good-living  boys  and  girls,  they  en-  Highway  at  a  ninety-degree  angle, 
joy  the  Church  work  in  the  College  The  drive  has  a  rise  of  twenty  feet 
Branch,  and  the  spirit  they  feel  in  from  the  highway,  and  the  ground 
giving  service.  Work  progressed  rap-  level  of  the  temple  is  thirty-eight 
idly  under  the  missionary  labor  pro-  feet  above  the  Drive,  on  a  beautiful 
gram,  and,  on  December  22,  1956,  green  rolling  knoll,  with  native 
the  cornerstone  was  laid  by  Elder  woodland  nearby.  This  gives  the 
Hugh  B.  Brown.  Hundreds  of  temple  a  very  imposing  setting  and 
saints  had  gathered  from  far  and  makes  it  the  most  important  and 
near  for  this  impressive  ceremony,  impressive  building  in  the  area, 
and  many  of  them  were  able  to  ^j^^  ^^^  .  -^  ^^  reinforced  con- 
crowd  into  the  temple  for  the  pro-  ^^^^^  ^^^  concrete  block  construc- 
gram,  after  which  all  gathered  ^-^^  ^^^j^  ^^^^  ^^^^^^  ^^-^^^  ^^^^^  ^f 
around  the  building  on  the  outside  ^^-^^  ^^^  manufactured  on  the 
under  the  beautiful  sky  of  blue  and  ^^^^  .  ^j^^  ^^^^^^^  missionaries.  It 
the  fluffy  white  clouds  for  the  cor-  -^  ^^^^j^  -^^  ^|^^^^  ^^„^  ^^^^  l^^.^l^^ 
nerstone  laying.  which   floors  are   expressed  in   the 

Again,   all    missionaries    renewed  ele\'ation  design.  The  annex  of  the 

their    determination    to    put    their  temple  extends  around  the  temple 

hearts  and  souls  into  the  work  in  proper,  and  is  eighty-four  feet  wide 


A  TEMPLE  RISES  IN  NEW  ZEALAND 


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Photograph  by  E.  Albert  Rosenvall 

THE  NEW  ZEALAND  TEMPLE   NEARING  COMPLETION 

June  1957 


and  159  feet  long,  which  gives  a 
floor  area  of  13,358  square  feet.  This 
annex  portion  is  one  story  high,  the 
roof  of  which  is  sixteen  feet  above 
the  ground  hue.  The  temple  prop- 
er is  fifty  feet  four  inches  wide  and 
114  feet  long,  and  extends  from  the 
second  floor  line  to  a  height  of  fifty- 
six  feet  above  the  ground,  which  is 
the  roof  line. 

The  lower  floor  contains  twenty- 
six  rooms,  the  principal  of  which 
are:  baptismal  room,  baptismal  of- 
fice, dressing  rooms,  matron's  office, 
children's  room,  women  workers' 
lounge,  men  workers'  lounge,  laun- 
dry, sewing  room,  kitchen,  and  din- 
ing room.  The  oxen  for  the  bap- 
tismal font  were  modeled  by  M.  F. 
Malin  and  were  cast  and  the  font 
assembled  in  Switzerland. 

The  main  floor  consists  of  twenty- 
four     rooms,     which     are:     entry, 


lounge,  foyer,  cloak  rooms,  inner 
foyer,  chapel,  president's  office, 
counselors'  office,  recorder's  office, 
general  offices,  dressing  rooms, 
bride's  room,  consultation  room,  and 
linen  room. 

The  second  floor  contains  eight 
rooms,  including  ordinance  rooms 
and  two  sealing  rooms. 

The  second  mezzanine  floor  con- 
tains two  sealing  rooms.  Ventilating 
equipment  is  located  both  in  the 
attic  and  in  the  basement. 

All  finished  woodwork  in  the 
temple  is  rimu  wood,  a  native  wood, 
which  was  milled  on  the  site  out 
of  lumber  which  was  sawed  and 
taken  from  the  Church  timber  tract 
at  Kai  Kobe,  New  Zealand,  250 
miles  away.  The  main  ordinance 
room  is  finished  in  both  rimu  wood 
and  marble.  The  sealing  rooms  are 
finished  in  marble.    All  floor  cover- 


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ings,  both  hard  floor  and  carpets, 
furnishings,  wall  coverings,  furni- 
ture, draperies,  and  other  appoint- 
ments were  incorporated  in  the  de- 
sign of  the  building,  and  all  har- 
monize and  are  in  keeping  with  the 
general  conservative-modern  design. 
A  tower  is  located  on  the  east  side 
of  the  temple  and  extends  ninety- 
nine  feet  above  the  roof  line.  It  is 
built  of  concrete  block  and  rein- 
forced concrete.  On  top  of  this 
tower,  pointing  towards  the  heavens, 
is  a  bronze  spire  which  was  manu- 
factured in  England.    Yes,  the  beau- 


tiful bronze  spire  reaches  heaven- 
ward, just  as  the  prayers  of  the  choice 
people  of  the  South  Seas  have  done. 
They  have  prayed  to  our  Father  in 
heaven  for  needed  wisdom.  They 
have  done  so  in  faith,  nothing  wav- 
ering. God  has  given  to  them  lib- 
erally, and  their  prayers,  their 
dreams,  their  very  hearts'  desires  will 
soon  come  true.  A  temple  of  God 
is  to  be  dedicated  April  20,  1958. 
This  will  be  a  great  occasion  for 
those  choice  people  of  Israel  who 
dwell  in  the  islands  of  the  sea.  May 
God  ever  be  with  them. 


cJour  of  Lrenns^wama 

Margery  S.  Stewait 

This  is  Christ  Church,  the  driver  said. 

Underneath  you  are  the  stones 

That  house  their  folded,  ancient  bones. 

They  who  builded,  all  lie  dead. 

This  is  her  house,  the  driver  said, 

This  red  brick  floor,  this  hearth,  the  loom. 

She  made  the  banner  in  this  room. 

But  she  who  cut  out  stars  is  dead. 

This  is  Valley  Forge,  he  said. 

.  .  .  The  dogwood  blossoms,  loosed  from  heaven. 

Made,  in  the  day,  a  lovely  leaven  .  .  . 

But  all  the  valiant  ones  lie  dead. 

How  then  in  Christ  Church,  heard  I  prayer? 

.  .  .  Let  this  place,  Lord,  become  thy  root, 

For  tree  of  holy,  greater  fruit.  .  .  . 

Nothing  lives  as  long  as  prayer. 

From  Ross  house  still,  there  flies  today, 

A  starrier  banner  than  before. 

And  one  beloved  by  millions  more. 

How  new,  alive,  her  flag  today. 

On  sweeping  hills  of  Valley  Forge 

A  ghostly  sentry  stands  apart 

And  challenges  the  inmost  heart  .  .  . 

Nor  death  .  .  .  nor  death  at  Valley  Forge. 


The  Heavenly  Bonus 

Rosa  Lee  Lloyd 


TT" ALLIENS  dark  brows  puckered 
thoughtfully  as  she  sat  at  her 
desk  looking  through  the  files  of  the 
Bay  View  Club  Heart  Drive. 

Chff  would  be  home  any  minute 
now,  and  what  would  he  say  when 
she  told  him  she  was  the  newly  ap- 
pointed captain  of  the  Drive  be- 
ginning tomorrow? 

He  would  be  proud  of  her,  no 
doubt,  because  it  was  an  honor  to 
be  captain,  but  he  would  be  amused, 
too.  Cliff  always  saw  the  funny  side 
of  everything,  and  he  would  think 
it  was  very  funny  for  Kallie  to  ex- 
pect people  to  have  money  put  away 
for  a  heart  drive  when  she  and  Cliff 
were  always  on  the  slippery  side  of 
their  budget. 

An  ironic  smile  pouted  her  lips 
as  her  fingers  went  through  the 
cards  from  the  Maple  Street  district 
where  she  and  Marge  Johnson,  her 
first  lieutenant,  would  canvass  to- 
morrow. The  Richard  Starks  had 
given  ten  dollars  last  year,  and  even 
dear  old  Mrs.  Heaslip  who  lived 
next  door  to  the  Starks  had  given 
five  dollars. 

How  did  they  manage?  Kallie 
wondered  as  she  closed  the  file. 
How  did  they  do  it?  She  and  Cliff 
never  had  a  cent  left  over,  not  even 
enough  for  a  little  nest  egg  in  the 
bank,  and  that  had  always  been  her 
dream— a  nest  egg. 

She  heard  Cliff's  key  in  the  lock, 
and  she  stood  up  and  hurried  to  meet 
him.  Her  heart  bounced  high  the 
minute  she  looked  at  him.  His  blue 
eyes  were  shining,  his  red  hair  was 
ruffled,  and  he  danced  her  around 
the  living  room  while  he  whistled 


the  catchy  new  polka  they  had 
learned  at  the  dance  at  Mutual  last 
night. 

Cliff  was  a  cut-up  at  home,  and 
Kallie  often  wondered  what  he  used 
for  dignity  in  the  stuffy  law  offices 
of  Allen,  Burk,  and  Edwards  where 
he  was  the  junior  partner. 

He  swung  her  onto  the  sofa  and 
flopped  down  beside  her,  his  bright 
head  in  her  lap. 

"Oh,  Mr.  Edwards,"  she  laughed, 
out  of  breath.  ''My  heart— it's  off- 
beat!'' 

''Well,  now,  Mrs.  Edwards,  I 
think  you'll  live  till  morning — at 
least  stay  around  until  you  hear  the 
good  news!" 

He  stood  up,  buttoned  his  coat, 
smoothed  his  riotous  hair,  and 
looked  down  at  her  with  elaborate 
solemnity. 

"Madame,  you  are  now  looking 
at  a  gentleman  who  has  just  received 
a  bonus  of  one  hundred  dollars  from 
Mrs.  Jasmine  Clipper." 

"The  estate  you  took  care  of!" 
Kallie  exclaimed. 

"The  same,  my  love.  Now  this 
little  bonus"  Cliff  tapped  his  pock- 
et, "was  given  to  me  because  the 
family  thinks  I  did  a  good  job." 

He  did  a  rapid  tap  dance,  rubbed 
his  hands  together,  and  beamed 
down  at  her. 

"So,  as  your  legal  adviser,  let  me 
recommend  a  vacation.  First,  we'll 
celebrate  our  wedding  anniversary 
'which  begins  Thursday  night  .  .  .  ." 

Suddenly  his  eyes  were  wistful, 
and  he  sat  down  beside  her  again, 
cuddling  her  close  in  his  arms. 

"Remember,  darling,  a  year  ago 

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at  the  reception.  There  you  were 
standing  beside  me  so  httle  and  yet 
so  queenly.  That  lovely  little  thing, 
I  kept  telling  myself,  is  now  my 
wife." 

His  kiss  was  warm  and  very 
tender,  and  Kallie  thought  how  kind 
and  considerate  he  was.  But  he  was 
impulsive,  too,  and  headstrong  and 
a  little  bit  careless  when  it  came  to 
money.  They  still  owed  some  on 
their  furniture  and  the  refrigerator, 
and  yet  he  was  planning  to  spend 
this  extra  hundred  dollars  on  a  va- 
cation! She  couldn't  let  him  do  it. 
She  just  wouldn't! 

npHEY  should  put  this  money 
away  for  a  nest  egg,  Kallie  de- 
cided, hoping  she  could  think  of 
some  way  to  convince  him  without 
a  quarrel.  They  had  only  quarreled 
twice  since  their  marriage,  and  both 
times  it  had  been  over  money;  once 
when  Cliff  brought  home  the  ex- 
pensive plant  she  had  admired  in 
the  window  while  they  were  out  for 
a  stroll.  Her  eyes  went  to  it  now 
in  its  gorgeous  copper  container. 
The  purchase  of  it  had  meant 
economizing  for  a  month. 

And  the  other  time,  oh,  it  was 
so  silly  Kallie  didn't  even  want  to 
remember  how  cross  she  had  been 
when  Cliff  paid  thirty-five  dollars 
for  a  fishing  rod  and  reel.  And 
then  they  hadn't  been  able  to  af- 
ford the  trip! 

She  could  feel  Cliff's  arms  tighten 
around  her  now.  She  pressed  her 
head  against  his  tweedy  shoulder. 
She  loved  him  so.  There  was  noth- 
ing she  wouldn't  do  for  CliflF,  no 
sacrifice  she  wouldn't  make  for  him. 
But  she  had  to  make  him  realize 
how  important  it  was  to  put  this 
money  in  the  bank. 


''Cliff— listen  ..."  she  began. 

''Oh,  no,  you  listen  to  me,  sweet- 
heart. Hear  that  musical  ripple? 
That's  mountain  water  bubbling 
over  pretty  rocks.  Now  look  closely. 
See  those  shiny  trout  darting  around 
down  there?  Um-m.  Smell  those 
big  pine  trees,  and  feel  that  good 
earth  under  your  feet.  We'll  have 
one  week  of  rest,  melting  in  the 
bright  Wyoming  sunshine,  fishing 
all  day  and  eating  at  the  Wagon 
Wheel  Inn  in  the  cool,  cool  eve- 
ning. For  seven  long  beautiful  days 
we'll  forget  the  budget  and  the 
stuffy  office.  Seven  days  of  sun  and 
stars  and  fishing.  Boy,  how  we  need 
it.  No  office  routine,  no  dishes 
for  you,  no  pinching  pennies  .  .  .  ." 

"I  don't  mind  pinching  pennies. 
Cliff,"  Kallie  interrupted. 

Cliff  patted  her  head. 

"You're  sweet,  Kal.  But  Fve 
heard  women  complain." 

Kallie  sat  up.  Her  dark  eyes  were 
very  bright. 

"Look  here.  Cliff  Edwards.  If 
you're  planning  a  fishing  trip  be- 
cause you  think  I'm  tired  of  keeping 
house  you're  very  wrong.  Very 
wrong." 

He  pulled  her  back  into  the  circle 
of  his  arm. 

"I'm  not  through  dreaming.  Now 
look,  pretend  this  is  the  menu  at 
the  Wagon  Wheel  Inn.  Suppose 
we  order  trout  for  breakfast,  and 
the  lobster  thermidor  for  luncheon 
and  a  big  steak  for  dinner.  Or  would 
you  like  a  salad  with  special  sauce?" 

Kallie's  mouth  folded  in. 

"If  you  don't  mind,"  she  said 
significantly,  "I'd  like  the  hundred 
dollar  bill  on  the  half-shell,  just 
served  plain  as  a  nest  egg,  without 
sauce!" 


THE  HEAVENLY  BONUS 


591 


The  silence  was  awful.  Cliff  drew 
his  breath  in  and  held  it  tightly. 
Then  he  leaned  back  against  the 
lounge  as  though  he  was  suddenly 
tired.  Even  his  bright  hair  seemed 
to  wilt  down  over  his  ears,  and  the 
gay,  expectant  twinkle  went  out  of 
his  eyes. 

''Say  that  again/'  he  said. 

His  voice  was  shocked  and  unbe- 
lieving like  a  little  boy  who  has 
just  been  told  that  the  circus  isn't 
coming  to  town. 

''Maybe  I  didn't  hear  you  right, 
honey  —  the  part  about  wanting  it 
for  a  nest  egg.  Do  you  really  mean 
it?  Because  if  you  do— it's  all  yours 
—you  know  that.  Anything  I  have 
is  yours — anytime." 

Kallie  felt  a  stinging  behind  her 
eyes.  But  she  was  determined.  One 
of  them  had  to  be  sensible. 

"Oh,  Cliff— it's  just  that  I  worry 
sometimes  —  because  we're  not  sav- 
ing anything." 

"We're  keeping  up  insurance," 
he  reminded  her.  "We're  paying 
our  tithing  regularly.  We're  buying 
a  bond— we're  paying  taxes.  But  if 
it's  a  nest  egg  you  want— okay." 

Some  of  the  blue  sparkle  came 
back  to  his  eyes  as  he  opened  his 
wallet,  took  out  the  hundred  dollar 
bill,  and  handed  it  to  her. 

Kallie  stared  at  the  picture  of 
Benjamin  Franklin  in  the  center  of 
it.  It's  a  brand  new  bill,  she  thought. 
No  doubt  this  was  only  small  change 
to  Jasmine  Chpper.  She  couldn't 
have  known  that  it  would  be  a  small 
fortune  to  Kallie  and  Cliff— that  it 
was  the  difference  between  living  on 
a  budget  and  being  a  young  couple 
with  money  in  the  bank. 

"Well  —  it  was  fun,  while  it 
lasted,"  Cliff  said  as  he  stood  up. 
He  squared  his  shoulders  and  Kallie 


noticed  again  how  tired  and  shaggy 
he  looked.  "Brother!"  he  went  on, 
"what  a  flop  I'd  be  without  my 
imagination!  Now,  tell  me,  what's 
for  dinner?  No  .  .  .  ."  He  put  his 
hand  up.  "Don't  tell  me— let  me 
guess.  .  .  ."  He  sniffed  the  air. 
"Sauerkraut  and  franks,"  he  added, 
dismally. 

Kallie  ignored  the  downbeat  in 
his  voice.  She  stood  up,  too,  smooth- 
ing her  hair. 

"And  now  let  me  tell  you  some 
big  news,"she  said  spiritedly.  "You 
are  looking  at  the  new  captain  of 
the  Bay  View  Heart  Drive,  Mrs. 
Clifford  B.  Edwards— twice  lieuten- 
ant, twice  high  score,  and  now  cap- 
tain. Beginning  tomorrow  Marge 
Johnson  and  I  canvass  our  district." 

Cliff  began  to  laugh.  He  put  his 
hands  on  her  shoulders  and  rocked 
with  laughter. 

"Someone  is  going  to  dig  deep," 
he  guffawed.  "Scotchy  Edwards  on 
the  job.  Please,  Mrs.  Hoozit,"  he 
mimicked  in  a  high  falsetto,  "can 
you  let  us  have  ten  dollars  for  the 
Drive?  Oh,  I  know  money  is  as 
tight  as  pinfeathers,  but  think  how 
noble  you'll  feel,  Mrs.  Hoozit,  if 
you  give  us  ten  dollars.  ..." 

Kallie  wanted  to  cry.  Cliff  could 
be  so  exasperating! 

"Oh,  you!"  she  burst  out.  "Don't 
be  so  funny.  You  should  be  proud 
of  me." 

She  pushed  her  way  past  him  to 
the  kitchen. 

"Let's  eat,"  he  said,  heading  to- 
ward the  dinette,  picking  up  the 
evening  paper  on  his  way. 

She  turned  around. 

"You  don't  need  to  bite  my  head 
off,"  she  said. 

ClifF  looked   down  at  her.    His 


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eyes  had  a  peculiar,  speculative 
twinkle. 

''No— I  don't  need  to  bite  your 
head  off— but  it  might  taste  better 
than  sauerkraut." 

Something  was  wrong,  Kallie 
thought.  Some  magic  had  gone  from 
the  evening,  some  lovely  warm  feel- 
ing had  disappeared— where  or  how 
— she  didn't  know.  Now  there  was 
just  a  hungry  husband  who  wasn't 
too  pleased  with  sauerkraut  and 
frankfurters,  and  who  ate  in  a  moody 
silence,  his  eyes  glued  to  the  sport 
page  of  the  evening  paper. 

AT  ten-thirty  the  next  morning, 
Kallie  waited  on  the  drugstore 
corner  for  Marge  Johnson.  Marge 
was  a  swell  companion  for  a  job 
like  this,  sturdy,  rosy-cheeked,  de- 
pendable Marge.  She  wasn't  easily 
discouraged,  Kallie  thought  grate- 
fully, remembering  last  year  when 
some  of  the  girls  were  ready  to  give 
up  when  the  Drive  was  half  over. 

She  sighed  now,  thinking  how 
every  day  of  life  took  a  little  more 
courage  and  grit.  If  she  had  given 
in  to  the  way  she  felt  this  morning, 
she  would  still  be  in  bed  with  the 
pillow  over  her  head  so  nobody 
could  see  she  had  been  crying.  Be- 
cause she  had  cried  in  the  middle 
of  the  night.  Lying  there  beside 
Cliff  as  he  tossed  and  turned  and 
mumbled  in  his  sleep,  she  had  felt 
disturbed  and  restless,  too.  So  she 
had  pulled  the  pillow  over  her  head 
and  cried  silently  because  Cliff 
needed  a  vacation  and  because,  she 
added,  feeling  almost  sick,  she 
wouklnt  break  that  hundred  dollar 
bill.  That  was  going  in  the  bank. 
They  had  to  have  a  nest  egg. 

Marge  turned  the  corner,  looking 
as  fresh  and  eager  as  a  girl  scout, 


''Whew!  Did  I  have  to  hurry," 
she  laughed  as  they  fell  in  step  and 
hurried  down  Maple  Street. 

Kallie  drew  a  long  breath.  She 
had  to  put  her  heart  into  this  cam- 
paign. The  Bay  View  Club  ex- 
pected her  to  make  an  outstanding 
record  in  this  district. 

"If  I  do  say  so,  Kallie,"  Marge 
was  saying,  "I'm  proud  to  be  your 
first  lieutenant.  You  were  really  tops 
last  year." 

"Here's  our  first  prospect,"  Kallie 
said,  "1080  Maple  Street.  Let's 
see  what  the  book  says." 

She  looked  at  her  notes.  "Mr.  and 
Mrs.  Richard  Stark.  He's  a  bank 
clerk.  They  gave  ten  dollars  last 
year— they  live  on  the  east  side  of 
this  duplex." 

Marge  rang  the  bell  but  there  was 
no  answer.  The  house  seemed  dead 
inside.  They  were  walking  back 
down  the  porch  steps  when  they 
noticed  a  note  stuck  in  the  mailbox. 

"Guess  this  is  for  anybody,"  Kallie 
said,  reaching  for  it. 

"Dear  Postman,"  she  read,  "we 
don't  live  here  anymore.  Mr.  Stark's 
address  is  the  Bekins  Hotel  and 
mine  is  Carol  Ridgeway  Stark,  Den- 
ver, Colorado." 

Kallie's  throat  tightened.  The 
Starks  had  broken  up.  But  why? 
What  had  they  quarreled  about? 
Could  it  have  been  over  money?  she 
wondered  with  a  sick  feeling. 

"Sounds  like  trouble,"  Marge  said. 
"Makes  me  feel— sort  of  sad." 

"Me,  too,"  Kallie  agreed.  "And 
besides— that's  ten  dollars  we  won't 
collect." 

Marge  sighed. 

"You  get  to  know  so  many  people 
doing  this,  all  kinds,  and  their 
troubles  —  but  you  can't  let  it 
bother  you." 


THE  HEAVENLY  BONUS 


593 


''No— not  too  much.  But  it's  hard 
not  to." 

They  stopped  in  front  of  the  next 
house. 

''Mrs.  Heashp  hves  here,"  Kahie 
told  Marge.  "She's  seventy-five  — 
lost  her  husband  a  few  years  ago— 
she  lives  on  a  pension.  She's  such 
a  sweet  little  thing  I  love  to  call 
on  her.  She'll  have  a  cookie  or 
something  ready  for  us.  And  she 
gave  five  dollars  last  year." 

"Does  she  live  here  all  alone?" 
Marge  wanted  to  know  as  they 
walked  down  the  narrow  path  be- 
tween the  rosebushes  leading  to  a 
small  house.  A  lilac  bush  was  a 
splash  of  purple  at  the  side  of  the 
porch,  and  a  little  hose,  spouting 
water,  twirled  gaily  on  the  apron- 
sized  lawn. 

"All  alone,"  Kallie  answered. 

The  front  door  was  open,  and  as 
they  stepped  onto  the  porch,  a 
flutey  little  voice  called:  "Who  is 
it,  please?" 

"Hello,  Mrs.  Heaslip,"  Kallie 
called  back.  "It's  Mrs.  Edwards  of 
the  Heart  Drive  —  it's  our  annual 
call,  remember?" 

"Bless  you,  I  do  remember,  Mrs. 
Edwards.   Come  right  in." 

]V/[RS.  Heaslip  came  to  the  door, 
and  Kallie  thought  how  dainty 
she  looked  this  morning.  Her  white 
hair  was  neatly  curled  and  a  little 
lace  collar  matched  her  apron. 

"This  is  Mrs.  Johnson,"  Kallie 
said. 

"My!  You  do  look  pretty,  both 
of  you."  Mrs.  Heaslip  motioned  for 
them  to  sit  down.  "Now,  do  stay 
long  enough  for  a  glass  of  milk.  I 
always  have  one  about  this  time 
every  morning." 


"We'd  love  to,  Mrs.  Heaslip," 
Kallie  said.  "I  told  Marge  about 
your  cookies,  that  special  kind  with 
brown  sugar." 

Mrs.  Heaslip  beamed.  "Well, 
that's  nice.  Now  first  we'll  take  care 
of  our  business." 

She  walked  to  the  bookcase,  lifted 
an  old  volume  of  poetry,  opened  it 
and  took  out  a  five-dollar  bill. 

"I  had  it  put  away  for  you,"  she 
said,  handing  it  to  Kallie.  Her  eyes 
had  mischievous  little  sparks  in 
them.  "You  both  make  yourselves 
at  home  while  I  get  the  cookies." 

Marge  leaned  back  in  the  old 
rocker,  picked  up  a  magazine,  and 
began  to  read. 

But  Kallie  couldn't  relax.  She 
sat  very  straight  on  the  edge  of  her 
chair,  folded  the  bill  thoughtfully, 
and  put  it  in  her  purse.  Then  she 
wrote  a  receipt  for  the  five  dollars, 
asked  Marge  to  excuse  her,  and  hur- 
ried out  to  the  kitchen  with  it.  She 
wanted  to  talk  to  Mrs.  Heaslip  about 
so  many  things  because  she  was  so 
wise  and  understanding. 

She  hestitated  in  the  doorway, 
watching  Mrs.  Heaslip  take  the 
golden  brown  cookies  from  an  old 
china  jar  and  put  them  on  a  small 
silver  tray. 

"Mrs.  Heaslip,"  she  began.  "I 
was  just  wondering— what  happened 
to  the  Starks,  next  door?" 

Mrs.  Heaslip  edged  another  cookie 
on  the  tray  and  dusted  her  hands 
on  her  apron. 

"Well,  now,  honey,"  she  said 
very  gently.  "I  really  don't  know. 
Maybe  they  didn't  take  the  time  to 
get  along  together." 

Kallie  swallowed  hard. 

"Was  it— over  money?"  she  asked, 
trying  to  keep  her  voice  steady. 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER  1957 


Mrs.  Heaslip  puckered  her  lips 
and  shook  her  head. 

"I  realk  don't  know.  ..."    She 

looked  at  Kallie  with  eves  as  clear 
and  blue  as  the  morning  skv. 

Kallie  bit  her  lip.  'I  just  won- 
dered,' she  said.  "I  thought— mav- 
be— other  people  had  troubles— like 
mine.  ..." 

Mrs.  Heaslip's  eyes  narrowed  as 
she  motioned  her  toward  a  chair 
near  the  table. 

*'Sit  down,  pet/'  she  said,  and  her 
\oice  caressed  her  like  a  soft  wind. 
''You've  got  a  worn-.  You  look  real 
sad  this  morning,  Mrs.  Edwards. 
\\'ould  vou  like  to  tell  me  about 
it?^' 

"Yes— yes— I  would.  Mrs.  Heaslip. 
Reallv— it  seems  so  sillv  when  vou 
say  it  out  loud— but  it's  so  serious 
to  me.  It's  about  my  husband  — 
and  some  monev." 

Kallie  knew  she  could  trust  Mrs. 
Heaslip,  and  almost  breathlessly  she 
was  unloading  her  heart:  she  told 
her  about  the  bonus  and  Cliff  want- 
ing to  spend  it  all  for  a  fishing  trip, 
and  how  she  had  asked  him  to  give 
her  the  monev,  instead,  because  she 
knew  Cliff  would  spend  it  all. 

Mrs.  Heaslip  listened  without  in- 
tenupting.  Her  hands  were  busy 
pouring  tall  glasses  of  fresh  milk. 
But  there  was  a  faraway  look  m  her 
eyes  and  a  perky  little  smile  made 
her  mouth  young  again  around  the 
edges. 

"Ill  be  right  back,"  she  said  and 
disappeared  into  her  bedroom.  She 
returned  in  a  second  with  a  rare  old 
figurine  in  her  hands. 

"Mv  Charlie  bought  me  this,"  she 
said  significantly,  her  eyes  holding 
Kallie's  steadily.  ''I  didn't  think  he 
could   afford    it   at   the   time.    He 


bought  it  fiftv  vears  ago  when  we 
were  on  one  of  our  holidays." 

Kallie  couldn't  answer.  She  sat 
there  quietlv  looking  at  the  figurine 
as  Mrs.  Heaslip  put  it  on  the  table 
between  them.  She  dusted  it  care- 
fullv  with  a  napkin. 

"I'll  tell  you  about  Charlie,''  she 
said,  "because  it  might  help  vou  to 
make  allowances  for  vour  own  hus- 
band. That's  one  way  to  learn 
things— from  each  other." 

She  stopped  talking  and  Kallie 
touched  her  hand,  eagerly. 

"Do  tell  me,"  she  coaxed. 

"We  lived  in  Park  City."  Mrs. 
Heaslip  went  on.  "Charlie  was  a 
miner.  \\'orked  long  hours  down 
there  in  a  dark  mine.  But  vou  never 
saw  a  man  lo\"e  light  and  beautv 
more  than  Charlie  did.  And  fun! 
He  could  work  right  along  with  the 
steadiest  of  them  for  a  spell,  then 
he  just  had  to  have  a  hohday  in  the 
sun. 

A  smile  gentled  her  mouth  and 
she  sat  thoughtfully  a  mo- 
ment. 

"Funnv  thing  how  Charlie  alwavs 
got  a  little  extra  monev  for  his  holi- 
day. He  always  said  the  Lord  gave 
it  to  him,  and  it  did  look  that  way. 
He  used  to  call  it  his  heavenly 
bonus,  ^^'e'd  be  scrimping  and  sav- 
ing to  live  within  our  income  and 
then  out  of  nowhere  some  extra 
monev  would  come  to  Charlie!" 

Mrs.  Heashp's  smile  was  very 
wise. 

"It  ne\er  occurred  to  him  to  put 
some  of  it  awav,  but  I  always  held 
out  for  tithing  and  fast  offering  and 
twentv  per  cent  in  the  bank.  But 
I  agreed  on  the  holiday.  Most  men 
who  work  as  hard  as  Charlie  have 
to  have  a  vacation  everv  so  often. 


THE  HEAVENLY  BONUS 


595 


He  liked  to  ride  and  hike  in  the 
sun.  It  seemed  to  give  him  a  fresh 
start." 

KalHe's  throat  pinched  in  as  she 
thought  how  Chff  loved  the  sun, 
too. 

"Charlie  had  his  faults/'  Mrs. 
Heaslip  went  on  dreamily.  ''He 
spent  money  too  freely,  and  his 
temper  got  edgy  after  he'd  worked 
too  hard,  but  he  always  took  me 
on  the  vacations  with  him." 

She  touched  the  figurine,  turning 
it  so  the  morning  sun  shone  on  it. 
Her  fingers  caressed  it. 

''Marriage  is  a  give  and  take," 
she  said  softly.  "But  it's  worth  it. 
My  husband  was  a  fine  man.  We 
couldn't  save  a  lot  of  money,  just 
our  insurance  and  the  twenty  per 
cent  I  set  by,  but  our  vacations  kept 
us  well  and  strong.  'When  we're 
old,'  Charlie  used  to  say,  'we'll  look 
back  and  remember  them.'  And 
we  did  just  that." 

Mrs.  Heaslip  quit  talking  and 
Kallie  touched  her  hand  gratefully. 
They  sat  there  quietly  without 
speaking  for  a  moment.  The  old- 
fashioned  clock  in  the  hallway 
chimed  eleven  o'clock.  Cliff  would 
be  working  hard  now  on  a  new  case, 


she  thought  with  a  sigh.  He  had 
worked  steadily  ever  since  they  had 
been  married  without  a  change  of 
any  kind.  He  had  spent  long  hours 
at  night  searching  through  stuify 
old  law  books.  The  senior  members 
had  given  him  most  of  the  tedious 
work  because  he  was  the  new  mem- 
ber. He  did  need  a  vacation,  she 
conceded  achingly.  Heavenly  Fa- 
ther must  have  known  that  he  need- 
ed one  when  he  gave  him  the 
hundred  dollar  bill.  And  she  would 
be  contented  if  they  saved  twenty 
per  cent. 

"Mrs.  Heaslip,"  she  said,  getting 
to  her  feet,  "may  I  use  your  phone? 
I  want  to  call  Cliff." 

"Of  course,  dear,"  she  answered. 
"It's  in  the  hall." 

Kallie  turned  at  the  doorway, 
smiling  over  her  shoulder  at  Mrs. 
Heaslip. 

"I  want  you  to  meet  my  husband 
when  we  come  back  from  our  fish- 
ing trip,"  she  said.  "He's  a  very 
wonderful  man." 

Mrs.  Heaslip  smiled  and  her  blue 
eyes  were  twinkling. 

"Husbands  are  very  wonderful 
people,"  she  murmured.  "Don't  you 
ever  forget  that,  young  lady!" 


■  »  I 


LOrowsing  in  the  Sun 

Ida  Isaacson 


I  smell  the  smoke  from  Mt.  Vernon 
And  view  Monticello  way. 
A  chat  with  Patrick  Henry 
To  pass  the  time  of  day. 
Recollect  about  the  doings 
At  Pennsylvania's  Carpenters'  Hall; 
Talk  about  the  Declaration 
What  it  will  mean  for  all. 


See  the  farmer-warriors 
Who  saved  the  country,  set  it  free, 
Now  building  a  Constitution, 
Making  precedent  for  humanity. 

Ho-hum,  drowsing  in  the  sun  .  .  . 

I  must  wake  up 

And  get  my  own  work  done. 


Sixty    LJears  J^go 


Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  September  i,  and  September  15,  1897 

"For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

HAWAII:  Hawaii  is  a  grou-p,  or  rather  a  string  of  sunny  islands  of  a  gentle 
tropical  climate  .  .  .  embosomed  midst  the  placid  waters  of  the  Pacific,  2,100  miles 
southwest  from  San  Francisco  and  nearly  the  same  distance  north  from  Tahiti.  An 
offspring  of  the  sea,  the  result  of  volcanic  unheavals,  their  origin  verified  by  extinct 
craters  fastened  here  and  there  amidst  the  hills  and  on  the  mountain  heights  of  the 
group,  and  by  the  still  blazing  fires  of  that  molten  lake  —  the  fiery  Kilauea.  Of  the 
ten  islands  two  are  little  more  than  barren  rocks,  two  are  used  exclusively  as  cattle 
ranges,  and  the  six  principal  ones  are  luxurious  in  bloom  and  beauty.  .  .  . 

— M.  A.  J.  Lambert 

THE  QUERY 

Shadow  and  sun  are  alike  to  the  Giver! 
His  hand  in  wisdom  appointeth  the  way. 
The  glory  He  willeth  beyond  the  dark  river, 
Will  solve  all  the  mystery  shrouding  today.  .  .  . 
— H.  W.  Naisbitt 


THE  WOMEN  OF  AMERICA:  I  think  it  is  not  strange  that  we  pause  for  a 
moment  in  this  enlightened  day  to  pay  a  tender  tribute  of  praise  to  the  silent  suffering 
hearts  that  have  labored,  yearned  and  died  for  the  cause  of  Liberty  and  the  prosperity 
of  our  nation.  Labored  in  silence  and  devotion,  caring  for  no  other  honor  than  to  be 
worthy  wives  and  mothers  of  our  heroes  and  noble  men.  Since  the  day  when  the 
Queen  of  Castile  offered  her  jewels  to  the  dreamer  of  Genoa  to  carry  him  out  into  the 
sea  of  darkness,  into  the  unknown  world,  the  patient,  loving  sacrifices  of  women  have 
not  only  followed  but  lead  in  every  movement  for  the  cause  of  humanity,  and  the 
glory  of  the  New  World.  .  .  . 

— Emily  Ray 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  IN  SAN  FRANCISCO:  Feeling  sure  the  sisters  in  Zion 
would  be  pleased  to  hear  something  of  the  mission  work  here  in  California,  I  shall  .  .  . 
tell  of  the  Relief  Society  organized  by  President  E.  H.  Nye,  June  3,  1897.  .  .  .  Sister 
W.  A.  Rattenbery  was  oppointed  President;  Isabella  Y.  Sewell  First  Counselor;  Harriet 
Simpkins  Second  Counselor;  Chircazade  Woodward,  treasurer;  Ida  M.  Sarll,  secretary 
and  teacher.  There  are  about  twenty-eight  members  in  all,  and  a  more  earnest,  loving 
band  of  sisters  could  not  be  found  on  this  beautiful  earth.  .  .  .  Much  good  is  being 
done,  several  quilts  have  been  made,  besides  the  mending  being  done  each  week  for 
the  Elders.  .  .  . 

—Ida  M.  Sarll 


ADVERTISEMENT:  Mrs.  Kate  Bridewell  Anderson,  formerly  of  New  Orleans, 
and  recently  of  Ogden,  has  opened  a  vocal  studio  in  Unity  Hall.  .  .  .  Operatic  repertoire 
a  specialty. 

Page  596 


Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


M' 


■RS.  GRACE  GOODHUE 
COOLIDGE,  widow  of  former 
President  Calvin  Coolidge,  died  July 
8,  in  Northampton,  Massachusetts. 
In  her  youth  she  taught  the  deaf 
and  dumb,  and  as  a  widow  she  de- 
voted much  time  to  civic,  social,  and 
religious  work,  particularly  Red 
Cross.  Intelligent,  unassuming,  and 
housewifely,  she  was  also  a  very 
gracious  first  lady.  Mrs.  Woodrow 
Wilson,  Mrs.  Franklin  D.  Roosevelt, 
and  Mrs.  Harry  S.  Truman  are  now 
the  only  living  wives  of  former 
United  States  Presidents. 

TN  Iran,  where  women  do  not  have 
suffrage  and  their  fathers  select 
their  husbands,  there  are,  neverthe- 
less, fourteen  magazines  edited  by 
women.  The  oldest,  Shokooieh 
(The  Blossom)  was  first  published 
forty- three  years  ago.  It  has  been 
suppressed  from  time  to  time— for 
its  too  radical  stand— about  fourteen 
years  altogether.  Its  motto  is:  ''A 
newspaper  of  literary,  ethical,  hy- 
gienic, household,  and  children  sub- 
jects; its  purpose,  the  upbringing  of 
girls,  the  purification  of  feminine 
ethics." 

'TpHE  Oakland  Women's  Rowing 
Club  is  an  organization  of  old- 
er women  who  row  crew  boats  week- 
ly on  a  beautiful  salt  water  lake  of 
160  acres  in  the  heart  of  Oakland, 
California. 


M' 


r\R.  VIRGINIA  CUTLER,  Lat- 
ter-day Saint,  headed  the  Home 
Economics  Department  of  the  Uni- 
versity of  Utah  for  eight  years. 
Many  of  her  dreams  and  ideas  went 
into  the  building  of  the  handsome 
Sill  Home  Living  Center.  Dr.  Cutler 
recently  fulfilled  a  two-year  assign- 
ment for  the  United  States  Govern- 
ment in  Thailand,  and  is  now  work- 
ing similarly  in  Jakarta,  Indonesia. 

•RS.  FRANK  BOYD,  "Mother 
Mame,"  worked  in  the  print 
shop  of  Kansas  University  at  ten 
cents  an  hour  to  put  herself  through 
college.  For  fifty-two  years  since 
graduation,  she  has  been  a  journal- 
ist. Elderly,  but  very  active,  she 
still  works  full  time  and  has  recently 
addressed  two  Rotary  clubs  and  a 
Business  and  Professional  Women's 
club,  and  the  National  Press  Wom- 
en's convention  in  Texas.  She  has 
been  active  on  the  State  Board  for 
Tuberculosis  for  thirty  years  and  has 
worked  for  many  years  on  the  Crip- 
pled Children's  Commission.  For 
seven  and  a  half  years  she  has  been 
active — and  is  the  only  woman  on 
a  nine-member  board  which  has 
greatly  improved  the  mental  hos- 
pitals of  her  State. 

pRANCES      McMillan,      an 

American  doctor,  past  eighty 
years  of  age,  is  still  vigorously  prac- 
ticing medicine  in  Mexico,  where 
she  began  her  career  in  1901. 

Page  597 


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NO.  9 


uier  (^hoii 


]V/f  ARY  sat  puzzled  and  uncertain 
after  the  two  older  children  had 
left  for  the  first  day  of  school.  She 
had  not  mentioned  her  dilemma  to 
Jim  the  night  before,  but  had  de- 
cided to  reserve  time  this  morning 
to  think  her  problem  through  so 
she  would  make  the  right  choice. 

She  had  been  flattered  when  Mrs. 
Juke  had  called  her  the  day  before. 
Motioning  to  the  children  to  be 
quieter  so  she  could  hear,  Mary  had 
been  thilled  to  be  asked  to  join  a 
group  of  women  who  met  twice  a 
month  as  a  study  group.  They  were 
recognized  as  leaders  in  the  com- 
munity, and  there  was  flashing  in 
Mary's  mind,  all  the  time  she  was 
talking,  plans  as  to  how  she  might 
manage  to  join  this  desirable  club. 

Much  as  Mary  wanted  to  become 
a  member,  by  the  time  Mrs.  Juke 
finished  her  invitation  and  out- 
lined the  plan  of  the  club  for  the 
coming  season,  Mary  had  not  been 
able  to  see  her  way  clear,  so  she  had 
asked  if  she  might  think  it  over  for 
a  day.  Mrs.  Juke  still  sounded  cor- 
dial and  assured  her  she  could  let 
her  know  in  a  day  or  two. 

Now  Mary  sat  trying  to  make  her 
plans  for  the  fall  and  winter  which 
would  allow  her  time  to  join  the 
club  which  met  on  Wednesday 
afternoon.  Over  and  over  Mary 
considered  her  schedule  and  finally 
admitted  to  h.erself  that  she  couldn't 
attend  Relief  Society  every  Tuesday 
and  the  club  on  Wednesday  twice 

Page  598 


oice 

a  month.  She  would  have  to  choose 
between  them. 

*        >!«        »!« 

A  similar  situation  confronts 
many  Latter-day  Saint  women;  but 
when  a  choice  is  to  be  made,  there 
are  always  guideposts  to  point  the 
way.  These  consist  of  the  influence 
one's  choice  will  have  on  loved 
ones,  and  the  words  of  the  prophets. 

In  1942,  on  the  hundredth  anni- 
versary of  Relief  Society,  the  First 
Presidency  wrote  a  greeting  to  Re- 
lief Society  in  which  they  stated: 

We  ask  our  Sisters  of  the  Relief  So- 
ciety never  to  forget  that  they  are  a 
unique  organization  in  the  whole  world, 
for  they  were  organized  under  the  inspira- 
tion of  the  Lord  bestowed  upon  that  great 
Prophet  who  was  divinely  called,  by  a  vis- 
itation of  the  Father  and  Son  in  person, 
to  open  up  this  Last  Dispensation,  the 
dispensation  of  the  Fullness  of  Times.  No 
other  woman's  organization  in  all  the 
earth  has  had  such  a  birth. 

This  divinely  inspired  origin  brings  with 
it  a  corresponding  responsibihty,  in  conse- 
cration to  service,  and  in  the  loftiest  loy- 
alty to  the  Priesthood  of  God  and  to  one 
another.  The  members  should  permit 
neither  hostile  nor  competitive  interests 
of  any  kind  to  detract  from  the  duties  and 
obligations,  the  privileges  and  honors,  the 
opportunities  and  achievements  of  mem- 
bership in  this  great  Society. 

The  prime,  almost  the  exclusive  alle- 
giance of  every  member  of  this  great  group, 
runs  in  this  field  to  their  fellow  members 
and  to  the  organization.  Members  should 
permit  no  other  affiliation  cither  to  inter- 
rupt or  to  interfere  with  the  work  of  this 
Society.  They  should  give  to  Relief  So- 
ciety service  precedence  over  all  social  and 
other  clubs  and  societies  of  similar  kinds. 


EDITORIAL 


599 


We  urge  this  because  in  the  work  of  the 
Rehef  Society  are  intellectual,  cultural,  and 
spiritual  values  found  in  no  other  organiza- 
tion and  sufficient  for  all  general  needs  of 
its  members  (A  Centenary  of  Relief  So- 
ciety, page  7 ) . 

Relief  Society  extends  a  warm  in- 
vitation and  welcome  to  every  Lat- 
ter-day Saint  woman,  whether  she, 
of  necessity,  works  and  may  not  at- 
tend regularly,  or  whether  she  can 
join  in  all  the  activities  of  the  so- 
ciety. Eternal  blessings,  earthly  joys 


and  satisfaction  await  each  member, 
as  she  brings  comfort  and  under- 
standing to  others. 


5!«     sj:     sj;     >J:     ^ 


Mary  remained  very  still  for  a 
time  as  she  weighed  the  advantages 
and  disadvantages  of  her  situation. 
Suddenly  her  mind  resolved  the 
question  and,  with  a  glad  counte- 
nance, she  dialed  Mrs.  Juke's  num- 
ber. 

-M.  C.  S. 


cJo  Kyiunt  L^efty  s  Kyld  [Jolue    iJOowi 

Matfa  McClelland  BurJc 

I  like  to  sit  at  evening 

And  watch  its  soft  blue  glow. 

It  crossed  the  harsh  and  dreary  plains 

In  a  handcart  long  ago. 

It  once  companioned  weariness 
And  tragic  loss  and  pain; 
It  held  the  frugal  sustenance 
Of  those  who  crossed  the  plain. 

Then,  when  they  reached  the  valley, 
Its  lupine-colored  grace 
Still  comforted  Aunt  Getty's  heart 
In  that  far,  lonely  place. 

And  when  her  heart  was  lifted 
In  plea  or  thankful  prayer, 
As  blue  as  any  April  sky 
The  bowl  was  standing  there. 

Now  still  the  bowl  can  touch  my  heart, 
And  like  an  azure  wraith, 
It  brings  back  dear  Aunt  Getty, 
With  her  courage  and  her  faith. 


^yiohidL.     TO  THE  FIELD 


n Lagazine  (bubscnption  Lrrice  LKaised  to  ^2 
Effective  November  1957  Issue 

npHE  general  board  has  consistently  maintained  The  Relief  Society 
Magazine  subscription  price  at  the  lowest  possible  figure,  as  it  feels 
that  every  Relief  Society  member  should  be  a  subscriber.  However,  in- 
creased costs  of  publishing  the  Magazine  over  the  past  ten  years,  now  make 
it  imperative  that  the  subscription  price  be  raised  from  $1.50  to  $2  a  year. 
The  general  board,  therefore,  announces  that  all  Relief  Society  Magazine 
subscriptions  which  begin  with  the  November  1957  issue  and  thereafter, 
will  cost  $2  a  year.  It  will  not  be  possible  to  allow  subscribers  whose  sub- 
scriptions begin  in  November,  or  later,  to  subscribe  ahead  of  time  at  the 
current  price  of  $1.50.    Foreign  subscriptions  remain  at  $2.00. 

The  general  board  regrets  that  today's  high  cost  of  living  must  also  be 
reflected  in  the  cost  of  The  Rehef  Society  Magazine,  and  asks  the  continued 
loyal  support  of  Relief  Society  officers  in  the  stakes,  wards,  branches,  and 
missions  of  the  Church.  The  work  of  Magazine  representatives  in  placing 
the  Magazine  in  Latter-day  Saint  homes  has  been  one  of  devotion  and 
faithfulness.  The  response  of  Relief  Society  members  and  their  expressions 
of  appreciation  for  the  contents  of  the  Magazine  have  been  gratifying,  and 
the  general  board  enlists  their  continued  support  and  loyalty  to  the 
Magazine. 


cJhe  J^nnual  (general  LKe/ief  Society^    (conference 

npHE  Annual  General  Relief  Society  conference  will  be  held  Wednesday 
and  Thursday,  October  2  and  3,  1957.  The  general  session  will  be  held 
on  Wednesday,  October  2,  from  2  to  4  p.m.  in  the  Tabernacle.  It  is  sug- 
gested that  ward  Relief  Society  presidents  ask  their  bishops  to  announce  in 
the  wards  the  general  session  of  the  conference  to  which  the  general  public 
is  invited.  Attendance  at  the  Officers  Meeting  on  Wednesday  morning, 
October  2,  from  10  to  12  in  the  Tabernacle,  and  the  departmental  meet- 
ings held  Thursday  morning  and  Thursday  afternoon,  October  3,  is  limited 
to  stake  board  members  and  mission  officers.  A  reception  to  which  stake 
board  members  and  mission  officers  are  invited  will  be  held  on  Wednesday 
evening,  October  2,  from  7  to  10  in  the  Relief  Society  Building. 

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ree 


'T^HE  food  we  eat,  the  clothes  we  wear,  the  homes  we  hve  in,  the  cars 
we  drive  —  even  the  leisure  time  to  enjoy  them  in  —  and  all  the 
inner  satisfactions  of  life  —  all  these  must  be  bought  with  effort  and  sacri- 
fice. 

Let's  look  at  some  examples.    Take  friendship.    You  may  win  friends 
easily,  but  it  will  cost  you  something  to  keep  them:  time  spent  on  daily 

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kindly  deeds;  the  thoughtful  letter  or  card  of  remembrance;  the  timely 
word  of  encouragement;  the  constant  consideration. 

The  price  of  education  is  study.  Business  success  can  be  bought  only 
through  hard  work;  savings  for  the  future  through  present  self-denial. 

So  with  the  development  of  our  talents;  the  ability  to  play  the  piano, 
to  paint  a  picture,  to  bake  a  cake,  to  excel  in  any  art  or  skill  comes  only 
with  effort. 

Personal  health  and  physical  and  mental  strength  must  be  earned  by 
the  exercise  we  take,  the  kind  and  amount  of  food  and  drink  we  put 
into  our  bodies  —  or  abstain  from. 

The  trust  of  friends  is  built  on  the  keeping  of  promises.  Financial 
credit  belongs  to  those  who  pay  their  bills. 

Even  Church  membership  with  its  present  and  future  blessings  is  not 
yours  for  the  mere  asking.  To  belong  you  must  add  obedience;  to  receiv- 
ing you  must  add  sharing.  These  are  the  works  you  must  add  to  faith  if 
you  would  earn  the  good  things  of  earth  and  the  blessings  of  heaven.  They 
are  the  price  we  must  pay  for  happiness  here  or  hereafter. 

So  strive,  share,  serve,  save.    In  other  words,  pay  up,  because  it  pays. 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


LKecipes  clrom  the  Southern  QJar  ibast    iiUssion 

Suhmitted  hy  Luana  C.  Heaton 
Cantonese  Diced  Chicken  With  Walnuts 


Vz   chicken 
6  mushrooms  (a  small  can) 

1  c.  walnuts 

2  tbsp.  soy  sauce 
1   c.  cooking  oil 


1  tbsp.  cornstarch  for  coating  chicken 
Yi   tbsp.  cornstarch    (mixed  with   a  little 

water  for  sauce) 

1  tsp.  salt 
Vz   tsp.  sugar 


Shell  and  dice  the  walnuts.  Remove  4  tbsp.  of  oil  from  the  1  cup  and  set  aside. 
Heat  the  remaining  oil  and  fry  the  nuts  until  they  are  a  golden  brown.  Remove  from 
the  fire  and  blot  on  heavy  Manila  paper.  Clean  and  dice  the  chicken.  To  tenderize, 
sprinkle  with  1  tsp.  cornstarch.  Pour  the  4  tbsp.  of  oil  in  a  hot  frying  pan,  add  the 
diced  chicken  when  the  oil  is  smoking  hot.  Stir  for  one  minute.  Have  the  cornstarch, 
sugar,  salt,  and  soy  sauce  thoroughly  mixed  together  and  pour  the  mixture  over  the 
frying  chicken.  Dice  the  mushrooms  and  add  them  to  the  mixture  in  the  frying 
pan  and  stir  for  five  minutes  until  the  mushrooms  are  tender.  Remove  from  fire.  Mix 
in  the  deep-fried  walnuts  before  serving.     Serves  4. 

Chinese  Beef  and  Onions 


2  tbsp.  soy  sauce 
Vz    tsp.  sugar 
Vz   tsp.  salt 


3  large  onions,  chopped  fine 
Vz   lb.  beef,  cut  in  thin  strips 

4  tbsp.  oil 
2  tsp.  cornstarch 

Mix  in  the  cornstarch,  1  tbsp.  soy  sauce,  %  tsp.  salt  and  dredge  the  meat  in  the 
mixture.  Saute  the  meat  in  2  tbsp.  oil.  Fry  the  onions  in  the  remainder  of  the  oil, 
¥4  tsp.  salt,  1  tbsp.  soy  sauce,  and  Vz  tsp.  sugar  for  a  few  seconds.  Add  the  sauteed 
beef  and  thoroughly  heat.     Serves  6. 


RECIPES  FROM  THE  SOUTHERN  FAR  EAST  MISSION  603 

Shanghai  Spring  Rolls 

8  large  mushrooms,  fresh,  dried,  or  i  tbsp.  ginger,  chopped  fine 

canned  Vi  lb.  lean  ground  pork,  dredged  with: 

1  onion,  chopped  fine  3  tbsp.  soy  sauce 

Vi    can  bamboo  shoots  1  tbsp.  salt 

Vi   lb.  bean  sprouts  1  tbsp.  cornstarch 

Cut  bamboo  shoots  and  mushrooms  and  saute  them.  Then  add  the  soy  sauce. 
Saute   onions.      Saute    the    pork   with    the    vegetables    and    add    the   ginger.      Spread 

1  Vi  tbsp.  of  the  pork  and  vegetable  mixture  on  a  pancake.    Fold  sides  and  roll,  moisten- 
ing the  edges  with  water  to  hold  them  together.     Fry  the  rolls  in  deep  fat  until  brown. 

Pancake  Batter 

6  eggs  (beaten)  2  c.  flour 

2  c.  water  1  tsp.  salt 

Beat  the  eggs,  add  the  water,  flour,  and  1  tsp.  salt.  Heat  a  small  frying  pan  with 
V2  tbsp.  oil;  pour  a  very  small  amount  of  batter  in  the  bottom  of  the  pan.  The 
pancake  should  be  very,  very  thin,  it  should  cook  less  than  a  minute,  only  long  enough 
to  set.    Continue  until  the  desired  number  of  pancakes  is  reached.     Serves  6. 

Formosan  Pork 

Vi   lb.  pork,  cut  in  small  pieces  1  tbsp.  ginger,  chopped  fine 

3  onions,  chopped  fine  1  tsp.  sugar 

Vi   head  cabbage,  finely  shredded  pinch  of  salt 

3  green  peppers,  cut  in  small  pieces  3  tbsp.  oil 

3  tbsp.  soy  sauce 

Heat  oil  in  pan;  add  meat  and  onions.  Fry  until  well  done.  Add  soy  sauce  and 
cabbage;  cook  until  cabbage  is  done.  Add  ginger,  peppers,  salt,  and  sugar.  Serve 
over  hot  rice.    Serves  6. 

Fish  a  La  Mindanao 

2  lbs.  fish  (white)  2  medium  tomatoes 

Vi  c.  salad  oil  1  tsp.  Spanish  pepper 

1  clove  garlic  1  egg 

1  medium  onion,  cut  in  small  pieces  salt  and  pepper  to  taste 

Cut  fish  in  individual  pieces  and  deep  fry  until  golden  brown.  Make  sauce:  mince 
garlic,  add  onions  and  cubed  tomatoes,  boil  the  vegetables  in  1  c.  water  until  soft. 
Press  through  a  sieve.  Add  1  beaten  egg  to  liquid.  Simmer  until  the  liquid  thickens. 
Pour  over  fried  fish.    Serve  8. 

Sweet-Sour  Fish 

3  lbs.  fish  (white)  2  tbsp.  cornstarch 
3  c.  oil  ^  tbsp.  soy  sauce 
3  tbsp.  oil  2  c.  mild  vinegar 

1  c.  sugar  1  large  onion,  chopped  fine 

cornstarch  paste  3  tbsp.  chopped  ginger 

Clean  fish;  make  diagonal  slashes  on  each  side,  leaving  the  flesh  adhering  to  the 
bones.  Dredge  well  with  the  cornstarch  paste.  Heat  pan,  add  3  tbsp.  oil,  hold  the 
fish  over  the  pan  of  deep  fat,  and  baste  the  slashes  with  the  hot  oil  until  brown,  then 
fry  in  deep  fat  until  crisp.  Prepare  sweet-sour  sauce  by  mixing  oil,  sugar,  cornstarch, 
soy  sauce,  and  vinegar.  Add  onions  and  ginger  and  boil  for  a  few  minutes.  Pour  over 
fish.    Serves  6. 


604  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— SEPTEMBER  1957 

Recipes  from  Guam 
Submitted  by  Helen  Bateman 

GuAMANiAN  Fried  Chicken 

1  chicken  i  -  2  c.  vinegar 

1  large  onion  salt  and  pepper  to  taste 

1  clove  garlic 

Lay  the  pieces  of  the  cut-up  chicken  in  a  bowl.  Cover  each  layer  with  thin  slices 
of  onion,  salt,  pepper,  and  minced  garlic.  Pour  vinegar  over  all.  Occasionally,  tumble 
the  chicken  through  the  vinegar.  Marinate  overnight  (about  i8  hours).  Drain  chicken 
and  fry  in  deep  fat  until  crisp  and  brown.     Serve  hot  or  cold. 

GuYORiA  (Coconut  Doughnuts) 

2  c.  coconut  milk  flour 

1   c.  sugar  coconut  oil 

Vz   c.  water  powdered  sugar 

Add  sugar  to  coconut  milk.  Then  add  enough  flour  to  make  a  stiff  dough.  Roll 
into  balls  the  size  of  marbles.  They  are  also  nice  elongated.  Fry  in  coconut  oil  until 
brown  or  dccp-fat  fry  in  other  oil  or  fat.  Make  syrup  of  sugar  and  water  bv  combining 
Yi  c.  water  and  i  c.  sugar.  Drop  the  balls  into  the  syrup  and  remove  immediately  and 
then  dust  with  powdered  sugar. 

In  making  coconut  milk,  grate  the  meat  of  a  medium-ripe  coconut.  Add  about 

2  c.  water.  Mix  water  with  coconut  and  then  pick  up  a  handful  and  squeeze  milk  into 
another  bowl.  Continue  until  the  coconut  is  dry.  The  coconut  may  then  be  dried 
or  toasted  and  used  in  other  cooking. 

ROSQUETTE 

Vi   c.  shortening  i  tsp.  salt 

i  V4   c.  sugar  3  tbsp.  baking  powder 

3/4   c.  cornstarch  1  tbsp.  lemon 

2  eggs  1  tbsp.  vanilla  or  1  tbsp  anise 

1  c.  flour  ■>.  ■' 

Cream  shortening  and  add  sugar  and  continue  creaming.  Add  eggs  and  beat  until 
creamy.  Add  flavoring.  Sift  cornstarch,  flour,  baking  powder  and  salt  together  and  add 
the  sifted  dry  ingredients  to  creamed  mixture,  a  little  at  a  time.  Roll  into  balls  about 
1  Vi  inches  in  diameter  and  until  about  5  inches  in  length.  Take  each  end  and  bring 
around  toward  you  into  a  pretzel  shape.  Bake  in  a  300°  oven  until  golden  brown 
about  20  to  25  minutes.  Cool  until  crisp  in  pan.  Remove  and  store  in  tight  can.  (In 
a  cold  climate  milk  may  be  added  to  make  the  dough  soft  enough  to  roll.) 


Qynlii  cJhese 

Mabel  Jones  Gabbott 

There  was  the  day  we  found  the  coral  rock, 
The  day  we  ran  barefoot  the  sea-walled  walk, 
Then  came  the  night  and  stars  were  doublecast 
In  sea  and  velvet  arc;  those  days  are  past. 
Where  you  walk  now,  I  no  longer  know; 
And  I  mislaid  the  coral  long  ago. 
....  Only  these  remain  for  me: 
The  velvet  stars,  the  sea,  and  memory. 


For  This  I  Have  Yearned 


Mabel  Law  Atkinson 


^^'TPHERE  now,  Michael  John 
Terrance,  Junior,  I  think  you 
look  handsome  enough  to  please 
Michael  John,  Senior,  when  he 
comes  home,  don't  you?  You  know 
I  believe  you  and  I  together  will 
make  a  rather  pleasing  picture  to 
greet  your  father  on  this  very  spe- 
cial occasion." 

Margaret  Terrance,  who  ten  min- 
utes before  had  been  hoping  and 
even  praying  that  the  children 
would  stay  asleep  until  after  Michael 
came,  so  she  could  be  looking  her 
very  prettiest  to  greet  him,  held  her 
small  son  at  arm's  length  as  she 
continued,  'Yes,  you  will  do  nicely 
with  your  hair  combed  and  your 
face  shining.  In  fact  you  are  ador- 
able, Michael  John,  Junior." 

"I'm  Mickey,  Mother.  Don't  you 
know?" 

'Yes,  darling,  you  are  Mickey; 
but  you  are  also  Michael  John  Ter- 
rance, Junior."  She  gave  him  an 
impulsive  hug  and  continued,  ''And 
at  three-going-on-four,  you  are  a 
small  replica  of  your  father." 

"What  does  ph'ca  mean.  Mother?" 

"It  means  that  you  and  Daddy 
are  alike  as  two  peas,  though  one  is 
small  and  one  is  large." 

Before  another  question  was  forth- 
coming, Margaret  held  little  Mich- 
ael close  and  said,  "Grow  up  to  be 
just  like  Daddy,  won't  you  darling? 
Just  like  him  in  every  little  way." 

"I  will.  I  love  Daddy,  too, 
Mother." 

"Now  let's  finish  our  preparations. 
Everything  must  be  perfect  for 
Daddy  tonight.  If  only  Tommy  and 
the  twins  will  stay  asleep.   You  see 


I  must  get  fixed  up  pretty,  too." 
"You  are  always  pretty.  Mother." 
"Thank  you,  Mickey;  but  even 
you  must  admit  I'm  prettier  some- 
times than  others.  And  this  must 
be  one  of  the  times  when  I'm  pretti- 
est. New  you  sit  in  the  big  rocker 
and  look  at  your  picture  book  while 
I  make  myself  beautiful.  Daddy 
mustn't  miss  too  much  not  getting 
a  gift  this  year." 

At  that  moment  a  cry  from  the 
bedroom  told  her  that  the  baby  had 
awakened  sooner  than  usual  from 
his  afternoon  sleep. 

"Oh,  dear,  just  when  I  needed 
time  more  than  anything  else! 
Mickey,  can  you  be  Mother's  big 
man  and  rock  the  cradle?  Perhaps 
Tommy  will  go  back  to  sleep  and 
not  waken  the  twins." 

"Sure,  Mother.  I  know  how  to 
rock  the  cradle." 

Soon  Margaret  heard  the  gentle 
rhythmic  creak  of  the  loved  old 
cradle  that  had  soothed  all  her 
mother's  babies,  and  the  cries  ceased. 

She  took  one  last  inspection  of 
the  table,  set  in  the  dining  room  for 
the  occasion,  and  decided  it  was  per- 
fect. She  smiled,  knowing  Michael 
would  exclaim,  "My,  my,  the  pretti- 
est cake  ever!"  when  he  saw  the 
white-frosted  creation  with  "Happy 
Anniversary"  done  in  tiny  pink 
flowers,  with  five  pink  candles  in 
the  center. 

Then  she  slipped  quickly  into  her 
prettiest  afternoon  frock,  patted  her 
curls  in  place,  and  she  was  ready 
with  about  ten  minutes  to  spare 
before  Michael  w^ould  arrive. 

She  was  congratulating  herself  on 

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the  luxury  of  these  moments  when 
Mickey  called  from  the  bedroom, 
''Mother,  Tommy  won't  go  to  sleep, 
but  he's  good  as  can  be,  and  the 
twins  are  awake,  too,  so  may  I  quit 
rocking  the  cradle?" 

There  goes  my  luck!  thought 
Margaret.  Oh,  well,  every  cloud 
has  a  sparkling  lining,  if  we  but  look 
for  it.  Who  knows,  perhaps  a  dia- 
mond one  this  time?  Her  thoughts 
were  racing  ahead  as  she  called 
cheerfully,  'Tes,  dear,  you  may  stop 
now." 

She  went  into  the  crib-filled 
room,  kissed  Mickey  as  she  thanked 
him,  then  lifted  Mary  and  Kath- 
erine,  plump  little  cherubs  of  two, 
from  their  cribs,  took  up  wee  Tom- 
my, and  smiling  at  the  dew-sweet 
wonder  in  three  pair  of  eyes,  said 
happily,  'Til  tell  you  what!  Let's 
all  be  waiting  at  the  gate  for  Daddy 
tonight.  All  his  family.  That  can 
be  his  gift,  his  smiling  family  to 
welcome  him  home.  Come,  only  a 
few  minutes  to  brush  curls  and  put 
on  fresh  dresses.  Daddy  will  be 
starting  home  by  now." 

TV/flCHAEL,  walking  home,  was 
taking  great  strides  that  spoke 
his  eagerness.  Under  his  arm  was  a 
long  slim  parcel.  ''Not  much  of  a 
gift,"  he  mused  rather  ruefully  "but 
even  pennies  have  to  be  counted 
these  days."  Then  a  smile  illumi- 
nated his  features  as  his  thoughts 
raced  on,  'Tour  little  Terrances 
and  only  five  years  married!  I  just 
hope  Margaret  never  regrets  taking 
me  instead  of  Robert  Barker.  Now 
he  would  be  bringing  her  five  dozen 
instead  of  just  one  red  rose."  He 
sobered  at  the  thought. 

He  was  half  a  block  away  when 


he  saw  them:  Margaret  holding  up 
two-months-old  little  Tommy  for 
him  to  see,  and  Mickey  holding  the 
hands  of  the  twin  girls.  His  face 
broke  into  smiles  again  and  he  held 
out  his  arms.  The  three  children 
ran  to  meet  him  squealing  their  de- 
light. With  a  twin  in  each  arm,  his 
parcel  still  under  one,  and  Mickey 
hugging  one  of  his  legs,  he  came  to 
Margaret,  and  in  a  way  known  only 
to  fathers  whose  love  is  all-embrac- 
ing, he  included  her  and  baby 
Tommy  in  his  already  overflowing 
arms. 

"Tiss  me!  Tiss  me!"  chorused  the 
twins  as  he  kissed  his  wife. 

"You  little  imps!  I've  already 
kissed  you,  but  here's  another,  and 
now  Mother  must  have  one  more, 
too." 

"Better  kiss  Mickey  again,  too, 
darling,"  whispered  Margaret  as  lips 
pressed  her  cheek. 

"Now  you  three  girls  can  walk 
to  the  house.  I  want  to  carry  my 
two  sons."  He  put  down  the  twins, 
picked  up  a  laughing  and  dancing 
little  Mickey,  kissing  him  as  he  did 
so,  set  him  on  one  shoulder,  gave 
him  the  parcel  to  hold,  and  held 
out  his  free  arm,  saying,  "Mother, 
put  my  wee  son  in  this  arm,  will 
you?    There,  that's  fine." 

Margaret  took  a  hand  of  each  of 
the  little  girls,  and  with  laughing 
voices,  tripping  feet,  and  singing 
hearts,  the  happy  group  entered  the 
house. 

"My,  my,  the  prettiest  cake  ever!" 
Machael  caught  the  implication  in 
Margaret's  twinkling  eyes  and  de- 
fended himself  by  saying,  "It  really 
is  the  prettiest.  You  see  it's  the 
only  one  that  has  had  five  candles 
to  light.    Imagine,  Mrs.  Terrance! 


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Five    long   years!    Think   you    can  sparkling  vase,  she  repeated  softly, 

manage  another  five?"  ''  If  eyes   were   meant   for   seeing, 

''With  flying  colors,  my  dear.  I  then  beauty  is  its  own  excuse  for 
long  to  be  ten  years  married  to  a  being,'  thank  you,  darling/'  And 
certain  Michael  Terrance.  No  fifty  she  drew  him  down  to  her  to  place 
years  married!  Sounds  so  matronly  a  kiss  on  his  forehead, 
and  serene  and  secure."  The  anniversary  dinner  was  a  joy- 
In  almost  no  time  baby  Tommy  ous  affair,  with  Daddy  helping  to 
was  in  his  buggy  near  the  table,  the  feed  Mary  and  Katherine.  Before  he 
twins  were  in  their  highchairs,  and  lit  the  candles,  Michael  had  little 
Mickey  on  his  special  chair  his  fa-  Tommy  in  his  arms.  And  how  four 
ther  had  made  just  the  right  height  pairs  of  wee  bright  eyes  danced,  and 
for  him.  two    mature   pairs    glowed    as    the 

candles  burned! 

^^"piVE  years  married!     Where's  ''Sure  there  are  no  regrets,  Mrs. 

that    box?     Oh,    here,    Marg-  Terrance?"     Michael's    voice    was 

aret,"    Michael    handed    the    long,  music  so  low  Margaret  could  barely 

slim    parcel    to    her   as    he    spoke,  hear. 

"Open  your  fifth  anniversary  gift."  Regrets?  .  .  .  thought  Margaret. 

"But     Michael,     you     shouldn't  Then  time  spun  backward.    Again 

have!    You   know   we   decided   to-  Robert    Barker    was    saying,    "And 

gether."    But  her  fingers  flew  and  Margaret,  there  won't  be  any  chil- 

her  face  glowed  her  pleasure.  dren  for  at  least  five  years.  Just  you 

"I  know,  dearest,  but  I  couldn't  and  I  loving  each  other.   Why  life 

resist  just  one."  will  be  one  long,  delightful  holiday 

"One  perfect  rose!    Oh,  Michael,  for  us,  with   one  or  two  children 

you    couldn't    have    given    a    nicer  perhaps." 

gift."  "Regrets?"  Margaret  said  it  aloud 

"It  should  have  been  five  at  least,  this  time  and  looked  into  four  per- 

if  not  five  dozen."  feet  little  faces,  thinking,  for  these 

"No,  Michael,  one  is  even  more  and  more  I  have  yearned  all  my  life, 
beautiful.  One  perfect  rose  ...  in  For  this  was  I  born.  Then,  lifting 
my  crystal  vase!  I  love  perfection,  her  eyes,  clear  and  shining,  to  her 
and  you  have  given  it  to  me."  As  husband's,  she  answered,  "No  re- 
she  placed  the  rose  in  water  in  the  grets.    Happy  anniversary,  darling!" 


Seed  of  JLace 

Maryhale  Woolsey 

Summerlong,  the  country  lanes 

Were  delicately  bordered 
With  frothy  ''Queen's  Lace,"  airing  as 

"Her  Majesty"  had  ordered. 
But  summering  is  over  now, 

And  all  the  fragile  laces 
Repose  in  tiny  satchels,  packed 

For  travel  to  far  places. 


The  Bright  Star 

Chapter  7  (Condusion) 
Dorothy  S.  Romney 


Synopsis:  Kathy  Tracy,  an  orphan  who 
wishes  to  become  an  artist,  hves  with  her 
Aunt  Emerald  Jewel  Tracy  in  an  old-fash- 
ioned house  overlooking  San  Francisco 
Bay.  She  had  planned  to  accept  an  office 
position  offered  her  by  a  neighbor  and 
friend  of  the  family,  Phineas  Fenton,  but 
her  Aunt  Em  suffers  a  partial  stroke,  and 
Kathy  remains  at  home  to  care  for  her. 
During  her  illness  Aunt  Em  mentions 
something  about  a  sea  chest  in  the  China 
house  and  a  Bright  Star,  vyhich  Kathy  be- 
lieves may  hold  the  secret  of  her  parent- 
age. Her  romance  with  Jim  Parker  finally 
comes  to  an  end  when  Jim  becomes  inter- 
ested in  Lina  Carlson,  a  neighbor,  and 
decides  to  marry  her.  In  the  meantime. 
Marc  Hale,  a  stranger,  rents  the  China 
house  and  gives  Kathy  encouragement  in 
the  painting  of  a  picture  which  she  in- 
tends to  enter  in  an  art  scholarship  con- 
test. One  day,  during  Marc's  absence  from 
the  China  house,  Kathy  finds  the  Bright 
Star,  an  intricately  embossed  locket  which 
contains  the  pictures  of  Marie  and 
Phineas  Fenton,  Jr.,  whom  Kathy  decides 
are  her  parents. 

KATHY  found  Aunt  Em  sit- 
ting exactly  where  she  had 
left  her.  She  hung  her  slight- 
ly damp  jacket  over  the  back  of  a 
chair  to  dry. 

''Well,"  she  said,  "I  go  back  to 
work  at  twelve  o'clock  tomorrow 
morning." 

Aunt  Em  made  no  reply  to  this, 
but  instead  she  looked  at  Kathy 
closely,  then  said,  ''Sit  down,  my 
dear,  I  must  tell  you  something. 
Something  I  should  have  told  you 
years  ago." 

She  took  a  deep  breath  and  went 
on.  "I  had  dreamed  such  wonder- 
ful dreams  for  my  girl  —  college,  a 
career,  a  good  marriage.  I've  failed 
you  dreadfully."   She  paused,  then 

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began  again,  "But  you'll  have  your 
chance,"  she  said  with  apparent  tre- 
mendous effort,  "Phineas  is  rich 
When  I  tell  him " 

The  girl  was  on  her  knees  in  front 
of  her  aunt,  her  arms  about  her.  "I 
know.  Aunt  Em,"  she  said  quietly, 
"I  know  I'm  Phineas  Fenton's 
granddaughter.  Imagine  ...  all 
that  money,  just  sitting  there  .  .  . 
and  the  way  you've  struggled  to  sup- 
port me!  But  why?  Doesn't  he 
like  me?" 

Aunt  Em  squeezed  Kathy's  shoul- 
ders, and  then  withdrew  her  hand 
to  search  in  her  pocket  for  a  hand- 
kerchief. "He  doesn't  know,"  she 
said,  almost  inaudibly.  "He  doesn't 
even  know  he  had  a  grandchild.  Oh, 
darling,  I'm  so  sorry  I've  deprived 
you  of  all  the  privileges  you  should 
have  had!" 

Kathy  drew  back  and  looked  up 
at  her  aunt,  wide-eyed.  "Deprived 
me!"  she  repeated.  "Why,  Aunt 
Em,  I  wouldn't  exchange  one  min- 
ute of  the  love  you've  given  me  for 
all  the  money  in  the  world.  But  it 
just  doesn't  seem  right  for  you  to 
have  worked  so  hard  for  me  when 
I  don't  even  belong  to  you  .  .  . 
really." 

"You  do  belong,  dear,  you've  been 
my  whole  life!  I  don't  know  how 
much  of  the  story  you've  heard,  but 
your  parents  made  Grandfather 
Tracy  .  .  .  my  father,  promise  to 
take  care  of  you  in  case  anything 
should  ever  happen  to  them.  They 
wanted  to  be  sure  you  were  brought 
up  in  the  Church.    You  see,  Grand- 


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father  Tracy  converted  your  father, 
and  your  mother  was  aheady  a  mem- 
ber. Phineas  would  never  talk  re- 
ligion with  father/'  she  added  re- 
gretfully. 

''But  now  .  .  .  you're  grown  up, 
and  I  know  nothing  eould  shake 
your  faith,  and  it's  time  you  had 
some  of  the  material  advantages 
you're  entitled  to.  Besides,  maybe 
time  has  softened  Phineas  a  ht- 
tle.  ..." 

IZATHY  got  up  and  walked  around 
for  a  minute  to  restore  the  cir- 
culation to  her  cramped  legs.  'Tou 
don't  mean  you  want  me  to  go  to 
live  with  the  Fentons?"  she  asked. 

Aunt  Em  wiped  her  eyes.  "Vm 
afraid  Phineas  will  insist,  when  he 
knows  who  you  are,  and  it  wouldn't 
be  right  not  to  tell  him,  now.  But 
it  was  right,  in  the  beginning!" 

'Tes,  of  course,"  agreed  Kathy. 
"  'Better  that  one  man  perish  .  .  .  / 
Not  that  you  could  exactly  say 
Phineas  has  perished  for  not  know- 
ing I  was  his  granddaughter,  but  it's 
sort  of  the  same  idea.  It  seems  in- 
credible—here I've  lived  all  my  life 
within  shouting  distance  of  him,  and 
neither  of  us  knew  we  were  related! 
From  the  picture,  I'd  say  I  resemble 
my  mother." 

"The  very  image!"  Aunt  Em  said. 
''Except  the  chin  .  .  .  you  do  have 
the  Fenton  chin." 

There  was  so  much  to  assimilate 
...  so  many  new  ideas  to  consider, 
that  Kathy  felt  that  her  brain  was 
reeling.  She  shuddered  to  think 
how  different,  how  empty  her  life 
would  have  been  without  the  gos- 
pel, and  how  much  more  alone  she 
would  have  felt,  if  she  hadn't  known 
her  parents  had  been  married  in  the 
temple,   and   that   some   day   they 


would  all  be  together  again.  The 
Fentons  were  fine  people,  but  they 
had  no  religion  at  all. 

"As  long  as  our  chins  match  .  .  . 
mine  and  Grandpa  Fenton's,"  Kathy 
said,  smiling,  "I  guess  I  can  insist 
just  as  hard  that  I  won't  go.  I'll 
never  leave  you,  darling.  Now  you 
really  should  get  some  rest." 

"I  am  a  little  tired,"  Miss  Em 
agreed,  trying  to  cover  a  yawn.  "But 
there's  one  more  thing  I  must  tell 
you  .  .  .  did  you  know  Marc  is  a 
member  of  the  Church?  That's  how 
he  happened  to  learn  about  the 
China  house  .  .  .  when  he  first  came 
here  he  asked  Bishop  Henderson  if 
he  knew  of  an  inexpensive  cabin  he 
could  get  for  a  few  months.  I  had 
a  long  talk  with  the  bishop  the  oth- 
er night  by  telephone.  He  told  me 
Marc  had  filled  a  very  outstanding 
mission  in  New  Zealand,"  she  ended 
on  a  note  of  satisfaction. 

Kathy's  breath  caught  in  her 
throat.  "I  guess  I'm  not  really  sur- 
prised, though,"  she  said,  "I  always 
thought  he  looked  and  acted  like  a 
Latter-day  Saint,  in  spite  of  the  fact 
that  he  was  a  bit  difficult  at  first." 
Her  heart  was  pounding  delightfully. 
"We'll  talk  about  him  later  .  .  .  you 
must  lie  down  right  this  minute!" 

AUNT  Em  had  scarcely  gone  to 
sleep  when  Marc  arrived  with 
the  late  afternoon  edition  of  the 
paper.  He  was  jubilant.  "Congratu- 
lations, Kathy,  you've  won  the  art 
contest!"  he  exclaimed.  He  indicated 
a  column  at  the  bottom  of  the  page. 
"Third  prize." 

She  read  the  item  slowly.  By  the 
time  she  finished,  the  tears  were 
rolling  down  her  cheeks  unashamed- 


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Marc  looked  at  her,  amazement 
written  on  his  face.  "I  thought 
you'd  be  overjoyed,  but  these  can't 
be  tears  of  joy,  they're  too  real  look- 
ing. See  here,"  he  said,  ''dry  those 
tears.  You're  a  big  girl  now,  you 
must  be  all  of  eighteen." 

"Nineteen,"  corrected  Kathy, 
through  her  tears,  ''yesterday."  She 
suddenly  realized  that  for  the  first 
time  both  she  and  Eunt  Em  had 
completely  forgotten  her  birthday. 

**Why  didn't  someone  tell  me?" 
cried  Marc.  "Birthdays  are  my 
specialty.  Anyway,  there's  no  use 
mourning.  We'll  go  into  town  to- 
night and  have  dinner  and  see  a 
show.  Take  Aunt  Em  with  us.  How 
does  that  strike  you?" 

"Fine,"  agreed  Kathy,  her  eyes 
sparkling  again.  "Aunt  Em  will 
love  it.  She  hasn't  been  out  for 
months.  But  it's  the  prize  I'm  dis- 
appointed in— it's  a  year's  schooling 
instead  of  cash,  and  now  I  won't  be 
able  to  take  Aunt  Em  on  that  trip 
I'd  planned." 

Marc  looked  down  at  her.  "But 
you  won't  need  the  contest  money. 
You're  Phineas  Fenton's  grand- 
daughter, and  he  has  plenty  of  mon- 
ey. Surely  you've  made  your  decis- 
ion by  now."  His  voice  was  tense. 

Kathy  took  stock  of  this  fact  so- 
berly. She  had  never  before  stopped 
to  analyze  her  feelings  clearly.  Her 
heart  seemed  to  be  opening,  more 
and  more  surely  each  moment,  to- 
ward a  new  meaning  in  life.  And 
that  transformation  in  her  heart 
wasn't  taking  place  by  itself,  she  was 
sure.  It  had  been  brought  on  by 
Marc  Hale.  She  knew  now  where 
her  place  in  life  was  intended  to  be. 
Besides,  she  thought,  I'm  not  good 
enough   to   become   an   artist,    not 


dedicated  enough.  I'll  never  be  good 
enough.  Aloud  she  said,  "My  place 
right  now  is  with  Aunt  Em— right 
now,  and  always.  It's  what  I  want." 
Marc  smiled  at  her,  satisfaction  in 
his  eyes. 

"What  will  you  do?"  she  asked 
suddenly. 

OE  flushed,  apparently  caught  off 
guard.  "I  .  .  .  why  .  .  .  I've  just 
been  choking  over  a  large  piece  of 
humble  pie.  Your  earnest  little  soul 
will  be  delighted  to  know  that  I'm 
going  into  Dad's  business  in  San 
Francisco,  now  that  I'm  fully  re- 
covered. He's  going  to  let  me  start 
at  the  bottom  and  work  up,  which 
is  far  better  than  I  deserve  since  he 
offered  me  the  chance  once  before, 
and  I  turned  it  down.  Now  aren't 
you  satisfied?" 

Satisfied?  she  asked  herself,  and 
suddenly  knew  that  her  heart  had 
been  longing  to  know  what  his 
dreams  or  plans  might  hold  in  the 
way  of  including  her. 

"Aren't  you  satisfied?"  he  repeat- 
ed. 

"No,  I'm  not,"  she  said.  She 
turned  away  to  hide  the  trembling 
of  her  chin.  "I'm  not  at  all  satis- 
fied." 

"Kathy,  darling,"  he  said,  as  he 
gently  turned  her  around  and  lifted 
her  face  so  he  could  look  into  her 
eyes.    "Kathy,  do  you  love  me?" 

"Of  course  I  do,"  she  whispered. 

She  felt  his  arms  around  her.  "I 
was  stupid  enough  to  think  you'd 
choose  to  live  in  the  house  on  the 
hill,  darling,  where  you  could  have 
anything  you  wanted,  and  then  you 
wouldn't  have  been  my  girl  at 
all.  The  Kathy  I  love  is  right  here 
in  the  old  gray  house,  and  will  re- 


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main  here,  if  she  can  make  room  in 
her  heart  and  home  for  a  husband/' 

*'Marc,  Marc/'  she  murmured. 

They  wandered  hand  in  hand 
from  the  shelter  of  the  house  down 
toward  the  beach.  There  was  a 
lifetime  of  each  other's  thoughts 
and  feelings  to  learn  about. 


It  seemed  hours  later  that  Kathy 
said,  ''We're  being  selfish.  Let's 
hurry  and  tell  Aunt  Em  about  us." 

The  stars  had  come  out,  and  the 
night  was  fresh-washed  and  beauti- 
ful. They  walked  up  the  path  to  the 
old  gray  house,  where  the  lights  were 
already  challenging  the  lowering 
night. 


Jjora  y^olleyi  [Pursues  a  uiobby  of  uiandwork 

TT  truly  can  be  said  that  Dora  Jolley,  eighty,  of  Blackfoot,  Idaho,  has  spent  many  hours 
■*•  during  her  hfe  to  make  others  happy.  She  is  still  making  beautiful  gifts  for  her 
friends  and  relatives.  She  has  made  at  least  one  hundred  beautiful  quilts  and  has  given 
them  away  and  has  crocheted  eight  bedspreads  and  six  tablecloths  of  the  finest  thread, 
besides  having  made  hundreds  of  doilies  and  potholders,  afghans,  pillows,  and  pillow 
cases. 

She  has  been  active  in  Church  work,  especially  Relief  Society.  During  the  last 
years  her  health  hasn't  permitted  her  to  take  an  active  part,  but  she  contributes  of 
her  fancy  work. 

Sister  Jolley  is  the  mother  of  six  living  children,  twenty-two  grandchildren,  and 
twenty-five  great-grandchildren. 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


General  Secretary-Treasurer  HuJda  ParJcer 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  of  Instructions,  page  123. 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Luana  C.  Heaton 


SOUTHERN  FAR  EAST  MISSION,  FIRST  RELIEF  SOCIETY  HELD  IN  CHINA 

First  row,  left  to  right:  Sister  Wan;  Miss  Wan;  Mrs.  Tze;  Mrs.  Wise;  Sister 
Loh;  Leta  Jane  Clegg,  President. 

Second  row:  Luana  C.  Heaton,  President,  Southern  Far  East  Mission  Relief  So- 
ciety; Sister  Liang;  Mrs.  Fook;  Mrs.  Chaw;  Mrs.  Cheung;  Myrna  Pollock,  Second 
Counselor. 

Third  row:  Doris  Robinson,  First  Counselor;  Mrs.  Lum;  Sister  Wong;  Sister 
Tong;  Sister  Fung;  Betty  Johnson. 

Fourth  row:  Sister  Yicn;  Mrs.  Young;  Mrs.  Loke;  Mrs.  Chiw;  Mrs.  Wong  Ching 
Yee;  Mrs.  Mak  Mie  Tin. 

Sister  Heaton  writes  that  it  is  the  Chinese  custom  for  women  to  use  their  maiden 
names  which,  she  says,  "would  be  too  long  to  print."  Therefore,  she  has  written  their 
husbands'  last  names.  Those  women  who  are  investigating  the  Church  have  Mrs.  or 
Miss  prefixing  their  names. 

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Photograph  submitted  by  Melba  H.  Tullis 

ASHLEY  STAKE   (UTAH)   SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  AT  TWO 
SESSIONS  OF  FIRST  STAKE  CONFERENCE,  March  31,  1957 

Twila  Abbott,  director,  and  Mary  Schaefermeyer,  organist,  are  seated  on  the  front 
row  at  the  right.  Melba  H.  Tullis,  President,  Ashley  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that 
the  Ashley  Stake  Rehef  Society  began  to  function  on  January  1,  1957. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Myrtle  George 


LAS  VEGAS  STAKE   (NEVADA),  LAS  VEGAS   NINTH  WARD   RELIEF 
SOCIETY  TAKES  PRIDE  IN  ITS  YOUNG  MOTHER  MEMBERS 

Myrtle  George,  President,  Las  Vegas  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  'This  Ninth 
Ward  of  the  Las  Vegas  Stake  is  the  youngest  ward.  They  feel  very  proud  of  their 
young  mothers  shown  in  the  front  row.  These  mothers  attend  regularly.  Three  new 
babies  have  been  added  since  the  picture  was  taken.  La  Fond  Solomon  is  president; 
Meriam  Belmont,  first  counselor;  Aleline  Hatch,  second  counselor;  Lottie  Wollengien, 
secretary-treasurer.  The  ward  has  an  attendance  of  from  twenty-five  to  thirty  pre- 
school children  who  are  cared  for  by  a  baby  sitter." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Florence   Christiansen 

BLACKFOOT   STAKE    (IDAHO),    SEVENTH   WARD    RELIEF   SOCIETY 

PRESENTS   PAGEANT   "CHARACTERS   AND   TEACHINGS 

OF  THE  BOOK  OF  MORMON" 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Elizabeth  Thorton,  theology  class  leader  and 
director  of  the  pageant;  Winifred  Young,  President,  Seventh  Ward  Relief  Society; 
Luella  Thompson,  organist.  (Verda  Bale,  chorister,  not  present.) 

Standing  at  the  left,  next  to  Sister  Thorton:  Lorain  Turner,  as  a  Japanese  sister. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Bishop  DeVon  Woodland  as  Moroni;  John  Olsen 
as  Nephi;  John  Yancy  as  King  Benjamin;  Florence  Woodland,  as  a  Jewish  woman; 
Lavina  Eggleston,  as  a  Lamanite  sister;  Archie  Bale,  as  Mormon. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Rachael  L.  Lee 

FRENCH  MISSION,  SWISS  DISTRICT,  GENEVA  BRANCH  RELIEF  SOCIETY 
SUNDAY  EVENING  PROGRAM,  March  3,  1957 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Sister  Curtenaz,  District  President;  Sister  Stouder, 
Geneva  Branch  Secretary;  Sister  Jaque,  President,  Gene\a  Branch  Relief  Society. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Sister  Bonny;  Sister  Charney;  Sister  Wright,  mis- 


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sionary;  Sister  Diipanloup;  Sister  Marlyse  Bonny;  Sister  Olmo;  Sister  Brown,  Second 
Counselor,  Geneva  Branch  Relief  Society;  Sister  Scheren,  First  Counselor;  Sister  Lam- 
born,  missionary;  Sister  France  Rimli;  Sister  Hope  Recder;  Sister  Rimli;  Sister  Schmit; 
Sister  Walz;  Sister  Moine;  Sister  Nicolet;  Sister  Chambaz;  Miss  Cortisy,  visitor. 

Rachael  'L.  Lee,  President,  French  Mission  Relief  Society,  reports:  'The  Swiss 
District  of  the  French  Mission  is  supervised  by  a  president  who  loves  Relief  Society 
and  is  devoted  to  her  work.  This  picture  was  taken  after  the  Sunday  evening  program, 
in  which  all  of  the  Relief  Society  members  took  part." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Ida  M.  Swensen 


YELLOWSTONE    STAKE    (IDAHO)    RELIEF    SOCIETY    PRESENTS 
"CHARACTERS  AND  TEACHINGS  OF  THE  BOOK  OF  MORMON" 

PAGEANT,  May  26,  1957 

Seated  at  the  table,  left  to  right:  Chee  Fujimoto;  Millie  B.  Farrimond,  stake  the- 
ology leader;  Mary  Powless;  Sylvia  Linford. 

Seated  at  their  right,  Stake  Relief  Society  Presidency:  Vera  B.  Young,  Second 
Counselor;  Ida  M.  Swensen,  President;  Elsie  R.  Lewis,  First  Counselor. 

Front  row,  standing:  Rulon  Powell;  E.  O.  Rich;  Robert  Archibald;  Richard  Tyler; 
Floyd  Law;  Orien  Lamoreoux  as  Mormon;  Darrell  Lords  as  King  Benjamin;  Vincent 
Birch  as  Alma;  Milo  Price  as  Nephi;  William  J.  Lewis,  President  of  Yellowstone  Stake; 
Edgar  O.  Westerberg,  First  Counselor,  Stake  Presidency;  Therel  Ricks,  stake  ReHef 
Society  organist;  Beth  T.  Orme,  Stake  Relief  Society  chorister;  Alta  Murdoch;  Blanche 
Edington;  Denice  Parker;  Salome  Mathie;  Brother  and  Sister  Robert  Foster.  Lowell 
Dayton  who  represented  the  voice  of  the  Savior,  and  Leo  Packer  who  represented 
Moroni,  are  not  shown. 

Sister  Swensen  reports  that  about  eighty-five  Singing  Mothers  participated  in 
the  event. 


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E^^i^;i^::m» 


Z^f^i^^'^'i'  yyi'S'i  .'fi/'-.  i'^ 


Photograph  submitted  by  Lola  Green 

EAST  PHOENIX  STAKE   (ARIZONA)   RELIEF  SOCIETY  PRESENTS 

MUSICAL  PAGEANT 

Lola  Green,  President,  East  Phoenix  Stake  Relief  Society,  writes:  "A  musical 
pageant,  'I  Now  Turn  the  Key'  was  presented  by  the  East  Phoenix  Stake  Relief  Society, 
May   11,  1957.     The  Singing  Mothers  also  furnished  the  music  for  conference  May 

25'  1957-" 

Second   row,   center   to   right:    Lola   Green;  Avon   Price,    stake   chorister;  Junius 

Driggs,  President  of  East  Phoenix  Stake. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Adelphia  D.  Bingham 

SOUTH  AUSTRALIAN  MISSION,  VICTORIA  DISTRICT,  MELBOURNE  AND 

COBURG  BRANCH  RELIEF  SOCIETIES  PRESENT  PAGEANT 

'TORTRAIT  OF  A  DREAM" 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Ina  Ware,  First  Counselor;  Flora  Garth ew.  Secre- 
tary; Deborah  Tormey,  Second  Counselor;  Mary  Thatcher,  chorister — all  from  the 
Coburg  Branch.  Marjorie  Davis,  President;  Jean  Findlay,  Secretary;  Joyce  Scarf e;  Val- 
erie Croucher,  First  Counselor;  Phyll  Roche,  chorister;  Grace  Bartlett,  Magazine  repre- 
sentative— all  from  the  Melbourne  Branch  Relief  Society. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


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Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Arlette  Anderson;  Lottie  Laird;  Raie  Headen; 
Hazel  Gilchrist,  work  meeting  leader;  Clarice  Williams,  President  of  Coburg  Branch 
Relief  Society,  and  First  Assistant  in  Victoria  District;  Adelphia  D.  Bingham,  President, 
South  Australian  Mission  Relief  Society,  holding  the  American  flag;  Edna  Ord,  Mission 
Relief  Society  Secretary  and  District  Supervisor;  Laurel  Marsh;  Evelyn  Hugett;  Linda 
Lucknovitch. 

Not  present  when  the  picture  was  taken:  Alvie  Pemberton,  representing  General 
President  Belle  S.  Spafford;  and  Eric  Croucher,  narrator. 

Sister  Bingham  reports  that  the  painting  in  the  center  of  the  picture  is  a  replica 
of  the  cover  of  the  December  1956  Reliei  Society  Magazine,  which  was  painted  by 
Clarice  Williams.  'The  painting  is  most  remarkable,  although,  unfortunately,  it  does 
not  show  to  advantage  in  the  photograph."  Sister  Bingham  further  comments:  'This 
program  was  well  presented,  as  were  many  others  throughout  the  Mission.  We  are 
proud  of  those  who  worked  so  faithfully  to  make  them  successful." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Alice  L.  Wilkinson 


BRIGHAM  YOUNG  UNIVERSITY  STAKE,  (PROVO,  UTAH),  SEVENTEENTH 
WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAKES  ORIGINAL  QUILT 

Left  to  right:  Bonnie  Berrett,  President;  Mary  Utschig,  SecretaryTreasurer;  JoAnn 
Larsen  and  Sharon  Jensen,  Counselors;  Beverly  Liebhart,  work  director. 

Alice  L.  Wilkinson,  President,  Brigham  Young  University  Stake  Relief  Society, 
reports:  "Young  Relief  Society  sisters  from  the  B.Y.U,  Seventeenth  Ward  display 
quilt  of  original  design  which  was  quilted  at  recent  work  meeting. 

'The  Seventeenth  Ward  Relief  Society,  one  of  the  unique  groups  of  young  stu- 
dent members  on  the  Brigham  Young  University  campus,  have  tried  to  follow  the  pat- 
tern set  for  them  by  experienced  women  in  Relief  Society  work.  The  animal  quilt  was 
made  at  work  meetings.  For  most  of  the  girls  it  was  their  first  quilting  experience.  .  .  . 
The  quilt  will  be  given  to  a  former  homemaking  teacher,  Mrs.  Deanna  Thomas  of 
Rome,  Colorado." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Agnes  D.  Hurst 

SAN  JUAN  STAKE   (UTAH)   SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC  FOR 

STAKE  CONFERENCE  FOR  TWO  CONSECUTIVE  YEARS 

ON  MOTHER'S  DAY 

Agnes  D.  Hurst,  President,  San  Juan  Stake  Relief  Soeiety,  reports:  "The  San  Juan 
Stake  Singing  Mothers  group  has  presented  the  music  for  the  past  two  years  at  the 
quarterly  stake  conference  which  has  been  on  Mother's  Day  both  years.  Sisters  Vera 
Lee  Redd  and  Guen  L.  Smith  are  directors.  Sisters  Mary  L.  Adams  and  Margaret  P. 
Redd,  accompanists." 


1 1  ill  uiusband  s  uiands 

Marie  Kicks 

Hands,  large,  grown  used 
To  wielding  a  hammer, 
Dry  our  little  one's  tears 
In  the  tenderest  manner. 

Strong,  capable  hands 
Pounding  nails,  lifting  lumber. 
In  the  gentlest  way 
Soothe  our  infant  to  slumber. 


Steady  hands,  that  remove 
With  such  careful  ease, 
Slivers  that  lodge  in 
Small,  skinned-up  knees. 

Loving  hands  of  my  husband 
Work-rough,  yet  so  fine. 
Have  blessed  our  lives, 
Tlie  children's,  and  mine. 


LESSON   DEPARTMENT 


cJheology[ — The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Lesson  3— What  to  Expect  From  a  Study  of  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Elder  Roy  W.  Doxqj 

(Text:  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants:  Section  i) 

For  Tuesday,  December  3,  1957 

Objective:  To  show  that  a  principal  idea  throughout  the  revelations  is  to  warn  the 
world  of  judgments  to  come  and  that  the  means  of  escape  is  by  the  restored  gospel  of 
Jesus  Christ. 


SoniQ  Ideas  From  The 
Doctrine  and  Covenants 

npHE  title  of  this  lesson  might  be 
changed  to  form  a  question  to 
be  answered  by  every  student  of 
this  series  of  lessons— ''What  do  J 
expect  to  gain  from  my  study  of 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants?"  A 
reply  to  this  question  from  members 
of  the  Relief  Society  would  un- 
doubtedly bring  many  ideas.  If  one 
is  thinking  of  subject  matter  or 
knowledge  of  contents  alone,  she 
would  learn  from  her  study  that  a 
great  number  of  ideas  are  found  in 
these  revelations.  The  whole  ex- 
perience of  man's  earth-life  is  large- 
ly covered.  Instruction  is  found,  as 
one  might  expect,  in  how  to  attain 
spiritual  salvation  (sometimes  called 
by  us  ''entering  the  celestial  king- 
dom or  exaltation").  But  one  also 
discovers  that  these  revelations  are 


concerned  with  what  man  might 
consider  the  "temporal"  things  of 
life.  From  this  volume  of  scripture, 
it  is  learned  that  the  Lord  looks  up- 
on all  phases  of  man's  earth  exist- 
ence as  a  necessary  part  of  his  jour- 
ney to  eternal  life,  or  exaltation. 
(See  D.  &  C.  29:34-35.)  This  is 
very  well  expressed  by  President 
Joseph  F.  Smith  in  these  words: 

It  has  always  been  a  cardinal  teaching 
with  the  Latter-day  Saints  that  a  religion 
that  has  not  the  power  to  save  people 
temporally  and  make  them  prosperous  and 
happy  here  cannot  be  depended  upon  to 
save  them  spiritually  and  to  exalt  them 
in  the  Hfe  to  come  (Quoted  by  Albert  E. 
Bowen,  The  Church  Welfare  Plan,  page 
36). 

One  will,  therefore,  find  emphasis 
given  to  one's  health  (what  one 
should  or  should  not  eat,  as  well  as 
to  the  amount  of  sleep  one  should 
have).     We   discover   that  knowL 

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edge  saves,  and  the  value  one  should  An  Unique  Book 
place  upon  different  types  of  knowl-  As  we  study  this  book  of  scrip- 
edge.  The  need  to  incorporate  the  ture,  we  should  remember  that  we 
gospel  truths  into  our  lives,  in  ad-  are  studying  the  message  of  the  Lord 
dition  to  the  acquisition  of  knowl-  Jesus  Christ.  This  message  is  ad- 
edge,  is  emphasized  so  well  that  we  dressed  to  the  people  who  make  up 
are  never  in  doubt  as  to  the  neces-  the  last  and  greatest  dispensation  of 
sity  of  doing  so.  Counsel  is  given  the  gospel— the  fulness  of  times, 
on  what  the  Latter-day  Saint  is  to  There  are  many  things  which  make 
do  to  prevent  being  deceived  by  the  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  an 
adversary;  he  learns  that  Satan  is  a  unique  book,  but,  primarily,  its 
personal  being  and  also  of  his  pur-  uniqueness  arises  out  of  the  facts 
poses.  Above  all,  the  student  of  that  it  is  (i)  the  word  of  Jesus 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  learns  Christ  the  Lord,  and  (2)  it  is  a  mod- 
of  the  true  nature  of  Jesus  as  the  ern  book. 

Savior   of  mankind,   of   his   justice  A  study  of  what  the  Lord  himself 

and  mercy,  and  of  his  relationship  has  said  concerning  his  message  is 

to  the  inhabitants  of  the  earth.  found  in  Section  1.  From  there  we 

shall    find    the    Lord's    answer    to 

The  Spirit  oi  ''What  do  I  expect  to  gain  from  a 

The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  study  of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 

The  ideas  suggested  thus  far  are  nants?" 
only  a  very  few  of  the  truths  to  be 
learned  as  one  examines  the  revela-  The  Superscription 
tions    section-by-section.     There   is  As  in  all  revelations,  a  knowledge 
almost  no  narration  in  this  book— a  of    the    historical    background   and 
fact  which  makes  it  different  from  context  provides  the  student  with 
the  other  Standard  Works,  such  as  essential  information  to  understand 
The  Book  of  Mormon.  Great  truths  what    is   intended   to   be   obtained 
are  found  on  every  page.     To  be-  from  the  message  or  messages  of  the 
come  acquainted  with  this  volume  revelation.      For    purposes    of    this 
of  scripture  can  be  one  of  the  rich-  course,   the  reader  should   become 
est     experiences     of     a     Latter-day  familiar  with  the  introductory  ma- 
Saint's  life.    There  is  a  spirit  about  terial    (called    the    ''superscription" 
a  book  of  scripture  which  is  readily  in  this  course)  at  the  head  of  each 
discernible.     It     is     the     spirit    of  section.     Sometimes  a  reference  to 
truth;  the  spirit  that  brings  assur-  the  History  of  the  Church  by  Jo- 
ance    of    things    divine.     It    comes  seph  Smith,  known  and  cited  in  this 
from  the  Holy  Ghost  to  bear  wit-  course  as  the  Documentary  History 
ness  of  the  truth.  It  is  this  spirit  oi  the  Church  (D.  H.  C.)  is  given 
that  the  author  hopes  will  be  re-  for  further  study  about  the  context 
ceived  by  the  students  of  this  series,  of  the  section. 
The  promise  is  given  that  all  may 
receive   this  blessing  by  their  dili-  The  Lords  Preface 
gence.      (See    D.    &    C.    11:22-27;  The  superscription  of  Section  1 
6:5-7;  Alma  12:9-11.)  informs    us   that  this   revelation   is 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


621 


known  as  ''the  Lord's  Preface." 
(See  also  verse  6  in  Section  i.)  This 
revelation  was  given  at  the  confer- 
ence of  the  Church  convened  No- 
vember 1,  1831,  when  the  ''Book 
of  Commandments"  was  adopted  by 
the  Priesthood  assembled  on  that 
occasion.  A  ''preface"  is  intended 
to  prepare  the  reader  with  an  ex- 
planation of  the  purpose  the  author 
had  in  writing  the  volume.  It  should 
concern  itself  with  matters  con- 
tained in  the  book  or  connected 
with  it. 

To  Whom  the  Message 
Is  Directed 

Appropriately,  the  Lord  intro- 
duces Section  1  with  the  announce- 
ment that  it  is  he  who  is  addressing 
".  .  .  ye  people  of  my  church  .  .  ." 
(D.  &  C.  1:1).  But  his  message  is 
not  only  for  the  Church  but  also 
".  .  .  unto  all  men,  and  there  is 
none  to  escape  .  .  ."  (D.  &  C.  1:2). 
Immediately  one  is  made  aware  that 
the  message  of  this  dispensation  is 
for  everyone.    In  fact: 

.  .  .  the  voice  of  warning  shall  be  unto 
all  people,  by  the  mouths  of  my  disciples, 
whom  I  have  chosen  in  these  last  days 
(D.  &  C.  1:4). 

and  the  revelations  are  to  be  pub- 
lished: 

.  .  .  unto  you,  O  inhabitants  of  the 
earth  (D.  &  C.  1:6). 

A  Voice  oi  Warning 

What  has  already  been  given  as 
a  principal  purpose  of  the  Lord's 
establishing  his  Church  upon  the 
earth?  What  should  we  expect  to 
gain  from  a  study  of  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants?  It  is  a  "voice  of 
warning"  unto  all  people.  This  fact 


was  indelibly  impressed  upon  the 
mind  of  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 
by  the  angel  Moroni,  who  quoted 
several  Bible  prophecies  indicating 
that  certain  judgments  were  to  come 
in  the  last  days  and  that  these  pre- 
dictions were  not  yet  fulfilled,  but 
were  soon  to  be.  (See  Pearl  of 
Great  Price,  Writings  of  Joseph 
Smith  2:40-41).  Following  this,  he 
informed  Joseph  Smith  ".  .  .  of 
great  judgments  which  were  coming 
upon  the  earth,  with  great  desola- 
tions by  famine,  sword,  and  pesti- 
lence; and  that  these  grievous  judg- 
ments would  come  on  the  earth  in 
this  generation  .  .  ."  (Ibid.,  2:45). 

Later  on,  as  the  Prophet  received 
additional  revelations,  the  Lord 
made  it  known  that  the  faithful  of 
his  people  would  be  aware  of  the 
signs  of  the  times  and  look  forward 
in  righteousness  to  Jesus'  second 
coming.      (See  D.  &  C.   39:21-23; 

45-39-440 

Power  of  Sealing  the  Wicked 

In  the  performance  of  their  du- 
ties, the  Lord's  servants  are  to 
possess  the  power  to  seal  both  on 
earth  and  in  heaven.  Notice  that 
those  who  are  sealed  by  this  power 
are  those  who  reject  the  gospel,  and 
also  those  who  rebel  against  the 
servants  of  the  Lord  after  having 
accepted  his  message  (D.  &  C. 
1:8-9).  When  the  Lord  comes  he 
shall  ".  .  .  recompense  unto  every 
man  according  to  his  work,  and 
measure  to  every  man  according  to 
the  measure  which  he  has  measured 
to  his  fellow  man"  (D.  &  C.  1:10). 

Why  This  Message? 

Why  is  the  Lord's  message  of 
warning  directed  to  the  people  of 


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this  generation  or  dispensation?  The 
answer  to  this  question  is  found  in 
Section  i,  verses  ii  to  16,  inckisive: 

Wherefore  the  \oice  of  the  Lord  is 
unto  the  ends  of  the  earth,  that  all  that 
will  hear  may  hear: 

Prepare  ye,  prepare  ye  for  that  which 
is  to  come,  for  the  Lord  is  nigh; 

And  the  anger  of  the  Lord  is  kindled, 
and  his  sword  is  bathed  in  heaven,  and 
it  shall  fall  upon  the  inhabitants  of  the 
earth. 

And  the  arm  of  the  Lord  shall  be  re- 
vealed; and  the  day  cometh  that  they  who 
will  not  hear  the  voice  of  the  Lord, 
neither  the  voice  of  his  servants,  neither 
give  heed  to  the  words  of  the  prophets 
and  apostles,  shall  be  cut  off  from  among 
the  people; 

For  they  have  strayed  from  mine  ordi- 
nances, and  have  broken  mine  everlasting 
covenant; 

They  seek  not  the  Lord  to  establish 
his  righteousness,  but  every  man  walketh 
in  his  own  way,  and  after  the  image  of 
his  own  God,  whose  image  is  in  the  like- 
ness of  the  world,  and  whose  substance  is 
that  of  an  idol,  which  waxeth  old  and 
shall  perish  in  Babylon,  even  Babylon  the 
great,  which  shall  fall. 

Three  reasons  why  this  message 
is  directed  to  the  people  of  this  dis- 
pensation may  be  found  in  these 
verses;  namely,  ( 1 )  to  prepare  the 
way  of  the  Lord  (D.  &  C.  1:11), 
(2)  because  of  the  apostate  condi- 
tion of  the  world  (D.  &  C.  1:15), 
and,  (3)  because  men  have  set  up 
their  own  gods  (D.  &  C.  1:16). 

The  Gods  oi  Today 

What  are  these  gods  after  which 
men  walk?  Do  we  not  know  of 
men  today  who  seek  unrighteous 
dominion  over  their  fellow  men; 
men  directed  by  false  theories  that 
lead  people  away  from  God's  truth; 


the  gods  of  vanity,  greed,  lust,  and 
the  whole  list  of  vices  that  keep 
men  in  bondage?  The  word  "Baby- 
lon" has  come  to  symbolize  the 
wickedness  of  the  world.  (See  Sec- 
tion 133:14.)  Out  of  the  world  the 
people  have  been  charged  to  come 
that  they  may  not  be  partakers  of 
her  plagues.  Eventually,  the  wick- 
ed world  will  fall,  but,  in  prepara- 
tion for  that  day  of  the  Lord,  there 
was  to  be  a  restoration  of  the  gospel. 

Results  oi  the  Lord's  Message 

What  follows  in  verses  17 
through  23  tells  through  whom  the 
gospel  was  to  be  restored,  and  what 
could  result  from  this  great  event. 
As  you  read  these  verses,  keep  in 
mind  what  the  Lord  promised 
would  result  from  the  call  of  Joseph 
Smith  as  the  head  of  this  dispensa- 
tion. Two  questions  emerge  from 
this  thought:  (1)  does  the  history 
of  the  Church  verify  these  promises 
of  the  Lord;  and  (2)  in  what  part 
of  this  program  have  I  participated? 

Wherefore,  I  the  Lord,  knowing  the 
calamity  which  should  come  upon  the  in- 
habitants of  the  earth,  called  upon  my 
servant  Joseph  Smith,  Jun.,  and  spake 
unto  him  from  heaven,  and  gave  him 
commandments; 

And  also  gave  commandments  to  oth- 
ers, that  they  should  proclaim  these 
things  unto  the  world;  and  all  this  that 
it  might  be  fulfilled,  which  was  written 
by  the  prophets — 

The  weak  things  of  the  world  shall 
come  forth  and  break  down  the  mighty 
and  strong  ones,  that  man  should  not 
counsel  his  fellow  man,  neither  trust  in 
the  arm  of  flesh — 

But  that  every  man  might  speak  in  the 
name  of  God  the  Lord,  even  the  Savior 
of  the  world; 

That  faith  also  might  increase  in  the 
earth; 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


623 


That  mine  everlasting  covenant  might 
be  estabhshed; 

That  the  fulness  of  my  gospel  might  be 
proclaimed  by  the  weak  and  the  simple 
unto  the  ends  of  the  world,  and  before 
kings  and  rulers  (D.  &  C.  1:17-23). 

(It  is  worthy  of  observation  at  this 
point  to  indicate  that  the  ''others" 
in  verse  18,  unto  whom  the  Lord 
''gave  commandments"  are  those 
persons  who  were  to  assist  the 
Prophet  Joseph  Smith  in  this  dis- 
pensation. Many  of  these  had 
already  been  called  and  received 
commandments  by  revelation.  Such 
men  as  Oliver  Cowdery,  Sidney  Rig- 
don,  Hyrum  Smith,  Parley  P.  Pratt, 
Orson  Pratt,  and  many  others  make 
up  the  number.) 

Blessings  to  Those  Called 

We  discover  in  verses  24  through 
28  what  had  already  been  accom- 
plished and  what  would  yet  be  real- 
ized in  the  lives  of  individuals  who 
receive  a  call  into  the  Lord's  service. 
Some  of  these  blessings  are:  they 
come  to  understanding;  their  errors 
are  corrected;  wisdom  sought  for  is 
obtained;  as  they  sin  they  may  be 
chastened  and  repent;  and  strength 
and  knowledge  come  through  their 
humility.  Might  we  today  who 
have  embarked  upon  a  study  of 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  also 
expect  that  similar  blessings  will 
accrue  to  us  by  our  diligence? 

Only  One  True  Church 

In  continuation  of  the  message 
that  Joseph  Smith  was  divinely 
called  and  others  were  appointed  to 
assist  him,  the  Lord  sets  forth  the 
important  fact  that  his  Prophet  has 
received  power  to  translate  The 
Book  of  Mormon  and  to  bring  forth 


".  .  .  the  only  true  and  living  church 
upon  the  face  of  the  whole 
earth  ..."  (D.  &  C.  1:30).  There 
was  to  be  no  question  in  the  minds 
of  the  members  of  the  Church  or 
of  the  inhabitants  of  the  world  as 
to  the  position  The  Church  of  Jesus 
Christ  of  Latter-day  Saints  holds  in 
the  world.  This  proclamation  by 
the  Lord  gives  added  confirmation 
to  the  first  vision  and  also  to  the 
many  revelations  which  had  already 
specified  that  there  is  only  one  way 
to  eternal  life. 

Sm  Is  Condemned 

It  is  further  indicated  that  the 
Lord  was  pleased  with  his  Church 
collectively,  but  the  individual  mem- 
bers of  his  Church  had  much  to  do 
in  perfecting  their  lives.  (See  Mat- 
thew 5:48.)  It  is  evident  that  the 
Lord  wanted  the  members  of  the 
Church  to  understand  that  mem- 
bership in  his  kingdom  does  not 
give  license  to  sin  for  he  "...  can- 
not look  upon  sin  with  the  least  de- 
gree of  allowance"  (D.  &  C.  1:31), 
but  he  will  forgive  the  repentant 
(verse  32).  On  the  other  hand, 
that  person  who  does  not  repent, 
having  received  the  light,  is  under 
the  penalty  of  losing  the  Spirit  of 
the  Lord  ".  .  .  for  my  Spirit  shall 
not  always  strive  with  man  .  .  /' 
(D.&C.  1:33). 

The  Concluding  Message 

Toward  the  end  of  this  great  reve- 
lation which  opened  with  the  prin- 
cipal message  of  the  Lord  to  the 
Church  and  to  the  inhabitants  of 
the  earth,  there  is  a  return  to  this 
fundamental  purpose— the  Lord  de- 
sires that  all  men  shall  know  of  his 
"voice  of  warning"  of  judgments  to 


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come  and  that  eternal  life  may  be 
won  by  living  the  restored  gospel  of 
Jesus  Christ.  Notice  how  this  mes- 
sage is  reiterated  in  Section  i,  verses 
34  to  36: 

...  I  the  Lord  am  willing  to  make 
these  things  known  imto  all  flesh; 

For  I  am  no  respecter  of  persons,  and 
will  that  all  men  shall  know  that  the  day 
speedily  cometh;  the  hour  is  not  yet,  but 
is  nigh  at  hand,  when  peace  shall  be  tak- 
en from  the  earth,  and  the  devil  shall 
have  power  over  his  own  dominion. 

And  also  the  Lord  shall  have  power 
over  his  saints,  and  shall  reign  in  their 
midst,  and  shall  come  down  in  judgment 
upon  Idumea,  or  the  world  [Ihid., 
1:34-36). 

(Notice  the  term  "Idumea"  is  defined 
in  the  revelation  as  "the  world."  It  is 
synonymous  with  "Babylon"  in  verse  16 
which  symbolizes  the  wicked  world. 
Idumea  was  known  as  the  country  of 
Edom  whose  inhabitants  held  an  inveter- 
ate enmity  toward  Israel.) 

As  one  studies  The  Doctrine  and 
Covenants,  he  knows  that  the  gos- 
pel message  brings  joy  into  the  lives 
of  those  who  live  its  principles, 
while  wickedness  brings  unhappi- 
ness.  One  also  discovers  that  judg- 
ments do  await  the  world  and  that 
one  of  these  judgments— war— with 
its  present-day  potential  for  great 
destruction  is  prophesied  for  this 
dispensation.  The  question  of 
whether  or  not  the  prediction  that 
"peace  shaJI  be  taken  from  the 
earth,"   as   stated   in    1831,   should 


now  be  phrased  ''peace  has  been 
taken  from  the  earth"  is  one  which 
every  Latter-day  Saint  should  con- 
sider in  the  light  of  present  condi- 
tions in  the  world. 

Section  1,  the  Lord's  preface  to 
his  revelations,  is  concluded  with 
the  definite  assurance  that  what  has 
been  given  will  all  be  fulfilled  and 
that  the  Spirit  of  God  bears  witness 
that  ".  .  .  the  record  is  true,  and  the 
truth  abideth  forever  and  ever. 
Amen"  (D.  &  C.  1:39).  (See  also 
verses  37  to  39.) 

The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  con- 
firms ancient  truths  and  gives  more 
enlightenment  about  the  events  of 
the  immediate  future  and  man's 
destiny  than  do  other  books  of  scrip- 
ture. It  contains  some  of  the  most 
glorious  principles  ever  revealed  to 
the  world. 

Questions  for  Discussion 

1.  Why  is  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 
an  unique  book? 

2.  Discuss:  To  become  acquainted  with 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants  can  be  one 
of  the  richest  experiences  of  a  Latter-day 
Saint's  life. 

3.  Define  these  terms:  "Superscription," 
"context,"  "Babylon,"  "D.  H.  C,"  and 
"preface." 

4.  Why  is  Section  1  in  The  Doctrine 
and  Covenants  out  of  chronological  se- 
quence? About  where  would  it  be  placed 
if  it  were  in  its  chronological  order? 

5.  How  does  Section  1  fit  into  the 
message  of  warning  to  the  world? 


C/o   K^hildren  ^^1  sleep 

Florence  Marie  Gates  Bennett 


As  subtle  and  gentle  as  breath. 
Day  changes  to  evening; 

I  hsten  for  sounds  of  naps'  end — 
Still  eyelids  arc  dreaming. 


Oh,  could  I  envelop  them  now 
With  lo^'e  all  protecting, 

I  would  open  their  hearts  and  minds 
To  God's  own  directing. 


visiting  cJeacher    li  iessages  — 

Truths  to  Live  By  From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Message  3—".  .  .  O  Ye  That  Embark  In  the  Service  of  God,  See  That  Ye 

Serve  Him  With  All  Your  Heart,  Might,  Mind  and  Strength,  That  Ye 

May  Stand  Blameless  Before  God  at  the  Last  Day"  (D.  &  C.  4:2). 

Chiistine  H.  Rohinson 

For  Tuesday,  December  3,  1957 

Objective:   To  emphasize  the   importance   of   wholehearted,   conscientious   service 
and  to  show  that  to  serve  God  means  to  serve  our  fellow  men. 


CERVICE  is  the  foundation  of  a 

happy  and  abundant  hfe.  It  is 
the  cornerstone  of  all  Relief  Society 
activity. 

This  message  gives  new  emphasis 
and  significance  to  the  meaning  of 
service.  In  it  we  are  admonished  to 
serve  the  Lord  willingly  and  whole- 
heartedly. Service  given  stintingly, 
grudgingly,  or  in  a  boastful  or  pride- 
ful  way  is  not  acceptable.  The  Lord 
knows  our  motives,  our  capabilities, 
our  weaknesses  and  shortcomings. 
He  has  given  us  the  revelation  from 
which  this  message  is  taken  to  help 
us  overcome  our  shortcomings  and 
in  so  doing  to  become  more  nearly 
perfect. 

We  can  serve  the  Lord  in  many 
ways.  We  can  serve  him  through 
working  in  the  various  organizations 
of  the  Church.  If  asked  to  work  in 
this  capacity,  we  should  consider  the 
call  an  opportunity,  accept  willing- 
ly, perform  our  duties  conscientious- 
ly. Another  form  of  service  is 
missionary  activity.  This  calling,  too, 
is  a  challenge  and  opportunity  and 
one  in  which,  if  we  are  chosen,  we 
should  embark  in  all  diligence. 

The  true  essence  of  service  to 
God,  in  these  and  in  all  activities, 
consists  of  service  to  our  fellow  men. 


King  Benjamin,  as  related  in  The 
Book  of  Mormon,  said,  ''.  .  .  when 
ye  are  in  the  service  of  your  fellow 
beings  ye  are  only  in  the  service  of 
your  God"  (Mosiah  2:17). 

At  this  time  of  the  year  our 
thoughts  naturally  turn  to  that  great 
area  of  service  connected  with  the 
life  of  our  Savior.  Most  of  us  are 
familiar  with  the  story  of  'The 
Other  Wise  Man,"  by  Henry  Van 
Dyke.  This  is  the  story  of  the 
Persian  nobleman,  Artaban,  who, 
having  learned  of  the  birth  of  the 
Messiah,  sells  all  his  worldly  pos- 
sessions and  buys  three  precious 
jewels.  These  he  plans  to  take  as 
gifts  to  the  Messiah  as  tokens  of  his 
love  and  affection.  Stopping  to 
help  someone  in  need,  Artaban  ar- 
rives late  in  Bethlehem  and  learns 
that  Joseph  and  Mary,  with  the 
baby  Jesus,  have  fled  to  safety.  Arta- 
ban spends  his  life  in  search  of  the 
Messiah.  In  the  process  he  min- 
isters to  the  distress  and  suffering  of 
his  fellow  men.  Three  times  he 
comes  near  to  seeing  the  Savior;  but 
each  time  he  finds  someone  in  need 
of  his  urgent  help.  One  by  one, 
Artaban  gives  away  his  precious 
jewels  in  order  to  help  others.  He 
never  is  blessed  with  the  opportunity 

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of  seeing  Jesus  and  feels  that  he  has  by  Artaban.  Yet,  e\'eryday  we  en- 
failed  in  his  mission.  Yet,  as  he  is  counter  many  opportunities  to  serve, 
dying,  he  hears  a  voice  saying:  To   forget   oneself    in   an   effort   to 

lighten   another's   burdens,   to  per- 

For  I  was  an  hungred,  and  ye  gave  me  f^j.^^-^   ^   thoughtful   act   or  to   show 

meat:    I    was    thirsty,    and    ye    gave    me  .     t  i  •     i             •     . 

drink:   I  was  a  stranger,  and  ye  took  me  a"  unexpected  kmdness    iS  to  serve 

in  ...  .  the  Lord  by  servmg  others.     This 

type  of  human  service  does  not  re- 

.  .  .  Verily  I  say  unto  you,  Inasmuch  q^ij-e  a^y  special  calling  but  can  go 

as  ye  have  done  it  unto  one  of  the  least  ^^^  ^^  ^.      ^^^^^  ^^^  ^^^  ^j^^  promise 

of   these   my    brethren,   ye   have   done    it  ^  _             ^        ,          .  ^               ^ 

unto  me  (Mt.  25:35,  40).  o^  Jesus  when  he  said: 

T_,  f.  -1  n    1  .  ...  Come,  ye  blessed  of  my  Father, 

Few  of  us  may  be  called  upon  to      ^,,1,^,^^  the  kingdom  prepared  for  you  from 

give  heroic  service  such  as  was  given     the  foundation  of  the  world  (Mt.  25:34). 

vi/ork    n ieeting — Living  More  Abundantly 

(A  Course  Recommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 

Lesson  3— Living  Economically 

Elder  WiWmn  F.  Edwards 

For  Tuesday,  December  10,  1957 

Objective:  To  understand  that  wise  people,  whether  their  income  is  relatively  large 
or  small,  learn  that  it  is  good  to  live  economically,  because  it  is  a  good  way  of  life. 

npHE  previous  lesson  discussed  the  gets,  and  it  is  equally  important  for 
importance  of  budget  planning,  all,  rich  and  poor  alike.  The  writer 
We  have  all  observed  in  others,  or  will  always  remember  his  first  trip 
have  been  tempted  sufficiently  to  with  members  of  his  family  to  Vic- 
learn  by  experience,  that:  toria,  Canada.     In  the  government 

building  in  this  beautiful  city  these 

One  sure  way  to  make  life  miserable  is  words  are  on  display: 
to  live  in  a  manner  that  you  can't  afford 

(Richard  L.  Evans).  \\ri.u     i.  u      •  ^ 

^  '  Without  economy  none  can  be  rich; 

r^      ,^         ,111  1  1  With  it  none  can  be  poor, 

Un  the  other  hand,  we  have  also  ^ 

come  to  realize  that:  ^^^^  3^^^;^^,^  proverbs  re-empha- 

If  there  is  any  one  thing  that  will  bring      size  this  important  principle  of  sue- 
peace  and   contentment   into   the   human      cesstul  nvmg: 
heart,  and   into  the   family,   it   is   to   live 

within  our  means  (Heber  J.  Grant).  Eat  and  drink,  but  waste  not  by  excess, 

for  God  loveth  not  the  wasters  (Abrabian 
Tht  Importance  oi  Economy  Proverb). 

Living    economically    is    a    basic         . ,       .    .  i.  •    m      lu  ^    \  ■  ^ 

-.       ,       °       ,   r       ,  i  ,  No  gain  is  more  certain  than  that  which 

fundamental  for  happmess  and  sue-  proceeds  from  the  economical  use  of  what 
cess  that  is  logically  related  to  bud-      we  have   (Latin  Proverb). 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


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Life  oi  the  Master 

In  this  day,  when  so  many  people 
are  stressing  the  physical  standards 
of  living  above  the  real  joy  of  living, 
it  is  good  to  reflect  upon  the  cir- 
cumstances surrounding  the  life  of 
the  Master. 

The  birth  of  Jesus  was  one  of 
the  greatest  events  in  history.  In 
keeping  with  its  importance,  his 
birth  was  preceded  by  heavenly  di- 
rected preparations,  and  it  was 
heralded  by  angels.  He  could  have 
been  born  in  a  castle,  with  parents 
of  worldlv  fame,  and  showered  with 
wealth.  'Tor  with  God  nothing 
shall  be  impossible"  (Luke  1:37). 

His  mother  knew  that  he  was  the 
Christ  Child,  and  she  was  con- 
cerned over  his  safety  and  comfort. 
But  ''she  brought  forth  her  firstborn 
son,  and  wrapped  him  in  swaddling 
clothes,  and  laid  him  in  a  manger" 
(Luke  2:7). 

Joseph  was  apparently  a  humble 
carpenter.  Mary  cared  for  her  baby 
and  provided  for  his  needs  in  mod- 
est circumstances.  Apparently,  this 
was  the  best  environment  for  the 
growth  and  development  of  Jesus  for 
his  great  mission.  "And  the  child 
grew,  and  waxed  strong  in  spirit, 
filled  with  wisdom:  and  the  grace  of 
God  was  upon  him"  (Luke  2:40). 
Later,  when  Jesus  undertook  his 
mission,  he  tra\'eled  "without  purse 
or  scrip."  Surely,  in  this  experience 
we  find  a  lesson  for  all  families. 

Lessons  From  Book  oi  Mormon 

The  Book  of  Mormon  includes 
many  incidents  where  people  be- 
came strong  because  of  experience 
that  forced  them  to  live  with  ex- 
treme economy  and  to  be  humble, 
and  then  in  a  few  years,  with  pros- 
perity, they  began   to   live  extrava- 


gantly and  lost  their  faith.  In  Alma, 
chapter  4,  we  find  this  whole  cycle 
recorded  in  ten  brief  verses.  In  the 
sixth  year  after  the  appointment  of 
the  judges,  the  people  were  suffer- 
ing because  of  "the  loss  of  their 
flocks  and  herds,  and  also  for  the 
loss  of  their  fields  of  grain  ..."  from 
economic  poverty.  But  this  humble 
environment  was  a  blessing  for  the 
people,  as  "they  were  awakened  to 
a  remembrance  of  their  duty.  And 
they  began  to  establish  the  church 
more  fully.  .  .  ."  The  Lord  blessed 
them  because  of  their  repentant  at- 
titude.   But  within  two  years: 

.  .  .  the  people  of  the  church  began  to 
wax  proud,  because  of  their  exceeding 
riches,  and  their  fine  silks,  and  their  fine- 
twined  linen,  and  because  of  their  many 
flocks  and  herds,  and  their  gold  and  their 
silver,  and  all  manner  of  precious  things, 
which  they  had  obtained  by  their  industry; 
and  in  all  these  things  they  were  lifted  up 
in  the  pride  of  their  eyes,  for  they  began 
to  wear  very  costly  apparel  (Alma  4:6). 

The  Lord  blessed  the  people,  and 
they  became  prosperous.  This  was 
good.  The  unfortunate  mistake  was 
that  the  people  ceased  to  live  eco- 
nomically and  to  remain  humble, 
but  rather  became  proud  of  their 
wealth  and  became  worldly.  Obser- 
vations of  the  working  of  the  same 
cycle  in  more  modern  times  has 
given  validity  to  the  statement, 
"from  shirt  sleeves  to  shirt  sleeves 
in  three  generations."  History  has 
revealed  the  wisdom,  and  the 
Church  in  its  conduct  constantly 
sets  the  example,  of  the  importance 
of  living  economically. 

Thoughts  for  Discussion 

The  following  are  suggested  chal- 
lenging observations  for  discussion: 


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1.  To    those  who   have   above   average 
means: 

a.  Have  you  kept  your  sights  on  the 
things  that  are  eternal?  Are  you 
able  to  resist  the  frequent  tenden- 
cy when  people  become  rich  in 
the  things  of  this  world  of  becom- 
ing less  rich  or  even  poor  in  the 
real  values  that  are  eternal? 

b.  It  may  be  wise  to  look  upon  pros- 
perity as  an  opportunity  fraught 
with  danger.  The  danger  is  that 
we  may  become  worldly,  over- 
stress  the  physical,  and  rear  our 
children  in  an  environment  that 
is  not  conducive  to  maximum 
spiritual,  moral,  and  educational 
growth. 

C.  Are  you  depriving  your  children  of 
those  experiences  that  helped  to 
mold  your  character  and  taught 
you  the  valuable  lessons  of  work, 
thrift,  and  appreciation? 

If  you  say  to  your  children 
that  you  can't  afford  something 
that  they  wish,  and  your  children 
know  that  this  is  not  true,  this 
will  only  stimulate  their  efforts  to 
find  a  way  of  persuading  you  to 
give  in.  On  the  other  hand,  if 
the  children  are  taught  by  precept 
and  example  that  it  is  good  to 
live  economically,  not  because  you 
have  to,  but  because  it  is  good, 
they  will  understand  that  many 
things  that  others  have  are  not 
desirable,  and  they  will  support 
you  in  your  family  leadership. 

d.  To  have  above  average  means  is 
a  blessing  if  one  remembers  that 
the  blessing  lies  in  the  increased 
power  to  be  of  service.  It  may 
be  easier  to  be  meek  when  poor, 
but  it  may  be  more  noble  to  be 
meek  when  rich! 

2.  To   those   who  have  below   average 
means: 


a.  One  can  be  very  limited  in  world- 
ly possessions  and  rich  in  values 
that  are  eternal.  The  real  values 
include  good  work  habits,  cleanli- 
ness, honesty,  love  and  good  will 
toward  fellow  men,  and  a  desire 
to  serve. 

b.  Inspire  your  children  with  a  desire 
for  knowledge,  to  excell  in  their 
studies,  and  to  be  strong  in  their 
faith  and  loyal  to  the  Church. 
From  children  thus  taught  will 
come  the  great  men  and  women 
of  tomorrow. 

c.  Always  say,  with  true  sincerity, 
"I  will  share  what  I  have,  and  if 
I  had  more  I  would  give  more." 
The  outstanding  examples  in  the 
teachings  of  the  Master  of  people 
giving  were  not  the  rich  sharing 
their  abundance,  but  the  people 
of  limited  means  sharing  because 
of  the  goodness  of  their  hearts. 
The  gift  of  the  equivalent  of  the 
widow's  mite  is  always  received 
with  complete  appreciation  if 
given  "not  grudgingly,  or  of  neces- 
sity; for  God  loveth  a  cheerful 
giver"  (II  Corinthians  9:7). 

d.  It  would  be  unwise  to  look  upon 
being  poor  as  a  failure  to  receive 
the  blessings  of  the  Lord,  unless 
this  condition  is  due  to  one's  own 
failure  and  unwillingness  to  do 
those  things  that  bring  the  bless- 
ings of  the  Lord.  The  Lord 
always  blesses  the  poor  who  be- 
come strong  in  spirit. 

3.  To  all — the  rich  and  the  poor: 

a.  One  is  poor  if  "keeping  up  with 
the  Joneses"  becomes  of  greater 
concern  than  doing  what  is  right. 

b.  One  is  poor  if  he  covets  the  things 
owned  by  others  and  cannot  re- 
joice in  seeing  others  enjoy  world- 
ly possessions  (that  he  may  be 
unable  to  buy  or  chooses  not  to 
acquire). 


JLiterature — Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Lesson  11 -''Twelfth  Night,  or  What  You  Will" 
Elder  Briant  S.  Jacobs 

Text:  Shakespeare  Ma/or  Fhys  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948 

For  Tuesday,  December  17,  1957 

Objective:   To   show  that   even    though   exaggerated   through   comedy   situations, 
Shakespeare's  characters  reveal  to  us  traits  common  to  all  humanity. 

PARTICULARLY  for  the  rapidly  placard    reading,    "Teenage    talked 

growing  Puritan   strain  among  here"  could  hang  in  the  window  of 

middle-class  Englishmen,  the  Christ-  a  haberdashers  or  dress  shop  in  no 

mas  season  in  Shakespeare's  day  was  age  but  our  own.    Conversely, 
not    a    time    for    celebration,    but        _  she  never  told  her  love, 

rather    a    devotional    period,    filled  But  let  concealment  like  a  worm  i'  the 
with    somberness    and    dedication.  bud, 

Because  the  twelve-day  period  which  ^'''^^^"^^^[  "^""""'^  '^''^'  ^^'  P^"'"^  ''' 

followed    the    birth    of    the    Christ  And  wiA^  green  and  yellow  melancholy 

Child  was  held  to  be  symbolical  of  she  sat  like  Patience  on  a  monument, 

motherhood,  it  was  distinguished  by  Smiling  at  grief.  ...  II.  4.  113-118 

an  air  of  solemnity.  may  seem  equally  a  foreign  tongue 

At  the  end  of  this  period  the  jol-  to  our  very  own  teenage  children, 
lification  began— on  the  twelfth  day,  and  possibly  to  us  as  well.  Yet  dif- 
while  the  renewing  celebration  ferences  of  whatever  magnitude 
reached  full  tempo  only  during  the  must  not  be  allowed  to  obscure 
evening  of  the  twelfth  night.  There  basic  similarities.  Man  has  been 
is  evidence  that  Twelfth  Nig^ht,  01  man  in  all  ages,  woman  has  been 
What  You  WiJJ,  was  written  to  be  woman,  and  Shakespeare,  Shake- 
presented  at  this  time  which  might  speare.  Yet  from  age  to  age,  there 
explain  why  it  is  the  happiest  play  is  a  difference, 
that  Shakespeare  ever  wrote,  even  Twelfth  Night  may  be  considered 
while  a  somber  strain  runs  just  be-  a  bridge  between  the  younger  and 
neath  the  surface  of  the  play  from  the  more  mature  Shakespeare.  This 
beginning  to  end.  is  important  in  understanding  why 

One  of  the  great  goals  of  artists  today  this  play  is  still  one  of  Shake- 

and  thinkers  and  thoughtful  readers  speare's    best-loved    comedies,    just 

of  every  age  has  been  to  recast  ac-  as  it  has  been  from  the  date  of  its 

cumulative     truth     in     their     own  composition  in  1600  or  1601,  when 

images.     Each   period,   each   place  he  was  thirty-six  or  thirty-seven  years 

has  its  own  idiom  and  personality,  of  age. 

and  therefore  in  its  seeing  and  say-  From  the  date  of  his  first  play 
ing  differs  from  the  past  which  it  ten  years  earlier  up  to  Twelfth 
has  inherited  and  absorbed,  minute  Night,  the  rising  and  successful  play- 
as  that  difference  may  be.  A  small  wright  had  written  either  twenty- 
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one  or  twenty-two  plays— nine  of 
them  were  comedies,  three  of  them 
tragedies,  and  the  rest  histories.  The 
Merry  Wives  of  Windsor,  Much 
Ado  About  Nothing,  and  As  You 
Like  It  had  all  appeared  within  two 
years  preceding  Twelfth  Night. 
Their  very  titles  reveal  them  as  gay, 
rollicking  comedies,  filled  with 
pranks  and  puns,  brilliant  word-play, 
bravado,  and  young  love  finally  unit- 
ed in  happiness. 

One  explanation  of  Twelfth 
Night's  enduring  popularity  may  be 
that  it  appeals  to  both  young  and 
old,  to  those  who  are  merry,  sad,  or, 
more  commonly,  to  those  who  are 
both  at  once.  And  that  is  exactly 
what  the  play  does.  The  earlier 
comedies  are  brimming  with  roister- 
ing talk,  impish  tricks,  disguises  and 
mistaken  identities,  earthly  humor 
and  pun. 

Appeals  to  the  Young-in-Spiiit 

From  Shakespeare's  Globe  The- 
ater to  our  own  drive-ins,  the  young- 
in-spirit  have  provided  the  bulk  of 
theater  audiences.  For  them,  the 
most  famous  line  in  this  play  makes 
it  seem  their  own  voice  as  Sir  Toby, 
reminding  pompous,  stern  Malvolio 
that  he  is  out  of  tune,  says, 
'\  .  .  Dost  thou  think  because  thou 
art  virtuous,  there  shall  be  no  more 
cakes  and  ale  .  .  .?"  (II.  3.  124-125). 
Or,  to  paraphrase,  do  you  think  that 
just  because  you  are  older,  without 
flaw,  and  settled  down,  no  one 
else  shall  celebrate?  Next,  the  very 
names  of  Sir  Toby  Belch  and  Sir 
Andrew  Aguecheek  contain  the 
same  quality  of  caricature  so  often 
prominent  in  teenage  nicknames, 
while  Feste,  the  name  of  a  play's 
clown  or  fool,  is  almost  festivity 
itself. 


Another  perennial  favorite  of  all 
ages  is  the  pun,  the  play  on  words 
having  the  same  sound  but  different 
meanings.  It  is  still  popular  among 
us  in  the  latest  "Happy  Little 
Moron"  jokes.  Note  the  overtones 
of  meaning  evoked  from  almost  the 
first  lines  in  the  play  resulting  from 
the  similarity  between  hart  (or  male 
deer)  and  heart,  the  source  of  love 
and  passion.  Curio,  the  Duke's  at- 
tendant, asks  him  if  he  will  go 
hunting. 

Duke.  What,  Curio? 

Cur.      The  hart. 

Duke.  Why,  so  I  do,  the  noblest  that  I 
have. 
Oh,  when  mine  eyes  did  see  Olivia 

first, 
Methought  she  purged   the  air  of 

pestilence! 
That  instant  was  I  turned  into  a 

hart, 
And    my   desires,   like   fell    [fierce] 

and  cruel  hounds, 
E'er  since  pursue  me. 

I.  1.  16-23 

Or  note  a  similar  device  as  em- 
ployed with  brilliant  effectiveness  in 
the  repartee  between  the  heroine 
and  Feste,  the  clown: 

Vio.  Save  thee,  friend,  and  thy  music. 
Dost  thou  live  by  thy  tabor? 

Clo.      No,  sir,  I  live  by  the  church. 

Vio.      Art  thou  a  churchman? 

Clo.  No  such  matter,  sir,  I  do  live  by 
the  church,  for  I  do  live  at  my 
house,  and  my  house  doth  stand 
by  the  church. 

Vio.  So  thou  mayst  say  the  King  lies  by 
a  beggar,  if  a  beggar  dwell  near 
him,  or  the  church  stands  by  thy 
tabor,  if  thy  tabor  stand  by  the 
church. 

Clo.  You  have  said,  sir.  To  see  this 
age!  A  sentence  is  but  a  cheveril 
gloN'c  to  a  good  wit.  How  quickly 
the  wrong  side  may  be  turned  out- 
ward! III.  1.  1-15 


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Such  sharp  word-use  is  often  too 
condensed  and  subtle  for  the  mod- 
ern audience,  although  the  Hope- 
Benny-Gobel-Linkletter  clan  perpet- 
uate it  in  milder  form.  However, 
enjoyment  is  quickened  consider- 
ably if  such  zest-in-words  is  first  read 
on  the  cold  page;  then  when  it  is 
recognized  in  the  mouths  of  players 
on  the  stage,  it  sparkles  with  the 
cryptic  power  of  youth's  jargon  in 
all  ages,  and  imparts  warming, 
breathing  illusion  of  reality  which 
is  one  of  Shakespeare's  highest  at- 
tainments. Various  dialogue  scenes 
between  Sir  Toby  and  Sir  Andrew, 
Feste  and  Maria,  and  Feste  and  Vi- 
ola offer  much  more  such  brilliant 
word-play,  from  which  excerpts 
might  be  mimeographed  and  read 
carefully  and  aloud  with  your  group. 

Major  Theme— Love 

Twelfth  Night  is  a  story  of  great 
beauty,  both  because  it  is  expertly 
put  together  by  an  expert  craftsman, 
and  because  it  tells  a  delightful  love 
story,  one  as  pure  and  simple  as  that 
of  Midsummei  Night's  Dream. 
When  the  usual  Shakespearean 
grand  assembly  occurs  in  the  fifth 
act,  all  misunderstandings  are  ex- 
plained and  three  couples— Viola 
and  the  Duke  Orsino,  Olivia  and 
Sebastian,  Maria  and  Sir  Toby— are 
suddenly  revealed  to  each  other  as 
pledged  lovers,  ''.  .  .  and  they  all 
live  happily  ever  after."  Young  lov- 
ers love  most  to  read  about  young 
love,  and  the  play  is  loaded  with 
the  imagery  and  vocabulary  of  love, 
all  in  the  Italian  vogue  which  was 
as  dominant  and  popular  a  force  in 
France  and  the  Elizabethan  stage 
as  Italian  movies  and  exotic  movie 
stars  are  in  the  United  States  today. 
And   many  of  the  conventions   of 


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LAURENCE  OLIVIER  AS  MALVOLIO 
IN   'TWELFTH    NIGHT" 


contemporary  love-lore  are  embod- 
ied within  the  play,  particularly  in 
the  speeches  of  the  lovesick  Orsino: 
that  love  torments  the  lovers  (I.  i. 
9-23;  I.  4.  26;  II.  4.  15),  that  the 
woman  should  be  younger  than  her 
lover  (II.  4.  29-32),  that  man  loves 
more  deeply  than  woman  (II.  4. 
94-106),  that  concealed  love  is  never 
consummated  (II.  4.  113-118),  that 
scorn  breeds  love  (III.  1.  156-160), 
that  true  love  is  jealous  (IV.  3.  27). 
Plot 

Few  of  Shakespeare's  plays  con- 
tain a  better  integration  of  balanced 
scenes,  with  each  scene  completely 
justifying  itself  within  the  structure 
of  the  whole,  and  at  the  same  time 
by  its  own  merits  holding  the  un- 
broken  attention   of   the   audience 


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than  does  Twelfth  Night.  Simi- 
larly, there  are  just  barely  a  leading 
man  and  lady,  since  so  many  critics 
still  debate  whether  the  play  is  domi- 
nated by  Viola  or  Olivia,  by  Orsino, 
Malvolio,  or  Feste.  Rather,  all 
blend  together  marvelously  well, 
which  gives  the  play  its  tight-knit 
structure  and  pleasing  pattern.  The 
speeches  are  short,  very  few  run- 
ning the  length  of  a  sonnet,  thus 
shifting  the  center  of  attention  con- 
stantly from  one  to  another  in  a 
fine  blending  and  counterpoint  mo- 
tion. 

The  plot  is  sheer  fantasy  —  im- 
probable, exotic,  romantic,  yet,  by 
its  sustained  popularity  over  the  cen- 
turies, it  stands  to  refute  those 
realists  and  modernists  who  would 
insist  that  only  the  immediate,  the 
squalid,  and  the  low  endure. 

In  faraway  Illyria  the  overly  senti- 
mental Duke,  Orsino,  pines  awav 
for  his  ladylove,  the  rich  Countess 
Olivia,  who  is  mourning  with  undue 
fervor  the  death  of  her  brother.  Or- 
sino sends  an  attractive  page,  Cesar- 
io,  to  present  his  suit  to  Olivia  but 
instead  of  falling  in  love  with  Or- 
sino, Olivia  becomes  infatuated 
with  Cesario.  Cesario  is  actually 
Viola,  a  shipwrecked  maiden  trav- 
eling in  disguise,  distraught  at  the 
supposed  death  of  Sebastian,  her 
twin,  in  the  storm  which  she  sur- 
vived. Malvolio,  steward  to  the 
countess,  shares  her  melancholy, 
but  actually  he  would  like  to  share 
her  favors  and  wealth  as  well,  for 
foolishly  he  aspires  for  her  hand. 
Olivia's  Uncle  Toby  Belch  enjoys 
sponging  off  her  household  for  the 
comforts  of  life,  and  keeps  himself 
in  spending  money  by  encouraging 
Sir  Andrew  Aguecheek   to  believe 


that  his  bid  for  the  widow  Olivia's 
hand  will  be  successful— if  he  con- 
tinues to  hire  the  right  cupid  to 
arrange  it,  namely  Sir  Toby. 

When  the  pompous  chief  stew- 
ard Malvolio  offends  Sir  Toby,  Sir 
Toby  and  the  keen,  shrewd  serving- 
woman,  Maria,  plot  revenge.  They 
plant  a  letter,  supposed  to  have  been 
written  by  Olivia,  in  which  Olivia 
tells  of  her  love  for  Malvolio  and 
instructs  Malvolio,  if  he  returns  her 
love  to  wear  yellow  stockings  (which 
Olivia  actually  abhors)  and  smile 
whenever  she  approaches. 

Olivia  makes  violent  love  to  Ce- 
sario, the  boy-girl  page,  and  Sir 
Toby  motivates  a  duel  between  Sir 
Andrew  and  Cesario.  Horror- 
stricken  at  the  thought  of  duelling, 
Cesario-Viola  is  trapped  until  An- 
tonio, the  captain  of  the  ship  on 
which  her  brother  was  traveling 
comes  to  her  rescue.  He  thinks  she 
is  her  twin  brother  Sebastian,  who 
is  actually  very  much  alive,  and 
calls  her  by  that  name.  Officers  ap- 
pear and  arrest  Antonio.  Cesario- 
Viola  leaves  the  scene  pursued  by 
Sir  Andrew  who  meets  her  brother. 
Thinking  Sebastian  is  Cesario-Viola, 
he  draws  his  sword  and  begins  to 
duel.  Just  then  Olivia  appears,  and, 
determined  not  to  lose  her  beloved 
Cesario-Viola  again,  she  hustles  him 
off  to  a  church  and  marries  him,  but 
she  really  marries  Sebastian,  who 
falls  in  love  with  her  on  the  spot. 

Malvolio  had  previously  appeared 
before  Olivia,  doing  as  the  letter  di- 
rected so  well  that  she  has  him 
thrown  into  a  dark  cell,  believing 
him  mad.  There  Feste,  the  fool, 
taunts  him.  Malvolio  bitterly  re- 
sents his  mistreatment,  Toby  and 


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Sir  Andrew  repent,  but  at  the  play's  love  does  not  permit  him  to  recog- 

end  Malvolio  alone  still  suffers.  nize  that  he  is  not  so  'well  endowed 

Orsino  enters  with  Cesario-Viola  by  nature  as  by  fortune/'  and  so  he 
whom  Olivia  addresses  as  her  hus-  becomes  a  ready,  gullible  rabbit  for 
band,  which  Orsino  resents.  Then  Sir  Toby's  snares.  Olivia  is  ''re- 
Sir  Andrew  accuses  Cesario-Viola  of  solved  to  mourn"  her  brother's  loss 
wounding  him  in  the  duel  and,  for  in  fitting  fashion,  but  instead  so 
a  moment,  all  is  confusion,  until  exaggerates  her  self-denials  that  she 
Sebastian  enters,  realizes  his  sister  hides  behind  them  as  an  acceptable 
is  alive,  admits  marrying  Olivia  and  escape  from  all  reality,  including 
duelling  Sir  Andrew.  Viola  reveals  her  own  inner  desires  as  a  woman, 
her  love  for  Orsino  who  has  al-  But  Duke  Orsino  cannot  face  reality 
ready  been  attracted  to  her  as  a  full-on  either.  Yes,  he  falls  in  love 
page,  Sir  Toby  agrees  to  marry  —but  he  woos  the  idea  of  being  in 
Maria,  who  has  long  dreamed  of  love,  rather  than  any  woman.  He 
lifting  herself  out  of  the  servant  poses  and  preens  as  he  sighs  over 
class  by  marrying  royalty.  It  is  at  the  atmosphere  of  love  in  which 
that  moment  that  the  clown  gives  he  bathes  himself,  yet  courage  and 
the  famous  lines,  "Some  are  born  action  are  not  in  him,  as  they  must 
great,  some  achieve  greatness,  and  be  in  any  true  lover.  No  sharper 
some  have  greatness  thrust  upon  contrast  to  Orsino  could  emerge 
'em"  (V.  I.  376).  While  Malvolio  than  that  which  we  find  in  Viola, 
fumes  his  disappointment  and  also  in  love,  but  the  love  within  her 
abuse,  the  happy  couples  leave  the  elevates  her  into  achieving  true 
stage,  and  Feste  sings  a  final  ditty,  love's  high  virtues:  constancy,  self- 
denial,  honest  passion,  courage,  and 
Shakespeare's   Living   Chaiacteiiza-  integrity.     But,   again,   in   contrast 

tions  to  her,  Maria's  sharp  wit  and  desire 

In  Twelith  Night  the  players  for  world  security  must  substitute 
once  more  arise  from  the  printed  for  what  love's  weapons  should  be. 
page  or  walk  past  the  footlights  to  She  ensnares  Sir  Toby,  outsharps  the 
become  lost  in  the  crowd,  and  be  sharper,  and  gains  worldly  station- 
one  of  us.  Here,  again,  is  living  goals  far  distant  from  those  of  a  lov- 
proof  that  Shakespeare  knows  us  er,  but  supremely  satisfactory  to  her. 
best,  since  he  is  of  our  time  almost  while  many  of  the  above  charac- 
more  than  his  own,  and,  hence,  not  ters  are  exaggerated  and  the  plot 
confined  within  time's  boundaries,  situations  impossible,  no  one  really 
Particularly  in  this  play  are  we  objects,  so  well  are  we  aware  that 
amused  at  his  knowledge  of  hu-  these  realms  of  artistic  recreation  of 
mamty's  weaknesses  and  exaggerated  Hfg  create  within  us  more  of  reality 
devices  of  foolish  self-defense  and  than  does  life  itself.  We  see  them 
grandiose  rationalizations,  even  as  and  we  see  through  them.  And, 
we  readily  recognize  these  echoing  therefore,  even  more  sharply  we  see 
traits  m  ourselves  and  m  our  fel-  ourselves  and  our  own  similar  traits, 
^^^^-  perhaps   a   little  shamefacedly,  yet 

For  example,  Sir  Andrew's  self-  with  amusement. 


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Twelfth  Night  a  Symphony 

Twelfth  Night  may  be  compared 
to  a  symphony  with  love  as  the 
major  theme  and  several  minor 
themes  beautifully  intertwined  to 
make  a  perfect  composition.  From 
its  opening  lines  to  its  final  words, 
this  gentle,  pleasant  play  often  is 
set  ringing  with  musical  tones  and 
echoes. 

If  music  be  the  food  of  love,  play  on. 
Give  me  excess  of  it,  that,  surfeiting, 
The  appetite  may  sicken,  and  so  die. 
That  strain  again!     It  had  a  dying  fall. 
Oh,  it  came  o'er  my  ear  like  the  sweet 

sound 
That  breathes  upon  a  bank  of  violets, 
Stealing    and    giving    odor!    Enough,    no 

more.  .  .   . 
O  spirit  of  love,  how  quick  and  fresh  art 

thou!  I.  1.  1-7,  9 

The  songs  of  the  fool  Feste  are 
some  of  the  purest  lyrics  in  the 
language,  and  reveal  the  musician- 
poet  Shakespeare  at  his  best.  Per- 
haps most  popular  because  of  its 
moving,  simple  beauty  is  his  first 
song: 

O  mistress  mine,  where  are  you  roaming? 
Oh,  stay  and  hear,  your  truelove's  coming, 

That  can  sing  both  high  and  low. 
Trip  no  further,  pretty  s\\eeting. 
Journeys  end  in  lovers  meeting, 

Every  wise  man's  son  doth  know  .  .  . 

W^hat  is  love?  Tis  not  hereafter, 
Present  mirth  hath  present  laughter. 

What's  to  come  is  still  unsure. 
In  delay  there  hes  no  plenty, 
Then  come  kiss  me,  sweet  and  twenty. 

Youth's  a  stuff  will  not  endure. 

II.  3.  40-45,  48-54 

But  not  all  the  songs  are  as  happy 
as  this  one;  indeed  many  create  and 
prolong  the  dominant  bass-note  of 
sadness  and  wistful  melancholy 
which  pervades  the  entire  play.  This 
is  evidenced  most  strongly  in  the  ut- 


terances of  Orsino,  Viola,  and  parti- 
cularly Feste,  the  jester  who  is  *'  .  .  . 
wise  enough  to  play  the  fool,  And  to 
do  that  well  craves  a  kind  of  wit 
.  .  ."  (III.  I.  67-68).  It  is  songs  such 
as  the  following  one  sung  by  Feste 
which  help  make  Twelfth  Night 
''.  .  .  a  settled  gravity— a  silvery  un- 
dertone of  sadness,  which  makes  it 
perhaps  the  loveliest  of  all  Shakes- 
peare's high  comedies''  (John  Mid- 
dleton  Murry^  Shakespeare,  page 
225). 

Duke.  Oh,  fellow,  come,  the  song  we  had 
last  night. 

Mark  it,  Cesario,  it  is  old  and  plain. 
The  spinsters  and  the  knitters  in 

the  sun 
And  the  free  maids  that  weave  their 

thread  with  bones 
Do  use  to  chant  it.  It  is  silly  sooth, 
And  dallies  with  the  innocence  of 

love, 
Like  the  old  age. 

Clo.      Are  you  ready,  sir? 

Duke.  Aye,  prithee  sing. 

Clo.      [Sings] 

Come  away,  come  away,  death. 

And  in  sad  cypress  let  me  be  laid. 

Fly  away,  fly  a^^•ay,  breath, 

I  am  slain  by  a  fair  cruel  maid. 

My  shroud  of  white,  stuck  all  with 

yew. 

Oh,  prepare  it! 

My  part  of  death,  no  one  so  true 

Did  share  it! 

II.  4.  43-59 

The  words  sadness  and  madness 
appear  constantly  in  dulcet  tones, 
almost  like  a  chant,  as  also  does 
drowned.  Yes,  there  is  lo\e  in  the 
play,  but  it  is  languorous,  overly 
rich,  surfeited,  sad  with  too  much 
gaiety  and  glitter.  A  key  line  is 
^laria's  when,  speaking  of  the  raving 
Malvolio,  she  says: 

...  I  am  as  mad  as  he, 

If  sad  and  merry  madness  equal  be. 

III.  4.  15-16 


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Three  Part  Choruses 

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Everything  in  the  final  act  builds  dued,     inexorable    irregularity     the 

up  to  satisfaction  and  happiness,  but  wind  and  the  rain  follow  out  their 

surely  it  is  significant  that  the  play  indifferent  patterns^  thus  reminding 

ends   with   Feste  on  an   otherwise  superficial  man  of  nature's  balance 

empty  stage,  singing  to  our  inner  ear  and  force,  even  harshness,  which  en- 

his  ditty,  apparently  simple  and  of  dure  beneath  surface  trivialities. 

no   consequence,   but   actually   the 

final  repetition  of  the  play's  domi-  Thoughts  for  Discussion 

nant  tone.    Perhaps  Shakespeare  is  ,       ,              .    ^    ,, ,    ^,.  , 

.     T              .  1     .   ■  1               1  1.    In   what    way    is    iweiith   Nwht   a 

remmdmg  us  that  the  overly  merry,  \)Yidpe? 

overly    playful,    overly    sentimental  t-      u       j      i-i,-     i             i-, 

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characters    withm    this    play,    have  i-      ci  i                 ^.     ■ 

-           ,                 ,                       1     '-.i         ,  :?.    i'or   Shakespeare,   why    is   music    so 

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From  Cymheline 

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"O  Mistress  Mine,"  from  Twelith  Night 
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Social  Science  —  Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 

No  lesson  is  planned  for  December  in  this  department,  due  to  the 
hohday  season. 

The  following  references  are  for  Lesson  9,  "Families  Have  Problems,"  for  Novem- 
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Magazine : 

1.  "Youth  and  Morality,"  Delbert  L.  Stapley,  The  Improvement  Era,  December 
1956,  page  937. 

2.  Report  on  the  National  Conference  on  Juvenile  Delinquency,  1954,  Children's 
Bureau,  U.  S.  Department  of  Health,  Education,  and  Welfare,  Washington,  D.  C. 

3.  Characteristics  of  the  Low-Income  Population,  1955,  Joint  Committee  on  the 
Economic  Report,  84th  Congress,  Government  Printing  Office,  Washington,  D.  C. 

4.  "Leisure  Time  —  A  Blessing  or  a  Blight?"  Jessie  R.  Smith,  The  Improvement 
Era,  May  1957,  page  334. 

5.  "How  Shall  We  Define  Progress?"  Bonaro  W.  Overstreet,  National  Parent- 
Teacher,  May  1957,  page  29. 

6.  "Why  Parents  Annoy  Us,"  Florence  A.  Gritzner,  National  Parent- Teacher, 
May  1957,  page  29. 

7.  "Can  Poets  Unseat  the  Comics?"  Hal  Conkey,  National  Parent- Teacher,  Febru- 
ary 1957,  page  29. 


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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of  the   Relief  Society  of  The  Church  of  Jesus   Christ  of  Latter-day   Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 

Belle  S.  Spafford President 

Marianne  C.  Sharp        ---.._-         First  Counselor 
Helen   W.    Anderson  ------         Second   Counselor 

Hulda    Parker         -------         Secretary-Treasurer 

Anna  B.  Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S.  Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie   M.    Ellsworth 

Florence    J.    Madsen  Aleine  M.  Young  Charlotte  A.  Larsen  Mary  R.    Young 

Leone  G.  Layton  Josie  B.  Bay  Edith  P.  Backman  Mary  V.   Cameron 

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Alberta  H.  Christensen      Manwaring  Wealtha  S.  Mendenhall 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Editor    -----------  Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Associate  Editor          ---------  Vesta  P.  Crawford 

General  Manager        - Belle  S.  Spafford 


Vol.  44  OCTOBER  1957  No.  10 


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SPECIAL  FEATURES 

Sparkling  Family  Hour  Shirley  B.  and  Monroe  J.  Paxman  644 

The  Southwest  Indian  Mission  Preston  R.    Nibley  650 

Let's  Visit  a  Desert  Sea   Marijane   Morris  657 

Purchasing  Soul  Growth  664 

Compiling  a  Census  of  Post-Polio  Patients  Foundation  for  Infantile  Paralysis  668 

Pine  Nutting  Alice  R.  Rich  674 

FICTION 

Trespassing  Trio  Frances  C.  Yost  652 

Miss   Pennywell   Goes   Into  Action  Frances   P.   Reid  669 

Bleak   House  Florence   B.    Dunford  676 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

Sixty  Years  Ago  660 

Woman's  Sphere   Ramona  W.  Cannon  661 

Editorial:   Eternal   Bonuses   Marianne   C.    Sharp  662 

In    Memoriam— Priscilla    Livingston    Evans    663 

Notes  From  the  Field:   Relief  Society  Activities  ..■ Hulda   Parker  680 

Birthday    Congratulations    711 

From   Near   and    Far 712 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes  From  the  Southwest  Indian  Mission  Lavena  L.   Rohner  665 

Louise  McMurtrey  Pieces  Quilts  and  Finds   Joy  in  Giving  673 

LESSON  DEPARTMENT 

Theology.     The   Prophecy  Concerning  Elijah   the   Prophet   Roy  W.   Doxey  687 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages:   "Remember  That  Without  Faith  You  Can  Do  Nothing" 

Christine     H.     Robinson  692 

Work  Meeting:   Making  Money  More  Valuable  William  F.   Edwards  694 

Literature:  The  "Hamlet"   Frame  Briant  S.   Jacobs  697 

Social  Science:   Eternal  Marriage  John   Farr  Larson  703 

POETRY 

In  Autumn — Frontispiece   Enola  Chamberlin  643 

Aftermath    Gene    Romolo  656 

Now  the  Glory  and  the  Wane  Dorothy   J.   Roberts  659 

Mountain   Country  LesUe   S.    Clark  667 

Then  Comes  Sleep  Olive  W.    Burt  672 

Nocturne  Pansye  H.   Powell  673 

Scent  of  Autumn  Hazel  M.   Thomson  686 

Living  Proof  Iris  W.   Schow  693 

Autumn   Leaf   on   the    Beach    Eva   W.    Wangsgaard  709 

First  Bath   Christie    Lund   Coles  709 

Sunday   Evening    Margery    S.    Stewart  710 

Autumn    Vesta    N.    Lukei  710 

Pyromania  Alice  Morrey  Bailey  711 


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Let  us  speak  softly  in  this  autumn  air, 
Lest  we  disturb  the  orchard's  loose-held  leaves, 
Or  send  to  ground  the  last  late-hanging  pear, 
Or  fright  the  swallow  clinging  to  the  eaves. 
Lest  we  disturb  the  robin  now  at  rest 
Before  his  flight  to  reach  the  summer  south; 
Disturb  the  chipmunk  on  his  acorn  quest, 
The  squirrel,  a  pilfered  nut  within  his  mouth. 
Let  us  speak  softly,  corn  is  in  the  shock; 
The  yellow  pumpkins  piled  across  the  field, 
The  frost  has  drawn  back  his  hand  to  knock. 
To  hammer  loudly  on  the  summer's  shield. 
Let  us  speak  softly,  nature  waits  to  know 
If  all  the  earth  is  ready  for  her  snow. 


The  Cover:  Pueblo  at  Taos,  New  Mexico 
Photograph  by  Willard  Luce 

Frontispiece  Photograph:  Autumn  Morning,  Near  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah 
Photograph  by  Harry  Harpster,  Jr. 

Cover  Design  by  Evan  Jensen 


Sparkling  Family  Hour 

Shiihy  B.  and  Monroe  /.  Paxman 


HAS  your  family  life  been  all 
that  you  wanted  it  to  be? 
Has  it  been  fun,  romantic, 
genuinely  interesting?  Especially 
has  it  been  free  from  tension  and 
bickering?  Does  each  member  stay 
relaxed  and  completely  at  ease? 

If  you  are  like  a  great  many  of 
us,  your  answer  is  probably  ''No." 
Too  often  home  life  is  something 
to  be  endured,  rather  than  enjoyed. 
Family  routine  becomes  just  that- 
routine. 

If  yours  is  that  way,  then  we  have 
good  news  for  you. 

'Tamily  Hour"  is  the  answer! 
This  plan  for  happiness  is  neither 
costly,  complicated,  nor  coyprighted. 
And,  best  of  all,  it  can  be  adapted 
for  use  by  any  family  anywhere. 

Many  parents  overlook  the  tre- 
mendous possibilities  of  happiness 
within  their  own  family  circle.  They 
plan  things  to  get  away  from  their 
children  instead  of  planning  to  in- 
clude them  all. 

We  believe  the  Family  Hour  is 
the  finest  way  to  create  and  strength- 
en family  unity,  to  build  tradition 
in  the  home.  Traditions,  in  their 
simplest  sense,  mean  something  peo- 
ple invent  in  order  to  hold  fast  to 
home  and  one  another.  Little  things, 
often  repeated,  if  they  are  pleasant 
things,  become  woven  into  the 
commonplaceness  of  existence  like 
bright  threads  —  giving  character, 
lending  enchantment.  And  the 
memories  of  family  tradition  that 
children  accumulate  go  with  them 
through  their  lives. 

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The  traditions  holding  families  to- 
gether are  often  so  small  and  simple 
that  the  outside  world  hardly  recog- 
nizes them.  The  father  and  mother 
who  devote  one  regular  time  to 
social  life  with  their  children  will 
escape  that  left-out  feeling  when 
their  children  have  grown  up.  Those 
with  a  tradition  of  love  and  com- 
panionship, dignity,  and  peace,  will 
give  their  children  a  heritage  they 
will  fight  to  preserve. 

The  Family  Hour  provides  the 
most  ideal  situation  to  teach  religion 
in  the  home,  to  discuss  the  prin- 
ciples of  the  gospel  and  instill  in 
our  children  the  desire  to  apply  the 
gospel  teachings  to  their  daily  lives. 
It  provides  an  opportunity  for 
teaching  and  practicing  self-expres- 
sion by  active  participation  of  each 
family  member;  for  developing  and 
encouraging  talents  of  family  mem- 
bers; for  teaching  consideration  and 
respect  for  others;  for  encouraging 
co-operation  among  all  members  of 
the  family,  the  Church,  the  schools 
and  the  community;  and,  above  all, 
it  encourages  fun  and  laughter  and 
wholesome  recreation  within  the 
family  circle. 

VIU^RITING  from  our  own  experi- 
ence in  conducting  the  Family 
Hour  in  our  home,  there  are  several 
suggestions  we  might  make  that 
help  build  toward  a  more  enriched 
Family  Hour. 

1,  Adapt  your  Family  Hour  program  to 
the  needs  and  ages  of  your  own  family. 
We  suggest  great  flexibility  and  a  willing- 
ness to  change  the  program  on  the  spur 


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of  the  moment,  if  it  doesn't  suit  the 
family's  desires.  This  doesn't  lead  to  a 
haphazard  "make-do-occasion, "  if  well- 
supplied  preparations  are  kept  on  hand. 
Being  prepared  with  a  great  variety  of 
activities  or  themes  for  family  hour  is  a 
great  help  in  keeping  the  interest  and 
enthusiasm  of  the  family  in  high  favor. 

2.  Set  aside  a  definite  time  when  the 
family  can  gather  together  free  from  any 
interruptions  or  absences.  This  isn't  easy 
to  do  but  is  of  primary  importance  to  a 
continued,  persistent  Family  Hour.  Once 
the  time  is  decided  upon,  all  family  mem- 
bers plan  their  schedules  to  allow  for  the 
Family  Hour.  By  advance  mutual  agree- 
ment it  can  be  held  earUer  if  something 
of  intense  importance  requires  part  or  all 
of  the  members  of  the  family  to  be  else- 
where. 

Many  wards  and  stakes  have  adopted 
the  practice  of  setting  aside  certain  eve- 
nings as  "home  evenings"  to  encourage 
families  in  the  observance  of  the  Family 
Hour,  free  from  conflicting  meetings. 

It  is  helpful  to  gain  the  support  of  the 
Priesthood  by  asking  leaders  to  encour- 
age active  participation  by  men  in  the 
Family  Hour. 

3.  The  Family  Hour  should  begin  with 
prayer  or  be  closed  with  family  prayers. 
Prayers  seem  especially  heartwarming  and 
earnest  after  time  spent  with  the  family. 
The  prayer  should  be  short  and  appro- 
priate and  should  contribute  to  the  spirit, 
purpose,  and  theme  of  the  evening. 

4.  All  members  of  the  family  should 
have  opportunity  for  various  responsibilities 
in  the  Family  Hour.  Some  families  choose 
themes  weeks  or  months  ahead  according 
to  the  vote  of  the  family,  and  make  as- 
signments to  family  members.  Others  use 
a  weekly  assignment  sheet  posted  on  the 
bulletin  board,  rotating  assignments  as 
follows:  chairman,  storyteller,  refresh- 
ment chairman,  game  leader,  scripture 
reader,  family  council  chairman,  cleanup. 
Assignments  can  be  combined  or  expanded 
to  fit  the  number  of  children  in  the  fam- 
ily. Each  person  rotates  to  the  next  posi- 
tion each  week. 

5.  Developing  children's  leadership  abili- 
ties  is   an   important   aim   of   the  Family 


Hour.  It's  easier  for  the  parents  just  to 
"take  charge"  and  order  that  this  and 
that  be  done.  But  the  wise  parents  will 
delegate  the  responsibilities,  set  up  an 
organization,  and  let  the  children  run  the 
program,  with  only  occasional  guidance 
from  Mom  and  Dad. 

6.  A  scripture  reading  each  tfme  will 
assist  family  members  in  respect  for  and 
familiarity  with  the  standard  works.  Let 
each  family  member  select  his  favorite  pas- 
sages. The  older  children  or  the  parents 
can  give  helpful  guidance  to  those  who 
need  help  with  their  selections. 

7.  Family  council  should  be  an  integral 
part  of  each  family  hour.  It  encourages 
communication  and  the  expression  of  feel- 
ings for  a  good  practice  of  the  democratic 
process.  This  period  need  not  be  long. 
It's  actually  best  to  avoid  long,  drawn- 
out  "grievance-type-sessions."  Five  minutes 
spent  in  airing  family  problems  will  go  a 
long  way  toward  orderliness.  Try  to  keep 
it  constructive  and  don't  get  carried  away 
with  doing  everything  by  vote.  The  aim 
is  to  solve  problems,  not  just  to  legislate. 
Help  prepare  your  older  children  to  make 
constructive  statements  about  the  neces- 
sity and  value  of  co-operative  family  work. 

8.  Choose  a  project  for  each  occasion 
toward  which  each  person  expends  his 
best  efforts.  You'll  think  of  dozens,  but 
here  are  some  samples:  "I  am  part  of  my 
home."  (Each  is  to  improve  the  home.) 
"I  like  my  family."  (Encourage  recogni- 
tion of  blessings  and  expression  of  apprecia- 
tion.) "Waste  not — want  not."  (Turn  off 
lights,  water,  range.  Compare  utility  bills 
with  previous  periods,  etc.)  "A  place  for 
everything — everything  in  its  place."  "I 
know  something  good  about  you." 

9.  Refreshments.  Help  them,  give  ad- 
vice if  needed,  but  let  the  children  do  it. 
A  budget,  say  25c  or  so,  will  help  this 
chairman  use  his  ingenuity  and  imagina- 
tion. Keep  them  simple — popcorn,  a 
marshmallow  roast,  fruit,  a  special  dessert. 

10.  Inviting  guests.  Here's  a  world  of 
opportunity  to  encourage  understanding 
and  tolerance  for  others  and  the  sharing 
of  joys.  Much  can  be  learned,  more  can 
be  shared. 


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nPHEMES  for  Family  Hour  can 
be  as  varied  as  you  wish.  The 
possibihties  of  Family  Hour  cen- 
tered around  different  activities  are 
unlimited  and  can  provide  many 
hours  of  fun,  education,  and  prog- 
ress in  all  those  things  that  make  for 
more  abundant  living.  Following 
are  some  suggested  subjects  that  are 
adaptable  for  family  fun. 

A.  Holidays.  These  provide  almost  every 
month  with  at  least  one  excellent  subject 
for  Family  Hour.  Too  numerous  to  be 
listed  are  the  events  that  could  be  used 
in  observing  our  national  and  religious 
holidays.     A  few  examples  suffice: 

Flag  Day.  A  history  of  our  flag  —  il- 
lustrated steps  in  the  development  of 
today's  flag  done  by  David.  A  talk 
and  demonstration  by  John  on  how 
to  show  respect  for  the  flag  and  how 
to  display  and  care  for  it.  Poems, 
stories,  and  songs  about  our  flag  by 
other  members  of  the  family. 

May  Day.  Revive  the  beautiful  custom 
of  winding  the  May  pole  with  the 
neighborhood  children  invited  to  par- 
ticipate. The  tether  ball  pole  is  used 
for  this  event,  with  crepe  paper 
streamers  as  ribbons. 

Christmas.  At  Christmas  time  Annette 
presents  her  traditional  shadow  pup- 
pet play  of  the  story  of  the  nativity 
and  all  members  of  the  family  present 
Christmas  customs  of  other  lands, 
e.g.,  the  pinata  from  Mexico  (made 
from  a  paper  sack  decorated  with 
white  crepe  paper  to  resemble  a  goose 
stuffed  with  candies  and  trinkets); 
the  wooden  shoes  from  Holland,  filled 
with  carrots  and  straw  for  St.  Nich- 
olas' reindeer. 

B.  Special  Events.  Baptism,  confirmation. 
Priesthood  ordinations.  Primary  gradua- 
tion, calls  to  positions  of  leadership  in  any 
organization,  not  to  mention  birthdays — 
all  provide  opportunities  for  the  family  to 
pay  honor  to  a  loved  one  with  special 
activities  at  Family  Hour. 


C.  "Home  Protection  Exercises."  Spe- 
cifically as  outlined  in  the  pamphlet  "Home 
Protection  Exercises,"  a  family  action  pro- 
gram of  Civil  Defense,  is  a  wonderful 
chance  to  prepare  in  advance  for  all  types 
of  emergencies  in  the  home.  Fire  and 
safety  measures  are  planned  and  practiced 
so  each  member  of  the  family  understands 
his  own  part.  John  gives  a  demonstration 
in  First  Aid,  David  talks  about  fire  pre- 
vention and  rules  of  firemanship,  Carol  and 
Nancy  plan  home  safety  measures,  and  all 
members  participate  in  a  fire  drill.  An 
evening  such  as  this  gives  children  a  sense 
of  security  and  ability  to  assume  responsi- 
bility in  an  emergency,  even  if  the  parents 
are  absent  when  the  emergency  strikes. 

D.  Evenings  spent  in  practicing  the 
rules  of  common  courtesy  and  good  man- 
ners can  be  most  profitable.  Small  children 
can  be  taught  the  proper  way  to  answer 
the  telephone,  greet  callers,  answer  the 
door,  observe  table  manners;  all  benefit  by 
practicing  manners  in  speech,  introductions, 
behavior  in  church,  public  places,  dining 
out,  asking  for  a  date,  etc.  These  lessons 
take  on  added  significance  and  thought- 
fulness  and  go  a  long  way  in  instilhng  the 
social  graces  in  our  children,  all  done  in 
a  spirit  of  good  fun  and  comradeship. 

E.  Family  scrapbooks,  diaries,  gene- 
alogy records,  and  family  histories  all  pro- 
vide ideal  activities  for  family  members. 
At  the  age  of  twelve,  each  child  is  given 
his  own  Book  of  Remembrance  and  en- 
couraged to  complete  the  charts  and  his- 
tories. 

F.  Many  pleasant  family  hours  can  be 
spent  in  enjoying  nature's  beautiful  facets 
— profitable  hours  can  be  spent  in  nature 
rambles,  visits  to  exhibits,  working  on 
scrapbooks,  collections,  conservation  proj- 
ects, etc. 

G.  Current  magazine  articles  have  been 
the  inspiration  for  many  Family  Hours. 
For  example,  articles  on  physical  fitness, 
accident  prevention,  world  affairs  and 
problems  in  understanding  and  hving  with 
our  neighbors,  all  contribute  themes  for 
Family  Hour.  Teenagers  especially  might 
appreciate  a  Family  Hour  spent  in  discuss- 
ing responsibilities  of  driving  a  car,  traffic 
rules   and   regulations  as   outlined   in   the 


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Photograph  by  Bob  Stum 
Courtesy  The  Instructor 


THE  MONROE  J.  PAXMAN  FAMILY 

At  the  left:  Shirley  B.  Paxman.  Standing  at  the  left:  Monroe  J.  Paxman,  holding 
Mary  Beth  (three).  Seated  at  the  table,  left  to  right:  Nancy  (nine);  David  (Ten);  John 
(thirteen);  Carolyn  (eleven);  Annette  (five).    Not  in  the  picture:  Susan  (one). 


Drivers*  Handbook  (State  Department  of 
Public  Safety ) .  Even  small  children  could 
participate  by  building  a  highway  system 
on  the  living  room  floor  and  with  model 
cars  illustrate  the  various  rules  of  traffic 
and  what  the  road  signs  mean. 

H.  Group  studies  for  older  children 
might  include  world  cultures  (an  excellent 
monthly  program  is  published  by  Ameri- 
can Geographical  Society,  Dept.  T.  1-4 
Garden  City,  N.  Y.);  a  nature  program 
(Audubon  Nature  Program,  Dept.  1  M-3, 
Garden  City,  N.Y.);  Great  Men  and  Great 
Issues  in  an  American  Heritage  (Ford 
Foundation  Publication);  famous  artists 
and  their  works;  famous  musicians  and 
their  works;  biographies;  the  Bible  and 
Book  of  Mormon  studies;  standard  works 
of  the   Church;  and   Church   writings   by 


outstanding    men    and    women     in    the 
Church. 

I.  The  ChiJdren's  Friend  and  other 
Church  publications  provide  wonderful 
Family  Hour  programs,  especially  suitable 
for  Latter-day  Saint  families  striving  to 
rear  their  children  in  keeping  with  gos- 
pel standards. 

J.  Hobby  night  can  be  one  of  the 
most  rewarding  Family  Hours  of  all.  De- 
lightful time  can  be  spent  together  work- 
ing on  the  hobbies  of  individual  members 
or  the  entire  family.  Collections  of  all 
kinds  add  knowledge  and  rich  rewards  to 
those  who  enjoy  this  field.  Notable 
among  these  are  coin,  stamps,  rocks  and 
mineral,  shells,  china,  rare  books,  records, 
insects,    dolls,    souvenirs,   autographs,   fos- 


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sils,  buttons.  Arts  and  crafts  also  lend 
enrichment  to  the  family  in  painting, 
writing,  storytelling,  music,  photography, 
gardening,  radio,  miniature  trains,  as  do 
physical  hobbies  the  entire  family  can  en- 
joy such  as  swimming,  hiking,  skiing, 
boating,  baseball,  dancing,  skating,  and 
horseback  riding. 

K.  Family  game  night  is  a  fun  and 
lively  affair  with  the  assistance  of  a  home- 
made game  chest.  Ours  is  made  from  an 
old  discarded  suitcase  lined  with  bright 
plastic  and  containing  the  equipment  for 
hundreds  of  games  for  two  to  fifty  play- 
ers. All  the  equipment  is  home  gathered 
— a  bottle  of  beans,  ball  of  twine,  whistle, 
box  of  matches  (with  tips  removed),  scrap 
paper,  pencil,  tennis  ball,  ping-pong  balls, 
balloons,  alphabet  cards,  number  cards, 
pins,  crayons,  marbles.  Rook  cards,  rubber 
jar  rings,  two  empty  pop  bottles,  small 
paper  plates,  dowel  sticks,  two  bean  bags, 
cardboard  separators  from  egg  cases,  two 
metal  jar  rings,  a  collection  of  quizzes  cut 
from  magazines  mounted  on  cards  with 
answers  on  the  back,  and  a  good  game 
book  (one  of  the  best  is  Recreation  Lead- 
ers Handbook,  published  by  Utah  State 
University,  Logan,  Utah,  loc). 

L.  Having  fun  with  puppets  is  in  great 
demand  at  our  home  for  our  Family 
Hour.  Here  is  the  ideal  activity  for  all 
members  of  the  family  to  work  on  to- 
gether. Our  favorites  are  simple  shadow 
puppets  with  a  cardboard  box  stage. 
Figures  of  nursery  rhymes,  nursery  songs, 
short  stories  and  legends,  cut  out  of  heavy 
paper  and  mounted  on  thin  sticks,  are 
manipulated  by  the  three  to  five-year-olds 
with  ease.  The  entire  family  join  in  sing- 
ing the  simple  songs,  while  the  action 
takes  place.  Stick  puppets  are  next,  also 
performed  in  a  grocery  carton.  Cardboard 
figures  of  the  Bible  stories.  Book  of  Mor- 
mon characters,  fairy  tales,  make  wonder- 
ful actors  when  mounted  on  sticks  or 
pencils.  Simple  sock  puppets  and  hand 
puppets  attract  the  entire  family  as  chil- 
dren of  all  ages  put  on  the  little  plays 
they  have  written  themselves  or  adapted 
from  well-known  stories.  A  simple  pup- 
pet theatre  made  by  Dad  and  the  boys 
from  four  orange  crates  is  made  attractive 
with  scenery  and  draperies  made  by  the 
girls   with    Mother's   assistance.      A    truly 


rewarding  program  includes  all  members 
of  the  family  in  this  wonderful  world  of 
"make  beheve"  and  play  acting! 

M.  Adventuring  with  books  is  the  key 
that  opens  the  door  to  a  magic  childhood. 
Reading  aloud  together  is  for  all  ages,  the 
youngest  and  the  oldest,  the  whole  family 
or  a  portion  of  it,  and  the  really  great 
books  should  be  shared  with  all  members 
of  the  family.  Family  Hour  can  be  the 
magic  hour  of  storytelling. 

Of  course,  the  Bible  is  the  greatest  book 
of  all,  and  rich  indeed  is  the  family  who 
knows  it  intimately.  Where  else  can  we 
find  a  story  teller  to  match  Jesus,  the 
incomparable?  And  storytelling  from  the 
Bible  takes  on  vividness  when  used  in 
the  home  as  the  basis  for  simple  acting 
out  of  Bible  narratives,  or  by  using  vari- 
ous visual  aids  such  as  the  flannel  board 
and  groove  board.  Bible  and  Book  of 
Mormon  characters  often  found  in  the 
Instructor  and  Children's  Friend  are  ideal 
for  this  type  of  storytelling.  Old  religious 
calendars  provide  an  inexpensive  way  to 
collect  Old  and  New  Testament  pictures 
to  illustrate  Bible  stories.  Many  excellent 
books  have  been  written  for  children  about 
the  Bible,  Book  of  Mormon,  pioneers. 
Church  history,  all  of  which  contain  ma- 
terial for  Latter-day  Saint  family  reading. 
An  introduction  to  the  classics  in  litera- 
ture will  greatly  enrich  any  child's  life, 
if  presented  in  the  warmth  and  under- 
standing of  the  family  circle.  Family 
experiences  and  biographies  of  family 
members,  missionary  experiences,  Indian 
stories,  and  emigration  stories  also  provide 
storytelling  material. 

N.  Music  in  the  home  is  of  vital  im- 
portance and  the  Family  Hour  can  be  the 
culmination  of  talents  and  interest  in  this 
delightful  medium — who  doesn't  like  to 
sing?  Just  a  good  family  song-fest  from 
"Here's  a  Ball  for  Baby"  to  part  singing 
of  loved  and  familiar  songs  is  a  wonder- 
ful way  to  spend  an  hour  at  home.  Chil- 
dren should  be  encouraged  to  lead  the 
singing  and  also  to  teach  new  songs  to 
the  group.  Many  special  Primary,  Sunday 
School,  M.I. A.,  and  Rehef  Society  songs 
can  be  taught  to  the  entire  family  for 
all  to  enjoy.  Folk  songs  and  ballads,  as 
well  as  songs  of  other  nations,  all  have 
universal    appeal.      Dramatic    songs    and 


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action    songs    add    lively    interest    to    the 
family  "sing." 

Listening  to  recordings  of  great  sym- 
phonies and  artists  can  be  a  rich  experi- 
ence, and  the  benefits  to  be  enjoyed  are 
numerous.  For  example,  plan  a  Family 
Hour  centered  around  an  opera,  and  aim  to 
read  the  story  beforehand  and  acquaint 
all  members  of  the  family  with  it.  Study 
the  hfe  of  the  composer  and  then  hsten 
and  seek  to  capture  the  emotional  charac- 
ter of  the  music.  Listening  to  a  symphony 
orchestra  becomes  a  fruitful  delight, 
if  you  observe  the  music  played,  learn 
the  background  of  the  composer  and  the 
composition,  note  how  the  orchestra  is 
divided  into  groups  of  instruments,  and 
learn  to  identify  the  solo  parts. 

O.  Drama  in  the  home,  expressed  in 
simple  charades,  or  dressing  up  and  acting 
out  favorite  nursery  tales  can  provide  many 
pleasant  "family  hours."  Play  acting  is 
natural  to  young  children,  but  play  read- 
ing is  a  form  of  entertainment  often  neg- 
lected in  families.  Borrow  the  M.LA. 
Book  of  Plays  or  get  a  good  book  of  one- 
act  plays  from  the  library.  One  member 
of  the  family  might  read  aloud  or  let  each 
read  his  own  part.  Skits  and  stunts  will 
create  a  feeling  of  fun  and  good  will 
when  all  family  members  join  in  the 
performance. 

P.  The  simplest  of  all  dance  action  is 
portrayed  in  the  little  singing  games  com- 
mon to  children.  Most  homes  can  push 
the  chairs  back  and  make  room  for  this 
type  of  delightful  activity.  One  Family 
Hour  evening  could  be  spent  in  which  the 
children  might  enjoy  folk  dances  and 
singing  games.  It  may  be  spent  in  teach- 
ing family  members  to  foxtrot,  waltz, 
tango,  etc.,  and  nothing  is  more  spirited 
and  heartwarming  than  the  revival  of 
square  and  round  dancing.  The  older 
members  could  profitably  teach  the  young- 
er some  of  the  old-fashioned  dances,  and 
the  younger  generation  could  take  pride 
in  reciprocating  by  teaching  Mom  and 
Dad  some  of  the  modern  dances.  The 
fine  dance  music  now  recorded  makes  the 
phonograph  serviceable  for  social  dancing 
in  the  home  where  there  are  older  chil- 
dren. 


npHE  Family  Hour  spent  away 
from  home  can  add  much  inter- 
est and  diversion  to  the  regular 
home  program.  The  choices  are  un- 
limited. Visits  to  art  exhibits,  the 
library,  radio  station,  newspaper 
plant,  poultry  farm,  sugar  factory, 
soft  drink  bottling  plant,  potato  chip 
factory,  observatory,  museum,  or  a 
picnic  in  the  park  take  on  a  new 
interest  when  all  the  family  join  in. 
Attendance  at  a  symphony  concert, 
ballet,  stage  play  or  recital  rate  high 
on  our  preference  list.  Every  com- 
munity has  places  of  special  interest, 
if  we  but  utilize  them.  A  short  ride 
on  a  train,  airplane,  or  a  sightseeing 
tour  on  a  bus  could  be  most  en- 
lightening. Use  all  the  facilities  at 
hand.  The  local  universities  abound 
in  interesting  exhibits  in  entomol- 
ogy, biology,  and  archaeology.  En- 
courage your  family  to  take  advan- 
tage of  these  opportunities  to  spend 
a  delightful  Family  Hour  away  from 
home. 

For  many  years  the  Latter-day 
Saints  Church  has  advocated  the 
Family  Hour  or  home  evening.  As 
early  as  1915,  President  Joseph  F. 
Smith  made  this  wonderful  promise 
to  those  who  follow  the  practice  of 
getting  the  family  members  together 
for  an  evening: 

If  the  Saints  obey  this  counsel,  we 
promise  that  great  blessings  will  result. 
Love  at  home  and  obedience  to  parents 
will  increase.  Faith  will  be  developed  in 
the  hearts  of  the  youth  of  Israel,  and  they 
will  gain  power  to  combat  the  evil  in- 
fluences and  temptations  that  beset  them. 

What  more  wonderful  reward 
could  be  gained  from  such  a  joyful 
program  as  the  Family  Hour! 


Qjhe  Southwest  SJ^ndian    1 1  ii 


ission 


F lesion  R.  Nihley 
Assistant  Church  Historian 

npHE  Southwest  Indian  Mission  is  an  outgrowth  of  the  Navajo-Zuni  Indian 
Mission.  The  Navajo-Zuni  Indian  Mission  was  formed  in  February 
1943,  with  Elder  Ralph  W.  Evans  of  Shiprock,  New  Mexico,  as  the  first 
president.  A  few  missionaries  were  sent  to  assist  President  Evans,  and  for 
four  years  the  work  of  proselyting  was  carried  on  in  a  rather  limited  manner, 
with  the  Evans  home  in  Shiprock  serving  as  the  mission  headquarters. 

In  July  1947,  President  Evans  was  released  and  Elder  S.  Eugene  Flake 
was  appointed  in  his  place.  At  the  same  time  the  mission  headquarters  was 
moved  to  Gallup,  New  Mexico.  In  December  1948,  the  name  of  the  mis- 
sion was  changed  to  the  Southwest  Indian  Mission,  and  the  work  was  ex- 
tended to  include  all  of  the  Indian  tribes  in  Arizona  and  New  Mexico,  to- 
gether with  the  Duckwater  Indians  of  Nevada  and  those  inhabiting  the 
southern  part  of  San  Juan  County,  Utah. 

President  Flake  was  released  in  March  1951,  and  Elder  Golden  R. 


Mullarky  Photo  Studios 

Photograph  submitted  by  Lavena  L.  Rohner 


PUEBLO  INDIAN  WOMAN  DECORATING  POTTERY 


Page  650 


THE  SOUTHWEST  INDIAN  MISSION 


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Mullarky  Photo  Studios 

Photograph  submitted  by  Lavena  L.  Rohner 


NAVAJO  FAMILY  IN  FRONT  OF  HOGAN 


Buchanan  was  appointed  to  succeed  him.  President  Buchanan  served  until 
April  1955,  when  he  was  succeeded  by  Elder  Alfred  E.  Rohner,  who  pre- 
sides at  the  present  time. 

The  work  of  proselyting  among  the  Indians  of  the  Southwest  grew 
slowly  in  the  beginning.  In  April  1944,  the  entire  membership  of  the  mis- 
sion was  reported  as  numbering  forty-three,  located  in  two  organized 
branches.  On  February  20,  1944,  the  first  mission  Relief  Society  was 
organized  at  Toadlena,  New  Mexico,  and  on  February  27th  of  the  same 
year,  the  mission  record  relates  that  "a.  Sunday  School  and  a  Primary  have 
been  organized  and  the  children  seem  to  be  very  interested  in  these  two 
auxiliary  organizations  of  the  Church." 

Today  there  are  6,091  members  of  the  Church  in  the  Southwest  Indian 
Mission,  located  in  ten  branches.  On  June  30,  1957,  there  were  105  mission- 
aries in  the  mission  and  converts  baptized  since  the  first  of  the  year  num- 
bered 104.  Sixteen  Relief  Society  organizations,  with  a  total  of  190 
members,  were  reported  in  December  1956.  Lavena  L.  Rohner  presides 
over  the  Southwest  Indian  Mission  Relief  Society. 


Note:  The  cover  for  this  Magazine,  'Tueblo  at  Taos,  New  Mexico,"  represents 
architecture  typical  of  that  region.  See  also  "Recipes  From  the  Southwest  Indian 
Mission,"  by  Lavena  L.  Rohner,  page  665. 


Trespassing  Trio 


Frances  C.  Yost 


MARVA  Owens  peered  appre- 
hensively out  of  her  kitchen 
window.  'The  children  are 
gone!''  She  chided,  ''Why  can't 
they  play  in  their  own  backyard?" 

Marva  experienced  a  chill,  think- 
ing of  troubles  she  had  had  in  other 
neighborhoods,  when  the  little  boys 
had  wandered  off  their  premises.  She 
and  Garth  had  put  every  penny  they 
had  on  a  down  payment  on  this 
home.  She  didn't  want  to  start  out 
first  thing  having  troubles  with 
neighbors. 

"Less  than  a  week  in  a  new 
neighborhood,  and  this  has  to  hap- 
pen to  me,"  Marva  murmured,  tak- 
ing off  her  apron,  and  running  her 
hand  over  her  hair  to  smooth  it. 
As  she  slammed  the  door,  almost 
childishly  behind  her,  she  mut- 
tered: "If  mothers  could  only  put 
growing  boys  on  a  leash!" 

Outside,  Marva  hesitated.  Where 
does  one  look  for  children  in  a  new 
neighborhood?  Well,  she  might  as 
well  try  first  neighbors  first.  The 
Reynolds  lived  next  door.  Garth 
had  called  him  Judge  Reynolds.  If 
the  boys  were  pestering  a  judge,  no 
telling  what  might  happen. 

Should  she  go  to  the  front  door 
as  a  caller,  or  walk  uninvited  into 
the  garden  gate  at  the  rear,  and 
snoop  like  a  bird  dog  for  her  chil- 
dren? "If  I  were  making  a  call,  I 
would  dress  for  the  occasion."  She 
bit  her  lip.  "This  is  an  emergency, 
I'll  use  the  rear  entrance." 

She  hurried,  thinking  of  the  sup- 
per preparation  time  she  was  con- 
suming. 

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Marva  Owens  swung  open  the 
Reynolds'  garden  gate,  and  her 
heart  stopped  at  the  enchantment 
which  lay  before  her.  The  yard 
swept  green  and  trim  as  a  carpet, 
flanked  with  evergreens,  flower  beds, 
and  climbing  roses  on  the  high 
fence.  Marva  thought  of  their  own 
barren  yard  encircling  their  newly 
built  home. 

"Can  we  ever  hope  to  have  a  yard 
like  this?"  she  sighed. 

"Of  course  you  can,"  a  masculine 
voice  answered.  "It  just  takes  a  few 
callouses  on  the  knees  and  time  to 
grow."  He  chuckled  softly,  then 
added  hospitably,  "Come  in  and  I'll 
show  you  around." 

The  man  stood  up  from  the  flower 
bed  he  was  weeding  and  brushed 
his  knees  off.  He  was  an  old  man; 
time  and  trouble  had  etched  his 
face. 

"But  I  don't  want  to  disturb  you 
from  your  work,  I  was  just  wonder- 
ing. .  .  ."  Marva  started  to  ask  if 
he  had  seen  three  little  boys,  but 
was  stopped  short. 

"I'm  always  glad  to  leave  a  weed 
to  grow  awhile  and  show  someone 
around.  No  trouble  at  all.  No 
trouble  at  all."  Then  he  added,  "I 
suppose  you're  Mrs.  Owens,  the  new 
neighbor  next  door.  I'm  glad  to 
make  your  acquaintance."  He  ex- 
tended his  hand,  then  apologetically 
drew  it  back  laughingly.  "I'll  take 
a  rain  check  on  the  handshake  when 
my  hands  are  more  presentable." 

Marva  eyed  the  old  man.  Was 
he  a  gardener,  or  was  this  the  Judge 
Reynolds?     His  gnarled  hands  and 


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soiled  clothing  had  the  touch  of  the  sitting     quiet     as     cherubs.     They 

gardener,  but  his   speech,  his  fine  haven't  batted  an  eyelid  for  five  min- 

manners?    Marva  wondered,  but  not  utes." 

for  long.     It  didn't  matter  whether  Marva  followed  the  gaze  of  the 

he  was  a  judge  or  a  chimney  sweep,  children.     There,   centered   in   the 

the  problem  at  hand  now  was  to  little  garden,  was  a  fountain,  and  a 

find  her  boys,  and  get  them  home,  bluebird,  unaware  of  five  bird  watch- 

'Tll  show  you  around  the  garden,  ers,  was  taking  a  bath. 

Mrs.  Owens."     The  man  with  the  The  man  with  the  hpe  motioned 

hoe  extended  his  arm  hospitably.  for  Marva  to  accompany  him  to  a 

nearby   bench   carved   from   a   log, 

jyjARVA  felt  a  degree  of  despera-  ^^d  they  sat  down  together.     The 

tion.     If  the  boys   were  not  hoe  was  used  as  an  arm  rest,  or  as 

here   she   should   be   looking   else-  a  pointer,  or  just  flourished  for  em- 

where.     "Fm  looking  for  my  three  phasis,  as  he  pointed  out  places  of 

little  boys.     They've  strayed  from  interest  in  the  garden. 

the  yard,  and.  .  .  ."  -j   told    the  boys   to   enjoy   the 

"No  need  to  worry  about  those  garden,  and  after  the  sun  starts  to 
three,"    the    man    with    the    hoe  sink,  we'll  watch  the  evening  prim- 
chuckled.    "If  one  boy  tumbles  into  roses  open.    You  must  stay  for  that 
a  pond  of  water,  the  other  two  will  also,"  the  man  with  the  hoe  said, 
fish  him  out."    He  laughed  heartily 

and  pounded  the  hoe  he  was  leaning  lyf  ARVA  realized  that  she  had  re- 
on.  "Now  this,"  he  explained,  wav-  laxed,  knowing  now  where  the 
ing  the  hoe  over  a  large  expanse  of  boys  were.  In  her  mind  she  re- 
grass  flanked  by  shrubs  and  sprin-  planned  the  supper.  The  whole 
kled  lavishly  with  diamond-shaped  family  loved  soup.  She  could  cook 
flower  beds,  "is  the  center  field."  the   roast  with  potatoes   tomorrow 

To  Marva,  hungry  for  landscap-  evening.  And  there  was  the  cake 
ing  which  their  new  home  needed  she  had  made  and  the  ice  cream  in 
so  much,  this  seemed  like  paradise,  the  deep  freeze. 
Her  eyes  followed  the  smooth,  lush  The  beauty  of  the  place,  the  cool 
lawn  which  sloped  down  to  the  lily  of  the  late  afternoon,  and  the  entire 
pond,  and  below  it  to  the  long  ter-  enchantment  seemed  to  engulf  her. 
race  covered  with  blooming  roses.  She  replied,  "I  would  love  to  see 
Marva  noted  several  sorts  of  bridle  an  evening  primrose  open.  I  don't 
paths  taking  off,  as  if  leading  to  recall  ever  seeing  a  primrose."  Mar- 
secret  nooks  and  enchanted  places,  va  felt  a  tinge  of  guilt  at  her  ignor- 

The  man  with  the  hoe,  be  he  ance  of  flowers  in  general, 

gardener  or   judge,  was  motioning  "Few  people  have  seen  an  eve- 

her  to   follow  him,  and  with   the  ning  primrose.  It's  a  miracle  before 

other  hand,  had  given  a  silence  sign  your  eyes  as  it  opens,"  the  man  with 

over  his  lips.     Marva  followed   si-  the  hoe  explained, 

lently,  and  looked  over  the  hedge  Just  then   three  boys  scampered 

into  another,  but  smaller  garden.  through  the  hedge  gate,  and,  pass- 

"See,"  said  the  man  with  the  hoe,  ing  Marva  sitting  on  the  log  bench, 

"there  are  your  three  little  urchins,  shouted  simultaneously,  "Mother!" 


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RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— OCTOBER  1957 


"We  saw  a  bird  take  a  bath!'' 
Tommy  chirped. 

"We've  been  playing  in  the  bow- 
ery!" Charley  explained. 

"And  we  haven't  hurt  a  thing!" 
Marty,  the  elder,  reported.  "Oh, 
hello,  Judge  Reynolds!"  Marty 
said,  as  the  man  with  the  hoe  came 
up  and  sat  down  again  by  his  moth- 
er on  the  log  bench. 

Well,  sighed  Marva  secretly,  at 
least  I  know  that  he  is  the  Judge, 
not  a  gardener. 

"You  boys  are  just  in  time  for 
the  blooming,"  the  Judge  stated 
kindly,  looking  at  his  watch  and 
then  at  the  sun  sinking  behind  the 
western  mountains.  "Let's  go  into 
the  primrose  garden." 

"Yes,"  cried  the  three  boys,  with 
childish  excitement,  "let's  go  into 
the  primrose  garden." 

"After  Judge  Reynolds,"  Marva 
said. 

The  boys  stepped  back  to  let  the 
two  grownups  lead  the  way. 

"During  the  day,"  Judge  Rey- 
nolds explained,  "the  buds  of  the 
primrose  are  rolled  tightly.  They 
look  sort  of  like  light,  orange-colored 
tissue  paper  pinched  in  little  screw 
knobs.  But  when  the  sun  goes 
down,  the  buds  start  slowly  unroll- 
ing. Here's  the  bush!"  Judge  Rey- 
nolds said,  stopping  before  a  gray 
drab  plant  which  stood  slightly  high- 
er than  his  knees.  "Looks  as  if  we 
hit  it  just  right!" 

npHERE  was  complete  silence 
among  the  children  and  the 
two  adults,  as  they  watched  the 
miracle  take  place  before  them.  The 
primrose  bush,  with  its  tiny,  pinched 
buds,  as  Judge  Reynolds  had  said, 
was  a  rather  drab  shrub.  Then,  as 
they  watched,  the  buds  started  to 


unroll  slowly.  Each  bud  gave  a 
sort  of  trembling  in  an  effort  to  un- 
fold at  the  proper  time,  and  in  its 
own  miraculous  way.  Everyone 
sensed  a  slight  pop,  and  before  their 
eyes  each  bloom  burst  forth  larger 
than  a  silver  dollar,  like  golden  show- 
ers. The  once  drab  shrub  now  stood 
in  golden  glory. 

"I've  never  seen  anything  so 
beautiful!"  Marva  Owens  exclaimed. 
She  bent  to  look  at  the  beautiful 
waxy  leaves  of  blossoms  which  were 
full  of  pollen.  No  sooner  had  the 
blossoms  opened  than  moths  the 
size  of  humming  birds  started  suck- 
ing pollen  from  the  flowers.  At 
the  sight  of  the  moths,  the  boys 
were  more  excited  than  ever. 

"See,  Mother,  why  we  like  to 
come  to  Judge  Reynolds'  garden!" 
the  boys  explained.  '7^^g^  ^^Y' 
nolds  likes  us  to  come  and  enjoy 
the  garden.  Don't  you,  Judge 
Reynolds?" 

"I  surely  do,  boys,"  the  Judge 
replied,  in  all  sincerity. 

Marva  looked  at  him  and  won- 
dered about  this  man  and  his  gen- 
erosity. Then,  turning  to  the  boys, 
she  said,  "But  not  too  often.  We 
don't  want  to  wear  out  our  wel- 
come, and  wear  out  Judge  Reynolds, 
or  his  garden."  She  smiled  toward 
the  Judge. 

"You  boys  scamper  down  and 
watch  the  monkey  do  his  tricks," 
the  Judge  said.  "I  think  you'll  find 
some  peanuts  in  the  cupboard.  Each 
boy  can  have  five  to  eat  himself  and 
five  to  feed  the  monkey." 

They  watched  the  boys  until  they 
were  out  of  sight,  then  Marva 
Owens  spoke,  "I've  lived  in  other 
neighborhoods  and  children  are, 
well  .  .  .  people  put  up  the  no- 
trespassing  sign,  and  enforce  it.  But 


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655 


you,  you  seem  to  welcome  children! 
It's  most  unusual,  Judge  Reynolds." 

''It  is  unusual.  I  haven't  always 
been  this  way,"  Judge  Reynolds  con- 
fided. 

'Tears  ago,  Mrs.  Owens,  I  used 
to  yell  at  the  children  to  stay  out. 
We  didn't  have  any  children  of  our 
own,  and  I  .  .  .  and  we  sort  of 
wanted  to  keep  the  place  looking 
its  best.  But  the  yard  held  a  fasci- 
nation for  children  in  the  neighbor- 
hood, just  as  it  did  for  us.  They 
couldn't  leave  it  alone.  Every  time 
we  opened  the  back  door,  we  would 
see  children  jumping  over  the  hedge 
to  get  away  before  they  were  caught. 
The  hedge  was  always  bent  down, 
and  broken,  because  the  children 
were  afraid  to  come  through  the 
gate. 

'The  worst  little  fellow  to  run  all 
over  the  place  was  Joey.  Seemed 
this  little  tyke  was  braver  than  all 
the  others.  He  would  take  chances. 
I  can  see  him  so  vividly. .  .  ." 


growing  flowers  and  shrubs,  was 
worth  the  battle.  In  front  of  the 
Judge's  eyes,  with  the  rake  swinging 
overhead,  Joey  stopped  and  picked 
a  red  and  a  white  tulip.  Then  he 
said,  "Judge,  you  should  raise  blue 
ones  to  go  with  these." 


*     *      3*:     5!« 


*      *      *     Jit 


^^nPHERE'S  that  little  demon  of 
a  Joey  in  the  yard  again." 
Judge  Reynolds  picked  up  the  rake 
he  was  using,  and  shook  it  in  Joey's 
direction. 

Joey  was  wearing  patches.  Maybe 
they  were  the  best  he  had,  maybe  he 
was  extra  hard  on  clothes.  Judge 
Reynolds  had  never  tried  to  find 
out.  All  he  had  ever  felt  for  Joey 
was  a  desire  to  be  rid  of  him. 

"Off  the  place!"  Judge  Reynolds 
shouted,  swinging  the  rake  high 
above  his  head. 

Joey  gave  a  sort  of  appealing,  yet 
pathetic  smile,  as  if  trying  to  be 
friends.  He  didn't  seem  afraid  of 
the  swinging  rake;  it  was  as  if  being 
in  this  paradise  of  a  garden,  with 


The  Judge's  voice,  a  bit  shaky 
with  remorse,  continued:  '7^^y 
didn't  come  back  much  after  that. 
Guess  he  knew  he  wasn't  wanted." 
Judge  Reynolds  took  a  clean  hand- 
kerchief from  his  pocket  and  blew 
his  nose,  then  continued.  "World 
War  II  came  along,  and  before  it 
was  over,  Joey  and  most  of  the  other 
young  ones  who  had  romped  around 
the  neighborhood  were  called  to 
serve. 

"One  day,  on  the  front  page  of 
our  town  newspaper,  there  was  a  pic- 
ture of  Joey,  and  a  story  telling  how 
he  had  died  on  the  battlefield.  It 
was  a  story  of  fight  and  bravery. 
I've  never  felt  quite  so  little  as  I 
did  that  day.  Joey  looked  at  me 
from  the  newspaper,  with  those 
same  appealing,  pathetic  eyes.  He 
hadn't  really  done  me  any  harm. 
Believe  me,  I  felt  more  than  a 
twinge  of  guilt.  I  would  have  given 
my  very  life  to  have  had  that  little 
boy  in  my  yard  again,  a  chance  to 
treat  him  like  a  human  being,  and 
not  a  scapegoat." 

The  Judge  lowered  his  eyes  for  a 
moment,  but  when  he  looked  up, 
it  was  a  smile  he  was  wearing.  It 
somehow  reminded  Marva  of  the 
sun  coming  out  after  a  shower. 

"Well,  Mrs.  Owens,  that's  the 
day  I  quit  pushing  children  around 
and  started  acting  like  a  human  be- 
ing. There's  never  been  a  child 
since  Joey  who  wasn't  welcome  here. 


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And  you  know,  since  I  quit  chasing 
them  out,  they  haven't  broken  the 
hedge  or  worn  the  grass  out  in 
streaks  in  an  effort  to  get  away  with- 
out being  caught.  And  they  know, 
now,  which  flowers  are  to  pick  and 
which  are  for  show.  I've  proved  to 
myself  that  flowers  and  children  do 
mix." 

'T^HE  Judge  arose  from  the  log 
bench  and,  taking  Marva's 
arm,  said,  ''Come,  I  want  to  show 
you  my  favorite  flower  bed." 

Judge  Reynolds  led  Marva 
through  the  hedge  gate  into  a  gar- 
den on  the  east. 

As  they  walked  along,  the  Judge 
explained,  ''You  remember  I  told 
you  about  Joey  picking  a  red  and  a 
white  tulip  and  saying  I  should  raise 
blue  tulips,  too.  It's  taken  years  to 
perfect  a  blue  tulip.  Burbank  and 
I  have  worked  hard  in  our  green- 
houses to  grow  a  true  blue  one.  I 
keep  growing  bulbs  in  the  green- 
house all  summer  so  that  I  can  have 
tulips  of  the  bravest  red,  the  most 
loyal  blue,  and  the  purest  white,  for 
this  special  flower  bed.    I  want  you 


to  read  the  inscription  here  in  front 
of  the  flower  bed  before  you  look  at 
it." 

Judge  Reynolds  pointed  to  a 
plaque  flush  with  the  green  grass, 
and  Marva  read  the  inscription 
aloud:  "In  memory  of  Joey,  who 
loved  flowers,  especially  tulips,  who 
loved  America,  and  loved  to  come 
here." 

Marva  looked  up  from  the  in- 
scription, and  her  gaze  fell  on  the 
large  rectangle  flower  bed  sloping 
on  the  hillside.  The  red  and  white 
tulips  stood  straight  and  brave  in 
their  ribbon  rows,  like  streamers  in 
the  sun.  Forty-eight  white  tulips, 
like  stars  in  the  blue  field,  stood  out, 
all  to  form  the  most  glorious 
American  flag  Marva  had  ever  seen. 

"It's  too  beautiful  for  words,"  she 
murmured. 

The  judge  nodded  agreement, 
then  said,  "And  that's  why  boys,  all 
boys,  are  welcome  in  my  garden. 
That's  why  it  isn't  strange  that  your 
little  fellows  will  never  be  consid- 
ered a  trespassing  trio  on  my  prem- 
ises." 


njiftermath 

Gene  Komolo 

Although  no  longer  heard  is  summer's  tread, 
And  each,  once  lovely  briered  bush  has  shed 
Its  petaled  beauty,  there  still  lingers  on 
A  perfumed  presence  from  the  roses  gone: 
Like  breath  from  incense  that  no  longer  burns, 
Its  transient  loveliness,  gathered  into  urns, 
Exudes  a  fragrant  scent,  the  winter  through. 
As  subtle  as  when  on  the  branch  it  grew. 


Naught  of  beauty  is  that  on  its  path 
Does  not  leave  for  us  an  aftermath. 


Let's  Visit  a  Desert  Sea 

Marf/ane  Morris 

CAN  you  imagine  a  place  to  centage  of  sunshine.  Eastward,  look- 
swim  where  there  isn't  any-  ing  like  melted  chocolate  ice  cream, 
thing  to  fear  in  the  way  of  are  the  Chocolate  Mountains, 
tides,  undercurrents,  or  sea  life.  North  are  the  Orocopias,  and  to  the 
where  a  swimmer  can  touch  bottom  west  and  south  the  Superstition 
in  many  places  one-fourth  mile  out,  Mountain,  where  hasty  travel  is  not 
or  splash  along  the  shore  without  advised.  Barren  of  water,  it  is  rich 
worry  of  hidden  holes,  and  where  in  tales  from  the  Indian  and  white 
the  only  surface  disturbance  is  alike  of  men  who  ventured  into  its 
caused  by  the  wind?  It  does  exist,  long,  low  formations  in  search  of 
although  visitors  coming  upon  the  gold  and  never  returned.  Today, 
Salton  Sea  suddenly  in  California's  the  Superstition  still  presents,  to 
Colorado  Desert,  suspect  a  mirage,  the  hardy  ones,  a  place  to  search  for 

Resembling  a  huge  footprint  with  adventure  and  interesting  minerals, 
the  toes  turned  slightly  westward.  You  could  say,  and  be  accurate, 
it  hes  233  feet  below  sea  level,  that  all  roads  in  California's  Colo- 
stretches  some  thirty-five  miles  be-  rado  Desert  lead  to  the  Salton  Sea. 
tween  Indio  on  the  north  and  From  Yuma,  Arizona,  it  is  U.  S.  80, 
Brawley  on  the  south.  Indirectly  from  San  Diego,  highways  80  and 
man-made,  ten  to  sixteen  miles  wide,  78,  and  from  Palm  Springs,  State 
shallow  for  several  hundred  yards  111.  If  you  are  approaching  this 
from  the  shore,  with  its  greatest  inland  sea  from  Blythe  on  U.  S. 
depth  around  forty  feet,  it  is  cradled  60-70,  then  junction  at  California 
in  two  of  southeastern  California's  State  highway  195  and  travel 
counties.  Riverside  and  the  fertile  through  Box  Canyon.  The  odd. 
Imperial.  almost  weird,   vertical  rock  forma- 

The  limits  of  the  sea  are  beyond  tions  rising  on  either  side  will  put 

your  sight.     Rising  majestically  to  you    in    the    mood    for   your    first 

the  northwest  are  the  San  Jacinto  glimpse   of  the   Salton   Sea.     This 

Mountains,     then     southwest    and  highway  leads  to  Mecca  and  then 

south  are  the  Vallecintos  and  the  branches  to  111  on  the  east  and  99 

Santa   Rosa   Range.    These   moun-  on    the   west    of    the    sea.      Either 

tains,  part  of  the  Peninsular  Range,  route,  or  a  loop  trip,  if  you  have 

like  huge  dams  shelter  the  Salton  time,  will  delight  your  tourist  heart 

Sea,  Coachella  and  Imperial  Valleys  and  senses. 

from  the  blistering  heat  of  the  des-  Standing  on  the  shores,  picnick- 

ert  and  the  storms  off  the  Pacific,  ing  in  one  of  several  excellent  loca- 

Shangri-la!      Other    mountains,    al-  tions    on    the   beaches,    swimming, 

though  not  as  spectacular  in  size,  boating,  fishing,  or  loafing  give  the 

ridge  the  sea  and  provide  color  and  average    visitor   little   awareness    of 

atmosphere  and  boost  the  high  per-  the   birth    of    this   gentle   body   of 

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Marijane  Morris 


THE  SALTON  SEA 


water.  There  is  nothing  to  suggest 
the  sea's  accidental  birth  amid  con- 
fusion and  desperation. 

ORIEFLY,  around  the  last  of  Aug- 
ust 1905,  the  salt-encrusted  de- 
pression known  as  the  Salton  Sink 
was  becoming  the  Salton  Sea.  The 
overflowing  Colorado  River,  through 
an  irrigation  break  below  Yuma,  be- 
gan moving  westward  instead  of 
south.  The  distance  from  Yuma 
to  the  Gulf  of  California  along  the 
general  course  of  the  Colorado  Riv- 
er is  about  seventy-five  miles.  The 
distance  to  the  Salton  Sea  is  not 
very  much  greater,  but  the  differ- 
ence in  elevation  between  the  gulf 
and  the  sea  is  something  like  280 
feet.  You  can  readily  understand 
the  crush  of  water  as  it  took  the 
steep,  easy  course  down  the  valley. 
Farmers  were  unable  to  stem  the 
river  even  with  dynamite.  They 
watched  helplessly  as  their  rich  farm 
land  became  cuts  and  chasms.  One 
channel  widened  to  800  feet.  Three 
times  the  main  line  of  the  Southern 
Pacific  Railway  was  moved.     Des- 


perate measures  were  used  to  turn 
the  advancing  water.  In  February 
1907,  the  mighty  Colorado  was  con- 
trolled and  again  flowed  into  the 
Gulf  of  California,  leaving  behind 
in  shimmering  sands  the  beautiful 
Salton  Sea. 

It  has  become  a  delightful  all- 
year  playground.  Water  from  the 
irrigating  ditches  of  the  Imperial 
Valley,  seepage,  rainfall,  and  water 
supplied  from  Mexico  through  the 
New  River  and  Alamo  River  assure 
the  sea's  future  despite  its  heavy  loss 
from  evaporation. 

The  mountains  surrounding  the 
Salton  Sea  are  an  amazing  treasure 
trove.  There  are  shells,  chalcedony, 
quartz,  calcite,  tourmaline,  garnet, 
serpentine,  obsidian,  mica,  petrified 
oysters,  and  for  those  who  wouldn't 
recognize  any  of  these  stones  were 
he  to  stumble  on  them,  there  are 
Indian  pottery  and  other  relics. 
Terraces  slightly  above  the  sea  level 
on  the  sides  of  the  basin  indicate 
that  there  was  formerly  present  in 
the  region  a  lake,  called  Lake  Ca- 
huilla   which   was    more   than    120 


LET'S  VISIT  A  DESERT  SEA 


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miles  long  and  thirty  miles  wide. 
It's  a  happy  hunting  ground  for 
collectors,  especially  along  the  old 
shore  lines  where  it  is  known  In- 
dians once  lived. 

POR  the  bird  watchers  some  200 
varieties  in  the  Salton  Sea  area 
have  been  recorded.  It  isn't  unusual 
from  September  on  to  see  killdeer, 
sandpipers,  egrets,  willets,  grebes, 
snipe,  teal,  pelicans,  and  seagulls. 

What  you  can  do  and  see  here 
is  limitless.  It  is  a  region  of  enchant- 
ment, wonderment,  color,  and  his- 
tory. There  are  Fig  Tree  John 
Springs  and  Agua  Dulce  on  the 
southwest  rim  of  the  Salton  Basin. 
It  doesn't  take  long  to  discover  Fig 
Tree  John  was  a  desert  character. 
He  was  proud  of  the  fact  that  he 
had  been  made  ''captain"  of  the 
Agua  Dulce  tribe. 

At  Coral  Reef,  even  an  amateur 
hunter,  if  he   is   sincere,   can   find 


pottery  and  small  shells,  and  at  the 
Obsidian  Buttes,  there  are  floating 
rocks  (ancient  lava  foam)  and  black 
glasslike  stones. 

As  the  saguaro  is  to  Arizona,  the 
magnolia  to  Mississippi,  the  orchid 
to  Hawaii,  the  Washingtonia  Palm 
is  at  home  in  the  Salton  Basin. 
Some  will  be  sixty  to  seventy  feet 
high.  Often  they  will  be  clustered 
around  water  seeps  in  little  can- 
yons, however,  the  water  may  not 
be  sweet,  as  the  palms  are  tolerant 
of  alkali.  They  produce  a  fruit, 
small,  black,  and  edible. 

Fluctuating,  evenly,  gently  in  the 
Colorado  Desert,  the  Salton  Sea  is 
a  charming  place  to  visit  and  a  rest- 
ful place  to  stay.  According  to 
Helen  Burns,  who  wrote  the  delight- 
ful Salton  Sea  Story,  the  visitor  will 
be  pleased,  and  satisfied.  He  will 
return  to  the  sea's  enchantment  and 
with  each  visit  to  the  place,  a  strong- 
er attachment  will  be  formed. 


How  the   (^iorii  and  the    Vl/ane 

Doiothy  J.  Roberts 


Now  is  the  maternal  brown  world  of  weeds 
Patient  along  the  margin  of  the  stream; 
Crowding  under  cover  of  the  sheds; 
Putting  to  creation's  use,  the  unplowed  rim 

Of  the  field,  green  life,  to  frost  and  young  seed  given, 
Rust  and  umber,  the  fading  mothers  lean 
Upon  the  breeze,  stiffened  into  haven. 
Until  each  cherished  infant  pentagon 

Of  wonder,  oval  son  or  silken  daughter, 

Each  minute  progeny  on  gossamer  wing, 

Has  left,  on  wind  or  wool,  to  find  a  future, 

Or  feed  some  flame-tipped  blackbird  and  his  song. 


Sixty    Ljears  ^/Lgo 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  October  i,  and  October  15,  1897 

''For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

A  WORKER  FOR  TEMPERANCE:  Miss  Belle  Kearney,  a  celebrated  teacher 
and  lecturer  and  a  great  favorite  with  the  public  wherever  she  has  spoken  both  in  Ameri- 
ca and  across  the  ocean,  recently  visited  Salt  Lake  City  and  spoke  in  the  Tabernacle  .  .  . 
and  here  as  elsewhere  she  was  received  with  great  favor.  Miss  Kearney  is  traveling 
under  the  auspices  of  the  Woman's  Christian  Temperance  Union.  .  .  .  She  is  a  young 
Southerner  from  Mississippi  with  a  pleasing  Southern  accent  and  an  easy,  graceful 
manner. 

— News  Note 

WOMAN  DOCTOR:  Dr.  Margaret  C.  Roberts  will  commence  her  next  class  in 
Obstetrics  and  Nursing  on  Monday,  October  11,  1897.  Reduction  in  tuition  to  ladies 
from  any  branch  of  the  Relief  Society.  .  .  .437  East,  Second  So.  Salt  Lake  City. 

— Advertisement 

UTAH  PIONEERS 

In  Memory  of  the  Jubilee 

.  .  .  The  all-ruling  Ancient  of  Days, 
Who,  guiding  above,  gave  the  pioneers  rest. 
Whose  banner  is  love,  will  bless  and  hath  blest — 
Still  sing  to  Him  anthems  of  praise! 
God  wrought  wondrous  things  for  them  and  for  thee — 
Tell  the  proud  story  o'er  mountain  and  sea. 
How  the  jubilant  throng  moved  to  music  along. 
With  triumphant  song.  — Hallelujah!  Jubilee! 
— Orielle  Curtis 

WOMEN  OF  AMERICA:  The  time  has  come  when  idle  women  .  .  .  shall  be 
looked  upon  with  scorn.  She  must  henceforth  be  a  self-sustaining  helpmate  to  her 
husband,  and  his  elevated,  worthy,  respectable  companion.  Let  us  pledge  ourselves 
as  mothers,  sisters  and  wives  in  this  most  promising  nation  of  the  world  that  we  will 
unite  in  the  cause  of  progress  and  liberty,  that  we  may  not  only  emulate  the  examples 
of  our  foremothers  but  that  we  may  do  our  little  to  immortalize  the  closing  years 
of  this  great  century  as  the  golden  age  of  womanhood. 

— Emily  Ray 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONFERENCE  AT  CANESVILLE:  President  Jane  S. 
Coleman  said  it  afforded  her  much  pleasure  to  meet  with  the  brethren  and  sisters.  .  .  . 
She  had  lately  visited  the  local  branches  of  the  Relief  Society  in  the  western  part  of 
the  Stake,  all  were  feeling  and  doing  well  and  were  energetic  in  their  labors.  Encouraged 
the  sisters  to  attend  their  meetings  .  .  .  and  advised  the  young  sisters  to  attend  also, 
that  a  bond  of  friendship  and  good  feeling  should  exist  .  .  .  good  advice  can  be  given, 
virtue  taught  and  much  good  accomplished.  Spoke  of  looking  after  the  poor  and  the 
necessity  of  the  members  to  give  temporal  aid.  .  .  .  Wished  the  sisters  to  be  more 
interested  in  the  Exponent  by  subscribing  to  it.  Sister  Eliza  Ruse,  president  of  the 
Canesville  Rehef  Society,  gave  a  good  report.  Said  all  the  young  sisters  had  joined  and 
were  members  of  Relief  Society.  .  .  . 

— ^Anna  Coleman,  Sec. 

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Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


lyf  ARGARET  WEBSTER,  daugh- 
ter of  Dame  May  Whitty  and 
Ben  Webster,  famous  EngHsh  act- 
ors, has  had  extraordinary  success  in 
America  directing  Shakespeare's 
plays.  She  popularized  the  drama- 
tist among  the  young  with  her  pro- 
ductions in  which  young  students 
participated.  In  1942  McGraw-Hill 
published  her  book  Shakespeare 
Without  Tears. 


PYNTHIA 

of    a     former 


BOWLES,  daughter 
United  States 
ambassador,  has  written  a  warm, 
understanding  book.  At  Home  in 
India  (Harcourt-Brace  &  Co.). 

^CATHERINE  BROWNELL 
^^  OETTINGER  is  the  new  chief 
of  the  Children's  Bureau,  Depart- 
ment of  Health,  Education,  and 
Welfare.  She  was  formerly  Dean 
of  the  School  of  Social  Work,  Bos- 
ton University. 

QERTRUDE  HORTON, 

an  eighteen-year-old  Salt  Lake 
City  girl,  last  May  won  second  place 
in  a  Nation-wide  homemaking  con- 
test —  the  Betty  Crocker  Search  for 
the  American  Homemaker  of  the 
Year.  Priscilla  Jones,  Blakely,  Geor- 
gia, won  first  place,  receiving  a 
$5,000    scholarship.     Miss    Horton 


won  a  $4,000  scholarship,  with  an 
extensive  trip. 

r^HARLOTTE   SHEFFIELD,   of 

Salt  Lake  City,  won  the  Miss 
United  States  of  America  title  in  the 
1957  Miss  Universe  contest.  An 
active  Latter-day  Saint,  Miss  Shef- 
field was  a  Junior  Sunday  School 
chorister  at  the  time  of  her  victory 
and  has  participated  in  many  plays 
and  musical  productions  in  the 
Church  and  at  the  University  of 
Utah.  A  graduate  of  the  University 
last  June,  she  majored  in  secondary 
education.  She  has  run  the  hazard- 
ous Green  and  Colorado  rivers. 


A  LMOST  twice  as  many  children 
were  born  in  1956  as  in  1936  in 
the  United  States.  This  fact  places 
new  emphasis  on  the  effort  to  make 
schoolteaching  an  attractive  profes- 
sion for  women. 


lyriSS  FRANCES  WILLIS  is  the 
new  American  Ambassador  to 
Norway.    She  was  formerly  Ambas- 
sador to  Switzerland. 

lyrRS.  ANN  WHEATON,  who 
has  recently  been  appointed 
Assistant  Press  Secretary  at  the 
White  House,  is  the  first  woman  to 
hold  this  position. 

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uses 


ly/f  ARY  had  made  her  choice  and 
she  was  giving  her  allegiance 
to  Relief  Society.  Ever  since  she 
had  decided  not  to  join  the  club  to 
which  she  had  been  in\ited,  but  to 
attend  Relief  Society,  instead,  cer- 
tain words  kept  running  through  her 
head,  '*In  this  society  (Relief  So- 
ciety) are  intellectual,  cultural,  and 
spiritual  \'alues  found  in  no  other 
organization."  Mary  knew  that  the 
sentence,  written  by  the  First  Presi- 
dency in  1942,  had  influenced  her 
in  her  decision  to  join  Relief  Society. 

This  beautiful  late  September 
morning  while  the  babv  slept  and 
the  other  children  were  in  school 
Mary  wondered  what  intellectual, 
cultural,  and  spiritual  values  were 
awaiting  her  in  the  months  ahead. 
She  hunted  for  her  Relief  Society 
Magazine  —  she  knew  the  lessons 
were  printed  in  the  back,  for  Sister 
Heath  had  pointed  them  out  to  her 
when  she  subscribed.  The  latest 
issue  Marv  found  contained  lessons 
to  be  studied  in  December,  so  she 
hunted  until  she  found  the  June 
issue  \\'hich  told  of  the  plans  of  the 
lessons  for  the  whole  season's  work. 

The  Relief  Society  Magazine 
opened  to  the  literature  heading. 
She  would  be  studying  Shakespeare. 
For  a  minute  Mary  felt  scared. 
Goodness,  she  hardly  knew  any- 
thing about  him.  He  would  be 
hard  to  understand.  Then  the 
words  of  the  title  began  to  ha\e 
meaning  to  her  '^Shakespeare  in  Our 
Lives."  As  she  scanned  the  titles  of 
individual  lessons  and  their  objec- 

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fives,  Mary  felt  that  she  would  get 
intellectual,  cultural,  and  spiritual 
values,  all  three  just  from  the  litera- 
ture course  in  Relief  Society.  But 
in  addition  there  were  three,  no^ 
four  other  outlines.  One  seemed  to 
be  about  real  values  for  which  mon- 
ey should  be  spent.  That  held  great 
interest  for  Marv  who  was  trying  so 
hard  to  stretch  their  income  to  cover 
essential  needs.  Mary  became  so 
interested  that  she  read  the  first 
three  subjects  of  the  course  before 
she  turned  back  to  see  what  else 
would  be  studied. 

Her  heart  rejoiced  as  she  realized 
that  she  would  be  joining  Relief  So- 
ciety just  as  they  began  a  study  of 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants.  How- 
many  years  would  they  study  it? 
Mary  turned  back  to  see.  It  just 
said  "several  years."  She  did  hope 
the  study  would  be  detailed  enough 
so  she  would  really  know  the  con- 
tents of  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants when  she  finished.  The  first 
year's  study  covered  only  a  few  sec- 
tions, and  as  Mary  hunted  her  Doe- 
trine  and  Co\'enants  and  saw  that 
it  really  covered  only  a  few  pages, 
she  ga\e  a  sigh  of  relief.  She  ought 
to  be  able  to  learn  those  sections 
this  first  year.  The  visiting  teachers 
were  going  to  speak  about  some 
great  truths  from  The  Doctrine  and 
Covenants  when  they  called,  and 
Marv  saw  that  visiting  teachers  were 
urged  to  memorize  these  \'erses.  If 
she  memorized  them  herself— then 
she  would  be  learning  scriptures. 
She  remembered  reading  that  Relief 


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Society  mothers  were  supposed  to 
share  what  they  learned  with  their 
famihes.  She  would  do  that,  and 
Jim  would  help  her,  she  knew. 
They  could  use  a  lot  of  what  she 
learned  in  Relief  Society  in  their 
Family  Hour. 

Finally,  Mary  turned  to  the  plan 
of  the  forthcoming  social  science 
lessons— ''Latter-day  Saint  Family 
Life.''  The  words,  ''intellectual, 
cultural,  and  spiritual  values"  repeat- 
ed themselves  over  and  over  in 
Mary's  mind.  The  Latter-day  Saint 
family  was  fundamental  to  the  gos- 
pel plan! 

What  if  she  had  accepted  the  in- 
vitation to  the  literary  club  and  con- 
fined her  learning  just  to  the  one 
subject?  Mary  was  grateful  for  the 
example  of  her  mother  who  had 
faithfully  served  in  Relief  Society. 
All  the  unselfish  service  she  had  giv- 


en —  sewing  for  the  needy,  nursing 
the  sick,  calling  at  homes— all  that 
part,  Mary  realized,  was  in  addition 
to  the  lesson  work  and  was  a  part  of 
the  "intellectual,  cultural,  and  spirit- 
ual values  found  in  no  other  organ- 
ization." There  were  eternal  bonus- 
es in  service,  Mary  decided,  for 
while  she  would  be  helping  others, 
her  own  soul  would  become  en- 
larged and  that  would  result  in  bless- 
ings to  her  own  family! 

Joy  flooded  Mary's  heart  as  she 
contemplated  the  Relief  Society 
activities  which  lay  ahead.  She  had 
not  "paid  too  much  for  her  whistle," 
as  the  Benjamin  Franklin  story  had 
taught  her  as  a  young  child,  and  as 
the  result  of  her  choosing  Relief 
Society,  she  would  be  earning  eternal 
bonuses  all  along  the  way! 

-M.  C.  S. 


cJ^n    1 1  ie  mo  nam — LPriscilla  JLivingston   ibvans 

October  18, 1881  -  August  12,  1957 

pRISCILLA  Livingston  Evans,  a  former  member  of  the  general  board  of 

Relief  Society,  died  August  12,  1957,  in  Salt  Lake  City.  A  woman  of 
outstanding  spiritual  and  intellectual  gifts,  her  life  was  filled  with  service 
and  devotion  to  her  community  and  to  the  Church.  Sister  Evans  was 
one  of  the  first  women  attorneys  to  be  admitted  to  the  Utah  State  Bar 
Association. 

Elder  Evans  was  appointed  President  of  the  Eastern  States  Mission  in 
1937,  and  Sister  Evans  served  with  devotion  as  "Mission  Mother"  and 
president  of  the  women's  auxiliaries,  until  they  were  released  in  1941.  She 
was  a  true  homemaker  and  a  hospitable  hostess. 

She  was  appointed  to  the  general  board  of  Relief  Society,  June  18, 
1941,  and  served  until  1948.  Her  contributions  to  the  work  of  the  board 
were  of  great  value,  and  her  speaking  ability  was  much  appreciated  through- 
out the  Church. 

Her  former  associates  of  the  general  board  of  Relief  Society  and  the 
sisters  throughout  the  stakes  and  missions  of  the  Church  will  long  remem- 
ber Priscilla  Evans  as  a  richly  gifted  woman  who  shared  her  blessings  and 
inspired  many  in  the  love  of  the  gospel. 


Lrurchasina  Soul   L/rowth 


9 


"^OTHING  worth  having  is  free- 
free  from  struggle,  striving,  serv- 
ing, sacrifice,  yet,  we  are  prone  to 
look  at  our  neighbor  and  think  that 
he  lives  an  easy  life.  We  look  at  a 
marriage  and  decide  husband  and 
wife  never  have  had  any  troubles, 
their  married  life  has  been  one  long 
honeymoon.  We  look  at  a  young 
mother  with  many  small  children 
who  manages  well,  and  may  decide 
that  keeping  house  and  tending  chil- 
dren come  naturally  to  her,  that  it 
is  easy  for  her  to  be  efficient. 

It  is  true  that  each  person  is  given 
different  talents  which  come  rather 
naturally,  but  an  all-wise  Father, 
while  expecting  us  to  improve  our 
talents  and  devote  them  to  his  work, 
still  refines  each  of  his  children  by 
having  us  undergo  and  overcome 
situations  which  will  test  us  indi- 


vidually.   Nothing  is  free  that  is  of 
worth. 

Susan  enjoyed  convivial  company 
and  liked  to  entertain  and  see  new 
places;  her  sister  Rebecca  was  very 
contented  to  remain  in  her  home, 
do  her  housework  and  find  her  pleas- 
ure in  the  home  and  ward.  As  the 
years  passed,  Susan,  who  enjoyed 
change  and  free  time,  became  lim- 
ited in  her  activities,  and  her  family 
situation  required  her  to  give  up 
much  of  her  free  time.  Rebecca,  on 
the  other  hand,  had  become  inter- 
ested in  work  which  frequently  took 
her  far  from  her  closest  interests. 
Susan  would  enjoy  the  opportunities 
of  Rebecca,  and  Rebecca  would  be 
content  to  remain  near  home.  Each 
looking  at  the  other  might  feel  the 
other's  work  to  be  easy  and  desirable, 
but  to  each  sister  came  that  train- 
ing and  those  experiences  which 
were  hard  for  her  to  accept.  The 
soul  growth  of  both  was  earned  with 
great  effort  and  in  spite  of  many 
frustrations,  for  soul  growth  is  not 
free. 

We  are  told  that  mother  love  is 
nearest  to  God's  love.  Perhaps  that 
is  because  mother  love  costs  the 
most  in  devotion,  ceaseless  care, 
anxieties,  heartaches,  sacrifices,  and 
selflessness.  But,  after  it  has  been 
fully  paid  for,  deep  joys  and  satis- 
factions are  eternal  profits. 

NOTHING  WORTH  HAVING 
IS  FREE.  BE  HONEST  WITH 
YOURSELF! 


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[Kecipes  cfrom  the  Southwest  Sdndian   iflission 


Suhmitted  hy  Lavena  L.  Rohnei 
ZuNi  Bread 


Zuni  Soui  Dough  Yeast: 

4  tbsp.  salt 
2  c.  flour 
1  pt.  water 

Other  Ingredients  for  Bread: 

Vi   lb.  lard  or  other  cooking  fat 
12  lbs.  enriched  flour 


1  pkg.  dry  yeast  or  one  cake 

compressed  yeast 
1  c.  warm  water  to  dissolve  yeast 


4  qts.  water 


Mix  the  ingredients  for  the  sour  dough  yeast  together  and  let  stand  overnight. 
Mix  and  knead  until  firm  the  flour,  fat,  and  water.  Let  rise  until  double  in  bulk. 
Knead  down,  then  set  aside  to  rise  again  until  double  in  bulk.  Knead  and  mold  into 
flat  loaves.  Let  rise  to  double  again  and  bake  in  hot  clay  oven  for  one  hour  or  place 
in  stove  oven  preheated  to  350°  F.  and  bake  fifteen  minutes,  then  reduce  the  heat  to 
300°  F.  and  bake  thirty-five  minutes  longer,  or  until  golden  brown. 

Navajo  Kneel-Down  Bread 

4  c.  green  corn  sweeten  to  taste 

pinch  of  salt 

Stone  grind  the  green  corn,  fresh  cut  from  cob,  to  make  a  paste.  Add  the  salt 
and  sugar.  If  corn  paste  is  runny,  add  enough  corn  meal  to  make  a  very  soft  dough. 
Place  one  scant  cup  of  mixture  in  corn  husk  and  wrap  husk  around  corn  dough,  turning 
ends  over  towards  center  of  roll.  Repeat  this  procedure  until  well  wrapped  then  tie 
with  husk  strings  made  by  tearing  the  husks  of  corn  into  strips.  Bake  in  a  pit  which 
has  been  made  very  hot  with  fire.  Line  pit  with  green  corn  husks  and  heap  hot 
coals,  removed  from  pit,  on  top  of  bread  and  bake  for  one  hour,  or  bake  in  hot  out- 
door stone  oven  until  husks  are  lightly  browned,  or  place  in  pan  lined  with  husks 
covered  over  well  with  husks,  and  bake  in  moderate  oven  until  husks  are  lightly 
browned. 


Hopi  Peki 


3  c.  blue  corn  meal 

moist,  watery  sage  ashes* 


dash  of  salt 
boiling  water 


Add  enough  sage  ashes  to  the  corn  meal  to  make  the  mixture  a  light  greenish 
color.  Add  the  salt  and  enough  boiling  water  to  make  a  thin  batter,  similar  to  hot  cake 
batter.  Spread  the  batter  thinly  over  a  hot  peki  stone  which  has  been  oiled  by  leaving 
ground  watermelon  seeds  on  the  stone  all  night.  An  iron  skillet  may  be  substituted 
for  the  peki  stone  in  baking  the  Hopi  Peki,  and  vegetable  oil  or  animal  fat  may  be 
used  instead  of  the  watermelon  seeds. 

*To  make  sage  ashes,  pick  the  green  sage  leaves,  let  them  stand  for  two  days,  and 
then  burn  them.  Sift  the  cooled  ashes  and  add  enough  water  to  hold  the  ashes  in 
solution.  Strain  the  liquid  into  the  batter.  If  some  color,  other  than  green,  is  de- 
sired, commercial  food  coloring  may  be  substituted  for  the  sage  ashes. 

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666  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— OCTOBER  1957 

Hopi  Blue  Marble 

2  c.  blue  corn  meal  Vz    c.  sugar  or  i  c.  sugar  for  swtQt 

1   c.  boiling  water  Blue  Marble 

1  c.  ashes  (sage) 

Put  one-half  of  the  corn  meal  flour  in  bowl,  pour  boiling  water  into  it,  stir,  and 
add  ashes,  which  have  been  made  into  a  watery  paste,  and  sugar;  stir  and  let  cool. 
When  cool,  add  remaining  one-half  of  the  corn  meal  by  kneading  slowly.  Roll  dough 
like  a  snake,  then  break  into  small  marbles.  Drop  into  hot  water  and  cook  until  water 
reaches  consistency  of  thin  gravy,  or  use  as  you  would  dumpUngs.  Blue  Marble  may 
be  served  with  fresh  or  canned  fruits. 

Fresh  Field  Corn  Bread  (Hopi) 

Cut  fresh  field  corn  off  the  cob  and  grind  through  food  grinder,  using  fine  knife. 
Add  salt  to  taste.  Put  2  or  3  tbsp.  of  the  ground  corn  on  a  husk  and  fold,  place  in  a 
baking  dish  a  layer  of  corn  rolls  and  a  layer  of  husks.  Bake  until  done.  Serve  while  hot 
with  any  stew  dinner  or  roasts.  If  the  corn  is  very  tender,  thicken  slightly  with  flour 
to  make  it  easy  to  handle. 

Sapaipillas  (Haulapi) 

2  c.  flour  pinch  of  salt 
Vi   c.  water 

Mix  flour,  salt,  and  water.  Knead  with  hands  until  dough  is  almost  the  consistency 
of  light  bread  dough,  form  into  balls,  then  roll  out  smooth.  Drop  into  very  hot,  deep 
fat.  The  dough  will  puff  as  it  cooks.  Cook  until  golden  brown.  These  are  delicious 
served  with  sweet  syrup  or  honey. 

Sweet  Sapaipillas  (Haulapi) 

2  c.  flour  /4  tsp.  cinnamon 

Vz   c.  milk  Vz  tsp.  cloves 

!4   c.  sugar  2  eggs,  beaten 

pinch  of  salt  2  tbsp.  shortening 

Mix  all  ingredients  thoroughly.  Knead  as  in  regular  Sapaipillas.  It  may  take  a 
half  hour  or  more,  depending  on  how  fast  you  can  knead.  Form  into  balls,  roll  flat,  and 
drop  into  deep,  hot  fat.     Sprinkle  or  roll  in  powdered  sugar  when  cooked. 

Indian  Mutton  Stew 

4  or  5  carrots  1  tsp.  salt 

2  large  green  peppers  Vi   tsp.  pepper 

3  or  4  potatoes  1  small  leg  of  mutton 

1  large  onion  (optional) 

Put  all  ingredients  into  large  kettle,  bring  to  boil,  lower  heat,  and  cook  slowly 
until  meat  is  tender. 

Navajo  Hot  Sauce 

3  large  onions  2  tbsp.  margarine  or  butter 

10  small  hot  yellow  peppers  4  cans  tomato  sauce  or 

2  cans  water  2  cans  tomato  paste 


RECIPES  FROM  THE  SOUTHWEST  INDIAN  MISSION  667 

Slice  onions  and  cut  peppers  into  small  pieces.  Fry  all  together  in  margarine  or 
butter.    Add  tomato  sauce  or  paste  and  two  cans  water. 

Indian  Fried  Bread 

2  c.  flour  2  tbsp.  shortening 
Vz   tsp.  salt                                                         /4   c.  warm  water 

2  Vi   tsp.  baking  powder 

Sift  together  the  dry  ingredients.  Mix  with  shortening  and  water.  Knead,  and 
add  more  flour  if  necessary,  let  stand  one-half  hour,  roll  out  to  about  one-half  inch 
thick,  cut  into  three-inch  squares.  Fry  in  deep  fat  or  ordinary  fry  pan.  This  tortilla- 
like bread  is  good  with  chile  beans  and  is  delicious  served  with  hot  jelly. 

Navajo  Tortillas 

5  c.  flour  1  Vi   tsp.  salt 

3  tsp.  baking  powder  2  tsp.  margarine  or  other  cooking  fat 
2  c.  warm  water 

Mix  into  stiff  dough.  Cut  into  two-inch  squares  and  roll  very  thin.  Stretch, 
throwing  from  hand  to  hand,  until  paper  thin.  Cook  on  slightly  oiled  fry  pan,  stove 
top,  or  grill. 

Hopi  Blue  Corn  Babies 

1  qt.  boiling  water  1  tsp.  baking  powder 

blue  corn  meal  to  make  thick  mush  Vi   c.  sugar 

in  water  pinch  of  salt 
1  c.  blue  corn  meal 

Grind  blue  Indian  corn  on  stone  grinder  or  modern  food  grinder  into  fine  meal. 
To  one  qt.  boiling  water  add  enough  of  the  blue  corn  meal  to  make  a  thick  mush. 
Then  add  to  another  cup  of  blue  corn  meal  the  baking  powder,  pinch  of  salt,  and  the 
sugar.  Then  add  to  this  mixture  the  mush  with  enough  more  meal  to  make  a  soft 
dough.  Have  husks  ready  and  wrap  the  dough  turning  ends  over  towards  the  center 
of  roll  making  sure  each  is  well  wrapped.  Use  one-fourth  cup  of  dough  for  each  roll. 
Tie  with  husk  strings  which  are  torn  into  strips  from  the  husks  of  corn,  and  drop  one 
by  one  into  a  kettle  of  boiling  water.  Do  not  add  them  too  fast,  as  it  is  important 
that  the  water  be  kept  boiling.  Boil  ten  minutes  and  remove  from  kettle.  Then  drain 
and  serve. 


1 1  Lountain   L^ountr^ 

Leslie  Savage  Chik 

The  heart  has  need  of  silences 
And  a  setting  sun  to  trace 
This  majesty  of  range  on  range 
Against  the  heaven's  space. 

The  heart  has  need  of  timeless  things 
As  its  flying  years  are  spent — 
For  the  peace  of  midnight  sky,  for  stars, 
And  wonderment. 


(compiling  a    (^ensus  of  Lrost-LPolio  LPatients 

npHE  National  Foundation  for  Infantile  Paralysis  reports  that  it  is  launch- 
ing a  massive  program  aimed  at  helping  thousands  of  persons  disabled 
by  polio  to  achieve  greater  degrees  of  self-sufficiency. 

''Step  one  in  the  dynamic  new  phase  of  the  war  on  polio  is  the 
compilation  of  a  roster  of  post-polios  across  the  nation  by  some  3,100  Na- 
tional Foundation  chapters/'  according  to  Basil  O'Connor,  president  of 
the  National  Foundation.  .  .  . 

''In  the  light  of  new  knowledge  in  the  treatment  of  polio  and  modern 
rehabilitation  techniques,  a  great  many  polio  victims  now  may  benefit 
from  additional  treatment  and  training,  much  of  it  recently  developed  at 
respiratory  and  rehabilitation  centers.  We  want  to  find  out  who  these 
people  are  and  what  can  we  done  for  them  over  a  period  of  time." 

The  general  board  of  Relief  Society  is  co-operating  in  this  worthwhile 
endeavor  and  calls  to  the  attention  of  its  readers  the  following  question- 
naire, a  copy  of  which  should  be  filled  out  for  post-polio  patients  whom  the 
reader  knows,  and  mailed  to  the  county  chapter  of  the  National  Founda- 
tion for  Infantile  Paralysis  in  which  the  patient  lives. 

POLIO  PATIENT  REPORT 
National  Foundation  for  Infantile  Paralysis 

COUNTY  CHAPTER 

Patient's  Name  

(LAST)  (FIRST)  (MmDLE) 

Home  Address  

(No.   and   Street)  (City  or  Town)  (State) 

Date  of  Birth 4.     Date  of  Onset 

(Mo.)  (Day)  Yr.)  (Mo.)  (Day)  Yr.) 

5.     Can  patient  climb  stairs?  (      )Yes  (      )No  6.     Dress  self?  (    )Yes     (      )No 

7.     Is  patient  gainfully  employed: 

at  home  (      )Yes  (      )No;  outside  home  (      )Yes  (      )No 
Does  patient  attend  school?  (      )Yes  (      )No 
9.     Is  patient  now  receiving  regular  treatment  for  poHo?  (      )Yes  (      )No 

10.  If  "y^^'"  where  (check  below-)? 

(      )     Hospital  in-patient  service 

Hospital  City 

(      )      Out-patient  clinic 

Agency  City 

(      )      Physician's  office 

Name  City 

(      )     At  home Check  if  attendant  is  used  (      ) 

(Address  if  different  from   above) 

11.  Date  physician  last  saw  patient  

(Mo.)  (Yr.) 

12.  Is  patient  using  respiratory  aids 

(iron  lung,  chest  respirator,  rocking  bed)?  (      )  Yes  (      )   No.     (Indicate  which) 

13.  Is  patient  receiving  outside  financial  assistance  for  poho  treatment?   (Other  than 
family)?       (      )  Yes  (      )  No 

(Indicate  source) 

14.  State  briefly  any  special  problems  patient  now  has  as  result  of  poho 
(problems  of  travel,  finance,  medical  care,  job,  etc.):  

T)hn:E  "'"'"'"'Z^^^^  COMPLETING  FORM  

(Mo.)      (Day)       Yr.)  (Signature)   Relationship 

to  Patient 
NFIP    Form  #661 

USE  REVERSE  SIDE  FOR  ADDITIONAL  COMMENTS 

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Miss  Pennywell  Goes  Into  Action 


Frances  P.  Reid 


MISS  Penneywell  put  down  the 
piece  of  toast  that  she  was 
spreading  with  marmalade. 
Something  was  wrong.  She  pushed 
the  bacon  and  eggs  around  on  her 
plate  and  then  peered  out  the  win- 
dow of  the  breakfast  nook.  Across 
the  tidy  green  fields  where  bluebells 
and  buttercups  bloomed,  across  the 
arborvitae  hedge  and  the  cobble- 
stone stile  where  the  wild  roses 
climbed,  her  eyes  journeyed  to  the 
narrow  track  that  wound  in,  around, 
and  through  the  fields  on  its  me- 
andering way  from  Middleton  to 
Central  City. 

Peremptorily  she  rang  for  Titus, 
her  combination  chauffeur  and  gar- 
dener. ''Titus,"  she  rapped  her 
hand  sharply  on  the  table,  'Titus, 
what  has  happened  to  the  Bluebell 
and  Buttercup?  It's  late.  Never  in 
my  fifty  years  has  the  Bluebell  and 
Buttercup  been  late  before.  I  don't 
like  it,  and  I  won't  have  it." 

"Well,  you  see.  Ma'am " 

"Speak  up,  man.  Don't  mouth 
your  words."  Miss  Pennywell  had 
little  time  or  patience  with  indecis- 
ion. 

Titus  cleared  his  throat  and  di- 
rected his  words  toward  a  point 
some  two  inches  from  the  toe  of  his 
sturdy  boot,  "Ma'am,  the  Bluebell 
and  Buttercup  won't  run  any  more. 
They've  ordered.  .  .  ." 

"They?  Who  is  they?  Say  what 
you  mean,  Titus." 

"The  company,  Ma'am,  decided 
to  do  away  with  the  B.  and  B.,  be- 
cause .  .  .  well,  because  there  weren't 
enough  people  riding  the  train, 
and " 

"Upstarts!       New-fangled     non- 


sense! Of  course,  we  need  the  B. 
and  B.    I  need  it!" 

"But,  Ma'am,  the  station  wag- 
on. .  .  ."  Titus  looked  toward  the 
two-car  garage  where  the  1947  sta- 
tion wagon  and  the  1953  black  sedan 
were  parked.  "Ma'am,  if  you  are 
wishing  to  go  to  Central  City,  I'll 
bring  the  car  around."  Titus  moved 
toward  the  door,  anxious  to  be  away 
from  his  mistress'  displeasure. 

"No,  Titus,"  Miss  Pennywell 
stayed  him,  "not  just  yet.  But  stand 
by." 

She  walked  regally  from  the  room 
and  into  her  neat  study,  where  the 
rows  of  dark-covered  books  with  the 
heavy  gold  lettering  were  as  im- 
peccably arranged  as  her  prim  top- 
knot of  graying  hair.  Putting  on 
her  bifocals.  Miss  Pennywell  rolled 
the  stacking  ladder  to  the  shelves 
and  climbed  up.  She  ran  her  fingers 
carefully  along  the  mellow  bindings 
and  pulled  down  an  imposing,  legal- 
appearing  volume. 

As  she  read,  she  sat  straighter  and 
straighter.  Her  mouth  settled  into 
a  thin,  fine  line,  and  her  foot  tapped 
steadily.  "Hmm-mm-mm.  Uh-hm- 
mm-mm." 

She  shut  the  book  smartly, 
climbed  back  up,  and  replaced  the 
volume.  Then  she  marched  straight- 
way to  her  bedroom,  put  on  her  best 
black  dress  and  hat,  and  rang  for 
Titus. 

Titus,  bring  the  car  around.  I'm 
going  to  Central  City— now!" 

"Yes,  Ma'am."  old  Titus  wiped 
his  fingers  on  his  coveralls  to  rid 
them  of  the  dirt  from  weeding  the 
petunias  and  hydrangeas. 

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''And,  Titus,  you  put  on  your 
chauffeur's  livery.  We're  going  to 
be  busy  today.  Yes,  indeed,  we  are 
going  to  be  very  busy." 

There  was  a  ghnt  in  Miss  Penny- 
welFs  eyes  that  meant  she  had  some- 
thing hatching.  Titus  knew  that 
look:  it  was  just  the  way  she  looked 
when  she  had  decided  to  have  the 
old  carriage  house  wired  for  electric- 
ity and  had  pulled  out  all  the  old 
harness  rigs  that  lined  the  walls. 
Something  was  really  going  to  hap- 
pen today.  He  couldn't  help  feeling 
just  a  little  excited.  Life  had  been 
so  quiet  and  easy  lately. 

ALL  the  way  into  the  city  Miss 
Pennywell  sat  erect  in  the 
back  seat.  Peeking  at  her  through 
the  rear-view  mirror,  Titus  could 
see  that  she  kept  drawing  herself 
up  straighter  and  straighter,  the 
nearer  they  came  to  town.  Every 
now  and  then  she'd  say,  ''Uh-hm- 
mm-mm.    Uh-hum!" 

On  the  outskirts  of  the  city  Miss 
Pennywell  tapped  Titus  on  the 
shoulder  and  announced,  'Tou'll 
drive  straight  to  the  offices  of  the 
Great  Western  Trunk  Lines." 

Miss  Pennywell  didn't  have  much 
use  for  these  new  self-operating  ele- 
vators, but  she  was  in  too  much  of 
a  hurry  to  take  the  stairs,  so,  with 
a  few  backward  looks,  she  swept 
into  the  little  square  and  pushed 
the  button  for  floor  thirteen.  As 
the  car  moved  up,  she  caught  her 
breath  a  little,  and  then  settled  back. 
People  rode  in  these  every  day— she 
could,  too. 

When  the  door  slid  quietly  ajar, 
she  stepped  out  quickly— maybe 
more  quickly  than  necessary.  Miss 
Pennywell  had  read  once  about 
someone's  being  caught  in  one  of 


those  doors  and  she  certainly  didn't 
have  any  time  to  bother  with  get- 
ting herself  out  of  a  stuck  elevator. 

When  the  efficient  receptionist 
in  the  smart  anteroom  asked  her 
name,  Miss  Pennywell  snapped, 
''Miss  Constance  Pennywell  of 
Middleton.  Though  why  that  mat- 
ters, I  don't  know." 

"And  your  business,  Ma'am?" 

"Young  woman,"  Miss  Penny- 
well's  brows  rose  higher,  "Fll  tell 
that  to  Mr.  Hargrove." 

The  plump,  red-faced  man  at  the 
huge  mahogany  desk  looked  as  if  he 
had  had  a  poor  breakfast  and  an 
even  poorer  lunch.  In  a  word,  he 
was  out  of  sorts.  He  noisily  grated 
his  chair  against  the  desk  and  rapped 
hard  with  his  knuckles  on  a  paper- 
weight made  of  petrified  wood. 

"Now,  Miss  Pennywell,  Fm  pret- 
ty busy  today,  so  if  you'll  just  state 
your  business  quickly,  and  I  can  get 
on  to.  .  .  ." 

Miss  Pennywell  stopped  him 
short.  "What  I  have  to  say  won't 
take  long,  but  it  will  take  some  do- 
ing, busy  or  not  as  you  may  be.  I'm 
here  to  know  why  you  so  unlaw- 
fully, unkindly,  unfairly,  and  un- 
patriotically  discontinued  the  Blue- 
bell and  Buttercup?" 

"The  Bluebell  and  Buttercup?  I 
don't  seem  to  place  that  name  just 
now.  You  may  have  the  wrong 
office.  I'll  ring  for  someone  to  show 
you.  .  .  . 

"No,  you  won't,  I  will  be  heard. 
The  Bluebell  and  Buttercup  is  one 
of  your  trains,  as  you  very  well  do 
know,  and  for  all  the  years  of  my  life 
it  has  run  regularly  on  the  line  from 
Middleton  to  Central  City.  Today, 
it  didn't  run.  I  want  it  re-estab- 
lished and  permanently,  Mr.  Har- 
grove.   At  once!" 


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^^r\H,  you  mean  that  little  jerk- 
water train  that  wanders 
through  a  bunch  of  little  villages. 
Why,  we  can't  afford  to  run  a  train 
for  just  two  or  three  people.  WeVe 
got  to  make  a  living.  We've  got  to 
show  a  profit.  WeVe  got  to  be 
progressive."  Mr.  Hargrove's  already 
ample  chest  swelled  and  strained  at 
the  restraining  buttons. 

''Have  you  quite  finished?"  Miss 
Pennywell  asked.  Then  she  took 
from  her  large  black  carryall  a  leath- 
er volume  with  gold  printed  letters 
on  the  outside.  ''Section  four,  para- 
graph seven,  line  twenty-two,  'The 
aforesaid  company  shall  be  required 
by  act  of  law  to  run  a  daily  sched- 
ule on  the  branch  line  known  as 
the  North  Spur— in  other  words,  the 
Bluebell  and  Buttercup.'  Hah!  Now, 
what  do  you  say  to  that,  Mr.  Har- 
grove?" 

Mr.  Hargrove  spluttered;  he 
turned  beet-red  in  the  face;  he 
cleared  his  throat  fearsomely;  then 
he  just  sank  a  little  lower  in  his  big 
overstuffed  chair.  "Why,  I'm  sure 
there  must  be.  .  .  .  Well,  I  never. 
Come  in  here  and  tell  me  how  to 
run  my  railroad.  I'll  not  have 
it I'll  .  .  .  I'll " 

"Mr.  Hargrove,  you'll  just  obey 
the  law  like  everyone  else  has  to  do. 
I  want  the  Bluebell  and  Buttercup 
running  tomorrow,  and  I'm  going  to 
be  on  it." 

With  that.  Miss  Pennywell  swept 
out.  This  time  she  forgot  all  about 
the  stairway  and,  without  even 
thinking  of  falling  elevators,  she 
pushed  the  ground  floor  button. 

The  parking  meter  still  showed 
half  of  the  hour  limit  as  she 
marched  away  from  the  modernistic 
facade.  "Titus,"  Miss  Pennywell 
announced,  "we're  going  calling  on 


everyone  who  ever  has  and  does  ride 
the  B.  and  B." 

"Well,  let's  see,  there  is  Mrs. 
Griggs,  the  cabbage  woman;  Mr. 
Dunker,  the  butcher;  the  Grimes 
children;  the  Piggots;  then  there  are 
all  the  farmers  around  Lewes,  and 
the  housewives  in  most  of  the  towns 
in  between  who  ride  the  train  when 
they  go  to  the  city  for  shopping 
trips." 

"Fine,  fine.  Just  drive  to  each 
one,  Titus.  We've  a  message  for 
them.  Won't  take  me  long  to  say 
it,  but  I'm  sure  they'll  want  to  hear 
what  I  have  to  say." 

\\^HEN  Mrs.  Griggs  stuck  her 
head  up  from  the  rows  of  cab- 
bage she  was  thinning  and  lifted  the 
big  head  of  leafy  vegetable  to  her 
apron.  Miss  Pennywell  unbent  a  lit- 
tle, "Nice  vegetables,  Mrs.  Griggs. 
You'll  want  to  market  them,  I  sup- 
pose?" 

"Yes,  Ma'am,  but  I  don't  know  as 
I  can,  now  with  the  B.  and  B. 
stopped." 

"Yes,  you  can,  Mrs.  Griggs.  You 
be  at  the  station  tomorrow.  Mind 
what  I  say!     Eight  o'clock  sharp." 

Mrs.  Griggs  was  still  standing 
there  with  her  mouth  open,  when 
Miss  Pennywell  pulled  her  head 
back  into  the  car  and  ordered  Titus 
to  drive  on. 

At  the  butcher  shop  she  was  even 
more  direct.  "Mr.  Dunker,  you 
need  to  do  any  business  in  town? 

"Well,  now,  as  a  matter  of  fact, 
I  do,  but  with  the  B.  and  B.  not 
running,  I'll  just  have  to  write  a 
letter,  I  suppose." 

"Oh,  now,  Mr.  Dunker.  You 
just  march  yourself  down  to  that 
station  tomorrow.    Eight  sharp!" 

And  so  it  went,  until  Titus  began 


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to  feel  as  if  he  had  callouses  on  his 
hands  from  opening  the  car  door 
and  rapping  on  house  doors.  Miss 
Pennywell  sure  was  acting  strange; 
she  must  be  getting  a  little  too  old 
to  be  running  around. 

At  a  few  minutes  before  eight 
o'clock  the  next  morning  Miss  Pen- 
nywell closed  her  front  door,  stood 
for  a  minute  on  the  top  step,  and 
then  tilted  her  head.  Far  off  came  a 
faint  whistle,  and  then  louder,  loud- 
er. And  a  clacking  noise  that  ran 
faster  and  faster.  Through  the 
meadows  and  farms  on  either  side 
of  the  tracks  the  little,  half-century- 
old,  coal-burning  engine  and  the 
two  wooden  coaches  puffed  into 
sight.  From  every  window  heads 
protruded  and  most  of  the  passen- 
gers were  laughing  and  calling  to 
one  another. 

As  the  train  stopped  at  the  cross- 
ing for  Miss   Pennywell,   old   Mr. 


Lancers,  the  conductor,  wagged  his 
head  and  grinned  broadly.  ''I  just 
don't  understand  it,  Miss  Penny- 
well,  Ma'am.  Used  to  be  the  pas- 
sengers just  sat,  never  speaking  to 
each  other;  just  frowning  or  reading 
their  Morning  Express." 

Miss  Pennywell  mounted  the 
steps  and  swept  into  the  car.  Over 
her  shoulders  she  called  to  Conduc- 
tor Lancers,  ''We  oughtn't  to  look 
at  the  B.  and  B.  as  a  small  line.  It's 
the  principle  of  the  thing.  We've 
got  a  train  and  we're  going  to  keep 
it.  Mr.  Lancers,  if  we  want  some- 
thing, we  have  to  show  how  we 
feel." 

Seating  herself  with  the  nearest 
approach  to  a  flourish,  Miss  Penny- 
well  folded  her  hands  in  the  snow- 
white  gloves  and,  with  the  bare  sug- 
gestion of  nod,  she  ordered,  *Tou 
can  start  the  train  now,  Mr.  Lanc- 
ers.   We're  ready." 


cJhen  Lyomes  Sle 


omes  oieep 

Olive  W.  Burt 


Only  parents  can  know, 
Lying  sleepless  and  calculating, 
The  dreadful  sounds  of  disaster 
Night  saves  to  bedevil  the  waiting: 

The  crescendo  of  rushing  cars, 

A  distant  siren's  wail, 

The  laughter  of  speeding  youngsters 

Spattering  out  like  hail. 

The  crunch  of  skidding  tires, 

A  blowout's  shot-like  bark, 

Grinding  gears  and  the  heart-stopping 

Scream  of  brakes  through  the  dark. 

And  only  they  know  the  sweetness 
Of  familiar  steps  on  the  walk, 
Of  light,  young  feet  on  the  porch 
And  the  click  of  a  key  in  the  lock. 


JLouise    iiLc  lilurtrey  Lrieces   Guilts  and 
C/inas  ^oy  in   (giving 

NOT  only  does  Louise  McMurtrey,  seventy-eight,  of  Ririe,  Idaho,  piece  quilts  as  a 
hobby,  but  she  tries  to  follow  her  motto:  "Life  is  to  give." 

In  1955,  she  pieced  and  gave  away  twenty  quilt  tops.  She  always  gixes  generously 
of  her  time  at  work  meetings,  and  a  quilt  has  been  a  regular  donation  at  the  ward 
bazaars,  along  with  a  case  of  jam  or  jelly  as  an  additional  gift  for  the  dinner  table. 
She  has  sent  five  finished  quilts  to  the  Primary  Children's  Hospital  for  crippled  children, 
and  many  babies  have  received  one  of  her  beautiful  two-color  rayon  taffeta  crib  quilts, 
of  which  she  has  made  nearly  one  hundred. 

She  lives  alone  and  keeps  her  own  house.  Her  seven  children,  twenty-seven  grand- 
children, and  fifty-four  great-grandchildren  love  her,  write  poetry  to  commemorate  her 
birthday  anniversaries,  and  honor  her.  She  loves  flowers  and  has  a  beautiful  rose 
garden. 


n 


octurne 


Pansye  H.  Fowell 

The  brook 

At  set  of  sun 

Plays  a  quiet  nocturne 

For  aspens  that  nod  their  heads  and  fall 

Asleep. 


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Pine  Nutting 


Alice  R.  Rich 


npHE  little  cellophane  packages  of 
pine  nuts  on  display  in  the  gro- 
cery store  today  did  more  than  ad- 
\ertise  a  product  for  sale,  thev 
opened  the  floodgates  of  nostalgic 
and  tender  memories  for  me.  Like 
a  talisman,  these  little  brown-shelled 
goodies  spread  a  magic  carpet  that 
carried  me  back,  back  through  the 
long  years  to  the  crisp  October  days 
and  pine  nut  gathering  in  New 
Harmony. 

In  our  upland  \'alley  at  5,000  feet 
elevation,  we  were  protected  by  high 
mountains  that  held  the  winter 
snows  to  feed  the  springs  and 
streams  for  irrigation  in  the  thirsty 
valleys.  Here  we  knew  security  and 
love  that  today  might  seem  most 
primitive. 

October,  with  its  gold  and  crim- 
son tints  splashed  generously  over 
the  foliage  on  valley  and  hillside, 
stood  out  as  a  beauty  pivot  of  the 
year.  It  was  the  busy  harvest  season, 
the  gathering  and  storing  of  garden, 
field,  and  orchard  yields,  the  wise 
and  careful  preparation  for  the  cold 
and  snowy  months  ahead.  Every 
member  of  our  large  family  worked 
and  helped,  old  and  young  alike. 
The  potatoes  were  gathered  and 
stored  in  a  long,  covered  pit  near 
the  corner  rock  wall;  the  squash 
were  in  the  barn  ready  to  be  cov- 
ered; garden  vegetables  were  safely 
stored  in  pits  and  trenches.  Apples 
— pearmains,  winesaps,  Spitzenburgs, 
and  limber  twigs  —  had  all  been 
gathered  from  the  tall,  shaggy  trees. 
Some  had  been  covered  in  pits,  and 

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some  were  stored  in  bins  and  shelves 
in  the  cellar  under  the  south  part 
of  the  big  brick  farmhouse. 

In  the  stackyard  were  the  shocks 
of  corn,  ready  to  be  husked;  the 
corn  would  be  fed  to  the  fattening 
hogs,  and  the  fodder  would  be  car- 
ried to  the  shed  for  the  calves.  The 
barn  was  full  to  overflowing  with 
hay,  the  Conestoga  wagon  was 
backed  into  the  shed.  The  bins  in 
both  the  new  and  old  granaries 
were  brimfull  of  golden  wheat  to  be 
hauled  to  the  mill  for  grist  through 
the  year. 

Now,  it  was  time  for  our  one-day 
vacation— pine  nutting.  We  young- 
er children  looked  forward  to  this 
with  delight.  There  was  no  need 
to  call  us  to  get  up  a  second  time 
on  the  morning  of  our  trip.  With 
lunch  basket  and  demijohn  of  water 
and  buckets  for  gathering  the  cones, 
we  were  ready  for  our  adventure. 
The  double  bed  wagonbox,  with  its 
two  high  spring  seats  and  an  as- 
sorted group  of  youngsters,  held 
fully  as  much  happiness  as  any  mod- 
ern conveyance  taking  a  group  to 
the  circus. 

Behind  the  sturdy  rock  wall, 
after  we  crossed  the  big  ditch,  w^e 
disturbed  a  flock  of  chickadees 
noisily  fluttering  and  feeding  among 
the  dried  sunflowers  and  milkweed 
plants.  At  the  upper  gate,  we 
climbed  over  the  wagonbox  and 
high  wheels  to  open  and  close  the 
swinging  gate,  then  back  again  to 
our  places,  with  our  eyes  open  to 


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see  new  and  interesting  sights  and 
experiences. 

Around  the  corner,  as  we  crossed 
Comanche  Creek,  we  watched  a 
number  of  striped  chipmunks  scur- 
r\'ing  around  for  food  to  store  for 
their  winter  hibernation.  On  the 
brown  cedar  posts  at  the  west 
boundary  of  the  upper  section,  we 
saw  a  noisv  be\'v  of  blackbirds  sun- 
ning  themsehes  after  they  had 
breakfasted  in  the  nearb\-  wheat 
stubble.  On  we  traveled  past  the 
north  springs  to  the  mountain  road 
deep  rutted  and  steep,  but  kept  in 
usable  condition  by  townspeople 
who  hauled  their  \\inter  wood  from 
the  nearby  hills  and  mountainsides. 
Occasionally,  a  lizard  or  a  garter 
snake  slithered  from  the  roadside  to 
the  shelter  of  a  sagebrush  or  a 
sheltering  rock. 

AT  long  last  we  left  the  town  and 
farms  far  to  the  cast,  and  the 
horses  came  to  a  stop  under  a  pine 
tree  hanging  hea\y  with  cones. 
These  cones  were  about  the  size  of 
an  apple  and  were  made  up  of  seg- 
ments tightly  encircling  a  woody 
core.  Deep  down  in  each  segment 
nestled  a  little  o\al-shaped  nut,  e\'en 
more  cozy  than  the  downy  pussies 
in  their  willow  catkins.  These  cones 
were  hard  to  handle,  they  had  a 
sticky,  ooz)  coating  that  stuck  to 
our  hands  like  glue. 

The  sun  was  high  o\erhcad;  it 
was  noon,  so  we  spread  our  lunch 
on  the  ground  in  the  shade  of  the 
wagon.  Afterward,  came  the  knock- 
ing with  hea\y  sticks  of  these  green 
treasure-laden,  hea\y  cones.  Un- 
lucky was  the  one  who  failed  to 
dodge  them  and  felt  their  \\'eight 


on  his  head  or  bare  feet.  We  all 
worked  with  a  will.  Not  until  the 
double-bed  wagonbox  was  almost 
filled  to  the  top  were  we  ready  to 
quit.  Our  hands  were  sticky  and 
black.  We  were  tired  from  our 
long  hours  of  picking,  climbing  and 
lifting,  but  the  fun  of  it  o\ershad- 
owed  our  fatigue.  We  finished  the 
last  crust  from  our  noon  lunch.  Our 
horses,  Abe  and  Frank,  refreshed  by 
their  rest  and  a  nosesack  of  oats, 
were  harnessed,  and  we  began  our 
journey  home. 

At  the  first  turn  in  the  road,  we 
saw  the  eastern  \ermillion  cliffs 
across  the  \allcy  with  the  evening 
sun  casting  shadows  of  deep  and 
lo\elv  hues  of  purple,  rose,  and 
bronze  o\er  their  craggy  peaks. 

\Mien  we  arri\ed  home,  mother 
had  a  heavy  bed  of  live  coals  from 
a  long-burning  wood  fire  in  the 
back  \ard  pit.  Into  this  we  dumped 
our  load  of  sticky  green  cones,  cov- 
ered it  with  turf,  and  built  another 
fire  on  top  to  last  part  of  the  night. 

Next  d<\\  our  treasure-tro\e  was 
opened,  and  the  browned  and 
toasted  cones  \\crc  lifted  out.  Some 
of  them  ^^•cre  ahead)-  burstmg  open 
and  others  were  ready  to  open  with 
a  touch. 

Each  little  brown  pine  nut,  at 
first  just  a  morsel  of  milk  tucked  in 
its  individual  cradle,  had  been  nour- 
ished bv  the  parent  cone  all  through 
the  summer.  By  October  thev  were 
de\eloped  and  ripe,  ready  to  pop 
out  of  their  shelter,  ready  for  the 
toasting,  which  we  gave  them.  For 
true  delicacy  of  fla\or,  these  delec- 
table bits  of  goodness,  so  rich  and 
sweet,  are  sure  to  please  the  dis- 
criminating gourmet. 


Bleak  House 


Floience  B.  Dunioid 


44 


I 


'M  all  right,  everything's  fine/' 
Rose  Bennett  said. 

"You're  sure?"  That  was 
Walt,  wanting  the  impossible,  want- 
ing to  be  assured  of  the  impossible. 

Rose's  gray  eyes  met  his.  Every- 
thing's wrong,  it's  terrible,  you  know 
it's  terrible/  She  could  not  help  the 
silent  accusation.  Still,  it  was  not 
all  Walt's  fault.  Perhaps  he  had 
done  the  best  he  could  with  the 
small  amount  of  money,  the  time 
he  had. 

But  couldnt  you,  her  heart  cried 
out,  have  found  a  better  house  than 
this?  Something  at  least  respect- 
able? Something  that  wouldnt  de- 
grade the  children,  stamp  them  alJ, 
before  they  had  a  chance  to  prove 
themsehes? 

Walt  was  looking  at  her  anxious- 
ly. "You've  been  doing  too  much. 
I  should  have  stayed  home  this  week 
and  helped  you  get  settled.  Why 
don't  you  make  the  kids  help  you?" 

Rose  shook  her  dark  head.  "I'm 
not  tired.  Jimmy  and  Cathy  have 
worked  their  heads  off,  too."  She 
smiled  a  little  at  the  slang.  It  was 
like  a  man,  she  told  herself,  not  to 
get  at  the  real  reason.  And  Walt 
especially.  Because  he'd  done  the 
best  he  could  in  finding  a  house,  he 
felt  it  must  be  good  enough.  Besides 
he  was  gone  all  day  at  the  vast  dry 
farm  up  in  the  hills  where  he  had 
his  new  job  as  foreman. 

And  Walt  and  she,  well,  they 
were  different.  Looks,  appearance, 
had  always  meant  a  good  deal  to 
her. 

If  there  \\eren't  meat  or  some- 
thing nice  to  fix  in  the  house  for 

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company.  Rose  just  said  they 
couldn't  have  company.  If  Walt, 
in  his  rather  carefree  manner,  asked 
them  to  dinner  anyway.  Rose  suf- 
fered. They  were  just  different, 
that  was  all,  made  so  by  their  early 
environment,  the  way  they  were 
reared.  Or,  maybe,  just  because  one 
was  a  man  and  the  other  a  woman. 

Yet,  it  was  not  of  herself  Rose 
had  been  thinking  this  past  week. 
Today  was  the  first  day  of  school. 
Jinny,  who  was  seventeen,  with  her 
auburn  hair  and  pale  complexion 
and  green  eyes,  should  make  friends. 
But  children,  like  grownups,  were 
critical.  Once  they  discovered,  and 
in  this  siuall  college  town  e\eryone 
would  know  it  already,  that  the  new 
girls  lived  in  that  terrible,  ugly,  bleak 
old  house  by  the  railroad  tracks, 
Cathy,  who  was  fifteen,  even  the 
tw^o  small  boys,  would  suffer. 

It's  just  that  we've  never  lived  like 
this,  Rose  almost  told  Walt  now. 
In  Fremont,  where  they'd  lived 
since  their  marriage,  they'd  had  a 
nice  respectable  looking  house. 
Almost  a  pretty  place.  Rose  had 
promised  herself  one  day  to  have 
the  yellow  and  brown  frame  painted 
a  clear  white  edged  with  green.  She 
had  never  gotten  the  clapboard  win- 
dows she  wanted.  Still  she  had  not 
minded,  set  back  as  the  house  was 
on  the  wide  green  lawn,  shaded  on 
the  east  by  the  apple  orchard,  on  the 
west  by  the  fragrant  berry  bushes 
and  vines. 

She  lifted  her  face  now  for  her 
husband's  kiss.  "You  go  along," 
she  said.  "Everything's  fine."  She 
steadied  herself  to  keep  back   the 


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tears  that  kept  demanding  to  gush 
forth.  She  hfted  her  chin.  ''We 
can't  have  everything.  And  it  was 
my  idea  we  move  to  Gihiiore  for 
the  schools." 

Walt  nodded,  kissed  her,  and 
was  gone.  Jinny  and  Cathy  and  the 
two  boys  had  already  left  for  school. 

Fve  done  as  much  as  I  can  with 
the  dreadful  inside,  Rose  told  her- 
self. 

A  faint  worried  cry  from  one  of  the 
bedrooms  on  the  east  caught 
her  attention.  She  hurried  into  the 
kitchen,  took  the  bottle  from  the 
pan  of  water  where  it  had  been 
warming  on  the  coal  range.  The 
baby  was  only  three  months  old. 
She  could  not  have  left  him  for  days, 
even  with  Jinny  and  Cathy.  He 
had  not  been  doing  well.  Until 
this  past  week  when  the  doctor  in 
Fremont  had  given  her  a  new  form- 
ula, nothing  had  agreed  with  him. 

After  the  baby  had  taken  his  bot- 
tle, she  came  out  of  the  bedroom 
and  crossed  the  carpeted  floor  of  the 
living  room.  Parting  the  creamy 
voile  curtains,  she  looked  out  front, 
in  a  vain  hope  that  things  were  not 
as  bad  as  she  remembered. 

The  ugly,  treeless,  baked  dooryard 
was  like  a  blow  in  her  face.  Poor 
children,  to  come  to  a  home  like 
this!     Poor  Jinny  and  Cathy! 

She  continued  to  stand  by  the 
windo\\,  forcing  herself  to  accept 
reality. 

Across  the  street  in  the  other  di- 
rection, toward  the  west,  was  a  fine 
brick  house.  Set  back  on  its  wide 
tree-lined  yard,  it  belonged  to  the 
Sheltons,  well-to-do  dry  farmers. 
The  tall  curly-haired  son  was  Jinny's 
age. 

Directlv  across  the  street  on  the 


west.  Rose  could  see  it  from  her 
kitchen  door,  li\'ed  the  Linley  twins. 
Blonde,  petite,  gay  and  happy  in 
their  two-storv  colonial  house.  Rose 
had  already  heard  of  the  colorful, 
gay  parties  the  girls  gave  in  the  big 
garden,  with  its  weeping  willows  and 
flower-bordered  walks. 

Walt's  words  came  back  to  her. 
"It  was  all  I  could  find,"  he  had 
said.  That  was  all.  Six  words  that 
made  of  them  outcasts. 

Under  the  stress  of  her  emotion 
she  could  think  of  no  work  she 
could  do  inside.  So  she  went  to- 
ward the  bedroom,  the  baby  in  her 
arms  for  solace. 

"There,  there,  my  pet,"  she 
crooned,  rocking  him  against  her. 
"Don't  you  cry.    Don't  you  cry." 

The  baby,  wakened  from  his 
sound  nap,  opened  his  blue  eyes  and 
smiled. 

By  five  o'clock  Rose  had  roused 
herself,  determined  to  face  her 
despair.  Walt,  whose  folks,  though 
English-born,  were  pioneers  in  Ida- 
ho and  Fremont,  liked  hearty  meals, 
fragrant  soups  with  potatoes  and 
carrots,  celery  and  onions  and  rice, 
and  lots  of  meat  edged  with  fat. 
Rose  cooked  to  please  him. 

CUE  had  expected  the  girls  to  rush 
home  the  moment  their  last 
class  was  over.  Jinny's  sensitive 
face  would  be  red  and  tear-streaked 
and  swollen.  Jinny  cried  easily.  It 
would  be  more  like  Cathy  to  go 
straight  to  her  room,  quiet  but 
heartbroken.  Even  the  two  boys, 
six  and  eight,  had  not  come  home. 
The  first  hour  had  seemed  like  a 
reprieve  from  the  gallows.  Now,  as 
the  clock  in  the  front  room  struck 
five-thirtv.  Rose  became  anxious. 
She  opened  the  oven  door,  set  the 


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fragrant  golden-brown  bread  pud- 
ding on  the  back  of  the  range.  The 
table  in  the  large  kitchen-dining 
room  was  already  laid.  She  closed 
the  rear  side  door  now,  mindful  of 
curious  eyes  from  across  the  street. 
No  one  would  believe,  seeing  the 
outside  of  the  house,  the  surround- 
ings, that  well-bred  people  lived 
here. 

Suddenly  the  family  all  burgeoned 
in  on  her  at  once.  Even  Walt, 
whom  she  had  not  expected  until 
darkness  struck.  Expecting  a  hav- 
oc, a  storm,  their  voices  were  light 
as  spring. 

"Don't  take  time  to  change  your 
clothes,"  Rose  told  them.  ''Dinner's 
on  the  table.  What  made  everyone 
so  late?" 

Walt,  tall  in  his  levis  and  soft 
wool  shirt,  was  the  only  one  besides 
herself  who  was  not  dressed  in  his 
best.  As  the  bright  chatter  of  the 
children  subsided,  he  bowed  his 
dark  head. 

''Our  Father  in  heaven,"  he 
prayed,  in  the  sudden  silence,  "we 
thank  thee  for  thy  bounty." 

The  moment  he  finished,  Rose 
knew  the  children  \\'ould  begin  their 
woes.  Whatever  had  made  them 
brave  for  the  moment  would  be 
forgotten.  Their  bitter  experiences 
of  the  day  would  come  tumbling 
out. 

"Well,  what  happened  today, 
kids?"  That  was  \\'alt,  good-na- 
tured, careless  of  his  grammar.  He 
turned  to  Jinny.  "IIa\e  a  nice  time 
your  first  day  of  school?" 

The  two  boys  began  to  chatter  at 
once.  "We're  in  a  ball  team.  We 
stayed  after  school  to  practice.  Joey 
is  catcher.  We  need  shoes  and  a 
mit." 

Rose  nodded,  holding  her  breath. 


The  boys  were  like  their  father,  cal- 
lous to  what  went  on.  Tomorrow, 
next  week.  It  w^ould  take  them  a 
little  longer  to  realize,  to  have 
thrown  in  their  young  faces,  to  ad- 
mit they  would  be  looked  down  on, 
because  of  the  house  in  which  they 
lived. 

Cathy  was  speaking  now,  her 
warm  olive  skin  flushed,  her  long 
hazel  eyes  eager  and  excited.  "The 
nicest  thing  happened,"  she  was  say- 
ing, and  Rose  blinked  her  eyes  and 
felt  that  she  was  dreaming. 

"The  nicest  thing  happened," 
Cathy  said  again.  "At  our  first  class 
—it  was  English— Miss  Mortensen, 
that's  the  teacher's  name,  had  all 
the  new  students  stand  and  tell 
their  names,  where  they  were  from 
and  where  they  lived." 

Rose  held  her  breath.  The  chil- 
dren sensed  her  abstraction.  Cathy 
turned  to  her  and  said,  "Mother, 
Mother,  are  you  listening?" 

Rose  nodded.  "And  what  did  you 
say?  What  did  you  tell  your  .  .  . 
your  teacher,  where  you  lived?" 

"I  told  her,"  Cathy  said,  her  eye^^ 
clear  and  sweet  and  steadv,  "in  the 
old  Jensen  house  down  by  the  de- 
pot. .  .  ." 

"Yes  .  .  ."  Rose  breathed.  All  the 
feelings  of  the  children,  what  she 
thought  they  would  be  feeling, 
poured  down  on  her  like  an  ava- 
lanche. 

/^ATHY'S  eyes  were  serious,  but 
sparkling  still.  ''And  she 
said.  ..."  Cathy  looked  round  the 
o\al  table,  with  its  white  cloth,  tri- 
umphantly, for  effect,  "Miss  Mor- 
tensen said  that  it  was  good  to  see 
some  really  nice  people  had  moved 
here.  Because  now  it  would  be 
fixed  up!" 


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''Fixed  .  .  .  up?"  The  words  fal- 
tered from  Rose's  lips,  sounding 
stupid,  yet  lightning-sharp,  even  to 
her.    "Fixed  up?" 

It  was  true  that  she  had  done  the 
best  she  could  with  the  inside.  But 
it  was  the  outside  that  seemed  im- 
possible. Besides  that,  some  men 
were  handy  at  painting  and  plant- 
ing. Walt  was  not.  When  work  of 
that  sort  was  done,  they  had  to  hire 
it  done. 

'Tixed  up?"  That  was  Walt.  And 
his  eyes,  too,  were  shining.  Yet 
even  he  could  not  match  the  happi- 
ness, the  exuberance  of  all  the  chil- 
dren. 

''Know  what?"  Jinny  said,  break- 
ing in  on  her  father.  Quick  tears 
came  into  her  green  eyes.  "At  noon 
today  I  got  acquainted  with  the  Lin- 
ley  twins  across  the  street.  They're 
having  a  big  lawn  party  this  Satur- 
day night,  the  last  of  the  season, 
they  said." 

No  one  broke  in  upon  Jinny. 
There  was  a  happy,  I-told-you-so 
silence  from  Walt  and  the  other 
children. 

"And  that's  not  all,"  Jinny  said, 
lifting  her  piquant  face  proudly. 
"The  dark,  curly-haired  boy  across 
the  street,  Dick  Shelton,  walked 
home  with  me  from  school.  He 
asked  me  to  go  to  the  partv  with 
him." 

There  was  more,  of  course.  Rose 
found  the  heart  then,  and  the  voice, 
to  tell  them  about  the  real  improve- 
ment in  the  baby.  How  he  had 
really,  yes,  really,  laughed  up  at  her 
that  afternoon! 

Yet  it  was  not  until  they  were  all 
abed,  Walt  lying  beside  her  in  the 
quiet  of  the  autumn  night,  the  cur- 


tains blowing  softly  at  the  open  win- 
dows, that  he  told  her  his  news. 

"I  told  Thomas  about  the  house," 
he  said.  Mr.  Thomas  was  owner  of 
the  immense  dry  farm.  "Today,  he 
said  I  might  have  Henry  and  a 
couple  of  the  other  hands  for  a  few 
days,  as  soon  as  there's  a  lull  at  the 
ranch.  Henry  does  all  the  painting 
on  the  main  house  and  the  out- 
buildings. He  says  we  might  even 
round  up  enough  white  paint  to  do 
our  house. 

"And  that's  not  all,"  Walt  went 
on.  "One  of  the  men  is  a  first-rate 
carpenter.  He's  coming  tomorrow 
to  measure  for  those  clapboard 
things  you  want  at  the  windows." 
He  chuckled  as  though  it  was  all  to 
be  expected. 

Rose  stretched  out  a  hand, 
touched  his  shoulder  lightly.  Walt 
had  not  been  so  callous  to  their 
needs  after  all.  Like  Miss  Morten- 
sen  said,  he  was  a  nice  person.  Else 
how  could  the  children  be  so  nice? 

It  had  been  Rose  herself  who  had 
been  hopeless  and  therefore  help- 
less. Feeling  that  what  was,  was, 
and  could  not  be  helped  or  changed. 

"And  the  yard?"  For  the  first 
time  she  could  even  mention  the 
despicable,  disreputable  yard. 

"Oh,  the  yard,"  Walt  was  yawn- 
ing. "I'm  bringing  a  small  tractor 
down  this  Saturday.  Henry  will 
help  me  with  that,  too.  And  you 
know  what?  Not  far  from  the 
ranch  there's  a  whole  grove  of  trees, 
pines  and  quaking  aspen.  Henry  says 
they'll  transplant." 

It  was  Rose's  turn  to  yawn  now, 
from  sheer  happiness.  "The  chil- 
dren will  all  help.  And  I  can,  too. 
The  baby's  better.  It'll  do  us  both 
good  to  be  outside  in  this  lovely 
autumn  weather." 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


General  Secretary-Treasurer  Hiilda  Parlcer 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  HandbooJc  oi  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Nina  Beth  G.   Cunningham 

GOODING  STAKE    (IDAHO)    SINGING  MOTHERS   PRESENT  MUSIG   FOR 
VISITING  TEACHERS  CONVENTION,  May  11,  1957 

Seated  at  the  left  in  the  front  row  is  the  chorister  Rachel  Howard;  Myrtle  Wood- 
land, organist,  is  seated  third  from  the  left  in  the  second  row;  Helen  Giles,  Counselor, 
is  fifth  from  the  right  in  the  second  row:  Nina  Beth  G.  Cunningham,  President,  Good- 
ing Stake  Relief  Society,  is  seated  third  from  the  right  in  the  second  row;  former 
president  Jenna  Vee  Hall,  is  seated  at  the  left  in  the  third  row. 

Counselor  Idella  Walker  and  Secretary  Bessie  Standlee  are  not  in  the  picture. 

Sister  Cunningham  reports:  ''At  this  convention.  Elder  Leland  H.  Monson, 
author  of  the  theology  lessons,  held  spellbound  more  than  200  sisters  and  some  mem- 
bers of  the  Priesthood  with  his  discourse  on  The  Book  of  Mormon.  His  strong 
testimony  that  The  Book  of  Mormon  is  divine  engraved  a  deeper  conviction  in  the  hearts 
of  many,  some  of  whom  expressed  their  feelings  in  the  testimonial  which  followed.  The 
extensive  efforts  of  the  Singing  Mothers  and  their  leaders  became  a  fruitful  experience 
in  providing  a  beautiful  setting  for  the  convention  sessions.  Members  of  the  stake 
Relief  Society  board  served  as  ushers  and  also  served  a  hot  dinner  to  the  congrega- 
tion. .  .  .  Our  members  are  scattered  over  a  wide  area.  The  spirit  of  the  Lord 
reigned  supreme,  and  the  convention  was  a  rich  spiritual  experience." 

Page  680 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


681 


Photographs  submitted  by  Frances  P.  Andrus 

NORTHERN  FAR  EAST  MISSION,  HIROSHIMA  BRANCH  RELIEF  SOCIETY 

MAKES  FIRST  WESTERN  QUILT 

At  the  right,  the  quilt  is  displayed  by  Sister  Esther  Sato,  missionary. 

At  left,  left  to  right:  Tami  Kagoshima;  Miyoko  Kamotani;  Yoshiko  Naito;  Reiko 
Otomori;  Nikuno  Nishihara;  Joyce  C.  Worthen. 

Frances  P.  Andrus,  President,  Northern  Far  East  Mission  Relief  Society,  reports: 
"The  Hiroshima  Branch  Relief  Society  has  finished  the  first  western  quilt  to  be  made 
in  the  Northern  Far  East  Mission.  Oriental  design  was  used  on  the  appliqued  pattern 
of  gray,  black,  and  turquoise  on  yellow,  with  a  deep  wine-colored  background.  Joyce 
Worthen  of  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah,  and  Esther  Sato  of  Hawaii  directed  the  project. 
Sister  Worthen  designed  the  quilt.  The  Japanese  sisters,  undoubtedly,  enjoyed  this 
new  experience,  and  plans  are  now  underway  for  making  more  quilts." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Mai  B.  Oveson 

UNION  STAKE  (OREGON)  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  FOR 
MORNING  SESSION  OF  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

April  1957 

Mai  B.  Oveson,  President,  Union  Stake  ReHef  Society,  reports  that  six  wards  and 
three  branches  were  represented  in  this  chorus.  The  stake  chorister  is  Marie  Wake- 
field and  the  organist  is  Evelyn  Jones. 


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Photograph  submitted  by   Gwen  H.   Lyman 

GARFIELD   STAKE    (UTAH)    RELIEF   SOCIETY   HONORS   VISITING 
TEACHERS  WHO  HAVE  SERVED  FOR  FORTY  YEARS  AND  OVER 

May  4,  1957 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Nellie  Smith;  Ahce  Bailey;  Amanda  Mitchell;  Emma 
Gates;  Elizabeth  Frost;  Francis  Shakespear;  Polly  Spencer;  Mary  Mooseman. 

Second  row:  Minnie  Smith;  Zella  Willis;  Mary  Lyman;  Jane  Roundy;  Emily  Pol- 
lock; Annie  Alvey;  Eliza  Mclnelly. 

Back  row:  Ethel  Clark;  Rachel  Thompson;  Alta  Henderson;  Elizabeth  Miller; 
Susan  Heaps. 

Members  not  present  when  the  picture  was  taken:  Allie  Spencer;  Fern  Henderson; 
Johanna  Barker;  Matilda  Shakespear;  Sarah  T.  Osborn;  Rosie  G.  Roundy;  Ella  Roundy; 
Lovisa  Johnson. 

The  social  was  held  at  Escalante  and  the  sisters  were  presented  with  potted  plants. 

Gwen  H.  Lyman  is  president  of  Garfield  Stake  Relief  Society. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Irene  P.  Kerr 

BRITISH  MISSION,  DISTRICT  RELIEF  SOCIETY  SUPERVISORS 
CONVENTION,  NOTTINGHAM,  July  6,  1957 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Cecilia  Edwards,  Supervisor,  Wales  District; 
Margaret  Anderson,  Assistant  Supervisor,  Manchester  District;  Mary  Price,  Assistant 
Supervisor,  London  District;  Maud  A.  Hawkes,  Counselor  in  Mission  Rehef  Society 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


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Presidency;  Irene  P.  Kerr,  President,  British  Mission  Relief  Society;  Mary  Laycock, 
Counselor  in  Mission  Relief  Society  Presidency;  Gladys  Fullwood,  Supervisor,  Liverpool 
District;  Rhona  Cunningham,  Supervisor,  London  District;  Mary  Porch,  Supervisor, 
Scotland  District. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Olive  Guest,  Supervisor,  Hull  District;  Clare 
Clegg,  Supervisor,  Leeds  District;  Ivy  Holder,  Supervisor,  Bristol  District;  Lorna  Mur- 
den.  Supervisor,  Sheffield  District;  Mildred  Jennis,  Supervisor,  Norwich  District; 
Rhoda  Tinson,  Supervisor,  Nottingham  District;  E.  R.  Elgers,  Supervisor,  Birming- 
ham District;  Vera  Hewitt,  Supervisor,  Newcastle  District. 

Joan  Davison,  Supervisor,  Ireland  District,  was  not  present  when  the  picture  was 
taken. 

Sister  Kerr  reports:  "Sister  Rhoda  Tinson  acted  as  hostess.  Thirteen  of  our 
fourteen  districts  were  represented.  District  President  Oliver  Storer  and  his  counselor 
George  Winfield  attended  our  meetings,  thus  showing  the  interest  and  support  given 
the  Relief  Society  organization  by  the  Priesthood.  The  spirit  of  love  and  oneness 
of  purpose  was  manifest.  During  the  morning  meetings,  instructions,  suggestions,  and 
helps  were  given  by  the  Mission  Relief  Society  President  and  her  two  counselors  on 
administrative  problems,  visiting  teaching,  w^elfare,  work  projects,  and  lessons  for  the 
coming  season.  During  the  afternoon,  suggestive  articles  for  bazaars  were  shown  and 
explained,  a  question  and  answer  period  was  held,  and  time  was  given  for  testimony 
bearing.  Each  one  present  expressed  gratitude  for  the  Church,  for  the  Relief  Society 
organization,  and  for  opportunities  to  serve  in  the  Lord's  work.  The  noon  hour  was 
spent  enjoying  a  delicious  meal  prepared  and  served  by  the  sisters  of  Nottingham. 
All  the  sisters  returned  to  their  districts  with  renewed  enthusiasm  and  a  desire  to 
improve  the  functions  of  Relief  Society." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Vella  V.  Tilton 

FLORIDA  STAKE  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC  FOR 
RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONVENTION 

April  29,  1957 

Seated  at  the  piano:  Rosalind  Crosby,  chorister;  Betty  Jo  Boos,  organist. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Marian  H.  Madsen,  First  Counselor,  Florida 
Stake  Relief  Society;  Evon  W.  Peterson,  member,  General  Board  of  Relief  Society; 
Alvin  C.  Chace,  President,  Florida  Stake;  Blanche  B.  Stoddard,  member.  General  Board 
of  Relief  Society;  Hazel  T.  Reed,  Second  Counselor,  Florida  Stake  Rehef  Society; 
Edith  Roberson,  Secretary-Treasurer,  Florida  Stake  Relief  Society. 

Vella  V.  Tilton,  President.  Florida  Stake  Relief  Society,  was  unable  to  attend 
the  convention  because  of  illness.  She  reports,  however,  that  the  sisters  received  much 
inspiration  at  the  meetings. 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Fern  Horton 

SANTAQUIN-TINTIC   STAKE    (UTAH)    SINGING  MOTHERS   PRESENT 
MUSIC  FOR  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE,  June  1957 

Fern  Horton  is  president  of  Santaquin-Tintic  Stake  Relief  Society;  Jennie  Bylund 
is  stake  chorister;  the  singing  was  conducted  by  Vera  P.  Patten;  and  Bonnie  Milner  was 
organist.  Sister  Horton  reports  that  this  group  has  sung  in  many  conferences  and  the 
members  are  very  faithful. 


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Photojjraph  submitted  by  Eugenia  N.   Logan 

OAHU  STAKE    (HAWAII)    VISITING  TEACHERS  CONVENTION 

AT  LAIE,  March  30,  1957 

Seated,  left  center  of  the  picture,  beginning  with  Stake  President  Edward  L. 
Clissold,  and  reading  towards  the  right:  Irene  Clissold,  member,  Oahu  Stake  Relief 
Society  Board;  Lily  Colburn,  missionary;  Evelyn  Miyamoto,  stake  board  member;  Emily 
Enos,  First  Counselor,  Oahu  Stake  Relief  Society;  Isabelle  Kin  Kee,  Second  Counselor; 
Eugenia  Logan,  President;  Sylvia  Boe,  chorister;  Victoria  Kamakaokalani,  Magazine  rep- 
resentative; Elizabeth  K.  Forsythe,  Secretary. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


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Sister  Forsythe  reports:  "The  meeting  was  conducted  by  Emily  Enos  and  presided 
over  by  Eugenia  Logan,  President,  under  the  direction  of  President  Edward  L.  Chssold 
of  Oahu  Stake.  Total  attendance  was  158  sisters,  three  bishops,  one  high  councilman, 
and  President  Clissold.  Lunch  was  prepared  and  served  by  Isabelle  Lin  Kee,  with  the 
assistance  of  the  work  director  counselors  of  the  wards  and  branches.  After  lunch,  a 
presentation  of  Church  books  was  made  to  all  the  wards  and  branches  for  their  efforts 
in  enlisting  members  for  the  Relief  Society.  Relief  Society  pins  were  presented  to  the 
following  sisters  for  their  years  of  service  in  the  visiting  teacher  program:  Simuta  Veali 
(Hauula  Branch);  Joyce  Sears  (Halawa  Ward);  Rachel  Price  (Kalihi  Ward);  Maggie 
Broad  (Laie  First  Ward);  Leialoha  Jenson  (Laie  Second  Ward);  Abigail  Kaleiheana 
(Lanakila  Ward);  Lily  Ing  (Moanalua  Ward);  Katherine  Holi  (Nanakuli  Branch); 
Mary  Bertleman  (Pearl  City  Branch);  Susie  Kim  (Wahiawa  Ward)." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Arta  R.  Ballif 

NEW  ZEALAND  MISSION  RELIEF  SOCIETY  DISPLAYS  AT  HUI  TAU 
(ANNUAL  CONFERENCE),  April  18-22,  1957 

At  the  right:  Arta  R.  Ballif,  in  charge  of  the  women's  auxiliaries,  wife  of  President 
Ariel  S.  Ballif  of  the  New  Zealand  Mission.  At  the  left  Gertrude  Grant,  President, 
New  Zealand  Mission  Relief  Society,  acting  under  direction  of  Sister  Arta  R.  Balhf, 
New  Zealand  Mission. 

Sister  Ballif  reports:  "On  display  were  quilts,  crocheting,  embroidering,  floral  pieces, 
effective  visual  aids  to  promote  daily  reading  of  The  Book  of  Mormon  reading 
course.  The  Color  Wheel  depicted  the  warmth  and  color  brought  into  our  lives  by 
the  use  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine.  Of  interest  to  all  visitors  was  the  Mother 
Goose  party  table,  seeming  to  bring  to  life  all  the  favorite  characters  of  the  toddlers 
....  The  centerpiece  was  the  shoe  in  which  the  little  old  lady  and  her  children  lived. 
Secretaries  were  instructed  through  charts  and  graphs.  Visiting  teachers  were  given 
helpful  suggestions.  Visual  aids  for  teaching  and  'take-away'  hints  were  distributed  to 
all  visitors.  The  'Haere  Mai  ki  te  Hui  Atawhai,'  slogan  for  Relief  Society  was  adopted 
for  1957,  and  displayed  on  banners.  It  means:  'Come  to  Relief  Society,  welcome  and 
love  to  all.'  Five  hours  on  Friday  morning  were  devoted  to  inspirational  talks,  demon- 
stration teaching,  and  executive  instructions  in  Relief  Society." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Edith  E.  Baddley 

SOUTH  BOX  ELDER  STAKE  (UTAH),  FIRST  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY 

CLOSING  SOCIAL,  June  4,  1957 

Left  to  right,  retiring  officers:  Karen  Wilde;  Lucille  Olsen;  Leona  Reese.  New 
officers:  Dora  Richards,  President;  Phyllis  Owens;  Emma  Prisbrey;  Hazel  Packer. 

This  social,  planned  around  the  theme  "Memories,"  honored  the  retiring  ward 
officers  and  their  daughters,  and  the  members  of  the  stake  Relief  Society  board.  Sister 
Lillian  Felt  sang  "Memories,"  and  all  of  the  program  numbers  were  cleverly  introduced 
in  rhyme  by  Sister  Nelda  Parson,  as  she  took  keepsakes  from  a  small  chest.  A  tribute 
to  the  visiting  teachers  was  given  by  Alice  R.  Rich,  from  her  recently  published  book 
of  poetry,  followed  by  a  piano  solo  by  Linda  Jeppson.  The  Singing  Mothers  furnished 
numbers,  and  Rita  Classen  sang  a  solo.  The  accompanists  for  the  afternoon  were 
Jean  Packer,  Barbara  Rasmussen,  Paulette  Lichtenstein,  and  Ethel  Poulter.  Hazel 
Packer  presented  a  lovely  tribute  to  the  memory  of  the  late  Sarah  Carruthers.  All  of 
the  honored  guests  were  presented  with  corsages  and  special  gifts.  From  the  globe  in 
the  center  of  the  table  ribbons  extend  to  "graduates"  representing  subjects  taught  in 
Relief  Society.     Refreshments  were  served. 

Edith  E.  Baddley  is  president  of  South  Box  Elder  Stake  Relief  Society. 


Scent  of  Jxutumn 


Hazel  M.  Thomson 


Bright,  turning  leaves, 

And  a  chill  in  the  air, 

Give  a  sense  of  summer's  loss, 

And  yet. 

It  wasn't  quite  definite, 

Until  I  smelled  chilisauce. 


LESSON   DEPARTMENT 


cJheology^ — The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Lesson  4— The  Prophecy  Concerning  Elijah  the  Prophet 

Elder  Roy  W.  Doxey 

(Text:  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants:  Section  2) 

For  Tuesday,  January  7,  1958 

Objective:  To  show  the  value  of  the  prophet  Ehjah's  predicted  visit  to  the  earth 
in  our  dispensation. 


The  Place  oi  Section  Two  in 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

CECTION  2  is  the  first  in  chron- 
^  ological  sequence  of  the  revela- 
tions in  The  Doctrine  and  Cove- 
nants. It  is  appropriate  that  one 
of  the  messages  of  this  volume 
of  scripture  should  be  brought  to 
the  attention  of  the  student  early  in 
this  study— the  message  that  The 
Doctrine  and  Covenants  attests  to 
the  reality  of  the  future  life  by  the 
revelations  which  tell  of  the  return 
to  the  earth  of  resurrected  beings. 
Section  2  was  placed  in  The  Doc- 
trine and  Covenants  for  the  first 
time  in  the  1876  edition.  It  is  also 
found  in  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith's 
history  (D.  H.  C.  1:12),  and  in  The 
Pearl  of  Great  Price,  Writings  oi 
Joseph  Smith  2:38-39. 

In  addition  to  attesting  to  the  fact 
of  the  resurrection,  there  are  two 
more  points  to  be  remembered  from 


the  historical  background  or  con- 
text, of  this  section.  First,  that  the 
coming  of  the  ancient  American 
prophet  Moroni  to  Joseph  Smith  on 
September  21,  1823,  was  the  begin- 
ning of  the  ministry  of  angels  in 
this  dispensation.  Second,  that  the 
misconceptions  of  men  relative  to 
angels  were  made  known  early  to 
Joseph  Smith. 

The  great  importance  of  the  re- 
ality of  the  resurrection  will  be  dis- 
cussed later  during  this  course. 

Ministry  of  AngeJs 

The  second  fact— the  ministry  of 
angels— opens  up  a  number  of  ideas 
which  are  important  also.  Although 
men  claimed  that  revelation  from 
God  had  ceased,  there  was  no  scrip- 
tural justification  for  such  belief. 
(See  Lesson  One.)  When  people 
of  faith  have  lived  upon  the  earth, 
the  Lord  has  revealed  his  will  to 
them  in  various  ways,  such  as  by 

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the  ministry  of  angels.  When  peo- 
ple believe  that  revelation  is  no 
longer  received  nor  necessary,  such 
communication  from  the  heavens 
is  withheld.  (See  Moroni  7:22-29, 
37.)  The  coming  of  the  angel 
Moroni  was  prophesied  for  this  dis- 
pensation. (See  Revelation  14:6-7.) 

Although  the  scriptures  teach  that 
angels  are  fellow-beings  and  fellow- 
servants  of  us  mortals  and  should 
be  thought  of  as  those  who  have 
lived  on  earth  and  have  passed  on 
to  serve  as  heavenly  messengers, 
men  have  conceived  them  to  be 
vastly  different  from  us,  for  one 
thing,  having  wings  as  a  means  of 
locomotion. 

In  describing  the  heavenly  being 
Moroni,  Joseph  Smith  made  known 
the  following  truths  in  answer  to 
prayer  for  further  enlightenment 
from  God. 

While  I  was  thus  in  the  act  of  calling 
upon  God,  I  discovered  a  light  appearing 
in  my  room,  which  continued  to  increase 
until  the  room  was  lighter  than  at  noon- 
day, when  immediately  a  personage  ap- 
peared at  my  bedside,  standing  in  the  air, 
for  his  feet  did  not  touch  the  floor.  He 
had  on  a  loose  robe  of  most  exquisite 
whiteness.  It  was  a  whiteness  beyond 
anything  earthly  I  had  ever  seen  nor  do 
I  believe  that  any  earthly  thing  could  be 
made  to  appear  so  exceedingly  white  and 
brilliant.  His  hands  were  naked  and  his 
arms  also,  a  little  above  the  wrist,  so, 
also  were  his  feet  naked,  as  were  his  legs, 
a  little  above  the  ankles.  His  head  and 
neck  were  also  bare.  .  .  .  Not  only  was 
his  robe  exceedingly  white,  but  his  whole 
person  was  glorious  beyond  description, 
and  his  countenance  truly  like  lightning. 
The  room  was  exceedingly  light,  but  not 
so  very  bright  as  immediately  around  his 
person. 

When  first  I  looked  upon  him,  I  was 
afraid  but  the  fear  soon  left  me  (D.  H.  C. 
I:ii). 

Joseph  Smith  was  instructed  many 


times  by  Moroni,  who  had  lived 
upon  the  American  Continent  over 
fourteen  hundred  years  before,  but, 
as  a  resurrected  being,  he  came  as  a 
"fellow-servant"  of  those  who  were 
seeking  to  assist  in  the  salvation  of 
mankind.  For  this  purpose  was 
Joseph  Smith  commissioned  by  God 
through  the  reopening  of  the  heav- 
ens in  fulfillment  of  Bible  proph- 
ecies. The  modern  Prophet,  Joseph 
Smith,  could  testify  not  only  that 
the  Father  and  the  Son,  Jesus  Christ, 
truly  existed,  but  also  that  the  testi- 
mony of  the  Bible  prophets  concern- 
ing the  ministration  of  angels  was 
true. 

Elijah  and  Moroni 

An  era  of  faith  had  begun;  a  new 
dispensation  of  the  gospel  with  its 
miracles,  had  been  committed  to 
man  upon  the  earth  and  angels  min- 
istered once  more  to  the  Lord's  ap- 
pointed. Section  2  is  about  another 
angel  from  God  who  also  had  an 
important  place  in  the  dispensation 
of  the  fulness  of  times.  His  com- 
ing to  the  earth  followed  that  of 
Moroni,  who  spoke  of  Elijah  in  his 
visit  to  Joseph  Smith.  Elijah  the 
prophet  was  a  resurrected  heavenly 
being  as  was  Moroni.  (See  D.  &  C. 
133:55.)  His  coming  was  also 
prophesied  in  the  Bible.  (See  Mal- 
achi  4:5-6.) 

Section  2  and  MaJachi  4:5-6 
Compared 

When  Moroni  visited  Joseph 
Smith  he  quoted,  among  other 
prophecies,  the  one  which  closes 
the  Old  Testament,  as  follows: 

Behold,  I  will  reveal  unto  you  the 
Priesthood,  by  the  hand  of  Elijah  the 
prophet,  before  the  coming  of  the  great 
and  dreadful  day  of  the  Lord. 


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And  he  shall  plant  in  the  hearts  of  the 
children  the  promises  made  to  the  fathers, 
and  the  hearts  of  the  children  shall  turn 
to  their  fathers. 

If  it  were  not  so,  the  whole  earth 
would  be  utterly  wasted  at  his  coming 
(D.  &  C.  Section  2). 

A  comparison  of  Malachi  4:5-6 
shows  that  there  are  some  changes 
in  the  above  quoted  version  given 
by  Moroni.  The  most  significant 
of  these  is  the  additional  fact  that 
Ehjah  was  to  bring  the  Priesthood 
to  the  earth.  Next,  the  phraseology 
of  the  second  sentence  differs  but 
the  meaning  is  still  preserved.  And 
last,  the  penalty  expressed  in  the  last 
phrase  of  Malachi  is  clarified  by 
section  2.  The  one  point  which  is 
preserved  by  the  same  language  is 
the  expression  ",  .  .  before  the  com- 
ing of  the  great  and  dreadful  day 
of  the  Lord"  (D.  &  C.  2:1).  This 
statement  is  highly  significant  be- 
cause it  indicates  the  time  when 
Ehjah  would  come  to  the  earth. 
What  does  this  expression  mean? 

It  means  the  day  when  the  Lord 
Jesus  Christ  comes  in  power  and 
glory  to  take  vengeance  upon  the 
wicked.  It  shall  be  a  dreadful  day 
to  the  unrepentant,  but  to  the 
righteous  it  shall  be  a  day  of  salva- 
tion. Before  that  day,  however, 
Elijah  was  to  come  to  confer  the 
Priesthood  upon  Joseph  Smith  and 
Oliver  Cowdery  as  the  capstone  of 
the  restoration  of  divine  authority 
in  the  last  days. 

(Many  of  the  ideas  which  follow 
come  from  the  writings  of  President 
Joseph  Fielding  Smith.  A  collec- 
tion of  material  on  this  subject  is 
found  in  Doctiines  oi  Salvation, 
vol.  II,  chapters  6-7.     Class  leaders 


will  benefit  materially  by  consulting 
this  reference.) 

Why  Elijah  Restored  Priesthood 

Elijah  was  to  bring  Priesthood  to 
the  earth.  But  some  may  ask,  ''Why 
does  Elijah  restore  Priesthood  when 
Peter,  James,  and  John  had  already 
brought  the  Melchizedek  Priesthood 
to  Joseph  Smith  and  Oliver  Cowd- 
ery?" If  these  three  apostles  had 
been  commissioned  to  do  so,  they 
could  have  performed  this  function, 
but  there  is  something  more  in  the 
mission  of  Elijah  than  what  was  in- 
cluded in  the  mission  of  Peter, 
James,  and  John.  This  is  what  the 
Prophet  wrote  concerning  Elijah: 

Elijah  was  the  last  Prophet  that  held 
the  keys  of  the  Priesthood,  and  who  will, 
before  the  last  dispensation,  restore  the 
authority  and  deliver  the  keys  of  the 
Priesthood,  in  order  that  all  the  ordi- 
nances may  be  attended  to  in  righteous- 
ness. It  is  true  that  the  Savior  had 
authority  and  power  to  bestow  this  bless- 
ing; but  the  sons  of  Levi  were  too  pre- 
judiced. "And  I  will  send  Elijah  the 
Prophet  before  the  great  and  terrible  day 
of  the  Lord,"  etc.,  etc.  Why  send 
Elijah?  Because  he  holds  the  keys  of 
the  authority  to  administer  in  all  the 
ordinances  of  the  Priesthood;  and  with- 
out the  authority  is  given,  the  ordinances 
could  not  be  administered  in  righteous- 
ness (D.  H.  C,  IV:2ii).  (Underlining 
by  author.) 

Although  Elijah,  Moses,  and 
Jesus  conferred  keys  of  authority  on 
Peter,  James,  and  John  on  the 
Mount  of  Transfiguration,  the  Lord 
had  reserved  Elijah  for  the  restora- 
tion of  certain  keys  for  the  salvation 
of  man  in  the  last  dispensation. 
(SeeD.H.  0.111:387.) 

Elijah's  mission  was  one  of  re- 
storing the  sealing  power.  This 
power   was    not    for   the    dead    ex- 


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clusively,   but   for   the   living   also,  the  sealing  powers  make  possible  a 

Some  have  thought  it  was  the  keys  welding   link   between    the   fathers 

of  baptism  for  the  dead,  but  it  was  and   the  children,   a  work   for   the 

not  that.    There  were  no  baptisms  dead,  which  is  essential  for  the  sal- 

for  the  dead  in  the  days  of  Elijah,  vation  of  the  living.     The  ''curse" 

or  before  Jesus   taught   the   gospel  spoken  of  by  Malachi  is  that  ''the 

in  the  spirit  world  between  his  own  whole  earth  would  be  utterly  wast- 

death     and     resurrection.     (See     I  ed"   at  the   Lord's  coming,   if  the 

Peter  3:18-20;  4:6.  )   Jesus  bridged  sealing    power    were    not    restored, 

the  gulf  which  separated  the  right-  This   judgment,   however,  will  not 

eous  in  paradise  from  the  wicked  in  befall  the  earth  because  Elijah  has 

prison.     In  other  words,  Elijah  re-  come    with    this    power,    and    the 

stored  the  fulness  of  the  power  of  necessary  keys  for  both  the  salva- 

Priesthood.      This    power,    or    the  tion  of  the  dead  and  the  living  are 

keys  of  the  Priesthood,  make  valid  in  The  Church  of  Jesus  Christ  of 

all  of  the  ordinances  of  the  gospel.  Latter-day  Saints, 
but  without  this  sealing  power,  as 

the    Prophet    Joseph    Smith    said,  Salvation  of  the  Dead 
"the     ordinances     [of    the     Priest-  When  Malachi  said  Elijah's  mis- 
hood  .  .  .1  could  not  be  administered  ^ion  was  to  ".  .  .  turn  the  heart  of 
in  rishteousness "  ^^^  fathers  to  the  children,  and  the 

Men  who  hold  the  Priesthood  ^^^rt  of  the  children  to  their  fa- 
may  officiate  by  the  authority  they  ^^^^'^  '  '  •"  i^^^-  4-6),  we  have  a 
possess,  but  only  when  directed  to  thought  which  suggests  the  great 
do  so  by  those  who  possess  the  keys  ^ork  for  the  dead.  The  turning  of 
of  the  Priesthood.  It  is  this  power  ^he  hearts  of  the  fathers  in  the  spirit 
by  which  all  things  are  bound  in  world  to  the  children  on  the  earth, 
heaven  as  well  as  on  earth  that  ^^  as  consistent  as  the  fact  that  the 
Elijah  restored.  Elijah  had  a  special  l^^^^S  ^n  earth  seek  earnestly  to 
mission  and  was  called  to  perform  f  ther  genealogical  data  of  their 
it.  Notwithstanding  Elijah's  mis-  deceased  fathers  in  order  that  the 
sion  pertained  to  the  living,  it  was  ordinances  may  be  performed  for 
more  especially  for  the  work  in  the  th^m  m  the  temples  of  the  Lord, 
temples,  for  the  living  and  the  dead,  ^his  thought  is  agreeable  with  the 
It  IS  by  this  means  that  husbands  ^"§^1  Moroni  s  rendition  of  Mala- 
and  wives  and  children  are  sealed  f/^^  ^  f  °P^^.7,  T^  ^?  '^'^  ^^^^ 
to  one  another.  •  •  •  ^^  [^^']^^  shall  plant  in  the 

hearts  of  the  children  the  promises 

The  Wasting  oi  the  Earth  made  to  the  fathers,  and  the  hearts 

When  one  understands  that  va-  of  the  children  shall  turn  to  their 

lidity  is  given  to  all  ordinances  of  fathers  .  .  ."  (Pearl  of  Great  Price, 

the  gospel  through  the  seahng  pow-  Writings  of  Joseph   Smith    2:39). 

ers    of    the    Priesthood,   an    under-  The  thought  was  suggested  by  Elder 

standing  of  the  fact  stated  in  sec-  John  A.  Widtsoe  that  in  the  pre- 

tion  2  concerning  the  earth  being  earth   life,  we,   who  would  be  as- 

utterly  wasted  at  the  Lord's  second  signed  to  the  earth  during  a  time 

coming,  is  available.     In  addition,  when  we  could  accomplish  a  service 


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for  our  kindred  dead,  were  under  a 
commitment  to  do  this  work  be- 
cause of  the  premortal  contract  to 
do  this.    Here  are  his  words: 

In  our  prcexistent  state,  in  the  day  of 
the  great  council,  we  made  a  certain 
agreement  with  the  Ahiiighty.  The  Lord 
proposed  a  plan,  conceixed  by  him.  We 
accepted  it.  Since  the  plan  is  intended 
for  all  men,  we  became  parties  to  the 
salvation  of  every  person  under  that  plan. 
We  agreed,  right  then  and  there,  to  be 
not  only  saviors  for  ourselves  but  meas- 
urably, saviors  for  the  whole  human  fam- 
ily. We  went  into  a  partnership  with 
the  Lord.  The  working  out  of  the  plan 
became  then  not  merely  the  Father's 
work,  and  the  Savior's  work,  but  also  our 
work.  The  least  of  us,  the  humblest,  is 
in  partnership  with  the  Almighty  in 
achieving  the  purposes  of  the  eternal  plan 
of  salvation. 

That  places  us  in  a  very  responsible 
attitude  towards  the  human  race.  By  that 
doctrine,  with  the  Lord  at  the  head,  we 
become  saviors  on  Mount  Zion,  all  com- 
mitted to  the  great  plan  of  offering  sal- 
vation to  the  untold  numbers  of  spirits. 
To  do  this  is  the  Lord's  self-imposed 
duty,  this  great  labor  his  highest  glory. 
Likewise,  it  is  man's  duty,  self-imposed, 
his  pleasure  and  joy,  his  labor,  and  ulti- 
mately his  glory  ("The  Worth  of  Souls," 
The  Utah  Genealogical  and  Historical 
Magazine,  October  1934,  page  189). 

Importance  of  the  Dead 
to  the  Living 

We  learn  in  the  scriptures  that 
the  work  for  the  dead  is  of  such  im- 
portance to  the  living  that  they 
without  their  dead  cannot  be  made 
perfect.  In  the  language  of  section 
128  we  read: 

And  now,  my  dearly  beloved  brethren 
and  sisters,  let  me  assure  you  that  these 
are  principles  in  relation  to  the  dead  and 
the  living  that  cannot  be  lightly  passed 
over,  as  pertaining  to  our  salvation.  For 
their  salvation  is  necessary  and  essential 
to  our  salvation,  as  Paul  says  concerning 
the    fathers — that    they    without    us    can- 


not   be    made    perfect — neither    can    we 
without  our  dead  be  made  perfect. 

.  .  .  For  we  without  them  cannot  be 
made  perfect;  neither  can  they  without  us 
be  made  perfect.  Neither  can  they  nor  we 
be  made  perfect  without  those  who  have 
died  in  the  gospel  also  .  .  .  (D.  &  C. 
128:15,  18). 

Evidence  oi  Prophecy  FulfiUed 

If  a  nonmember  friend  were  to 
ask  for  evidence  to  support  the 
claim  of  Joseph  Smith  and  Oliver 
Cowdery  that  Elijah  actually  came 
to  them  and  restored  the  keys  of 
the  Priesthood,  as  prophesied,  on 
April  3,  1836,  in  the  Kirtland 
Temple,  what  would  you  say?  Presi- 
dent Joseph  Fielding  Smith  has 
suggested  the  consistency  of  their 
claim  because  no  one  else  in  the 
world  has  testified  to  the  return  of 
Elijah  to  the  earth.  Their  testimony 
becomes  more  reasonable  when  it 
is  realized  that  these  two  men  could 
not  turn  the  hearts  of  the  children 
to  their  fathers,  except  by  the  pow- 
er of  God.  President  Smith  also 
reminds  us  that  they  did  not  have 
the  power  to  persuade  millions  of 
people  who  are  not  members  of  the 
Church  to  turn  their  attention  to 
their  dead  fathers.  He  sets  forth 
evidence  that  organized  efforts  to 
gather  genealogical  data  were  not 
forthcoming  until  after  Elijah  came 
to  the  Kirtland  Temple  in  1836. 
One  year  after  this  date.  Great  Brit- 
ain passed  laws  compelling  the  pres- 
ervation of  duplicate  records  of  the 
dead.  The  New  England  Historical 
and  Genealogical  Society  was  organ- 
ized in  1844,  and  the  New  York 
Genealogical  and  Biographical  So- 
ciety came  into  existence  in  1869 
for  the  purpose  of  compiling  genea- 
logical records. 


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The  great  increase  in  interest  on 
the  part  of  individuals  in  genealogy 
has  come  since  1836.  Thousands 
of  family  histories  have  been  com- 
piled outside  of  this  Church  to  aid 
in  the  great  work  of  redeeming  our 
dead.  These  efforts  on  the  part  of 
nonmembers  of  the  Church  bear 
witness  that  Elijah  did  come  and 
restore  the  keys  of  the  Priesthood. 
The  activity  on  the  part  of  the  mem- 
bers of  the  Church  in  the  gathering 
of  vital  statistics  with  the  modern 
methods  of  microfilming  hundreds 
of  thousands  of  records  combine  to 
bear  testimony  of  the  ''spirit  of 
Ehjah"  in  the  world. 


Questions  for  Discussion 

1.  What  circumstances  gave  rise  to 
this  revelation  (section  2)? 

2.  Discuss:  The  ministry  of  angels 
should  be  expected  after  the  New  Testa- 
ment period. 

3.  Who  was  Elijah?  (See  I  Kings, 
chapters  17-22;  2  Kings,  chapters  1-2). 

4.  \Miat  contributions  arc  made  by 
section  2  to  an  understanding  of  Mala- 
chi  4:5-6? 

5.  Why  did  Elijah  restore  Priesthood 
to  the  earth  (1836)  following  the  restora- 
tion of  the  Melchizedek  Priesthood  by 
Peter,  James,  and  John  (1829)? 

6.  Of  what  importance  is  the  doctrine 
of  salvation  of  the  dead? 

7.  What  evidence  exists  that  Elijah  has 
come  in  fulfillment  of  Malachi's  proph- 
ecy? 


Visiting  cJeacher    liiessages  — 

Truths  to  Live  By  From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 


Message  4— "Remember  That  Without  Faith  You  Can  Do  Nothing;  There- 
fore Ask  in  Faith  ...  Do  Not  Ask  For  That  Which  You  Ought  Not'' 

(D.  &C.  8:10). 

Chiistine  H.  Rohinson 

For  Tuesday,  January  7,  1958 

Objective:  To  show  that  all  things  are  possible  to  him  who  has  absolute  faith  and 
who  exercises  it  wisely. 


■pAITH  is  the  cornerstone  of  re- 
ligion; it  is  the  motivating  force 
of  action,  and  the  first  principle  in 
the  gospel  of  Jesus  Christ. 

The  message  on  this  important 
principle,  as  found  in  section  8  of 
The  Doctrine  and  Covenants,  pre- 
sents two  areas  of  thought.  First, 
we  are  reminded  that  nothing  can 
be  accomplished  without  faith,  be 
it  great  or  small,  miraculous,  or  com- 
monplace.    To  be  complete,  faith 


involves  an  unquestioning  trust  in 
God,  full  confidence  in  ourselves, 
and  faith  in  the  cause  for  which  we 
are  working.  Second,  faith  is  such 
a  vital,  motivating  force  that  it  must 
be  employed  sincerely  and  not  uti- 
lized for  selfish  purposes. 

Faith  is  the  foundation  of  cour- 
age, strength,  confidence,  hope,  and 
trust.  It  is  sohdly  behind  all  of  the 
accomplishments  of  man. 

Recently  an  effective  vaccine  has 


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been  developed  which  promises  to 
control  the  scourge  of  polio.  This 
wonderful  benefit  to  mankind  came 
after  years  of  painstaking  labor  and 
research,  every  step  of  which  was 
founded  on  faith  that  a  vaccine 
could  be  found. 

The  Lord  achieves  his  divine  pur- 
poses here  upon  the  earth  through 
the  faith  of  mankind.  He  ''.  .  .  work- 
est  unto  the  children  of  men  accord- 
ing to  their  faith"  (Ether  12:29). 
He  has  promised,  ''Ask,  and  it  shall 
be  given  you;  seek,  and  ye  shall  find; 
knock,  and  it  shall  be  opened  unto 
you"  (Mt.  7:7).  But,  he  also  adds, 
'\  .  .  let  him  ask  in  faith,  nothing 
wavering  .  .  ."  (James  1:6). 

As  indicated  in  the  second  area 
of  the  message,  one  should  not 
attempt  to  employ  faith  in  the  fur- 
thering of  one's  own  selfish  inter- 
ests. The  story  is  told  of  a  young 
girl  blessed  with  a  great  talent  who 
won  high  honors  in  a  national  con- 
test. When  her  grandfather  con- 
gratulated her,  she  explained  humbly 
that  she  had  fasted  and  prayed  and 
knew  that  the  Lord  would  help  her 
succeed.    Her  grandfather  remarked 


that  it  was  probable  that  the  other 
contestants  had  prayed  that  they 
also  might  win.  Whereupon  the 
grandda lighter  replied,  ''I  did  not 
pray  to  win,  but  asked  the  Lord  to 
help  me  to  do  my  best.  He  helped 
me  do  my  best,  and  even  if  I  had 
not  won  the  contest,  still  I  would 
feel  that  I  had  succeeded." 

It  is  a  mark  of  sincere  faith  to  ask 
the  Lord  to  help  us  always  to  do 
our  best.  With  this  type  of  motiva- 
tion we  can  move  confidently  for- 
ward to  the  full  utilization  of  all  of 
our  talents  and  abilities  and  with 
full  confidence  of  the  Lord's  bless- 
ings, for: 

.  .  .  Whatsoever  thing  ye  shall  ask  the 
Father  in  my  name,  which  is  good,  in 
faith  believing  that  ye  shall  receive,  behold, 
it  shall  be  done  unto  you  (Moroni  7:26). 

Faith  is  a  gift  from  God.  As  with 
all  other  gifts,  the  more  one  exer- 
cises it,  in  the  righteous  way,  the 
more  it  grows  and  develops.  Finally, 
it  becomes  a  great  motivating  spirit- 
ual power  in  the  lives  of  men.  And 
to  him  who  has  such  faith  Jesus  has 
promised,  ''nothing  shall  be  impos- 
sible to  you"  (Mt.  17:20). 


JLiVing  [Proof 


Ins  W.  Schow 


Here,  where  I  pause  a  moment  in  my  flight 

From  grief,  with  work,  caught  by  the  feel 

Of  grass  through  parted  fingers,  I  become  aware 

That  hands,  tears,  weeds,  rose,  thorn  are  sharply  real. 

And  suddenly  less  torn 

By  woe,  accept  the  fact  these  signs  reveal: 

That  in  the  realness  of  this  grass,  these  hands, 

My  tears,  these  weeds,  this  rose,  its  thorn, 

Lies  living  proof  earth  is  no  accident, 

And  this  bereavement  can  be  borne. 


Viyom    1 1  ieeting — Living  More  Abundantly 

(A  Course  Recommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 

Lesson  4— Making  Money  More  Valuable 

Elder  William  F.  Edwards 

For  Tuesday,  January  8,  1958 

Objective:  To  become  aware  of  the  added  happiness  available  to  those  who  are 
always  anticipating  important  and  good  things. 


/^NE  reason  the  sacred  scriptures 
never  grow  old  is  because  they 
contain  so  much  basic  truth  that  is 
recognized  anew  as  our  understand- 
ing increases.  Thus  one  can  con- 
tinually study  the  scriptures  and  find 
''hidden  treasures  of  knowledge." 
In  the  story  of  the  creation  of  the 
earth  and  man  and  the  mission  of 
Jesus,  we  see  in  action  principles 
that  have  application  to  our  objec- 
tive of  a  life  filled  with  joy. 

Creation  oi  Earth  and  Man 

The  Book  of  Moses  records  the 
visions  and  the  writings  of  Moses 
as  revealed  to  the  Prophet  Joseph 
Smith.  The  Lord  made  clear  his 
goal: 

For  behold,  this  is  my  work  and  my 
glory — to  bring  to  pass  the  immortality 
and  the  eternal  life  of  man  (Pearl  of 
Great  Price,  Moses  1:39). 

With  this  goal  established,  there 
follows  the  greatest  recorded  story 
of  preparation  and  anticipation. 
'The  earth  was  without  form,  and 
void  .  .  ."  and  in  five  intervals  of 
time  called  "days,"  the  earth  was 
prepared  for  man  (Moses  2:1-25). 
Then  came  the  greatest  of  the  days: 
''And  I,  God,  said  unto  mine  Only 
Begotten,  which  was  with  me  from 
the  beginning:  Let  us  make  man  in 

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our  image,  after  our  likeness;  and  it 
was  so"  (Moses  2:26).  And  God 
blessed  them  "male  and  female" 
and  instructed  them. 

With  the  goal  of  creation  com- 
pleted, God  "rested  on  the  seventh 
day,"  "And  I,  God,  blessed  the 
seventh  day,  and  sanctified  it  .  .  ." 
(Moses  3:2-3). 

In  this  story  we  desire  to  detect 
three  fundamentals : 

a.  Establishment  of  an  important  goal 

b.  An    adequate   period    of    preparation 
and  anticipation 

c.  Realization  of  the  goal. 

Jesus  and  His  Mission 

The  purpose  of  the  earthly  mis- 
sion of  Jesus  (the  goal)  is  clear  from 
the  scriptures.  The  story  of  the 
early  life  of  Jesus  is  incomplete,  but 
sufficient  to  reveal  thirty  years  of 
preparation  and  anticipation.  Then 
came  the  short  but  glorious  mission, 
the  realization  of  the  goal  (Mat- 
thew, Mark,  Luke,  and  John). 

The  Lord's  Way— The  Wise  Way 
The  story  of  the  delivering  of 
Israel  from  bondage,  the  story  of 
Joseph  Smith  and  the  organization 
of  the  Church  (Joseph  Smith  2,  The 
Pearl  of  Great  Price),  and  other 
great  events  in  the  dealings  of  the 
Lord  with  his  people,  all  emphasize 
the  same  fundamentals.     It  can  be 


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said  that  the  Lord's  way  of  achiev-  Church    history.      After    returning 

ing  worthwhile  things  is  to  begin  by  home,   they  became   aware  of  the 

the  estabhshment  of  an  important,  many  things  they  could  have  done 

praiseworthy  goal,  and  then  engage  with  proper  planning,  and  there  was 

in  an  adequate  period  of  preparation  the  debt  at  the  bank  to  be  paid  off. 

and    anticipation.     Applying   these  Both    families    spent    the    same 

fundamentals   to   our   lives   quickly  amount  of  time  taking  the  trip  and 

reveals  that  it  is  the  wise  way.  the  same  amount  of  money.     But 

there  is  no  question  but  that  the 

A  buccessrui  1  np  gj-^l-    faniily    obtained    much    more 

Many  saints  living  in  all  parts  of  satisfaction-the  money  they  spent 

North  America  have  thrilled  with  ^^^  more  valuable! 
a  trip   to   Palmyra,   New  York,   to 

witness  The  Book  of  Mormon  pag-  Savings  Should  Precede  Spending 

eant  at  the  Hill  Cumorah.     In  this  Savings  should  precede  spending, 

we  can  find  a  practical  application  with  only  justifiable  exceptions, 
of  these  fundamentals  by  imagining 

the  experiences  of  two  families.  '^'^'^  ^'"'l  ^'^f'^'j^Y  "°"'<^ '"','= '"  "§*= 

„,    ^  f.         r       •^       j-j      1  •            1  every   member   or   the   Church   to   follow 

Ihe   first   family   did    things   the  the   example  set  by  the  Church  and  to 

right  way.    Nearly  a  year  in  advance  live  within  his  income. 

they  decided  to  make  the  trip.  This  *              ,      v       ,        j  t,-    • 

-^  ,,  ...  c  ^  Anyone  who  lives  beyond  his  income 
gave  them  time  to  prepare  for  the  is  inviting  disaster.  Borrowed  money  is 
trip.  They  soon  found  that  going  not  income.  Borrowing  on  capital  ac- 
hy one  route  and  returning  another  count,  within  your  reasonable  capacity  to 

they  could  visit  along  the  way  P^^'  "'"^^  ^^  ^^""^'  depending  upon  cir- 
1  .  n  £  .1  .  °  .  ,  /  cumstances.  But  borrowing  to  live  on  is 
almost  all  of  the  important  spots  ^^^^^^^j,  whether  it  be  an  outright  loan 
in  Church  history.  This  stimulated  or  installment  buying.  We  urge  the 
a  review  of  Church  history  to  iden-  members  to  be  fiugal,  thrifty,  industrious, 
tify  the  exact  location  of  the  spots  temperate,  saving,  and  to  live  righteously 
and  to  become  more  fully  acquaint-  (P'^^^^d^"^  J.  Reuben  Clark,  Jr.). 
ed  with  the  history.  Now  people  in  Some  will  ask:  How  could  we  ever 
history  became  more  important,  and  obtain  many  things  like  an  automo- 
this  family  became  better  acquaint-  bile,  a  refrigerator,  or  a  television 
ed  with  the  lives  of  early  Church  set,  if  we  could  not  buy  on  credit, 
leaders.  This  also  provided  time  to  because  it  seems  impossible  to  save 
prepare  financially  for  the  trip.  first?  There  is  only  one  correct 
_-^  ,  .  .  ,  answer.  The  more  pressing  your 
JN  contrast,  let  us  imagine  another  financial  position,  the  greater  the 
family  doing  the  same  thing,  but  need  to  save  before  buying.  Only 
doing  It  the  wrong  way.  This  family  the  well-to-do  can  afford  to  buy  on 
made  a  sudden  decision  to  take  the  credit,  and  they  are  the  ones  most 
trip.  It  was  necessary  to  borrow  likely  to  avoid  it. 
money  from  the  bank.  They  ob- 
tained   road    maps,    but    failed    to  It  is  better  to  live  simply,  plainly,  be 

identify  many  of  the  important  his-  'P^""g  ^"  ,^''^''y  indulgence,  even  if  it  is 

*.^^'^^i     1^     J               J     j-j         i.  harmless,  than  to  replenish  your  purse  for 

toncal    locations   and    did    not   ac-  j^.^j,,  ^        ■      ^^^  ^eM   (Joseph  F. 

quaint  themselves  with  the  desired  Smith). 


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Buying  on  credit  usually  means 
paying  the  equivalent  of  a  premium 
price;  it  is  the  expensive  way  and, 
in  the  long  run,  the  hard  way  of 
acquiring  things. 

There  are  justifiable  occasions  for 
encouraging  debts,  such  as  buying  a 
home,  and  this  will  be  discussed 
fully  in  a  subsequent  lesson.  But, 
generally,  it  is  unwise  to  buy  and 
pay  later. 

Never  be  argued  out  of  your  soul;  never 
be  argued  out  of  your  honor;  and  never  be 
argued  into  believing  that  soul  and  honor 
do  not  run  a  terrible  risk  if  you  limp  into 
life  with  the  load  of  debt  on  your  shoul- 
ders (Bulwer  Lytton). 

Money  Can  Be  Made 
More  Valuable 

It  is  a  recognized  principle  in 
economics,  as  real  as  Newton's 
Theory  of  Gravitation  or  Einstein's 
Law  of  Relativity,  that  money 
changes  in  value.  Most  people 
have  a  greater  opportunity  to  in- 
crease their  economic  satisfactions 
by  doing  those  things  that  increase 
the  value  of  money  than  by  increas- 
ing the  supply  of  money  available 
for  spending. 

In  a  very  real  sense,  the  family 
that  planned  carefully  for  the  trip 
to  Palmyra  received  enjoyment 
equal  to  having  spent  the  money 
three  times.  The  period  of  prepara- 
tion and  anticipation  was  one  of 
real  happiness  and  joy.  The  period 
of    realization    was    enriched    and 


made  more  satisfying.  After  return- 
ing home,  their  choice  memories  of 
the  trip  and  satisfaction  from  hav- 
ing seen  and  experienced  all  of  the 
things  of  interest  were  valuable. 
They  really  received  $3  of  satisfac- 
tion for  each  $1  spent!  In  contrast, 
the  other  family  that  failed  to  plan 
probably  did  not  receive  even  $1 
of  value  for  each  $1  spent.  They 
were  deprived  of  the  experience  of 
preparation  and  anticipation,  re- 
ceived less  enjoyment  while  on  the 
trip,  and,  in  the  end,  had  a  degree 
of  remorse  plus  the  burden  of  pay- 
ing back  the  money  borrowed. 

Conclusion 

Always  be  anticipating  something 
wonderful.  This  not  only  results  in 
spending  money  more  wisely,  but 
gives  added  new  satisfaction  fre- 
quently equal  to  that  which  comes 
from  the  actual  realization  —  it 
truly  makes  money  more  valuable. 

The  hopeful  man  is  the  man 
whom  discouragement  cannot  harm, 
the  man  who  is  able  to  overcome 
reverses.  If  one  lives  each  day  in 
an  atmosphere  of  preparation  and 
anticipation  for  soul-satisfying  and 
wonderful  events,  each  day  is  some- 
how colored  by  this  beauty,  and  all 
of  life  grows  more  lovely.  All  of 
the  events  of  our  life  can  gain  in 
value  if  we  look  forward  to  them 
with  joy,  plan  for  them  with  care, 
and  accomplish  them  in  the  spirit 
of  the  gospel. 


IF  a  person  owned  what  he  had  and  did  not  have  to  pay  interest,  and  only  bought  as 
he  had  the  money  to  buy,  the  majority  of  people  would  be  in  reasonably  comfortable 
circumstances  (President  Heber  J.  Grant,  Gospel  Standards,  page  112). 


JLiterature — Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Lesson  12-The  ''Hamlet"  Frame 
Elder  Briant  S.  Jacobs 

Text:  Shakespeare  Major  Plays  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948 

For  Tuesday,  January  21,  1958 

Objective:  To  appreciate  Shakespeare's  most  provocative  drama  that  we  may  find 
new  meaning  for  our  own  hves  and  deeper  or  more  adequate  expression  to  our  thoughts. 

The  one  word  that  explains  the  Shakespeare  miracle  is  unconsciousness. — Henry 
David  Thoreau. 

JJAMLET  is  not  only  Shake-  within  him,  so  vastly  does  he  range 
peare's  most  popular  play,  but  from  the  highest  pinnacles  of  hope 
it  is  generally  conceded  to  be  his  to  the  darkest  caverns  of  self-con- 
most  provocative  one,  as  witnessed  tempt  and  despair  that  each  of  us, 
by  its  thousands  of  performances  in  regardless  of  our  identity  at  this 
the  theaters  of  all  nations.  As  early  present  moment,  finds  some  large 
as  1702,  George  Farquhar  called  it  phase  of  himself  mirrored  in  Ham- 
''Long  the  Darling  of  the  English  let.  So  complex  is  he  that,  as  A.  C. 
Audience,  and  like  to  continue  with  Bradley  points  out,  he  is  the  only 
the  same  applause,  in  Defiance  of  character  among  Shakespeare's  myr- 
all  criticism."  It  has  been  estimated  iad  creations  who  could  have  writ- 
that  more  books  have  been  written  ten  Shakespeare's  plays, 
about  the  character  of  Hamlet  than  A  brilliant  example  of  the  vari- 
any  other  name  in  fiction,  and  more  ous  responses  which  he  evokes  is 
than  any  ''real"  person,  save  Christ,  told  by  Frederic  Harrison,  an  Eng- 
Napoleon,  and  Lincoln.  In  recent  lishman  with  a  lifelong  devotion  to 
decades  the  number  of  books  ''ex-  Hamlet,  who  recalls  his  disappoint- 
plaining"  him  continues  to  increase,  ment  at  the  French  production  of 
Thus,  apparently,  we  moderns  con-  HamJet  he  saw  in  Paris.  "Why,  that 
tinue  to  find  new  vitality  in  the  play  isn't  Hamlet  at  all!"  he  complained 
each  time  it  is  read.  And  even  to  a  Frenchman  seated  near  him, 
though  no  one  completely  under-  who,  in  turn,  replied,  "My  friend, 
stands  the  frustrations  which  make  you  forget  that  Hamlet  is  not  only 
up  Hamlet's  character,  he  seems  to  an  Englishman.  There  is  a  French 
tell  us  more  about  ourselves  from  Hamlet,  a  German,  an  Italian,  a 
over  the  centuries  than  do  writers  Russian  Hamlet,  each  different  in 
of  our  own  day,  so  constant  is  his  personal  and  national  idiosyncrasy, 
popularity.  but  all  profoundly  true  to  Shake- 
Probably  the  reason  Hamlet  is  so  speare's  ideal  of  the  inscrutable  spir- 
provocative  is  because,  without  any  it  of  the  ill-starred  Prince  of  Den- 
close  rivals,  his  is  the  most  complex  mark."  This  varying  concept  of 
character  in  Shakespeare.  So  inex-  Hamlet  among  various  cultures  is 
haustible  are  the  depths  of  conflicts  not  to  be  questioned,  so  logical  is 

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it.  How  much  more  true  must  be 
the  variation  within  each  culture; 
Hamlet,  therefore,  must  appear  as 
variously  to  each  of  us  as  we  are 
different  from  each  other.  And  an 
awareness  of  this  truth  is  not  to  be- 
little him  nor  destroy  his  power,  but 
only  to  acclaim  the  unconscious 
genius  Shakespeare  employed  to  in- 
carnate most  nearly  his  inexhausti- 
ble self  within  Hamlet,  the  largest 
single  creation  of  his  pen. 

It  shall  be  the  purpose  of  the  sec- 
ond lesson  on  Hamlet  to  discuss  him 
as  the  central,  integrating  symbol- 
force  of  the  play,  about  whom  all 
else  hinges;  indeed,  in  no  other  of 
Shakespeare's  plays  does  one  char- 
acter so  completely  dominate.  As 
preparation  for  such  an  approach, 
our  present  lesson  attempts  to  point 
out  how  thoroughly  Shakespeare 
prepared  a  magnificent  setting  or 
frame  around  the  emerging  charac- 
ter of  Hamlet;  how  lesser  characters 
within  the  play,  even  though  they 
receive  his  contempt,  his  envy,  or 
even  his  rapier,  best  serve  to  mirror 
the  various  conflicts  within  Hamlet 
himself.  But  before  this  is  begun, 
we  must  look  for  a  moment  at  the 
plot. 

Plot 

Prince  Hamlet,  son  of  Hamlet, 
King  of  Denmark,  was  away  study- 
ing at  Wittenberg  when  he  received 
word  of  his  father's— the  King's— 
sudden  death  and  returned  home. 
Too  soon  thereafter  his  widowed 
mother.  Queen  Gertrude,  had  mar- 
ried Claudius,  her  husband's  broth- 
er, who  now  reigns  as  king. 

At  midnight  on  the  battlements 
of  the  castle,  the  ghost  of  Hamlet's 
father  appears  to  him  and  his  best 
friend    Horatio,    and    tells    Prince 


Hamlet  that  Claudius  has  murdered 
him  after  first  winning  Gertrude's 
affections.  Next  the  ghost  orders 
him  to  be  revenged  on  his  uncle, 
although  he  should  spare  his  moth- 
er. In  hesitation  at  performing  this 
command,  Hamlet  pretends  to  be 
mad,  and  repulses  Ophelia  whom  he 
formerly  loved.  He  arranges  for  a 
play  to  be  presented  to  the  court 
which  represents  the  crimes  of  his 
uncle  who,  seeing  the  play  for  what 
it  is,  betrays  his  evident  guilt  to 
Hamlet's  satisfaction. 

King  Claudius  flees  from  the  play 
to  kneel  in  private  prayer.  Here 
Hamlet  discovers  him,  yet  cannot 
bring  himself  to  kill  him  while  he 
is  in  such  holy  pursuits.  In  a  furi- 
ous interview  with  his  mother  in  her 
bedroom,  Hamlet,  it  seems  to  her, 
is  about  to  kill  her,  but,  instead,  he 
accidentally  kills  Polonius,  who  had 
been  planted  by  Claudius  behind 
the  draperies  to  eavesdrop. 

As  soon  as  hot-blooded  Laertes 
learns  that  Polonius,  his  father,  has 
been  murdered,  he  returns  posthaste 
from  France  to  avenge  his  father's 
death,  but  he  is  controlled  by  King 
Claudius,  who  convinces  him  Ham- 
let will  be  taken  care  of.  Knowing 
his  own  danger  as  long  as  Hamlet  is 
alive  and  able  to  talk,  Claudius 
sends  Hamlet  to  England,  unknow- 
ingly bearing  orders  for  his  own 
execution  upon  arrival. 

Completely  spurned,  then 
crushed  by  cruelly  indifferent  Ham- 
let, Ophelia  goes  mad,  even  as 
word  comes  from  the  high  seas  that 
Hamlet  has  killed  his  guards  and 
former  friends,  Rosencrantz  and 
Guildenstern,  has  overcome  pirates 
who  attacked  his  vessel,  and  even 
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more  Claudius  and  Laertes  plot  his 
death.  Hamlet  arrives  with  his 
friend  Horatio  just  in  time  to  wit- 
ness the  funeral  of  accidentally 
drowned  Ophelia,  and  in  rash  des- 
pair over  his  lost  love  for  her,  he 
jumps  into  her  open  grave  to  quar- 
rel with  her  fiery  brother  Laertes. 

Soon  thereafter  King  Claudius 
announces  a  fencing  match  to  be 
held  before  the  court,  in  which 
Laertes  is  to  use  a  poisoned  sword 
against  Hamlet.  Laertes  wounds 
Hamlet,  but  the  foils  accidentally 
had  been  exchanged,  and  Laertes, 
instead,  is  poisoned.  Realizing  that 
he  has  but  seconds  to  live,  Laertes 
tells  of  the  King's  treachery,  but  he 
speaks  too  late  to  prevent  Queen 
Gertrude  from  drinking  the  poi- 
soned wine  prepared  for  Hamlet. 
Knowing  that  his  own  death  is  near, 
Hamlet  finally  becomes  a  man  of 
action  and  stabs  the  King,  then,  to 
be  doubly  sure,  Hamlet  forces  Clau- 
dius to  drink  the  remaining  poi- 
soned wine,  gallantly  saves  Horatio 
from  death,  and  dies.  As  an  ironic 
contrast.  Prince  Fortinbras  of  Nor- 
way enters  en  route  to  a  successful 
conquest  for  his  own  glory  and  that 
of  his  country. 


The  play  sparkles  with  well-worn 
phrases  long  familiar  to  our  tongues. 
Who  would  have  thought  just  one 
of  Shakespeare's  plays  could  have 
put  so  many  words  in  our  mouths  as 
the  following:  ''In  my  mind's  eye" 
(L  2.  185);  ''the  primrose  path  of 
dalliance  treads"  (L  3.50);  "brevity 
is  the  soul  of  wit"  (IL  2.  90); 
"Though  this  be  madness,  yet  there 
is  method  in  't"  (IL  2.  207-208); 
"Aye,  there's  the  rub"  (III.  1.  65); 
"shuffled  off  this  mortal  coil"  (III. 
1.  67);  "the  whips  and  scorns  of 
time"  (III.  1.  70);  "The  glass  of 
fashion  and  the  mold  of  form"  (III. 

1.  161);  "as  easy  as  lying"  (III.  2. 
373);  "my  offense  is  rank,  it  smells 
to  Heaven"  (III.  3.  36);  "Hoist  with 
his  own  petar"  (III.  4.  207);  "flam- 
ing youth"  (III.  4.  84);  "Cudgel 
thy  brains"  (V.  1.  63);  "yeoman's 
service"  (V.  2.  36);  "Sweets  to  the 
sweet"  (V.  1.  266);  "dog  will  have 
his  day"  (V.  1.  315);  "There's  a 
divinity  that  shapes  our  ends"   (V. 

2.  10).  Many  more  quotations  could 
be  cited,  if  space  permitted.  Yet 
these  are  ample  to  indicate  how 
memorable  is  the  language  of  the 
play  throughout,  largely  because  of 
its  intensity  and  condensation. 


Condensation 

Though  Hamlet  is  by  far  Shake- 
speare's longest  play,  it  is  concen- 
trated diet  throughout.  Ideally, 
nothing  can  be  removed  without  in- 
juring the  entire  structure.  The  play 
itself  is  its  own  best  summary,  and 
no  other  even  approaches  validity. 
It  contains  no  one  "best"  scene  be- 
cause the  play  as  a  whole  is  its  own 
best  oneness.  Therefore,  in  present- 
ing excerpts,  we  do  so  only  because 
of  the  shortness  of  time  and  space. 


Hub  and  Wheel 

Hamlet  is  such  a  tremendous  ex- 
perience because  Shakespeare  has 
been  so  successful  in  making  Ham- 
let's confusions,  contradictions,  his 
hopes,  and  despairs  seem  entirely 
real.  As  the  hub  of  the  play's  struc- 
ture. Prince  Hamlet  receives  along 
the  spokes  of  the  wheel  the  support 
or  contrast  of  the  minor  characters, 
whose  functions  might  be  likened  to 
the  rim.  As  the  influence  of  their 
actions  and  philosophies  flows  from 


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each  of  them  inward  to  Hamlet,  at 
first  it  might  seem  that  their  weak- 
nesses are  allowed  to  surround  or 
frame  him  in  that  the  power  of  his 
character  and  the  rightness  of  his 
cause  and  method  may  serve  as  con- 
trast. But,  upon  closer  examination, 
it  becomes  evident  that  the  indeci- 
sion and  corruption  flowing  in  to 
Hamlet  often  receive  his  contempt, 
his  satire,  or  his  vehement  con- 
demnation, not  merely  because  he 
recognizes  them  as  evils  within 
themselves,  but  because,  consciously 
or  unconsciously,  they  are  dominant 
within  his  own  heart,  thus  making 
even  more  chaotic  his  own  inward 
conflicts  and  bewilderment.  Once 
this  paradox  becomes  apparent,  we 
then  see  that  the  rottenness  which  is 
Denmark  is  not  only  flowing  to 
Hamlet,  but  he,  in  turn,  radiates 
outward  to  the  rim  or  frame  sur- 
rounding him,  his  own  intensified 
reflection  of  the  very  evils  he  con- 
demns with  such  stern  bitterness. 
This  reciprocating  absorption-con- 
demnation radiation  cycle  is  em- 
ployed by  Shakespeare  to  sharpen 
Hamlet's  self-warfare  as  no  other 
device  could  have  done.  Such  a 
pattern  is  evident  within  at  least 
three  phases  of  Hamlet's  mind  and 
heart. 

1.    Action  vs.  Indecision 

The  play  opens  in  a  fever  of  mili- 
tary activity  with  ''daily  cast  of 
brazen  cannon"  and  the  forced 
drafting  of: 

.  .  .  shipwrights,  whose  sore  task 
Does    not    divide    the    Sunday    from    the 
week.  .  .  . 

I.  1.  75-76 

In  direct  contrast  to  Hamlet's 
frustrating  inability  to  execute  the 
commands  of  his  dead  father,  young 


Fortinbras  of  Norway,  *'of  unim- 
proved mettle  hot  and  full"  is 
threatening  to  invade  Denmark  to 
win  back  the  lands  seized  by  King 
Hamlet  from  Fortinbras'  own  uncle, 
King  Fortinbras,  and  thus  avenge 
this  stain  on  his  honor.  King  Clau- 
dius proves  himself  an  effective 
diplomat  by  convincing  young  For- 
tinbras not  to  fight  with  Denmark, 
yet  his  ''spirit  with  divine  ambition 
puffed"  will  not  permit  him  to  stag- 
nate, and  in  Act  IV,  scene  4,  For- 
tinbras asks  Denmark's  permission 
to  bring  troops  across  her  territory 
to  fight  Poland  for  a  tiny  patch  of 
ground  "that  hath  no  profit  but  the 
name."  Informed  of  Fortinbras' 
courage,  his  love  of  action,  and  his 
willingness  to  sacrifice  two  thousand 
souls  and  twenty  thousand  ducats  to 
gain  such  a  trifle,  Hamlet  sees  in 
contrast  his  own  indecision,  defines 
himself  ".  .  .  one  part  wisdom  .  .  . 
three  parts  coward  .  .  ."  ( IV.  4.  42 ) 
and  in  envy,  speaks  of  Fortinbras, 
thus: 

.  .  .  delicate  and  tender  Prince 

Whose  spirit  with  divine  ambition  puffed 

Makes  mouths  at  the  invisible  event, 

Exposing  what  is  mortal  and  unsure 

To   all   that   fortune,   death,   and   danger 

dare. 
Even  for  an  eggshell.  .  .  . 

IV.  4.  48-53 

But  whereas  Fortinbras  serves  as 
foil  or  contrast  to  Hamlet  (as  does 
his  steady,  loyal  friend  Horatio), 
Laertes  serves  to  sharpen  Ham- 
let's dilemma  both  as  foil  and  as 
pattern.  Once  Laertes  learns  of  his 
father's  murder,  he  returns  home 
furious,  ready  to  lead  indignant  com- 
monfolk  against  the  apparently  cor- 
rupt Claudius.  This  extreme  action 
Hamlet  justly  spurns,  recognizing  it 
for  the  hot-headed  foolishness  which 


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it  is;  nevertheless  Hamlet's  suffering 
conscience  reminds  him  that  at  least 
Laertes  tries  to  do  something,  even 
while  he,  with  far  greater  justifica- 
tion, remains  inert.  Yet  at  the  burial 
of  Ophelia,  it  is  Hamlet,  not  the 
impetuous  Laertes,  who  loses  his 
head  entirely  and  jumps  into  the 
grave  to  release  the  body  of  his  be- 
loved from  the  justifiable  embrace 
of  her  brother  Laertes. 

Laer.     The  Devil  take  thy  soul!      [Grap- 

phng  with  him] 
Haml,  Thou  pray'st  not  well. 

I    prithee,    take    thy    fingers   from 

my  throat, 
For  though  I  am  not  splenitive  and 

rash, 
Yet  have  I  in  me  something  dan- 
gerous, 
Which  let  thy  wisdom  fear.  Hold 
off  thy  hand. 

V.  1.  282-286 

Then  the  grief-stricken  Hamlet 
pours  out  his  love  for  Ophelia  and, 
disclaiming  Laertes'  right  to  rant 
and  moan,  so  outrants  him  that, 
quite  justly.  Queen  Gertrude  de- 
scribes his  action  as  ''mere  mad- 
ness." Thus  the  distraught  Hamlet 
excels  Laertes  in  displaying  exces- 
sive impulse  to  action,  which  for- 
merely  he  condemned  in  Laertes, 
even  while  he  envied  him. 

2.  Integrity  vs.  Duplicity 

Polonius  is  a  professional  courtier, 
flatterer,  cynic,  hypocritical  fawner, 
and  self-styled  master  in  the  shady 
arts  of  eavesdropping  and  social  in- 
trigue. He  has  his  son  Laertes  spied 
on  while  away  at  school,  debases 
Hamlet's  love  for  his  daughter  into 
flirtation,  if  not  lust,  and  eagerly 
offers  to  spy  for  Claudius.  Hamlet 
calls  him  a  calf,  a  fishmonger,  and 
''a  tedious  old  fool,"  and,  upon  dis- 
covering he  has  killed  him  accident- 


ally, Hamlet  says,  "Thou  wretched, 
rash,  intruding  fool,  farewell."  Yet, 
ironically,  it  is  this  pompous  wind- 
bag who  speaks  to  his  departing  son 
what  may  be  the  most  widely 
quoted  lines  Shakespeare  ever  wrote. 
Evaluated  in  terms  of  their  source, 
then,  the  following  lines  are  but 
further  proof  of  his  wordy  shallow- 
ness; quoted  in  isolation  ''these  few 
precepts"  are  immortal: 

.  .  .  Give  thy  thoughts  no  tongue, 
Nor  any  unproportioned  thought  his  act. 
Be  thou  familiar,  but  by  no  means  vulgar. 
Those  friends  thou  hast,  and  their  adop- 
tion tried, 
Grapple  them  to  thy  soul  with  hoops  of 

steel, 
But   do    not   dull    thy   palm    with    enter- 
tainment 
Of  each  new-hatched  unfledged  comrade. 

Beware 
Of  entrance  to  a  quarrel,  but  being  in, 
Bear  't  that  the  opposed  may  beware  of 

thee. 
Give  every  man  thy  ear  but  few  thy  voice. 
Take  each  man's  censure,  but  reserve  thy 

judgment. 
Costly  thy  habit  as  thy  purse  can  buy. 
But    not    expressed    in    fancy — rich,    not 

gaudy. 
For  the  apparel  oft  proclaims  the  man, 
And  they  in  France  of  the  best  rank  and 

station 
Are  of  a  most  select  and  generous  chief  in 

that. 
Neither  a  borrower  nor  a  lender  be, 
For  loan  oft  loses  both  itself  and  friend 
And    borrowing    dulls    the    edge    of    hus- 
bandry. 
This  above  all:  To  thine  own  self  be  true, 
And  it  must  follow,  as  the  night  the  day. 
Thou  canst  not  then  be  false  to  any  man. 

L  3.  59-80 

Though  Hamlet's  contempt  for 
Polonius'  duplicity  was  overwhelm- 
ing, in  fairness  to  Polonius  it  should 
be  noted  that  probably  he  was  un- 
aware of  his  own  dual  nature.  By 
contrast,  much  though  he  hated 
falseness    and    pretense,    Hamlet's 


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own  assumed  double  nature  was  in 
large  part  intentional,  and  so  effec- 
tive^ in  confusing  the  royal  house- 
hold and  court  that  by  comparison 
Polonius  dodders.  And  his  supreme 
admonition,  'To  thine  own  self  be 
true,''  destroyed  Hamlet.  As  is 
proved  by  Hamlet's  supreme  solilo- 
quies, no  one  ever  desired  more 
passionately  to  be  true  to  himself, 
but  Hamlet  never  knew  to  which  of 
his  many  selves  to  be  true;  instead, 
in  his  complicating  chaos,  he  was 
true  to  all  and  therefore  to  none. 

Similarly  Rosencrantz  and  Guil- 
denstern  intentionally  assume  the 
pretended  roles  of  friends  to  Hamlet 
when  actually  they  spied  for  Clau- 
dius, but  here,  as  elsewhere,  Hamlet 
beats  them  at  their  own  game,  for 
it  is  they  who  die  by  his  hand.  For 
a  most  telling  revelation  of  his 
superior  skill  at  role-playing,  as  well 
as  revelation  of  their  own  gullibility, 
few  scenes  in  the  play  are  more 
effective  than  Hamlet's  conversa- 
tion with  Guildenstern  concerning 
pipes,  clouds,  weasels,  and  elephants 
(III.  2.  364  ff.).  Herein  the  hub's 
radiations  outward  to  the  rim  fairly 
glow,  so  brilliant  are  they. 

3.  Control  vs.  Passion 

The  first  portion  of  Act  III,  scene 
2,  is  devoted  to  an  essay  on  temper- 
ance or  control,  a  virtue  ingrained 
within  Hamlet's  own  usually  con- 
trolled character,  and  one  which  he 
esteems  most  highly  in  others.  In 
his  famous  advice  to  the  players,  his 
greatest  plea  is  not  to  ''strut  and 
bellow"  nor  to: 

.  .  .  saw  the  air  too  much  with  your 
hand,  thus,  but  use  all  gently.  For  in  the 
very  torrent,  tempest,  and,  as  I  may  say, 
whirlwind    of   passion,   you   must   acquire 


and  beget  a  temperance  that  may  give  it 
smoothness.  Oh,  it  offends  me  to  the 
soul  to  hear  a  robustious  periwig-pated 
fellow  tear  a  passion  to  tatters,  to  very 
rags;  to  split  the  ears  of  the  groundlings, 
who  for  the  most  part  are  capable  of 
nothing  but  inexplicable  dumb  shows  and 
noise.  I  would  have  such  a  fellow  whip- 
ped for  o'erdoing  Termagant  —  it  out- 
Herods  Herod.     Pray  you,  avoid  it. 

III.    2.  4-16 

The  substance  of  the  long  para- 
graph which  follows,  is  to  repeat 
Hamlet's  plea  for  temperance,  after 
which  Hamlet  commends  loyal 
Horatio  for  his  constancy  and 
modesty,  and  above  all,  his  temper- 
ance and  control: 

.  .  .  And  blest  are  those 

Whose  blood  and  judgment  are   so  well 

commingled 
That   they   are   not   a   pipe   for   fortune's 

finger 
To  sound  what  stop  she  please.  Give  me 

that  man 
That    is   not   passion's   slave,   and   I    will 

wear  him 
In  my  heart's  core — aye,  in  my  heart  of 

heart. 
As  I  do  thee.  .  .  . 

III.  2.  73-79 

Yet  of  all  displays  of  passionate 
outbursts  in  this  most  intense  play, 
none  even  approaches  that  of  Ham- 
let himself,  not  only  in  his  solilo- 
quies but  in  his  wild  and  biting 
words  to  his  mother  in  the  bedroom 
scene.  In  his  scathing  denunciation 
of  her,  he  tears  his  own  passion  to 
tatters,  and  his  mother's  inmost  soul 
as  well.  And  who  is  more  passion's 
slave  than  Hamlet  when  he  inten- 
tionally destroys  Ophelia's  love  by 
putting  to  her  the  most  obscene 
questions  and  suggestions? 

His  mad  ranting  at  Ophelia's 
grave  proves  once  again,  that  under 
the  carefully  managed  organization 


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of  the  play,  it  is  the  function  of  the 
lesser  characters  to  contribute  their 
emotions,  their  own  suggestive 
weaknesses  to  Hamlet,  who  is  the 
center  of  the  play  in  every  sense  of 
the  word.  It  is  Hamlet's  function, 
in  turn,  to  magnify  these  currents 
and  fallacies  a  hundredfold  and  fling 
them  back,  couched  in  the  fiery 
images  of  his  own  giant-sized 
rhetoric.  If,  as  Thoreau  intimates, 
such  reciprocating  organization  is 
Shakespeare's    unconscious    accom- 


plishment, then  here  indeed  is  the 
unconsciousness  of  genius. 

Thoughts  for  Discussion 

1.  Do  you  agree  that  only  a  Hamlet 
could  have  written  Shakespeare's  plays? 
Why  so? 

2.  Discuss  the  proposition  that  when 
Hamlet  most  vigorously  condemns  the 
weaknesses  of  others  he  is  really  con- 
demning himself. 

3.  If  Hamlet  valued  temperance  so 
highly,  yet  was  himself  so  intemperate, 
isn't  he  then  either  shallow  or  a  hypo- 
crite?    Discuss. 


Soaai  Science  —  Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 

Lesson  10— Eternal  Marriage 
Elder  John  Fan  Larson 

For  Tuesday,  January  28,  1958 

Objective:  To  show  the  significance  of  temples  in  The  Church  of  Jesus  Christ  and 
the  advantages  of  temple  marriage  to  the  family. 


npHE  family  can  be  established  for 
eternity  only  in  a  temple  of 
God.  All  true  Latter-day  Saints  have 
as  a  goal  the  blessing  of  exaltation. 
Temple  marriage  is  a  condition 
precedent  to  exaltation  in  its  ful- 
ness. Exaltation  is  not  the  only 
blessing  of  temple  marriage,  how- 
ever. Certain  blessings  are  avail- 
able now  to  those  who  embrace 
temple  marriage  and  live  for  its  ben- 
efits. They  include  a  proper  prep- 
aration for  marriage,  aid  in  selecting 
the  marriage  companion,  and  adorn- 
ment of  the  personality  with  basic 
virtues  such  as  moral  cleanliness, 
modesty,  fidelity,  and  spirituality. 
To  this  must  be  added  personal  pro- 
tection. 

When  a  family  is  united  by  tem- 
ple marriage,  happiness  is  not  an 
accident.     It  flows  from  a  set  of 


attitudes  and  practices  put  into  mo- 
tion by  the  marriage.  They  include: 
family  heritage,  mutual  considera- 
tion, family  prayer.  Church  service, 
spirituality  in  the  home,  family  or- 
ganization, proper  relationship  to 
the  Priesthood,  and  growth,  both 
spiritual  and  intellectual. 

The  blessing  of  exaltation,  as  well 
as  the  many  blessings  along  the  way, 
are  available  only  to  those  who  live 
for  them.  The  extent  to  which  the 
individual  complies  with  God's  will 
determines  worthiness  for  blessings. 

There  is  a  law,  irrevocably  decreed  in 
heaven  before  the  foundations  of  this 
world,  upon  which  all  belssings  are  pred- 
icated— 

And  when  we  obtain  any  blessing  from 
God,  it  is  by  obedience  to  that  law  upon 
which  it  is  predicated  (D.  &  C.  130:  20-21). 


704  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— OCTOBER  1957 

The  Temple— What  It  Is  authority.     In  addition  to  this,  the 

The  Church  of  Jesus  Christ  of  ceremony  must  be  performed  in  a 

Latter-day  Saints  is  unique  in  many  temple. 

ways,  but,  probably,  the  character-  A  civil   marriage  stands  wanting 

istic    which    distinguishes    it    most  and  empty  compared  to  the  prom- 

from  other  Christian  denominations  ises  made  to  those  who  pledge  for 

is   its   temples   and   the   significant  time  and  eternity.    (See   D.   &  C. 

ordinances  therein  performed.  Only  132:14-17.)      A  careful  analysis  of 

in  Latter-day  Saint  temples  can  ordi-  the  promises  and  blessings  expected 

nances  be  performed  having  eternal  from  these  two  contrasting  marriage 

consequences.    Most    people    con-  ceremonies  should  be  sufficient  to 

sider   any  elaborate   church   edifice  persuade  all  to  be  married  in  the 

for  public  worship  to  be  a  temple,  temple  for  time  and  for  eternity, 

but  to  Latter-day  Saints  a  temple  is  Blessings    which    attend    temple 

more  than  a  house  of  worship.  marriage  are  of  an  eternal  nature. 

^       ,                               .           .  ,,  Some  of  them  are  available  now  and 
Temples   ...  are  sanctuaries  specially  -.                1.11,1.              i          • 
dedicated  for  sacred  rites  and  ceremonies  ^ere,  and  they  have  tremendous  in- 
pertaining    to    exaltation    in    the    celestial  flucnce  upon  the  SUCCess  and  happi- 
kingdom  of  God  {Doctrines  of  Salvation,  ness      of      each      member      of      the 
Joseph  Fielding  Smith,  Vol.  II,  page  231).  Latter-day  Saint  home.  These  bless- 
ings affect   the   personality  of  the 
The  Marriage  Covenant  individual  and  assist  in  the  prep- 
Let  us  now  consider  one  of  the  oration  for  marriage.     The  temple 
important  ordinances  of  the  temple  carriage    has   a    refining    influence 
which  has  profound  effect  upon  the  ^^^^  ^he  atmosphere  of  the  home, 
establishment  of  the  family  and  its  ^^-^^  ^^  prepares  family  members  for 
role  in  eternity-the  marriage  cove-  church  and  community  service, 
nant. 

^   ,  .    ,.^  ,  ,         .            Ml-  Benefits  Before  the  Marriage 

God   instituted  marriage  in   the   begin-  a  /r       •         n             l-           t4? 

ning  ....  this  institution  of  marriage  is  Marriage  Preparation:    The  prep- 

not  a  man-made  institution.  It  is  of  God  aration  for  marriage,  as  for  life  gen- 

....  God  not  only  commends  but  he  erally,  Starts  very  early  in  life.     By 

commands     marriage     {Gospel    Doctrine,  ^^^^  ^.-j-j-^g  ^-j-^g  carriage  ceremony  is 

Joseph  F.  Smith,  pages  272,  274).  performed,  the  way  of  life  of  the 

The    Lord    performed    the    first  I'^'^'Y.    P'.^'*^7'"^^    has    largely 

1       il    •  •     J  A  J           J  been  determined.     1  hose  who  have 

marriage  when  he  lomed  Adam  and  i  ^    m           •  •.         j      •  •          c 

T^         %..  .              -u  •      1     •  4.     J    1  caught    the    spirit    and    vision    ot 

Eve.    This  was  obviously  intended  ^     & ,             .  ^             .   ^           14. 

^    T_    r       i.      •.       •          1  i.r,  i.  4.-  temple  marriage  are  influenced  to 

to  be  for  eternity,  since  at  that  time  v     ^     ^       r  ^    •  •                          j 

J    ^1   1    J       ^    ^           4.4.1           ij  live  worthy  of  receiving  a  recommend 

death  had  not  come  into  the  world.  .           ,    ^          .         u-  i     4.     j    j. 

The  President  of  the  Church,  and  ^""^  ^"*  ^  marriage.  High  standards 

1    1-     1    u    4.1,    1          £  4.1,    1  •    1  are     maintained,     uncompromised, 

only  he,  holds  the  keys  of  the  bind-  i       ,.       •           j  j               ■  ^^r.  I 

.     ^      J        T                   £        4.        1  and  virtue  is  guarded  as  a  priceless 

ing  and  sealing  power  tor  eternal  ^                 ryni           i       •          4.        i« 

•           /c       T^     p     r^               \  treasure.    Ihose  planning  a  temple 

marriage.    (See   D.    &    C.    132:7.)  .            ,.       ^           ^            ^ 

A/r      •         £        4.      -4.            4-   li     ^  marriage  realize: 

Marriage  for  eternity  must,  there-  ^ 

fore,  be  performed  by  the  President  n^^^^^  ^^  ^^^^  to  marriage  than  music 

or   one   properly    acting   under   his  and  moonlight;  there  is  trust  .  .  .  and 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT  705 

sharing  ...  and  being  loved  and  deserving  makes   for  wise   judgment   through- 

to  be    There  is  companionship  through  ^^^  ^^le  courting  and   en^a^ement 

years  of  growing  up  and  growing  old  to-  •    ,                      °                   °  ^ 

gether  (Excerpts  from  "Virtue  Is  Its  Own  penodS. 

Reward/'    The   RcJid   Society   Magazine,  j^^  Atmosphere  oi  the  Home 

June  1956,  page  377).  ,               1     1.  ui       •          •      i-i,-     rr 

J  yj  r  o  >.///  -j-j^g  greatest  blessmgs  m  this  life 
If  we  are  honest  with  ourselves  from  temple  marriage  undoubtedly 
in  marriage  preparation,  the  temple  are  those  which  affect  the  atmos- 
ceremony  spells  no  drastic  change  phere  of  the  home.  Basically,  the 
in  our  mode  of  hving,  but  rather  a  effect  of  temple  marriage  upon  the 
dehghtful  continuation  of  the  good  family,  in  this  life,  is  on  the  feelings 
life  aheady  begun.  Conformity  to  and  fellowship  of  family  members, 
the  temple  vows  follows  as  a  natural.  Here  are  some  of  the  ways  temple 
comfortable  sequel  to  what  has  gone  marriage  affects  the  home, 
before.  1.  Spirituality  the  foundation  of 
Choosing  a  Companion:  One  of  the  home:  Couples  joined  in  the 
the  major  causes  of  strife  between  temple  ceremony  attach  a  deep 
married  persons  is  the  difference  in  meaning  to  their  life  together,  be- 
religious  affiliation  and  background,  cause  they  understand  the  real  pur- 
Those  who  live  for  a  temple  mar-  pose  of  life  and  have  definite,  spirit- 
riage  and  are  determined  to  settle  ual  goals  towards  which  they  strive, 
for  nothing  less,  will  go  far  to  avoid  President  Joseph  F.  Smith  once 
this  cause  of  dissension.  Chances  of  said:  ''An  ideal  home  is  one  in 
marrying  within  the  Church  are  which  all  worldly  considerations  are 
good  for  the  person  who  accepts  secondary"  (Gospel  Doctrine,  page 
temple  marriage  as  an  ideal.  He  302).  Certainly  the  temple  is  the 
chooses  his  friends  intelligently  and  best  place  to  establish  this  concept 
discriminately,  knowing  that  from  in  the  minds  of  future  parents.  The 
them  he  will  eventually  select  a  temple  ceremony  starts  the  marriage 
mate  whom  he  can  take  into  the  on  a  high  spiritual  plane  and  sug- 
temple.  Dating  is  planned  with  gests  the  formula  for  keeping  it 
great  care.  Somehow  he  doesn't  there.  It  sets  into  operation  the 
feel  quite  comfortable  with  those  greatest  partnership  which  can  be 
having  standards  unlike  his  own.  He  formed.  It  introduces  a  spiritual 
realizes  that  a  partner  throughout  refinement  which,  if  nurtured  and 
eternity  must  have  ideals,  likes,  dis-  cultivated,  can  help  make  a  home 
likes,  and  spiritual  values  which  go  a  heaven  on  earth.  It  will  develop 
hand  in  hand  with  his  own.  The  and  sharpen  the  appetite  for  the 
importance  of  similar  religious  af-  best  life  has  to  offer.  Knowing  the 
filiations  cannot  be  overemphasized  place  of  their  marriage  in  the  eternal 
in  the  building  of  a  happy  home,  scheme  of  things,  husband  and  wife 
but  it  is  also  important  that  the  move  forward  with  purpose  and  re- 
marrying parties  view  in  the  same  sourcefulness,  weeding  out  non- 
light  the  Church's  pattern  of  living  essentials. 

and  have  the  same  desire  to  con-  ^          ,        _       ,     , .     ,         .  ^   , 

r^^^  .^  •.       u      •                 •  ^"-it  seek  ye  farst  the  kmgdom  or  God, 

rorm  to  it.    Having  marriage  perma-  ^^a  \.-     ■  ^  i                  j    ^^  ..i       i.u- 

•     1             1        1  ^  *^  "^^  righteousness;  and  all  these  thmgs 

nence    m    mind    at    the    beginning  shall  be  added  unto  you  (Mt.  6:33). 


706  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— OCTOBER  1957 

With  spiritual  goals  in  mind,  par-  security    of    ''family   backing"    and 

ents  are  inclined  to  put  first  things  the  companionship  of  their  Father 

first  and  to  make  decisions  which  in  heaven. 

help   the   family  and   its   members  5.  Family  Heritage:     The  knowl- 

move  in  the  direction  of  perfection,  edge  that  the  family  unit  is  linked 

Parents  who  see  the  possibilities  of  together  eternally  makes  one  more 

the  future,  reflect  sound  planning  family-conscious     and     helps     one 

into  everyday  living.  strive  to  live  worthy  of  his  place  in 

2.  Love  at  home:  If  the  spirit  of  the  family  circle.  It  makes  fellow 
temple  marriage  has  really  been  members  more  interested  in  those 
captured,  kindness  and  consideration  who  have  preceded  and  those  to  fol- 
will  predominate  in  all  family  re-  low,  and  arouses  a  pride  in  one  an- 
lationships.  Tolerance  and  under-  other's  achievements.  A  sense  of 
standing  will  beget  patience  and  the  family  loyalty  is  developed  which  is 
feelings  of  others  will  be  protected  strengthened  through  the  years. 

at  all  times.    If  parents  respect  the 

rights  of  each  other  their  children  j^^  Individual  Is  Affected 
will  do  likewise.  Latter-day  Saints  temple  marriage,  along  with  oth- 
consider  rearing  a  family  to  be  their  ^^  ordinances  and  teachings  of  the 
most  sacred  responsibility.  Children  Church,  molds  the  desirable  person- 
are  regarded  as  a  blessing  and  when  ^j  characteristics  of  family  members, 
so  regarded  and  reared  under  the  g^^^  attributes  as  charity,  tolerance, 
influence  of  the  Church,  the  real  ^^  forgiveness,  kindness,  and 
spirit  of  the  home  is  born.  This  ^^^  ^^^^^  ^^^^^^  themselves  to  those 
spirit,  often  called  love,  is  the  spirit  ^^^  ^-^^  ^^le  gospel.  Temple  mar- 
that  shrinks  the  problems  of  he  to  ^-  ^^-  ^^  important  part  of 
the  small  size.  (See  Lesson  13  Love  ^he  gospel,  encourages  these  quali- 
-A  Basic  Ingredient,  for  a  further  ^-^^  /^^^  Lesson  7,  ''Be  Ye  There- 
treatment  of  this  subject.)  f^^^   Perfect.'')      Modesty   and    fi- 

3.  Relationship  to  Priesthood:  It  delity,  however,  are  individual 
is  in  the  temple  where  the  wife's  characteristics  especially  fostered  by 
relationship  to  her  husband's  Priest-  temple  marriage.  Modesty,  as  sug- 
hood  is  most  vividly  taught,  and  if  gested  in  the  temple,  includes  mod- 
a  Latter-day  Saint  home  is  to  oper-  esty  of  dress,  speech,  and  general 
ate  successfully,  this  should  be  seen  conduct.  Anything  of  an  unseem- 
in  proper  perspective  at  the  outset,  jy  nature  is  shunned  and  avoided. 
(See  Lesson  4,  "Women  and  the  Modesty  of  this  kind  develops  gent- 
Priesthood.")  leness  which  permeates  the  entire 

4.  Family  prayer,  which  is  inspired  home  environment.  Fidelity  is  de- 
and  begun  on  the  wedding  day  and  veloped  in  a  marriage  fashioned  for 
continued  thereafter,  will  invite  the  eternity.  Husband  and  wife  are  in- 
Lord's  guidance  to  bless  the  mar-  clined  to  adhere  carefully  to  the 
riage  and  family  life  of  the  home,  marriage  vows,  giving  both  loyalty 
This  observance  can  do  more  than  and  devotion.  All  family  members 
any  other  single  thing  to  influence  learn  from  the  parental  example  of 
children  for  good  and  give  them  the  fidelity  to  be  honest  with  one  an- 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT  707 

other,  to  perform  obligations  faith-  its  worthy  efforts.  Wholesome  as- 
fully,  and  to  find  joy  in  so  doing,  sociations  outside  the  home  are 
The  husband  and  wife  who  are  true  essential  to  a  healthy  marriage,  as 
to  their  marriage  covenants  make  a  long  as  they  do  not  become  over- 
conscious  effort  to  plan  their  lives  balanced.  ''Men  are  that  they  might 
so  they  can  remain  close  together,  have  joy"— and  real  joy  comes  from 
Not  only  their  religious  life,  but  a  well-balanced  life, 
their   recreational    and    intellectual 

interests  are  cultivated  together,  in  Importance  of  Returning 
order  that  they  do  not  seek  the  to  the  Temple 
companionship  of  others  in  pref-  Couples  who  have  been  married 
erence  to  their  mates.  They  develop  in  the  temple  receive  added  joy  and 
trust  and  confidence  which  are  never  understanding  each  time  they  re- 
questioned,  because  of  their  con-  turn  to  the  temple.  The  full  sig- 
stant  devotion  to  one  another.  Their  nificance  of  the  temple  ceremony  is 
courtship  does  not  cease  with  mar-  not  absorbed  from  one  attendance 
riage.  at  a  temple  session.  Included  in 
Another  aspect  of  temple  mar-  the  benefits  ensuing  from  returning 
riage  which  has  great  significance  to  to  the  temple  on  occasion  after  the 
the    individual    is    the    protective  marriage  are: 

shield  of  the  endowment.  President  ,     a  jj^j  i   ^  i  ^                 •          a 

o-ii            -1  ^'   -^aded    knowledge    concerning,    and 

Joseph  Fieldmg  Smith  has  said:  clarification   of,   the   finer   points   of    the 

endowment  are  received. 
If  we  realize  what  we  are  doing,  then  2.   An   opportunity   is   provided   to   do 
the  endowment  will  be  a  protection  to  us  something    essential    for    someone    else — 
all  our  lives — a  protection  which  a  man  which    develops   a    spirit   of   unselfishness 
who  does  not  go  to  the  Temple  does  not  and  service  within  the  home, 
have.   .  .  .  This  protection  is  what  these  3.  It  is  a  spiritual  uplift  to  review  cove- 
ceremonies   are   for,   in   part.     They   save  nants  made  in  the  temple,  and   thus  we 
us  now,  and  exalt  us  hereafter,  if  we  will  are  helped  to  live  close  to  the  Lord, 
honor     them     [Doctiines     of     Salvation,  4.   As   individuals    mature,   the   temple 
Joseph  Fielding  Smith,  Vol.  II,  252-253).  ceremony  becomes  more  significant  as  it 

is  viewed  in  the  light  of  added  experience 

OiiUir^p  ihf^  Hnrnf^  ^^^  ^^^^^'  understanding. 

UutSlde  the  Home  ^    p^^^^^^^    ^^^    ^^^    conversant    with 

Temple     marriage     encourages  temple  procedures  are  prepared   to  assist 

Church  service.  It  is  important  that  their  children  and  accompany  friends  who 

Latter-day  Saint  couples  regard  this  ^re  visiting  the  temple  for  the  first  time, 

in  a  harmonious  way,  because  it  in-  .  ^-  The  romance  and  beauty  surrounding 

,         , ,       ,        , .       -^  f    .             ,  the   courtship  and   marriage  are   not  for- 

VOlves  the  devotion  of  time,  talents,  gotten.     The  sweetheart  relationship  must 

energies,  and  means  to  the  work  of  be  maintained  throughout  a  marriage  to 

the     Lord.       This    requires     active  "^^ke  it  successful.     It   is   an   emotional 

membership  in  the  Church  for  par-  necessity.                              ,   .     „        , 

«^4-o  ^    J     1-1 J              J       -n  1     J   J.  7-   Emotional   comfort  and   intellectual 

ents  and  children  and  will  lead  to  refreshment    come    from    quietness    and 

individual  growth  and  development  meditation, 
as  well  as  widening  interests  and 

friendships.     Latter-day  Saints  who  Temple  Marriage  and  Exaltation 

fully  understand  the  gospel  feel  a  While  there  are  many  advantages 

responsibility  to  the  community  in  and  blessings  available  in  this  life 


708 


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THE    INCOMPARABLE 


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moderate  cost,  con: r! ere  ::r.i!  re- 
sources, '\s  simrlc  .:.  za.z:.. 
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pender.:  nunuils. 

THE    IDEAL    ORGAN 

FOR    LARGER    HOMES, 

CHURCHES,    SCHOOLS 

Oeared  by  CONN,  musical  inscru- 
menc  specialises  for  nearly  a 

century,  the  versatile  "Artist"  organ 
provides  a  whole  wondrous  world 

of  musical  magic  at  your  bngerdps. 
Yet  it  is  so  easy  to  play,  so 

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to  those  who  are  married  in  the 
temple,  the  greatest  blessinc^s  are  to 
be  experienced  after  our  mortal  life. 
The  eternity  of  the  family  and  the 
happiness  which  this  affords  have 
previously  been  discussed.  (See 
"The  Family  Is  Fore\er,"  Lesson  8, 
l\\t  Relief  Socieh-  Magazine.  Julv 

Probably  the  greatest  blessing  of 
all  lies  in  the  opportunit\'  which 
temple  marriage  affords  for  exalta- 
tion. There  can  be  no  fulness  of 
exaltation  in  the  celestial  kingdom 
without  this  sacred  ordinance  having 
first  been  performed.  Those  who 
marr}*  by  civil  authorib.-  alone  ha\e 
no  promise  as  to  exaltation  in  the 
hereafter,  but  they  shall  be  ser^•ants 
or  "ministering  angels"  (D.  &:  C. 
132:14-17).  Eternal  marriage  is  so 
important  that  neither  a  man  nor  a 
woman  can  alone  be  exalted.  Mar- 
riage in  the  temple  for  time  and 
eternity-  is  the  Lord's  wav,  and  those 
who  contract  marriage  in  this  way 
and  keep  his  commandments  \W11 
be  eternally  blessed. 

Supplementan'  References 

1.  'TTie  Blessings  of  Temple  Marriage/' 
[ohn  Longden.  The  Impro\ement  Era, 
E>ecember  1956.  page  956. 

z.  "Eight}  Years  Senice  to  Our  Lord," 
-\lbert  L.  Zobell,  Jr.,  The  Improvenient 
Era.  April  19 5~-  page  224. 

3.  "Stay  Close  to  the  Church."  Grant 
J.  WooUev".  The  Improvenient  Era,  May 
19  5-.  page  5cS. 

4.  The  Way  to  Perfection,  Joseph  Field- 
ing Smith,  chapter  55,  "The  Perfect  Mar- 
riage Covenant."  pp.  243-250. 

5.  Pnesthood  and  Church  Government, 
John  A.  Widtsoe,  chapter  28,  'The  Priest- 
hood and  Temple  Work."  pp.  350-565. 

6.  Doctrines  of  Solvation,  \'ol.  II,  Jo- 
seph Fielding  Smith,  compiled  by  Bruce 
R.  McConkie.  chapter  13.  'TTie  La>;^-  of 
Temple  Building."  pp.  231-257. 


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709 


7.  Doctiines  oi  Salvation,  Vol.  II,  Joseph 
Fielding  Smith,  compiled  bv  Bruce  R. 
McConkie,  chapter  4,  "Celestial  Mar- 
riage," pp.   58-79. 

8.  Gospel  Doctiine,  Joseph  F.  Smith, 
chapter  24,  "Eternal  Life  and  Salvation," 
pp.  428-477. 

9.  "My  Daughter  Prepares  for  Marriage." 
Harold  B.  Lee,  The  Relief  Society  Maga- 
zine, June  1955,  page  348. 

10.  Conference  Address,  Harold  B.  Lee. 
The  One  Hundred  T\vent}-Seventh  An- 
nual Conference,  April  1957,  page  20. 

Questions  ioi  Discussion 

1.  What  is  a  temple  to  a  Latter-day 
Saint?  To  the  world? 

2.  Discuss  how  the  temple  building 
program  of  the  Church  extends  blessings 
to  people  of  other  nations. 

3.  What  are  the  eternal  blessings  which 
follow  temple  marriage? 

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5.  Why  is  it  important  to  return  to 
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Kyiutunin  JLeaf 
on  the   [Joeacn 

Eva  Willes  Wangsgaard 

Shake  the  sun  from  your  eyes. 

The  city  calls. 
A  gold  leaf  lies 

Where  the  bright  sand  falls. 

The  poplar's  mandarin 

Obelisk 
Is  beginning  to  thin 

And  the  nights  are  brisk. 

Lost  now  the  pealing 

Of  feathery  tunes 
While  silence  goes  wheeling 

Above  the  dunes. 

The  winds  are  erasing 

The  pattern  of  feet 
With  moire  tracing 

The  waves  repeat. 

The  trappings  of  summer 

Are  thin  and  old. 
And  a  white  newcomer 

Will  smother  her  gold. 


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Our  meeting  house  is  just 

Above  the  hill, 

Close  enough  for  walking. 

The  path  is  narrow, 

One  side  the  boulevard, 

And  on  the  left  the  still 

Canyon  where  small  things  burrow. 

I  did  not  know  frogs 

Lived  in  cities, 

But  they  live  here 

In  the  lush  green  of  the  gully 

By  someone's  pool. 

From  their  hundred  throats 

A  hundred  pities 

Pour  out  for  us 

Brushing  their  cool 

Paradise.    There  are  crickets; 

Roses  make  a  melody. 

That  sounds  nonsensical,  yet 

I  walk  through  music.     I  hear 

Notes  of  palms,  trumpets  of  the  sky, 

The  drums  of  passing  cars. 

I  reach  the  chapel,  how  very  clear 

It,  too,  sings  on  this  night. 

Melody,  fragrance,  beauty  flows 

Where?  From  heaven  to  earth? 

From  earth  to  heaven?  He  knows. 


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Vesta  N.  Lukef 

How  crisp  the  autumn  air 
And  quick  the  season's  flight. 
So  brief  each  windy  leaf. 
The  earth  so  frosty  white! 
How  precious  is  this  time 
The  moon  has  silvered  bright. 
These  autumn  moments  must 
Be  captured  in  their  flight  .  .  , 
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Sound  the  alarm! 
The  sky  is  on  fire! 
A  holocaust,  burning 
Up  higher  and  higher. 

It  kindled  with  leaves 
And  rapidly  spread. 
There  are  billows  of  clouds; 
Every  cliff  reflects  red. 

The  spectacular  blaze 
Is  attracting  a  crowd. 
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Should  not  be  allowed! 


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of  Relief  Society — the  nursery  and  the 
nursery  teacher.  The  poem  at  the  end  of 
the  article  made  me  weep  for  my  own 
mother,  whose  grandchildren  are  far  away 
....  Turning  my  children  over  to  the 
Relief  Society  nursery  while  I  enjoy  the 
stimulating  lessons  is  a  real  treat  for  me. 
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mission  here  in  Sweden.  It  has  been  a 
gift  to  me  from  the  Millville,  Utah,  Relief 
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grateful  for.  I  feel  that  the  articles 
printed  in  the  Magazine  are  also  of  great 
interest  to  the  men  of  the  Church.  Many 
of  my  thoughts  for  speaking  have  been 
taken  from  the  Magazine. 

— Elder  Rodney  Anderson 


I  was  indeed  pleased  to  see  Edna 
Day's  fine  article  "A  Nursery  Will  Be 
Maintained"  in  the  June  issue  of  the 
Magazine.  I  especially  liked  the  sonnet 
ending.  I  also  enjoyed  Frances  Yost's 
story  "Society  Sonnets"  in  the  August 
issue.  I  am  grateful  to  Edna  Day  for 
many  things.  It  was  she  and  another 
friend  and  neighbor.  Fern  McClellan,  and, 
of  course,  my  old  friend  Shakespeare,  who 
nudged  me  to  go  to  Relief  Society.  Edna 
is  the  literature  teacher,  and  her  lessons 
are  especially  apt.  She  had  us  make 
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plays  as  we  studied  them Then  we 

went  into  sonnet  writing,  and  some  of  us 
wrote  both  Christmas  and  Easter  son- 
nets. The  sonnets  were  added  to  our 
scrapbooks,  too,  because,  of  course,  we 
had  a  sonnet  section. 

— Mrs.  Adah  Lempke 

Idaho  Falls,  Idaho 


As  a  Rehef  Society  literature  teacher,  I 
wish  to  express  appreciation  for  Frances 
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ust Magazine,  and  the  editorial  "Pen  in 
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article  was  the  basis  of  a  fine  lesson  for 
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former  officers.  Sister  Ann  Kelley.  She 
also  used  many  of  the  excellent  poems 
published  in  the  Magazine. 

— Elsie  C.  Carroll 


Salt  Lake  City,  Utah 


I  have  just  finished  reading  the  short 
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just  for  me — with  beauty  and  with  a 
lesson. 

— Miss  Jackie  Jensen 


Umea,  Sweden 


Portland,  Oregon 


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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of   the   Relief   Society  of  The   Church  of   Jesus    Christ   of   Latter-day    Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 
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Marianne   C.   Sharp         ----___         First  Counselor 

Helen   W.    Anderson  _---..         Second   Counselor 

Hulda    Parker         -------         Secretary-Treasurer 

Anna  B.  Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S.  Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie    M.    Ellsworth 

Florence    J.    Madsen  Aleine  M.  Young  Charlotte  A.  Larsen  Mary  R.    Young 

Leone  G.  Layton  Josie  B.  Bay  Edith  P.  Backman  Mary  V.   Cameron 

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Alberta  H.  Christensen      Manwaring  Wealtha  S.  Mendenhall 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Editor    -----------  Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Associate  Editor          ---------  Vesta  P.  Crawford 

General  Manager        -------------  Belle  S.  Spafford 

Vol.  44  NOVEMBER   1957  NO.   11 


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ontents 

SPECIAL  FEATURES 

Cleanliness  Emma  Ray  Riggs  McKay  716 

Obedience  in  All  Things  Helen   W.   Anderson  719 

Love's    Equation    Luett    Stantliff  721 

Report  and  Official  Instructions  Belle  S.   Spafford  722 

The  Spanish-American  Mission  Preston   R.    N'ibley  728 

Shopping  Yesterday  Elaine  Reiser  734 

Live   and  Learn   Forever   .^v.'.":;.; 742 

Serenity Anne  S.  W.  Gould  745 

The  National  Tuberculosis  Association  Christmas  Seals Dorothea   M.   Lindsey  746 

FICTION 

The   Christmas   Cards    Dorothy   Boys   Kilian  730 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

Sixty  Years  Ago  736 

Woman's  Sphere  Ramona  W.  Cannon  737 

Editorial:  Gold,  and  Frankincense,  and  Myrrh  Vesta  P.  Crawford  738 

Erratum:   Relief  Society  Membership  in  the  South  Australian  Mission   739 

Notes  to  the   Field:   Annual   General  Relief   Society   Conference   Cancelled  740 

Pictures  of  the  Relief  Society  Building  Available  740 

Notes  From  the  Field:  Relief  Society  Activities  Hulda  Parker  753 

Birthday    Congratulations 783 

From  Near  and  Far  784 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Recipes  From  the  Spanish-American  Mission   Nina  N.   Bowman  744 

Bread  and  Yeast  Recipes  Joan  Staley  748 

Netting  and  Crocheting  Are  Hobby  Interests  of  Rozetta  Hafen  Bramsted  749 

Apple   Butter    Eva    Carter  749 

Netting  Today Olive  W.   Burt  750 

LESSON  DEPARTMENT 
Theology:   Satan's  Opposition  to  the  Coming  Forth  of   The  Book  of  Mormon 

Roy  W.   Doxey  760 

Visiting  "Teacher  Messages:    "...   Behold,  You  Should  Not  Have  Feared  Man  More 

Than  God"  Christine   H.   Robinson  764 

Work  Meeting:  The  Family' and  the  Home  William  F    Edwards  765 

Literature:  Hamlet,  Prisoner  m  Denmark  ^^^^^^  ^-  Jacobs   /b/ 

Social  Science:   '"As  the  Twig  Is  Bent"   John  Farr  Larson  //i 

POETRY  ^    ^  „,, 

Thanksgiving  Song— Frontispiece  Margery  S    Stewart  /lb 

Friends   grace   Ingles   Frost  727 

Definition    Bessie    I     Peterson  733 

November   Spring   ^r-'-'^rK^^^    Jacobson  741 

Winter  Aspens  Elsie  McKinnon  Strachan  743 

Autumn    Gift    Tr^-^^^^"^   ^..v''^^'  ?f? 

Where  Maples  Flame  Mabel  Law  Atkinson  747 

Street  in  Rain  ^ ns  W.    Schow  752 

This    Too  Enola    Chamberlin  759 

Less'  Than  Love Eva  W.   Wangsgaard  780 

The   Old  Base-Burner  .Thelma  Ireland  780 

Wisdom Lucille  R.   Perry  783 

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cJhanksgiVing  Song 

Margery  S.  Stewart 

For  all  the  fields  from  east  to  west 

That  poured  their  goldness  into  bread, 

For  all  the  rivers  and  the  brooks, 

That  sent  their  beauty  down  to  me, 

For  men  and  women  whose  quiet  hands 

Wove  warmth  and  cover  against  storms, 

For  doctors  I  will  never  see 

Who  nightly  strained  their  hearts  and  minds 

Uncovering  secrets  that  will  be 

Armor  against  tomorrow's  ills, 

For  all  these,  Lord,  my  thanks  to  thee. 

For  men  in  mines  and  men  in  planes, 
For  men  who  govern  this  free  land, 
For  nurses  rustling  in  the  dark 
To  where  an  ailing  baby  cries. 
For  those  whose  songs  fulfilled  a  need. 
For  teachers  holding  high  their  lamps 
Who  do  not  shrink  nor  compromise, 
I  give  my  brimming  gratitude, 
My  love  for  each  high  enterprise. 
For  blessings  seen,  Lord,  I  thank  thee. 
And  for  those  hidden  from  my  eyes. 


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Little    Town,    Restored    and    Reconstructed    Texas    Architecture    in 
the  Foreground. 
Elicson  Photography 
Photograph  submitted  by  Nina  N.  Bowman 

Frontispiece:  Harvest  in  the  Valley,  Near  Provo,  Utah 
Photograph  by  Willard  Luce 

Cover  Design  by  Evan  Jensen 


Cleanliness 


EsBuni  Ra\  Rizzs  MjK^v 


4  ^  f^  LE_\\TIXESS  is  next  to 
I  Godliness'  is  a  quotation 
^"^^  familiar  to  e\enone.  God- 
liness  is  defined  as  "The  careful 
obscn^ance  of  the  la\i^  of  God."  We 
desire  to  keep  the  la\^^  of  God  and. 
if  ckanliness  is  next  to  the  obsen  - 
ance  of  these  law^  we  certainly 
should  have  a  desire  to  be  clean, 
whether  it  be  in  body,  mind,  or 
heart:. 

In  regard  to  ph\^cal  cleanliness, 
the  presentation  of  health  and  com- 
fort:, good  taste,  and  the  approbation 
(rf  friends,  require  cleanliness  of  hair, 
nails,  teeth,  and  body.  The  sensi- 
bihties  of  an\x)ne  should  not  be 
offended  bv  neelcct  in  these  par- 
tic -i-i:..  S:r:e  we  must  associate 
with  one  i:  :  er.  we  are  ur.ie: 
obligation  to  keep  clean.  Lai ::  : 
is  no  excuse. 

WTule  cleanliness  of  our  homes 
and  habits,  considered  hygienically, 
is  of  great  importance,  its  effect  up- 
on the  character  of  the  members  of 
the  household  is  ver\  important, 
for,  generally,  as  the  home  is,  so  is 
the  cluld- 

Xearly  all  people  have  a  desire  to 
have  clean  homes,  but  the\  do  not 
ahRa\"s  know  what  is  clean  and  what 
is  not.  Therefore,  it  is  necessar%-  to 
read,  study,  and  listen  to  instruc- 
tions concerning  what  must  be  re- 
garded as  ver\  important  sanitar\ 
measures.  Constant  effort  should 
be  put  forth  b\  mothers  to  ':<ttz 
homes  free  from  filth,  vermin,  and 
flies,  and,  in  general,  tr\  to  have  a 
state  of  ordCTliness  at  all  times. 

There  is  now  a  drive  to  clean  up 
cities  in  the  United  States,  and 
Latter-dav  Saint  mothers  should  be 


the  first  to  accept  this  commend- 
able idea  and  raUv  around  those  who 
desire  to  make  our  place  more  at- 
tractive by  teaching  bv  example  not 
to  throw  papers,  tin  cans,  bottles, 
and  other  waste  on  floors,  streets. 
and  lawTis.  Children  accustomed  to 
untidiness  become  thoughtless,  and 
their  characters  partake  of  this  un- 
clean carelessness.  Mothers.  aU  of 
this  takes  constant  effort  on  om 
part,  but  do  not  be  discouraged. 
Good  results  \it11  give  great  satis- 
faction. 

Now,  as  to  the  cleanliness  of  the 
soul.  In  Psalms  we  read,  "He  that 
hath  clean  hands,  and  a  pure 
heart  .  .  .  shall  stand  in  his  holy 
place"  :  Psalms  24:4,  3  1,  and  in  the 
S'e  A  Testament,  Paul  sa\-s,  ".  .  . 
let  us  cleanse  oursehes  from  all  fil- 
thiness  of  the  flesh  and  spirit  per- 
fecting hoHness  in  the  fear  of  God.*' 

Are  we  doing  this? 

A  short  while  ago,  a  \'er)-  promi- 
nent and  conservative  president  of 
a  universit\-  said,  in  public,  that  the 
present  age  is  the  most  decadent  in 
history-,  with  the  exception  of  the 
da\^  just  before  the  French  Revolu- 
tion. He  mentioned  "dishonest} 
p)eTmeating  public  and  pri\ate  lite 
alike,  tainting  the  administration  of 
justice,  tainting  our  legislati\  e  halls, 
tainting  the  conduct  of  private  busi- 
ness, polluting  at  times  even  the 
church  itself."  He  said,  "If  there  is 
to  be  social  and  pohtical  regenera- 
tion in  our  RepubKc  and  in  the  rest 
of  the  world,  it  must  be  by  a  tre- 
mendous regeneration  of  moral 
ideals." 

The  true  standard  of  right  and 
WTong  e\-er  remains  the  same  amid 


CLEANLINESS 


717 


all  moral  change.  We  Latter- 
dav  Saints  have  been  ■aggressively 
alive "  for  over  a  hundred  vears 
preaching  that  God  is  unchange- 
able, that  the  Ten  Commandments 
are  just  as  important  and  workable 
now  as  in  Moses'  time.  That  the 
Sermon  on  the  Mount  and  other 
teachings  of  Christ  are  great  addi- 
tional helps  to  keep  us  m  the 
"straight  and  narrow,"  if  we  will  but 
heed  them. 

But  mothers  often  say,  '*How  can 
we  influence  our  children  to  be  clean 
in  thought  when  thev  see  so  manv 
pictures  that  appeal  to  the  coarse 
brutalitv  of  man,  fist  fighting,  gun 
fighting,  men  striking  women,  wom- 
en throwing  anvthing  near  at  hand 
at  husbands,  cruel  talk,  low  private 
scenes  of  lovemaking,  etc?' 

A  W'OMAX  asked  a  question  of  a 
prominent  writer  regarding  intel- 
ligent girls  who  chose  to  read  books 
which  discuss  clinical  details  that 
belong  to  medical  specialists,  and 
books  which  have  been  condemned 
as  indecent.  The  woman  said  thev 
choose  such  books  and  chat  about 
them  quite  cheerfullv.  Much  of  the 
reading  of  these  girls  is  found  be- 
t\vecn  covers  of  obscene  books  sold 
in  less  respectable  stores  to  satisfy* 
the  taste  of  curious  adolescents. 
Many  of  todav's  amusements  give 
e\idence  of  impurity-  in  its  most 
dangerous  form.  The  sanctity-  that 
once  shielded  the  marriage  relation 
and  the  shame  of  infideht\-  and 
adulter}-  seem  to  have  disappeared. 
Is  it  possible  that,  with  continuous 
thoughts  of  the  human  bodv.  and 
a  constant  obsession  with  sex,  that 
our  girls  can  go  into  womanhood  un- 
scarred  by  such  influences? 

The  writer  answered,  in  part,  that 


these  modem  girls,  clean  and  daint\' 
in  their  phvsical  life,  and  careful  of 
their  personal  appearance  and  their 
culture,  "batten  upon  the  filth  of 
dirt"'  bv  reading  novels  that  debase 
the  relationship  between  men  and 
women,  single  or  married.  She 
stated  that  if  their  mothers  saw 
them  bending  o\er  garbage  barrels, 
it  would  be  horrible  to  them,  but 
that  physical  dirtiness  is  far  less 
dangerous  to  fine  womanhood  than 
the  distorted  \iews  of  life  gained 
from  depra\ed  literature. 

Xot\\ith standing  the  report  that 
obscene  literature  has  been  cleaned 
up,  on  the  nineteenth  of  September 
195-.  J.  Edgar  Hoover  urged  that 
there  be  a  \^ar  \^aged  against  news- 
stands flooded  with  obscenities 
aimed  at  children  as  well  as  adults. 
Mr.  Hoover  said  that  the  trade  of 
'printed  poison"  is  a  big  and  lucra- 
ti\e  business.  "Not  until  longer 
sentences  and  hea\-ier  fines  remove 
the  financial  advantages  of  this  traf- 
fic will  the  producers,  distributors, 
and  dealers  of  filth  be  driven  out  of 
this  sickening  business.  The  activi- 
ties of  the  muck  merchants  are  na- 
tional in  scope  and  are  closely 
organized.  A  smut  dealer  can  pro- 
duce for  a  sm.all  initial  cost  obscene 
photographs  or  publications  which 
can  then  be  copied  by  the  thousands 
and  then  transmitted  on  an  almost 
endless  round  of  moral  destruction. 
Your  child  can  easily  become  one 
of  their  tragic  \ictims.  -\n  aroused 
public  is  necessar\- — one  that  will 
not  countenance  the  placing  of  this 
trash  on  public  displav." 

Emerson  said.  "'Be  sure  to  read 
no  mean  books"  (^meaning  books 
of  inferior  quality- "i.  "Consider  what 
you  have  in  the  smallest  chosen  H- 
brar\-.     A  companv  of  the  wisest, 


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wittiest  men  that  could  be  picked  and  unsafe  freedoms  as  a  trend  of 

out  of  all  civil  countries  in  a  thou-  the  times. 

sand  years  have  set  in  best  order         After  deep  study  by  these  three 

the    results    of   their    learning   and  groups  of  these  nine  problems,  the 

wisdom.     Each  gives  up  his  grains  result   was   a   booklet    called    *'We 

of  gold  after  the  washing."  Can  Agree."    Every  family  has  one, 

Some    people    think    that    televi-  also  every  new  student.    Conditions 

sion's  educational  programs  are  an  are  improving  especially  in  the  area 

answer  to  the  mind  and  soul's  re-  of  appropriate  dress  and  party  hours, 

quirements  for  proper  training;  but  These   ideas   of   agreement   in   im- 

Frank  C.  Baxter,  Professor  of  Eng-  provement  of  the  young  are  now 

lish  Literature  at  the  University  of  spreading  to  other  states  and  the 

California,  at  Los  Angeles,  who  has  P.T.A.  is  becoming  interested.  May 

had   experience  on  some  of  those  these  ideas  be  adopted  by  the  whole 

educational  programs,  says  that  your  United  States  of  America  so  that 

T.V.  set  can  at  best  be  only  an  in-  our   morals   may  be  something  of 

vitation  to  knowledge.     One  can't  which  we  may  be  proud, 
possibly  grow   up   to   be   educated         These  movements  are  good,  but 

without  wide  reading.    He  said  that  there  is   nothing   so   efficacious  as 

the  spoken  word  and  the  animated  confidence  between  a  wise  mother 

figure   on    the    screen    are    fleeting  and  a  willing  -  to  -  listen  -  and  -  learn 

shadows  that  will   not  stay  to  be  sweet  young  girl.    Mother,  get  close 

mastered.     Sound  goes  in  one  ear  to  your  daughter.    Gain  her  confi- 

and  out  the  other.    Only  the  writ-  dence  so  that  she  will  have  a  desire 

ten  word  gives  students  the  solid  to  talk  to  you  after  the  show,  after 

background  that  underlines  all  real  the  dance,  after  the  ride.     A  few 

culture.  words  of  wisdom  on  such  occasions 

Besides  reading  low  books  that  in-  may  change  her  desires  to  read  the 

jure  our  young  people's  morals,  there  wrong  book,  to  associate  with  the 

are  other  problems  which  influence  wrong  boy,  to  make  the  wrong  mar- 

them  against  leading  a  clean  life,  riage. 

Three    groups    in    Philadelphia    in         Begin  very  early  with  your  little 

1951   decided  to  solve  those  prob-  girl  to  build  a  strong  character  that 

lems  before  they  had  a  good  start,  she  may  be  able  to  resist  uncleanli- 

These   groups    are:    First,    parents,  ness  whether  physical,   mental,   or 

Second,    students,   and    Third,  the  moral.  Then,  if  gentleness,  kindness, 

school  personnel.  love,  cleanliness,  and  morality  exist 

The  problems  are:  (1)  Unreason-  in  the  home,  she  can  look  upon  the 

able  late  hours,   (2)   drinking  alco-  wickedness  of  the  world  in  disdain 

holic  beverages,    (3)    abuse  of  car  and  disgust  at  the  low  thoughts  on 

privileges,    (4)   lack  of  parental  re-  the  screen  and  in  publications  and 

sponsibility  in  chaperoning  parties  they  will  influence  her  character  not 

in  the  homes,  ( 5 )  a  series  of  home  one  whit. 

parties  after  late  school  functions.         Teach  her  that  according  to  The 

(6)    party    crashing,    (7)    inappro-  Book  of  Mormon  '\  .  .  neither  can 

priate  dress,  (8)  a  general  disregard  filthiness  or  anything  which  is  un- 

for  the  rights  and  property  of  others,  clean  be  received  into  the  kingdom 

(9)    parental  acceptance   of  newer  of  God  .  .  ."  (Alma  7:21). 


Obedience  In  All  Things 

Counselor  Helen  W.  Anderson 


JESUS  said,  ''If  ye  love  me,  keep 
my  commandments.  ...  If  a 
man  love  me,  he  will  keep  my 
words:  and  my  Father  will  love  him, 
and  we  will  come  unto  him,  and 
make  our  abode  with  him"  (John 
14:15,23). 

Obedience  to  his  laws  and  com- 
mandments has  been  a  requirement 
of  the  Lord  ever  since  the  very  be- 
ginning. If  we  truly  love  him, 
obedience  to  his  laws  will  not  be  a 
difficult  requirement.  Great  and 
glorious  are  the  promises  made  to 
those  of  God's  children  who  are 
obedient  in  all  things. 

And  if  you  keep  my  commandments 
and  endure  to  the  end  you  shall  have 
eternal  life,  which  gift  is  the  greatest  of 
all  the  gifts  of  God  (D.  &  C.  14:7). 

The  rewards  of  those  who  are 
partially  obedient  to  the  law  as  com- 
pared with  the  majestic  rewards 
awaiting  those  who  are  fully  obedi- 
ent is  like  comparing  the  flicker  of 
the  early  day  movies  to  the  superb 
cinemascope  of  today. 

/.  The  gospel  provides  a  plan  of  life 
and  salvation  to  everyone  that  will 
render  obedience  to  it.  Every  law 
the  Lord  has  given  is  of  such  a  na- 
ture that  by  keeping  it  we  are  pre- 
served, protected,  or  blessed  in  some 
way. 

If  we  keep  the  Word  of  Wisdom, 
we  are  promised  that  we  shall  find 
"wisdom  and  great  treasures  of 
knowledge,  even  hidden  treasures; 
And  shall  run  and  not  be  weary,  and 
shall  walk  and  not  faint.  And  .  .  . 
that  the  destroying  angel  shall  pass 


by  them,  as  the  children  of  Israel, 
and    not    slay    them"     (D.    &    C. 

89:19-21). 

If  we  keep  the  law  of  tithing,  the 
Lord  will  ''open  .  .  .  the  windows 
of  heaven,  and  pour  you  out  a  bless- 
ing, that  there  shall  not  be  room 
enough  to  receive  it"  (Malachi 
3:10). 

If  we  abide  the  laws  of  the  land, 
we  are  protected  and  made  safe..,-^^- 

The  promise  is  made  that  Ameri- 
ca, a  land  choice  above  all  other 
lands,  will  be  a  land  of  liberty  and 
freedom  to  those  who  possess  it, 
if  they  will  but  obey  the  God  of 
the  land,  which  is  Jesus  Christ. 

The  universe  renders  obedience  to 
the  will  of  God. 

Obedience  is  required  of  all  the 
children  of  the  Lord.  Of  the  Savior 
himself  it  is  recorded,  "Though  he 
were  a  Son,  yet  learned  he  obedi- 
ence by  the  things  which  he  suf- 
fered; And  being  made  perfect,  he 
became  the  author  of  eternal  salva- 
tion unto  all  them  that  obey 
him..  ."  (Heb.  5:8,9). 

The  Master  concluded  his  most 
important  sermon  by  comparing  the 
faithful  doer  of  his  words,  "liken  .  .  . 
unto  a  wise  man,  which  built  his 
house  upon  a  rock"  (Mt.  7:24). 

We  are  taught  that  obedience  is 
the  first  law  of  heaven  and  order  is 
the  result.  Obedience  brings  re- 
ward; disobedience  brings  its  own 
punishment.  Adam  learned  and 
understood  the  principle  of  obedi- 
ence. He  was  commanded  to  build 
altars  upon  which  to  offer  sacrifices. 

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Upon  one  occasion,  after  having 
complied  with  this  commandment, 

...  an  angel  of  the  Lord  appeared  unto 
Adam,  saying:  Why  dost  thou  offer  sacri- 
fices unto  the  Lord?  And  Adam  said  un- 
to him:  I  know  not,  save  the  Lord  com- 
manded me.  And  then  the  angel  spake, 
saying:  This  thing  is  a  simihtude  of  the 
sacrifice  of  the  Only  Begotten  of  the  Fa- 
ther, which  is  full  of  grace  and  truth 
(Moses  5:6,  7). 

Adam  knew  that  whatever  the 
Lord  commanded  him  to  do  would 
be  for  his  best  good  and  benefit; 
therefore,  he  never  questioned  why 
he  should  render  obedience  unto 
the  Lord.  The  Lord  rewarded  him 
after  he  had  fulfilled  the  command- 
ment of  offering  up  sacrifices,  and 
Adam  had  a  visitation  from  a  divine 
being,  imparting  to  him  the  knowl- 
edge of  why  he  was  to  offer  sacri- 
fices. 

^  Although  obedience  is  a  require- 
ment, we  are  not  compelled  to  obey 
against  our  own  wishes.  There  is  a 
penalty  attached  to  disobedience 
which  all  must  suffer  who  do  not 
obey.  The  Lord  has  laid  down  cer- 
tain laws  for  our  guidance  and  wel- 
fare and  made  promises  to  us  as  a 
result  of  obedience  to  these  laws. 

One  of  the  first  lessons  in  obedi- 
ence we  learned  as  children,  and  one 
that  will  be  indelibly  written  in  our 
memories,  was  the  example  of  per- 
fect obedience  rendered  by  Abra- 
ham in  his  willingness  to  place  his 
son  Isaac  upon  the  altar,  as  a  sacri- 
fice unto  the  Lord. 

Moses  taught  the  children  of 
Israel  obedience.  He  said,  ''Behold, 
I  set  before  you  this  day  a  blessing 
and  a  curse;  a  blessing,  if  ye  obey 
the  commandments  of  the  Lord 
your  God,  which  I  command  you 


this  day"  . .  .(Deut.  11:26,  27).  How- 
ever, the  children  of  Israel  became 
disobedient,  and  turned  to  the  wor- 
ship of  the  golden  calf.  The  penalty 
for  disobedience  caused  them  to 
wander  for  forty  long  years  in  the 
wilderness  before  a  new  generation 
learned  obedience  to  the  Lord. 

No  man  had  greater  opportunity 
for  progress  than  did  Saul,  King  of 
Israel.  Lie  prophesied  among  the 
prophets  and  was  a  man  greatly  be- 
loved of  the  Lord,  but  because  of 
his  willful  disobedience,  he  was  re- 
jected from  being  King  of  Israel  by 
the  Lord,  and  was  severely  rebuked 
by  Samuel:  ''Behold,  to  obey  is  bet- 
ter than  sacrifice,  and  to  hearken 
than  the  fat  of  rams''  (I  Samuel 
15:22). 

Obedience  should  be  voluntary, 
not  forced.  The  Lord  promises  his 
blessings  if  we  honor  and  obey  his 
laws,  and  not  otherwise.  "I,  the 
Lord,  am  bound  when  ye  do  what 
I  say;  but  when  ye  do  not  what  I 
say,  ye  have  no  promise"  (D.  &  C. 
82:10).  Obedience  is  a  positive 
power;  it  disciplines  the  character 
and  reflects  a  strong,  noble  spirit; 
it  refines  and  enlarges  the  soul.  We 
obey  a  law  because  we  know  it  to 
be  right,  because  we  have  a  desire 
to  do  right  and  because  of  the  bless- 
ings promised.  Obedience  prompt- 
ed by  love  brings  the  greatest  happi- 
ness man  can  enjoy.  "God  delights 
in  a  wiUing  heart." 

We  attain  success  spiritually  and 
temporally  when  we  obey  the  laws. 
Any  success  is  accomplished  only  by 
rendering  the  fullest  degree  of  obedi- 
ence to  the  law  upon  which  it  has 
been  predicated. 

There  is  a  law,  irrevocably  decreed  in 
heaven    before    the    foundations    of    this 


OBEDIENCE  IN  ALL  THINGS 


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world,  upon  which  all  blessings  are  predi- 
cated— and  when  we  obtain  any  blessing 
from  God,  it  is  by  obedience  to  that  law 
upon  which  it  is  predicated  (D.  &  C. 
130:20,  21 ). 

As  Latter-day  Saint  women,  we 
are  obliged  to  live  and  teach  com- 
plete obedience.  We  must  obey  the 
counsel  and  instructions  of  the  con- 
stituted Authority  of  the  Church. 
We  should  sustain  the  Priesthood 
and  hearken  to  the  words  of  the  hv- 
ing  oracles  and  all  the  words  of  the 
authorized  servants  of  God. 

Brigham  Young  said  that  women 
do  exert  a  great  influence  in  guiding 
the  destinies  of  men  and  of  nations. 

The  women  of  the  Church  can 
exert  a  great  influence  for  good,  in 
their  homes,  in  the  Church,  and  in 
the  world,  by  living  and  teaching 
the  saving  principle  of  obedience  to 
the  gospel.  We  have  a  responsibil- 
ity for  the  total  effect  our  influence 
will  have  in  the  lives  of  others. 


President  McKay  said,  ''Men  and 
women  who  obey  the  principles  of 
life  and  salvation,  sincerely  repent  of 
their  sins,  and  as  sincerely  strive  to 
live  in  accordance  with  the  prin- 
ciples of  the  gospel,  are  guided  and 
inspired  by  the  Holy  Ghost,  and  are 
shown  things  to  come"  (Gospel 
Ideals,  page  147).  He  also  said, 
''Obedience  to  the  gospel  means 
merely  compliance  with  the  laws 
of  health  and  happiness.  It  means 
keeping  the  body  undefiled  and  the 
spirit  in  tune  with  the  infinite" 
(Cherished  Experiences,  page  10). 

Verily,  thus  saith  the  Lord:  It  shall 
come  to  pass  that  every  soul  who  forsaketh 
his  sins  and  cometh  unto  me,  and  calleth 
on  my  name,  and  obeyeth  my  voice,  and 
keepeth  my  commandments,  shall  see  my 
face  and  know  that  I  am  .  .  .  (D.  &  C. 
93:1). 

What  a  glorious  promise  to  those 
who  will  live  for  it! 


oLove  s  ibquation 

Luett  StantM 


'T^HE  short  span  of  mortal  existence  never  follows  a  straight  course,  but,  rather,  *'a 
•^  spiral  with  rhythms  of  progress  and  retrogression,  of  evolution  and  dissolution,"  in 
which  time  teaches  that  all  true  values  are  spiritual  and  eternal,  while  earth-life  is  but 
a  passing  experience  in  which  we  now  see  "through  a  glass  darkly"  in  the  exploration 
and  expectation  of  life,  of  hope,  and  of  promise. 

The  most  precious  gift  man  can  bring  to  Christ  is  love  for  his  neighbor — that 
human  interest  in  the  needs  of  his  fellow  man  which  is  inspired  by  God.  The  offering 
of  love  and  sympathy  expects  no  return,  asks  for  no  rewards,  and  finds  its  own  joy  full 
in  the  giving  alone. 

The  lessons  of  love  are  the  jewels  we  must  treasure.  Material  gifts,  fine  as  they 
may  be,  are  only  the  symbols  of  love  and  the  tokens  of  need.  Time  dissolves  them, 
but  the  jewels  of  spiritual  value  are  oriented  into  the  fabric  of  character.  These  jewels 
can  never  dissolve.    They  will  shine  on  forever. 


Report  and  Official  Instructions 

Piesident  Belie  S.  Spafford 

(Prepared  for  delivery  at  the  1957  Annual   General  Relief  Society  Conference  which 

was  cancelled.) 


I  wish  to  commend  stake  and  ward 
officers  for  the  able  direction 
they  are  giving  to   Rehef   So- 
ciety. 

Organizations  and  Reorganizations 

The  stakes  of  the  Church  are  in- 
creasing in  number,  gratifying  evi- 
dence of  the  growing  strength  of  the 
Church.  At  the  close  of  1956,  there 
were  235  stake  Relief  Society  organ- 
izations, an  increase  of  twelve  over 
1955.  There  were  202  new  local  Re- 
lief Societies  organized  during  1956, 
making  a  total  of  3,939  ward  and 
branch  societies  at  the  close  of  the 
year.  There  were  forty-five  mission 
organizations  as  compared  to  forty- 
four  for  1955.  During  1956  there 
were  forty  reorganizations  in  the 
stakes  and  twelve  reorganizations  in 
the  missions. 

Missions 

Through  the  missionary  program 
of  the  Church  the  work  of  Relief 
Society  is  being  extended  to  the  far 
corners  of  the  earth.  It  will  be  of 
interest  to  you  to  know  that  on 
April  3,  1957,  ^^^  ^^^^  Relief  Society 
was  organized  in  Hong  Kong  in  the 
Southern  Far  East  Mission  for  the 
Chinese  sisters.  Relief  Societies  are 
being  organized  for  the  sisters  where 
Latter-day  Saint  servicemen  are  lo- 
cated, for  example  in  Spain,  Libya, 
Okinawa,  and  elsewhere.  The  ma- 
jority of  these  sisters  are  young 
women.  We  pray  for  their  well- 
being. 

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Generally  speaking,  the  work  of 
Relief  Society  in  the  missions  is 
progressing  along  all  lines. 

Membership 

We  are  happy  to  report  to  you  at 
this  time  an  increase  in  the  Church- 
wide  Relief  Society  membership  dur- 
ing 1956  of  9,209  making  a  total  of 
172,722  enrolled  members.  The 
membership  gain  for  1956  was  ap- 
proximately 2,000  greater  than  for 
the  previous  year.  In  view  of  the 
growing  trend  of  women  working 
and  the  many  other  activities  which 
engage  women  today,  this  gain  is 
gratifying.  It  is  evidence  of  alert- 
ness on  the  part  of  officers  in  inter- 
esting women  in  the  work  of  the 
society.  Undoubtedly,  careful  con- 
sideration is  being  given  to  holding 
meetings  at  the  hour  most  conveni- 
ent for  the  greatest  number  of  avail- 
able members.  ''Why  should  every 
L.  D.  S.  woman  be  identified  with 
Relief  Society  as  a  member?''  In 
answer  we  reply,  ''Because  it  gives 
her  a  living,  growing  testimony  of 
the  gospel;  it  affords  her  opportunity 
to  render  wisely  directed  service  to 
her  fellow  men;  it  enables  her  to 
serve  her  Church  through  the  or- 
ganization given  to  the  women  of 
the  Church  by  our  Heavenly  Fa- 
ther; it  offers  her  rich  educational 
opportunities;  it  gives  her  intellect- 
ual and  spiritual  contacts  with  wom- 
en of  like  ideals  and  beliefs;  it  helps 
her  to  be  a  good  wife,  mother,  and 


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homemaker;  it  affords  her  oppor-  It  is  hoped  that  during  the  period 
tunity  to  form  choice  and  lasting  covered  by  this  course  of  study  every 
friendships.  Rehef  Society  deserves  member  of  the  Rehef  Society  will 
her  loyalty  because  it  was  divinely  read  and  study  the  entire  book  of 
organized  for  the  women  of  the  the  Doctrine  and  Covenants;  how- 
Church  and  has  had  divinely  in-  ever,  no  report  on  the  number  of 
spired  guidance  through  the  years/'  sisters    reading    the    book    will   be 

called  for  by  the  general  board,  as 

Visiting  1  eacnmg  ^^5   done   with   regard    to   reading 

The    visiting    teaching    program  The  Book  of  Mormon, 
continues  to  engage  the  time  and 

efforts  of  Relief  Society  officers,  as  xhe  Book  oi  Mormon  Reading 
well  as  69,984  visiting  teachers  who  project:  We  are  pleased  to  an- 
constitute  40.51  per  cent  of  the  nounce,  with  regard  to  The  Book 
membership  of  the  Society.  Figures  ^f  Mormon  reading  project,  that 
for  1956  show  approximately  three  there  were  3,216  wards  and  branches 
million  visits  were  made  or  an  aver-  ^^^  ^f  ^  possible  3,938  which  sub- 
age  of  8.46  per  cent  to  each  Latter-  flitted  reports.  The  reports  showed 
day  Saint  family.  There  are  in  every  163,713  members  participating.  Of 
neighborhood  many  aged,  lonely,  or  ^his  number  76,989  or  47.03  per 
troubled  people  who  may  have  no  ^ent  read  the  section  covered  by  the 
special  temporal  needs,  but  who  i^ssons  for  the  year  1956-57.  There 
need  friendly  interest,  assurance,  en-  ^^^^  5^  3^^  o^  ^^^^  p^^.  ^^^^  ^f 
couragement,  spiritual  uplift,  and  the  total  Church-wide  Relief  Society 
peace  of  mind.  There  are  some-  membership  who  read  the  entire 
times  those  whose  temporal  needs  ^^^y.  ^f  Mormon  during  the  six- 
may  be  causing  anxiety  or  even  suf-  y^^,  ^^^^^^  -^  ^^ich  the  project  was 
fering.  The  visiting  teaching  pro-  ^^^^^^^  forward, 
gram  deals  with  all  of  these  human 

^^^^^-  Testimony  Peiiod:  At  one  of  our 
The  Educational  Program  ^^^f"!  conferences,  attention  was 
Theology  Course:  The  excellence  f^^^  *^.,T^',  of  President  J. 
of  the  courses  of  study  and  the  good  ,^,^"^^"  ^^^'^'  J^'  ^^^^^^^  ^  ^^^^^ 
teaching  procedures  being  followed  ^^^^  ^°  repeat: 
by  the  14,147  class  leaders  are  im-  ^^^  ^^^^  ^j^-^^^^  ^-^  ^^^  purpose  of 
portant  factors  in  the  growth  of  the  auxiliary  organizations  of  the  Church 
Relief  Society  and  attendance  at  is  to  plant  and  make  grow  in  every  mem- 
the  regular  meetings.  A  new  the-  ^er  of  the  Church  a  testimony  of  the 
Ology  course  of  study  begins  this  divinity  of  the  Christ  and  of  the  gospel, 
^•^  ,  •  1  r  1  ^^  ^^tie  divinity  or  the  mission  or  Joseph 
year  to  be  continued  for  several  Smith  and  of  the  Church,  and  to  bring 
years.  The  course  is  to  be  a  section  the  people  to  order  their  lives  in  accord- 
by  section  study  of  the  Doctrine  and  a^ce  with  the  laws  and  principles  of  the 

Covenants.    The  Doctrine  and  Cov-  \Z\'''^^  ,?°/Po^^    ^""^    ""^   ^^^   Priesthood 

.             L  •    ■        .r             J       r  .i  { Ihe  Rehet  Society  Maeazine,  December, 

enants,  containing  the  words  of  the  ^                81 0 

Lord  to  this  dispensation,  will  be 

the  text.  A    special   period   has   been    set 


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aside  at  the  theology  meeting  for 
testimony  bearing.  The  theology 
class  leader  has  opportunity  through 
her  preparation  and  presentation  of 
lesson  material  to  create  an  atmos- 
phere conducive  to  the  bearing  of 
testimony,  and  to  awaken  in  the 
sisters  a  desire  to  express  their  ap- 
preciation to  their  Heavenly  Father 
for  their  blessings  and  to  bear  wit- 
ness of  the  truths  of  the  gospel.  To 
slight  the  testimony  period  is  to 
deny  the  sisters  an  important  oppor- 
tunity, privilege,  and  blessing. 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages:  The 
visiting  teacher  messages,  as  hereto- 
fore, are  planned  to  correlate  with 
the  theology  lessons.  The  messages, 
'Truths  to  Live  By  From  the  Doc- 
trine and  Covenants,"  are  taken 
from  those  sections  of  the  book 
which  will  be  studied  in  the  the- 
ology course.  You  will  find  these 
lessons  practical  and  illustrated  with 
pertinent  examples  which  can  easily 
be  applied  to  the  lives  of  the  sisters. 

Literature  Course:  Those  sisters 
who  have  enjoyed  the  first  year  of 
''Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives,"  will 
eagerly  anticipate  a  second  year  of 
this  study  in  the  literature  depart- 
ment. 

Social  Science  Course:  The  social 
science  course,  "Latter-day  Saint 
Family  Life,"  goes  into  its  second 
year.  Latter-day  Saint  families  are 
not  without  problems,  but  these 
problems  can  be  met  and  solved 
better  when  seen  in  proper  perspec- 
tive and  when  the  solutions  applied 
are  based  on  Church  teachings.  The 
social  science  course  for  the  coming 
year  will  give  further  consideration 
to  the  Latter-day  Saint  family  in  its 
role  of  returning  its  members  to  the 


presence  of  our  Heavenly  Father. 
Do  not  underestimate  the  need  for 
and  the  importance  of  this  course. 

The  Work  Meeting:  The  work 
meeting  was  the  third  best  attended 
meeting  during  1956.  The  Home 
Management  lessons  for  1957-58, 
"Living  More  Abundantly,"  are 
planned  to  help  the  sisters  live  more 
abundantly  through  the  wise  hand- 
ling of  the  family  income.  These 
lessons  are  expertly  written.  Surely, 
no  one  would  question  the  necessity 
of  them  in  a  day  of  steadily  rising 
living  costs.  We  highly  recommend 
their  use  by  the  wards. 

The  question  has  been  asked, 
"May  a  separate  department  be  held 
for  the  Home  Management  lessons 
at  union  meeting?"  In  response,  we 
say,  "Authorization  has  been  grant- 
ed stakes  to  invite  the  Home  Man- 
agement discussion  leaders  to  at- 
tend the  work  meeting  department 
in  the  union  meeting."  It  is  expect- 
ed that  time  will  be  allotted  there 
for  a  consideration  of  this  discus- 
sion course.  Home  Management 
discussion  leaders  are  regarded  as 
sisters  with  a  special  assignment.  In 
attending  the  union  meeting  they 
are  recorded  as  visitors. 

With  regard  to  bazaars,  I  remind 
you  again  that  bazaars  should  be  an 
outgrowth  of  the  regular  work  meet- 
ing activities  insofar  as  possible. 
Although  credit  is  given  in  the  rec- 
ord book  for  articles  assigned  by 
and  made  under  the  supervision  of 
Relief  Society,  even  though  none  or 
only  a  small  portion  of  the  work  is 
actually  done  at  the  work  meeting, 
it  would  seem  desirable  to  have  as 
much  of  the  work  done  at  the  work 
meeting  as  possible.  It  has  been  re- 
ported that  for  varied  reasons  officers 


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sometimes  prefer  to  have  sewing 
done  away  from  the  work  meeting. 
This  is  not  consistent  with  the  pur- 
poses of  the  day. 

With  regard  to  recording  the 
number  of  articles  of  sewing  com- 
pleted, in  the  chart  included  in  the 
minutes  of  the  work  meeting,  the 
general  board  has  ruled  that  only 
sewed  articles,  or  articles  requiring 
some  sewing,  are  to  be  considered. 
You  would  not  count  crocheted  doi- 
lies or  crocheted  tablecloths  or  cro- 
cheted articles  of  clothing  on  which 
there  is  no  sewing.  This  interpreta- 
tion of  the  ruling  supersedes  any 
other  instructions  you  may  have 
received. 

Music:  We  are  happy  to  report 
that  at  the  close  of  1956  there  was 
a  total  of  2,299  wards  and  branches 
having  Singing  Mothers  choruses, 
with  34,621  singers  participating  in 
the  choruses.  Too  much  cannot  be 
said  in  praise  of  these  choruses,  and 
the  good  being  accomplished  by 
them. 

The  Relief  Society  Magazine 

We  greatly  appreciate  the  excel- 
lent work  done  by  stake  and  ward, 
mission  and  branch  Magazine  repre- 
sentatives, as  well  as  the  strong  sup- 
port given  by  the  Relief  Society 
presidencies.  An  outstanding  rec- 
ord was  made  during  1956.  The  an- 
nual report  showed  a  paid  subscrip- 
tion list  of  148,562.  There  were  222 
stakes  on  the  Honor  Roll.  There 
were  1949  wards  on  the  Honor  Roll. 
There  were  fifteen  missions  listed, 
and  642  districts  and  branches.  In- 
creases were  shown  over  1955  in 
each  instance. 

We  recognize  that  special  abili- 
ties, a  vast  amount  of  time,   and 


continuous  effort  are  all  needed  to 
sell  the  Magazine.  We  recognize, 
also,  that  the  representatives  must 
be  women  truly  devoted  to  Relief 
Society  and  fully  converted  to  the 
value  of  the  Magazine.  We  realize 
that  all  of  these  factors  will  be  called 
into  full  play  now  that  it  has  be- 
come necessary  to  increase  the  sub- 
scription price  from  $1.50  to  $2 
per  year.  We  are  confident  that  we 
can  count  on  your  full  support  in 
the  action  that  has  been  necessary 
for  us  to  take,  and  that  you  will  urge 
ward  officers  to  give  special  encour- 
agement and  support  to  the  ward 
Magazine  representatives  during  the 
period  of  adjustment  to  the  new 
price. 

Welfare 

With  regard  to  our  welfare  ac- 
tivities, I  am  reminded  today  of  the 
words  of  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith 
when  he  said  at  the  sixth  meeting 
of  the  society.  ".  .  .  this  is  the 
beginning  of  better  days  to  the  poor 
and  needy  who  shall  be  made  to  re- 
joice and  pour  forth  blessings  on 
your  heads."  Relief  Society  is  en- 
deavoring to  meet  its  responsibility 
to  the  poor  and  needy  by  giving  full 
support  to  the  Church  Welfare  pro- 
gram and  by  rendering  in  ever-in- 
creasing amounts  the  so-called  com- 
passionate services. 

The  average  number  of  women 
participating  in  welfare  sewing  at 
work  meetings  during  1956  was 
8,347,  while  2,822  sewed  at  the  sew- 
ing centers.  There  were  23,839 
women  who  participated  in  welfare 
projects  other  than  sewing.  These 
figures  are  all  increases  over  those 
of  the  previous  year. 

Figures  show  a  substantial  increase 


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in  number  of  visits  made  by  ward 
Relief  Society  presidents  to  families 
in  need  under  the  direction  of  the 
respective  bishops.  However,  there 
were  fewer  women  receiving  service 
who  helped  on  welfare  projects,  who 
sewed  at  work  meeting  or  who 
sewed  for  themselves.  I  call  this  to 
your  attention  in  order  that  you  may 
give  greater  emphasis  to  the  im- 
portance of  having  these  sisters  do 
so. 

Compassionate  Services 

The  compassionate  services  con- 
tinue to  expand.  During  1956  there 
were  255,719,  or  an  increase  of  7,841 
visits  made  to  the  sick  and  the 
homebound.  There  was  a  total  of 
26,148  eight-hour  days  of  bedside 
nursing  care  given  the  sick  on  a  vol- 
unteer basis  by  assignment  of  ward 
Relief  Society  presidents.  This  was 
an  increase  of  638  over  1955.  The 
number  of  funerals  at  which  Relief 
Society  assisted  was  7,371  or  an  in- 
crease of  203  over  the  previous  year. 

The  Nurse  Survey 

The  Nurse  Survey  forms  were 
sent  to  you  again  in  August.  They 
should  be  returned  not  later  than 
December  15th.  It  is  important 
that  these  lists  be  kept  up  and  that 
the  requested  information  be  fully 
and  accurately  supplied. 

We  also  encourage  you  once  again 
to  provide  instruction,  where  pos- 
sible, in  home  nursing  for  Relief 
Society  members.  We  suggest  once 
again  that  you  consult  your  local 
Red  Cross  chapters  to  ascertain 
whether  or  not  they  are  in  a  position 
to  co-operate  with  you  in  conduct- 
ing such  classes.  It  is  our  under- 
standing that  the  Red  Cross  plans 
to  conduct,  in  some  areas,  classes  in 


mother  and  baby  care.  We  suggest 
that  you  watch  for  these  and  advise 
the  members  of  them. 

In  view  of  the  continuing  short- 
age of  nurses,  we  again  encourage 
you  to  acquaint  yourselves  with 
available  opportunities  for  both 
practical  and  registered  nurse  train- 
ing, and  to  encourage  sisters  to  take 
nurse  training  courses  who  are  inter- 
ested, qualified,  and  suitably  situated. 

Funds 

We  are  pleased  to  note  that  dur- 
ing 1956  Relief  Societies  were  able 
to  maintain  themselves  financially 
and  in  many  instances  also  made 
contributions  to  building  and  other 
programs  directed  by  Priesthood 
authorities.  It  is  suggested  that 
when  money  is  raised  by  Relief  So- 
ciety at  the  request  of  the  stake 
president  or  bishop  to  be  turned  to 
him  for  some  specified  purpose,  that 
the  total  earnings  from  the  project 
be  entered  in  the  ''earnings"  column 
of  the  Relief  Society  Record  Book^ 
and  that  expenses  incident  to  the 
activity  be  entered  in  the  Disburse- 
ment Column  as  expenses  and  that 
the  money  turned  to  the  stake  presi- 
dent or  bishop  be  given  in  the  form 
of  a  check  and  the  amount  also  be 
entered  in  the  Disbursement  Col- 
umn with  a  notation  in  the  Remarks 
Column,  indicating  the  purpose  for 
which  it  was  disbursed. 

Activities  on  a  Stake  Basis 
Discouraged 

Reports  reaching  the  general  of- 
fice lead  us  to  remind  you  of  a 
recommendation  made  to  you  a 
number  of  years  ago  as  follows: 

We  note  a  growing  tendency  for  stake 
boards    to    bring    the   wards    together   for 


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functions  that  could  more  appropriately 
be  conducted  in  the  individual  wards.  As 
a  general  rule  it  is  more  convenient  for 
the  members,  more  women  participate, 
fuller  interest  is  felt,  and  greater  benefits 
accrue  to  the  sisters  and  to  the  society 
when  functions  are  conducted  in  the  in- 
dividual wards  (The  Relief  Society  Maga- 
zine, "Report  and  Official  Instructions/' 
December  1949,  page  809). 

This,  of  course,  would  not  apply 
to  stake  visiting  teacher  conventions. 
The  general  board  discourages  wards 
combining  for  special  programs  and 
activities.  In  some  instances  this 
appears  to  be  done  where  wards  have 
been  divided  and  both  wards  use 
the  same  meetinghouse.  Wards 
are  divided  for  wise  and  specific  pur- 
poses, and  the  Relief  Society  activi- 
ties, insofar  as  possible,  should  be 
conducted  separately. 

Reports  have  reached  us  of  ward 
Relief  Societies  combining  for  the 
March  and  November  Sunday  eve- 
ning programs  where  more  than  one 
ward  uses  the  meetinghouse,  and 
the  question  is  asked,  ''May  each 
participating  ward  credit  itself  in  the 
Ward  Record  Book  with  having 
held  the  special  program?"  The  an- 
swer to  this  is  ''No."  Only  one 
meeting  was  actually  held.  Only 
the  ward  under  whose  auspices  the 
meeting  was  conducted,  would  take 
credit  for  the  meeting.  The  other 
ward  or  wards  would  be  regarded  as 
visitors. 

Length  oi  Meetings 

We  call  your  attention  to  the 
ruling  in  the  Relief  Society  Hand- 


hook,  page  76,  with  regard  to  the 
length  of  the  regular  meetings: 

The  regular  meetings  for  the  general 
membership  held  on  the  first,  third,  and 
fourth  Tuesdays  of  each  month  October 
through  May  are  planned  to  cover  a  pe- 
riod of  one  and  one-half  hours. 

The  Relief  Society  Building 

It  has  been  just  a  year  since  the 
beautiful  Relief  Society  Building  was 
dedicated.  You  may  be  interested 
to  know  that  since  its  dedication, 
58,859  persons  (Latter-day  Saint  and 
non-Latter-day  Saint)  have  visited 
the  building,  many  of  whom  were 
from  far  distant  places.  Many  favor- 
able and  gratifying  comments  have 
been  made  concerning  the  building, 
of  which  the  following  is  repre- 
sentative: 

I  have  recently  had  opportunity  to  go 
through  the  new  Relief  Society  Building. 
Not  only  the  structure  itself  in  its  beau- 
tiful elegance  but  the  quality  of  the  work 
carried  on  there  for  the  betterment  of 
people  everywhere  throughout  your  Church 
make  we  want  to  congratulate  you  in  high- 
est terms.  There  is  a  spirit  of  peace  and 
reverence  in  the  building  which  one  likes 
to  associate  with  the  type  of  work  your 
organization  is  engaged  in  doing.  My  visit 
to  your  building  was  one  of  the  very 
choice  experiences  of  my  travels  through- 
out the  United  States. 

We  are  deeply  grateful  for  the 
devotion  and  capabilities  of  the 
Relief  Society  sisters  throughout  the 
Church.  May  the  Lord  bless  the 
wonderful  women  of  Relief  Society, 
and  may  he  bless  the  great  organiza- 
tion to  which  we  belong. 


cfriends 

Grace  Ingles  Frost 
I  thank  the  Lord  for  all  my  friends, 
As  this  day  of  gratitude  extends 
Its  festive  hours.  .  .  . 
For  of  what  should  I  more  grateful  be 
Than  for  the  friends  God  gave  to  me? 


cJhe  (bpanish-J^mencan    1 1  iission 

Pieston  R.  Nibley 
Assistant  Church  Historian 

T^HE  Spanish-American  Mission  was  formed  at  a  meeting  held  in  Los 
Angeles,  California,  on  June  28,  1936,  under  the  direction  of  Elder 
Reed  Smoot  of  the  Council  of  the  Twelve.  On  that  occasion  the  Mexican 
Mission  was  divided;  the  Republic  of  Mexico  was  designated  as  the  Mexican 
Mission,  and  the  Spanish-speaking  people  residing  north  of  the  border  of 
the  United  States  and  Mexico,  were  included  in  the  new  Spanish-American 
Mission.  Orlando  C.  Williams  was  chosen  as  the  first  president  and  was 
set  apart  for  this  office  by  Elder  Smoot.  El  Paso,  Texas,  was  chosen  as  the 
headquarters  of  the  mission. 

President  Williams  served  until  August  1,  1940,  when  he  was  suc- 
ceeded by  David  F.  Haymore.  President  Haymore  was  succeeded  in  March 
1943  by  Lorin  F.  Jones.  President  Jones  served  for  a  period  of  ten  years, 
until  December  1953,  when  he  was  succeeded  by  Harold  I.  Bowman,  who 
presides  at  the  present  time. 

In  October  1955,  a  conference  of  Spanish-speaking  saints  from  the 
Spanish-American  and  Mexican  Missions,  was  held  at  Mesa,  Arizona. 
President  David  O.  McKay  was  present  and  addressed  them. 


Harvey  Patteson  &  Son 

Photograph  submitted  by  Nina  N.  Bowman 

TEXAS  LONG-HORN  CATTLE 
This  herd,  owned  by  Mr.   Greaves  Peel  of  Christine,  Texas,  is  said  to  be  the 
last  large  herd  of  long-horn  cattle  in  Texas. 
Page  728 


THE  SPANISH-AMERICAN  MISSION 


729 


New  Mexico  State  Tourist  Bureau 
Photograph  submitted  by  Nina  N.  Bowman 


HEADWATERS  OF  THE  RIO  GRANDE  RIVER 
NORTHERN  NEW  MEXICO 


''He  commended  them  for  their  faithfuhiess  and  interest  in  Temple 
Work,  and  reminded  them  that  they  had  made  Church  History  ten  years 
before,  when,  in  1945,  the  Temple  ceremony  was  given  for  the  first  time 
in  a  foreign  tongue.  Tt  was  because  of  your  faithfulness  and  diligence/ 
he  declared,  'that  we  were  impressed  to  give  other  people  the  opportunity 
of  receiving  these  blessings  in  their  own  language/  " 

At  the  end  of  July  1957,  there  were  3,800  members  of  the  Church 
in  the  Spanish-American  Mission,  located  in  thirty-seven  branches.  These 
branches  are  located  in  New  Mexico,  Arizona,  California,  Colorado,  and 
Texas.    In  July,  134  missionaries  were  laboring  in  the  mission. 

Thirty-five  Relief  Society  organizations,  with  513  members,  were  re- 
ported in  December  1956.  Nina  N.  Bowman  presides  over  the  Spanish- 
American  Mission  Relief  Society. 

Note:  The  cover  for  this  Magnziuc,  "Transient  Tower,  San  Antonio,  Texas,"  was 
submitted  by  Nina  N.  Bowman.  See  also  "Recipes  From  the  Spanish-American  Mission/' 
page  744. 


The  Christmas  Cards 


Dorothy  Boys  Kilian 


MRS.  Alice  Colts,  rocking  idly 
in  the  deep-cushioned  plat- 
form rocker,  stared  out  the 
front  window  into  the  early  Decem- 
ber twilight.  Nowadays  she  put  off 
lighting  the  lamps  as  long  as  pos- 
sible; in  the  deep  shadows  it  was 
easier  to  pretend  that  Harry's  chair 
was  not  empty.  He  had  been  gone 
over  a  year,  and  she  knew  she  ought 
not  to  brood  and  knew  that  Harry 
would  say  she  was  much  too  young 
to  waste  her  time  this  way. 

But  she  did  allow  herself  this  half 
hour  or  so  at  the  close  of  each  lone- 
some day.  Besides,  she  rationalized, 
it  saved  electricity,  and  goodness 
knows  she  had  to  use  her  funds  care- 
fully now. 

She  stopped  rocking  as  she  saw 
a  small  boy  skid  his  bicycle  to  a 
stop  on  the  snowy  walk  out  front. 
Like  a  young  colt  he  vaulted  over 
the  low  gate  and  hurried  up  the 
path  towards  the  porch. 

A  newsboy?  Mrs.  Colts  wondered. 
As  she  started  for  the  front  door, 
she  could  hear  him  whistling  bits  of 
"God  Rest  Ye  Merry  Gentlemen." 
She  smiled  wistfully.  The  holidays 
were  a  wonderful  time  for  the 
youngsters! 

''Good  evening.  Ma'am,"  the  rud- 
dy-cheeked boy  said  cheerfully.  'Tm 
selling  Christmas  cards.  I  have  just 
this  one  box  left,  and  I  thought 
maybe  you'd.  .  .  ." 

Mrs.  Colts  couldn't  bear  to  have 
him  go  on.  'Tm  sorry,"  she  inter- 
rupted gently.  'Tm  not  sending 
out  any  cards  this  year." 

The  boy's  eyes  widened,    ''Why, 

Page  730 


I  thought  everybody  sent  Christmas 
cards!" 

She  could  see  he  was  genuinely 
surprised. 

"Well,  maybe  someday  again," 
she  said.  "Right  now,  Fm  just  not 
in  the  mood." 

"What  will  your  friends  think?" 
the  boy  asked,  and  somehow  he 
managed  not  to  sound  fresh. 

"Oh,  I  think  they'll  understand," 
she  answered  lightly.  "Now,  if  you 
will  excuse  me,  it's  pretty  cold  stand- 
ing here  with  the  door  open.  .  .  ." 

"Please,  if  you  could  only  take 
this  one  box!"  The  boy  apparently 
didn't  realize  he  had  been  dismissed. 
"You  see,"  he  went  on  eagerly,  "if 
I  sell  a  dozen  boxes  I  get  a  bonus 
and  that  will  give  me  enough  to  buy 
those  ice  skates  for  my  brother.  This 
is  the  twelfth  box."  He  held  it  out 
toward  her. 

"Well,  you  haven't  even  shown 
me  the  cards,"  Mrs.  Colts  said, 
smiling.  Just  like  her  little  grand- 
son back  in  Cleveland,  getting  so 
excited  over  something  he'd  leave 
out  half  the  story. 

"Oh,  yes,  sure,"  the  boy  laughed 
sheepishly.  He  snatched  off  the  lid 
of  the  box.  "See?"  he  said  proudly. 
"The  newest  kind— these  long  thin 
ones  with  modern  pictures." 

]\/fRS.  Colts,  whose  tastes  ran  to 
old-fashioned  snow  scenes  with 
green  fir  trees  and  red  barns,  gazed 
down  at  a  tan  deer  with  an  elon- 
gated head  and  pointed  ears  who 
stared  fixedly  at  her  from  a  funereal 
black  background.    Stifling  a  groan, 


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731 


she  glanced  back  up  at  the  boy.  He 
was  smiling  at  her,  obviously  with 
complete  confidence  in  her  good 
judgment. 

"How  much?"  Mrs.  Colts  qua- 
vered. 

"Only  a  dollar  for  the  box." 

"I'll  take  it." 

Even  from  the  coat  closet  where 
she  had  gone  to  get  her  purse,  she 
could  hear  the  youngster  breathing 
out  a  long  happy  sigh. 

She  put  the  box  of  cards  away  in 
the  desk,  thinking  that  possibly  next 
year  she  would  use  them.  That  is, 
if  she  somehow  managed  to  survive 
this  present  lonely  holiday  season. 
Maybe  she  should  have  accepted  her 
son  Fred's  invitation  to  come  out  to 
Cleveland  after  all.  But  he  and  his 
wife  were  living  in  a  tiny  apartment 
and  were  crowded  enough  with 
young  Freddy.  No,  she  had  made 
the  right  decision,  painful  as  it  was. 

As  she  started  sadly  for  the  kitch- 
en to  cook  herself  a  bite  of  supper, 
the  doorbell  rang.  Startled,  Mrs. 
Colts  turned  back  to  the  front  of 
the  house. 

On  the  porch  stood  a  little  old 
woman,  shoulders  bent,  with  a  huge 
black  handbag  on  her  arm.  "I  don't 
suppose,"  the  woman  said  hesitantly, 
drawing  a  box  from  the  bag,  "that 
you'd  be  interested  in  buying  a  few 
cards?" 

Mrs.  Colts  stared  at  her  unbe- 
lievingly. 

"I  know  it's  pretty  late,"  the 
woman  went  on  in  a  tired,  thin  tone, 
"but  I  thought  maybe  you'd  need  a 
few  extra  at  the  last  minute." 

Mrs.  Colts  found  her  voice  at  last. 
"Why,  I  bought  some  from  a  young 
boy  just  a  few  minutes  ago,"  she 
said  kindly. 


The  woman  didn't  seem  surprised. 
She  nodded  her  head  sadly.  "Yes, 
your  neighbors  said  somebody  else 
had  just  been  through  this  street," 
she  said.  "Well,  thank  you  any- 
way." She  put  the  box  back  in  her 
bag  and  stepped  carefully  down  the 
first  step  of  the  porch. 

Why,  she  isn't  half  trying,  Mrs. 
Colts  thought.  Somehow  she  felt 
as  irritated  as  if  she  were  the  one 
who  was  missing  out  on  a  sale. 

"Just  a  minute,"  she  said  briskly. 
"What  kind  of  cards  do  you  have?" 

The  woman  turned  back.  "Oh, 
just  the  usual,"  she  said  dispiritedly. 
"The  village  church,  the  skating 
pond  and  such." 

"That's  just  the  type  most  of  us 
older  people  like,"  Mrs.  Colts  said 
firmly.  "Come  in  for  a  minute,  and 
we'll  have  a  look  at  them  together." 
She  felt  a  warm  glow  as  she  saw  a 
shadow  of  hope  creep  into  the  faded 
gray  eyes  confronting  her. 

Fifteen  minutes  later  she  said 
goodbye  and  Merry  Christmas  to  a 
smiling  old  Mrs.  Ames  and  sat  down 
at  the  desk  to  re-examine  her  two 
new  boxes  of  greeting  cards.  The 
old-fashioned  scenes  brought  back 
a  flood  of  happy  memories,  and  it 
wasn't  long  until  she  had  decided 
that  it  would  be  kind  of  nice  to 
send  a  few  cards  this  year,  at  least 
to  her  dearest  friends. 


OUPPER  forgotten,  she  found  her 
address  book  and  set  to  work. 
Fortunately,  the  majority  of  her 
friends  knew  of  Harry's  passing,  so 
she  didn't  have  to  write  that.  In 
fact,  in  most  cases  she  merely  wrote 
on  the  card  "Love,  Alice"  and 
popped  it  into  its  envelope. 

By  seven   o'clock   she  had  gone 
through  the  usual  list  of  folks  that 


732  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— NOVEMBER  1957 

she  and  Harry  had  sent  to  in  recent  perhaps  because  of  the  memory  of 

years.     She   still   had   se\'eral   cards  the   bustling   crowds,   the   laughing 

left    though,    and    she    sat   turning  faces,   and    the    festive    decorations 

them  over  on  the  desk.     Staring  at  downtown,   she   rebelled.     "Is   this 

a  picture  of  a  group  of  carolers  under  all  Fm  going  to  do  with  the  rest  of 

a  street  lamp,  she  thought  back  to  my  life?"  she  asked  herself, 

the  old  high  school  crowd  who  used  Determinedly,  she  strode  over  to 

to  go  out  surging  together  on  Christ-  the  table  lamp  in  the  front  window, 

mas   Eve.     And   then   John  would  As   she  bent  to   switch   it   on,   the 

take  her  home  afterwards.  corner  of  her  eye  caught  a  shadow 

John  Roberts  was  her  first  beau,  out  by  the  front  gate.  A  man  was 
She  hadn't  really  thought  of  him  in  standing  there,  a  long  box  under 
years.  When  she'd  left  Stevenstown  his  arm,  one  hand  on  the  latch, 
to  take  a  job  in  a  city  office,  they  staring  in  at  the  unlightcd  house, 
had  just  drifted  apart.  She  had  met  He  half  opened  the  gate,  then  al- 
and married  Harry,  and  she  had  lowed  it  to  swing  shut  again, 
heard  that  John  had  married  Vera  Instantly,  Mrs.  Colts  recognized 
Higgins,  a  home  girl,  a  couple  of  the  symptoms  of  a  reluctant  sales- 
years  afterwards.  man.    She  took  her  hand  away  from 

I'll   just   send   them  a   card,   she  the  light  switch.    I  can't  go  through 

thought,  light-heartedly.     No  harm  all  that  again,  she  thought  wildly, 

done  after  all  these  years,  and  they  Anyway,  doesn't  the  poor  fellow  rea- 

certainly  will  be  surprised.    She  ad-  lize  it's  too  late  to  be  selling  cards? 
dressed  a  card  to  Mr.  and  Mrs.  John 

Roberts,  Stevenstown,  Ohio,  but  of  HpHEN,  as  she  watched,  the  man 

course,  they  might  have  moved  away  slowly   took  his  hand   off  the 

years  ago.  gate,  pulled  up  his  coat  collar,  and 

Three  days  later  Mrs.  Colts  ar-  began  to  turn  away, 

rived  home  from  the  post  office  in  ''Oh,  well,"  Mrs.  Colts  sighed  re- 

the  cold  dusk  of  late  afternoon  and  signedly    as    she    switched    on    the 

let  herself  in  the  front  door.     All  light.     ''I  guess  it  won't  kill  me  to 

day  she  had  been  working  against  buy  a  dollar  box  for  next  year." 

time,  finishing  the  homemade  gifts  As  the  cheerful  patch  of  light  fell 

for  her  son's  family.    This  was  the  on  the  snow-covered  front  lawn,  the 

last  possible  day  she  could  mail  the  man  turned  back,  opened  the  gate 

package  and  be  sure  of  its  getting  and   started   up   the  path.     Before 

to  Cleveland  on  time.     No  reason  Mrs.  Colts  left  the  window,  she  had 

why   she   couldn't  have   got   those  time  to  note,  with  a  vague  disquie- 

mittens  for  Freddy  knitted  long  ago,  tude,  that  there  was  something  oddly 

or  the  white  party  stole  for  Lucille,  familiar  about  his  stride, 

or  the  Argyle  socks  for  big  Fred.  She  snapped  on  the  porch  light 

Certainly,     she     thought     ruefully,  and  opened  the  door.    The  man  was 

she'd  had  plenty   of   time   on  her  just  reaching  out  to  press  the  bell, 

hands  this  fall.  but  when  he  saw  her  he  put  his 

She  took  off  her  wraps  and  was  hand  up  to  his  hat  instead,  swept  it 

about  to  sit  down  in  the  chair  by  off  and  stood  there,  silver-haired  and 

the   window   as    usual.      Suddenly,  smiling.    ''Alice!"  he  said  quietly. 


THE  CHRISTMAS  CARDS 


733 


Mrs.  Colts  stared  at  him.  '7^^^^ 
John  Roberts!"  she  exclaimed  at 
last.  ''Why,  I  thought  you  were.  .  . ." 
she  laughed  hysterically  and  pointed 
to  the  box  in  his  hand.  ''I  thought 
you  were  another  Christmas  card 
salesman.  I  was  just  about  to  be 
soft-hearted  again  and  buy  some 
more  that  I  couldn't  possibly  use." 

John  Roberts  chuckled.  "Vm 
glad,  though,  you  bought  those  you 
did,  Alice.  Otherwise  I  wouldn't 
have  learned  your  whereabouts  again 
after  all  these  years.  I  gathered 
from  the  way  you  signed  the  card 
that  Harry  is.  .  .  ." 

'Tes,"  Mrs.  Colts  said  softly, 
"over  a  year  ago.    It  was  hard.  .  .  ." 

"I  know,"  John  said  gently.  ''My 
Vera,  too,  three  years  ago." 

They  looked  at  each  other  with 
warm  compassion. 

Then  John  Roberts  squared  his 
shoulders.  "If  you'll  allow  me  to 
come  in,"  after  thirty-five  years, 
his  eyes  had  the  same  twinkle, 
"you  can  find  out  what's  really  in 
that  box." 

"Of  course,  John."  Mrs.  Colts 
stepped  back  apologetically.  "My 
goodness,  I'm  so  surprised  I'm 
completely  forgetting  my  manners. 


Come  in  and  take  your  coat  off." 

"This  is  a  pleasant  room!"  John 
exclaimed,  looking  around  him  at 
the  book-lined  shelves,  the  easy 
chairs,  the  open  hearth,  the  warm 
lamplight. 

"Yes,  it  is,"  Mrs.  Colts  found  her- 
self agreeing  heartily.  It  did  seem 
to  have  a  glow  about  it  that  she 
hadn't  been  aware  of  for  a  long  time. 
"Now,  perhaps  we  could  build  a 
little  fire  in  the  fireplace— the  wood's 
right  here  in  the  basket,"  she  told 
him  gaily. 

"An  excellent  idea.  That  was  a 
cold  walk  up  from  the  depot,"  John 
said,  smiling. 

"By  the  way,"  Mrs.  Colts  paused 
in  the  door,  on  her  way  to  the  kitch- 
en, "you  said  you'd  tell  me  what  was 
in  that  box." 

John,  already  on  his  knees  before 
the  fireplace,  looked  back  at  her  over 
his  shoulder.  "Peanut  brittle,"  he 
said,  grinning.  "Remember  when  I 
was  courting  you,  I  used  to  bring 
you  pounds  of  the  stuff— couldn't 
afford  chocolates." 

Mrs.  Colts  smiled  mistily.  "Yes, 
I  remember,"  she  said  softly  and 
started  down  the  hall  with  a  lighter 
step  than  had  been  heard  in  that 
house  for  many  a  day. 


'uJefinition 

Bessie  I.  Peterson 

The  meaning  of  Thanksgiving? 

The  fragrant,  spicy  scent  of  pumpkin  pie, 

The  burnished  gloss  of  turkey  bursting  with  complacent  pride, 

The  gleam  of  silver,  gossamer  the  shine  of  candles 

Burning  side  by  side  on  cherished  linen, 

The  time  for  fun  and  laughter,  warmth  of  cozy  fireside. 

The  gratitude  for  peace  expressed  in  quiet  thanks  to  God — 

All  this  is  Thanksgiving! 


Shopping    LJesterday 


Elaine  Reiser 


THE  community  general  store 
in  grandfather's  day  stood  as 
a  monument  to  a  man's  will- 
ingness to  serve  his  eommunity.  As 
the  village  storekeeper,  he  invested 
his  money  in  stocks  of  merchandise 
—dried  fruits,  nuts,  cookies,  buttons, 
parasols,  moustache  curlers,  wash- 
boards, sunbonnets,  and  medicines 
—to  have  on  hand  for  his  faithful 
customers.  Here  was  a  man  willing 
to  invest  his  money  in  hundreds  of 
items  of  merchandise  and  to  wait 
and  wait  until  his  customers  wanted 
what  he  had  and  were  willing  to  pay 
him  for  it. 

Though  the  general  store  of  yes- 
terday is  not  to  be  found  in  many 
places,  one  such  store  has  been  re- 
produced in  the  Sons  of  the  Utah 
Pioneers  Village  in  Salt  Lake  City, 
Utah.  This  store  was  owned  and 
managed  by  Mr.  A.  Warr  of  Kamas, 
Utah,  until  his  death.  At  that  time 
the  store  became  the  property  of 
his  niece  and  nephew  who  were  the 
beneficiaries  of  his  will.  However, 
they  themselves  were  along  in  years 
and  had  no  interest  in  running  a 
general  store.  They  closed  it  and 
had  the  doors  and  windows  barri- 
caded. 

It  was  in  this  condition  that  Mr. 
Horace  A.  Sorenson  found  the  store 
in  1953.  After  he  opened  the  win- 
dows and  doors,  photographs  of  the 
interior  were  taken  in  order  that  the 
store  could  be  reproduced  authen- 
tically in  the  Pioneer  Village,  3000 
Connor  Street  (2150  East),  Salt 
Lake  City.  Kamas  residents  who 
once  traded  with  Mr.  Warr  and  who 
have  visited  the  Village  testify  to 
the  store's  authenticity. 
Page  734 


The  store  was  the  center  of  com- 
munity life,  as  evidenced  by  the  pot- 
bellied stove  in  the  center  of  the 
room  surrounded  by  hard,  wooden 
chairs  and  a  checkerboard,  to  add  to 
the  convenience  and  relaxation  of 
the  customers.  Within  the  small 
store,  slightly  larger  than  an  average 
American  living  room,  are  combined 
a  men's  and  ladies'  ready-to-wear, 
hardware,  grocery,  apothecary,  toy, 
and  notions  store. 

The  goods  on  the  shelves  are  just 
as  the  shopkeeper  left  them,  with 
prices  marked  and  ledger  entries 
made  for  all  products.  A  variety  of 
grinders  are  priced  at  1 5c,  cuff  links, 
50c,  stuffed  toys  and  wooden  wag- 
ons 15c  to  40c,  checker  sets  10c,  silk 
and  gold  threaded  evening  bags 
$1.50,  ladies  hose  15c,  a  yard  of  silk 
19c. 

As  a  trained  apothecary,  Mr.  Warr 
offered  veterinary  supplies,  camphor, 
alum,  and  a  special  of  glycerated 
asafetida— a  bag  to  be  worn  around 
the  neck  to  kill  all  germs  and  there- 
fore ensure  good  health. 

Within  five  steps  of  the  pharmacy 
are  complete  supplies  for  the  horse 
and  buggy,  including  whips,  carriage 
bumpers,  axle  grease,  and  horse- 
shoes. The  leather-handled  buggy 
whips  are  marked  at  50c. 

For  the  ladies,  ''gay-nineties" 
bathing  suits,  navy  blue  with  white 
trim,  hang  at  one  end  of  the  store. 
An  ample  red  flannel  nightgown 
with  matching  cap  waits  to  be  sold 
for  a  few  pounds  of  butter  or  a  leg 
of  pork.  High-button  shoes  and 
middy  blouses  are  still  in  their 
boxes,  waiting  for  stylish  customers. 


SHOPPING  YESTERDAY 


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Beal  Photograph 

Courtesy  Sons  of  the  Utah  Pioneers 

Visiting  the  Country  Store,  Pioneer  Village,  Salt  Lake  City,  Utah,  left  to  right: 
Dr.  Joel  E.  Ricks;  Horace  A.  Sorensen,  Managing  Director  of  the  Pioneer  Village, 
explaining  the  treasnre-trove  of  yesterday;  Mrs.  McKay;  President  Da\'id  O.  McKay; 
Mrs.  Ricks. 


OANGING  from  the  ceiling  arc 
hardware  supphes,  toast  racks, 
tin  pots  and  cups,  and  stove  hd  lif- 
ters. Also  hanging  from  the  ceiling 
on  a  spring  rack  are  glass  chimney 
lamps,  from  which  customers  chose 
the  proper  neck  opening  and  style 
for  their  own  homes. 

Along  the  top  shelf  of  the  store 
is  a  lending  library,  and  below  the 
counter  are  local  newspapers  and  a 
magazine  or  two,  for  the  customer 
who  enjoys  visiting  and  reading  by 
the  warm  stove. 

Herbs  and  spices  are  preserved  in 
tin  boxes  in  the  grocery  section.  A 
bag  of  sassafras  bark  rests  on  top  of 
the  tins,  and  a  jar  of  nutmeg  stands 
on  the  counter.    Near  the  jar  is  a 


nutmeg  grater,  as  usable  today  as  in 
the  old  store  yesterday. 

Practicing  good  business,  the 
storekeeper  offered  community  use 
of  his  egg  scale,  arch  fitter,  shoe  but- 
ton adjuster,  and  weighted  pencil 
pointer. 

Mr.  Warr's  store,  unentombed 
after  twenty  years  and  transplanted 
from  Kamas  to  the  Pioneer  Village^ 
resurrects  authentically  an  aspect  of 
back-country  life  that  is  vivid  and 
remarkable  for  the  daring  and 
imagination  of  the  merchant.  The 
great  range  and  variety  of  goods  be- 
speak the  enterprise  and  resource- 
fulness of  the  community  servant  of 
yesterday  —  the  country  general 
storekeeper. 


Sixty    LJears  Jxgo 


Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  November  i,  and  November  15,  1897 

"For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

THE  QUEEN'S  THANKS  TO  HER  PEOPLE:  It  is  difficult  for  me  on  this 
occasion  to  say  how  truly  touched  and  grateful  I  am  for  the  spontaneous  outburst  of 
loyal  affection  which  I  have  experienced  on  the  completion  of  the  sixtieth  year  of  my 
Reign.  During  my  progress  through  London  on  June  22,  this  great  enthusiasm  was 
shown  in  the  most  striking  manner,  and  can  never  be  effaced  from  my  heart.  .  .  . 

— Victoria,  R.  L 

From  Englishwoman's  Keview 

REFLECTIONS  OF  A  PIONEER:  My  faith  has  been  from  early  childhood 
when  first  taught  to  repeat  my  evening  prayer.  .  .  .  Surely  impressions  made  in  youth 
are  more  lasting,  the  mind  then  being  like  a  sheet  of  white  paper  and  impressions  are 
clear,  not  confused.  .  .  .  This  pioneer  feels  an  anxious  desire  that  the  youth  may  see 
the  Gospel  in  its  own  true  light,  which  when  accomplished  will  fill  their  souls  with 
hght  and  joy  and  peace,  it  being  the  gift  of  the  Holy  Ghost,  the  Comforter.  May 
we  be  fit  temples  for  the  indwelling  of  this  good  spirit,  for  it  must  have  a  pure  heart 
to  inhabit,  it  will  not  accept  any  other.  .  .  . 

— Zion's  Convert 

BIRTHDAY  ANNIVERSARY 

The  uncut  stone  is  of  little  worth, 
Tempered  with  care  is  the  choicest  steel; 
So  our  lives  are  made  the  more  sublime, 
By  the  tears  we  shed  and  woes  we  feel.  ,  «  « 

The  discipline  that  each  soul  requires 
Is  meted  out  by  a  loving  hand; 
When  fully  developed,  thy  call  will  be. 
Daughter,  return  to  thy  Fatherland. 

—Nellie 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONFERENCE:  The  October  general  conference  of  the 
Relief  Society  was  held  in  the  large  Tabernacle  .  .  .  October  7  .  .  .  Mrs.  Zina  D.  H. 
Young  presiding  .  .  .  spoke  a  few  minutes  and  welcomed  the  sisters  affectionately;  told 
the  sisters  she  loved  them  as  well  as  she  was  capable  of  loving,  and  appreciated  their 
labor  and  works  of  charity  and  love.  .  .  .  President  Emma  J.  Bennett  of  Bingham 
Stake  .  .  .  felt  there  was  no  greater  work  than  the  one  we  are  engaged  in,  and  spoke 
of  the  laying  up  of  grain — they  had  1800  bushels  now  and  expected  to  have  more  this 
harvest  .  .  .  President  Temperance  Hinckley,  Bannock  Stake,  reported  .  .  .  they  had  to 
travel  a  distance  of  600  miles  around  in  visiting  the  branches.  .  .  .  President  Mabel 
A.  Hakes,  of  Maricopa  Stake,  thought  we  would  laugh  if  we  knew  how  they  tried  to 
store  grain  in  five  gallon  tin  cans.  ...  An  Indian  sister  had  admonished  them  that  to 
pray  more  in  time  of  sickness  and  have  more  faith  would  lessen  the  sickness,  and  give 
them  more  time  to  go  to  meeting.  .  .  .  The  Indians  preserve  wheat  in  baskets  and 
cement  it  over.  There  are  1300  Indians  in  Maricopa  Stake  and  only  1800  white 
people.  .  .  .  President  Mary  B.  Eyring  of  Juarez  Stake,  Mexico  .  .  .  felt  the  sisters 
improved  in  a  temporal  way,  there  were  not  many  who  had  to  be  provided  for,  and 
they  had  the  necessaries  of  life  if  they  had  not  the  luxuries.  .  .  . 

— E.  B.  Wells,  Sec. 

Page  736 


Woman's  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


lyrRS.  EMILY  SMITH  STEW- 
^  ^  ART,  daughter  of  the  late 
President  of  The  Church  of  Jesus 
Christ  of  Latter-day  Saints,  George 
Albert  Smith,  has  been  appointed  a 
member  of  the  National  Women's 
Advisory  Committee  of  the  March 
of  Dimes  organization.  Mrs.  Stewart 
is  one  of  fifteen  outstanding  leaders 
in  civic,  church,  public  affairs,  and 
educational  circles  in  the  United 
States  who  were  appointed  to  this 
committee  by  Basil  O'Connor,  Presi- 
dent of  the  March  of  Dimes  organ- 
ization. 

On  September  27th,  1957,  Mrs. 
Smith  was  given  a  special  citation 
from  President  Eisenhower  in  com- 
mendation for  her  exceptional  con- 
tribution in  advancing  the  welfare 
and  employment  of  the  physically 
handicapped. 


PLSIE  C.  CARROLL  and  MARY- 
^  HALE  WOOLSEY,  well-known 
contributors  to  The  Reliei  Society 
Magazine^  in  August,  received  awards 
in  the  first  writing  contest  sponsored 
by  the  Utah  State  Institute  of  Fine 
Arts  for  unpublished  work.  Mrs. 
Carroll  was  awarded  first  place  for 
her  novel  "First  Wife,"  and  Mrs. 
Woolsey  received  first  prize  in  the 
short  story  section  for  her  entry 
'Torever  in  My  Heart.'' 


"V/fRS.  Alberta  H.  Christensen, 
member  of  the  general  board 
of  Relief  Society,  was  awarded  first 
prize  in  the  unpublished  poetry  di- 
vision at  the  annual  Round-up  of 
the  League  of  Utah  Writers  held  in 
Ogden,  Utah,  in  September.  Other 
contributors  to  The  ReUef  Society 
Magazine  who  received  awards  were: 
Ouida  Johns  Pedersen,  Rosa  Lee 
Lloyd,  Olive  W.  Burt,  Mabel  S. 
Harmer,  Maryhale  Woolsey,  Lael 
W.  Hill,  Alice  Morrey  Bailey,  Eva 
Willis  Wangsgaard,  Pansye  H.  Pow- 
ell, and  Elsie  C.  Carroll. 

pRANCINE  FELT,  of  Salt  Lake 
City,  Miss  Utah  in  the  Miss 
America  contest  for  1957,  tied  for 
the  national  talent  prize  with  Miss 
Kentucky.  Each  won  a  $1,000  schol- 
arship. Miss  Felt,  an  active  Latter- 
day  Saint  girl,  played  the  violin.  She 
is  in  the  violin  section  of  the  Utah 
State  Symphony. 

QRANDMA  MOSES,  of  Eagle 
Bridge,  New  York,  celebrated 
her  ninety-seventh  birthday  in  Sep- 
tember. Mrs.  Moses  (Anna  Mary 
Robertson  Moses)  began  painting 
at  the  age  of  seventy-eight  and  has 
painted  nearly  two  thousand  pic- 
tures. Her  best  known  paintings 
are  "The  Old  Oaken  Bucket,"  and 
"The  Checkered  House." 

Page  737 


EDITORIAL 


VOL.  44 


NOVEMBER  1957 


NO.  11 


y^old,  and  QJrankincense,  and    1 1  i^rrh 


"And  when  they  were  come  into  the 
house,  they  saw  the  young  ehild  with  Mary 
his  mother,  and  fell  down,  and  worshipped 
him:  and  when  they  had  opened  their 
treasures,  they  presented  unto  him  gifts; 
gold,  and  frankincense,  and  myrrh" 
(Matthew  2:11). 

Gold,  and  frankincense,  and 
myrrh  were  the  first  Christmas  gifts. 
They  were  presented  to  the  young 
Child  by  wise  men  from  the  East 
who  had  followed  the  star  across 
the  wilderness  to  the  hills  of  Judea 
and  the  little  town  of  Bethlehem. 
Gold,  and  frankincense,  and  myrrh 
were  precious  commodities  in 
ancient  times— gold  from  Ophir, 
frankincense,  a  fragrant  gum  from 
olibanum  trees;  myrrh,  an  aromatic 
resin  from  the  Commiphora  trees  of 
Africa  and  Arabia,  a  resin  mixed 
with  labdanum  from  the  rockrose  of 
the  East.  Precious  gifts  brought  by 
wise  men  to  a  Child  whom  they 
worshipped  as  King. 

To  Bethlehem,  in  the  land  of 
Judaea,  came  also  the  shepherds, 
who  watched  their  flocks  in  the  hills 
roundabout  the  village.  Having 
seen  the  glory  in  the  heavens,  they 
came  with  haste,  and  perhaps  the 
only  gifts  they  brought  were  them- 
selves and  the  faith  and  reverence 
in  their  hearts,  although  many  great 
artists  have  painted  the  manger 
scene  with  shepherds  holding  young 
lambs  in  their  arms. 

Since  the  first  Christmas  they 
who  come  bearing  gifts  to  their 
loved  ones,  and  those  who  send  mes- 
sages afar,  have  realized  the  simplic- 
ity and  joy  of  the  gifts  of  remem- 

Page  738 


brance.  And  now,  in  a  time  of 
many  strange  and  wonderful  com- 
modities, we  are  at  times  beset  with 
perplexity,  and  we  question  our  own 
wisdom  in  the  selection  of  remem- 
brances. Let  us  recall  that  gifts  are 
symbols  of  love  and  thoughtfulness, 
and  as  symbols  they  bear  a  greater 
treasure  than  their  commercial  cost. 
Surely  they  can  be  measured  only 
in  the  precious  coin  of  love  ex- 
changed in  the  family  circle  and  out- 
ward into  wider  areas  of  benevolence 
as  the  heart  and  the  times  may 
allow. 

As  the  wise  men  of  old  brought 
the  treasures  of  their  country,  as  the 
shepherds  came,  perhaps,  empty- 
handed  to  the  manger,  yet  with  rev- 
erence in  their  hearts,  so  let  us  give 
of  that  which  is  ours  to  present, 
whether  it  be  a  costly  remembrance 
or  only  a  message  to  bind  together 
those  who  may  be  far  from  each 
other. 

For  many,  the  planning  of  gifts 
may  be  a  continuing  joy  to  the  giver, 
for  during  all  the  months  of  the 
year  there  are  ways  to  fill  the  Christ- 
mas treasure  chest— gifts  to  be  made 
from  one  home  to  another,  and 
personal  gifts  —  handmade  remem- 
brances, heirloom  gifts  —  gifts  for 
the  children  and  the  aged  —  com- 
fort and  commodities  for  the  un- 
fortunate. For  all  of  these,  time 
and  thought  are  more  necessary  than 
money— and  often  more  appreciated 
by  those  who  receive  the  offerings 
at  Christmas  time. 

A  woman  in  her  home  may  think 


EDITORIAL  739 

of  winter-flowering  hyacinths  to  be  plate  sent  by  an  older  person  to 
planted  in  the  fall;  she  may  carefully  some  young  woman  who  is  building 
tend  an  African  violet  plant  from  its  her  home;  a  treasured  book  brought 
single  planted  leaf  to  its  time  of  over  the  seas  and  the  plains  and  giv- 
blooming,  a  lovely  gift  for  any  home,  en  by  a  grandmother  to  the  grand- 
Another  woman  might  give  geran-  daughter  who  bears  her  name;  a 
ium  plants  raised  from  slips  or  seeds,  piece  of  pillowslip  lace,  long  ago 
or  present  a  rose-flowered  begonia—  netted  by  the  flaring  light  of  a  camp- 
easy  to  start  from  a  slip— yet  typical  fire  in  the  desert  —  a  gift  long-loved, 
of  the  gracious  beauty  of  her  home,  but  given  to  another  who  will  sew 
Some  women,  in  the  seasons  of  the  lace  on  new  linen  and  place  the 
fruit,  set  aside  a  number  of  glasses  pillows  in  a  young  girl's  bedroom, 
of  jelly,  or  jam,  or  marmalade,  desig-  For  children  at  Christmas,  there 
nating  the  sunlit  day  when  the  color  are  many  gifts  beyond  the  expensive 
and  flavor  of  fruit  were  stored  for  mechanical  toys,  the  silken  dolls, 
winter  use  —  for  gifts  from  one  the  bicycles,  tricycles,  and  trains, 
home  to  another.  which  may  be  given.     A  rag  doll, 

Then,  there  are  the  ancient  and  with  a  varied  wardrobe  made  from 

ever-new  crafts  and  arts,  paintings,  scraps  of  cloth,  would  be  long  treas- 

etchings,    needlework,    and    home-  ured  by  a  little  girl.     Stuffed  calico 

sewed  clothing.     One  woman  col-  animals     have     delighted     children 

lects  flowers  from  her  garden,  begin-  through  the  long  generations,  and 

ning  with  the  narcissus  of  spring,  every  woman  knows  the  joys  that 

and  ending  with  the  late  chrysan-  decorated    homemade    cookies    can 

themums.    She  carefully  presses  the  bring.    The  family  can  make  in  the 

flowers  and  combines  them  in  ex-  evening   hours,   shelves   and   tables 

quisite  designs  for  pictures,  which  and  doll  houses,  small  carved  chests, 

she   frames   and   sends   as    gifts   at  and  even  a  rocking  horse. 

Christmas   time.     Another  woman  Gifts     generous     of     time     and 

collects     discarded     clothing     and  thought,  are  given  from  the  heart 

makes  braided  or  woven  rugs,  and  and  the  hands,  and  from  one's  own 

these    are    highly    prized    in    many  storehouse  of  treasures.     They  are 

homes  and  among  housewives  who  symbols  of  love  among  famihes  and 

treasure  this  cottage  craft.  friends;  they  are  the  lasting  evidence 

Innumerable  are  the  gifts  which  of  good  will   among  men.     Large 

can  be  exchanged  in  families— the  gifts  and  small  gifts  are  heart-mes- 

picture   of   an   honored   forefather,  sages  in  memory  of  the  simplicity 

copied  and  sent  with  a  short  biog-  and  saving  grace  of  the  first  Christ- 

raphy  to  someone  interested  in  her  mas. 

heritage;    a   long-treasured   vase   or  —V.  P.  C. 

ibrratum 

Relief  Society  Membership  in  the  South  Australian  Mission 
TN  the  August  issue  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine,  page  497,  the  total 
Relief  Society  branches  in  the  South  Australian  Mission  was  given  as  ten 
branches,  with  177  members.    We  are  happy  to  call  to  your  attention  the 
correct  figures:  fifteen  organizations,  with  332  members. 


TO  THE  FIELD 


K/innual  (general  iKelief  (bocietii  (conference  (cancelled 

TN  harmony  with  the  action  taken  by  the  First  Presidency  in  cancelling 
the  General  Church  Conference,  the  Annual  General  Relief  Society 
Conference,  scheduled  for  October  2d  and  3d,  1957,  was  cancelled  This 
action  was  taken  as  a  precautionary  measure  due  to  the  high  incidence  of 
influenza. 

The  ''Report  and  Official  Instructions/'  by  President  Belle  S.  Spafford, 
which  were  to  be  delivered  at  the  Officers  Meeting,  appear  on  page  722 
of  this  issue  of  the  Magazine.  We  suggest  that  these  instructions  be  care- 
fully considered  at  your  next  Relief  Society  stake  board  meeting. 


[Pictures  of  the  iKelief  Societi/   Ujuilding  ^/Lvailable 

jDLACK  and  white  glossy  print  pictures  of  the  Relief  Society  Building, 
suitable  for  framing,  as  shown  on  the  opposite  page,  may  be  ordered 
from  the  general  board  of  Relief  Society,  76  North  Main  Street,  Salt  Lake 
City  11,  Utah. 

16  inches  x  20  inches $3.00 

14  inches  x  11  inches 1.75 

8  inches  x  10  inches.. 1.00 

Hand-colored  pictures  are  available  in  each  of  the  above  sizes  for  an 
additional  $1  each. 
Page  740 


Ray  G.  Jones 


PICTURES   OF  THE   RELIEF   SOCIETY   BUILDING 
AVAILABLE  FOR  FRAMING 


i  Lovemver  Si 


pnng 


Ethel  Jacohson 


This  silent  mountain  world  is  white — • 

But  blue  as  night, 

Sparkling  and  limpid  as  a  gem 

In  a  queen's  diadem 

Is  this  small  jewel  of  a  spring, 

Glimmering. 

It  glints  in  sun  whose  pale  rays  show 

Prints  upon  snow 

Where  foraging  bird  or  beast  has  passed. 

So  on  this  vast 

And  frozen  height  we  know  that  life, 

Though  hushed,  is  rife — 

From  secret,  guarded  depths,  a  spring 

Eternally  bubbling,  shimmering. 


Page  741 


JLive  and  J^earn   c/c 


orever: 


! 


npHIS  life  is  for  serving  and  learning:  so  is  the  next.    Part  of  life's  lessons 
we  learn  by  failing  first  and  trying  over.    Some  call  it  trial  and  error; 
another  name  for  it  is  experience. 

A  certain  amount  of  trial  and  error  we  must  accept.  It's  good  for  us. 
But  there's  a  short-cut  to  learning,  shorter  than  trial  and  error,  which  each 
of  us  should  try  to  find.  We  should  seek  this  short-cut  through  thought- 
Page  742 


LIVE  AND  LEARN  FOREVER!  743 

ful  study,  from  the  experiences  of  others,  by  the  reading  of  good  books, 
by  going  to  school.    Most  folks  call  this  kind  of  learning  ''education/' 

The  chief  purpose  of  education  is  to  prepare  us  to  live  happily  here 
and  hereafter,  and  to  make  the  world  better  for  others  who  follow.  The 
scriptures  tell  us  why:  ''We  are  saved  no  faster  than  we  gain  knowledge;" 
"The  glory  of  God  is  intelligence/'  These  lofty  concepts  of  the  place  of 
education  in  the  lives  of  people  are  the  special  incentives  which  spur  us 
on  in  our  search  for  knowledge. 

It  has  been  said  even  more  plainly:  ".  .  .  if  a  person  gains  more 
knowledge  and  intelligence  in  this  life  through  his  diligence  and  obedience 
than  another,  he  will  have  so  much  the  advantage  in  the  world  to  come" 
(D.  &C.  130:19). 

Yes,  and  in  this  life,  too.  For  knowledge  here  is  also  power— the 
power  to  produce  the  essentials  of  healthful,  happy,  comfortable  living; 
the  power  to  govern  wisely  and  effectively:  the  power  to  avoid  some  of 
life's  unnecessary  pains  and  frustrations  which  come  to  the  ignorant  or 
unadjusted;  the  power  to  recognize  and  appreciate  truth  and  teach  it  to 
others. 

These  are  some  of  the  aims  and  products  of  learning  and  living— 
now  and  forever. 

BE  HONEST  WITH  YOURSELF 


vi/inter  Aspens 

Elsie  McKinnon  Stiachan 

White  limbed  and  graceful,  they  shared  June's  sun 
With  the  blue  larkspur  and  the  columbine; 
With  lupine  and  monkswood  and  wild  flax  they  dwelt, 
Blue  marked  their  carpet  in  petaled  design. 

The  deer  came  to  them  on  bounding  hooves, 
And  rushing  waters  sang  them  a  song, 
The  wind  favored  them  with  his  cool,  blue  breeze — 
High  in  the  hills  their  voices  belonged. 

But  hurrying  autumn  waved  a  swift  wand. 
Turning  each  leaf  to  glittering  gold; 
And,  heavy  upon  the  stem  of  time, 
Each  pendant  coin  swung  low  .  .  .  lost  hold. 

Now  winter  whiteness  wears  the  penciled  lace 
Of  trellised  aspen  boughs  held  high; 
While  slender  and  naked  branches  trace 
The  pledge  of  spring  on  a  frozen  sky. 


LKecipes  CJrom  the  Spanish-American    lliisslon 

Submitted  by  Nina  N.  Bowman 

Enveultos  de  Gallina  (Chicken) 

Adela  Cubieia,  San  Antonio,  Texas 

2  lb.  chicken  i  tbsp,  butter 

Boil  the  chicken,  remove  the  meat  from  the  bones,  and  grind.  Add  the  butter 
to  the  ground  meat. 

Sauce: 

1  Vi   lbs.  tomatoes  Vi   lb.  onions 

Vi   tbsp.  salt  Vz   tbsp.  pimiento 

Vz   lb.  shortening  i  Vz   doz.  tortillas 

Cut  medium  size  onions  into  small  pieces.  Crush  tomatoes  in  the  colander,  add 
pimiento  and  salt,  and  mix.  Season  the  chicken  with  sauce,  and  save  some  of  the 
sauce  to  pour  over  the  tortillas. 

Heat  shortening  to  moderate  heat.  Quickly  dip  tortillas,  one  at  a  time,  place  on 
platter,  and  put  on  each  one  i  tbsp.  of  chicken  and  roll  the  tortilla.    Serve  hot. 

Mexican  Candy 

Pauline  Duran,  San  Antonio,  Texas 

1  c.  brown  sugar  i  tbsp.  butter 

2  c.  white  sugar  i  tsp.  vanilla 
1  c.  water                                                          i  lb.  pecans 

%   tsp.  salt 

Boil  sugar  and  water  until  a  drop  of  syrup  forms  a  soft  ball  when  dropped  into  a 
glass  of  cold  water.  Remove  from  heat.  Add  salt,  butter,  and  vanilla.  Beat  until 
creamy.     Add  pecans,  drop  by  spoonfuls  on  a  buttered  platter. 

Arroz  (Mexican  Rice) 

2  tbsp.  fat  Vz  green  pepper 
1  c.  raw  rice  2  tsp.  salt 

1  c.  tomatoes  2  tsp.  chili  powder 

1  small  onion  2  c.  water 

Wash  rice  well  and  then  dry.  Brown  raw  rice  in  hot  fat  and  add  minced  onion, 
chopped  green  pepper,  salt,  chili  powder,  and  tomatoes.  Mix  well.  Add  just  enough 
water  to  cover  and  then  cover  with  a  lid.  Allow  to  simmer  until  rice  is  tender,  about 
thirty  minutes.  Remove  the  lid  to  allow  mixture  to  dry.  Do  not  stir  after  cooking 
starts. 

Spanish  Cheese  Dip 

Louise  Turley,  San  Antonio,  Texas 

Mix  Vz  c.  cooked  tomatoes  with  one  long  green  Mexican  chili,  minced,  if  a  hot 
dip  is  desired.  If  a  mild  dip  is  preferred,  use  one  bell  pepper  instead  of  the  chili.  Add 
Yz  lb.  of  pasteurized  cheese  which  has  been  melted  in  double  boiler.  Mix  together. 
Pour  over  fritos  or  tortilla  chips. 

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RECIPES  FROM  THE  SPANISH-AMERICAN  MISSION  745 

Plain  Garnachas 

Louise  Turley,  San  Antonio,  Texas 

Place  a  thin  slice  of  cheese  or  grated  cheese  on  a  tortilla  chip  and  top  with  a 
slice  of  jalapena  pepper.  Then  place  in  moderate  oven  to  melt.  For  something  differ- 
ent, mix  melted  cheese  with  diced  chicken,  tuna,  shrimp,  or  ripe  olives.  Serve  on  tor- 
tilla chips  or  fritos. 

South  of  the  Border  Dip 

Louise  Turley,  San  Antonio,  Texas 

1  avocado  Vz  c.  celery  (chopped) 

1  tbsp.  sour  pickles  (minced)  !4  tsp.  garlic  salt 

1  tbsp.  green  chili  pepper  (minced)  i  tsp.  paprika 
salt  to  taste 

Cut  ripe  avocado  in  half,  remove  seed  and  peel.  Mash  to  a  pulp  and  add  the 
remaining  ingredients.  Mix  well.  This  dip  should  be  prepared  just  before  using,  as  it 
darkens  while  standing.  It  is  delicious  for  dipping  potato  chips,  corn  chips,  or  fritos. 

Empanadas 

Esther  Lopez,  San  Antonio,  Texas 

Sweet  Potato  Filling:  %  c.  shortening 

2  lbs.  sweet  potatoes  2  c.  flour 
sweeten  to  taste  4  tbsp.  water 
cinnamon  to  taste  1  tsp.  salt 
nutmeg  to  taste 

Boil  sweet  potatoes  until  soft  and  sweeten  to  taste.  Add  cinnamon  and  nutmeg 
to  give  mild  flavor.    Mash  potatoes. 

Mix  with  a  fork  the  flour,  salt,  and  shortening.  Roll  each  piece  of  dough  into 
the  size  of  a  saucer.  Put  3  tbsp.  of  sweet  potato  filling  on  each  pattie.  Fold  in  middle. 
Pinch  one  side  with  a  fork  to  allow  steam  to  escape.  Bake  in  450  degree  oven  for 
about  twenty  minutes  or  until  brown.     Makes  two  dozen. 

Macaroni  in  Tomato 
Esther  Rodriguez,  Kingsville,  Texas 

1  box  uncut  macaroni  1   small  can  tomato  paste 

3  tsp.  hot  sauce  (Louisiana)  Yz   onion  (finely  chopped) 
Yz   lb.  American  cheese  Yz   c.  catsup 

3  tbsp.  salt 

Cook  macaroni  alone  in  salted  water  and  then  drain.  Fry  onions  until  brown,  add 
flour,  tomato  paste,  and  catsup.  Then  add  the  cheese  until  you  have  a  gravy.  Place 
in  the  oven  and  cook  at  350  degrees  for  twenty  minutes.  Remove  from  heat  and 
serve. 


•  ^ 


(berenity 

Annie  S.  W.  Gould 

AMID  the  strife,  the  unrest  of  the  world,  remain  serene.  Make  your  own  little 
world  beautiful  within.  Try  to  keep  discordant  thoughts  away.  If  surrounded  by 
discord,  take  it  as  a  testing,  try  to  keep  your  own  outlook  peaceful.  It  is  much  better 
for  your  health  if  you  keep  serene.    You  also  help  others  by  keeping  yourself  at  peace. 


cJhe    I  iationai  oJuoercu/osis  J/issociation 

(^nnsttnas  Seals 

Dorothea  M.  Lindsey 
Associate,  Public  Relations 

"VU^ITH  the  1957  Christmas  Seal  Sale,  the  tuberculosis  associations  enter 
the  second  half  century  of  their  traditional  campaign  to  raise  funds 
to  fight  TB. 

In  the  first  half  century,  the  Seal  Sale  has  proved  itself  an  effective 
means  of  giving  every  American  an  opportunity  to  contribute  to  the  fight. 
It  has  proved  an  effective  means  of  spreading  the  truth  about  TB.  While 
providing  the  sinews  of  war  for  the  voluntary  TB  control  programs,  it 
has  stimulated  more  and  better  tax-supported  programs. 

It  didn't  happen  overnight.  The  first  Christmas  Seal  sale  in  1907 
raised  $3000  for  a  single  project— an  experimental  open-air  hospital  in 
Delaware.  In  spite  of  the  limited  area  of  the  campaign,  contributions  came 
from  distant  states  and  even  from  Canada. 

After  half  a  century,  the  goal  is  still  ahead.  Progress  has  been  con- 
stant, but  sometimes  discouragingly  slow.  There  have  been  only  a  few 
rapid  spurts.  The  development  of  miniature  film  equipment  for  mass 
X-ray  screening  brought  one  such  spurt,  the  discovery  of  effective  drugs 
for  treatment  still  another. 

The  associations  worked— and  are  still  working— for  higher  standards 
of  community  health  and  welfare.  They  pioneered  in  the  development  of 
effective  techniques  of  education  and  community  organization.  They 
pooled  their  limited  research  funds  for  projects  aimed  at  solving  the 
fundamental  mysteries  of  the  disease. 

Like  the  first  Christmas  Seal  sale,  the  fifty-first  represents  hope  that 
TB  can  be  defeated.  Even  more,  it  represents  a  promise.  In  a  few 
favored  spots  TB  can  be  said  to  be  almost  under  control.  In  others,  less 
fortunate,  it  is  still  the  leading  public  health  problem.  Everywhere  it  is 
giving  ground  before  the  organized  team  of  medical  men  and  laymen, 
professionals,  and  volunteers  who  work  under  the  standard  of  the  Double- 
Barred  Cross.  But  the  end  is  not  in  sight.  With  one  third  of  the  nation 
infected  with  tubercle  bacilli,  the  tuberculosis  associations  will  not  relax 
as  they  go  into  the  second  half  century. 


I  ^  ■ 


Vesta  N.  Lukei 

This  hill 

Is  wrapped  in  green 
Of  pines  and  tied  with  gold 
Of  aspens,  ribbon-like  along 
A  stream. 
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D-^n  Knight 


MOUNTAIN  MSTA  NEAR  \*AIL  PASS.  COLOR-\DO 


Vi/fiere    lliaples  C/Z 


ap. 


'af7ie 


Mabel  Law  Atldnson 


"I  will  return  in  autumn."  so  I  said, 

"To  see  these  greening  maples  crown  this  hill 

With  a  flaming  lei."    But  always  when  the  chill 

Fall  davs  returned  as  years  too  swiftly  sped, 

I  was  not  free  so  I  could  not  fulfill 

The  vow  I  made.    My  heart  in  mute  lament 

Longed  for  wind-music,  wild  and  eloquent. 

WTiile  skeins  of  geese  displayed  unerring  skill. 

I  could  not  be  denied  the  joy-ascent 

To  mv  bright  hilltop  when  the  autumn  came. 

My  spirit,  countr}-bred,  I  could  not  tame 

To  cit\'  confines,  yet  I  know  content: 

For  though  the  autumn  calls  me  still  the  same. 

My  heart  has  built  a  hill  where  maples  flame. 


[Bread  and    LJeast  uiecipes 

Joan  Staley 


Health 

Bread 

1  c.  raw  sugar  or 

1  c.  graham  flour 

1  c,  honey  or 

Vi   tsp.  salt 

/4   c.  white  sugar  and 

1   tsp.  baking  powder 

Yz   c.  molasses 

1  c.  chopped  dates  or  figs, 

1  tsp.  soda 

raisins  or  currants,  pineapple  or 

1  c.  chopped  nuts  (optional) 

mashed  bananas,  cherries  or  apples, 

1  c.  milk 

or  Christmas  mix  (optional) 

1   e.  whole  wheat  flour 

Mix  the  dry  ingredients,  including  nuts  and  fruit.  Stir  milk  in  quickly.  When 
using  sugar  and  molasses  put  the  soda  in  the  molasses.  Bake  at  350°  oven  for  one  hour. 
This  recipe  makes  one  bread  tin  or  two  half-sized  tins.  We  like  this  for  cake  as  well 
as  for  bread. 

Note:  Sometimes  there  is  a  difference  in  the  texture  of  the  whole  wheat  flour.  This 
makes  it  necessary  to  use  an  extra  one  fourth  cup  of  milk  in  the  health  bread.  The  bread 
isn't  a  runny  batter,  but  is  good  and  moist. 


Homemade  Yeast  Cakes 


2  tbsp.  sugar 

1   c,  lukewarm  water 

1  c.  all-purpose  flour 

2  c.  potato  water 


2  qts,  buttermilk 

4  yeast  cakes  (dry  yeast  cakes, 

fresh  yeast  cakes,  or  powdered  yeast) 
white  corn  meal 

Put  buttermilk  in  large  kettle  and  heat  to  near  boiling  point.  Stir  in  enough  corn 
meal  to  make  a  thick  mush,  boil  until  completely  cooked  and  let  cool.  Soak  yeast 
cakes  in  warm  water,  and  when  mush  is  lukewarm  stir  yeast  in.  Let  rise  three  times, 
stirring  down  each  time.  Last  time  you  stir  down  let  stand  overnight.  Then,  in  the 
morning,  add  the  flour  and  enough  corn  meal  to  make  a  stiff  dough.  Mold  on  well- 
floured  cookie  sheet  and  cut  in  sizes  a  little  larger  than  commercial  yeast  cakes,  as  the 
homemade  yeast  cakes  will  shrink,  about  1  !4  inches  by  1  !4  inches  by  %  inches  would 
be  advisable.  Let  dry,  turning  often.  When  completely  dry,  wrap  in  aluminum  foil, 
store,  and  put  in  a  tin  can  with  a  tight  lid.  Watch  for  weevils.  This  yeast  has  been 
used  as  long  as  two  years  after  preparation  and  storing.  Also,  you  can  make  yeast 
cakes  by  using  the  homemade  cakes  in  place  of  commercial  yeast  cakes  or  powdered 
yeast. 


Bread  Made  From  Homemade  Yeast  Cakes 


To  make  bread,  start  fresh  yeast  with  two  of  these  yeast  cakes  dissolved  in  warm 
water.  Add  potato  water  and  sugar.  Let  this  work  one  or  two  days  before  using.  Make 
a  sponge  and  let  rise,  then  mix  more  flour  and  finish  making  your  bread.  This  yeast 
\\'orks  slower  than  commercial  yeast.  You  may  keep  about  one-half  cup  of  the  yeast 
as  a  start  and  add  more  potato  water  and  sugar  for  the  next  time. 

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I  Letting  and  L^  rocketing  ^ytre   uiobbyi  S/nte  rests 
of  LKozetta   Ola  fen    [Joranistea 

"DOZETTA  Hafen  Bramsted,  eighty-four,  of  Grass  Valley,  California,  has  gained  much 
■■■^  pleasure  from  her  hobby  of  net  work  and  croeheting  and  from  giving  her  work  to 
her  family  and  friends.  She  has  made  ten  bedspreads,  numerous  doilies,  and  other 
articles. 

She  was  born  in  Mt.  Pleasant,  Utah,  February  3,  1873,  a  daughter  of  Jacob  and 
Ann  Katherine  Hafen.  She  was  married  at  the  Manti  Temple,  May  1,  1895.  The 
mother  of  eight  children,  she  survives  her  husband  and  four  children.  She  has  four- 
teen grandchildren  and  twenty-two  great-grandchildren. 

She  is  an  active  member  of  Relief  Society  and  ser\'ed  as  a  counselor,  a  secretary, 
and  a  teacher  at  different  times  for  many  years  in  Melba,  Idaho,  and  Macdoel,  Cali- 
fornia. She  spent  sometime  doing  ordinance  work  at  St.  George  Temple,  and  has  been 
a  subscriber  to  The  ReUei  Society  Magazine  for  oxer  forty  years.  Her  husband  was 
president  of  the  Hebron,  California,  Branch  of  the  Church  for  many  years. 


KyLpple   [Butter 

Eva  Carter 

14  c.  apples  (cooked  and  pressed  through       12  c.  sugar 

colander  to  remove  lumps)  cinnamon,  ground  or  pieces  to  suit  taste 

Put  apples  in  large  enamel  pan.     When  hot,  add  sugar  and  cinnamon.     Cook  on 
medium  heat,  twenty  minutes,  stirring  constantly. 

Seal  in  pint  jars,  or  pour  into  smaller  containers  and  cover  with  wax. 

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Netting  Today 


Olive  W.  Burt 

LETTERS  passing  through  the  material    'Vent    further"    than    in 

Salt  Lake  City  postoffice,  with  crocheting    or   knitting.    The    lace 

stamps    from    countries    all  was  particularly   dainty   and  exqui- 

over  the  world,  indicate  that  Utah  site,  fulfilling  a  need  for  loveliness 

women   have   triumphantly  won   a  that  must  have  gnawed  incessantly 

battle,  and  the  winning  signifies  the  at  the  pioneer  mother's  heart, 

beautification    of    the    home,    the  Added  to   these  advantages,   the 

happiness  of  many  people.  fragile-looking  lace  produced  by  net- 

This  battle  is  the   fight   to  pre-  ting  is  exceedingly  tough  and  strong 

serve  the  ancient  craft  of  netting,  —curtains,    bedspreads,    and    table- 

a    handicraft    that    seemed,    a    few  cloths      are      practical.       Bonnets, 

years  back,  to  be  disappearing  from  shawls,    purses,    and    handkerchief 

many  areas  where  it  had  once  flour-  edgings  vie  with  doilies  and  place 

ished.     With  machines  taking  over  mats  in  beauty  and  utility, 

so  many  of  the  jobs  formerly  done  As  the  years  passed,  however,  and 

by  hand  and  in  the  home,  netting  pioneer  stringencies  gave  way  to  an 

might    easily   have    disappeared    in  easier  life,  netting  began  to  fall  into 

most  localities  altogether,  had  it  not  disuse.     A  dozen  years  ago,  it  was 

been  for  the  valiant  efforts  of  Utah  practically  extinct,  not  only  in  Utah, 

women.  but    in    other   parts    of   the   world 

And  this  is  rather  strange— that  where  it  had  once  flourished.  During 

this  craft,  born  of  the  sea,  should  World  War  II,  England,  which  had 

find  its  staunchest  defenders  in  in-  always  produced  most  of  the  netting 

land  Utah.    But  that  is  the  story.  needles,  had  no  steel  and  no  time 

The      craft      of      netting      was  to   devote   to    the   manufacture  of 

brought  to  Utah  by  Latter-day  Saint  anything  so  unnecessary.  It  became 

converts     from     Norway,     Sweden,  impossible  to  buy  the  meager  equip- 

France,  and  other  countries  where  ment  required, 
fishing  was  a  basic  industry.     It  is 

exactly  the  same  art  as  fishermen  use  HPHEN,  suddenly,  the  women  of 
in  making  their  nets,  adapted  by  the  Utah  rose  up  and  demanded 
womenfolk  to  the  making  of  deli-  that  some  action  be  taken  to  pre- 
cate  lace  to  trim  linens  and  to  serve  this  ancient  craft  and  to  re- 
beautify  the  home.  In  place  of  using  store  it  to  the  popularity  it  deserves, 
rope  and  heavy  sticks,  the  women  The  movement  was  probably 
used  thread  and  a  slender  steel  sparked  by  the  late  ''Aunt"  Tina 
needle,  but  the  stitch  was  exactly  Macfarlane  of  St.  George,  Utah, 
the  same  as  that  used  by  the  men-  "Aunt  Tina"  learned  to  net  when 
folk.  she  was  five  years  old,  and  she  con- 
Netting  was  very  popular  with  tinned  to  make  netted  lace  until  her 
the  Utah  pioneers,  because  they  had  death  at  ninety-one,  some  seven 
very  little  material  for  fancy  work,  years  ago.  The  articles  she  netted 
and  in  this  craft  any  kind  of  thread  numbered  well  into  the  hundreds; 
or  string  could  be  utilized,  and  the  she  carried  her  work  with  her  wher- 

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Bill  Shipler 

ever  she  went— on  trains  or  buses, 
in  the  doctor's  waiting  room,  at  an 
afternoon  gathering  of  friends.  And 
wherever  she  went,  her  nimble  fin- 
gers and  her  beautiful  lace  attracted 
attention. 

''How  can  we  learn?"  ''Where  can 
we  learn?"  was  constantly  asked. 

The  queries  were  brought  to  the 
attention  of  the  public,  and  the  an- 
swer was  almost  immediate.  Women 


from  many  parts  of  Utah,  as  well 
as  volunteers  from  other  states,  of- 
fered to  teach  the  craft  of  netting. 

There  was  just  one  impediment: 
there  was  no  equipment  to  be  had. 

Now,  the  equipment  for  netting 
is  very  simple— a  steel  needle  with 
an  eye  at  each  end,  a  mesh  stick,  and 

a  knitting  needle.    But  the  needles 

were  not  being  manufactured  and 


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Bill  Shipler 

could  not  be  imported.    It  looked  as 
if  netting  was  doomed. 

To  the  rescue  came  a  Salt  Lake 
City  man  and  woman— Frank  J. 
Nelson  said  he  would  manufacture 
the  equipment,  and  his  wife,  Vera, 
set  to  work  to  publish  a  manual  giv- 
ing explicit  directions  and  many 
lovely  patterns.  A  solution  of  the 
problem  was  in  sight. 

During  the  past  half-dozen  years 
the  Nelson's  have  distributed  hun- 
dreds of  the  pamphlets,  supplement- 
ed by  special  leaflets  on  particular 
subjects:  Patterns  for  handkerchief 
edgings  and  doilies  have  been  sent 
to  all  parts  of  the  world  with  the 
netting  kits  Mr.  Nelson  manufac- 
tures in  Salt  Lake  City.  These  kits 
contain  the  netting  needle,  the  mesh 
sticks    of   various   widths   to   make 


loops  of  different  sizes,  and  instruc- 
tions for  the  beginner.  There  is 
only  one  basic  stitch  to  be  learned, 
the  intricate  patterns  being  formed 
by  the  variety  of  groupings  of  this 
stitch,  the  differences  in  width  of 
loops,  and  other  variations. 

While  Mr.  Nelson  still  manufac- 
tures the  mesh  sticks  and  assembles 
the  kits,  world  conditions  have  made 
it  possible  for  him  to  import  the 
famous  English  netting  needles, 
which  often  come  to  Salt  Lake  City 
only  to  be  shipped  back  to  England 
with  instructions  for  their  use! 

There  is  no  longer  any  danger,  for 
the  time  being  at  any  rate,  of  this 
ancient  handwork  dying  out.  And 
it  is  to  the  women  of  Utah  that  the 
credit  is  due.  It  was  their  interest 
and  ingenuity  that  saved  the  craft 
from  probable  oblivion. 


Street  in  iriain 

Ins  W.  Schow 

The  bright  shop  windows  sheathed  in  rain 
Are  parcels  wrapped  in  cellophane. 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


General  Secretary-Treasurer  Hulda  Parker 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  go\'erning  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  of  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph  submitted  by  Ada  J.  Taylor 

FARR  WEST  STAKE  (UTAH),  HARRISVILLE  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY 
PRESIDENTS  HONORED  AT  SOCIAL,  June  26,  1957 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Ozula  Taylor  (1915);  Lillie  Harris  (1915-1927); 
Semantha  Agren  (1927-1938);  Ada  J.  Taylor  (1938-1941);  Iva  Costley  (1941-1945). 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Irene  Crowther  (1945-1946);  Ellen  Crowther 
(1946-1949);  Jeptha  Taylor  (1949-1951);  Sadie  Parker  (1951-1955);  Louisa  Agren 
(1955-1956);  Lena  Maxficld,  present  President  (1956-).  Sister  Ruby  Romrcll,  who 
was  president  in  1927,  was  not  present  when  the  picture  was  taken. 

President  Ada  }.  Taylor  reports:  "Fifty-six  women  attended  the  social  in  Harrisville 
Ward  in  the  beautiful  new  Relief  Society  room.  A  lovely  luncheon  was  served  and  a 
program  presented  honoring  the  presidents.  Each  was  presented  with  a  beautiful 
corsage.  A  history  of  the  Relief  Society  of  Harrisville  Ward  was  given  by  Ada  J. 
Taylor,  and  all  the  presidents  gave  their  testimonies.  Each  one  said  that  her  testimony 
had  grown  through  activity  in  this  organization." 

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Photograph  submitted  by  Barbara  D.  Howell 

SAN  JOSE  STAKE  (CALIFORNIA)   SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC 
FOR  RELIEF  SOCIETY  CLOSING  SOCIAL,  May  1957 

Ethel  M.  Beckstrand,  stake  chorister,  stands  in  the  front  row,  at  the  left,  with 
Gladys  McAllister,  accompanist. 

Barbara  D,  Howell,  President,  San  Jose  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  six  wards 
of  San  Jose  Stake  sang  two  beautiful  numbers  at  the  closing  social  and  furnished  music 
for  the  San  Jose-Palo  Alto  Stakes  convention,  May  29th. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Clare  K.   Claridge 

MOUNT  GRAHAM  STAKE  (ARIZONA),  LAYTON  FIRST  WARD  SEWING 
PROJECT  MODELS  AND  DIRECTORS 

Front  row,  left  to  right:   Twin  daughters  of  Ronda  Evans   (one,  partly  hidden); 
Marene  Mack;  Frank  Anderson;  Denice  Jones;  Alva  Blake;  Sherri  Lines. 

Back  row,  left  to  right:  Corinne  Evans,  work  meeting  leader;  Corinne  Wimmer, 


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President,  Layton  First  Ward  Relief  Society;  Jackie  Farley;  Marie  Clifford;  Alma  Nut- 
tall;  Helen  Hoopes;  Elizabeth  Jones;  Dorothy  Woolsey;  Edwina  Gietz;  Carol  Lines. 

Thelma  G.  Maloy,  President,  Mount  Graham  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "In 
keeping  with  recommendations  from  the  general  board  of  Relief  Society  that  we  teach 
the  sisters  to  sew,  a  very  successful  project  has  been  completed  in  the  Layton  First 
Ward.  With  twenty  women  participating,  in  three  months,  twenty-eight  articles  were 
completed.  For  a  number  of  these  sisters,  this  was  the  first  dress  they  had  completed. 
All  of  the  dresses  were  modeled  as  a  part  of  the  Relief  Society  birthday  party.  Those 
responsible  for  the  success  of  this  project  were:  Corinne  Evans,  work  meeting  leader, 
with  Carol  Lines,  Marie  Clifford,  and  Helen  Hoopes  as  assistants.  The  ward  Rehef 
Society  presidency  is  composed  of  the  following  sisters:  President  Corinne  Wimmer; 
First  Counselor  Florence  Wignall;  Second  Counselor  Lorraine  Robinson;  Secretary- 
Treasurer  Dorothy  Porter." 


Photograph  submitted  by  Roseafton  Cesario 

SAN  DIEGO  STAKE  (CALIFORNIA),  LA  MESA  WARD  PRESENTS  ONE-ACT 
PLAY  "WHEN  SHAKESPEARE'S  LADIES  MEET,"  May  28,  1957 

Left  to  right:  Cleopatra,  portrayed  by  Deon  Clark  Butler,  with  handmaidens  Elaine 
Glenn  and  Nadine  Hatton,  ready  to  fan  her;  Wilda  Fowles  as  Portia  (a  young  Doctor 
of  Laws)  Clair  Etta  Sorenson,  as  Katherine  (Bonny  Kate  and  Kate  the  Curst);  Mildred 
Bergeson  as  Ophelia;  Helen  Benson  as  Desdemona  (with  her  fateful  handkerchief); 
Artella  Hunter  as  Juliet. 

Roseafton  Cesario,  Secretary-Treasurer,  San  Diego  Stake  Relief  Society,  describes 
this  unusual  event:  "  'When  Shakespeare's  Ladies  Meet,'  a  one-act  comedy  by  Charles 
George,  and  directed  by  Kathleen  B.  Lund,  culminated  the  first  year  of  literature  les- 
sons about  the  famous  bard,  when  the  play  was  presented  in  La  Mesa  Ward.  .  .  .  Cast 
and  staff  had  thirty  children  to  be  arranged  for,  but  the  show  went  on!  The  play 
will  be  presented  again  in  September  on  a  stake  basis,  as  the  beginning  of  another  en- 
thusiastic year  with  William  Shakespeare.  Opal  Gardner  was  assistant  director,  Shirle- 
mae  Jones,  stage  manager,  and  Cecil  Bell  was  in  charge  of  makeup  and  costumes." 

Enid  Miller  is  president  of  San  Diego  Stake  Relief  Society. 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Julia  N.  Barg 

PIONEER  STAKE  (SALT  LAKE  CITY,  UTAH)  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT 
MUSIC  FOR  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

Standing  at  the  left  of  the  organ:  Vondra  Dipo,  chorister;  seated  at  the  organ: 
Molly  Taylor,  organist. 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Hazel  Colclough;  Elizabeth  Barney;  Hazel  Lockyer;  Flora 
Taylor;  Drucella  Petersen;  Sarah  Marchant,  First  Counselor;  Doris  Pickthall;  Emma 
Frenette;  Lena  Pirenti;  Rura  Woodall;  Nellie  Peck;  Rachel  Fromm. 

Second  row,  left  to  right:  Pearl  Hughes;  Cora  Newbold;  Julia  N.  Barg,  President, 
Pioneer  Stake  Relief  Society;  Bonnie  Robinson;  Lucile  Noyce;  Edna  Mitchell;  Ida 
Ogilvie;  Betella  Ashard,  Second  Counselor;  Ann  Paskins;  Mary  G.  Perry;  Clara  Mc- 
Dermett;  Amelia  B.  Gale;  Mabel  A.  Williams;  Rose  Nielson;  Dorothy  Henderson;  Dicie 
Godfrey. 

Back  row,  left  to  right:  Zada  Jones;  Catherine  Odsey;  Adella  Caldwell;  Dorothy 
Reudter;  Melva  Dean  English;  Lavina  Bone;  Elma  Taylor;  Winnie  Stanley;  Myrtle  Ren- 
shaw;  Esther  Boekweg;  Kathryn  Haycock;  Effie  Harper;  Viola  Kadleck;  Leora  Roush. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Geraldine  D.  Petty 

SOUTH  CAROLINA  STAKE,  COLUMBIA  WARD  VISITING 
TEACHERS  CONVENTION 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Alice  Voyles,  first  President  of  South  Carolina 
Stake  Relief  Society;  Minnie  Ricks;  Bishop  Jack  F.  Joyner;  Counselor  Nellie  Opie; 
Elizabeth  Perry,  President,  Columbia  Ward  Relief  Society;  Mildred  Bass,  Counselor; 


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Annie  H.  Capps,  President,  South  Carolina  Stake  Relief  Society;  Malcolm  Fagan  and 
Lottie  Joyner,  Counselors,  South  Carolina  Stake  Relief  Society. 

Second  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Vivian  Graham,  Secretary,  Columbia  Ward 
Relief  Society;  Ruth  Edwards;  Louise  Manning;  Catherine  Black;  Geraldine  Bone;  Lessie 
Kirkland;  Letha  Strickland;  Ida  Smith;  Mae  Wynn;  Willie  Boykin;  Barbara  Stone; 
Claire  Bone. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Eula  Joyner;  Myrtle  Gerald;  Sally  Joyner;  Mildred 
Maddox;  Zelma  Foy;  Elma  Bone,  visiting  teacher  message  leader;  Ethel  Moody,  mem- 
ber, South  Carolina  Stake  Relief  Society  Board;  Nina  Petty;  Nola  Mathis;  Lucille  Black; 
Lexie  Hersey;  Margaret  Joyner;  Barbara  Carroll. 

Geraldine  D.  Petty,  Secretary-Treasurer,  South  Carolina  Stake  Relief  Society,  re- 
ports: "The  visiting  teachers  are  doing  a  great  work  in  the  Columbia  area.  We  are 
very  proud  of  their  efforts.  A  wonderful  spirit  was  enjoyed  in  our  convention,  and 
each  member  has  a  great  love  for  the  program." 


Photograph  submitted  b>  Al'.a  ruliriman 

NAMPA  STAKE   (IDAHO)   FORMER  STAKE  BOARD  MEMBERS  HONORED 

AT  UNION  MEETING,  April  28,  1957 

Front  row,  standing,  at  the  left,  left  to  right:  Manilla  Dowdle;  Myrtle  Leavitt; 
Clarissa  Ashlock;  Marcelline  Garner. 

Front  row,  standing  at  the  right,  left  to  right:  Dorene  Dike;  Louise  Tobler;  Gayle 
Hales,  present  literature  class  leader;  Lillian  Aldous. 

Second  row,  standing,  at  left,  left  to  right:  Ruth  Holland;  Lilly  Loveland;  Vilate 
Crane;  Ethelyn  Russell;  Lucille  Butler. 

Second  row,  standing  at  the  right,  left  to  right:  Lucile  Rawlins;  Lorraine  Wigand; 
Gertrude  McKnight;  Melva  McClellan. 

Back  row,  standing,  at  the  left,  left  to  right:  Sarah  Squires;  Helena  Richards;  Lela 
Thueson;  Myrle  Dowdle;  Gladys  Squires;  Blanche  Murphy,  Margaret  Rose. 

Back  row,  standing,  at  the  right,  left  to  right:  Frieda  Winslow;  Anna  Babcock; 
Afton  Blanc;  Lilly  Logan;  Nina  Burch;  Luzean  Yorgason. 

Standing,  back  of  the  pulpit,  center,  left  to  right:  Isabelle  Svedin;  Dorothy  Swen- 
son;  Bishop  Joseph  McKnight,  former  high  council  advisor  to  Relief  Society;  Estella 
Day;  Clara  Mason,  a  former  ReHef  Society  President. 

Alta  Fuhriman,  President,  Nampa  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  "Since  the  pub- 
lication of  the  booklet  containing  our  Stake  Relief  Society  history  and  entries  from  our 
short  story  and  poem  contest  were  to  be  delivered  to  the  wards  at  our  union  meeting, 
we  thought  it  timely  to  honor  all  former  stake  board  members.  We  were  sorry  only 
one  former  stake  president  was  able  to  attend.  All  of  the  women  in  the  picture  re- 
side in  the  Boise  Valley  area,  except  Freida  Winslow,  a  former  stake  counselor,  who 
flew  from  Ogden,  Utah,  to  attend.  Corsages  and  a  boutonniere  were  tinted  in  the 
Relief  Society  colors  and  presented  to  each  honored  guest,  and  a  copy  of  the  booklet 
was  given  or  sent  to  each  former  stake  president." 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Delora  R.   Hurst 

SOUTH  OGDEN  STAKE   (UTAH)   SINGING  MOTHERS  FURNISH  MUSIC 
FOR  STAKE  CONFERENCE  ON  MOTHER'S  DAY,  May  1957 

Standing  at  the  center,  in  the  back  row,  wearing  dark  dresses,  are  June  Ray, 
organist,  and  Elma  Ross,  chorister. 

Delora  R.  Hurst,  President,  South  Ogden  Stake  Rehef  Society,  reports  that  this 
group  consists  of  141  Singing  Mothers.  One  of  the  numbers  which  they  sang  was 
"Memories  of  Mother,"  written  by  G.  Ellis  Belnap,  father  of  chorister  Elma  Ross. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Evyln  R.  Richardson 

UINTAH  STAKE  (UTAH)  SINGING  MOTHERS  PRESENT  MUSIC 

FOR  STAKE  QUARTERLY  CONFERENCE 

Mother's  Day,  May  12,  1957 

Seated,  center,  front,  left  to  right:  Evyln  G,  Richardson,  President,  Uintah  Stake 
Relief  Society;  President  Milton  R.  Hunter,  of  the  First  Council  of  Seventy;  Darlene 
Evans,  chorister;  Lucile  Calder,  organist. 

Standing  in  the  background  are  members  of  the  stake  presidency  and  high  council. 


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Photograph  submitted  by  Hilda  Goucher 


SANTA  MONICA  STAKE   (CALIFORNIA)  PRESENTS  DRAMATIZATION 
"CHARACTERS  AND  TEACHINGS  OF  THE  BOOK  OF  MORMON,"  May  1957 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Myrtle  Zundel,  representing  a  Jewish  sister;  Kay 
Abbott,  representing  a  Lamanite  sister;  Aileen  Rose,  representing  a  Japanese  sister. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Elder  Clinton  Davenport,  as  Mormon;  Elder 
Robert  Throckmorton,  as  Moroni;  Elder  Wilford  Brimley,  as  King  Benjamin;  Bishop 
Wallace  R.  Reid,  representing  Nephi;  Nellie  Stevenson,  theology  class  leader. 

Hilda  Goucher,  President,  Santa  Monica  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports:  'The 
dramatization  was  presented  by  Nellie  Stevenson  and  was  followd  by  a  delightful 
luncheon  served  to  more  than  400  women  under  the  direction  of  Kathleen  Savage  and 
Jane  Jamison,  assisted  by  stake  board  members. 

''From  the  beginning  of  the  strains  of  the  impressive  'Lamanite  Song  of  Thanks/ 
through  the  inspirational,  soul-stirring  testimonies  of  the  four  sisters  at  the  close  of 
the  production,  the  audience  was  captivated  and  impressed.  .  .  .  The  Santa  Monica 
Stake  Singing  Mothers,  under  the  direction  of  Lola  Brimley,  sang:  'How  Gentle  God's 
Commands,'  'An  Angel  From  on  High,'  and  'The  Lord  Is  My  Shepherd.'  Venna 
Van  Almen  sang  'If  Ye  Love  Me  Keep  My  Commandments.'  Nan  Rains  was  organ- 
ist. Ward  theology  class  leaders  were  ushers  and  gave  the  prayers.  The  luncheon 
tables  were  beautifully  decorated  under  the  direction  of  Isabel  Brodbeck.  One  comment 
of  the  many  favorable  ones  given  was:  'The  tables  looked  so  beautiful  and  everything 
was  in  such  readiness,  that  I  knew  it  was  to  be  an  outstanding  affair.'  " 


cJhts,  cJoo 

EnoJa  ChamberJin 


This,  too,  will  pass — 
The  storm  that  shakes  your  life 
The  dry  and  withered  grass, 
The  pruning  knife. 


This,  too,  will  pass — 
The  empty  vase  you  hold, 
The  coin  of  worthless  brass — 
And  you  will  claim  God's  gold. 


LESSON   DEPARTMENT 


cJheologyi — The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Lesson  5— Satan's  Opposition  to  the  Coming  Forth  of  The  Book  of  Mormon 

Elder  Roy  W.  Doxcy 

(Text:  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants:  Sections  3  and  10) 

For  Tuesday,  February  4,  1958 

Objective:  Remember,  remember  that  it  is  not  the  work  of  God  that  is  frustrated, 
but  the  work  of  men  (D.  &  C.  3:3). 


Satan  the  Archenemy  oi  God 

From  the  creation  of  Adam,  there 
has  been  opposition  to  the  Lord's 
work  on  the  part  of  Satan.  He  has 
sought  to  destroy  the  souls  of  men 
by  his  enticings;  whereas,  the  pur- 
poses of  the  Lord  have  been  to 
bring  about  the  ''.  .  .  immortahty 
and  eternal  life  of  man"  (The  Pearl 
of  Great  Price,  Moses  1:39).  When 
the  Lord  has  instituted  his  work 
upon  the  earth,  the  powers  of  Lu- 
cifer have  also  been  present  to  seek 
to  destroy  or,  in  any  way,  to  hinder 
the  Lord's  purposes.  This  dispensa- 
tion of  the  gospel  is  by  no  means 
an  exception.  When  Joseph  Smith 
sought  the  Lord  in  prayer  to  de- 
termine which  of  all  the  churches 
was  right,  the  powers  of  darkness 
were  present  to  interfere.  Here  are 
the  words  of  Joseph  Smith: 

...  I  kneeled  down  and  began  to  offer 
up  the  desire  of  my  heart  to  God.  I  had 
scarcely  done  so,  when  immediately  I  was 

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seized  upon  by  some  power  which  entirely 
overcame  me,  and  had  such  an  astonishing 
influence  over  me  as  to  bind  my  tongue 
so  that  I  could  not  speak.  Thick  dark- 
ness gathered  around  me,  and  it  seemed 
to  me  for  a  time  as  if  I  were  doomed  to 
sudden  destruction. 

But,  exerting  all  my  powers  to  call  up- 
on God  to  deliver  me  out  of  the  power 
of  this  enemy  which  had  seized  upon  me, 
and  at  the  very  moment  when  I  was 
ready  to  sink  into  despair  and  abandon 
myself  to  destruction — not  to  an  imagi- 
nary ruin,  but  to  the  power  of  some 
actual  being  from  the  unseen  world,  who 
had  such  marvelous  power  as  I  had  never 
before  felt  in  any  being — just  at  this  mo- 
ment of  great  alarm,  I  saw  a  pillar  of  light 
exactly  over  my  head,  above  the  bright- 
ness of  the  sun,  which  descended  gradual- 
ly until  it  fell  upon  me. 

It  no  sooner  appeared  than  I  found  my- 
self delivered  from  the  enemy  which  held 
me  bound  .  .  .  (The  Pearl  of  Great  Price, 
Writings  oi  Joseph  Smith  2:15-17). 

Notice  the  words  ".  .  .  not  to  an 
imaginary  ruin,  but  to  the  power  of 


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some  actual  being  from  the  unseen 
world  .  .  ."  {Ihid.,  2:16).  Joseph 
Smith  had  come  to  understand,  in 
part,  the  power  of  Satan  and  also 
the  power  of  God  on  the  same  day. 
Joseph  may  not  have  known  at  this 
time  that  during  his  life  many  efforts 
would  be  made  by  evil  forces  to 
keep  him  from  following  the  coun- 
sel of  the  Lord,  but  the  angel 
Moroni  cautioned  him  against  such 
a  temptation.    (See  Ihid.^  2:46.) 

Background  oi  Sections  3  and  10 

A  notable  example  of  Satan's  ef- 
forts to  deceive  is  found  in  the  study 
of  Sections  3  and  10  of  our  text. 
After  receiving  the  gold  plates  from 
the  angel  Moroni  and  having  trans- 
lated some  of  the  characters  thereon, 
the  Prophet  was  asked  by  Martin 
Harris  to  permit  him  to  take  the 
manuscript  pages  of  translated  ma- 
terial and  show  them  to  members 
of  his  family.  Two  times  Martin 
Harris  was  denied  the  privilege  to 
show  the  manuscript  to  others,  but 
a  third  request  of  the  Lord  by  Jo- 
seph Smith  brought  forth  permis- 
sion to  do  so.  The  provision  was 
that  it  should  be  shown  to  only  five 
persons  and  to  none  others.  By 
stratagem  others  to  whom  Martin 
Harris  showed  the  manuscript  got 
it  away  from  him,  and  it  was  never 
recovered.  (See  D.  H.  C.  L21.) 

The  Lord's  Rebuke  to  Joseph 

These  circumstances  bring  us  to 
a  consideration  of  Section  3,  which 
constitutes  the  Lord's  rebuke  to 
Joseph  Smith  for  his  part  in  allow- 
ing the  manuscript  to  be  lost.  In 
the  light  of  these  conditions,  the 
first  three  verses  of  the  revelation 
state  that  the  works  of  God  cannot 
be  frustrated,  but  it  is  the  works 
of  men  that  are  frustrated. 


It  seems  that  at  this  point  in  the 
Prophet's  life  the  Lord  was  teach- 
ing him  an  important  lesson.  He 
was  to  trust  in  the  Lord,  who  would 
always  uphold  him,  and  not  to  fear 
man  more  than  God  (  D.  &  C. 
3:4-8).  We  might  well  ask  our- 
selves at  this  point  wherein  we  fear 
''man  more  than  God"  and  do  not 
put  our  confidence  in  the  Lord  to 
assist  us?  Do  we,  for  example,  ac- 
cept the  entreaties  of  friends  and 
associates  and  violate  a  command- 
ment of  the  Lord  in  order  to  keep 
the  friendship  or  good  will  of  those 
persons?  Or  do  we  stand  for  the 
word  of  the  Lord  and  his  promises 
to  us  if  we  are  faithful? 

Joseph  Smith's  Honesty 

Consider  also,  for  a  moment,  the 
importance  of  this  revelation  in 
attesting  to  the  honesty  of  Joseph 
Smith.  He  stood  rebuked  by  the 
Lord  for  his  part  in  the  loss  of  the 
translated  portion  of  the  plates,  but, 
at  the  same  time,  he  made  known 
this  rebuke  to  his  friends  and  to  the 
world  in  allowing  the  revelation  to 
become  known  and  printed.  At 
times  people  have  questioned  the 
integrity  of  the  Prophet,  but  this 
revelation  stands  as  a  monument  to 
the  basic  honesty  of  Joseph  Smith. 

After  receiving  Section  3,  Joseph 
recorded  that  '\  .  .  both  the  plates 
and  the  Urim  and  Thummim  were 
taken  from  me  again;  but  in  a  few 
days  they  were  returned  to  me, 
when  I  inquired  of  the  Lord  .  .  ." 
(D.  H.  C.  1:23).  The  Lord  then 
gave  to  the  Prophet  section  10. 

Analysis  of  Section  10 

In  order  for  us  to  have  a  connect- 
ed account  of  this  episode  in  our 
Church  history,  a  study  should  now 


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be  made  of  Section  lo,  especially 
verses  i  through  45.  As  indicated 
in  the  superscription  (italicized 
foreword),  this  revelation  is  about 
the  designs  of  wicked  men  to  alter 
the  manuscript  in  order  to  destroy 
the  truthfulness  of  The  Book  of 
Mormon  when  Joseph  would  print 
as  a  part  of  that  book  the  retrans- 
lated portion  which  was  "lost." 

PJot  to  Destroy  the 
Lord's  Work  Revealed 

Verses  1  through  3  of  Section  10 
refer  to  the  gift  of  translation  which 
Joseph  had  received  with  the  fur- 
ther admonition  that  he  was  to 
'\  .  .  be  diligent  unto  the  end" 
(D.  &  C.  10:4).  Martin  Harris  is 
condemned  by  the  Lord  as  a 
''wicked"  man,  because  he  was  not 
faithful  in  keeping  his  covenant  to 
show  the  manuscript  to  only  five 
persons,  but  permitted  it  to  get  out 
of  his  hands  forever.  (See  D.  &  C. 
10:6-9).  Now  comes  that  part  of 
the  revelation  which  describes  the 
purpose  of  the  men  in  altering  the 
manuscript  (D.  &  C.  10:10-19).  But 
who  does  the  Lord  say  is  the  in- 
stigator of  this  plot  to  destroy  his 
work.  It  is  Satan  (D.  &  C. 
10:10,  14).  From  this  point  on  the 
Lord  reveals  to  the  Prophet  and 
Martin  Harris  (and  us)  the  designs 
of  that  wicked  one,  Satan,  to  de- 
stroy the  Lord's  work  and  also 
'\  .  .  that  he  may  lead  their  souls  to 
destruction"  (D.  &  C.  10:22). 
(Read  The  Book  of  Mormon,  2 
Nephi  28  for  information  on  the 
works  of  Lucifer  in  the  last  days.) 

Satan's  Tactics 

Observe  the  tactics  of  Satan  in 
his  leading  men  and  women  astray: 


Yea,  he  stirreth  up  their  hearts  to  anger 
against  this  work. 

Yea,  he  saith  unto  them:  Deceive  and 
He  in  wait  to  catch,  that  ye  may  destroy; 
behold,  this  is  no  harm.  And  thus  he 
flattereth  them,  and  telleth  them  that  it 
is  no  sin  to  he  that  they  may  catch  a  man 
in  a  lie,  that  they  may  destroy  him. 

And  thus  he  flattereth  them,  and  Icadeth 
them  along  until  he  draggeth  their  souls 
down  to  hell;  and  thus  he  causeth  them 
to  catch  themselves  in  their  own  snare. 

And  thus  he  goeth  up  and  down,  to 
and  fro  in  the  earth,  seeking  to  destroy 
the  souls  of  men  (D.  &  C.  10:24-27). 

Upon  the  basis  of  what  you  have 
already  learned  from  this  revelation, 
do  you  believe  that  Satan  is  an 
actual  being  and  not  an  imaginary 
product  of  the  mind? 

The  Lords  Foreordained  Plan 

In  verses  30  to  45  the  Lord  in- 
forms the  Prophet  that  he  is  to 
translate  from  the  small  plates  of 
Nephi  and  not  to  retranslate  from 
the  plates  that  portion  of  the  Ne- 
phite  history  which  Martin  Harris 
had  lost.  Foreseeing  the  circum- 
stances which  gave  rise  to  the  reve- 
lations known  to  us  as  Sections  3 
and  10,  the  Lord  inspired  Nephi 
and  early  historians  to  keep  the  ad- 
ditional set  of  plates  (The  Book  of 
Mormon,  1  Nephi  9:2-6;  Words  of 
Mormon,  verses  3-7).  This  part 
which  now  contains  the  books  of 
Nephi  to  Omni,  inclusive,  in  The 
Book  of  Mormon  '\  .  .is  more  par- 
ticular concerning  the  things  which, 
in  my  wisdom,  I  would  bring  to 
the  knowledge  of  the  people  .  .  . 
[and]  which  do  throw  greater  views 
upon  my  gospel  .  .  ."  (D.  &  C. 
10:40,  45),  declared  the  Lord.  It 
would  seem  that  we  are  more  richly 


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blessed  by  reason  of  having  the 
translated  material  from  the  small 
plates  of  Nephi  which  contains 
*'.  .  .  the  ministry  and  prophecies 
.  .  /'  (i  Nephi  19:3;  9-4)^  and  the 
''sacred''  things  (1  Nephi  19:6), 
whereas  the  other  plates  gave  ''.  .  .  a 
greater  account  of  the  wars  and  con- 
tentions and  destructions  of  my 
[Nephi]  people  .  .  /'  (1  Nephi 
19:4). 

What  does  the  Lord  prescribe  in 
this  revelation  that  Joseph  Smith 
might  do,  and  which  we  also  must 
do,  to  gain  a  victory  over  Satan? 

Pray  always,  that  you  may  come  off 
conqueror;  yea,  that  you  may  conquer 
Satan,  and  that  you  may  escape  the  hands 
of  the  servants  of  Satan  that  do  uphold 
his  work  (D.  &  C.  10:5). 

Additional  Items  in 
Sections  10  and  3 

Section  10:  The  Nephites  prayed 
that  their  brethren  the  Lamanites 
should  have  the  gospel  in  the  latter 
days  (D.  &  C.  10:48),  and  that  this 
gospel  should  be  made  known  to 
others  who  should  possess  this  land 
of  Zion  and,  '\  .  .  that  whosoever 
should  believe  in  this  gospel  in  this 
land  might  have  eternal  life" 
(D.  &  C.  10:50).  It  was  also  their 
wish  that  this  land  should  be  a  free 
land.  (See  D.  &  C.  10:49-51.) 

On  the  other  hand,  those  upon 
this  land  who  build  up  churches  to 
get  gain,  and  do  wickedly  and  thus 
build  up  the  kingdom  of  the  devil 
shall  be  caused  ''.  .  .  to  tremble  and 
shake  to  the  center"  (D.  &  C. 
10:56). 

The  Lord  avows  that  the  people 
shall  learn  of  the  ''other  sheep"  of 
whom  he  spoke  during  his  mortal 
ministry  (John  10:16),  and  of  the 


gospel  which  he  brought  to  them. 
This  will  be  by  The  Book  of  Mor- 
mon which  shall  "...  bring  to  light 
the  true  points  of  my  doctrine,  yea, 
and  the  only  doctrine  which  is  in 
me"  (D.  &  C.  10:62).  Again  we 
are  aware  of  one  phase  of  Satan's 
activities;  namely,  to: 

.  .  .  stir  up  the  hearts  of  the  people 
to  contention  concerning  the  points  of  my 
doctrine;  and  in  these  things  they  do  err, 
for  they  do  wrest  the  scriptures  and  do 
not  understand  them  (D.  &  C.  10:63). 

Finally,  in  closing  this  revelation, 
the  Lord  points  out  what  his  doc- 
trine is  (D.  &  C.  10:67),  ^^^^  ^^ 
who  declares  anything  less  than  that 
doctrine  ".  .  .  is  not  of  my  church" 
(D.  &  C.  10:68). 

And  now,  behold,  whosoever  is  of  my 
church,  and  endureth  of  my  church  to 
the  end,  him  will  I  establish  upon  my 
rock,  and  the  gates  of  hell  shall  not  pre- 
vail against  them  (D.  &  C.  10:69). 

Section  3:  Notice  verse  9  in 
which  the  Prophet  is  reminded  that 
he  "...  wast  chosen  to  do  the  work 
of  the  Lord  .  .  ."  and  compare  it 
with  2  Nephi  3:1-15,  especially 
verses  6-8,  11,  14,  15. 

In  Section  3:16-20,  the  purposes 
of  the  coming  forth  of  The  Book 
of  Mormon  are  made  known.  These 
verses  contribute  to  our  understand- 
ing of  the  purposes  given  on  the 
title  page  of  The  Book  of  Mormon. 


Questions  foi  Discussion 

1.  Why  has  Satan  opposed  the  Lord's 
work  in  this  dispensation? 

2.  Why  do  you  think  the  Lord  rebuked 
Joseph  Smith  because  of  the  loss  of  the 


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translated  part  of  The  Book  of  Mormon  4.  How  does  Section  10  verify  the  fact 

plates?  that  Satan  is  a  personal  being? 

3.   In  what  way  does   Section    3   attest  5.  Discuss:  "It  is  not  the  work  of  God 

to  the  honesty  of  Joseph  Smith?  that  is  frustrated,  but  the  work  of  men." 


viSitifig  cJeacher    1 1  iessages  — 

Truths  to  Live  By  From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Message  5 —  ".  .  .  Behold,  You  Should  Not  Have  Feared  Man 
More  Than  God  ..."  (D.  &  C.  3:7). 

Christine  H.  Kohinson 

For  Tuesday,  February  4,  1958 

Objective:  To  show  that  to  fear  God  means  to  love  him  and  to  keep  his  com- 
mandments and  that  in  so  doing  we  earn  the  respect  of  all  good  people. 

OECENTLY  a  group  of  college  The  story  is  told  of  a  young  draf- 

students  were  discussing  what  tee   in   the  army  who   had  always 

they  wanted  most  out  of  life.  Some  knelt  in  prayer  before  going  to  bed. 

were  seeking  financial  security;  oth-  But  in  the  barracks,  in  the  presence 

ers,  power;  but  the  majority  agreed  of  all  the  other  boys,  he  feared  to 

that  what  was  really  important  was  follow  the  usual  practice  lest  he  be 

the  good  will,  respect,  and  approba-  ridiculed.    Consequently,  he  waited 

tion  of  their  fellow  men.  until  he  thought  all  the  boys  were 

It  is  good  to  seek  the  respect  of  asleep  before  he  slipped  out  of  bed 

others.  However,  we  make  a  mistake  to  say  his  prayers.   On  one  occasion 

when  we  allow  our  fear  of  criticism  the  young  man  on  the  cot  next  to 

and  disapproval  of  others  to  cause  his  observed  him  and  remarked  that 

us  to  violate  the  principles  we  know  he,    too,    had    wanted    to    say    his 

to  be  right.  prayers  but  had  been  afraid  to  do 

To  fear  man  more  than  we  fear  so.  This  gave  both  boys  courage, 
Cod  actually  means  that  we  are  and  soon  thereafter  others  saw  them, 
more  anxious  to  please  others  than  admired  them,  and  followed  their 
we  are  to  live  by  the  principles  God  example.  Thus,  nightly  prayers 
has  set  down  for  us  to  follow.  One  came  to  be  the  regular  practice  by 
example  is  in  the  matter  of  express-  many  of  the  boys, 
ing  our  thankfulness  and  asking  the  It  is  true  that  often  the  very 
Lord's  blessings  in  prayer.  Some-  things  we  fear  might  bring  ridicule 
times  in  strange  places  or  among  from  others,  actually  build  respect 
strangers,  many  of  us  are  tempted  and  admiration.  Constancy,  con- 
to  avoid  criticism  from  others,  and  sistency,  and  adherence  to  right 
we  fail  to  pray.  principles  are  choice  character  quali- 


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ties.  They  are  traits  which  all  good 
people  approve  and  esteem.  Cer- 
tainly those  who  fear  the  Lord  and 
follow  his  teachings  regardless  of  the 
consequences,  build  strong  charac- 
ters and  fine  personalities. 

To  fear  the  Lord  means  that  we 
have  profound  reverence  for  him; 
that  we  love  and  honor  him;  that 
our  love  is  so  strong  that  we  will 
not  knowingly  offend  him.  That 
we  want  to  please  him  by  doing  his 
will  and  keeping  his  command- 
ments. 

To  those  who  have  this  type  of 
fear  and  love  in  their  hearts  the 
Lord  has  said: 


...  I,  the  Lord,  am  merciful  and  gra- 
cious unto  those  who  fear  me,  and  dehght 
to  honor  those  who  serve  me  in  righteous- 
ness and  in  truth  unto  the  end 
(D.&  0.76:5). 

Yes,  to  seek  to  earn  the  respect 
and  approbation  of  our  fellow  men 
is  good.  However,  if  we  are  ever 
tempted  to  compromise  our  prin- 
ciples and  ideals  because  of  fear  of 
criticism,  let  us  remember: 

...  it  is  better  that  a  man  should  be 
judged  of  God  than  of  man,  for  the  judg- 
ments of  God  are  always  just,  but  the 
judgments  of  man  are  not  always  just 
(Mosiah  29:12). 


v(/om    1 1  ieetifig — Living  More  Abundantly 

(A  Course  Recommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 

Discussion  5— The  Family  and  the  Home 

Elder  William  F.  Edwards 
For  Tuesday,  February  11,  1958 
Objective:     To  consider  the  fundamentals  of  owning  a  house  and  making  it  a  home. 


'pHE  family  and  the  home  are  the 
basic  units  in  society  and  in  the 
gospel  plan. 

Its  foundation  is  as  ancient  as  the  world, 
and  its  mission  has  been  ordained  of  God 
from  the  earliest  times  (President  Joseph 
F.   Smith,   GospeJ   Doctrine,    3d  Edition, 

page  375)- 

It  was  not  by  chance  that  the 
Master  concluded  his  most  im- 
portant sermon  by  comparing  the 
faithful  doer  of  his  words  ''.  .  .  liken 
.  .  .  unto  a  wise  man,  which  built 
his  house  upon  a  rock. . . .''  (Matthew 
7:24-27).  Jesus  recognized  that  the 
home  is  paramount  in  life.  Joyful 
living  is  no  more  secure  than  the 


home.  A  home-building,  a  home- 
owning,  and  a  home-loving  people 
will  always  be  a  superior  people. 

Aim  to  Own  Your  Own  Home 

The  Church  has  always  encour- 
aged the  saints  to  own  their  homes. 
Nauvoo  remains  an  important  spot 
in  American,  as  well  as  in  Church 
history,  because  the  early  saints  were 
builders  of  superior  homes.  Presi- 
dent Brigham  Young  consistently 
counseled  the  saints  to  be  home 
builders  and  home  owners.  This  has 
continued  to  be  the  advice  of  the 
leaders  of  the  Church  to  the  mem- 
bers. 


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There  may  be  temporary  or  spe- 
cial circumstances  that  make  it  more 
desirable  for  a  family  to  rent  than 
to  own  a  home.  But,  as  a  general 
objective,  every  family  should  own 
a  home  or  prepare  for  the  day  when 
they  will  own  a  home.  The  owning 
of  a  home  adds  to  one's  security, 
helps  to  preserve  one's  independ- 
ence, strengthens  a  family,  makes 
better  citizens,  and  enriches  daily 
living. 

Every  young  man  should  have  an  ambi- 
tion to  possess  his  own  home.  It  is  better 
for  him,  for  his  family,  for  society,  for  the 
state,  and  for  the  Church.  Nothing  so 
engenders  stabihty,  strength,  power,  patri- 
otism, fidehty  to  country  and  to  God  as 
the  owning  of  a  home — a  spot  of  earth 
that  you  and  your  children  can  call  yours 
(President  Joseph  F.  Smith,  Gospel  Doc- 
trine, 3d  Edition,  page  382). 

If  we  are  home  owners,  ''Every 
improvement  that  we  make  not  only 
adds  to  our  comfort  but  to  our 
wealth"  {DiscouTses  of  Brigham 
Young,  chapter  26,  page  302). 

Selecting  the  Location  oi  a  Home 

It  is  likely  that  most  of  the  class 
members  will  already  be  home  own- 
ers, but  because  of  the  importance 
to  those  who  have  not  yet  acquired 
their  homes,  and  to  those  who  may 
subsequently  move,  it  may  be  de- 
sirable to  review  at  least  three  funda- 
mentals in  selecting  a  location. 

1.  Neighbors  are  of  the  greatest  im- 
portance. Your  children  will  probably 
spend  more  time  with  the  neighbors'  chil- 
dren than  with  you.  In  this  association 
they  will  learn  many  of  the  lessons  of  life, 
for  good  or  for  evil;  hence,  the  importance 
of  choosing  neighbors  with  great  care. 

2.  Trends  within  the  neighborhood  are 
also  important.  If  the  homes  in  the  area 
are  being  neglected,  your  home  will  likely 
become  less  desirable.  Population  groups, 
in  the  larger  cities,  in  particular,  are  con- 


stantly shifting.  A  prospective  buyer 
should  look  ahead  and  try  to  select  a  loca- 
tion that  will  remain  attractive. 

3.  The  importance  of  convenience  of  lo- 
cation can  hardly  be  overrated.  The  domi- 
nating considerations  are  usually  schools, 
work,  and  Church,  and  of  the  three,  con- 
venience to  Church  is  most  important. 

How  to  Finance  a  Home 

Be  certain  that  the  cost  of  the 
home  is  not  excessive  relative  to 
your  means.  A  family  cannot  be 
happy  and  successful,  if  it  is  forced 
to  underspend  for  clothes,  food, 
medicine,  education,  and  recreation, 
in  order  to  keep  up  unreasonable 
payments  on  a  home. 

In  planning  the  cost  of  a  home, 
it  is  good  to  remember  the  following 
words  of  counsel  from  the  Master: 

For  which  of  you,  intending  to  build  a 
tower,  sitteth  not  down  first,  and  counteth 
the  cost,  whether  he  have  sufficient  to 
finish  it? 

Lest  haply,  after  he  hath  laid  the 
foundation,  and  is  not  able  to  finish  it, 
all  that  behold  it  begin  to  mock  him. 
Saying,  This  man  began  to  build,  and 
was  not  able  to  finish  (Luke  14:28-30). 

Usually  a  home  can  be  acquired 
only  by  borrowing  part  of  the  cost. 
The  objective  should  be  to  borrow 
as  little  as  necessary,  and  to  pay  off 
the  loan  as  rapidly  as  possible.  A 
family  owning  a  proper  home,  free 
of  debt,  and  living  according  to  the 
standards  of  the  Church,  can  with- 
stand almost  any  economic  storm 
and  remain  secure. 

Ere  we  as  a  people  become  too 
free  in  mortgaging  our  homes,  we 
do  well  to  remember  the  following 
words  of  President  Joseph  F.  Smith : 

The  land  of  Zion  is  an  inheritance,  and 
every  man  who  mortgages  his  part  of  that 
inheritance  places  in  jeopardy  the  land  .  .  . 
{Gospel  Doctrine,  3d  Edition,  page  385). 


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Converting  a  House  Into  a  Home 


The  strongest  attachments  of  childhood 
are  those  that  cluster  about  the  home,  and 
the  dearest  memories  of  old  age  are  those 
that  call  up  the  association  of  youth  and 
its  happy  surroundings  (President  Joseph 
F.  Smith,  Gospel  Doctrine,  3d  Edition, 
page  376). 

In  our  homes  we  must  live  to 
earn  the  blessings  of  the  Lord.  Pray 


together,  play  together,  work  to- 
gether, and  share  joy  and  sorrow 
alike  with  courage  and  glad  hearts. 
Bind  the  family  together  with  love 
and  obedience  to  the  gospel  stand- 
ards and  ideals.  You  will  then  un- 
derstand the  full  meaning  of  the 
prophetic  words  of  President  Steph- 
en L  Richards:  ''Our  heaven  is  little 
more  than  a  projection  of  our  homes 
into  eternity." 


JLiterature — Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Lesson    13— Hamlet,   Prisoner  in   Denmark 
EldGi  Briant  S.  Jacobs 

Text:  Shakespeare  Major  PJays  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948 

For  Tuesday,  February  18,  1958 

Objective:     To  seek  to  understand  Hamlet's  mind  and  heart,  that  we  may  better 
understand  our  own. 


As  our  last  lesson  pointed  out, 
none  of  Shakespeare's  plays  is  cen- 
tered more  in  one  person  than  is 
Hamlet,  yet  without  the  surrounding 
characters  and  crosscurrents  the 
character  of  Hamlet  would  be  limp. 
This  lesson  reminds  us  that,  with- 
o  u  t  Hamlet,  the  supporting 
characters  within  the  organized 
frame  of  the  play  would  be  useless. 

Hamlet  may  be  defined  most 
simply  as  the  story  of  a  man  in 
search  of  his  soul,  but  who  never 
finds  it.  Intertwined  with  impulse 
—dramatic  bravado,  despair,  and  a 
most  incongruous  inconsistency  are 


Hamlet's  evident  weaknesses,  his 
most  discouraging  weakness  being 
that  he  is  human.  ''He  was  a  man, 
take  him  for  all  in  all.  "  Were  he 
all  bad  he  would  contain  within 
himself  no  conflict  and  therefore 
would  never  hold  our  interest. 
While  his  balance  tilts  and  varies, 
he  does  maintain  balance  of  a  sort 
throughout  the  play,  which  implies 
a  goodness  to  counteract  evil.  And 
who  can  miss  the  traits  of  goodness 
within  him?  For  despite  his  suf- 
ferings he  never  allows  his  strength 
of  character  to  be  entirely  under- 
mined;   he    always    maintains    his 


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identity,  even  while  he  inwardly 
loathes  himself  and  the  sordid  weak- 
nesses of  those  near  him  whom  once 
he  most  loved.  He  is,  when  he 
chooses,  polished,  courteous,  friend- 
ly and  genial,  witty  and  sparkling. 
And  though  many  times  he  brands 
himself  a  moral  coward,  it  is  our 
privilege  to  remember  that  his  is 
the  cowardice  of  a  brave  man,  best 
illustrated  by  his  fearlessness  in  con- 
fronting his  father's  ghost  for  the 
first  time. 

Hamlet's  Word  Vitality 

The  ripeness  and  vigor  of  Ham- 
let's vibrant,  hissing,  gentle  word- 
volleys  are  rivaled  by  nothing  in 
Shakespeare  or  out.  Shakespeare's 
unconscious,  imaginative  genius 
might  be  likened  to  a  high-strung 
show  horse  which  his  master  de- 
lights to  ride,  so  completely  are 
horse  and  rider  one,  so  entire  the 
master's  control,  so  sharp  the  re- 
sponse as  he  exhibits  his  mount's 
versatility.  And  with  what  enjoy- 
ment do  they  run  through  their 
paces.    First,  a  slow,  majestic  walk: 

If  thou  didst  ever  hold  me  in  thy  heart, 

Absent  thee  from  felicity  a  while, 

And  in  this  harsh  world  draw  thy  breath 

in  pain 
To  tell  my  story.  .  .  , 

V.  2.  357-360 

Next  a  mincing,  teasing  trot: 

Haml.  Now,  Mother,  what's  the  matter? 
Queen.  Hamlet,  thou  hast  thy  father  much 

offended. 
Haml.  Mother,  you  have  my  father  much 

offended. 
Queen.  Come,  come,  you  answer  with  an 

idle   tongue. 
Haml.  Go,     go,     you     question     with     a 

wicked  tongue. 
Queen.  Why,  how  now,  Hamlet! 
Haml.  What's  the  matter  now? 


Queen.  Have  you  forgot  me? 
Haml.  No,  by  the  rood,  not  so. 

III.  4.  8-14 

Then  a  long-rolling  gallop,  or 
canter. 

What  a  piece  of  work  is  a  man!  How 
noble  in  reason!  How  infinite  in  faculty! 
In  form  and  moving  how  express  and 
admirable!  In  action  how  like  an  angel! 
In  apprehension  how  like  a  god!  The 
beauty  of  the  world!  The  paragon  of 
animals! 

II.  2.  315-319 

And,  finally,  the  runaway,  when 
almost  riderless,  the  great  charger 
takes  bit  in  teeth  and  pounds  forth 
in  unrestrained  surges  of  sheer  pow- 
er: 

Haml.  Here    is    your    husband,     like    a 

mildewed  ear. 
Blasting    his    wholesome    brother. 

Have  you  eyes? 
Could  you   on   this   fair  mountain 

leave  to  feed 
And   batten    on    this   moor?      Ha! 

Have  you  eyes?.  .  . 
Oh,   shame!   Where  is  thy  blush? 

Rebellious  Hell, 
If  thou  canst  mutine  in  a  matron's 

bones, 
To  flaming  youth  let  virtue  be  as 

wax 
And  melt  in  her  own   fire.     Pro- 
claim no  shame 
When  the  compulsive  ardor  gives 

the  charge, 
Since  frost  itself  as  actively   doth 

burn. 
And  reason  panders  will. 

III.  4.  64-67,  82-88 

Hamlet  often  becomes  wellnigh 
drunk  with  his  own  word  power,  nor 
do  we  escape  a  feeling  of  light  head- 
iness  in  ourselves.  Rather  than 
worrying  that  this  might  be  a  weak- 
ness, let  us  ask  who  else  can  build 
drama  and  character  with  words 
alone  until  it  all  blends  into  an  il- 
lusion of  reality  ''livelier  than  life"? 


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This  is  Shakespeare's  greatest  gift, 
even  as  it  is  Hamlet's.  This  play 
offers  more  proof  than  any  other 
that  Shakespeare  surpasses  all  other 
dramatic  poets  who  have  written  in 
modern  times,  because  herein  he 
does  everything  with  words.  As 
Wilson  Knight  has  justly  observed: 

Hamlet  is  universal.  In  him  we  recog- 
nize ourselves,  not  our  acquaintances. 
Shakespeare's  persons  make  utterance 
from  a  height  where  all  men  speak  alike 
(Wheel  of  FirCy  page  288). 

And  for  the  lofty  identity  of 
poetic  power  made  most  personal 
to  each  of  us  through  great  word- 
skill,  what  can  rival  Hamlet's  solilo- 
quy as  he  finds  life  too  loathsome  to 
bear: 

To  be,  or  not  to  be — that  is  the  question. 
Whether  'tis  nobler  in  the  mind  to  suffer 
The  slings  and  arrows  of  outrageous  for- 
tune, 
Or  to  take  arms  against  a  sea  of  troubles 
And  by  opposing  end  them.     To  die,  to 

sleep — 
No  more,  and  by  a  sleep  to  say  we  end 
The  heartache  and  the  thousand   natural 

shocks 
That  flesh  is  heir  to.    'Tis  a  consummation 
Devoutly  to  be  wished.  To  die,  to  sleep. 
To     sleep — perchance     to     dream.     Aye, 

there's  the  rub. 
For  in   that  sleep   of  death  what  dreams 

may  come 
When  we  have  shuffled  off  this  mortal  coil 
Must  give  us  pause.     There's  the  respect 
That  makes  calamity  of  so  long  life. 
For  who  would  bear  the  whips  and  scorns 

of  time, 
The   oppressor's  wrong,   the   proud  man's 

contumely 
The  pangs  of  despised  love,  the  law's  de- 
lay, 
The  insolence  of  office  and  the  spurns 
That  patient  merit  of  the  unworthy  takes. 
When  he  himself  might  his  quietus  make 
With  a  bare  bodkin?  Who  would  fardels 

[burdens]  bear. 
To  grunt  and  sweat   under  a   weary  life. 
But    that    the    dread    of    something    after 
death 


The    undiscovered    country    from    whose 
bourn  [boundary] 

No  traveler  returns,  puzzles  the  will. 

And   makes   us   rather  bear  those   ills   we 
have 

Than  fly  to  others  that  we  know  not  of? 

Thus    conscience    does   make    cowards    of 
us  all, 

And  thus  the  native  hue  of  resolution 

Is    sicklied    o'er    with    the    pale    cast    of 
thought, 

And   enterprises   of   great  pitch   and   mo- 
ment 

With  this  regard  their  currents  turn  awry 

And  lose  the  name  of  action.  .  .  . 

III.  1.  56-88 

Hamlet's  Identity 

True  education  is  a  continuing 
venture  into  new  realms  of  self-dis- 
covery Thus  a  sustained  rereading 
of  Hamlet  becomes  one  of  mor- 
tality's greatest  educational  awaken- 
ings for,  regardless  of  who  we  are, 
Hamlet's  true  identity  lies  within 
each  of  our  individual  fallible  bos- 
oms. This  play  reveals  us  to  our- 
selves. Hamlet  is  real  not  when  he 
reveals  Shakespeare's  heart,  nor  is 
his  reality  ''in  the  book";  his  only 
reality  lies  in  us. 

Hamlet  is  eternal  Everyman.  He 
is  universal  because  he  is  no  one 
thing  or  person.  His  character  is  a 
mirror  which  flashes  us  back  to  our- 
selves in  jerky,  shifting  patterns, 
showing  our  own  traits. 

Hamlet  is  thus  all  of  us  and  not 
one.  And  far  from  being  a  lovable 
character,  he  is  a  variously  true  one. 
He  is  a  brave  coward,  impulsive  pro- 
crastinator,  and  ambitious  philoso- 
pher, a  believing  unbeliever.  One 
moment  an  obedient  son,  and  do- 
cile, the  next  moment  he  grossly 
underrates  efficient  King  Claudius 
while  artificially  puffing  his  own 
dead  father  with  extreme  praise. 
With    evident    relish    in    his    own 


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word-power  he  tortures  his  guilty, 
cringing  mother  for  exhibiting  those 
very  weaknesses  which  consume  in 
fire  his  own  inner  peace.  His  fa- 
mous advice  to  the  players  is  really 
an  essay  on  temperance  and  emo- 
tional control,  yet  in  his  mother's 
bedroom  just  two  scenes  later  (III. 
3)  Hamlet  tears  himself  to  tatters 
through  his  own  passionate  accusa- 
tions of  his  mother,  splitting  not 
only  her  ears  but  indeed  her  very 
soul.  Possessing  all  the  soldierly 
virtues— courage,  foresight,  endur- 
ance, judgment,  skill  —  and  with 
every  justification  for  blood  revenge, 
nevertheless  he  delays  killing  his 
uncle  for  reasons  unclear  to  himself. 
He  hopes  nobly  but  does  basely;  he 
is  as  brilliant  in  word-play  and  in 
analysis  of  character  as  he  is  bungl- 
ing yet  heroic  in  the  destruction  of 
his  own  happiness  and  that  of  those 
around  him. 

The  Idealizing  Hamlet 

Those  souls  who  have  soared 
beyond  the  clouds  can  suffer  them- 
selves into  the  lowest  and  darkest 
caverns  of  the  bitter,  frustrated  hu- 
man soul.  Such  a  person  is  Ham- 
let. Nor  should  we  forget  that 
Hamlet  exemplifies  the  very  idea 
of  tragedy  in  its  highest,  purest 
form.  He  knew  that,  instead  of 
blaming  the  stars  or  fate,  each  man 
creates  his  own  destiny. 

As  in  all  tragic  heroes,  the  sources 
of  both  Hamlet's  greatness  and  his 
weakness  are  one  and  the  same— 
himself.  At  the  time  of  his  father's 
death,  young  Hamlet  might  be  de- 
fined sketchily  as  intelligent,  clever, 
dramatic,  well-adjusted,  substantial, 
moral,  and  idealistic.  If  he  has  one 
flaw  it  is  the  flaw  of  youth  itself; 
namely,  the  impatient  urge  for  an 


immediate  and  complete  perfection, 
which  he  has  assumed  to  be  his  lot 
in  life.  The  sequence  of  events  fol- 
lowing his  father's  death  devastates 
his  hitherto  unchallenged  idealism. 
Fundamental  to  young  Hamlet  is 
his  complete  honesty;  he  is  not  con- 
cerned with  that  which  seems,  but 
only  with  that  which  is  (I.  2).  He 
is  completely  honest  with  himself 
(so  far  as  he  is  able)  and  expects 
his  world  to  be,  not  seem.  Once 
he  begins  to  realize  this  is  not  so,  his 
inner  vision  is  fractured  and  tragedy 
is  born,  the  two-way  pulling  and 
no-way  going  in  varying  degree  rep- 
resentative of  us  all.  We  might  say 
of  Hamlet  with  Dostoevsky  ''God 
and  the  Devil  are  fighting  there,  and 
the  battlefield  is  his  heart." 

As  the  tension  mounts  within  the 
play,  Hamlet's  own  inner  conflicts 
become  so  strong  as  to  be  unbear- 
able and  in  a  moment  of  intuitive 
genius  he  invents  his  pretended 
madness  which  he  wisely  uses  as  a 
safety  valve  to  let  off  his  steaming 
passion  rather  than  exploding  from 
within.  And  in  the  piercing  frank- 
ness of  the  soliloquies  Hamlet  holds 
back  nothing  from  us.  His  words  do 
not  describe  his  emotion;  they  create 
it.  We  do  not  stand  as  witness  at 
the  moment  of  creation;  instead,  we 
are  feeling  the  same  forces  welling 

up  within  ourselves;  Hamlet  merely 
mouths  them  for  us.  Consider  the 
following  passage,  for  example. 
Horatio  and  Hamlet  pace  the  battle- 
ments at  midnight  hoping  to  see 
the  ghost  whom  Hamlet  has  been 
told  resembles  his  father.  Note 
how  his  tongue  waggles  on,  while 
all  else  within  him  anticipates. 
Herein  is  no  cadence,  no  inner  mu- 


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sic,  but  words  shapeless  and  halt,  ex- 
pressing a  strained  point: 

So  oft  it  chances  in  particular  men, 
That  for  some  vicious  mole  of  nature  in 

them, 
As  in   their  birth — wherein   they  are  not 

guilty, 
Since  nature  cannot  choose  his  origin — 
By  the  o'ergrowth  of  some  complexion, 
Oft   breaking    down   the   pales    [defenses] 

and  forts  of  reason, 
Or   by   some   habit   that   too   much   o'er- 

leavens 
The  form  of  plausive  manners,  that  these 

men — 
Carrying,  I  say,  the  stamp  of  one  defect. 
Being  Nature's  livery,  or  Fortune's  star — 
Their  virtues  else  —  be  they  as  pure  as 

grace. 
As  infinite  as  man  may  undergo — 
Shall  in  the  general  censure  take  corrup- 
tion 
From    that    particular    fault.      The    dram 

of  eale  [evil] 
Doth  all  the  noble  substance  of  a  doubt 
To  his  own  scandal. 
[Enter  Ghost]. 

Hor.     Look,  my  lord,  it  comes! 

Haml.  Angels  and  ministers  of  grace  de- 
fend us! 

Be  thou  a  spirit  of  health  or  goblin 
damned. 

Bring  with  thee  airs  from  Heaven 
or  blasts  from  Hell, 

Be  thy  intents  wicked  or  charita- 
ble. 

Thou  comest  in   such   a   question- 
able  shape 

That  I  will  speak  to  thee.    I'll  call 
thee  Hamlet, 

King,  Father,  royal  Dane.     Oh,  an- 
swer me! 

Let  me  not  burst  in  ignorance,  but 
tell 

Why  thy  canonized  bones,  hearsed 
in  death, 

Have   burst    their   cerements,   why 
the  sepulcher 

Wherein     we     saw     thee     quietly 
inurned 

Hath     oped     his     ponderous     and 
marble  jaws 

To  cast  thee  up  again.  .  .  . 

L4.  23-51 


Thus  the  ghost  unleashed  the 
true  lyric  Hamlet.  Shakespeare's 
ability  to  create  reality  right  into 
our  own  eyes  and  mouths  is  best 
proved  if  the  above  passage  is  read 
aloud  and  repeated,  as  all  Shake- 
speare should  be.  ]V[any  other 
examples  might  be  cited,  among 
them  the  famous  ''Oh,  that  this  too 
too  solid  flesh  would  melt,"  begin- 
ning in  Act  I,  scene  2,  line  129. 

But  skillful  use  of  words  creates 
more  than  mere  words  can  say. 
Really  Hamlet's  words  are  the  ves- 
sels which  ''contain  transaction  be- 
tween Hamlet  and  his  moral  sense," 
the  inner  reality  according  to 
Charles  Lamb,  which,  when  re- 
vealed comprises  nine-tenths  of  the 
play.  Note,  how  different  Hamlets 
cancel  each  other,  discernible  to  us 
only  if  we  realize  that  Hamlet 
speaks  himself  in  complete  truth 
only  in  moments.  Already  he  has 
spoken  his  noble,  "What  a  piece  of 
work  is  a  man";  now  he  qualifies 
one  source  of  his  nobility  more 
tightly: 

.  .  .  What  is  man 

If  his  chief  good  and  market  of  this  time 

Be  but   to   sleep   and   feed?   A  beast,   no 

more. 
Sure,   He  that  made   us  with  such   large 

discourse. 
Looking  before  and  after,  gave  us  not 
That  capability  and  godlike  reason 
To  fust  in  us  unused.  .  .  . 

IV.  4.  33-39 

Noble  and  godlike  as  man  in  the 
abstract  may  be,  Hamlet  detects 
other  attributes  within  individual 
men.  How  painfully  has  he  just 
learned  of  Claudius  that  "one  may 
smile,  and  smile,  and  be  a  villain" 

(1. 5. 108). 

Hamlet  felt  no  regret  in  killing 


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Polonius.  But  when  he  rephes  to 
inquiries  about  the  whereabouts  of 
the  corpse  that  ''within  a  month  you 
shall  nose  him  as  you  go  up  the 
stairs"  (IV.  3.  37),  we  realize  how 
various  Hamlet's  definition  of  man, 
upon  different  occasions,  really  is. 

Regardless,  Hamlet  was  always  as 
honest  as  he  could  be.  It  merits 
note  that  no  one  in  the  play  save 
the  ghost  and  Hamlet  himself  ever 
insinuates  that  he  is  either  weak  or 
cowardly.  And  in  compassion  we 
should  also  remember  with  G.  K. 
Chesterton,  that  "The  duty  that 
Hamlet  shirked  is  exactly  the  sort  of 
duty  that  we  are  all  shirking:  that 
of  dethroning  injustice  and  vindicat- 
ing truth." 

The  Prison  Denmark 

Haml.  Denmark's   a   prison. 

Ros.      Then  is  the  world  one. 

Haml.  A  goodly  one,  in  which  there  are 
many  confines,  wards,  and  dun- 
geons, Denmark  being  one  o'  the 
worst. 

II.  2.  249-253 

Within  this  play  the  dramatist 
Shakespeare  details  Hamlet's  search 
for  identity.  He  recognizes  evil  as 
such,  and  attempts  to  resist  it,  but 
in  vain.  He  realizes  the  sin  of 
Fortinbras'  agressive  war,  which 
will  accomplish  only  the  fulfillment 
of  his  own  ambition  (yet  Hamlet 
envies  him).  He  had  acrid  con- 
tempt for  the  poseur  Osric  (yet  dur- 
ing the  play  Hamlet  acts  out  not 
one  part  at  a  time  but  several) .  He 
would  send  Ophelia,  his  own  true- 
love,  to  a  nunnery  to  prevent  her 
from  becoming  a  ''breeder  of  sin- 
ners." 


It  is  in  his  own  self-revelations  of 
these  conflicts  that  we  find  the  real 
Hamlet.  In  revealing  his  own  suf- 
ferings he  echoes  also  the  weaknesses 
of  those  who  surround  him— those 
whom  he  has  helped  create  in  his 
own  image  much  as  they  helped 
create  him  in  theirs.  While  each 
fulfills  the  other,  identity  is  given 
this  most  powerful  conflict  only 
through  Hamlet's  impassioned  po- 
etic statements.  Herein  lie  the  en- 
during life  and  loftiness  of  the  tragic 
Hamlet. 

Broadly  seen,  Hamlet  is  the  edu- 
cation of  modern  Everyman  as  he 
falls  from  pristine  idealism  and  the 
security  offered  by  the  concept  of 
the  ordered  universe  to  the  aware- 
ness that  "nothing  is  good  or  bad 
but  thinking  makes  it  so."  It  was 
only  by  surviving  such  inner  tor- 
ment and  awakening  that  Hamlet 
earned  his  belief  in  each  man's  right 
to  freedom  of  thought  and  action. 
Through  witnessing  his  emerging 
self-knowledge  we,  too,  can  realize 
more  fully  how  each  of  us  inescap- 
ably creates  a  personal  heaven  or 
hell  here  on  earth;  as  mortals  we 
surely  cast  our  lives,  just  as  he  did. 
Outside  such  a  central  personal  vis- 
ion all  lesser  realities  skitter  away 
like  chaff  in  the  gentle  wind. 


Thoughts  ioi  Discussion 


1.  Which  identity  is  the  real  Hamlet? 

2.  "Since  Hamlet  is  two  people  at 
once,  he  is  therefore  a  hypocrite."  Dis- 
cuss. 

3.  Why  is  Hamlet  probably  the  most 
popular   figure   in    Shakespeare? 

4.  Why  do  we  sympathize  with  Ham- 
let? 


(boaai  (baence  —  Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 

Lesson  11— "As  the  Twig  Is  Bent" 
Elder  John  Fan  Larson 

For  Tuesday,  February  25,  1958 

Objective:  To  illustrate  how  we  are  influenced  by  our  environment,  particularly 
by  the  environment  of  the  home. 

T  IFE'S     experiences     touch     and  ences.    While  all  persons  have  simi- 

mold    the    heart    and    soul    of  lar  endowments  and  are  influenced 

man.     Each  of  us  is  the  result  of  by  similar  things,  yet  each  person 

many  influences,  yet  we  have  com-  is    single    in    kind    and,    therefore, 

mon  needs  and  desires.     The  type  matchless.      How    we    dress,    look, 

of  family  life  we  have  and  how  our  talk,  move,  and  think  make  each  of 

needs  and  desires  are  met,  influence  us  an  individual  different  from  all 

what   we   are.     The   perfection   of  others. 

man  can  be  facilitated  through  the  Our    physical    features    and    the 

family.     Acceptance  of  the  gospel  mental  capacity  with  which  we  are 

in  its  fulness  and  its  wise  applica-  endowed  are  determined  to  a  large 

tion  will  result  in  the  full  spiritual  extent   by   characteristics    inherited 

growth  and  development  of  the  in-  through  our  parents.    Much  of  our 

dividual.    A  person  reared  in  a  home  behavior,  likewise,  is  influenced  by 

where    gospel    principles    are    prac-  our    physical    and    mental    aspects, 

ticed,    adjusts    socially,    obtains    a  The  health  and   condition   of  our 

sense  of  personal  destiny,  a  thirst  bodies,  our  size,  color,  strength,  sex, 

for  knowledge,  and  the  courage  to  intelligence,  and  other  features  in- 

attempt    and    a    pride    in    achieve-  fluence  not  only  our  own  conduct 

ment.     The    love    and    democracy  but  the  response  of  others,  which, 

found  in  such  a  home  develop  self-  in  turn,  affects  us.  This  illustrates 

lessness,  the  ability  to  share,  and  a  the  complex  nature  of  human  be- 

desire  to  care.  havior. 

In  this  lesson  we  shall  consider  While  the  physical  man  is  im- 
the  effects  of  our  environment  upon  portant,  yet  the  fine  points  of  differ- 
us,  particularly  the  environment  of  ence  come  from  our  environment, 
the  home,  in  the  light  of  our  basic  The  world  about  us  is  a  part  of  us, 
needs.  The  following  lesson  will  for  it  influences  our  behavior  pat- 
demonstrate  the  personal  signifi-  terns.  The  family  circle,  our 
cance  of  the  family  to  each  age  friends,  our  teachers,  and  the  other 
group  and  how  their  needs  are  met  people  with  whom  we  come  in  con- 
through  the  family.  tact;  where  we  live,  what  is  said  and 

written    and    taught,    all    influence 

What  We  Are  what  we  are.     World  events,   the 

Each   man   is  an   individual,  the  kind   of   community   in   which   we 

product  of  a  myriad  of  varied  influ-  live,  our  government,  our  income, 

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what  we  have— all  produce  satisfac-  when   given   such  a  choice,  would 

tion  or  anxiety,  in  varying  degrees,  readily  take  the  dime.     The  differ- 

which  color  our  actions.  ence    lies    in    the    background    of 

That  part  of  our  environment  knowledge  upon  which  the  child 
having  the  greatest  influence  is  the  calls  in  making  his  decision, 
home.  It  is  in  the  home  that  per-  Acquisition  of  knowledge  is  not 
sonality  characteristics  are  indelibly  enough.  It  must  be  evaluated  as 
stamped;  it  is  there  that  the  most  acquired.  How  we  evaluate  de- 
good  or  harm  can  be  done.  The  pends,  again,  upon  our  atmosphere 
way  a  person  feeJs  largely  influences  of  people  and  ideas.  The  ability 
how  he  thinks  and  acts.  The  inter-  to  decide  properly  is  the  power  by 
personal  relationships  with  family  which  we  grow  and  develop, 
members  largely  determine  how  we  When  our  storehouse  of  knowl- 
feel  about  people  and  things.  Our  edge  is  sound  and  when  we  have 
feelings  tend  to  make  us  do  that  learned  properly  to  evaluate  that 
which  to  us  is  pleasant,  satisfying,  knowledge,  we  then  are  in  a  posi- 
comfortable,  and  safe,  and  also  tend  tion  to  make  ''decisions  of  charac- 
to  make  us  avoid  the  opposite.  The  ter"  which  can  raise  us  to  the  great- 
deep  grooves  of  habit  and  attitude,  est  heights.  Fortunately,  man  can 
acquired  through  often-encountered  carve  his  own  destiny.  He  can  con- 
situations  and  our  reactions  to  them,  trol  his  own  environment,  at  least 
are,  in  fact,  a  part  of  us.  in   part,  and  with  this  control  he 

Parents  have  the  responsibility  to  can  make  a  success  or  failure  of  his 

teach  basic  virtues.  (See  Lesson  8.)  life.    By  his  ingenuity  he  can  enlist 

Each  President  of  the  Church  has  the  help  of  other  persons,  and  if  he 

taught  the  importance  and   neces-  lives  for  it,  he  is  aided  by  the  Holy 

sity  of  the  individual  gaining  knowl-  Ghost   and    our   Heavenly    Father. 

edge.     'The  glory  of  God  is  intel-  (See  Lesson  8.) 

licence"  has  been  embedded  in  the  ^      r>    •    xt     j 

1  ^    ^    f            T    . ,      1      c  •  4.  T-i,  ^ur  Basic  ISeeds 

heart  of  every  Latter-day  bamt.  1  he  r^^              .            j  j    •         r    n 

T^      1    ^  T        1    c     1.1            1  •       i.  I  he  yearnmgs  and  desires  ot  all 

Prophet  Joseph  Smith,  speaking  to  r  n  •  ?      •     i         i. 

^1    ^   .  ^''  .    \i      ^           1.  XT  persons  fall  into  similar  categories. 

the  saints  in  the  Grove  at  Nauvoo,  Vt        i.i_              j                i.       j 

1           n   u  K            •           J        c    .  How  these  needs  are  met  and  our 
observed,    A  man  is  saved  no  taster  ^       ..    m                t,       i 
.,       1      '       1         11           yy  /T\  Tj  reaction  to  them  somehow  leave  an 
than  he  gets  knowledge  .  .  .    (U.  H.  .        .   .                      -u  u     -         t   j- 
^    TTr    oo\       T^        1  J         £  imprint  upon  our  behavior.     Indi- 
C.   IV:q88).     Knowledge  of  every  . /,        ^            i.    j-  -j  j  u      j 
^    /   .    1                 1     r        J  vidual  needs  may  be  divided  broad- 
nature,  technical  or  general,  ot  good  i    •   .     .i            J 

.^      r           1              •     •  1  ly  into  three  categories: 

or  evil,  of  people  or  principles  or  ^                          ^ 

things,    is    an    important,    integral  (i)    Physiological  needs,  that  is,  those 

part    of    the    individual,    for   this    is  relating   to   a   healthy  functioning  of  our 

his  source  of  reference  in  decision  bodies; 

making.     To    illustrate,    the    child  {'-,   ^^',  "^.^^,  '^  §^«^  intellectually, 

&•      .                          '                  .  socially,  and  spiritually; 

whose  basic  knowledge   concerning  (^^  ^he  need  to  love  and  to  be  loved. 
coins  is  hmited  to  identification  by 

name,  when  offered  his  choice  of  a  i.  Physiological  Needs:     One  of 

nickel    or    a    dime,    would    likely  the    strongest    human    impulses    is 

choose  the  nickel.    A  child  having  man's  desire  to  survive.  This  desire 

knowledge  of  the  value  of  money,  prompts  him  to  seek  food,  clothing, 


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and  shelter.  How  these  needs  are  reassuring  encouragement  to  persist 
met,  even  from  the  first  days  of  hfe,  in  seeking  knowledge, 
influences  the  course  of  life.  That  is  b.  Growing  Socially:  The  eager- 
to  say,  if  our  experiences  in  meet-  ness  with  which  we  pursue  social 
ing  these  needs  are  pleasant,  we  acceptance  illustrates  the  magnitude 
react  pleasantly  and  favorably;  while  of  this  basic  need.  Our  adventure 
stress  and  anxiety  in  the  process  through  life,  in  relation  to  our  fam- 
leave  a  negative  mark  upon  the  ac-  ily  and  home,  spans  the  extremes 
tions  of  man.  Some  of  us  need  from  infancy  and  complete  depend- 
specialized  attention  to  preserve  and  ence  upon  the  home  to  becoming 
prolong  our  lives.  Good  physical  an  adult  and  relatively  independent, 
health  is  an  important  ingredient  Maturity  is  arriving  at  a  healthy 
to  good  mental  health.  While  compromise  between  these  ex- 
physiological  needs  are  important,  tremes.  As  we  venture  forth  from 
and  while  a  minimum  must  be  met  our  homes,  figuratively  speaking,  we 
for  the  continuance  of  life  itself,  go  forth  with  confidence,  if  we  know 
yet  lavish  or  quantitative  ''trim-  we  can  always  return  to  a  home 
mings"  are  unnecessary  to  produce  where  there  is  love  and  security, 
a  Lincoln.  More  often  than  not  This  is  true  of  all  family  members 
extravagance  proves  to  be  a  disad-  from  the  youngest  to  the  oldest, 
vantage  to  the  individual.  Our  social  ambitions  are  met  when 

we  have  status  with  our  associates, 

2.  The  Need  to  Grow:  Most  in-  ^  ^^nse  of  being  a   person  whose 

dividuals  are  possessed  of  a  desire  ^°f*    '^ ,  recognized,    and   a    self- 

to  achieve  intellectually;  all  desire  ^s^^em  which  enables  us  to  meet 

to  be  socially  accepted,  and  many  situations    appropriately    according 

recognize    the    need    for    spiritual  *°  °"''  ^^'^  .^"'^  '^''-     ,     ^,         .  . 

growth.  Latter-day  Saints  know  this  ,     ^-  Spintual  Growth:  The  spirit 

to  be  the  purpose  of  mortality.  °f  "^3"  ^^^s  an  innate  eagerness  to 

return  to  God.  When  properly 
a.  Growing  Intellectually:  Man's  stimulated,  he  pursues  knowledge  of 
hankering  for  accomplishment  has  God  and  his  ways.  He  receives 
brought  forth  principles  and  truths  satisfaction  from  embracing  charac- 
which  have  revolutionized  our  daily  teristics  and  principles  taught  in  the 
lives.  Scientific  discoveries  and  scriptures.  He  has  a  sense  of  per- 
their  applications  have  given  us  sonal  accomplishment  which  pushes 
conveniences  unheard  of  a  few  years  him  ahead  to  seek  his  Heavenly 
ago.  The  fight  against  disease  and  Father  further.  Spiritual  growth 
illness  has  made  tremendous  gains,  does  not  come  automatically,  how- 
Man's  creative  ability  has  produced  ever.  Devotion  and  effort  are  re- 
pleasant  and  interesting  things  rang-  quired  here  as  in  other  fields.  Faith, 
ing  from  hieroglyphics  to  modern  together  with  applied  effort,  results 
skyscrapers,  music,  sculpture,  paint-  in  spiritual  growth.  Parents  can  in- 
ing,  and  all  the  discoveries  of  fluence  the  spiritual  growth  of  their 
science.  For  proper  intellectual  de-  children  by  how  they  think  and 
velopment  each  person  needs  act.  Family  prayer,  devotion  to 
opportunity    to    learn,    along   with  Church  duties,  the  parents'  favor- 


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able  regard  for  Church  leaders,  and 
their  respect  for  Deity,  all  contrib- 
ute to  the  spiritual  growth  of  family 
members. 

And  the  Spirit  gixeth  light  to  every 
man  that  cometh  into  the  world;  and  the 
Spirit  enlighteneth  every  man  through 
the  world,  that  hearkeneth  to  the  voice 
of  the  Spirit. 

And  every  one  that  hearkeneth  to  the 
voiee  of  the  Spirit  cometh  unto  God, 
even  the  Father  (D.  &  C.  84:46-47). 

The  desire  to  accomplish  gives 
vision,  and  having  accomplished,  we 
look  ahead  to  new  horizons.  If  this 
inherent  yearning  is  guided  in  the 
right  direction  it  can  be  a  stimulus 
to  perfection.  The  child  takes  pleas- 
ure in  learning  to  read  or  learning 
to  draw.  The  young  man  takes 
pride  in  being  able  to  run  fast  or 
build.  A  mother's  accomplishment 
may  be  a  happy  baby  or  an  obedient 
child.  A  man  denied  the  oppor- 
tunity to  grow  intellectually,  social- 
ly or  spiritually,  becomes  frustrated, 
and  this  often  results  in  mental  ill- 
ness. A  man's  dream  of  tomorrow, 
sets  his  compass  of  life  today.  This 
is  the  first  step,  followed  by  plan- 
ning, devotion,  and  a  search  for 
knowledge.    The  result  is  growth. 

3.  The  Need  to  Love 
and  to  Be  Loved: 

There  are  few  things  more  im- 
portant to  man  than  to  love  and  to 
be  loved.  Later  we  shall  study  this 
need  in  more  detail.  Briefly,  love 
is  more  important  than  nutrition. 
Love  is  the  nourishment  of  the  soul, 
the  concept  which  reduces  to  a  mini- 
mum the  distance  between  people. 
It  is  the  ''common  denominator"  in 
the  development  of  a  healthy  per- 
sonality through  all  its  stages.  The 
personality  of  a  child  is  shaped  by 


the  love  of  his  parents.  The  love 
that  is  found  in  good  homes  gives 
children  a  feeling  that  all  is  well.  It 
inspires  parents  to  do  for  their  chil- 
dren and  to  weather  hardship  for 
them  and  with  them.  It  is  the 
stability  of  love  that  helps  a  child 
venture  forth  into  the  world  with 
confidence.  The  unloved  child, 
starved  for  affection  and  the  com- 
pany of  others,  will  actually  wither 
in  body  and  spirit.  A  child,  proper- 
ly nourished  with  love  and  affection, 
security,  and  ideals,  has  been  given 
the  ''stuff"  with  which  he  may 
succeed. 

The  Parental  Influence 

The  home  environment  is  set  pri- 
marily by  the  parents.  The  regard 
and  concern  that  parents  have  for 
one  another  and  for  their  children 
is  the  basis  of  the  home  environ- 
ment. If  parents  are  emotionally 
stable  and  secure,  they  will  find  that 
their  natural  impulses  really  suggest 
what  is  best.  In  the  parent-child 
relationships  having  profound  effect 
upon  child  behavior,  there  are, 
broadly  speaking,  four  different 
types  of  home  environment,  al- 
though most  homes  have  some  at- 
tributes of  each. 

1.  Parental  Autocracy:  In  this 
setting,  children  are  required  by 
force  or  fear  to  act  precisely  as  par- 
ents decree.  The  child  has  no 
opportunity  to  exercise  independent 
judgment,  for  all  his  decisions  are 
made  by  others.  The  personality  of 
such  a  child  is  unstable,  withered 
and  weak,  often  for  life.  The  mind, 
like  other  body  parts,  is  developed 
by  use.  He  who  is  not  called  upon 
to  think,  generally  does  not  develop 
his  ability  to  think.  The  home  at- 
mosphere created  by  coercive  par- 


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ents  does  not  provide  for  true  love 
nor  the  opportunities  for  growth. 
Such  an  atmosphere  builds  a  volca- 
no of  resentment  which  one  day 
may  explode.  The  parent  who  gives 
supportive  help  to  his  child's  judg- 
ment-decisions, however,  is  not  an 
autocratic  parent.  Helping  a  child 
through  a  consideration  of  facts  to 
a  conclusion,  is  to  the  mind  what 
physical  support  is  to  the  toddler 
learning  to  walk. 

2.  Parental  Submission:  The  child 
is  ''king"  in  this  type  of  home.  He 
makes  decisions  and  exercises  his 
free  agency  without  parental  inter- 
ference. Somehow  his  parents  be- 
lieve he  will  turn  out  best,  if  they 
let  him  be  his  natural  self.  Unfor- 
tunately, they  have  adbicated  what 
is  likely  their  most  important  role, 
i.  e.,  building  within  the  child  a 
solid  basis  of  evaluated  knowledge 
of  right  and  wrong,  and  ideals  to 
which  he  can  refer  in  the  exercise  of 
his  free  agency.  It  was  never  in- 
tended that  free  agency  be  exercised 
in  a  vacuum.  Children  who  come 
from  an  environment  where  par- 
ents have  adopted  a  ''hands  off" 
policy  often  are  bullies,  are  disliked, 
and  have  little  consideration  for  the 
rights  or  feelings  of  others.  This  en- 
vironment often  stems  from  the  par- 
ents' own  basic  insecurity.  Here 
again,  the  child  is  denied  the  oppor- 
tunities for  intellectual  growth  and 
social  adjustment  because  the  sup- 
portive help  is  missing.  The  spirit- 
ual growth  of  these  family  members 
is  also  stilted.  The  parent  who 
chooses  this  easy  way  is  cruelly  kind, 
but  fails  to  provide  the  love  a  child 
needs  for  stability. 


ents  alternately  rule  and  mis-rule. 
They  teach  their  children  conflicts 
from  what  they  say  and  from  what 
they  do.  They  lack  consistency  in 
their  relationships  with  the  child 
and  in  their  limitations  upon  him. 
Parents,  although  having  good  in- 
tentions, sometimes  become  ab- 
sorbed in  various  activities  and  thus 
fail  to  maintain  with  their  child  a 
consistent  relationship.  Parents  un- 
der stress  often  follow  the  same 
course.  A  child  is  quick  to  note  the 
inconsistency  of  parents  and,  some- 
how, takes  little  security  from  such 
a  setting.  Such  a  child  often  does 
not  know  what  is  expected  of  him, 
nor  the  limits  within  which  he  is 
expected  to  behave.  He  may  easily 
conclude  that  his  parents  and  others 
are  unfair. 

Many  cases  of  vandalism  and 
property  destruction  come  from  per- 
sons reared  in  homes  of  inconsistent 
parents.  These  parents  are  the  first 
to  point  out  how  they  have  ''taught" 
their  children  respect  for  the  rights 
of  others.  Unfortunately,  a  child 
is  not  "taught"  merely  by  being 
"told."  No  one  has  taught  until 
someone  has  learned.  Parental  con- 
fusion often  results  when  one  par- 
ent does  his  job  properly  while  the 
other  does  not.  One  may  be  auto- 
cratic and  the  other  submissive. 
Children  from  such  homes  do  not 
always  become  a  half-way  comprom- 
ise between  the  divergent  parental 
tendencies.  Often  a  child  will 
identify  with  one  parent  or  the 
other,  generally  the  parent  of  the 
same  sex,  and  to  the  extent  that  a 
child  identifies  with  a  parent,  his 
resultant  behavior  favors  such  par- 
ent. 


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Defermfnation:  The  parent  in  this 
type  of  home  is  aware  of  his  child's 
basic  needs:  physiologically,  intel- 
lectually, spiritually,  and  socially. 
Such  a  parent  knows  of  the  child's 
desire  to  become  independent  of 
the  home,  and  his  desire  to  become 
a  separate  individual.  Parents  must 
identify  and  recognize  the  im- 
portance of  each  step.  As  the  child 
grows  and  develops,  parents  will 
reassure  him  of  their  love  and  sup- 
port which  he  can  have  in  the  home, 
yet  they  will  let  him  reach  out  and 
have  experiences  which  develop  him 
as  a  responsible  adult.  His  parents 
instill  within  him  a  belief  in  him- 
self as  a  person,  with  confidence  in 
his  decisions.  The  child  is  not 
forced,  yet  he  is  given  opportuni- 
ties to  grow  intellectually,  and  he  is 
constantly  storing  evaluated  knowl- 
edge to  which  he  can  refer  in  mak- 
ing decisions.  Giving  a  child  love 
and  security  is  not  at  all  inconsistent 
with  teaching  him  to  accept  respon- 
sibility. The  child  learns  fair  play 
if  his  parents  treat  him  fairly.  From 
his  parents  he  learns  to  be  thought- 
ful of  others  and  to  accept  differ- 
ences without  anger.  His  spirit  is 
fed,  and,  while  he  learns  of  God,  he 
moves  toward  him  in  spirit  and  in 
fact. 

Latter-day  Saint  parents  who  live 
the  gospel  will  educate  their  chil- 
dren so  as  to  prepare  them  to  meet 
life's  situations  realistically  and  con- 
structively. They  will  develop  the 
judgment  and  skill  of  each  child  to 
meet  whatever  may  come.  They 
will  not  abandon  their  role  of  teach- 
ing the  child  what  he  should  know, 
nor  will  they  push  him  or  let  him 
fall  from  the  nest  of  parental  influ- 
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Supplemental  References 


1.  'The  Home  on  the  Hill"— Alyce 
Nelson,     The    Reliei    Society    Magazine, 
March  1956,  page  208. 

2.  "Citizenship  and  Self  Understand- 
ing"— Bonaro  W.  Overstreet,  National 
Parent-Teacher,  December  1956,  page  14. 

3.  ''The  Need  to  Know  More  About 
Human  Growth" — Alfred  H.  Washburn, 
M.  D.,  National  Parent-Teacher,  Decem- 
ber 1956,  page  24. 

4.  "Failure  Is  to  Learn  On" — Margaret 
Blair  Johnstone,  Reader's  Digest,  Decem- 
ber 1956,  page  73. 

5.  "The  Controversial  Problem  of  Disci- 
pline," Katherine  M.  Wolf,  Ph.D.,  and 
Aline  B.  Auerbach,  The  Child  Study  As- 
sociation of  America,  Inc.,  132  East  74th 
Street,  New  York  21,  New  York,  30  cents 
per  copy. 

6.  "The  Why  and  How  of  Discipline," 
Aline  B.  Auerbach  and  Faith  Laursen,  The 
Child  Study  Association  of  America,  Inc., 
132  East  74th  Street,  New  York  21,  New 
York,  40  cents  per  copy. 

7.  "Marriage  Is  Now  My  Career,"  Mary 
H.  Robinson,  The  Improvement  Era, 
March  1956,  page  148. 

8.  "Back  to  What  Woodshed?"  Justine 
Wise  Poher,  Public  Affairs  Pamphlet  No. 
232,  Public  Affairs  Pamphlets,  22  East 
38th  Street,  New  York  16,  New  York, 
25  cents  per  copy. 

9.  "The  Part  of  Parents,"  Richard  L. 
Evans,  The  Improvement  Era,  January 
1957,  page  36. 

10.  "Need  for  Belonging,"  Antone  K. 
Romney,  The  Improvement  Era,  May 
1957,  page  324. 

11.  "The  Lengthened  Shadow,"  Rich- 
ard L.  Evans,  The  Improvement  Era,  May 
1957,  page  332. 

12.  "A  Child  of  Any  Age  Is  a  Chal- 
lenge to  Parents,"  Antone  K.  Romney, 
The  Improvement  Era,  February  1957, 
page  84. 

13.  "How  Early  Does  Discipline  Begin?" 
George  Sheviakov,  National  Parent-Teach- 
er, February  1957,  page  4. 

14.  "Becoming  Sensitive  to  Children's 
Fears,"  Jewel  Goldberg,  Dolores  Heid- 
man,  Darwin  North,  Doris  Patterson, 
Feme  Smidderks,  and  Ann  Younger,  Na- 
tional Parent-Teacher,  February  1957, 
page  22. 


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1.  What  are  some  of  the  basic  emo- 
tional, intellectual,  spiritual,  and  physical 
needs?  How  do  the  home  and  family 
help  satisfy  these  needs? 

2.  In  which  category  are  we  most  suc- 
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quently? 

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Friendship  should  not  need  a  chain 
To  hold  the  love  it  shares; 

Love  is  always  struggling  free, 
Breaking  nets  and  snares. 

Friendship  held  too  close  becomes 

A  prison  and  a  pain. 
Seldom  does  the  spirit  rise 

Higher  than  its  chain. 

Friend,  if  you  would  hold  my  love. 

Leave  the  door  ajar. 
Friendship  that  is  free  will  stay, 

Happy  where  you  are. 


S^he  Gld  (Base-(B 


urner 


TheJma  Ireland 


We  sat  around  a  base-burner 

With  jolly,  fat  red  cheeks; 

We  stretched  our  feet  up  to  its  warmth. 

Not  minding  winter  weeks. 

There  was  no  central  heating  then, 

So  in  the  winter  weather, 

Though  we  might  wish  to  be  alone, 

We  had  to  be  together. 

We  had  to  learn  to  give  and  take. 

We  got  used  to  each  other 

And  found  we  liked  the  company 

Of  sister  and  of  brother. 

And  so  the  family  bond  grew  strong 

Within  that  sheltering  cove. 

Encased  in  warmth  and  family  love 

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THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Monthly   Publication   of   the   Relief   Society   of   The   Church  of   Jesus   Christ   of   Latter-day    Saints 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  GENERAL  BOARD 
Belle  S.   Spafford  .-.--.-  President 

Marianne  C.  Sharp  __-_-_  First  Counselor 

Helen   W.   Anderson  -----  Second   Counselor 

Hulda  Parker  ------  Secretary-Treasurer 

Anna  B.  Hart  Evon  W.  Peterson  Mildred  B.  Eyring  Elna  P.  Haymond 

Edith  S.  Elliott  Louise  W.  Madsen  Gladys  S.  Boyer  Annie  M.  Ellsworth 

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Alberta  H.  Christensen         Manwaring  Wealtha   S.    Mendenhall 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE 

Editor          --_-------__  Marianne  C.  Sharp 

Associate  Editor          ----------  Vesta  P.  Crawford 

General  Manager           ----------  Belle  S.   Spafford 


Vol.  44 


DECEMBER   1957 


NO.   12 


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SPECIAL  FEATURES 

Arrival  of  the  Shepherds  788 

Jesus   Is  the  Christ  Testimonies  of  the  First  Presidency  789 

Live  and  Learn  Forever  816 

Testimony  of  the  Stick  of  Joseph  Louise  S.  Cotterell  820 

Christmas   1884  Vernessa  Miller  Nagle  824 

FICTION 

Merry  Christmas,  Mother!   Rosa  Lee  Lloyd  790 

A  Grandma  for  Christmas  Myrtle  M.  Dean  806 

Something  Lacking  Frances  Carter  Yost  826 

GENERAL  FEATURES 

Sixty  Years   Ago  812 

Woman's  Sphere  Ramona  W.  Cannon  813 

Editorial:  The  Message  of  Christmas  Marianne  C.  Sharp  814 

New  Serial   "Elizabeth's  Children"   to  Begin  in  January  822 

Notes  to  the  Field:  Christmas  Presents  for  Relief  Society  Women  815 

Notes  From  the  Field:     Relief  Society  Activities  Hulda  Parker  835 

Birthday    Congratulations    863 

From  Near  and  Far 864 

FEATURES  FOR  THE  HOME 

Merry,  Merry  Christmas!  Helen  Spencer  Williams  798 

Holiday  Guests  Deserve  the  Best  Helen  W.   Anderson  817 

Bodell  Christine  H.  Jensen  Crochets  Prize-Winning  Rugs  823 

Tie  Your  Ideas  With  String  Sylvia  Pezoldt  833 

Quick   Christmas   Ideas Elizabeth   Williamson  863 

LESSON  DEPARTMENT 

Theology:     Qualifications  of  Those  Who  Labor  in  the  Ministry  Roy  W.   Doxey  838 

Visiting  Teacher  Messages:     "Fear  Not  to  Do  Good,  My  Sons,  for  Whatsoever  Ye  Sow, 

That  Shall  Ye  Also  Reap"  Christine  H.  Robinson  844 

Work  Meeting:     The  Importance  of  Insurance  William  F.  Edwards  845 

Literature:  King  Lear  Briant  S.  Jacobs  848 

Social  Science:     Families  Have  Members  John  Farr  Larson  855 

POETRY 

Bless  This  House — Frontispiece  Maude  Rubin  787 

For  You  at  Christmas  Sylvia  Probst   Young  797 

Christmas  Is  Being  Home  Christie  Lund  Coles  805 

Finale  Dorothy  J.   Roberts  819 

Childhood  Home  Mabel  Law  Atkinson  823 

Blessed  Among  Women  Eleanor  W.  Schow  832 

A  Christmas  Prayer  Grace   Ingles   Frost  834 

Of  Dreams  Enola  Chamberlin  847 

Shepherd  Lad  Rose   T.   Graham  862 

Upon  a  Holy  Night  Iris  W.   Schow  862 


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Maude  Ruhin 

The  cookie  jars  are  filled,  the  puddings  made; 
The  pine  fire's  ruddy  comfort  fades  to  coals. 
I  fill  the  small,  limp  stockings,  trim  the  staid 
Green  spruce  with  bells  and  baubles;  fill  the  bowls 
With  popcorn  balls  and  raisins.    On  the  wall 
The  motto  ''Bless  This  House"  has  potency 
To  call  this  yearly  benison  for  all, 
A  bridge  of  thought,  time's  fragile  legacy  . .  , 
Now  childhood  memories  come  streaming  far 
To  tie  earth's  tinsel  to  the  sacred  star! 


The  Cover:   Madonna  and  Child,  From  a  Painting  by  Sichel 
A  Perry  Picture 

Frontispiece:  Christmas  Mantel  in  the  Home  of  Florence  C.  W'ihiams 
Photograph  by  Hal  Rumel 

Cover  Design  by  Evan  Jensen 


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ARRIVAL  OF  THE  SHEPHERDS 


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ND  it  came  to  pass  in  those  days,  that  there  went  out  a  decree  from 

Caesar  Augustus,  that  all  the  world  should  he  taxed.  .  .  . 

And  all  went  to  he  taxed,  every  one  into  his  own  city. 

And  Joseph  also  went  up  from  GalileCy  out  oi  the  city  of  Nazareth, 
into  Judaea,  unto  the  city  of  David,  which  is  called  Bethlehem.  .  .  , 

To  he  taxed  with  Mary  his  espoused  wife,  being  great  with  child.  .  .  . 

And  so  it  was,  that,  while  they  were  there,  the  days  were  accomplished 
that  she  should  he  delivered. 

And  she  brought  forth  her  firstborn  son,  and  wrapped  him  in  swad- 
dling clothes,  and  laid  him  in  a  manger;  because  there  was  no  room  for 
them  in  the  inn. 

And  there  were  in  the  same  country  shepherds  abiding  in  the  field, 
keeping  watch  over  their  flock  by  night. 

And,  lo,  the  angel  of  the  Lord  came  upon  them,  and  the  glory  of  the 
Lord  shone  round  about  them:  and  they  were  sore  afraid. 

And  the  angel  said  unto  them.  Fear  not:  for,  behold,  I  bring  you  good 
tidings  of  great  joy,  which  shall  be  to  all  people. 

For  unto  you  is  born  this  day  in  the  city  of  David  a  Saviour,  which  is 
Christ  the  Lord. 

And  this  shall  be  a  sign  unto  you;  Ye  shall  iind  the  babe  wrapped  in 
swaddling  clothes,  lying  in  a  manger. 

And  suddenly  there  was  with  the  angel  a  multitude  of  the  heavenly 
host  praising  God,  and  saying. 

Glory  to  God  in  the  highest,  and  on  earth  peace,  good  will  toward 
men  (Luke  2:1-14). 


y^esus  S/s  the   (^hnst 


TESTIMONIES  OF  THE  FIRST  PRESIDENCY 

President  David  O.  McKay 

.  .  .  acceptance  of  the  divinity  of  Christ's  mission  and  comphance  with 
the  principles  of  his  gospel,  give  assurance  of  immortality  and  eternal  life. 

I  testify  that  a  knowledge  of  his  existence  and  of  the  truth  of  his 
gospel  is  the  source  of  the  greatest  comfort  and  happiness  to  man.  .  .  } 

Brethren,  I  know  as  I  know  I  am  looking  into  your  faces  that  the 
gospel  of  Jesus  Christ  is  true  and  that  he  is  my  Savior,  as  real  as  he  was 
when  Thomas  said,  with  bowed  head,  ''My  Lord  and  my  God!"^ 

President  Stephen  L  Richards 

I  know  that  our  Redeemer  lives.  I  know  that  he  is  the  Savior  of  man- 
kind. I  know  he  has  revealed  himself  through  his  chosen  prophets,  and 
I  know  that  his  divine  gospel  is  the  only  plan  which  will  bring  salvation 
and  exaltation  to  man  and  peace  to  a  distracted  world.  I  thank  God  from 
the  depths  of  my  soul  for  the  transcendent  gift  of  his  Son,  the  Lord  of 
the  earth,  the  supreme  Giver  of  all  time  in  all  the  world.^ 

President  J.  Reuben  CJark,  Jr. 

And  now  may  I,  of  the  lowliest  of  the  lowly  who  seek  to  serve  him, 
and  fully  acknowledging  my  own  weaknesses  and  imperfections,  bear  in 
deep  humility  my  own  testimony,  born  of  the  Spirit,  that  Jesus  is  the 
Christ,  the  Son  of  the  Living  God,  the  Only  Begotten  in  the  flesh,  chosen 
before  the  foundations  of  the  earth  were  laid  to  be  the  Redeemer  of  the 
World,  the  First  Fruits  of  the  Resurrection,  through  and  by  whom  the 
spirits  and  bodies  of  all  men  will,  in  the  due  time  of  the  Lord,  be  reunited 
and  resurrected  from  the  grave,  ''they  who  have  done  good  in  the  resur- 
rection of  the  just,  and  they  who  have  done  evil  in  the  resurrection  of 
the  unjust." 

May  I  be  preserved  in  this  testimony  till  I  lay  down  my  body  in  my 
last  sleep,  I  pray,  in  the  Lord's  name.  Amen.* 


^Conference  Report,  April  1953,  pp.  18-19. 

^Gospel  Ideals,  page  45. 

3 Where  Is  Wisdom?  page  322. 

'^On  the  Way  to  Immoitality  and  Eternal  Life,  page  77. 


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Merry  Christmas,  Mother! 

Rosa  Lee  Lloyd 


4  4  IV  T  OW  listen,  honey/'  Joe 
^  said,  smiling  at  Shirley 
over  his  newspaper.  ''I 
think  it's  a  great  idea  for  your 
mother  to  come  for  Christmas.  We 
can  afford  to  show  her  a  good  time 
on  her  first  visit." 

Shirley  felt  her  nerves  tighten. 
All  the  lazy,  lovely  months  of  living 
here  alone  with  Joe  since  their  mar- 
riage last  June,  faded  away  like  sun- 
shine before  a  thunderstorm. 

"Oh,  Joe,"  she  breathed,  ''if  you 
knew  what  Christmas  means  to 
Mother,  you'd  run  for  the  nearest 
desert!" 

Joe's  mild  blue  eyes  crinkled  as 
he  folded  the  paper  and  put  it  be- 
side his  breakfast  plate. 

'Tou're  making  mountains,"  he 
teased.  'Tour  mother  loves  Christ- 
mas. Why  shouldn't  she  come 
down  to  California  and  spend  it 
with  her  only  daughter?  Perfectly 
natural,  I'd  say.  Be  a  good  girl," 
Joe  coaxed.  "Write  back  and  tell 
her  we'd  love  to  have  her  for  Christ- 
mas. We  won't  make  a  lot  of  work 
about  it.  We  can  eat  out  or  we 
can  buy  a  turkey  ready-cooked  at 
Hammond's.  They  deliver  them, 
stuffing  n'everything.    Even  gravy!" 

"Gravy!"  Shirley  scoffed.  "Imag- 
ine Mother  eating  restaurant  tur- 
key and  gravy  on  Christmas. 
Imagine!"  She  began  to  laugh,  a 
shaky  kind  of  laugh  that  made  Joe's 
brows  worry  together. 

"What's  so  funny?"  he  demand- 
ed. "You  should  be  mighty  glad 
your  husband  wants  your  mother  to 
come." 

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Shirley  bit  her  lip. 

"It's  because  you  don't  realize," 
she  told  him.  "You  were  a  bach- 
elor, living  with  other  bachelors, 
when  you  met  me  at  that  office 
party.  And  you  went  to  a  boys' 
school  before  that  because  your 
parents  were  dead,  and  you  didn't 
have  a  real  home.  And  then  you 
married  me,  and  I'm  glad  to  live 
free  and  easy  without  a  schedule  of 
any  kind.  I  like  to  eat  out  or  have 
chili  and  sandwiches  while  we 
watch  TV.  Any  old  hit  or  miss 
way  you  want  to  live  suits  me. 
But  Joe,  Mother  doesnt  live  this 
way.  She  wants  order  and  planned 
gracious  living,  as  she  calls  it.  And 
Christmas!  If  she  had  a  slipshod 
Christmas,  she'd  feel  that  she  was 
a  failure." 

Joe  groaned. 

"So  it's  that  bad!  Well,  she's 
still  your  mother,  and  I  like  her.  I 
only  met  her  when  she  met  us  in 
Salt  Lake  City  for  our  wedding.  How 
did  she  ever  have  a  pixie-faced 
daughter,  with  red  hair  and  wicked 
little  glints  in  her  eyes?" 

"I'm  like  my  Dad,"  Shirley  an- 
swered, trying  to  force  a  smile.  "No 
sense  of  order  or  responsibility;  get 
up  with  the  sun  one  morning  or 
sleep  till  noon  the  next.  You  can 
guess  what  Mother's  life  was  like 
with  Dad  and  me,  before  he  was 
killed  in  an  accident  in  South 
America." 

The  clock  on  the  little  shelf 
above  the  breakfast  table  chimed 
the  half  hour.  Joe  stood  up  and 
reached  for  his  coat. 


MERRY  CHRISTMAS,  MOTHER! 


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'Tell  her  to  come  down/'  he  con- 
cluded. ''We  can  have  her  kind 
of  Christmas  this  year." 

Shirley  sighed.  Joe  couldn't 
realize  what  it  meant,  she  thought, 
dismally. 

''Okay/'  she  managed,  "but  don't 
say  I  didn't  warn  you!" 

AFTER  Joe  had  kissed  her  and 
gone  out  to  the  garage,  whis- 
tling, Shirley  wrote  a  letter  to  her 
mother.  They  would  make  a  real 
Christmas,  she  told  her,  the  kind 
she  was  used  to,  and  they  wanted 
her  to  take  the  plane  at  their  ex- 
pense and  arrive  next  Saturday, 
Christmas  Eve. 

Shirley  felt  happy  when  she  gave 
the  mailman  the  letter.  It  was  nice 
to  have  a  generous  husband  who 
wanted  to  make  her  mother  happy. 

The  telephone  was  ringing  when 
she  went  back  into  the  house,  and 
she  sat  down  lazily  to  answer  it. 
Kit  Brown  always  called  early  every 
morning.  Kit  was  bubbling  with 
an  idea. 

"Look,  hon,"  she  raced  on.  "Let's 
go  to  Las  Vegas  for  Christmas.  You 
and  Joe,  Leone  and  Steve,  Phil  and 
me.  We  can  have  fun,  there's  a  big, 
new  holiday  show.  I  can't  bear  the 
thought  of  trimming  a  tree  or  cook- 
ing a  turkey.  And  Phil  doesn't 
care.  He's  still  a  bachelor  in  his 
ways.  Fll  bet  Joe  is,  too.  They 
lived  together  so  long." 

Shirley  caught  her  breath.  The 
plan  would  suit  her  to  a  T.  But 
they  just  couldn't  go.    Not  now. 

"We  can't  go,"  she  almost  cried. 
"Mother's  coming  on  Christmas 
Eve!" 

"Can't  you  make  an  excuse  or 
something?"  Kit  asked. 

"Not  now.    We  are  painting  the 


extra  room  tonight  so  it  will  be 
ready  for  mother  by  Christmas 
Eve." 

Kit  sighed.  "Sorry,  hon.  We'll 
miss  you." 

Shirley  put  the  receiver  back  in 
its  cradle,  thinking  how  she'd  like 
to  go  to  Las  Vegas.  But  she  might 
as  well  forget  it  and  start  planning 
Christmas.  There  wasn't  a  minute 
to  lose. 

She  reached  for  the  pad  and  pen- 
cil and  wrote  rapidly.  Monday, 
paint  the  spare  room;  Tuesday,  buy 
the  ingredients  for  mother's  fruit 
bread  and  mince  pies.  They  should 
be  baked  by  Thursday.  She  would 
make  her  favorite  lemon-rind  candy 
on  that  day,  too,  while  the  bread 
and  pies  were  baking.  That  left 
Friday  to  get  the  house  cleaned, 
order  the  turkey  and  groceries,  and 
remember  to  leave  the  bread  out 
so  it  would  be  dry  for  stuffing.  She 
must  write  for  those  recipes  her 
mother  always  used  for  oyster 
sauce,  creamed  onions,  and  toasted 
almond  rings.  And  she  had  to 
shop  for  curtains  for  the  spare 
room! 

There  was  so  much  to  do  she 
couldn't  think  straight.  She  went 
reluctantly  to  the  spare  room  and 
began  the  tedious  job  of  packing 
the  things  they  had  thrown  in  there 
for  the  last  six  months. 

f\^  Thursday  the  answering  letter 
came  from  her  mother.  Shirley 
was  in  the  spare  room  hanging  the 
new  curtains  when  she  saw  the  mail- 
man at  the  door.  Mother  wrote 
that  a  real  Christmas  with  Shirley 
and  Joe  was  her  dearest  wish.  And 
wouldn't  it  be  fun,  she  suggested  in 
her  sweet,  persuasive  way,  to  be 
Santa  Claus  for  some  unfortunate 


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family  the  way  they  had  always 
done  every  Christmas  Eve? 

Shirley  felt  despair  mounting  in 
her.  Here  she  was  swamped  with 
work,  and  her  mother  expected  her 
to  take  care  of  another  family,  too! 

She  strode  to  the  telephone  and 
dialed  Joe's  number.  He  must 
come  home  at  once,  she  told  his 
office  girl.    She  needed  him. 

By  the  time  Joe's  green  sports 
car  had  swung  into  the  driveway 
and  he  bounded  up  the  front  steps, 
Shirley  had  calmed  down  somewhat. 

Joe  flopped  into  a  chair.  "What's 
emergency  about  that?"  he  de- 
manded. "I  thought  you'd  broken 
your  neck  or  something!" 

''Oh,  Joe,"  she  cried  against  his 
shoulder.  ''Can't  you  see  what  it 
means?  We'll  have  to  shop  for 
toys  and  groceries  and  soap.  They 
always  need  soap.  It  takes  dozens 
of  bars  of  soap!" 

"We  can  afford  a  httle  soap,"  Joe 
soothed  her. 

"A  lot  of  soap,''  she  corrected. 

"Okay,  then.  A  lot  of  soap.  I 
got  my  bonus  check  this  morning, 
more  than  I  thought  it  would  be. 
Enough  extra  to  buy  toys  and  stuff 
for  some  family  of  kids.  So  don't 
worry.  I'll  make  arrangements.  You 
can  forget  about  the  whole  thing. 
Your  mother  and  I  will  go  out 
there  after  she  gets  here  on  Christ- 
mas Eve." 

He  pushed  her  gently  to  her  feet 
and  stood  up.  His  eyes  brightened 
as  he  looked  down  the  hall  toward 
the  spare  room. 

"Say!"  he  beamed.  "I  like  those 
curtains.  They  dress  up  the  whole 
place.  And  that  paint  job  turned 
out  fine,  didn't  it?  Of  course  it's 
not  the  pink  we  thought  it  would 
be." 


Shirley  smiled.  "Mother  will 
like  it,"  she  said,  "because  it's  sort 
of  a  heather  color.  I  thought  the 
pale  blue  curtains  set  it  off." 

"They  sure  do!  I'm  real  proud 
of  it,"  Joe  agreed.  "We  should've 
fixed  that  room  months  ago.  It's 
been  a  black  spot  to  me." 

"Why,  Joe!"  Shirley  gasped.  "I 
thought  you  liked  it  for  a  catch- 
ah!" 

"I  like  it  this  way,"  he  said,  start- 
ing toward  the  door.  "I'll  be  home 
early  and  help  you." 

AFTER  Joe  drove  away,  Shirley 
sat  down  with  a  thoughtful  air. 
The  blue  curtains  were  pretty,  but 
she  hadn't  known  until  this  mo- 
ment that  Joe  was  the  kind  of  fel- 
low who  would  pay  attention  to  a 
pair  of  new  curtains.  Maybe  there 
were  a  lot  of  little  things  she  didn't 
know  about  Joe. 

He  came  home  an  hour  earlier 
than  usual.  Shirley  was  in  the 
kitchen  mixing  the  diced  citrus  peel 
for  the  fruit  bread. 

"Ummm!  Smells  good  in  here," 
he  said,  as  he  tossed  his  hat  on  the 
table  and  pulled  her  onto  his  lap. 
"Nice  to  find  you  home,  honey," 
he  whispered  against  her  cheek. 
"Real  nice." 

Shirley  sat  quietly  in  his  arms 
wondering  why  he  hadn't  told  her 
before  that  it  mattered  whether  she 
was  here  when  he  got  home. 

She  and  Kit  and  Leone  had  been 
in  the  habit  of  meeting  for  lunch 
nearly  every  day,  and  visiting  until 
time  for  their  husbands  to  be  home. 
No,  she  hadn't  thought  it  made  any 
difference  to  Joe. 

"Guess  what?"  he  laughed.  "The 
boss  gave  us  our  choice  of  a  five- 
pound  box  of  candy  or  a  fifteen- 


MERRY  CHRISTMAS,  MOTHER! 


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pound  turkey.  I  took  the  turkey. 
I  dashed  right  out  to  the  warehouse 
and  had  my  first  pick.  It  is  a 
beauty,  clean  as  a  whistle,  and  not 
a  pin  feather!" 

Shirley  kept  her  face  hidden  on 
Joe's  shoulder.  She  really  didn't 
understand  him  at  all.  This  Joe  who 
was  helping  her  get  ready  for  her 
mother  wasn't  the  foot-loose  bach- 
elor she  had  thought  she  married. 

TOE  must  have  secretly  despised 
•^  the  way  they  had  been  living, 
snatching  meals  any  old  place  at 
any  old  time.  He  must  have 
thought  she  didn't  know  how  to 
cook  or  make  things  attractive.  But 
she  did  know  how,  she  thought,  de- 
fensively, because  her  mother  had 
taught  her  before  she  came  to  Cali- 
fornia to  work.  But  Joe  had  told 
her  he  liked  canned  stew  and  ta- 
males,  and  those  frozen  pies  they 
advertised  on  television. 

She  got  to  her  feet  with  a  little 
bounce.  She'd  really  show  him  a 
thing  or  two  that  he  didn't  know 
about  her. 

''Would  you  like  a  nice  steak?" 
she  suggested,  twinkling  at  him. 
''And  a  baked  potato?" 

"Baked  potatoes  take  time,"  he 
argued.    "I'm  a  starving  man." 

Shirley  shook  her  head.  "I  put 
them  in  the  oven  when  I  baked  the 
pies.  They're  nearly  done.  And 
I  made  popovers,  too.  Mother's 
recipe.    Never  fails." 

Joe  gave  her  a  strange  look. 

"Sounds  good,"  he  said.  "And 
then  after  dinner,  let's  go  shopping 
for  that  family." 

Shirley  swung  around. 

"But,  Joe!  We  don't  know  about 
them  yet.    How  many  or  anything." 


He  took  a  slip  of  paper  from  his 
wallet. 

"Yes,  we  do.  Mrs.  Lucy  Groves, 
a  widow  with  six  little  kids.  Oldest 
boy  eight.  How  about  slacks  and 
a  sweater  for  him?" 

"And  a  space  helmet?"  Shirley 
suggested. 

"Why,  sure!  A  space  helmet. 
Why  didn't  I  think  of  that?  And 
there's  another  boy  six  and  four 
little  girls.  We'll  have  to  go  doll 
hunting,  too.  Maybe  you  can  make 
some  extra  doll  clothes." 

CHIRLEY  threw  her  hands  up. 
"Now  listen,  Mr.  Joe  Markham," 
she  said  flatly.  "I'm  knee-deep 
already.  I  haven't  time  for  doll 
clothes." 

A  flashy,  yellow  convertible 
whizzed  into  the  driveway,  and  a 
horn  honked  as  though  the  owner 
felt  very  chipper. 

"What  the  blazes!"  Joe  grumbled, 
looking  out  of  the  window.  "Here's 
Kit  and  Phil.  We  haven't  time  for 
company!" 

But  they  stayed  for  dinner. 
Shirley  had  enough  potatoes  and 
she  cut  the  big  sirloin  steak  into 
four  pieces.  There  were  plenty  of 
string  beans  and  a  green  salad  and 
the  popovers  were  delicious  with 
apricot  jam. 

Phil  leaned  back  in  his  chair  with 
a  quizzical  grin. 

"Say,  Shirley,  I  didn't  know  you 
could  cook.  I  thought  you'd  starve 
if  you  lost  the  can  opener.  Just 
like  us." 

"Hidden  talent,"  Shirley  tossed 
back. 

Joe  ate  as  though  he  had  been 
starving  for  weeks.  Once  he 
glanced  at  Shirley  wonderingly,  but 


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there  was  a  flash  of  pride  in  it, 
too. 

''Who's  fighting  on  TV  tonight?" 
Phil  asked. 

Joe  answered  quickly,  "We  can't 
watch  TV  tonight,  Phil.  Or  the 
rest  of  the  week.  We've  got  a 
family  to  care  for." 

"A  family!"  Phil  repeated. 

''A  bunch  of  little  kids  who  need 
a  Santa  Glaus,"  Joe  explained. 

Phil  took  a  drink  of  water,  then 
put  his  glass  down  thoughtfully. 
''So  you're  playing  Santa  Glaus,"  he 
mused.  "You're  the  last  guy  in 
the  world  I  expected  to  see  in  a  red 
suit  and  long  white  whiskers!" 

Joe's  head  jerked  up. 

"Say,  that's  an  idea.  White 
whiskers  and  a  red  suit.  Thanks, 
Phil.  Shirley's  mother  will  like 
that.  We  want  everything  right 
for  her." 

Shirley  couldn't  swallow.  Joe 
meant  it,  she  thought,  the  wonder 
of  it  swelling  in  her  heart.  He  is 
going  to  dress  up  for  those  kids! 

"I  don't  get  it,  Joe,"  Phil  went 
on.  "You  need  relaxation  after  that 
grind  at  the  office.  A  trip  to  Las 
Vegas  would  be  just  the  medicine." 

Joe  shook  his  head. 

"Not  for  us,  Phil.  We  have  a 
job  to  do.  That's  why  we  have  to 
shop  tonight.    Want  to  go  along?" 

Phil  looked  across  the  table  at 
Kit. 

She  nodded.  "Let's  go  along. 
We  might  find  something  cute  for 
my  sister's  kids  instead  of  giving 
them  a  check." 

'T^HE     next    afternoon     Kit    and 
Leone  came  over  while  Shirley 
was  baking  the  fruit  bread. 

"I  had  a  brainstorm  after  we  got 
home  last  night,"  Kit  explained.  "I 


told  Leone  about  those  dolls  you 
bought.  So  we  rummaged  through 
our  stuff!" 

She  dumped  a  sackful  of  bright 
ribbons,  laces,  and  fluffy  bits  of  fur 
on  the  glass-topped  table  before  the 
fireplace. 

Shirley  stared  at  them.  There 
were  enough  to  make  fancy  doll 
clothes  for  a  dozen  dolls;  little  hats, 
too,  and  velvet  coats  trimmed  with 
fur. 

Leone  and  Kit  began  to  sort  them 
over,  chatting  about  a  piece  of  light 
blue  taffeta  that  would  make  an 
adorable  dress  for  a  yellow-haired 
doll. 

Shirley  couldn't  believe  it!  Leone 
and  Kit  making  doll  clothes!  They 
had  worked  in  the  same  office  with 
her,  and  since  they  married  last 
August  they  had  lived  as  they 
pleased. 

That  is,  Shirley  thought,  they  had 
been  like  that  until  this  moment. 
Now  they  were  natural  young  wom- 
en, bent  over  a  table  of  doll  clothes. 
It  was  as  though  flowers  had  blos- 
somed through  the  snow. 

Shirley's  throat  was  suddenly  dry 
and  aching.  She  was  terribly  afraid 
she  was  going  to  cry,  so  she  made 
an  excuse  and  went  back  to  the 
kitchen.  She  sliced  a  loaf  of  fresh 
fruit  bread,  poured  three  glasses  of 
milk,  and  put  them  on  a  tray  with 
a  plate  of  nippy  cheese. 

If  Mother  were  preparing  this, 
she  thought,  she  would  have  a  flower 
in  a  vase  to  set  it  off,  and  she  would 
carry  the  tray  as  though  it  were 
loaded  with  precious  jewels.  Every 
woman  is  a  queen  in  her  own  home, 
she  had  told  Shirley  many  times. 

All  at  once,  and  for  the  first  time 
since  she  had  left  home  a  year  ago, 
Shirley  was  very  lonesome  for  her 


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mother.  Why  hadn't  she  ap- 
preciated the  countless  httle  things 
she  had  done  to  make  their  home  a 
place  of  comfort,  harmony,  and 
loveliness,  during  those  unsettled 
years  when  Shirley  was  growing  up? 

Even  when  their  finances  were 
low  and  Daddy  was  away  on  some 
project,  still  her  mother  had  been 
able,  somehow,  to  make  things  at- 
tractive. 

Shirley  stood  very  still  remember- 
ing turnip  greens  topped  with 
sliced  hardboiled  eggs  and  bran  muf- 
fins fresh  from  the  oven. 

And  she  could  see  again  the  red 
geraniums  encircled  with  sprigs  of 
homegrown  holly  in  the  center  of 
their  Christmas  table  the  lean  year 
that  her  Daddy  didn't  send  a  check. 

With  her  eyes  misty  she  reached 
for  the  African  violet  on  the  win- 
dow ledge  and  placed  it  in  the  mid- 
dle of  the  tray;  then  she  lifted  her 
head  and  carried  it  proudly  into  the 
living  room  as  though  it  were  load- 
ed with  something  precious. 

TOE  brought  the  tree  home  on  Sat- 
^  urday  morning.  They  decided 
to  decorate  it  before  her  mother  ar- 
rived at  six  o'clock. 

The  Christmas  Eve  dinner  was  in 
the  oven  ready  to  be  served  when 
they  returned  from  the  airport. 
Shirley  had  planned  one  of  her 
mother's  special  dinners:  a  Boston 
butt  roast  of  pork,  baked  apples,  a 
casserole  of  navy  beans  flavored  with 
molasses  and  mustard,  brown  bread, 
and  a  tossed  green  salad. 

The  tree  was  twice  as  large  as 
Shirley  had  expected,  but  Joe  was 
so  pleased  with  it  she  didn't  have 
the  heart  to  suggest  that  they  ex- 
change it  for  a  smaller  one,  even 
though  they  would  have  to  move 


the  piano  or  the  television  out  of 
the  living  room  to  make  a  place 
for  it. 

After  they  moved  the  television 
set  and  put  the  big  tree  in  front  of 
the  picture  window,  Shirley  sat 
down  on  the  settee  to  rest  a  bit. 
She  took  a  long,  deep  breath,  think- 
ing how  everything  smelled  like 
Christmas.  The  pungent  odor  of 
pine,  the  oranges  and  apples  on  the 
buffet;  the  spicy  fragrance  from 
the  plum  pudding  she  had  decided 
to  make  at  the  last  minute,  and  the 
dinner  baking  in  the  oven. 

She  watched  Joe  sprinkle  the  tree 
with  sparkling  snow.  It  was  their 
very  first  tree  together,  and  all  the 
ornaments  were  brand  new.  When 
he  touched  them  his  eyes  were 
eager  and  bright,  as  though  it  were 
the  first  tree  he  had  ever  really 
owned.  Maybe  it  is,  she  thought, 
remembering  that  he  had  lived  in  a 
boys'  school  until  he  was  sixteen. 

Her  heart  tightened  and  she 
closed  her  eyes.  If  it  hadn't  been 
for  her  mother,  Joe  wouldn't  be 
trimming  a  tree;  there  wouldn't  be 
a  huge  box  in  the  back  of  their  car 
loaded  with  dolls  and  toys  and  good 
things  to  eat,  and  nice  warm  sweat- 
ers and  slacks  and  —  she  swallowed 
hard  —  and  pretty  little  doll  clothes 
that  Kit  and  Leone  had  made,  all 
ready  for  Lucy  Groves'  children. 
And  their  own  home  wouldn't  be  a 
shining  miracle  with  Christmas  in 
every  corner! 

Shirley  got  to  her  feet  quickly 
and  began  to  unwind  the  tinsel  for 
Joe  to  drape  on  the  branches. 

"Pretty  stuff,"  he  smiled.  But 
she  didn't  answer.  She  was  too 
choked  up. 

It  was  a  busy  afternoon,  but  by 
five   o'clock  everything  was   ready. 


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Joe  stood  in  the  center  of  the  hving 
room  with  a  big,  satisfied  smile. 

"Think  shell  like  it?"  he  asked 
Shirley.  'TIave  we  forgotten  any- 
thing?" 

"She'll  love  it,  Joe.  And  we 
haven't  forgotten  a  thing." 

The  doorbell  rang. 

"Merry  Christmas,"  Phil  called. 
"We're  in  a  hurry,  but  we  stopped 
by  anyway." 

"Good!"  Joe  said.    "Come  in." 

They  trailed  in  with  their  gaily 
colored  packages. 

"Sure  wish  you  two  were  going 
along!" 

Phil  slapped  Joe  on  the  back. 

"We'll  miss  you/'  Steve  said  in 
his  jolly  way. 

"Same  here,"  Joe  answered. 

T/TT  and  Leone  were  strangely 
quiet  as  they  put  their  packages 
under  the  big,  sparkling  tree  and 
took  the  packages  Shirley  handed  to 
them  in  return. 

"Ummm!  Sure  smells  good  in 
here!"  Phil  clicked  his  tongue. 

"It  sure  does,"  Steve  echoed. 
"Smells  like  Christmas  when  I  was 
a  kid." 

Leone  pulled  her  fur  stole  close 
around  her  as  though  she  was  shiv- 
ering. 

"Let's  go,"  she  said. 

The  telephone  rang  sharply,  and 
Shirley  hurried  to  answer  it.  Maybe 
the  plane  had  arrived  ahead  of  time, 
she  thought. 

But  it  was  a  telegram.  A  crisp 
voice  read  the  message: 

Sorry  I  cannot  be  with  you.  Neighbor 
very  ill  in  hospital.  Her  children  need 
me.  Please  forgive  me,  my  darlings.  I 
love  you.    Mother. 

Shirley  couldn't  breathe.  Silently 


she  handed  the  receiver  to  Joe  who 
asked  the  girl  to  repeat  the  message. 

Everyone  crowded  around  them, 
but  Shirley  bent  her  head  and  cov- 
ered her  face  with  her  hands.  The 
house  seemed  suddenly  dark  and 
empty.  All  their  work  and  planning 
had  crumbled  to  nothing. 

"Oh,  Joe,"  she  said  bleakly  as  his 
arms  went  around  her. 

"What  a  shame!"  Kit  murmured. 
"You've  worked  night  and  day.  And 
now  she  can't  be  here!" 

"Tough  break,"  Phil  consoled 
them. 

"Let's  make  the  best  of  it," 
Steve  joined  in.  "Now  you  can  go 
to  Las  Vegas  with  us." 

Las  Vegas,  Shirley  repeated  to 
herself.  She  looked  at  Joe.  He 
drew  a  long  breath  and  wet  his  lips. 

"It's  up  to  Shirley,"  he  said  slow- 
ly. "But  somehow  her  mother 
seems  right  here  with  us  —  because 
—  well,  because  everything  she  loves 
about  Christmas  is  right  here.  If 
we  chase  off  to  Las  Vegas,  I'd  feel 
we  were  letting  her  down  and  letting 
ourselves  down,  too.  But  it's  up  to 
Shirley." 

A  little  pulse  began  to  beat  in 
Shirley's  throat.  She  and  Joe  were 
free  now  to  go  to  Las  Vegas.  They 
could  have  Christmas  a  h  carte  or 
any  old  way  they  wanted  it.  Her 
eyes  moved  to  the  big  tree  shim- 
mering in  the  window,  and  back 
again  to  Joe's  face.  He  loved  that 
tree  and  all  it  meant  to  him  and 
everything  else  they  had  done  for 
Christmas;  all  the  work  and  plans. 

She  met  Joe's  eyes  and  a  sort  of 
magic  brushed  between  them. 

"Why  don't  you  all  stay  right 
here  with  us?"  she  offered  smihng. 
"We'll  have   such   fun   out  there 


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with  those  children— then  we'll 
come  back  for  dinner  and  open  our 
gifts  and  sing  carols  .  .  .  ." 

Her  voice  trailed  off  wistfully,  as 
she  saw  Kit's  surprised  face.  Then 
she  noticed  Leone  was  biting  her 
lip  and  pulling  on  her  gloves.  Steve 
and  Phil  looked  as  though  someone 
had  asked  them  to  go  up  in  a  bal- 
loon. 

At  last  Steve  said,  'That's  a  swell 
idea,  but  we  promised  our  wives  a 
trip  to  Las  Vegas." 

'That's  right,"  Phil  agreed.  "We 
promised." 

Leone  bent  her  head  and  started 
to  cry. 


"Why,  baby!"  Steve  said,  "Don't 
cry.    We're  going." 

"But— I— don't  want-to  go!"  Her 
voice  broke  into  pieces.  "I  want 
to  watch  those  little  girls  play  with 
the  doll  clothes  we  made!" 

"So  do  I,"  Kit  chimed  in,  "but  I 
was  afraid  to  say  so." 

Phil  tossed  his  hat  up  in  the  air 
and  danced  her  around  the  room. 
"LIurray!"  he  yelled.  "Merry 
Christmas!" 

Steve  grinned  like  a  kid  who  had 
just  found  a  dime  in  his  pocket. 

Joe  winked  at  Shirley  and  his 
smile  had  wonder  in  it.  All  the 
wonder  of  Christmas. 


QJor    LJou  at  Lyhnstmas 

Syhia.  Prohst  Young 


When  bells  for  Christmas  ring  across  the  snow, 
I  wish  for  you  all  joys  your  heart  can  hold — 
The  warmth  of  home  and  hearth,  a  candle  glow, 
A  star  above  your  window,  yellow  gold; 

A  star  as  guided  Magi  through  the  night, 
To  bring  you  to  the  One — the  Perfect  Light. 

May  yours  be  quiet  peace  at  each  day's  ending; 
The  peace  that  Christ  was  born  on  earth  to  bring, 
White-winged — and  like  a  gentle  dove  ascending 
Unto  the  cloven  skies  where  angels  sing — 

The  peace  that  shepherds  found  in  Bethlehem 
Be  with  you  like  a  shining  diadem. 

And  may  you  know  the  blessed  joy  of  giving — 
The  Child  that  Mary  cradled  tenderly 
Gave  to  the  world  a  selfless  way  of  living, 
And  chose  the  darkened  road  to  Calvary — 

Oh,  may  his  gracious  love  with  you  abide 
For  all  the  days — beyond  the  Christmastide. 


n ierryi,    // terry  L^hnstmas! 

Helen  Spencei  Williams 


i  4  y^HRISTMAS  is  coming  and 
I  the  geese  are  getting  fat!" 
^^  The  mincemeat  is  in  the 
making  —  kiscious  phim  puddings 
are  ripening  in  their  crocks.  Now 
is  the  time  to  begin  on  Christmas 
decorations.  There  is  no  way  bet- 
ter to  kindle  that  warm  Christmas 
spirit  than  to  begin  making  gifts  and 
decorations  for  loved  ones  and  to 
beautify  our  own  houses. 

Nothing  in  the  world  is  so  con- 
tagious as  happiness.  Just  to  be  near 
Florence  Williams,  as  she  radiates 
her  Christmas  spirit  in  plans  and 
projects,  is  to  partake  of  her  en- 
thusiasm and  happiness.  This  year 
she  has  more  ideas  and  suggestions 
for  Yuletide  decoration  than  ever  be- 
fore —  and  such  beautiful  ones! 

Florence  begms  by  checking  on 
her  Christmas  supplies  and  ma- 
terials, plasta  foam,  spray  paint  that 
comes  in  convenient  hand-operated 
cans,  artificial  snow,  angel's  hair, 
and  a  dozen  other  articles  that  will 
be  needed  as  she  makes  her  Christ- 
mas decorations. 

One  reason  why  Florence  can  cre- 
ate such  novel  and  Christmasy  dec- 
orations is  because  she  is  ever  on 
the  alert  for  new  ideas,  and  for  the 
materials  to  bring  them  into  gay, 
colorful  articles.  She  watches  the 
magazines,  shops  in  the  five-and- 
dime  stores,  floral  stores,  and  depart- 
ment stores  long  before  Christmas 
comes,  and  then  she  is  ready  to  start 
working  to  share  her  ideas  with  oth- 
ers when  the  season  arrives. 

Everything  pictured  here  was 
made  by  Florence  and  can  be  made 

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by  you,  too.  You  will  have  the  best 
time  of  your  life  as  you  see  plain 
green  felt  become  gay  tablecloths 
and  Christmas  tree  skirts;  peanuts 
and  pecans  and  dried-up  pine  cones 
transformed  into  beautiful  Christ- 
mas wreaths;  old  artificial  flowers, 
long  since  discarded,  changed  into 
golden  nosegays. 

You,  too,  will  have  to  shop  the 
five-and-dime  stores  for  little  Santa 
boots  and  figures,  for  tiny  Christmas 
trees,  horns,  and  drums,  and  for 
artificial  snow,  tinsel,  and  glue;  and, 
also,  you'll  have  to  gather  pine  cones 
and  twigs  from  evergreen  trees  and 
maybe  dig  up  some  of  your  dried 
ivy  and  vines— but  you  will  have  fun 
doing  it,  we  promise  you. 

The  Staircase 

Before  the  Christmas  holidays, 
this  was  a  very  ordinary  dignified 
staircase  and  railing  in  Florence's 
home.  But  now— presto!  it  takes  on 
the  magic  of  Christmas.  The  railing 
has  been  covered  with  green  felt, 
scalloped  and  appliqued  with  minia- 
ture Christmas  trees  which  were  cut 
with  pinking  shears.  Standing  guard 
at  the  foot  of  the  stairs,  is  a  Christ- 
mas pixie,  and  marching  toward  the 
pixie  down  the  rail  are  tiny  Christ- 
mas trees  sprinkled  with  snow. 
These  have  been  fastened  to  the  felt 
with  glue.  Attached  to  the  wrought- 
iron  railing  with  bright  red  ribbon 
are  brightly  colored  drums;  little 
felt  figures  holding  golden-colored 
trombones  are  hanging  to  the  rail- 
ing. The  felt  figures  are  cut  out 
in  four  pieces,  and  the  body,  arms, 


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face,  and  cap  are  glued  together;  the  wax  candles  that  look  just  like  snow- 
perky  face  is  painted.    Right  in  the  balls,  and  they  glow  brightly  to  light 
center  of  the  staircase  hangs  a  jolly  the  way  up  the  festive  stairs, 
old  snowman's  face  made  of  plasta 
foam;  the  eyes,  nose,  and  mouth  are  The  Dining  Room 
made  of  felt.     Up  in  the  window  Now,    let's    go    into    the    dining 
above  the  staircase  are  two  round  room,  where  the  Christmas  buffet 


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THE  BUFFET  TABLE 
Decorated  by  Florence  C.  Williams 


table  is  waiting  for  all  the  delicious 
food  that  has  been  prepared  in  an- 
ticipation for  this  holiday  season. 

1  he  buffet  table  stands  in  front 
of  a  large  mirrored  wall  which  re- 
flects the  window  on  the  opposite 
side  of  the  room.  A  doll-sized  Santa 
dressed  all  in  ^^•hite  \elvet  has 
climbed  a  ladder  and  has  just  fin- 
ished writing  "Merry  Christmas/' 
so  that  all  who  come  to  break  bread 
with  Florence's  family  at  Christmas 
time  may  be  greeted  with  the  most 
joyous  wish  of  all  the  year. 

1  he  table  is  coxcrcd  with  a  snow- 
white  cloth  trimmed  with  gold 
braid.  Big  and  little  Santa  Claus 
boots,  with  tall  suckers,  stand  in  a 
double  row  at  one  end  of  the  table. 

In  the  yery  center  of  the  table 


stands  the  grand  old  man  of  Christ- 
mas, sort  of  o\erseeing  all  the  fun 
of  dining  festi\ities.  He  is  made  of 
a  huge  candy  jar  half  filled  with  hard 
and  chewy  colored  candies  for  the 
children.  His  head  is  a  large  ball 
of  plasta  foam,  his  beard  soft  white 
cotton;  bright  buttons  are  his  eyes; 
a  cherry  his  little  red  nose,  and  red 
felt  his  mouth.  Atop  his  head 
perches  a  bright  cap  made  of  felt 
with  a  tassel  of  vain.  Around  his 
shoulders  is  a  collar  of  felt  fringed 
in  gold  and  white  which  his  slee\es 
snuggle  under.  The  cap,  collar, 
slee\es,  hands,  and  the  buttons  down 
the  front  are  all  cut  from  bright  red 
felt.  "The  belt  which  circles  his 
fat  little  belly  is  buckled  with  red 
so  it  won't  shake  like  jelly." 


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This  jolly  old  man  has  his  clothes 
all  stuck  on  with  glue.  E\en  his 
black  shoes,  which  cover  the  base 
of  the  candy  jar,  are  made  secure 
with  it. 

Over  at  one  end  of  the  table  in  a 
bright  red  compote  burns  a  large 
candle  ball  made  of  sha\"ings  from 
old  candles  and  trimmed  with  se- 
quins and  artificial  snow.  It  rests 
on  a  bed  of  bright  holly  and  greens. 
Small  figures  of  Santa  stand  at  eith- 
er side  of  the  large  glass  Santa. 

Soon  the  buffet  table  will  be 
spread  with  delicious  things  to  eat. 
The  little  ones  and  big  folks  will 
take  their  plates  to  the  tables. 

The  top  for  the  children's  table 
is  a  circle  of  painted  composition 
board  resting  on  an  empty  barrel 


that  has  been  painted  a  bright 
Christmas  red.  It  has  another  felt 
Santa  Claus  adorning  its  side. 

On  top  of  the  table  is  a  Santa 
tablecloth  made  of  red  crepe  paper 
and  pasted  with  figures  of  angels  and 
reindeer  from  Christmas  storvbooks, 
Santas  and  sleds  dancing  round  and 
round  making  a  perfect  setting  for 
the  big  Santa  boots  holding  candv 
canes,  and  little  wooden  candle 
holders.  Big  special  glasses  that 
have  decals  of  Santa's  jolly  face  on 
the  side  mark  the  place  of  each  tiny 
guest.  The  centerpiece  is  a  Swiss 
music  box  that  goes  round  as  it 
plays  Christmas  carols. 

Just  above  the  children's  table  is 
a  parade  of  Christmas  elves  and 
reindeer  dancing  along  the  window 


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THE  GOLDEN  FLOWERS 
Arranged  by  Florence  C.  Williams 


sill.    No  wonder  the  children's  eyes  An  Arrangement  oi 

shine  brighter  than  the  Christmas  Golden  Floweis 

star  itself  as  they  sit  at  their  own  Perhaps  the  very  loveliest  and  un- 

festive  table  for  their  Christmas  din-  usual  decoration  in  the  house  is  the 

ner  in  their  little  red  chairs.  arrangement  of  golden  flowers.  This 


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is  a  magnificent  arrangement  of 
flowers  and  balls  in  a  tall  tiered 
compote  on  top  of  the  piano.  True, 
many  of  us  do  not  possess  such  a 
beautiful  container,  but  we  can  look 
at  this  one  Florence  has,  and  find 
inspiration  from  its  beauty  to  use 
what  we  do  have  and  make  some- 
thing just  as  exquisite  and  unusual 
of  our  own. 

First,  Florence  gathered  all  of  her 
old  artificial  flowers  that  had  accu- 
mulated through  the  years;  next  she 
went  to  the  five-and-ten  cent  store 
and  bought  as  many  artificial  roses 
as  she  felt  she  could  afford;  then, 
with  her  old  standby,  plasta  foam, 
she  made  large  balls  about  five  inch- 
es in  diameter.  She  placed  all  of 
the  flowers  and  balls  on  a  paper-cov- 
ered table,  and  with  her  spray  she 


painted  everything  with  gold.  She 
was  very  careful  to  turn  all  the  flow- 
ers so  that  none  of  the  original  color 
of  the  flowers  showed  through.  The 
balls  were  turned  so  they  were  com- 
pletely covered.  The  spray  paint 
dried  quickly,  and  as  soon  as  the 
balls  were  thoroughly  dry,  she  cov- 
ered them  with  small  golden  coins. 
Each  coin  had  a  tiny  hole  bored  into 
it  and  it  was  then  stuck  into  the 
golden  plasta  foam  ball  with  a  large 
pearl-headed  pin.  Such  beautiful 
ornaments! 

Then  came  the  fun  of  arranging 
these  golden  flowers  and  balls  in 
this  elegant  dish  and  circling  the 
base  with  waxy  green  laurel  leaves. 
On  one  side  she  placed  a  golden 
cherub  holding  one  tall  white  taper 
with  a  little  wax  figure  clinging  to 


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it  and  another  one  just  like  it  near- 
by. Perfect  symmetry  is  in  this 
arrangement. 

This  decoration,  so  regal  and  tall, 
would  not  be  suitable  in  all  of  our 
homes,  but  the  golden  flowers,  the 
balls  with  the  coins  and  pearls  could 
be  arranged  in  any  compote  or  a 
low  or  high  bowl.  It  would  be 
lovely  for  a  mantel;  for  a  table,  or 
for  an  entrance  hall.  And,  oh,  what 
a  perfectly  wonderful  time  you  will 
have  spraying  the  flowers  and  mak- 
ing these  beautiful  balls  and  arrang- 
ing them  to  fit  your  own  particular 
setting. 

The  Family  Tree 

At  the  head  of  the  stairs  in  Flor- 
ence's house  stands  an  old  grand- 
father's clock.  For  days  and  weeks 
and  months  and  years  it  has  been 
chiming  the  hours  away.  Up  the 
stairs  little  ones  have  climbed  and 
paused  before  it  to  watch  the  hands 
go  round  and  round,  to  see  the 
pendulum  swing  back  and  forth; 
and  have  wondered,  would  it  never 
stop? 

The  children  have  grown  to  man- 
hood and  womanhood  now,  and 
have  gone  to  make  homes  of  their 
own.  Grandparents  and  great- 
grandparents  who  loved  the  old 
clock  have  gone  to  their  rest,  and 
each  generation  has  taken  its  own 
distinctive  place  in  the  passage  of 
time  and  in  family  life  and  tradition; 
and  the  clock  ticks  on,  giving  at- 
mosphere to  the  memories  that  have 
made  the  home  so  dear. 

The  old  clock  stands  as  a  sentinel 
guarding  'The  Family  Tree"  which 
is  painted  on  the  wall  just  above 
the  upstairs  hall. 

Here,  too,  the  children  pause  to 
wonder   and    to   ask   questions;   to 


point  with  pride,  saying,  ''Why, 
that's  Great-grandfather  Thomas  Al- 
len Williams,"  and  "There  is 
Great-great-grandfather  John  R. 
Winder,  who  was  called  by  Presi- 
dent Brigham  Young  to  supervise 
the  completion  of  the  Salt  Lake 
Temple,"  and  'TIere  is  Great-great- 
grandmother  Radical  Ballif  Camp- 
bell whose  parents  were  born  in 
Lausanne,  Switzerland,  and  who 
came  here  for  the  gospel  way  back 


Hal  Kurnel 

THE   GRANDFATHER'S   CLOCK 
In  the  Williams  Home 


MERRY,  MERRY  CHRISTMAS! 


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in  1854."  Or  "That  is  Great-great- 
great-grandmother  Pernecy  Allen, 
who  lived  in  a  covered  wagon  when 
she  was  first  married.  She  sheared 
her  own  sheep  to  weave  wool  for 
her  little  ones'  clothing,  and  she  was 
only  fifteen  years  old  when  she  was 
married/' 

Thus,  ''The  Family  Tree,"  paint- 
ed freehand  on  a  wide  wall  with 
poster  paint  by  one  of  Florence's 
friends,  Rebecca  Clawson  Smoot, 
tells  the  story  of  generations  by  the 
quaint  pictures  hanging  from  its 
branches.  On  the  back  of  each  pic- 
ture is  the  name,  date  of  birth,  mar- 
riage, and  death,  of  all  those  who 
adorn  the  tree. 

As  Gilbert  and  Florence  Williams' 
family  grows,  more  branches  will  be 
added  to  the  tree,  and  new  faces 
will  appear  among  the  leaves.  What 
a  unique  and  wonderful  way  to 
teach  an  appreciation  for  genealogy! 

The  upstairs  hall  is  long,  the  ceil- 
ing high.  The  roots  of  'The  Family 


Tree"  are  strong  and  deep,  and  the 
new  branches  will  have  space  to 
grow  and  unfold,  adding  new  beauty 
and  strength  to  the  family  life  as  the 
years  go  on. 

And  the  grandfather's  clock  will 
go  ticking  along  as  each  new  mem- 
ber pauses  to  listen  to  its  chimes 
and  to  ask  questions  about  mother, 
father,  grandparents,  and  great- 
grandparents— who  they  were,  where 
they  came  from,  and  where  they  are 
now,  and  "Will  we  ever  see  them 
again?" 

It  is  good  to  be  wellborn  and  to 
be  part  of  a  family  tree  and  to 
listen  to  a  message  that  will  chime 
out  through  all  eternity.  The  clock 
and  "The  Family  Tree"  are  part  of 
the  past  and  will  be  part  of  the  fu- 
ture, holding  a  family  together  in 
love,  tradition,  and  pride.  May  the 
tree  and  the  clock  always  remain  at 
the  head  of  the  stairs  in  Florence's 
house,  as  symbols  of  the  strength 
of  family  ties! 


L^hnstmas  c/s    {jDeing  utoine 

Christie  Lund  Coles 

Christmas  is  being  home;  wherever  you  are, 
You  are  led  backward  through  the  boughs 
Of  evergreen  and  spruce,  over  the  far, 
Firm-crusted,  sequined  snow  to  where  snow  plows 
Have  left  no  mark,  no  pathway;  but  the  feet 
Of  children's  Fox-and-Geese  can  route  again 
The  entrance  to  a  long-famihar  street, 
Where  stars  seem  twined  upon  each  weathervane. 

Christmas  is  seeing  loved  ones'  eyes  more  bright 
In  bauble's  satin  sheen,  in  candle  glow; 
Hearing  Noel's  bell-tone  and  the  quiet  night; 
Kneeling  in  praise  like  shepherds  long  ago. 
Christmas  is  being  home.  .  .  .  The  spirit  yearns 
Backward  forever  .  .  .  and  tonight  returns. 


A  Grandma  for  Christmas 


Myrtle  M.  Dean 


NANCY  knew  afterward  that 
she  would  never  be  able  to 
forget  the  slender,  dark-eyed 
boy  who  came  to  her  door  that 
morning.  She  knew  she  would 
never  forget  him,  any  more  than  she 
had  forgotten  her  only  child  Mich- 
ael, who  had  been  struck  down  in 
the  snow  while  riding  his  new  sled 
the  day  after  Christmas.  That  had 
happened  many  years  ago,  but 
Michael  was  the  only  child  she  had 
ever  had.  Now  another  boy  had 
suddenly  come  into  her  life. 

Nancy  saw  the  boy  as  he  came  up 
the  sidewalk  alone  two  days  before 
Christmas.  He  seemed  not  to 
notice  the  other  children  who  were 
playing  in  the  snow  along  the 
street.  Children  in  bright  jackets 
and  warm  caps  and  mittens  were 
tossing  balls  of  whiteness  at  each 
other.  Some  fell  in  the  deep  soft- 
ness, making  figures  in  the  snow. 
Nancy  could  hear  the  gay  shouts 
and  happy  laughter  of  the  others, 
while  the  lone  boy  hurried  along  as 
though  bent  upon  some  important 
errand. 

''Why,  he  is  coming  in  here,"  she 
said  to  herself.  Then  she  asked  her 
husband,  'Tlease,  go  to  the  door, 
David,  there  is  a  boy  there.  See 
what  he  wants  here." 

As  David  moved  slowly  to  the 
front  door,  Nancy  thought,  it  must 
be  something  important,  or  the  boy 
wouldn't  be  out  in  this  weather 
without  better  wraps.  A  pang  of 
hurt  went  through  her  as  she  noted 

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the  seriousness  of  the  boy's  dark 
eyes  and  the  thinness  of  his  body. 
His  jeans  were  faded  and  were  much 
too  short  for  his  lanky  legs.  His 
coat  was  not  warm,  and  his  arms 
protruded  from  the  too-short  sleeves. 
He  can't  be  more  than  twelve, 
Nancy  thought. 

As  David  answered  the  timid 
knock,  she  could  hear  a  shy  voice 
speaking,  but  could  not  hear  the 
boy's  words.  Then,  she  watched  the 
boy  move  slowly  away  as  David 
came  back  to  her. 

''Wanted  me  to  hire  him  to 
shovel  away  the  snow,  but  he  isn't 
big  enough  to  handle  a  snow  shovel. 
Besides,  the  snow  is  still  falling  and 
it  would  do  no  good." 

"Oh,  but  David,  you  can  see  very 
well  that  the  boy  needs  money. 
Perhaps  his  mother  has  sent  him 
out  to  earn  a  little  for  Christmas." 
Nancy's  voice  was  full  of  anxiety. 

"Well,  he'd  probably  spend  the 
money  on  some  foolishness  anyway. 
You  know  how  kids  are  nowadays. 
Besides,  he'd  likely  get  pneumonia 
for  Christmas,  if  he  stayed  out 
shoveling  in  this  wet  weather," 
David  argued. 

"He'll  likely  get  it  anyway,  if  he 
has  to  go  on  and  on,  trying  to  get 
a  job,  with  his  clothes  wet  to  the 
skin."  Nancy's  face  was  troubled  as 
she  watched  the  boy  go  from  one 
house  to  another,  only  to  come  out, 
dejectedly  moving  on  along  the 
street. 

For  a  brief  moment  she  lingered 


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near  the  window,  then  turned  away. 
She  turned  away  from  the  sight  of 
the  boy  walking  along  with  the 
hopelessness  showing  in  his  slight 
body.  She  turned  away,  too,  from 
the  sight  of  the  happy  children  play- 
ing in  the  street.  For  deep  inside 
her  was  creeping  back  the  same  deep 
hurt  that  always  came  when  she  saw 
happy  children  playing,  just  as  her 
little  Michael  had  been  playing 
when  he  was  killed. 

"It  was  so  long  ago,  Nancy— such 
a  long  time,  and  we  can't  forget," 
David  said  tenderly,  as  he  saw 
Nancy's  face  as  she  turned  from  the 
window. 

"But  Christmas  always  comes— 
again  and  again  it  comes,  and  with 
it  for  us  comes  always  only  the  hurt, 
when  Christmas  should  be  such  a 
happy  time."  David  took  her  arm 
and  led  her  to  a  chair.  For  a  mo- 
ment they  were  silent,  then,  sudden- 
ly, Nancy  raised  her  eyes  to  Da\id 
and  spoke  very  firmly,  "I  want  to  go 
to  town  and  do  a  little  Christmas 
shopping,  David." 

David  looked  surprised,  but  wait- 
ed for  an  explanation.  Nancy  never 
waited  this  late  to  do  Christmas 
shopping.  She  always  shopped  early 
and  missed  the  rush  and  bustle  of 
last-minute  shoppers. 

"I  think  I'd  like  to  go  alone  to- 
day, David,"  Nancy  added.  "I'll 
take  the  car  if  you  don't  mind." 
There  was  a  new  light  in  her  eyes 
that  pleased  him. 

'M'ANCY  had  forgotten  the  streets 
could  be  so  crowded.  She  was 
almost  carried  along  by  the  people 
as  they  pushed  along  the  sidewalk. 
She  was  breathless  as  she  moved  to 


the  inside  of  the  walk  and  paused  to 
get  her  bearings.  There  were  so 
many  children  in  the  crowd.  Chil- 
dren with  bright,  hopeful  eyes,  as 
they  looked  at  the  gaily  decorated 
windows,  and  the  many  toys.  Again 
came  the  deep  hurt  inside  her  chest. 
She  could  hear  their  little  Michael 
saying,  "I  want  that  pretty  new 
sled."  She  was  remembering  his 
sparkling  eyes  when  they  brought 
him  to  see  the  Christmas  things. 
Now  the  years  seemed  to  melt  away, 
and  it  seemed  but  yesterday. 

As  Nancy  moved  on,  she  noted 
many  child  faces  gazing  hungrily  at 
toys,  and  the  many  pretty  things 
which  she  knew  they  could  not  af- 
ford. She  watched  a  young  girl 
looking  at  a  lovely  dress  in  Merrill's 
store  window,  and  she  knew  that  the 
longing  for  this  dress  would  not  be 
satisfied.  This  girl  could  only  dream 
of  pretty  clothes.  All  about  her  she 
saw  so  many  who  really  needed 
things.  She  saw  unhappy  and  wor- 
ried faces,  as  well  as  those  who 
could  well  afford  luxurious  spend- 
ing. 

"I  did  not  realize  that  there  were 
so  many  in  need,  and  people  whom 
one  might  help,"  she  said  to  her- 
self. Again  her  mind  turned  to  the 
young  boy  who  had  come  to  their 
door  this  morning,  and  she  won- 
dered what  he  was  doing.  She  won- 
dered if  his  family  would  have  a 
happy  Christmas. 

Merrill's  Department  Store  was  a 
good  place  to  buy  exerything  she 
would  want,  but  Nancy  almost 
turned  back  as  she  reached  the  store 
door,  for  she  could  still  feel  the 
pressure  of  her  little  Michael's  hand 
in    her    own^    as    she    had    always 


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brought  him  to  Merrills.  He  had 
danced  with  excitement  when  they 
reached  the  door  which  was  an 
entrance  to  a  Christmas  fairyland. 

Nancy  knew  that  she  must  push 
away  that  old  feeling  that  had  en- 
veloped her  for  so  long,  and  had 
kept  her  isolated  from  all  the  bright- 
ness of  the  holiday  season.  With- 
out any  ordered  plan,  she  began  her 
purchasing.  First  she  went  to  the 
glove  counter,  and  bought  several 
pairs.  The  soft  woolly  mittens  were 
so  warm  looking.  "Ill  take  bright, 
red  ones  and  blue  ones  for  little 
girls,  and  the  gray  and  brown  for 
boys,  in  several  sizes,"  she  told  the 
clerk. 

VTANCY  looked  in  astonishment 
at  the  many  toys  that  a  child 
might  choose  these  days.  There  was 
miniature  farm  machinery  that 
looked  so  real  that  one  wanted  to 
set  it  to  work  on  a  farm.  The  elec- 
tric trains  that  ran  around  on  long 
tracks,  and  the  fire  engines  that  blew 
shrill  sirens  as  you  pressed  a  lever 
were  enchanting.  Nancy  selected 
some  of  these  exciting  things  for 
boys,  before  she  moved  to  the  sec- 
tion where  the  dolls  of  every  de- 
scription held  little  girls  enthralled 
by  their  naturalness  and  beauty. 
Nancy  chose  a  sweet,  rosy-cheeked 
dolly.  She  loved  to  touch  the  soft- 
ness of  its  skin.  Like  a  real,  live 
baby,  Nancy  thought. 

'T\\  take  this  one,"  she  told  the 
saleslady.  Then  she  saw  the  tiny 
baby  doll  and  asked  for  it,  too. 
'There  are  little  girls  who  would 
like  them,  I  am  sure,"  she  said  to 
herself. 

While  Nancy  waited  for  her 
parcels  to  be  wrapped,  she  noticed  a 


boy  standing  nearby  at  the  costume 
jewelry  counter.  The  jewelry  looked 
so  inviting,  all  set  out  on  purple 
velvet;  the  sparkly  sets  winking  up 
so  bright.  Some  of  it  was  placed 
on  trays  on  top  of  the  cases,  so  one 
might  take  it  up  and  view  it  closely. 

Nancy  thought  it  unusual  that  a 
boy  so  young  should  be  so  interested 
in  jewelry.  He  was  perhaps  eleven 
or  twelve.  He  was  poorly  dressed, 
and  was  tall  and  thin.  His  legs  were 
too  long  for  the  rest  of  him.  His 
face  was  away  from  Nancy,  but  she 
watched  him  pick  up  a  pair  of  ear- 
rings, and  slowly  put  them  back. 
They  had  lovely  red  sets  in  them. 

'They  would  match  the  necklace 
that  David  gave  me  for  my  birthday 
years  ago,"  she  said  to  herself. 

Nancy  moved  quickly  to  the  boy, 
and  started  to  take  hold  of  his  arm. 
''Why  do  you  like  the  earrings?" 
Nancy  spoke  softly. 

He  moved  away  from  her  his 
eyes  averted  and  his  head  bent  low. 
It  was  the  same  boy  who  had  called 
to  shovel  snow. 

"I  wanted  them  for  my  mother. 
It  was  for  her  I  wanted  them,"  he 
said  slowly.  "I  wanted  her  to  have 
something  pretty,  like  other  women 
do." 

The  salesgirl  was  coming  over  to 
them  now,  and  the  boy  tried  to 
leave,  but  Nancy  held  to  his  arm. 
"Wait,  boy,  please  don't  go  yet.  I 
must  talk  to  you,"  Nancy  said. 

^^lyrAY  I  help  you?"  the  girl 
asked  Nancy. 

"Yes,  please,  the  earrings;  the  red 
sets  are  so  pretty  in  these."  Nancy 
pointed  to  the  pair. 

'Three  dollars,"  the  girl  said. 


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Nancy  counted  out  the  money, 
while  the  girl  wrapped  them  in  a 
dainty  parcel. 

''I  can't  give  these  to  you,  lad/' 
Nancy  said,  as  she  and  the  boy  left 
the  counter.  ''But  perhaps  you  can 
earn  the  money  for  them." 

The  boy  spoke  tempestuously. 
''She  works  so  hard  for  all  of  us. 
Since  my  father  died  we  can  have 
only  the  things  like  clothes  and 
food.  There  is  never  anything  pret- 
ty or  anything  like  jewelry  for 
mother  to  wear.  I  do  all  I  can  to 
help,  but  I  go  to  school."  For  a 
moment  a  flicker  of  a  smile  came  to 
his  lips  as  he  said,  "I  bought  a  tiny 
red  fire  engine  for  my  little  brother. 
He  will  like  that.  And  I  got  a  ten- 
cent  storybook  for  my  two  sisters." 
The  boy  hesitated  and  his  eyes  fell, 
then,  "I  did  want  something  for  my 
mother  for  Christmas."  The  boy's 
voice  broke  as  he  raised  his  eyes  to 
meet  Nancy's. 

"What  is  your  name,  Son?" 
Nancy's  lips  trembled  as  she  spoke 
the  word,  Son. 

"My  name  is  Joe  .  .  .  Joe  Carl- 
son," he  spoke  softly. 

"I  would  like  very  much  for  your 
mother  to  have  these  earrings,  Joe. 
Maybe  you  can  come  and  work  to 
pay  for  them.  The  snow  has  stopped 
falling  now.  Would  you  like  to 
shovel  it  away?  There  would  be 
the  walks  and  the  roof,  too,  I 
think.  There  is  so  much  snow.  Too 
much  for  David,  my  husband,  to 
manage."  Nancy  watched  the  boy's 
eyes  lighted  up,  and  the  sullen,  de- 
spondent look  fall  away. 

"Oh,  I  would  ...  I  would  like 
ever  so  much  to  pay  for  them  that 

way,  so  I'd  have  them  for  my  moth- 


er." Joe's  lips  relaxed  into  a  timid 
smile. 

"Then,  Joe,  come  to  620  Maple 
Street,  David  and  Nancy  Brooks  live 
there." 

"Why,  I  live  just  a  few  blocks 
from  Maple,  down  on  Elm."  He 
started  to  hurry  away,  then  turned 
and  smiled.  "Thanks  .  .  .  thanks 
a  lot." 

Nancy  knew  she  must  hurry 
home,  and  be  there  when  the  boy 
arrived  to  shovel  snow. 

David  met  her  at  the  door.  "What 
in  tunket  is  all  this?"  he  asked,  as 
the  parcels  spilled  over  the  dining 
table  as  she  put  them  from  her  arms. 

Nancy  evaded  his  question  for 
the  moment,  and  spoke  with  cen- 
sure in  her  voice,  "You've  cleared 
the  snow  from  the  front  walk, 
David." 

"What  is  so  wrong  about  that? 
It  stopped  snowing,  and  I  had  to 
have  something  to  do.  It's  lonesome 
with  you  out  of  the  house,  you 
know." 

TT  pleased  Nancy  that  David  missed 
her.  She  gave  him  a  little  smile, 
then  she  said,  "The  roof  should  be 
cleared,  and  you  shouldn't  be  climb- 
ing a  roof." 

"Well,  I  didn't  know  I  was  so 
old  and  decrepit.  Just  last  week 
when  it  snowed  you  said  that  I'd 
better  clear  the  roof."  David  spoke 
with  an  injured  tone. 

"I  have  asked  a  boy  to  come  and 
shovel  the  snow,  David.  This  boy 
needs  money.  He  is  the  boy  who 
came  here  this  morning  and  we  sent 
him  away.  I  didn't  know  there  were 
so  many  worried  and  unhappy 
people  all  around  us,  until  today, 
David." 


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''That  reminds  me;  I  haven't 
sent  our  usual  charity  check  for  gifts 
for  the  needy/'  David  said. 

"Don't  this  year,  David.  We  have 
been  doing  things  the  wrong  way. 
We  haven't  been  part  of  our  giving 
at  all.  Today,  I  have  seen  so  many 
who  need  more  than  gifts  that  mon- 
ey can  buy.  I  want  us  to  give  some- 
thing more."  Nancy's  eyes  shone 
with  an  interest  that  David  had  not 
seen  for  a  long  time. 

''But,  all  this  you  brought  home 
today,  Nancy?"  David  motioned  to 
the  bundles  piled  upon  the  table. 

"There  are  many  who  need 
them,"  she  said. 

They  heard  the  door  bell  then, 
and  Nancy  went  to  answer  it.  Joe 
stood  there  wiping  his  shoes  on  the 
mat. 

'This  is  the  boy,  David.  He  is 
here  to  clear  the  snow,"  Nancy  ex- 
plained. 

"My  wife  thinks  that  I  am  too 
decrepit  to  shovel  snow.  Do  you 
think  that  you  can  do  it?"  David 
asked  with  a  sly  grin. 

"Yes,  yes,  I  can,  I'm  sure."  The 
boy  scuffed  his  feet  nervously  as 
David  eyed  him  critically. 

Nancy  wondered,  too,  if  the  boy 
should  do  it,  as  she  saw  closely  how 
thin  and  pinched  he  really  was. 
"Get  him  a  pair  of  your  gloves, 
David.  His  hands  will  freeze  in  the 
cold,"  she  said. 

David  brought  the  gloves  from 
the  hall  closet.  "There  is  a  ladder 
out  back  so  you  can  start  with  the 
roof.  The  shovel  is  by  the  back 
porch,"  David  told  the  boy. 

"His  legs  are  so  spindly  and  long, 
he  may  get  them  tangled  up  and 
trip  himself,"  David  said  mischie- 
vously, "but  you  hired  him." 


Nancy  looked  worried  as  she  heard 
the  boy  on  the  roof.  "It  would  be 
terrible  if  he  should  get  hurt  for 
Christmas,"  she  said. 

'M'ANCY  slipped  away  to  her  room, 
and  took  from  her  jewel  case 
the  old  ruby  necklace  that  David 
had  given  her.  She  fastened  it  about 
her  throat;  her  eyes  soft  with  hap- 
py remembrance.  Then  she  placed 
it  with  the  earrings  she  had  bought 
at  Merrill's  today.  She  carefully 
wrapped  them  together  in  a  box 
with  white  tissue,  and  tied  it  with 
blue  ribbon.  She  took  it  with  her 
to  the  kitchen,  where  she  hurried  to 
make  hot  chocolate. 

"Come  in  and  warm  up  a  bit," 
Nancy  said,  as  she  met  Joe  at  the 
door  as  he  finished  clearing  the 
snow. 

Nancy  led  the  way  to  the  living 
room  and  placed  a  chair  before  the 
fireplace  for  Joe.  She  carried  the 
chocolate  in  a  bright  pottery  pitcher, 
and  poured  it  into  pretty  pottery 
cups.  Beside  it  was  a  plate  heaped 
with  golden  doughnuts.  A  tender- 
ness for  the  boy  filled  her  as  he  held 
out  his  thin,  cold  hands  to  the  fire 
to  warm,  while  he  sat  in  the  big 
cushioned  chair  before  the  hearth. 
She  saw  the  sweetness  of  his  face 
and  felt  his  gratefulness  as  he  tasted 
the  food  she  gave  him.  There  are 
things  that  a  boy  needs,  even  more 
than  food  and  drink,  she  thought 
soberly. 

"What  most  of  all  would  you  like 
for  Christmas,  Joe?"  Nancy  asked, 
hardly  realizing  what  she  was  ask- 
ing the  child. 

"I  think  ...  I  think  most  of  any- 
thing in  the  world  .  .  ."  Joe  hesitated 
again  briefly,  "I  think  I  would  rather 


A  GRANDMA  FOR  CHRISTMAS  811 

have  a  grandma,"  he  said  solemnly.  ''Might  be  you  could  take  on  the 

Surprised  and  sobered  by  the  boy's  job.    Seems  to  me,  you  would  make 

unusual    wish,    Nancy    questioned,  a  real  fine  grandma.    But  then,  then 

''Don't  you  have  a  grandma?"  Fd  be  a  grandpa  for  sure,  wouldn't 

"Not  anymore,"  Joe  said.     '1  re-  I?" 

member  though,  how  my  Grandma  "Would  you  mind,  David?"  From 

Brown    used    to    help    us    children  the    pleased    expression    he    wore, 

make  popcorn  balls  and  taffy  candy  Nancy  was  sure  he  would  not.  Now 

at  Christmas  time,  and  she  would  she  told  him  about  the  boy  in  the 

knit    warm    mittens    for    us    every  store,  and  why  she  had  brought  him 

winter."  to  shovel  the  snow. 

I  will  never  be  a  grandma,  never,  "You're  a  trump,  Nancy."  David's 

Nancy  thought,  now.    I  am  not  too  eyes  crinkled  in  a  tender  smile, 

young  to  be  a  grandma  though,  and  -We  could  have  a  real  Christmas 

David  could  be  a  grandpa.    I  really  Eve  party,  with  Joe's  mother  and  the 

think  he  would  like  it  very  much,  children.    There  are  three  of  them, 

I  wonder  if  a  substitute   grandma  besides  Joe.    There  are  others,  too, 

would  do  for  Joe?    I'll  have  to  talk  ^hom  we  could  invite."  Nancy  was 

the  matter  over  with  David.  I  can't  surprising   herself,    her    ideas    were 

make  him   a  grandpa   without  his  cropping  up  so  fast, 

consent,  Nancy  said  to  herself,  but  .^^^  j  ^^^  ^^^  ^1^^  ^^^^^  ^^^^.^^_ 

she  thought  from  the  serious  way  he  ^^^^  ^^^^  ^^  ^^^^  .     j^^^^^  ^^^  ^^ 

was   ookmg  at  the  boy  now  that  he  enthusiastic  as  a  boy. 

would  not  be  hard  to  convince.  ,  ^        ,             ^            ,         ,    . 

Nancy  s  eyes  lowered,  and  tor  a 

■pjAVID  took  out  his  purse  to  pay  moment  she  could  not  speak.     She 

^    the  boy  for  his  work.  He  looked  was  seeing  again  their  little  Michael 

puzzled,  when  Nancy  said,  "Fm  pay-  as  he  gazed  happily  at  the  bright 

ing  Joe,  David."    Then  she  slipped  tree    in    the    corner    of   the    room. 

a    tissue-wrapped    parcel    into    the  Nancy  had  said,  after  Michael  had 

lad's  hand.    "I  put  an  extra  trinket  gone,  "We  will  never  have  another 

in   that   I   think  your  mother  will  tree."     All    these   years    there   had 

like,  Joe."     In   Nancy's   smile  was  been  none,  but  now  Nancy  raised 

the  love  of  a  real  grandma.  her   head   high,   and   spoke   firmly, 

"What  in  tunket  kind  of  pay  are  "Yes,^pavid,  get  the  finest  tree  in 

you  giving  a  boy  —  a  tissue-wrapped  town, 

box,  tied  with  a  ribbon  bow?"  Nancy  and  David  looked  at  each 

Joe's  bright  smile  left  a  warmth  other.    There  was  a  shining  look  in 

and  glow  in  the  room  even  after  he  their  eyes,  and  an  awareness  of  two 

had  gone.  people  who  are  very  close.     Nancy 

"I  thought  you  said  that  the  boy  began  to  hum   a   tune  very  softly 

needed  money,"  David  said  abrupt-  now.    It  was  just  a  bit  of  the  song 

ly.  that  came  to  her,  "All  is  calm,  all 

"He  needs  some  things  even  more  is    bright  .  .   .  Sleep    in    heavenly 

than   money.     Did  you  hear  him,  peace."     She   knew   that   at   last  a 

David?     The  boy  said,  'more  than  heavenly  peace  had  come  back  to 

anything,'  he  wants  a  grandma."  their  hearts. 


Sixty    LJears  J^go 

Excerpts  From  the  Woman's  Exponent,  December  i,  and  December  15,  1897 

"For  the  Rights  of  the  Women  of  Zion  and  the  Rights  of  the 
Women  of  All  Nations" 

RESTORATION  OF  MOUNT  VERNON:  It  will  be  gratifying  news  to  many 
to  learn  that  Mount  \'ernon  is  to  undergo  restoration  to  as  near  its  condition  at  the 
time  of  its  occupancy  by  our  first  President  as  it  is  practicable.  It  was  recently  dis- 
covered that  decay  had  set  in  in  some  of  the  timbers  used  in  the  erection  of  the 
mansion  and  work  has  already  begun  under  the  direction  of  the  Mount  Vernon  Ladies 
association  for  their  replacement  by  materials  of  most  lasting  quality.  .  .  . 

— Home  Magazine 

RELIEF  SOCIETY  CONFERENCE  IN  DAVIS  STAKE:  The  Relief  Society 
conference  of  Davis  Stake  met  at  Kaysville  Oct.  28,  1897,  President  Susan  Grant,  pre- 
siding .  .  .  said,  "Through  the  blessings  of  the  Lord  we  arc  permitted  to  meet  again  in 
this  capacity.  I  am  afraid  we  do  not  appreciate  the  blessings  the  Lord  is  continually 
showing  to  us.  ...  I  want  to  encourage  the  sisters  to  take  the  Exponent."  .  .  .  Sister 
L.  D.  Alder  addressed  the  meeting:  "When  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith  organized  the 
Society  he  did  it  as  a  pattern  of  the  olden  times,  I  think  these  organizations  existed  in 
the  days  of  the  Savior.  .  .  .  When  we  do  anything  in  the  Relief  Society  we  are  helping 
ourseh'cs,  these  meetings  are  our  own  meetings  and  we  can  work  a  little  extra  to  attend 
them  .  .  .  there  is  a  bond  that  unites  the  sisters  that  work  together.  .  .  ," 

— Phebe  C.  Sessions,  Sec. 

WOMAN'S  APPEAL 

O  never  yet  has  freedom  called  in  vain 
On  woman's  hand  or  woman's  brain. 
Through  shadowy  stretch  of  fleeting  years. 
See  her  undaunted  by  her  fears, 
Set  forth  from  kindred  and  her  native  strand 
To  dwell  thenceforth  in  foreign  land.  .  .  , 
The  Nineteenth  Century  on  roll  of  fame 
Has  oft  inscribed  a  woman's  name.  .  .  . 

— Bertha  M.  Wixon 

SAVE  YOUR  MONEY:  And  when  you  get  a  dollar,  deposit  it  with  Zion's  Sav- 
ings Bank  and  Trust  Company,  the  oldest  and  largest  savings  bank  in  Utah.  .  .  .  The 
laws  of  Utah  permit  married  women  and  also  children  who  are  minors  to  open  savings 
accounts  in  their  own  name,  subject  to  their  own  order.  .  .  . 

— Advertisement 

CHRISTMAS  AND  THE  CHILDREN:  Christ  loved  httle  children  and  he  told 
his  disciples,  "Except  ye  become  as  these  little  ones  ye  shall  in  no  wise  enter  the  king- 
dom of  heaven."  The  very  simplicity  of  the  language  in  which  our  Savior  taught  .  .  . 
clothes  it  with  a  significant  beauty  and  makes  it  all  the  more  touching  to  the  human 
heart.  .  .  .  The  children  should  be  made  as  happy  as  possible  with  nice  and  comfort- 
able gifts  from  those  who  love  them.  .  .  .  On  the  blessed  Christmas  day  let  us  hope 
there  will  not  be  a  hungry  child  or  an  unhappy  one  in  all  Utah.  .  .  . 

— Editorial 

Page  812 


Woman^s  Sphere 


Ramona  W.  Cannon 


•jyjISS  JOYCE  MYRON,  eighteen, 
of  North  Bergen,  New  Jersey, 
is  an  expert  on  the  atom,  and  in 
September  she  demonstrated  the 
operation  of  a  huge  nuclear  reactor, 
thus  winning  $64,000  and  barely 
missing  winning  $120,000  on  the 
Sixty-four  Thousand  Dollar  Ques- 
tion program  on  television.  Miss 
Myron  is  a  college  sophomore. 

lyfRS.  IVY  BAKER  PRIEST,  a 

native  of  Utah,  and  United 
States  Treasurer,  recently  received 
from  the  Easter  Seal  Society  a  cita- 
tion for  her  ''dedicated  effort"  as 
chairman  of  the  1957  National 
Easter  Seal  Campaign.  The  citation 
praised  Mrs.  Priest  for  her  great  serv- 
ice to  crippled  children  and  adults 
during  the  campaign. 

niD   RICKETTS   SUMNER,   at 

the  age  of  sixty-four,  author  of 
Traveling  in  the  Wilderness,  ''calmed 
her  nerves"  by  exploring,  partly  on 
a  rubber  raft,  the  dangerous  canyons 
of  the  Green  and  Colorado  rivers. 

jyiRS.  IRMA  R.  De  VIGO,  of 
Puerto  Rico,  Public  Welfare 
Consultant  to  the  Bureau  of  Public 
Assistance,  helped  co-ordinate  wel- 
fare activities  during  a  recent  hurri- 
cane. 


lyrRS.  GROVER  FLOWERS,  of 

Ozark,  Alabama,  is  the  State's 

only  woman  school  superintendent. 

TULIA  MORGAN  was  the  archi- 
^  tect  of  the  magnificent  San  Sim- 
eon palace  of  William  Randolph 
Hearst,  recently  presented,  with  its 
great  art  treasures,  to  the  State  of 
California  as  a  museum.  Miss  Mor- 
gan designed  more  than  700  other 
buildings.  She  was  the  first  woman 
to  attend  the  famous  Beaux  Arts 
school  in  Paris.  She  was  also  one 
of  the  first  women  engineers.  She 
wielded  a  pronounced  influence  on 
American  architecture.  Julia  Morgan 
died  last  February  in  San  Francisco 
at  the  age  of  eighty-five  years. 

npHREE  women  recently  admitted 
to  United  States  citizenship,  are 
especially  interested  Sky  Watcher 
volunteers  in  Great  Neck,  New 
York.  Mrs.  Rosia  Stolzenberg  said, 
"Until  1938,  when  I  slept  the  first 
night  on  American  territory,  fear 
never  left  me."  Mrs.  Johanna  Whit- 
field was  a  former  member  of  the 
Dutch  Underground,  and  Mrs. 
Beatrice  Heinbock  endured  the 
bombardment  of  Brussells  in  1940. 
Mrs.  Whitfield  has  served  1500 
hours  in  the  Ground  Observer 
Corps. 

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EDITORIAL 


VOL.  44 


DECEMBER  1957 


NO.  12 


oJhe    i/lessage  of  L^hnstmas 


npHE  message  of  Christmas  is  one 
of  love,  and  has  been  since 
the  young,  beautiful  mother  Mary 
wrapped  her  Babe  in  swaddling 
clothes  and  lovingly  and  awesomely 
laid  him  in  the  manger.  Love  for 
the  Son  of  God  has  filled  the  hearts 
of  Christ's  true  followers  down  the 
ages. 

The  Savior  would  not  have  his 
worshipers  follow  him  through  fear 
or  dread,  but  because  of  the  love 
which  fills  their  hearts.  His  en- 
treaty is  ''If  ye  love  me,  keep  my 
commandments"  (John  14:15).  It 
was  love  in  the  heart  of  the  Heaven- 
ly Father  which  caused  him  to  send 
his  Only  Begotten  and  Beloved  Son 
in  the  flesh  that  his  spiritual  chil- 
dren who  inhabit  the  earth  might 
regain  their  heavenly  home.  ''For 
God  so  loved  the  world,  that  he  gave 
his  only  begotten  Son,  that  whoso- 
ever believeth  in  him  should  not 
perish,  but  have  everlasting  life'' 
(John  3:16).  Love  for  God  and 
humanity  are  the  first  and  second 
great  commandments. 

As  one  commemorates  the  event 
of  the  First  Christmas  the  heart  is 


filled  with  love  and  joy.  One  re- 
creates in  his  mind  that  scene  — 
Mary  gazing  in  adoration  at  her  Son, 

with  Joseph  standing  protectingly 
nearby,  then  the  worshiping  shep- 
herds who  had  heard  the  heavenly 
host  proclaiming  the  birth  and 
promising  peace,  and,  later,  the  out- 
pouring of  the  wise  Magi's  gifts.  Joy 
and  awe  mingle  with  the  love  one 
feels. 

No  shadow  of  Golgotha  casts  its 
threat  over  that  wonderful  scene. 
Only  love  has  place  and  the  out- 
pourings of  its  manifestation.  Gold, 
myrrh,  and  frankincense  are  but 
symbols  for  the  gift  of  love  each  fol- 
lower must  lay  at  the  feet  of  the 
Babe— a  broken  heart  and  contrite 
spirit.  Anything  less  is  tawdry  and 
tinsel,  but  a  broken  heart  and  con- 
trite spirit  surpass  the  riches  of  the 
whole  world.  They  reveal  true  com- 
pliance with  the  Son's  entreaty  "If 
ye  love  me,  keep  my  command- 
ments." He  who  brings  those  gifts 
carries  the  supreme  gift  for  Christ- 
mas to  his  Savior. 

-M.  C.  S. 


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TO  THE  FIELD 


(^hnstmas  [Presents  for  uielief  Societii    Viyomen 

SPECIAL  Relief  Society  gifts  for  the  women  on  your  Christmas  hst  are 
available  at  the  office  of  the  General  Board  of  Relief  Society,  76  North 
Main  Street,  Salt  Lake  City  11,  Utah.  Included  are  the  following  items, 
any  one  of  which  would  make  an  appropriate  and  treasured  Christmas 
remembrance: 

THE  RELIEF  SOCIETY  BUILDING  PLATE 

A  ten-inch  plate  made  of  exquisite  Staffordshire  china,  with  a  border 
design  of  golden  wheat,  centered  by  the  official  Relief  Society  seal,  with 
its  motto  ''Charity  Never  Faileth."  Portraits  of  the  nine  General  Presi- 
dents of  Relief  Society  circle  the  plate  around  the  central  motif— a  lovely 
picture  in  full  color  of  the  Relief  Society  Building.  Price  $3.50,  including 
postage. 

THE  OFFICIAL  RELIEF  SOCIETY  PIN 

An  attractive  pin  in  gold  and  blue,  the  Relief  Society  colors.  The 
pin  has  a  delicately  fluted  edge  and  is  centered  by  the  engraved  initials 
''R.  S."  The  motto  ''Charity  Never  Faileth"  circles  the  pin,  with  the 
date  1842— commemorating  the  organization  of  Relief  Society.  The  pin 
is  beautifully  made  and  has  a  safety  clip  lock.  Price  $1.75,  including  postage. 

"WIST  YE  NOT  THAT  I  MUST  BE  ABOUT 
MY  FATHER'S  BUSINESS?" 

A  beautifully  illustrated  book  by  President  J.  Reuben  Clark,  Jr.,  con- 
taining six  chapters  which  narrate  the  journey  of  Jesus  from  Nazareth  to 
Jerusalem,  the  temple  sacrifices  on  the  day  of  the  Passover,  and  the  ap- 
pearance of  Jesus  in  the  temple.  This  scholarly  volume  is  written  with 
great  precision  and  beauty  of  language,  and  authoritative  interpretation. 
The  paper  is  of  excellent  quality,  and  the  book  is  bound  in  dark  blue 
fabricoid,  with  gold  lettering  of  the  title.    Price  $2,  including  postage. 

Page  815 


cJLive  and  JLearn  cjorever 

DIMENSIONS  OF  KNOWLEDGE 


lyi ANY  of  us  are  distressed  because 
we  may  think  our  capacities  for 
learning  and  our  talents  are  limited, 
but  few  of  us  realize  that  no  one 
has  ever  reached  the  full  measure  of 
his  ability  to  learn.  All  of  the  time 
given  to  us  on  this  earth,  and  in  the 
eternities  to  come,  is  for  our  de- 
velopment. At  best,  we  learn  only 
a  small  fraction  of  the  great  knowl- 
edge which  is  waiting  for  us  to  dis- 
cover. 

Knowledge,  in  itself,  is  valuable 
and  becomes  a  source  of  joy  and 
advancement.  Without  some  knowl- 
edge of  our  earth  home,  its  peoples 
and  their  ways,  its  past,  and  its  pos- 
sible future,  we  have  no  real  founda- 
tion for  our  journey  into  the  wider 
paths  of  wisdom. 

The  Lord  through  the  Prophet 
Joseph  Smith  gave  us  direction  in 

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our   search    for   learning,   when   he 

spoke  of  the  many  subjects  of  study 

suitable  for  the  saints: 

Of  things  both  in  heaven  and  in  the 
earth;  things  which  have  been,  things 
which  are,  things  which  must  shortly  come 
to  pass;  things  which  are  at  home,  things 
which  are  abroad;  the  wars  and  the  per- 
plexities of  the  nations,  and  the  judg- 
ments which  are  on  the  land;  and  a  knowl- 
edge also  of  countries  and  of  kingdoms .  . . 
(D.  &C.  88:79). 

Our  knowledge  of  the  forces  of 
nature,  of  the  plants  and  animals  of 
the  earth,  the  history  of  men  and 
nations  —  all  the  knowledge  that  we 
can  gain  in  the  wide  fields  of 
science  and  art  and  industry  —  these 
tools,  alone,  will  not  give  us  com- 
plete wisdom  —  for  wisdom  is 
knowledge  in  action;  wisdom  is  that 
use  of  knowledge  which  will  best 
serve  us  here  and  hereafter.  It  is 
the  ability  to  choose  among  many 
things  those  which  have  a  lasting 
value  for  us  and  our  loved  ones.  It 
is  the  understanding  to  select  from 
many  paths  those  which  will  lead 
us  most  surely  to  our  destination,  to 
that  time  and  place  when  our  possi- 
bilities for  learning  shall  be  in- 
creased, when  our  sphere  of  under- 
standing shall  be  magnified,  and 
when  our  wisdom  will  be  sufficient 
for  us  to  understand  the  light 
which 

.  .  .  proceedeth  forth  from  the  presence 
of  God  to  fill  the  immensity  of  space — 
the  light  which  is  in  all  things,  which 
giveth  life  to  all  things,  which  is  the  law 
by  which  all  things  are  governed,  even  the 
power  of  God  .  .  .  who  is  in  the  bosom 
of  eternity,  who  is  in  the  midst  of  all 
things  (D.  &  C.  88:12-13). 


1 

c.  butter 

Vi 

c.  sugar 

2 

egg  yolks 

uiolidaii   (quests    Jjeser\)e  the   luest 

Counselor  Helen  W.  Anderson 

OF  all  the  holiday  festivities,  I  like  most  of  all  the  times  when  family,  friends,  and 
neighbors  drop  in  informally  to  visit  around  the  fireplace  and  enjoy  the  Christmas 
goodies  prepared  ahead  of  time. 

Berliner-Kranser 

2  hard-cooked  egg  yolks,  sie\'ed 
2  Yz    c.  sifted  enriched  flour 

Cream  butter  and  sugar.  Add  uncooked  egg  yolks  one  at  a  time.  Stir  in  sieved 
egg  yolks.  Add  flour,  stirring  only  until  blended.  On  lightly  floured  board,  roll  small 
pieces  of  dough  under  your  hands  to  pencil  size — about  fi\'C  inches  long  and  about  \i 
inch  thick.  Form  each  into  a  circle  bringing  one  end  over  the  other  to  form  a  bow 
knot  or  wreath.  Beat  one  egg  white  slightlv  and  brush  tops  of  cookies.  Sprinkle  on 
coarsely  crushed  sugar  made  by  crushing  cubed  sugar  with  a  rolling  pin.  Bake  on 
ungreased  cookie  sheet  in  350°  oven  from  10  to  12  minutes  or  until  set,  but  not  brown. 

Krumkaka 

A  special  iron  is  needed  for  these  crispy  cones.  This  iron  can  be  found  in 
European  specialty  shops. 

6  eggs  1  Vi    tsp.  crushed  cardamon  seed 

1  c.  heavy  cream  (Buy  the  whole  seed.     Remove  outer 

5^    r   Qiiaar  ^^^^^^  ^"^^   crusli   secd   with   a  rolling 

2%   c.  sifted  flour 


pm 


Beat  eggs  with  heavy  cream,  add  sugar,  flour,  cardamon  seed  and  melted  butter. 
Put  1  tbsp.  batter  in  hot  iron  and  bake  about  one  minute.  Remove  from  iron  and 
roll  around  ice  cream  cone  to  achieve  desired  cone  shape.  Cool  and  take  off  cone. 
1  hese  look  especially  attractive  v\'hen  arranged  on  a  large  tray  with  fruit  cake,  brownies, 
Norwegian  snowballs  or  other  cookie  varieties. 

Norwegian  Snowballs 

Vi   c.  powdered  sugar  !4    tsp.  salt 

1  c.  butter  1   tsp.  vanilla 

2/2    c.  flour  1  c.  nuts  (cut  up) 

Cream  butter  to  soften.  Add  powdered  sugar  and  blend.  Add  flour,  salt,  vanilla, 
and  nuts.  Roll  into  balls  the  size  of  a  walnut.  Bake  in  400°  oven  for  10  to  20 
minutes.  Bake  on  rack  just  above  center  of  o\en.  Cool  and  roll  in  powdered  sugar. 
Store  in  tight  cake  tin. 

Sandnotter 

Y2  lb.  butter  2  c.  corn  starch 

1  /4  c.  flour  2  tsp.  baking  powder 

1  egg  1  tsp.  ^'anilla 

1  c.  sugar 

Cream  butter,  add  sugar,  beaten  eggs,  sifted  flour,  baking  powder,  and  vanilla. 
Roll  in  nut-sized  balls.     Press  flat  with  a  fork.     Bake  at  400°  until  hght  brown. 

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818  RELIEF  SOCIETY  MAGAZINE— DECEMBER  1957 

Spritz 

1  c.  butter  Yz  tsp.  salt 

/4  c.  sugar  i  tsp.  almond  extract 

1  egg  2  Vz  c.  flour 

Vz  tsp.  baking  powder 

Cream  butter,  add  sugar  gradually,  and  unbeaten  egg.  Sift  together  flour,  salt,  and 
baking  powder  three  times,  and  add  to  first  mixture.  Add  extract.  Put  through  cookie 
press.  Bake  lo  to  12  minutes  in  400°  oven.  Holly  wreaths,  Christmas  trees,  or 
poinsettias  may  be  decorated  with  red  and  green  candy  decoretts. 

Honey  Taffy 

3  c.  sugar  3  tbsp.  white  vinegar 

1  c.  honey  3  tbsp.  butter  or  margarine 
%  c.  water                                                          '/4   tsp.  salt 

Combine  and  cook,  stirring  occasionally  until  very  hard  ball  forms  in  cold  water. 
Pour  into  buttered  pan  until  cool  enough  to  handle.  Pull  until  light  golden  color  and 
porous.  Twist  and  cool  on  a  greased  pan.  Mark  with  knife  and,  when  cool,  cut  or  break 
into  pieces. 

Panoche 

Vz  c.  sugar  (carmelized)  1  c.  canned  milk 

!4  c.  water  54  tsp.  salt 

3  c.  sugar  1  c.  nuts  (cut  up) 

2  tbsp.  light  corn  syrup  1  tsp.  \'anilla 
2  tbsp.  butter  or  margarine 

Caramelize  sugar  and  add  %  c.  water.  Boil  until  caramelized  sugar  is  dissolved.  Add 
sugar,  syrup,  butter  or  margarine,  milk,  and  salt.  Cook  in  heavy  saucepan  until  soft 
ball  forms  in  cold  water,  stirring  occasionally.  Pour  onto  marble  slab  or  platter.  When 
cold,  add  vanilla,  stir  until  hard  and  creamy,  and  then  knead  until  smooth  and  firm. 
Knead  in  nuts.    Form  into  rolls  and  when  firm  and  cold,  cut  into  slices. 

Melt-in- YouR-MouTH  Fudge 

2  1 -ounce  squares  unsweetened  chocolate         1  c.  canned  milk 

3  c.  sugar  J4    tsp.  salt 

2  tbsp.  corn  syrup  1   tbsp.  vanilla 

2  tbsp.  butter  or  margarine  1   c.  walnuts  (cut  up) 

Combine  all  except  last  two  ingredients  in  heavy  saucepan  and  cook  slowly,  stirring 
until  chocolate  is  dissolved.  Cook  to  soft-ball  stage,  stirring  frequently.  Remove  from 
heat  and  pour  onto  marble  slab  or  platter  until  cold.  Add  vanilla  and  stir  until  it  can 
be  taken  up  into  hands.  Knead  until  smooth.  Knead  in  walnuts.  Form  into  rolls  and 
slice  when  cold  and  firm. 

Fondant 

2  c.  sugar  %    c.  water 

2  tbsp.  hght  corn  syrup  Vs    tsp.  cream  of  tartar 

Cook  ingredients  in  a  heavy  saucepan,  stirring  until  it  comes  to  a  boil.  Wipe  sugar 
crystals  from  around  sides  of  pan  several  times  during  cooking  with  a  fork  wrapped  in 
a  damp  cloth.     Cook  until  it  forms  a  soft  ball  in  cold  water.     Pour  onto  marble  slab 


HOLIDAY  GUESTS  DESERVE  THE  BEST  819 

or  large  platter.  (Do  not  move.)  When  cold,  stir  until  creamy  and  stiff,  then  knead 
until  smooth.  Wrap  in  waxed  paper  and  store  in  large  covered  bowl  and  let  stand 
in  refrigerator  over  night. 

For  a  Christmasy-looking  roll,  cut  red  and  green  maraschino  cherries  into  small 
pieces,  add  nuts,  and  knead  into  fondant.  Fondant  may  also  be  used  to  stuff  figs  or 
dates,  or  it  may  be  molded  into  small  round  balls  and  covered  with  melted  chocolate. 

Caramels 

2  c.  sugar  1  tsp.  vanilla 

2  c.  light  corn  syrup  i   c,  nuts  (cut  up) 

1  square  butter  or  margarine  pinch  of  salt 

1  can  evaporated  milk 

Bring  sugar,  syrup,  and  butter  to  a  boil,  add  soda  and  milk  slowly.  Continue  stir- 
ring until  a  firm  ball  forms  in  cold  water.  Add  vanilla  and  nuts.  Pour  into  buttered 
pan,  cool,  and  mark  into  squares. 

Raisin  Sugar  Cookies 


Vi  c.  butter  or  margarine  2  tsp.  grated  lemon  rind 

%  c.  sugar  1  Vi  c.  sifted  flour 

1  egg  /4  tsp.  salt 

1  tbsp.  milk  /4  tsp.  baking  powder 

1  tsp.  lemon  juice  2  c.  raisins 

Mix  together  thoroughly  butter,  sugar,  egg,  milk,  lemon  juice  and  rind.  Sift 
together  and  stir  in  flour,  baking  powder,  and  salt.  Add  raisins.  Chill  dough.  Roll 
dough  into  nut-sized  balls.  Flatten  balls  with  bottom  of  glass  greased  with  margarine, 
and  then  dipped  in  sugar.    Bake  at  425°  seven  minutes  or  until  hghtly  browned. 


QJinale 

Doiothy  ].  Roheits 

Watch  the  world  converge  again 
In  gift  and  card  and  holly. 
Joining  underneath  the  tree 
In  a  grand  finale. 

Moved  by  dreams  in  children's  eyes. 
It  stirs  its  dream's  slow  ember, 
To  give  to  love  a  glowing  form. 
And  young  hearts  ^^'ill  remember 

Another  gift  of  truth  and  love, 
The  promise  and  the  reason. 
And  slowly  learn  the  bleakest  year 
Will  bring  a  shining  season. 


Testimony  of  the  Stick  of  Joseph 


Louise  S.  Cotterell 


A  ND  now,  after  the  many  testi- 
/-\  monies  which  have  been  giv- 
en of  it,  this  is  the  testimony, 
last  of  all,  which  I  give  of  The  Book 
of  Mormon:    That  it  lives! 

Thus  do  I  testify  of  the  Nephite 
scriptures,  even  as  Joseph  Smith  the 
Prophet  and  Sidney  lligdon  bore 
testimony  that  Jesus  lives.  No  vol- 
ume is  more  pulsing  with  life,  more 
throbbing  with  the  earthly  struggles 
of  men,  both  good  and  bad. 

The  Book  of  Mormon  lifts  a  mag- 
ic curtain  and  grants  me  imaginative 
entrance  into  the  remote  past.  In- 
numerable times  I  have  felt  the  cold 
chill  of  the  wind  in  my  face  as  I 
have  stood  on  the  top  of  lonely 
Mount  Shelem  with  the  Brother  of 
Jared  and  have  gazed  in  ecstatic 
wonder  at  the  sixteen  clear,  white, 
transparent  stones  illuminated  by 
the  touch  of  the  finger  of  the  Lord. 

Rocking  to  and  fro  in  her  misery, 
Sariah  has  often  shattered  the  still- 
ness of  the  desert  air  with  her 
Hebraic  lament  as,  helpless  to  com- 
fort her,  I  have  sat  beside  her  in  the 
tent  of  Lehi  in  the  valley  of  Lemuel. 
Mother-heart  has  spoken  to  mother- 
heart;  I  have  comprehended  Sariah's 
anguish  in  her  fear  that  her  four 
sons  had  perished  in  the  wilderness 
on  a  return  trip  to  Jerusalem. 

In  a  thicket  of  small  trees  I  have 
listened  intently  to  the  words  of 
Alma.  I  have  heard  i\lma  counsel 
his  little  band  of  followers  (exiles 
from  the  tyranny  of  wicked  King 
Noah)  to  be  baptized  in  the  name 
of  the  Lord.  And,  with  the  others, 
I  have  clapped  my  hands  for  pure 

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joy  as  I  have  seen  Alma  take  Helam 
into  the  waters  of  Mormon;  both 
men  were  buried  in  the  fountain  of 
pure  water  and  came  forth  rejoicing, 
filled  with  the  spirit. 

With  the  light-hearted  abandon 
of  joyous  youth,  I  have  gayly  danced 
and  sung  with  the  daughters  of  the 
Lamanites  on  a  sun-flooded  green  in 
a  place  called  Shemlon.  Our  laugh- 
ter has  rung  forth  clear  as  bells  as 
we  have  shyly  exchanged  secrets 
about  stalwart  Lamanite  youths  who 
have  caused  our  hearts  to  flutter  and 
our  eyes  to  shine. 

Breathlessly,  I  have  run  from  door 
to  door  in  the  Land  of  Ishmael  with 
Abish,  the  Lamanitish  woman,  mak- 
ing known  to  the  people  that  Am- 
nion, the  Nephite  missionary.  King 
Lamoni,  his  queen,  and  all  their 
servants  lay  prostrate  on  the  earth, 
overpowered  by  the  Spirit  of  the 
Lord.  Fervently  I  have  prayed  with 
Abish  as  we  have  hurried  on  our 
way,  prayed  that  the  Lamanites 
would  assemble  in  the  house  of  the 
king,  prayed  that  the  strange  sight 
of  those  who  lay  as  dead  would  cause 
the  Lamanite  multitude  to  believe 
in  the  power  of  the  living  God. 

While  kneeling  close  to  Nephi  III 
on  the  grounds  of  the  temple  in  the 
land  Bountiful,  I  ha\e  clutched  a 
corner  of  the  hem  of  his  robe,  when, 
awe-struck  and  trembling  with  emo- 
tion, I  have  witnessed  the  descent 
of  the  Glory  of  Godhood  and  have 
heard  the  pronouncement:  ''Behold, 
I  am  Jesus  Christ!"  At  that  breath- 
taking moment  I  have  felt  that 
sustaining   strength    flowed   to    me 


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through  the  spiritual  power  of  Ne-  inadequacy  for  the  tremendous  task 
phi  the  Disciple  whose  faith  in  the  assigned  them.  Moroni,  in  par- 
Lord  Jesus  was  so  great  that  angels  ticular,  acknowledged  his  imperfec- 
ministered  to  him  daily.  tion  as  a  literary  man:  his  awkward- 
Such  people  (and  many,  many  ness  of  hands  in  writing,  his  stum- 
others)  from  the  pages  of  The  Book  bling  in  the  placing  of  words.  Fools 
of  Mormon  have  become  my  inti-  may  mock,  as  Moroni  feared,  but 
mate  friends.  I  have  shared  their  they  shall  surely  mourn.  Though  in- 
lives,  suffered  with  them,  rejoiced  scribed  by  fingers,  faltering  at  times, 
with  them.  Though  they  have  long  because  of  the  Christ-like  humility 
since  passed  from  earthly  existence,  of  the  writers.  The  Book  of  Mormon 
my  "heart  assures  me  that  they  are  rings  forth  with  the  living  word  of 
still  alive.    And  the  scriptures  con-  God. 

firm   that   my   heart    speaks    truly:  This  knowledge  of  the  divinity  of 

^Tor  he  is  not  a  God  of  the  dead,  ^he  Book  of  Mormon  came  to  me 

but  of  the  hvmg:  for  all  live  unto  neither  easily  nor  miraculously.    As 

him     (Luke  20:38).  ^]^g  result  of  an  earnest  desire  to 

My  mind  finds  the  Nephite  record  know,  as  the  result  of  patient  study 

fascinating   with    its    intricacies    of  to  gain  understanding,  and  as  the 

plot,    its    varied    character    delinca-  result  of  fervent  prayer  for  guidance 

tions,  and  its  cultural  details  which  and    enlightenment,    the    revealing 

slowly  but  surely  are  being  verified  power  of  the  Holy  Ghost  was  grad- 

by  scientists.    My  mind  appreciates,  ually  exercised  in  my  behalf.     One 

too,  the  excellent  moral  teachings  blessed  day,  I  knew  that  in  the  early 

of  The  Book  of  Mormon;  these  prin-  nineteenth    century    an    untutored 

ciples,  if  applied,  would  undoubted-  farm  boy  (doubtless  chosen  before 

ly  make  for  more  abundant  living  the  world  was,  for  his  tremendous 

and  a  happier  social  order  among  all  mission)  had  been  raised  up  by  the 

the  children  of  men.  Lord   to   restore   to   the   earth   the 

But  my  heart  leaps  beyond  the  gospel  of  Jesus  Christ  in  its  purity 

logical,  the  human,  the  intellectual,  and  truth.     I  knew,  as  I  know  that 

the  social,   or  even   the   moral,   to  I  live,  that  the  ancient  Nephite  rec- 

recognize  the  divinity  of  the  record  ord  translated  into  English  by  Jo- 

of  the  Nephites  and  the  Jaredites.  seph  Smith  and  published  as  The 

Upon  Mount  Sinai,  Moses  received  Book  of  Mormon  was  in  very  truth 

two  tables  of  stone  written  on  both  another  witness  for  Christ.     Since 

sides  by  the  finger  of  God.  Though  that  happy  day  when  a  sure  testi- 

actually  engraved  by  human  proph-  mony  entered  my  soul,  I  have  felt 

ets,  the  ancient  American  plates  just  flooded  with  light,  hght  sufficient 

as  surely  had  divine  endorsement,  to    brighten    my    way    as    I    walk 

for  I  know  that  Nephite  and  Jared-  through  the  darkness  of  mortality, 

ite  fingers  were  guided  in  their  writ-  sufficient  to  cast  a  reassuring  gleam 

ing  by  the  inspiration  of  the  Holy  along  the  pathway  toward  eternal 

Spirit;  yet  the  ancient  American  his-  life. 

torians,  in  deepest  humility,  more  Nor  do  I  regret  that  neither  mi- 

than  once  expressed  their  feelings  of  raculous  manifestation  nor  startling 


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discovery  proved  to  be  the  founda- 
tion of  my  testimony.  I  can  testify 
to  the  truthfulness  of  The  Book  of 
Mormon  far  more  surely  than  if 
one  of  the  Three  Nephites  had 
borne  witness  at  my  door;  more 
surelv  than  if,  somewhere  in  the 
Americas,  a  stela  had  been  un- 
earthed bearing  carved  figures  and 
decipherable  inscriptions  which  read 
as  follows:  Lehi,  Sariah,  Laman, 
Lemuel,  Sam,  Nephi;  more  surely 
than  if  recently  in  the  Hill  Cumorah 
in  New  York  there  had  been  acci- 
dentally discovered  some  gold  plates, 
curiously  engraved  with  characters 
which  scientists  had  identified  as 
ancient  Egyptian.  Yes,  I  have  a 
testimony  far  stronger  than  that 
founded  upon  miracles  or  upon  the 
corroborating  support  of  external 
evidence.  Through  the  enlighten- 
ment of  the  Holy  Ghost,  I  feel  as  if 
a  testimony  has  permeated  every 
fiber  of  my  being— a  testimony  that 
Jesus  of  Nazareth  is  the  Christ,  that 
Joseph  Smith  is  a  true  prophet  of 
God,  that  The  Book  of  Mormon 
is  the  Biblical  stick  of  Joseph.  Now, 
the  stick  of  Judah  and  the  stick  of 


Joseph  are  one  in  my  hand  and  one 
in  my  love. 

May  the  Lord  graciously  look  be- 
yond my  inadequate  words  to  read 
the  gratitude  written  in  my  heart 
for  the  testimony  which  I  have 
gained!  Well  do  I  understand  the 
wise  words  of  King  Benjamin. 
Though  I  should  thank  the  Lord 
and  serve  him  all  the  days  of  my 
life,  I  should  still  be  an  unprofitable 
servant  because  of  the  magnitude  of 
the  gifts  which  he  offers  me.  I  can 
only  bow  in  humble  devotion  before 
the  glory  and  the  wonder  of  it  all. 

With  the  strengthening  of  my 
testimony  has  come  a  greater  peace 
of  soul  than  I  had  ever  previously 
enjoyed.  A  calming  realization  has 
dawned.  Disappointments  and  fail- 
ure to  achieve  goals  set  by  human 
ambitions  and  desires  will  continue 
to  test  my  faith,  from  time  to  time. 
But,  if  I  sincerely  and  prayerfully 
attempt  to  obey,  aJJ  the  laws  and 
ordinances  of  the  gospel  of  Jesus 
Christ,  I  have  faith  that  I  shall  live 
to  fulfill  the  mission  of  my  creation 
in  the  divine  plan  of  God.  More 
I  ask  not. 


I  Lew  Serial    iblizaheth  s  (children    to  [Joegin  in  y^anuary^ 


\  new  serial  ''Elizabeth's  Children,"  by  Olive  Woolley  Burt,  will  begin 
in  the  January  1958  issue  of  The  Relief  Society  Magazine.    The  ques- 
tions of  woman's  work  and  woman's  destiny  are  considered  in  this  serial, 
which  relates  the  changes  brought  about  in  the  life  of  Carol  Wilson  when 
her  sister  Elizabeth  dies  and  the  children  want  their  Aunt  Carol. 

The  author  will  be  remembered  for  her  previous  serials  in  the  Maga- 
zine: ''And  for  Eternity"  and  ''Bitter  Medicine,"  as  well  as  for  her  many 
excellent  short  stories,  articles,  and  poems. 


[Bodell  Lyhnstine  uL.  Jensen   (^rochets 
[Prize-  Vi/inning  iKugs 

TV/IRS.  Bodell  Christine  Hansen  Jensen,  Salt  Lake  City,  makes  rugs  of 
great  beauty  and  durability.  Using  cast-off  clothing  —  house  dresses, 
pajamas,  shirts,  skirts,  and  other  materials,  she  crochets  the  rag  strips  into 
lovely,  colorful  designs,  and,  for  durability,  makes  the  borders  of  new 
materials.  She  is  ninety  years  young  and  has  been  a  Relief  Society  worker 
since  her  young  womanhood.  For  sixty-two  years  she  was  a  visiting  teach- 
er. She  is  the  mother  of  nine  children,  six  of  whom  are  still  living.  She 
has  seventeen  grandchildren  and  thirty-two  great  grandchildren. 

Mrs.  Jensen  was  born  in  a  small,  two-room  adobe  home  which  was 
built  on  27th  South  Street  in  Salt  Lake  City  by  Mary  Fielding  Smith, 
mother  of  President  Joseph  F.  Smith,  and  her  sons  in  1848.  This  home 
still  stands.  It  is  said  to  be  the  oldest  house  in  the  valley  which  still 
stands  on  its  original  site. 


(^hildnood  dit 


ome 


Mabel  Law  Atkinson 

How  dear  that  home  whose  shrine  invited  rest; 
With  children's  laughter  its  melodic  chimes; 
Where  twelve  of  us,  the  Master  as  our  guest, 
Stepped  in  and  out  of  heaven  many  times! 
Deserted  now  and  lonely,  still  there  gleams 
Its  light  to  mark  the  pathway  to  our  dreams. 


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Christmas  1884 


Vernessa  MiUei  NagJe 


MOTHER  found  that  first 
Christmas  in  the  upper  val- 
ley of  the  Snake  River  very 
different.  There  had  been  a  com- 
fortable home  in  Davis  County, 
Utah.  But  this  one— how  primi- 
tive, how  formidable,  it  seemed. 
But  home  it  was  to  be,  and  there 
was  no  turning  back,  so  stated 
Grandfather  whenever  he  observed 
a  half-wistful,  half-longing  expres- 
sion on  the  face  of  any  one  of  the 
children  old  enough  to  make  com- 
parisons from  poignant  memories 
of  another  home. 

The  snow  had  come  unusually 
early  that  year,  the  November  rains 
turning  to  frost  with  snowdrifts 
piled  high  about  the  few  dirt- 
roofed  log  cabins  that  hugged  the 
frozen  ground.  The  mad  Snake 
had  gouged  its  brush-lined  banks, 
the  frozen  slush  spreading  out  into 
the  valley  inundated  all  signs  of 
vegetation. 

From  various  points  South,  the 
early  colonizers  had  trekked  into 
the  valley,  crossing  the  Oregon 
Trail  at  Fort  Hall,  plowing  their  way 
on  northward,  thirteen  davs  from 
Farmington,  Utah,  to  Egin  Bench, 
a  distance  of  approximately  two 
hundred  sixty  miles— a  record  trip. 
They  had  used  a  span  of  splendid 
horses  on  wheel  with  mules  on  the 
lead  pulling  a  lead  wagon.  Resting 
the  horses  at  intervals  of  two  or 
three  hundred  feet,  the  women  and 
children  had  often  walked  to  light- 
en the  load.  Over  Anderson's  toll 
bridge  at  Eagle  Rock,  the  trail  led, 

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then  followed  the  Corrine-Butte 
freighting  road  to  Market  Lake,  on 
across  the  sands  and  lavas  to  jour- 
ney's end. 

And  now  Christmas  Eve.  A  few 
homemade  candles  threw  question- 
ing shadows  about  the  dark  corners 
of  the  mud-chinked  wall  logs  and 
played  about  the  rough  puncheon 
floors.  A  huge  kitchen  stove  sput- 
tered rebelliously,  coughing  and 
hissing  as  pale  flames  bravely  at- 
tempted to  eat  their  way  into  foot 
lengths  of  semi-dry  sapling  boughs. 
Mingled  odors  of  foods  in  prepara- 
tion for  the  Christmas  dinner  per- 
meated the  room,  foods  that  would 
do  justice  to  the  occasion.  Water 
barrels  but  recently  filled  with  icy 
water  from  the  river  bottoms  of 
the  Snake  had  been  placed  in  their 
respective  corners  of  the  kitchen. 
An  uncrated  wooden  hogshead 
placed  near  the  washstand  was  evi- 
dence of  a  recent  addition  to  the 
family  supply  of  staples,  hauled  by 
sleigh  outfit  from  Market  Lake,  a 
distance  of  about  thirty  miles.  Con- 
tents? Frozen  potatoes  shipped  by 
friends  from  the  old  home  in  Utah. 
On  the  morrow  they  must  be  placed 
out  of  doors  to  prevent  thawing. 

A  hewn-log  work  table  near  the 
stove  was  piled  high  with  the  ordi- 
nary and  unusual  specimens  of  culi- 
nary achievement.  This  dinner  was 
to  be  the  highlight  of  the  first 
winter  in  the  valley.  Baked  veni- 
son, headcheese,  finale  of  the  lone 
porker  brought  into  the  valley  with 
the  personal  belongings;  vinegar  pie 


CHRISTMAS  1884 


825 


Vernessa  M.  Nagle 


IDAHO  CABIN  IN  THE  WILDERNESS 


in  tallow  pie  crust;  steamed  ''Lumpy 
Dick/'  frozen  potatoes  with  crack- 
ling gravy;  home-bleached  hominy 
grits,  and  cornbread  constituted 
that  well-planned  menu. 

Several  beds  had  been  spread 
down  on  the  well-scrubbed  floor, 
with  the  smaller  children  clamber- 
ing for  the  feather  tick.  From  nails 
conveniently  pounded  into  wall 
logs,  knitted  stockings  had  been 
suspended,  their  grotesque  contours 
suggesting  the  contents:  popcorn 
balls,  molasses  taffy,  hand-carved 
wooden  toys,  and  rag-stuffed  Punch 
and  Judy  dolls. 

As  the  fire  burned  low,  the  con- 
tracting wall  logs  loomed  ominously 
through  the  night  as  though  to  reg- 
ister the  rapidly  descending  tem- 
perature without. 

A  lone  coyote  call  hurtled  across 


the  frozen  stillness  and,  reverberat- 
ing, was  picked  up  and  mingled 
with  discordant  yelps  and  howls  of 
an  approaching  band  as  they  slunk 
across  the  frozen  drifts  of  buck- 
brush-studded  sand  dunes.  Father 
and  Mother  exchanged  knowing 
glances,  and  the  former  looked  hur- 
riedly toward  his  rifle. 

Then  all  was  silent;  the  few  gut- 
ted candles  burned  low.  A  dark 
shadow  cast  by  the  moon,  stalling 
momentarily  behind  a  low  cloud, 
enveloped  the  valley  for  a  brief  sec- 
ond, then  all  was  bright  again. 
Stars  flashed  beacon-like  across  the 
sky.  Far  across  the  junipers  one 
star  stood  out  brighter  than  the  rest. 
A  new  land,  a  new  home,  new 
friends,  yet  the  same  bright  star 
looked  down  in  benign  benediction 
to  light  man's  way. 


Something  Lacking 

Frances  Carter  Yost 

4  4  TTOW  does  that  look?"  Mar-  of  boys  and  girls,  a  half  dozen  of 

I     I  garet  Conway  asked,  as  she  them.  Two  years  after  their  marriage 

fastened  the  sparkling  star  Joey  had  arrived.  ''A  fine  start/'  Joe 

to  the  top  of  the  Christmas  tree.  had  said.    Then  overseas  duty,  fol- 

"It  doesn't  look  right,"  Joey,  her  lowed  by  war  with  Germany,  had 

seventeen-year-old  son,  said.  ''Some-  kept  them  apart.  Joseph  Conway  had 

thing's  lacking."  served  in  the  European  theater  of 

"It's  wonderful!"  Jamie,  her  sev-  war.  Margaret  could  never  under- 
en-year-old  son,  replied.  Jamie's  stand  why  they  called  anything  so 
little  face  was  alight  with  Christmas  hateful  as  war,  a  theater.  As  if  they 
expectation  more  this  Christmas  were  playing  a  role  on  a  stage.  It 
Eve  than  ever  before.  was  in  the  hateful  European  theater, 

"I    said    it    doesn't    look    right,  that  Joe  had  been  shot  down,  and 

Something's  lacking!"  Joey  repeated,  for   more   than   a   year   his   where- 

His  voice  was  packed  with  usurped  abouts     had     remained     unknown, 

authority.  Then,  after  what  seemed  an  etern- 

'Tleasc,  boys,   let's   not   disagree  ity,    Margaret    had    received    word 

Christmas  Eve."     Margaret  sighed,  that    he    was    a    prisoner    of    war. 

Even    a    Bethlehem    star    on    the  Margaret  could  still  shut  her  eyes 

Christmas  tree  didn't  suit  Joey.  It's  and    imagine    the    wakeful    nights, 

hard    rearing   two   sons   without   a  knowing  Joe  was  hungry,  sick,  and 

father,  Margaret  thought.  Then  she  cold,  and  she  could  do  nothing  for 

stopped   short,   why   she   shouldn't  him. 

even   think   such  a   thought.     She  Even  after  Joe  was  able  to  come 

wasn't  rearing  her  sons  without  a  to  the  States,  there  followed  years 

father.     They  had  the  most  won-  of  convalescence  in  hospitals.  Final- 

derful  father  in  the  world,  Major  ly,  that  glorious  day  when  he  could 

Joseph  Conway  of  the  United  States  come   home!     But,   by  then,   Joey 

Air  Corps.    He  was  doing  his  share  was  eight  years  old,  and  had  out- 

of  the  rearing  of  his  sons  by  remote  grown  any  brothers  and  sisters  he 

control,    right    now    from    Japan,  might  ever  have, 

where  he  was  stationed.  But  new  hope  was  theirs,  when 

''Major    Joseph    Conway,"    Mar-  two   years  later  Margaret  and  Joe 

garet  said  his  name  silently.    Ma/or  brought  little  Jamie  from  the  hos- 

to   most   people   spelled   rank   and  pital.     It  was  then  they  rearranged 

quality,  but  to  Margaret  it  spelled  their  plans  for  a  family.  Joey  v/ould 

Lonely  with  a  capital  letter.   When  be  the  "big  brother"  to  several  little 

she  and  Joe  had  made  their  wed-  brothers    and    sisters    near    Jamie's 

ding   vows,   oh,    even    before   that,  own    age.    But    here    again    their 

when  they  had  been  courting,  they  dreams  were  crushed  for,  following 

had  planned  a  big  family.  A  family  Jamie's   birth,  came  her  operation 

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which  made  the  large  family  a  dream 
not  to  be  fulfilled. 

Now  here  was  Joey,  a  prince  of  a 
fellow  of  se\'enteen.  His  only  fault 
was  that  he  became  so  annoyed  with 
everything  Jamie  said  and  did,  just 
because  he  was  too  small  to  be  the 
pal  Joey  needed.  And  here  was 
Jamie,  trying  to  grow  up  too  soon, 
because  of  the  hero  worship  he  had 
for  his  older  brother. 

Yes,  Margaret  thought,  Jamie  is 
growing  up  much  too  soon.  He 
won't  c\en  let  himself  be  seven. 
Why,  when  Joey  was  seven  he  let 
me  go  with  him  to  do  his  Christ- 
mas shopping,  but  would  Jamie  this 
year?  Definitely  not!  Margaret 
recalled  his  \'ery  words:  ''Let  me  be 
big  like  Joey  and  go  all  by  myself! 
I  earnecl  the  money  cutting  the 
lawn  and  things,  and  I've  saved  it, 
so  Fm  big  enough  to  spend  it  all  by 
myself,"  Jamie  had  pleaded. 

It  was  just  like  Jamie  to  ha\e 
bought  something  for  Joey  which 
he  would  have  liked  for  himself. 
Something  that  just  ^^'Ouldn't  ap- 
peal to  a  seventeen-year-old.  With 
Joey  going  through  the  stage  of 
changing  from  boyhood  to  man- 
hood, well,  anything  could  happen! 
If  Jamie  had  only  let  her  go  with 
him  that  day  he  had  gone  shop- 
ping   

>,■«       ;;:        ^-t       ~^,        t- 

npO  Jamie  Con\\'ay,  the  entire  city 
seemed  like  fairyland  with  the 
Christmas  decorations.  Big  green 
wreaths  hung  on  every  light  post, 
while  strings  of  colored  lights 
stretched  across  the  streets,  blink- 
ing their  elf-like  eyes  in  the  day- 
light. Jamie  was  not  aware  of  the 
coldness  of  the  day,  though  passers- 
by  turned  up  their  collars  against 
the  icy  snow  flung  by  the  wind.  To 


Jamie,  the  world  was  wonderful, 
and  he  was  big  like  Joey  and  doing 
his  own  shopping! 

Jamie  almost  ran  as  he  saw  Santa 
Claus  in  the  next  block,  standing 
on  the  sidewalk  in  his  red,  fur- 
trimmed  suit.  As  Jamie  came  clos- 
er he  could  tell  it  was  just  a  Santa 
Claus  helper.  You  could  tell  a 
helper,  because  his  beard  was  made 
of  cotton,  not  real  whiskers,  lliis 
helper  was  shaking  a  bell,  and  over 
a  charcoal  fire,  hung  a  big  black 
kettle  with  a  sign  which  read:  ''Help 
the  poor  to  ha\e  Christmas." 

Jamie  \^■as  glad  that  he  could  read. 
He  would  never  forget  Miss  Mason, 
the  first  grade  teacher  who  had 
taught  him  to  read.  It  was  so  handy 
to  be  able  to  read  the  signs  when 
30U  shopped  all  alone.  Jamie  lin- 
gered and  watched  older  people 
dropping  money  into  the  kettle. 
Jamie  had  lots  of  money,  he  could 
help  the  poor  people  have  a  good 
Christmas,  too.  He  pulled  a  silver 
quarter  from  his  pocket  and  listened 
to  it  jingle  in  the  kettle.  But  he 
must  hurry  along  now,  and  get  his 
shopping  done. 

First,  he  would  buy  a  present  for 
Momie.  tie  decided  to  look  in  the 
windows  first,  that  would  save  time. 
Jamie  couldn't  ever  remember  giv- 
ing Momie  a  present  that  she 
didn't  like.  Even  with  the  home- 
made things  he  had  made  when  he 
was  little,  she  had  hugged  him  close 
when  he  gave  them  to  her.  Why, 
even  when  he  gave  her  the  little 
perfume  sachet  he  had  made  in 
school  last  year,  she  had  thanked 
him  over  and  over  and  she  still  kept 
the  little  sachet  in  her  hanky  box, 
though  the  perfume  smell  was  all 
used  out  of  it. 

But  this  year  he  would  buy  some- 


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thing  nice  like  Joey  would  buy.  Jam- 
ie looked  at  the  nightgowns  in  the 
window.  Four  dollars  and  ninety- 
eight  cents.  He  felt  the  two  silver 
dollars  in  his  pocket  and  pennies 
for  the  tax,  and  walked  on.  Choco- 
lates in  the  pretty  boxes  would  make 
a  nice  gift,  but  Jamie  remembered 
Momie  was  passing  up  candy  these 
days.  She  said  she  wanted  to  be 
him  when  Daddy  came  home,  but 
Jamie  liked  Momie  just  the  way  she 
was. 

Jamie  looked  at  the  earrings  and 
necklace  sets,  and  even  the  watches 
in  the  jewelry  window,  but  when  he 
looked  at  the  price  tags,  he  knew 
they  were  presents  for  Daddy  to 
give  her. 

And  then,  there  it  was,  just  the 
right  present  for  Momie.  There 
was  a  little  manicuring  set,  and  it 
closed  up  like  a  tiny  coin  purse, 
which  would  fit  in  Momie's  big 
purse.  So  often  Momie  was  busy 
doing  dishes  and  things,  and  didn't 
ha\'e  time  for  her  nails  until  they 
were  on  their  way  to  church,  and 
she  would  use  her  fingernail  file 
while  Joey  drove  the  car.  But 
Jamie  had  heard  Momie  say,  'Tve 
lost  my  file,"  and  there  was  the 
cutest  little  file  in  this  manicure  set. 
And  there  was  an  orange  stick,  and 
even  a  tiny  pair  of  trimming  shears, 
and  all  of  them  fitted  in  the  tiny, 
brown,  purse-like  case. 

JAMIE'S  heart  stood  still,  if  only 
^  the  present  didn't  cost  too  much! 
He  had  two  dollars,  he  could  spend 
sixty-six  cents  on  each  person  in  his 
family.  Jamie  hardly  dared  look  at 
the  price  tag  on  the  little  manicure 
set.  Surelv  it  would  be  more  than 
sixty-six  cents,  but  he  crossed   his 


fingers  and  hoped,  as  he  pushed  his 
nose  flat  on  the  windowpane. 

Then,  taking  a  long  breath,  he 
opened  his  eyes  wide  and  looked  at 
the  price  tag.  One  dollar  and  thirty- 
five  cents.  At  first  Jamie  started  to 
go  on,  but  the  manicure  set  was 
just  the  right  present  for  Momie. 
He  went  into  the  store. 

''I  want  to  buy  the  little  manicure 
set  in  the  window."  It  was  hard  to 
speak  out,  but  Jamie  remembered 
how  Joey  would  have  said  it.  Jamie 
stood  at  the  window  and  pointed  to 
the  manicure  set,  and  the  clerk 
walked  right  into  the  window,  and 
picked  it  up,  and  came  back  to 
where  Jamie  stood  waiting. 

''It's  the  last  one  in  the  store," 
the  clerk  said. 

''Oh,  Fm  glad,"  Jamie  said,  then 
swallowed,  thinking  of  all  the  moth- 
ers who  would  be  disappointed  on 
Christmas  not  getting  a  little  man- 
icure set.  "Fm  glad  there  is  one 
left  for  my  Momie,"  Jamie  ex- 
plained. 

"Shall  I  gift-wrap  it?"  the  clerk 
asked,  then  added,  "it's  ten  cents 
more." 

Jamie  hesitated.  He  would  like 
to  gi\e  Momie  a  present  wrapped 
neatlv,  like  Joey  would,  but  he 
needed  the  ten  cents.  Anyway, 
Momie  always  made  a  fuss  about 
the  big  hide  and  seek  packages  he 
fixed.     "I'll  wrap  it,"  Jamie  replied. 

Then,  pocketing  the  sixty-five 
cents  change,  and  putting  the  little 
manicure  set  safely  in  his  inner 
pocket,  he  left  the  store. 

Daddy's  present  wasn't  hard  to 
figure  out.  He  had  planned  all  the 
time  to  send  a  box  of  stationery, 
the  air-mail  kind  with  thin  paper. 


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It  would  be  fun  seeing  all  the  let- 
ters coming  back,  and  Momie  would 
say:  "J'^niie,  this  is  the  very  station- 
ery you  sent  Daddy  for  Christ- 
mas!" 

But  the  stationery  cost  sixty-five 
cents,  and  that  was  all  the  monev 
he  had.  Jamie  stood  on  one  foot 
and  then  the  other  trying  to  figure 
out  how  to  buy  the  stationery  and 
still  ha\e  money  to  buy  Joey  some- 
thing. But  when  he  thought  of 
the  candy  and  fruit  cake  mother 
had  made  to  send,  the  bath  robe 
and  Joey's  fountain  pen  for  Daddy, 
Jamie  just  had  to  buy  the  station- 
ery. 

Jamie  walked  back  into  the  store. 
'Til  take  the  stationery,"  he  said 
and  handed  over  the  last  of  the 
Christmas  money. 

Jamie  took  the  package  and  went 
from  the  store,  but  his  heart  \^•as 
hea\y.  Somehow  the  Christmas 
decorations  looked  gaudy  now  to 
him.  The  colored  lights  stretching 
across  the  streets  blinked  freakishly 
at  him  in  the  daylight.  Jamie  just 
couldn't  help  thinking  about  the 
present  he  didn't  have  for  Joey. 
He  kept  thinking  of  the  quarter  he 
had  dropped  in  Santa  Claus'  black 
kettle  for  the  poor.  He  didn't  want 
his  quarter  back,  he  just  wanted  an- 
other one  like  it  to  buy  something 
for  Joey  for  Christmas! 

If  it  were  summer  he  could  earn 
some  more  money  cutting  lawns,  but 
it  wasn't  summer.  If  it  would  snow 
hard,  he  could  make  some  money 
shoveling  snow,  but  it  wasn't  snow- 
ing. Jamie  scuffed  the  mud  on  the 
sidewalk. 

And  then  all  of  a  sudden  he  saw 
the  sign.  Jamie  was  glad  that  he 
could  read.     He  thought  again  of 


Miss  Mason,  and  how  he  was  using 
reading  for  shopping.  The  sign 
said,  ''Merry  Christmas,  little  chil- 
dren. Come  in  and  get  a  balloon." 

Jamie  turned  into  the  store.  The 
balloons  were  all  sizes  and  shapes, 
and  their  colors  glittered  and  daz- 
zled Jamie's  eyes. 

"What  color  do  you  want,  Son- 
ny?" the  clerk  asked. 

Jamie  stretched  his  neck  looking 
at  every  single  one,  before  he  spot- 
ted the  big  blue  one  hanging  from 
the  ceiling. 

"I  want  that  big  blue  one."  Jam- 
ie could  hardly  wait  to  hold  it.  He 
would  like  to  walk  down  the  street 
waving  it  behind  him.  And  wouldn't 
Momie  and  Joey  be  surprised  about 
the  free  balloon?  But  he  couldn't 
tell  them  about  it,  at  least  not  yet. 
What  was  the  clerk  saying? 

"Do  you  want  me  to  put  a  stick 
on  it,  to  carry?"  the  clerk  asked 
again. 

"No,  no,  I  want  you  to  let  the 
air  out,"  Jamie  explained.  "You 
see  it's  for  a  present." 

Jamie  left  the  store  with  a  good 
feeling  inside  his  little  heart.  The 
whole  citv  seemed  like  fairvland 
again.  The  big  green  wreaths  hung 
fresh  and  green,  with  their  red  beads 
of  holly,  and  the  street  lights  blinked 
again  like  elves  in  the  daylight. 
Everything  was  wonderful  for  Jamie, 
and  this  would  be  the  happiest 
Christmas  he  had  ever  had.  It  was 
fun  to  be  grownup  and  able  to  do 
your  own  shopping  .... 


lyrARGARET    came    to    with    a 

start.  She  had  been  thinking  of 

Jamie  and  wondering  what  he  had 

wrapped    so    bulkily   in    those   two 


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packages  he  had  placed  under  the 
tree.  He  had  hesitated  even  to  tell 
her  what  he  had  for  Daddy  Joe,  but 
when  she  had  explained  that  she 
had  to  declare  at  the  post  office 
e\'erything  in  the  box  she  shipped, 
he  had  shown  her  the  air-mail  sta- 
tionery. But  about  her  present  and 
Joey's,  he  remained  very  secretive. 
It  didn't  matter  what  he  gave  her, 
she  would  love  it.  She  remem- 
bered the  little  plaster  of  Paris  print 
of  his  hand  he  had  brought  home 
from  kindergarten,  and  how  she  had 
hung  it  in  the  bedroom,  so  she 
would  see  it  first  thing  in  the  morn- 
ing and  last  thing  at  night.  She 
hoped  he  had  used  seventeen-year- 
old  wisdom  when  he  purchased 
Joey's  present  though. 

"Well,  boys,  the  tree  is  as  pretty 
as  any  one  we've  ever  had.  Before 
we  go  to  bed,  Joey,  let's  get  out 
the  kodak  and  take  some  flashlight 
pictures  of  us  all  by  the  tree.  But 
first,  let's  sing  a  Christmas  song," 
Margaret  said  with  enthusiasm. 

"Let's  sing  Jolly  Old  St.  Nichol 
as,"  Jamie  warbled.  '1  like  it 
best." 

"Ah,  that's  kid's  stuff,"  Joey  re- 
plied with  a  sneer. 

"How  about  Silent  Night?"  Mar- 
garet compromised.  Even  singing  is 
a  problem  with  different  aged  chil- 
dren, Margaret  thought.  She  sat 
down  at  the  piano,  and  the  boys 
sat  beside  her  on  the  bench.  The 
piano  was  such  a  comfort  to  Mar- 
garet with  Joe  gone  so  much. 

Her  hands  touched  the  famihar 
keys: 

Silent  night!  Holy  night! 

All  is  calm;  all  is  bright 

Round  yon  \'irgin  mother  and  Child, 

Holy  Infant,  so  tender  and  mild. 


Sleep  in  hea\  enly  peace  .  .  . 
Sleep  in  hea\enly  peace  .... 

"Now,  let's  open  the  presents," 
Jamie  said. 

Margaret  never  remembered  see- 
ing Jamie  so  excited. 

The  custom  of  opening  family 
presents  on  Christmas  E\'e  had  be- 
gun one  of  those  first  years  that 
Joe  had  been  in  the  Air  Force.  It 
helped  to  fill  the  empty  hollow  of 
Christmas  E\'e  without  him.  Christ- 
mas morning  wasn't  too  lonely,  as 
there  were  all  the  Santa  Claus  sur- 
prises. 

Another  custom  which  had  .^ris- 
en in  the  Conway  family  was  tlie 
drawing  of  straws  to  see  whose  pres- 
ents were  to  be  opened  first.  The 
one  who  got  the  longest  straw  had 
the  presents  he  was  giving  opened 
last.  The  middle  straw  was  second, 
and  the  short  straw,  the  first. 

"Joey,  you  fix  the  toothpicks," 
Jamie  called  excitedly,  "and  Momie 
and  I  will  draw.  I  hope  my  pres- 
ents are  opened  first." 

jyt ARGARET  drew  first,  the  boys 
both  insisted.  Her  straw  was 
the  middle  one.  Jamie  drew,  get- 
ting the  longest  straw,  and  Joey  was 
left  with  the  shortest.  Joey's  pres- 
ents were  to  be  opened  first. 

Margaret  hesitated  to  open  her 
present  from  Joey,  it  was  so  beau- 
tifully wrapped.  "Gift  wrapped 
from  Lothrop's,"  Margaret  ex- 
claimed. Carefully  she  slipped  off 
the  ribbons  and  turned  back  the 
gilt  paper.  There  it  was,  a  lovely 
nylon  nightgown.  "Oh,  Joey,  how 
beautiful!"  She  decided  to  express 
her  thanks  more  fully  later  on,  right 
now  Jamie  was  opening  his  present 


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from  Joey,  and  all  eyes  were  upon  looked  at  Joey's  expressionless  face, 

him.  and    then   at   Jamie's   wreathed   in 

*'Ah!     Just     what     I     wanted!"  smiles.    There  was  no  doubt  Jamie 

Jamie  chuckled,  holding  up  a  glove  was  pleased  with  the  gift  he  had 

and  mit  in  miniature  size.     "Gee,  given.    He  was  babbling  something 

thanks,  Joey!"  about  spending  all  his  money  on 

It  didn't  take  long  for  the  boys  Daddy   and   Momie   and   seeing   a 

to  open  Margaret's  presents  to  them,  sign,  ''Merry  Christmas,  little  chil- 

They    were    blue    striped    pajamas  dren,  come  in  and  get  a  balloon." 

which  she  had  made  herself.  It  was  But  when   Jamie  looked  at  Joey's 

a  tradition  in  the  family  to   have  face,  and  didn't  see  any  smile,  even 

new  pajamas  to  wear  to   bed  the  Jamie    realized    the    free    balloon 

eve  of  Christmas.     Both  boys  took  wasn't  such  a  good  idea, 
time  out  to  go  and  undress  and  test 

the  fit,  which  was  perfect.  ^^ILL  Joey's  face  registered  neith- 

Jamie  m  his  excitement,  brought  O     ^^  •       ^^^  ^^^           .^^^  ^^^^^ 

his    grotesquely   wrapped    packages  ^^^^^  ^^^^^^^^          q^^^  ^^^^  ^^^^  .^^ 

to    Joey    and    Margaret.        Here,  Margaret's   mmd   ran    part   of   the 

Momie,   you    unwrap   yours    nrst,  ^  il    ^r             ^                        -i. 

J      •        '{  words    ot    a   poem,    or   was    it   an 

Jamie  said.  ^^^^^^  ..^^^^  ^-^^  without  the  giver 

Margaret's    package   from    Jamie  is   bare."     But  what  about  a  gift 

wasn't  as  big  as  Joey's.     She  came  without     the     receiver?     Margaret 

to  the  little  brown  something  after  wondered.      Jamie    had    given    his 

only  four  different  colors  of  wrap-  gift  in  good  faith.    The  balloon  was 

ping  paper.    She  opened  it  and  laid  something    Jamie    himself    would 

it  flat.    "Why,  Jamie,  a  cute  little  have    enjoyed.      He    had    made    a 

manicure  set!    Why,  bless  your  lit-  priceless  sacrifice  in  giving  his  pres- 

tle  heart!"     She  reached  over  and  ent.     If  Joey  could  only  look  be- 

drew    his    small    pajama-clad    body  yond  a  free  'balloon  as  a  gift,  and 

close  to  her.     "I  didn't  think  you  see  the  worth  of  the  giving! 

were  big  enough  to  20  shopping  all  ^^^^               .    ^         1     -,      . ,     i 

alone,    but    this    proves    you    are.  What  was  it  Jesus  had  said,  the 

Well,   Joey,  it's  your  turn  to  un-  widow   with    the    mite   had   given 

wrap    your    present    from    Jamie."  more  t'la"  a  1  the  others?  Margaret 

Margaret  looked  over  at  Joey.  ^"""'^   1^^^^^'     ^^'^^'"g    I^"^'^   ^f^ 

T              .    ,        ,                    ,  ,  given    her    the    balloon    and    the 

Joey  untied  and  unwrapped  box  ^^^^^-^^^^^  set  to  Joey.     If  only  she 

after  box    and  Jamie  stood  by  gig-  j^^^^  ^^^^^  ^1^^^^    {^^^  ^^  ^^^  ^^^ 

glmg  with  excitement      And  then,  j^^^  ^^^  ^^   ^^^^.^^           ^^^^^  ^^ 

finally,    the   old   powder  box  Mar-  exchange, 
garet  had  discarded  turned  up,  and 

Joey  broke  the  string  and  looked  in-  Margaret  breathed  a  prayer  in  the 

side.     He  picked   up  the  balloon,  silence  of  the  room.  Dear  Heavenly 

and  looked  for  something  else,  but  Father,  don't  let  my  boys  hurt  each 

that  was  all  there  was  in  the  box,  other,    just   because    they    are    ten 

just  the  balloon.  years  apart  in  age.     The  gift  with- 

Margaret's    heart    faltered.     She  out  the  receiver  is  bare,  then  please, 


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Father,  give  my  Joev  an  understand- 
ing heart. 

Margaret  looked  at  Joey,  was  that 
a  sneer  breaking  out  on  his  face? 
Was  he  going  to  laugh,  or  would 
the  disappointed  boy  heart  in  him 
break  down  and  cry?  What  was 
going  through  that  half-boy,  half- 
man,  mind  of  his? 

Margaret  watched  Joey  sprawled 
on  the  floor  in  his  new  pajamas. 
She  had  ne\er  realized  how  \'ery 
large  Joey's  hands  were  until  he 
held  that  balloon  between  them 
and  started  blowing  it  up.  Still 
his  face  was  expressionless,  and  the 
silence  was  appalling.  The  balloon 
became  larger  and  larger.  Was  he 
going  to  break  the  balloon,  and 
\\'ith  it,  break  the  dreams  Jamie  had 
put  into  his  mite  of  a  present? 

The  balloon  was  so  very  large 
now!  Would  Joey  ever  stop  blow- 
ing? At  length  Joev  stopped,  sized 
up  the  balloon,  felt  its  perfect 
roundness,  and  tied  the  end  se- 
curely and  said:  "Jamie,  come 
here!" 


Jamie,  hungry  for  brother  love, 
cuddled  between  Joey's  sprawled 
legs  on  the  rug,  their  blue  striped 
pajamas  blending  as  one. 

Margaret's  heart  took  up  a  slow 
beat  as  Joey  started  speaking. 

"You  know,  Jamie,  I  told  you 
and  mother  earlier  this  evening, 
there  ^^'as  something  lacking  when 
she  hung  that  star  on  the  top  of 
the  tree.  Well,  I  know  now  what 
it  is.  Tlie  night  Jesus  was  born, 
there  was  a  big  star,  it  shone,  oh, 
even  brighter  than  the  big  star  at 
the  top  of  our  tree,  but  there  was 
something  else  shining  that  night. 
There  was  a  big  blue  moon  behind 
that  star.  It  was  big  and  blue  like 
this  balloon  vou  gave  me." 

Joey  unfolded  his  length,  and 
reaching  easily  to  the  topmost 
branch  of  the  tree,  he  tied  the  bal- 
loon securelv  behind  the  shining 
star.  ]\'Iargarct  knew  as  he  came 
back  and  cuddled  Jamie  in  his  arms 
again,  that  even  though  her  boys 
were  ten  vears  apart,  they  would 
never  be  lacking  in  brotherly  love. 


■  ^»  » 


Ujlessed  J/ii 


Wc 


niong    vjyomen 


Eleanor  W.  Schow 


She  loved  to  hear  the  mothers  talk,  and  listened  quietly; 

Received  their  counsel  and  their  praise  in  gentle  piety. 

They  spoke  of  shoulders  broad  and  strong,  the  clench  of  little  fists. 

Expansive  chests  and  sturdy  legs,  the  strength  of  little  wrists. 

They  dreamed,  as  mothers  ever  dream  of  brighter  days  to  dawn. 

Of  sheltered  years  for  each  who  had  a  son  to  lean  upon; 

She  loved  their  kindly  mothering  hearts,  but  longed  to  share  the  while 

The  healing  in  his  little  hands,  the  blessing  of  his  smile. 

She  kept  his  \estments,  all  his  things,  in  spotless  purity. 

The  mothers  mar\elcd  at  her  faith.     Whence  came  her  surety? 

She  thought  of  wonders  still  to  be,  of  holy  ones  who  cared, 

And  kept  their  sayings  in  her  mind,  too  hallowed  to  be  shared. 

She  learned  by  angel  whisperings  how  God  would  guide  her  through, 

And  pondered  secrets  in  her  heart,  that  only  Mary  knew. 


cJie    Ljour  S^deas   viyith  String 

Sylvia  PezoJdt 


YOU  say  you  are  not  very  good 
at  lettering,  and  yet  you 
would  like  a  poster  for  a  party 
or  some  way  to  decorate  a  big  pack- 
age that  is  new  and  different.  Try 
string! 

Any  size,  from  the  fine  cord  that 
is  used  to  tie  parcels  in  stores,  to 
the  big,  soft  cotton  variety  used  by 
most  laundries  will  do.  It  is  sold 
in  variety  stores  and  also  in  hardware 
and  stationery  stores,  or  it  can  be 
saved  from  parcels.  It  can  be  dyed, 
painted,  dipped  in  glue,  and  have 
glitter  sprinkled  over  it.  When 
properly  placed,  it  forms  eye-catch- 
ing decorative  poster  letters.  It  has 
other  uses,  too. 

The  poster  board  or  large  sheet 
of  paper  for  your  sign  should  have 
the  letters  sketched  in.  Script  is 
very  effective.  One  doesn't  have  to 
be  a  fine  penman  to  be  able  to 
write  in  a  big,  flowing  hand  such 


words  as  Welcome,  Comty  You  Are 
Invited,  or  a  person's  name.  That 
is  your  guide. 

Tempera  paint,  which  is  sold  for 
show  card  writing  and  is  soluble  in 
water,  can  be  used  for  the  dye. 
Choose  the  desired  color  and  mix 
with  water  in  a  can  or  similar  re- 
ceptacle. Better  wear  rubber  gloves, 
as  it  works  best  to  use  your  fingers 
to  shape  the  letters.  The  string  is 
lifted  from  the  paint  and  placed  up- 
on the  outlined  words.  Let  it  dry 
thoroughly,  and  it  will  stick  to  the 
poster  almost  as  if  it  were  glued. 

If  you  wish  to  use  glue,  you  can 
make  the  words  with  colored  yarn, 
or  with  tinsel  string,  which  is  a  fav- 
orite for  Christmas  packages.  It  is 
best  to  use  very  thin  mucilage  and 
soak  the  string  in  the  glue.  Follow 
the  pencil  outline,  let  it  dry,  and 
you  have  an  unusual  and  effective 
poster. 

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A  big  package  can  be  decorated 
handsomely  by  first  wrapping  the 
box  in  white  paper  and  securing  it 
smoothly  with  cellophane  tape. 
Then  write  Merry  Christmas,  Hap- 
py Birthday,  or  the  person's  name 
in  big  script.  Follow  the  outline 
with  the  dyed  string,  or  glue  fancy 
cord  to  the  box,  sprinkling  with 
glitter  while  it  is  still  wet.  Star- 
shaped  sequins  will  dot  the  i's,  or 
fancy-shaped  sequins  can  spot  the 
box  in  hit-or-miss  style. 

Your  imagination  can  make  the 
decorated  boxes  as  amusing  and  in- 
dividual as  you  wish.  A  cowboy, 
cut  from  a  magazine  advertisement. 


can  swing  his  lariat  to  form  the 
name  of  the  person  for  whom  the 
gift  is  intended.  A  boat  can  be 
"tied"  on  the  side  of  the  paper  by 
outlining  the  message  in  string  with 
one  end  glued  to  a  picture  of  a  boat. 
A  jumping  rope  can  spell  out  a 
greeting  with  string.  A  swing  can 
have  two  sides  of  colored  string  with 
the  person's  name  for  the  seat. 
String  smoke  can  arise  from  a  chim- 
ney to  send  a  greeting  across  the 
surface  of  a  box  or  poster. 

There  are  many  ways  to  use  col- 
ored cord,  so  give  a  thought  to  tying 
your  ideas  with  string. 


k/L   (^hnstrnas  LPrayer 


Grace  Ingles  Fiost 

O  Prince  of  Peace!    O  Son  of  God! 
On  this  your  natal  day 
Before  you  we  contritely  kneel 
And  for  your  guidance  pray. 

There  are  so  many  need  our  care; 
Like  little  wolf-affrighted  lambs, 
The  children  of  this  sin-scarred  world 
Extend  imploring  hands. 

O  touch  our  eyes  that  we  may  see, 
Our  ears  that  we  may  hear! 
Make  worldly  dissonance  decrease 
As  year  succeedeth  year! 

O  Son  of  God!  O  Prince  of  Peace! 
Help  us,  your  will  to  do  .  .  . 
Loving,  giving  all  the  way, 
That  we  may  be  like  you! 

Amen. 


FROM    THE    FIELD 


General  Secretary-Treasurer,  HiiJda  Parker 

All  material  submitted  for  publication  in  this  department  should  be  sent  through 
stake  and  mission  Relief  Society  presidents.  See  regulations  governing  the  submittal 
of  material  for  "Notes  From  the  Field"  in  the  Magazine  for  April  1950,  page  278,  and 
the  Handbook  of  Instructions,  page  123. 


RELIEF  SOCIETY  ACTIVITIES 


Photograph   submitted  by  Lovell  W.  Smith 


CENTRAL  ATLANTIC  STATES  MISSION,  NORTH  CAROLINA  EAST 
DISTRICT  ACHIEVES  102  PER  CENT  IN  THE  BOOK  OF  MORMON 
READING  ASSIGNMENT  1956-57 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Eugenia  S.  Cochran,  President;  Hertha  B.  Child,  First 
Counselor. 

Back  row,  left  to  right:  Katherine  L.  Bailey,  Second  Counselor;  Elizabeth  Shingle- 
ton,  Secretary. 

Lovell  W.  Smith,  President,  Central  Atlantic  States  Mission  Relief  Society,  re- 
ports: "The  Relief  Society  sisters  of  the  North  Carolina  East  District  obtained  102 
per  cent  completion  of  The  Book  of  Mormon  reading  assignment  for  the  year  1956-57. 
This  was  accomplished  through  the  use  of  posters,  progress  charts,  constant  correspond- 
ence, and  personal  visits  to  the  seven  branches  in  this  district,  which  are  scattered  over 
an  area  of  160  miles.  .  .  .  This  accomplishment  is  due  to  the  efforts  of  the  faithful 
sisters  of  the  Dulah,  Hampstcad,  Harkers  Island,  Jacksonville,  Mount  Zion,  New  Bern, 
and  Wilmington  Branches.  These  sisters  have  showed  their  desire  to  serve  our  Heavenly 
Father  and  to  co-operate  and  follow  instructions  from  those  in  authority  through  their 
participation  in  this  reading  assignment.  .  .  .  Also,  out  of  the  176  Relief  Society  mem- 
bers in  this  district,  105  members  were  awarded  diplomas  for  having  completed  the 
reading  of  the  entire  Book  of  Mormon  over  a  six-year  period." 

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Photograph   submitted  by  Ella  T.   Lee 


ST.  JOSEPH  STAKE   (ARIZONA),  GLOBE  WARD  VISITING  TEACHERS 
ACHIEVE  A  ONE  HUNDRED  PER  CENT  RECORD  FOR  FOUR  YEARS 

Front  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Martha  Gihespie;  Vinetta  Dallas;  Mary  Self;  Clara 
Pace,  President,  Globe  Ward  Relief  Society;  Margery  Clark;  Lucy  Henderson;  Bella 
Zufelt. 

Second  row,  seated,  left  to  right:  Susie  Wallace;  Delia  White;  Irene  Besner;  Susan 
CluflF;  Ruby  Eaton;  Olis  Youngman;  Nellie  Dixon;  Orissa  Winkler. 

Third  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  May  Banner,  First  Counselor;  Blanch  Smith; 
Neta  Patterson;  Gwen  Machula;  Blissie  Lee;  Dorothy  Smith. 

Back  row,  standing,  left  to  right:  Vera  Larsen;  Fay  Zufelt;  Margaret  Gould;  Joyce 
Knucky;  Leah  Ford;  Florence  Lewis,  visiting  teacher  message  leader;  Evelyn  Anderson, 
Secretary;  Ethel  Medlin;  Lillian  Rose;  Opal  Suomela,  Second  Counselor. 

Ella  T.  Lee,  Secretary,  St.  Joseph  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  that  Globe  is  a 
mining  town,  and  they  feel  that  the  Relief  Society  should  be  congratulated  for  the 
very  fine  achievement  of  their  visiting  teachers. 

Lavona  L.  Hoopes  is  president  of  St.  Joseph  Stake  Relief  Society. 


Photograph  submitted  by  Margaret  D.   Stephenson 

NEW  YORK  STAKE,  MANHATTAN  WARD  RELIEF  SOCIETY  AT  THE 
SHAKESPEARE  MEMORIAL  THEATER,  STRATFORD,  CONNECTICUT 

July  13,  1957 

Boy  in  foreground:   Carlton  Morrison. 

Front  row,  left  to  right:  Mary  Jean  Freebairn;  Weston  Edwards;  Lelia  Seegmiller, 
President,  Manhattan  Ward  Relief  Society;  Louise  Shaffer;  Barry  Thompson;  Peggy 
Heidt,  Secretary,  New  York  Stake  Relief  Society;  David  Seegmiller. 


NOTES  FROM  THE  FIELD 


837 


Second  row,  left  to  right:  Norma  Rhoda;  Elena  Torres;  Wanda  Carlson;  Lois 
Brasch;  Lael  Littke;  Golda  Evans,  Counselor,  Manhattan  Ward  Relief  Society;  Mary 
Randall. 

Third  row,  left  to  right:  Mildred  McBeth,  Counselor,  Manhattan  Ward  Relief 
Society;  Beth  Haws;  Virginia  Panessa;  Irene  Kearns;  Lila  Mae  Dickson;  Shirley  Collins; 
Norma  Roberts;  Helen  Thackeray,  member.  New  York  Stake  Relief  Society  board; 
Josina  Monson. 

Fourth  row,  left  to  right:  Max  McBeth,  member  of  the  Manhattan  Ward  bishop- 
ric; Ingrid  Schmitz;  Caroline  Dunn;  Janet  Bateman;  Linnea  Morrison;  Mary  Van  der 
Peyl;  Ann  Cullimore;  Margaret  Stephenson,  President,  New  York  Stake  Relief  Society; 
Charlotte  Zerker. 

Sister  Stephenson  reports:  "The  photograph  shows  the  Manhattan  Ward  Relief 
Society  at  the  Shakespeare  Memorial  Theater  in  Stratford,  Connecticut.  Included  are 
several  members  of  the  Priesthood  who  went  along  to  enjoy  a  splendid  performance  of 
OtheUo.  At  other  times  during  the  season  the  various  wards  of  the  stake  made  excur- 
sions to  the  theater,  some  seeing  The  Merchant  of  Venice  and  others  seeing  Othello." 


Photograph  submitted   by  Thelma  J.   Nebeker 

PASADENA  STAKE    (CALIFORNIA),  EAST  PASADENA  WARD 
BOOK  OF  MORMON  PROJECT 

Thelma  J.  Nebeker,  President,  Pasadena  Stake  Relief  Society,  reports  a  communica- 
tion from  the  East  Pasadena  Ward  Relief  Society:  "A  small,  sweet-faced  teacher  took 
her  place  at  the  podium  in  the  East  Pasadena  Ward  chapel  to  deliver  her  last  theology 
lesson  of  the  Relief  Society  year.  A  group  of  105  women  had  assembled  to  hear  her. 
As  the  teacher  faced  them,  she  asked  those  who  had  read  The  Book  of  Mormon  during 
the  lesson  year  to  come  forward.  Seventy-two  women  stood,  and  one  by  one  filed  for- 
ward to  receive  the  special  diploma  and  Book  of  Mormon  Treasure  Chest  which  she 
and  her  husband  had  prepared  for  them.  That  this  feat  was  far  more  than  a  sta- 
tistical achievement  .  .  .  was  evident  in  the  testimony  meeting  that  followed.  The 
increased  spirituality  of  the  group  and  the  outpouring  of  personal  testimony  bore  evi- 
dence to  the  strength  ...  of  The  Book  of  Mormon  in  the  lives  of  these  many  women 
who  had  just  finished  reading  it. 

''Sister  Cotterell  made  her  remarkable  achievement  as  a  teacher  with  the  aid  of 
a  tremendous  personal  knowledge  and  command  of  her  subject,  with  a  beautiful  spirit 
of  inspired  humility,  and  with  some  top-flight  teaching  devices.  The  device  which 
may  have  been  most  instrumental  in  inspiring  many  women  to  systematically  read  The 
Book  of  Mormon  was  the  assigning  to  each  member  of  the  class  a  number.  After 
writing  each  number  on  a  small  piece  of  cardboard,  she  placed  the  number  at  the 
bottom  of  a  picture  of  the  Hill  Cumorah.  As  each  person  reported  her  reading  prog- 
ress on  the  monthly  roll,  her  number  was  shifted  upwards  towards  the  top  of  the  hill." 

Sister  Louise  S.  Cotterell  stands  at  the  podium,  with  a  representation  of  the  Hill 
Cumorah  in  front  of  her. 


N   DEPARTMENT 


Qjheologyi — The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 

Lesson  6— Qualifications  of  Those  Who  Labor  in  the  Ministry 

Eider  Roy  W.  DoxQy 

(Text:  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants,  Sections  4  and  12) 

For  Tuesday,  March  4,  1958 

Objective:  To  show  the  importance  of  service  and  the  quaUties  necessary  in  the 
hves  of  those  who  are  called  into  the  Lord's  work. 


SECTION  4  is  the  first  revela- 
tion given  through  the  Prophet 
to  another  person.  Later  many 
revelations  in  The  Doctrine  and 
Covenants  were  addressed  to  indi- 
viduals. Some  of  these  came  in 
response  to  questions  on  the  part  of 
the  persons  concerned,  or  a  prob- 
lem existed  which  was  clarified  to 
Joseph  Smith  through  revelation, 
as  we  shall  see  in  subsequent  lessons. 
From  the  Prophet's  journal  or  his- 
tory, it  is  not  indicated  that  Section 
4  came  either  at  the  request  of 
his  father  Joseph  Smith,  Senior,  or 
because  of  an  existing  problem. 
Verse  3  would  suggest,  however, 
that  the  Prophet's  father  had  a  de- 
sire to  serve  in  the  ministry. 

In  a  study  of  The  Doctrine  and 
Covenants  one  should,  insofar  as 
possible,  know  the  historical  back- 
ground and  context  of  the  revela- 
tions to  interpret  properly  their  con- 
tents.    This   means    not   only   the 

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environment  or  setting  but  often- 
times the  person  or  persons  to 
whom  the  revelation  is  directed. 
There  are  also  other  benefits  derived 
from  such  an  approach,  such  as  a 
better  acquaintanceship  with  the 
lives  of  some  of  the  men  who  were 
called  into  the  Lord's  service  in  this 
dispensation. 

The  Pwphet's  Father 

The  first  vision  and  the  visit  of 
Moroni  were  not  beyond  the  belief 
of  the  good  man,  the  Prophet's 
father.  Joseph  Smith,  Senior,  seemed 
to  be  of  a  believing  heart.  He  was 
the  first  to  recei\  e  the  testimony  of 
his  son  concerning  the  visits  of  the 
angel  Moroni.  Undoubtedly,  the 
spirit  of  the  Lord  had  prepared  the 
way  that  Joseph  Smith  might  have 
just  such  a  friend  and  confidant  as 
his  father.  After  Joseph  had  been 
visited  three  times  during  the  one 
night  by  the  angel,  he  arose  early  to 


LESSON  DEPARTMENT 


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work  with  his  father  in  the  field. 
This  attempt  to  work  was  unsuc- 
cessful because  of  his  exhausted 
condition.  Upon  leaving  for  the 
house,  Joseph  was  visited  by  Moroni 
who  again  repeated  the  message  of 
the  night  before.  He  was  ''com- 
manded'' to  tell  his  father  of  the 
vision  and  message  delivered  by  the 
angel.  Upon  doing  so,  his  father 
said  it  was  of  God  and  that  he 
should  do  as  the  angel  directed  him. 
The  Prophet's  father  died  at  the 
age  of  sixty-nine,  just  seventeen 
years  after  he  counseled  his  son  to 
do  as  the  angel  Moroni  had  com- 
manded. During  those  years  he 
became  a  member  of  the  Church, 
and  later  he  was  ordained  a  Patri- 
arch to  the  Church,  an  office  that 
was  to  continue  from  father  to  son. 
In  this  way  he  would  fulfill  the 
promise  that  he  would  '\  .  .  strength- 
en the  church  ,  .  ."  (D.  &  C.  23:5) 
which  was  his  duty  forever.  It  was 
the  privilege  of  his  son  Joseph  to 
see  by  vision  his  father  in  the  ce- 
lestial kingdom.  (See  D.  H.  C. 
11:380.)  It  may  also  be  of  interest 
to  know  that  he  is  referred  to  in 
The  Book  of  Mormon  in  connection 
with  the  name  by  which  his  son 
should  be  known  as  a  descendant  of 
the  Joseph  who  was  sold  into  Egypt. 
(See  2  Nephi  3:14-15.) 

Use  oi  Footnote  Reieiences 

Section  4  commences  with  a 
thought  which  appears  in  other  reve- 
lations (Sections  6:1,  11:1,  12:1, 
14:1 ).  At  this  point  in  these  lessons, 
a  suggestion  is  offered  in  connection 
with  the  footnote  references  and 
their  use.  For  instance  the  letter  ''a" 
by  the  word  ''marvelous"  in  verse  1 
of  Section  4  refers  to  the  first  of  the 
series  of  scripture  references  at  the 


bottom  of  the  page,  designated  by 
"a."  As  one  examines  each  of  these 
references,  he  discovers  (1)  the 
word  in  the  reference,  or  (2)  a  sim- 
ilar thought  expressed.  The  frequent 
use  of  footnote  references  gives  a 
better  comprehension  of  the  mean- 
ing of  the  work  or  the  thought 
which  the  Lord  wishes  one  to  know 
in  relation  to  that  word  or  thought. 
One  should  keep  in  mind,  however, 
that  these  footnote  references  may 
not  always  seem  to  apply.  This  is 
probably  true  in  regard  to  the  ref- 
erence Section  "38:12"  of  "a"  which 
may  be  a  typographical  error. 

A  Marvelous  Work 

A  dictionary  definition  of  the 
word  "marvelous"  suggests  that 
which  causes  wonder,  astonishment, 
wonderful,  exciting  marvel.  There 
is  also  associated  with  these  words 
the  idea  of  miracle. 

Without  referring  to  all  of  the 
footnote  references,  it  should  be 
noted  that  reference  is  made  to 
Isaiah  29:14  where  the  Old  Testa- 
ment prophet  foresaw  the  day  when 
The  Book  of  Mormon  would  be  re- 
vealed to  the  world,  and  the  Lord 
would  perform  a  "marvelous  work 
and  a  wonder."  Certainly,  we  can 
understand  that  this  ancient  volume 
of  scripture  is  a  wonderful  work  as 
a  part  of  the  Lord's  great  work 
which  was  to  be  established  on  the 
earth  in  the  last  days.  The  Book 
of  Mormon  has  also  come  to  the 
world  in  a  miraculous  way  which 
has  created  astonishment  and  won- 
der. The  reference  in  Section  4:1 
to  "...  a  marvelous  work  .  .  ."  which 
was  ".  .  .  about  to  come  forth  among 
the  children  of  men,"  may  refer  to 
the  coming  forth  of  The  Book  of 
Mormon  since  it  was  to  be  pub- 


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lished  soon,  and  especially  the  estab- 
lishment of  the  kingdom  of  God 
with  all  of  the  keys  of  the  Priest- 
hood. There  are  other  things  as- 
sociated with  the  marvelous  work 
of  the  Lord  in  the  latter  days.  We 
shall  not  attempt  to  point  out  all 
of  these  at  this  time,  but  only  what 
is  suggested  by  the  footnote  refer- 
ences under  consideration.  In  the 
references  Sections  95:4  and  101:95, 
it  is  made  known  that  the  Lord's 
''strange  act"  is  to  be  brought  to 
pass,  '\  .  .  that  I  [the  Lord]  may 
pour  out  my  Spirit  upon  all  flesh," 
and  ".  .  .  that  men  may  discern  be- 
tween the  righteous  and  the 
wicked.  .  .  ."  The  marvelous  work, 
or  strange  act,  of  the  Lord  in  the 
last  days  we  learn  is  also  to  convince 
many  ".  .  .  of  their  sins,  that  they 
may  come  unto  repentance,  and 
that  they  may  come  unto  the  king- 
dom of  my  Father"  (D.  &  C. 
18:44) .  The  Book  of  Mormon  does 
convince  men  of  their  sins  and  con- 
verts them  by  the  Spirit  of  the 
Lord.  Men  learn  that  they  must 
repent  to  receive  the  kingdom  of 
the  Father. 

Wholehearted  Service 

With  the  Lord  about  to  bring 
forth  his  wonderful  work,  it  is  en- 
joined upon  each  person  who  enters 
his  service  to  ".  .  .  see  that  ye  serve 
him  with  all  your  heart,  might,  mind 
and  strength,  that  ye  may  stand 
blameless  before  God  at  the  last 
day"  (D.  &  C.  4:2).  In  reference 
to  this  verse,  this  comment  is  given : 

Because  the  Lord  was  about  to  begin 
a  marvelous  work  among  the  children  of 
men,  he  needed  servants  who  were  willing 
to  give  themselves  entirely  to  that  work — 
"heart,  might,  mind,  and  strength";  that 
is,  affections,  will-power,  reasoning  faculty, 


and  physical  strength,  all  must  be  dedi- 
cated to  the  ser\iee  of  the  Lord  in  this 
latter-day  work  {Doctrine  and  Covenants 
Commentary,  1950  edition,  page  24). 

Message  to  All  Who 
Seek  to  Serve 

Section  4  is  primarily  concerned 
with  the  qualifications  of  those  who 
are  to  labor  in  the  Lord's  ministry. 
This  would  not  only  include  Joseph 
Smith,  Sen.,  but  all  who  would  seek 
to  make  a  contribution  to  the  build- 
ing up  of  the  kingdom  of  God  upon 
the  earth.  To  accomplish  this  work, 
it  is  necessary  that  they  give  of 
themselves  in  the  manner  suggested 
above.  By  the  wholehearted  serv- 
ice that  one  performs  for  others  as 
an  officer  or  teacher  in  the  king- 
dom, he  ".  .  .  layeth  up  in  store 
that  he  perisheth  not,  but  bringeth 
salvation  to  his  soul"  (D.  &  C.  4:4). 
In  what  ways  do  you  consider  that 
your  service  in  the  Church  has  con- 
tributed to  your  journey  on  the  way 
to  salvation? 

Responsihilities  oi  the  Church 

The  mission  of  the  Church  is  to 
save  men  and  women.  For  this  pur- 
pose the  Lord  has  established  his 
work  on  the  earth.  In  this  process 
of  saving,  two  of  the  great  responsi- 
bilities resting  upon  the  Church  are 
the  preaching  of  the  gospel,  and  the 
perfecting  of  the  lives  of  the  mem- 
bers. In  both  of  these  purposes, 
the  Lord  has  wisely  established  as  a 
part  of  his  Church  organization  op- 
portunities for  individual  service. 

In  the  accomplishment  of  the 
general  objectives  of  the  Church, 
every  member  may  make  a  contribu- 
tion. In  fact,  when  one  enters  the 
Church  he  takes  upon  himself  the 
obligation  of  building  up  the  king- 


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dom  of  God  (Church).  When  this 
covenant  is  entered  into,  the  con- 
vert receives  an  opportunity  which, 
if  accepted,  provides  the  means 
whereby  he  may  work  toward  per- 
fecting his  own  hfe. 

Missionary  Service 

One  of  the  most  soul-satisfying 
experiences  is  to  participate  in  ad- 
vancing the  Father's  kingdom  by 
performing  missionary  work.  There 
are  many  opportunities  to  partici- 
pate in  this  activity  for  those  who 
quahfy.  Now  that  stake  mission- 
ary work  is  available  to  the  mem- 
bers of  the  Church,  one  need  not 
serve  in  the  foreign  missions  to  re- 
ceive the  happiness  of  being  a  party 
to  the  conversion  of  souls.  All  mem- 
bers are  under  the  obligation  of  liv- 
ing lives  that  will  assist  others  to 
see  the  light  of  the  gospel;  but  this 
is  not  all,  the  responsibility  carries 
over  into  worthy  action.  It  is  serv- 
ice in  the  kingdom  that  brings  sal- 
vation. 

The  Lord  has  provided  our  un- 
usual missionary  system  in  which 
men  and  women  may  receive  the 
opportunity  to  serve  in  preaching 
the  gospel.  The  Auxiliaries  of  the 
Church  also  provide  many  oppor- 
tunities for  service. 

Service  in  the  Auxiliaries 

In  this  anniversary  month  of  the 
Relief  Society  of  the  Church,  it  is 
appropriate  to  refer  to  this  ''the  first 
and  most  important  auxiliary  organ- 
ization of  the  Church,"  as  an 
example  of  a  service  organization. 
In  the  great  Welfare  Program  of  the 
Church,  we  find  the  Relief  Society 
making  a  tremendous  contribution 
to  those  whom  that  program  serves 


and   also    to   the   members   of  the 
Society  in  service  opportunities. 

The  other  Auxiliaries  of  the 
Church,  or  aids  to  the  Priesthood, 
provide  many  activity  opportunities 
for  the  officers  and  teachers  and 
also  the  members  who  make  up  the 
organizations.  Thus,  the  very  or- 
ganizational pattern  of  the  Church 
is  designed  to  further  the  salvation 
of  man.  Active  participation  in  the 
Church  keeps  one  spiritually  alive. 
It  is  one  of  the  factors  which  in- 
creases faith  and  keeps  testimonies 
strong. 

Some  Revelations  for  All 

When  one  becomes  an  active 
agent  in  the  ministry  of  the  Lord, 
what  is  expected  of  him?  Revela- 
tions numbered  4  and  12  give  an 
answer  to  this  question.  Although 
they  are  directed  to  individuals,  the 
message  is  for  all  who  seek  to  labor 
in  the  cause  of  Zion.  The  fact  that 
both  revelations  are  similar  suggests 
this  point,  but  in  Section  12  one 
finds  that  the  message  is  intended 
for  all  having  the  same  desire: 

Now,  as  you  have  asked,  behold,  I  say 
unto  you,  keep  my  commandments,  and 
seek  to  bring  forth  and  estabhsh  the  cause 
of  Zion. 

Behold,  I  speak  unto  you,  and  also  to 
all  those  who  have  desires  to  bring  forth 
and  establish  this  work; 

And  no  one  can  assist  in  this  work  ex- 
cept he  shall  be  humble  and  full  of  love, 
having  faith,  hope,  and  charity,  being 
temperate  in  all  things,  whatsoever  shall 
be  entrusted  to  his  care  (D.  &  C.  12:6-8). 

The  revelation  given  to  Joseph 
Smith,  Sen.,  gives  additional  virtues 
to  be  expected  of  the  true  ministry 
of  the  Lord: 

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an  eye  single  to  the  glory  of  God,  qualify 
him  for  the  work. 

Remember  faith,  virtue,  knowledge, 
temperance,  patience,  brotherly  kindness, 
godliness,  charity,  humility,  diligence. 

Ask,  and  ye  shall  receive;  knock,  and 
it    shall     be     opened     unto    you.     Amen 

(D.&  0.4:5-7). 

OuaUfications  iox  the  Ministry 

A  brief  statement  of  definition 
and  explanation  of  most  of  the  vir- 
tues mentioned  in  these  revelations 
may  assist  us  to  appreciate  more 
fully  the  scope  and  truth  of  these 
qualifying  requirements. 

Fmth  in  its  broad  sense  is  the 
principle  that  impels  men  to  resolve 
and  to  act.  It  ''.  .  .  becomes  to  us 
the  foundation  of  hope,  from  which 
spring  our  aspirations,  ambitions, 
and  confidences  for  the  future.  .  .  . 
Faith  is  the  secret  of  ambition,  the 
soul  of  heroism,  the  motive  power 
of  effort"  (James  E.  Talmage, 
Articles  oi  Faith,  page  103).  'The 
predominating  sense  in  which  the 
term  faith  is  used  throughout  the 
scriptures  is  that  of  full  confidence 
and  trust  in  the  being,  purposes, 
and   words    of   God"    {Ihid.,   page 

96). 

Hope— Desire,  with  expectation 
of  obtaining  what  is  desired,  or  be- 
lief that  it  is  obtainable  (Webster's 
Dictionary). 

Read  Moroni  7:40-43  for  Mor- 
mon's teachings  on  hope. 

Charity  and  love,  with  an  eye 
single  to  the  glory  of  God. 
'\  .  .  charity  is  the  pure  lo\'e  of 
Christ  .  .  ."  (Moroni  7:47).  This 
love  becomes  a  motivating  power 
in  the  lives  of  those  who  have  been 
''born  again."  It  becomes  the  offer- 
ing of  the  true  followers  of  Christ 


in  return  for  the  love  the  Father 
and  the  Son  have  bestowed  upon 
them  through  the  atonement 
wrought  by  the  Savior.  It  is  mani- 
fested in  a  keeping  of  the  com- 
mandments, one  of  which  is  the 
love  of  mankind. 

Read  Moroni  7:43-46,  48  on 
Mormon's  teachings  on  faith,  hope, 
and  charity.  (See  also  I  Corin- 
thians 13;  Colossians  3:12-15.) 

Virtue— Moral  practice  or  action; 
moral  excellence;  rectitude;  moral- 
ity; also  chastity  (Webster's  Dic- 
tionary). 

Learn  the  will  of  God,  keep  his  com- 
mandments and  do  his  will,  and  you  will 
be  a  ^'irtuous  person  {Discourses  of  Brig- 
ham  Young,  page  300,  1925  edition). 

.  .  .  sincerity,  "the  mother  of  a  noble 
family  of  virtues";  simplicity  and  purity, 
"the  t\\'o  wings  with  which  man  soars 
above  the  earth  and  all  temporary  na- 
ture. .  .  ." 

Purity  lies  in  the  affection.  It  "unites 
with  and  enjoys  God."  It  is  the  pure 
in  heart  that  shall  see  God.  No  person 
of  impure  heart,  though  baptized  a  hun- 
dred times,  can  approach  him  (David  O. 
McKay,  Gospe]  Ideals,  pp.  14,  15). 

Knowledge— Familiarity  from  ac- 
tual experience;  practical  skill,  ac- 
quaintance with  fact;  hence,  scope 
of  information  (Webster's  Diction- 
ary). 

Add  to  your  faith  knowledge,  etc.  The 
principle  of  knowledge  is  the  principle  of 
sahation.  This  principle  can  be  compre- 
hended by  the  faithful  and  diligent;  and 
exery  one  that  does  not  obtain  knowledge 
suflFicient  to  be  saved  \\ill  be  condemned. 
The  principle  of  sahation  is  given  us 
through  the  knowledge  of  Jesus  Christ 
{Teachings  of  the  Prophet  Joseph  Smith, 
page  297). 

(See  also  D.  &  C.   131:6;   130:18-19.) 

Temperance  —  Moderation;    self- 


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control;   calmness    (Webster's  Dic- 
tionary). 

The  Saints  should  .  .  .  avoid  excesses 
and  cease  from  sin,  putting  far  from  them 
"the  lusts  of  men;"  and  in  their  amuse- 
ments and  pastimes  adopt  a  course  that 
looks  to  the  spirit  as  well  as  the  letter, 
the  intention  and  not  the  act  alone,  the 
whole  and  not  the  part,  which  is  the 
meaning  of  moderation.  In  this  way  their 
conduct  will  be  reasonable  and  becoming, 
and  they  shall  find  no  trouble  in  under- 
standing the  will  of  the  Lord  (Joseph  F. 
Smith,  Gospel  Doctrine,  page  300,  Fourth 
Edition) 

The  best  way  to  teach  temper- 
ance is  to  keep  the  Word  of  Wis- 
dom {Ihid.,  page  301). 

Patience  —  Quality  of  being  able 
to  bear  or  endure  pains,  trials,  or 
the  like,  without  complaint  or  with 
equanimity;  forbearance  (Webster's 
Dictionary) . 

Now  we  exhort  you,  brethren,  warn 
them  that  are  unruly,  comfort  the  feeble- 
minded, support  the  weak,  be  patient  to- 
ward all  men  (1  Thess.  5:14). 

(See  also  D.  &  C.  67:13;  101:38.) 

Bwtheily  Kindness— Quality  of 
being  sympathetic,  gracious,  loving, 
affectionate  (Webster's  Dictionary). 

Godliness  —  Purity  in  person  and 
in  morals  is  true  godliness. 

HumfJity  —  Humility  is  submis- 
sion to  the  will  of  God.  It  is  the 
opposite  of  pride  and  arrogance. 
(See  also  Mosiah  3:19.) 

Diligence  —  Quality  of  being  in- 
dustrious; persevering  effort;  not 
careless  or  negligent  (Webster's 
Dictionary).  (See  also  D.  &  C. 
107:99-100.) 

Virtues  to  Seek;  Vices  From 
Which  to  Repent 

The  foregoing  virtues  are  goals  to 
which  all  Latter-day  Saints  should 


strive.  The  object  of  gospel  under- 
standing and  teaching  is  to  bring 
about  perfection  in  the  lives  of  the 
true  followers  of  the  Master.  The 
Lord  performs  his  work  through 
imperfect  people.  He  does  expect, 
as  indicated  above,  that  they  who 
seek  eternal  life  will  seek  perfec- 
tion. As  a  practical  test  for  each 
member  of  the  Church,  we  may 
have  brought  to  our  attention  some 
of  the  things  from  which  we  should 
repent.  It  is  suggested,  therefore, 
that  a  list  of  each  one  of  the  virtues 
given  in  Sections  4  and  12  be  made, 
with  its  accompanying  antonym  op- 
posite the  virtue.  The  opposite 
word,  or  antonym,  is  the  vice  from 
which  we  should  repent.  An  ex- 
ample of  this  procedure  is  shown 
below : 


VIRTUE 

VICE 

Faith 

Doubt;  unbehef 

Charity 

Selfishness,  hatred 

Knowledge 

Ignorance 

Patience 

Irritabihty 

Godliness 

Irreverence 

Diligence 

Slothfulness; 

Negligence 

Hope 

Despair,  discourage- 

ment 

Chastity 

Immorality 

Temperance 

Excess 

Brotherly  kind- 

Cruelty 

ness 

Humility 

Pride;  unteach- 

ableness 

Questions  ioi  Discussion 

1.  What  was  the  marvelous  work  which 
was  about  to  come  forth  among  the  chil- 
dren of  men? 

2.  Why  would  you  believe  that  Sections 
4  and  12,  though  addressed  to  individuals, 
were  intended  for  others? 

3.  What  are  the  two  great  responsibili- 
ties of  the  Church,  and  show  how  these 
Sections  (4  and  12)  emphasize  these  ob- 
jectives? 


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4.  In  what  way  does  the  Relief  Society 
pro\ide  opportunities  for  its  members  to 
serve? 

5.  Name  the  virtues  mentioned  in  these 


two  sections  and  tell  their  importance  as 
quahfications  for  the  ministry. 

6.  How  do  these  two  revelations  help 
one  to  know  wherein  his  life  may  be  more 
perfect?     Illustrate. 


Visiting  cJeacher    /liessages  — 

Truths  to  Live  By  From  The  Doctrine  and  Covenants 


Message  6— "Fear  Not  to  Do  Good,  My  Sons,  for  Whatsoever  Ye  Sow,  That 

Shall  Ye  Also  Reap;  Therefore,  If  Ye  Sow  Good  Ye  Shall  Also 

Reap  Good  for  Your  Reward''  (D.  &  C.  6:33). 

Chiistine  H.  Rohinson 

For  Tuesday,  March  4,  1958 

Objective:  To  emphasize  the  fact  that  everything  we  do,  our  every  word  or  deed, 
has  its  effect  for  good  or  evil,  and  we  shall  be  blessed  through  our  good  acts. 


/^NE  of  the  firm  realities  of  life  is 
that  as  we  sow  so  shall  we  reap. 
This  thought  has  been  a  central 
element  of  religious  doctrine  for 
thousands  of  years.  It  is  found  not 
only  in  modern  revelation  but  in  the 
teachings  of  both  the  Old  and  the 
New  Testaments.  For  example,  in 
Proverbs  we  read, '".  .  .  to  him  that 
soweth  righteousness  shall  be  a  sure 
reward"  (Prov.  11:18).  Paul,  writ- 
ing to  the  Galatians,  said,  ''Be  not 
deceived;  God  is  not  mocked:  for 
whatsoever  a  man  soweth,  that  shall 
he  also  reap"  (Gal.  6:7). 

A  beautiful  aspect  of  striving  to 
do  good  is  that  in  the  process,  we 
not  only  help  others  and  perform 
useful  service,  but  in  so  doing  we 
increase  our  own  ability  to  do  more 
good.  Step  by  step  we  tend  to  be- 
come that  for  which  we  are  striving. 
One  good  act  performed  makes  the 
next  one  that  much  easier.  'Tor 
as  he  thinketh  in  his  heart,  so  is 


he  .  .  ."  (Prov.  23:7).  Thus  we 
reap  as  we  have  sown. 

The  story  is  told  of  a  little  boy 
who,  with  his  parents,  moved  into 
a  house  overlooking  a  deep  ravine. 
One  day,  because  of  a  reprimand, 
the  little  boy  became  very  angry 
with  his  mother.  In  order  to  give 
vent  to  his  feelings  he  ran  to  the 
edge  of  the  ravine  and  shouted  as 
loud  as  he  could:  'T  hate  you,  I 
hate  you."  Almost  immediately 
there  came  rumbling  back  at  him 
an  angry,  hollow  voice,  'T  hate  you, 
I  hate  you." 

The  little  boy  was  terrified  and 
running  back  to  his  mother  sobbed 
that  there  was  a  wicked  man  in  the 
ravine  who  hated  him  and  wanted 
to  harm  him.  The  wise  mother 
took  the  little  boy  by  the  hand,  and 
led  him  back  to  the  ravine.  Then 
in  a  tender,  pleasant  voice  she 
called,  "I  love  you,  I  love  you."  A 
kind,  happy  voice  echoed  back  the 


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same  sweet  words  she  had  spoken. 

So  it  is  in  this  hfe.  Every  good 
or  evil  deed  we  sow  comes  back  to 
us  in  kind.  We  cannot  wrong  an- 
other without  reaping  an  injury  our- 
seh'es.  And  every  good  act  we 
perform  returns  to  bless  us. 

.  .  .  Evety  good  deed  done  to  others 
is  a  great  force  that  starts  an  unending 
pulsation  through  time  and  eternity.  W^e 
may  not  know  it,  \^e  may  never  hear  a 
word  of  gratitude  or  of  recognition,  but 
it  will  all  come  back  to  us  in  some  form 
as  naturally,  as  perfectly,  as  ine\"itably,  as 
echo  answers  to  sound.  Perhaps  not  as 
we  expect  it  .  .  .  but  sometime,  some- 
how, somewhere,  it  comes  back  .  .  .  {The 
Power  oi  Truth,  W.  G.  Jordan,  page  39). 

It  is  not  only  important  to  sow 
good  deeds  but  kind  words  also 
have  a  reciprocal  effect.  As  we  sing 
in  a  well-known  Latter-dav  Saint 
hymn,  ''Let  us  oft  speak  kind  words 
to  each  other;  kind  words  are  sweet 
tones  of  the  heart." 


Ofttimes  the  most  precious  gift 
we  can  give  to  another  is  a  word  of 
sincere  sympathy,  lo\e,  and  apprecia- 
tion. Such  words  which  express  our 
gratitude  to  others  spread  cheer  and 
encouragement.  As  wise  Solomon 
said,  'Tleasant  words  are  as  an 
honeycomb,  sweet  to  the  soul  .  .  ." 
(Prov.  16:24).  And  in  the  words 
of  our  Savior: 

.  .  .  ever}^  idle  \\ord  that  men  shall 
speak,  they  shall  gi\e  account  thereof  in 
the  day  of  judgment. 

For  by  thy  words  thou  shalt  be  justi- 
fied, and  by  thy  words  thou  shalt  be  con- 
demned  (Mt.  12:36-37). 

Let  us  then  be  conscious  of  our 
every  thought,  word,  and  deed,  and: 

.  .  .  not  be  weary  in  well  doing:  for  in 
due  season  we  shall  reap,  if  we  faint  not 
(Gal.  6:9). 


y(/ork    1 1 ieeting — Living  More  Abundantly 

(A  Course  Recommended  for  Use  by  Wards  and  Branches  at  Work  Meeting) 
Discussion  6— The  Importance  of  Insurance 
Elder  Willmm  F.  Edwaids 
For  Tuesday,  IMarch  11,  1958 


npHIS  lesson  will  include  a  brief 
general  re\iew  of  the  more  im- 
portant types  of  insurance  that  all 
families  should  consider.  The  dis- 
cussion leader  should  strive  to  moti- 
vate members  to  give  adequate 
attention  to  insurance  in  their  fi- 
nancial planning  and  to  have  suf- 
ficient general  background  that  they 
will  be  able  to  talk  with  qualified 
insurance  representatives. 


Life  Insurance 

If  every  person  could  be  certain 
of  li\ing  in  good  health  until  sixty- 
five  or  seventy  years  of  age,  it  would 
be  possible  to  anticipate  and  prepare 
for  the  important  things  of  life.  The 
a\erage  man  and  wife  \\orking  as  a 
team,  if  given  time,  would  be  able 
to  acquire  a  home  and  ultimately  be 
free  of  debt,  finance  the  education 
of  their  children,  support  the  chil- 


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dren  who  might  be  called  on  mis- 
sions, and  accumulate  savings  to 
provide  for  the  closing  years  of  life. 
But  hfe  itself  is  not  that  certain. 
Every  responsible  bread  earner  must 
recognize  that  there  are  some  things 
in  life  that  he  must  make  more  se- 
cure than  life  itself.  This  can  be 
accomplished  with  life  insurance. 
Every  head  of  a  family  should  carry 
sufficient  life  insurance  to  protect 
his  minimum  dreams,  the  minimum 
he  desires  to  provide  for  his 
family.  As  circumstances  permit, 
the  amount  of  life  insurance  should 
be  increased  according  to  needs  and 
desires. 

Fire  Insurance 

Every  home  should  be  protected 
with  fire  insurance.  This  is  not  be- 
cause of  the  likelihood  of  a  fire,  but 
the  risk  involved  in  case  of  a  fire. 

For  most  people,  the  cost  of  a 
home  equals  nearly  a  lifetime  of  sav- 
ing. If  the  home  were  destroyed, 
it  may  be  that  there  would  not  be 
sufficient  working  years  left  to  ac- 
quire and  pay  for  another.  This 
would  be  a  real  tragedy.  It  is  a  risk 
you  can't  afford.  Every  effort  should 
be  made  to  avoid  a  fire  and,  in  ad- 
dition, it  is  wise  to  protect  the  in- 
vestment with  fire  insurance.  In 
some  areas,  other  forms  of  insur- 
ance, such  as  earthquake  and  tor- 
nado insurance  should  be  considered 
in  the  same  way. 

Automobile  Insurance 

The  common  ownership  of  an 
automobile,  especially  by  the  saints 
living  in  North  America,  and  the 
constantly  demonstrated  risk  of  an 
accident  make  it  essential  for  all 
automobile  owners  to  carry  some 
type  of  insurance  protection.  Never 
operate  an  automobile  without  in- 


surance to  at  least  protect  you  from 
possible  damage  to  others.  If  the 
insurance  is  considered  too  expen- 
sive, then  find  a  way  of  living  with- 
out ownership  of  an  automobile. 

Hospital,  Surgical,  and 
Medical  Insurance 

Most  families,  especially  those 
with  young  children,  will  find  it  ad- 
vantageous to  carry  insurance  for 
protection  against  the  occasionally 
large  hospital  and  surgical  expenses 
associated  with  illness.  These  ex- 
penses are  often  so  large  that,  unless 
covered  by  insurance,  a  sound  finan- 
cial program  can  be  upset  and  life 
is  exposed  to  financial  emergencies 
that  are  discouraging  and  avoidable. 
The  value  of  such  insurance  is  be- 
coming so  well  recognized  that  in 
increasing  numbers  employers  are 
adopting  group  programs  covering 
all  of  their  workers. 

Cost  of  Insurance 

Insurance  is  expensive  and  many 
neglect  needed  protection  for  this 
reason,  hoping,  praying,  or  just 
gambling,  that  they  will  be  spared. 
The  circumstances  of  each  family 
vary  widely,  and  there  appears  to  be 
only  one  sound  rule.  Determine 
the  cost  of  the  miniaium  protection 
needed  for  the  family,  and  provide 
for  this  in  the  budget  even  at  the 
expense  of  reducing  the  allotment 
for  the  basic  essentials  of  food,  cloth- 
ing, and  shelter.  Regardless  of  how 
difficult  the  circumstances  or  how 
pressing  the  needs,  it  is  easier  to 
spend  less  on  these  essentials  and 
pay  insurance  premiums  than  to  be 
without  in  a  time  of  emergency. 
Surely  the  mother,  who  usually 
stands  to  benefit  most  from  insur- 
ance   protection,    should    willingly 


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support  the  payment  of  insurance 
premiums. 

Spintual  Insurance 

The  writer  prays  with  all  his  heart 
that  each  discussion  leader  will 
catch  the  spirit  and  help  the  class 
members  to  understand  the  im- 
portance of  maintaining  in  full 
force  an  insurance  policy  that  will 
guarantee  to  each  eternal  life. 

The  Master  came  to  this  earth 
and  gave  his  life  that  such  a  policy 
would  be  available.  In  the  early 
revelations  to  the  Prophet  Joseph 
Smith,  the  plan  was  again  made 
clear: 

And,  if  you  keep  my  commandments 
and  endure  to  the  end  you  shall  have 
eternal  life,  which  gift  is  the  greatest  of 
all  the  gifts  of  God  (D.  &  C.  14:7). 

We  are  all  in  need  of  this  protec- 
tion. The  greatest  risk  in  life  is  that 
by  partial  or  complete  disobedience, 
we  may  lose  the  spirit  and  forfeit 
God's  choicest  blessings. 

The  premium  to  be  paid  for  this 
policy  is  complete  devotion  to  the 
principles,  ordinances,  and  standards 
of  the  Church.  The  terms  of  the 
contract  are  definite. 

There  is  a  law,  irrevocably  decreed  in 
heaven  before  the  foundations  of  this 
world,  upon  which  all  blessings  are 
predicated — 


And  when  we  obtain  any  blessing  from 
God,  it  is  by  obedience  to  that  law  upon 
which  it  is  predicated  (D.  &  C.  130:20-21 ) . 

I  the  Lord  am  bound  when  ye  do  what 
I  say;  but  when  ye  do  not  what  I  say,  ye 
have  no  promise  (D.  &  C.  82:10). 

There  are  no  circumstances  in  life 
that  make  it  necessary  or  wise  to 
deviate  from  the  gospel  standards. 
Read  Matthew  24,  verses  3  through 
13,  where  the  Master  tried  to  make 
this  clear  to  his  disciples.  The  Proph- 
et Joseph  Smith  learned  the  lesson 
the  hard  way  when  he  gave  Martin 
Harris  custody  of  certain  manu- 
scripts of  The  Book  of  Mormon. 
(Read  Doctrine  and  Covenants  3, 
verses  1  through  8.) 

We  should  each  outline  our 
noblest  dreams  and  protect  them 
with  constant,  proper  living. 

Supplementary  Reference 

"Dollars  and  Sense,"  by  Charles  V. 
Neal,  a  column  appearing  several  times  a 
week  in  The  Deseiet  News.  The  author, 
a  family  financial  counselor,  gives  advice 
on  better  living  through  better  spending. 
Such  subjects  as  purchasing  clothing,  food, 
and  household  equipment  are  discussed, 
and  advice  is  given  on  budgeting  the  fam- 
ily income,  insurance,  borrowing,  savings 
accounts,  checking  accounts,  and  other  fi- 
nancial procedures,  as  well  as  practical 
suggestions  on  the  general  management  of 
income. 


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reams 


Enola  Cliamberlfn 

What  can  he  know  of  dreams  who  dreams  at  morning 
And  sees  his  dream  fulfilled  before  the  dusk? 
What  can  he  know  whose  dreams  mature  aborning? 
The  autumn's  corn  within  the  springtime's  husk. 

What  can  he  know  who  holds  within  his  fingers 
The  shine  of  stars,  the  curve  of  heaven's  blue? 
Within  whose  heart  no  unattainment  lingers; 
What  can  he  know  whose  every  dream  comes  true? 


JLiterature  —  Shakespeare  in  Our  Lives 

Lesson    14— King   Lear 

Elder  Briant  S.  Jacobs 

Text:  Shakespeare  Major  Plays  and  the  Sonnets,  by  G.  B.  Harrison, 
Harcourt,  Brace  &  Company,  1948 

For  Tuesday,  March  18,  1958 

Objective:  To  rise  above  life's  tangible  trivia  and  conceits  and  feel  abiDut  us  the 
sustaining  bonds  of  universal  family  love. 

Oh,  sir,  to  willful  men 
The  injuries  that  they  themselves  procure 
Must  be  their  schoolmasters.  .  .  . 

II.  4.  305-307 

Who  alone  suffers  suffers  most  i'  the  mind  .  .  . 
But  then  the  mind  much  sufferance  doth  o'erskip 
When  grief  hath  mates,  and  bearing  [grief  hath] 
fellowship. 

III.  6.  Ill,  112-114 

IZJNG  Lear  is  perpetual  miracle;  it  tragedy"  ever  written  in  English 
contains  everything.  A  literary  since  it  provides  us  most  purgation 
diamond,  it  flashes  more  brilliantly  within.  Some  of  its  scenes  are  so 
with  use,  repaying  the  owner  in  kind  cruel,  so  pitiful,  that  we  must 
—whatever  the  reader  brings  to  the  strongly  resist  calling  out  to  Shake- 
play,  he  receives  back  in  legion,  speare  for  mercy.  Because  many 
intensified  and  deepened.  Thus,  prefer  to  escape  such  terrors,  and 
within  reason,  King  Lear  is  all  things  choose  not  to  witness  life  being 
to  all  men,  containing  almost  too  scraped  so  near  the  living  bone, 
much  of  God's  plenty,  so  great  is  King  Lear  is  not  Shakespeare's  most 
its  powerful  recoil.  It  is  a  play  to  popular  play;  it  is  merely  his  great- 
be  suffered  rather  than  read  silently  est.  In  very  deed  King  Lear  is  only 
or  talked  about;  once  sounded,  its  for  the  strong-in-heart.  But  for 
accumulate  blow  penetrates  clean  those  so  defined,  it  is  unique,  mag- 
through  the  surfaces  of  things,  poli-  nificent,  and,  above  all,  true, 
tics,  intellect,  to  strike  fully  at  the  From  its  earliest  known  form  as 
heart,  the  spirit.  The  most  delicate-  an  early  fable  or  chronicle  to  the 
ly  constructed,  the  most  complex  in  present,  this  play  has  undergone 
interrelationships,  King  Lear  ex-  many  significant  changes.  The  origi- 
hibits  a  clear  correspondence  be-  nal  King  Lear  is  suffused  with 
tween  inner  meaning  and  outward  Christian  virtues  and  faith  in  the 
event  or  word.  Hamlet  thought  his  hereafter;  in  Shakespeare's  play 
way  into  reality;  Lear  feels  his,  and  Lear's  only  source  of  strength  or 
his  power  is,  therefore,  greater  over  weakness  is  himself,  and  the  codes 
us.  Many  regard  this  ''symphony  of  and  imagery  of  wild  beasts  are  more 
suffering"    as    the    greatest    ''deep  native  to  it  than  are  the  values  of 

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any  ordered,  restrained  culture. 
Surely  because  Shakespeare's  version 
seemed  too  fierce  and  dismal,  Na- 
hum  Tate  rewrote  it  in  1681,  and 
this  version,  which  left  out  more 
than  half  of  Shakespeare's  lines,  was 
the  only  one  to  be  played  on  the 
English  stage  for  the  following  150 
years. 

Shakespeare  sharpened  the  point 
of  the  original  King  Leai  by  con- 
densing it,  and  by  adding  Lear's 
madness,  the  Fool,  the  storm,  and 
an  unhappy  ending  (in  the  original, 
Lear  is  restored  to  the  throne  and 
his  beloved  Cordelia  lives).  In  do- 
ing this  Shakespeare  was  entirely 
right,  since  his  purpose  is  to  give 
dramatic  body  to  man's  ceaseless 
warfare  between  good  and  evil  with- 
in his  own  heart.  By  achieving  this, 
Lear's  intimate  personal  conflict  be- 
came universal,  enabling  all  who 
would  know  some  phase  of  them- 
selves more  fully  to  find  identity 
within  Lear's  tortured  breast. 

Shakespeare's  play  is  rightly 
named  King  Lear,  for  within  the 
evolution  of  the  play  a  spoiled,  self- 
righteous,  tempestuous,  and  shallow 
king  becomes  a  humble,  compas- 
sionate, selfless,  loving  man.  Othel- 
lo is  a  general,  Hamlet  a  prince, 
Macbeth  a  king,  as  are  the  subjects 
of  all  the  histories,  yet  only  Lear  is 
honored  with  the  royal  title  of  king, 
which  is  also  fair  and  just,  so  great 
is  his  own  inner  revelation  and  final 
self-discipline  over  the  most  malign 
of  evils. 

Plot 

The  carefully  made  plot  is  divided 
into  two  parallel  patterns,  one  cen- 
tering about  King  Lear,  the  other 
about  the  Duke  of  Gloucester. 
While    these    two    strands    compli- 


ment each  other  and  intermesh, 
Gloucester's  relationship  with  his 
sons  best  justifies  itself  by  providing 
contrast  with  Lear's  relationship 
with  his  daughters.  Also  it  should 
be  noted  that  while  Gloucester 
withers  from  within,  withdrawing 
under  suffering  (and  attempting 
suicide),  Lear  pours  forth  his  un- 
bearable remorse  and  shame  in  tor- 
rents of  passion.  For  him  life  is 
always  to  be  faced  and  met.  Through 
this  release,  plus  gentle  sympathy 
from  his  friends  and  Cordelia,  he  is 
temporarily  restored  to  sanity  before 
Cordelia's  hanging  and  his  own 
death  so  that,  even  though  briefly, 
father  and  daughter  were  finally 
reconciled. 

The  Lear  Plot:  In  ancient,  Dru- 
idic  England,  proud,  uncontrolled 
Lear  promises  to  give  his  kingdom 
to  the  daughter  who  publicly  pro- 
claims the  most  love  for  him.  Gon- 
eril  and  Regan  gush  sweet  adjectives 
in  their  greed,  but  young  Cordelia, 
in  her  integrity  refuses  to  allow  so 
intimate  a  truth  to  be  flaunted  for 
public  hearing  and  says  she  loves 
him  neither  more  nor  less  than  the 
natural  bond  of  daughter  to  father 
dictates. 

Furious,  he  disinherits  her,  gives 
all  his  lands  and  powers  to  Goneril 
and  Regan,  with  whom  he  plans  to 
stay  alternately  a  month  at  a  time. 
Dowerless  Cordelia  marries  the  King 
of  France.  Goneril,  then  Regan,  so 
insult  and  shame  their  spoiled  father 
that  in  a  rage  he  runs  out  into  the 
open  storm,  refusing  to  debase  him- 
self before  them.  The  two  sisters 
care  nothing  for  their  husbands, 
quarrel  over  the  rising,  unscrupu- 
lous Edmund,  and  finally  both  meet 
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him.  Cordelia  comes  from  France 
to  reinstate  her  father,  but  her  forces 
are  defeated,  and  she  joins  home- 
less Lear  and  restores  him  to  sanity 
with  her  love.  The  two  enjoy  but 
a  brief  time  together  before  she  is 
hanged  at  Edmund's  order,  Lear 
enters  with  her  body  in  his  arms, 
and  immediately  dies  himself,  hap- 
py in  knowing  that  at  least  one  of 
his  children  loved  him  truly. 

The  Gloucester  Plot:  Pompous, 
self-satisfied  Gloucester  allows  his 
illegitimate  son  Edmund  to  con- 
vince him  that  his  brother,  Edgar, 
seeks  to  usurp  Gloucester's  place,  so 
honest,  innocent  Edgar  is  banished. 
When  Cornwall,  Regan's  husband, 
gouges  out  Gloucester's  eyes  think- 
ing he  opposes  his  rule,  Gloucester 
is  cast  out  blind  into  the  world.  In 
disguise  Edgar  attends  his  father  in 
his  wanderings,  protecting  him  from 
himself  in  his  despair  and  attempted 
suicide.  Edmund  is  accused  of 
treason,  he  and  his  brother  Edgar 
fight,  and  Edmund  is  mortally 
wounded.  Before  he  dies  he  tries 
to  do  good  ''despite  his  nature"  by 
countermanding  his  order  to  hang 
Cordelia,  but  it  is  too  late.  Glou- 
cester recognizes  the  virtues  of  loyal, 
banished  Edgar,  but  still  he  crawls 
off  alone  to  die  of  a  broken  heart, 
and  Edgar  is  left  to  guide  the  af- 
fairs of  state. 

Themes 

1.  Nature's  true  laws  always  tri- 
umph: To  the  illegitimate  Edmund, 
Nature's  law  is  that  of  cutthroat 
competition  so  familiar  to  us  all: 

Thou,  Nature,  art  my  goddess,  to  thy  law 
My  services  are  bound.  Wherefore  should  I 
Stand  in  the  plague  of  custom,  and  permit 
The  curiosity  of  nations  to  deprive  me. .  .  . 

I.  2.  1-4 


This  passage  expresses  a  feeling 
more  easily  understandable  in  some- 
one conceived  outside  wedlock  and, 
therefore,  a  lifelong  outlaw.  In  Ed- 
mund, as  in  Goneril  and  Regan, 
Lear's  daughters,  we  find  pure  evil, 
since  they  likewise  define  nature  as 
that  force  which  rewards  their  self- 
ishness, greed,  cruelty,  and  ingrati- 
tude. In  these  and  other  hearts  we 
see  illustration  of  Shakespeare's  great 
conviction  that,  if  the  most  com- 
mon and  powerful  human  flaws — 
fear,  pride,  anger,  ambition— are 
allowed  to  run  loose,  they  always 
destroy  the  humans  dominated  by 
them.  'Techery  eats  itself."  Con- 
versely ''Nature's"  great  law  that  "he 
who  loses  his  heart  shall  find  it"  is 
seen  in  the  Fool,  Edgar,  Kent,  Cor- 
delia, and  in  Lear  himself.  Finally 
all  these  achieve  selfless  compassion 
and  forgiveness.  Through  his  suf- 
fering Lear  finds  a  new  identity  with 
"naked,  unaccommodated"  man, 
now  become  a  fellow  creature,  in 
contrast  to  the  selfish  trivia  of  his 
former  court  status.  Thus  can  man- 
kind achieve  salvation  from  brute 
force  and  animal  passion,  both  of 
which  produce  human  chaos. 

2.  Man  is  not  saved  alone:  Ed- 
mund and  Cornwall  are  lone  wolves, 
Goneril  and  Regan  lone  vixens,  and 
Gloucester  and  Lear  are  at  the  play's 
beginning  alone  in  their  irresponsi- 
bility and  pompous  self -concern. 
Gloucester  is  led  to  true  self-realiza- 
tion only  when  Edgar,  whom  he 
foolishly  mistrusted  and  disinherit- 
ed, attends  his  father  in  loyal  love 
when  he  is  outcast,  just  as  Kent,  the 
Fool,  and  Cordelia  grant  Lear  un- 
qualified forgiveness  and  suffer  with 
him,  sharing  his  unbearable  griefs 
until  they  help  him  regain  sanity. 


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3.  Mankind  becomes  one  in  its 
bare,  common  hmnanity:  Once  Lear 
no  longer  succumbs  to  his  lifelong 
habit  of  self-pity,  he  experiences  for 
himself  in  the  storm  and  hovel  what 
it  is  that  hurts  the  poor  creatures  of 
earth,  and  he  sympathetically  defines 
both  himself  and  his  fellows  as 
''poor,  bare,  forked  animals/'  Once 
this  great  step  is  achieved,  he  dis- 
trusts the  pomp,  the  shallow  display, 
and  the  supreme  concern  with  sur- 
face appearance  which  so  preoccupy 
the  wealthy,  powerful  classes  of  so- 
ciety. Now  the  renewed  Lear  would 
return  to  sustaining  Nature,  where 
gaudy  adornment  is  unknown  and 
clothes  are  used  to  keep  man  warm: 

If  only  to  go  warm  were  gorgeous, 

Why,  nature  needs  not  what  thou  gorgeous 

wear'st. 
Which  scarcely  keeps  thee  warm  .... 

II.  4.  271-273 

Now  the  rejuvenated  Lear  con- 
fesses how  men  separate  themselves 
by  worshiping  false  gods: 

.  .  .  Plate  sin  with  gold 

And   the   strong  lance  of  justice   hurtless 

breaks. 
Arm    it    in    rags,    a    pigmy's    straw    does 

pierce  it. 

IV.  6.  169-171 

Cordelia  returns  to  her  outcast  fa- 
ther only  because  she  loves  him, 
Lear  realizing  this  in  his  true 
ecstasy  defines  the  true  tie  that 
binds,  in  contrast  to  the  pomp  and 
circumstance  he  once  worshipped. 
All  he  asks  now  is  to  be  with  his 
Cordelia,  bonded  together  in  love. 

.  .  .  Come,  let's  away  to  prison. 

We  two  alone  will  sing  like  birds  i'  the 

cage. 
When    thou    dost    ask    me    blessing,    I'll 

kneel  down 
And  ask  of  thee  forgiveness.  So  we'll  live, 


And   pray,   and   sing,   and   tell    old   tales, 

and  laugh 
At  gilded  butterflies,  and  hear  poor  rogues 
Talk  of  court  news.     And  we'll  talk  with 

them  too, 
Who  loses  and  who  wins,  who's  in,  who's 

out, 
And  take  upon's  the  mystery  of  things 
As  if  we  were  God's  spies.  And  Vv'e'll  wear 

out, 
In    a   walled    prison,   packs    and   sects    of 

great  ones 
That  ebb  and  flow  by  the  moon. 

V.  3.  8-19 

How  sweet  is  this  return  to 
''Natural''  goodness,  in  contrast  to 
being  embroiled  within  a  group 
which  holds  itself  superior  to  man- 
kind as  a  whole. 

4.  Reciprocal  respect  and  love  be- 
tween the  old  generation  and  the 
new  best  biidge  the  natural  gap  be- 
tween them. 

5.  Oiten  inner  blindness  ends 
when  physical  blindness  begins. 
Until  his  eyes  are  gouged  out,  Glou- 
cester has  been  blinded  by  his  own 
impulses,  to  which  he  yielded  in 
begetting  Edmund,  and  bragging  of 
his  achievement  later.  But,  once 
his  eyes  are  gone,  he  replies  to  one 
who  finds  him  lost— lost  both  in  the 
physical  world  and  in  steering  his 
moral  course: 

I  have  no  way  and  therefore  want  no  eyes, 
I  stumbled  when  I  saw  .... 

IV.  1.  20-21 

This  reversal  of  unquestioned, 
surface  truth  is  couched  in  wise 
words,  first  from  a  Fool: 

.  .  .  All  that  follow  their  noses  are  led 
by  their  eyes  but  [they  are]  blind  men.  .  .  . 

II.  4.  69-70 

and  next  from  mad  Lear,  whose 
madness  nonetheless  reveals  subcon- 
scious truth  as  he  speaks  to  blinded 
Gloucester: 


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Lear.  Oh  ho,  are  you  there  with  me?  No 
eyes  in  your  head,  nor  no  money  in 
your  purse?  Yet  you  see  how  this 
world  goes. 

Glo.    I  see  it  feelingly. 

Lear.  What,  art  mad?  A  man  may  see  how 
this  world  goes  with  no  eyes.  Look 
with  thine  ears.  See  how  yond 
Justice  rails  upon  yond  simple  thief. 
Hark,  in  thine  ear.  Change  places 
and,  handy-dandy,  which  is  the 
Justice,  which  is  the  thief? 

IV.  6.  148-158 

Wise,  knowing,  Edgar  reminds 
his  illegitimate  brother  how  much 
father  and  son  have  in  common: 
that  Gloucester's  blindness  in  beget- 
ting Edmund  was  the  blind  force 
upon  his  eyes  when  he  still  had 
sight: 

The  gods  are  just,  and  of  our  pleasant  vices 

Make  instruments  to  plague  us. 

The  dark  and  vicious  place  where  thee  he 

got  [begot] 
Cost  him  his  eyes. 

V.  3.  170-173 

Perhaps  the  main  strands  of  the 
play  might  be  brought  together  in 
one  thematic  statement:  King  Leai 
tells  the  tragedy  of  two  old  men 
who  were  blinded  by  selfishness  and 
pleasure  while  they  had  eyes  and 
sanity,  but  who,  through  suffering, 
came  to  know  inner  sight  and  truth. 

Great  Scenes 

In  many  ways  Act  I,  Scene  I, 
might  justly  be  described  as  the 
climax  of  the  play;  all  that  follows 
is  passion  and  unfolding.  Excerpts 
from  this  judging  scene  might  prof- 
itably be  read  aloud,  that  the  con- 
trast between  GoneriFs  and  Regan's 
artificial  praise  and  Cordelia's  genu- 
ine statement  of  affection  might  be 
felt.    It  should  also  be  pointed  out 


that  various  phases  of  Lear's  own 
character  and  emotions  are  mirrored 
exactly  in  his  daughters,  and  that 
the  love  of  display  and  praise,  as 
seen  in  the  two  elder  sisters,  as  op- 
posed to  the  integrity  and  love  of 
truth  of  Cordelia,  are  values  firmly 
grounded  within  their  common  fa- 
ther; therefore,  if  in  this  scene  as 
throughout  the  play,  they  sin  or 
achieve,  they  are  true  to  their  hered- 
ity and  follow  his  precept. 

Storm  on  the  Heath 

Few  scenes  in  literature  contain 
greater  power  than  Lear's  tumultu- 
ous inner  release  of  his  broken  heart 
and  bewilderment  as  he  wanders  for- 
lornly against  wind  and  thunder,  as 
spoken  in  Act  III,  Scene  2.  Here 
the  correspondence  between  the  in- 
ner soul  and  the  outer  tempest  is 
wellnigh  perfect.  But  Lear's  burst- 
ing madness  leaps  the  bounds  of  his 
own  tortured  self  beyond  the  im- 
mediate scene,  to  symbolize  a  uni- 
versal expression. 

(Enter  Lear  and  Fool) 

Lear.  Blow,  winds,  and  crack  your  cheeks! 

Rage!  Blow! 

You  cataracts  and  hurricanoes,  spout 

Till  you  have  drenched  our  steeples, 
drowned  the   [weather]   cocks! 

You  sulphurous  and  thought-exe- 
cuting fires, 

Vaunt-couriers  to  oak-cleaving  thun- 
derbolts, 

Singe  my  white  head!  And  thou, 
all-shaking  thunder. 

Smite  flat  the  thick  rotundity  o' 
the  world! 

Crack  nature's  molds,  all  germens 
[seeds]  spill  at  once 

That  make  ingrateful  man!  .  .  . 

Rumble  thy  bellyful!  Spit,  fire! 
Spout,  rain! 

Nor  rain,  wind,  thunder,  fire,  are  my 
daughters. 

I  tax  not  you,  you  elements,  with 
unkindness. 


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853 


I  never  gave  you  kingdom,  called  you 

children, 
You  owe  me  no  subscription.  Then 

let  fall 
Your  horrible  pleasure.  Here  I  stand, 

your  slave, 
A  poor,  infirm,  weak,  and  despised 

old  man.  .  .  . 
More  sinned  against  than  sinning. 

III.  2.  1-9,  14-20,  60 

Rarely  has  human  suffering 
achieved  such  majestic  tumult  as 
this. 

Shakespeare  injects  a  short  scene 
at  Gloucester's  castle,  after  which  he 
returns  us  before  a  hovel  where 
Lear,  supported  by  his  loyal  Kent 
and  the  Fool,  is  now  less  concerned 
with  the  visible  storm,  but  looks 
within  himself  and  confesses  to  a 
habitual  indifference  for  those  fel- 
low-humans who,  naked  and  alone, 
have  endured  like  buffetings  without 
ever  having  received  Lear's  sym- 
pathy for  them. 


Kent.  Good  my  lord,  enter  here. 
Lear.  Prithee,  go  in  thyself,  seek  thine  own 
ease.  [Now  first  he  considers  others] 
This  tempest  will  not  give  me  leave 

to  ponder 
On    things    would    hurt    me    more. 

But  ril  go  in. 
[To  the  Fool]  In,  boy,  go  first.  You 

houseless  poverty — 
Nay,  get  thee  in.    I'll  pray,  and  then 

I'll  sleep.  [Fool  goes  in] 
Poor    naked    wretches,    wheresoe'er 

you  are, 
That  bide  the  pelting  of  this  piti- 
less storm. 
How  shall  your  houseless  heads  and 

unfed  sides, 
Your  looped  and  windowed  ragged- 

ness,  defend  you 
From  seasons  such  as  these?     Oh,  I 

have  ta'en 
Too  little  care  of  this!  Take  physic, 

pomp. 
Expose  thyself  to  feel  what  wretches 

feel, 


Reproduced   uy   Permibbiun  of  the 
Shakespeare  Memorial  Theatre 
Stratford-Upon-Avon,   England 

Photograph  by  Angus  McBean 

JOHN  GIELGUD   AS   KING   LEAR 
AND  ALAN  BADEL  AS  THE  FOOL 


That  thou  mayst  shake  the  superflux 

[superfluities]  to  them 
And   show  the  Heavens  more  just. 

III.  4.  22-36 


Here  for  the  first  time  in  his  self- 
ish life,  Lear's  own  inner  tempest 
has  jarred  him  until  he  can  perceive 
reality,  both  within  his  own  blood 
relationships  and  his  relationship  to 
all  mankind.  By  thus  losing  him- 
self in  ''common"  human  suffering, 
he  triumphs  over  his  own. 


Father  and  Son  at  Dover 

Turned  out  to  ''smell  his  way  to 
Dover/'  blind  Gloucester  seeks  the 


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top  of  the  towering  chalk  diffs, 
from  which  he  hopes  to  jump  and 
end  his  wretched  hfe.  His  only 
guide  is  a  concerned  peasant,  really 
his  banished  son  in  disguise.  In  one 
of  the  most  magical  passages  in  the 
play  Edgar  creates  an  irresistible 
word-picture  of  the  cliffs  as  they 
look  down  on  tiny,  moving  fisher- 
folk  far  below,  helps  his  father  jump 
from  the  cliff  (supposedly),  then 
picks  his  father  up  to  convince  him 
of  his  miraculous  survival  from  the 
fall.  On  the  stage  this  is  awkwardly 
performed  (though  surely  in  the 
Elizabethan  theater  Gloucester 
jumped  from  the  balcony  to  the 
stage).  This  scene,  Act  IV,  scene 
VI  to  line  80,  can  well  be  read  aloud; 
its  verbal,  pictorial  power  sustains  it 
fully. 

Forgiveness  and  Reconciliation 

Cordelia  has  returned  at  the  head 
of  the  French  army  to  restore  her 
father  to  kingly  status,  but  most  of 
all  to  find  him  and  repay  his  im- 
petuous banishment  of  her  with  her 
unqualified  love.  Lear,  maddened 
and  debilitated,  sleeps  in  a  tent,  sur- 
rounded by  French  gentlemen  and 
attended  by  a  doctor.  Soft  music 
plays  as  Cordelia  speaks  her  grati- 
tude to  Kent  for  standing  by  her 
father;  then,  after  she  expresses  con- 
cern for  his  illness,  Lear  speaks: 

Lear.  Pray  do  not  mock  me. 

I  am  a  very  foolish  fond  old  man, 
Fourscore  and  upward,  not  an  hour 

more  nor  less, 
And,  to  deal  plainly, 
I  fear  I  am  not  in  my  perfect  mind. 
Methinks   I    should   know   you   and 

know  this  man, 
Yet  I  am  doubtful,  for  I  am  mainly 

ignorant 


What  place  this  is,  and  all  the  skill 

I  have 
Remembers  not  these  garments,  nor 

I  know  not 
Where  I  did  lodge  last  night.     Do 

not  laugh  at  me, 
For,  as  I  am  a  man,  I  think  this  lady 
To  be  my  child  Cordelia. 

Cor.    And  so  I  am,  I  am. 

Lear.  Be  your  tears  wet?     Yes,  faith.     I 
pray  weep  not. 
If   you   have   poison    for   me,    I   will 
drink  it. 
I   know   you   do   not  love   me,   for 

your  sisters 
Have,  as  I  do  remember,  done  me 

wrong. 
You  have  some  cause,  they  have  not. 
Cor.    No  cause,  no  cause. 

Lear.  Am  I  in  France? 

Kent.  In  your  own  kingdom,  sir. 

Lear.  Do  not  abuse  me. 

Doct.  Be  comforted,  good  madam.     The 
great  rage 
You  see,  is  killed  in  him.  .  .  . 

IV.  7.  59-79 

Once  these  lines  are  sounded, 
slowly  and  in  sympathy,  they  make 
their  own  way.  If  Shakespeare  is 
sublimity,  these  lines  are  most  mov- 
ing and  sublime,  and  Cordelia's  ''no 
cause,  no  cause,"  is  one  of  the  purest 
statements  of  universal  forgiveness 
in  our  heritage.  Surely  after  such 
tender  communion,  both  are  ready 
for  death.  And  soon  it  comes.  Yet 
none  live  into  immortality  more  cer- 
tainly than  they. 


Thoughts  for  Discussion 

1.  Do  you  feel  Shakespeare  was  justified 
in  naming  this  play  King  Lear?     Why  so? 

2.  Discuss  universal  qualities  revealed  in 
Lear's  self-discovery. 

3.  Compare  Gloucester's  and  Lear's  re- 
actions to  adversity. 

4.  What  do  you  consider  the  source  of 
Cordelia's  greatness? 


(boaai  Science — Latter-day  Saint  Family  Life 

Lesson   12— Families  Have  Members 
Elder  John  Fan  Larson 

For  Tuesday,  March  25,  1958 

Objective:  To  show  how  the  family  unit  meets  the  needs  of  the  various  family 
members. 

AS  they  share  both  privileges  and  world  and  capable  of  assuming  the 
responsibilities,  family  members  leadership  of  a  family.  It  is  his  as- 
develop  love,  respect,  and  under-  sertion  that  he  has  achieved  the  full 
standing  of  one  another.  A  spirit  stature  of  manhood  and  is  anxious 
of  unity  comes  from  playing,  eating,  to  prove  that  he  is  prepared  to  cope 
working,  and  worshiping  together,  with  life's  adult  problems.  When 
from  the  sacrifices  and  sorrows  he  marries,  a  whole  new  set  of  re- 
shared.  The  home  gives  each  family  sponsibilities  and  relationships  en- 
member  a  sense  of  belonging,  a  feel-  sue.  His  sweetheart  is  now  his  wife, 
ing  of  security,  of  love,  and  oppor-  but  his  sweetheart  still.  He  be- 
tunities  for  growth  regardless  of  age.  comes  the  head  of  this  union,  with 
We  cannot  fully  understand  the  new  responsibility  for  decision, 
power  of  its  influence,  however,  nor  which  he  shares  with  his  wife,  and 
what  the  home  really  means  to  an  they  move  forward  as  one.  New 
individual  without  first  appreciating  happiness  is  found  as  they  build 
his  specific  situation.  Even  though  together. 

family  members  may  all  have  com-  By  law  and  custom  the  husband 
mon  basic  needs  and  be  affected  by  assumes  the  responsibility  for  sup- 
similar  influences,  still,  each  is  an  port,  for  providing  the  material 
individual,  and  what  the  family  is  things  needed  to  maintain  the  home, 
to  one  it  is  not  to  another.  Let  us  His  diligence  stems  from  a  strong 
look  at  the  family  successively  jesire  to  give  his  family  every  op- 
through  the  eyes  of  the  husband  and  portunity  and  advantage  possible, 
father,  the  wife  and  mother,  the  He  is  proud  of  his  wife  for  her 
child  as  he  grows  from  infancy  to  capabilities,  for  the  little  things 
adulthood,  and  through  the  eyes  of  ^hich  she  does  for  him,  for  her 
grandparents.  What  does  each  ex-  understanding,  for  her  inner  worth, 
pect  of  the  family?  What  does  each  and  for  her  devotion  as  a  partner, 
contribute?  How  are  their  various  He  enjoys  the  security  and  love  of 
needs  met.  ^hjs     new-found     relationship     and 

looks  forward  to  the  children  who 

Husband  and  Father  ^iH  bless  the  home. 

To  the  Latter-day  Saint  husband.  As  his  family  responsibilities  in- 

marriage  is  a  declaration  of  faith  in  crease  and  he  sees  his  children  grow 

the  future.    It  is  a  recognition  of  his  and  develop,  he  too,  grows  in  wis- 

belief  that  he  is  ready  to  face  the  dom  and  maturity.    He  acquires  a 

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greater  capacity  for  love,  tolerance, 
and  understanding.  Within  the 
heart  of  every  father  there  is  a  desire 
to  see  his  children  achie\'e.  If  he 
holds  the  Holy  Priesthood,  he  wants 
his  family  to  improve  and  progress 
temporally  and  spiritually.  His  de- 
sire is  voiced  in  the  words  of  Joshua: 

.  ,  .  choose  you  this  day  whom  ye  will 
serve  ...  as  for  me  and  my  house,  we 
will  serve  the  Lord  (Joshua  24:15). 

To  his  family,  he  stands  as  a  pil- 
lar of  strength,  a  symbol  of  security, 
honor,  integrity,  dependability,  and 
constant  devotion.  In  return,  an 
honorable  family  and  a  stable  home 
life  give  desired  status  to  him  in  his 
profession,  business,  community  life, 
Church  assignments,  or  social  con- 
tacts. 

The  father  who  overhears  his  son 
volunteer,  ''My  dad  can  lick  any  dad 
in  the  neighborhood"  may  not 
choose  to  accept  the  challenge,  but 
he  swells  with  pride  at  the  thought 
that  he  represents  to  that  boy  the 
peak  of  perfection  in  all  things. 
Such  loyalty  is  one  measure  of  his 
success  as  a  father.  The  little  girl 
who  expressed  in  a  song:  ''Oh,  if 
Mother  hadn't  married  Daddy,  Dad- 
dy might  have  married  me,"  was 
also  trying  to  say  that  her  father  was 
her  choice  of  all  manhood. 

Fortunately,  what  a  husband  and 
father  wants  for  his  family,  once 
achieved,  or  partially  so,  are  the  very 
things  from  which  he  derives  his 
greatest  pleasure.  Only  God  could 
devise  such  a  satisfactory  reciprocal 
arrangement.  It  serves  to  emphasize 
the  need  each  of  us  has  for  other 
family  members.  A  father's  reward 
for  his  devotion  as  head  of  his  fam- 
ily is  to  see  his  efforts  bear  fruit  in 
the  lives  of  his  children. 


My  son,  keep  thy  father's  command- 
ment, and  forsake  not  the  law  of  thy 
mother: 

Bind  them  continually  upon  thine 
heart,  and  tie  them  about  thy  neck. 

When  thou  goest,  it  shall  lead  thee; 
when  thou  sleepest,  it  shall  keep  thee;  and 
when  thou  awakest,  it  shall  talk  with  thee 
(Prov.  6:20-22). 

Too  often  family  members  fail  to 
express  outwardly  their  appreciation 
for  a  father's  contributions  to  the 
home.  Though  a  busy  man,  he,  too, 
has  needs,  and  he  looks  to  his  home 
for  deference,  love,  affection,  loyalty, 
voiced  appreciation,  and  small  ges- 
tures which  indicate  he  is  well  liked. 
He  thrives  on  the  feeling  of  fellow- 
ship which  comes  from  surprises 
planned  by  his  family  for  his  plea- 
sure and  delight. 

Wiie  and  Mother 

The  Latter-day  Saint  woman  who 
marries  also  looks  to  the  future  with 
faith  and  aspirations.  If  she  has 
been  properly  prepared  for  marriage, 
she  has  selected  her  husband  wisely. 
She  honors  his  Priesthood  and  ac- 
cepts him  as  the  head  of  the  home. 
Her  children,  each  of  whom  she  re- 
gards as  a  blessing,  have  crowned 
her  with  the  sacred  blessings  of 
motherhood.  Like  all  great  bless- 
ings, motherhood  carries  great  obli- 
gations. The  present  fulfillment  of 
these  obligations  is  the  real  mother- 
hood. She  accepts  responsibility  to 
see  that  her  children  are  well  fed,  to 
keep  them  clean,  to  minister  to  their 
wants,  to  relieve  their  discomfort,  to 
safeguard  their  health,  to  listen  to 
their  problems  sympathetically,  and 
to  contribute  to  their  social,  intellec- 
tual, and  spiritual  training  and  de- 
velopment. She  constantly  sacri- 
fices for  her  children  spontaneously 
and  without  fanfare. 


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It  is  the  mother,  largely,  who 
creates  the  atmosphere  of  the  home. 
She  is  uniquely  prepared  to  provide 
emotional  security  for  her  husband 
and  children.  Somehow  the  warm 
love  of  a  mother  for  her  child  com- 
pels the  child  to  achieve  in  a  man- 
ner he  knows  will  please  her.  The 
mother  who  knows  of  the  potenti- 
alities of  this  relationship  will  labor 
hard  to  point  the  proper  way  and 
will  be  gratified  with  the  results. 
She  will  observe  the  effect  of  her 
love,  the  result  of  her  teaching,  the 
power  of  her  example;  and  her  heart 
will  come  to  the  knowledge  that 
hers  is  an  opportunity  to  mold  her 
child  in  the  image  of  God.  Though 
she  gives  much,  she  receives  more. 
Her  most  satisfying  compensation 
is  found  in  the  love  and  appreciation 
of  her  children,  and  the  devotion 
of  her  husband. 

If  a  mother  serves  her  family  as 
the  Lord  intended,  she  will  be  en- 
titled to  the  inspiration  and  guid- 
ance of  her  Heavenly  Father.  Her 
children  bless  her  with  a  feeling 
of  accomplishment  as  they  walk  in 
her  footsteps,  for  they  represent  the 
consummation  of  all  her  dreams.  A 
home  and  family  bring  to  a  mother 
her  greatest  contentment. 

Who  can  find  a  virtuous  woman?  for 
her  price  is  far  above  rubies. 

The  heart  of  her  husband  doth  safely 
trust  in  her.  .  .  . 

She  will  do  him  good  and  not  evil 
all  the  days  of  her  life.  .  .  . 

Strength  and  honor  are  her  clothing.  .  .  . 

She  openeth  her  mouth  with  wisdom; 
and  in  her  tongue  is  the  law  of  kindness. 

She  looketh  well  to  the  ways  of  her 
household.  .  .  . 

Her  children  arise  up,  and  call  her 
blessed;  her  husband  also,  and  he  praiseth 
her.  .  .  . 

Favour  is  deceitful,  and  beauty  is  vain: 


but  a  woman  that  feareth  the  Lord,  she 
shall  be  praised. 

Gi\'e  her  of  the  fruit  of  her  hands;  and 
let  her  own  works  praise  her  in  the  gates 
(Prov.   31:10-12,   25-31). 

The  Child  Glows 

The  birth  of  a  child,  after  months 
of  preparation  by  his  parents, 
heralds  the  greatest  of  earthly  joys. 
Spirituality  seldom  reaches  greater 
heights.  Kindness,  tenderness,  con- 
cern, love,  and  faith  are  never  more 
finely  expressed.  Birth  is  the  union 
of  a  spirit  child,  born  of  God,  eter- 
nal in  nature,  with  a  physical  body 
born  of  earthly  parents.  Every  child 
brings  a  sacred  responsibility  to  the 
mother  and  father  alike.  The  moth- 
er is  anxious  that  her  child  be  ''per- 
fect'' in  every  respect  and  that  she 
will  measure  up  to  her  responsibili- 
ties in  making  him  so.  The  fa- 
ther's major  concern  is  that  the  new- 
born baby  and  his  mother  are 
surrounded  with  every  comfort, 
safeguard,  and  protection.  One 
baby  daughter,  with  the  help  of  her 
mother,  wrote  the  following  mes- 
sage to  her  father  to  express  grati- 
tude for  his  concern  over  them: 

Mother  and  I  would  like  to  thank  you 
for  the  beautiful  flowers  and  for  the  many 
kindnesses  with  which  you  have  showered 
us  while  we've  been  getting  "adjusted." 
It  surely  is  wonderful  to  open  your  eyes 
in  a  new  world  and  find  that  you  have 
the  best  father  in  it!  Imagine  what  a  break! 
I  can  tell  you  it's  "Love  at  first  sight"  for 
me!  No  wonder  mother  picked  you. 

The  newborn  child  is  sweet  and 
innocent,  but  has  power  to  pull 
tenderness  from  the  heart  and  a 
response  to  his  every  movement  and 
sound.  He  has  only  a  fuzzy  idea 
about  the  family.  He  experiences 
feeling  rather  than  comprehension. 
By  his  cries  and  smiles,  those  who 
care  for  him  can  see,  hear,  and  feel 


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his  pleasure  or  displeasure.  If  his 
needs  are  met,  he,  somehow,  man- 
ages a  smile  or  a  relaxed  nap,  and  he 
is  said  to  be  a  good  baby.  While 
his  physiological  needs  are  impor- 
tant, the  ''feeling"  of  those  about 
him,  which  he  senses,  does  more  to 
fix  his  course  in  life  than  anything 
else.  If  he  is  not  fed  properly  and 
regularly,  if  his  discomfort  is  not 
alleviated,  and  if  love  is  absent,  the 
feeling  for  others  which  he  thus  ob- 
tains may  prove  disastrous  to  him  in 
future  years. 

Every  child  should  be  recognized 
as  the  child  of  God,  which  he  is, 
from  the  moment  of  his  birth,  and 
accorded  the  dignity  due  one  of  that 
standing.  He  somehow  knows  if  peo- 
ple do  or  do  not  care  for  him,  and 
thus  feels  secure  or  uncertain  of  the 
trust  he  can  place  in  others.  It  is  the 
atmosphere  of  the  home  where  all 
children  develop  feelings  about  peo- 
ple and  situations.  Because  of  this, 
parents  should  regard  the  molding  of 
a  life  as  a  rare  privilege.  It  is  in  the 
family  where  a  child  first  learns 
anger,  love,  fear,  and  other  emotion- 
al responses.  Parents  will  want  to 
help  their  child  cultivate  desirable 
characteristics  and  will  try  to  avoid 
situations  which  might  instill  fear, 
anger,  and  other  less  desirable  traits. 

As  a  child  grows,  he  gradually 
leaves  the  complete  protectiveness 
of  his  family.  He  learns  to  walk, 
talk,  inspect,  and  explore,  and, 
thereafter,  never  stops.  Somewhere 
in  his  preschool  life  is  born  a  de- 
sire for  new  experiences  and  friends 
outside  his  home,  yet  he  is  fearful 
of  getting  beyond  the  protection  of 
home.  He  figuratively  starts  with  a 
shy  peek  out  the  door.  He  soon 
learns  he  is  an  individual  and  some- 
times asserts  the  fact  with  an  arbi- 


trary ''no''  much  to  the  surprise  of 
his  parents.  He  is  particularly 
sensitive  to  the  attitude  of  his  par- 
ents who  can  help  best  through  an 
understanding  love  to  which  he  can 
securely  tie. 

As  the  child  reaches  middle  child- 
hood  he  continues  to  be  dependent 
upon  his  parents,  but  his  clesire  to 
be  recognized  as  an  independent 
individual  increases.  Sometimes  this 
desire  causes  him  to  assert  himself 
by  defiance.  Parents  need  to  recog- 
nize such  behavior  for  what  it  is,  i. 
e.,  a  declaration  that  "I  am  a  per- 
son." Understanding  parents  will 
not  resist  this  but  will  ingeniously 
provide  experiences  by  which  he  can 
assert  that  he  is  a  person.  Children 
of  this  age  need  to  continue  in  the 
participation  of  the  family  group, 
but  they  also  need  to  achieve  recog- 
nition and  a  sense  of  belonging  with 
other  children  of  their  own  age 
group. 

The  pre-adolescent  strives  hard  for 
group  approval.  He  wants  to  be- 
long so  strongly  he  acts,  dresses,  and 
combs  his  hair  like  his  pals.  Chil- 
dren of  this  age  progress  well  in 
reasoning  and  the  acquisition  of 
such  characteristics  as  tolerance, 
sympathy,  and  affection  for  others. 
They  have  a  good  sense  of  justice, 
fairness,  and  truth.  Their  desire 
for  more  recognition  from  their 
friends,  and  less  from  adults,  helps 
them  in  their  quest  for  personal 
recognition.  During  this  period  and 
the  adolescense  which  follows,  the 
home  should  surround  children  with 
a  variety  of  wholesome  recreational 
and  creative  interests  to  give  proper 
balance  to  their  development,  to 
serve  as  an  excellent  outlet  for  their 
energies,  as  a  port  of  welcome  to 
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direction    to    their    emotions    and 
talents. 

The  adolescent  child  is  sensitive 
to  what  others  think,  do,  and  say. 
His  physical  growth  is  often  perplex- 
ing to  him.  He  becomes  conscious 
of  the  opposite  sex.  He  is  inclined 
to  be  moody,  often  shifting  abrupt- 
ly from  the  heights  to  the  depths. 
He  likes  to  exaggerate.  He  is  a  ma- 
ture adult  and  an  inexperienced 
child  all  rolled  into  one.  His  par- 
ents are  alternately  proud  and  per- 
plexed as  he  shows  his  maturity  only 
to  be  followed  by  the  behavior  of 
a  little  boy.  He  strives  vainly  to 
convince  all  of  his  standing  as  an 
adult,  and  when  we  are  almost  con- 
vinced, he  returns  to  his  childish 
ways. 

Parental  love,  expressed  by  limita- 
tions, is  often  regarded  by  the 
adolescent  as  a  lack  of  love  or  trust. 
Parental  skill  and  understanding  at 
this  time  are  given  the  supreme 
test.  He  basks  in  the  ''glory"  of  be- 
ing recognized  as  an  adult.  If 
treated  as  a  child  he  may  quickly 
throw  a  tantrum,  withdraw,  or  be- 
come irresponsible.  At  this  stage 
his  emotional  disturbances  often  re- 
sult in  delinquent  behavior  which  is 
basically  a  reflection  of  what  the 
child  has  received  from  his  parents 
and  society.  This  stage  can  be 
smoother  if  the  parent-child  rela- 
tionships in  the  preceding  years 
have  been  close  and  effective.  Ac- 
tually, parents  will  emerge  from  the 
crucial  experience  much  wiser  than 
anticipated,  having  learned  much 
more  than  they  have  taught. 

As  the  child  approaches  young 
adulthood,  it  is  important  for  par- 
ents to  build  up  his  faith  in  society 
and  in  its  democratic  and  spiritual 
ideals.     He  should  be  taught  the 


significance  of  his  contribution  to 
society,  the  importance  of  sound 
planning  for  the  future  in  prepar- 
ing to  assume  adulthood.  He  should 
understand  the  purpose  of  his 
earthly  probation  and  be  given  a 
sound  sense  of  confidence  in  fulfill- 
ing it.  He  needs  guidance  in  select- 
ing his  profession  or  vocation.  He 
needs  help  in  making  educational 
decisions,  and  encouragement  in  the 
attainment  of  educational  goals.  He 
can  be  greatly  aided  in  social  ad- 
justments, and  in  developing  mature 
conduct  patterns. 

When  I  was  a  child,  I  spake  as  a  child, 
I  understand  as  a  child,  I  thought  as  a 
child:  but  when  I  became  a  man,  I  put 
away  childish  things    (I  Cor.   13:11). 

He  needs  assistance  in  choosing  a 
mate  and  in  planning  his  own  fam- 
ily life.  This  is  not  to  say  that 
when  a  child  approaches  adulthood, 
we  suddenly  start  to  teach  him  how 
to  assume  his  intended  role.  Ac- 
tually, the  best  guarantee  of  a  strong 
family  life  in  the  next  generation  is 
a  strong  family  life  now,  for  the  at- 
titude of  the  child  towards  family 
life  is  largely  created  from  what  he 
absorbs  from  the  family  in  which  he 
grows. 

Certainly  the  home  should  instill 
into  this  age  the  truism  that  if  he 
gives  to  the  world  the  best  he  has, 
the  best  will  come  back  to  him.  He 
should  leave  the  home  determined 
to  surpass  mediocrity  in  whatever 
vocation  he  chooses.  ''Good,  bet- 
ter, best;  Never  let  it  rest  until  the 
good  is  better,  and  the  better  best." 

Grandfather  and   Grandmother 

The  family  is  not  complete  with- 
out grandfather  and  grandmother. 
They,  too,  are  individuals  with 
needs  and  desires  not  unlike  the  rest 
of  us.    These  oldest  of  family  mem- 


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bers  are  faced  with  distinctly  new 
problems.  The  ingenuity  of  man 
has  lengthened  their  years  with 
empty  days.  Socio-economic  factors 
have  tended  to  remove  them  from 
the  family  setting.  Industry  has 
said  they  are  not  really  needed  at  a 
time  when  they  are  the  wisest. 
Physiological  factors,  such  as  the 
inability  to  recuperate  from  stress, 
slowness  of  step,  and  dimming  eyes, 
have  a  tendency  to  discourage.  How- 
ever, a  special  kind  of  wisdom,  tol- 
erance, love,  and  steadiness,  forged 
from  the  experience  of  years,  is 
possessed  only  by  grandparents. 
There  is  no  influence  to  compare 
with  that  possessed  by  one  who  has 
been  seasoned  by  living  the  gospel 
pattern  for  a  period  of  many  years. 

The  warmth  of  a  grandmother's 
smile  and  the  adventure  of  a  grand- 
father's story  mean  worlds  to  a 
child.  Grandparents,  likewise,  are 
fully  absorbed  by  their  grandchil- 
dren. The  distance  of  two  genera- 
tions is  magnetically  spanned  by  this 
mutual  admiration  society. 

Grandparents  wanted:  Must  like  chil- 
dren, know  tall  tales,  have  eyes  that 
twinkle,  and  a  warm  heart.  Prefer  some- 
one who  is  lonely.  No  age  too  old.  Ap- 
ply: To  millions  of  American  kids. 

Now  when  people  stay  young 
longer,  the  concern  for  young  grand- 
parents is  how  to  be  helpful  but  not 
interfere  with  the  families  of  their 
children.  The  Biblical  injunction, 
'Therefore  shall  a  man  leave  his 
father  and  his  mother,  and  shall 
cleave  unto  his  wife:  and  they  shall 
be  one  flesh"  (Gen.  2:24)  indicates 
the  pattern  to  be  observed. 

As  we  approach  the  later  years, 
we  need  the  security  derived  from 
a  sense  of  belonging  and  recogni- 
tion of  our  worth  as  individuals. 
The  gospel  plan  gives  status  to  ac- 


complishment, and  the  path  of  per- 
fection, having  no  place  for  idleness, 
gives  direction  to  life  to  the  very 
end. 

Activity  for  All  Within  the  Gospel 

Phn 

There  is  no  substitute  for  the 
family.  In  no  other  way  can  the 
needs  of  family  members  be  met. 
Other  social  institutions,  such  as  the 
Church  and  school,  contribute 
much,  and  indeed  are  essential  to 
the  fuller  development,  but  neither 
can  replace  the  home.  Each  should 
be  regarded  as  a  resource  to  enrich 
our  lives.  Within  the  Church  lies 
an  over-all  philosophy  and  a  pro- 
gram of  activities  to  meet  various 
needs  of  all  family  members,  of 
whatever  age.  These  resources  and 
others  should  be  generously  called 
upon  to  aid  in  personal  develop- 
ment, but  the  qualities  of  growth 
and  greatness  spring  from  the  home, 
where  each  member  contributes  and 
likewise  receives,  where  love  and 
understanding  and  opportunities  are 
found. 

Supplementary  References 

1. "Outings  and  Family  Solidarity" — 
LaVern  W.  Parmley,  The  Relief  Society 
Magazine,  July  1956,  page  420. 

2.  ''Developing  Safeguards  for  Youth" 
— Delbert  L.  Stapley,  The  ReUei  Society 
Magazine,  November  1956,  page  718. 

3.  "How  We  Conduct  the  Family  Hour 
in  Our  Home" — Helen  S.  Gardner,  The 
ReUei  Society  Magazine,  March  1956,  page 
160. 

4. "There's  No  Substitute  for  Parents" 
— Morton  M.  Hunt,  Reader's  Digest,  De- 
cember 1956,  page  39. 

5.  "The  First  Line  of  Defense— The 
Home,"  Helen  Spencer  Williams,  The 
Relief  Society  Magazine,  October  1942, 
page  679.  ^^ 

6.  "What     Grandparents     Are     For, 
Edith  G.  Neisser,  National  Paient-Teach- 
er,  January  1957,  page  21. 

7.  "Agenda  for  Adolescents,"  Lawrence 


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K.  and  Mary  H.  Frank,  National  Parent- 
Teacher,  October  1956,  page  25. 

8.  ''What  Makes  a  Good  Home/'  Anna 
W.  M.  Wolf  and  Margaret  C.  D'awson, 
The  Child  Study  Association  of  America, 
Inc.,  132  East  74th  Street,  New  York  21, 
New  York. 

9.  "As  Your  Child  Grows.  The  First 
Eighteen  Months,"  Katherine  M.  Wolf, 
Ph.D.,  The  Child  Study  Association  of 
America,  Inc.,  132  East  74th  Street,  New 
York  21,  New  York,  40  cents  per  copy. 

10.  "Fathers  Today:  Neglected  or 
Neglectful,"  Gunnar  Dybwad,  the  Child 
Study  Association  of  America,  Inc.,  132 
East  74th  Street,  New  York  21,  New 
York,  1 5  cents  per  copy. 

11.  "Mature  Adults  or  Oldsters,"  Dr. 
Harvey  Fletcher,  The  ImpTovement  Era, 
May  1956,  page  320. 

12.  "Parental  Relations  With  Ado- 
lescent Youth,"  Ila  Rupp,  The  Improve- 
ment Era,  June  1956,  page  386. 

13.  "Your  Child  From  One  to  Six," 
Children's  Bureau  Pubhcation  No.  30, 
Revised  1956,  U.  S.  Department  of 
Health,  Education,  and  Welfare,  Wash- 
ington, D.C. 

14.  "A  Healthy  Personality  for  Every 
Child,"  Fact  Finding  Report  Digest,  Mid- 
century  White  House  Conference  on  Chil- 
dren and  Youth,  1951,  Health  PubHca- 
tions  Institute,  Inc.,  Raleigh,  North  Caro- 
lina. 

15.  "When  Parents  Grow  Old,"  No. 
208,  Public  Affairs  Pamphlets,  22  East 
38th  Street,  New  York  16,  New  York,  25 
cents  per  copy, 

16.  "Neither  Children  Nor  Adults," 
Antone  K.  Romney,  The  Improvement 
Era,  April  1957,  page  233. 

17.  "The  Diagnosis,"  Omer  A.  Kearney, 
The  Improvement  Era,  May  1957,  page 
307.   (Old  Age.) 

18.  "That  Junior  High  Age,"  Maurice 
A.  Wogaman,  National  Parent-Teacher, 
May  1957,  page  16. 

19.  "What  Youth  Worries  About  and 
Why,"  H.  H.  Remmers  and  L.  E.  Tah- 
ona,  National  Parent-Teacher,  February 
1957,  page  7. 

20.  "Are  We  Prolonging  Youth's  De- 
pendence?" Irene  M.  Josselyn,  M.D.,  and 
Roy  E.  Larsen,  National  Parent-Teacher, 
April  1957,  page  4. 

21.  "Pressures  on  the  Cooker,"  Dale  B. 


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Questions  foi  Discussion 

1.  Discuss  how  the  Latter-day  Saint 
family  and  home  can  meet  the  needs  of 
the  following  age  groups:  (a)  infant;  (b) 
growing  child;  (c)  adolescent  boy;  (d) 
adolescent  girl;  (e)  young  adult;  (f)  par- 
ent; and   (g)   grandparent. 

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mate side  of  her  hfe,  then  a  story  by  Mrs. 
Yost  was  retold.  Now,  when  we  see  a 
story  by  this  author,  it  seems  so  personal 
that  we  doubly  enjoy  it.  May  she  write 
many  more! 

— Josie  P.  Condie,  President 

i6th  Ward  Relief  Society 
Pocatello,  Idaho 

"Pine  Nutting,"  by  Alice  R.  Rich,  in 
the  October  issue  of  the  Magazine, 
brought  tears  of  nostalgia  to  me.  The 
setting  for  Sister  Rich's  reminiscing  is  the 
place  of  my  birth.  I'll  go  home  for  a  day 
to  my  parents'  house  in  New  Harmony, 
some  time  this  month,  as  I  do  every  month 
or  two.  Much  has  changed  since  Sister 
Rich  gathered  pine  nuts  there,  but  many 
things  remain  the  same  —  the  fall  beauty, 
the  pine  nuts,  the  vermillion  cliffs,  and  the 
love  and  security  she  spoke  of  —  may  still 
be  found.  Thank  you  for  bringing  us 
these  fine  articles  and  stories  of  our  herit- 
age. 

— Marguerite  N.  Mecham 

Milford,  Utah 

I  am  a  Long  Beach,  California,  widow 
over  here  in  Wiesbaden  visiting  my  son 
and  family  in  the  service.  I  have  been 
over  here  a  year  and  have  had  The  Relief 
Society  Magazine  come  to  me  every 
month.  I  do  appreciate  the  Magazine. 
I  read  it  from  cover  to  cover  and  am 
passing  it  on  to  other  sisters.  ...  It  is  a 
wonderful  experience  to  know  that  the 
young  mothers  in  the  Church  are  so  faith- 
ful. .  .  .  It  is  a  privilege  to  hear  their 
testimonies  and  listen  to  the  brilliant  way 
in  which  they  conduct  the  Relief  Society 
lessons.  ...  I  assure  you  we  have  no  fear 
for  the  future,  if  all  the  sisters  in  the 
Church  are  as  faithful  as  they  are  here  in 
Wiesbaden — almost  one  hundred  per  cent. 

— Estella  D.  Jones 


Wiesbaden,  Germany 


I  enjoy  The  Relief  Society  Magazine 
very  much.  It  has  a  lot  of  good  reading  in 
it  for  every  member  of  the  family.  I  like 
the  "Near  and  Far"  page  —  reading  what 
each  sister  has  to  say.  I  was  very  much 
interested  in  the  article  on  the  Southwest 
Indian  Mission  (in  the  October  Maga- 
zine), as  we  have  a  son  who  labored  in 
that  mission.  ...  I  was  pleased  to  see  my 
mother's  sister's  name  in  the  August  Mag- 
azine —  Annie  Katherine  Erickson  Benson. 
She  is  ninety-one  years  old.  I  like  the 
article  "When  Mother  Made  Butter"  by 
Mae  R.  Winters  in  the  July  issue.  I 
could  see  again  our  home  and  mother 
churning  butter,  and  I  would  have  a  drink 
of  the  good  buttermilk. 

— Mrs.  Katie  Gittins 
Lewiston,  Utah 

On  behalf  of  the  Welsh  members  of 
the  Merthyr  Tydfil  Branch,  let  me  thank 
you  for  such  a  fine  Magazine.  I  pass  my 
Magazine  on  to  my  friends  who  are  not  in 
our  Church,  and  they  really  enjoy  reading 
about  the  sisters  of  our  Church.  Out 
here,  we  are  few,  but  gain  a  better  testi- 
mony every  time  we  read  this  Magazine. 
Even  the  brothers  read  the  Magazine,  it  is 
so  interesting. 

■ — Mrs.  June  Drew 

Merthyr  Tydfil 

Glamorgan,  South  Wales 

Great  Britain 

I  have  the  desire  to  let  you  know  how 
I  depend  on  the  lovely  Magazine  for  com- 
fort and  help  in  my  life.  My  children  have 
enjoyed  it  as  I  have  enjoyed  it.  I  am 
thankful  to  my  mother  for  making  it  avail- 
able to  me  when  I  was  young,  cultivating 
my  taste  in  reading  material.  Today  I  ran 
across  the  poem  "To  Aunt  Getty's  Old 
Blue  Bowl,"  by  Matia  McClelland  Burk, 
in  the  September  issue.  I  know  it  must 
be  dedicated  to  my  Aunt  Getty's  posses- 
sion. Her  name  was  Alcesta  Burk,  and  I 
notice  this  author's  name  is  Matia  McClel- 
land Burk.  Thank  you  for  helping  to 
make  this  world  smaller,  drawing  us  closer 
together. 

— Clara  Perry 

Rexburg,  Idaho 


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